068 Magazine Nov/Dec 2023 by Colabella Media

November/December • 2023

Don’t Miss Out The Nutcracker Returns at Multiple Venues

Giving Back Ways to Help Those in Need This Holiday

I Beg Your

Pardon? Ridgefield’s First Turkey Pardoning Could Attract an Uninvited Guest

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Contents

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34 The Nutcracker Returns Highlighting local productions

40 5 Questions With Vitamin String Quartet

44 Go With Your Gut The importance of gut health

54 Snowy Days are Here Fun ways to enjoy the winter

56 Giving Back Ways to help those in need this holiday

60 The Ups and Downs of Tech Pros and cons of new automobile technology

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Photography by Dylan Miller. Concept and Design by Dee Dee Colabella.

Contents

In The Front 12

Noted

Rudy Marconi

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Behind The Scenes Old Wilton

Wilton’s First Residents

Have You Met? The Ridgefield Grinch

Art In The Spotlight Art with a Message

In The Back 66

Foodies Caterers in the 068

Is That a Thing? Escape Rooms

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Shout Out Welcome Elegant Ridgefield

One More Thing

Noted

by Rudy Marconi

Compassion

PHOTO BY UDO SPREITENBARTH

everal years ago, I had the good fortune to meet a WCSU professor, Christopher Kukk, who also authored The Compassionate Achiever. I often review some chapters of his book that I find helpful when working as your First Selectman. Compassion is a virtue that incorporates empathy, kindness, and understanding towards others. Compassion transcends cultural, religious, and other boundaries helping to connect all of us. It centers on recognizing the distress and hardship of others and seeking to help minimize those impacts. Compassion is not just an emotion; it is a hope for positive change. It requires us to take action, whether by offering words of kindness, lending a hand, or just listening. It fosters a sense of unity and can result in both the giver and receiver realizing a positive feeling. In today’s world of conflict and vitriol, compassion, if allowed, is our beacon of hope! It invites us to look beyond our differences, to find a common ground, where we can achieve greater understanding and cooperation. It is an asset that can build bridges to new relationships. Ultimately, compassion is a basic building block for a more compassionate Ridgefield. It reminds me that we all share this world and our community. Most importantly, we have the ability to make Ridgefield a kinder and more caring place for us all.

Rudy Marconi First Selectman of Ridgefield

Behind The Scenes

Vol 2, Issue 6 • November/December 2023

Dee Dee Colabella Owner dcolabella@rpacartcenter.com Greg Mursko Publisher publisher@068magazine.com Dylan Miller Chief Operating Officer dmiller@rpacartcenter.com

Julia Bruce Editor-In-Chief editor@068magazine.com Contributing Writers Julie Hughes, Jennifer Bradshaw, Erik Ofgang, Sarah Gauthier-Galluzzo, and Joey Macari

Contributing Photographers Dylan Miller and Roger Garbow

Advertising Sales David Gursky | 914.646.9141 sales@068magazine.com Marketplace Sales Jennifer Klouman Roy | 203.313.9147 marketplace@068magazine.com

This Issue’s

Feature Writers Gerri Lewis Gerri Lewis is a freelance writer who spent the early years of her career as feature writer and colunmist. Her work has appeared in Reader’s Digest and various airline publications. Her accolades include feature writing awards from the New England Press Association and the Society of Professional Journalists. On page #34, Gerri writes about the holiday classic - The Nutcracker - and highlights several local productions.

Jana Williams Jana Williams is a freelance writer who has spent 25 years writing about and promoting health, wellness, biotech, and real estate for many PR & marketing agencies. Her work has been covered by Newsweek, The Wall Street Journal, trade publications, and numerous local online and print publications. In this issue, Jana draws upon her passion for health and wellness to explore the connection between gut health and inflammation. Find her article on page #44.

Carin Weisman Carin Weisman is an award-winning communications professional and author of numerous works, including the book #morninghaiku: a simple practice to inspire your every day. Her favorite thing to do during the winter season is to make others’ days a little brighter and warmer. Carin writes about ways to spend a snowy day on page #54 and shines a light on the true meaning of the season with her article about ways to give to local charities this holiday on page #56.

Roger Garbow

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Roger Garbow is the founder of Full Throttle Marketing, a Connecticut-based automotive marketing and PR firrm. A member of the International Motor Press Association, he’s a contributing writer to numerous outlets including Road & Tracks and the DRIVE.com. Roger has driven some incredible vehicles. but he prefers lightweight sportscars with three pedals. On page #60, Roger looks at the pros and cons of new technology in cars.

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Old Wilton

by Julie Hughes, Wilton History Room

Residents First

Uncovering Native American History

hen Wiltonians think about their town’s Native American connections, several things probably come to mind. First there are names like Pimpewaug, Indian Hill, and Chicken Street (namesake of Chi-ken Warrups, who sold land to the founder of Redding). Then there is the rock shelter in Rock House Woods (Town Forest). Some may have seen F. Clerc Ogden’s collection of stone projectiles at the Wilton Historical Society. Others might think of the Wilton Warriors, whose original association with an “Indian warrior” has proven difficult to shake, despite official re-branding as Trojan warriors in 1973. The reality is that Wilton belonged to Native Americans. The oldest traces lie under the community gardens in Allen’s Meadows, along the ancient Berkshire Path, now Route 7. Excavated by Ernest A. Wiegand, professor of archaeology at Norwalk Below, Levana points, Late Woodland, 1000-500 BP, quartz. Courtesy of Wilton Historial Society. Photo by Julie Hughes.

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Old Wilton

Siwanoy and other Native American territories on map “Novi Belgii Novaeque Angliae” by Nicolaes Visscher, 1685. Library of Congress, Geography and Map Division. Left, Allen’s Meadow, 1960. Right, David H. Van Hoosear at Split Rock. Wilton Historical Society.

Old Wilton

Left, Van Hoosear at the opening of a small cave near Chicken Street. Wilton Historical Society. Above, Burwell (Late Archaic, 6000-3500 BP quartz), Meadowood (Early Woodland 2800-1700 BP chert), Fox Creek (Middle Woodland 1700-1000 BP quartz) found by Wiegand and his students at Allen’s Meadow. Courtesy of Ernest Wiegand/Norwalk Community College.

Community College, this Paleoindian site has produced numerous stone and ceramic artifacts, including a 12,000-year-old Crowfield point. While Wiegand cautions that the site’s precise nature cannot be determined, he suspects it was a temporary encampment, and – based on the prevalence of stone scrapers – conceivably used to exploit seasonal movements of caribou through the Norwalk River Valley. Relatively intact sites like Allen’s Meadows are irreplaceable and increasingly rare. Development has already destroyed several in Wilton, though some were first excavated so their lessons at least are preserved. One was Tumbleturd Hill (its real name, I promise) in an ASML parking

lot. Like Allen’s Meadows, it is on the ancient Berkshire Path / Route 7 corridor. According to Wiegand, Tumbleturd’s steep sides provided a natural windbreak and overhanging rock shelter for Archaic and early Woodland Native Americans between 5000 BCE and 1200 CE. Charred hickory nuts indicate the site was used in September and October. Other finds include deer bones, stone knives and scrapers, and pottery shards. Another site is the Town Forest’s rock shelter. Bernard W. Powell excavated here in 1972. Although frequently vandalized (it was tagged with graffiti when Powell first saw it), this site has yielded evidence of Woodland and post-contact (after the arrival

Steatite bowl (not a mortar) and stone pestle found near Old Town Hall. Courtesy of Wilton Historical Society, Photo by Julie Hughes.

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of Europeans) use. Powell found arrowheads, pottery, deer bones, and shellfish remains, alongside musket balls and a Spanish coin dropped by some passing Native American or Englishman in colonial times. Whose land is this? By the time European settlers arrived, the Siwanoys occupied Norwalk and Wilton. Colonists negotiated in 1640 and 1641 with the Siwanoy sachem or chief, Mahackemo, and others for the territory between the Saugatuck and Five Mile rivers, beginning at the coast and stretching inland twelve miles. This territory included the seasonal village of Norwalke or Norwake, after which the English settlers named their own settlement. While colonists may have believed they were purchasing land outright, the Siwanoys viewed the deal differently: they were granting the right to use their territory. Population pressure on land was at a historic low. Native Americans were decimated by European plagues beginning in the 1610s. As a result there were fewer mouths to feed and less land needed to feed them. At the same time labor was scarce, making the novel devices offered by the English – metal tools in particular – more valuable. And so, Mahackemo accepted eighteen fathoms (36 yards) wampum, ten fathoms tobacco, thirteen

Old Wilton

Left and above, today, beautiful community gardens cover part of an excavated Paleoindian site at Allen’s Meadows. Photos by Julie Hughes

hatchets, hoes, and knives, sixteen mirrors, twelve pipes, ten jaw harps, drills, scissors, and needles, six coats, and three kettles. It seems not just the Siwanoys but the early settlers, too, shared this interpretation, despite boilerplate language that “noe Indian or other shall challenge or claim any ground within the sayed Rivers or limits.” In actual practice, Native Americans continued to live in areas of Norwalk that initially remained unsettled by the new residents. Because the number of whites was small and all lived within a mile of the newly established Meeting House, Native American usage of the lands they “sold” changed little in the 1640s and 1650s. As late as 1669, laws in the Norwalk Town Records show that English proprietors were renting out their personal allotments to Native Americans for planting. There are also references to the “Indian Field,” areas designated for Siwanoy use. In 1671, the Norwalk selectmen reserved Wilton’s Chestnut Hill “for a field for the Indians,” showing that thirty years after Mahackemo’s sale, Native Americans were still living within Norwalk’s boundaries. This same record hints at the settlers’ incipient attempts, as their demands for land intensified, to contain Native Americans to more restricted territories. By 1726, most Native Americans remaining in Norwalk and the newly formed Wilton Parish were either indentured or enslaved. In 1744, Alexander Hamilton noted that Norwalk’s “servants [were] chiefly bound or indentured Indians” rather than enslaved Black people. Among these Native Americans were Will and Elizabeth; their “master” was John Belden II, a major

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property owner in what is now Georgetown. In 1750, one Stephen Rogers accused them of breaking into his store, stealing liquor, and spilling thirty-six gallons of rum. Belden testified that Will and Elizabeth had been in his house all night. Despite Will’s instinct to confess – convinced that no one would believe a pair of enslaved Indians – they pled not guilty. Belden’s testimony and evidence that an indentured white woman had committed the crime (and pinned it on Will and Elizabeth) led to their exoneration. Honoring the past By 1774, the state census identified only nine Native Americans in Norwalk and Wilton. Unknown numbers of the 136 Black people recorded that year, however, surely had mixed African and Native American ancestry. Among these possibly, was Prince Tonquin, son of an enslaved Black woman and Bill Tonquin, an enslaved Native American. Fathering a large family in Wilton, Prince ensured his legacy of mixed Native American and African American ethnicity and culture would continue in town for at least another generation. His last known descendant died in 1893 and is buried at St. Matthew’s Cemetery. Like so many aspects of Wilton’s Native American history, the grave of Prince’s last heir is unmarked and too easily overlooked. Yet, remains of the town’s indigenous past are nearly ubiquitous. While we must look for and learn about local sites, we shouldn’t jump in to disturb them any more than we would desecrate a grave. Honoring the relics of those people who came before us and whose land our forefathers took is the least we can do.

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Have You Met

The Ridgefield

by Julia Bruce

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f you happen to glance out your window at night during the month of December, there’s a good chance you might spot a lime green van adorned with Christmas lights prowling your neighborhood. Not to worry, it’s just the Ridgefield Grinch! At the end of Dr. Seuss’ iconic The Grinch Who Stole Christmas, the infamous Grinch’s heart grows three sizes when he realizes that “maybe Christmas doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more.” The Ridgefield Grinch, who shows up in his Grinchmobile at children’s houses, sneaks up to their doors and leaves goody bags full of treats, shows that there are no bounds to how big his Grinchy heart can grow. His initial visits to Ridgefield homes began in December 2020 as a way to bring a little merriment and joy to people stuck at home during the

pandemic and were wildly successful. As the demand for his presence grew, the Grinch realized that grinching wasn’t a piece of fruitcake and he was going to need some help. “I thought who better than the fine folks from the Ridgefield Fathers Club?” says the Grinch. The Ridgefield Fathers Club is dedicated to giving back, supporting the community, and contributing to local charities through various fundraisers and events, so helping out the Grinch was a match made in heaven. “If something can be done for a child or family in need, we’re going to help the Grinch make that happen,” says Brian Armstrong, Executive Director of the Ridgefield Fathers Club. The concept is simple, parents book a visit and for a minimum donation, the Grinch will pay their child a visit.

The Ridgefield Grinch, with the help of the Ridgefield Fathers Club, visits children during the month of December in his customized Grinchmobile. Although he has been known as someone with no holiday spirit, he’s definitely making a new name for himself as a generous Grinch.

The proceeds are all fed back to charities connected to the community - in the past the Grinch and the Ridgefield Fathers Club have made donations to organizations such as the Boys and Girls Club and the Logan Project, which honors Logan Hale, a young Ridgefield resident who lost his battle with leukemia. “We really want to continue to help people in our community,” says Armstrong. The Grinch comes calling All of the Grinch’s visits to children are important, but he admits that some pull on his heartstrings more than others. The Grinch recalls being contacted by a concerned mom who recently lost her husband – she was worried about how she was going to make Christmas magical for her two children. “Let’s just say that my heart had a moment and I found myself quite emotional – almost as if I had been cutting onions, if you catch my drift,” says the Grinch. He worked with the Fathers Club to not only assist with saving Christmas, but also helped the mom tackle some tasks around the house. “It’s experiences like this that keep me, my dog Max, and my whole team motivated to continue spreading holiday cheer,” says the Grinch. According to the Fathers Club, it takes a support system of about 40 of their members – who help with fundraising, coordinating

events, building the website, ordering supplies, navigating the routes, and driving the Grinchmobile – to make the whole season happen. “He takes all the credit, but it really takes an incredible number of people to support the Grinch,” says Armstrong. With the assistance of the Fathers Club, the Grinch visited over 700 homes last year. Ridgefield has about 550 roads and the Grinch’s logistics team mapped those out into 12 different routes. Each of those routes are assigned two nights. “Most of the nights book up in the first two days,” says Jacob Cascioli, Director of Fundraising for the Fathers Club. “After that, we get some special requests, like for sick children for example. The Grinch, despite his reputation, is a somewhat of a softie and tries to prioritize those visits. That really echoes the mission of our club.” Not all the Grinch visits, however, are holiday-movie perfection. Sometimes, the youngest little Whos in Ridgefieldville, are a bit afraid and don’t warm up to the green visitor. “Some people don’t have the best opinion of me – perhaps they slept through the second half of the movie, who knows? For those tricky visits, I turn up my Grinchy charm and that seems to work. The goody bags help too!” says the Grinch. The positive reception has done wonders for the Grinch’s image. “Would you believe it? Rudy Marconi presented me with a shiny key to the town!” brags the Grinch. If you’re interested in having the Grinch visit, go to www.ridgefieldgrinch.com. The 2023 holiday season usually opens around the second week of November and spots fill fast, so don’t delay!

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t r A Art In The Spotlight by Julia Bruce

with a Message

RPAC Artist Meredith Mulhearn Has Something to Say

f you’re strolling down Main Street during mid-January, you might be in for a surprise…a glance in the window of D. Colabella Fine Art Gallery may reveal this isn’t your everyday art exhibit. The vision for what will be an eye-opening experience is the brainchild of conservation artist, Meredith Mulhearn, who’s journey as an artist originated from her love for nature. “When I started out, my art was very technically focused, but everything that inspires my artwork has always been connected to nature. That’s what grounds me,” says Mulhearn. “Nature sustains us – it allows for our survival as a species. We are destroying the very thing that sustains us.” Although Mulhearn’s new work is provocative, she began by weaving her take on traditional tapestries. Her Roots collection speaks to themes of heritage, family, and community while eliciting a sense of grounding and balance. “My connection with nature drives my passion as an advocate for the planet. I use my tapestries to tell a story, the weavings represent life’s journeys,” says Mulhearn.

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Art In The Spotlight RPAC artist Meredith Mulhearn’s upcoming show Bound By Plastic speaks to the struggle to limit single-use plastics in our lives.

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Art In The Spotlight

Above, The QR Code can be scanned and a tree will be planted. Above and below, Mulhearn’s Roots and Plant Blindness collections were manifestations of her connection to nature. Right, Mulhearn poses with a credit card symbolizing the plastic that infiltrates our bodies.

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Culminating the exploration of her relationship with nature and the messages she wants to convey, Mulhearn will open a solo show, Bound by Plastic, at D. Collabella Gallery on January 18, 2024. The show’s mission is to serve as a wake-up call to explore our overconsumption and reliance on plastics, as well as the negative implications this has for the planet and one’s health. Studies have shown that the average person ingests about a credit card worth of plastic every week, which has health implications that we don’t yet fully understand. It’s this kind of knowledge that fuels Mulhearn’s work as a conservation artist. “This is a humanity issue that can feel insurmountable when you think of it on a global scale. But it’s also an every day, every person issue. It can seem daunting to think about your impact as an individual person, so I hope that my art allows people to get inspired to implement change,” says Mulhearn. Bound by Plastic will be an international collaboration that will include tapestries as well as a multi-media installation. Mulhearn has connected with Sissela Johansson, a Danish photographer she’s worked with in the past. Johansson’s ability to tell a visual story and evoke a visceral response made her the perfect complement to the show. The entire

experience is brought together by the emotive music of Andy Leech, a Scottish musician who will provide the soundtrack to her show. “I was searching for music and I stumbled upon Andy’s profile online. I had such an emotional reaction to it that I knew it was exactly the energy I wanted to capture. So, I messaged him, explained my mission, and he was all in,” says Mulhearn. Bound by Plastic is, in and of itself, a reflection of hope. Everyone who has participated in bringing this show together has done so without compensation. “Inspired by the mission and out of the kindness of their hearts, dozens of people have come together to make this event possible, some contributing countless hours to the cause,” Mulhearn explains. “It’s a reminder of what is possible when people join forces for the greater good.” To emphasize the necessity for community solidification to solve this global problem, Mulhearn is inviting the public to play a role in the creation of one of the pieces for the show. She’s asking people to hold onto their discarded wrapping material, particularly ribbons and bows, this holiday season and donate what otherwise might be thrown away. She will incorporate these donations into a tapestry. “Ribbon is ideal because it can’t be recycled,” she says. She invites people to join her in RPAC Gallery prior to the

Art In The Spotlight

Mulhearn is inviting the community to play a role in the creation of one of the pieces to be shown at the Bound by Plastic show at RPAC Gallery on January 18, 2024 by asking for donations of leftover wrapping paper, ribbons and bows that will be woven into a taperstry. Donations can be brought to RPAC Gallery and Mulhearn will assist individuals with weaving in their pieces.

Pro Tips: 1. The scrunch test: Crumple up your wrapping paper, if it holds its shape, it most likely can be recycled. If you scrunch it up and it bounces back, it’s destined for a landfill. 2. Avoid metallic papers and anything with a thick, glossy coating, which cannot be recycled.’s

January 18th opening, to watch the tapestry creation and even participate by weaving in their own donations. Ahead of the opening, VIP passes will be sold, which will include an intimate preview before opening to the public, an opportunity to participate in an interactive immersive experience, and a keepsake to remind you of your positive impact. While her artwork is often evocative, Mulhearn’s commitment to the cause is most certainly literal, her artwork directly supporting conservation initiatives. She blurs the line between art and philanthropy. All profits from VIP ticket sales for Bound by Plastic will be donated to 4Ocean, which aims at removing plastics from the waters. Bound by Plastic at D. Collabella opens Thursday, January 18, 2024. For information about purchasing VIP passes, please visit dcolabellafineart.com. To see more of Meredith’s art, follow her on Instagram @meredith_mulhearn_art. You can learn more about the fight against single-use plastics, by going to 4ocean.com.

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Ask Ms. Jen

by Jennifer Bradshaw, Environmental Educator

Dear

Ms. Jen, I know deer shed their antlers, but I was wondering if goats and sheep can shed their horns. - Paul. S Ridgefield, CT? What an interesting question! In early fall to late winter bucks (male deer), begin to rub their antlers on trees to help remove the velvet that grows all summer long. This marks the start of rut, which is the name for mating season in certain mammals like deer, sheep, moose, and goats. White-tailed deer and moose grow antlers, which usually only grow in males. Antlers are fast growing and consist of a shell of hard bone surrounding a core of spongy bone and are shed annually. Mammals such as goats, sheep and cattle grow horns which are slow growing, and made of a hollow shell of keratin (same as fingernails) surrounding a bony core. They are present in male and females and are permanent!

My son saw a bunch of birds in the middle of the road eating something, he wants to know why they would eat their food in the middle of the road. -Penelope. K Wilton, CT Your son is right to wonder this, what a silly place to eat your dinner right? What he most likely saw was a “wake”- the term for a group of vultures who are feeding. Unfortunately, wildlife is often struck or run over on our roadways and the cleaning crew isn’t always humans! Here in Connecticut we have two species of vultures; turkey vultures and black vultures. Both species primarily eat carrion, the decaying flesh of dead animals. These birds may not be attractive to some or as popular as a backyard bird feeder cutie, however, they are incredibly important to the environment. By eliminating the bodies of dead animals this helps to stop the spread of rabies, distemper, botulism, and tuberculosis. Most birds have very poor sense of smell, but scientists have done research that proves that turkey vultures have a highly developed sense of sight and smell. Their sense of smell is so amazing that they can detect dead meat from 8 miles away!

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If you have a nature question, email Ms. Jen at jenniferleebradshaw@gmail.com

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2023

Holiday Gift Guide

t’s that time of year that many of us look forward to all year long, no matter what age. It’s the time of giving and generosity, and this goes beyond the obvious giving of gifts. By shopping local, your business directly benefits your community, and this local community is one to certainly be proud of. You’d be hard pressed to find many large corporations in the area, but you don’t have to go far before you find a store that carries something truly unique that holds a perfect gift for your loved one, found nowhere else. There are gift certificates for many services you might not be expecting to find, and performances to attend that are hard to believe are offered right in your backyard. All of these are available to you because of your hard-

Nova & Tazza

working neighbors and inspiring local entrepreneurs. We at 068 Magazine are proud to be the reflection of the local arts, culture, and community which is truly alive and vibrant this time of year. You can feel it in the air as you walk through the towns and see the generosity in the festive decorations and the busy shopping districts. Our magazine goes to every home in the community regardless of income or demographic, and we wish all of you well this holiday season.

Nova Café 200 Danbury Rd. Wilton 203.210.7006

Tazza Café 408 Main St. Ridgefield 203.403.3332

azza Café has been a popular and reliable coffee shop on Main Street in Ridgefield that offers quality coffee, pastries, lunches, and indoor and outdoor seating. Just this year we added Wilton to the communities we’re proud to serve, with Nova Café opening its doors on Route 7 for commuters, residents, and visitors alike. Come visit either location and enjoy our diverse holiday menu items!

Touch of Sedona & Sedona Art T

Sedona Art 450 Main Street in Ridgefield 203.244.5520

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ouch of Sedona & SedonaArt wishes you a loving and creative holiday season. At TOS, we offer native jewelry, paintings, statues, sage, spiritual healing crystals, oracle & tarot. At SedonaArt, we carry art supplies for all levels & ages. We offer oil paints, acrylics, watercolor, pastels, charcoal, markers, pencils & pens and one of a kind gift baskets. We are looking forward to a bright new season.

Touch of Sedona 452 Main Street in Ridgefield 203.438.7146

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2023

Holiday Gift Guide

Queen B T

ake a walk down Main Street in Ridgefield to Queen B Coffee Company and check out their two new limited holiday blends or consider buying their holiday gift box including a bag of each holiday blend, one of their signature mugs and a French press. ($98, available 11/1 in-store and online).10% of the sales of their Grinch-blend goes to local charities through the Ridgefield Father’s Club.

Queen B Coffee Company, 417 Main St, Ridgefield, CT, 203 894 5994

nancy O

iscover a treasure trove of beautiful and unique gifts at nancy O. This collection of fine fashion accessories, sweaters, jewelry, and gifts will please the most discerning person on your list. Luxurious fibers and hand-crafted fairtrade items are among the most unique. Signature giftwrap is complimentary. Special Holiday hours listed at www.shopnancyo.com

StretchLab

gift certificate to StretchLab Ridgefield makes the perfect gift! Stretches are performed by our flexologists on one of our custom designed benches. Assisted Stretch has a wide range of benefits, including increased range of motion and flexibility, reduced muscle and joint pain, improved posture, reduced stress, and improved sports performance. Gift certificates are available for any monetary amount. Stop in or call our studio today! 203-428-4335

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PHOTOGRAPHY BY SHERRYL HAUK - SOLSTICE SOUL PHOTOGRAPHY

by Gerri Lewis

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hen E.T.A. Hoffmann wrote a short children’s story in 1816 called The Nutcracker and the Mouse King, the plot centered around a battle between gingerbread eating mice led by an evil seven-headed Mouse King. Seven-year-old Marie, whose dream conjured the horrific battle, is caught in a holiday nightmare until good overcomes evil. Thank goodness the adaptation into the Nutcracker ballet has emerged into a more child-friendly version over the years that includes dancing sweets, a Sugar Plum Fairy and a Nutcracker who comes to life to defeat the Mouse King. In 1891, choreographer Marius Petipa collaborated with Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky to write the music that would adapt a later version of the book into a ballet. Today, various versions are performed for millions all over the United States making it a holiday must see for many. Here is a sneak preview of some area productions, all of which come with their own unique approach to this timeless tradition.

Ridgefield Conservatory of Dance

Danbury Music Centre

he Danbury Music Centre is one of the few productions in the state of Connecticut that includes a live symphony orchestra to accompany the Nutcracker Ballet. Tchaikovsky’s entire iconic music score is performed by the Danbury Symphony Orchestra in a fully staged production complete with beautiful scenery, costumes and lighting, as well as a children’s chorus. Auditions are open to dancers throughout the greater Danbury area, and it boasts representation from 23 dance schools performing 200 parts. The Nutcracker is in its 56th year and Executive Producer Marcie Gemza says that one of the joys is to see past performers coming back year after year and repeat generations performing in and enjoying the show. “The Nutcracker doesn’t just get into your heart—it gets into your soul,” she says.

he Ridgefield Conservatory of Dance returns to the Ridgefield Playhouse stage with the classic production of the Nutcracker featuring the score and divertissements that audiences have come to love, but with a few special touches such as Marionette Puppets and a heroic Snowy Owl. “Ours is one of the area’s only full and professional staged traditional Nutcrackers produced by a school,” says Executive Director Amy Piantaggini. “We feature almost 100 students and hired professionals including RCD faculty member Edgar Cortes as Drosselmeyer.” Ridgefield First Selectman Rudy Marconi has made a cameo performance as one of the party parents for nearly twenty years and calls it a wonderful experience and an opportunity to watch students emerge from tiny mice to accomplished dancers. New York City Ballet dancer Henry Seth will be performing and will also partner with two upper-level students. Students will have an opportunity to rehearse alongside a professional dancer making the 12-week “rehearsal process and performance even richer,” adds Nutcracker Director Mary Beth Hansohn.

Danbury High School Auditorium, 43 Clapboard Ridge, Danbury

The Ridgefield Playhouse 80 East Ridge Road, Ridgefield

December 8 - 7:30 p.m., December 9 - 3:00 p.m., December 10 - 3:00 p.m.

Friday, December 8 - 6:30 p.m., Saturday December 9 - 2:00 and 6:00 p.m., Sunday, December 10 - 11:00 a.m. & 2:00p.m. Tickets available at www.ridgefieldplayhouse.org

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Tickets go on sale November 1 at: www.danburymusiccentre.org

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Enchanted Garden

he Enchanted Garden’s child-friendly adaptation of the Nutcracker offers a creative slant to the traditional classic. In its 21st year, it is choreographed and directed by Lori Strelec, a former prima ballerina who has danced many of the roles. A clever infusion of hip-hop along with other world dances from Ireland, Ghana, Spain, Poland and Russia are woven into the traditional ballet. “Our production is designed so that young children in the audience will be able to follow the story,” says Enchanted Garden founder Judy Hirt-Manheimer, who will narrate. As in the past, the Enchanted Garden donates all proceeds from ticket sales to a charitable cause. This year the money will be used to start up dance and music programs at the elementary and middle schools in the town of Kobina Ansa, Ghana, West Africa, providing dance attire, music instruments, and staff to children, opening a new world to these children.

Ridgefield High School Auditorium 700 North Salem Road, Ridgefield December 16 12 noon & 4:00pm For more information and to purchase tickets, visit enchantedgardenstudios.com

Wilton Dance Conservatory he Wilton Conservatory of Dance heads into its 13th year of producing the Nutcracker and while they like to add a few unique touches, owner and artistic director Christine Titus says that their focus is to expose their dancers to classic ballet. The program started as a storybook version with just 34 children and has since graduated to a complete production with 150 dancers from age five to adult. One of the things that make this production unique is that the children who are repeat dancers change parts each year. Titus says that by the time the little ones graduate they have gone from angels to princesses to having the opportunity to dance most of the parts in the show. The production is family friendly and traditional with the little twists that are always found in Nutcracker productions, but this is ballet at its best.

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itamin String Quartet, which was created in 1999, is actually made up of a rotating group of talented musicians. 068 spoke to VSQ’s Creative Director, Leo Flynn to find out more about this unique and innovative string ensemble. O68 VSQ has become an international sensation creating an eclectic mix of classical renditions of music ranging from rock to pop - including artists such as Maroon 5, Ariana Grande and Prince. How do you see your role in introducing classical music to a younger or different audience? LF If we can open up new worlds for listeners, whether that’s to classical music or video game soundtracks or Lil Nas X—and shine a light on the fact that all music is connected at a fundamental level and there is no end to what’s possible within it—how lucky are we, to get to do that? O68 VSQ was featured in Netflix’s Bridgerton. How did this collaboration come about and how did it affect your exposure? LF We’ve been fortunate to land a number of high-profile TV placements over the years—Gossip Girl, Modern Family, Westworld, to name a few—and build a reputation for helping deliver big moments. Bridgerton, however, took things to a whole other level, and the impact was nothing like we’ve ever experienced. We’re still catching our breath.

O68 What are the challenges that come with reimagining a contemporary pop or rock song into a classical piece? LF When you strip away the vocal and all the production from a pop song, you can be left with something very barebones, even banal. You have to find a way to build back all that substance, with strings. It always becomes, at least in part, a string story. A story about the beauty and depth of emotion a string musician can bring to a melody and the electricity that an ensemble creates playing together. Fortunately, we work with world-class musicians who make this possible! O68 Can you talk about any upcoming collaborations? LF Nothing we can speak to explicitly yet, but we have a number of projects in the works, ranging from taking on the biggest names in pop to more niche worlds with super-devoted followings. And we’re excited to explore more brand-level collaborations like we did last year with Calm, who released a VSQ original work exclusively through their popular relaxation & meditation app. O68 What can listeners expect from your December 15th show at The Ridgefield Playhouse? LF Concert-goers can expect a dazzling performance, by a cuttingedge string ensemble, that will turn pop music as they know it inside out!

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Gut by Jana Williams

ood has long been linked to health and weight – you are what you eat as the saying goes. This, it turns out, is truer than we thought. What we eat affects our mood, energy level, sleep and even the bacteria and other necessary elements of our digestive tract collectively known as the gut microbiome. And what we’re putting into our mouths isn’t the only thing affecting our health. What’s already inside our digestive tracts is also integral to our overall wellness. In our modern world, industrialization, soil depletion, monoculture, over farming, pollution, and a host of other factors have contributed to a loss of diversity in the vitamins, minerals, and other gut microbiome necessities. A recent UCLA study showed that fourteen bags of spinach in today’s marketplace contains the equivalent nutritional diversity of one bag when our grandmothers were growing up. One apple today offered only one twelfth of an apple from that bygone era as well. Essentially, the old adage should be “A dozen apples a day keeps the doctor away!” Why does this matter? In one word – inflammation. Making the connection to gut health There has been a lot of focus and recent research to examine the connection between inflammation, chronic conditions, and the role of an unhealthy gut. The term “leaky gut” refers to an imbalance where the more than 4,000 square feet of intestinal lining develops cracks or holes in its otherwise tight barrier. The unhealthy gut lining allows microparticles normally kept inside the gut to be absorbed by the bloodstream. Dr. Robin Rose has experienced first-hand how important gut health is. After spending 15 years as a double Board-certified physician in gastroenterology Gastroenterologist and owner of Terrain Health functional medicine, Dr. Robin Rose (top) and RVNA health dietitian, Monica Marcello (bottom) recommend a diet rich in fruits, vegetables and legumes to create a healthy environment for your gut.

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Dr. Rose conducts a complete physical, mental and emotional assessment with her clients prior to beginning any health and medical plan. Fermented foods, probiotics, nutraceuticals and diet contribute to treating inflammation, which in turn can lessen disease in other body areas.

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and internal medicine, and holding a masters in neuropsychology, Dr. Rose left traditional western medicine to augment her already impeccable credentials with a more holistic approach to patient care. Becoming a certified Functional Medicine practitioner, she founded Terrain Health in Ridgefield in 2020 for the purpose of taking a more comprehensive approach to her clients’ health, including lessening the effects of chronic inflammation. “The reason I became a doctor in the first place was to connect with and heal people,” said Dr. Rose. “Our western medical system is great for acute care, it’s one of the best in the world, but it’s not great for chronic care or preventative care. We’re seeing people living longer but they’re sicker. We need to get to the root cause of chronic disease and that’s what Functional Medicine is focused on.” Monica Marcello, RVNA Health’s registered dietitian and nutrition educator also acknowledges the role chronic, low-level inflammation plays in triggering disease in other body systems such as the endocrine, cardiovascular, and even neurological and reproductive centers. “People typically search out the help of a dietitian when they are complaining of bloating, nausea, constipation, diarrhea or other digestive ailments,” said Marcello. “There are digestive systems that do not present with any symptoms but can still be improved in order to decrease the risk of many chronic conditions, while optimizing energy and mood. However, there are also unhealthy digestive systems with serious underlying conditions that require individualized attention.” For most people who want to live a healthier life, feel better, have more energy or alleviate occasional stomach or bowel discomfort, a holistic approach to eating is a

good starting place. Both professionals say that a Mediterranean style diet high in fruits, vegetables, legumes, fermented foods such as kombucha and miso, as well as whole grains and fiber provide fuel for a healthy gut and are anti-inflammatory. However, both professionals caution that more serious gut ailments need more investigation. Marcello also advises people to “start simple” like finding a fermented food you can easily incorporate into your diet. Cross Culture Kombucha in Danbury is one of her favorites. She also recommends incorporating extra virgin olive oil as an easy starting place. “The more pungent and spicier smelling the oil, the more antioxidants, and the better it is for you,” she added. For Dr. Rose, her functional medicine practice service includes an initial consultation, extensive bloodwork, questionnaires and a complete physical health, mental health and life background report often taking an hour or more. She is truly able to get to know all aspects of her client’s health and spends hours following up, customizing treatment plans, and ensuring they are receiving follow-up according to their personalized health profiles. With so much to still be researched and explored, Dr Rose is excited for the possibilities to come. She recently partnered with a company called Microgenesis to examine the role of the gut microbiome and inflammation on fertility in women, which showed a clear link between a customized plan of probiotics, nutraceuticals, and diet on a woman’s ability to conceive. Looking to learn more? Visit RVNAhealth.org for a full rundown of their services or visit TerrainHealth.org to find out more about Functional Medicine and Dr Robin Rose.

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esthetics is not a mask we wear to fool people to believe we are younger than we are. It is empowerment, it’s biofeedback. When we look good, we feel good. When we feel good, it leads us to a more authentic life. Being authentic is not about the number of wrinkles in our face. Authenticity comes from an understanding of a relationship with ourselves and expressing that. Yes!! That’s what we’re about. With that in mind, I would like to introduce an important member of our team, Dr. Anthony Alessi. Although we do share important educational DNA, he is younger, smarter, and better looking than

me, which somehow, I’m okay with. He’s a graduate of Adelphi College and University of Pennsylvania in Dental Medicine. He then went on to Lenox Hill Hospital and Westchester Co Medical Center, New York Medical College, General Surgery at Westchester, ending in plastic surgery fellowship at Grant Medical Center at Ohio State University. I am pleased to have Dr. Alessi with us at the Gift Medical Spa. We had great fun doing this Abbey Road photoshoot. I hope you all like it. We are channeling the Beatles. The Beatles changed music in the 60’s. We want to change medical care in the same way in the 2020’s. Prior to antibiotics, we were medical 1.0. After the discovery of penicillin, we have been medicine 2.0 for almost a century. Prior to penicillin, people died fast from infections

Road or trauma, or both. Generally, they lived between 30 & 50 years of age. Postpenicillin, we live longer, averaging 80 years, approximately twice the age of the people of the 1800’s. Now, we die slowly of chronic disease, cardiac disease, diabetes, dementia, cancer - the list goes on. We consider this a normal cause of aging. It is NOT aging. Most of us leave 30-50 years of healthy living on the table. That’s right, our genes should take us to approximately 120. My job is to usher medicine 3.0. Medicine 3.0 is a combination of cellular health and prevention. Remember the saying, “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of care.” Medical care 2.0 is heavily invested in the pound of cure idea, and it’s literally breaking the bank. We consider “normal aging” as a mask

of chronic diseases. We believe that if we can develop and maintain healthy cellular function, and moderately improve epigenetic health, you will not develop chronic disease. You will have healthy, happy cells that will take you much, much closer to that 120 mark. When medicine 4.0 is upon us - it will take place someday - we will be able to powerfully impact our epigenetic state, allowing our DNA to have full robust function, but we will always require cellular health as the corner stone of good health. We should be able to do as well as our mammal cousins, the whales, which live anywhere between 120 to 160 years of age, and this is without medical care. As always, if you can change your thinking, you can change the path of your existence.

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ver since he was a kid, Rick Bria has been looking to the stars. “Apollo 11 landed on the moon when I was 11, and so everybody in our school wanted to be an astronaut,” he says. “We called it outer space back then, and I was interested in outer space but that of course transferred to astronomy.” He received his first telescope when he was in sixth grade and started craning it toward the heavens regularly. “Once I saw Saturn, the moon and Jupiter, I was hooked,” he says. Today, Bria shares that love of astronomy with others as the vice president of The Astronomical Society of Greenwich, Inc., a nonprofit that manages the Bowman Observatory in Greenwich. The Greenwich Bowman Observatory is one of several spots in Fairfield County and surrounding areas where Connecticut star gazers can get up close views of celestial bodies. The Astronomical Society of Greenwich hosts two public viewing events per month on the first and second Wednesday of each month from 7 to 9 p.m. this time of year. Elsewhere on the coast, the Westport Astronomical Society hosts weekly star parties on

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Wednesdays after 8 p.m. at its observatory. Western Connecticut State University also has an observatory, but it has been closed to the public since the pandemic started, although is expected to reopen to the community soon. Just outside of Fairfield County, in New Milford, the John J. McCarthy Observatory hosts an open house on the second Saturday of each month. These volunteer-run observatories give seasoned stargazers and new astronomy enthusiasts a chance to use high-powered telescopes and learn more about science in the process. They also help satiate the public’s interest in astronomy, which has lit up in recent years, says John Gebauer a volunteer at the John J. McCarthy Observatory. “With people stranded at home during the pandemic, it seems that many turned to astronomy as a hobby that could be practiced without close contact with others,” he says. “There have [also] been notable space-based events — James Webb Telescope, Mars rovers, Solar eclipses, etc. — that have captured people’s interest in the domain.” Additionally, he says, “SpaceX has recreated an excitement and energy to space launches that hasn’t existed since the early days of the Space Shuttle

by Erik Ofgang Above, The Bowman Observaotry in Greenwich, which is managed by the The Astronomical Society of Greenwich, is a great place to observe the nighttime sky and all it’s wonders. Below, photos taken from The Bowman Observatory highlight the many breathtaking wonders that are visible during the winter months in Connedticut.

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Bria says. He adds, depending program.” on where Jupiter is in its This orbit, viewers often get a time of year, chance to see the planet’s there is plenty famous red spot. for astronomy With all the talk of UAPs enthusiasts to see. (the updated term for UFOs) “Saturn, the crown and space junk in recent times, some jewel of the solar system, The winter moon telescope viewers will be happy to know will be visible in the evening can be viewed with that they can see more than planets, sky throughout the remainder simply a decent pair of binoculars. stars, and moons. At the McCarthy of the year,” says Bill Cloutier, Observatory volunteers are always on the a volunteer at the John J. lookout for bright passes of the International McCarthy Observatory. Neptune, Jupiter, Space Station and there will be several and Uranus should also be visible, as will good opportunities to see the station in the Leonid meteor shower, which will November, says Roger Moore, a volunteer at peak around November 18. Cloutier adds, the John J. McCarthy Observatory. (Home “Late fall is an opportune time to see the stargazers can consult the website heavensAndromeda Galaxy, the closest, largest above.com if they are looking to spot the galaxy in our galactic neighborhood.” station on their own.) Observatory visitors over the next Just don’t expect any flying saucers or two months should be able to spy some little green men. “I’ve looked at the night spectacular details. sky more than the next 10 people you know, “You’ll see Saturn’s rings, you’ll see and I’ve never seen anything I couldn’t probably about four to six of its moons,”

explain,” Bria says. “I’ve seen a lot of strange stuff in the sky, but it all belongs up there.” As for those just getting into astronomy, attending an event at an observatory is a great way to learn the basics and meet others with a shared interest. You can also start learning more about stars with the naked eye. For a starter telescope, Bria recommends the Orion SkyQuest XT6 Classic Dobsonian Telescope Kit and Dobsonian telescopes in general. “They’re a very simple telescope to operate, yet they have the potential to see anything in the sky,” he says. Another option is a good pair of binoculars. “With a decent pair of binoculars, you can get a fantastic view of the moon,” he says. “You can see star clusters, nebula, and even the moons of Jupiter with a good pair of binoculars.” Viewing the stars can also give one a sense of the history of science. “It’s basically looking around the sky and kind of seeing things as they were seen by the first astronomers,” Bria says.

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Snow(y) day

by Carin Weisman

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are here

Left, Grace Farms, located in New Canaan, is a lovely place to spend a snowy winter day. After snowshoeing on their trail - free rentals available - you can warm up in their beautiful cafe. Above, if skating or skiing are more your thing, there are plenty of options in the area.

ere’s hoping Mother Nature gives us a white winter this year! If so, there are plenty of fun local activities to help you get outside and make the most of these exciting snow days – and the snow. To uncover the best snow day destinations and activities, I turned to local moms for their expert recommendations. Amy Sonderman and her family enjoy ice skating on the pond at Pierrepont State Park, sledding in the front yard, building snowmen, and having s’mores at the firepit. Meanwhile, Heather Neumann Salaga reminisced about the exhilarating Ridgebury Elementary School’s sledding hill, complete with a daring jump that her mom (wisely) vetoed. Now, she and her kids enjoy making homemade snow cones out of fresh snow drizzled with warm maple syrup (yum!). Michelle Woodman’s crew can be found snow tubing at Mohawk Mountain in Cornwall and sledding at Veterans Park Elementary School in Ridgefield. For a more peaceful and tranquil experience, I ventured to Grace Farms in New Canaan where I discovered that they offer complimentary snowshoeing. (They also have equipment for you to borrow, free of charge!) The picturesque, milelong trail takes you by ponds and wildlife before leaving you at the farm-to-table cafe, where you can enjoy a snack and sip on warm cocoa. If you’re more into skiing, local mountains are a fabulous place to explore for outdoor adventures – and they offer more than skiing and snowboarding. Powder Ridge Mountain’s 225-acre facility is centrally located in the heart

of Connecticut at the junction of all the major throughways and offers skiing, snowboarding, and snow tubing (my personal favorite). My final stop on this snowy journey took me to our local ice rinks. At the Winter Garden in Ridgefield, I had a wonderful conversation with Kathy Ludwig, who has been with the rink for 30 years. “It’s a great outlet for the kids on a snow day,” she says. “Parents can get out and run errands without worrying about their kids because we watch them like hawks!” The Winter Garden’s snow day schedule features public skating from 12:00 PM to 1:15 PM and sticks and pucks from 1:30 PM to 2:30 PM. Danbury Ice Arena offers public skating, hockey stick and puck time, and freestyle sessions for figure skaters. “We offer more than just ice,” says Operation Manager Nick Garofalo. “We also have a full state of the art arcade with its own redemption center!” Of course, if you need winter gear to stay warm and stylish, a visit to Outdoor Sports Center in Wilton is a must. Since 1966, this locally and family-owned gem has been the go-to spot for all your winter adventure needs. With top-quality gear and clothing from renowned brands like Patagonia and The North Face, Outdoor Sports Center sells the stuff that makes snow days fun. Don’t wait for the first snowfall to realize you need better gear—stop by this local institution and be prepared. So, whether you’re a snow day enthusiast or a seasoned winter warrior, check out our local treasures to find an abundance of opportunities to savor the snowy season.

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Giving BACK

Make a difference this holiday season by Carin Weisman

n the hustle and bustle of the holidays and the allure of Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals, it’s easy to lose sight of the true essence of giving. During this season of generosity, here are some simple ways to remember those in our community who might not have enough.

Meals on Wheels of Ridgefield (MOW) prepares, packs, and delivers meals to any Ridgefield resident who cannot provide meals for themselves. (Fun fact: MOW is on track to serve 55,000 meals this year!) “Many people find it surprising that we have no income or age restrictions,” said Board member Hilary Aronow. “As long as someone is a Ridgefield resident in need, even if just short-term during recovery from surgery or illness, we are here to help!” How to give: Many MOW recipients are elderly and live alone, and they love receiving a special note with their meals. Create handmade cards (without glitter or glue) and mail or deliver them to the MOW kitchen at 25 Gilbert Street, Ridgefield, on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays from 9:00 AM - 12:00 PM. You may also make a financial donation by visiting https://www.mealsonwheelsofridgefield.org/donate.

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RVNAhealth delivers our neighbors unmatched, compassionate healthcare when and where it is needed. During the holidays, they especially need volunteers, non-perishable food, and financial support. “When you give to RVNAhealth, you help the elderly remain safe and cared for in their own homes, families and children stay healthy, vaccinated, and supported, and vulnerable populations receive critical supplies and oversight by our nurses and caregivers,” said President & CEO Theresa Santoro. How to give: To volunteer, contact Stephanie Peppe at speppe@rvnahealth.org. To donate to the food pantry, bring items to 27 Governor Street Ridgefield. To make a financial donation, visit https://rvnahealth. org/donate/

Trackside Teen Center provides local youth with a safe and fun place to socialize with their peers, and engage in enriching activities (see May/June issue for a profile of Executive Director Lori Fields). Trackside and the Wilton YMCA are joining forces and hosting a Pancake Breakfast with Santa and Buddy the Elf event on Saturday, December 9th. The event will feature a sugary breakfast and pictures with Santa and Buddy and assembling personalized Buddy Bags to be donated the Domestic Violence Crisis Center. How to give: Visit https://shorturl. at/xyDTV or text the word BUDDY to (959) 777-7456 to make an online donation that will help fill the Buddy Bags. Wilton Food Pantry runs a special program during the holidays that gives eligible households gift cards. “This is mostly geared toward families with children in the home under 18,” said Sarah Heath, Wilton Department of Social Services Director, “but we also help seniors and adults in the community who may need or appreciate help around the holidays.” How to give: Drop off or mail gift cards or a check made out to WCAF to Wilton Social Services, 180 School Road, Wilton.

Family & Children’s Aid (FCA) depends on charitable donations to help less fortunate children and families experience the joy of the holidays. “Your support, no matter the size, has the power to make a difference in a child’s life.” How to give: Bring toys for kids of all ages, new or lightly used coats, food for holiday meals, or gift cards to 80 West Street, Danbury – or order items online and have them shipped directly. Contact Development Coordinator Millie North at millie.north@fcaweb.org or (203) 885-9753 to arrange a time.

Danbury Animal Welfare Society (DAWS) is dedicated to improving the lives of animals in the community by promoting responsible pet guardianship and the humane treatment of animals. During the holidays, DAWS needs donations to cover the costs of food, supplies, medical care, and vaccinations while keeping animals sheltered until they find their forever homes. How to give: Visit https://daws.org/generaldonations/ to provide financial support or https://shorturl.at/bhBN8 to purchase from their Amazon wish list. You can also visit https://shorturl.at/hnoV7 to purchase from their Chewy wish list.

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Ann’s Place provides help and hope to those living with cancer and their loved ones free of charge, relying on the generosity of donors. “Cancer greatly affects family finances,” said Ann’s Place President and CEO Shannon Cobb. “Many clients have a tight budget, especially around the holidays, and grocery and gas gift card donations would greatly help those who are struggling.” How to give: Drop off or mail gift cards to Ann’s Place, 80 Saw Mill Road, Danbury, or purchase an Instacart gift card and email it to debbie@annsplace.org.

The Evelyn C. Peeler Children’s Holiday Gift Fund program assists Ridgefield families in need during the winter holidays and with their back-toschool needs. This small all-volunteer non-profit organization, operating under the auspices of the First Congregational Church, purchases new clothing and food certificates for families in town during the holiday season and certificates for backto-school clothing and school supplies. The group works closely with Ridgefield Social Services to identify families in need. With minimal expenses, 99.9% of the funds raised goes directly to these families. How to give: The organization is supported by private donations and local foundations. Donations are appreciated and may be sent to The Evelyn C. Peeler Children’s Holiday Gift Fund, c/o UPS Store, PMB #218, 54 Danbury Rd, Ridgefield, CT 06877.

Kids in Crisis is a family-focused charity that provides emergency shelter, crisis counseling, and community education programs for children and families facing crisis. Its Holiday Central wish list was created to distribute food, new clothing, toys, and household essentials to families throughout the area who have used their services. “Kids In Crisis is happy to help make the holidays a joyous time for these families, especially as the need is greater than ever before,” says Shari Shapiro, Executive Director. How to give: Visit its online wish list (which is continually updated based on families’ needs) at http://surl.li/ lcavg to have donations shipped directly.

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Give a Hug Clues aren’t always visible from a distance. Look for obvious weight loss or gain, or increased frailty. Check the Mail Is unopened mail piling up? Look out for unpaid bills, notices from credit card companies, or payment thank-you notes from charities. Inspect the Kitchen Is your loved one struggling with cooking proper nutritious meals? Keep an eye out for expired food, a freezer full of frozen dinners, or signs of a past fire.

Open the Medicine Cabinet Adults aged 65 and over take an average of 14-19 prescriptions a year, which can be difficult to keep track of. Look for anything that is expired, discontinued, or a duplicate.

Ask About Their Social Life Look for warning signs like withdrawing from social events, spending days without leaving the house, or having trouble following complex conversations.

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ew vehicle technology has dramatically changed both our vehicles and the way we drive. While much of the tech is focused on improving safety, some of it can be problematic in places like Fairfield County. Electronic lane keeping and steering assistance work well on clear highways in good weather, but can be rendered essentially useless when the lane markings are covered in snow, or the vehicle’s cameras and sensors are blocked by dirt, snow or ice. The same goes for rear cross traffic alerts which can be immobilized when the sensors become blocked. If the driver is dependent on these driver assistance systems instead of using their own eyes, they may be at a loss when the sensors aren’t working. Active lane assist is particularly challenging around 068 land. Recently when attempting to pass a cyclist when there was no oncoming traffic, I turned the wheel to pull across the center line of the road to give the rider a wide berth. Thinking I was distracted, the car tried to steer me back into the hapless cyclist. Had I not fought back with more input, I could have hit the rider. Using your turn signal disrupts the assist, but drivers rarely use blinkers in situations like this if there is no other car around.

A study from the AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety found that “nearly 80 percent of drivers with blind spot monitoring systems were unaware of limitations or incorrectly believed the system could accurately detect bicycles and pedestrians. In reality, the technology can only detect when a vehicle is traveling in a driver’s blind spot and many systems do not reliably detect pedestrians or cyclists.” This is a real issue on our roads as a cyclist might be passing you as you slow to take a turn. Vehicles with side cameras can be a big benefit for actually seeing what’s next to you when your turn signal is activated. With back-up cameras many drivers no longer use their mirrors or turn their heads to see behind them. This becomes a problem when the camera is dirty, blocked or distorted by rain. Secondly, the camera is only showing what is directly behind the vehicle and if you are not using your side view mirrors as well, you can miss an obstacle or person just out of the camera’s view. Ford and GM smartly only allow hands-free driving on limited access highways and both have driver monitoring cameras. Rule of thumb: when driving on our local roads, keep your hands on the wheel at all times.

The tech-laden BMW 7 Series is available in hybrid, PHEV and EV versions. Air suspension, massaging seats, self-closing doors and, a giant theater screen delivers ultimate luxury.

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The new Prius is improved in every way. It looks great, has more power, and is finally fun to drive. It has lots of safety technology and driver monitoring to keep you focused on driving.

Bluetooth, Apple CarPlay and Android Auto make it easy to take and make calls using voice commands, but some modern car infotainment systems are nearly impossible to use without looking at the screens. Adjusting the climate control or turning on the seat heater can cause distraction. That’s why I prefer proper knobs and buttons vs multi-level deep touch screens. The goal should be to keep our eyes focused on the road ahead. We recently drove four unique new vehicles to see how different manufacturers are using tech. The BMW 760i xDrive is my favorite big luxury sedan, delivering Rolls-Royce levels of ride and passenger comfort with tons of tech. For the driver, the infotainment screen features 43 small icons, like apps on your phone, to control practically everything in the car. BMW’s Highway Assistant

hands-free driving systems includes a camera for driver monitoring while Evasion Assistant will even help the driver make an emergency maneuver to avoid a collision. Lucky rear passengers have individual 5.5inch touchscreens mounted on each door to control seats, climate, and a massive 31” wide roof mounted theater screen. Once you get past the sexy sheet metal of the all-new Toyota Prius you’ll find a re-imagined cockpit and plenty of tech. The Prius has a camera to constantly monitor the driver to warn of distraction. My excellent Prius Prime tester was actually fun to drive and featured a solar panel roof, panoramic camera, self-parking and Illumination Notification, which alerts you when the car in front pulls away. Neat! Audi’s Virtual Cockpit gives the driver a customizable instrument cluster. Along

Audi RS3’s Virtual Cockpit and heads-up display help keep your eyes forward in this rocketship.

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with Audi’s head-up display, you have the most important information at eye-level. After spending a week with the ferocious 401 hp Audi RS3 sports sedan, I can confirm you’ll want both hands on the wheel. Amazon’s new Electric Van, built by Rivian, is a complete re-imagining of the ubiquitous deliver van with a focus on safety. Nick Mirabile of Danbury’s Bold Move Logistics let me get behind the wheel of one of their new vans. Technology includes a 360-degree view to protect pedestrians, collision warnings and automatic braking. The electronic routing, navigation and driver monitoring ensures drivers are not distracted. I was impressed with the comfort and maneuverability of such a large vehicle. If they would only fix that annoying quacking back-up sound.

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of CT is now in its sixth remarkable season selfproducing Broadway caliber theater in Ridgefield. Artistic Director Daniel C. Levine says, “ It is our unbelievable community that has helped us achieve the level of recognition that we have attained, and whose support and patronage have allowed us to continue to create incredible theater in Fairfield County – even during the most trying of times in the history of the entertainment industry.” While all regional theaters across the country were forced to close their doors during the pandemic years by government, state and union mandates, a staggering

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large percentage of theaters weren’t able to reopen when restrictions lifted. Many theaters who did manage to re-open postpandemic are finding it difficult to sustain and have not had the audience return that they hoped for. In fact, several prominent regional theaters recently announced their permanent closing. ACT of CT‘s leadership refused to cease production during the pandemic years and quickly altered their programming in order create streaming productions (and even a feature film which was subsequently nominated for a Grammy Award.) Due to that foresight, along with the support of a community who

understands that the arts are an essential part of a thriving society, ACT of CT is grateful to be flourishing with soldout productions and critical successes. ACT of CT has various partnerships and collaborations with local organizations including Ridgefield Library, Ridgefield Chorale, Founders Hall, Ridgefield Public Schools, National Charity League, Ridgefield Symphony Orchestra, Ridgefield A Better Chance, Ridgefield CT Pride, Prospector Theater, RPAC Gallery and Art Center, 068 Magazine, Sphere, and Thrown Stone (to name a few) that truly demonstrate why Ridgefield was deemed to be the first Arts and Cultural

District in the State of Connecticut. It often feels as though ACT of CT has been in town for a lot longer than six years. In fact, many residents refer to the theater as a “staple in this community.” Yet, there are still some residents who have never seen an ACT of CT production and who may not realize the history of the theater. While ACT of CT’s accolades, awards, and programming are diverse and expanding, this timeline represents some interesting facts and milestones about their formation and history. If you haven’t been to a show, do yourself a favor and see one of their mainstage productions this season!

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Foodies

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s the summer wedding season fades and the fall and holiday season ramps up, local caterers kick into high gear. Despite their hectic schedules, 068 was able to speak with a few local chefs on what each of their catering businesses can offer to make your next event special. Alison Milwe-Grace aka Chef Ali of AMG Catering and Events explains, “Caterers rarely have downtime these days. We may experience a slight lull between January and February, but this year is exceptionally busy. We’ve finally wrapped up all the weddings delayed by the pandemic, and now we’re seeing fundraisers and other events returning. Bookings are filling up even two years in advance.” A Weston resident, Chef Ali established her company in 1996, serving Fairfield and Westchester Counties. AMG is the preferred caterer for numerous local venues in Ridgefield, Wilton, Weston, Westport, Fairfield, Greenwich, and New Canaan, capable of hosting events ranging from small, intimate gatherings of 35 to large-scale events accommodating 400 or more attendees. “The bigger the party, the better,” she affirms. The word “dynamo” feels like an apt descriptor for this high-energy chef. “I get up at 6 AM every day to hit the gym so I can stay strong for the physical work I do,” she elaborates. “I love what I do, and I show my love through food.” For the past 20 years, this mom of three also shares her love of the culinary arts as a full-time teacher at Staples High School in Westport. Beyond her daytime teaching and weekend catering, Chef Ali conducts evening adult cooking classes in her commercial space in Wilton and has aspirations of authoring a cookbook. Wilton resident Karin Hyzy shares Chef Ali’s enthusiasm, having utilized AMG to cater her family events and larger parties for decades. “I’m not sure how she manages it all! Her food and staff are simply amazing. She’s inventive and can take an idea and run with it,” Hyzy praises. “I’d never host an event without her. Her hot passed hors d’oeuvres are exceptional. I adore her meatballs, and I’m Italian!”

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hef Felicia Nowling of Creative Meals by Chef Felicia offers a personalized dining experience in the homes of her customers in Ridgefield, Wilton, and surrounding areas, including Westchester County. Felicia and her team design tablescapes, cook, and serve customers for bespoke dinner parties, ranging from intimate gatherings of four to buffet dinners and luncheons for up to 40 guests. “I visit customers’ homes to provide a restaurant experience — in their own kitchens and dining rooms,” she explains. This Ridgefield mother of two has a degree from the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, New York, but opted for a break from the busy life of the hospitality industry with the birth of her daughter. “During my first pregnancy, I faced a health scare. I had to change the way I ate and that opened my eyes to how you can cook food differently and still have it taste good,” Chef Felicia says. While all chefs featured here offer special dietary menus and farmto-table cuisine, Chef Felicia’s business centers around catering to small groups and individuals with specific dietary needs. “When I started my business, I wanted to reach people who had dietary restrictions. I create every menu to cater to my client’s specific needs,” Chef Felicia explains. She also provides meal preparation services for busy customers and conducts cooking classes in customers’ home kitchens. “Everything I do is individualized. I ask my clients what they want to learn—whether it is a specific technique or cuisine—and that’s what I teach them,” she adds.

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ome Things Fishy Caterers offers far more than just seafood. The name is a play on words that aligns perfectly with the founder, Chef Michael Bick’s, highly creative nature. His client list includes fashion houses, Fortune 500 corporations, A-list celebrities like The Rolling Stones, and politicians, including former President Clinton. “I catered Keith Richards wife’s’ 50th birthday party in Manhattan,” he reminisces. “I had the privilege of learning from my colleagues Chef Nobu Matsuhisa and Wolfgang Puck. I take international techniques and I blend them to create unique dishes.” Some of his signature dishes feature tequila-yuzu glazed salmon paired with a lycheeblueberry compote, miso cod prepared with sake lees, and short rib braciola: grilled short ribs in tomato sauce. “It’s cooked fork-tender and served in a tomato-based sauce with fennel and capers and a side of mashed potatoes,” he describes. Jeff Borofsky, the former owner of the renowned Skinny Pines Pizza Truck, first crossed paths with Chef Michael at a Farm Land Trust event in 2011. “I remember the first time I tried his food, I just knew I had to work with him. Chef Michael is a talented chef who really knows how to take care of his clients and make them happy!” If you’re seeking a caterer for a large event or a simple gathering, here’s some good news: all the caterers listed here have some openings in their calendars. “There’s no rhyme or reason to how I book out. We have some flexibility and availability,” Chef Michael says.

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Is That A Thing?

Thinking to Escape

Escape Room Challenge

hen it comes to recreational activities, there are few experiences you’d willingly pay to be trapped. But in the case of escape rooms, which have really taken off in the past decade, that is quite literally the name of the game. These immersive adventure games offer the same escapist-itch as a video game in which players are placed in a room, usually involving a theme, and have to collect clues, solve puzzles and ultimately escape before the clock runs out. In an era dominated by digital communication, escape rooms breathe interactive life back into a night out with friends, coworkers, the curious and the adventurous. “We find that customers love escape rooms because it mixes fun real-world activity with a story or mystery that requires thinking and problem solving,” says Michael McDonald, owner of Escape 101 (esc101.com) in Brookfield, which has provided the community an “escape” from your typical indoor entertainment since 2016. “It really is a different activity than just about anything else you can do – a bit like being in a live version of a movie scene maybe.” With many ways to play, multiple themed rooms to choose from and difficulty and fright levels for all ages and comfortability, Escape 101 has the added bonus of being centrally located in one of Fairfield County’s most well-traveled footholds. “We are located on one of the busiest shopping districts in the area and it’s a great place to get both loyal returning customers as well as attract attention from new customers driving past. With all of the stores and restaurants in the area, the attention and advertising value of being right on a major road is

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enormous,” says McDonald. There are not many places where you can survive a sinister haunted house, travel back in time, and even stop Earth from imminent disaster, but at Escape 101, the possibilities are endless. Visitors can take a stab at escaping in small groups, or large groups up to 12 in designated rooms of play. No matter which room you choose, you must use your clues and collective cunning to solve before time runs out. Stumped? Not to worry, dear Watson. “Ask for clues!” says McDonald. “We will always help if you are stuck and not sure where to go or what to do when you get to a particular point.” As for his top piece of advice: the writing’s on the wall. “So many people facing the ticking clock to escape don’t take the time to read the hints and puzzles and clues in the room. If there are written words in the room, they are there for a reason and it definitely pays to read and think and ignore the clock for a minute rather than just racing around searching.” Escape or no escape, half the fun is in trying something new. But for McDonald and his staff, they are continuously being surprised by the things that happen behind closed doors. “We have had several people get engaged in our escape rooms – someone will come to us in advance and tell us they want to get engaged and ask us to hide the ring at the end of the room in the final box or door and then they work through the room to solve the puzzles together as a couple (or small group supporting the couple). An escape room is a great way to demonstrate the kind of teamwork and collaboration that a marriage requires.”

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Shout Out

RIDGEFIELD’S FIRST EVER TURKEY PARDON!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOTE: NOTE: Rumor is the Ridgefield Grinch, having caught wind of the event, has decided to “Make an Impression” at the event. 068 Magazine has asked The Ridgefield Fathers Club to make sure the Grinch is otherwise occupied for the event just in case he decides to do something, well “Grinch-like,” during the pardoning.

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very Thanksgiving, the annual pardoning of the turkey at the White House by the president is a favorite tradition for families, starting with President Lincoln when he pardoned the family turkey (requested by his son) and spared him from the family dinner table. On Sunday, November 19th at 4:00 pm, for the first time ever, Rudy Marconi, First Selectman of Ridgefield, will pardon a fortunate turkey named Nugget who was destined for a local oven. Marconi will welcome Nugget and make a few remarks about the beautiful town of Ridgefield and all it has to offer during the holiday season. T-Shirts will be on sale commemorating the event and all proceeds will be donated to The Ridgefield Fathers Club and Ridgefield Boys & Girls Club. The Ridgefield Fathers Club (RFC) is a 501(c)(3) charity whose mission is to support youth activities, provide aid to senior citizens and underprivileged families, and improve our community through charitable works.

Perhaps their most famous fundraiser during the holidays is a visit from the mischievous Ridgefield Grinch! The Boys & Girls Club of Ridgefield is a youth activity center designed to offer programs for school-aged children after school and during vacations. Club programs and services promote and enhance the development of boys and girls by instilling a sense of competence, usefulness, belonging, and influence. The day’s activities will also include a scavenger hunt to find as many turkey “lookalikes” throughout Main Street businesses. Find the most and you can pick up a prize at the RPAC Gallery when you turn in your scavenger hunt sheet! Local businesses will also be participating with discounts for Pre-Black Friday specials and our restaurants will create specialty cocktails and appetizers for the parents! This event is made possible by 068 Magazine and The Ridgefield Chamber of Commerce.

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Shout Out

This Train Trip is Worth Taking WELL DESERVED RECOGNITION

by Gerri Lewis

n October 12th the Cultural Alliance of Western Connecticut held their Annual Business Supports the Arts Awards Breakfast at the Amber Room Colonnade in Danbury. “We were honored to recognize the outstanding achievements of awardees this year. Their creativity, passion and skill enrich our culture and inspire us all,” says Lisa Scails, Executive Director, Cultural Alliance. Among those honored was Dee Dee Colabella, who was awarded the Arts in the Community Award for her contributions to the arts and culture in Ridgefield, as well as her role as an entrepreneur and business leader. Colabella is the owner of 068 Magazine, RPAC Art Center and Academy, RPAC Gallery, D. Collabella Fine Art Gallery, and is the founder of the non-profit ArtFul Visual Arts Initiative. “Thanks to all the artists I work with and the ArtFul Board members. I can’t believe how much we have accomplished and there’s still more to come,” says Colabella. Also honored was Olga Meija of Danbury, who received the Mary Rindfleisch Heart of Arts Award, Wendy Cahill, owner of Molten Java in Bethel, who received the Arts Impact Life Award, and the Danbury Mall for the BSA Award. The Cultural Alliance (cawct.org) connects with and provides support for artists, creative entrepreneurs, and arts and cultural organizations. They strive to ensure the continued representation of diversity and equity.

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ll aboard, because the day after Thanksgiving, these trains are leaving the station when the Wilton Historical Society kicks off its annual Great Trains Holiday Show. Multiple train gauges (G, HO, N, O, S and Lego) are showcased as they chug chug along through scaled settings that take up most of the two 18th and 19th century Historical Society buildings. Would-be conductors will enjoy the hands-on button pushing which allows visitors to enjoy an interactive experience. As mesmerizing as it is to watch the trains meander through magical mythical villages, travel over bridges, through tunnels and wander around buildings or towns with lights flashing and horns blasting, the settings themselves are particularly clever. An outdoor movie theater, a small-town USA scenario, an oldfashioned village, a fire department complete with vehicles and an entire snow filled scene with skaters, sledders, skiers and other winter activities are a few of the scenes that depict one delightful scenario after another. As an aside, there is even a display of toys from bygone eras. One of the unique things about the show is that the models and their settings represent different eras, thereby keeping with the historical theme. Wilton Historical Society Director Nick Foster says that each year they try to add something new. New or not, this traditional show will appeal to all age groups. Hosted by the Wilton Historical Society the event kicks off a number of festive events including Holly Jolly Saturday with a visit from Santa on December 9th. For information contact the Wilton Historical Society: wiltonhistorical.org or call 203-762-7257.

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Welcome

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Affair by Joey Macari

very now and then we dress to impress, but more importantly, we dress to feel our best. As buyer behaviors change, with many seeking a more personalized shopping experience, the boutique boom has reached Ridgefield with the new store, Elegant Ridgefield (elegantridgefield.com). When Elizabeth Murray Ellis, owner of the new Grove Street boutique, had back-to-back weddings for her children and experienced the difficulties of a one-stop-shop for those kinds of special occasions, she came up with the idea for a modern boutique with classic, luxury wears for women. The result: a curated collection of special occasion gowns, cocktail dresses, day-to-dinner styles, shoes, and other accessories that allows women to embrace their own unique style and radiate confidence. “Three of my children were married in thirteen months,” Ellis shares. “After post-pandemic, get-meout-of-these-sweatpants, I suddenly entered the world of “Mother Of,” rehearsal dinners, bridal showers and the need for mature dresses that fit just right for both me and the venue—minus pressure salespeople and fitting rooms the size of closets. So, I conceived Elegant Ridgefield, a store to cater to special occasion dressing.” Elegant Ridgefield will uniquely enhance Ridgefield’s special-event services. “I envision this venture as a compliment and never a competition to Ridgefield’s women’s clothing boutiques and other beautiful in-town wedding venues, florists, photographers, restaurants, stationers, etc,” Ellis says. “As a long-standing resident of Ridgefield, I want to provide Ridgefield and the surrounding areas with an in-person, shopping destination primarily for special occasion dresses.” With top-of-the-line, named brands such as Theia, Jovani, and Montage, as well as a personal stylist who can select items in the store that align with your event, style, color preference, size and budget, Elegant Ridgefield

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aims to simplify the “dress for the occasion” shopping experience. “We’ve curated a beautiful collection of gowns, cocktail dresses, day-to-dinner styles and more, in a range of sizes from petite to plus,” Ellis says. “Pay us a visit and you’ll enjoy our new luxurious store with spacious, mirrored fitting rooms, while you sip tea or sparkling wine. You’ll be greeted by our welcoming staff and most importantly, you will have a no-pressure shopping experience.” With the holidays in full-swing, Elegant Ridgefield can help you balance style with comfort and appropriateness for any occasion. That might be a pair of timeless earrings from “Santa” or a perfect silhouette dress to ring in the New Year, Elegant Ridgefield can help you seamlessly find what you need. For those who want to stay on-trend, Ellis and her team of stylists are in-theknow and ready to provide options. “The looks you’ll be wearing this holiday season, or six months from now, will include vibrant colors and asymmetrical necklines, oneshoulder designs, and halter necks,” says Ellis. Whether the attention is all about a special event, walking down the aisle, or your next corporate cocktail hour, Ellis would like every visitor to walk away from Elegant Ridgefield feeling empowered—inside-and-out. “We are aiming for a classic, refined look in which our customers will feel comfortable and look elegant!”

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ilton resident Annette Nauraine is thrilled to announce the publication of her book DoOver Daughter, the first in a six-book series of the Marriage Survivors Book Club. The series, which is set at St. Paul’s on the Green in Norwalk, CT, follows a diverse group of six single 50-something women drinking, praying, and cursing their way through menopause, all while trying to sidestep the pitfalls of romance. “The overall theme of the series is about how the love and support of our friends can sustain us and help us heal,” says Nauraine. Do-Over Daughter tells the story of Frankie Carter, whose life is upended by the return of her alcoholic mother who abandoned Frankie when she was only eight. Frankie struggles with the decision of whether to forgive her. Frankie’s fiercely loyal friends encourage her to accept whatever love her mother can give. With their support, Frankie steers through the tumultuous waters of forgiveness and late-life romance to a place of love and self-acceptance. “Issues of inclusion, equality, and community really resonate for me,” says Nauraine. She hopes readers will enjoy Do-Over Daughter and stay tuned for the rest of the series. Do-Over Daughter is available on all online retailers. You can download and read the prequel for free by scanning the QR code above. For more information about the Marriage Survivors Book Club or to sign up for Annette’s newsletter, go to www.annettenauraine.com

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you can now vote for who to highlight for One More Thing: Go to 068magazine.com/voteforonemorething link and fill out the form to recommend a person you would like to see highlighted who is exceptional in the arts. You can vote for any category of artist and then list the name of the artist or work of art. If you are an artist, please use the HIGHLIGHT MY ART graphic which can be downloaded to campaign for votes. The artist with the most votes in December will be spotlighted in the January/February issue. Thank you for supporting the arts in Fairfield County.

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