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Go Outside and Play 15 Old-Fashioned Activities Here, Kitty-Kitty! How Cats Can Become Purrfect Family Pets! Eight Ways to Keep Your Child Learning over the Summer! Fun and Creative Summer Learning Activities

Rock Climbing Is Great for Kids! Develop Your Child's Creative Thinking, Physical Ability, and More

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Spark up some lively conversation with your kids. Take the FamilyChatter Challenge.

Family Chatter ��22 Book Reviews and Activities ��23 That’s Good to Know! ��24 Show Her You Care, Show Him You Care ��25-26 Teach Your Kids Something New! ��28 Snacks—Recipes for Tasty Get-togethers ��29 Crafts—Get Creative with Your Kids ��32

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GO OUTSIDE AND PLAY

15 O L D-FA S H I O N E D AC T I V I T I E S By Pam Molnar

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Summer is the best time to be a kid. School is out, the weather is great, and each day promises a new adventure. At least that is how it used to be. Today, summer’s biggest rival is the computer screen. With the return of sunny skies, there is no need to bask in the artificial light of a digital display. Encourage your child to gather up the neighborhood kids and show them how to have some old-fashioned summer fun.

Tug-o-War S tart summer off with a splash. Break the group up into teams, find a long rope, and stand on opposite sides of a kiddie pool filled with water. On go, see who will make the first splash of the summer.

Frisbee Tic-Tac-Toe raw a tic-tac-toe board on the driveway with chalk or in the yard D with spray paint. Gather four Frisbees for each player and try to get the Frisbees to land in the squares to win tic-tac-toe.

Water Gun Shooting Range ather empty water and soda bottles and set them up on a deck G railing or table edge. Fill your water gun and try to knock them over. On windy days, fill each bottle with an inch of water.

Obstacle Course ig out the hula hoops, soccer cones, and jump ropes. Use your D creativity to set up an obstacle course in the backyard and let the races begin.

Nature Scavenger Hunt hether you are in the backyard or a local forest preserve, help W the kids make a list of items they can gather and race back to the starting line. Find things like a river rock, pinecone, acorn or a robin’s eggshell.

Kickball is game is similar to baseball, but it levels the playing field so Th that all ages and skill levels can play. The pitcher rolls a large ball to the “batter” who kicks it with his foot. Like baseball, the batter runs the bases and the opposing team tries to get him out before he gets home.

Sharks and Minnows ine up the players, called minnows, on one end of the yard. One L shark stands in the middle of the yard. The minnows try to cross to the other side of the yard without getting tagged and becoming a shark themselves. Play continues until all minnows have changed to sharks.

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Watermelon-Eating Contest

Kick the Can

ut watermelon into half-moon pieces and set in front of each C player on the table. On go, try to eat the watermelon as fast as you can without using your hands.

lace a metal can in the middle of the driveway or backyard P patio. The players hide while the person who is “It” tries to find them while keeping an eye on the can. If he gets too far away from the can, another player can come out of hiding and kick the can. If the player is tagged, he becomes “It.” If not, he is safe. Play continues until all players kick the can or until a player is found or tagged.

Five Hundred ne player stands at the end of the yard or street with a baseball O bat and tennis ball. He throws the ball up and hits it with the bat into the crowd. They try to catch it on a fly: 100 points; with one bounce: 50 points; or two bounces: 25 points. Whoever scores 500 first is the winner.

Drip, Drip, Drop layed like Duck, Duck, Goose, this is a fun game for a hot day. P Instead of tapping the players in the circle for “duck,” drip a little water from a sponge. When you choose a player to “goose,” yell “drop” and squeeze the sponge over their head before you start running.

Pillowcase Race

Clothespin Tag veryone clips a hinged clothespin to the back of their shirt. The E person who is “It” tries to grab the clothespin as they run by.

Dodgeball Set up several soft vinyl balls in the center of two teams. On go, charge the center to get to a ball and start throwing them at other players. If a player catches it, the thrower is out. If he misses the catch or gets hit with the ball, the player is out. v

I t’s the same idea as a potato sack race, but easier to come by. Line up the kids and their pillowcases at the starting line and watch them go.

Water Balloon Toss S tand in parallel lines and pass a water balloon back and forth without dropping it. Change it up by setting one person in the middle of a circle with a bowl on his head. Players try to toss the balloon into the bowl.

Pam Molnar is a freelance writer and mother of three. She has fond memories of summertime games with her neighbors and looks forward to watching her children make summer memories of their own. pmmolnar@aol.com; www.pammolnar.com; Etsy Store: PamsPartyPrintables; author of Fifty Games for Your Ho-Ho-Holiday Party.

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Here, Kitty-Kitty! How Cats Can Become Purrfect Family Pets! Cats often get a bad rap compared to other potential pets. Cats are often described as aloof, destructive and predatory. Historically, cats have had their reputations repeatedly tarnished, except by ancient Egyptians and Vikings, who revered them. Black cats are often associated with bad luck, witchcraft, and even demons and devils. In everyday language, we use phrases like “copy cat” and we even had “Grumpy Cat” in all of his iterations to remind us that cats are kind of snarky even if they don’t actually say anything we can understand. And yet, when the time comes to choose a pet for your home, it’s hard to find a better pet for your family than a cat or even two. The benefits of cat ownership abound. So if your family is considering adding a feline friend to your home, consider the following benefits:

A home with a cat never feels empty. Cats make a house into a home. Part of their magic is to always be frisking about, and there is something about a too-quiet house that just feels echoey and lonely in comparison. If you have never owned a cat before, you will be amazed at the impact even one kitty twining around your ankles can make.

Cats are cuddly companions.

Congenial, but typically not needy, cats balance independence and togetherness well. They will remind you once in a while that they like affection, but they will not usually hound you in order to get it. Be sure not to take a kitten away from its mother too soon or you can expect your kitten to grow into a needy cat.

They purr. Healthy cats are usually kid-friendly if they grow up with each other. Pets love to soothe sensitive or emotionally challenged family members. In some reported cases, cats have had major impacts on the lives of autistic or emotionally challenged kids. Continued on page 11

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Eight Ways to Keep Your Child Learning over the Summer Summer’s here, and kids are out of school. Even though they’re excited to be out, studies show that children can lose as minimally as two months worth of math and reading skills. Because of this loss, parents should take an active role in their child’s learning over the carefree summer months.

Pick a Goal

You probably already know your child’s academic strengths and his weaknesses. Pick a goal from one of his strengths and one of the areas he needs to improve on. That way he can have an area that is fun to work on and another one that is more of a challenge. You also know what is a fair limit as to how long to read or how often she should work on a subject. Set reasonable limits to still make it fun and yet challenging.

Keep a Daily Routine

Most kids need structure while school is out, so set up a general routine. Some kids have no problem in making the transition from school work to no school. However, other kids need more structure in their day-to-day living, such as reading after breakfast. You can require a quiet time after lunch where kids can write in a journal or do quiet activities and mom gets some quiet time, too. Even though they may balk at setting up a simple schedule, structure gives kids a sense of security and self-discipline.

Work on Math Skills

There are hundreds of fun ways to work on math skills while your kids are away from desks and homework. And it’s to your child’s advantage to learn basic addition, subtraction, multiplication and division facts. When you’re standing in line with your kids, pull out your wallet. With younger kids, show them different coins and ask them Continued on page 18

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Cats are adaptable. You may think that a cat will not adjust to your home life for various reasons, but give them a few weeks and watch what happens. You’ll be surprised by how flexible cats can be despite their finicky reputations. They are entertaining. Cats can be playful, especially kittens, but they are more low-maintenance than dogs who need to be trained extensively and walked several times daily. If you plan to have both types of pets, they can usually get along just fine.

Cats are cuddly medicine. Cats have a proven track record of providing health benefits for infants, students, seniors, and folks with chronic illnesses. If you are at risk for high blood pressure or heart disease, cats provide good preemptive medicine. Cats stretch a lot. They take naps. They blow off people who are acting in a manner unacceptable to them. In other words, cats are great role models for how to have a simple, stress-free life. If we acted as mellow as our cats, we’d all stress less and live healthier lives.

Cats have a proven track record of providing health benefits for infants, students, seniors, and folks with chronic illnesses.

Tips for Happy Cat Ownership Consider adopting two kittens.

They will become fast friends and keep each other company as they grow, and then you won’t feel as guilty when you are away on family vacations. As long as they have each other and quality care while you are gone, they will adapt just fine.

Learn to read kitty signals. Teach young children cat talk before you bring one home. Cats can make up to 16 sounds, including purring, hissing and meowing. Children can also learn about feline body language and behavior by watching videos online and bringing home books on the topic from the library.

Find a vet you trust. Consider mobile vets who will travel to your home. Be sure to get your pets spayed or neutered at the appropriate time so that you’ll never have to worry about delivering kittens at home (unless you want to).

Serve the best quality dry food. Despite what we see on TV commercials, cats can be quite content and live long, healthy lives on quality dry food and an ongoing supply of fresh, clean water. If you want to give them a tasty treat, offer your cat a teaspoon of tuna the next time you open a can. They will come running every time they hear the can opener afterwards.

Put them to bed in their own room.

Cats teach kids how to care. Cats bathe themselves. They are automatically housebroken and have the uncanny ability to remember where the litter box is no matter where you hide it. But they can’t completely take care of themselves and therefore they help teach kids responsibility. Ask your children to feed, water, and spend time with their pets so they can bond daily. v Portland Parent Magazine • July+August 2019 • 11

Starting from the first night you bring your kittens home, put them in a large, well-ventilated bathroom to sleep for the night. Cats are nocturnal and if you have more than one cat and don’t contain them, their knocking about in the wee hours will keep you awake.

Keep your cats indoors. If you want your cats to live long, happy lives, keep them indoors. Outdoor cats can upset bird populations and may bring bloody, disease-ridden “presents” back to the house for you. Indoor cats live longer than outdoor cats. Continued on page 13

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Go easy on accessories. All a cat really wants is a few comfortable sleeping nooks scattered throughout your home, a good brushing once in a while, and a stuffed mouse dipped in dried catnip to torture. Kittens love to chase things that dangle, so consider this type of toy or make your own. Beyond these items, the best thing you can give your cat is your attention and some daily hugs. Relax, it’s just a hairball. Keep your furry friends out of bedrooms or they will shed all over your pillows and occasionally leave a soggy surprise in your blankets. Longhair cats will have hairballs more often than shorthair cats. You can try to manage hairballs with products, but it’s easier to simply get used to the idea of cleaning up the occasional mess with a damp paper towel. If your kitty is in an inopportune location while hacking, simply move her to a clear spot on the floor. And don’t sweat it. Hairballs come out of most anything. v

Everything You Need for a Happy Cat qq A litter box qq Cat litter qq A litter box scoop qq Quality dry cat food qq An air-tight container with a scoop for opened food bags qq Food and water bowls qq Scratching posts at least three-feet high qq Several cat beds around the house to curl up on, including one in sleeping area qq A brush qq Nail-clipping tool qq Dried catnip qq A few small stuffed mice qq A toy dangling from a stick qq Vet visits, including annual check-ups, vaccines and micro-chipping

Christina Katz was reluctant about becoming a pet owner until a cat adopted her during a violent Southwestern thunderstorm. Since then, five more pets have happily followed, living long, happy lives that have enriched her whole family’s quality of life. Portland Parent Magazine • July+August 2019 • 13

Kittens love to chase things that dangle, so consider this type of toy or make your own. Beyond these items, the best thing you can give your cat is your attention and some daily hugs.

ROCK CLIMBING IS

GREAT

FOR KIDS! By Joanna Nesbit

One sunny afternoon, with no footholds left to lunge for, my 7-year-old son is stumped four feet into his rock climb. “I can’t do it, Daddy; it’s too hard,” he says to his dad belaying from below (belaying is securing the climber by holding the rope and belay device). Ty’s goal is to scale what climbers call a “chimney.” Think fireplace chimney with no front wall. “Stick your feet to the side walls, Ty, and use your hands for balance,” says Curt. Ty places hands and feet on opposing walls, just narrow enough for his limbs to span, and hesitates, spread-eagled, like a small blonde Spider-Man. To reach the top, he must “stem”—in other words, pretend he has suction cups. “It’s too hard,” he calls. Ty hasn’t done much outdoor climbing, and stemming is new to him. “Try inching your way up. See how it goes.” My husband is a 20-year veteran climber, but Ty discovered climbing for himself at age 4. He began with bouldering (climbing un-roped just above the ground) at our local indoor wall. By age 5, he was climbing vertically. Ty loves problem solving, a key component of climbing, and it doesn’t hurt that he’s lean and lanky, but he sees himself as an indoorsy Lego kind of kid. His dad and I are often trying to lure him into physical activity. Preferably outside. A typical conversation: “Hey, Ty, how about a bike ride?” “Mmmm, nah.” “Want to kick the soccer ball around?” “Nah.” “Let’s go for a hike.” “Noooooo!” But when we suggest rock climbing, he’s all ears.

The Benefits of Rock Climbing Admittedly, rock climbing isn’t the impromptu activity that biking is, but with the advent of indoor climbing walls, classes and walls abound. And kids tend to be natural climbers. They have a high strength-to-weight ratio—which means they have less body weight to haul up the wall than adults do—and their bodies are more flexible. 14 • July+August 2019 • Portland Parent Magazine • ItsYourMagazine.com

They’re also not fearful (but if they are, that’s normal, too), and they have fewer personal limits than adults do. “Adults tend to think they know what their body can and can’t do. Kids are less likely to limit themselves this way,” says Kevin McCluskey, Program Director and Head Instructor at Seattle’s Vertical World climbing gym. Kids acquire all kinds of positive skills. Because climbing requires a combination of creative thinking and physical output, less athletic kids often shine, surprising even themselves. Kids also learn problem solving. Climbing is a puzzle to unlock, sometimes requiring the ability to back off, look at the route anew, and start again, says Bobby Ferrari, owner of High Xposure Adventures in New Paltz, New York. Additionally, kids learn to focus, concentrate and persevere, essential for getting to the top. Along the way, they gain confidence, competence, strength and body awareness. If your climbing gym teaches kids how to belay, McCluskey says that kids also learn safety skills and responsibility. “Kids take that responsibility seriously, and that’s empowering,” he says.

Getting Started (Safely) Whether kids start with an indoor wall or an outdoor crag, it’s critical they learn from a professional. Five to 7 are good ages to start, but don’t be surprised if your child isn’t interested until later. Younger children will benefit from starting indoors, where outdoor distractions aren’t a factor.

Indoor climbing Choose a climbing gym with kids’ programs or instructors with plenty of experience working with kids. Consider taking an introductory class yourself to learn the fundamentals. Continued on page 16

(Above) Robby, (Top Down) Ty, Tom, Rob and Tasha Williams on-board the Oasis of the Seas - Royal Caribbean Cruise Line.

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Outdoor climbing Locate a professional guide service that works with families, and request a guide experienced with kids (for a list of accredited guides and schools, visit American Mountain Guides Association at amga.com). Don’t be afraid to ask about instruction even if you don’t climb yourself. A good instructor will teach kids how to use their feet properly, a key component for becoming proficient. Typical cost for a day: $100+ per person.

Go as a family You may not want to climb, but your kids will benefit from seeing you try something new. “You can role model how to learn,” says McCluskey. “Kids are supportive of their parents trying something new.” Think small: Beginning climbs should be short and simple so that kids feel successful, says Ferrari. If kids display a fear of heights, don’t push them to keep going. Scaring them can turn them off the sport. Try bouldering: Bouldering is the art of climbing boulders or small cliffs, or just above the floor if indoors, that doesn’t require being roped. Bouldering takes less endurance, offers instant gratification (no waiting around to tie in), and is a great way to gauge your child’s interest—for free. Spotting your child is a must. As Ty inches his body up, he discovers momentum with friction and “opposition.” He pauses, rests, keeps inching. “He’s doing it,” I say. No one cares if he makes it—the goal was to go outdoors. But then extra bonus: Ty is at the top. He grins down through the chimney shaft, and we cheer. Climbing taps many skills, but what Ty likes best, though he can’t articulate it, is that climbing is a solitary achievement, intensely personal. After he’s lowered to the ground, he runs along a trail, spots a bird, and discovers the perfect stick. Part of the fun of outdoor rock climbing, after all, is messing around on a beautiful day.

Misperceptions About Rock Climbing a good climber, you need a burly upper body. Nope. Climbing • Tousesbelegs, abdominal muscles, and balance. climbing is unsafe. No. If you go with an expert, rock climbing is • Rock actually a very controlled sport.

Gear to Get Going

• Indoor and outdoor programs usually provide or rent necessary gear. are required, indoors or out, and range from $59.95 and • Harnesses up. Some are specifically for youngsters between ages 5 and 10, up to 88 lbs., at www.REI.com.

are essential in outdoor climbing and usually range from • Helmets $59.95 and up at www.REI.com. rock shoes must fit tightly, experts agree that your child • Because should love climbing before you invest in a pair. But if your kid is

hooked, try the Mad Rock “Mad Monkey 2.0” with an adjustable heel that grows with your child ($39 at www.madrockclimbing.com). v

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the value of each coin. With an older child, pick out an item from your grocery basket and ask them what would be the change if you bought it with a dollar.

Keep Reading

If you have a beginning reader at your house, read to her on a regular basis. “Reading together for just a few minutes each night will dramatically improve your child’s literacy skills and help them to develop a lifelong love of reading,” says child education expert Dr. Tiffany Cooper Gueye, the CEO of BELL (Building Educated Leaders for Life). Imagination is increased, too.

Explore Technology

Technology is helpful and fun for kids, so check out educational apps that are age appropriate for your child. “Since kids like technologies, it’s a good thing since mobile technologies provide novel and unique opportunities for learning,” says Elliot Soloway, an Arthur F. Thurnau Professor at the University of Michigan. Of course, set the necessary limits on computer time but it can also be used as an incentive to get other work done.

Start a Business

Do you have a budding entrepreneur? There is an entire set of valuable social skills involved in kids reaching out to their neighbors offering dog walking services, lawn and garden watering, or helping in the yard. Kids can design a flyer on the computer and then take it around your neighborhood. You can discuss what are some good business practices, such as being on time, doing a thorough job, and setting a fair price. And don’t be afraid if your child’s job has to be redone

to the neighbor’s satisfaction. The experience of your child working with a trusted neighbor can be beneficial for years to come.

Work on Self-Directed Learning

Boredom is bound to happen since summer has begun. However, don’t let the words “there’s nothing to do!” scare you as a parent. “Being bored is a learning opportunity, an opportunity to practice self-directed learning,” says Soloway. Depending on the age of your child, offer him some suggestions and then wait and let him make a decision on what he wants to do. Self-directed learning is a skill kids can learn, so you may need to help them with some self-discovery by asking questions and offering suggestions.

Search for Field Trips

Take your kids to the local museum and watch what interests them. What do they get excited about? What local park activity can your child participate in while he’s learning? “Many local museums offer free admission during the summer months, with great programming geared toward expanding children’s academic knowledge,” says Dr. Gueye. It always takes a bit longer when you cook with your child or when you discuss cost per unit at the grocery store. “Yet, parents play an integral role in combating summer learning loss and can dramatically help their children to get off to a strong start in the new school year,” says Dr. Gueye. So have fun in the sun as you make learning fun. v

Jan Udlock is a freelance writer and mom of five. She’s always looking for fun ways for her kids to learn over the summer.

Simple Math & Reading Tips

a pair of dice and have older kids multiply the two • Roll numbers while younger kids can add the numbers. • Use a timer for 30 minutes for reluctant readers. for free math worksheets online for whatever • Search grade your child is in. a recipe of cookies and see if your child can • Double do the math in her head. math problems with chalk on the sidewalk • Write in a hopscotch design. As your child hops to each square, have him complete the problem.

words with water and a paint brush on the • Write sidewalk and see if your child can read it before it evaporates.

your child measure the floor perimeter and • Have draw a floor plan of her room. 18 • July+August 2019 • Portland Parent Magazine

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When it comes time to sell your home, avoid making these mistakes 1. Unprofessional DIY remodeling

Binge watching your favorite home and garden show or untold hours of YouTube videos doesn’t really prepare you for remodeling or repairs of your home. Homebuyers will notice the unprofessional repairs and this could drag the value of your home down.

2. Upgrades without a permit

Some homework owners may forgo permits in order to save on taxes, keeping the luxurious upgrades off of their tax assessment. But doing any upgrade without a permit could make your house unsalable! Appraiser, home inspectors, and mortgage lenders often ask for the permits of your home renovations. Not having the permits on record can stop the sale in its tracks!

3. Converting the garage into living space

Turning your garage into a gym or mother-in-law suite can seem like a great upgrade that could increase your living space. But homebuyers value the garage. Most would rather have a place to park their car instead of a place to park their mother-in-law.

4. Doing too many upgrades

You may think that if making one or two improvements is good for the market value, making lots must be great. But just the opposite is true, because your home's value is tied to the value of the neighbors. Most buyers do not want to have a house that is already at the top of its potential value, since they are unlikely to see much of an increase in value. So if you put in $100,000 worth of upgrades don’t expect to get that much out of your home when you sell it, especially if it’s worth $250,000 or less.

5. Don’t over-customize

You may have always dreamed of having a kitchen completely devoted to Florida State, including Osceola, on every cabinet door. While there is nothing wrong with customizing your home, you do need to recognize that over-customization can lower the value of your home.

6. Personal collections

While we’re talking about customization, it’s fun to have an extensive collection of shot glasses from around the world or a clown collection that takes up half your den, but the homebuyer wants to envision him or herself in your house. So, if you’re a collector who is hoping to sell your home, make sure you clear out your collection before putting your house on the market. Or you may find that your favorite things might lower the home’s value.

7. Converting a bedroom into a home office

With more and more people working from home, setting up a home office in an unused bedroom seems like the perfect solution. But changing the bedroom into a dedicated office space by adding a built-in desk and built-in shelving units can be a costly mistake. Reducing the number of bedrooms in your home reduces its value and potentially keeps buyers from looking at your house if it has fewer bedrooms than they need.

8. Unusual paint colors

You don’t have to paint the entire house a boring beige to maintain its value. Paint it that electric green if you love it. But when it comes time to sell, take the time to neutralize your color palette. This bit of work will pay off in a faster sale.

9. Pet Smells

You probably don’t notice that Lassie and Fluffy have altered the odor of the living room but potential buyers will! Invest in professional cleaning of the carpets and upholstery. Otherwise, you might wonder why nobody is interested in your perfect home.

10. High-maintenance landscaping

While curb appeal is extremely important, some homeowners get carried away. They invest in landscaping that will require a great deal of maintenance. We want your potential buyers to see a beautiful home, not never-ending yard work. So use these tips to help your home sell faster and at a higher price. v 20 • July+August 2019 • Portland Parent Magazine

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How to Choose a Realtor So much of the world today depends on making the right connections in order to be successful and reach your goals. When you’re making an investment in property, which for most of us is the biggest investment of our lives, you need to be particularly conscious of making the right decision when it comes to choosing the professional who will be helping you with the transaction. Here are some of the most important points you need to consider.

STEP 1: WHY A REALTOR

First of all, not everyone licensed to sell real estate is a REALTOR. Only members of the National Association of Realtors can use that term. Realtors must undergo more extensive, regular training and education than non-realtors, as well as having to abide by a strict code of ethics. Realtors are also the only agents that are legally allowed to have full access to the MLS (Multiple Listing Service).

STEP 2: HOW TO CHOOSE A REALTOR

Since any realtor can sell most of the available properties in the area you're buying in, it's not really about the property, but more about the company and its agents. It's always best to work with someone living in the area where you're buying and who is experienced in the intricacies of the local market. A company with a good reputation is an obvious choice, so try to find testimonials from previous buyers. When first searching for a realtor, chemistry is very important, as is good communication, prompt response, and listening to your particular needs, as opposed to steering you to a particular development or property. Glossy pictures and flashy verbiage can help to get you in the mood to purchase, but don't be fooled by what you see and hear. A good camera angle may not reveal the big picture and a complicated description may not tell the whole story. A good realtor should be unbiased and able to explain things while allowing you room to listen to your inner voice and develop that vital comfortable gut feeling. The key to avoiding buyer's remorse is being able to see and understand options and alternatives so you can make a sound decision.

STEP 3: WHAT TO EXPECT

A good realtor, while striving to be a good guide, will ultimately have to submit to a buyer's personal choices and decisions. Thanks to the internet and email, you can establish a dialogue quite easily before you go to view properties. In order for your realtor to give you the best service, you need to be totally open and honest about your needs, wants, timelines and budget. Your realtor can then select the most suitable properties available, sending you detail sheets. When viewing properties with your realtor, you should be shown a good selection of properties in various neighborhoods that closely match your criteria. At no time should you ever feel pressured or uncomfortable, and a good realtor, having already determined your needs, will never push you beyond your limits. They should also have good connections to other businesses involved with a real estate transaction, such as a mortgage broker, home inspector, Title company, appraiser and General Contractor. Portland Parent Magazine • July+August 2019 • 21

Once you've decided to move forward, your realtor will be involved from start to finish and beyond, making sure the transaction goes as smoothly as possible.

STEP 4: AFTER COMPLETION

Finding a realtor is about long-term relationships. They should be happy to keep in regular contact with you and check how things are going. Most professionals want their clients to be happy and will strive to make them feel comfortable with their purchase. If you've been happy with your realtor, they should be the first person you turn to when you're ready to sell your property, or even to buy another, knowing that you should be able to expect the same professional service.

BUYING OR SELLING A HOME CAN BE A TREMENDOUS UNDERTAKING! It can be a tremendous undertaking when buying or selling a home. Of course with all the exhilaration is also some uneasiness, especially leading up to the transaction. If you're like most people, I bet you'll likely want some expert advice along the way— and you'll undoubtedly need a realtor looking out for your top interests. v

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MY FIRST BOOK OF COLOR

By H.A. Rey, ISBN-13: 9780547472805

R e se ar ch sh o ws that c hildren who parti ci pate i n h i gh -qu al i ty Introduce your infant to Curious George the interactive way! Young infants see in black and white, and as their pr e kin de rgarten pr ograms ar e be tte r pr e pare d fo r sch oo l and and brain develop, color gradually brightens their world. They can venture out with one of the most recognizde ve l o p l i fe l o ng soci al an d e mo ti on al ski leyes l s.

able storybook characters ever, learn the vocabulary words for everyday items, and then learn their color labels too.

ACTIVITY: This board book is great for reading to a child who is sitting in your lap. You can elevate the interace Early Le arn in g Co alitio n of the Eme r al d Coast's mi ssi on i s to tiveThexperience by opening the accordion pages and setting the book around the infant while he or she is doing su ppo rt th e su cce ss o f e ve ry chi l d and the i r fami l y thr ough tummy time. Set it up like a theater and the images will surround your infant. The pages in black and white show qu ality e arly e du catio n an d car e . contrast for young infants and when you flip the accordion book over, your infant will be surrounded by colors. Child Care Questions? We provide free resource and referral services to local families regarding childcare.

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With simple instructions and basic illustrations, Press Here will captivate a preschooler and keep them actively involved until the very last page. This book gives instructions in a friendly, conversational style while expanding your child’s brain development. They will learn to count to five, learn right from left, and turn off the lights, all by pressing Early Le ar ni ng Coal i ti on of the Eme r al d Coast the yellow dot! 113 0 N Egl i n P ar kway, S hal i mar , FL 32579 (8 5 0 ) 833-3627

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dots. Talk about what happens when you press the start button on the car or the on/off button on a toy that makes noise. When you talk about these actions, you are explaining cause and effect to your child. Create your own dot out of paper or felt and place it around your home or yard. Let your child create an adventure. Maybe when she presses the dot on the arm of the chair, the bus engine rumbles to life. Maybe when he presses the dot on the stuffed turtle’s tummy, the turtle tells him a story. The dot is only the beginning.

WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A TAIL LIKE THIS?

By Steve Jenkins and Robin Page, ISBN-13: 9780618997138

The perfect combination of education and suspense, this interactive collage book prompts the reader to play along in a guessing game. Open-ended questions encourage your child to guess the name of the animal body part displayed on the page and then try to figure out what that animal might be doing. Your preschooler will learn advanced vocabulary while they are having fun predicting the animal actions on each page.

ACTIVITY: For the emerging young artist, extend this book into an art activity. Open the book to any page, lay it flat on a table, and place a piece of paper next to one of the collage illustrations. Preschoolers can use chalk or crayons to extend the animal or create their own creature collage based on the tail or paws on the page. What would you do with a book like this? The possibilities are endless.

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BRIDGING THE GAP

Six Tips for Planning a Family Reunion By Pam Molnar

As the world gets smaller, extended families stretch across the country. A recent survey shows that only 37% of us live in the hometown where we grew up. The result is a loss of family bonds and traditions. Sadly, we don’t know our second cousins or can’t remember our Great-aunt Millie. We are strangers with a common ancestor. One way to combat the vanishing extended family is to host a family reunion. Bringing family together from across the country while balancing different schedules, tastes and opinions is no small task, but don’t let that stop you. Start your journey to a memorable family reunion with these six easy tips.

1. Start planning now. Putting together a family reunion

takes a lot of planning. According to Lydia Stucki, creator of FamilyReunion-Success.com, it is best to start planning two years in advance. While that may seem like a long time, remember that you are trying to gather several families with different needs and agendas. “The more advanced notice you can give family, the more likely they will be able to attend,” says Stucki. You will also need to establish a communication center. Stucki suggests creating a Facebook group so the extended family can start reconnecting and building excitement for the reunion.

2. Choose the type of gathering. Poll family members and ask what kind of event they would enjoy. For some families, a one-day picnic is enough. For other families, a weekend with multiple Continued on page 27

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Cut out this page. Then cut it down the middle. He takes his half, she takes hers. Keep it simple. Don’t keep score. Just enjoy life and each other— as often as you remember!

Let’s face it, most of us could use a little jump start now and then when it comes to relationships. That’s why we’ve included this section. Simple acts of kindness are a great way to say, “I care about you.” Date nights are great, but when life gets busy, sometimes all that’s necessary are little reminders!

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R E H y u care Sit on the couch with her or outside on a warm day and just talk. Try not to make sudden changes without discussing them with her first. Allow your wife to share her opinions without being defensive. Try not to argue—be sure to let go of the small stuff. Be sympathetic when she’s sick or has had a long day. Go out for a fun adventure— without the kids. Share the responsibilities around the house. Value and inspire her individuality.

Challenge yourself to complete all 10 ideas in each issue. Don’t just focus on the easy ones!

Express your love by choosing her over hobbies and buddies. Don’t refuse to say sorry or ask for forgiveness—don’t let the little issues turn into big problems—talk.

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Cut out this page. Then cut it down the middle. He takes his half, she takes hers. Keep it simple. Don’t keep score. Just enjoy life and each other— as often as you remember!

10 WAYS to sh w

M I H y u care Allow for quiet time. Just sitting next to each other is enough. Enjoy your time together. Do not be critical about your partner’s habits, especially in front of others. Brag to your mother about something he’s achieved recently. Encourage him to spend some time enjoying his favorite book or hobby. Look at him when he is talking. Give him undivided attention. Tell him you love him AND like spending time with him. Find meaningful ways to show him you need him.

Challenge yourself to complete all 10 ideas in each issue. Don’t just focus on the easy ones!

Give advice in a loving way—not in a nagging or belittling way. Try not to argue over money. Encourage him to spend time having fun with his children.

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activities works better for them. You might want to ask friends and co-workers about their reunion experiences. Let everyone brainstorm on your Facebook page, through emails and on the phone. While everyone is pumped with great ideas, this is the perfect time to start asking for help.

3. Pick a date. Most family reunions are held in the summer when the weather is warmer and school is out. However, you may want to plan your reunion around a special event like a 50th anniversary party. As the reunion planner, Stucki suggests finding a date that works for you and your immediate family first. “Identify two or three different dates that would work well for you and then give the others choices.” Choose a date far enough in advance so your family can take off from work and make their travel arrangements. Depending on the time of year, hotel rooms, banquet halls and caterers may be booked out several months to a year.

Most family reunions are held in the summer when the weather is warmer. 4. Location, location. Today’s family is scattered across

the country so you need to find a location that will accommodate the majority. The simplest idea is to hold the event in the family’s hometown. My family is from a small farming town in western Kentucky. This year’s reunion will take place at a site where the family has picnicked for generations. If the old homestead doesn’t work, you might want to find a spot that is closer to the majority of the current family or a centralized spot. Some families head to a vacation spot like Orlando or Lake Tahoe, but a large venue may distract from the point of the reunion.

5. Recruit volunteers. In order to have a successful family reunion, you need to do more than just show up. You will need a team of family members willing to make phone calls to find hotel deals, handle the food, choose entertainment, set up and clean up, and the many other behind-the-scenes details. Stucki explains that the way to find volunteers is to simply ask: “Give someone two or three choices of areas they could help or tasks that they could complete and let them decide which one they would most like to do.” Splitting the work among the family members will make it enjoyable for everyone. 6. Finances. Determine how much the reunion will cost. Include

venue rental, food, entertainment, reunion T-shirts, and all other costs associated with the reunion. Add a 10% cushion and divide by the number of families attending. Instead of laying out the deposit money yourself, ask everyone in the family to pay a portion of the deposit. It is up to you to decide if that deposit is refundable. Stucki suggests making a PayPal account instead of sending a check. She notes, “There are no transaction fees to send personal money and you can send payment reminders via PayPal as well.” Whether you plan a lavish vacation reunion or just an afternoon picnic, the goal of a family reunion is to reconnect and bridge the gap through fun, food and fellowship. v Portland Parent Magazine • July+August 2019 • 27

OUTSTANDING ADDITIONS TO YOUR FAMILY REUNION A family reunion is about having fun and sharing family traditions. Take a look at some additional ideas to make your reunion unforgettable. 1. Entertainment. Set up games like a three-legged race, croquet or a scavenger hunt. Ask everyone to send in a baby picture and guess who they are. Plan a golf outing or attend a church service together.

2. Family Directory. As part of the invitation, include a sheet asking for each family’s names, dates of birth and anniversaries as well as home addresses, phone numbers and email addresses. Create a family directory with the information that was provided.

3. Have something for everyone to take away. Order T-shirts with the family name and reunion date. Make the shirts the same color to show unity or order multiple colors for each branch of the family.

4. Family recipe book. Don’t lose those wonderful family recipes! Check out HeritageCookbook.

com. It allows multiple people from the family to input their recipes from their own computers by simply filling in the blanks.

5. Take a collection. Find a cause that means something to your family. You can honor a family member lost to cancer or support a relative who recently lost their home to a fire.

6. Make a DVD montage. Ask a family member to

volunteer to collect pictures, scan and put together with music. You don’t need to be a professional–Windows Live Movie Maker or Apple’s iPhoto are user-friendly programs.

7. Family History. Use websites like Ancestry.com or FamilySearch.org to search your family tree. Start with your common ancestors and trace backward. Make a pedigree chart and share with the rest of the family.

Pam Molnar is a freelance journalist and amateur genealogist. Between reunions, Pam’s family stays connected via social media.

CREATING WORK OUTSIDE OF THE BOX

By Pam Molnar

With today’s economy being what it is, teens are having a hard time finding work. Jobs that have traditionally been filled by teenage workers in our society are now being filled by under-employed adults and recent college graduates. If a teenager is without a job during their high school years, where will they get the money to buy a car, save for college, or even have a little spending money for a trip to the movie theater? Entrepreneurship is the answer. As a third-generation entrepreneur, I can tell you that starting and maintaining your own business is not easy, nor is it something for everyone. It takes hard work, self-motivation, and perseverance. The majority of teen businesses are service-oriented and many of the families in your neighborhood can benefit from those services. Take a look at some of these ideas—would any be a good fit for your teen?

Pet-sitting: Pet-sitting involves caring for someone’s pets while

they are on vacation or away for the day. A pet-sitter will be responsible for giving fresh food and water, walking dogs and cleaning out cat litter boxes. Pet-sitters need to be early risers and have the ability to get back and forth to the pet’s home 3 or 4 times each day. Although a pet-sitter does not spend the night, he is there to bring in the mail,

water plants or take the garbage to the curb.

Tutor: Teens can use their skills to tutor younger kids in a variety

of areas. If your teen plays an instrument, he can work with younger students to keep up their skills over the summer and improve their technique throughout the school year. Teens who play sports can share their talents with younger athletes who need to improve their throwing, hitting or dribbling techniques. And, of course, academic tutors are needed to help with math, reading, or ACT prep.

Memory Preserver: Busy families tend to collect hard drives

full of digital photos but have no plan or the time to preserve them. Teens can back up files, send out pics for printed photos and put them in albums. Families may also enjoy a video montage of special events like baptisms or their daughter’s basketball tournament. Memory-preserver services may also include scanning non-digital photos or converting VHS tapes to DVD.

Summer Nanny: Babysitters are needed for both working and

stay-at-home parents during the summer months. For parents who work out of the home, they need a Mother’s Helper to entertain the children. Working parents who leave the house during the day may need someone to walk or drive their child to the local pool or summer activity. Babysitting is not only for teenage girls. Mothers of boys often look for an older boy who can relate to their sons’ interests. Continued on page 31

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S’mores Bars YOU'LL NEED

• 20 graham crackers • ¼ cup granulated sugar • 12 Tablespoons unsalted butter, melted • ½ teaspoon salt • 2 cups semisweet chocolate chips

• 14 oz can sweetened condensed milk • 7 oz. Kraft Marshmallow Crème® • Kitchen torch • 8 x 8-inch pan • Tinfoil

DIRECTIONS

• In a food processor, pulse the graham crackers until fully crushed. Add sugar, melted butter, and salt. • Prepare the 8” x 8” pan using tinfoil. • Press crust mixture into the pan and bake for 10 minutes at 350°. Allow to cool completely. • In a small saucepan, combine chocolate chips and sweetened condensed milk. Heat on medium and stir until fully mixed. • Spread the chocolate mixture over the crust and allow to cool in the refrigerator for one hour. • Spread the Kraft Marshmallow Crème over the top of the cooled chocolate mixture. • Using a kitchen torch, lightly brown the top of the S’mores Bars. • Place back in the refrigerator to cool. • Cut just before serving.

Fish Pops YOU'LL NEED

• Lollipop sticks • Light blue candy melts • Marshmallows • Graham crackers

• Goldfish crackers • White sugar pearl sprinkles • Wax paper

DIRECTIONS

• Crush graham crackers until they look like sand and put in a shallow dish. This can be done by hand or in a food processor. • Melt candy melts according to the directions on the package. • Push a lollipop stick into each marshmallow. • Dip each marshmallow into the blue candy melt and then dip into the graham cracker crumbs. • Place on wax paper. • Add a goldfish cracker and “bubbles” to each candy pop before it dries.

White icing can be used for the bubbles if you cannot find pearl sprinkles.

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Cup of Worms YOU'LL NEED

• Plastic cups • Chocolate pudding mix • Milk • Oreo cookies • Gummy worms • Gallon Ziploc bag DIRECTIONS

• Prepare the chocolate pudding according to the directions on the box. • Fill each cup halfway with chocolate pudding. • Place Oreo cookies in a Ziploc bag. Allow your child to crush the cookies until they look like “dirt.” • Arrange a few gummy worms sticking out of the top of the pudding. • Place Oreo cookie dirt under and around the worms.

Allow your child to crush the cookies until they look like “dirt.”

Jello Oranges YOU'LL NEED

• 3 oz. boxes of Jello, a rainbow of colors • Oranges • Knox Gelatine envelopes • Hot water • Saucepan DIRECTIONS

• Cut oranges in half and remove all the fruit, leaving only the peel. We used 6 oranges, one for each color of the rainbow: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple. • Heat 1 cup of water in the saucepan until boiling. Add one envelope of Knox Gelatine and stir until completely dissolved. Add one 3 oz. package of Jello and stir completely. • Pour ½ mixture into each half of the orange. • Place in the refrigerator. I recommend putting it on a plate or cookie tray to catch stray Jello that may spill. • Repeat with all remaining colors. • Slice orange with a sharp knife to look like orange slices. • Refrigerate until it is time to serve.

For an adults-only party, hard alcohol can be added.

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Power Washer: After this long winter, the wooden structures

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in the neighborhood could use a cleanup. Power washers are simple to use after you have had proper instruction. Rent one at your local hardware center and offer to wash a neighbor’s deck for free. While he gets a clean deck, you will get a chance to perfect your skills and get a reference on your work. Pass out flyers to homes with wooden decks, fences and play sets.

Online Retailer: An eBay retailer is an awesome job for teens

as you can post, pack and ship at any time during the day. Teens can start by selling their own items, like books and gently used clothes, and then replenish their inventory with good deals found at thrift shops and garage sales. Craftier teens may enjoy selling their creations on Etsy. Some seller categories include jewelry, photography, art, and personalized items.

Yard Work: Yard work goes beyond just mowing the lawn.

Teens can extend their seasonal business to offer their services year round. Spring is the time to clean up flower beds and fertilize. Fall is the time for raking leaves, cutting back flowers and planting bulbs for spring. If you live in a northern climate, teens can extend their services to include snow shoveling. Customers with dogs may also need pet waste removed.

Odd Jobs: Odd jobs can mean a variety of things to different

customers, so it is best to be prepared and know your limitations. Make a list of the things you can do and hand it out to friends and neighbors. Odd jobs may include washing the dog, weeding the garden, painting, sweeping out the garage, or helping to serve dinner at a party. Doing odd jobs can be a good match for someone with a busy schedule as many of the jobs can be done in a few hours. v

MORE ONLINE JOBS FOR TEENS Looking to supplement your earnings with multiple streams of income? Consider increasing your bank account with jobs from these online companies:

FIVERR SLICE THE PIE MY SURVEY SWAGBUCKS Parents: Please read several reviews and search for scams before

allowing your teen to sign up for an online job. Never pay for membership to start working for an online business.

Pam Molnar is a freelance writer and mother of three teenagers. She is proud to see the entrepreneurial spirit has touched a fourth generation in their family. Portland Parent Magazine • July+August 2019 • 31

Candy Jar YOU'LL NEED

• Flower pot & saucer • Glass bowl • Ball knob • E600 glue

• Spray primer, red spray paint, silver spray paint & clear coat • Blue painter’s tape • M&Ms®

INSTRUCTIONS

• Spray primer on the flower pot, saucer, and ball knob. (We placed a nickel-sized circle of blue painter’s tape in the center of the saucer where the knob would attach. We wanted the knob to attach securely to the saucer itself, not just the paint.) • Using red spray paint, spray the pot and ball knob. • Using silver spray paint, spray the saucer. • Allow ample time to dry and then spray all painted items with clear coat. • Squeeze E600 glue onto the upside-down pot and attach the glass bowl. Attach ball knob to saucer using E600 glue as well. Make sure all pieces are thoroughly attached. • Fill your candy jar with M&Ms or your candy of choice.

This makes a great gift for friends or family members who are known to have candy at their house or desk for guests to enjoy!

Picket Fence Votive or Flower Pot YOU'LL NEED

• A candle jar • Floral stickers • Scrapbooking flowers

• Washi tape, paper ribbon, or fabric ribbon • Hot glue

INSTRUCTIONS

• Attach approximately 22 clothespins along a paint stick. Spray one side of clothespins, allow to dry. Turn them over and spray the other side and allow to dry. The remainder of the clothespins can remain natural colored. • Open two tuna cans and remove tuna. Open one chili can. Wash thoroughly and dry. • Place votive in the center of one tuna can and the 4 oz. can in the center of the other. • Plant a cute little flower in the 4 oz. can. • Place clothespins along the tuna cans to create the picket fence. We used white clothespins on the flower pot and natural clothespins for the votive. • Attach tags to the front and rear of the can.

You can use spray paint or acrylic paint. Use all white for the traditional “picket fence” look or experiment with your own color choices.

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Water Balloon Flip-Flops YOU'LL NEED

• Inexpensive flip-flops

• 300 water balloons

INSTRUCTIONS

• Place 3 water balloons in the same direction and tie them together with the fourth balloon. Continue with the fourth balloon, double knotting it onto the flip-flop strap. • Repeat until each flip-flop strap is covered. Balloons can easily be slid up and down the strap until the desired amount is achieved. • We used approximately 150 water balloons per flip-flop.

These are great conversation starters at any beach day!

Homemade Playdough YOU'LL NEED

• 1 Cup of flour • ½ Cup of salt • Food coloring or gel

• ½ Cup of water • Plastic or latex gloves • Zippered plastic bags

INSTRUCTIONS

• Mix flour and salt in a large bowl. Put on gloves if you do not want your hands to get messy or colored from food coloring. • Add water and mix thoroughly with your hands until a smooth dough is formed. • Add food coloring. We added from 5–25 drops or blobs of gel depending on the color and richness we desired. Add drops in small amounts. Thorough mixing is required to get a smooth look and feel. • Store in the refrigerator in zippered plastic bags. • Have a fun time playing with the dough as a family. It is okay for Mom and Dad to play too.

Tip: We highly recommend Wilton’s Gel Food Colors.

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Summer Fun, School Torture You’ve counted down the days till school has ended. Summer is here and you will spend a month having fun, going on trips, staying at home with family and friends. Either way, you are having fun before you start or return to middle school. Middle school is a big deal; you feel like you are so old and own the world. That’s partially true: you are older than you were when you were in grade school. It’s hard to let go of some of your friends who will attend a different middle school or will remain in grade school, but you will meet new people and make new friends. As a middle schooler, there is a lot of stress and how I get through is having friends and support. It is tough and you have more work than what you’re used to, but soon you’ll get it and you’ll know it’s not as hard as you thought. Even though we think we own the world and can handle anything at this age, it’s not that simple because we have more responsibilities than we used to have. We are still children who want to just run and play with

someone and sometimes we just want to freeze time to enjoy what we have as 11-12-year-olds. Then sometimes we want to grow up as fast as we can and just play on our phones or computers and be 16 so we can drive and have the freedom to go anywhere without our parents. But the truth is, sometimes we feel 11, 12 or 13, then other times we emotionally feel like we are 6, 7 or 8 and then still other times we feel like we are capable of being 16, 17 or 18 and ready to be free from adult rules. The tween years are confusing as we switch from feeling older and younger as we try to find ourselves. There is so much stress and pressure that we place on ourselves! But right now its not school; it’s July and we should think about how we’re going to spend the rest of our summer! You need to think about yourself and go to different places you haven’t been before. Or go hang out with your friends on the hot beach. The point is to have an awesome summer break and enjoy your time because you only have 1 and a half months left before you have to go back to school, which is boring. v

-Giselle & Gisele Middle schoolers

TEEN TALK

dvice from Helpful A Another! to One Teen

SUMMER BREAK

As summer vacation nears, most teens are elated. They are thrilled at the ideas of sleeping in, cool beach waters, and spontaneous road trips. However, for those who recently graduated, there is the anxious prospect of preparing for college. My friends and I have been preparing for our future lives by applying for jobs and scheduling work hours all throughout the week. Though the idea of adulthood is daunting at times, we are all aware of the big steps we’re taking. One of the biggest lessons we are learning from this is to set aside our desire for lazy days and force ourselves to find a balance between work and time with each other. It is proving to be a very rough transition, filled with enough anxiety and worry to make

any of us doubt the direction we’re going—but it is important for us to hang on. This is a moment in which we teenagers will truly learn more about ourselves, and we would like our parents to understand that we need even more support than in previous times. It is almost unbelievable that we will be on our own soon. But what I’ve learned through this experience is that it would be useful for parents to start teaching younger teens these lessons because there are so many components of adulthood that I didn’t know, such as paying taxes, leasing homes, and scheduling. These months will truly be some to remember as we embrace the next chapter of our lives and step forward into an entirely new adventure. v

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FUN GUIDE CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Making the Most of Life on the Coast! We live on a beautiful coast that has so much to offer, and we’re here to make sure you know what’s going on in your own backyard. Enjoy!

Bring the entire family for food, fun, and entertainment. Don’t forget to bring a blanket to the Fort and stake out your spot to watch the largest fireworks show in the region. The show starts at 10:05p.m. For information, visit www. thehistorictrust.org.

Star Spangled 4th of July Thurs, July 4 – West Linn

Head to Willamette Park for their Star Spangled 4th of July! Guests will enjoy the national anthem, patriotic speeches, live music, food, and fireworks. Don’t forget to bring chairs or a blanket! For information, visit www.events12.com.

Waterfront Blues Festival

Thurs, July 4–Sun, July 7 – Portland

Seasonal Middle of Millen Drive Parade Thurs, July 4 – Tigard (4:00p.m.)

Organized by residents and enjoyed by all, the Middle of Millen Drive Parade is the perfect way to kick off your 4th of July. Starting at Tigard High School, this parade is sure to dazzle, enchant, and bring joy to all in attendance! For more information, visit www.tigard-or.gov.

Tigard Fireworks

Thurs, July 4 – Tigard (9:30p.m.) Watch a spectacular fireworks show from Cook Park light up the 4th of July night sky! Bring the family and enjoy the holiday. For more information, visit www.tigard-or.gov.

Fourth of July at the Fort

Thurs, July 4 – Vancouver (10:00p.m.) End your Independence Day with a bang at the 56th annual Vancouver Fireworks Spectacular!

Celebrate Independence Day all weekend long at the Waterfront Blues Festival. This festival is the largest celebration of blues, soul, funk, and rhythm and blues west of the Mississippi. Expect a long weekend filled with amazing performances across four stages, food, vendors, river boat cruises, and more! For more information, visit www.waterfrontbluesfest.com.

4th of July Spectacular Thurs, July 4 – Portland

Bring in the 4th at Oaks Amusement Park, one of America’s longest continually operating amusement parks. Gates open at 10:00a.m., and rides open from noon until midnight; there will be live entertainment and a fireworks show at dusk. For information, visit www.oakspark.com.

The Arts Oregon Music Festival

Fri, July 5–Sun, July 14 – Portland Get ready for the best of the best in classical music at the Oregon Music Festival. This

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festival is full of amazing and talented artists playing music written by the world’s greatest composers. For more information, visit www. oregonmusicfest.org.

Coup de Foudre

Fri, July 5–Sun, July 7 – Portland Coup de Foudre is a story about two people, old luggage, cowboy hats, uncooperative objects, rubber chickens, misunderstandings, and tea parties in the rain. In a silent-movie world that is both fantasy and reality, a clown and a ballerina open a suitcase full of dreams and learn what happens when two misfits find unexpected love. For tickets and more information, visit www.cohoproductions.org.

Shakespeare in the Park

Fri, July 5–Sun, Aug 25 – Portland At different parks throughout Portland through the months of July and August, attendees of the Original Practice Shakespeare Festival can watch 17 different plays. Just pick your favorite park and enjoy outdoor theatre at its finest! For locations, times, and information, visit www.opsfest.org.

Harefest 9

Fri, July 12–Sat, July 13 – Canby Hear some of the best tribute bands play everyone’s favorite tunes at this year’s Harefest! With 20 bands playing songs by artists such as Tom Petty, Van Halen, Heart, Bon Jovi, Led Zeppelin, and more, it is sure to be an unforgettable evening. This event is for ages 21 and up only, and camping options are available. For tickets and information, visit www.harefest.com.

Northwest String Summit

Thurs, July 18–Sun, July 21 – North Plains This Americana and Bluegrass music festival features 48 talented bands on 5 stages with

workshops and late-night sessions at Horning’s Hideout in North Plaines. It is sure to be a memorable weekend with amazing music and great times! Children ages 10 and under are free, and camping options are available. For information, visit www.stringsummit.com.

’70s, and ’80s will have you cheering and dancing in the aisles! See what millions of women worldwide have been laughing about! For information, visit www.menopausethemusical.com.

SW5K – Outdoor Sunday Evening 5K Sun, July 14 – Beaverton

Cathedral Park Jazz Festival

Make your way to this beautiful suburban setting for a 5K and 1-mile course. After the course, enjoy post-race festivities such as an award presentation, free barbecue dinner, music, and ice cream! For more information, visit www.runguides.com.

Fri, July 19–Sun, July 21 – Portland Now in its 39th year, the Cathedral Park Jazz Festival is the longest-running jazz & blues festival west of the Mississippi. The festival features the region’s best local jazz and blues musicians and is a great way to spend the day on the Willamette River. For information, visit www.jazzoregon.com/festival.

5K Fun Run Series – Pier Park Sun, July 14 – Portland

Run for the fun of it with Portland Parks and Recreation’s family-friendly 5K. Participants will also enjoy a children’s fun run, raffle prizes, music, face painting, crafts, vendors, and more! For more information, visit www. runguides.com.

15th Annual Art in the Dark

Fri, July 26–Sun, Aug 4 – West Linn (7:30p.m.) Under the trees at Mary S. Young Park, watch as A-WOL transforms the park into a snowy scene with a fantastical, illuminated, full-length dance production. Last year’s show sold out, so it is recommended to purchase tickets early. For more information, visit www.awoldance.org.

Petty Fever

Wed, Aug 7 – Tigard (5:00p.m.) Join Tigard Parks and Rec and Petty Fever for an amazing and memorable tribute to Tom Petty. Be prepared to hear some of your favorite hits, such as “Free Falling,” “Breakdown,” “American Girl,” and “I Won’t Back Down.” This will be a night you won’t want to miss! For information, visit www.tigard-or.gov.

Menopause the Musical Sat, Aug 10 – Portland

Four women at a lingerie sale have nothing in common but a black lace bra and memory loss, hot flashes, night sweats, and more. This hilarious musical parody set to classic tunes from the ’60s,

Portland. Each race covers a different, challenging course, ranging from 4-7 miles. The series will benefit the Forest Park Conservancy. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

Portland Trail Series - Summer Race #2 Johnny Limbo and the Lugnuts Wed, Aug 21 – Tigard (5:00p.m.)

Join Tigard Parks and Rec and Jonny Limbo and the Lugnuts for an evening of fun, music, and dancing. Their show is an incredible recap of the golden era of rock and roll as they play tribute to legendary artists Elvis Presley, Chuck Berry, Buddy Holly, the Beatles, and the Beach Boys. For information, visit www.tigard-or.gov.

Runs, Walks & More Portland Trail Series - Summer Race #1 Wed, July 10 – Portland

The Portland Trail Series is a wonderful series of trail races held in the scenic Forest Park in

Wed, July 17 – Portland

The Portland Trail Series is a wonderful series of trail races held in the scenic Forest Park in Portland. Each race covers a different, challenging course, ranging from 4-7 miles. The series will benefit the Forest Park Conservancy. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

Ladybug Run for CDH Awareness Sat, July 20 – Tigard

This run includes 5K and 10K individual events and a 10K 2-person relay. The purpose of this run is to promote awareness of Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia (CDH). All race entry fees and product sales from this event will go directly to help children and families whose lives have been impacted by this birth defect. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

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kids' dash as well). The purpose of this event is to raise awareness of Prader-Willi Syndrome. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

Aunty Deva 5K Aloha Fun Run Sun, July 28 – Vancouver

The Aunty Deva 5K Aloha Fun Run is a great time along the beautiful Columbia River. Runners will receive a free T-shirt and Kona beer at the end of the race. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

Portland Trail Series - Summer Race #4 Wed, July 31 – Portland

Bubble Run

Sat, July 20 – Portland Participants will run, walk, dance, and play across 3 miles of absolute fun in white T-shirts! Waves will start every 3-5 minutes—at each kilometer, participants will run through the foam bogs where there will be enough colored foam to cover you from head to toe! For information or to register, visit www.runguides.com.

Portland Trail Series - Summer Race #3 Wed, July 24 – Portland

One Small Step

Sat, July 27 – Hillsboro This annual 5K is free to all participants (who can choose to walk or run, and there will be a

Includes a wonderful series of trail races held in the scenic Forest Park in Portland. Each race covers a different, challenging course, ranging from 4-7 miles. This event benefit the Forest Park Conservancy. For information, visit www. runguides.com.

Dirty Dash Oregon Sat, Aug 3 – Albany

Dirty Dash Oregon proves that everyone can play dirty! This filthy 5K empowers couch potatoes and athletes alike to put on their running shoes. For more information, visit www.runguides.com.

5K Fun Run Series – Laurelhurst Park Sun, Aug 4 – Portland

Run for the fun of it with Portland Parks and Recreation’s family-friendly 5K! Participants will also enjoy a children’s fun run, raffle prizes, music, face painting, crafts, vendors, and more! For more information, visit www. runguides.com.

Portland Trail Series - Summer Race #5 Wed, Aug 7 – Portland

The Portland Trail Series is a wonderful series of trail races held in the scenic Forest Park in

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Portland. Each race covers a different, challenging course, ranging from 4-7 miles. The series will benefit the Forest Park Conservancy. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

ORRC Garlic Festival 10K and 5K Sat, Aug 10 – North Plains

Run into some smelly fun with the whole family! The Garlic Festival has a parade, live music, and garlic-themed food & craft vendors. Participants can choose between a half-marathon, 10K, and 5K. Experience the rural beauty of the North Plains as you make your way down the quiet farm roads. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

Spartan Race Portland Sat, Aug 10 – Washougal

This course is a course like no other! Participants can expect a rocky single track, ridge running, rolling hills, steep motocross inclines, and descents. The terrain and scenery at this Spartan Race is unmatched! For more information or to register, visit www.runguides. com.

Post Canyon 50K

Sat, Aug 10 – Hood River The course for the Post Canyon 50K has a beauty that is unmatched and unparalleled. Taking place on county forestry land in the beautiful Post Canyon area, participants will venture up and down large hills and take in truly amazing sights and sounds. For more information, visit www.postcanyon50k.com.

Sean’s Run for ARROAutism Sat, Aug 17 – Portland

The Portland Sean’s Run for ARROAutism is a fundraising run/walk to benefit Autism Research and Resources of Oregon (ARROAutism). Bring the whole family, as there will also be a kids’

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Roses on the River

Sat, Aug 17 – Portland Roses on the River is a flat and fun 5K run around the Portland waterfront. All who participate will receive a complimentary ticket to the NWSL champion Portland Thorns FC regular season finale game! For more information or to register, visit www.runguides.com.

Sounds Fun Portland Craft Beer Festival

Thurs, July 4–Sun, July 7 – Portland This festival is celebrating their 5th year with the broadest selection of local beers, ciders, and wine from Portland breweries. This outdoor party at the Fields Neighborhood Park is one you won’t want to miss! For information, visit www.portlandcraftbeerfestival.com.

Gnar Gnar

Sun, Aug 18 – Mount Hood

Willamette Week’s annual Best of Portland Block Party is back! Guests can enjoy goat yoga, delicious food and drinks, and more! All ages are welcome, and proceeds benefit Girls on the Run of Portland Metro. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Beads, beads, and more beads! Shop at exhibitors of bead-making supplies and millions of exotic beads from around the world at the Oregon Convention Center. For tickets and more information, visit www.events12.com.

Portland Rose Cup Races

Sat, Aug 24–Sun, Aug 25 – Multnomah County

Wed, Aug 28 – Portland

Wed, July 10 – Portland (5:00p.m.)

Fri, July 12–Sun, July 14 – Portland

Kids’ Obstacle Challenge

Portland Trail Series - Fall Race #1

Best of Portland Block Party

Bead Fair

The Gnar Gnar is a breathtaking 6-mile race that will take you up to the top of Mt. Hood Skibowl. It is a very spectator and family-friendly event as well, as your fans will be able to watch you ascending and descending the mountain. For information, visit www.runguides.com.

The Subaru Kids’ Obstacle Challenge is an adventure and obstacle-course race for children aged 5-16. Participants will run 1.5-2 miles while conquering over 15 challenging and fun obstacles with their kids. Join in on the largest touring adventure and obstacle-course event series for kids in the country! Parents run for free. For more information, visit www. runguides.com.

tainment, workshops, a costume contest, and a Saturday cabaret at University Place Hotel for those aged 14 and up. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Fri, July 12–Sun, July 14 – Portland Watch as race cars zoom past on a two-mile course at the Portland Rose Cup Races at Portland International Raceway. Friday features practice and qualifying races, with final races Sunday afternoon. For more information, visit www.rosecup.com.

Portland Picnic Wine Tasting Festival

Lavender Daze

Sat, July 6–Sun, July 7 – Hood River (10:00a.m.) A fantastic festival with live music, crafts, plant sales, food vendors, and local wine. This event is free, and beach chairs and blankets are welcome. For information, visit www.events12.com.

GearCon

Sat, July 6–Sun, July 7 – Portland Gear up for GearCon! This steampunk convention includes panel discussions, evening enter-

Sat, July 13 – Portland (11:00a.m.)

Your favorite summer event is back at Westmoreland Park with more wine, more fun, and more good food. Portland Picnic Wine Tasting Festival has over 100 wines to taste, beer, food vendors, live music, and family activities. Bring a blanket or chair and be prepared for a fun-filled day! Admission is free. For more information, visit www.portlandpicnic.com.

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and wine garden on N. Mississippi Avenue. This event is free to the public. For information, visit www.events12.com.

Picklefest

Sat, July 13 – Portland (3:00p.m.) A ticket to Picklefest includes live music, four beer tickets, and a baseball game between the Portland Pickles and the Kelowna Falcons at Walker Stadium in Lents Park. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Robin Hood Festival

Fri, July 19–Sat, July 20 – Sherwood

Bastille Day Festival

Sat, July 13 – Portland (12:00p.m.) Get ready for the Bastille Day Festival and enjoy amazing French food, wine, music, street performers, a costume contest, a waiters’ race, and a marketplace at Jamison Square Park. Admission is free. For more information, visit www.afportland.org.

The Big Float

Sat, July 13 – Portland Jump in the Willamette River with a lifejacket and an inner tube for the Big Float downstream to a beach party with a music barge, food carts, and a beer garden. It’s sure to be a day filled with fun! For more information, visit www.thebigfloat.com.

Mississippi Street Fair Sat, July 13 – Portland

The Mississippi Street Fair offers 200 local vendors and craft booths, five stages of entertainment, a kids’ corner, food carts, and a beer

The Robin Hood Festival is an event like no other with medieval reenactments, a knighting ceremony, Maid Marian and Robin Hood, archery, castle building, 100 craft and food vendors, a beer and wine garden, a kids’ area, and a parade. The event is free. For more information, visit www.robinhoodfestival.org.

Merfest

Sat, July 20 – Portland Meet the Oregon mermaids at the Oregon Northwest Merfest at Director Park. This event is free to the public and includes crafts, face painting, stories, vendors, and more! For more information, visit www.events12.com.

PDX Pop Now! Concert

Sat, July 20–Sun, July 21 – Portland PDX Pop Now! is an all-ages concert by 27 up-and-coming Portland bands with a street fair and food carts. This event is free. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Portland Sunday Parkways Sun, July 21 – Portland

Enjoy the day and walk, bike, or roller-skate on 6.4 miles of streets during the Outer Northeast Portland Sunday Parkways. Most cars are

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banned from the streets, allowing plenty of room for these activities. Nearby parks will also be offering live entertainment and music. This event is free. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Oregon Brewers Festival

Wed, July 24–Sat, July 27 – Portland Head to Tom McCall Waterfront Park for the Oregon Brewers Festival. Try 80 different craft beers, ciders, and wine; eat delicious pub food; and listen to live music. Children can enjoy a soda garden and must be accompanied by an adult. For more information, visit www.oregonbrewfest.com.

Top Down: Rooftop Cinema

Thurs, July 25–Sun, July 28 – Portland See films on the rooftop of Hotel Deluxe during Top Down: Rooftop Cinema. Enjoy local bands at 8:00p.m., cocktails, beer, barbecue, and films at dusk. Since seating is limited, guests may bring a chair, pillow, or blanket, but pets and outside food and drink are not allowed. For more information, visit www. nwfilm.org.

Washington County Fair

Thurs, July 25–Sun, July 28 – Hillsboro Get ready for the County Fair and enjoy carnival rides, farm animals, food booths, a bar, racing pigs, motorsport shows, and live entertainment. Admission is free. For more information, visit www.bigfairfun.com.

Portlandia Mermaid Parade

Sat, July 27 – Portland (12:00p.m.) Wear a costume that celebrates ocean mythology for a family-friendly parade. It starts with a noon ceremony at Japanese American Historical Plaza and heads south at 1:00p.m. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Fremont Fest

Sat, Aug 3 – Portland Fremont Street is closed from 42nd to 50th for the amazing Fremont Fest! This festival includes a 10:00a.m. parade of pets, live music, a kids’ zone, and over 100 vendors. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Evenings at the Zoo

Third Tuesday of each month – Portland (5:00p.m.) The Oregon Zoo is now hosting Twilight Tuesdays where, on certain Tuesdays, admission to the Zoo is only $5 after 4:00p.m. Guests will enjoy live music, games, family activities, food carts, beverages, and more. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Alberta Street Fair

Sat, Aug 10 – Portland Grab the family and head to N.E. Alberta Street for the Alberta Street Fair. Enjoy a 11:00a.m. kids' parade, a kids’ corner, 2 beer gardens, and 3 stages of entertainment. Admission is free. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Honeybee Hikes

Every Wednesday – Portland (10:00a.m.) Leach Botanical Garden is hosting Honeybee Hikes! This activity is geared toward children aged 2-5, accompanied by an adult. You will get the chance to look for wildlife, listen to the wind and the creek, touch a thimble-berry leaf, water the Children's Discovery Garden, and maybe even eat a raspberry right off the vine! The guides will then read a story and help children craft something fun. Each week is different with seasonal themes. For more information, visit www.leachgarden.org.

Portland Metro Reptile Expo Sat, Aug 10 – Portland

Frogs, snakes, and geckos, oh my! Head to the Holiday Inn on Columbia Boulevard for an amazing reptile show. Enjoy reptiles, educational tables, vendors, and more. For more information, visit www.events12.com.

Vancouver Wine and Jazz Festival Fri, Aug 23–Sun, Aug 25 – Vancouver

The Vancouver Wine and Jazz Festival is the perfect place to drink wine, listen to jazz, and shop some incredible arts and crafts. For information, visit www.vancouverwinejazz.com.

Music on Main

Every Wednesday – Portland (5:00p.m.) On Wednesday evenings, take advantage of the lovely summer weather with the 14th annual Music on Main outdoor summer concert series in downtown Portland. The concerts feature popular local and regional musicians playing a diverse collection of music. For more information, visit www.portland5.com.

Oregon State Fair

Fri, Aug 23–Mon, Sept 2 – Salem Bring in Labor Day Weekend at the Oregon State Fair in Salem. Check out the farm animals, craft displays, fair food, local beer and wine, carnival rides, and more! For tickets and more information, visit www.events12.com.

Pop Up in the Park!

Every Wednesday in July – Tigard Join Tigard Parks and Rec in celebrating National Parks and Recreation month. Get ready to play outside with various sports, games, crafts, and free ice cream! For locations and more information, visit www.tigard-or.gov.

Reoccurring Local Micah & Me

First Monday of each month – Portland (10:00a.m.)

Portland Art Museum

Every Friday – Portland (5:00p.m.) Every Friday evening, the Portland Art Museum is offering a different museum experience for only $5 after 5:00p.m. This experience will be much more relaxed, more interactive, and a more social experience. You can expect to see a pop-up pub, unique tours and games, photo booths, art guides, and more. For more information, visit www.portlandartmuseum.org.

Visit Beanstalk, a children’s consignment store, every first Monday for an in-house dance party and music show for kids. Micah & Me connect with youngsters of all ages while playing live fun-filled music on the guitar and ukulele. For information, visit www.micahandmerocks.com.

Storytimes in Milwaukie

Every Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday – Milwaukie (10:30a.m.) Head to the library to enjoy story time with your kids! Every Monday at 10:30a.m., there will be story time for toddlers aged 1-3. On Tuesdays and Wednesdays at 10:30a.m., story time will be for children aged 3-5. For more information, visit www.milwaukieoregon.gov.

Noon Tunes Summer Concert Series

Dragon Theater Puppet Show

Every Friday – Portland (6:30p.m.) The Dragon Theater will have a free puppet show with paid admission to PlayDate PDX. These shows are fun for all ages and change weekly. For information, visit www.playdatepdx.com.

Flicks on the Bricks

Five Fridays in July and August – Portland (7:00p.m.)

Every Tuesday – Portland (12:00p.m.)

The Noon Tunes Summer Concert Series is back in its 29th year. Every Tuesday in July and August from noon until 1:00p.m., enjoy live music from some of Portland’s best regional and local musical talent. For a line-up and more information, visit www.thesquarepdx.org.

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On five Friday evenings in July and August, the Square will be transformed into Portland’s largest outdoor movie theater for the entire community to enjoy. The movie series will kick off on Friday, July 26 and continue through August 23 on five select Friday nights. Premovie music begins at 7:00p.m., with the movie following at dusk. Admission is free, and

attendees are encouraged to bring low-back chairs, pillows, cushions, or bean bags to truly make the Square their living room. For more information, visit www.thesquarepdx.org.

Movies in the Park

Every weekend – Tigard On select Fridays and Saturdays at different area parks, visitors can sit back, relax, and enjoy a movie in the park. Make sure to get there early for fun and games with Tigard Parks and Rec. All movies start at dusk, and it is recommended to bring blankets, lawn chairs, flashlights, and your favorite people. For more information, such as show times and locations, visit www.tigard-or.gov.

Why Volunteer? Part of being a great volunteer is loving what you’re doing. Find something that you’re passionate about or something that inspires you, and then find a need in your community. There are dozens of reasons why you should volunteer - you just need to find the one that feels right.

20 GREAT REASONS TO VOLUNTEER 1. Help others 2. Make a difference 3. Find purpose 4. Enjoy a meaningful conversation 5. Connect with your community 6. Feel involved 7. Contribute to a cause that you care about 8. Use your skills in a productive way 9. Develop new skills 10. Meet new people 11. Explore new areas of interest 12. Meet good people 13. Impress your mom 14. Impress yourself 15. Expand your horizons 16. Get out of the house 17. Make new friends 18. Strengthen your resume 19. Feel better about yourself 20. [ Your favorite reason ] For more information about volunteering, visit VolunteerMatch at https://www.volunteermatch.org/

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