McVeighing In Uber Nice

By Sean McVeigh

New York has made me hard. This applies broadly to life but also very specifically to the taxi industry. I have known nothing else but the New York Uber driver (or, if you prefer, the endangered species: yellow cab driver) and their stoic and aloof ways. I want to be clear—this is not meant to be a slight. No one is clamoring for chattier taxi drivers. Outside of New York, a lot changes. People, in general, are nicer. But when it comes to the taxis, there is a certain coldness that is not only expected, but appreciated, regardless of where you are. Maybe I am a snob, a giant jerk, but when I get into an Uber, I have certain expectations. Chief among them: silence. Usually that is not hard to come by. Around here, there is an unwritten rule, a mutual agreement. You exchange meaningless pleasantries and then there is silence until you come to your destination. Upon arrival, meaningless pleasantries are re-exchanged, and you both go on your merry way. Outside of New York, that is not the case. The case seems to be quite the opposite. It is as if you are expected to have a conversation. Not just a quick “get to know you,” but a full blown colloguy for the entire ride. On a recent trip, having fallen prey to this on some previous occasions, I was prepared. I was going to beat the system. It was an early morning after a late night and it is fair to say that I was not running at 100%. The last thing I wanted was to have the same conversation that I have had hundreds of times before. The way I saw it, there were two important steps that needed to be taken if I was going to attempt the impossible. Step one: headphones were in. There wasn’t even anything playing but I needed to not only sound like I didn’t want to chit chat, I needed to look it. I even went so far as to do the old “pull one out when I am getting in and pretend like that is the only way I can hear them.” I wanted the message to be that once that headphone was back in, our conversation was over. Step two: My head was buried in my phone. I don’t care how beautiful the scenery was around me, and I will never know if it was or not, because I wanted a quiet ride and I was fully committed. Even with the necessary precautions being taken, it was a failure. I don’t know how they do it to be honest with you. They should host a late-night show because these guys have questions locked and loaded ready to drag your life story out of you whether you like it or not. You respond with short answers, filled with as much substance as a bag of chips. You’re not mean, but you are certainly not reciprocating the same level of enthusiasm that they are. Nevertheless, they keep at it. Maybe I am the bad guy here, but this is the way I have lived my life up until now and you can’t change me! Right?

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