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Volume 6, Number 8
DEPARTMENTS 3 From the Publisher 7 Parent With Purpose Character Development In Your Children
12 ON THE COVER Evangelist Franklin Graham shares about his upcoming event in Birmingham, Ala. and reflects on how God called him, his father Billy, and his son Will to preach the Gospel. See page 12.
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10 Teachable Moment What God Is Not
14 Hassle Free Zone Tips to Keep You and Your Puppy Happy 16 Kid’s Korner Use the Summer Break to Help Your Child Develop
17 Mission Makers Take the Time and Effort to Simply Be Kind
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Nestled in the rolling hills of southern Middle Tennessee is a beauty of nature that many outdoor enthusiasts look forward to exploring each summer, and for the few brave- winter also. This natural gem is the Buffalo River. For many this is just outside their backyards. The Buffalo River is designated as a State Scenic River and is considered to be one of the cleanest and most scenic rivers in Tennessee by those who float this river with canoes, kayaks or tubes. The Buffalo River is 125 miles long with the headwaters in Northern Lawrence county traversing through Lewis, Wayne and Perry counties The most scenic areas are along the upper portions of the river in Lewis and Wayne county which is where a majority of the Canoe outfitters are located. Each spring and summer thousands flock to this area to fish, camp and canoe the clear cool water of this beautiful river. Considered a Class 1 and 2 river which is the lowest rating of swift and white water rafting making this the ideal beginners river. The upper section is known for it faster current with slower fishing and swimming holes. As you float down this upper section be on the lookout for the multitudes of wildlife such as deer, turtles, blue heron, and raccoons. Those camping along the river will more than likely hear the natural choir of coyotes and owls calling in the night with the occasional cow from the neighboring farms. In the section of the river around the Lewis- Wayne county line be on the lookout for the several eagles both Bald Eagles and Golden Eagles which make their home along the cliffs which the river runs by. These majestic birds live and feed along the Buffalo River with its teeming wildlife and fish population. For those who want to fish, the Buffalo River is known by the locals as a haven for small mouth and largemouth bass, perch, brim, catfish and an occa-
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sional trout. Several years ago one of the tributaries of the Upper Buffalo was stocked with trout. The water ultimately proved too warm for a good survival but in the upper portions of the river especially in the Lewis County area of the river there will be an occasional fisherman who is lucky enough to catch one. The upper section of the Buffalo is outfitted by Buffalo Canoeing and Campground. They are the premiere facility for family, church groups and youth organizations. One of the reasons that this facility is considered by families and churches is not only the beauty and intimacy of the river but also the principles operated by the canoe outfitter owners. They practice the “Leave No Tracks” behind principles and in their facilities maintain a No Alcohol policy in the campground, and because of this are used by families and churches throughout the region and 4 states. Family and church groups come to their facility for a safe family oriented environment rather than the party environment. As a canoe outfitter, Byron Hobbs, owner of Buffalo Canoeing & Campground, states that “my goal is to ensure families, youth and church groups get to experience the beauty that I am able to live every day. I want a facility where kids can be kids, families can kick back and enjoy their time in nature away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. This area is a place to rejoice in the beauty of God’s creation less than 2 hours away from your backyard.” For more information on canoeing, kayaking and camping for families, individuals or groups Buffalo Canoeing & Campground can be found at 702 Gaither Hinson Rd, Hohenwald, TN 38464, 931-796-2211, or on the web at www.buffalocanoeingofhohenwald.com or www.buffalocanoeing.com — Byron Hobbs
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The Content of Our Character In arguably, one of the most influential speeches of the 20th century, Martin Luther King Jr. said the following, “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”
fied to lead others if he fails to lead his own house.” • “Courage is not the absence of fear but the willingness to do one’s duty in the face of fear.” • “A man unwilling to deny himself is a slave to the world and not a leader of it.”
We are watching our culture self-destruct. In large part because of the decline in American character which has had, and continues to have, multiple effects and consequences. The loss of role models that love truth, beauty and goodness, the loss of heroes replaced by the “anti-heroes”. Our children desperately need to read, see, hear and rediscover the multitudinous examples of men and women that God in His providence, and throughout history, has set before us giving us a “cloud of witnesses” who bear witness to the benefits of raising children with good and godly character.
We must replace self-centered, self-obsession with unselfish service to others. We must replace the existing sense of (covetous) entitlement with a sense of obligation to “do your duty” toward God and our fellow humans. We must replace a “win-at-all-costs” (Darwinian) mindset with lives of sacrifice and grace in loss. We must replace the me-centered, individualistic atomism so evident in our culture, by restoring a sense of obligation and duty toward others, especially those in need. We must replace the blame-shifting, excuse-making whininess of immaturity, with mature, sober, responsible men and women who can deal with success and failure. These are the kind of things that will hold a people together and give them a future. These are the means by which a culture and society propagates itself with future hope, peace and prosperity.
Dr. King was right, it is the “content of (our) character” that matters most. It is not our prosperity or paucity, not our technology or tradition, and not the pursuit of happiness that matters most. It is the generational sowing of the habits of mind and life that produce harvest of good and godly character that is central for us. Let me ask you, who do think uttered the following statements and what do you think of a person who actually lived by these statements? • “Get correct views of life, and learn to see the world in it’s true light. It will enable you to live pleasantly, to do good, and, when summoned away, to leave without regret.” • There is true glory and true honor; the glory of duty done – the honor of the integrity principle.” • “Our greatest influence will be exercised in the home. A man is not quali-
By the way, the above quotes are all from the same man but whose sentiments are certainly shared by and attested to by many, many men and women of character throughout the centuries. His name: Robert Edward Lee. Not familiar with him? You should be and so should your children. You can get more information about him and other good and godly role models at www. withleeinvirginia.com. — Perry Coghlan is a husband for over 42 years, father to six, grandfather to 18, and with his wife Patsy, co-founder of Spring Hill Academy, a Christian and Classical school, in Spring Hill, TN.
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If you are the father of a teenage girl, you have been entrusted with a great responsibility. It can be daunting. It’s not unusual to feel inadequate for the task. You may feel you have nothing to offer your little girl turned young woman. In a dad’s eyes, she will always be a little girl. The idea that she will grow and become a young women is incomprehensible. We hold on to that image of our daughter in a beautiful new dress twirling for daddy’s approval. Our opinion mattered. We hugged and wrestled with her, building a relationship that engendered trust and a feeling of safety. Then something happens beyond our control. Adolescence brings changes to our little girl that make sustaining the relationship downright awkward. She is becoming a young woman both inside and out. We don’t know exactly how to touch them without making them uncomfortable. Often, we withdraw at this formative time in a young woman’s life and defer to their mother’s wisdom. After all, she has an understanding of what our little girl is going through that, as a father, we can’t match. We wonder why so many young Christian women find themselves in failing relationships. They know God’s plan for marriage and raising a family but they find themselves in compromising situations. These often lead to teenage pregnancy, increased school attrition rate, and a higher prevalence of depression. There is a connection between a father’s feeling of inadequacy and a teenage daughter’s need to find love and acceptance. They need the touch of a father. The safety they became accustomed to is vital at this stage. Dads assume they
know this is still there for them, but daughters often assume it is no longer available because Dad has withdraw. In the space of a few months to a year, we go from wrestling and hugging each other with abandon to uncomfortable side hugs and strained communication. She questions what has changed and even looks at her body as unacceptable in her father’s eyes. She looks for acceptance else where and often finds it. Fathers have to take the lead in this situation. Her opinion of self is based highly on her perception of your approval. Her ability to trust, love, and set strong, healthy relationship patterns is based on her relationship with you. It’s equally awkward to your daughter and she may reject you for a time, but pursue her. Show her she is worth fighting for. Make a point to hug her each day. Write her a note each week. Take her on a date monthly. It will establish a foundation for the love of her heavenly Father to grow and take her to places she wouldn’t dare dream. All from the touch of a loving father. — Toby J. Swager is a husband, father, author of two books, and pastor. He currently serves at Living To Go Church in Goodlettsville. Log on to his website for more information, www.walkingwithswager.com.
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Be Bold Enough to Have Courage All great golfers seem to have a defining shot. There have been so many through the years. One of my favorites, however, was Phil Mickelson's second shot from the pine straw of the 13th hole during the final round of the 2010 Masters. Mickelson rocketed a ball between two close-together trees, over the creek and softly onto the front of the green where it rolled to within 6 feet of the pin. When asked the difference between a great shot and a smart shot, he responded, "I don't know. I mean, a great shot is when you pull it off. A smart shot is when you don't have the guts to try it." Steve Loy, his college coach and manager added, "He'd rather be bold enough to have the courage to do what most people can’t." Doesn't Loy offer a great picture of courage? Merriam-Webster dictionary defines courage as "mental or moral strength to venture, persevere and withstand danger, fear or difficulty.” I believe the people of God must muster mental and moral courage if they are to embrace adversity and lead others through it. Consider the courage to fight sin. Let’s face it, the trappings of this life circle us like sharks in a tank. Like God said to Cain in Genesis, “Sin is crouching at [our] doorstep and it desires to have [us].” However, the Apostle Paul challenges us to "be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2). A renewed mind (mental) results in spiritual transformation (moral). If you are struggling with sin, you know it is most certainly a war for the mind, emotions and the heart. It takes incredible courage to fight for purity and holiness. The battles are constant. But it isn't just in sin where courage in the face of adversity is required in the Christian life. There is so much injustice around us every day. Sometimes the Bible calls us to have the courage to stand in the gap for those who can’t stand for themselves. Living the Christian life isn’t for the faint of heart. Ultimately courage exists because adversity exists. But courage rooted in the promise of Jesus to strengthen you (Philippians 4:13) really does enable to you to do all things, and it is that confidence in Him that is the foundation of our courage to live boldly in this life. — Scott is President of www.inhisgripgolf.com, Author of “More Than A Game” Book. Follow Scott’s Blog at www. scottgolflehman.com and on Twitter @inhisgripgolf. Scott resides with his wife Leslie and son Micah just outside of Nashville, TN
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The Other Side That IS Greener! The old saying, “the grass is greener on the other side” has probably been spoken more by saying, “the grass isn’t greener on the other side.” Our envious, jealous, lazy self has filtered this statement through experience to basically share that it isn’t better once you get to the other side. However, our culture continues to lack a sense of commitment or good fight. Entitlement combined with our selfishness, causes us to get distracted by other grass. It is interesting how the color green gets such a bad wrap. There is the “green eyed monster” or “green with envy”. All are references to a lack of satisfaction or contentment. Whether we are talking about relationships, financial struggles, parenting issues, friendships, or health issues, there are oftentimes other lives that look easier or more glamourous. We start eyeballing other grass when we start saying, “If only”. If only I could…..If only I had….If only I would…. If only I didn’t….. Those thoughts are doorways to wander. Some of us may never physically wander or quit, but when we allow ourselves to focus on the other side, our hearts start to abandon the good fight. In my experience and opinion, there is one side that is always greener. It is the other side of trouble or trauma. So many times we are conditioned to avoid trouble or things that don’t feel good. However, there are good fights that are worth getting to the other side. Loneliness, a struggling marriage, a strained friendship, a rebellious child, a bank account that is at zero when diapers need to be purchased, poor health, etc. The list goes on. These are the times that the grass on the other side appears to be lush and inviting.
In my own story, I can vividly remember a morning on my bedroom floor when I wanted to quit. The disappointment and heartache were too great. I was tired and life felt very unfair. In that dark moment, I begged God to carry me. I was not raised to be a quitter. I allowed Him to carry me through the quicksand of life and He brought me to the other side of my heartache. Because of that experience, I now tell anyone I am encouraging through a tough season, “I don’t know the outcome, but if you quit, you will miss what God is going to do.” Green in the Bible is used many times to refer to plants, growth, and new life. If you don’t allow God to carry you through a dry season, you will never fully understand how well He can carry you to the other side. Even if the outcome ends up different than you imagined, you will still experience great growth and blessings from the other side. Too many times we quit and miss it. Jeremiah 17:8 “”For he will be like a tree planted by the water, That extends its roots by a stream And will not fear when the heat comes; But its leaves will be green, And it will not be anxious in a year of drought Nor cease to yield fruit.” — Lisa Baron and her husband, Ridley, and their children reside in Spring Hill.
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A few years ago my son Braden and I rescued a frog in our garage. We talked about the frog’s warts, his strong legs, and bulging eyes. After the brief science lesson, we set him free. Braden followed his new friend around the yard for a half hour. He tried to catch it, pet it, and steer it. But the frog wouldn’t oblige. In frustration Braden lurched forward and crushed the little fellow beneath his foot. I was horrified! I demanded of him, “Why did you do that?” His answer was telling and simple: “Because he wouldn’t listen to me.” Some of us think that God is a lot like Braden. If you don’t stay one step ahead of him, leaping quickly from his crushing blow, God will maliciously scrub you into the dust. God will eventually catch up to you and squash you for every evil act ever committed, every wrong thought that has crossed your mind, and for every missed Sunday service.
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Maybe it stems from an anxious childhood or from bad religious experiences, but we all too often see God for less than he is. We view him as some kind of irritated old school master keeping a ledger of our sins – an Ebenezer Scrooge. Or we think of him as a vindictive bully – a cosmic Simon Cowell – one who only lets the best get by, but only after a severe tongue lashing. Sure, a few will make it through the pearly gates, but God will be none too happy about it. Or we may imagine God, sitting in a high and mighty palace somewhere, breathing threats and intimidation just waiting for someone to cross the line, to be noncompliant, so he can squash them like a bug. Or frog. Is this who God is? If you believe some religious extremists, certainly this is accurate. But this is not the God revealed to us by the person of Christ. Jesus reveals a God who loves with such passion that he was willing to drive
nails into his own flesh to set free those living in darkness. And by the way, I don’t think Braden will turn out to be an axe murderer after all. Thankfully, a day later our family paused to say grace over our evening meal. When it was Braden’s turn to pray, he bowed and said: “Dear Jesus…I killed a frog.” All was forgiven. — Ronnie McBrayer is a syndicated columnist, speaker, and author. His books include “Leaving Religion, Following Jesus” and “The Jesus Tribe.” Visit his website at www.ronniemcbrayer.net.
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“I’m proud of my father,” says Franklin Graham of evangelist Billy Graham’s commitment to the call he received more than 65 years ago to preach the good news of God’s love. Since that time Billy Graham has preached to nearly 215 million people in North America and around the world, including two Crusades in Birmingham in 1964 and 1972, and his messages continue to be heard around the world via the internet and film. Franklin Graham carries on his father’s legacy serving as president and CEO of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association (BGEA) and the international Christian relief and evangelism organization Samaritan’s Purse. As an evangelist, Franklin has preached at more than 170 festivals. This year he will share the gospel at events in Spain, the Ukraine, Brazil, Tokyo and Birmingham. He is joined in ministry by his son Will, who has preached to audiences across six continents since 2006. “I’m thankful God has given me an opportunity to preach,” said Franklin Graham, “and I’m very grateful for the son God has given me and that God has given him the same calling. But it doesn’t have anything to do with the fact that Will Graham is a Graham or I am a Graham. It is just a calling that God has given us and we have accepted that calling.”
Billy, Franklin and Will Graham: Father, son and grandson called to preach the Gospel. Franklin Graham will preach in Birmingham as a part of the Festival of Hope August 14-16. He will also conduct prayer rallies in all 50 states next year as a part of a “Decision America Tour.”
Franklin Graham admits the call to preach was one he avoided. “I always backed away from trying to preach because I never wanted to be compared to my father. I thought, ‘I can’t ever be Billy Graham.’ I don’t need the pressure of people saying, ‘Son you are not quite like your father.’ Who needs that headache? So I just avoided it.” Graham chose to focus his attention on Samaritan’s Purse which he became President and CEO of in 1979 and has led to meet the needs of poor, sick and suffering people in more than 100 countries. It was not until the late 80s at the urging of one of his father’s associate evangelists, John Wesley White, that Graham considered the call to preach. “He told me, ‘Franklin I think God has given you the gift of Evangelism….I believe God has called you to preach… He kept after me and kept after me,” remembers Graham who reluctantly agreed to preach at a crusade in Juno, Alaska scheduled the following year. ”I thought he would certainly forget, being a year out, but he didn’t. He kept saying, ‘The people in Juno are praying for you. The people in Juno are looking forward to seeing you and I thought, ‘Oh geese. I wish I had never said that. ‘” But after delivering God’s Franklin Graham is seen here praying with Birmingham, Ala. area pastors in April. Prayers were led by Birmingham Police Word to a small crowd of people in Juno Chief AC Roper, co-chair of Birmingham’s Festival of Hope in 1989, Graham had a change of heart. prayer committee who will also lead several prayer walks in “I remember when I gave the invitation a July leading up to the event in August.Learn more at www. handful of people came, and I realized it greaterbirminghamfestival.org.
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When Franklin Graham told his father he was traveling to Birmingham in preparation for the August Festival of Hope, the father and son recalled the time Billy Graham had spent there in 1964 and 1972. Billy Graham humbly said, “Tell the dear people of Birmingham I said hello, but I doubt few people will remember I was there.”
wasn’t anything I had done. It was God’s Word. I remember going back to my room that night and getting on my knees and just saying, ‘Lord, if you want me to preach, I’ll give 10 percent of my time to evangelistic preaching. And so I prayed that prayer in 1989 and I’ve been trying to do that ever since.” After accepting the call to preach, Franklin Graham says his father encouraged him but did not direct him. “My father has never once tutored me on how to preach. He has never given me an idea on how to put together a sermon. He just said, ‘Son you are going to learn to preach by preaching.’ And that’s the only advice he gave me… and my son Will, I have basically given him the same advice,” adding he sees in Will the gift of a great communicator much more so than himself or his father. Before any Graham ever preaches, prayer precedes it. “It takes churches praying. It takes families praying for unsaved loved ones. It takes the churches cooperating together,” Franklin Graham emphasizes. “We don’t just rent an arena or hall and then put on a program. You have to have the churches behind it and have to have their prayer support behind it because this is a spiritual work. You are dealing with the lives, the souls of people. The decision that they make will affect where their soul resides for eternity.” Graham traveled to Birmingham earlier this year to join local church and civic leaders in prayer for the city of Birmingham and specifically for the August 14-16 Festival of Hope weekend to be held at Bartow Arena. “The emphasis we have heard from the Graham Association is to pray, pray, pray. You see that built in to everything they do” says Dale Wallace, a Birmingham attorney and Executive Team Leader of the Birmingham Festival of Hope. Already 240 Birmingham congregations of all Christian denominations have committed to help with the event and 1800 individuals have been trained as volunteers. Mike McLemore, Co-leader Executive Team and Chair of the Exploratory Team for the Festival, says he sees the response as a result of the persistent prayers of area pastors of all denominations. “We as pastors have been praying for years, asking God how our faith community can be of service to our city …The ultimate goal of this is spiritual unity in our community. After the Festival, our goal is to continue projects together and have community unity.” Wallace adds, “Evangelism is the primary objective of the Festival but it is also an opportunity to advance not an event but the cooperative effort of ministries and organizations already in the city.” In addition to churches, the leadership of many area ministries and non-profits have stepped up to support the Festival. Tony Cooper, Executive Director of the Jimmie Hale Mission, served as part of an advance team that attended a Festival of Hope event in Pittsburgh last year. “I left Pittsburg encouraged, inspired and excited about the Festival of Hope coming to Birmingham. I look forward to seeing what God has in store for us! I certainly encourage individuals, churches and the whole community to be supportive and get involved.” Graham prays Christians will use the Festival of Hope as a vehicle to reach their lost friends and family. “Now we live in an area that people call the Bible Belt, and so some people may say, ‘Franklin you are just preaching to the choir,’ well I hope not.. If it’s just an event where we have an arena full of Christians and we all sing praise and worship songs that’s fine but that’s not what this is all about. This is about evangelism. That’s why it takes prayer and the churches working together to bring the unsaved.” — Laurie Stroud
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3 Steps to Keep ‘Em Coming New puppy owners may find it hard to believe, but there will come a time when your dog isn’t always right underfoot. Sooner rather than later, your pup will be someplace other than where you want him to be, possibly in harm’s way. That’s why “Come” may be the most important command to teach your pup, but not necessarily the easiest. There’s a world of things for your pup to get in to, including trouble. You want to imprint your puppy with the “Come” command so that eventually obedience will win out whatever may be catching his attention. Step one: Determine the simplest signal you can use to your call your dog – AND THEN STICK TO IT. “Here Jackie” is not the same as “Come” or “Jackie, come here.” Used consistently, any of those will work (though shorter is better); but waver not. Personally, I like to use a hand clap for this command. A hand clap will carry a lot farther than my voice and can be better heard above extraneous noise. Step two: Build a connection with the command and a reward. With a treat hidden in your hand and your dog on leash (or in a restricted area small enough that your dog is always close by you), give your command. When your dog reacts by looking at you, give him the treat. You want him to associate your command with a treat. That gives your dog a reason to come to you. As you give him the treat, praise him and rough his coat, pat his tummy, or scratch his chin. My bet is that soon your dog will come when you call even if it means leaving his favorite spot…not because he understands the word “Come,” but because he knows a treat awaits him. As your confidence rises, increase the distance between you and your dog. Say the command when you and your dog are at opposite ends of the house, and expect to hear the flurry of feet. Over time, experiment with training in different areas. Step three: Transfer the response to the command alone. Begin to use a treat less and less, but continue to give your dog praise and physical touch when he reaches you. Be ready to re-introduce the treat if you sense your dog is growing less eager to come. Here are a few other pointers: 1. Scatter short training sessions through the day. 2. At first, train him away from distractions. 3. In the beginning, don’t use your command to call him to do something he might not enjoy, like a bath or a nail trim. — Randy Smith is the owner of Franklin Dog, providing boarding, day camp, training and supplies. www.franklindog.com. Randy and his wife Lisa have 3 sons and 5 dogs.
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Why do many teenagers and young adults leave the church? For years, parents, preachers, and youth leaders have searched for the answer to why many young people don’t grow into strong adult Christians. Decades ago, church going Christian men and women were “in season,” but in our current society it has become more popular to have no absolutes, resulting in believers with a wishy-washy faith. When there is no expectation from most of their friends and acquaintances, there is often not as much pressure to return to the fold once they leave. The philosophy of saving God for a rainy day is gaining momentum. Is there any reassurance that a child will grow in the faith and not retract from it? While there is no total reassurance, there is hope. Proverbs 22:65 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” While comforting to those who work diligently to teach their children, this passage is a proverb, not an absolute. God has given us the gift of free will. Each individual will accept God’s grace and work in His kingdom or reject the offer. However, there are some common causes that affect today’s young adults and their decisions to abandon their faith. No Roots There are many reasons teens and young adults pull away from Christ. Some have never fully given their hearts to Him. When they reach the time in their lives when they begin to make their own decisions, many choose worldly ways or passively make no effort to grow in the faith. The Bible says those without roots last only a short time. Even those that have been brought to worship services their whole lives often choose to leave. However, simply sitting in a pew and attending youth devotionals does not mean their hearts are in the Lord. Deuteronomy 1:6 says to talk about God to your children when you rise, when you go to bed, and throughout the day, which is basically all the time. Consider the fact that after God had Moses lead the children of Israel out of Egypt, the very next generation was a people that did not know God. The relevancy of this is overwhelming. For the most part, our generation does not know Him either. To prevent our children from being part of the masses, it is critical for parents to instruct with all their might. We can help them by pouring our hearts into it. God’s word is paramount to everything else we teach our children. It trumps education, careers, finances, and all else. It is essential for us and them to establish deep roots in the faith. Entertainment Driven Jon Nielson, who works with college students at College Church in Wheaton, Illinois, discusses the importance of equipping, not entertaining students in his article, “3 Common Traits of Youth Who Don’t Leave the Church,” on the website www.churchleaders.com. Everyone wants to attract the youth to Christ, however if our ways of attracting are how much entertainment we can throw at them, we aren’t attracting them to Christ. We are attracting them to fun. While it’s great to plan occasions for the youth to spend time together enjoying food, fellowship, and fun, this shouldn’t take the place of Bible study or worship. As they grow, we should be teaching them Bible study habits and as the Bible states it, “equipping” them to teach others. Most teens already have an overload of entertainment, “hang-out” time with friends and are involved in athletic clubs. Most parents would agree that the amount of entertainment our children have due to technology, as well as the increase
in the frequency of youth sporting events, far exceeds those of past generations. In other words, they are getting plenty of entertainment and social activity. In regards to the church, Nielson says, “Are we equipping them… or are we merely giving them a good time while they’re with us?” We want our children to seek Jesus as they grow. When they leave our homes, we want them searching for a congregation that follows Christ, not one that serves as a recreational center. Attraction to World Views National public opinion surveys conducted by the Barna Group for the Faith That Lasts Project, between 2007 and 2011, revealed that young people left the church for a variety of reasons. The research uncovered why almost 3 out of 5 young Christians “disconnect either permanently or for an extended period of time from church life after age 15.” Most reasons appeared to be based upon current society trends. Young people often struggle with how science fits in with Christianity. For some, the struggle is a physical one. The Barna Group says, “In a culture that values hyper-sexuality over wholeness, teens and twenty-something Christians are struggling with how to live meaningful lives in terms of sex and sexuality.” Others felt the church was overprotective, while some had shallow experiences of Christianity, feeling church was boring or wasn’t relevant to their careers or interests. “Prayer is the most powerful force available to us in raising our children,” says Karol Ladd in her book, The Power of a Positive Mom. God’s promise of hearing our prayers should ease the anxiety that so often comes with concern for our kids. God reveals to us in the Bible what the prayers of the righteous can do. Our goal is not simply that they are present in worship services, but that their hearts are guided toward God and that they have an understanding of His love and mercy. Constant prayer for teens is critical. It is at this point when they are possibly most vulnerable to peer pressure. Ladd says, “We need a time each day to purposefully, lovingly, and deliberately pray--a set time when we praise God for who He is, thank Him for what He has done and is doing in our lives, and lay before Him our cares, worries, and requests.” The best situation is to train children in the early years to know who God is and what He has done for us. Making Christ the center of every decision in our lives is a great way to be a model for them. Showing them that sports nor social events take precedence over worship services, is a great way to demonstrate dedication. When we have actively placed the message in their hearts over the years, it is more likely that they will base their actions upon it. — Wendy Schreiber is a freelance writer who resides in Franklin, Tn with her husband and two children.
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Three Healthy Ways to Enhance Your Children’s Mental Well-Being This Summer “Eat your broccoli. It's good for you,“ we can hear our mothers say. And while she was certainly correct, she may not have known how right she really was. Not only does broccoli contains cancer-fighting sulforaphane, a phytonutrient in the glucosinolate family, but it supports healthy brain functioning, improving concentration, reducing irritability and creating a more peaceful child.
Strawberry, Lemon and Basil…Watermelon and Mint…Citrus and Cilantro…Rosemary and Grapefruit…Blueberry and Lavendar. Five yummy options that will (hopefully) detract from the lure of sugar laden drinks. Instead, this simple replacement is a creative, fun option that children can participate in and be proud of. Let their individual infusers be the talk of the neighborhood. Allow them to be leaders of health with their friends. Different is good!
As parents, we generally think of nutrition as important for our children’s physical health. Many of us are not educated on how nutrition affects our children’s mental well-being. Research has shown that eating higher quantities of fruits and vegetables causes our children to feel happier, and more engaged and energized in daily activities, while creating an inner calm that many parents are desperate for these days. As mothers and fathers, it is a daily reality and responsibility to give to our children healthier options than what our culture shouts at them with sugar and high fructose corn syrup, highly processed “entertainment” foods with non-essential preservatives, and addictive, caffeine-laden soft drinks.
2. Replace sugar laden cereals with fruit smoothies for breakfast. These are a favorite in our household, and our children have learned that the fun is in making them together! Throw in what you have in the frig- ripe bananas, frozen strawberries and blueberries, unsweetened almond milk or whole organic milk, add in a little protein powder, and even some greens like kale or spinach for brain health.
This summer, let us encourage you it is not too late to see a change in your child by making a few changes in their lifestyle in order to see their behavior improve for the better. And remember, progress not perfection! 1. Replace soft drinks with fruit infused water. Simply add your favorite fruit to your 3-quart pitcher in the refrigerator, as well as a fruit infuser water bottle for each child. Here are some options our children love, and the herbs come straight from their small children’s garden:
3. Make a salad with every meal. No matter what you’re fixing for dinner, make a salad to go with it. Everybody eats their salad before dinner is even put on the table. When your salad is finished, here comes the meal! This has worked for our children, and our son even asks for the salad first now. This is an encouragement to us, because we haven’t always followed good, healthy principles for our family. We are a perfect example of how it is never too late! — Stacy Jagger is the owner of Sunnybrook Counseling, a private counseling practice in Brentwood, TN and Columbia, TN. www.sunnybrookcounseling. com Ron Jagger is a health educator and owner of The Water Store and Wellness center, located in Spring Hill, TN. www.thewaterstorespringhill.com
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And Be Ye Kind . . .
How is it possible to become givers in a “gimme” world? And how do we encourage those around us to do the same? Consider these simple ideas to make a difference in someone’s life and perhaps start a kindness explosion! They may be organized by clubs or service organizations, youth groups, churches, families, or just individuals. But be warned! Kindness is contagious and it challenges the complacency of those who observe it.
Organize Some Kindness
• Provide ministry in needy neighborhoods: do home repairs or yard work—find out what is needed. Keep clothing and food available at church to offer struggling families. • Pick a Saturday and offer free car maintenance for single moms, widows, and the elderly. • Put up a table at a mall, ballparks, or community events and give away cokes, coffee, popsicles, balloons, etc. • Plan to serve (and perhaps deliver) free meals during a holiday season.
Personalize Some Kindness
• Be Prepared! Keep an envelope available with extra cash. Ask the Lord to direct you when to share. It might be a bag boy, a waitress, someone on the street. • Be alert! I’ve noticed some new believers at church with tattered old bibles and my son befriended a boy at school who didn’t have a bible. We were able to provide nice bibles for them. Notice also special events that give opportunity to encourage with a gift or note, such as a wedding or the birth of a baby. • Be anonymous! Our family enjoys doing secret acts of kindness. It might be a secret holiday gift or a cash gift that is needed. One family paid a needy couple’s doctor bill. My son, a school teacher who coaches basketball, anonymously provided a warm-up suit for a student who couldn’t afford it.
Child size Some Kindness
• Let your child occasionally choose a friend at school to treat with an ice cream or other goodie. Remind them that it should be someone who might not be able to buy one for themselves. • Allow them to take extra school supplies to share with someone who runs out or forgets theirs. • My boys pick someone each Christmas to receive a “secret” gift. They ask their teacher or principal to present it anonymously. • Encourage them to go out of their way to be kind—holding doors, picking up dropped items, offering their assistance when needed. • Plan family projects: Do chores for a shut-in or take a meal to a new neighbor. — Lettie Kirkpatrick Burress - The mother of four sons and a daughter in heaven, Lettie is a writer, speaker, and conference leader from East Tennessee. Her idea of celebrating life is climbing a long mountain trail, enjoying a Reuben sandwich and a good book at an outdoor cafe, and discovering a great pair of clip-on earrings.
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A Man Of Many Talents Thurman Mullins has enjoyed one of the most diversified careers of anyone I personally know. He is a former professional rodeo performer riding bulls, bucking broncos and helping protect other riders from harm by distracting charging animals as a rodeo clown. Add to the list: a retired Tennessee State park ranger, livestock trader, and ranch manager for Charlie Daniels’ Twin Pines Ranch in Wilson County.
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Personally, Thurman has been a friend for many years, and in my opinion, can speak on almost any subject imaginable because of his extensive travels and people skills. At the top of his list; a Christian, a Marine, an advocate for military veterans, a great enthusiast for old West stories and memorabilia, and never at a loss in driving an interesting conversation. A native of Rutherford County and graduate of MTSU, Thurman became interested in rodeo adventures when a teen in amateur competitions. Following his military tour of duty in Vietnam, Thurman returned to the rodeo arena, but something had changed. He was married and the couples’ first child was on the way. Ann (wife) didn’t want to stand in his way as a performer, but after he was painfully injured by a vicious bull, she reminded Thurman that there were more reasons than before for him to be a healthy husband and soon-tobe father. He took her advice and retired from competition. While working at Cedars of Lebanon State Park in the mid 1970s, Charlie and Hazel Daniels drove up. While never at a loss for words, Thurman felt right at home with the two strangers. Something was said about horses. Charlie asked if Thurman knew of any for sale. Thurman responded that he personally had two Walking Horses and might consider selling them. That was the beginning of an unwavering friendship with the Daniels family which later turned into an employment opportunity. Early on, the Charlie Daniels’ Twin Pines Ranch Rodeos were popular across the country with Thurman as organizer, promoter and chief cook and bottle washer. The events, which were partnered with civic clubs and organizations continued for almost 20 years. But managing the ranch back in Wilson County demanded more of his time, and the rodeos were put on hold; maybe permanently. When asked what “Lessons in Living” he learned through the years, Thurman responded with some words he recently shared with grandson R.T. Williams, “I used to ride bulls until my brains came in.” When more serious, Thurman summarized by saying, “When looking back over my life, it is not about me. It is about we”. (speaking of his relationships with Jesus Christ, his family and friends) “Life has the good times and its challenges. But even the tough times teach us lessons to help keep our feet on the ground. I learned about the Lord from my parents who were devout Christians. When riding in rodeos, serving in Vietnam, being a park ranger and now a ranch manager, I knew that I could always count on God to be with me.” And in typical Southern drawl, Thurman added, “When a person gets to the end of life, all the stuff ain’t gonna make a difference if that person didn’t focus on what is really important.”
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Too Much Sugar in Your Child’s Diet? Cutting sugar isn’t a simple task. But it’s an important one. “One third of children in the U.S. are affected by overweight and obesity,” said Beverly Haynes, RN, nurse clinician in the Weight Management Clinic at Children’s of Alabama. “We know that this leads to a multitude of even more serious diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, heart disease, liver disease, joint problems and many more.” One way to cut down on sugar is to reduce or eliminate the obvious offenders. Parents can easily restrict candy and products like maple syrup, honey and jellies. Eliminating sugar-sweetened drinks like sodas and fruit juices alone can make a huge impact! But it’s important to know that many foods contain “hidden sugars.” Products not normally considered “sweet” can have a lot of sugar in them. Examples are peanut butter, salad dressings, and ketchup. In addition, the carbohydrates in highly refined foods with simple sugars, such as white flour and white rice, are easily broken down and cause blood sugar levels to rise
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quickly. Complex carbs, found in whole grains, on the other hand, are broken down more slowly, allowing blood sugar to rise more gradually. To find out if a food has added sugar, look at the ingredient list for sugar, corn syrup or sweetener, dextrose, fructose, honey or molasses. Avoid products that have sugar or other sweeteners high on the ingredient list. According to Beverly, the best source of sugar is fruits and vegetables. Children’s weight management experts will never tell a patient they can’t enjoy an occasional slice of birthday cake. Occasional treats are okay. The key is that parents are aware of the amount of sugar in their children’s diet, and that they stay informed by reading the labels on foods and setting limits. Above all, it’s important for parents to be a good role model. Kids will see mom and dad’s wholesome habits and adopt them, leading to a healthier lifestyle throughout childhood and into adulthood. Learn more at www.childrensal.org.
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Why Teamwork Matters in Marriage Two of the most important parts of a healthy marriage are teamwork and communication. Without those two areas being a priority, it’s very difficult for a marriage to survive. That’s why money fights and money problems are the leading cause of divorce in America today.
That’s why it’s vital to have one primary bank account that you both use. When you have separate accounts, it’s too easy to start thinking, This is my money and that is his money — when, really, it’s your money together.
When you both got married, the pastor said, “You are one.” And you know what? He meant it! You are one. Together, you are a team that sets the tone for your family and your future.
Once you have that single account, you can set a limit on a single purchase that you both make without talking. For instance, if your limit is $100, then neither of you would purchase anything over $100 without talking to your spouse first.
When it comes to money, that means one bank account. It means making a budget — together. It means getting and staying on the same page in everything related to your money.
out their partner’s knowledge. We call it “financial infidelity,” and it’s a growing problem today.
If you and your spouse don’t see eye to eye regarding money, you are just inviting tension and stress and disagreement into your marriage. For example, if one spouse is sitting down every month and coming up with a budget, and, without notice, the other spouse goes out and spends $500 on a new television, then you have problems. And that’s a realistic scenario. Around 1 in 5 Americans admit to spending $500 or more with-
When you both sit down at the table and come up with a budget that you both agree on, then issues like that won’t happen. Each month, before the month begins, you sit down and spend every dollar on paper, on purpose. It’s okay if one of you takes the lead, but you both have to buy in to the budget and understand what’s going on. You both need to have a grasp of your whole financial situation.
That specific number will depend on your income. It might be more, and it might be less. But it’s important that you both know what’s coming in and going out of your bank account. The left hand needs to know what the right hand is up to! — Rachel Cruze is a seasoned communicator and presenter, helping Americans learn the proper ways to handle money and stay out of debt. Her book, Smart Money Smart Kids, was co-authored with her dad Dave Ramsey.
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If you have an event you would like listed in the Nashville Christian Family Community Calendar e-mail us at: NCFPublication@gmail.com subject line - Calendar Goodwill To Open Downtown Nashville Facility To Public Tours ‘Inside Goodwill’ Tours Begin on June 18 For the first time in its 58-year history, Goodwill Industries of Middle Tennessee will soon offer regularly-scheduled, guided tours of its downtown Nashville headquarters to the public. The one-hour tours, dubbed “Inside Goodwill,” will be available starting Thursday, June 18. “Inside Goodwill” tours will be conducted at 9 a.m. and 1 p.m. on the third Thursday of each month at 937 Herman St., Nashville. More information and tour sign-ups are available online at www.giveit2goodwill. org/about/tours or by calling (615) 346-1601. Summer Season Passes On Sale Now - Pools Open For Season Summer season passes, including outdoor pool use, are now on sale at the Williamson County Parks and Recreation Department. Summer season passes provide individuals and families access to outdoor pools and indoor facilities at all centers through September 6. Passes will be available through June 13 for $120 for Williamson County residents and $240 for out-of-county residents. After June 13, passes are $140 for county residents and $280 for out-of-county residents. Passes may be purchased at the Franklin, Fairview and Longview facilities during business hours.
Summer Jobs With The Williamson County Parks And Recreation Department The Williamson County Parks and Recreation Department is now accepting applications for temporary/ seasonal jobs for summer 2015. If you are interested in working in the field of recreation, please apply! Lifeguards, camp counselors, pool cashiers and sport officials are needed.To apply for a summer job, visit www.williamsoncounty-tn.gov/jobs.
marches will be played by the Belmont Brass. A reception will follow the concert in the church Family Life Center (gym) with lots of tasty cookies, brownies and dessert bars, according to Janet Hasson, chair for the event. Brentwood United Methodist Church is located at 309 Franklin Rd., Brentwood, TN. For information call (615) 373-3663 or visit http://www.bumc.net .
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June 21 – Father’s Day
Tennessee Right to Life Chapter: Meets the 1st Thursday monthly at 7 p.m. at Faith Lutheran Church, 2640 Buckner Road, Thompson’s Station, Tn Tennessee Right to Life is committed to effectively advocating the protection of human life through educational outreach, passage of protective legislation and the development of an informed, active grassroots movement statewide. www. tennesseerighttolife.org - info@tnrtl. org - 615-298-LIFE(5433)
June 28 A Salute to America Event To Recognize Military Personnel, Veterans and Families – 7:00 PM at Brentwood United Methodist Church. A concert featuring patriotic music, will be presented by the Chancel Choir and Chamber Choir of Brentwood United Methodist Church, plus the Belmont University Brass. Prior to the concert, familiar
Every Friday Morning CBL Roundtable – 6:45 AM – 8:15 AM – CEO Fellowship is a non-profit, non-denominational organization of local Christian business leaders. The focus of our weekly meeting is to teach and equip these leaders to operate and lead their respective companies on these Biblical principles. Each week we feature a guest speaker from our local business community. Meetings are held at Brent-
June 13 Pickin’ In The Park In Nolensville - Williamson County Parks and Recreation presents a free Pickin’ in the Park concert on Saturday, May 16 in the Nolensville Park located at 2310 Rocky Fork Rd. The concert is from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m., and admission is free. For more information about the concert, visit www.wcparksandrec. com, or call (615) 786-0200 ext. 2410.
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wood Baptist Church, Wilson Hall, 7777 Concord Rd, Brentwood, TN. www.ceofellowship.com or email us at info@ceofellowship.com Tennessee Christian Chamber of Commerce – 11:00 AM – 12:15 PM - Networking/Leads Group Meetings held each month. First Monday, Cool Springs/Franklin/Spring Hill at King University, 113 Seaboard Lane, First Thursday is Downtown Group which meets at LifeWay Plaza. Second Thursday the Brentwood/Green Hills GROUP meets at Corkey’s BBQ. Monthly Luncheon event is the last Tuesday of each month at Christ Church on Old Hickory Blvd., featuring an outstanding speaker. For more information about the Chamber and events, visit www.tnchristianchamber.org or email rstringfellow@yahoo.com.
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JULY July 4 – Independence Day Celebrations around Williamson County
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Cody’s Automotive – www.codysauto.com, 615-656-1214
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Deer Run Camps and Retreats - www.deerrunretreat.org, 615-794-2918
Saint Thomas Health - www.sths.com, 615-284-LIFE
Goodwill Industries – www.giveit2goodwill.org, 800-545-9231
The Fish 94FM - www.94fmthefish.net, 615-367-2210
David W. Harr, DMD - www.docharr.com, 615-776-2565
TN Christian Chamber of Commerce – www.tnchristianchamber.org, 615-815-8765
Hyundai of Cool Springs – www.hyundaiofcoolsprings.com, 615-550-7330 Landscaping By Joel – 615-642-4492
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