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Dusty Tuxedos a look into the lives of well seasoned love
The wedding march is over and the honeymoon seems like a lifetime ago. NOW WHAT? Life has interrupted your fairytale to deliver bills, babies and more. We took the mystery out of the equation with the honest help from these local husbands who all seemed to have majored in marriage.
Did you wait to marry until you completed college and/or had a stable job? Would you recommend that for other engaged couples? John: We were both out of college and both had stable jobs. Mac: No, she was 19 and I was 20. It worked out for us but was difficult those first few years. In general it is probably best to wait, but if you are confident you have found your life partner then why wait? Tyler: I had completed college and finished my bachelor’s degree; however, my wife had not. I would recommend finishing your education prior to getting married because of the financial and emotional stress that post-secondary education can cause. If finishing before marriage is not an option for a young couple, then you have to compromise and work together to accomplish personal goals for you and your spouse. JT: I had been in the radio business
since I was 18. I met Leanne when she was working at the sheriff’s department in Pensacola, Fla. I was dining out with her and they were running my plates! We took her from that job to a new career in broadcasting. I would not recommend this. Be comfortable in your job, know your job. Why add the stress of a new career and getting married at the same time? We also moved to a new state and became a step-family. Could we have tackled any other major life challenge or stress at that time? I don’t think so!
Did you have a bachelor party? Would you describe your bachelor party as (a) true guy time/the preacher would approve, (b) not too wild but no cameras allowed, (c) what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. John: b Tyler: Since my wife and I eloped, I did not have a bachelor party. If I did, it would have been (b). My wife has told me that she hates that I didn’t get to have that experience. Marcus: My bachelor party was definitely (a)! My father, oldest brother and I went to Applebee’s at Eastdale Mall! He couldn’t believe that I was actually getting married but he knew she
was the best thing that ever happened to me!
If you could give one piece of financial advice to a new bride or groom, what would it be? John: Make a budget and live by it. Try to clear up as much debt as possible before the “I Dos”. JT: Save money. Live cheap. You’ll need every penny when your children reach the teenage years. The only sentences they know how to form are “Can I go out?” and “Can I have money?” and “I love you, Dad”, followed by one of the previous sentences. Mac: Make sure that you are honest with each other about current obligations but just as important start planning for the future. Marcus: Build your lives together. If you don’t need it, don’t get it. Start a budget and STICK TO IT! Share all responsibilities and hold each other accountable. And don’t worry about things you can’t control.
Did you or your wife enter your marriage with debt that you didn’t know about? How did you deal with this revelation and did you work together to pay it off?
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Tyler: No. We were both very open about all financial burdens because things that affect both people cannot be kept hidden.
After children, did your wife leave her job to be a stay at home mom? What financial sacrifices or adjustments had to be made to accommodate this? Mac: Yes, after our second child she became a stay at home mom. The loss of income put a financial strain on us at the time but we knew that would happen and changed our lifestyle. Seeing how well adjusted our children are today is attributed to her being there for them before and after school as well as her involvement as a parent volunteer. It is a difficult journey to go this way but the benefits for us were good. She sacrificed a career to do this but it worked. This is difficult for a woman who is set on a career so it is not for everyone. JT: No, I made sure that she knew we were working together, forever. That’s the premise for the whole show- BOTH of us, working. No staying home with the kids here, they can fend for themselves!
Name something you wish your wife had known how to do better when you married her. Mac: Wow that is a tough one. The things she did not know she learned quickly except for cooking fried corn bread. JT: Speak LIVE on the radio, but we worked on and perfected that. I mean, it’s not something that everyone is used to doing, obviously. She actually had a big fear of public speaking believe it or not. But today, seven years later, she’s beloved by many and the much better looking half of our show! Tyler: Nothing. Marcus: That is a tricky one! When we first got married, her cooking hadn’t quite “matured” yet! Her first Thanksgiving dinner was interesting. She cooked cornish hens and gave my brother-in-law and me food poisoning! But now she cooks like a professional chef. New grooms should always encourage their wives, but be honest about her cooking!
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Did your wife have any annoying habits early on? Did you break them or learn to deal with them? Mac: I learned to deal with them just like I know she learned to deal with mine. JT: Yes, speaking to me at 4 a.m. on the way to work. And blaring loud music on the car ride to the station. We dealt with this problem- I bought a new car and we now drive separately.
Did your wife alter any of your premarital hobbies? Did you have any resentment toward her for it? Tyler: No. She has never once tried to change anything about me or my personality. Mac: No, she has always been supportive of me doing things that I enjoy.
Alone time is important, but asking for it can be tricky. How do you and your spouse work that out? Tyler: Just ask. It’s a simple yes or no answer. Of course, timing is everything,
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though. JT: We have three teenage girls, four dogs, one cat and several jobs. While I’m producing TV in the evenings, she’s watching her favorite TV shows (Biggest Loser, Army Wives, The Following, etc). Living together and working together leaves little time.
my head. There’s more. Tyler: Sometimes I forget to tell her things I need to relay.
When in an argument, is your policy to sleep it off or never let the sun go down while you are still angry?
Mac: We really do not have a policy because sometimes the argument is such we need to sleep it off but the unspoken policy is to not ever let it escalate. We walk away and revisit the issue later if Tyler: She cooks the food, and I wash the need be. Neither of us try to hurt the dishes. She does the laundry, and I fold. I other one by “winning” the argument. sweep the floors, and she mops. She dusts/ JT: We have to make it work at 4 a.m. cleans everything else and I handle yard We go to bed angry and wake up and fake work. Give and take. it till we make it! Not often, but every couple has arguments- and if you don’t, start working together! Name something you do that your Tyler: We deal with the issues and move wife would say drives her crazy. on. Staying angry just builds resentment. Deal with it and move on. JT: Leave towels on the floor, put empty containers back in the fridge, change Who do you seek advice from when clothes multiple times in a day, wreck and/or severely damage her automobile, times get tough? not notice her haircuts or color, lose my debit card, talk over her when she’s Tyler: Each other, family and close friends. talking... there’s just a few off the top of
Do you have any household rules that make coexisting with your partner easier?
Women tend to cling to their family. Did you have a job that moved your wife away from her family? Was there something you did or wish you had done to make this transition You all said “for better or for worse” easier for her? when you spoke your vows. During those “worse” times, what mindset, JT: Leanne came from Pensacola, Fla. attitude or belief got you through it I met her while I was doing mornings and kept you from throwing in the at another station down there. I LOVE towel? visiting her family! They live near the JT: WebMD and Jose Cuervo. Not to be confused with Jose Perez, the restaurant owner in Prattville who is also a very good friend.
beach- I love the coast, I mean, my inTyler: Knowing that you are in it laws, they’re great! Seriously, they are! together with someone that has your back Tyler: She moved here to me and didn’t and best interest in mind. think twice about it. Marcus: There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but I truly believe Do you have a mother-in-law that love is perfect because God is Love. that is a little too involved or too There will definitely be times of (poorer, opinionated when it comes to your worse, and sickness) in every marriage, but they make you appreciate the (richer, family affairs? How do you handle those situations? better, healthier) times! JT: The need to be in the same room the Tyler: No. A young couple has to set next morning when the alarm goes off at that precedent early. 4 a.m. Seriously, you’re always thinking “This may be bad, but you’ve got to make Have you ever had any extended it work by tomorrow”! I know it’s a lot family (yours or your wife’s) living different than typical couples, but for us- it’s always forced us to reconcile and with you for a period of time? Tell move forward! us about that experience.
JT: My dad has set the record- ten days visiting from St. Louis. We seriously did not think he was going to leave. It was tense. Has he moved in? Is he planning on going home? He did. Eventually. We were ready to go get one of those buy here, pay here portable buildings- but it all worked out. Dad was in St. Louis radio for a very long time and I love him- but visits should be just that- visits.
Blended families are very common today. Do you have any advice to a new bride who may be adding “step mom” to her title to keep her from becoming “stepmonster”? John: Be yourself. Daddy obviously found some very good qualities about the child’s new mom. Use them to your advantage.
Who is a higher priority- your wife or your children? What are some things you did to make your wife feel like she was a priority when the children seem to dominate most of the time and attention in the home?
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John: The wife is always priority number one, but don’t alienate the children. It’s a big adjustment. Do as many things as possible together as a new family. Mac: Wife. This just never happened around our home when the children lived at home.
Do you and your wife have the same desires when it comes to having or not having children? If not, who had to compromise and did it hurt your relationship? John: We had the same desire. I had two children from my previous marriage. We knew having a child was something we both wanted. Mac: We both wanted children. The timing may not have been the same but it worked. We also both wanted a boy and a girl and we had three to get a girl. Tyler: She wants three kids. I want two. We haven’t gotten to the point in our lives of trying to have children. I feel that is a topic that has to be played by ear for the most part.
Do you make “date night” a priority? If so, do you feel it has helped your relationship? John: No, but I wish we did. Three children ages 17, 15 and 5 make it difficult. It’s on our New Years Resolution list. Tyler: No. Our schedules are complete opposites of each other. We make time to hang out together when our schedules allow, but it is usually together at home or with family and friends. JT: We write it on the calendar and work to get away from the household and the job when we can. This is much easier since our children are getting a little bit older now (13, 15 & 17). One child is driving and that makes things very easy. Leanne and I like visiting the beach and traveling on a kid free vacation every once in a while. Yes, it definitely helps to unwind and not have the daily stressors that plague most relationships present for a while!
Would you describe your attachment style as Anxious, Secure or Avoidant?
Tyler: Secure. We are both our own people, but we are trusting of one another. Mac: Secure.
What would people say about your PDA toward your wife? (a) does he know her, (b) what a loving husband, (c) get a room! Tyler: “What a loving husband” I guess out of these three choices. We are not the types to be all over each other in public. Marcus: My friends would say (c) Haha! She just can’t keep her hands off of me!
All women have moments of jealousy and/or insecurity. Do you validate her feelings and work hard to help her overcome these feelings or expect her to be more confident? What steps do you consciously take to make her feel secure in your marriage? Tyler: She is about as even-keeled as one can be. We have complete trust in one another and are confident in that trust. Both of us grew up with best friends of the opposite sex so being accustomed to that type of friendship/relationship really helps to keep away any jealousy or insecurities that we may have. Marcus: My wife is the strongest woman I know. She’s a great wife, awesome mother, and my best friend. There is no better feeling than knowing that there is at least one person in this world that truly has my back through good and bad times.
Tyler Sexton is a financial analyst with W.R. Taylor & Company, LLC. He has been married for four years.
Mac McLeod is the president of The Colonial Company. Mac and his wife have four children and have been married for 44 years.
Marcus Robinson is the supervisor of Bills and Duplicating Department of the Alabama State Senate. He has been married for 14 years and has four children
Jamie Thompson is a DJ with Mix 103. He and his wife Lee Ann have been married for seven years with a “his and hers” blended family.
What do you remember most about your wedding? Tyler: We were married at the Fort Walton County Courthouse. There was no stress, just love. John: It was very intimate. I was lucky enough to have our daughters there- it felt like the perfect beginning to our new family. Marcus: I remember not being able to stop smiling. I knew we were making the best decision of our lives.
John Longshore is a television sports analyst and radio sports talk show host. He will be married seven years this June.
When it’s time to dress it up and go out to dinner as Mr. and Mrs. A little black dress is a great place to start. A classy sheath with wide sleeves and white accents is dressy but still island cool. And for the hubby, a clean, sand colored blazer and khaki trousers pair perfectly with a pastel plaid shirt and leather slip-ons. On her: dress from hue studio. On him: The Locker Room. 16
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Planning the day you’ve dreamed about your entire life can be a little bit consuming. The dress, the details, the invitations—it can literally take your every waking moment to get it just right. While planning for this amazing day it may seem like it is light years away, but the finish line is never too far. After the last flash goes off and the photographer packs up his camera, you’re headed for the vacation of your life. Before racing off to that getaway car, you have one last thing to check off your list—packing! You will likely be on the beach during the day, possibly lunching poolside, and dining out in the evening, and you want to look great doing it all. I’ve put together some pointers so you can easily pack for your tropical vacay and have everything you need right at your fingertips, no matter what your honeymoon days may bring.
If you like a classic and clean look, nothing spells that out more clearly than a crisp white shirt tucked into a pair of tailored khaki shorts. Still need a pop of color? Grab and layer a bright coral necklace and you’re ready for the day! On her: Shorts and blouse from Pamala’s Boutique.
Going for comfort and style? Bring in the colors of the ocean with an aqua tunic and everyone’s go-to, your favorite jean capris. Too much sun is a bad thing, so don’t forget your wide brimmed hat for the ultimate combination of style and UV protection. On her: Jeans and top from The Look Boutique. BRIDAL RSVP 17
Airport travel can drag on, so wear something comfortable but classy. Wide leg linen trousers and a boxy v-neck bright pink top are the perfect combination of comfort and style. Guys, don’t forget that pastels look great for tropical travel—a plaid shirt with a solid color short in a coordinating color always works. On her: blouse from hue studio, pants from pamala’s boutique. On him: The Locker Room.
White was so last night! Wear a bold print with a cityscape pattern to embrace that laid back honeymoon vibe. Pairing it with great jewelry and a chunky heel dresses it down perfectly. Guys, nothing says the beach like a white linen shirt. Roll up your sleeves and pair it with your favorite chinos and you look great for a casual dinner. If you need to dress it up a bit, bring your sport coat to really clean up the look. On her: dress from hue studio. On him: The Locker Room.
Dare to be bright! Patterns are huge for spring and these coral and white shorts are a perfect fit. Tuck in a white silk tank and you are set for whatever the day may bring. On her: blouse and shorts from Painted Pink.
Stand out from the other honeymooners on the resort in a bright green Leona tank and crisp white Hudson jeans. These pieces are versatile and can be worn with other staples on your trip! Don’t forget a long, layered necklace to dress this look up for dinner. On her: Blouse and jeans from Painted Pink.
This look is the ultimate combination of this seasons shout out to bold colors! A flowy tye dye dress belted in a bright accent color is a perfect getaway look. Guys, bring in the colors of the sea with a “blues” plaid shirt and coat and trousers that tie in one of those ocean hues. Very sharp! On her: dress from pamala’s boutique. On him: The Locker Room. BRIDAL RSVP 19
What your guests won’t tell you:
what they'll LOVE & HATE about your wedding As a wedding photographer, I often have to play many roles over the course of the day, from wedding director to ring bearer wrangler. But my favorite role is ninja: when I try to go unnoticed and catch those great moments that happen when people think there's no one watching. Well, when people think there's no one watching, they also think there's no one listening - and I often get an earful of things your guests would probably never tell you (and a few things they probably shouldn't say out loud to anyone, but that's another story). When I talk to couples about their weddings, the comment I hear most often is, "We just want our guests to have a good time." If your guests' happiness is at the top of your priority list during the wedding planning process, you need to know their likes and dislikes, the things they love and the things they can't stand about weddings. So I took an informal poll of my wedding industry friends, added in my experiences from the weddings I've shot, and put them together with
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comments from your everyday wedding guests (my nonindustry friends) to find out what guests rant and rave about most. Hold on to your seating charts folks, because I'm gonna tell you what Martha Stewart won't.
They love the love. The most common raves from guests were all related to the emotion of the day. Favorite things included: watching the groom's face as the bride comes down the aisle, couples reciting vows they've written, meaningful items such as family pictures or family recipes incorporated at the reception, watching the first dance, and seeing the reaction of the father of the bride. Funny moments got big points as well, so if you're goofy people, be goofy! Bottom line: if it's heartfelt and genuine, your guests want to see it and be a part of it. Period.
They hate to wait. By a landslide, waiting was the top complaint. The most popular pet peeves were: ceremonies that start late, waiting for food to be served or waiting in buffet lines, and listening to long-winded toasts. Sorry Martha, but receiving lines also got a big thumbs down -- your guests want to speak to you, but they don't want to be stuck in a line to do it. They would prefer congratulating you while you're mingling at the reception. Guests mentioned they do expect some waiting here and there, but long periods of idle time were a major annoyance. So if you must have downtime (for example, to take pictures after the ceremony) have a cocktail hour, or have the buffet line open so that guests aren't left twiddling their thumbs waiting for your arrival. Better yet, read on to the next topic.
They love to have things to do.
Since guests do expect some downtime, having things to do to keep them busy got a big thumbs up. Remember, your guests are there because they want to participate in your day, so make interactive things available to them. Guests loved seeing photo booths or props to use in their own photos, as well as games to play, such as cornhole. Even if they choose not to participate themselves, watching other guests participate is always entertaining. Candy buffets that allowed guests to make their own wedding favors were also popular. I've seen evening receptions taken to a whole new level just by passing out glow in the dark or light up toys to play with on the dance floor. There's nothing like seeing your grandma, your boss, and your best friend having an unspoken contest to see who is the best at working a glow stick.
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They hate to be uncomfortable. The “uncomfortable” category is made up of a variety of complaints, most of which were related to the food. Most weddings are scheduled during the average person's dinner time, so if your guests are left hungry because the food is bad, cold, or there just isn't enough of it, you can count on them making an early exit. Hungry people aren't happy people, and unhappy people don't stay and party. Ditto if the music is too loud, if it's uncomfortably hot or cold at your venue, or if there are unruly or crying children present. If your food budget is an issue, keep in mind many guests mentioned that food doesn't have to be fancy to be good. Simple items such as a mashed potato bar are filling and appealing to a wide variety of tastebuds. A few men in my poll will even give you bonus points if you ditch the tiny plates that only hold four bites worth of food. I know, it's a lot to take in. With the current popularity of Pinterest and wedding blogs, it's easy to get caught up in the details. Do these tablecloths coordinate with the cake stands? Are these centerpieces nice enough for a wedding? Here's your answer: the guests probably won't even notice, and if they do, they don't care. Not one person I polled mentioned “cheap mismatched décor” as one of their wedding dislikes. Keeping your guests happy is pretty simple: keep 'em comfy, keep it moving, and keep it real. A wedding is about two people choosing to stand in front of all the people that are important to them and saying, “For the rest of my life, I will always have your back.” And at the end of the day, that's all that will matter to the people that matter to you.
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By Kim Traff • Photography by High 5 Productions
Your wedding cake may be the most significant confection you ever buy, so we have a few tips for helping you make the best decisions when it comes to your cake.
Set your budget
Frosting, Filling and Fondant, oh my!
Be open about your budget from the beginning. It will make the process much easier and smoother for both parties. The more complicated the cake, the higher the price tag. Fondant icing is more expensive than buttercream, and if you want elaborately molded shapes, vibrant colors, or handmade sugar-flower detailing, you'll pay for the cake designer's labor.
Understand the difference between fondant and buttercream. Fondant makes for a very beautiful design but doesn’t taste amazing. Buttercream is delicious but can’t be molded or colored like fondant. A helpful tip is to consider frosting the cake with buttercream and add a thin layer of fondant. The fondant will look great and the buttercream will dominate your taste buds.
Choose a reputable bakery
Taste the cake
Get references from real customers and visit the bakery’s store to meet the baker personally. If you don’t feel comfortable with the bakery staff, you won’t be happy with your cake. It is also important to verify that your baker is licensed by the health department.
A fun and very delicious part of the wedding planning process is going for a cake tasting session. Have a clean palate and drink a lot of water in between tasting the different flavors and fillings. Ask questions and write down your thoughts as it will be helpful in making your final decision.
Don’t rush the cake Give yourself adequate time to pick a wedding cake. Three to six months is enough time to plan the cake. Special ingredients and decorations sometimes need to be ordered and in some cases, created from scratch, which takes considerable experimentation.
Limit the input You may have a hard time making decisions, but having an entourage of people with different opinions will only make it harder. Choose only one or two people to go with you to the bakery and it should be much easier to reach a decision.
Select Your Design Your cake should be part of the wedding, not a sideshow. Many brides bring their color swatches or coordinate the jewels they will wear on their special day with cake adornments. Make your decisions about dress style and reception décor so that these elements can serve as a blueprint for the design and structure of your wedding cake.
Size matters Calculating the right size for your wedding cake is one area where it really pays to work with a professional. An experienced baker has already done hundreds of wedding cakes and can advise you how much cake you’ll need for
your wedding reception guests. There are many factors that should be considered when determining the number but the general rule is to use 80% of the number of guests attending the reception to calculate the number of wedding cake servings that you need.
Topping it off Trends in wedding cake toppers have grown by leaps and bounds from the boring cookie cutter stuff we're accustomed to seeing. It has become increasingly popular for couples to show off their personalities by topping their wedding cakes with unique, comical and charming figurines. If you choose to garnish your cake with fresh flowers, find out if the cake
designer will work with your florist, or if you are responsible for the blooms. If you plan to use a topper, choose something that represents “you” and that your guests will remember.
Delivery Details Cake delivery takes coordination. Be sure your baker has a sound way to transport your cake to your reception site and that it will be sufficiently insured in case of any mishaps. Complex cakes are not always delivered in final form. Allow time and space for assembly, if needed. Refrigeration may also be required. All of these details should be included in your contract.
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Italian Cream cake with rolled ivory fondant with iridescent dust, handmade gum paste, magnolia blossoms and leaves.
A strawberry filling separates the tiers of Italian Cream cake and strawberry champagne cake to give this cake flavor variety. Frosted with a rich butter cream and white chocolate fondant and adorned with strategically placed edible pearls to create an ombre design.
Personal Touch mother-daughter team Carron Morrow and Lela Foshee have been serving Montgomery for 42 years with their award winning cakes that are known all over the Southeast. Offering many varieties and flavors of cakes, they specialize in rolled fondant icing, Australian Lace cakes, handmade gum paste flowers, and spun sugar. All cakes are made from scratch and presented with elegance.
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Ashlyn’s Cake Cottage combines the art of decorating with old fashioned goodness. Having trained with cake artists from all over the world, Ashlyn’s Cake Cottage creates the bride’s dreams in her wedding cake choice, from simple to sublime. The recipes have been handed down for generations or created to give the best taste possible.
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3 3.Graced with Glitz by Cake Designs The look of fondant, but instead with a smooth buttercream with rolled edges. Rhinestones glitter around each tier and are intertwined into a fondant swag. This design has become very popular for a traditional bride’s cake, but with a modern twist. Each tier features a different taste including their classic flavors of strawberry with cream cheese and pecan filling, their signature Swedish almond, Italian cream and lemon. Sam and Sandra McGhar are a husband-wife team who have been specializing in wedding cakes for 28 years. They understand how important the planning phase of your wedding is and they go above and beyond to make your tasting experience extra special. Call for appointments for your special tasting and consultation. Find them on Facebook.
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4 4. Pretty in Pink by Whisk Champagne Chiffon with fresh strawberry orange filling and champagne butter cream, covered with rolled fondant with iridescent dust and gum paste pearls and brooch. Culinary trained cake designer and owner, Shannon Lescarini, specializes in wedding cakes, signature cakes, novelty cakes, and seasonally designed cakes. All orders are custom tailored, baked to order and never frozen, with fresh ingredients. A variety of flavors are offered from chocolate fudge and vanilla bean to champagne chiffon and Persian love cake.
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Five tiers in a traditional ombré pattern that graduates from dark to light within the same color. Cakes can be created in the bride’s choice of colors.
6. Golden Glow by Academy Events & Catering Seven tiers covered with light gold fondant and accented with old gold dots in a random pattern. The cake is accented with roses and gerber daisies in shades of red that are blushed with old gold. Owned and operated by Mary Ann Campbell, Rick Campbell and Robert Cawley, Academy Events and Catering has been in business for 12 years. The Chefs Campbell and Chef Rob Cawley are all certified by the American Culinary Federation (ACF). Their chefs will meet with you by appointment and after consulting with you, they will present a written proposal for your review.
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7. Diamonds and Petals by Liger’s Bakery Cream pound cake with lemon pineapple filling, white chocolate buttercream and rolled fondant. Diamond banding, gum paste roses and fondant rose petals adorn the cake that has been shimmered in pearl.
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by Liger’s Bakery Red velvet cake with whipped cream cheese frosting accented with burlap ribbon and burlap bow. Ivy Davis, previous owner of Icing Illusions, is now creating sugar works of art as the owner of Montgomery’s Oldest Bakery, Ligers. Ivy has over 30 years baking and decorating experience specializing in fondant and gum paste sugar art. She will work with customers to create the cake of their dreams. As a member, and previous executive board member of (ICES) an International Sugar Arts organization, Ivy has met and taken classes from some of the top cake artists in the business. All cakes made from scratch with the freshest ingredients.
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THE BRIDESMAID
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DIARIES
THE GOOD, THE BAD & THE UGLY
bridezilla (bride·zil·la)
noun. Formed from blending of the words bride and Godzilla (Japanese movie monster). A woman who thinks that all things related to her wedding MUST be controlled by her because she is under the idea that the wedding is “her” day. In planning the wedding, her attitude ranges from very difficult to impossible. Can be nasty, snippy, rude, belligerent, caustic, aggressive and demeaning when others get involved in planning “her” day.
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e are all familiar with this term, whether from a reality show or first-hand experience. Camouflaged in the body of a beautiful woman, this creature is not a force to be reckoned with nor can it be tamed. Simply stand back and let it run its course. We’ve put together some outrageous bridezilla moments for what-not-to-do and a case of cool and collected bridal behavior during a time of crisis. For all the brides-to-be, please keep these stories in mind when mishaps arise before you release a fury strong enough to destroy a Japanese city.
The Good: FANtastic Attitude As we all know, outdoor weddings in the south can be absolutely breathtaking… ly hot. My brother and sister-inlaw were married at a gorgeous plantation home on June 6 in Mobile, Ala. As a sweet gesture, the bride’s parents gave each member of the bridal party a “goodie bag” that included a battery operated fan. It came time for pictures of the bride and groomsmen, and after several poses, the photographer decided to loosen things up a bit. He had the brilliant idea of having the groomsmen hold the fans up around my sister-in-law. Anxious to get the perfect shot, the photographer had the guys lean in. Closer…closer…too close. Groomsman’s fan catches bride’s immaculate updo. Curious about the commotion, I walked outside to find my future sister-in-law with alligator tears welling up in her eyes. Next thing I know, tears vanish and make-up is saved. She looks at her maid of honor and simply says, “Cut it out. Just cut it out.” No questions asked, the bridesmaid released her hair from the fan in one snip. I have never been more impressed.
The Bad:
Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe A good friend of mine was approached by someone she thought was a close friend (I mean, she was the maid of honor in her wedding) about being a bridesmaid. A few months later, my friend stumbled upon the bride’s wedding blog. After scrolling through the details, she noticed that she was absent from the bridesmaid roster. Confused, she contacted the bride to find out why she had not received any information about wedding festivities. The bride replied to her via text that she had changed her mind about having her as a bridesmaid and that she just didn’t feel as close to her anymore. Brides, refer to The Bridesmaid Diaries: Part 1. Choosing your bridesmaids should not be done on impulse. If you feel like there is a mutual understanding that you and your friend have grown apart-grow up and talk to her about it. If you cannot have an adult conversation with a friend, maybe you aren’t adult enough to get married…
Camera Ready If you have ever been involved in the planning of a big event, you are fully aware that there are going to be a few minor hiccups during the main event. A toddler serving as a flower girl or ring bearer in a wedding ceremony is always a risk because of a child’s unpredictable behavior. I attended a wedding where this was exactly the case. The groom’s niece looked absolutely adorable walking down the aisle. It wasn’t long before she became restless during the vows and started pulling on her mother’s bridesmaid’s dress. The bride noticed what was going on and instead of ignoring this, she made a scene by rolling her eyes and releasing a rather loud sigh. If this was not enough, there was a short delay with her music after the “happy” couple was introduced. The look on her face was enough to make all of the guests uncomfortable, and her facial expressions were all anyone could talk about during the reception. Remember ladies, it is all in how you handle it. Go with the flow, and there is a good chance no one will even notice!
The Ugly: Seeing Red
A friend of mine was part of a wedding last summer where the bride decided that everyone had to use the same bright purple nail polish for their manicures. A bit odd but not a big deal. That is, until one of the bridesmaids showed up without her nails done and the bride went postal. The weeping involved a lot of “How could you do this to me? The pictures will be ruined,” that sort of thing. Nobody had a bottle of the polish with them, so she forced the poor bridesmaid to go to a drugstore and purchase the polish — an hour before the wedding ceremony was to begin. Faced with that time crunch, the bridesmaid sweetly suggested that she might be more useful if she could help the bride get ready. Infuriated, the bride instructed the photographer not to take any pictures with the un-manicured bridesmaid.
Little Mrs. Overkill I recently heard a story about a bride that was obsessed with having her wedding featured in a popular wedding magazine. She had meticulously planned every last detail and may have gone a little overboard. Lots of brides choose color palettes, but she sent out the precise color of the bridesmaids’ dresses — along with suggested complimentary colors for our jewelry and lipstick. A little demanding but not that big of a deal, right? But then she decided to instruct guests on what to wear, sending out a PDF with color combos and her preferred fabrics. In the end, she did get a spot in the wedding magazine but developed a new reputation among her friends as Mrs. Control Freak.
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nce upon a time, there was a married couple who decided to renew their vows in front of their family and friends. This couple asked my father, a banker– far from videographer– to capture the ceremony on video. They would provide the camera, all dad had to do was stand there and push record. Somewhere amidst the craziness of planning such an event, someone forgot to charge the camera. This little fact was not known until my dad tried to turn it on just seconds before the ceremony. My dad stood there, on the side of the church, pretending to record when not an ounce of video was captured. Memories...lost forever. Brides, DON'T let this happen to you! Hiring a videographer is often overlooked in the wedding planning process but it is definitely something you want to invest in. Imagine being transported back to your wedding day anytime you want. You are handed real, live action shots from one of the biggest days of your life. This is the best way to capture all the little things you're bound to
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forget over time. Resist the request from Aunt Sue to whip out her camcorder and instead, opt for a professional. You want your wedding video to truly reflect you and your wedding's style. A professional, like Bearded Man Film Co., creates a movie that is unique to you. Unlike some cookie cutter video that comes from a template, it's a moving work of art. There is a lot that goes into planning a wedding, but on the actual wedding day most details aren't even enjoyed by the bride and groom. Between posing for pictures, speaking to your guests and being everywhere you're supposed to be at the right time, you miss a lot of things that a videographer will catch. In today's technologically advanced world, it's only natural that the progression of preserving events has leaned more and more to videography. The cinematic drama that a professional can bring to your wedding film will have you
reliving those memories for years to come. You won't find a bride who regrets having their wedding on film, but you can find countless brides who regret not capturing this priceless footage. The Bearded Man Film Co. does much more than wedding films, but when they do weddings...they do it right. When asked about her wedding experience with The Bearded Man Film Co., Melissa McInnis says, “Working with Josh is a delight. His desire is to meet your vision for the wedding video. He creates a unique piece that allows you to easily remember your special day and all its details. My husband and I love popping the DVD in and revisiting an event we will always cherish.” Meet the man behind the beard, Joshua Pittman, and find out why you should book him today.
What can one expect when they book you to film their wedding? A: A personal, caring and creative approach on making that day as special as it can be. I take great pride in getting to know the bride and groom to build something that’s totally unique to them.
How have wedding films evolved over time? In other words, how will a modern bride's wedding video differ from her mother's video? A: It’s not slow pans, cheesy transitions and interviews of grandma. It’s become a more authentic, real experience. It’s not long slow shots of the cheese tray; it’s those honest, true, once in a lifetime moments captured in a way that's more like a movie than a home video.
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What is your past experience in videography, wedding and commercial? A: I’ve worked weddings big and small. I just love capturing life! I’m blessed to work with some incredible clients. I work with the City of Montgomery, AUM, ASF, MMFA and MAX Credit Union just to name a few. Whether it’s weddings or commercial it’s about telling a convincing story. It’s so much more than just making a good looking video. It has to cut through it all and make a connection.
How does your pricing work and what does it include? A: Instead of complicated packages I use a flat rate approach. There are no levels. One price gets me for the entire day– from make-up to clean up as I like to say. That model has served me well. It puts the bride and groom at ease because everything is upfront.
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Gifts for the
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Gorgeous Gesture: Personalized hankies like these are thoughtful gifts for everyone-bride, MOB, FOB or bridesmaids. Wedding Chicks. Weddingchicks.com
Pretty as a Picture: Classy & Fabulous:
Keep your bouquet always in mind with a custom watercolor painting that will look amazing in your new living room. Sarah Park Designs. etsy.com/shop/sarahparkdesigns
Surprise your bride with this beautiful Chanel necklace-even the color screams romance! Jenny Johnson jewelry designs. Huestudioinc.com
Soft & Sweet: ‘Sew’ Special: These locally handmade garters are a special gesture to give the bride. Completely customizable to what the bride loves-a true one-of-a-kind keepsake! Lenora B. etsy.com/shop/LenoraB
Feel and look gorgeous in this ‘loungerie’ set. This colorful robe is perfect for getting ready on the big day and a staple for your honeymoon. Plum Pretty Sugar. plumprettysugar.com
Carry me Everywhere: A perfect sized pouch to carry all your jewelry in before jet setting to the Caribbean. Goes great paired with this matching tote as a carryon. Cinda B. huestudioinc.com
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Gifts for the
Bridesmaids Get Ready: These gorgeous robes are perfect for getting ready on the big day, and look great in makeup and hair prep pictures. Plum Pretty Sugar. Plumprettysugar.com
Sweetest Scent:
Monogram it:
These teacup candles are a wonderful gift for your maids. Not only do they smell wonderful, you get a wonderful teacup when the candle burns down-two gifts in one! Wicks and Willow. Etsy.com/shop/ wicksandwillow
Southern girls love anything monogrammed and necklaces are no exception. Hue studio. Huestudioinc.com
Custom Clutch: These custom bags are a perfect addition to any outfit and great for your bridesmaids to carry important necessities. Oatmeal Lace Design. Oatmeallacedesign.com
Dress up: Don’t be afraid to branch out with jewelry to add flair to your maids on the big day. With necklace, earrings and bracelet to match you have a variety of gift options. Jenny Johnson jewelry designs. huestudioinc.com
You are an Angel: These sweet angel paintings are a gorgeous gift for your maids. Pick your colors and bible verse to be included so each one is unique. Kathy Murphy artwork. Facebook.com/pages/lulus-attic-to-antiques
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Gifts for the
Groom
Smell so Good: With a variety of scents, you will be sure to find something you like in Royall—you have to smell good on the big day too! The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Write it all down: With this leather Colonel Littleton journal you will look sharp and in style at that next business meeting. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Cool it: Linked in Love:
Not only is this cooler practically indestructible, it keeps things cold for days. Load it up for the next tailgate or lake trip. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Surprise your groom with these locally made cuff links by Ex Voto. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Carry on: This Filson bag is the perfect size for a weekend getaway and is a great luggage carry on. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Gifts for the
Groomsmen Name Brand: A manly way to give a personalized gift, these steak branding irons are clever and unique. Made to brand steaks on the grill with your choice of stick letter from A-Z. Krsaddleshop.com
Liquid Courage:
Safe Keeping:
Sip in style in this all leather flask by Filson. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
This Over and Under wallet is a perfect gift for gents and fits wonderfully in the front pocket of dress slacks and jeans. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Accessorize: Pocket squares make great statements to any attire and you can customize them with a monogram. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
Tie it up: Ties are not only a practical gift but are a great addition for your groomsmen attire on the wedding day. For spring and summer these seersucker ones are oh so dapper. The Locker Room. Tlrclothiers.com
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Gifts for the
Out of Town Guests
Gift Basket: A basket in the shape of Alabama is an appropriate and unique way to hold these fun gifts. basket-Goat Hill Museum dish towel- hue studio, inc hat- Biscuit Basket treats- Tucker Pecan Boll Weevil Soap- Goat Hill Museum
Tour of the Town Provide your guests with some light reading of local happenings to ensure they’re fully aware of their surroundings and the pulse of the city. L to R: Montgomery Visitor’s Guide, Sweet Home Alabama Vacation Guide, RSVP Montgomery magazine, Hank Williams Trail Brochure, Alabama Golf Guide, Harriott II Riverboat Brochure, Montgomery Zoo Brochure.
Southern Samples: Who doesn’t love some locally made kitchen goodness? These jams, jellies and more will be a big hit with your out of town guests. The Black Kettle Recipe Book from Point Clear- Goat Hill Museum Capital Cool Mug- Montgomery Visitor’s Center Pure Alabama Honey-Goat Hill Museum alAga syrup sample-Montgomery Visitor’s Center Berdeux’s Sweet Island Dipping Sauce- Tucker Pecan Nalty’s Voodoo Marinade- Montgomery Visitor’s Center Las Hermanas Jalepeno Jelly- Goat Hill Museum Wickles Wickeled Okra- Montgomery Visitor’s Center Pot holder- Goat Hill Museum
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I’m not a huge fan of airport layovers. I always end up eating overpriced Chinese food and scouring the walls for an open outlet for my phone charger. This past July I had a particularly long layover in Houston, Texas and fully expected for it to be just as uneventful as every other layover to date. To pass the time I struck up a random conversation with a fellow passenger. It turned out that he was also from Alabama, and lived pretty close to me. We ended up talking for several hours and parting as friends. Two weeks later, Tom introduced me to his gorgeous daughter Noelle, and I asked her to marry me five months after that on New Year’s Eve.
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There have been so many changes in my life over the last few months that it’s hard to keep track of them all. I got a new job, moved to a new city, fell madly in love and got engaged. The list goes on and, needless to say, my schedule doesn’t allow much time to get in the gym and stay in shape. That being said, I am currently in the best shape of my life and would love to share five simple ways for you to do the same!
AccountAbility We all have those days when we wake up early, eat a good breakfast, hit the gym, drink plenty of water, eat healthy, and feel great. We also have those days where we wake up at 10 a.m. and finish that leftover pizza in the fridge before getting sucked into the Seinfeld marathon. Fortunately, those days differ from person to person. If you have a solid group that’s committed to helping you succeed and has the same goals as you do, you can help each other make those days less frequent. Having a coach or personal trainer is great, but having friends who want to succeed as much as you do is even better. 46
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Go hArd! If your to-do list looks anything like mine, there just aren’t enough hours in the day to get it all done. While I thoroughly enjoy going for a nice long run, I just don’t have the time to change, run for an hour, cool down, shower, and change again. Great results aren’t equivalent to time spent working out. Great results come from the quality of the time you spend working out. Taking an hour long walk or run can be relaxing and effective, but you can get the same results from really pushing yourself for 20 minutes. While there is definitely a time and place for endurance based workouts, you’ll get way more bang for your buck by really pushing yourself hard for shorter amounts of time.
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It’s fascinating how our bodies adapt to certain situations. Even specialized athletes, like Olympic runners, have to change up their workout and cross train so their bodies are continually challenged to grow and adapt to new situations. By continually changing your workout routine, you are forcing your body to adapt to new situations and work even harder. Be creative and don’t be afraid to try new things!
Fuel yourSelF Set SmAll, AchievAble GoAlS
It’s easy to get in the mindset that “the less I eat, the more weight I’ll lose”. While that’s true to an extent, without the proper fuel, you won’t have the energy to get the results in the gym that you’re looking for. Lean meats, vegetables, nuts, seeds, some fruit and small amounts of starch are a perfect combination for a balanced diet that will give you the energy to push yourself in the gym and get the results that you need. If you’re not giving your body the fuel that it needs, you’re working against yourself in the gym.
Keeping a commitment is easier with accountability. Setting a big weight loss goal for the wedding day can be really intimidating and even discouraging. Set goals that you have control over. Don’t say “I’m going to lose 12 pounds in 2 months”. Instead, say “I’m going to spend at least 20 minutes working out really hard for at least 4 days a week”. Consistency is huge in getting results and you have complete control over how often you exercise. Don’t be afraid to have big goals, but make sure you have achievable ones by setting smaller goals.
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Ideas that Inspire In the world of weddings, there are infinite resources for brides to gather swoon worthy ideas. Local top-notch wedding planners and photographers know how to turn those ideas into a gorgeous reality and we’re here to feature our favorites. May the next several pages strike a chord of creativity as you prepare to say “I Do” and may your marriage be as beautiful as your wedding.
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With its stunning architecture and beautifully landscaped lawn and gardens, the Alabama Governor’s Mansion is rich in history. These scenes evoke images from a 1920s Fitzgerald novel; one could easily imagine Jay Gatsby on the grounds here overlooking one of his elaborate parties.
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The Blushing Bride By Catherine Calligas
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hether you choose to do it yourself or hire a professional for help, wedding makeup plays an important role in every bride’s big day. There are many factors that can impact how well your face looks, from the humidity at an outdoor wedding to the effects of having a bit too much to drink the night before at your rehearsal dinner. It’s not just about looking radiant for your groom and guests, either…. you want to make sure that your face is at its best for the many pictures you will be taking. We talked with the best makeup artists in the area to get their thoughts on the dos and don’ts of wedding makeup and skincare.
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How can you carry a natural look for an evening reception?
Rebekah Edwards, Lush Makeup Art and Doug’s 2 Salon and Spa: When a bride wants a natural look, I apply colors that are complimentary to her eyes, hair, and skin tone. This ensures that she will have a flawless look that enhances her features without looking overly made up. One of the most common questions I get is “Will my makeup last through the night?” The only time I may see an issue with this is outdoor weddings in the summer. For these events, airbrush makeup is usually the best option. It is a water based product that is oil and alcohol free, and a great choice for dealing with the Alabama humidity.
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What can a bride do to prepare for having her wedding makeup done? Hope: Have things in order so there are no distractions. Brianna Skelton, Makeup by Brianna G: I usually ask the brides I work with to go through magazines and find a few photos of looks that they love. This helps to put us on the same page and we can work together to find the perfect look. Lakyn: Begin a nightly routine of cleansing your skin. Never go to bed with your makeup on! When your complexion is smooth and fresh, your makeup will be too.
Lakyn McClure, L’Esprit Salon and Spa: You can strengthen your look by adding a deeper color to the crease of your eyes and applying black liner on the top and bottom lash lines for a dramatic “pop”. Finish this look with a shimmer dust on your cheeks for a beautiful, romantic glow.
How important is a trial makeup run? Rebekah: Trial runs are a must! I love trial runs because this is how I learn what the bride is envisioning for her big day. I want her personality and style to shine through. Hope Meadows, Bella: Very important. Preparation is the key to making wedding day makeup a breeze.
Is there anything a bride should avoid doing before the big day? Rebekah: Don’t try anything new the week before your wedding! Don’t risk being sunburned on your wedding or having a reaction to a new product. Hope: Avoiding large amounts of alcohol is an understatement, and a bride should not make a major change in her appearance, such as with a haircut.
Is there anything a bride can do to make your job easier? Brianna: The consultation obviously makes everything much easier. So does communication and just being on time! Lakyn: Fill me in on any allergies to save us from any surprise reactions.
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Are there any common misconceptions brides have about getting their wedding makeup done? Brianna: A lot of times brides worry about the cost of hiring a professional makeup artist. A professional makeup artist is trained to have you camera ready, and we are trained to work with different skin types, tones, features, etc. We are also used to working in different environments, whether they are humid, hot, or cold. You have planned every detail of your wedding to be perfect. Your wedding day beauty should be perfect as well.
What, to you, is the most important part of a beauty routine? Rebekah: Moisturize! So many women don’t moisturize enough. Even if your skin is oily, it still needs hydration. Hope: Skincare, skincare, skincare! I can’t stress that enough. A lot of frosting does not make a bad cake good. Brianna: Skincare! Using the right cleanser, toner, under eye cream, SPF, and moisturizer is key. Being on the right skincare regimen is, in my opinion, crucial to your beauty routine. Lakyn: A healthy diet and skin cleansing regimen.
ENGAGEMENTS Sigle-Riggs Engagement
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Mallory Sherwood Sigle and James Mikel Riggs met at Auburn in the summer of 2008 in a kinesiology class. While enrolled at Auburn, Mallory was an Auburn cheerleader and Mikel worked as a videographer for the football team. After dating for two years in college, they began a long distance relationship as Mallory started physical therapy school in Atlanta at Emory University. A year later Mikel took his first football coaching job in Foley, Ala., and the six hour drives became a regular routine. Mikel surprised Mallory on October 25, 2012 when he drove to Atlanta in the middle of football season and proposed to her at her apartment. Their wedding will be on May 18, 2013 at First United Methodist Church in Montgomery. Mallory is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Michael Miaoulis of Montgomery, Ala., and Mr. Robert Dale Sigle of Atlanta, Ga. Mikel is the son of Mr. and Mrs. James Lowell Riggs of Brewton, Ala.
Meghan Elizabeth McCown and Dennis Cade Collum first met in 2005 but did not start dating until Valentine’s Day of 2006. In late 2012, for a few hours each night, Cade stayed busy working on something in the garage. He would not tell Meghan what he was up to, and asked that she not go into the garage. Although she was curious, Meghan complied with his request. On December 4, 2012, they went out for a nice dinner and returned home. When Meghan walked into the kitchen, she finally saw what Cade had been working on: a beautiful wooden bench (with three bouquets of lilies sitting on top). In the midst of her surprise over the bench and flowers, Cade gave her a gorgeous engagement ring and asked Meghan to marry him. Their wedding is set for May 17, 2014. Meghan is the daughter of the late Mr. Gerald McCown and Ms. Lisa McCown and Cade is the son of Mr. Dennis Collum and the late Ms. Becki Collum, all of Deatsville, Ala.
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Green-Coleman Engagement Algernon Sidney Coleman, IV and Kristen Courtney Green met in March 2012. Although Sid may not like to admit it, his mother Debbie was the means by which they were introduced. Courtney and Debbie regularly attended the same spin class at the Westminster YMCA in Montgomery. After about three months of his mother’s “name dropping” and mentioning the sweet girl in spin class, Sid decided to find out for himself. He got Courtney’s phone number and asked her out to dinner. Two days later, they went on their first date to The Olive Room in downtown Montgomery and the rest is history. Sid proposed during a trip to the beach in October 2012, and the wedding is set for April 13, 2013 at First Baptist Church in Montgomery. Sid is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Algernon Sidney Coleman, III, of Montgomery, Ala., and Courtney is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Jerome Green of Luverne, Ala. P h o t o c o u r t e s y o f D av i d R o b e r t s o n , J r.
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ENGAGEMENTS Dismukes-Flowers Engagement Nine years ago, Peyton Dismukes met Andy Flowers while Andy was visiting his family in Selma, Ala. Andy’s aunt was a childhood friend of Peyton’s mother, so it was exciting when their paths crossed. Only 14 and 15 year-olds at the time, Andy and Peyton each had a crush on the other but didn’t see or speak for four months. On Valentine’s Day 2005, Peyton traveled to Linden, Ala. with a school friend who is also Andy’s cousin (this friend is the one who introduced the two) to watch a pageant at Andy’s high school. On this trip to Linden, Andy bought her a cookie dough blizzard and Peyton gave him her number. Two weeks later they were “dating” (as much as 14 and 15 year olds living an hour apart can “date”). As neither of them could drive, their parents would graciously drive them to meet in the middle to see each other and thus began their story. Several four hour phone calls, college formals, far away internships and date nights later, Andy proposed to Peyton in her parents’ backyard. While enrolled at Troy University, Andy served as president of Sigma Chi fraternity and Peyton as president of Kappa Delta sorority. Both enjoyed their time in the Student Government Association and various honor societies. During their four years at Troy, they unsuccessfully tried to eat at every single restaurant in the city and took extreme advantage of the student discount at the local movie theater. The two plan to wed on April 6, 2013 in Selma. After a honeymoon in the Dominican Republic, the couple will reside in Jackson, Miss. where Andy works as an associate broker for CRC Insurance. Peyton is the daughter of Keith and Karen Dismukes of Selma, Ala. Andy is the son of Eddie and Tammy Freeman of Linden, Ala. and Eugene Flowers of Demopolis, Ala. P h o t o g r ap hy by K i m B ox P h o t o g r ap hy
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arbara Hamlin Agricola and Joseph Benjamin McCormick, II made Alabama history on October 6, 2012 when they became the first couple to marry on the steps of the Alabama Capitol. It was a stunning backdrop with a classic southern elegance. The bride’s priest, the Rev. Rusty DeMoss of Christchurch, and the groom’s brother, the Rev. Wesley McCormick, were both present at the ceremony, which included three bible readings that are special to the bride and groom. As they took communion, Ellyn Hamm, the groom’s cousin, sang the Lord’s Prayer a cappella. Barbara is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Algert Swanson Agricola, Jr. of Montgomery, Ala., and Jody is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Gibbs Rex McCormick, Jr. of New Brockton, Ala. The bride wore a blush pink, strapless Vera Wang gown. It was a trumpet style dress with overflowing organza fabric cascading around the bottom. Her shoes were gold pumps and she carried a bouquet of white flowers with pops of blush colored roses and New Brockton cotton. For jewelry, Barbara chose her mother’s antique diamond earrings and a diamond pendant necklace given to her by the groom. She also wore a multi-strand pearl bracelet with a vintage diamond clasp. On her right hand, Barbara wore her paternal grandmother’s engagement ring. The bride’s own engagement ring was also the engagement ring of her maternal great grandmother. Erin Agricola, Lindsey Turtle, Jessica Lemons, Kassie Foster, Megan Campbell, Holly Chesnut, Britton All and Blossom
Nelson served as bridesmaids. They wore knee length dresses in various shades of blush and carried white bouquets with New Brockton cotton. In another personal touch, Barbara chose to have her best friend, Patrick Hubbard, serve as Man of Honor. He stood next to the bride during the ceremony wearing the same attire as the groomsmen but with a pale pink shirt. The groom wore a custom navy suit with a navy and pink checkered shirt, a paisley print bow tie and matching pocket square. Each of his groomsmen wore the same navy suit, bow tie and pocket square but with white shirts. They also wore boutonnieres of cotton on the stalk wrapped in twine. Sgt. Gibbs Rex McCormick, III, the groom’s older brother, served as Best Man. Other groomsmen were Dennis Hinton, Chad Crowson, Chad Wolbach, David Hernandez, Capt. Joseph Sawyer, III, Jason Curran, Kenneth Nichols, and Patrick Byrne. Barbara and Jody’s reception was held at Montgomery restaurant, Central. Personal touches were added throughout such as New Brockton cotton, floral arrangements with deer antlers and candles. Before entering the main part of the restaurant, the couple dined privately in the underground wine room. Upstairs, there was a homemade biscuit bar for guests with a variety of meats, jams and jellies. Leah Coles created a variety of hors d’oeuvre and Kyle Kinder created specialty “His and Her” drinks for the occasion. The couple spent their honeymoon skiing in Breckenridge, Colo. They now reside in a house in Montgomery’s Garden District that they renovated together.
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t an outdoor evening ceremony overlooking the Coosa River, Courtney Michelle Labosky and Benjamin Thomas Selman showed their love for each other and for “The Loveliest Village on the Plains” in an Auburn-themed wedding. Tim Thompson of Frazer United Methodist Church performed the marriage ceremony on August 25, 2012 at Whitewater Ridge in Wetumpka, Ala. Courtney is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Michael John Labosky of Montgomery, Ala., and Benjamin is the son of Mr. Lee Selman, of Gulf Shores, Ala., and Ms. Deborah Selman, of Pensacola, Fla. The bride wore a tulle overlay Enzoani Blue mermaid gown with a sweetheart neckline and lace straps, featuring a natural waist with floral corsage and a chapel train. Her fingertip veil was made from Alencon lace, pearls and sequins. The bridal bouquet was made up of blue hydrangeas, hypericum, orange gerbera daisies, orange mokara orchids and white football mums tied together with navy and white striped ribbons. Courtney’s wedding makeup was done by Rebekah Edwards of Lush Makeup Art, and her hair was styled by Gena from Doug’s 2 Salon.
Leigh Arkle served as Courtney’s Maid of Honor and Sarah Gilliland was Matron of Honor. Betty Jo Green, Macey Franklin, and Elyse Darnell were also bridesmaids. Each bridesmaid wore a navy and white striped dress that tied at the waist with a white ribbon. Their bouquets held white roses, orange gerbera daisies and orange roses. The groom’s father, Lee Selman, was Best Man. The groomsmen—Jack Selman, Sheldon Goff, Jeremy Blackmon and Barry Langston—all wore navy suits with blue shirts and orange ties. Malachi Sides was the ring bearer for the ceremony and Adeline Piper Sajko served as flower girl. Guests held orange and blue shakers as the bride and groom recessed to the Auburn fight song. Following the wedding ceremony was a reception at Whitewater Ridge clubhouse, where the bride sang When You Say Nothing At All to the groom. Guests dined on food provided by White Wings Catering and danced to music from DJ Dave Patrick of Exponential Entertainment. Courtney and Benjamin now live in Pensacola, Fla.
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elissa Kay McKinney and Clayton Anderson McInnis were married on September 22, 2012, in a ceremony at the Wynfield Estate in Montgomery, Ala. Surrounded by nature, the couple said their vows outdoors in front of a miniature chapel and under a canopy of trees.
They each wore one shouldered, chocolate brown knee length dresses and carried bouquets that were a colorful mix of fall tones.
Melissa is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Garland Thomas McKinney of Snellville, Ga., and Clay is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Timothy Neal McInnis of Montgomery, Ala.
Clay’s father, Timothy Neal McInnis, served as his Best Man. Groomsmen Barrett Austin, Walter Parker, Timothy McInnis, J.W. Morris, Chris McKinney, Samuel Hunter and Ryan Hurd all wore khaki colored poplin suits with white dress shirts and chocolate brown ties.
The bride wore her mother’s wedding dress from 1972, and had modern alterations made to fit her style and the tone of the event. Her bouquet was an arrangement of all white flowers. Melissa’s two best friends, Kristy Nansteel Shackelford and Brittany Bouffard, served as her Matron of Honor and Maid of Honor. Other bridesmaids included Amy Haygood, Katie Emrich, Christina McInnis, Anna Crabtree, Kelly Quarterman, and Lindsay McKinney. Lillie McInnis was a junior bridesmaid.
Georgia McInnis, Charlee McInnis, Abigail McKinney, and Lilly McKinney were all flower girls.
Despite the number of guests present, the ceremony and reception had a very intimate feel. Mary Sanders of Mary Me Wedding Planning was the director. Melissa and Clay currently reside in Montgomery.
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t two o’clock in the afternoon on June 9, 2012, Karoline Ann Richardson and Edward Hugh McGrail, III were married at The Church of the Holy Spirit in Montgomery, Ala. Monsignor Charles Troncale, the bride’s childhood priest, united the couple in matrimony during a nuptial mass with 300 guests in attendance. Karoline is the daughter of Kenneth and Yvonna Richardson of Montgomery, Ala., and granddaughter of the late Morris and Julia Nail of Montgomery, Ala., and the late Fredric and Irene Richardson of Indianapolis, Ind. The groom is the son of Edward and Roberta McGrail of Colorado Springs, Colo., and the grandson of Emily McGrail and the late Edward Hugh McGrail Sr, and the late Robert and Barbara Klemn of New York, N.Y. Both the wedding and reception reflected vintage themes using family heirlooms and handmade details. Guests received paper hearts with forget-me-not seeds as a save the date, followed by hand letterpress invitations on antique cotton paper. Inside the church were pink and cream colored floral wreaths and candelabras with French tulle and ivy, along
with a wide array of flower arrangements by Martha Rae Florist. Cones made from antique book pages were filled by fresh flowers tied with pink satin and draped over each pew. The bride wore a candlelight ball gown by Amsale with a sweetheart neckline. The gown’s silk bodice was layered in French tulle, ruched to the side, and adorned with a stone colored silk satin ribbon. Flowing from the natural waist were eight layers of floor length French tulle, and the dress was finished with a French bustle. Karoline chose a two layer French tulle fingertip veil with antique Chantilly lace that was hand sewn by her mother. A butterfly broach that belonged to Karoline’s grandmother adorned the ribbon wrapped comb that held the veil in place. Karoline’s bouquet consisted of pink cloud and honeysuckle crown sweetheart roses, Alexandria pink roses, O’Hara garden roses, cream and blush peonies, pink and green hydrangeas, and gardenias, all tied together with blush pink ribbon and antique lace. Antique broaches that belonged to the grandmothers of both the bride and groom were pinned to the bouquet. Emily Richardson, sister of the bride, was Maid of Honor.
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Karoline’s best friend and sorority sister, Casey Hooper, served as Matron of Honor. Other bridesmaids were Amy Kirker, Amber Parris, and Meghan Stringer. They wore knee length, toast colored Waters Wtoo dresses with luminescent taffeta bodices and shirred skirts held by a flower broach in the back. The groom wore a black tuxedo with a white vest and tie. In honor of his Irish heritage, he wore a boutonniere of shamrocks and belles of Ireland. Eddie’s best friends Robert Murphy and Michael David served as Best Men. Friends David Brunson, David Maloof and Andre Urquiza were groomsmen. All wore black tuxedos with brown vests and ties. Assisting the bridesmaids and groomsmen in their wedding duties were two flower girls, Michele Presley and Tess Reinmann, and two ring bearers, Eli Presley and Clark Gunnels. Michele is the granddaughter of Karoline’s godfather and uncle, and Tess is a niece of the groom’s. They each wore raw silk tea length dresses in a cream color with hand embroidery on blush panels. Eli, grandson of the bride’s godfather and uncle, and Clark, son of one of the bride’s friends, wore eton cream raw silk buttoned shorts and matching Peter Pan pintuck collar shirts with white satin piping. Following the ceremony, guests danced through the night to the music of Feel the Beat at Jasmine Hill and Gardens. Tables were covered with burlap tablecloths and held heirloom silver teapots and cups, antique vases and bottles, and other silver pieces filled with flowers. Guests dined on a mixed green strawberry salad, braised chicken with a vodka cheese sauce, glazed pork tenderloin medallions, fresh asparagus, and garlic smashed potatoes, all prepared under the direction of Leslie Bailey and the staff of Chappy’s catering. Icing Illusions created a three tiered almond cake with butter icing to match the bride’s dress. The chocolate groom’s cake was decorated to match his favorite cigar and was served from the cigar bar set up by Zelda’s Cigars. Guests took home brownies in gift boxes cut by the bride. As the reception came to an end, Karoline and Eddie escaped through a myriad of bubbles into a vintage Bentley. Alongside photographers Mark and Jeannie of Mark Broadway Photography was the crew of the television show Say Yes to the Dress. The episode showcasing Karoline and Eddie’s special day was broadcast in late October 2012.
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ontgomery’s Cloverdale neighborhood was the perfect setting on May 19, 2012 for both the wedding ceremony and reception of Catherine Chandler Sims and Nicholas Skyler Hines. Chandler, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lee Haigler Sims of Montgomery, Ala., and Nick, son of Mr. and Mrs. Randy Lee Hines of Mobile, Ala., were wed at First United Methodist Church with Dr. Robert Lawson Bryan officiating. The bride wore a white silk gown from the Priscilla of Boston Vineyard Collection and a full length Brussels lace veil. The veil had previously been worn by Lucie Sims Edwards, the bride’s sister and Matron of Honor. Lucie’s two daughters, Madison Stuart Edwards and Lucie Hayes Edwards, were flower girls. Chandler’s bridesmaids carried small bouquets of white peonies and wore hand painted silk dresses made by Montgomery’s own Susan Starr. Mary Beth Walls, Erin Lindsay Sharpe, Meredith Lavender Belkofer, Sally Vann Wiggins, Leigh McCormack, and Adrienne Coley all served as bridesmaids.
Nick’s groomsmen were appropriately dressed for a spring wedding in cream colored linen suits. The groom’s father, Randy Lee Hines, served as his Best Man. Other groomsmen included Scott Michael Hines, William Gaines Cumbie, John Benson Edwards, Charles Hardy Demeranville, Hannon Elon Fayard, and Jason Brett Largue. Following the 6:00 p.m. ceremony was an outdoor reception at the home of Chandler’s parents on Thomas Ave. Joining Chandler and Nick on their special day were several relatives of the groom’s who had flown in from England for the wedding. Guests danced the night away underneath a tent to the music of Second Coming. A chandelier and candelabras helped to complete the romantic look and feel of the occasion. Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Hines currently reside in Montgomery, and just recently purchased a new house.
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Something Old, New, Borrowed & TO DO! By Crystal Strickland
How is wedding planning coming? You hear this question over and over but feel compelled to answer with, “I have so much to do and don’t know where to start!” Well, I’m here to help. When asked to write this article, I was ecstatic to share with you my handy dandy list that I began when I got married. I hope you find it useful in getting ready for your big day. So sit back, relax and happy planning!
Basic to do’s: Publish engagement announcement if you’re planning on doing this Book event designer/planner who will handle directing of ceremony, setup of ceremony and reception, takedown, etc. Start compiling guest list and addresses Work on save-the-dates to be sent out 6-8 months before the wedding (optional) Register, register, register! Purchase thank you cards with current initials and future initials for gifts you will receive at showers and after the wedding
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Book honeymoon and flight (be sure to book the hotel you are staying in after your wedding also) Make sure passports are up-to-date Get wedding license Determine rehearsal dinner location as well as your bridal shower luncheon Determine getaway (birdseed, lavender, sparklers, shakers, etc.) and getaway car
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Bride Dress (after purchasing, be sure to schedule alterations with plenty of time left) Shoes, jewelry and undergarments Garters (yes, you need two—one to keep and one to throw) Sixpence (for good luck!) Something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue Schedule salon appointments for nails, eyebrows, etc. Pick out and order groom’s ring Determine bridesmaids attire, and make sure they order everything in time Purchase gifts for bridesmaids (to be given at bridesmaids luncheon or rehearsal dinner) Purchase honeymoon attire and wedding dress undergarments Send out an itinerary to the entire wedding party highlighting the weekend’s events (including luncheons, where to be and what time, etc.)
Groom Purchase or arrange a rental of wedding attire (suit or tux, tie, shoes, etc.) Determine attire for groomsmen, and make sure they order in time. Order bride’s wedding band—also be sure insurance is covered for both of your rings (the Caribbean is full of newlywed bling!) Purchase groomsmen gifts (to be given at rehearsal dinner)
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Ceremony Needs: Guest book (You will need to order this before your showers so you can include pages for guests at showers. Also, be sure to order extra pages if necessary) Reserve minister/officiant • Schedule a meeting with him before wedding to discuss ceremony and any special things that must be done • Also, book any pre-marital counseling (if doing) Reserve ceremony musicians (pianist, organist, violinist, soloist, etc.) Determine ceremony music and order of service Determine and order ceremony programs
Reception Needs: Cake knives (one for yours and his) Goblets or toasting flutes (be sure to get a bottle of champagne or sparkling grape juice to toast with) Guest gifts (optional but can be anything from personalized cups, koozies or candy bars) If having a formal seated dinner, be sure to include seating arrangements and place cards
For Mom (MOB) and Dad (FOB): Pick dress for mom and suit/tux for dad. Pick shoes Gift or sweet letter thanking for a wonderful day
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Caterer (continued): See if your caterer can pack you a picnic basket of things from your reception to take with you after the wedding (My husband and I definitely enjoyed this since we were not too worried about eating at our reception!)
Photographer: Book photographer Schedule engagement pictures if doing Schedule bridal portrait date if doing (set this around 1-2 months from wedding) -Remember to let your florist know so she can have a bouquet for you -Schedule hair and makeup artist -Remember to have all jewelry and shoes at this point for the shoot -I suggest bringing a white sheet so your dress does not get dirty when you stand and so you can wrap the bottom of your dress in it when moving from location to location If wanting specific pictures on your wedding day, be sure to give your photographer a list of photo “must-haves” with certain family members and friends
Videographer: Book videographer Make sure you give him/her a list also if wanting specifics—it is also great to ask if he/she can get the guests involved by asking them to share a special time they had with the couple or even just a simple congrats! You will love watching it over and over re-living your special day!
Flowers: Determine colors, style and who is handling your flowers Sit down with florist and determine ceremony and reception décor (including centerpieces, altar, aisle markers, runner, bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, etc.)
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Entertainment: Book band, DJ, acoustic musician, etc. for reception -After booking, make sure you have all information in the contract including set-up time, break-down time, length of play, break music, equipment and be sure they include the number of band members included because their rates may change year-to-year (you need to get exactly what you are contracted to pay for) Find out what equipment the entertainment is responsible for and what you are responsible for (i.e. speakers, lighting, microphones, etc.) Determine wattage and amperage needed to make sure your venue can handle it (if it is an outdoor reception, you may have to rent a generator for power) Compile a list of ‘must play’ songs and ‘do not play’ songs Send the band your introduction (Mr. and Mrs. …), first dance song, bride/father dance, groom/mother dance, garter toss and bouquet toss songs
Cakes: Determine bride’s cake and groom’s cake (feel free to do what you want! Anything goes nowadays!)
Rentals: Depending on the venue and what is included, you may have to rent a good number of items (tables, chairs, linens, tents, draping, chandeliers, dance floor, staging, lighting, cooling units, heaters, etc.). Remember, unless you are having a full seated dinner, a chair is not necessary for each guest at the reception. Determine delivery and pick-up
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Specialty Lighting: Book lighting company if using Determine if you want up-lighting, monogram lighting, gobos, spotlighting, etc. As with the entertainment, make sure the venue has enough amperage to handle your lighting—if not, you may have to rent a generator
Hair/Make-up Artists: Schedule hair and make-up artist if using for wedding and bridal portrait (your bridal portrait is a great trial session, so it is important to have them scheduled then so you figure out exactly how you want your hair and make-up done for the wedding) Ask about doing hair and make-up for your bridal party so you can give them an option to have theirs done as well Finding pictures of hair and makeup that you like is a great way to show exactly what you want
Invitations: Compile addresses onto an excel spreadsheet Be sure to get formal names and visit Peggy Post’s website for etiquette on addressing if doing it yourself If interested in hiring a calligrapher, make sure you ask the cost of inner and outer envelope addressing as well as the return address Be sure to ask invitation designer/company the weight of the invitation and if extra postage will be needed Mail invitations 4-6 weeks prior to wedding
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resource directory 129 Coosa/Central , p. 79 334.517.1155 www.central129coosa.com
Cake Designs, p. 27
A Catered Affair, p. 29
334.834.8920 capitalmontgomery.com
334.281.4747 www.acateredaffair.info
A Social Event, Inc., p. 26 334.265.7181 www.asocialeventcaterers. com
Academy Events, p. 11
334.567.7322 www.academychefs.com
Accent (Band), p. 14
800.689.BAND(2263) www.musicgardenbands.com
334.288.6900
Capital City Club, p. 91 Chanterelle Photography, p. 21 334.202.8489 chanterellephotography.com
Charlottes, p. 41
334.396.1919 charlottesdiamondjewelers.com
Darren Freeman Photography, p. 84
334.215.7827 darrenfreemanphotography.com
All About Weddings, p. 86
Dougs 2, p. 82
334.272.0221
334.396.7120 dougs2.com
Alley Station, p. 81
Dr. Mackey, p. 12
334.277.1077 www.alleystation.com
334.236.1400 drstevenmackey.com
American Rental and Tent Company, p. 7
Evan & Co., p. 77
334.312.379
Antebellum Aisles/Jackey Lewis, p. 38
334.531.0941 http://www.antebellumaisles. com/
Arrow
334.277.0460 arrowrents.net
Ashlyn’s Cake Cottage, p. 27 334.517.6108
Bearded Man Film Co 334.625.0033 thebmf.co
Bella, p. 72 334.272.8116 Bill Ingalls Photography, p. 22 334.264.3333 billingalls.com
Brianna G Makeup Artistry, p. 59
334.546.9191 www.briannag.com
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Eve’s Studio, p. 60 334.262.8888 evesstudiollc.com
Faux Glow, p. 78 334.300.0273 fauxglowstudio.com Formal Outings, p. 33 334.558.3389 formaloutings.com
Granville Furniture, p. 2 334.279.3101 granvillefurniture.com
Icing Illusions/Ligers Bakery, p. 89
334.395.4444 www.icingillusions.com 334.288.6550
Iron Tribe Fitness, p. 46-47
334.356.9696 irontribefitness.com
Jim Massey Formals, p. 80 334.262.8852 jimmassey.com
Kalli’s Presents Love Stuff, p. 83
Personal Touch, p. 11 334.279.9922 Onlinepersonaltouch.com Pro Fitness 3D, p. 58 334.356.0992
Pure Barre, p. 89
334.834.7790 montgomery@purebarre. com
Regions, p. 89 334.213.1340 regions.com
334.396.2387 lovestuffonline.com
Renaissance, p. 6
Kim Box Photography, p. 9
River Region Facial Plastics, p. 23
334.491.0409 kimboxphotography.com
334.481.5000
334.270.2003 riverregionfacialplastics. com
Kynard Korner, p. 85 334.277.4027 Riverfront kynardkornerreinvintageboutique.com Facilities, p. 63 334.625.2100 L’Esprit, p. 22 funontheriver.net 334.260.0355 lespritsalon.net Southern Posies, p. 48 334.391.3651 Legends at Capitol Hill, p. 85 334.290.1235 Special Event marriott.com Lighting, p. 87 334.834.8946 LeRae Events+Design, p. 78 specialeventlighting.biz 334.850.4917 leraeevents.com State Farm, p. 61 334.272.8423 Lush, p. 90 breckhonea.com 334.315.2863 lushmakeupart.com Studio 4619 Salon, p. 62 334.271.3378 Marquirette’s, p. 3 334.270.0074 The Look Boutique, p.86 marquirettes.com 334.239.7537
Hampstead, p. 34 334.270.6730 hampsteadliving.com
Mary Me, p. 45
Vintage Wedding Plans & Rentals, p. 58
Hello Gorgeous Photography, p. 35
M.E. Hair, p. 87
hellogorgeousphotography.com
334.294.8614 stylseat.com/malloryswain
Ware Jewelers, p. 92 334.386.9273 warejewelers.com
High Five Productions, p. 42
Montgomery Catering, p. 4
Whisk, p. 86 205.531.7134
334.324.3708 334.546.8283 www.high5productions.com
Hue Studio, p. 13 334.239.8884 huestudioinc.com
334.391.7427 marymebrides.com
334.269.0222 montgomery-catering.com
Pamala’s Boutique, p. 14 334.239.8650 shoppamalasboutique.com
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