How to make sense of a Russian girl The elusive inner world of the Russian girl is not, of course, to be found in this "secret book", but in the works of Dostoevsky or Tolstoy. But Russian classics are long, and it would be inappropriate for us to send you to the library to read before your first date with a Russian girl. So if you're hoping for a second date after the first, take a look at these short but extremely important tips. 1. All Russian women are 'girls' Russians are not used to calling women "Russian women", "little girls" or "darling". A woman well past the age of 45 can still be called a "girl". Other terms may not only be offensive, they may also be seen as an insult.
2. Pay In Russia, there is no other choice. A girl is waiting for you to pick up the bill, even if she invites you, even if you order only a cup of coffee, and she orders five dishes and a dessert. Sure, going Dutch is popular in Paris and New York, but if you do it in Moscow, girls will think you're cheap. If the girl is more polite, she may pick up the bag as if she wants to share it with you when the waiter brings the bill. But you mustn't believe it, it's just for show. 3. Carry a bag. If you have one light and one heavy bags in front of you, the correct way is to pick both up. Ideally, a girl should have nothing in her hands except her purse. 4. Care Taking care of Russian girls is more important than taking care of western ladies. For the most part, they want your care. Helping open the door and wearing a coat are standard gestures, but they are very effective.
5. Send flowers First, need to send flowers; Second, Russia to send flowers to send odd. Russians consider even Numbers for funerals. However, current florists say that if there are more than 10 flowers in a bouquet, this need not be a concern. So it's very simple, either buy odd or buy more than she can count. 6. Late. Russia basically allows women on a legislative level to be late for a date. A girl who arrives 10-15 minutes later than the appointed time is considered not late at all. There could be many reasons. Objective reasons are traffic jams or meetings; The subjective reason is that she cannot determine whether the shoes and skirt match for a long time. Or there could be a more laughable reason: she shows up on time, but stands in the corner for 20 minutes so as not to appear too proactive. After all, mom taught her that girls who know their worth never show up on time. It is pointless and impolite to insist on finding out why she was late. Smile and tell her you're glad to see her, even when it's dark and frozen.
7. "It's ok." There is no "secret sauce" to help you. Russian men have spent hundreds of years trying to figure out what the girl is thinking when she says this, to no avail. Did she really mean that everything was fine and there was nothing to worry about? Or are you suggesting that you run out and buy a million red roses and a big box of candy? If it's the latter, what is she angry about? Unfortunately, it takes a lot of trial and error to figure it out. There's no other way. Even that is no guarantee that you will find out. No wonder there is a popular joke about this topic among Russian men: "are you angry? "" no" "very angry? "Well". This "secret sauce" can be written indefinitely. But then you don't get the thrill of trying to find a common language with a Russian girl. If you're not scared off and still want to marry her, read Tolstoy and Dostoevsky. Definitely useful for you!