OLD GIRL REACH OUT PROGRAMME

Ruyton is a school filled with strong community connections, and during a time filled with anxiety and unknowns, a wonderful silver lining that emerged was the opportunity to reconnect with our Old Girls. With many of the engagement activities undertaken by Community Relations having to be rethought, and with social distancing rules and lockdown commenced, it was clear that the happy year filled with ORA engagement and reunions could not occur. So commenced what has been a happy change of pace with the backbone of our School, as we reengaged with such an important thread of our community, our Golden Old Girls. The Community Relations team began a series of phone calls each and every day, culminating (at last count) with over 450 phone calls, and over 120 postcards sent to alumnae. We have woven new threads to our fabric, unearthing memories and stories as far back as 1939. These heartwarming stories have reminded us of the strength of our history. We sent flowers to some Old Girls who had more challenges of late, and as the restrictions initially relaxed, we sent postcards. We hope this brought a small smile, and conjured memories of happier times. I recall a conversation with Berry (Berenice), a boarder from 1943, who chuckled as she recounted sneaking out the back stairs, down the road to the milk bar on the corner of Cotham Road; and then, under the moonlight of the lawn, having a midnight feast with her friends! Berry also recalled the Saturday dances ‘The Dream’ (Miss Hilda Daniells) would attend, always watching with a smile.

I also spoke with Jane from 1962, who inspired me as she casually recounted her career in a time where a woman in the workplace was not the norm. Jane had the strength of character to forge her way at the University of Melbourne as one of only 14 girls among 340 men. I also reconnected Pam and Sharley from 1942, who had not spoken for some time; I have no doubt they have enjoyed a fond memory or two since their time as Ruyton girls. It is a privilege to know we put a smile on a face, in a time where smiles have been hard to find. Thank you to our ORA Committee, several of whom rolled up their sleeves. This programme is a work in progress, and at last count we reached peer year 1965. Ruytonians are impressive women who are made of sterner stuff, and I know we will get through this challenging moment in time, together. Sally de Guingand (‘86) Director of Philanthropy and Engagement