Love one another

1 THESSALONIANS 4:9–12

IN the beloved children’s picture book Guess How Much I Love You, Little Nutbrown Hare and Big Nutbrown Hare try to express how much they love each other. Little Nutbrown Hare begins by stretching out his arms to say ‘I love you this much!’ but Big Nutbrown Hare has even bigger arms. They try to outdo each other with bigger and bigger descriptions of their love for the other, until finally Big Nutbrown Hare whispers to the sleeping Little Nutbrown Hare the famous words: ‘I love you to the moon and back.’

Our study passage reminds us that, to really show how much we love each other, we need to express our love through practical action in the midst of everyday life. Writing to the fledgling Christian community at Thessalonica, Paul begins by reminding them: ‘You yourselves have been taught by God to love each other’ (v9).

We learn what it is to love one another as we experience God’s own love for us (see 1 John 4:10). We are the recipients of his sacrificial love in action through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ (see John 3:16, Romans 5:8 and 1 John 3:16). We also learn from the example and teaching of Jesus, for example his humility in washing his disciples’ feet (see John 13:1–11) and his command to love one another (see John 13:34 and 35).

Love is not something we can generate on our own but is a gift from God that he pours into our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5). It is God himself who enables us to love one another.

PAUSE AND REFLECT

Think of a time when God taught you to love others. How did this happen?

What changed?

It is said that William Booth, when he was told of good work happening, would say to his son, Bramwell: ‘That and better will do!’ Paul encourages believers at Thessalonica in a similar way.

He celebrates the way that the Thessalonians already demonstrated their love for one another. He writes: ‘In fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia.’ And continues: ‘We urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more’ (v10). That and better will do! Similarly, in our own journey of discipleship, it is important to consider how we celebrate the ways in which we love one another but to also think how we press on to love even more.

PAUSE AND REFLECT

Are there particular people in your corps family you find difficult to love?

What specific actions could you take to show love for them?

Underpinning Paul’s call to love one another is his firm belief that Christian believers have been adopted into God’s family. This makes them ‘brothers and sisters’. Here he refers to their place in ‘God’s family’ to spur them in their practical demonstration of that love.

As members of one spiritual family, they were obligated to provide for one another and share their resources. This wasn’t just restricted to their community of Christian believers, but extended to ‘God’s family throughout Macedonia’ and even beyond.

The believers in Thessalonica didn’t keep their demonstrations of love local; they had demonstrated their love for their Christian family throughout the region.

It’s likely that this involved financial generosity to Christian brothers and sisters they did not know personally. This reminds me of the Self-Denial Appeal that many Salvationists in the United Kingdom and Ireland Territory – and around the world – will have sacrificially given to in recent weeks.

As I read Paul’s call to love one another ‘more and more’, I’m challenged to think about how we can actively demonstrate our love for our Salvationist brothers and sisters around the world throughout the year.

The sense that we are part of a ‘family of believers’ (Galatians 6:10) runs throughout Paul’s writings in the New Testament. He explores this concept in greater depth in passages such as Romans 8:14–17 and Ephesians 2:11–22.

Pause And Reflect

Who do you think of when you picture the ‘family of believers’?

Are there people we often forget?

Sadly, when love is missing from Christian communities, gossip and judgement can easily take root. Paul, however, encourages his readers to ‘make it your ambition to lead a quiet life’ and ‘mind your own business’. He teaches believers to ‘work with your hands, just as we told you … so that you will not be dependent on anybody’ (vv11 and 12).

Mutual love for one another does not abuse the generosity of others. Rather, when we love each other, we take responsibility for doing what we can with the skills and abilities we have. What this looks like will, of course, vary depending on our circumstances and opportunities but we all have something to contribute to the family of faith. Such a distinctive way of living ‘may win the respect of outsiders’ (v12). In the same way that Jesus promises that ‘everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another’ (John 13:35), Paul assures us that a life shaped by love will positively influence those outside the Church.

PAUSE AND REFLECT

What might people outside your fellowship think about the way you treat one another?

Showing love through action as we love one another ‘more and more’ will enrich our own lives and the lives of those around us, both in and out of the family of faith. May God bless us with abundant love for others.

Prayer Matters contains daily devotions covering specific areas in the territory, current worldwide situations and personal reflection and relationship with God. A PDF of the unedited booklet is available to download from salvationist.org.uk/resources

A Prayer Journey For Lent

by Captain Gary Lacey (Prayer Network)

SATURDAY 11 MARCH

‘Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time’ (1 Peter 5:6). Do you intentionally set out with humility? Lord Jesus, thank you for your magnificent example of humility. Strengthen me through your Spirit to humble myself. Use my humility to touch the lives of others. Amen.

SUNDAY 12 MARCH

Make the words of this song your prayer: ‘O, the wonderful cross,/ O, the wonderful cross/ Bids me come and die/ And find that I may truly live./ O, the wonderful cross,/ O, the wonderful cross,/ All who gather here/ By grace draw near and bless your name’ (SASB 208).

MONDAY 13 MARCH

‘Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool’ (Isaiah 1:18). Lord, I recognise that unforgiveness towards myself and others brings pain and destruction. Thank you for the forgiveness that is found in Jesus. Help me to forgive others as I have been forgiven. Amen.

TUESDAY 14 MARCH

‘Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them’ (Acts 13:2). Are you struggling with what the Lord is calling you to do? Lord, please show me what Kingdom work you are calling me to. Amen.

WEDNESDAY 15 MARCH

‘The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still’ (Exodus 14:14). Are you tired of ‘fighting’ and getting nowhere? Bless me, Lord, in the stillness. Strengthen my reserves. I declare that I know through his life, death and resurrection that Christ is alive and is fighting for me. Amen.

THURSDAY 16 MARCH

‘For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life’ (John 3:16). Have you stopped lately to consider the sacrifice that God made for humanity? Jesus, thank you for taking my sin and shame to the cross and rising again so that I can live eternally both now and in Heaven. Amen.

FRIDAY 17 MARCH

‘For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him’ (John 3:17). Are you beating yourself up over something? Is it making it hard to engage with Jesus? Lord, I confess that at times I have let self-condemnation touch me. However, thank you for the reminder that you do not condemn me and that I am saved. Amen.

PRAYER REQUESTS

CAPTAIN NAOMI CLIFTON Corps

Blackpool Citadel

Do you have something or someone you’d like us to pray for? Email salvationist@salvationarmy.org.uk with ‘prayer request’ in the subject line and the Territorial Prayer Network will uphold them in prayer.