Are you the CEO of your life?

Managing your life can be challenging, especially when you let other people run it. Some will try to be the boss of you.

Perhaps it’s time to look at how you can become the CEO of your own life. This is about being your own boss, which means being in charge of your own life. It doesn’t mean being the boss of your personal relationships or, for that matter, being the boss at work.

Figuring out how to manage your own life is not something most people think about. Most people are too busy running around doing what needs to be done. Sometimes you may be extremely efficient, and sometimes life may be pure drudgery with a dash of boredom and a bunch of mishaps thrown in. The latter days happen more than any of us would like.

Keeping it all in order may be as much of an emotional challenge as a practical one. Here are some tools that can help you keep your daily challenges balanced and more manageable. This will help to put you in charge.

• Make a to-do list. Lists don’t have to be long and involved, but they need to be done. The most successful and balanced people I know and have worked with make a list of what they have to do every day, because life changes every day.

And this simple exercise that takes only five minutes can save you hours of wasted time while wondering what to do next. Hint: After you write your list, reread it twice.

• Put your list on hold if an opportunity or a crisis arises. Follow through on the opportunity or do whatever needs to be done to deal with the crisis, and then return to your list. If overtaken by the unexpected, you can save your to-do list for the end of the day.

Accomplishing and checking off items on the list is more interesting and more fulfilling than watching television. Personally, I do whatever I need to do while sitting on the couch next to my wife as she reads her