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T“There are so many life lessons to be learned through sports, so my goal, in both teaching and coaching, is to bring awareness to girls’ sports programs,” says Misty Mooring.

Misty is the physical education and health teacher, the girls’ sports coach for volleyball, basketball and softball - and this year’s recipient of the Teacher of the Year Award - at Chocowinity Middle School.

Attending Bath Elementary and then Northside High School, Misty’s passion for sports started at a young age as she attended and watched her older siblings’ games.

What turned out to be a monumental moment for Misty was attending one of her sister’s high school practices when the coach asked her if she would like to be the team “manager.” Being only in fifth grade at the time, she was both scared and flattered, but she took her managerial duties very seriously.

Unbeknownst to the coach, he had just helped Misty reach a pivotal time in her life. To this day, she credits that coach - Coach Walt Davis of Bath - for instilling in her a love of coaching.

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Growing up in an athletic family with self-proclaimed - and at times extremecompetitiveness, Misty continued to play sports throughout high school and even played college basketball for Winthrop University in South Carolina.

Unfortunately, during one of those college games, she injured her knee. However, while attending physical therapy on her knee, she discovered an interest in healthcare. Misty decided studying sports medicine could conquer all of these interests.

So, Misty further studied and earned her license as a physical therapy assistant. Here, she could help patients and athletes not just with the treatment of their injuries, but the prevention of them as well.

She continued to coach kids during these years and loved being around them. She soon had an “AHA” moment… couldn’t she combine everything she loved into one job that encompassed everything? What about becoming a physical education and health teacher? She enrolled at East Carolina University in Greenville and earned her teaching degree.

Misty soon applied for and obtained her position at Chocowinity Middle School, and continues to feel fortunate the school took a chance on her knowing other people with different credentials had also applied for it.

She was thrilled to begin sharing her love of teaching students in grades 5-8 and coaching the girls’ 6-8 teams.

Misty immersed herself in her new position. Proudly sharing again that she had such wonderful sports coaches while growing up, she is striving to “give back” that enthusiasm and passion for athletics and good health to her students.

Misty so loves both teaching and coaching she had a difficult time deciding which was more important to her. She finally chose coaching, stating with her infectious smile that she would still teach while incorporating discussions on muscles and body systems students were using while stretching and moving.

Misty, like many teachers, faces challenges in her position. Apart from starting her teaching career at the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, she would like to see students have access to participating in sports earlier than middle school.

She’s finding students - in particular girls - coming to middle school with little exposure or the confidence to play team sports, especially volleyball. With national attention being brought to women’s sports, she wants to see a bigger and greater diversity among her own players.

This specifically can be seen in this year’s volleyball tryouts sharing that last year, only four new players tried out for the team. That, compared to 32 girls who tried out for the school’s team this fall.

“I just want kids to love sports,” she said. Misty is clearly making a difference at this

school. Like her mentors, she had started using fifth-grade “managers” for her teams.

Her students and players know she cares about them by combining teaching and hard work with surprises of fun.

Coach Mooring shared about her softball players using their batting helmets to collect

I JUST WANT KIDS TO LOVE SPORTS.

- Misty Mooring

eggs at the Easter Egg Hunt she had set up for players after practice, breaking a pinata for Cinco de Mayo after a class in the gym, and a surprise kayaking/paddleboarding/lunch after another practice - all done at her own cost.

“I just want kids to love sports,” she reiterated.

Another example of the coach’s dedication and passion is the free four-week summer camps she offers to the girls. On Tuesday evenings, they had the opportunity to learn new, or strengthen, current volleyball and basketball skills. This past summer, she even opened the camp to other schools and had between 20-30 girls participating on any given evening.

Kristen Riddle, Beaufort County Schools Public Information Officer, said of Misty, “She is a great teacher and coach, making a positive impact on both her students and players. We are lucky to have her in the Beaufort County School District.”

Misty has no plans to change what she’s currently doing.

“(I’ll be) right here, this is what I want to be doing,” she emphasized.

Kelly Grady is a retired educator and regular contributor to Eastern North Carolina Living.

THOMPSON WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING

JJohn Thompson had just completed his seventh grade year when he made a choice that would help determine the course of his

“In the summer, I opted to play summer league basketball as opposed to baseball,” said Thompson, who has been the men’s basketball coach at North Carolina Wesleyan University in Rocky Mount for the past

Thompson grew up in Durham and played several sports, including baseball, football and basketball. Baseball was his

“It wasn’t a hard decision for me, but it was a financial decision for my family,” he said. “It was $35 to play Little League baseball and $35 to join the YMCA and be a member so I could play summer league basketball. My parents said I could do one or the other, but I

For Thompson, the decision to play basketball at the Y under Herman Paschal from the seventh to the tenth grade and develop a love of the game set him out on a career that started when he played high school ball at

Durham Jordan and college ball at St. Andrews and UNC-Greensboro.

However, being a coach is not what he originally set out to do.

“I went to college originally thinking I wanted to be a high school coach and P.E. teacher,” he said. “Through a variety of experiences over my college career, I decided that was not what I wanted to do – I was going to pursue a career in radio and television news (his father, Frank, was a news director at WTVD) and I thought I wanted to follow in his footsteps.”

Thompson’s father passed away during his son’s senior year in college. He went back home to help his mother after graduation, and the only opportunity he had in TV and radio was in Savannah, Georgia.

“I didn’t think I could leave my mom at that point in time,” he said. “I have a younger brother who had some special needs, and my dad had passed two months earlier. I felt like home was where I needed to be.”

The next year Thompson tried to figure out what to do. He got a job selling office equipment.

“While that was a good job, it wasn’t my love and certainly wasn’t my passion,” he said.

In the middle of that, Thompson said the one thing he kept gravitating back to was basketball.

“I was playing it, watching it and spending

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time with friends who were still playing or friends who were still coaching,” he said.

Thompson had developed a friendship with Johnny Dawkins at Duke University and told him he wanted to get into coaching.

“I asked Johnny if he could introduce me to Coach K (Mike Krzyzewski),” Thompson said. “I was blessed to be a certain age at the right time in Durham, so I became friends with the guys who people referred to as “the class that saved Coach K (Dawkins, Jay Bilas and David Henderson, among them) because we played pickup games together. I was always trying to play against better players and they were certainly better than I was.”

With encouragement from his college coach at UNCG (Ed Douma) and high school coach at Jordan (John Avery), Thompson was introduced to Krzyzewski by Dawkins.

Thompson worked Coach K’s camp, where he became friends with Krzyzewski and assistant Pete Gaudet.

“Coach K became a friend and remains a friend to this day,” he said. “I give so much credit to Pete… he’s a coach who taught me more about how to teach the game; he’s one of the greatest teachers our game has ever seen. I thought I was a pretty good student of the game as a player, then you become a coach and realize how much you don’t know. Herman Paschal was a tremendous influence on me as far as the game goes.”

For several years Thompson worked the summer camp circuit – from Duke and Wake Forest to Rutgers to Syracuse. He also worked John Chaney’s camp at Temple and developed a close relationship with him. Chaney passed away in January of 2021.

“I was the only non-Philly guy working that camp (in 1989),” he remembers. “I was a fish out of water but it was an unbelievable experience. Every year we went to his camp, he made time to spend with our team and I’d tag along and pepper him with questions. He was so gracious with his time.”

Thompson started his college coaching career as an assistant at St. Andrews for a year under Mark Simons and then got a job as an

assistant under Jim Berkman at St. Lawrence University (New York) for a year by way of a contact he made when he worked Jim Boeheim’s Syracuse camp that summer.

After seven years as an assistant to Jack Jensen at Guilford College, Thompson felt it was time to make the step up to the head coaching ranks. He became the coach at Wesleyan in the summer of 1995 after getting married three years earlier and starting a family.

“I felt it was time,” he said. “I still wasn’t making the kind of living you could sustain for a lifetime. As you get married and have children, I had other people to account to.”

Thompson wanted to model his Bishops program after those he’d been around as a player and as an assistant coach (Krzyzewski, Jensen, Chaney, Avery, Douma and others).

“I studied those guys and knew the importance of discipline and loyalty, commitment and consistency, and I wanted to bring those things to Wesleyan,” he said.

Bill Chambers, the previous coach at

Wesleyan who played under Dean Smith at the University of North Carolina, had already set the foundation. Thompson had seven or eight returners his first season.

“Bill knew what a winning program was all about. He had a lot of things in place; I didn’t have to reinvent the wheel,” Thompson said. “I didn’t have to come in and revamp the whole thing. It was just a matter of putting my fingerprints on it.

“I just knew I wanted to do things the right way,” Thompson continued. “Things that were sustainable. We wanted to recruit our kinda guys and build the program that way.”

So what is ‘our kinda guy?’

“Someone who is disciplined, hard working, loyal and committed, and consistent in all of those areas. Someone who understands the value of doing things the right way, who says please and thank you, one who wants to show up early and stay late, one who knows you have to earn everything and the only way to do that is hard work because if you don’t work

hard, it probably will give your team a lack of success, and one who is a great teammate and who care about his teammates and doesn’t just simply do what’s good for himself but also what’s good for his teammates,” Thompson said.

During his nearly three decades at Wesleyan, Thompson has given back to the sport he loves so much and one that has given so much to him by paying it forward. He has held a coaching clinic for several years where coaches share their wisdom about the game and about coaching. Some of his assistants have been presenters.

“The purpose of the clinic was I was trying to learn and to get better, and now we are helping younger coaches who get to be in a room with coaches like Jerry Wainwright, Pete Gaudet, Tubby Smith, Larry Brown, Pete Gillen and so many others,” he said. “They get to build their relationships, learn, get exposure and develop their network.”

Thompson is the all-time winningest coach in Wesleyan men's basketball history, having compiled a 402-297 record and eight regular season and/or tournament championships

He has won numerous coaching honors, and one of his most noteworthy coaching achievements came in the summer of 2012 when he was selected to be a court coach for USA Basketball's Junior National Team.

Thompson joined an elite group of collegiate coaches at the U18 training camp, which was held at the U.S. Olympic Training Center (USOTC) in Colorado Springs.

Thompson continues to work with USA Basketball

via various camps and clinics and will speak at the USA Basketball Coach Academy in October in Orlando, Florida.

He is a 2017 Wesleyan Hall of Fame inductee who won his 400th game last season.

Looking back, Thompson said he has been pleased with his career.

“I wouldn’t change anything,” he said. “It’s really special to have former players come back to be assistant coaches, and some of them who played now have children who have attended our basketball camp. Those kids in my camp are my family.”

What is Thompson most proud of during his tenure at Wesleyan?

“I’m most proud of the guys that I’ve coached and the men they’ve become: the fathers, the husbands, the professionals in whatever they ended up choosing to do,” he said.

Thompson said he doesn’t plan on giving up basketball any time soon, but admits it can be a grind.

“I am going to keep doing it as long as I feel great and it’s what I want to do,” he said.

Being away from his family (wife, Laura and his three sons) has been difficult at times, in particular when they (Andrew, Jackson and Walker) were younger, but Thompson reveres his wife of 30 years.

“You have to have a special wife if you’re going to be a coach of any kind,” he said. “She was a college athlete (softball and basketball in addition to junior tennis) and she loves sports, so that helps.

“I spend a lot of time away and being able to run the house, raise the kids and keep all the irons in the fire hot and under control falls on the wife a lot, and she is very special,” he closed.

Jim Green is Sports Editor of the Rocky Mount Telegram and Photo Editor of Eastern North Carolina Living.

I STUDIED THOSE GUYS AND KNEW THE IMPORTANCE OF DISCIPLINE AND LOYALTY, COMMITMENT AND CONSISTENCY, AND I WANTED TO BRING THOSE THINGS TO WESLEYAN.

- John Thompson

COACHINg THE PERsON AND THE PLAYER

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When it comes to soccer, Coach Ricardo Arias-Ruiz leads with a passion and intensity that is both inspiring to his players and the Greene County community.

“It’s the adrenaline that comes from the game. It’s the passion and the game itself. When you talk about playing soccer, it really gives you a mental break. When you play with people who feel passionate about the game like you do, it’s one of the best feelings ever. There’s a passion behind the game and I can portray my vision to the players,” Arias-Ruiz said.

“Whether winning or losing, just being

Wactive and playing is one of the best feelings,” he added.

Arias-Ruiz has been at the helm of the Greene County Middle School for the past six years and in 2020, after serving as assistant coach to the Greene Central High School soccer team for four years, Arias-Ruiz was promoted to head coach for the Greene Central Rams.

This unique position allows Arias-Ruiz to grow the Greene County Schools soccer program early on.

“It starts in middle school with keeping control over the ball, setting the tempo for

the game, knowing when to really overcrowd the team, … soccer is all about momentum,” Arias-Ruiz said.

“I get them young. They get used to the rules, structures, formation and the way we play. It changes as we move up because the level of the game intensifies. Having that baseline and having the kids know you and how you expect them to behave on the team helps,” Arias-Ruiz said, adding that at the middle school players typically learn the basics, terminology and fundamentals of the game.

“It helps with keeping a strong base and we can keep improving. We can work more on improving rather than establishing rules. It keeps a smooth transition from middle to high school,” he said.

Arias-Ruiz also believes in developing strong leaders within the team.

“As a coach, I want to look for those five to six players that’s going to be leaders. When you have them on your side, if someone oversteps boundaries they will stop it,” AriasRuiz said. “When you see the kids empower themselves it’s wonderful.”

When transitioning from assistant to head coach at the high school level, Arias-Ruiz relied on his players and sought transition advice from them.

“I had been their assistant for years. I met with some of the seniors and told them I was going to be the head coach. I let them know what I wanted and that this is what we are going to do and move forward,” Arias-Ruiz said, adding players assured him the transition would be smooth since they knew him. “We are all going to be on the same goal.”

During his first season as Rams head coach, Arias-Ruiz led the high school to the 2A championships. While they fell short to Shelby High School due to penalties, AriasRuiz is proud of how much the team was able to accomplish in just one season.

“It was tough to lose, but it was tough to get there. It was very emotional. Just one of those things you can’t explain,” Arias-Ruiz said.

Players at Greene Central High School also had the opportunity to participate in the Kickoff Classic hosted by the town of Cary for the first time. This three-day event featured teams from all over North Carolina at various competition levels and was the largest event

“It was good to put us on the map. It was nice to have that happen. I had never been through it and my players hadn’t never been through it. It was good to see we made it that far. It was something to remember,” AriasRuiz said. “We played some private schools and some 4A schools. It was nice to see that competition beyond 2A.”

While building the team and players, Arias-Ruiz also desires to build momentum and interest in Greene County School soccer. United under the banter Si Se Puedemeaning we can do it, yes you can -, the Rams were able to help build morale and garner support from the Greene County Community.

“It was beneficial to the school. The community was so involved,” Arias-Ruiz said.

In the last season, the Rams have seen an increase in game attendance with one game reaching approximately 1,000 people from both teams.

“You didn’t even want to look back. It was that many people. It put pressure on them for sure,” Arias-Ruiz said. “It’s one of those things where you saw so many people coming together for a common purpose and that’s our team. You are just so proud.”

While passionate about the game, AriasRuiz understands that soccer is more than a sport and as a coach he always puts

Greene Central soccer players got to compete in.

is always going to be my best interest. Their safety is always a concern. Their improvement is the main thing. My goal is to always be there for my team. I am representing them more than they are me.”

By creating a safe-zone for the players to be themselves, Arias-Ruiz feels he has not only impacted the players themselves, but has improved their games by creating a family-like atmosphere.

This was demonstrated to him by a player who expressed their sentiments about AriasRuiz to another teacher.

“The player said ‘More so than anything he’s our coach and this a team that wants to win.’ We want to do it as a family and not as individuals. We are doing it for each other,” Arias-Ruiz said. “There were no clicks. It was just everybody together for one common purpose.”

Learning about his players’ sentiments

towards the team and himself motivates Arias-Ruiz and instills in him pride.

“They were able to see what I wanted them to see without me having to tell them. I want them to feel like we are a family and I want them to come to me. I’m not a super open person, but independently they come to me,” Arias-Ruiz said. “That comment was one of the nicer things I’ve heard in my coaching career. It’s not something I’m relaying to them and telling them to feel like this. It happened unconsciously.”

Arias-Ruiz hopes to continue to grow the soccer programs at both Greene County Middle School and Greene Central High School.

“My hope is to continue a good feeder program to the high school at the middle school. When you start them young and apply them young, they will work, work, work and continue to grow to a higher level each year,”

Arias-Ruiz said.

In the future, Arias-Ruiz would also like to establish a JV program. Currently, the county schools lack the number of participants.

“We have never been able to get a JV team. We can’t rely on the freshman and sophomores to come through clutch for you like a junior/senior would, it’s just not realistic, many lack the years of experience,” AriasRuiz said. “If I don’t have enough freshman or sophomore coming in, I lose out on the chance of growing them to into a quality high school team.”

With a JV team, more players would also be able to play and grow in experience, he added.

Donna Marie Williams is a freelance writer and a regular contributor to Eastern North Carolina Living.

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LIVING A LIFE THAT IS AN EXAMPLE

Ron’Dayle Floyd is passionate about the game of football; but is more passionate about the lives of the young boys he coaches.

“One thing about me, I am a god-fearing man. I want to win souls and I want to win football games,” he said. “I call it holy, hardnosed football.”

The Riverside Middle School Head Football Coach made school history with last year’s perfect 6-0 record, allowing only eight points all season.

“It is the first time the school was undefeated,” Floyd said. “We shut everybody

Rout.”

Hired in February of 2021, it was his first year as head coach at the school.

“We are expecting to do it again this year,” he continued. “I would not expect any less.”

His success is already garnering attention.

“A lot of guys who played for me last year are starting on the varsity team in high school this year as Freshmen,” he said. “One thing we do is instill is toughness and grit. You can take that with you anywhere.

“It is a big jump going from middle school eighth-grade to playing against guys in the

twelfth grade,” he continued. “I teach them mentally - it doesn’t matter how big you are.”

He references David and Goliath.

“I am a Bible-based man. I apply my Bible to whatever situations I am in. And what I have in me, I instill in my team,” he said. “They would run through a brick wall for me.”

A record number of boys, over 40, have clamored to play middle school football under him this season.

Many of those he met through Williamston’s Parks and Recreation Little League Football program, his work with the

Martin

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Boys & Girls Club and his first football camp held this summer, which he named in memory of Reggie Smith, a middle school coach and captain in the Wilson Police Department, who had a profound influence on his life.

“His life made me want my life to make a difference,” he said.

Students-athletes are drawn to Floyd’s magnetic personality.

“God has given me a gift to know how to make kids believe in themselves and be optimistic,” he said. “One of the biggest things as a coach is how to motivate your kids. You’ve got to love them so much they don’t want to let you down. You’ve got to know how to put something in them they don’t have,” he added. “You put it in there by a loving caring relationship.”

His players know he cares - even when he disciplines them with old-school “up-downs,” (a lot like burpees).

His discipline earns respect.

“My boys know if you cut up, you have 55 up-downs. Most kids don’t want to do them. If you cut up really bad, you are going to do 75,” he said. “It’s like an invisible leash you have on them. I’ve got to keep them disciplined.”

He knows some of his children come from broken homes.

“I don’t want to only be known as a coach who wins games; but I want to be known as someone who can change a young man’s life,” he said.

RMS Athletic Director Hank Tice said Riverside Middle School is blessed to have Coach Floyd.

“Not just from a football standpoint, but as a good role model and a Christian. He lets his faith determine how he runs his program,” he said.

Floyd also coaches track and teaches Career Technical Education (CTE).

“Coach Floyd has a positive relationship with all the students, including the ones that don’t play football,” he added.

Tice joked he has the coach locked into a 35-year contract.

“We don’t need everybody to come knocking on our door for him,” he said. “They

can come learn from him, but they can’t come get him. Seriously though, he loves the game of football, but he loves his kids just as much.”

Tice added his coaching goes beyond winning games.

“People sometimes get caught up in the wins and losses, the x’s and the o’s. But he is a father-figure to a bunch of kids here at our school. We are fortunate to have him.”

In some ways, Floyd, 32, has come fullcircle. He helped coach middle school football the last year the school was Williamston Middle, and the first year it became Riverside Middle, almost 13 years ago.

He left to focus on his education.

“My passion was to coach football and teach,” he said.

During those 13 years, Floyd earned his

undergraduate degree at Mt. Olive College and obtained his masters from Liberty University. He married Tijuan Lee-Floyd and had three children, Ron’Dayle Floyd Jr., 13, Kharmyn, 10 and Jiyah, 8.

He also dedicated his life back to the Lord.

“After that, becoming a role model and a father-figure just came natural,” he said.

Also during that time he was offered his first teaching/coaching job at Washington County High School, which is nearer to his home in Dardens.

“Plymouth has a rich tradition of football. It was a blessing I got to go down there. I told God, ‘I want you to put me around the right people, the right resources and the right coaches to make me the best teaching coach I can be.’ So, first-things first,” he said.

Evenings, weekends and summers he worked with children in Martin County through Williamston Parks and Recreation and the Boys and Girls Club.

Those experiences allowed him to build relationships in the community.

“A lot of these kids I remember from when they were babies,” he said. “I’m not just some coach that came in from the outside. I am a community guy.”

Riverside, he said it was hard, but: “I knew my purpose was here in Williamston. There were kids here I knew needed a role model. Right now, Riverside Middle is my assignment.”

students need.

“I want people to say, ‘Since Coach Floyd has been coaching my son, he has been a different young man,’” he said.

“I think what works is love and relationships. If they need to talk, I am here,” he said. “I talk to them like they are my own. That’s why I am so hard on my son. He thinks I’m hard on him about life – I want him to do the right thing.”

His son, Ron’Dayle Jr., “a.k.a. Bunchie,” plays receiving corner for him.

“I tell him I don’t ever want kids at Riverside to listen to me and you don’t,” he said. “I’ve had dads tell me, ‘My son will listen to you, but he won’t listen to me.’ I don’t glory in that, but if I can be the one to bridge the gap, I will. I tell my boys don’t you come in here and [be respectful to me] then go home and disrespect your parents. “I always teach you’ve got to take care of home first,” he added.

His classes, Exploring Careers and Exploring Employment, give him a platform on which he can base real-life scenarios.

“I tell my kids, if you are disobedient now, when you are older, you might want to break the law. When you are older, consequences are more serious. Right now, you may go to ISS (In School Suspension), but as an adult, you may go to prison. I use life situations to kind of wake them up,” he said.

where we make a circle in class and we talk about life. I tell them, ‘If it wasn’t for Jesus, you probably wouldn’t be looking at Coach Floyd.’

“It breaks my heart - since I left [RMS the first time], there are young men I coached that have been to prison. There are young men I have coached that have died. So, I teach them about being in the right place at the right time,” he added.

“It’s like sowing seeds, teaching them how to treat people. You don’t know who is on the verge of taking their life. You don’t know the background they come from,” he added.

He compares respecting their teachers to respecting a boss one day.

He teaches them about character.

“My kids know I am Deacon Floyd before I am Coach Floyd. Kids seem to love me, but I can really say it is God,” he added. “My pastor, Renee Pearsall, is my spiritual Mom. She pushes me. She says, ‘You be a role model for those kids. A lot of them don’t have it at home.’”

He tells his players, “I don’t care about football. I want you to be successful.

“At the end of the day, I can’t remember all

THACH kEEPs HER EYEs ON THE PRIzE

oOne might think they were walking into a volleyball museum when they enter Kirstie Thach’s office at Perquimans County High School.

If the coach’s office is museum-like, she is the curator of decades plus memorabilia gracing the walls, and stylishly situated on shelves. Although volleyball pictures cover the walls, there were two baseballs on her desk, possible memorabilia for a different shelf in a trophy room at home.

“This is my fourteenth year of coaching varsity and JV volleyball, and the pictures of the teams and the memories are all around here,” the coach said, pointing in a 360 degree direction describing frame after frame of award winning teams and students - all champions on Thach’s wall of fame.

Born and raised in Perquimans County, Thach is a member of an athletic lineage that is part of Perquimans County history.

“I have a younger sister and brother and we have all played sports since the time we could walk. Our dad was one of our earliest coaches and he and my mom are still our biggest fans,” said Thach.

Thach’s dad, Edgar Roberson, played baseball for the Perquimans Pirates back in the day and was an assistant coach for the softball team in the 1990s that featured the current Perquimans head volleyball coach.

“My brother is also a coach for Perquimans

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- Kirstie Thach

County High School, and he and his teams have won the 1A Baseball State Championship the past two seasons,” said Thach. “Thankfully, all three of my sons have had the opportunity to play for him.”

As the last name signifies, and as everyone in Perquimans County interested in baseball knows, and that would be everyone in Perquimans County, the athletic provenance the Thach and Roberson names hold dear is impressive. A local sports dynasty, with national ties, is one way to describe it.

While baseball stories run strong in the Thach household, volleyball has been the coach’s passion since she was a student at PCHS. Today, the terms roof, setter, six-pack, spike, stuff, dink and campfire are all part of the coach’s daily vernacular.

“I played volleyball throughout middle and high school and I played a year in college at ECSU. I love volleyball,” said Thach.

She went on to explain, “The game has changed so much over the years since I was a player and even since my early years of coaching, in a positive way. I love that the speed of the game has increased over the years and it’s such a fast paced game especially at the varsity level.”

The spark prompting Thach to become a coach was her love of sport and the great

teachers and coaches she had when she was growing up. She admits the part of her job she takes home most frequently is the coaching. This is especially true when the team is in season. Thach claims she is thinking about volleyball and practice and game plans constantly.

“Coaching can be one of the most rewarding experiences that you could ever take part in. No matter what level you coach, being able to positively influence young lives is so special. To know that you made a

difference makes all the long hours worth it,” she said.

But it is teamwork the coach promotes both on the court and in the classroom that attributes to a winning equation.

“I would say that as a Health and PE teacher, I teach a lot about teamwork, being strong physically and mentally and being a good citizen. I try to instill being good classmates and teammates in both jobs and that making a positive difference in other people’s lives is important. I believe that having pride in one’s

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self as well as your school and team is a key component of both,” said Thach.

For those backyard volleyball players who have visions of spiking on sand courts beachside, the coach has words of encouragement for players hoping the backyard is a stepping stone to the sands of Huntington Beach, California.

“I think anytime someone can have a volleyball in their hand, that’s a stepping stone for success. I encourage my players to touch a volleyball as much as possible. There are so many skills that you can work on even if you don’t have a net,” explained Thach.

But one shouldn’t pack her bags just yet. The competition is fierce depending on whether one aspires to excel in beach or indoor volleyball. On sand or beach volleyball participants play with a partner and in indoor volleyball they play with six people on the court.

“Sand courts are popping up more frequently as the sport grows. We have one at the recreation department here in Perquimans County and some of my former and current players have played on sand teams before,” Thach said, proudly.

The salary range for volleyball professionals is between $19,970 and $189,500. There are also college scholarships available for both indoor and sand volleyball. Some of Thach’s students have expressed interest in becoming college volleyball stars, but none have talked about playing past that.

“I think there are several things that make a terrific volleyball player other than just talent, such as; commitment, heart and a desire to get better everyday,” she said. “As a teacher, you hear about being a lifetime learner and how you can always learn new things about your content or best practices.

“I think the same holds true for volleyball; to be a great player, you need to be willing to learn constantly. There are so many ways that we can all learn daily,” expressed Thach.

The coach believes playing sports offers valuable life lessons.

“In life, we all face failures and success. We also have to work with other people, to overcome fears at times and to strive to be better everyday; whether on the court, as

students, parents or in our job. Sports give us the opportunity to learn skills on how to manage those things and for many people to gain lifelong friendships,” claimed Thach.

Even though she is running out of wall space in her Perquimans office, she doesn’t aspire to or have future plans on becoming a college coach with larger walls.

“I have had opportunities to coach at the next level, but I am beyond happy here in Perquimans County and I plan to coach as long as I am physically able.” said Thach.

“I am so blessed to have the opportunity to teach and coach in Perquimans County. I couldn’t dream of a better place to work and raise my children.

“I believe God has a plan for our lives and I knew early on that teaching and coaching was my calling,” she continued. “I have met so many wonderful people throughout my life and some of the best are right here in this county. I’m truly thankful to be able to give back to the school system that gave me so much,” Thach said, smiling, as she panned her museum styled office walls.

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John Foley is a Staff Writer for the Bertie Ledger-Advance, Perquimans Weekly and Eastern North Carolina Living.

gIvINg HIs ALL TO HIs PLAYERs AND COMMUNITY

CCoaching is an essential element to Edenton’s John Downum.

For the last 25 years, Downum has been a fixture on Chowan County ballfields, instructing youth ranging from youngsters to young adults. He wears it like a silent badge of honor, never seeking fame or accolades for his achievements, according to those he works with.

A native of Chowan County, Downum grew up playing ball in the area. So coaching perhaps came as second nature to him.

“I was born and raised here, of course I went to high school here and I played basketball, baseball, football, tennis; then went on to college to play basketball and

baseball,” Downum said.

While playing basketball at Louisburg Junior College, he ended up hurting his knee.

“That was kind of the end of it, which was fine,” Downum said. “Then I fell in love and went to work.”

Downum’s day job involves managing recreation facilities throughout the county. While sitting in his office at the old D.F. Walker High School in Edenton, he pointed towards the gym he used to play in, just a few steps away and now used by a new generation of athletes.

Fresh out of college at 21, Downum started coaching boys in the senior Babe Ruth league. He explained that he had been asked by some

members of the community to help out and it snowballed from there.

“It’s another way to compete when you’re done playing,” Downum said. “I love all sports, but with baseball, the older I get the more I kind of love it.”

Eventually, he got into coaching recreation department baseball and t-ball, as well as high school baseball at John A. Holmes High School.

Bob Turner, former Athletic Director at Holmes, asked Downum to help coach at the high school. The answer, of course, was yes. That was 11 years ago. Today, Downum is still seen on the ball field helping to coach each new roster of Aces as the years pass on.

“Those of us here at JAH have seen firsthand the care and compassion that Coach Downum possesses,” said Holmes Athletic Director Wes Mattera. “Whether working on fields within the rec [department], coaching teams at both JAH and the little league or spending countless hours trying to make Hicks Field the best facility, Coach Downum is a true representative of the ‘blue collar’ mentality that exists here in Chowan County.”

Mattera affirmed the notion that Downum never goes out of his way to seek credit or spotlight and emphasized his role as both a father and a coach for the community.

“Thank you coach for who you are, what

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you stand for, and what you continue to do every day,” Mattera said.

Downum thanked Mattera and Holmes Principal Sonya Rinehart for the privilege to coach.

Improving Historic Hicks Field, something Mattera mentioned, is another way that Downum has given back to his community. Through the local Baseball Club, both he and his wife, Tammy, as well as Tyler Russell of the Edenton Steamers, have put a lot of money back into the facility to keep it a top-notch field.

“We have a concession stand at the fair coming up in a month and it’s a weeklong concession stand there. We should raise five to six thousand [dollars] and we put 100 percent of that back into Hicks Field,” Downum said.

Historic Hicks Field is the home of both the Edenton Steamers and John A. Holmes Aces baseball teams.

While helping to coach Aces baseball at Holmes, Downum was presented with what may be the most memorable moment of his career thus far, winning a state championship in 2017.

The cherry on top? His son, Patrick, was on the team at the time, sharing the chip with his father.

“We have won several [conference championships] in the last ten years. I would

guess five or six,” Downum added. “But coaching all three of my boys is really full of all the best moments too.”

Downum also acknowledged northeast North Carolina’s rich baseball tradition, with great players coming from nearby counties such as Dare, Camden, Currituck and Perquimans.

“There is a lot of good baseball in northeast North Carolina that we don’t always get a lot of credit for,” Downum said. “It’s really competitive and really good baseball in this part of the state.”

Downum also noted a baseball rivalry with neighboring Perquimans County, saying that

during high school, he played baseball against one of the coaches there: Richard Thach. Thach has coached his own sons in the game, becoming a vital part of Perquimans’ athletic program.

“It’s special what they [the Thaches] have gone through as well,” Downum said, noting the back-to-back state championships recently won by Perquimans.

All of Downum’s sons – Jack, Patrick and Hank – have played baseball at some point, as well. Hank is the youngest and is now a senior at Holmes, while the other two have come home after playing ball in college.

Reflecting on years of coaching, Downum said he was not immediately sure how much longer he would stay in the game. He said it could be five years, ten years or longer, but noted that at some point, he would like to see some younger coaches come in to pump some youthful energy into area programs.

Downum says what has been most important to him while on or off the field is the relationships made and how they translate to everyday life.

“It's more than winning and losing, you know, you build relationships and friendships,” Downum said, recalling Aces of the past. “Every year each team is special, but some of those boys – Ben Ward, Dylan Patrick, Khalil Blount, Caleb Chappell – they’re young

THOSE OF US HERE AT JAH HAVE SEEN FIRSTHAND THE CARE AND COMPASSION THAT COACH DOWNUM POSSESSES.

- Wes Mattera

coaching with people like Hack High, Rob Winborne, Quintin Chappell, Jim Parrish, J.P. and Mike Pippins, Travis Hardison, Luke Williford, Bob Turner, Bill and Bob Jordan, Travis Lilly, Doug Oliver, Howard Sutton and Chad Whitehead – coaching with those guys from coach-pitch to high school is special. They’re all special.”

The Chowan County community would probably agree to add another special name to that list: John Downum.

“John has contributed to local baseball from every direction,” said Shannon Ray, Chowan Recreation Superintendent. “He has been some kids' first coach (t-ball) and then also their last coach (high school). His quiet demeanor teaches kids they don't have to show out to show up and that with effort comes reward.”

Ray pointed out that Downum has been a lifelong fixture for many local youth, having coached kids to be both better baseball players and better individuals.

“Baseball in Chowan County is better off because of John,” Ray said.

Tyler Newman is a Staff Writer for the Chowan Herald and Eastern North Carolina Living.

Over the course of his 40-plus year career with Hertford County Public Schools, Charles Simmons stands as a model of consistency as an educational colleague, a teacher, a coach and an athletic director.

HCHS ATHLETIC DIRECTOR NAMED TO HALL OF FAME O

Recently, the rest of North Carolina learned of his outstanding contributions to the development of young athletes.

Simmons joined four other men as the newest inductees into the North Carolina Athletic Directors Association (NCADA) Hall of Fame. Simmons, along with Ed Gilroy, Scott Jones, Jeff Morris, Mike Raybon, were inducted during the NCADA Banquet at the Hotel Ballast in Wilmington on April 4.

“It's always a great honor to be recognized by your peers and I am humbled and grateful for the award,” Simmons said. “The N.C. Athletic Directors Association does an outstanding job of supporting high school athletics, working closely with NCHSAA and NCCA to ensure that students across the state have opportunities and access to athletic events that help them grow as student athletes and leaders.

“I've been coaching and working with athletics for my entire educational career and it has been incredibly rewarding to have had an opportunity to work with amazing coaches and players,” Simmons added. “Stepping into the shoes left by Coach Richard Murray was

challenging, and I am forever grateful for his having worked with me to prepare me to do so. He continued to be a friend and mentor until his passing. I'd like to thank the Board of Education and the staff of Hertford County Public Schools as well as the community for their support during my years at Hertford County.”

Simmons is a native of Forest City. After graduating from East Rutherford High School, he earned an AA degree in Health & Physical Education from Louisburg College (1975) and his BS in Health and Physical Education from UNC Pembroke in 1977.

He attended ASU for additional graduatelevel courses before accepting a position as a

Hertford

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teacher in Hertford County Public Schools in 1981.

In 1991, he was named the Athletic Director of Hertford County High School. During his tenure, Coach Simmons has been active at the local and state level in athletic administration. He has served on the N.C. Athletic Directors Board of Directors (1995-99), the N.C. Coaches Association

State AD of the Year.

He was honored by being named an inductee to the East Rutherford High School Hall of Fame in 1993.

Simmons, who is nearing 700 wins as a high school basketball coach, resides in Ahoskie and is active in his local community. He is the proud father of Evan Simmons, a senior at Grambling State University.

Induction into the NCADA Hall of Fame recognizes achievement and excellence in the field of athletic administration. Selection to the NCADA Hall of Fame is a four-step process, including nomination, screened by the Hall of Fame Screening Committee, rated by the NCADA Executive Committee, and finally, the NCADA Board of Directors selects those individuals to be inducted.

Each new inductee will be introduced by a special video presentation and will receive a commemorative NCADA Hall of Fame ring from Southern Recognition in honor of the induction. The NCADA Hall of Fame is the highest honor that can be bestowed upon an

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- Charles Simmons

A sPIRIT THAT Is CONTAgIOUs

Coaches have a profound impact on the lives of student athletes.

Whether or not a coach desires to be a role model, they usually become one.

The thrill of competing for young athletes is guided by an adult in athletics called “coach.”

In Bertie County, one of these individuals called ‘coach’ stands out as a role model to her players and has so for almost thirty years.

Jackie Williford Copeland was raised in Bertie County on the outskirts of Windsor.

CShe comes from a long line of local athletes who have impacted local and regional sports in our area.

She started playing sports at a young age with a ball always in her hand according to her dad, Jack Williford.

Jack stated, “She excelled at every sport that she played and her mom and I encouraged her.”

Her parents pushed her to some degree in her athletic endeavors, but she was also a

talented natural athlete with a strong work ethic. That combination of athleticism and drive can lead to a special player and that is exactly what Jackie became.

She excelled in athletics growing up through middle school and high school. Basketball is where she had her greatest success.

Copeland was a multiple time All-State player in high school and a state champion at Lawrence Academy. She earned a scholarship

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to what is now named Barton College to play basketball.

Jackie had an incredible career in college leading her team to great success. She scored over 1,000 points and helped the team to their first Carolina Conference Championship title in 1991.

One of her most impactful influences was her coach on that championship team, Wendee Saintsing. Coach Saintsing has remained the head coach at Barton since that time.

Copeland was a shooting guard who was deadly from the three-point area. One of her favorite moments is hitting a three-point shot that was the go-ahead basket in the last seconds of a game against Wingate in the second round of the NAIA tournament. That shot ended a 97game home winning streak for Wingate.

Further proof of her three-point prowess is illustrated by her inclusion in college in the national division two three-point contest in Knoxville, Tennessee. Jackie was thrilled to play in Thomas-Bowling Arena where one of her revered coaches, the late Tennessee great Pat Summitt coached, with great success.

Not only did Copeland compete in the contest, she finished in third place. There were roughly twenty-five competitors from around the nation competing in that contest.

To use some of the semi-current vernacular, Jackie not only played well but “showed out” on the court that is now called the Summitt.

In 2019, Jackie was named to Barton College Hall of Fame. This achievement is special for any athlete to be named to their college sports hall of fame. She is not different if fact is proud to be a member of the hall of fame and to be in there with multiple teammates and her former coach.

Being a great athlete does not make one a great coach in any sport. The ability to communicate and to inspire are part of what makes a coach effective. Jackie has always possessed a competitive spirit and strong desire to win at any competition that she competes.

Success has been on the field and the court for Jackie at Bertie High School, particularly on the diamond coaching softball. Jackie has a long history of guiding her teams - softball and tennis - to the state playoffs. She also had

THE ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE AND TO INSPIRE ARE PART OF WHAT MAKES A COACH EFFECTIVE.

success coaching basketball and volleyball earlier in her career, including some time at the former Southwestern Middle School.

Whether coaching teams or individuals, Coach Copeland truly enjoys it.

Listening to her former players, one realizes the influence that Coach Copeland is having on the young people that have played and currently play for her.

She appreciates being referred to as a second mom, which is meant as a term of endearment. Her players genuinely care about her and she continues to be in contact with them many years after their respective playing days are over.

The words “really positive” and “full of energy” are echoed by many players, former and current. The imprint that she has made on these young athletes is highlighted by a quote from one of her current players that she “has made us a better person as well as better players.” This statement was agreed upon by a gathering of her current tennis team at Bertie High School.

Her ability to connect with the athletes and watching them grow has given coach Copeland the greatest reward rather than any one particular result on the field or court. The opportunity to work with young athletes of different personalities, backgrounds and cultures has been special to her.

Coach Copeland stated that her success is credited to the Lord, her parents and to her coaches, including but not limited to, coaches Mike Vara and Pete Oliver in high school and

Coach Saintsing from college.

Also, she credits attending basketball camp at N.C. State University under legendary Coach Kay Yow as having a great influence on her not just in basketball, but in life.

Coach Copeland said, “I may retire soon from teaching in the classroom, but I hope to always continue coaching young athletes.”

An asset to Bertie High School, Bertie County and, more importantly to young athletes and students who have been taught by Jackie Copeland, she will be missed when she does retire.

Jackie is married to Hunter Copeland

and lives close to her parents, sister and extended family in the same neighborhood that she grew up playing against the boys as a youngster.

Her infectious spirit and zest for life has been evident to anyone who has ever met her and continues to this day.

Jackie brings honor, talent and respect to the name “coach.”

Lewis Hoggard is Executive Director of the Windsor/Bertie Chamber of Commerce and a regular contributor to Eastern North Carolina Living.

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FINDING HER PLACE AS A COACH

North Pitt soccer coach Lauren Wasilick always had a desire to coach, a desire that was so strong, it led to her changing her major during her time at East Carolina University.

Wasilick, who originally went to college planning to become an athletic trainer, instead majored in health education so she could look to obtain a coaching position. The opportunity to coach presented itself before Wasilick even graduated from ECU, as she began coaching during her time student-teaching at North Pitt.

NWasilick has since stood in as a volleyball coach at times, worked as an assistant on the girls’ basketball team (including the 2A state champion team in 2018), but she has been a mainstay as the head of the Panthers’ soccer program for nearly the last decade.

Wasilick not only coaches North Pitt’s girls’ soccer program, but also heads the boys’ team as one of only a few female coaches to lead a boys’ team in the region.

She noted that while the move to coaching the boys’ team presented some difficulties at

first, especially with not many shared priorities, the love of soccer has always connected her and the players.

One of her previous teams deserves most of the credit for Wasilick being so well accepted in the role.

“I had a group of guys a couple years back that really just accepted me as the coach and set the tone with the community and the parents that ‘she’s good and she knows what she’s doing,’ and that’s just kind of carried on throughout the years,” Wasilick said.

She added that she was hesitant at first to take the boys’ head coaching job, but she is now well accepted by everyone within the program.

One reason Wasilick said she enjoys coaching so much is the extra connections it allows her to make with the athletes outside of the classroom.

“It’s fun, you get to know the kids in a different setting and a different way, and I feel like you can influence them a whole lot more as a coach than you can in the classroom,” Wasilick said.

The physical education teacher noted she always had a desire to coach soccer, as that was the sport she played the most herself.

Like many small-school boys’ soccer programs in Eastern North Carolina, North Pitt’s team consists largely of Latin American players.

While there is no issue of a language barrier, Wasilick did say the cultural differences did

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have some impact early on.

“It does (affect some players) a little bit. Culturally for them, women are not a big leader in their families and in their day-today life, men are typically the ones in charge,” Wasilick said.

However, once the one team accepted her in the leadership position as head coach, the trend has continued with each team in the following years.

“I had that group that said ‘No, she’s going to be okay as the one in charge,’ and since then it’s been very easy to get that going,” Wasilick said.

Wasilick certainly fits one trend in sports that is evident from high school to the pros — younger and younger coaches are becoming the norm.

She said her time coaching only a handful of years removed from being in high school herself helped her be more understanding of the issues the players are facing.

“You kind of understand some of the struggles that they’re going through because it’s fresh in your mind somewhat, so you can definitely relate to them a little bit more,” Wasilick said.

For Wasilick, there was some culture shock when she first started teaching and

coaching at North Pitt, as she went to high school Cardinal Gibbons, a 4A private school in Raleigh, and had to quickly adjust to life at a more rural 2A school.

She said seeing what the players on the team go through on a daily basis motivates her every day as a coach.

“Just some of the things they deal with

on a day-to-day basis, you have tremendous respect for them that they can still put on the uniform, put a smile on their face and come out here and play the game that they love,” Wasilick said.

Craig Moyer is a Sports Writer for The Daily Reflector and a contributor to Eastern North Carolina Living.

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Gtell you that in becoming a football coach you may believe that you’re teaching young people how to successfully learn to play a game while also learning to be responsible; but in reality it’s those youngsters who teach the coach.

Currently the head football coach at Northampton County High School, Privott’s Jaguar teams have made the playoffs for all 13 years of his head coaching tenure, and in a dozen post-seasons have only failed to not advance beyond the first round once. His 10year record is an impressive 85-45.

“It was my early coaches – Carl Brock, Paul Moore, Scott Privott – that pretty much transformed me into the player I became and, not to be arrogant, but by the time I learned my position (lineman) I was a force to be reckoned with.”

As for the transition to coaching, Brock, who died in 1996, was an especially aspirational influence on Privott.

“A lot of things I do coaching-wise I got from him,” Privott said. “He taught me things like how to care for your players, little things you can do for motivation, like those new allblack uniforms my players debuted on Sept. 9.”

On that date, prior to the North Edgecombe game, the Jags warmed up, did their pre-game – including prayer – and when they returned to their weight room, there were all-black jerseys and pants.

“And, they (the kids) went ballistic,” he acknowledged, with a grin.

A 6’-1”, 290-pound lineman and 1994 graduate of Hertford County High, Privott originally enrolled at North Carolina A&T in Greensboro to play football. He returned home following a freshman injury, but after a year off returned to play all four years at nearby Elizabeth City State, graduating in 2002.

It was there, in 2000, in the Pasquotank

County school system, that he had his first experience with coaching.

“Shake Jacobs was the coach at Elizabeth City Middle School and he didn’t have any assistant coaches,” Privott noted. “So I and a teammate went out and assisted him. It was

George Privott will

COACHING HAS AN IMPACT ON LIVES AND HELPS ONE TO MAINTAIN A PASSION FOR THE GAME.

frustrating because we were losing games and as new coaches we bumped heads a little bit.”

Still, Privott was invited back for a second year and that team went undefeated and won the conference championship.

This success led to an assistant position back in his hometown at Hertford County High while teaching physical-education at Murfreesboro’s Riverview School.

In between stints with the Bears, he volunteer coached at Bertie High in Windsor then returned before then-HCHS coach Greg Watford left for Northampton-East in Conway and brought George along as his top assistant. He worked there from 2007-2010 when he ascended to the head coaching position.

“Everybody dreams of going to the NFL,” he related. “But I knew from the arthritis in my knees and the condition of my body that the next best thing was to be coaching so I could remain close to football.”

Privott credits ‘people-skills’ for much of his success with his players as well as his work with other coaches. It extends beyond X’s and O’s.

“That comes from something that some coaches frown upon,” he says. “As a young assistant older coaches told me to be friendly with my players, but being a video-game kid myself I can sit down with them and come down on their level. The kids can relate to that, and even though some coaches can’t do it, it’s a skill to relate on their level, then switch to coaching-mode, and still be respected.”

He admits there’s a fine – but distinct – line between being ‘coach’ and ‘one of the fellas’.

“Despite playing basketball with some of them and other activities of having a good time, they know that once I cross the track onto the football field, I go from ‘Coach Privott’ to ‘Coach-P,’ and they know not to mess with Coach-P,” he admitted. “That’s the respect I give them, and that they now will give me; there’s no games (in the classroom, or) on the field. Some players respect how one minute I can be ‘cool with them’ and the next minute I’m no-play.”

With over 20 years of experience carrying the whistle and the clipboard, Privott has some advice for young coaches and those

who aspire to the profession.

“I would advise young coaches to learn the head coach’s total philosophy: that’s the offense, the defense and the special teams,” Privott said. “A lot of people neglect special teams, but we practice it every day. In the past we’ve recovered onside kicks, but in my opening game we kicked off and they ‘took it to the house’; so that pretty much ended kicking it in the air. From now on we keep it on the ground; we don’t even have a fieldgoal kicker. We let teams know that with our special teams defense we make turnovers happen. You’re going to have to earn it on us.

“The second factor is don’t try to specialize at one position. Learn the whole playbook. While you may coach quarterbacks or running backs, start to coach all positions: defensive and offensive line. If you have aspirations of being a head coach you need to learn all positions for every team you put on the field,” he asserted.

“Finally, relate to your players. You don’t have to be their buddy, but you have to know what it takes to make that player perform at

their best,” he declared. “People see we’re a small school at Northampton, and while my assistants handle a lot I find out what it takes to get the best from a player.”

Privott coached NFL player Keion Crossen

for his final two seasons of high school ball before he headed off to play at Western Carolina. Crossen later earned a 2019 Super Bowl ring with the New England Patriots, who drafted him in 2018.

Privott tells young players that Crossen is a prime example of establishing a solid work ethic.

“I heard stories of how his parents pushed him, and how he also hit the weight room to be in top shape to avoid injuries,” Privott remarked. “There was a time I canceled practice for the team, but there was Keion running wind sprints and getting in extra work.

“I reference him sometimes, but I don’t try to compare him to anyone. I just want them to know that with their hard work, they can make it, too,” he added.

Crossen, who is now an ordained minister, has also played for the Houston Texans, NY Giants and now plays for the Miami Dolphins. Privott’s accomplishments demonstrate that there is football life after you play your final down.

Coaching has an impact on lives and helps one to maintain a passion for the game. It can turn a dream into something that can last for a lifetime.

Gene Motley is a retired Sports Editor and Sports Director and a regular contributor to Eastern North Carolina Living.

When Lewis Rodgers Sr. and Lewis Rodgers Jr., both coaches of a variety of sports discussed coaching, they probably weren’t aware they were influencing young Tamara Rodgers.

It wasn’t strategies or game plan knowledge Tamara absorbed when listening to her grandfather and father discuss the points of a game. The caring the two coaches shared for the players they coached, is what led Tamara to the coaching field at Columbia Middle School in Columbia.

“I guess I can say it runs in the family. My dad and grandpa were also coaches and I enjoyed watching them,” Rodgers said.

At nineteen years old the Wildcat assistant volleyball coach can relate to her players.

“I played volleyball all through middle school and my first year of high school. Volleyball was the only sport that I truly fell in love with playing. I enjoy watching other sports, but volleyball is the main one,” said the Coach.

While the skills of volleyball may be on the coach’s agenda, Rodgers maintains one of the main fundamentals of coaching is helping to build character in the players by building relationships and confidence.

“Winning is not everything. Becoming

better students, players and people is what’s important. I tell them all the time that I am so proud of them. It doesn’t matter if they lost by 20 points, the fact that they continued to play and cheer each other on is what makes me proud,” said Rodgers.

Although a first-year assistant coach, Rodgers realizes a coach needs to connect with the players in order to build a strong relationship and to have the ability to focus their passion and filter their enthusiasm.

“I believe this is where having strong

relationships comes in. It is much easier to try and guide young people when they feel a connection with you. Sometimes they will lose focus when they feel they are not doing ‘good enough,’ so I tell them everyday that I am proud of them, said Rodgers. “I do this to let them know that no matter if they win or lose, the fact they continue to play is what I am proud of. I will also get out there and play with them during practice.”

Rodgers is aware her players are at an age when emotions run high and occasionally

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tears flow when spikes fail and she uses humor as a form of contentment.

“Another thing I do is try and joke with them. I try to keep practice fun so it is not this strict environment. I want them to know it is okay to have fun, as long as you are still learning,” she said.

Winning is always on Rodgers’ radar and her playbook reflects that, but it doesn’t take top billing.

“Winning is wonderful, but it is not the most important thing about playing a sport. This is something I try to make sure the girls understand. Even if we lose, you still kept going,” she said.

“You still keep playing the game and still made sure to show good sportsmanship towards the other team and your own teammates. I know sometimes it can be

12-girl squad rotates play so everyone sees court time.

“One of the highlights of my week is to see the parents come to the games. The team loves it when the parents show up. I believe the parents realize the value of the lessons we are teaching. I really hope that they can see how great their kids are and how much they are trying to improve,” said Rodgers.

The assistant coach also realizes coaching involves counseling of sorts.

“Volleyball is a mental sport. I really enjoy working with the girls and helping on their attitudes and how to keep positive. They may not be doing well in the game and always tell them, ‘don’t drop your head, we will get there, it’s O.K.’ If one person is having a bad day and they are mentally involved, the whole team is involved. That’s why it is such a mental sport.

public health education and looks forward to finishing her degree.

For Rodgers, her assistant coaching position is a step toward head coaching.

“I am actually interested in becoming a head coach now. I love working with kids, and being a volunteer assistant allowed me to see that I actually enjoy helping kids and being able to help coach them into playing a sport.”

A first year teacher’s assistant and assistant coach Rodgers gets excited when she explains the reactions her players and students have when they cross paths in the hall.

“Personally I have a great relationship with the kids. I am their coach and I love all of them,” she said.

Rodgers was recently excited when a player who wasn’t doing well in the grade department brought all of her grades up in order to play. She said it is wonderful to watch that and be a part of that.

The educator was recently awarded “Wildcat of the Month” by a vote of the

“I was so excited. One of the teachers had their students write letters to me. I received about four so far and they are still coming. I love reading them,” Rodgers said, smiling

Rodgers could not be more proud of her

“I am truly proud of each and every one of my ladies. I have enjoyed watching them become the best young women they can be. My experience as a volunteer assistant is wonderful, and it was all because of them,” Rodgers said. “I have enjoyed becoming close to all my girls and I love how they are comfortable to come to me when they are struggling. I love all of the hugs I receive daily from them and the little pop ups at my door just to say “hi.” I just hope they know how proud I am of them.”

John Foley is a Staff Writer for the Bertie Ledger-Advance, Perquimans Weekly and Eastern North Carolina Living.

WEBB gIvEs HEART, MIND AND BODY TO FOOTBALL

Story & Photos by John H. Walker

CCliff Webb enjoys his job.

Webb, who has been coaching at South Edgecombe Middle School since 1989, absolutely beams when he talks about the youngsters on his football team.

And on the sidelines during a game, he’s not so much caught up in the game as he is in watching the players.

On a recent Thursday, as the orangeand-black clad Dragons dismantled an outmatched Elm City Vikings team by a 40-0 score, he was clapping for his players on the field, but turning to look and see who could go in the game next.

“Are you ready, son?,” he asked a youngster who was engaged in conversation with a teammate.

“Son,” he called out again, “are you ready to play?”

The player had his helmet on in a heartbeat, ready to be called to Webb’s side.

The interesting thing about Webb’s demeanor is that instead of coming across as a coach who is not pleased that a player wasn’t paying attention, it was more like a father calling a son in from the outside.

“Well, we’ve got a couple of players who are really scared, but I know they’re scared,” he said. “They want to play, but they’re not real sure they want to play … but they practice and I want to make sure they get to play.”

Webb laughed a bit when he talked about his approach to dealing with players.

“You (a coach) can’t do it like they (coaches) used to do it,” he said. “Back in the day, I got hit up side the head,” as he made a hand gesture to his head, followed by one reflecting a hand grabbing a face mask.

Webb said coaching in 2022 is listening to the players and taking the time to know what’s going on in their respective lives. He says a coach has got to take the time to learn about his or her student-athletes.

“I’ve got some really good kids, I really do,” he said. “They don’t cause me or the other coaches any problems … they don’t cause problems in school.”

Webb said that makes coaching the team easier.

“That’s because we’ve got some good parents,” he explained. “They are really supportive.”

They — at least some of them — like and respect Webb.

“Oh, he’s good with the kids,” said a woman

wearing an orange shirt with Dragons on it at the Duck Thru convenience store the day after the game. “They (kids) like Coach Webb. They know if they work and practice, they’re gonna play,” she added.

After the Thursday game, Webb took the uniforms home and washed them, and had them hanging on a rack in his office.

“Up until last year, we had a washer and dryer right over there” — gesturing to a spot in his office — “but they took them out, so I take the stuff home and do it,” he explained.

“The kids take their practice stuff home (to wash), but I can’t let ‘em take those game uniforms home … you never know when we’ll get another set,” he said, explaining that the like-new-looking uniforms were given to the team several years earlier.

During games, Webb and his fellow coaches wear a gray T-shirt with a firebreathing South Edgecombe Dragon on the front and “Thank GOD for everything” on the back.

“The team came up with that slogan,” he said. “The team voted on that.”

Webb said the fact is he’s dealt with good kids and good parents down through the years, along with the school’s administration.

“That’s why I’m still here,” he admitted. “The kids and parents are good and great to work with and the administration is super.”

But Webb won’t be at SEMS after this year, and he admitted he would be at a loss as to what he’ll do.

When asked that question, Webb’s expression almost turned somber.

“I don’t know what I’m gonna do. I’ve problems with my knees … the arthritis is really bad in both of them. But if I can’t coach 100 percent, how can I expect my players to do it?”

Webb has long days.

He works for Moore Paint & Wallpaper in Rocky Mount, then heads to the locker room.

“J.T. Williams and his son, Joe, own Moore Paint and they let me do it (coach). Usually, I work 8 til’ 4:30, but during football season, I get off at 2:30. They’re good to me.”

With Webb, the team more or less gets a two-for-one-deal, in that his daughter,

ShaeLeigh, is one of the managers, along with Zytavien Mabry.

“She’s kinda the glue,” he said, beaming like the proud father he is. “She makes sure the players don’t miss anything and she does all the social media stuff, so they know when practices are and things like that.”

He said ShaeLeigh “really helps me out … and the players tell her when they need something.”

Webb said he got his start when Tommy Tolson asked him to take over the program.

Along the way, he’s had some success and points to a plaque when his team went 8-0 and won the Cougar Bowl in 2009.

“We (South and West) play it at SouthWest Edgecombe and we won it by two points.”

Webb said he’s had some longtime supporters, such as Dave Sharpe, who has worked his chains crew since 1997 and he was with Southern Bank.

“There are a lot of good people like that who have bought shoes for kids … pants, jerseys … whatever.”

Webb said he couldn’t experience success with a good staff, which includes defensive coach Chris Lewis, offensive coach Carlo Foreman and backs coach Greg Horne.

“They’re good at what they do and with the kids,” he said. “I don’t know what I’m gonna do … I’m sure gonna miss it.”

John H. Walker is a Staff Writer for the Rocky Mount Telegram and Eastern North Carolina Living.

WASHINGTON COUNTY AD IS COACH’S COACH

Washington High School Athletic Director

Corey Crossen is the coach’s coach. The 25year veteran of the high school has become an integral component contributing to the consistency of the coaching program at Washington County High School in Plymouth.

For 34 years, athletic director and head football coach Robert Cody led the teams to decades of impressive standings. As an assistant coach, Crossen had the opportunity to work next to Cody for many of those years.

When Cody stepped down because of family reasons in 2017, Crossen stepped up.

Under Cody’s direction the team won three state championships in 2007, 2012 and 2015 and much of the credit for those wins goes to the defensive coaching team of which Crossen co-directed.

In the past, Crossen has been credited with helping solidify one of the best defenses in the state. Today, he walks the halls of Washington High School as its athletic director and, although he misses coaching, he enjoys his current role.

“I miss coaching and being on the sidelines, but I still get to go to the sidelines if I want to,” Crossen said.

For all of the accolades and mentions he has received over the years, Crossen remains

humble, never mentioning this long list of achievements.

Aside from his athletic successes, his academic achievements weigh heavily on his talents contributing to his ability to coach and direct. Crossen has a BS degree in Agriculture from North Carolina A&T State University. He went on to Grand Canyon University, where he earned a Master’s Degree in Education Leadership and Administration and then returned to his alma mater to earn a second Master’s Degree in Agricultural Education.

Although Crossen’s educational background is in academic leadership and agriculture, his love of sport is deep rooted.

“Growing up, my entire family was involved in sports so from the time I can remember I always loved sports - especially football,” Crossen said.

He highlights the path to success - whether on the field or in the classroom - is education and he strives to send this message to his students and their coaches.

“I always try to influence student-athletes to maximize their potential, not just for athletic accomplishments, but for personal growth and career success. Education is the key,” said Crossen.

A highlight of Crossen’s career to date took place in 2007 when the North Carolina General Assembly ratified a joint resolution recognizing the achievements of the 2007 Plymouth High School Football team. The resolution spotlighted eight seasonal accomplishments that led to the legislative motion, one being personally rewarding for Crossen.

He is mentioned in the resolution as a coach and credited, along with the other coaches, for a winning season and assisting with directing 11 of 17 seniors on the team to

Story & Photos by John Foley

attend four-year colleges and universities and one planning to attend community college.

The state legislature recognized the achievements of the players, coaches and staff of the Plymouth High School varsity football team and honored the team on winning the 2007 NCHSAA State 1-A Football Championship with the resolution.

Throughout Crossen’s tenure as defensive coordinator, before becoming AD, the Vikings had been ranked numerous times in the Associated Press regular season poll in the top ten 1-A teams. From 2011 through 2015 the Vikings record showed 68 wins, against only seven losses. The Vikings were credited with having a great defense, having held seven opponents to eight or fewer points.

Crossen was honored again, as recently as 2017, being awarded the Dave Harris Athletic Director of the Year award from the North Carolina High School Athletic Association.

Named for the coach and athletic director, Harris embarked on a highly successful 20year career as head football coach and athletic director at Harding High in Charlotte. Then from 1967 until 1990 he served as the athletic

director for the Charlotte-Mecklenburg school system, where he was considered one of the state's best athletic directors.

Crossen’s coaching philosophy, which he continues to focus on with his coaches, is to emphasize potential in everything they do.

“I try to continually influence studentathletes to maximize their potential not just for athletic accomplishments, but for personal growth and career success in their lives,” Crossen said.

Aside from Crossen’s school responsibilities he also spends time coordinating home athletic events, all athletic scheduling, serving as Game Day Administrator, academic and athletic compliance checks while making sure the teams have winning seasons.

While Crossen once had a defensive team under his direction, as Athletic Director he now has 21 coaches under his direction.

Having walked in their shoes, Crossen knows the importance of supporting his coaching staff.

“I encourage all of the coaches and constantly offer positive reinforcement,” explained Crossen, familiar with the

challenges and stress of the position.

The Athletic Director has certain criteria for choosing coaches.

“When hiring, I am looking for dependability and knowledge of his and her sport. It is also important to have objectives that align with our school athletic department,” said the veteran of Washington County High School.

In choosing athletes, Crossen looks for the passion and love of the sport the player possesses.

Losses are something Crossen has not had much experience with, but he does claim to “self evaluate” before watching the game films after a loss.

For those who have a desire to follow in Crossen’s footsteps, his advice is simple.

“Create a career plan and have faith in your plan and follow it just as if you would a GPS taking you to a place you have never been or seen before,” said Crossen. “But you need Panther Pride.”

John Foley is a Staff Writer for the Bertie ledger-Advance, Perquimans Weekly and Eastern North Carolina Living.

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ALL IN A Day’s Trip

Southern Pines

Story & Photos by Meghan Grant

Much to do in Southern North Carolina

Southern Pines is such a quaint, quintessential Southern town and it has a lot going on.

Initially, Southern Pines was slow to develop because of the sandy soil, it quickly became an important spot as railroads developed in the 19th century.

The historic district of Southern Pines is split with the still active railroad and offers delicious restaurants, fun breweries, quaint shops and lots to do outdoors!

Plus, it’s quite a beautiful drive, taking you past horse farms and gorgeous homes.

Enjoy a Night Cap at Ashten’s

Catch Live Music at First Friday

This monthly event runs May-October and is a fun community event to catch live music on the grassy knoll beside the Sunrise Theatre. There are food trucks, vendors and Southern Pines beer available for purchase while listening to local bands.

Enjoy a farm-to-table meal at Scott’s Table

Scott’s Table offers an exceptional dining experience with welcoming service and delicious food! Scott’s Table focuses on using quality, fresh ingredients and selects produce and portents in from local North Carolina sources. Start your meal with pimento cheese, which is served with crostini. The blackened chicken sandwich and the local seafood entree are delicious options!

Have a Pint at Southern Pines Brewing Company

Check out Southern Pines Brewing Company’s newest location on Pennsylvania Avenue. The taproom offers gorgeous outdoor seating with views of downtown, heaters for cooler evenings and food trucks. There are lots of options on tap, including wine, too! The Mexican Lager and the Man of Law are must-try brews.

Ashten’s is a restaurant staple in Southern Pines, having been open since 1997. Their bar offers an expansive drink selection, plus small bites. The interior concept is elegant, yet comfortable, inspired by an English manor. It also has outdoor seating, making it a perfect spot to people watch.

Lunch at Bell Tree Tavern

Bell Tree Tavern is a great, local spot to grab lunch and catch a game. Or, you might opt to enjoy the expansive, dogfriendly patio. The chicken quesadilla and chicken BLT wrap were fantastic! And whatever you do, order the fried okra!

Dine al fresco at the Sly Fox Pub

The Sly Fox offers a menu of elevated European and Indian Pub food with patio seating areas, including one area under a beautiful ivy covered wall. Order the burgers because the Locavore and the Pub burgers are delicious options! Also, sub the fries for the mac & cheese! You won’t regret it.

Grab a Cup of Coffee from Java Bean

If you’re out for a stroll downtown, definitely stop and grab a cup from Java Bean. This coffee shop has lots of outdoor seating with great coffee and pastries. It is cash only, so be sure to bring cash to get your coffee!

Try a Crepe at Betsy’s Crepe

This gem serves breakfast and lunch, featuring sweet and savory crepes, plus soups, paninis and salads. Betsy’s also offers glutenfree crepe options. Don’t let the line deter you – it moves quickly!

Browse the Shops in Historic Southern Pines

Southern Pines has such a walkable downtown, and there are so many unique shops to browse. Monkee’s of the Pines has such a gorgeous selection of women’s fashion, jewelry, and accessories. They also carry brands that are woman-owned or are eco-friendly. R. Riveter specializes in handmade bags from military uniforms, a business started by two military spouses. The shop also has a variety of gift items as well, such as R. Riveter candles. A personal favorite is audacious, with citrus and cedar notes. Against the Grain Shoppe features over 75 percent of their inventory from small businesses right in Moore County.

Check Out the NC Literary Hall of Fame at Weymouth Center for the Arts and Humanities

This fabulous venue is claimed to have started the Southern literary revival and hosted writers such as Thomas Wolfe and F. Scott Fitzgerald! The property was the first nature preserve in the North Carolina parks system. The Weymouth Center houses the North Carolina Literary Hall of Fame and the grounds are open daily. Tours of the magnificent Boyd House are offered during weekdays.

Stretch your Legs at the Southern Pines Reservoir Greenway

This 2.1 mile loop is a great way to stretch your legs as you walk around the Southern Pines Reservoir.

If you opt to spend the night, be sure to check out Duncraig Manor & Gardens, a historic bed and breakfast. This 12,600 square foot home offers a tranquil getaway that is just a short drive or walk from downtown Southern Pines. Caroline and Don will make you feel right at home and create such a welcoming environment on their splendid property.

Meghan Grant is the author of the blog “I’m Fixin’ To” and is a regular contributor to Eastern North Carolina Living.

Amy Barsanti

Teacher of Excellence

S tory & P hoto S B y D e B orah G riffin

She was elected to the position by her peers, then voted on by a committee formed from leaders in the county.

Barsanti has taught for 32 years, the last seven in Jamesville. It is evident to people whose lives she touches, she is crazy about her job.

She grew up in Baltimore, MD and moved to New York after graduating college, to pursue her love of acting.

“I was substitute teaching to support my acting habit,” she explained, laughing.

Eventually, she began teaching full-time in the Big Apple.

It was here she met her husband, Hank, who was in the restaurant business. They’ve been married 32 years.

She credits her love of other cultures to her time spent in New York.

“That opened up my mind to a lot,” she said.

The Barsantis ultimately moved to Plymouth, by way of Nags Head, where they owned property.

In Plymouth, Amy taught at Pines Elementary for 18 years (now closed). She and Hank, (now retired), raised three girls there. They decided when the girls were young to travel as much as they could to give their daughters a chance to experience other cultures, as they had while living in New York.

“They were young enough that [traveling] impacted them very strongly,” she said. “The experience of being [in someone else’s culture] gives you a level of empathy. I think that it is very valuable to have that sense at some point in your life, of being in someone else’s place.”

Barsanti incorporates her love of travel and culture into her classroom, expanding her students’ horizons. She uses artifacts, songs and even food, allowing them insight into ways other people live.

She loves to celebrate and believes a lot

JJamesville Elementary teacher Amy Barsanti is the district’s Teacher of Excellence for 2022.

Gratitude and celebration are two things she wants her children to come away with.

can be learned by studying the holidays of other countries.

She orders “Culture Kits” that are filled with artifacts from the countries they study.

“Carolina Navigators allows you to order the boxes online. They FedEx them to you free. It’s like a library. It’s a repository for artifacts. You keep it for a month, then send it back,” she said.

They are a key she uses to unlock children’s curiosity.

“I do inquiry based social studies,” she explains. “Before we talk about a country, they look at the stuff in the [Culture Kit] and see what they can figure out about the country we will be studying.”

She encourages them to figure things out by observing, asking questions and discussing their theories.

“I love watching that process,” she said.

As an example, Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, is in September, so she has ordered

the Israel Culture Kit to come at the end of the month.

“Then we have the one from Mexico, for Dia de Muertos (Day of the Dead), coming in October. We will do the box from China for the Lunar New Year,” she added.

Amy has traveled the past two summers overseas with educational scholarships.

“During the pandemic I had a lot of time for reflection. I applied for a Fulbright [scholarship] and got sent to Iceland,” she said. “We were gone for a whole month with educators from all over the U.S.”

She continued, “I thought, if I can do this, maybe I can do something else.”

She applied, and was granted a scholarship to travel with the group Go Global NC to Africa, visiting the countries of Zimbabwe and Senegal last summer.

“In Senegal, we were collecting digital artifacts. UNC is going to have a collection of lesson plans and digital artifacts for K-5

teachers. It is being funded by the Oak Foundation and its mission is to dispel myths about contemporary Africa,” she said.

“We actually got to teach in schools. Two of the schools we spent the most time at had too many students and not enough trailers. When we got there, there was a class lined up in their desks, outside. A lot of the kids walk miles to school,” she added.

She was struck at how grateful the children were.

“They value education so much,” she said. “They have this deep connection with the outdoors and they don’t feel under privileged. Every class I was in, there was joy, and singing. I learned a lot about gratitude. I don’t know if that can be taught, but it can definitely be modeled.”

Gratitude and celebration are two things she wants her children to come away with.

“For a long chunk of my career, I was really committed to teaching tolerance,” she said.

“But in the last couple of years, I have realized there is no excuse for tolerance when there can be celebration.”

She realizes in Eastern North Carolina, there is a lot to celebrate about the culture.

“We think we are pitiful when we think about the things we don’t have — like infrastructure and diversity. But there is something about our kids’ connection to the land, their heritage, their culture, their values and their food – that is really comparable to a lot of other places,” she explains.

“We should be on the map for this. Instead of thinking, ‘why can’t we have the things they have in Raleigh?’… They just don’t know how good we have it. And I don’t think our kids do either,” she said.

She is working on ways to instill this thinking into her kids.

“I love Martin County. Jamesville is a little slice of heaven,” she continued.

Studying other countries’ traditions helps kids realize they have their own traditions.

“Food is a great point of entry,” she said. She said in her classroom Friday is FRIED-day.

“Monday is FUN-day; Tuesday is NEWSday; Wednesdays is FRIENDS-day and Thursday is WORDS-day,” she added.

Every day, right after lunch, she captivates students, as she reads to them, tapping into her inner actress.

“We have a really short window [after lunch] and it’s not worth starting anything new, so we read aloud from long chapter books,” she said.

She also uses her acting background to write plays for her children to perform throughout the year.

Barsanti teaches her students to handwrite letters to pen pals in Raleigh. They learn the proper way to address an envelope. And hand-write thank you letters to each guest that visits.

Additionally, the students have pen pals in England, whom they communicate with through email.

Outside the classroom, Barsanti enjoys acting with Martin Community Players.

“After 30 years, I got back on the stage,” she said.

Most recently she played the LaMerle Verdeen Minshew in the “Last Round-Up of the Guacamole Queens.”

She is grateful to have a supportive husband.

“He really is awesome,” she said. “I was gone last summer for a month, and this past summer for almost a month.”

Her next adventure will be leading an E.F. Tour to the Dominican Republic, for which she will travel to Rome next month to receive training.

“Travel has infused life into me, and into my practices, and my classroom,” she said. “I’m 62 and I can’t imagine retiring.”

Deborah Griffin is News Editor of The Enterprise and a Staff Writer for Eastern North Carolina Living.

Grandma’s Kitchen

Autumn is here and it is a beautiful time of year.

I love putting up the autumn decorations. There is something about the colors that make your home feel warm and cozy. There are deep reds, oranges and yellows. The reds range from scarlet to burgundy to almost purple. The oranges may be burnt orange or pumpkin or a bright orange. The yellows are a dark yellow to almost orange.

And, oh how we love the leaves when they change to those same colors. Millions travel every fall and spend billions of dollars across the Eastern United States just to see the trees dressed in all their splendor.

Millions more travel to football games, both college and pro games to cheer on their favorite team. There is a special camaraderie and unity among those who are pulling for the same team. There are no strangers, only fellow fans.

Just as many travel to fall festivals and fairs. You can find a festival or fair celebrating almost everything you can think up: hog calling, farmer’s produce, crafts, music, food. You name it, there’s a festival for it.

There is excitement in the air when autumn arrives. We just want to get out and do something. It could be the beauty all around us or the cooler air we breathe after the heat of summer. Whatever the reason, we are a people on the move when autumn arrives and there is something for everyone to enjoy.

Those who love to cook are excited to bring out their favorite “comfort food” recipes. The Internet is full of them whether for slow cookers, casseroles or one pot meals.

Some people prepare fried chicken, potato salad and other picnic food so they can sit and look at the leaves as they eat. Others are excited to prepare food for tailgating. Some carry food already prepared at home while others cook on a grill when they arrive. However it’s done, it is a time of sharing and enjoying meals.

If you are looking for something quick and easy to add to the more hardy dishes of a picnic, tailgate or home meal, think about some old favorite recipes and serve them in a slightly different way.

Sylvia Hughes with her grandmother, Bertie Dameron.

I tal I an S kewer S

Instead of sandwiches, use wooden skewers

Place on skewer: folded slice of pastrami 1 green olive folded slice of salami small ball of mozzarella slice of pepperoni

Use a jar for any kind of Italian dressing

Use a brush to coat food when ready to eat and slide food into paper bowl

Eat with bread or crackers

Dr I e D Beef Chee S e Ball

2 (8oz.) cream cheese

1 jar dried beef (4.5 0z.) chopped fine ½ tb. Worcestershire

1 cup sharp cheddar, shredded ½ tsp. Garlic powder

2 green onion tops, chopped fine

Add all ingredients to a bowl and mix well.

Place in plastic wrap and form into any shape you wish (football forChillinstance) until firm. Roll in chopped pecans and bacon bits

M I ll I ona I re P I e

¾ cup sugar

1 (8 oz.) cream cheese

1 large can crushed pineapple, drained

1 cup chopped nuts (I like black walnuts)

1 container Cool Whip Mix sugar and cream cheese, whipping with a fork

Add pineapple and stir Add Cool Whip and mix well Add Nuts

Can be placed in 8 ounce paper cups and chilled.

Serve by placing small graham crackers around edge of cup

Sylvia Hughes is a retired newspaper editor and columnist residing in Windsor. In addition to three sons, she has a gaggle of grandchildren, many of whom love cooking with her just as she did with her mother and grandmother.

Grace & Truth Everyone needs a coach

Therapist, life coach, counselor, pastor and friend are all words that different segments of our society seek in times of decision and difficulty.

I have a life coach with whom I discuss my personal, family, church and career goals weekly. He has been a great encouragement to me and my ministry. Sometimes it’s nice to have someone to bounce ideas, hurts and plans off.

Some friends from California told me everyone they know has a therapist. It makes me chuckle because, growing up in eastern North Carolina, I had the idea that anyone with a counselor must be in some sort of trouble. As I got older, I realized this presumption was wrong, and I’m even grateful to have been blessed by such professionals.

Why do we need such help to endure life? What makes coaches so essential? We were not designed to walk alone, and we are better when we have someone who has gone ahead and can look at who we are from another perspective to help us see what we can’t.

I can only view my life from the first-person view. I understand, physically, I can now video myself and gain another perspective, but internally, in my soul, I can only understand my stride from one angle of view.

Here lies the genius of submitting myself to someone else and asking if there is something I can do to live this one life better. And a coach can do that.

I submit myself to the Holy Spirit daily. Jesus said He would teach, comfort, empower and direct me toward what would make me who God wants me to be. My walk is better in

step with the Holy Spirit.

Isaiah prophesied seven hundred years before Jesus that He would be a counselor. Jesus, the miracle worker, prophesied that it would be better for us that He send us a comforter that would be our friend. The Great Counselor says we need this Comforter.

And why? Because in this life, you will have troubles, but the Spirit will help us to endure. He listens to you. He empowers, cautions, critiques and celebrates you! God gives us a divine coach who never leaves our side and knows infinitely more than we do.

When I hear the word “coach,” Joe Mizelle will always be the first name that flashes to my mind. Joe was passionate. Coach loved basketball and the boys he coached.

P astor W ebb H oggard

One of my favorite stories of him was when we were playing a team out of Elizabeth City. We lost the game, and he was so angry. He told us to go into the corner of the gym so he could let us have it before going home.

“Boys, that was a pathetic display of basketball. Embarrassing! I don’t know what to say about this game except that it came down to one thing. There is one reason we lost tonight. One word sums the whole night up - lack of desire!”

One of the younger players counted on his fingers and then sheepishly said, “That’s three words, coach.” I don’t know if coach heard him or not, but the whole team was sufficiently scared.

We never wanted to disappoint him like that again. We worked hard because we trusted him. We wanted to win because he loved to win. We remember his love for us because he cared about us.

Coach is just another word for friend. A friend is someone who has another view of you and can call more incredible things out in you than you can see yourself. A coach is able to see something greater and helps us get there.

If you don’t have a friend like that, get one. We are better with someone who can see more. Paul had Barnabas, David had Jonathan and Michael Jordan had Dean Smith and Phil Jackson.

God bless the coaches in our lives.

Emanuel Webb Hoggard is Pastor at Askewville Assembly of God and a resident of Edenton. He can be reached via email at pastorwebb@hotmail.com.

We were not designed to walk alone, and we are better when we have someone who has gone ahead and can look at who we are from another perspective to help us see what we can’t.

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Henry “Harry” King Burgwyn Jr. was known as the “Boy Colonel” because he attained that rank at the age of twenty. He was perhaps the youngest colonel in the Confederate Army. As a soldier, Burgwyn was a natural. Unfortunately, he never lived to see his twenty-second birthday.

Burgwyn was the son of Northampton County planter Henry King Burgwyn Sr. and New England native Anna Greenough. He was born in Jamaica Plains, Massachusetts, at his mother’s ancestral home. Capt. John G. Foster privately taught Burgwyn at the U.S. Military Academy since he was too young at fifteen to enter the institution. In 1857 Burgwyn enrolled at the University of North Carolina; he graduated in 1859. To further his education, he entered the Virginia Military Institute.

Burgwyn stayed briefly in Richmond with other VMI cadets following the start of the Civil War. In North Carolina as a captain, he instructed the Lafayette Light Infantry in drill at Camp Ellis, located at the original State Fairgrounds, and was sent to the mountains to raise a company.

As a major, Burgwyn commanded Camp Crabtree near Raleigh. In August 1861, the Twenty-sixth regiment’s company officers elected the nineteen-year-old Burgwyn as lieutenant colonel, making him second in command behind Col. Zebulon B. Vance. Burgwyn’s regiment took part in operations in eastern North Carolina and in Virginia. With Vance’s election as North Carolina’s governor in August 1862, Burgwyn was promoted to colonel.

From August 1862 to May 1863, Burgwyn’s regiment fought in eastern North Carolina. In May the Twenty-sixth joined the Army of Northern Virginia. On July 1, 1863, at Gettysburg, the Twentysixth regiment took part in an assault that resulted in the death of Burgwyn. After ten color-bearers had fallen with the regimental flag, Burgwyn seized the colors. He cheered on his troops; the soldiers moved forward. A private took the colors from Burgwyn. After speaking with Lt. Col. John R. Lane, Burgwyn was struck by a bullet that passed through both lungs. He was buried at Gettysburg. In June 1867 Burgwyn was reinterred at Oakwood Cemetery in Raleigh.

REFERENCES

HENRY K. BURGWYN

“Boy” Colonel 26th N.C. Regt. Killed at age 21 at Gettysburg on July 1, 1863. Home stood 4 miles south.

MARKER TEXT

Archie K. Davis, Boy Colonel of the Confederacy (1985) Samuel A. Ashe, ed., Biographical History of North Carolina, VIII, 67-73 Walter Clark, ed., Histories of the Several Regiments and Battalions from North Carolina in the Great War, 1861-65, II (1901) William S. Powell, ed., Dictionary of North Carolina Biography, I, 276-277—sketch by Clyde Wilson

US. 158 at Barrows Mill Road west of Jackson

LLet me start with the proverbial elephant in the room.

We made a mistake – and it was a whopper, just to be honest.

If you’re from Washington County, you know exactly what I’m talking about. If not, you may or may not.

What it boils down to is this, there is a difference between Lake Phelps and Phelps Lake. Lake Phelps is in Washington County (and a little in Tyrrell) and Phelps Lake is in Wyoming.

PARTING SHOTS

By Thadd White

As we were researching the story about five must-see places in Washington County, we inadvertently wrote a story that included information from both of them.

We made a mistake and we apologize for it. I won’t go into the hows and why because they don’t matter. It was a mistake we shouldn’t have made and the kind we try fervently to avoid.

We have 18 counties and the fact is we don’t have local writers in all of them and we are working hard to do the best we can under those circumstances. That isn’t an excuse, but it is a fact.

I’m not trying to hide behind it because the bottom line is I am the editor of this publication and fault lies on my shoulders. If you want to be mad at someone, it would be me and I can understand why you would.

I can’t promise we won’t ever make a mistake again because we probably will. We are, after all, humans.

I can promise two things. One, we will do the very best we can to minimize our mistakes and apologize when we make them. The second is we will endeavor to do our best to make it up to the folks of Washington County by doing a story on the actual Lake Phelps in the coming year.

Thank you for your support and today, for your forgiveness. We love producing this

magazine and we will continue to do our best to promote life here in the Eastern part of the wonderful state we are lucky to call home.

In this edition, we have endeavored to introduce you to some of the wonderful people our young people call ‘coach.’ We haven’t covered them all, but we have given you just a sample of some of those wonderful people.

We hope you enjoy getting to know these fine folks.

Next time we will return with our second “What’s in a Name?” edition where we provide stories about the people who have had buildings, parks and the like named in their honor. Our first one was well-received and we look forward to this follow-up.

Until next time, remember… all who wander are not lost. Continue joining us as we wander through Beaufort, Bertie, Chowan, Edgecombe, Gates, Greene, Halifax, Hertford, Hyde, Martin, Nash, Northampton, Pasquotank, Perquimans, Pitt, Tyrrell, Washington and Wilson counties.

Thadd White is a father, a fan of Chelsea Football Club and a the grateful editor of this publication. He serves as Group Editor of five Adams Publishing Group publications, including the N.C. Press Award-winning Eastern North Carolina Living.

We love producing this magazine and we will continue to do our best to promote life here in the Eastern part of the wonderful state we are lucky to call home.