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Sick of health worries Under the rubric of protecting the public health, our governments have for some time demonized those of us who choose to smoke, to deliciously ironic effect. What seems at once obvious yet incomprehensible to those bent on reforming us incorrigibles is our buying into that demonization wholeheartedly and learning to love it for what it is — a deliberate alienation and an invitation to be messed with in the name of others’ rights. No longer simply an excuse to go outside for five minutes after a stressful moment or tiresome situation to service our ‘addiction,’ tobacco use now gives us the opportunity to avoid all indoor public spaces altogether, plus the new ninemetre exclusion zone demarcated in a pleasing blue shade around the entrances to some of our finer institutions. And this April, the Court of Quebec’s Judge Normand Amyot gave smokers still further reason to revel in the ostracism and white-hot shame of our foul lifestyle, pushing the issue right into the bedrooms of the nation, under the expanded rubric of protecting individual health from the conduct of one’s neighbour in his or her own home. His ruling in the much-exploited Fowler/Koretski case hinged on paperwork rather than principle — that the tenant, a sales rep in her early thirties, missed two words of fineprint in her lease was excuse enough to overturn the Quebec Rental Board’s decision in her favour, and to leave aside the issue of the right to privacy in one’s home versus the right of the landlord, an asthma sufferer, to police the quality of their shared air. The tenant smoker was ordered to immediately cease and desist in her home. That it is accepted as reasonable for
landlords to dictate how tenants use the air in their accommodation is no longer controversial, and one can indeed find more intrusive demands — especially in this town — slipped into online advertising and ill-composed lease agreements dealing with matters from religion to food to gender to sexuality. It’s difficult, however, to imagine any of these demands being backed by force of law in a Canadian court. That the Tobacco Manufacturer’s Council paid the legal bills to defend this case is blithely portrayed by activists as Big Tobacco versus the little guy, in spite of the fact that it was the landlord taking it to court on appeal. Others among us are glad someone bothers fighting to keep such an invasive condition from being considered legitimate when squeezed into the bottom of a lease as an excuse to meddle. We’ll take any champion we can get when reasonable accommodation for asthmatics starts reaching out from public space into our private space. This month we feature a column about stressing over what’s good for you, since it seems we’re always hearing about some new study highlighting the risk of something or other. The serene certainty that all of that pales in comparison to what one does to oneself voluntarily is reason enough in itself to take up smoking if you haven’t tried it yet. It’s easier now than ever to quit — we know. That makes choosing not to even more significant. The implicit admission of something one doesn't like about oneself, the chance to meet new people eager to share tales of sickness and death — we love that stuff. It’s what keeps us strong in the face of your derision. Solidarity, smelly brothers and sisters. — Adam Desaulniers
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Ottawa Ontario If you love musicals, you won’t want to miss the Lyric Theatre’s Broadway Sings! this June at Oscar Peterson Hall. The Lyric Theatre Singers, under musical director Bob Bachelor, promise a dynamic concert of the best Broadway show tunes with a spotlight on Cole Porter. Sophisticated and clever, composer and songwriter Cole Porter had hit shows on Broadway from 1928 to 1956. Porter was a prolific contributor to the Great American Songbook with hits like You’re the Top, Begin the Beguine, Night and Day, Be a Clown, My Heart Belongs to Daddy, Now You Has Jazz, Too Darn Hot, I Love Paris, Just One of Those Things, and DeLovely. In 1948, Porter’s biggest hit show, Kiss Me, Kate won the Tony Award for Best Musical, and Porter won for Best Composer and Lyricist.
Along with the tribute to Cole Porter, the Lyric Theatre Singers also perform hits from Broadway’s most popular musicals: Beauty and the Beast, How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying, Sweeney Todd: the Demon Barber of Fleet Street, A Chorus Line, Fiddler on the Roof, and The Fantastiks. The Lyric Theatre Singers, known as Montreal’s foremost interpreters of Broadway, jazz and pop choral music since 1990, appear June 5, 6, and 7 at 8 pm and June 7 at 2pm, at Oscar Peterson Concert Hall on Concordia’s Loyola campus, 7141 Sherbrooke St.W. $28/ $24 for seniors (60+) & students; $14 for children 12 years and under (service charges applicable). Reserve now: 514-363-3382. The Montreal Children’s Library, serving children since 1929, hosts a special fundraising concert on June 5. $55. Info: 514-931-2305 or www.mcl-bjm.ca
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Does your apartment need repairs? If you are living in an apartment or a rooming house, you have the right to be treated according to the law and with dignity. Therefore, it is imperative that you know your housing rights. It is the landlord’s responsibility to maintain the apartment in good condition, and make any necessary repairs (as long as they are not due to damage caused by the tenant). There are three main types of repair situations:
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(phone, visit, etc). If it is impossible to reach the landlord, or s/he refuses to act, you can carry out the repairs, and either deduct the money from your rent payments, or claim the money back at the Rental Board. You will need to have proof that the repair was urgent (e.g. witnesses, photos) and that you tried to contact the landlord, in case the landlord claims you illegally withheld rent. Apartment unfit for habitation (flood, heat cut off during winter) You have the right to abandon your apartment. Within 10 days, you must send a registered letter to the landlord, stating your reason for abandoning. Before abandoning the apartment, make sure you have proof of the condition (witnesses, photos) in case the landlord denies it, and sues you for the rent. For problems involving health and safety, you should also call the City of Montreal Inspection Deparment (514-872-3181 or 514-872-2237). Project Genesis offers free information on issues, including housing rights. No appointment necessary. Call 514-738-2036 or visit at 4735 Côte-Ste-Catherine (in front of the metro, corner Victoria).
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Taste of the Caribbean Sunday, June 8, A Taste of the Caribbean, Quebec’s largest Caribbean Food Festival, celebrates its 9th anniversary at Raymond Bourque Arena at 2345 Thimens in Ville St-Laurent. Everyone is invited to spend a day in the Caribbean under one roof without leaving Montreal, with over 100 tropical mouth-watering dishes, tropical drinks and Caribbean desserts from over 20 Caribbean islands. Three Celebrity Chefs visiting from St. Lucia, St. Thomas, the Virgin Islands and the Dominican Republic will join over 30 local Caribbean chefs and restaurants to prepare some mouth-watering dishes from the Caribbean Diaspora. The festival will also feature an Arts and Crafts Marketplace and entertainment by Steelband, JAB JAB Calypso Band, Dance Caribe Performing Company, and Calypsonians,
plus carnival costumes on parade, moko jumbies, Caribbean Rum Tasting, and prize trips to the Caribbean including an all expense paid trip to Sandals Cuba, courtesy of Sandals. Tickets for this all-day festival are $35 and $10 for children under 12. The $100 VIP Patron ticket includes a Pre-Cocktail Caribbean Rum Tasting Reception from noon to 1:30pm, reserved seating, an all-day open bar, private sampling of the 100 dishes before general admission at 1:30, a gift bag filled with Caribbean goodies and a chance to win a $2,000 prize compliments of The Nelligan Hotel and Ambiance Limousine. Proceeds will be donated to “Triumph through Adversity”, a culinary arts program for disenfranchised youth. Info: 514-620-6612 or atasteofthecaribbean.ca
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Bike giveaway at Sun Youth Here at Sun Youth Nicolas Carpentier After a winter that seemed to last forever, spring is finally upon us. Here at Sun Youth, this means one thing: it’s the beginning of Bicycle Month. Throughout May, various events will underscore this yearly tradition. Brand new bicycles will be distributed to deserving children on May 2 and on May 17, refurbished bikes will be handed out to underprivileged families as part of the “Recyc-a-Bike” promotion. For the 25th consecutive year, an anonymous donor known to the public only as “Bikeman” will allow Sun Youth the distribution of about 60 new bicycles to youths whose actions have had a positive impact on their community or to young people who will have shown extraordinary courage when facing exceptional circumstances. Since last February, Sun Youth’s Bicycle
Temple Emanu-El Beth Sholom events Friday, May 9, celebrate Israel Independence Day with a Israeli dinner & service. Dinner at 6:15pm. $15. Sunday, May 11 from 9am-11:30am, Vermont historian Jeff Potash will speak on the history of the Jews of Burlington. Coffee & pastries, $5 donation. Wednesday, May 14 at 8 pm, Dr. Victor Goldbloom discusses reasonable accommodation and the Jewish community (reflections on Catholic-Jewish relations). Temple Emanu-El Beth Sholom, 395 Elm Ave, Westmount. Info: 514-937-3575
Committee has received over 120 applications from which it will select the best candidates to be honored at the May 2nd ceremony. These exceptional children will also receive a protective helmet and bicycle lock. Then on May 17, from 10am to 4pm, partners Houle Toyota and Sun Youth will team up with Musiqueplus/Musimax and Radio-Énergie to distribute some 450 refurbished bicycles that were donated by Montrealers last November and geared-up by Houle Toyota’s mechanics in their spare time throughout last winter. In May of 2007, this activity was a huge success and every single bicycle collected and refurbished by the Toyota dealership found its way
Salvation Army Camp for 55-plus The Salvation Army invites English speaking men and women 55-plus to Camp Lac de l’Achigan near St. Hippolyte, June 23 to 27, featuring a natural setting, healthy meals, and activities including daily devotions, craft time and speakers. Registration is $185 including shared cottage accommodations and transportation from Montreal. Space is limited, so book early. To register call 514-288-2848 x 2235.
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One day on my radio phone-in show the question was, “How do you get on with your mate driving the car?” Most of the callers, especially the women, recalled incidents where their husbands got lost. The reaction was always the same. First the husband denied he was lost, then he refused to stop the car and ask for directions and finally, in a fit of pique, he angrily refused to look at a map. That radio program got me thinking about maps. Of course, if you’re lost it’s stupid not to consult a map and figure out where you are. But suppose you don’t have a map. Or even worse, you have the wrong map. For example, you live in Montreal and for the first time you are motoring to Boston. You get to Boston alright, then the whole trip begins to unravel. You can’t find your hotel. You can’t even find the name of the street your hotel is on. You pore over your map. None of it makes any sense. Finally, you see a policeman. You stop and show him your map. He looks at you quizzically. He says it’s no wonder you’re lost. You’ve been driving frantically around Boston using the map of Detroit. But isn’t that how some people go through life, following the wrong map? Is it any wonder that so many are anxious, bewildered, angry and ultimately lost? Of course, now we're talking about an interior map, a map that somehow relates to the landscape of our own psyche. So where do we get this inaccurate, defective map that has led us down so many blind alleys? I think the answer is that we get this map from other people. Perhaps our parents gave us a map that applies more to their needs than to ours. Or we spend a lot of energy trying to live up to the expectations (the maps) of other people. At the core of the problem is an instinctive sense that we are not being true to ourselves, that we are not
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living out our natural bent, nor, in the words of Joseph Campbell “following our bliss.” Instead our lives are still governed by external expectations — by these maps drawn by other people. Think of the tortuous journey of a man who wants to be a writer but instead, living up to his family’s aspirations, has become a priest. Or a woman who wants to be an artist but finds herself doing a degree in bioethics because that’s what her father, an eminent doctor, wanted her to do. I think the word “hypocrite” is relevant here, not in a moral sense, but from the Greek root meaning “actor”. It’s a dreadful burden to go through life being an actor, following the wrong map. So how does a person develop his or her own map for the journey? My own experience is that a crisis of some sort may be required to get us on the road to existential honesty. Some of us must hit what AA calls an “emotional bottom” wherein we realize that (with the wrong map) we are powerless, that our lives have become unmanageable and we must reach out for help. It is in this “bottom” that I believe we take the first decisive step in beginning to draw our own map. It is a marvellous paradox that when we become vulnerable we also become able to grow from the inside. In that sense, God does indeed write straight with crooked lines. Or as the Canadian therapist Marian Woodman puts it, “God comes through the wound.” There's a type of litmus test to tell whether one lives by one's own map. First, a friend telephones and ask you to a party. You say you’ll get back to her. The reason for your delay is not to consult your agenda. The real reason is that you don’t want to commit yourself in case another more interesting invitation might turn up. Only those who habitually live outside of their own maps are mature enough not to continually hedge their bets but to move in a straight line. Another friend invites you to take on a project. You hesitantly say yes not because the project interests you but because you don’t want to offend your friend. You're not living on your own map. Only those who do so are comfortable saying no when it is the mature response. How and why a person says no says a lot. Drawing your own maps is not a decision nor an act of will. It's a process which requires awareness, demands patience and is truly liberating. Blessings on your journey.
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I must disagree with your editorial supporting Canadian sanctuary for deserters from the war in Iraq. You use the term "illegal war", which is essentially redundant, and often used to heap scorn on any country's military actions, right or wrong. In any conflict, one or both sides did something illegal. The Iraq war is an extremely stupid one. The only benefit has been that Saddam Hussein has become one of the very few murderous tyrants of the last hundred years to have been brought to justice. It wasn't worth the price. But it has happened, and we all must deal with that — wisely, one hopes. Unlike during the Vietnam War, the U.S. military is now all voluntary. There is no draft and therefore there are no draft dodgers. Any deserters signed up of their own free will and must have understood that they would have to follow orders which may possibly put their life and well-being in danger. A military cannot be subject to its staff deciding that they have changed their mind, whatever the reason. There is a big difference from the circumstances of the Vietnam era. I fully support our courts' decisions not to make Canada a repository for these people. If they don't like the war, they could quit the military at the first opportunity and try to request alternative service in the meantime. Until then, they should do what they voluntarily contracted to do. – Ken Frankel, Montreal
Victoriaville festival celebrates 25th Barbara Moser Every year, the town of Victoriaville, once famous for producing hockey sticks, draws hundreds from across North America for a five-day festival that celebrates Musique Actuelle. Musicians also flock there, eager to participate in what is considered a premiere showcase for music that pushes the conventional envelope beyond accepted norms of harmony, melody and rhythm. No, you will not hear Norah Jones or Paul Anka at this 25th Festival International de Musique Actuelle de Victoriaville, which gets underway May 15 in the town, halfway between Drummondville and Quebec City. What you will get is a broad range of music that can be classed as musique actuelle, a term invented to embrace creative music that ranges from free jazz and improvised music to electronica, Noise, vocals, alternative rock – even a group or two that could be classified as folk. The variety is astounding, considered without equal in its scope and the level of the musicians. This year’s lineup was conceived as a retrospective and includes some stellar performers who have given Victo its reputation. The regulars who attend include a Calgary physician, a McGill University mathematician who develops models in the Faculty of Medicine, and a saxophone player from Niagara Falls, NY. Part of the fun is walking from one venue to the next, chatting about the highlights – and lowlights. There are plenty of fine concerts to choose from among the 23 shows. Visitors can always choose a combination that can be included in a package. For $99 a person, you can see two concerts, plus a night in the Hotel Villegia, double occupancy with breakfast the next morning. A range of accommodations includes camping. The festival opens Thursday, May 15 with pioneering Montreal-based saxophonist/composer Jean Derome and a dozen of the city's best-known improv musicians with two pieces, including a tribute to Victo. Fans will welcome the return of saxophonist John Zorn, who rose to prominence with his virtuosity and unique combination of Jewish-sounding themes and avant-garde harmonics. Zorn leads a sextet at 10pm in his “The Dreamers” project, recorded this fall on his Tzadik label, with guitarist Marc Ribot, drummer Joey Baron and Kenny Wollesen on vibraphones, and percussionist Cyro Baptista. Zorn plays again Friday at 10pm, blowing that battered horn and leading his hard-edged Moonchild project, featuring experimental rock vocalist and guitarist Mike Patton. Two other shows earlier Friday should be fascinating: Montreal guitarist Tim Brady presents three works for electric guitar, digital processing and tape at 1pm, accompanied by video, and then a “double quartet” tribute to the great Dmitri Shostakovich. Then at 8pm, improvising electric guitarist Fred Frith premiers his Cosa Brava ensemble featuring violinist
Carla Kihlstedt, accordion player Zeena Parkins, and drummer Matthias Bossi. Oh, they all sing. Skipping to Sunday, Shanghai-born Xu Fengzia returns for a 5pm gig with her zither-like guzheng, accompanied by German violinist Gunda Gottschalk. Jazz fans will not want to miss two exciting shows Sunday. Saxophonist/pocket trumpeter Joe McPhee leads a quartet of European musicians at 8pm. Roscoe Mitchell, a founder of Chicago’s groundbreaking Association for the Advancement of Creative Musicians, plays at 10pm with a double quartet that includes such exceptional performers as pianist Vijay Iyer and trumpeter Corey Wilkes. Electric guitarist René Lussier kicks off Monday's triple bill, with turntablists Martin Tetreault and Otomo Yoshihide, who may also play guitar. You may not like it all, but there is a lot of choice. For the full lineup, ticket and accommodation information, go to fimav.qc.ca.
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Parkinson’s can’t stop the dance Starting Thursday, May 15 at 2pm, Centre Greene will offer Ballroom Dance classes for people living with Parkinson’s. Instructors are Susan Chiasson, ballroom dance teacher, and Ellen Rubin, retired physiotherapist, who specialized in the treatment of neurological conditions and has been a dancer for 12 years. This is a social dance class for those living with stage 1 or stage 2 Parkinson’s who can bring an able-bodied partner. The goal of this class is to learn to dance and have fun. Register & Info: Ellen Rubin, 514-484-2016. Centre Greene at 1090 Avenue Greene, Westmount.
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What hath progress wrought? First proposed 27 years ago by Frank Mankiewicz, a onetime aide to American Senator Robert Kennedy, the word “retronym” has finally come of age. It auditioned in the hallowed pages of the Oxford English Dictionary in September 2006, and by 2007, it was the answer to the following clue in the New York Times Sunday crossword puzzle: “acoustic guitar” or “push lawn mower.” The Oxford Companion to the English Language characterizes a retronym as a “phrase coined because an expression once used alone needs contrastive qualification; acoustic guitar because of the electric guitar... mono sound equipment because of stereo sound equipment.” Technology and science are the most prolific providers of neologisms. Space exploration has necessitated new words such as “moonwalk” and “earthrise” to describe novel experiences. But alas, the complexity that progress has wrought extends even to language. In bygone days, one could describe things only with nouns. Not only was a rose a rose, but a book was also just a book and coffee was merely coffee. Now we must specify whether we are talking about a hardcover or softcover book (not to mention electronic or paper) or which coffee of the seemingly endless varieties. Technological innovations of the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries spawned a plethora of new vocabulary: “telephone” came into the language in 1849, “typewriter” in 1868, “television” in 1907, and “movie” in 1912. Due to technological advances, the above singular inventions have turned
Literary Fare Mark Abley launches Prodigal Tongue Tuesday, May 13 from 6:30 to 8:30 pm, Paragraphe Books and Random House Canada launch The Prodigal Tongue: Dispatches from the Future of English by Mark Abley at Paragraphe Books, 2220 McGill College. Info: 514-845-5811
Learn the bawdy English language Friday, June 2 from 1pm to 3pm, join Howard Richler’s class on The Bawdy English Language at Cummings Jewish Centre for Seniors. The English language did not become the world’s global language by being pure. It literally slept its way to the top by co-mingling with other languages to enlarge its vocabulary. 5700 Westbury. Info: 514-342-1234
May at Beaconsfield Library Tuesday, May 27 at 9:30 am, Beaconsfield Bookworms hold a planning meeting, followed by potluck lunch Wednesday, May 28, 1:30 pm, Susan MacBoyle offers an audio-visual overview of tour packages. Doorprizes! Until May 31, the Beaconsfield Quilters’ Guild presents prize-winning quilts. Starting June 2, exhibit of wood turnings by Rohit Kent. June 3 at 7pm, meet the artist. Wednesday, June 4, 10 am, tour Manoir Beaurepaire followed by picnic, register before May 31 with Nicole Tremblay, 514-428-4476 Beaconsfield Library, 303 Beaconsfield Blvd. Info: 514-428-4460
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into the following retronyms: “rotary phone,”“manual typewriter,” “black & white television” and “silent movie.” (For readers of the millennial generation, I should explain the anachronistic “typewriter.” It is a single font, mechanical system for applying ink to paper that handled only alphanumeric characters.) Remember when people just received mail? Now it could be certified mail, priority mail, email, voicemail, or snail mail, not to mention blackmail or greenmail. Due to the advent of satellite radio, we may soon be referring to the old-fashioned variety as “terrestrial radio.” Likewise, “text messaging” already necessitates distinction from “voice messaging.” Any change in society can spawn a retronym. A partner used to be somebody with whom you shared a business venture or some manly activity such as cattle herding. Now that the sense of sharing has been extended to the concepts of “life partner” and “same-sex partner,” it has become necessary for entrepreneurs to specify “business partner.” With the
development of the synthetic oil “Olestra,” we now have a “fat-free fat.” So what was previously just called fat is now, retronymically speaking, “fat-fat.” In the old days, your grocery list might read: chips, milk, peanut butter, beer, and gum. Now we must specify if the chips are potato, corn or tortilla; if the milk is skim or whole; whether the peanut butter is crunchy or creamy; the beer, light or full; the gum, sugarless or regular. Retronyms need not be related to commerce or technology. “Jewish ghetto” is a case in point. The original “ghetto” was a Jewish quarter in Venice in 1516, which had previously been the site of a cannon foundry. Getto is the Italian word for “foundry.” Later, the word ghetto came to mean the Jewish quarter of any city. Near the end of the 19th century, the sense was extended to refer to any poor neighborhood populated by a minority racial or cultural group. Similarly, “Italian Mafia” was once a wholly redundant term. Increasingly, however, the term Mafia is used to apply to ethnic persuasions other than Italian. What retronyms beckon in our ever-changing world? “Human chess champion” is a safe bet. With ever-increasing fears about sexually transmitted diseases, “physical sex” (as opposed to virtual) is another retronymic possibility. With the online variety of sex you may still contract a virus, but at least it will be your computer and not you that will be crashing. Howard Richler’s latest book is Can I Have a Word With You? He can be reached at hrichler@canada.com.
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May at Atwater Library
Wednesday, May 21 7:30-9:30 pm, learn how to manage all in-coming mail, create and maintain a filing system, and how to stay on top of bill payments, as well as receipts, warranties, photographs and mementos. Susan Portnoy at the YM-YWHA Ben Weider JCC, 5400 Westbury, will help you get rid of the clutter. Wednesday, June 4 7:30- 9:30 pm, bring samples of your paper piles and newspaper clippings and Susan will go through the process step by step, clearly demonstrating how to eliminate the build up. $30 per workshop. Register at front desk. Info: 514-737-6551 x 240
Thursday,May 8 at 7pm, the Atwater Poetry Project will launch novels The Prison Tangram by Claire Huot and The Humbugs Diet by Robert Majzels as well as collections of poetry Quase Flanders, Quase Extramadura by Andrés Ajens and Charenton by Chus Pato. Wednesday, May 14 at 12:30pm, the Golden Stagers will do a dramatic reading of the play The Collected Stories by Donald Margulies, directed by Ann Weinstein. Thursday, May 15 at 7pm, the Atwater Poetry Project will feature readings by poets John Barton, Wayde Compton and Nathalie Stephens. Thursday, May 22 at 12:30pm, Myriam Cloutier, Mount Royal Cemetery Director of Heritage Programs, will present the history of Mount Royal Cemetery. Wednesday, May 28 at 12:30pm, Captain Montgomery Price of the Canadian Forces will speak on the efforts of Canada’s provincial reconstruction team in Kandahar. Thursday, May 29 1-4pm, a beading workshop with supply kits on sale for $15. Proceeds to the library. Info: Garnitures Dressmaker 514-935-7421 Thursday, May 29 at 7pm, Neil Bissoondath will read from his novel The Unyielding Clamour of the Night. Atwater Library and Computer Centre, 1200 Atwater at Tupper (metro Atwater). Info: 514-935-7344
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May at Côte-St-Luc Library Thursday, May 15 at 7:30pm, journalist Kelly Di Domenico will discuss the political climate in Senegal and West Africa based on her fieldwork. Sunday, May 18 at 2pm, Elena Willis will discuss her photography. Free passes available. Wednesday, May 21 at 2pm, public works director David Tordjman discusses how the city manages flowers and garbage, composting and snow. Thursday, May 29 at 7:30 pm, Julian Sher and William Marsden will speak as part of the Quebec Writers’ Federation Writers Out Loud Series. Free passes are available. 5851 Cavendish Blvd. Info: 514-485-6900 x 4205
Gomery at St. James Literary Society Tuesday, May 27 at 6pm, Justice John Gomery is the guest speaker at the St. James Literary Society’s Annual Dinner at the Atwater Club, 3505 Atwater. Info: 514-484-0146
Meet the Irish Thursday, May 15 the Irish Studies Department at Concordia hosts Professor Wolfgang Zach of the University of Innsbruck, Austria, discussing “Jonathan Swift and the Anglicization of Ireland.” Info: www.cdnirish.concordia.ca
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Believing in kids — a special kind of faith
Kristine Berey The way he talks about them, you’d think they were his children. And in a way they are. Pops (aka Father Emmett Johns) is celbrating his 80th birthday, speaking at a press conference about some of the street kids he has helped through Dans la rue, the organization he started 20 years ago. “Her vice principal called her ‘stupid’ but the kid finished school here and got 95%. All of you who scored 95% in enriched French raise your hands,” he challenges the invited media. He reminds them that it was only in 1991 that he allowed the first TV cameraman to climb aboard the self-financed van he used to distribute drinks and hot dogs to kids who literally had nowhere to go. “I wanted to prove to you — and to the kids especially — that we were there for the long haul. You were surprised that the kids were so polite, so bright.” Since 1988, when The Van was visited by 3,500 kids, the organization has grown in scope. It now includes The Bunker, providing short term emergency services for youths aged 12-19 and the Chez Pops Day Centre that encompasses an alternative high school, a cafeteria, work-integration programs, services for young parents, tutoring, a front-line outreach team, and music, art and computer rooms. A glance at the bulletin board in the cafeteria reveals some of the kids’ daily experiences. There’s a notice about a cheap place to store knapsacks, work opportunities that don’t require education or experience, info on health, sexuality, and the YMCA’s job readiness service for young offenders. On a shelf there are pamphlets raising awareness about substance abuse and sexual exploitation. Outside the cafeteria, the art room, filled with plants and sunlight, beckons — designed to pique any passerby’s curiosity. It is run by animator Maude Thuot and Sandra Murphy, one of 135 volunteers who devote their time to the organization. A locked glass cabinet houses precious art books that kids who wander in can peruse while sitting in a comfortable rocking chair. A wealth of materials is waiting for the kids to try out — the art room feels like home.“We want to create a link between the kids and the artists they read about,” says Thuot, explaining that many of the young people are alienated from their own families and
can more easily identify with an artist whose life may have been unconventional but whose work is great nevertheless. Rules are clearly written on a poster, as they would be in any high school art room, outlining behaviour that fosters an atmosphere of calm, respect and creativity. Only one rule hints that this is not a regular school setting: “Rats in cages or ON their owners.” Dans la rue also provides regular veterinary care for kids’ pets since for many, their animals become a surrogate family. Sid Stephens, executive director of Sun Youth, remembers the early days of Dans la rue. “There was a lot of criticism from the community and the police. They didn’t feel you should care for runaway kids — it was unheard of at the time to feed kids hot dogs from a bus. They would end up in a police station where they wouldn’t know what to do with them, and then end up in social services. Pops had the kids’ confidence — they knew he wouldn’t betray them.” Michael Udy, director of Batshaw Youth and Family Centres says Dans la rue is fills an important gap.“[Pops] found a way to turn something that is seen as a blight — a hopeless situation — into something where there is hope. He’s done a good job of marshaling assistance to kids who are truly at the end of the road.” Now a successful professional, Ray lived on the street for two years as a teen. He sees Dans la rue as essential but says its existence is indicative of a flaw in society where “dead-end kids” don’t really have an equal chance at a decent life. “[Dans la rue] is a band-aid but a band-aid peels off as soon as dampness gets to it. It’s the wound that must be addressed.” Pops knows almost all the kids he works with have experienced failure — if a kid says he got thrown out of high school, Pops retorts that he himself got thrown out of university. Some kids have taken his encouragement to heart and have gone on to higher education and employment, rebuilding their lives. “I’ve known rejection, I know the harm it does,” Pops said at the press conference. He downplays his accomplishments. “It doesn’t take a genius to do what I do, just the will to do it.” It costs over $3 million a year to run Dans la rue, with the bulk of the funding coming from private individuals. To donate, call 514 526-5222 or visit www.danslarue.org.
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The anatomy of messiness Kristine Berey If one person’s junk is another person’s treasure, then perhaps one person’s disaster is another’s foolproof filing system. Conventional wisdom dictates that neat is better than messy, and certainly no one has ever been ashamed of being too neat— but not everyone agrees. Albert Einstein, whose desk was famous for its precariously balanced stacks of papers, once posed the question: “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, of what, then, is an empty desk?” Neat Freaks and the Hopelessly Disorganized have always been divided in different camps, with those on the neat side stereotyped as needing control and the messy ones as being somewhat “out to lunch.” In The Odd Couple, now playing at The Leanor and Alvin Segal Theatre, playwright Neil Simon draws a hilarious portrait of two people on the opposite sides of the tidy/messy spectrum, living under one roof and attempting to endure each other. “What drives ‘Francis’ crazy is not just a matter of Felix’s insistence on neatness, orderliness and timeliness but also that he’s being a control freak,” says actor Rod Beattie, who plays the pathetic Felix, thrown out by his long-suffering wife. In his personal life, Beattie says he is worlds away from Felix. “I have a vision of my home environment as being free of debris — but it never happens.” He suggests that Felix and his nemesis
Oscar may march to a different drum, that they have a different “timeset”. “There’s a scene where Oscar comes in for their double date an hour late and he’s not even aware of being late. But Felix has scheduled this date up to the minute, with cocktails at 8 o’clock. When the food is burned and dried out, Felix is furious.” Beattie cites the great painter Tom Thompson as a real-life example of people being differently “tuned”. “Thompson’s external life was chaotic and disorderly but he had the gift of being able to stop time. At one point he tried to paint the process of spring in Algonquin park, but couldn’t keep up with it. In his case, ‘outer time’ was incompatible with his ‘inner time’.” Being a slob is not much better, says actor John Evans, who plays Oscar Madison, who could be described as Martha Stewart’s antithesis.“Blanche left him, because he’s such an unmoveable slob who assumes everything revolves around him. He thinks he’s loveable, charming, terrific with the guys, but
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L to R: John Evans and Rod Beattie as Oscar and Felix with his wife he’s like a teenager.” But there is a darker side to slovenliness, Evans suggests. “With Oscar, it’s more of a case of ‘all right, you don’t care about me so I’m not gonna care about myself’.” For over 20 years, J.F. Laforte of Creative Visual Concepts has helped design optimal environments, including stage sets, window displays, trade show kiosks, wedding halls, daycare classroom environments and residential spaces. He believes that environment can reveal a lot about the person who lives there. “People have particular styles that describe who they feel they are at that point in time,” Laforte says. Sam Gosling, psychology professor at the University of Texas and author of Snoop: The Secret Language of Stuff, also believes that bedrooms and offices reveal key aspects of your personality. He finds, among other things, that a diverse collection of books and magazines reveals openness and well-lit airy spaces indicate emotional stability. Marijana Kuljik of Organized! says clutter is a byproduct of our consumer society: “Our houses have become bigger but our possessions take up much more space. We’ve become a society
where we just collect so much stuff.” By the time clients reach out to Kuljik, they are at the end of their rope, overwhelmed and unable to part with their mountain of possessions. “Sometimes there is emotional attachment to objects, memories they feel bad about letting go of. Also, sometimes people come from humble beginnings and are taught to hold on to things.” She reaches her clients through teaching them systems to gain control of their stuff. “I can help you organize a filing system where you will find anything you’re looking for in 30 seconds or less,” she says. Laforte says everyone has a little Oscar or Felix in them, that they are different sides of the same coin. He says the upside to mess is that it allows you to relax and be spontaneous while the upside to neat is that it allows you to live freely, averting that feeling of dread when an unexpected visitor shows up. “Comfort level is personal and your home is your sanctuary. But you’re also a social being and need to feel comfortable in your home when friends drop by. Oscar and Felix, we all have them — we just have to learn to manage them so that one doesn’t take over. But we need both.”
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Just horsing around Catherine Miller The distinct smell of horses and arena dust floats in the air, sunlight streaming in on a group of kids geared up and ready to learn. They are part of Epona, an organization dedicated to keeping kids in school by boosting their self-esteem through riding lessons and literacy programs. “We're planting the seeds for them to later on make significant changes in their lives,” says Jackie Poirier, director
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of Epona's Equestrian Program, which started it all. Executive Director Peter Desmier had been taking a few kids to St. Lazare to offer them the chance to learn to ride. Growing up around horses, he wanted to share the experience and provide kids with the same opportunities it offered him. “I did everything with the horses,” he said. “The contact with the horses and that whole environment changed my life. I wanted to recreate that environment for these kids.” Quickly, the number of kids began to
grow and it turned into something bigger. “It was really word of mouth at the beginning,” said Pascale Khoury, a volunteer with the foundation. “But now it's more organized, more formal.” Soon after, the Foundation grew to include a Stay in School program as well as the Equestrian Program. In both programs, volunteers help the kids with schoolwork. Even though riding horses and doing homework seem unrelated, they have a lot in common at Epona. “The kids learn academic responsibility that can be applied in other areas of their lives,” Khoury said. “They learn to be committed in both programs.”
Responsibility and commitment play a large role in the Equestrian program as well, along with other skills. “The horse is very challenging for the kids because it brings elements of fear, challenge, and conflict,” Poirier said. “I want these kids to have imagination. I want them to believe they can do whatever they want to do.” A non-profit organization relying entirely on donations, Epona needs your assistance to continue helping these youth succeed. For more information on how to get involved and donate you can visit their website: www.eponafoundation.com.
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The Coming Out of the Closet Festival was created when actor Carlo Alacchi discovered 20 years worth of paintings,scripts,music,and film upon opening a closet at his mother’s house and created a festival to uncover hidden treasures and talents. Until May 13 exhibitions of artists who have never shown their work in public, daily at Coop St. Laurent, 4665 St-Laurent and 1-4pm at Sala Rossa, 4848 St-Laurent. Tuesday, May 13 at 6pm as part of Portraiture, Cine-Asie’s short film contest, Incubatio starring Ellen David, and at 9pm, audience-driven theatre with Playback Theatre at Sala Rossa. $5. Wednesday, May 14 to Saturday, May 17 and Wednesday, May 21 to Saturday May 24 at 8:30pm, HESHE, a play by Carlo Alacchi, at La Balustrade/Monument National 1185 St. Laurent. $20.85. Info: 514-678-5968 or gadca.inc@gmail.com
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Concert to benefit Extra Miles Senior Visiting Program Wednesday, May 14 at 2:30pm the Montreal West United Church, 88 Balllantyne Ave. North, will present a brass chamber music concert featuring music from Bach to Joplin, from Brahms to Bernstein. Performers are members of the Low Bass section of the OSM. $10 at the door. Wheelchair accessibility. This concert is a benefit for MWUC’s Extra Miles Senior Visiting Program. Extra Miles matches up volunteers to be friendly visitors with isolated seniors in NDG, Montreal West and Côte St-Luc. Info: 514-482-3210 or www.mwuc.org
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Miniature art is anecdotal and personal Nancy Snipper Roxanna Kibsey’s studio is a shocker. And so is she. Aside from the usual clutter of paint brushes, palettes, tubes of acrylic, colour spatters and canvasses, her studio is brimming with all kinds of objects: hundreds of beads, thimbles, glue tubes squeezed to the end, tiny porcelain objects, miniature figurines, pieces of fabric and inch-high furniture. Just when your eye has processed all the items, the scene takes on a sharper perspective: Kibsey appears wielding a knife, dripping in red. “Oh, don’t worry, it’s just paint,” she laughs. “Red is my favourite colour. It’s bold, it makes a statement. I’m finishing off the background in one of my tree paintings. It’s for a person who lives up north.”Cleaning the knife with a cloth, she then picks up a pair of tweezers. Moving them in the air beyond her stunning paintings of tree trunks, roosters, flowers and houses, she points them directly at their unconventional target — a real doll house. It’s a wondrous work of art that any Thumbelina would be proud to live in. “Do you like it?” Kibsey asks. “A bit too small for me, but I wouldn’t mind owning this replica of a Chippendale chair on a life-size scale,” she jokes. “It’s taken me even longer to put the finishing touches on this decorated doll cabinet. It has miniature dishes, even a perogie bowl. It’s just like the one my mom had when I was a little girl.” Not only renowned for her magnificent birch bark paintings that she renders on canvas using knives, Kibsey also produces pictorial doll-size miniatures. “My paintings reflect the larger side of my imagination, but half of my brain lives in a tiny world full of childhood memories. I make miniature memory pieces using miniscule objects.” One of her thematic
montages consists of a recycled wooden soap holder housing a five-inch tall fisherman dressed in appropriate attire. He has a rod and frog on his lap, netting behind him and shells around him. There’s even a boat in a bottle at the back. This piece is for her brother who loves fishing. The objects she finds come from all corners of the world. “In Australia, I found that bottle, fairies, Aboriginal beads and buttons, even a violin broach. I rarely go anywhere without scouting around for the small stuff.” Roxanna’s miniature art is anecdotal and personal. Each little item displayed on pint-size furniture tells a specific story in itty bitty ways. She recently created a piece for her mother’s 80th birthday. It includes a half-inch square 1957 photo of her mother and herself, a perfume bottle, a little button, a string of old pearls, and vintage beads. Assembled on a little dresser whose drawers are open with personal effects spilling out, it is a darling treasure of cherished memories expressed in art form. “I make these miniature memory art pieces using tweezers and glue. The objects I find are mainly recycled and they allude to the life of the person. My fisherman piece is for my brother. He likes to fish. My niece is a painter, so I created a piece that holds a canvas on a miniature easel which stands beside a cut-out photo of her. The entire work can sit in the palm of your hand.” Roxanna owns eggs, mixing bowls, bottles of milk, rolling pins, even roosters — all as tiny as your fingernail. “My little world is something I can escape to. As for the big houses and trees I paint, they reflect the big side of reality, and sometimes, it’s overwhelming.” Roxanna Kibsey is searching for artists who use found objects. Her website is at kibseystudios.com.
“Saro’s Painting” donated to the Montreal Children’s Hospital in the fond memory of Saro Manoukian.
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Curtains Up! Wednesday through Sunday until May 17 at 8pm, Mainline Theatre presents Short Story Long, written and directed by Joel Fishbane, about a writer who leaves his money to his wife, but the proceeds of all his writing to the Schools and Cegeps. For many communities, mysterious A.K. $15/$12 the Geordie shows represent their only op- seniors. Fridays 2-for-1, portunity to experience live theatre each Sundays pay-what-you-can year. (2pm). 3997 St-Laurent. Wednesday, May 21 and Thursday, May 22, Info: 514-931-5449
“Staging the Imagination” is the theme for Geordie Productions’ 28th season lineup. The Montreal Mainstage Series includes The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint Exupéry, adapted by Luciana Burcheri; Maita by Esther Beauchemin; and Alice Through the Looking Glass by Lewis Carrol, adapted by Harry Standjofski. Artistic Director Dean Patrick Fleming says, “We believe that we have the most imaginative audience in the world, therefore it is our responsibility to match their creativity.” Geordie’s casts and creative teams feature established Montreal theatre artists, such as Harry Standjofski, Anna Cappelluto, Amy Keith and Glenda Braganza. From September to April 2009, Geordie will tour schools across Quebec, Ontario and the Maritimes, presenting The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe for elementary audiences, and The Shape of a Girl for High Jungle Book photos: David Babcock
at 7:30 pm, Geordie invites supporters to its annual benefit production, at D.B. Clarke Theatre, of Bedtime Stories, by Norm Foster, featuring a cast of community leaders, including distinguished lawyers, judges, doctors, and other professionals volunteering their time and “talent” to raise money for Geordie’s season, including the expansion of its community outreach programme, “Spirit of the Community”. Each season Geordie donates tickets to community groups and organizations, including Cangrands National Kinship Support this year, as well as subsidized School Tour performances to schools across the province, hospitals and other organizations with special needs. Montreal mainstage shows are at the D.B. Clarke Theatre, Concordia U Hall Building, 1455 de Maisonneuve W. Fundraiser $100 includes elegant reception. Info: 514-345-9810 or www.geordie.ca
Credit: Terry Hughes
Short Story Long
Stefanie Buxton and Stephanie Breton
Imago presents e Baroness and the Pig Paris, the end of the 19th century: a wealthy baroness comes across a young woman who has been raised by pigs in a barnyard and sets about the perilous task of transforming her from a wild thing into an accomplished servant. Imago Theatre presents the Quebec English-language world premiere directed by Catherine Bourgeois and starring Nathalie Claude and Leni Parker. Theatre de la Chapelle, 3700 St. Dominique until May 18. Tues.-Sat. at 8pm. Sun. at 2pm. $20/seniors $16. Info: 514-843-7738
Credit: Michael Slobodian
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A look at a lost world Joe Balass’ film Baghdad Twist, presenting a visual memoir of one family’s life in Iraq before escaping to a new home in Canada 38 years ago, has attracted recent attention at international film festivals. Featuring a never-before-seen collection of archival images, home movies and family photographs from Baghdad, the film pulls back the curtain on Iraq’s once thriving Jewish community, its perilous final years and its remarkable ability to find solace in the shadow of fear. The NFB documentary will be screened
May 11-13 at the NFB Cinema,1564 St-Denis (514 496-6887) and May 14-15 at CinemaSpace at the Segal Centre (514 739-7944).
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Courageous cats need you Carolyn Callender Are you a cat lover interested in finding the perfect pet companion? Check out Adoption Days organized by the Animal Rescue Network and its clinics, where volunteers can answer your questions. Based on your lifestyle and needs, and the needs of the cat, volunteers will recommend cats they think will be a good match for you.
Choosing adoption over petshops Adoption is less costly. The $130 adoption fee includes vaccination and sterilization (both performed preadoption) and 30 days of medical care under pet insurance — an affordable alternative to the $250 to $300 required to purchase, sterilize and vaccinate a store-bought pet. Your adoption fee helps Animal Rescue Network provide food, shelter and medical care to our growing population of animals. Although you’ll only find cats at Adoption Days, dog lovers can contact the Network and meet dogs for adoption.
Adoption Days Saturday, May 10, 12pm – 4pm at Natural Animal & Pawtisserie, 4932B Sherbrooke W. Info: 514-488-4729 Saturday, May 17, 10am – 4pm at J.E. Mondou, 10315 Lajeunesse. Info: 514-381-4747 Saturday, May 17, 10am – 3pm at J.E. Mondou, 2032 Victoria Ave., Greenfield Park. Info: 450-672-5080 Saturday June 7, 10am – 4pm at J.E. Mondou, 90 Jean-Talon E. Info: 514-271-5503
Founded in 1994 by Barbara Lisbona, the Animal Rescue Network has become the largest no-kill animal shelter in Quebec. The organization never euthanizes an animal unless an extreme level of sickness and suffering necessitates it. At any one time there are approximately 300 cats staying at the main shelter in Rosemont. The shelter does not have any paid employees or receive government subsidies The Network also has a number of foster homes. Info: 514-938-6215
Cats up for adoption Toby, is 8 with a slight weight problem, is sociable and welcomes visitors with a lot of purring. He was adopted in 2002 and returned to the shelter after 6 years with his 2 feline friends since the owners had a baby who is allergic. He loves to roll around and be caressed. Rambo, a beautiful grey cat male, 7, became homeless after his owner’s death. He is calm and charming. He has since recovered from this shock and just wants to be loved! Blanche, a lovely female cat, 8, has beautiful green eyes and immaculate white fur. Her owner abandoned her in 2001 under the pretext that she was bad-natured, which we find hard to believe! She is quiet and calm, hardly noticed around the shelter – but she would dearly love to live in a home where she is noticed and appreciated. Felix, a cute male cat, 8, lived with a woman who had too many cats. Felix loves other cats and is gentle yet nervous. Perhaps this is his secret to retain his tiny waist as he is thin and in good health. Info: arn-rsa.rescuegroups.org
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Gisele Rucker Art teacher Mona Wizenberg is quick to name all the individuals and sponsors* who are supporting the Sunday, May 25 Artventure for Alzheimer’s fundraiser and auction of drawings by her students, seniors who have never drawn before. Her success as a teacher lies in the beauty of these drawings, which she lovingly unveils, one by one, with heartfelt joy, and sometimes sadness, recounting the physical or mental challenges each senior artist must overcome to draw. “They inspire me,” she says. “They have given me so much: if they can draw, given all their physical ailments, then I can handle anything. Making art makes them forget all their pain. Art is therapeutic and they have become addicted.” Trained as a Special Care Counsellor, Wizenberg worked for 16 years teaching anger management, problem solving and impulse control to students in schools. When she was laid off, her next vocation appeared to her while caring for her Uncle Noah, who has Alzheimer’s. She befriended a woman who is paralyzed except for her left hand. Over three months, Wizenberg taught her how to draw floral arrangements. “She encouraged me to teach seniors how to draw… I fell for seniors — they give me hope and inspiration.” Her strength is encouraging seniors to boldly take up coloured pencils and overcome their fear of not being able to draw. She tells them, “Your signature is unique and it is actually drawing.” Persistent about including every senior in her eight week course now widely offered (for a fee) in West Island residences and privately, Wizenberg will adapt tools and techniques to assist those with disabilities. She describes how she and an occupational therapist adapted equipment to allow a woman with Huntington’s Chorea, a neurological disorder causing uncontrollable movement, to steady her hand and hold
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a heavy lead pencil by inserting it into a carpal tunnel glove sleeve around her hand. With her lower arm secured to an armrest of her chair, she could make marks on a poster board taped to a lap tray. Wizenberg says, “Students who are blind draw too!” — she helps them use their hands as eyes. She brings in her realistic bird sculptures, over which they can run their hands before drawing. She provides magnifying glasses or sheets, aesthetic lamps, and will outline in black the initial shapes her almost blind students draw. Whether a still life, a highly individualized version of work by the late Gazette cartoonist John Collins, or well-known masterpieces like the Mona Lisa, which appears 36 times on the Artventure souvenir T-shirt, the work of all the artists, who live in different residences of the West Island, will be together for the first time in one huge vernissage and auction fundraiser for Alzheimer’s, with 70% of the proceeds going to the Alzheimer Society and 30% to the Bloomfield Centre. CTV weather host Lori Graham will MC the event, featuring performances by harpist Véronique Couturier, flautist Mariève Lauzon, and songs led by Linda Morrison, former conductor of the Yellow Door Choir.Auctioneer is well-known West Island personality Mike Lawrence. West Island Mayors, along with Quebec’s Minister responsible for Seniors, Marguerite Blais, will also attend. Door prizes include a Robert Bateman signed limited edition print, a VIP tour of CTV and supper with Lori Graham, 8 weekend getaways, James Taylor concert tickets, health club memberships, photography studio packages, and the Arthur Murray Dance School has offered gift certificates (valued at $125) for a dance lesson package, at the door. Artventure takes place Sunday, May 25, 1:30-5:30pm at the Holiday Inn Pointe Claire. Tickets: $20. Info: 514-696-0419
Photo: Gisele Rucker
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Mona Wizenberg models the Festival souvenir T-shirt showing 36 coloured pencil drawings of Mona Lisa by seniors. *Sponsors include Manoir Kirkland, Le Wellesley, Manoir Pierrefonds, The Bayview, Le Vivalis, Le Cambridge, the Sunrise, Masterpeice, Bureau en Gros, Les Résidences Vivendi, Horizon Home Care, Omer DeSerres and the Holiday Inn Pointe Claire.
Greening our communities into action
Coop La Maison Verte is selling plants and giving away trees Saturday, May 17. Buyers can choose from a variety of heritage tomato, vegetable and herb seedlings, grown by two important local longtime contributors to the greening of N.D.G,Action Communiterre, and local farmer Stephen Homer of Ferme du Zephyr in Senneville. Les Clubs 4H is donating 400 trees. Free composting and gardening workshops are offered too. Heritage, or heirloom, plants come from seeds that have been preserved for over 50 years, chosen for their flavor and interesting appearance. Growing these plants enables local gardeners to take part in the preservation of rare and unusual varieties, not offered by mainstream producers and at risk of being lost. Founded in 1999, Coop La Maison Verte, store and café is 6000 members strong and offers more than 1,000 ecological and fair trade products. Event will take place 10am-5pm at 5785 Sherbrooke W.
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Will US housing crisis affect Canada? Gillian Pritchett The US housing crisis hit the headlines last year when thousands of American homeowners were faced with the harsh reality of not being able to keep up the high repayments on their homes. Tragic scenes of people moving out of their homes became commonplace. The worst affected have been holders of ‘subprime’ mortgages, typically lent to borrowers with shaky credit. According to the Mortgage Bankers Association, some 5.82% of all mortgages are now delinquent, the highest since 1985. Adjustable rate mortgage loans (ARMs) represent a disproportionate share of the
foreclosure starts and while subprime ARMs represent 7% of the loans outstanding, they represented 42% of foreclosure starts during the fourth quarter of 2007. RealtyTrac, a company that tracks foreclosures, has over 650,000 foreclosure properties available for resale. The areas worst affected are in the Midwest, where the subprime bust is battering an industrial economy already in long-term decline, but even more economically robust states such as Florida and California are feeling the impact. The knock-on effects are significant: since the process of repossession takes a year or more, delinquent borrowers have little reason to look after their homes,
Simple precautions can prevent falling injuries When seniors fall on or from stairs even a short distance, the consequences for their health can be both severe and long lasting. Thankfully, many of those falls can be prevented with a little careful planning, and a few simple strategies. To help you protect your health, increase your safety and maintain your independence, Canada Mortgage and Housing Corporation (CMHC) gives a number of tips on how seniors and their caregivers can help reduce the risk of falls on or from stairs at home. For example, visually distracting patterns on the tread (the horizontal part of a step) can make it difficult to distinguish one step from another. If the edges of the stairs can’t be seen clearly, mark them by painting a permanent stripe on the edge in a contrasting colour. Also improve the lighting on steps and stairs, using lighting that makes the edges of stairs visible without causing glare or strong shadows, and consider installing low-intensity night lighting, as well as a
light switch at both the top and bottom of the stairs. For information or a free electronic copy of Preventing Falls on Stairs or info on maintaining and/or renovating your home, visit www.cmhc.ca or call 1-800-668-2642.
Free blooms for all Again this year, residents and groups in Côte-des-Neiges and NDG can pick up free flowering plants and compost from Eco-quartier offices. Groups must register with the borough Accès Montreal by May 9, in person at 5160 Décarie, or by calling 311. They can pick up their flowers at 6960 Darlington Friday, May 23. Residents can pick up plants and compost Saturday, May 24 from 9am at the Eco-quartier in their area. First come, first served. Limit of 24 plants per address. A driver’s licence, phone bill or hydro bill will be accepted as proof of residence. Bring sturdy containers.
which then reduces the value of other properties nearby, and a glut of repossessed houses dampens prices by adding to the supply of homes for sale. It is not only borrowers who lose but also lenders, with major mortgage lender New Century Financial going bust in February of this year and HSBC issuing its first profit warning in its 142-year history as a result of losses incurred on subprime loans by its American division. According to Jean Freed, MBA, a Montreal financial advisor and consultant, there were three principal causes of the crisis. Buyers overborrowed on homes they couldn’t afford. Lenders approved risky borrowers and then divested that risk by selling the mortgages on the financial markets. Another factor was predatory lending, where people were seduced into believing that if they stretched themselves for about three years they could make a financial killing and, with the resultant profit, buy another home outright. Could this happen in Canada? While the mortgage market is equally unregulated
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Flipping through channels one evening to find something pleasant to look at, I caught a panel discussion on a German channel on the subject of smoking. A new law in Germany had been tabled to forbid smoking in public places, and was causing considerable controversy. One panelist mentioned an 88-year-old woman dying of heart disease as a result of smoking, prompting another to remark, “Well, how long should she have li—” before cutting herself off on account of some raised eyebrows. I was incensed and unashamedly wished that she would find herself in an unwelcome position one day. She must have been about fifty and her green Dirndl dress certainly did not distract from her
I was old and in shock, and when you are old you are guilty! wrinkles in spite of heavy make-up. It brought home to me the reality of being a senior once more: the impatience, disrespect and tactlessness too often thrust upon this segment of the population. Not so long ago, some youngster actually asked me whether I had thought about my own death! This attitude was reflected in a recent accident I experienced: a young woman in a Cadillac Escalade
rammed into the driver’s side of my brand new Honda Civic while turning a corner. The damage to my car was significant, but the state I was in was worse. I had watched in horror as my windshield crunched and crumbled, and it hit me that I had just been about five inches away from being severely hurt or killed. My anger and fright showed — I reacted furiously. A cheerful young man came running out of the house opposite and, pointing at me, said, “I saw it, I was on my roof, she ran a red light.” The young woman asked him to be a witness and he enthusiastically complied. That settled it. The police were called, and upon arrival ignored me and the horrendous damage to my vehicle. When they finally addressed me they were arrogant and condescending. I was old and in shock, and when you are old you are guilty! You shouldn’t be driving! Nobody asked me whether I needed anything or whether I was alright until my son arrived. To add insult to injury I was handed a $150 ticket for running a red light, based on nothing but the word of the witness on the roof and the young woman. I have never had an accident in my driving life of over 50 years and no one even checked the view from the roof to confirm what the young man could have actually witnessed. When the young constable who handed me the ticket finally looked at the damage that the elegant truck had inflicted, he commented, “She must have hit you hard” — a diagnosis confirmed by what it cost to repair. I often think of that moment, and still have that uncomfortable feeling in my stomach — of having been treated like someone who doesn’t matter. If you have been treated unfairly because of your age, we would like to know. Please send your story to editor@theseniortimes.com.
Mother’s Day Happenings Mother’s Day Brunch at Beth Zion Teapot invites Mothers Sunday, May 11 at 11am, Beth Zion Congregation and Blossom by La Plaza host their first Mother’s Day Brunch, offering delicious food in an elegant setting. Open to all with activities for kids, entertainment and surprises. Tickets are payable in advance before May 8. $36/$32 seniors & mothers/$25 children to age 15. Reserved seating. 5740 Hudson in Côte Saint-Luc. Info: 514-489-8411 x 24 or www.bethzion.com
Mother’s Day at Men’s Club Sunday, May 11 starting at 8:45am, the Shaare Zedek Men’s Club presents a Mother’s Day program with Roslyn Penn Malin featuring “Ah Yes! I Remember it Well – Tips and Techniques for Memory Enhancement.” Service at 8:45am, breakfast and lecture at 9:30am. 5305 Rosedale Ave. Info: 514-484-1122
Wednesday, May 14 from 10am to 1pm, the Teapot invites all mothers and guests to a Mother’s Day Portrait Party. Continental brunch served, $6. Bring a picture of your mother. Info: 514-637-5627 or theteapot.org
McGill Mother’s Day Concert Sunday, May 11 at 3:30pm, the McGill Conservatory’s Mother’s Day Gala Concert of three McGill Conservatory choirs at Pollack Hall, 555 Sherbrooke St. W. $10. Recitals at Pollack, Redpath and Tanna Schulick Halls in May and June appear on www.music.mcgill.ca
Ensemble Musica Orbium Sunday, May 11 at 7:30pm the ensemble Musica Orbium performs works by John Dankworth, George Shearing and John Rutter with the Carole Therrien Quartet in opus for soprano and jazz trio. Info: 450-671-3548 or www.musicaorbium.org
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The City of Côte Saint-Luc encourages seniors living alone to register for its Hello Bonjour program – a free service that puts volunteers in daily contact with seniors by phone and ensures their well-being. Every weekday morning, a city volunteer calls the registered senior to ensure he or she is okay. The senior can choose to call the city volunteer instead. If the senior cannot be reached, the city vol-
unteers call a pre-established list of contacts, such as the building concierge, relatives or friends, who can confirm the senior is okay. The children of a senior can also ask their parent if he or she wants to participate. If the parent approves, the child can register the parent. To register for the free Hello Bonjour service or to volunteer your time to call seniors, call 514-485-6819.
Worrying about the glass of wine Let’s talk about it Bonnie Sandler, S.W. In my assessments of individuals with cognitive impairment, I have noticed that many include a history of lifelong struggles with excessive worrying, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and/or depression. This alone is something to worry about. Children of affected parents are concerned about their own future as it is, and now we have more to worry about as we try not to worry, knowing that excessive worrying could be a factor in this disease. People who have experienced clinical depression are 2.5 times more likely to develop Alzheimer’s, according to a study published this April in Neurology, the journal of the American Academy of Neurology. If depression occurs before age 60, the likelihood increases nearly 4 times. There are several theories as to why this may be, and further studies are expected to explore the relationship between depression and Alzheimer’s.
For Your Health Learn to relax Thursday, May 15 at 7pm, learn about Bodh and the Principles of Yoga for Optimal Health from Bhaskar Goswami. DDO Library, 12001 De Salaberry. Info: 514-684-1496
Recent headlines warned women that drinking a glass of red wine daily might raise their risk of breast cancer. Should we worry? I was happier when I read that there may be constituents in wine that protect against dementia. More confusion. Are we to choose which disease we would most like to prevent? Are these studies causing us more anxiety, therefore putting us at greater risk for Alzheimer’s? Dr. Nathan Herrmann, head of geriatric psychiatry at Sunnybrook Health Sciences Centre in Toronto, cautions that this is only “one of a number of studies” that have examined the issue and that “the literature is very divided on whether depression predisposes to dementia or not, and is seriously flawed methodologically, and there are no firm conclusions that can be made.” So he’s not stressed about it, but how do the rest of us know when to worry? Short of digging into the entire body of peerreviewed research ourselves, the best antidote to this kind of news might just be a good Merlot. We all need to find ways to relax, but it is especially important if we are caregivers living the 36-Hour Day (like the book of the same name). What works for one person may not be the right stress buster for another. I like to relax after a hectic day by having a glass of red wine. I rationalize that it’s good for my health. A hot bubble bath surrounded by candles also works. But does the glass of wine enhance my risk of breast cancer, or prevent dementia and heart disease? Will I worry now about having this glass of wine? Will the worry affect my cognitive functioning as I age? Will I have the opportunity to age if I have the wine? Tonight, after a stressful day, I plan on having a glass of red wine and treating myself to a long hot bubble bath. I won’t allow myself to worry. I will simply enjoy my personal choice of de-stressing. Please address questions and comments to bonniesandler@gmail.com.
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Seniors’ Portrait Tuesday, May 27 from 9am-3pm, West Island Citizen Advocacy convenes a discussion of Seniors’ Portrait, results of the public consultations, held in April, and financed by Centraide, to assess the growing needs and concerns of the more than 33,000 seniors in the West Island. Prepared by Convercité, the study identified seniors' social needs, potential community building among seniors, and the needs of aging newcomers to the West Island. Dollard Civic Centre, 12001 de Salaberry. Lunch included. Info: 514-694-5850
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Notes of note Paul Serralheiro With spring urging people out onto the streets, the festival season begins, and for music lovers, it starts with The Montreal Chamber Music Festival, which runs from May 1 to May 24. “In putting the festival together, I find the best comparison is haute cuisine,” says artistic director Denis Brott. “It’s like putting together a fine meal. A festival isn't just another concert — it has to be an event. There has to be something unusual about it, something special.” One notable aspect of the festival’s 13th edition is the artistic depth of the senior musicians on the program, the most seasoned of whom are pianists Gary Graffman, 80, Anton Kuerti, 70, and Oliver Jones, 74. “People get older, but not their careers,” says Brott. “When Oliver Jones retired, I said to him,‘What are you doing, man?’ — and he’s continued playing and playing his best. Music has a renewal quality to it, it has a life force. Look at the program and you’ll see that several artists are past 60, yet listening to them has a rejuvenating quality.”
“The brush is broader in jazz, whereas in chamber music the brush works more on detail.” While the program’s choices are eclectic, with music from classical to contemporary performed by artists at all stages of their careers, Brott points to the quality that experience brings: “As we get older, we get more tolerant, more accepting of our ignorance. We know that we don’t know. There’s also more security in terms of ego. We’re more willing to share our knowledge and are more concerned about the search for the truth and what represents spirituality... A musician is a servant… like an actor whose duty it is to serve the playwright. A musician is at the service of the composer. We try to get across what the composer wants. And we’re better able to do this as we get older.” The reasons for this ultimately have to do with experience. “Who do you think will have the deeper knowledge, the young musician who’s only played a few pieces by Beethoven, or the older musician who’s
already performed all of Beethoven’s work? It’s about depth of understanding. And music keeps us young... like a fountain, and even if you’ve played the piece before and know it very well, there’s always that element of surprise.” Montreal concert halls are active all through the year, providing fine music-making, but there is a significant difference between the Montreal Chamber Music Festival and other festivals or concerts. Brott maintains that this festival is “like having an affair. There’s that blush of newness, since musicians haven’t played together before. Unlike the usual concert where musicians come for one night, then are gone, it’s not a one-night stand. Our artists come here and get together for about 3 to 4 rehearsals to create a very exciting, intoxicating mix.” Brott himself, a well-respected cellist, will be performing in four concerts, and during the Festival’s run, will also be making side trips to Quebec City and New York, the second stop with Claude Frank, an 82-year-old Artur Schnabel disciple. How does he find this double-duty of musician and manager? “I don’t think of it as difficult. I think of it as exciting.” Along with the chamber music that forms the core of the program, jazz has found a place. “For me,” Brott explains, “jazz is chamber music and chamber music has an element of jazz. Jazz is very structured, which allows you to improvise on a note basis. In chamber music a performer is improvising on an emotional and interpretational level. Although in chamber music the whole is greater than the sum of the parts a performer Festival director Denis Brott has the ability to impact the whole in the realm of timing, colour, and articulation. The brush is broader audiences will continue to grow.” in jazz, whereas in chamber music the brush works The issue of accessibility is also addressed by Brott’s more on detail. Also, when you look at it, the best jazz approach to the way the music is presented to the musicians are often classically trained.” audience: “I give live program notes on stage. We have For its first 10 years, the Festival was presented at the to think of future audiences. It’s our mission. There’s Chalet on Mount Royal. It has been held at the St. James been an increase of 25% in our under-30 crowd due to United Church on St. Catherine Street for the last three cheaper tickets. Young people have come from as far as years. “Accessibility was a big factor,” Brott explains, New York state, Aylmer, Ontario, and Jonquière to “although the mountain was a great locale and I still attend the festival. This means the festival will be better hope to go back there. But there aren’t the buses, and it able to serve its purpose.” was inconvenient if you wanted to go out for dinner For more details and program information, visit before, etc.” The downtown location is not a festivalmontreal.org. compromise on acoustics, though — in fact, says Brott, quite the contrary: “All the critics have raved about it. The issue really has been accessibility and available at the door only: $5 general/free I’m hopeful that our Bowser And Blue for MGH
Music Music Music
Wednesday, May 14 the Auxiliary of the Montreal General Hospital presents An Evening With Bowser And Blue. Wine, hors d’oeuvres and a silent auction at 6:30pm and show at 8:30pm), Proceeds go to purchasing ECG machines. $125. Info: 514-934-1934 ext. 43009
Bach to Broadway Tuesday, May 13 at 7 pm, Musicians Of The World Symphony Orchestra performs From Bach to Broadway Diversity Concert. Presented by the Applied Human Sciences Department, Concordia University and the 12th Canadian Congress on Leisure Research (CCLR12). Musician testimonials. Info: http://cclr12.concordia.ca. Tickets available at the box office and on the Admission network: $29 (service charges applicable).
Concordia’s Oscar Peterson Hall Friday, May 9 Concordia Department of Music presents, Claire Hafner, Soprano at 3 pm;, Amelia Lakoff, Soprano at 5 pm; and Caroline Louis, piano at 7:30 pm. Tickets at the door only: $5 general/free for students with ID.
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for students with ID.
Indian Classical Dance Saturday, May 24 at 7:30 pm, the Nrithyalaya Foundation presents Indian Classical Dance. Thyagaraja Samarpanam - A benefit concert for the reconstruction of the Thyagaraja temple in Thiruvaiyyaru, India. Dance (Bharatanatyam) performed by the Nrithyalaya troupe, with a live orchestra. $15-$50. Info: 450-466-5216 or www.nrithyalaya.com
Suzuki serenade Sunday, May 25 at 2 pm, Dragan Djerkic directs the students of The Suzuki Institute in a classical repertoire. $5.
Persian percussion Saturday, May 31 at 8 pm, the Sokhan-e Azad Foundation presents Persian percussion ensemble, Zarbang. $30/$25 for students. Info: 514-678-4030
Gala concert for festival finalists
Concordia musicians
Sunday, June 1 at 2 pm, the Quebec Music Educators Association holds a Gala concert for the Music Festival finalists. Info: 514350-8899 ext. 2412 or info@qmea.qc.ca
Friday, May 23 at 3 pm, Concordia University Department of Music presents Annie Hsu on piano, at 5pm Wei Tu on piano, and at 7:30 pm Chuck Hobson on guitar. Tickets
Above musical events at Concordia U’s Loyola campus, 7141 Sherbrooke St.W. Visit www.oscar.concordia.ca
Credit: Christine Bourgier
Older musicians bring depth to Montreal Chamber Music Festival
Music Music Music Cantabile’s Willsher marks 15th A pianophile’s paradise Kristine Berey
Kristine Berey Founded in 1985 and formerly known as The Knight Singers, the Cantabile Chorale has performed many of the major choral works in the classical repertoire. Their next concert will mark the 15th year composer and conductor Peter Willsher has directed the choir and the choir’s 10th with its own symphony orchestra. “Last year we premiered a work that I wrote for the choir and orchestra, a cantata called The Journey. It is appropriate in many ways that this
concert is also called Journey,” Willsher says. “It is a journey that Cantabile and I have travelled – it includes music from Canada, the UK, France, Germany, Austria and Italy. Not least, is my own personal musical journey of which Cantabile has been integral for most of my Canadian life.” Highlights from the program include selections from Brahms’, Faure’s and Mozart’s Requiems, Mendelssohn’s Elijah, Bach’s St. Matthew’s Passion and Handel’s Messiah. The concert begins at 7:30pm at SteGenevieve Church, 16037 Gouin Blvd. Info: 514-634-1275
Many renowned musicians first gained international attention through winning an established musical competition. From May 19 to 29, Montrealers will have a chance to hear some of the best and brightest young pianists in the world at this year’s Montreal International Musical Competition. Organized in 2002 at the initiative of Jeunesses Musicales, each year’s event highlights either voice, piano or violin, the three disciplines presented in a rotating four-year cycle. This year’s competition received applications from 130 pianists aged 30 and under, from 28 different countries. Chosen finalists will perform at the quarter-finals and semi-finals at Salle Pierre-Mercure on May 20-24 and six will play at the finals on May 26-27 at the Theatre Maisonneuve at Place des Arts. The young artists will prepare a different repertoire for each concert. The price of admission to each session is kept intentionally low at $10 as the MIMC wants to keep these concerts by young musicians of great talent as accessible to the public as possible. The event will culminate with the Gala Concert May 29 at Salle Wilfrid-Pelletier where the finalists will be accompanied
Daria Rabotkina, Russia Third Grand Prize (Piano) 2004 by the Competition’s resident orchestra, the Orchestre Metropolitain du Grand Montreal (OMGM) conducted by Jean Marie Zeituni. The competition’s stated aim is to “discover, reward and assist” young musicians worldwide who distinguish themselves through the mastery of their art and to give them a chance to showcase their talent before the international artistic community. The jury is composed of a panel of eminent musicians from several countries and the event is the only Canadian international music competition held each year. Info: 514-845-4108 Tickets: 514-842-2112
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Dubrovnik: a shiny gem
is all about “Dubrovnik the Stari Grad. ”
Times and Places Molly Newborn Sitting on the most southern point of Croatia’s Dalmatian coast is a gem called Dubrovnik. I discovered Dubrovnik when I was trekking through Croatia this past fall. This fashionable Croatian capital will take your breath away as you walk its shiny streets and gaze out on the Adriatic from its peaks. Dubrovnik is out of the way if you are traveling around Croatia, but you can get there by plane, boat or bus. I took the bus from Split, Croatia’s second most well known city, meeting up with my friend Hedda who flew from Oslo. It took 5 hours to travel the 135 miles to Dubrovnik, with a few miles that pass through Bosnia, so don’t be surprised to have to pull out your passport, twice. There is a 15-minute stop in Bosnia. Though it sounds treacherous, I highly recommend this route. Traveling down the Croatian coastline compares with the United States’ most beautiful coast drive, the Pacific Coast Highway. The bus bumps along the cliffs so make sure to get a window seat to enjoy the view. Don’t forget to bring anti-nausea tablets. As with most other Croatian tours, as soon as I stepped off the bus I was bombarded by local women holding up maps and pictures of accommodations. Since Croatia is still a relatively new tourist attraction, hotels are limited and expensive. Your best option, and possibly your only choice, is to rent a room in a private house or apartment. It gives you the added bonus of experiencing their lifestyle and they are always eager to give you tips and point you towards the best restaurant or bakery in town, even if they don’t speak a word of English. You can always bargain with the women at the bus station, but make sure they show you on a map where their home is located because you want to be close to the old city. Otherwise you will be schlepping for miles up and down the hill. Hedda and I booked our room early from www.hostelworld.com. We splurged a bit (for about 150 KLuna or $30/person/night) and stayed at a little place called Villa Elly (www.villaelly.com), about a mile outside the old city. It was a family-run apartment complex. The room was bright, simple, clean and renovated, and though a bit tight, we had a nice balcony that we shared with two guys staying in the adjacent apartment. They also rent out larger apartments but those didn’t quite fit our budget. The
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Hedda and I paid 30 Kuna each (USD$6) to walk around the old town “along the top of the wall. We took it slow to embrace the beauty of the orange-tiled roofs, copper domes, and bell towers along the Adriatic Sea. family was helpful and friendly, driving us to and from the train station and airport and giving us their best tips for the hot spots to hit. The wife even told me as I left Dubrovnik that if I was in any trouble or needed help, I shouldn’t hesitate to call her. Dubrovnik is all about the Stari Grad (aka the old town), where most of the tourist attractions are. It was built from the 13th century to the 18th century. It’s surrounded by a massive wall, the Gradske Zidine, which is 80 feet tall by 10 to 20 feet thick. Hedda and I paid 30 Kuna each (USD$6) to walk around the old town along the top of the wall. We took it slow to embrace the beauty of the orange-tiled roofs, copper domes, and bell towers along the Adriatic Sea. It took us about an hour, because we were stopping every few minutes for pictures.
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As we walked through the Vrata od Ploca, one of two entrances to the old town, we immediately noticed the shiny stone streets. There is an old water fountain at the entrance, used centuries ago when people were asked to wash their feet before they entered the city. Is that why the streets are so clean? No need to worry about cars zooming by because there are no cars here. We did however have to walk carefully in our heels at night on the way to the jazz club as to not slip. How did my mother, with her bad knee, make it through these slippery shiny streets? The streets are lined with clothing and souvenir shops, restaurants, cafes, a few clubs and bars, and ooOOOoo the jewelry stores. For food, there is an abundance of reasonably priced seafood, pizza and salads. We visited the Franciscan Monastery, which houses
There is an old water fountain at the entrance, used centuries ago “when people were asked to wash their feet before they entered the city.
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on the Adriatic
by a massive wall, the Gradske Zidine, “ It’s surrounded which is 80 feet tall by 10 to 20 feet thick. ” a little pharmacy. It was founded in 1318 and is the oldest in Europe. Next to the pharmacy is an art exhibition about the attack on the city by Montenegro in 1991. It brought unemotional me to tears. How could anyone bomb such a beautiful historical place? It told how the
residents hid in their basements until it was over, surfacing only to find their beloved city torn apart, roofs shattered, and bullet holes in the Monasteries. Why? Luckily media coverage attracted much attention and money poured in from around the world to help clean up
The Dubrovnik synagogue, or “sinagoga,” is tucked “away along the side of a narrow street of the old city on the 3rd floor of a townhouse. ”
Split... meeting “I tookupthewithbusmyfrom friend Hedda. ”
and rebuild. The new rooftops are clearly distinguishable from the old ones from the view atop the walls. As I travel through Europe, I make a point of finding the synagogue, if there is one, in every city I visit. It gives me a little sense of belonging, knowing my people were there and made their mark. The Dubrovnik synagogue, or “sinagoga,” is tucked away along the side of a narrow street of the old city on the 3rd floor of a townhouse. It is the oldest Sephardic synagogue in the world and the second oldest synagogue in Europe (after Prague). Dubrovnik once had a thriving Jewish community consisting of about 50 Jews, mostly comprised of those who were expelled from Spain in 1492 and Italy in 1514-15. During that period Dubrovnik was under Turkish rule, with the Sultan protecting their rights. They flourished in business, dealing with fabrics, silk, wool, leather and spices. The community grew to 218 Jews by the 18th century. During World War II, Dubrovnik was occupied by the Italian army. They did not allow mass deportation of the Jews. Instead they were moved to the nearby Island of Lopud and then to Rab Island. Before the territory was taken over by the Germans, many Jews were transported from the islands by partisans to liberated territory on the mainland. Dubrovnik is now home to about 40 Jews. Entrance to the synagogue costs 10 Kuna (USD$2). It retains its Baroque Italian style, the interior made of dark wooden panels, featuring a beautiful blue ceiling painted with stars, newly rebuilt after it was heavily damaged during the attack in 1991. The second floor holds a little Jewish museum, which has artifacts of the Dubrovnik Jewish community throughout the past 500 years. On the first floor of the townhouse you’ll find a small gift shop selling Jewish artwork. How can I talk about Croatia without mentioning its islands?! The 13 tiny Elafiti Islands are all within a 1-hour ferry ride from Dubrovnik. The largest Islands — Lopud, Kolocep and Sipan —
have no cars and are inhabited by about 900 people year round. Hedda and I visited Lopud because we heard about a spectacular beach there. The boat trip took about an hour and stopped along the way at other islands. Lopud has a tiny town along the bay made up of stone houses, a couple of hotels and souvenirs stores. We took a 20-minute hike to the other side of the Island to reach Sunj beach. It is the most perfect beach I have ever seen. I was convinced it was man-made until I was told otherwise. The sand felt like silk. It was perfect — no seaweed or anything creepy. The water was crystal clear. The only thing we had to avoid was the portion of the beach that was behind a pitiful looking wall — the naked beach. I’ve learned to steer clear of the nude beaches. My last night in Dubrovnik was bittersweet. I said goodbye to Hedda at the airport not knowing when I’d see my favorite Norwegian again. I then caught up with a friend we had met the night before. He was our waiter at a restaurant where we had dined. He took me up to the hilltop to show off his miraculous city. He was so proud. I noticed the trees and shrubs were all burnt and the cable car that led up to the top of the hill was broken. I asked what had happened. Apparently two weeks before my arrival there was a mysterious fire that came over from the other side of the hills, in Bosnia. The fire blazed through the hills as the firefighters and the residents of Dubrovnik (including our 20-year-old waiter and his friends) came together to fight the fire and stop it before it hit the old city. The Croatians say the Serbs are to blame, but really no one really knows. Once again tears came to my eyes as I stood at the top of the hill, surrounded by ashes, looking at one of the most spectacular little old cities in the world. Molly Newborn is the daughter of Barbara Moser. She is 26 and lives in LA.
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Photos: Nancy Snipper
A thirsty monkey, Ave Maria, and shaman shenanigans
Instituto artist selling her hand-made aprons
Panoramic view of San Miguel
Papier maché art work of San Miguel
Nancy Snipper
painter friend Tim Gaydos and I were inspired by the remarkable rooftop view of San Miguel. Downstairs led to another reward: Mexican breakfasts. Bring on the enchiladas and eggs!
masterpiece of whimsical spires sculpted in rose coloured cantera stone towers over the birthplace of Ignacio Allende, celebrated as liberator of Mexico. Another narrow church entrance drew me in. For no reason at all, I began singing ‘Ave Maria’. No one was in this tiny church. Something led me into another empty room. Still singing Ave Maria — nothing held me back — I looked up ahead of me, and there greeting me on the front wall in large letters were the words ‘Ave Maria’! San Miguel’s mystical side was giving me a sign. So when Tim invited me to participate in a sweat tent ceremony along with his artist daughter Sabrina, I said yes. Trudging up the hill, we waited for Quikly, the
The entrance was glowing in red light. Stepping inside, I turned right. The red disappeared and brightness beamed. Welcome to the Thirsty Monkey — my introduction to San Miguel de Allende’s Mexican warmth! This hotspot sports a mural of jazzers and a lovely lacquer piano, which I went over to see. Paco, the manager plunked me down and said “Play!” so I attempted Ave Maria and a waltz — totally inappropriate for a New Orleans restaurant. No matter, the margaritas kept coming my way regardless. Incredibly, I became Thirsty Monkey’s resident pianist — playing Bach and Beethoven while dining almost every night on catfish and guacamole with tortillas. The amazing bread pudding became my daily treat after a day of walking down San Miguel’s centuries-old narrow streets and high sidewalks.
Aesthetically exhilarating, this town of 140,000 is a magnet for artists.
The Thirsty Monkey on Canal Street was across from Canal House, where San Miguel’s richest 18th century gold-mining family once lived. But it remains locked. Everyday I passed its magnificently-sculpted wooden doors, which are even taller than the megagantes — the giant puppets San Miguel creates for its fabulous fiestas. Also on Canal was Mansion Virreyes, my hotel for living ‘la vida vintage’. Meter-thick colonial stone walls encase a courtyard full of paintings and plants. Climbing Virreyes’ stairs to its upper terrace, my
Gourmet conscious and creative, San Miguel boasts markets and art shops at every corner. Tim and I found our favourite central spot at El Jardin square. While he sketched colourful characters strolling by, I enjoyed the surrounding entertainment: mariachi bands, café banter, flower vendors, hat hawkers and Mexican mamas toting toys and kids. Even the policemen in their blue satin jackets and hair braids looked nobly dashing. Their appearance rivaled the energetic dancers moving down San Miguel’s streets in celebration of the Christian conversion of the Chichimec Indians. One plumed dancer invited me in, but my jeans didn’t quite fit the occasion. Aesthetically exhilarating, this town of 140,000 is a magnet for artists. Instituto Allende and Bellas Artes are talent havens, and Academia Hispano Americana features language and culture classes. Too many schools to list here, but to get an overview of San Miguel’s creativity, just go to La Aurora, a fabulous art and design centre that features over 50 artists, including Montreal painter Brian Care. Every craft known to man assaults the senses in this tranquil oasis — 20 minutes from the frenzied festivals and bells of La Parroquia Church at El Jardin. This German Gothic
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Puppets of San Miguel
Gourmet conscious and creative, San Miguel boasts markets and art shops at every corner.
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Every craft known to man assaults the senses in this tranquil oasis. shaman, but he was nowhere. Finally, we found him downhill, relaxing in his home. We were instructed to hold hands and to “ask permission” to help cut the wood for the sweat ceremony, but I didn’t bring an axe! I began sweating bricks when Sabrina announced she was going to faint (we hadn’t even entered the sweat tent). Quikly wouldn’t let her lie down, saying it was “mind illusion”. Opting out, I retreated to Sabrina’s stunning apartment below, in La Huerta, a hacienda style mansion built by botanist Roy and his wife Carol. They gave me a tasty organic dinner straight from their garden. As for the others — three hours later, Tim ran in announcing nothing had started! It was one of San Miguel’s rarely predictable surprises.
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