GLBT Fortnight in Review
By Ann Rostow
Straight Women Behaving Badly
I thought I’d start this week’s column with news from the Eleventh Circuit, which will rehear a transgender lawsuit before the full court, likely nullifying a 2–1 panel victory for the Houston County, Georgia, transgender sheriff’s office employee, Anna Lange.
I also have news from the Supreme Court, where the justices refused to modify a block on Joe Biden’s transgender friendly interpretation of Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972. Biden’s policy is meant to enforce the High Court’s 2020 GLBT civil rights victory, and notably Justice Gorsuch, who wrote that opinion, voted with our three liberal justices to let the Biden rule take effect. Unfortunately, five other justices voted against their colleagues, which puts the rule on hold in 26 states while various lawsuits slowly make their ways up their judicial ladders.
As is often the case with these legal news stories, I will be obliged to read opinions and briefs and articles in order to provide details and insight. But as I was looking around for these materials, I noticed that I have saved an article titled “Woman Sentenced for Chopping Boyfriend to Pieces” from August 10. And yes, I saved it for you!
The story comes from a place called Headline Smart, which has lately been dropping outrageous-sounding news items into my email inbox. I don’t know what I did to attract their attention, and I don’t usually click on their tabloid offerings. Who knows where they come from and/or if they’re even true? This one, however, was too good to ignore.
“Maryland resident, Michelina Desiree Goodwin, 46, has been sentenced to 61 years in prison for the murder and dismemberment of her boyfriend, James Volodimir Nalborczyk, 50,” we learn from whomever it is who sent us this item. “Goodwin was convicted of second-degree murder, unauthorized disposal of a body, and use of a firearm in the commission of a felony.”
Nalborczyk’s body parts were found scattered across two counties. An air-conditioner technician by trade, he had a fight with Goodwin, who then shot him in the back. Goodwin then got a buddy to help her chop him up and dump the bits around the countryside. She eventually confessed her guilt to police.
Hmmm. Wouldn’t it be better to bury the guy or put his body in the ocean with some weights? His family and the cops might have thought he went on a lengthy vacation. Plus, it would be tough to pin his disappearance on the girlfriend without evidence. Finally, after googling “headline smart,” I see that it’s considered somewhat harmless spam. I have a similar email spammer called “Informing News” that is urging me to read about “Missing woman’s remains discovered in fertilizer tank” but I think we’ve had enough, don’t you?
(She’s been missing for three years and her husband is under arrest!)
Love Means Having to Say You’re Sorry
I was mildly interested in the case of Red Sox outfielder Jarren Duran, who snapped back at a heckling fan during a recent at bat against Houston. “Shut up you f-ing faggot,” he yelled, earning a two-day suspension without pay, which will be diverted to some gay rights cause.
When I read that sales of his jersey went through the roof after the incident, it was more than annoying. This, ladies and germs, is where MAGA has brought us. To the point where grown men are transformed into childish schoolyard bullies, eager to prove their masculinity by denigrating gay men. Really, guys?
The more I thought about it, the angrier I became. What idiots are buying his stupid jersey? Then I read about Duran’s reaction to the whole mess. According to a report in The Hill, Duran apologized profusely, admitting the word he used was “truly horrific.”
“I feel awful knowing how many people I offended and disappointed,” he said in his statement. “I apologize to the entire Red Sox organization, but more importantly, to the entire LGBTQ community. Our young fans are supposed to be able to look up to me as a role model, but tonight I fell far short of that responsibility.”
The black cloud above my head evaporated in an instant. My entire impression of Duran flipped from negative to positive. And the moral of the story is that a heartfelt expression of remorse goes a hell of a long way to easing conflicts. I suppose I knew that, but because I didn’t see the apology until the very end of my reading, this obvious lesson was delivered in an unusually powerful manner.
Pass The Haggis
Watching the Democratic National Convention, I was suffused with excitement and whatever it is we are all feeling since the Harris/Walz candidacy took hold. Oh my God, you guys! I can’t help feeling the moment, even as I recognize that a) this will be a close race and b) the Republicans have a number of shady characters positioned to interfere with election procedures. All I want is for Harris and Walz to run up the polls and win this race by ten or fifteen points in the popular vote and huge margins in the electoral college.
Oh, and I’ve started to really detest JD Vance. I never liked him, but now I find him despicable.
While waiting for interesting speakers, I read a piece on the subject of “queer food.”
Listen. I’m no fan of the right-wing politicians who are trying to shut down university classes on culture, on race, on politics, on gender, and so forth. But there are some topics that make me roll my eyes. The subject of “queer food” may fall into this category.
In college, we all searched our handbooks at the start of each semester for fun “gut”
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Empowered San Francisco Bay Area Transgender Leaders
This Transgender History Month, we honor the achievements of transgender history makers, pioneers, and trailblazers. Many are continuing the fight for justice and equality that benefits, not only the transgender community, but also the LGBTI+ community and beyond.
Here are just a few of the many transgender leaders in the San Francisco Bay Area who are working to make a positive difference. All hold multiple important roles, so we encourage you to learn more about their work and achievements, as well as that of other transgender leaders both past and present.
Carlo Gómez Arteaga
Co-Executive Director of The Transgender District https://www.transgenderdistrictsf.com/
Spring Collins
Program Director and Founder of the TRANScend Retreat https://www.transcendretreat.org/
Suzanne Ford
Executive Director of SF Pride https://sfpride.org/
Breonna McCree
Co-Executive Director of The Transgender District https://www.transgenderdistrictsf.com/
Jupiter Peraza Manager of Statewide Coalition, Openhouse https://www.openhousesf.org/
Maceo Persson Special Projects Manager, San Francisco Human Services Agency https://www.sfhsa.org/
Anjali Rimi President, Parivar Bay Area https://www.parivarbayarea.org/
Janelle Vinson
Senior Employment Services Specialist, SF LGBT Center https://www.sfcenter.org/
Transgender History Month
(Editor’s Note: The San Francisco Bay Times is proud to launch a new column in this issue: “Trans Action With Honey Mahogany.” Jupiter Peraza, transgender advocate and Statewide Coalition Manager at Openhouse, expressed well the thoughts of many when she said, “Honey Mahogany is an exceptionally talented and brilliant force of nature.” Peraza added, “She possesses the skill, poise, and forethought required to lead the Office of Transgender Initiatives (OTI) amidst unprecedented times for the transgender community across the country and in San Francisco.”
Born and raised in San Francisco, Mahogany has advocated for justice and equity for the LGBTQ+ community for more than two decades, many as a community activist. As a social worker, she has championed initiatives to address the needs of people living with HIV, people of color, youth, and the unhoused.
As part of her work in benefit of the trans community, she served trans and gender nonconforming youth as an outreach worker in residential settings and organized trans community members in the creation of the San Francisco Transgender District. She also co-organized the Drag Up!, Fight Back! march, and mentored and appointed trans leaders during her time as Chair of the San Francisco Democratic Party.
Mahogany is also a founding queen of Drag Story Hour and, recently, played a critical role in saving The Stud, an iconic gay bar in San Francisco, of which she is a co-owner, co-founder of the Stud Collective, and an active member of its board.
Mahogany’s experience in government and the nonprofit sector includes serving as Community Mental Health Director at Contra Costa County’s Rainbow Community Center and her work as outreach and residential counselor for Larkin Street Youth Services. More recently, she worked for State Assemblymember Matt Haney as District Director and as Chief of Staff when he was a San Francisco Supervisor. The San Francisco Bay Times is also grateful to Mahagony’s team, including OTI Manager of Communications Asri Wulandari, for making this new column possible. Look for “Trans Action With Honey Mahogany” in every issue.)
August is Trans History Month here in San Francisco and across the State of California. It is a time to honor and acknowledge the tremendous accomplishments of our community despite the odds and to reaffirm that we have always been here—whether certain people want to acknowledge it or not.
At this point we’ve heard it a thousand times, and yet it bears repeating: the LGBTQ community is facing an unprecedented level of attacks from state legislatures across the country, and the trans community is bearing the brunt of these attacks. While San Francisco is a Sanctuary City within a Sanctuary State for the Transgender community, the reality is that even here in California we have seen the introduction of anti-trans bills and the right-wing takeover of school boards in places like Temecula, Huntington Beach, the Inland Empire, and more. We have also seen right-wing groups file lawsuits against equity programs and anything that remotely resembles affirmative action.
If we know our history, then we know that this has happened before. We saw a similar line of attack from the right with Anita Bryant’s “Save Our Children” campaign in the late 1970s. We also saw the banning and burning of books and the demonization of trans and queer people during the 1930s and 40s during the rise of the Nazis and fascism in Europe.
So, why is this happening again, and how do we fight back this current wave of antiqueer, anti-trans rhetoric? At the core of this discrimination and fear mongering is a lack of familiarity with trans people. Less than 2% of the U.S. population is trans, and less than half of Americans claim to personally know a trans person. These statistics are being exploited by those whose goal is to use the trans community as convenient political scapegoats to cover for their inability to deliver real results for their constituents. One proven way we can combat this is through awareness, education, and outreach, and establishing a Transgender History Month helps us do just that.
A guiding principle in many social movements is that through education, knowledge, and history we build bridges of understanding and solidarity. Taking the month of August to highlight the long history of transgender and gender-expansive people is essential to combating the rise in violent, transphobic rhetoric. We must learn from our history to build a future that protects and empowers all Americans including
Honey Mahogany and Assemblymember Matt Haney were among the leaders who attended the State of California’s Transgender History Month launch ceremony that was held in Sacramento on Monday, August 5, 2024.
trans people and their families.
The original Transgender History Month proclamation was the brainchild of activist Jupiter Peraza, and was signed by Mayor London Breed on August 24th, 2021. The proclamation drew on San Francisco’s rich transgender history—most notably, the Compton’s Cafeteria Riots of 1966—largely known as the first officially documented large-scale act of resistance of trans and queer individuals in the United States. Shortly thereafter, Santa Clara County also designated August as Transgender History Month, and now San Diego and the State of California have all followed suit.
As a state, California boasts an extensive history of transgender and gender-expansive activism that we should be proud of, and it’s time that we let the world know.
Transgender History Month is an opportunity to educate people about everything from the Cooper Do-Nut Riot in Los Angeles, to the Compton’s Cafeteria Riots in San Francisco; from Sir Lady Java’s historic anti-discrimination lawsuit, to Reed Erickson’s pioneering work expanding transgender medical resources; incredible thought leaders like Sandy Stone and Janet Mock, to artists and writers like Silas Howard and Wendy Carlos, and so many more outstanding history-making and genre-defining people who have given so much to all of us.
Transgender History Month here in San Francisco is just 3 years old, but word is already spreading. As more cities and states jump on board with Trans History
Month—as more news channels and radio stations and newspapers and social media figures highlight trans people, trans stories, and trans history in their broadcasts, columns, and feeds—we will continue to reach people, to change minds, and to give people hope. And perhaps that last part is the most important part of Transgender History Month. It is an opportunity to remind ourselves of how far we have come, what is possible, and to give ourselves hope for the future.
Honey Mahogany, a San Francisco native with a Master’s in Social Welfare from UC Berkeley, is a performer, small business owner, and activist. Her work has earned recognition from the City of San Francisco and various organizations. Mahogany co-founded the San Francisco Transgender District, is a founding queen of Drag Story Hour, co-owner of the Stud Bar, and a singer with nu-metal group Commando. She currently serves as Director of the Office of Trans Initiatives, Chair-Emerita of the San Francisco Democratic Party, and Delegate to the Democratic National Committee.
The Return of Joy
In Case You Missed It
Joanie Juster
Although I have lived in the Bay Area my entire life, I’ve spent a whole lot of time crisscrossing the Midwest from International Falls to Winona, from Osseo to Kenosha, from Fargo to Spooner, from Marquette to Muskegon, from Platte City to Loogootee, and countless tiny farm communities in between. Hot dish, cheese curds, and lefse are near and dear to me. So, when Democratic presidential nominee Kamala Harris selected Minnesota’s governor, Tim Walz, as her vice-presidential running mate, the decision made total sense to me—I’ve met many folks like him on my
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travels, and been inspired by their competence and decency.
Walz has built a solid record as governor (and previously senator) of Minnesota, but, just as importantly, he has the kind of personal history—farm kid, veteran, teacher, football coach, loving husband and father, pillar of the community—that countless Americans can relate to, and that political operatives can only dream of. What’s more, he comes across as the kind of decent, competent, ethical person you would want in a seat of power (or on your speed dial when your car breaks down).
But what immediately endeared him to millions of Americans like me was the sense of absolute joy he exudes. When Harris and Walz take the stage at their rallies, they bring joy to the crowds. Their message is one of hope, possibility, and freedom, not doom and gloom. They aim to lift people up and inspire them, not terrify them with rants about what a hellscape they live in. They strive to unify communities by working together for the common good, rather than dividing them with fear.
This positive messaging is having a powerful effect on the American people, who are worn down from years of strife and division. The Harris-Walz ticket is breaking records for both donations and new sup -
porters. It reminds me of President Kennedy, who galvanized the country with an epic call to action: “Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country.” That challenge to step up and be of service struck a chord, inspiring countless Americans to volunteer for the Peace Corps, and for other organizations closer to home.
Digging deeper into history, when the Great Depression threw Americans into a state of poverty and despair, Franklin Roosevelt rose to the challenge to bring hope back to people who felt hopeless. Facing global economic chaos, he promised the country a New Deal, taking immediate action to help countless Americans get back on their feet and feed their families. He backed up his bold actions with uplifting messages, often conveyed through his weekly “Fireside Chats” on the radio, which brought solace and inspiration to the whole country. His message of hope was what the country needed.
difference. Here are my suggestions for this week:
No candidate is perfect, and we’re all going to find points of policy on which we vigorously disagree with those we elect to office. And that’s fine; that’s how democracy works. Our job as citizens is to hold our elected officials accountable, and make sure they listen to differing points of view. But this year, there is a very clear choice. The Republican Party has been taken over by right-wing extremists, and the agenda proposed in the Project 2025 playbook would be disastrous for anyone who identifies as LGBTQ+, for women, and, basically, for anyone who does not fit into a rigid white, heteronormative, extreme conservative box.
This year, we have an opportunity to reject that extreme playbook. We can change the national conversation, and begin healing ourselves and our country. But it will take a massive effort to educate voters, and get them to the polls to vote. There are many organizations doing important work to help get out the vote, and in each issue of the San Francisco Bay Times until election day, I will highlight organizations where your dollars or your time and efforts can make a real
• Sister District is a grassroots organization that aims to build enduring progressive power in state legislatures across the country. Much of this is achieved by encouraging voters to vote “down ballot,” making sure they vote for progressive leaders for state and local offices.
https://sisterdistrict.com/
• Field Team 6 found that 60% of unregistered voters have never been asked to register. So, that’s what they do: reach out to millions of unregistered likely Democrats in key swing states and districts where new Democrats will make the most impact. https://www.fieldteam6.org/
National Make-A-Will Month
Yes, it’s summer, and you’d rather be having fun in the sun (or, if you’re in San Francisco, cuddling up under a blanket because it’s Fogust). But here’s a gentle reminder that there’s some paperwork we all need to take care of to bring peace of mind to ourselves and our loved ones. August is National Make-A-Will Month, and there are various organizations out there providing simple toolkits to make estate planning less onerous. One of them is the National LGBTQ Task Force, which offers a free, simple estate planning tool from FreeWill on their website. They claim it takes only
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Kamala Harris Has Our Back
6/26 and Beyond
Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis
It was around 8 pm on Wednesday, March 4, 2009, the night before the California Supreme Court would hear oral argument as to whether Proposition 8, which had taken away the freedom to marry from loving LGBTIQ couples in California just 4 months before, violated the state constitution. We were leading a large rally on the steps of San Francisco City Hall to urge the court to strike down the unprecedented anti-LGBTIQ measure. As we neared the end of the rally, someone came up from behind and told us: “Kamala Harris is here and would love to speak.”
We were thrilled—and impressed. Prop. 8 had passed just months before with approximately 52 percent of the vote statewide. Harris, then San Francisco District Attorney, had already announced her candidacy for California Attorney General. She faced a tough primary race in her first bid for statewide office and an even greater challenge in being elected the state’s first Black, first Asian American, and first woman attorney general. But Harris was not about to balk on her commitment to marriage equality and LGBTIQ rights. She took time from her busy schedule and went out of her way to stand up for marriage equality and
be there with the LGBTIQ community as we collectively continued to reel from the gut-wrenching passage of Prop. 8.
Moreover, after Harris’ election as California Attorney General, she refused to defend Prop. 8 in court, stating, “I firmly believe that Proposition 8 violates the equal protection and due process clauses of the U.S. Constitution.” Her refusal to defend the ignominious initiative was pivotal to its demise. Back in 2011, Harris expressed that she was “confident that justice will prevail,” and she was right.
We’ll never forget the afternoon of June 28, 2013, when the federal courts surprised everyone by enabling LGBTIQ couples in California to once again get married, not the usual 30 days after issuance of a U.S. Supreme Court decision, but just 2 days after the U.S. Supreme Court let stand a lower federal court ruling invalidating Prop. 8. We dropped everything and dashed to City Hall to join in the celebration with queer couples and fellow marriage equality supporters. And Kamala Harris was doing the same. In fact, she was rushing to City Hall to officiate at the wedding of Sandy Stier and Kris Perry, one of the plaintiff couples in the Prop. 8 federal lawsuit, tweeting “[o]n my way to S.F. City Hall. Let the wedding bells ring!”
And in the midst of the euphoria, Harris needed to fulfill her responsibilities as California’s highest-ranking law enforcement official. Local officials in Southern California were telling the other Prop 8 plaintiff couple, Paul Katami and Jeff Zarrillo, that the local clerk’s office could not issue the couple a marriage license until it received a directive from the State of California, clearly unaware that the Attorney General herself was about to officiate at Stier and Perry’s wedding.
Rink Throwback: Kamala Harris
Marriage equality supporters in Southern California soon got on the phone with people gathered at San Francisco City Hall, who told Harris what was going on. Harris got on the phone and didn’t skip a beat. She explained clearly and forcefully to the reluctant local clerk (clearly surprised to be talking to the Attorney General herself and not a staff member): “You must start the marriages immediately.” And Harris added with a smile, “Enjoy it. It’s going to be fun!”
Harris was already the joyful warrior. Indeed, we remember the first time we met Harris personally, the morning of election day, November 8, 2005, in the Castro. The LGBTIQ community and pro-choice supporters were working in coalition to defeat Proposition 73, a right-wing initiative that threatened young women’s access to safe abortions statewide. We and many other volunteers were assembled preparing to go door to door to get out the vote. Harris spoke to us all, and with a big smile on her face exclaimed, “I love to campaign!” It was clear why. She loved connecting with people and inspiring them to exercise their agency in the political process.
And that’s what Harris and her running mate Tim Walz are doing today, inspiring a new generation to engage in the political process to boldly set forth a path for the future far different from their opponents. If those who cherish equality and democracy work together to elect Harris and Walz, himself a fearless and unabashed LGBTIQ rights supporter, the White House will remain a place that is not “going back,” and clearly has our backs as LGBTIQ people.
John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, together for over three decades, were plaintiffs in the California case for equal marriage rights decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership in the grassroots organization Marriage Equality USA contributed in 2015 to making same-sex marriage legal nationwide.
San Francisco Bay Times lead photographer Rink has photographed Kamala Harris since the early 2000s at the start of her political career. Over the next several issues we will feature some of those images of the now Vice President and U.S. presidential candidate.
Her ability to exude and spark joy was evident from the start and on display in 2019 as she rode down Market Street in a hot red convertible with her husband as well as Proposition 8 plaintiffs Kris Perry and Sandy Tier during the San Francisco Pride Parade. Sporting a now iconic “Bedazzled” rainbow sequined denim jacket, Harris said that she was “celebrating equality and diversity and the fact that we still have a fight ahead. We’re all committed to fighting equal rights and civil rights and no one should be made to fight alone.”
She greeted starstruck paradegoers before speaking at City Hall. There she said, in part, “After we defeated Proposition 8, I was so proud to come right back here to San Francisco City Hall and perform the first marriage of Kris Perry and Sandy Stier. We did all that together and so now what is our job then? Our job is to celebrate our success and rededicate ourselves to the fight, because we still have a fight before us.”
As for that famous jacket, Harris’ press secretary at the time tweeted that the oversized item was from Levi’s. Harris also wore a black t-shirt with “PRIDE” in matching rainbow sequins. Meena Harris posted a short video, where she called out, “Auntie!” and captured the jacket’s incredible sparkle. That and other related clips are at https://bit.ly/3WVAyhK
SAN FRANCISCO FIRE DEPARTMENT LGBTQ Women Pioneers
Anne Young: A Pioneer in the San Francisco Fire Department
Faces from Our LGBT Past
Dr. Bill Lipsky
Ask any longtime San Franciscan who was the city’s first woman firefighter and odds are they will tell you that was Lillie Hitchcock Coit, who adored “the red shirt and warlike helmet of the firemen” and “gloried in the excitement of a big blaze.” She became an honorary member of Knickerbocker 5, a volunteer fire brigade, in 1863, three years before the city had a paid fire department, which then consisted of six steam fire engine companies, two hook-and-ladder companies, and three hose companies, staffed entirely by men.
LGBT person) hired for the job in the history of the San Francisco Fire Department (SFFD). “I want to dispel some myths about women,” Young said of her appointment, but “I don’t consider myself a pioneer.” She was, however, in every way.
Born in Phoenix, Arizona, in 1961, Young grew up in San Francisco. “I knew at six years old that I was different,” she told Shanna Farrell in an interview for the California Fire Departments Oral History Project in 2016. “I could not play the part of a little girl,” she said. “I wanted to have jeans, I wanted to have Pendleton shirts, I wanted to have a jeans jacket, I wanted to have a certain type of hat. I’ve worn hats all my life.”
The department and its reputation for excellence grew over the next hundred years, but it did not hire its first Black fireman until 1955 or any women firefighters until 1987, after a federal court order demanded it. One of the very first was Anne Young, who also was the first openly lesbian (and first openly
She was determined to be her own self. “I had a look and I perfected it, and I felt comfortable with that look, no matter how much teasing I got. It didn’t matter; I felt good in that uniform. That’s exactly what it was. I was drawn to uniforms, dressing a certain way in order to feel like I was me. If I couldn’t be something else, I was going to be fully me.”
After graduating from high school, Young was unsure what to do next until her brother Steve, a San Francisco fireman, encouraged her to follow in his footsteps. She took a job as a janitor for the city’s public libraries to support herself, which she kept for six years, while earning her degree in fire science at SF City College. Her studies completed, she also worked for an ambulance company. Meanwhile, she applied for firefighting appointments all across Northern California, determined to become a firefighter like her brother.
Young’s determination and perseverance were finally rewarded in 1986 when she was hired to be one of Daly City’s first two women firefighters. Fourteen months later, she joined the SFFD, confident that she was prepared for the
arduous training she would receive during her pro bation. “I had a leg up. I’d already been in a firehouse. I’d slid down a pole, I knew how to wake up in the middle of the night, get my gear on. I was happy in that moment.”
Of course, “The guys did kid with me. I was never looking for problems. I was never trying to find something. I was there to fit in and do a job. And because you can do a lot more work at a busy house, you don’t have time to sit around and think about things. But the guys were constantly sussing me out.” When she proved her ability “the first time we went to a fire,” however, “they came up and pinched my arms.”
Still on probation, Young became determined that the fire department participate in 1988’s Pride Parade, which would be a first for the organization. Although many people she spoke with “tried every which way they could to get out of it,” she was supported by Sharon Bretz, the first openly lesbian and possibly the first female fire commissioner in San Francisco history; Bob Demmons, who later became Chief of the Department; and the Black Firefighters Association (they were both members).
Young herself drove a fire truck in the parade, with a hand-painted sign taped to it. Only she, Bretz, the other women
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SAN FRANCISCO FIRE DEPARTMENT LGBTQ Women Pioneers
Jeanine Nicholson, the First Openly LGBTQI Chief of the San Francisco Fire Department, Announces Retirement
San Francisco Fire Department (SFFD) Chief Jeanine Nicholson on August 14, 2024, officially announced her retirement to take effect at the end of the month due to “unforeseen medical issues.” Sworn in on May 6, 2019, as the 26th Chief of the SFFD, Nicholson is the department’s first openly LGBTQI Chief.
Upon hearing the news, Mayor London Breed said, “Chief Nicholson has been an incredible leader for the San Francisco Fire Department and is retiring with a distinguished and decades-long record of public service. She and the department she leads have kept San Franciscans safe through the COVID pandemic and the challenges of the last few years while also helping launch groundbreaking and life-saving initiatives, like our nationally recognized Street
Response Teams. Chief Nicholson has shown extraordinary leadership and dedication to our great city, and we are indebted to her for her service.”
Decades of Service
Chief Nicholson began her career with the SFFD in January of 1994 as a Firefighter EMT. Over the years, she was promoted through the ranks of Firefighter Paramedic, Lieutenant, Captain, and Battalion Chief. She was appointed Deputy Chief of Administration in January 2018, and oversaw a number of divisions including Support Services, Training, Homeland Security, Human Resources, Investigative Services, and Assignment/Personnel Offices.
Chief Nicholson is a member of the California Fire Chiefs Association and California Metro Chiefs Association. She currently sits on the Board of Directors of Firescope. Chief Nicholson is a breast cancer survivor and formerly served on the Board of the San Francisco Firefighters Cancer Prevention Foundation. She graduated from Colgate University in New York with a BA in Sociology and Anthropology.
SFFD shared that “Chief Nicholson is a collaborative leader with a deep sense of respect and appreciation for the members of the SFFD. In addition to day-to-day operations, she is also focused on Firefighter Safety, Disaster Preparedness, and Community Paramedicine. Several of her priority projects include Behavioral Health and Succession Planning. In addition, the groundbreaking Street Crisis Response Team and the Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Office came about under her leadership. Chief Nicholson has been committed to community service, both on and off the job. She taught for the SFFD’s NERT (Neighborhood Emergency Response Team) and volunteered at Camp Blaze (a leadership and empowerment camp for young women learning firefighting skills).”
Champion for Equity
Chief Nicholson has been a great friend and supporter of the San Francisco Bay Times and the local LGBTQI community as a whole. She has often gone above and beyond the call of duty, such as when she and members of her team jumped into action to help a disabled guest of the Bay Times participate in the San Francisco Pride Parade. All of us
who know her on and off the job have witnessed her full dedication to being Chief and to being in service to others.
There were many tears as a result at the August 14 event, when Chief Nicholson officially spoke about her retirement. She began by telling her colleagues, city officials, and others present: “Y’all are gonna make me cry! Sit down. There’s no crying in the firehouse.”
One of Chief Nicholson’s greatest achievements was bringing diversity in all respects to the forefront at SFFD. To improve racial equity, in particular, she allowed EMTs, firefighters, and paramedics to participate, along with herself, in the interviewing of new potential hires. By starting the City EMT program, which reaches out to at-risk young adults aged 18–26, she also helped increase numbers of women and people of color in the ranks.
“Because we’re not just about diversity, we’re about equity,” she said at the event. “Some folks didn’t have the same experience as I had growing up, where they had access to a good education, access to a crime-free neighborhood. We wanted to give folks everything that they needed, whether it was trauma counseling, life coaching, financial literacy, whatever to make them, as capable as possible, in succeeding.”
Selfless Concern for the SFFD and San Franciscans
Even as she ended her time at the microphone, Chief Nicholson was still at work, trying to improve the SFFD.
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SAN FRANCISCO FIRE DEPARTMENT LGBTQ Women Pioneers
Jeanine Nicholson Retirement Press Conference
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“We do need a fleet replacement plan,” she said, referring to the need for new fire engines.
“That is my numero uno. I’m sure somebody will be bugging you about that, Mayor, in the future. If not me, might be me. I don’t know.”
As those in attendance applauded, she wiped away tears and said, “I got lucky to be of service my whole career. Like, who gets to do that? To be of service their whole career? I put my all into it, folks. I really did.”
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courses. One time my roommate and I signed up for Geology 101, aka “rocks for jocks” that had recently been revamped into a tough introduction for science majors. We didn’t know that, so we both flunked out of that class. Oops.
With that in mind, a New York Times article from earlier this summer describes a Queer Food event at Boston University. “The way you slice into okra and it’s crunchy and ooshy-gushy—a lot of people think it’s weird,” said Ms. DuBose, a nonbinary transgender lesbian who will soon graduate from the food studies program at New York University. “But okra is queer.”
“Queer food defies categorization, and that’s its beauty,” said Megan J. Elias, who organized the conference with Alex D. Ketchum, an assistant professor at the Institute for Gender, Sexuality, and Feminist Studies at McGill University in Montreal. No. It defies categorization because it’s not a thing! And you know what? Looking back, I did not deserve to get college credit for lackadaisical attention to geology class, and I did not. But nor should our kids deserve to get credit for mindless courses on “queer food.” I guess this was a conference rather than a course, but still. Okra?
“Ooshy gushy?” Spare me.
“The goal of the event was to reclaim histories and imagine futures, not of a cuisine—queer food has no set taste profiles or geographic origins—but of food that ‘challenges binaries and any kind of normativity,’ said Ms. Elias, the director of the Gastronomy and Food Studies Programs at Boston University.” Food that “challenges binaries?” What does that even mean?
Sad About GLAAD
Lately I feel as if I’m verging on becoming a contrarian. I hate contrarians, because usually the majority opinion on something is the majority for a reason. Often that reason is because the majority is correct. Contrarians, in turn, are geared towards attracting attention and making a name for themselves. Think of the gay couples who “opposed” marriage because it was a het-
erosexual institution. These characters would win headlines along the lines of “Not All Gays Support Marriage Equality,” even as 95 percent of us did support marriage and the other five percent were whackos.
On transgender minors, it seems to me that we need a lot more research, a lot more history, and a case-by-case evaluation of what a preteen or young teen needs. That’s what various countries in Western Europe are telling us, and that’s just common sense. Some kids may desperately need hormone therapy and puberty blockers. We must make sure those therapies are available. Others may be torn. They may need time to work out their feelings. One thing we don’t need is government restrictions, but at the same time, the road ahead is complicated, don’t you think?
And on the future of gay civil rights organizations, I’m shaking my head a little bit. James Kirchick, writing in The Atlantic, looked at the gay groups that had, let’s say, outgrown their original mandates but still kept grinding away rather than admit to creeping irrelevance. I have to say, I sympathized with his critique.
Look, we have made incredible progress in the last thirty years. As I wrote last week, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) was once an essential watchdog against a hostile press. But these days, much as we like to maintain our victim status, we are basically part of the mainstream of American culture. Newspapers and magazines are on our side. We are rarely criticized, and when we are, we can expect an uproar in our favor.
What exactly does GLAAD do? And, of course, in view of recent headlines, why does the GLAAD CEO make tons of money, fly first class, and why does the nonprofit pay for her vacation rental and her home office? You should know that The New York Times article on GLAAD’s free-spending chief continues to anger GLBT commentators and activists, particularly since the organization defended its priorities and basically told all of us with raised eyebrows to mind our own business.
While we’re at it, what exactly does the Human Rights Campaign do, aside from rank corporations and throw fancy dinners? I have no problem with our legal groups: Lambda, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, and the ACLU. These guys are always on call for civil rights litigation, which never stops. I think The Victory Fund is important, working to elect GLBT candidates to office. I think local groups are helpful community centers. I think we still need activists, particularly transgender activists.
And nor do I think GLBT organizations have to operate on bare bones budgets. We have money and we should invest in our ongoing movement. But let’s also recognize that we have achieved a lot of our goals in thirty years. One recent GLAAD statement bemoaned the fact that approval for GLBT citizens has declined ... from 84 percent to 80 percent. So, that’s not great, but then again, that’s pretty great for some of us who have lived through the previous decades. I guess my point is that our traditional GLBT organizations need to cast aside the victimhood rubric and look towards a future of progress and dignity.
Finally, I was going to remind everyone that the Log Cabin (gay) Republicans paid Melania Trump $237,000 to speak at an April fundraiser they held at Mar-A-Lago. Of all the gay groups that outgrew their usefulness, the Log Cabin Club needs special mention. I had some friends back in the day who were members of Log Cabin because they were Republicans and gay. Makes sense, right? Now the only ones left in the club are gay and lesbian MAGA voters with enough cash to lure the elusive Melania to their podium.
The group reportedly received pledges of a million or so from the sixty deep pocketed attendees, which included lots of women. According to The Daily Beast, each member of the audience pledged between $10,000 and $250,000 to the cause, which was described as a “get out the vote” fund for you know who.
What. Ever.
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San Francisco Bay Times & The Academy Invite You!
Friday, August 30 6–10pm @ The Academy SF 2166 Market Street (between Sanchez & Church) The Sainting of Leslie Sbrocco
Featuring the guest of honor, Leslie Sbrocco The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Renée Lubin, Dr. Dee Spencer, Donna Sachet, and DJ Rockaway
It’s Never Too Early or Too Late to Start Planning for College
Money Matters
Brandon Miller
My twin boys will be entering the 6th grade this month. If you are a parent like me, you know time has no meaning once you’re with kiddos. Part of that is the infectious youth and wonder when you view the world through their eyes. There is also the unforgiving march of time that forces you to let them fly and be the wonderful free spirits you want them to be even if it may feel too soon.
Somewhere in the middle of that journey, the time comes to consider higher education. Now, not everyone wants to go to college and that in and of itself is a huge decision. But it’s better to save for the possibility of some sort of further education or
training if you can. It’s the gift that will reap huge rewards for you and your loved ones. If college is on the horizon, let’s assume that the cost will continue apace. Student loan forgiveness is far from a surety, and while things could change, you need to be prepared for cumulative costs of a traditional four-year college degree.
How bad is it? While the numbers vary depending on whether you attend a public or private university, or in-state or out-ofstate institution, the data are sobering.
The average cost of college is $38,270 per student per year, according to Education Data Initiative, a team of researchers that collects data and statistics about the U.S. education system.
The average in-state student attending a public four-year institution and living on campus spends $27,146 for one academic year, or $108,584 over four years. The average cost of in-state tuition is $9,750 per year; out-of-state tuition averages $27,457. Outof-state students pay an average of $45,708 per year or $182,832 over four years.
The average private, nonprofit university student spends $58,628 per academic year living on campus, including $38,768 for tuition and fees.
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Summer Goals: Making Time for What Matters, Including Your Estate Plan
Trust Essentials
Jay Greene, Esq., CPA
Hey there, Bay Area! It’s Attorney Jay Greene here, to chat about something important: summer goals. As the sunshine bathes our beautiful city, it’s the perfect time to reflect on what we want to achieve in these precious warm months.
For many of us, summer conjures images of long weekends, barbecues with friends, and maybe even that finally-booked vacation. But amidst the fun, let’s not forget another crucial aspect of a fulfilling summer—taking care of ourselves and our loved ones.
Did I achieve my summer goals? You bet!
This year, I set some personal goals to truly soak in the season. One was to conquer that declutter project. Another was to spend more quality time with family, and let me tell you, having my mother and brother was pure magic.
Now, let’s talk about YOUR goals. Have you been putting off that chat with your family about your wishes? Maybe your existing will needs a refresh? Here’s where a little estate planning focus can make a big difference, not just for your summer peace of mind, but for your loved ones’ future security.
Trusts: Your Summer Planning Powerhouse
Think of a trust as a clear, well-defined box for your assets. You decide who puts things in (you!), who gets to use them (your beneficiaries!), and when (now, or when you pass away). It’s a fantastic way to ensure your wishes are followed, and your loved ones are taken care of, exactly how you envision.
Updating Your Estate Planning Documents: A Summer Breeze Life changes, and your estate plan should too. Think of it like a summer wardrobe
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Message from Leadership
By Nancy Geenen, MA Ed., J.D.
Over the past 30 days, I have had the privilege of meeting, speaking, and connecting with the stakeholders of the GGBA: members, sponsors, advocates, and vendors who have stood together with this organization in support of the GGBA mission. At the National LGBT Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) Conference in Palm Springs, I met with leaders from affiliate chambers, from NGLCC, and from our dedicated sponsors. We have expertise at the ready for the asking.
Continuity and Consistency
Our current board has a steady hand. We met weekly to stay ahead of the needs of the organization. We prioritized the urgent “to-dos” and the communications with our stakeholders. We focused our attention on our membership, our sponsors, and our vendors. Without exception, our community has responded with positive energy. Our membership increased since July 1, 2024. Our programming continues without interruption. I want to give a special thank you to our current board: Olga Garcia, Imani Brown, Wajih Sobh, Josh Nair, Gina Grahame, and David Aguilar. Your love for this organization shines through!
GGBA Member Spotlight
Consult Our Source provides information security consulting services to some of the state’s largest and most impactful businesses, such as Blue Shield of California and Kaiser Permanente. David Wayne Aguilar, the CEO and Principal Consultant at Consult Our Source, has two decades of experience in leading complex IT and information security projects that shape the future of secure corporate environments. The work benefits all of us too, helping safeguard some of our most sensitive information, from healthcare records to financial data.
GGBA: When did you start Consult Our Source?
The Annual Meeting on September 10, 2024, is virtual so that attendance is available to all. (Yes, I know it’s the night of the debate.) After electing these nominees, we will work on building a strategy for the next three years. This slate of directors brings enthusiasm and skills focused on growing the LGBTQ+ business community in the Bay Area. It’s been a whirlwind.
We are rebuilding as a community. I am awed by this outpouring. Although we still face some challenges, the future looks bright.
David Wayne Aguilar of Consult Our Source
David Wayne Aguilar: Founded in 2015, Consult Our Source is a privately held, Certified Small Business, LGBTQIA+ and Hispanic Minority Owned, and headquartered in San Francisco. We specialize in program/project management in information technology & information security environments.
GGBA: Why did you decide to create your business?
David Wayne Aguilar: I decided to start my own business after I felt that I had enough experience to do so, including services to offer to my potential clients.
GGBA: Who are some of your role models, and especially those who helped to influence your business?
David Wayne Aguilar: CEOs that I have worked with in the past have definitely been an influence on my career over the years.
GGBA: Why did you decide to join the GGBA, and how long have you been a member?
David Wayne Aguilar: I’ve been a member of the GGBA since 2016, so 8 years. I decided to become
a member via the NGLCC (National Gay Lesbian Chamber of Commerce) certification process. When I was referred to the GGBA, I went through the process of certification and met the board and general members. The main reason was to meet and network with the GGBA corporate members and supplier diversity managers to potentially do business with them.
GGBA: How has being a member of GGBA helped your business so far?
David Wayne Aguilar: My NGLCC certification has enabled me to potentially do business with corporate partner members.
GGBA: Do you go to the GGBA monthly Make Contact networking events? Have they benefited you and your business, and would you recommend them to others?
David Wayne Aguilar: It is nice to be able to meet other members and corporate partners. For those who are interested in becoming a member, I would recommend coming to a Make Contact event.
GGBA: What other advice would you give to someone who is thinking of starting their own business?
David Wayne Aguilar: I would encourage anyone who is passionate about what they do and who offers services consumable by potential clients to start their own business, and if there is a need for what they offer. If their services are offered by other companies, I would suggest that they have a competitive edge to what they offer.
https://www.consultoursource.com/
Thank you to the San Francisco Bay Times, which never wavered in its support of the GGBA.
Icons never die; Icons reinvent.
For more information on the GGBA, please visit: https://linktr.ee/ggba
Nancy Geenen is the Acting President of the Golden Gate Business Association. She is also the Principal and Chief Executive Officer at Flexibility.
https://www.flexability.com/
Supporting Small Businesses in the Castro & Beyond
Kitty Chateau
With its nearly perfect five-star rating at Yelp, Kitty Chateau is a warm and welcoming destination for felines and their humans in San Francisco. This luxury bed and breakfast has been eyed by the San Francisco Bay Times cat, Detective Dickie Lou “Buddy” Bonks, and we could not resist featuring it, given JD Vance lamenting that the country is being run by “a bunch of childless cat ladies.” Our vote goes to the cat ladies and gents! Vice President Harris, for example, is a well-known animal rights champion, having cosponsored or supported legislation protecting both pets and wildlife.
VP Harris is also a champion for small businesses like the Kitty Chateau, which is small and family-owned by Chandra Maniedeo and her husband, Troy Woodcox (plus child Ashni). The Edwardian building where Kitty Chateau is located—4406 18th Street—was built in 1907, so just a year after the Great 1906 Earthquake. While often proverbially overshadowed by Victorian structures, Edwardian buildings are known for their light and airy interiors that are perfect for sun spot-loving cats.
According to the Kitty Chateau website, “Most kitties don’t enjoy change but sometimes being away from home means less stress during vacations, home remodels, and cleaning days. From details such as beadboard-like detail in all suites and faux distressed wood floors, our goal is to make the space feel as close to a home-like setting as possible while providing a safe, clean environment.”
“We would never consider putting a kitty in a cage and believe being treated as a family member and being pampered while away from home helps ease discomfort while you are away. As kitty’s health and safety are the highest priority, they only interact with cats in their own family.”
We appreciate that suites at the Kitty Chateau include a heated granite shelf for lounging and snoozing, a private television, cat cave, water fountain bowl, music, evening treats, a kitty cam for owners to check in, and much more. The à la carte menu features all sorts of goodies, and is a fun read. For example, check out this description for Seared Jumbo Scallops: “Two jumbo scallops, seared, minced, served with a drizzle of crème fraîche glaze, and garnished with fresh organic minced catnip or parsley. Serving size designed to complement kitty’s usual diet.”
While there is no place like home for most of us and especially cats, the Kitty Chateau comes very close and may be hard for cats to leave. That seems to be the case
for Jean-Claude, the on-site facility manager. This gorgeous black and white feline personally field tests all rooms, treats, and toys at the Chateau.
Kitty Chateau 4406 18th Street, San Francisco 415-529-1819
meow@kittychateau.com
https://www.kittychateau.com/
The Supporting Small Businesses in the Castro & Beyond page is sponsored by Anne Sterling Dorman
ABy Donna Sachet
s a singer, we are very aware of the dangers that hormones and other body-changing treatments can present to the singing voice. Nevertheless, many brave individuals face those dangers and the potential loss to their own vocal abilities when pursuing their true gender identity. And some emerge from the complicated and difficult process of claiming their true identity with a new and perhaps even more beautiful singing voice.
Never was that point made clearer than at Expansive, the recent showcase of transgender and nonbinary classical artists at A.C.T.’s stunningly refurbished Strand Theater, a collaboration between Opera Parallèle and the Transgender District. Reading their extensive cast bios from the printed program gave us only a glimpse of the journey they have each been on.
Lucas Bouk opened the program with serious and challenging selections from Ralph Vaughan Williams, demonstrating a masterful baritone voice. Queen Angelina followed with more whimsical selections, featuring her lyric voice and considerable talents on the violin, as well as reminding us of her pageant-winning beauty. The third performer was bass-baritone Wilford Kelly, who exuded warmth and emotion with songs by Johannes Brahms, Franz Schubert, and Vaughan Williams.
Each singer then offered a second set, leaning into more current popular music, ending with an Expansive commissioned piece with music by Jay Redmond and lyrics by Kimberly Reed, and a delightful popular finale with the entire cast. Pianist Taylor Chan accompanied each singer with incredible dexterity and musicality. But the icing on the cake was emcee Afrika America who provided humorous banter, pertinent observations, and audience encouragement, while dazzling us with multiple costume changes. We attended with Emperor Michael Chua and can’t say enough about this delightful evening of quality entertainment in a gorgeous setting. This was the third Expansive and we encourage you all to be there next year! Last Saturday was one of those days packed with events. We started at Hot Johnnie’s on 18th Street, where the hidden, but expansive, rear patio hosted a Garden Party fundraiser for AIDS Legal Referral Panel (ALRP). So many people over the years have benefited from this organization, providing personal assistance in confusing and often life-challenging legal situations. As most of us know, the legal profession has its own language, and having the assistance of a professional lawyer working pro bono can make all the difference in sorting out a complex challenge. Executive Director of ALRP Matt Foreman contacted us some time ago about reviving a fundraising event that had once provided lots of support while entertaining attendees in an outdoor relaxed summer setting. Perhaps you remember those happy afternoons in the courtyard of the Parker House? After some brainstorming, we settled on a small beginning in the Castro and the Garden Party was reborn.
Hot Johnnie’s provided delicious hot and cold brunch items, refreshing drinks, and a tented patio, which shielded us from an unexpected splatter of mid-day rain. ALRP Board members, staff, volunteers, and supporters gathered, most dressed with a nod to the theme. We shared some stories from our history with this organization and then led a quick auction of three items and awarded a cash prize for best Garden Party hat. From Saturday’s small beginning, we are confident that this event will grow into a delightful annual ALRP fundraiser.
After a quick costume change, we next headed to one of our favorite spots, The Academy SF, where a group of members and other supporters had gathered for a party supporting the Legends Archive. Each year since their founding, Paul Miller and Nate Bourg have selected an individual whom they designate a Legend, announced at a gala event later in the fall, including musical entertainment and additional awards in multiple categories. Previous Legend honorees have included Sister Roma, Juanita MORE!, Dr. Tim Seelig, Graylin Thornton, and Peter Berlin, all of whom have left to The Academy some item reflecting themselves that will forever enshrine them there. This fall’s event will be on Friday, November 15, where we will humbly receive this great acknowledgement at the Swedish American Hall next-door with a post-party back at The Academy SF. Mark your calendars now for this fun evening with a wide variety of San Francisco’s most active and engaged leaders. Thank you to The Academy.
“Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.”
—Will Rogers
Sunday, August 25
Gina La Divina Memorial Community Tribute to a Legendary Performer Oasis, 298 11th Street 2 pm Free! www.sfoasis.com
Friday, August 30
Divas & Drinks Bay Times event at The Academy SF Sainting of Leslie Sbrocco by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Music from Renée Lubin, Dee Spencer & DJ Rockaway Hosted by Donna Sachet The Academy SF, 2166 Market Street
6–10 pm $15 https://bit.ly/4fwZHI0
As Vice President and now Democratic Presidential nominee Kamala Harris continues to capture the public’s attention and as our friendship with her has been documented here in the Bay Times and elsewhere, we have received a number of questions. Have we heard that boisterous laugh in person? Yes. Had we heard the coconut story before? No. Were we ever in a helicopter with her, Willie Brown, or Donald Trump? Certainly not! While we don’t pretend to be her best friend or even in her close circle, we are confident that Kamala Harris will make an incredible President of the United States and we wish her all the best throughout the campaign and into The White House. Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist, and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@gmail.com
It is not surprising that the average cost of college has more than doubled since 2000. That may be one reason why college enrollment peaked at 21 million in 2010 and gradually declined to 18.9 million in 2023, according to Statista.
So, first up: it’s time to review your savings accounts and funds set aside for this very purpose. Do your kids have any 529 accounts? Money earmarked from Grandma and Grandpa, savings from their part-time gig?
The next step is to consider federal aid or FAFSA. FAFSA, or Free Application for Federal Student Aid, is a free form you can submit online or by mail to apply for financial aid. The 2025–26 FAFSA is expected to be available on October 1, 2024.
Why FAFSA? Every year, the Department of Education awards billions of dollars in financial aid to college and graduate students via grants, loans, work-study programs, and scholarships. If financial assistance is required, this form must be submitted. In order to continue receiving aid, it must be resubmitted every year.
The early bird gets the funds, as financial aid is distributed on a first-come basis, first-served basis. When the money runs out, well, it runs out. In addition, aid from schools may have earlier deadlines than federal financial aid, so don’t delay.
Look into scholarships. There are athletic, academic, extracurricular, and student-specific scholarships. Some of these include identity-based scholarships, legacy scholarships, religious scholarships, and first-generation scholarships. Other scholarships include needbased scholarships, employer scholarships, STEM scholarships, and military scholarships.
Are you a member of a national club or a church? Are you members of a union or civic organization? Many of these groups offer scholarships to members and their children. The Rotary Club, Kiwanis Club, Chamber of Commerce, local churches, and foundations may offer scholarships based on a variety of factors and needs.
Local scholarships are usually funded by community organizations and businesses that want to see their local students thrive. Besides, there’s often less competition for these scholarships.
Not sure they are ready for full time school? Is there some sort of growth-focused experience that would be just as, if not more, beneficial for them? The Peace Corps may sound retro, but it’s still a thing, and more and more high school grads are taking a Gap Year to figure out what’s next.
It’s an exciting and a stressful time. Keep the lines of communication open as you look ahead. Just remember, you were once on this precipice of adulthood, so go easy on them. But guide them, just like you have these last 18 years.
The opinions expressed in this article are for general informational purposes only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual or on any specific security. It is only intended to provide education about the financial industry. To determine which investments may be appropriate for you, consult your financial advisor prior to investing. Any past performance discussed during this program is no guarantee of future results. Any indices referenced for comparison are unmanaged and cannot be invested into directly. As always, please remember investing involves risk and possible loss of principal capital; please seek advice from a licensed professional.
Brio Financial Group is a registered investment adviser. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where Brio Financial Group and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advice may be rendered by Brio Financial Group unless a client service agreement is in place.
Brandon Miller, CFP®, is a financial consultant at Brio Financial Group in San Francisco, specializing in helping LGBT individuals and families plan and achieve their financial goals. For more information: https://www.briofg.com/
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20 minutes to answer the straightforward questions and make your wishes known. Give it a try: putting your wishes in writing is a kindness for those you love.
https://www.freewill.com/ Transgender History Month
August is also Transgender History Month in San Francisco, which kicked off a month of events and celebrations with the raising of the transgender flag in Mayor Breed’s office on August 1. Legally recognized by Mayoral Proclamation in San Francisco since 2021, Transgender History Month honors the contributions of transgender pioneers, and the history and ongoing presence of transgender people, both here and around the world.
The month of events and celebrations will culminate on August 24 with the annual Riot Party. And while you’re booking your tickets on their website, check out the very cool Transgender History Timeline, where you can learn about transgender people and events through history.
https://bit.ly/3WNNjuF
Until next time, friends—and in the meantime, get busy and help get out the vote!
Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.
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refresh—ditch the outdated and embrace what works for you now. Whether it’s a new grandchild, a recent move, or simply wanting to clarify your wishes, a quick review of your existing documents can be incredibly empowering.
Remember, legal stuff doesn’t have to be scary!
Here at Greene Estate, Probate, and Elder Law Firm, we speak plain language and focus on creating a plan that’s as unique as you are.
So, this summer, while you’re checking off those personal goals, consider taking a small step towards a brighter future for yourself and your family. Schedule a free consultation; we’ll chat about your situation and see if an updated estate plan can bring you that extra summer peace of mind.
Here’s to a fantastic summer, Bay Area! Let’s finish with a season of sunshine, relaxation, and feeling confident about the future.
Choose to secure your legacy, protect your loved ones, and gain peace of mind. Contact us at obed@ greenelawfirm.com or call us at 415-905-0215 to schedule your consultation. Your future deserves the attention to detail and care that you have established for your life.
Statements In Compliance with California Rules of Professional Conduct: The materials in this article have been prepared by Attorney Jay Greene for educational purposes only and are not legal advice. This information does not create an attorney-client relationship. Individuals should consult with an estate planning and elder law attorney for up-to-date information for their individual plans.
Jay Greene, Attorney, CPA, is the founder of Greene Estate, Probate, & Elder Law Firm based in San Francisco, and is focused on helping LGBT individuals, couples, and families plan for their future, protect their assets, and preserve their wealth. For more information and to schedule an assessment, visit: https://assetprotectionbayarea.com/
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firefighters, and straight members of the Black Firefighters Association, included Demmons, participated. No one else from the department was there. She was overwhelmed with the response from the huge crowd who greeted them: “I felt such a sense of pride in my job,” she said afterward, but not everyone she worked with was pleased.
The next year, Young became the first openly lesbian—and the first woman—firefighter in San Francisco history to be promoted to lieutenant. Although “her promotion has nothing to do with her sexual preference or gender,” Commissioner Bretz told reporters, “this will be a symbol for other women to look to and realize this is no longer a dream, but a reality ... . I think every time you see a gay person promoted, it helps to remove stigma.”
Young was more than aware of the significance and the burden of her new responsibility. “It’s a lot to take on, and it’s a very important job,” she admitted, “but I feel really good about it.” She clearly understood the challenges she faced. “I’m not going to say I didn’t encounter hostility and apprehension from some of the men, but I realized that was a cultural hang-up, and for the most part they acted professionally with me.” Many, however, did not.
The enmity she experienced as a firefighter became much worse after her promotion.
“When I was a firefighter, I got to do things all the time that were fabulous. Once I [was] promoted to lieutenant, there was very little that made me happy. My quality of life and my sense of purpose dropped way off. I couldn’t bond with anybody, because I was sent to a different firehouse every shift that I worked ... . I knew the ones that were most hostile to me.”
Eventually, Young decided to do something about the ongoing animosity toward her. Claiming that she was “forced to endure constant harassment, including lack of support on firelines, obscene phone calls, slashed tires, and threats of physical violence,” she sued the department for discrimination and retaliation. So important was her case that even longtime San Francisco Chronicle columnist Herb Caen, who later received a special Pulitzer Prize for “his extraordinary and continuing contribution as a voice and conscience of his city,” took notice in his July 7, 1994 musings.
“Fire Dept. Lt. Anne Young,” he wrote in his usual gossipy style, “has filed a 10-count suit against the city, claiming she has been harassed in almost every firehouse in the city. This goes on trial July 18 and many a hook’n’laddie is looking nervous ... . On the other hand, Lt. Young is a vegetarian and some of the guys complain that when it was her turn to cook in the firehouse, all she’d serve was veggies, no matter how they howled for red meat.”
Bill Lipsky, Ph.D., author of “LGBTQ+ Trailblazers of San Francisco” (2023) and “Gay and Lesbian San Francisco” (2006), is a member of the Rainbow Honor Walk board of directors.
From Paris to the Castro
Beth and Lexi’s Epic Olympic Experience of a Lifetime
By Beth Schnitzer and Alexa “Lexi” Westley
(Editor’s Note: Beth Schnitzer of SpritzSF and her niece Alexa “Lexi” Westley recently traveled to Paris for the 2024 Summer Olympic Games. Both brought thoughts of the San Francisco Bay Times with them, even packing Bay Times t-shirts and flags in their luggage and displaying them at sports venues throughout the City of Lights.
Westley is a talented athlete in her own right, having just graduated from the University of Wisconsin where she was a star member of the track & field team. She runs the 5k and 10k, and could be a contender at the LA28 Olympic Games!
Even attending the Games can require athletic skill, running from event to event, not to mention all of the tempting social offerings that a city like Paris has on offer. As you can see here, both amazing women did their best to cram as much activity as possible into their Paris 2024 adventure.)
Highlights
Watching Simone Biles win individual gymnastics all around.
Watching Noah Lyles win in a photo finish during the 100m track and field.
Watching Sydney McLaughlin win the 400m hurdles and 4x400 relay, given she went to Union Catholic High School where Bette Schnitzer (1929–2022, aka “S,” Schnitzer’s mother) started the girls’ track and field program in the 1960s!
Watching the first openly trans or nonbinary person Nikki Hiltz compete in the women’s 1,500m final.
Seeing the badminton women’s finals between South Korea and China—a sport we never witnessed in a competitive setting.
Equestrian individual jumping at Versailles—truly stunning setting.
6 Team USA events—all wins:
Men’s basketball vs Puerto Rico;
Women’s basketball vs Nigeria;
Women’s Volleyball vs Brazil;
Men’s 4x400 relay track and field gold medal;
Women’s 4x100 relay track and field;
Women’s 4x400 relay track and field.
25 Olympic pins traded
34 metros taken to and from venues
90 miles walked to & from metros to venues
# of croissants we tried: 3
# of patisseries and bakeries we checked out: 8
and the # of miles Lexi ran in the early morning hours before heading out to events? 30!
Au revoir, Paris. Bay Times readers, we hope to see you at LA28! https://la28.org/en.html
Beth Schnitzer is the Co-Founder and President of SpritzSF ( https://spritzsf.com/ ). Alexa “Lexi” Westley is a recent graduate of the University of Wisconsin. Check out Lexi’s Instagram page at https://bit.ly/3YQr61K
Linda Tillery to Celebrate 76th Birthday
Linda Tillery, a trailblazer in the Northern California music scene, will celebrate her 76th birthday on September 1 at the Freight & Salvage in Berkeley. Her illustrious career spans over five decades, during which she has captivated audiences with her soulful voice, masterful percussion, and profound contributions to vocal styling, arranging, music production, and ethnomusicology.
Tillery first made her mark as the lead singer of the psychedelic soul group The Loading Zone in the late 1960s. Throughout the 1970s, she worked as a session musician and vocalist for icons like Santana, Boz Scaggs, Huey Lewis and the News, and the Turtle Island String Quartet. Her pioneering work as an artist and
producer at Olivia Records significantly contributed to the women’s music genre, leading to collaborations with renowned artists such as June Millington, Deirdre McCalla, Barbara Higbie, Holly Near, Margie Adam, Kenny Loggins, and Bobby McFerrin.
In addition to her performance and production work, Tillery founded the Grammy-nominated Cultural Heritage Choir, a group dedicated to preserving African-American roots music. Her journey has also seen her produce music for documentary films and dance performances, challenge societal norms through powerful songs, and build bridges between diverse cultures.
The special concert on September 1 at 7 pm will feature the East Bay Allstars, a talented ensemble that will accompany Linda in delivering an unforgettable performance. Expect a vibrant blend of jazz, blues, soul, and roots music that promises to be as inspiring and dynamic as Tillery herself!
The special guests will include: Ray Obiedo - guitar; Tammy Hall - piano; Jeff Goldberg - bass guitar; Kofy Brown - bass guitar; Leon Joyce - drums; John Santos - percussion; Jackie Rago - percussion; Vicki Randle - vocals + percussion; Zoe Ellis - vocals; Tammi Brown - vocals; George Brooks - saxophone; Kristin Strom - saxophone; Marina Garza - trumpet; Jeff Cressman - trombone.
For tickets: https://bit.ly/4cvJwYF
Blink Twice Features Trouble in Paradise
It is an irresistible opportunity, and once on the island, life consists of little more than amusing food, a “tsunami of champagne,” and 1000-thread count sheets to luxuriate in. “Chez King” is sooo much better than Frida and Jess’ crappy apartment with the black mold. There are flowers that grow only on the island, dazzling perfume, and drugs for whenever the mood strikes, which, apparently, is often for some of the guests.
Would it be hell to indulge in nothing but pleasure for days on end? That is the conceit of the ambitious new thriller, Blink Twice, opening August 23, 2024, in theaters. But think twice; this stylish directorial debut by Zoë Kravitz—who cowrote the screenplay with E.T. Feigenbaum (out gay Bruce Cohen produced)—blurs the line between seductive and sinister with mixed results.
Best friends and roommates Frida (Naomi Ackie) and Jess (bisexual Alia Shawkat) hope to meet billionaire Slater King (Channing Tatum) while working a big event for his company, Kingtech. When Frida catches Slater’s eye, he invites her and Jess to his private island, where there are no phones, no work, and no hospitals—just good vibes.
But there are also snakes, which one island employee (María Elana Olivares)—identified as “Badass Maid” in the credits— wrangles. The maid also has some ominous encounters with Frida where she is either providing a warning or a threat.
Kravitz keeps shifting the tone of Blink Twice, making it hard to tell. The film starts out in hangout mode in an idyllic island setting. Slater has a coterie of friends with him, including Cody (Simon Rex), who prepares dishes such as “pop rocks in a tangerine mojito sorbet,” and his girlfriend, Sarah (Adria Arjona), a former reality TV star from the show Survivor Babes. Also attending are Vic (Christian Slater), Tom (Haley Joel Osment), Camilla (Liz Caribel), Lucas (Levon Hawke), and Heather (Trew Mullen). The group laze around in or by the pool, eat and drink, smoke and vape, or schvitz in the sauna. One could get used
to this life of leisure, or become bored by it.
Blink Twice lulls viewers into tedium as this slow burn thriller takes too long to unfold. There is no surprise that something is “off,” and not just when Frida wonders how the stains on her dress from dinner are gone later that night, or why she has dirt under her fingernails. (These little puzzles may also be clues.) Jess, too, expresses concern that “there is something very wrong with this place,” especially after she is bitten by a snake. What transpires is best left to be revealed, and while it is not unsatisfying, the film does feel a little off.
For starters, it should be darkly amusing. But when Frida asks Slater’s therapist Rich (Kyle MacLachlan) to “blink twice if I’m in danger,” it comes off as forced not funny. Likewise, a running gag about Slater fussing over a chair is lame as is various characters making a punchline out of the island’s chickens. (Even when the animals are shown to inject a little absurdist humor, it disappoints.) The best comic moments are the deadpan remarks by Stacy (Geena Davis), Slater’s upbeat assistant.
the characters being victimized. Again, it just feels off.
The suspense element of the story also feels underwhelming. A sequence involving Frida sneaking into Slater’s office to see if she can figure out what is troubling about paradise lacks tension. But it does help move the plot forward. Once Frida figures out what is going on, she enlists the help of Sarah (because she has survival skills) to mete out some justice.
The last act of Blink Twice compensates for the awkward tonal shifts and paper-thin characters. The film critiques our current “apology culture” where folks—specifically rich white men—can do or say things to excuse their behavior without consequence. Meanwhile, women are questioned when they speak truth to power.
There are some salient points about how our culture prefers to be distracted from reality (or avoid it altogether), and the themes of sisterhood, and how women should behave and be treated in society are appreciated. But overall, Blink Twice feels soft when it should be sharper. The bad behavior that takes place on the island is seen mostly in snippets, which lessens their impact. Instead, the emphasis is placed on the nasty violence that occurs. The film would be stronger if viewers were as mad as
The central performances keep the film engaging. Naomi Ackie is wonderfully expressive conveying Frida’s emotions as she must smile through fear and pain. She also has a terrific sequence dancing to Chaka Khan’s “Ain’t Nobody.” Both Alia Shawkat and Adria Arjona lend fine support as Jess and Sarah, respectively, and the friendship between these women is more appealing than Frida’s romance with Slater. As the tech billionaire, Channing Tatum is awkwardly charming but also creepy in one potent scene.
But the rest of the supporting cast, specifically, Simon Rex, Christian Slater, and Haley Joel Osment, feel underused. Rex gets a decent sight gag, Slater does little more than snap polaroids, and Osment is mostly seen eating eggs. The film wastes these actors’ comic potential.
The debauchery in Blink Twice is meant to be fun then disturbing, but it ends up being neither as Kravitz’s film tries too hard.
© 2024 Gary M. Kramer
Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” He teaches Short Attention Span Cinema at the Bryn Mawr Film Institute and is the moderator for Cinema Salon, a weekly film discussion group. Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer
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Catalina: A Novel (fiction - hardcover) by Karla Cornejo Villavicencio
Catalina is a fierce and thought-provoking campus novel that follows an undocumented Latin American student at Harvard as she navigates the complexities of identity, belonging, and the looming uncertainty of life after graduation.
Memory Piece:
A Novel (fictionhardcover) by Lisa Ko
Memory Piece is a visionary novel by the award-winning author of The Leavers that explores the evolving lives of three friends bonded by art, ambition, and a desire for freedom. Spanning decades from the 1980s to the 2040s, the story examines how their dreams, friendships, and definitions of success shift in a world far different from the one they imagined.
And So I Roar (fictionhardcover) by Abi Daré
And So I Roar is a powerful novel that follows Tia as she uncovers a life-altering family secret and must decide between protecting Adunni, a brave fourteenyear-old runaway, or confronting the truth. Set in Nigeria, the story explores the courage it takes to fight for a better future, as Adunni finds her voice to save herself and the girls of her village.
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Tuesday, August 27 @ 6 pm (ticketed - Corte Madera store & live online) Calahan Skogman, author of Blue Graffiti
In Blue Graffiti, Calahan Skogman, known from
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Notes of A Crocodile by Bonnie Huie
This lyrical, witty, and intimate novel from Taiwan follows a set of young, queer misfits grappling with comingof-age drama, romantic difficulties, gender issues, and self-investigation.
The Queen’s English: A Young Readers’ LGBTQIA+ Dictionary of Lingo and Colloquial Phrases by Chloe O. Davis
Lavishly illustrated and wildly colorful, this dictionary gives readers entrée not only into the fascinating world of queer slang, but also the lively subculture that produces it.
My Tender Matador by Pedro Lembel
Set in Chile under the fascist dictatorship of Augusto Pinochet, this novel details the complex relationship between a handsome revolutionary and a down-at-the-heels drag queen. https://www.fabulosabooks.com/
Sister Dana Sez: Words of Wisdumb from a Fun Nun
By Sister Dana Van Iquity
Sister Dana sez, “The difference between Harris and Trump campaigns is the politics of joy versus the politics of retribution! It is between choosing the future or going back to the past!”
Vice President Harris has been criticized for laughing, but it seems she is actually having the last laugh. Her rallies with Governor Walz are full of joy and laughter by the two candidates and coming from their extremely joyful attendees in response. We are all becoming joyful warriors for Harris/Walz! Joy will win!
Sister Dana sez, “Congratulations to TEAM USA for winning the most
OLYMPICS medals (an astonishing 126) and for tying with China at 40 gold medals each!”
The many, huge accomplishments of newly minted Democratic Vice President Candidate Tim Walz as six-year Governor in Minnesota really must be noted: he enshrined abortion rights into state law; signed an executive order for gender-affirming care; legalized recreational marijuana; required paid medical and family leave; stood up for and passed bills for veterans; expanded background checks for gun purchases; and provided free lunch for school children as well as free college for students with a family income under $80,000. In Congress, he tried to pass bipartisan immigration legislation. Harris’ choice elevates a former football coach and social studies teacher whose rural roots, liberal policies, and snappy takedowns of Trump/Vance campaigns have recently put him on the map!
Sister Dana sez, “Vice President Harris’ pick for Veep is totally ‘off the Walz,’ and I LOVE it!”
Meanwhile MADAM VICE PRESIDENT Kamala Harris and Tim Walz capped off their first week together on a campaign trail with a packed rally in Las Vegas that drew a reported 15,000 supporters. And
seen at more and more rallies, the adoring crowds keep growing stronger for freedom and democracy!
Whereas at his incoherent, raging, dishonest (NPR found 162 lies and distortions), hour-long press conference at Mar-ALago on August 8, clueless Trump falsely claimed, “I think that abortion has become much less of an issue. It’s actually going to be a very small issue.” In immediate response, the Harris Campaign factchecked by stating, “Abortion is not ‘less of an issue’ for voters. It is not ‘subdued.’ It is not a ‘small issue’ for voters, despite how much Donald wants it to be.”
Sister Dana sez, “For Trump—trying to avoid jail while offering little more than negativity in his campaign— it’s either the White House or the BIG House for him!”
While Trump and Vance falsely accuse VP Harris of failing as “immigration czar,” Harris has elaborated, “We know our immigration system is broken, and we know what it takes to fix it: comprehensive reform that includes strong border security and an earned pathway to citizenship.” On the campaign trail, she has reminded Arizona and Nevada audiences, “Earlier this year, we had a chance to pass the toughest bipartisan border security bill in decades; but Donald Trump tanked the deal— because he thought by doing that, it would help him win an election. But when I am President, I will sign the bill!” Sister Dana sez, “What you will NOT see at Harris/Walz rallies are those nasty, fear-mongering ‘MASS DEPORTATION!’ placards!”
Mesa, Arizona, Republican Mayor John Giles really said it like it is at the August 9 Glendale, Arizona, rally, “The Republican Party has been taken over by extremists that are committed to forcing people in the center of the political spectrum out of the
Party.” He exhorted, “So I have something to say to those of us who are in the political middle: You don’t owe a damn thing to that political party!”
Out and proud actor BD Wong has slipped into character for an Instagram social media video in support of Kamala Harris. Wong, 63, is known to millions for his recurring role in TV’s hit, Law & Order: SVU. “In the American political system, a presidential candidate who has been convicted of 34 felonies is considered especially heinous,” says Wong directly to the camera as if narrating a TV trailer. “In Washington, D.C., a dedicated former prosecutor is challenging this convicted felon as part of an elite squad known as Kamala Harris for President. This is her moment, and I am on her team,” he continues. Then Harris’ hubby Doug Emhoff appears. This vital ad will run in November on most networks.
Mayor London Breed announced the recipients of the city’s new Entertainment & Nightlife Revitalization Grant (ENRG ) program on August 13. Fourteen local entertainment and nightlife businesses and neighborhood organizations will receive grants of up to $50,000 to produce a diverse array of weekend and evening programming Downtown. Programming will launch later this month with an exciting range of activities—from concert pop-ups and theater performances, to drag showcases and street parties in newly created Entertainment Zones, to designated areas where restaurants and bars are permitted to sell to-go alcoholic beverages during outdoor events. Events will take place across Downtown neighborhoods, including Mid-Market/Civic Center, Tenderloin, SoMa, Financial District, Union Square, Yerba Buena, and The East Cut. “In San Francisco, we are innovating and exploring every possible avenue to make Downtown
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SFPD Mission Station Night Out
Photos courtesy of Lt. Christina Serrano
As part of the National Night Out, each year on the first Tuesday night in August, local police stations host block parties that feature music, cookouts, contests, youth events, and visits with emergency personnel. San Francisco Bay Times team members have enjoyed attending the Night Out activities hosted by the San Francisco Police Department (SFPD) Mission Station. The station’s district includes the Castro and adjacent neighborhoods.
We caught up with Mission Station’s Lt. Christina Serrano of Mission Station: “National Night Out is a yearly event which provides an opportunity for police officers to build and strengthen positive relationships with the community. Mission Police Station held our event at Mission Playground this year. It was an honor to have Mayor London Breed with us. There was a great turnout from both the Police Department and the local community.”
“We had various police vehicles for the kids to climb into and check out,” she added. “We had a DJ, a face painter, sports, games, raffle giveaways, food, and more. Mission Station Officers got a chance to play games with the kids and engage in conversations with the adults. I really look forward to this event each year. It’s a lot of fun.”
Our thanks to Lt. Serrano and her colleagues for providing photos, keeping us informed, and for their attention to our community and services as first responders.
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Bay Times Dines
San Francisco’s Best Bloody Mary
The Gay Gourmet
David Landis
I’ve often thought that brunch is synonymous with the archetypal gay Sunday. After a weekend of carousing, dancing, and gathering with our LBGTQ+ friends on Friday and Saturday evenings, Sunday is the day of rest. That might mean attending your favorite religious outpost. For many of us, however, it means reconstituting while eating. And that means gathering Sunday morning over the proverbial, convivial, and boozy brunch.
In the olden days of the 1980s, that could have been sitting on the terrace at
Fanny’s in the Castro, a glass of wine in hand, while devouring their luscious biscuits; or perhaps having a Ramos Fizz at the P.S. on Polk Street. But nothing quite defines brunch as sipping a potent Bloody Mary. After all, it’s got juice, right? So, it must be healthy!
Today, the search for the best Bloody Mary in San Francisco is a challenging one. There are many in this town that are deserving of praise, including the ones at: Balboa Café in the Marina, Starbelly in the Castro, Scoma’s at the Wharf, Original Joe’s in North Beach, and Tadich Grill in the Financial District.
But there’s one that stands head and shoulders above the rest. It’s the version at Che Fico, the popular Italian eatery on Divisadero Street that just recently opened for brunch. The Gay Gourmet set out to try the new brunch offerings, and I was blown away with Bar Director Keenan Davis’ innovative take on this brunch classic. He calls it a “Bomba Mary,” since a key ingredient is chili bomba (a hot pepper paste made from Calabrian chiles). It’s got just the right amount of heat, tang, punch—and booze!
Lucky for you, The Gay Gourmet was able to convince him to share the recipe with my loyal readers. It’s a doozy of a concoction, but well worth the effort. In short, it’s the best Bloody Mary in San Francisco.
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‘Bomba Mary’ Recipe from Che Fico
(Created by Bar Director Keenan Davis)
This is Che Fico’s signature Bloody Mary with its own chili bomba sauce. From Keenan Davis, the Bar Director: “It’s a little spicy, tangy, and umami. A classic Bloody Mary with an Italian spin.”
Glassware: Collins glass
Single batch:
5 ounces Bloody Mary mix (see recipe)
2 ounces Mulholland vodka
Single cocktail execution:
Pour 5 ounces Bloody Mary mix and 2 ounces Mulholland vodka directly into a Collins glass. Add ice and top with giardiniera and other pickled garnishes.
Bloody Mary Mix (Makes 10 servings)
Add into a blender:
1 1/4 cups canned tomatoes in their juices (San Marzano preferred)
2/3 cups tomato juice
1/8 tsp Chili Bomba
1/2 cup lime juice
1/4 cup preserved lemon pulp (or 3 2/3 tbsp lemon juice)
2 1/3 tbsp garlic cloves
1 3/4 tsp onion powder
2/3 tsp salt
1/2 tsp pepper
3 1/4 tbsp balsamic vinegar
2 1/2 tsp Worcestershire sauce
2 1/2 tsp pickling liquid (du jour)
2 1/2 tsp horseradish
1 1/4 tbsp tomato paste
Start to blend on low and ramp up to high. Blend until no tomato chunks are visible.
Bay Times Dines
Bits and Bites
We were lamenting the closure of the groundbreaking transgender cabaret and dinner club AsiaSF earlier this year. But all is not lost! Several of the expat Ladies of AsiaSF have started a new enterprise in the Marina called The Dolls SF. It’s in an unlikely location at the straight, Westwood country music bar on Lombard in the Marina. You enter upstairs through the country bar, and descend into a sophisticated, chic nightclub reminiscent of the old AsiaSF. Mood lighting and the words “Let’s Play” in neon set the stage for what’s to come, with tables positioned on two levels. The transgender artists perform up and down the bar, as well as throughout the club. It’s a dinner and show combination for a reasonable $79 (general admission tickets are $25 without food).
There’s also a full bar, with fun cocktails like the “Panty Dropper.” The expected bar-type food (burgers, fried pickles, a
decent salad, tacos) is tasty nonetheless. Quick-witted Karmina Kisses is your affable hostess. But Jasmine, in a full length indigo blue gown, steals the show with her rendition of “This Is Me,” after which there’s not a dry eye in the house. Especially now, let’s all support our local transgender folks. The Dolls SF appear sporadically on Fridays and Saturdays, and will be taking the month of September off, so check with Westwood or follow @thedolls.sf on Instagram to find out their next gig.
Che Fico: https://www.chefico.com/
The Dolls SF: https://bit.ly/4dKeflR
David Landis, aka “The Gay Gourmet,” is a foodie, a freelance writer, and a retired PR maven. Follow him on Instagram @GayGourmetSF or email him at: davidlandissf@gmail.com Or visit him online at: www.gaygourmetsf.com
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an exciting and welcoming 24/7 destination that attracts more people and new business opportunities,” said Mayor Breed. “Entertainment Zones will bring a new energy to our city.”
Trans state employees have won a court victory against a Ron DeSantis law banning their care. A Federal Judge, Robert Hinkle, has overturned a state law that Duh Santis signed just last year: Florida’s restrictions on gender-affirming care for state employees, referring to the insurance program in the state as “facially discriminatory.” Samantha Past , a staff attorney with the ACLU of Florida, stated, “Our clients dedicated their careers to bettering Florida, and in return they were denied coverage of essential medical care needed to better their own lives.” She continued, “Discrimination has no place here, and we are hopeful that this decision will encourage a commitment from the state to treating members of our transgender community with the respect they deserve and reciprocating their care and devotion to the state of Florida.”
Rest in peace and power, Jerry The Faerie, known by friends and family by that name, but born as Jerry Berbiar. He was a fierce member and warrior with the RADICAL FAERIES, HARVEY MILK LGBTQ DEMOCRATIC CLUB, and BOUND TOGETHER BOOKSTORE . But more than that, he was a dear friend. He died at 69 years old.
I miss Jerry horribly. I had fully intended to attend his Celebration of Life memorial, but unfortunately had experienced a nasty fall in my hallway on August 12 leaving me with a badly mangled ankle and in need of a pacemaker—keeping me stuck in two different hospitals for four days. I am trapped home now—painfully struggling to use crutches, so just call me “Sister Dana The Lame Nun”!
Aileen Cannon has DISMISSED Jack Smith’s investigation into Trump’s classified documents case. So then Jack Smith immediately filed an appeal. And now Attorney General Merrick Garland SLAMMED Cannon for her absurd argument. “For more than 20 years I was a Federal Judge. Do I look like someone who would make that basic mistake about the law?” he argued. “Our position is that it’s Constitutional and valid. That’s why we appealed.”
Sister Dana sez, “Trump has been indicted on 91 felony charges so far, and he was found guilty on all 34 counts in his FIRST criminal trial. We absolutely CANNOT have a fascist felon for president!”
The Fourth Version of the SF QUEER FILM FESTIVAL comes to the Bay Area August 23–25, Opera Plaza, 601 Van Ness Avenue—bringing along with it 64 movies, shorts, and webisodes that are as diverse as its targeted audience. The festival has been building steam over the past few years even
though it still promotes itself as a more intimate film festival. “Obviously, FRAMELINE is the queen mother of all LGBTQ film festivals, and we can never match its prestige and popularity,” said Amir Jaffer, Executive Director of SFQFF. “But there is so much more content than ever before that even Frameline can’t screen every wonderful option they are provided.”
While SFQFF started at the Delancey Street Screening Room, it moved last year and found a home at Landmark’s Opera Plaza Cinema—the last Landmark Theatre in San Francisco. “We like the Opera Plaza as the staff is great to work with, and we don’t feel overpowered by a giant theatre,” added Jaffer. “It makes the intermingling of filmmakers and filmgoers easier.” Jaffer continued, “One of the reasons we added our festival is to give more opportunities to screen movies—some that may have been denied a Frameline submission. But the quality is so great this year that SFQFF has also had to say no to quality content due to time limitations.
Opening night August 23, 6–8:30 pm, will be the world premiere of A Moment For Love, a movie starring clothing designer Bobby Love and popular gay movie actor Adam Huss in an over the top, cult classic in-the-making vehicle that is claimed to be magical. Short film (Un) Free Will, about angels with unfinished business, will also screen. Creators and actors for both films will be on hand, and Love promises to wear something outrageous!
Other highlights of the SFQFF festival include these: Mother Father Sister Brother Frank features TV’s Mindy Cohn from The Facts of Life whose family is already dysfunctional, but it turns into a bloody mess (literally) when hated Uncle Frank shows up. Aligned whisks us away to Greece, where a New York male dancer travels for work and is partnered with another man—perhaps triggering some feelings he may need to explore. Under the Influencer has a talented digital lesbian artist who realizes her mentor is taking credit for some of her best work.
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A Wonderful Life is a sweet story of a bear-ish man who welcomes a friend from the past— as the two realize they have unresolved feelings. Surviving Voices: The Latinx Community has come back to the festival each year. F.L.Y. is a period piece of sorts, but from very recent times as a pair of exes are forced to stay together due to the COVID-19 shelter-inplace directive.
https://www.sfqueerfilmfest.com/
THE ACADEMY SF, THE SISTERS OF PERPETUAL INDULGENCE , and the SAN FRANCISCO BAY TIMES invite you to the SAINTING of multiple Emmy and James Beard award-winning television host Leslie Sbrocco, whose unwavering support of the LGBTQ community has helped countless individuals and local businesses! She is receiving a well-deserved sainting by honoring not only her LGBTQ advocacy but also her efforts in the fight against cancer. As a stage-4 colorectal cancer thriver, Sbrocco dedicates significant time to charitable work to help others impacted by cancer. The event will additionally include a performance by former Beach Blanket Babylon star Renée Lubin , accompanied by renowned musician Dr. Dee Spencer, emcee iconic Donna Sachet , DJ Rockaway, and much more! August 30, 6–10 pm, The Academy SF, 2166 Market Street.
Since both George Bush AND Donald Trump became President after losing the popular vote, Democrats have been discussing serious changes to the way votes are tallied. Because Hillary Clinton WON the 2016 Election popular vote by 2.9 million votes ... and Trump STILL became President! Elizabeth Warren, Pete Buttigieg, Hillary, and so many other powerful politicos are calling on Congress (after overwhelmingly taking the Presidency, House, and Senate in 2025) to abolish the Electoral College. Sister Dana sez, “One person, one vote! States are NOT battlegrounds! Stop wasting billions of bucks on kowtowing to ‘special voters’ special advantages! Power to the People!”
Netflix’s Shadow and Bone, makes his poetic debut with a bluesy ode to the Beat generation. Set in Johnston, WI, the novel follows Cash, a painter and construction worker whose life changes when he meets the emerald-eyed Rose, leading to an intimate exploration of love, faith, and community in a modern take on a bygone era.
Wednesday, August 28 @ 5:30 pm (non- ticketed - SF Ferry Building store) Diane Ehrensaft, PhD, and Michelle Jurkiewicz, author of Gender Explained: A New Understanding of Identity in a Gender Creative World
Gender Explained is a concise and compassionate guide that demystifies gender identity, offering clear answers to pressing questions and challenges. Authored by leading experts, it’s an essential resource for navigating today’s evolving gender landscape with understanding and respect.
Thursday, August 29 @ 5:30 pm (non-ticketed - SF Ferry Building store) Paula Lehman-Ewing, author of Reimagining the Revolution: Four Stories of Abolition, Autonomy, and Forging New Paths in the Modern Civil Rights Movement
Reimagining the Revolution profiles four revolutionary groups leading the modern civil rights movement with bold strategies for abolition and liberation. Through powerful narratives, journalist Paula Lehman-Ewing highlights activists reimagining justice, dismantling oppressive systems, and paving the way for transformative change beyond traditional protest.
https://www.bookpassage.com/
Take Me Home with You!
Meet Gunther: Your New Best Friend Awaits
Meet Gunther, the charming “extroverted introvert.” Gunther navigates being in the shelter with curiosity and grace, but he’s really the kind of dog who prefers a quiet stroll for coffee over a loud party— he’s all about those cozy, low-key vibes. If that sounds like your kind of companion, then Gunther might just be your perfect match.
Our staff can’t get enough of this sweet boy. Gunther adores butt scratches, gives the best kisses, and is picking up commands like a pro. He’s ready to share his love with someone who can offer a comfy spot on the cozy couch.
Not sure if Gunther is “the one”? Consider our Foster-to-Adopt program! Take Gunther home for a week with the intention of adopting him. If it’s not a perfect fit, you can bring him back, no pressure.
Come meet Gunther at the SF SPCA! We’re open from 11 am to 6 pm (Wednesday–Sunday) and 1 pm to 6 pm on Tuesdays. Please note, we’re closed on Mondays. Email us at adoptions@sfspca.org for more details. https://www.sfspca.org/adoptions/
Let’s Go Home!
Here are two of the many pets now available for adoption at Oakland Animal Services (OAS):
Cheesecake is a lovable, silly girl who would love to be your companion and cuddle up with you! This 5-year-old pup would like a mellow home in a nice, quiet neighborhood.
Quazar is a 2-month-old kitten who is friendly and playful! Quazar is just one of the many adorable kittens currently available for adoption at Oakland Animal Services.
The OAS adoption process focuses on matching you with a pet who is a good fit for you and your family. Come by during open adoption hours Thursdays 12–7 pm and Fridays/Saturdays/Sundays 12–3 pm to adopt your new best friend, or to learn more about the OAS adoption process. Please see the OAS website to learn more about how you can help by adopting, fostering, volunteering, and donating: www.oaklandanimalservices.org
Back Pain Relief Stretch
Fitness SF Trainer Tip
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Daniel Leigh - Fitness SF Embarcadero
“If you’re dealing with back pain, try this stretch: Sit on a bench, cross one leg over the opposite knee, and gently lean forward. You’ll feel a deep stretch in your piriformis muscle, which can help alleviate tension.”
Melba’s Kitchen at Jazz on Sunday
On Sunday, August 11, 2024, the Friends of the Golden Gate Library’s Jazz on Sunday summer jazz concerts series featured the Melba’s Kitchen big band performing at Doyle/Hollis Park in Emeryville. The Golden Gate Library is a branch of the Oakland Public Library located at 5606 San Pablo Avenue in Oakland.
Melba’s Kitchen is a 14-piece all women big band celebrating Black women musical geniuses Melba Liston and Mary Lou Williams, under-appreciated jazz ancestors. Liston was a top-tier trombonist who toured with Dizzy Gillespie, Quincy Jones, and Gerald Wilson, and who wrote and arranged for other musical greats including Betty Carter, Abbey Lincoln, Marvin Gaye, and Ruth Brown. Liston collaborated for decades in the Ellington/Strayhorn mode with piano titan Randy Weston.
Liston’s mentor and friend Williams was a stellar pianist who wrote and arranged a formidable library for big band and small groups, from Andy Kirk to Goodman and Duke.
Members of Melba’s Kitchen include a number of Bay Area-based musicians well-known to many San Francisco Bay Times readers: Nzingath Smith (musical director, co-leader, woodwinds); Pat Mullen (co-leader, trombone); Georgianna Krieger (alto & soprano sax); Cynthia Mah (alto sax & flute); Jeunesse Monroe-Speed (tenor sax & clarinet); Marina Garza (trumpet); Candy Sanderson (trumpet); Sue Leonardi (trumpet & flugelhorn); Meghan Ingle (trumpet); Jessica Horn (trombone); Debra Temple (piano); Susanne DiVincenzo (bass); Nancy Geimer (drums); Renaye Brown (percussion); and Deborah Tisdale (vocals).
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Mercedes-Benz and Chevrolet Field Two Satisfying EVs
Philip Ruth
“Damn, nice car!” a mover called out as I slipped past his truck in this installment’s $111,760 electric Mercedes-Benz EQS 450+.
It’s been said that the EQS looks like a wellused soap bar (fair point) while not matching the elegance of the traditional S-Class sedan (debatable). Up close in the city is another story; this EQS 450+ had a striking sleekness that transcended those takes, which was affirmed by the hunky mover. It is not hard to see the benefits there, especially if you’re single.
Another electric car I drove was a $60,215 Chevrolet Blazer EV RS AWD, and its front end apes the savage-looking Silverado pickup, which appears to be opening its maw to devour its prey.
Combine that stylized aggression with the Blazer EV’s 78-inch width—only three inches less than the Cadillac Escalade, and about two inches wider than the Blazer EV—and it became clear why a mid-sized Toyota truck stopped and reversed as I rolled downhill to the Caselli Mansion intersection. It’s tight there, and the other driver instinctively backed off when the imposing Blazer EV approached.
Of course, you’d want to measure your garage before buying. Sort that out, and you’d be free to appreciate the Blazer EV’s palatial interior. Gaping shoulder room, cushy seats, and clear sightlines makes this Chevrolet one for the open road.
The Blazer EV’s instrument panel evokes the look of a premium computer video card, with lots of gloss black and shiny round vents. The quality is decent throughout, and the gaming-chair red accents can be dialed back to black on the order form.
The EQS 450+’s innards are this Blazer EV’s opposite, as you step from the arcade into a rooftop restaurant with a Michelin-starred chef. The wood trim is muted and boldly contoured; the plastics are supple; and the creamy leather holds you in a contoured embrace.
The main dish in the Mercedes-Benz’s interior is its MBUX dashboard, which is ladled with 55 inches total of vivid and dazzling screens.
Hold on; I see you wincing. I’m also not a fan of screens, especially when physical buttons are inherently simpler to operate. And, the EQS 450+’s center display can initially seem like a massive distraction as its finely-detailed map spins its orientation as corners are turned.
It normalizes the more you drive. I’d still like more physical buttons in both these EVs, but both do a fine job of integrating
enormous amounts of tech into workable graphics and menus.
Over the road, both of these EVs were nimble beyond their 5,000-pound-plus curb weights, with the Chevrolet’s surprisingly sharp responses contrasting the sensation of comfortably and controllably wafting along in the Mercedes-Benz. Official electric ranges are 352 miles for the rear-wheeldrive EQS 450+ and 279 miles for the allwheel-drive Blazer EV, with similar energy consumption rates.
One note on the EQS 450+: I’d wait for the 2025 model, which adds a stand-up hood ornament. It’s a tasteful touch of tradition on a car aimed directly toward tomorrow.
Philip Ruth is a Castro-based automotive photojournalist and consultant with an automotive staging service.
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Castro Art Mart - Every 1st Sunday
Photos by Rink
Organized by ArtyHood, a nonprofit supporting local artists, the Castro Art Mart is held every first Sunday of the month from noon to 5 pm at the intersection of Noe and Market Streets in the Castro. Dozens of artists and small businesses take over Noe Street, bringing “creative joy and queer spirits.” The event includes live performances and other activities that are family friendly.
Upcoming dates to the end of 2024 include September 1, October 6, November 3, and December 1.
In addition to the Castro Art Mart, Artyhood organizes other art-related events, street festivals, and block parties where artists and creatives can showcase their works.
https://www.artyhood.org/castro-art-mart/