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(CNN) -- Scarlett Johansson and allies are encouraging the has opted to withdraw from a casting of transgender actors in film in which she was set to play transgender roles. “I am thankful that a transgender man after her The recent debut of Ryan casting drew criticism from the Murphy’s FX drama “Pose,” this casting debate, LGBTQ community. which featured the largestalbeit controversial, Johansson said in an exclusive ever cast of transgender actors statement to Out.com that her in series regular roles on a has sparked a decision was made “in light of television series, has been recent ethical questions raised pointed to as a shining example larger conversation surrounding my casting.” of this practice in action. about diversity and CNN has reached out to After the immediate backlash Johansson’s representatives for to Johannson’s casting began, representation in further comment. the actress issued a statement to film.” Johansson had been set to Bustle that was criticized for its play transgender man Dante dismissive nature. - Scarlett Johansson “Tex” Gill, who owned a string In her new statement, of massage parlors in Pittsburgh Johansson acknowledges that were fronts for prostitution in the 1970s making a misstep. and 1980s, in a film about his life. “Our cultural understanding of MEMBER Johansson’s casting, however, came at transgender people continues to advance, a moment when the LGBTQ community and I’ve learned a lot from the community MEMBER
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since making my first statement about my casting and realize it was insensitive,” she said. “I have great admiration and love for the trans community and am grateful that the conversation regarding inclusivity in Hollywood continues.” Johansson has found herself in the middle of a casting controversy before. Her casting in the film “Ghost in the Shell,” based on a popular Japanese manga series, prompted accusations of white-washing. The movie went ahead as planned and was released in 2017. “While I would have loved the opportunity to bring Dante’s story and transition to life, I understand why many feel he should be portrayed by a transgender person, and I am thankful that this casting debate, albeit controversial, has sparked a larger conversation about diversity and representation in film,” Johansson added.
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PBCHRC to Host Summer Soirée August 4
Money raised will be used to defend conversion therapy bans Hope Benson
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he Palm Beach County Human Rights Aside from the tickets, the money raised Council (PBCHRC), a non-profit also comes from multiple sponsors, who also organization focused on fighting provided funds for the event. Paying $1,000 for LGBT rights, is holding their biennial or more deems you a sponsor, which gets you Summer Soirée on August 4. two tickets to the Soirée and an invitation to For $100 a ticket at the National Croquet a VIP party. Club, the two hour event starting at 7:30 VIP parties are closed events that take will raise money to pay the place in private homes, and professionals working to the Soirée’s is on July 31 at the “For years, our goal overturn Liberty Council’s residence of Kaci and Andy has been to net, lawsuit against Palm Beach Bloemers, LGBT allies and after all expenses County and the City of Boca friends of Hoch. The party will Raton for their ban on underage feature valets, an open bar, and have been paid, at conversion therapy. Ken Keffer Catering, where least $15,000 at “We have offered to pay for food options like crab cakes, our Summer Soirées the experts’ fees, transportation ahi tuna on wonton crisps, and — and we have to, and around, Palm Beach flatbread with spinach, blue always exceeded County, accommodations, cheese, and toasted walnuts our goals,” meals, etc. We want to have will be served. PBCHRC has been the best defense — and we’re - Rand Hoch hosting Summer Soirées willing to help pay for it so PBCHRC President and since 1990, where guests the full burden is not on the Founder like Harry Johnston, who taxpayers of the County and the would later become a Florida City of Boca Raton,” PBCHRC President and Founder Rand Hoch said to Representative, and Lois Frankel, who is currently a member of Congress, were SFGN via email. The $20,000 going to the event will be in attendance. The event would later be spent on an open bar and food provided switched from yearly to biennial, and by Sandy James Fine Food & Productions, often times serve as a meet-and-greet for whose hors d’oeuvres include options candidates seeking office. PBCHRC’s next event will be the Winter like angus beef sliders with onions and Gouda cheese, herb-breasted chicken with Fête on January 19, “where we will be honoring West Palm Beach mayor Jeri marinated artichoke, and more. “For years, our goal has been to net, after Muoio, who has probably been, without all expenses have been paid, at least $15,000 exaggeration, the most pro-active Mayor on at our Summer Soirées — and we have LGBTQ issues in any city in the USA,” Hoch said. always exceeded our goals,” Hoch said.
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Kavasutra Bar to Trans Person: ‘You’re not really a girl’ Damon Scott Reaction was swift last week when the Kavasutra Kava Bar’s Instagram page posted a series of transphobic and sexist comments. It’s been more than a week, but the comments keep rolling in on both sides. And in at least one instance, the intensity wasn’t confined to social media. Here’s a quick recap: the business offered a ladies night discount at all seven of its locations – there are five in South Florida, one in Denver and one in New York. The offer was confined to those who “have been women from birth, with ovaries,” the post said. It didn’t take long for those on social media to respond not only on Instagram, but Facebook, Twitter and other sites. Reactions were vastly negative. Seemingly in response to the initial blowback, Kavasutra’s Instagram posted this message: “The point of ladies night is to get ladies in the door so the men can bang them. If there’s no vagina then they don’t qualify because they don’t benefit the business and the plan.” Other transphobic (use of the word “tranny”) and sexist comments followed in several posts, some of which have since been deleted. ‘You’re not really a girl’ Davie resident and Starbucks barista Summer Balester, 21, posted screenshots of the offensive posts on her Facebook timeline. Her friends have shared it more than 2,500 times since July 9. “I kind of was surprised. I wasn’t really expecting it to reach that many people,” Balester said, adding that the reaction to her post has motivated some to pledge they will no longer patronize Kavasutra. “The majority of [the Facebook comments] were supportive,” she added. “Even if other people’s views of transgender people didn’t align with mine, they said a business shouldn’t be saying these things.” Balester, who identifies as cisgender, said her best friend is transgender. “There were some [commenters] that disagreed, and pretty much seemed transphobic, saying ‘they aren’t real women,’” she said. Kavasutra’s reaction Balester said one of her transgender friends called the Lake Worth location of Kavasutra, where owner Dylan Harrison is sometimes seen, to complain about the posts. “They told her to stop being so sensitive and said ‘you’re not really a girl,’” Balester said. Balester said she used to go to the Las Olas location in Fort Lauderdale and had good experiences there. “But I wanted people to know you could potentially not be safe, or be disrespected, or you might just be giving your money to someone you
don’t agree with,” she said. Several attempts to reach Harrison by SFGN have not been successful. Voicemail messages left at the Lake Worth location have not been returned. On July 11, the business issued a statement on its Instagram page, in the midst of the attention on social media and from the mainstream media. “Kavasutra Kava Bar is virulently and adamantly opposed to discrimination in all forms. Any such inequity or prejudice will be met with swift physical removal from in or around our establishment. Our friends and patrons understand this policy and our convictions,” the statement read. Altercation Before that statement came out, the uproar made its way off social media and into the Lake Worth location the evening of July 9. Police and media reports state two women entered the location looking for a confrontation. Harrison, who was there at the time, admitted to shoving them out of the bar. His wife admitted to throwing kava on the women. One of the two women, Tiffany Griffis of Lake Worth, admitted to pepper-spraying Harrison’s wife. In the end, no one pressed charges and the Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office cleared the case. ‘Uphill battle’ Ashley Mayfaire, the director of operations TransSOCIAL said word of the incident was not surprising, but it was disappointing. “It was disappointing because I know a lot of LGBTQ people have gone there,” she said. TransSOCIAL began in 2016 as a way to provide resources and support for the “transgender, gender variant and intersex community.” They meet around the Fort Lauderdale area and have a support group that meets in Miami, too. On July 16, they paired with Talkin’ T and other supporters, to hold a suicide prevention discussion with health care professionals that centered on the trans-community. Statistics show those who identify as transgender have suicide rates that are higher than the general population. Both Talkin’ T and TransSOCIAL try and get the word out about the “Trans Lifeline” resource at 877-565-8860. Mayfaire, who identifies as non-binary, is married to a transgender man. She and her husband are the cofounders of TransSOCIAL. “There are pockets of safe and inclusive places in Fort Lauderdale and Miami, but outside of that, Florida is still the Deep South,” she said, when asked if the area is safe for the trans community. “We get reports that [trans] people can’t even find a hairdresser. We do the best to network so people know where the trans-friendly places are. It’s an uphill battle.” Find out more about TransSOCIAL at transsocial.org. 7.18.2018 •
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India’s Supreme Court Considers Legalizing homosexuality
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Panic! at the Disco’s Brendon Urie Comes Out as Pansexual
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Gay sex has been criminalized in India since the 1860s, but their Supreme Court is hearing a case that would deem homosexuality legal, a major win for the country’s LGBT community and activists. The law under question is Section 377 of the penal code, which prohibits “carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal,” said the Independent. This has been translated to condemn gay sex and leads to violence and discrimination against the LGBT community, according to the lawyers spearheading the case.
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“[Legalizing homosexuality] would be a signal that India respects human rights, no matter what minority you belong to. The aim is that these people, who have been suffering, will be able to stand shoulder to shoulder with the rest of society,” said lawyer Mukul Rohtagi, who is heavily involved in the proceedings. Hopes for the overturn of the law are high after Justice Indu Malhotra said that homosexuality “is not an [anomaly], but a variation.” The court will likely come to a decision in a few weeks.
Brendon Urie via Facebook
Brendon Urie, the head singer and last remaining member of the popular band Panic! at the Disco, came out as pansexual in a recent interview with Paper Magazine. Coming to terms with his sexuality was never “weird” for him, although it could make people around him uncomfortable, he said. His music has long been appreciated by members of the LGBT community, especially the hit “Girls/
Girls/Boys” that fans took as a bisexual/ pansexual self-acceptance anthem, the interview pointed out. “I’m married to a woman and I’m very much in love with her but I’m not opposed to a man because to me, I like a person. Yeah, I guess you could qualify me as pansexual because I really don’t care. If a person is great, then a person is great … I guess this is me coming out as pansexual,” Urie said.
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Angela Ponce, a 26-year-old transgender woman, won the pageant to represent Spain in Miss Universe last Wednesday. Ponce is using her platform to speak up about the struggles that transgender people face, including high rates of suicide and a lack of rights in many countries. Transgender participants have been allowed to enter Miss Universe since 2012, but 2018 is the first year for one to represent her country in the pageant. “I think that this is something that
is going to create — regardless of the final — the end of an era and the start of something new not only in the history of Miss Universe and beauty contests but in many countries’ views of transgender women,” she told the Associated Press. The person to jumpstart the inclusion of transgender women was Jenna Talackova, who was prohibited from entering Canada’s Miss Universe pageant due to not being a “naturally born” female six years ago. The regulations were changed after she involved an attorney.
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Regular Report from South Florida AIDS Network Sean McShee
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his report discusses three meetings. First, it discusses the monthly meeting of the South Florida AIDS Network (SFAN). At the SFAN meeting, Kim Saiswick (Holy Cross Hospital) reported on the meeting of the Florida HIV/AIDS Comprehensive Planning Network (FCPN). SFAN advises the local Department of Health (DOH) on Ryan White Care in Broward. FCPN advises the state Department of Health (FL-DOH) on Florida Ryan White Care. Thirdly, this report discusses a Broward town hall meeting about future HIV prevention funding. South Florida AIDS Network (SFAN), June 1, 2018 in Fort Lauderdale Josh Rodriquez (FL-DOH-Broward) reported that PrEP is now available to insured and uninsured people. On June 1, the Wellness Center, a sexually transmitted disease clinic, has begun to offer their clients PrEP. The Pharmacy Assistance Program will pay for PrEP medications for the uninsured. FL-DOH will pay for PrEP laboratory tests for the uninsured. The Wellness Center, 700 SE 3rd Ave., Suite 200, is open from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. People who walk-in between 10 a.m. and 5 p.m. can leave with a 10-day prescription for PrEP. Florida HIV/AIDS Comprehensive Planning Network (FCPN), April 18 to 19, 2018 in Tampa. The Florida legislature failed to pass a bill to expand Miami’s Syringe Service Program (Needle Exchange) to the entire state. Miami’s Syringe Service Program will continue with no changes. Doctors in Miami-Dade and Broward will be able to write 90-day prescriptions for AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP) medications. Eligibility is restricted to those patients who have achieved a sustained undetectable HIV viral load for at least 24 months. This program should expand to the entire state by the end of the year. Florida has an estimated 100,300 transgender people living in the state. Most transgender people live in in Broward, Hillsboro, MiamiDade, Orange, and Pinellas and Counties. Laura Reeves (HIV/AIDS Section FL-DOH)
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reported on indicators of progress toward Florida’s goals to contain HIV. Only two indicators are moving in the right direction. The indicators concerning “people with suppressed HIV viral load” and “people ever having been linked to HIV care” are moving in the right direction. The data indicates that Florida will fail to meet the goals for the other indicators. These indicators concern “disparities in new diagnoses of HIV infections,” “knowledge of accurate HIV status,” and “retention in HIV care.” HIV Prevention Funding Town Hall, June 6, 2018 in Fort Lauderdale Future HIV Prevention in Florida will emphasize bio-medical interventions. Florida will be promoting increased HIV testing and PrEP use. The state will also increase its efforts to get HIV treatment drop-outs back into care. Janelle Taveras (FL-DOH-Broward) discussed one new technique, molecular surveillance. Using this technique, epidemiologists can identify clusters of viral transmission through the analysis of the DNA of the virus. One person in the audience raised concerns about how this technique could affect civil liberties and HIV criminalization. Some people in the audience raised questions about the effectiveness of FL-DOH-Broward’s Transgender Program. While the program has existed for 18 years, the public has seen no data on its effectiveness. Announcements The 2018 United States Conference on AIDS (USCA 2018) will take place in Orlando, Florida, from September 6 through September 9, 2018. To find out more about USCA 2018, please visit http://bit.ly/2yoY5jd. Youth and group registration discounts are available. National HIV testing day is June 27. Walgreens and Florida DOH are cooperating with free HIV testing at many Walgreens facilities. To find out where these tests are available, please visit http://bit.ly/2JY6i26. Follow Sean McShee on Twitter @SeanMcShee
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psychotherapist with a counseling is going to happen but I think it needs to be practice in Fort Lauderdale would smart and with the residents’ needs in mind. be the city’s first openly gay It’s almost like the current commission hears commissioner if elected in November. but they are not listing. I am in a listening Woodmont resident Doug Maesk, 56, profession so I should be good at it.” faces incumbent Debra Placko, 68, in the Maesk has been married to Noel Serra, race for the District 4 seat. Placko has served a professional photographer and office on the commission since 2014 manager, for 10 years. The two and is running on a platform married in Boston when “it was “It’s almost of integrity, honesty and the only place you could get experience. like the current married.” Maesk wants to be the voice His husband often for people in the city who don’t accompanies him when he’s on commission have a voice. He’s concerned the campaign trail knocking on hears, but about overdevelopment and doors. fiscal irresponsibility, especially Maesk believes it’s time they are not in regard to commission travel. LGBT people also have a path in listening.” Last year, commissioners Tamarac to make their voices spent $80,000 on trips to places heard. - Doug Maesk like San Diego, Washington, “LGBT people have Tamarac City D.C., Cleveland, Pittsburg, and historically been underCommission Charlotte, N.C. Maesk said the represented or not represented Candidate spending is out of line. and I want to change that “I think it shows they are not because the city is becoming being good stewards of our tax dollars. That younger and the city is becoming more kind of thing put me over the edge and made diverse. I think the City Commission needs me decide I wanted to run,” Maesk said. to reflect the community,” Maesk said. Recently the commission approved Estimates indicate that about 10 percent construction of a huge golf course of the overall population is gay. And if that’s maintenance building despite a petition true, there are about 6,000 LGBT people in signed by every homeowner in the nearby Tamarac, he said. community opposing the project. “Where is their representation?” Maesk Maesk wants to know why. asked. “And that really ties into this whole “I feel there’s fiscal irresponsibility and thing I am talking about: Being the voice for mismanagement,” he said. “Development the people who don’t have a voice.”
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NEWS local A Celebration of Friends 2017 via Facebook.
Mature Men’s Group Hosts Fort Lauderdale Celebration John McDonald
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t’s the 17th year for a summer celebration the Fort Lauderdale Ramada Inn. In 2016, designed to ease the aging process of the group hosted former U.S. Congressman gay and bisexual men. Barney Frank of Massachusetts and in 2015 “When I started this there was nothing celebrated screen acting legend Ed Asner. for an older man to do,” said Celebration Pence said the group serves its purpose in of Friends President Tom supporting senior men. Pence. “He was finished.” “It’s important for older Pence -- known to friends men who have lost a spouse as “TomCat” -- has officially or are looking for husbands or organized get-togethers who are retiring and living in for senior gay and bisexual south Florida,” Pence said. men for nearly two decades. The Ramada Inn Fort This year’s summer event Lauderdale Oakland Park, is exceeding expectations, 3001 U.S. 1, is host hotel this Pence said. summer. According to the “We’ve filled up the hotel hotel’s front desk, rooms this and suddenly everyone in weekend have been sold out Fort Lauderdale is my best for over a month. friend,” Pence mused on The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitor’s Saturday morning as he was Bureau, Pride Center, Ramada leaving the Skolnick Center Inn, Hunters Nightclub, Bona in Pompano Beach. “We Italian Restaurant, Rumors have an overflow hotel and - Tom Pence Bar & Grill and Courtyard Café working with another one.” Celebration of friends are just some of the group’s Billed as the group’s President sponsors. “summer splash” Summer Splash takes place Celebration of Friends, per its website, intends to promote “guilt/ from July 19 to 22 at the Fort Lauderdale attitude free conventions for real mature Ramada Inn. Those who want to attend need men and their admirers.” In the past, Pence to register with the event before reserving a has emceed swimsuit contests poolside at room.
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for older men who have lost a spouse or are looking for husbands or who are retiring and living in south Florida,”
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NEWS local 2017 Bartenders, Boxers and Briefs. Photo by JR Davis.
Palm Beach County Human Rights Council
summer soirée Bartenders and Boxers and Briefs…Oh My!
Popular HIV/AIDS fundraiser returns to Alibi on Monday
In a few weeks, elected officials, candidates and PBCHRC donors will mix and mingle at our biennial Summer Soirée. Sandy James Fine Food & Productions is catering and the event will feature passed heavy hors d’oeuvres and an open bar. Attire is Palm Beach Casual.
Saturday, August 4, 2018 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. National Croquet Club 700 Florida Mango Road West Palm Beach Visit http://www.pbchrc.org/ events to buy your tickets
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t’s the kind of charitable event that administrative expenses (other than an raises eyebrows and lowers underwear. accountant) ever since their founding. That’s It’s for a good cause, too. allowed 100 percent of donations to go “Bartenders, Boxers and Briefs” returns directly to those in need. to Georgie’s Alibi Monkey Bar in Wilton The event takes place from 7 p.m. to 10 Manors July 25 for another night when local p.m. A silent auction begins at 7 p.m. and the bartenders take to the stage, and then take bartender auction starts at 9 p.m. There will off their underwear. also be a raffle. Last year’s event raised The bartender auction is the bartenders thousands of dollars for highlight of the night. That’s from the Tuesday’s Angels, an when bartenders from the Wilton Manors organization that is dissolving Wilton Manors area take to the November 30. The group was stage and bidders try to claim area take to also chosen by organizers this their prize – the bartender’s the stage and year. boxers or briefs. Once the bidders try Tuesday’s Angels was known winning bid is acknowledged, for the Tuesday night dinners the bartender typically goes to claim their it held at Chardee’s Lounge and behind a towel to take off the prize – the later Bill’s Filling Station, where bidder’s prize. a hat was passed around the Last year, bartenders from bartender’s table for donations. The group Hunters Nightclub, the former boxers or of men wanted to help in their Progress Bar, LeBoy, Southern briefs. own small way by collecting Nights, Monkey Business, funds to provide a variety of Boardwalk, Rumors Bar & Grill, assistance to HIV-positive men, and they did newly reopened Scandal’s Saloon, Rosie’s it for 30 years. and Mona’s were all sent representatives to While their last dinner was in April, the have their underwear auctioned. group has said it will continue to provide Notable entertainment, other than the support for the next 10 years. It is doing that bartenders on stage, includes emcees and by placing its assets and donations in the auctioneers Nikki Adams, Dame Edna and “Tuesday’s Angels Donor Advised Fund” at Miss Kitty. Last year Adams, who is a wellOur Fund of Wilton Manors. Money raised at known South Florida entertainer, introduced Bartenders, Boxers and Briefs will go directly each bartender model to the stage. All three into the fund. entertainers will likely take turns getting Tuesday’s Angels board members say the crowd riled up and opening wallets. they have never paid for offices or any The underwear is sponsored by Pride Factory. For more information, to donate or participate, email byron@alibiwiltonmanors.com. The Alibi is located at 2266 Wilton Drive. 7.18.2018 •
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ast week, I revealed that I was the target at night, damn, stay awake. We live in a world of an email scam. Because the would- where computers are not only Messiahs, but be blackmailer accurately identified Monsters. Make sure you are ordering from passwords I had used years ago, it piqued my Amazon and not Abra Cadabra in Addis interest. Abbaba. First of all, I knew that if I received this, You are being targeted by a malicious so did hundreds, if not thousands, of others. software called Ransomware. Since 2012, Sure enough, within days, my suspicions were it has exploded internationally, and infects confirmed. The column had 3,000 hits online millions of us, like sugar ants at a July backyard at www.SFGN.com within three days. You barbecue in South Florida. They might go cared because you were impacted. Many of us away for now, but they will be back. were. Ransomware attacks are typically carried out My concerns were very real because as a using a Trojan that is disguised as a legitimate lawyer, I know how many of my older clients, file that the user is tricked into downloading born in the age of the Hula Hoop, are not or opening when it arrives as an email skillful with computers. But they are not alone. attachment. By 2015, the FBI had determined These scams ensnare that an entity named everyone. CryptoWall had accrued Many of the email over $18 million. scams threatening to Like me, most of you reveal porn contacts are clueless to this talk in fact target younger of technology. You just people on simple hook don’t want to get ripped up sites like Grindr. So off, sucker punched or yes, your age does not fooled by these emails. matter. If you have a They set off viruses, and computer, a credit card, once you hit the reply or or surf the Net, there are send button, it’s too late. sharks out there waiting You’ve been scammed. to bite. Forget about the Because it is so difficult Deep State. You need to to trace some of these be alert to the Dark Side. sophisticated digital Too many times my currencies, prosecuting law office has had to hold the perpetrators is the hand of someone difficult and rare. Victims whose fortunes were of the night do not often illegitimately taken. find vindication the next Some of the most day. successful scams come I mentioned some - Norm Kent from persons and of these scams to companies pretending Detective Bonnie Owens to be American Express or even the IRS. They of the Wilton Manors Police Department seemed so legitimate, and you, a friend, or just last week. She had heard of all of them. family member fell for it. She receives them in her own emails. And The reality is the scam can be authored she acknowledged, “it’s everywhere, and anywhere by anyone. You have to be an unfortunately, so are the victims.” alert Boy Scout, and be prepared. It could be Today, the technology has become even created by, like Donald Trump once said in a more sophisticated. Scammers have upped debate with Hillary, “a 400-pound guy in his their game. More advanced malware uses a underwear in a bedroom in Arkansas.” You technique called cryptoviral extortion. This just don’t know. process encrypts the victim’s files, making If you are scrolling through your emails late them inaccessible, and demands a ransom
“Since 2012, it has exploded internationally, and infects millions of us, like sugar ants at a July backyard barbecue in South Florida. They might go away for now, but they will be back.”
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payment to decrypt them. You probably have at least one or two friends whose computers were even blocked by some of these techniques. My suggestion is you work with computer companies to keep your web browsers updated, your software modern, and your passwords protected. The whole thing blows me away. I have enough trouble remembering to brush my teeth three times a day, and now I have to worry about cyberhygiene and be protected
from viruses called Bad Rabbit. I do know this. I have learned a few things in my day. First, when a guy asks you to pull down your pants to get ahead in life, run away. Second, when someone asks you for money in an email, hit the delete button. Third, life with a Smith Corona typewriter never was all that bad. We probably all could have survived without iPhone 38’s. In fact, I might take a 38 revolver to one of them just for the hell of it.
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The President of the United States has just returned from the Surrender Summit, where he all but renounced and denounced the federal law enforcement and intelligence agencies of the United States. It does not matter what party you belong to anymore. The word and world of Donald Trump is defamatory, demeaning, and disgraceful. His deeds are disgusting. There is no redemption for his lost soul. Further words are futile. His message is mendacious, his personality is poisonous, and his policies are atrocious. His toxicity should make you tremble. Work everyday to join a force that throws him and his supporters out of office this year and in 2020, so that we can Take Back America. - Publisher Norm Kent
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ne of the most important groups formed at the turn of the last century was the Political Advocacy Coalition; a “PAC-PAC” created to provide the LGBT community of Broward County with nonpartisan, political representation. Headed by a diverse board of seasoned activists, the PAC-PAC sent out questionnaires to state and local candidates and made endorsements based on the results of those questionnaires. At one time the PAC-PAC joined forces with the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Greater Fort Lauderdale (now the Pride Center); the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN); Gays United to Attack Repression and Discrimination (GUARD); and the Broward Log Cabin Club of Florida to host a candidates forum. Interested politicians worked the crowd, spoke to the assembly, and answered questions from a panel representing the five sponsoring groups. I was a board member of the PAC-PAC. Like my colleagues, I hoped this group would present a united front on behalf of Broward’s sexual and gender minorities. But this was not to be. The PAC-PAC disbanded soon after the 2000 elections, as did GUARD. Other political groups also folded as they achieved their stated goals. Today there are only two LGBT political groups in Broward County: the Dolphin Democrats and the Log Cabin Republicans. Though both groups are important and effective in their own way, they reflect the division that plagues our communities, here and elsewhere. They do
not attempt to unite our community, the way that the PAC-PAC tried to do or that the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council or Miami-Dade County’s SAVE now seek to achieve. I am a proud and unabashed Progressive Democrat; and an officer of the Dolphin Democrats. I believe that the Democratic Party is the only one of our two major parties who supports equal rights for LGBT Americans, especially after Donald Trump and Mike Pence captured the Republican Party. At the same time, I respect the rights of the Log Cabin Republicans to speak on behalf of the LGBT community in the GOP, however much I might disagree with their views. However, while we continue to disagree, I believe we can still work together on behalf of the common good, on issues that we can agree on, however difficult this might be. The undeclared civil war that is currently tearing this country apart has destroyed many friendships. Thus I am happy to report that one of my oldest friendships is with Andy Eddy, a fellow member of the PAC-PAC who serves as Communications Director of the Log Cabin Republicans of Broward County. Though Andy and I disagree on many things, we share a mutual affection and respect for our LGBT community and for those activists who came before us. I hope the day will come when Andy and I are able to work together again, as difficult as it might be. Is political unity possible? We will see.
Jesse Monteagudo is a freelance writer and journalist. He has been an active member of South Florida's LGBT community for more than four decades and has served in various community organizations.
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Pride Center’s Affordable Housing Complex Hits Snag By Sallie James An affordable housing project for plagued by parking issues. The housing complex includes 163 seniors planned for the city’s gateway stalled this month because of parking shared parking spots which would also be utilized by people who frequent problems and concerns that it was ugly. If approved, the nearly $15 million the facilities at the LGBT community project proposed by Carrfour Supportive center. The site is treated as one unified Housing Inc. would put a four-story, development with no reserved spaces L-shaped plaza on the northwest corner for residents, according to Carrfour. “We think it is a ‘near perfect project’ of the property at 2040 N. Dixie Highway in light of the services they where the Pride Center at offer,” attorney David J. Equality Park is located. It Coviello told board members. would be one of the first "It doesn’t They disagreed. things visitors see when look homey. “It’s possible for a resident they enter the city from to come home late at night the south. It looks like and have to walk all the “I think it looks like way from the back,” said a hospital or jail,” said a business Planning and Zoning Board Nicholas Berry, Planning office alternate Jeb Shafer. “I live in and Zoning Board the neighborhood so I know chairman, at the July 9 building." what it’s like.” meeting. Board member Brad Sterl The 48-unit project, for - Tim Theisen worried that the designated residents 55 and older, Planning and Zoning Board Member handicapped parking would would include studio be inadequate, considering apartments and one and two-bedroom apartments ranging from 34 of the 48 proposed units will be earmarked for people with disabling 605-square feet to 895-square feet. Members of the city’s Planning and conditions. Coviello told him more spots Zoning Board deferred action on the could be designated for handicapped project until August 20, citing an array use. Board member Don D’Arminio wanted of concerns with the proposed site plan. Described as “sensitive and urbanely Carrfour to improve 80 dilapidated responsible,” the project hit resistance parking spaces that need new car stops, when board members balked at a lack striping, and in some cases, refuse of dedicated parking in an area already removal.
The answer was “no.” Maintenance is a code enforcement issue, Coviello said. Board member Tim Theisen disliked the project’s looks. “It’s very close to the road and it’s very plain. This is going to be a center piece for that section of Wilton Manors if it’s approved,” Theisen said. “It doesn’t look homey. It looks like a business office building.” The Planning and Zoning Board must also revise the plat, or map for the site, which designates the current land use as industrial. The proposed changes would designate 60,000 square feet of community (30,000 square feet of existing and 30,000 square feet of proposed); 4,000 square feet of office; 6,000 square feet of commercial; and 48 mid-rise units and accessory residential uses. The site’s current designation of industrial is inconsistent with the current use and needs to be corrected. The revised plat would also earmark the 48 affordable housing units for adults 55 and older and set a maximum development threshold of 48 units. And although the lobby of the proposed
complex will connect to the Pride Center, LGBT persons cannot be “targeted” for residency, Coviello noted. “By virtue of the location of the building and the services that are offered it’s likely the people who are going to want to live there will be from the LGBT community. Can we say with absolute certainty, no, and we can’t restrict others from living there.” Coviello said. City resident Matthew Dreger, who lives in an adjoining development, urged the board to delay action on the project until the Pride Center addressed issues ranging from parking problems and traffic, to stormwater, rusty warehouses, an unlicensed tenant and an unsecured playground. “I would ask you to deny it at this point only until the Pride Center gets itself in order and becomes a good neighbor,” Dreger said. Carrfour’s affiliate, Crossroads Management LLC will manage the building and have a presence on-site, once the project is complete. The property would be leased from the Pride Center. WMG
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Reuse- Reduce- Recycle
As our recycling options dry up we’re facing a crisis
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By Sal Torre The Three R’s took on new meaning in the 1990’s when municipalities found themselves struggling to keep up with the amount of trash trucked into ever-growing landfills across the nation. The catchy ad campaign, “Reduce- Reuse- Recycle,” enlightened many and created a revolution in how our nation handled the bounteous loads of trash our society generates daily. Unfortunately for many cities here in South Florida, the new reality will be “Reduce-Reuse, But Don’t Bother to Recycle.” As the global market for single-stream recyclables bottoms out and with Waste Management firming up their monopoly in the marketplace, cities throughout our region will be faced with some very tough choices. Deerfield Beach suspended their recycling program this past week rather than succumb to the enormous rate increases proposed by Waste Management. The cities of Sunrise and Lighthouse Point are actively seeking solutions other than the huge rate increases being dictated by Waste Management. The only thing for certain is that residents will be asked to pay more for removal of their trash and recyclables. How do you justify paying more for recycling if it’s only going to find its way to the local landfill? City staff here in Wilton Manors recently stated that Waste Management has given assurances that our recyclables, if not profitably disposed of, will be heading to the Wheelabrator waste-to-energy power plant in Fort Lauderdale. However, with the Wheelabrator plant already near capacity and with no global market for single-stream recyclables, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that the tons of recyclable material might just be heading to the same place as the contents of our trash bin, the Monarch Hill landfill or some other landfill. Our city will need to have an honest discussion on how best to deal with this horrific situation. Part of the problem is single-stream recycling, and one solution might be a return to separating out recyclables that still have a demand. Unfortunately, single-stream recycling was the feel-good, easy solution for municipalities. Residents no longer had to spend time segregating their recyclables. We could just throw everything into the recycle bin and walk away feeling like we did our part saving the planet. Unfortunately, discarded food, liquid soaked paper, and other contaminants are now the norm, and the market for such tainted items has come to an abrupt end with a global glut of unusable trash. The day of reckoning for our easy fix is now here, and some tough choices will have to be made in the very near future. State law here in Florida sets guidelines for 75 percent of municipal waste in Broward County to be recycled by 2020. There seems to be little chance of that happening now. However, a group of surrounding cities here in Broward have come together and are awaiting a study that will come out in August, looking to address the 75 percent goal and how best to develop a more regional approach, which should include some form of a government-owned disposal facility. Many remain optimistic and would rather not see an abrupt end to very successful recycle programs firmly in place around our region. For now it’s a waiting game until August for the results of the joint study. One thing for sure, the solution cannot
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be to divert all this waste to landfills. We must find ways to recycle a good portion of the waste we create. The global marketplace is realigning itself, away from singlestream recycling that is largely contaminated and unusable. The glut of used plastic is driving companies to convert that stream into diesel and petrochemicals. Cleaner loads of cardboard and paper are still fetching higher prices, and discarded aluminum cans are still a valuable item in the recycle bin. Single-stream recycling has been an easy fix and has made us all a bit complacent in being responsible for the waste we create. One must remember that there are three R’s in this equation. With Recycle no longer an option at this time, we must focus on the remaining two: Reuse and Reduce. Look at ways you can reduce the amount of trash and disposable material you go through on a daily basis. Reuse items whenever possible. Every little bit of unnecessary trash adds up to tons of garbage that have to be hauled away. OK, I can hear the moaning already. Yes, it’s easier to throw all the items to be recycled in just one bin and set it out each week at the curbside. However, that option is going to be much more expensive and is quickly coming to an end. So, let’s not give up on recycling just yet. Start reducing and reusing, and let’s all keep working together to make life just better here. WMG
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An Interesting Second Quarter By James Oaksun When I started taking a look at second quarter sales of single family homes in various neighborhoods in and near Wilton Manors, I thought the findings were of sufficient interest to take a break from resiliency and share some of the data with you. In 2Q18, according to MLS data, there were 52 single family homes sold in the Island City. That compares with 68 homes sold in the second quarter last year – in other words, sales dropped by 24 percent year-over-year. That’s a pretty serious decline, I think you would agree. The main driver of the decrease was a 44-percent drop in sales in Center Wilton. The other two neighborhoods also had declines. (As always, I’m looking just at single family homes. Condos and townhouses excluded.) Then consider the results from other nearby neighborhoods. Generally speaking, sales were flat to down compared with the same period last year. Declines in South Middle River, Middle River Terrace, and Lake Ridge were comparable to WilMa’s. Bucking the trend was
Oakland Park Corals, with a 19-percent increase relative to 2Q17. Given these facts, in my next column I will take a closer look at pricing, as that will be my last review of the numbers before issuing the 2018 Yearbook sometime in late October. Through the first quarter this year, prices had been on a significant upward trend. It would certainly be interesting if prices bucked the trend on sales counts and were continuing to increase, especially if we haven’t seen a drop in inventory. Increased prices should be bringing more homes onto the market, and thus generating more sales volume relative to prior periods. I’m not going to say it’s raining. But I see quite a few dark clouds around. WMG James Oaksun, Florida’s Real Estate Geek(SM), is Broker-Owner of New Realty Concepts in Oakland Park. In addition to having degrees from Dartmouth and Cornell, he is a Graduate of the Realtor Institute (GRI).
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Wilton Manors to Explore Ways to Fill Open Police Spots By Sallie James The city will be offering $5,000 hiring incentives to new police hires who stay for at least two years, and $500 bonuses to nonmanagement employees who refer someone who gets hired. City commissioners on July 10 unanimously agreed to implement the incentives in an effort to remain competitive in a hiring environment that was described as a “nearly critical, highly competitive state.” The city’s 38-officer police force is currently short four sworn officers. Wilton Manors police officers’ starting pay is $52,000. No college degree is required, according to Police Chief Paul O’Connell. “This is not just a Wilton Manors issue or a county issue but as of May 1, Broward County had 290 open positions for sworn police officers,” Wilton Manors Mayor Gary Resnick told the commission. “The issue really is young people do not want to go into law enforcement. The police shows, the news, everything on TV everything that the kids see in their day to day lives has basically created a stigma with going
Commissioners Discuss Gun Safe at Wilton Elementary By Sallie James
into law enforcement and especially among minorities, so people do not want to pursue a career in law enforcement. There is a real shortage of people coming up in the ranks.” He also suggested the city explore other creative incentives. Wilton Manors currently offers new hires a $3,000 per year housing stipend if they live in the city, something Resnick suggested the city possibly increase. Commissioner Julie Carson asked that the city explore non-traditional hiring pools as well. “We have four positions we have to fill desperately and we need to come up with ways to do it,” Resnick said. He cautioned that departments across the county and state refrain from “cannibalizing each other with respect to trying to recruit police officers.” WMG
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“It’s an unfortunate sign of the times Wilton Manors Commissioner Julie Carson doesn’t want any more guns in to put it very simply and very bluntly,” schools even if they are being stored in a O’Connell said. “We had a demonstration at the Police locked safe for use by a police officer in an Chiefs Association and I can assure you it’s emergency. Carson voiced opposition to the proposal been designed to be secure.” The safe “alleviates the possibility of during a July 10 commission meeting the SRO having to go out when commissioners to his or her car to retrieve discussed installation of a the long gun and then come gun safe at Wilton Manors back into the school and Elementary for storage of address whatever the threat a police officer’s long gun. is, he added. The measure was ultimately Commissioner Scott approved. Newton asked if O’Connell Concern over the knew of any schools where protection of students school resource officers nationwide has been a were routinely carrying long hot button issue since guns. the horrific February 14 “No. The visuals don’t massacre at Stoneman look good,” O’Connell Douglas High School where - Paul O’Connell replied. a former student fatally shot Wilton Manors Police Chief Newton also questioned 17 students and teachers. the effectiveness of a gun “A locked gun at Wilton stored in a safe somewhere Manors Elementary … is not something I would want,” Carson said. She in the school, should an emergency arise. wondered if it would be better to store the O’Connell said it was all about response gun in the officer’s car instead of bringing it time - retrieving a gun from a safe on campus or running out to a parked vehicle inside the school. Wilton Manors Police Chief Paul and retrieving the weapon. Newton acknowleged that a gun might O’Connell said use of a gun locker has been approved by the School Board of not be secure if stored in the officer’s police Broward County and is included in a special car. The safe will be purchased with forfeiture provision in the school resource officer’s funds, O’Connell said. WMG contract.
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INTRODUCTION
Transgender Edition
Welcome To Our Second
Transgender SPECIAL section Brendon Lies
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he past few years have been a rollercoaster for the trans community. When I came out in late January, 2014, I had no idea that it was on the cusp of one of the most rapid changes that the trans movement has ever faced. Suddenly “transgender” was a buzzword, and as someone who was newly out and proud, I was thrown in the middle of it. Shortly after me, several major celebrities came out as trans. As President Obama and the Supreme Court ruled on trans inclusivity, more parents began to rally for their trans youth — something I never could have imagined as a closeted 10-year-old.
For a brief glorious moment, it felt as though the trans community was finally on the road to acceptance. How quickly that changed. Lately we have found ourselves targeted everywhere from the military all the way to public bathrooms in an attempt to scare us away from public spaces. We’ve seen trans immigrants and refugees blocked from our country, while trans people of color and disabled trans people have felt the greatest brunt of our current administration. Our community still has a long treacherous journey before we’re rolling in pink roses beneath blue skies. But for all we hear about trans people in the news, how
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much do we hear about the lives we actually live? Despite having become a voice for an entire community, I can remember the struggle I faced to find real answers for my own journey. That’s what this issue is for. Whether you’re young, questioning, old, queer, gender fluid, learning how to do lipstick or figuring out that new tie, wondering what hormones may have to offer or just hoping to connect with others in the community, our hope is that this guide will help answer some of the questions in your mind. And if you’re cisgender (that is, happy with how you were assigned at birth), I urge you to use this section to learn about the issues that the T in LGBT still faces. SFGN proudly unveiled the first Transgender Special Edition in April of 2017. This time around though, we’re shaking it up. On page 24, our award-winning graphic board game “Chutes and Ladders: Transition Edition” is there to allow you a real glimpse into the chaos involved with transitioning. For each hurdle passed, you’ll find at least one story to give you a much deeper glimpse into the experience of transitioning. I’ll be honest, it’s not nearly as fun or as easy as Uncle Chad might have you believe... it is, however, worth it. So whether you’re trans or questioning and in need of some direction on your own journey (for as unique as it’s bound to be!) or you’re an ally who’s eager to be more informed, you’re sure to find something of interest within this section. “Transgender” isn’t a buzzword… it’s a journey, and I’m honored to bring you SFGN’s second special section entirely dedicated to such. Without further ado, welcome to this year’s transgender special edition.
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Pronouns It's not just about preference. If you think pronouns aren't important, try calling the Queen "sir." I doubt you would... so why do so to trans youth, who certainly don't have the Royal Guard to protect them from chilling statistics? When someone changes their preferred pronoun, it brings an overwhelming sense of completion and validation to who they are. And the best way to be an ally is to respect their identity.
He/him/his: masculine She/her/hers: feminine They/them/theirs: gender neutral There are other non-traditional preferred pronouns, like zhe/zhim/zher or xe/xem/xyr, and many more. If you ever sincerely mess up a pronoun, just apologize and respectfully move on. DOn't make a scene, it does more harm than good.
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CHUTES AND LADDERS
Chutes and Ladders
Transition Edition Want to experience the ups and downs of transitioning? Try this game and see how far you make it! Brendon Lies
Rules: Take turns making your way across the board. You may skip forward at the designated milestones. Remember, choose the path that works for you. If you need help understanding a milestone, be sure to turn to the designated story!
1 Come out
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1 • COMING OUT
The Dog Who
Transgender Edition
Saved My Life Brendon Lies
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s of March 24, 2018, I’ve been one day, thinking whimsically to myself, taking testosterone for four ‘If only I could be that unapologetically years. authentic.’ Among my friends, I like to refer to this My new dog was imperfectly perfect, as my Manniversary – that is, the date that and to be honest I was a little jealous. I celebrate the beginning of my transition. It didn’t take much longer for the For myself and many others who correlate rest of my life’s perfect façade to begin a specific date to the beginning of their crumbling. A number of things led me to transition, I celebrate it like a second rediscover the other feelings I had buried birthday. during my childhood. But once I came But this year, I want to dedicate a out, it became a household joke. I began column to the one who stuck by my side to cross dress in the car before driving to the whole time. school, then would change back when I A year before I came out, I was in what got home. you call the perfect relationship. I was in But even on the days I forgot to decollege, had a secure place to live, and was masculinize before I went upstairs, my fairly popular. little dog loved me all the same. Yet deep down, something still felt As bad went to worse, my relationship wrong… something was missing. finally crumbled. We decided it was for So I talked my partner into getting the best that I head in my own a puppy. direction, and I was sent We found Willow on packing. Shortly after, I Craigslist, listed by a dropped out of school. She didn’t family who was allergic But you know who but loved her dearly. stayed with me? My care what my When we went little dog Willow. name was, what to meet her, she I was battling immediately jumped with emotions gender I was, or into my arms and I that had been where we were in buried for almost was certain my life was finally complete. a decade. Once I this wild ride There was no way found roommates called life. for me to know how who would take me wrong I was. in, I began fighting to In my mind, this precious see a therapist and begin nine-month-old Papilliontestosterone therapy to see if dachshund mix was the last accessory that would help ease the feelings I had needed for me to feel happy as a woman. buried for so long. She’d come with me everywhere with Yet no matter how hard I broke down at her pink collar, pink dress, and sparkling night, it was always my little dog Willow brown eyes. who stayed by my side. But she didn’t act like a girl at all. As my Once I started hormone therapy, the first dog, I was shocked by her tendency to results were slower than I had hoped for roll in dirt, eat vomit, and lunge at bigger at first. I was frustrated, still a long way off dogs during our walks. from any of the surgeries I needed, and In a way, she was relatable. struggling to find a job. I remember watching her hump a toy There was one night in particular that
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my dysphoria was at its worst. I got home after a long night of panic attacks only to sit down with my eyes fixated upon a can of paint thinner, wondering if there was still any point in trying. Then a little dog jumped in my lap, suddenly as eager for attention as the day I first brought her home. She didn’t care what my name was, what gender I was, or where we were in this wild ride called life. All that mattered is we were together, and her reminder brought me back to Earth. It’s been four years, and Willow still jumps into my arms every time I get home. Whenever I feel trapped in an impossible situation, whether or not it has to do with
my transition, I know Willow will still be by my side. A lot of people have gotten to know her and have asked, “Does she treat you any differently now than she used to?” Yet like me, she knows that I’m the same person, just happier on the inside. And I think she is too. After all, little Willow helped me in this journey… and I’m pretty sure she knows that. I even got a hysterectomy last year and top surgery the year before, resolving the two most uncomfortable things that still plagued my transition. And besides my mom, you know who else refused to leave my side during those long weeks of recovery? My little dog Willow.
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Transgender Edition
The Guide to Hormones
The complications, the exceptions, and how they tie to the trans experience Brendon Lies
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or many trans individuals, hormone replacement therapy is the epitome of healing options for treating gender dysphoria. There are countless effects of hormones; for trans women who take estrogen, they can experience a softening of features, new curves, decrease of muscle mass, less body hair, and even development of breasts, to name a few. Trans men who take testosterone experience a voice drop, hardened features, an evolved sex drive and even facial hair (not to mention some extra hair everywhere else). Ultimately, hormones are responsible for secondary sex characteristics, meaning anything typically developed during puberty. For the trans person who may have been suffering since childhood, these changes can be a powerful relief. On the flip-side, they cannot undo characteristics that developed during the ‘first round’ of puberty. That may be where different surgeries come in, although that is ultimately up to the individual to decide. Yet physical changes aren’t the only thing that hormones affect. Energy level, mood, and even overall brain function can be affected by hormones. As an example, many trans men including myself recall estrogen-driven anger as hysteric and even sad. Yet on testosterone, anger becomes more of a powerdriven state that is far more physical. Hormone therapy may also result in unintended side effects. There is a small chance that one may suffer an allergic reaction to the oil used to preserve hormones prior to injection. A rare but much greater concern is the possible development of venous thromboembolism, yet according to Henk Asscheman, MD, PhD, who spoke on the results of a 2014 study, “When using the guidelines from the Endocrine
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Society [Endocrine Treatment of Transsexual Persons], you are not going to see a lot of comorbidities with cross-sex hormone treatment." Asscheman’s study followed over 2,000 trans patients over the course of a year and found that less than one percent suffered from venous thromboembolism. For this reason, it is still highly recommended that hormone therapy patients continue permanent ongoing checkups with a health provider to screen for any negative symptoms. Contrary to popular belief, hormones are not temporary; once therapy begins, it is a lifelong process that will likely only be discontinued if a doctor sees it as detrimental to one’s health. Many of the changes and risks may not be seen as a benefit, occasionally leading an individual to pause or cease hormone therapy altogether. Nonetheless, the changes that hormones offer are generally seen as beneficial enough to pursue treatment. For those who are able to use hormones in their transition, it is a necessity that comes with additional hurdles — the complication of insurance, receiving a therapist’s approval, and finding a trans-friendly doctor. Fortunately for those in South Florida, there are many options, depending on location. Yet even for the trans person who decides against or is unable to complete hormone therapy, it is crucial to understand that their decision should not reflect on their authenticity. The trans community always has and will continue to have those who choose not to conform to certain standards. Hormone therapy, surgery, and even what clothes are worn are ultimately their decision. They say every journey is different. But if the shoe fits, wear it.
The steps to begin
Regardless of where you go or what your treatment options would involve for hormone therapy, there are generally routine steps one can expect from hormone therapy. 1. Visit a therapist In order to begin hormones, it’s a requirement in Florida to receive a letter of approval from a certified therapist. This may seem unnecessary, especially for a trans person who is well aware of their identity. Nonetheless, speaking to a therapist may still provide an important outlet for preparing oneself for the changes ahead. 2. Find a certified endocrinologist While endocrinology is widespread for diabetic patients, it is much harder to find a doctor who is willing to treat transgender patients. Once a doctor is located, they will require the therapist’s letter in order to begin treatment. 3. Beginning treatment Early on, one can expect that the doctors will insist on administering the hormones during visits. This may also be a requirement based on insurance or the practice itself. There are a variety of options, including topical gels, intramuscular injections, and even some oral prescriptions. 4. Self-treatment If self-administering hormones eventually becomes an option, blood work will still be required on a fairly regular basis. Regardless of treatment, it is crucial to maintain treatment; too little or even too much in one dose may result in a body’s overcompensation, resulting in detransition. 5. Monitoring progress The first few months may see changes, or they may not. It is important to be patient, and take pride in every road mark. Many trans individuals monitor their progress with selfies, videos or blogs.
If you are considering hormone therapy, do not rely on this guide alone. Visit WPATH.org or reach out to SunServe or Care Resource to find a doctor or therapist to speak to about treatment options.
6 • THERAPIST
Transgender Edition
Trans-Friendly Therapists The first step to forever Brendon Lies
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ne might not be sure how far they’ll need to transition — in fact, they may not even be sure at first that they’re trans. For that reason, a good counselor or therapist at the beginning of one’s transition is crucial. Yet even if one’s heart already knows where their journey must take them, an inclusive and welleducated therapist is the ticket to receiving the letters necessary for any further steps in that journey. Many therapists, especially in South Florida, will even have connections with other trans-friendly doctors and are able to connect patients with clinics that currently accept patients for various types of transrelated care such as hormone therapy or various types of reconstructive surgeries (many of which may not advertise themselves). In addition, many years of closeted living can result in other traumas for trans people. The safe, confidential space that therapists can provide is often enough to help one draw the line in the sand between their struggles as they learn to navigate their identity. Depending on where someone is located or what their financial situation is, a reputable therapist may be tough to come by. The best option is often to start by asking a local LGBT center for recommendations. Many centers even have in-house therapists who are able to speak with new clients about transitioning. If you are planning to come out, having a professional who is familiar with the experiences of the transgender community to connect with and speak privately to about your experience is vital.
a good counselor or therapist at the beginning of one’s transition is crucial.
The list below is not a substitute for any professional recommendations, nor is there any guarantee they will accept your insurance or preferred form of payment. The best way to find out if your situation may be accommodated is to call. It may take multiple attempts to find a suitable match for your situation.
Palm Beach
Boca Raton
Michele Lifland and Lynn Allen Spectrum Counseling Clinical Social Work/ Therapist, LCSW, CCh Palm Beach, Florida 33480 (954) 951-9524
Lawrence J. Levy, Psy.D., P.A. 398 Camino Gardens Boulevard, Suite 207 Boca Raton, Florida 33432 (561) 739-2242
Fort Lauderdale Andre Caruso, Psychologist, Psy.D. 4390 N Federal Hwy Fort Lauderdale, Florida 33308 (954) 951-4402
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Lexa Bender, MA Counseling and Wellness Center of South Florida 11011 Sheridan Street, Suite 211 Hollywood, Florida 33026 (407) 269-8149
Angel Lopez-Griman, Counselor, LMHC, NCC, MCAP ALG Counseling 2000 S Dixie HWY Suite 104 Miami, Florida 33133 (786) 623-2909
SFGN does not officially endorse the reputability of any of the above therapists. If you are interested in receiving help but are unsure where to begin, you can reach out to the Trans Services Department at SunServe.org/Programs/Transgender-Services.
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11 • SURGERY OPTIONS
Transgender Edition
Six Tips Before
Surgery Brendon Lies
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f you’re trans, you know that there isn’t just one surgery. In fact, there are dozens. And there’s a good chance at some point you’ll hear about one that would ease a lot of discomfort for you. Regardless of why you get surgery or which one(s) you choose, there are things you may need to keep in mind before you make the jump and sign up for a consultation.
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It’s OK to be scared
If you’re thinking about a surgery that you know you need, it’s alright to feel hesitancy or even fear. It’s entirely normal to panic before we face change. It might do you good to research first-person accounts. Another thing you should do, and what many surgeons will require, is that you speak to a therapist first to help your mind settle. That brings us right to the next point…
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Don’t feel pressured into it
Our society imposes gender roles on everyone, whether gay, straight, male, female, agender, gender fluid, etc. Don’t feel like you need to follow those roles. If one surgery interests you but another doesn’t, or if no surgeries interest you, that’s alright! It’s your body, and the last thing you want is to make your life even more uncomfortable. You’re still valid, no matter what you choose.
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There are many options
Take time to do your research, but don’t be overwhelmed. Sometimes the best answers you can get are from others who have been through it before. Fortunately in South Florida, the trans community is large enough that you’re likely to find someone with answers at a trans group somewhere at least reasonably close to your area. And don’t just research what type of surgery you want — look into the surgeons too, as you’ll learn that not all scalpels are equal.
Find people to help you through
If you go through with surgery, not everyone is going to understand. It’s a huge benefit if you can find others who are there to help you through, whether emotionally or during the physical recovery period. You might experience a lot of different emotions from surgery — but even if they’re good feelings, there’s nothing like having a support system to eagerly listen.
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It won’t make everything perfect
While you likely already know this, it’s highly worth mentioning. No surgery is going to fix all your life’s woes. That isn’t to downplay what a surgery can do for someone; when you opt for a procedure, it’s to alleviate a major discomfort holding you back. And of course with that one problem out of the way, it will help clear your mind for the many other problems that life will still have to offer.
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Be patient
For something as expensive and sometimes complicated as surgery, it’s no surprise that many trans people end up waiting a very long time to get a surgery done. Even if your insurance covers surgery, it might not cover all of it — so be ready for a waiting period. The more you begin to realize you need a procedure completed, the harder it can be, so don’t hesitate to find a therapist or some friends to speak to… But no matter how you cope, the most important thing is you keep your hopes up. Even if it’s one day or one dollar at a time.
This column is for information only, and doesn’t constitute medical advice. If you’re trans or questioning and would like more information or help regarding the types of surgery available, you can reach out to the Trans Services Department at SunServe.org/Programs/Transgender-Services.
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What’s In A Name
A guide to beginning a name change in South Florida Brendon Lies
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oming out as trans means the birth of the real you. For many trans people, that means changing your first – and sometimes middle or even last – name. Some trans people find that getting their new name is a significant rite of passage that marks the beginning to discovering the person they’ve always been inside. Yet for others, it’s just a necessary step to prevent being “outed” by society. Many even change their last name during the process, a step that may be necessary to hide their identity from family members. Either way, a name change can be a necessary nightmare. Unfortunately, a name change process varies from county to county as well as from state to state, meaning there are few guides to be found when it comes to beginning this process. The good news is that South Florida’s coast is progressive. While you still have a good deal of paperwork to fill out, it’s highly unlikely that you’ll suffer any ignorance from the court system itself. In fact, there are even centers (including SunServe) that will happily assist you through the entire process. And before you lose hope because of potential expenses, requesting a form of indigence from the court can reduce or even nullify your fees for a name change, depending on the county. Whether you’re choosing your new name because you’re afraid that a masculine name would 'out' you to a police officer that sees you as a woman, or because you want to mark the beginning of your new life ahead, this guide will hopefully help those in South Florida who are looking to begin the process. Note: The information provided is a guide, not legal advice. Laws vary from county to county and may change or vary based on individual circumstance. If you need further assistance, it’s best to reach out to one of the organizations listed at the end of the article for more accurate or up to date information.
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1. Beginning steps
2. Submit fingerprints
To begin, go to your county courthouse and request the paperwork for a legal name change, which may cost around $32 (although the fee may also be waived with the right paperwork). The receptionist may ask what type of name change you’re planning to get, which is necessary to determine which paperwork you’ll need; for example, changing your last name due to marriage is a much shorter process. When asked, answer that you want to change your first name. It’s unlikely they will require any further information, but if so, remember that you are not required to out yourself. While you’re speaking to the receptionist, also request the form of indigence. Even if you feel that the form will be denied based on your income level, your past debts will also be considered and you might be relieved to find it’s approved. Once you receive your name change instructions, you’ll find that everything is thoroughly explained. You have as much time as you need to fill it out, but if you choose to find a friend or professional to assist you, make sure they fill out their name on the paperwork in the designated area to identify themselves as an assistant in the legal process. For legal purposes, this article would even count as a resource and would need to be listed. Some of the other required information includes all past addresses within your lifetime (within the U.S.), social security, past felonies, and any schools that you’ve attended.
If you’ve already received your instructions from the court, they’ll include instructions for when and where to complete this step. The state of Florida usually requires name change applicants to get their fingerprints taken, a process that generally requires a fee of around $25 regardless of whether or not your indigency form was approved. The process itself takes about five minutes not counting possible waiting time. Upon completion, you receive a form that should be delivered to the courthouse before the rest of the process can continue. 3. Return your documents to the court Once your documents are complete and your fingerprints have been taken, return to the controller’s office at the courthouse to file for the name change. There’s a small processing fee that may vary. Then comes the waiting. 4. Wait for a letter Once everything has been submitted, wait for your letter from the court. Because the reasons behind changing a first name may be considered ‘nefarious,’ Florida courts will require that a judge review the name change before it’s approved. If anything has been found out of place that prevents the name change, you’ll receive a letter
Transgender Edition to clarify what needs to be modified or Security before driver’s licenses or completed prior to your ruling. identification since Social Security is However, if everything is in order, you’ll federal as opposed to state identification, have one of two outcomes. which is local. It’s also safe to hang onto The first is a court date, which means the receipt from the Social Security office appearing before a judge on the given date. if possible. This might seem like the worstThe most obvious next step is case scenario, but it usually updating your driver’s license just involves appearing in or identification. If you’ve court where you’ll be been lucky up to this No matter asked by a judge why point, you may find which you wish to change the atmosphere of your name. How documents you’re the DMV to be the you answer is your most intimidating updating, rest decision, but so part of this process. assured that there But as long as you long as your reason doesn’t involve are people to help come equipped with anything nefarious, the letter from the you along the it’s unlikely that the judge and a receipt way. judge will give you a from the Social Security hard time. This is not the office, you should have no case in many states, where problems. name changes have been denied, Per current Florida law, a letter so be sure to count your blessings if you’re from a therapist is all you need to prove applying in South Florida. your gender. So for many, it’s ideal to do The other possibility is that you’ll both at once. Speak to a certified therapist receive a letter saying that the court case ahead of time if you wish to complete was waived and your name change was this step, but consider printing out the approved by a judge’s review. In this case, current Florida laws for gender changes on your letter will include a court approval licenses if you’re worried that the staff of and is legally binding, but keep in mind this the DMV will try to deny you. is a non-notarized form. To amend your All other documents you have will driver’s license, birth certificate, passport also need to be updated, including rental or social security, it may be helpful to leases, bank accounts, insurance and your return to the courthouse controller’s office name at work. You’ll find that the name for a notarized name change order. change process is fairly long, as some steps may not become applicable until 5. Updating your you do your taxes the next year; but no documents matter which documents you’re updating, rest assured that there are people to help Once you’ve done your name change, you along the way. And trust me, it’s you need to update your Social Security well worth the hassle once you’re done. card. It’s usually best to update Social
For more help regarding a name change in Broward County, reach out to SunServe at Sunserve.org. In Palm Beach County, reach out to the Compass GLCC at CompassGLCC.com, and in Miami-Dade, contact the Pridelines at Pridelines.org.
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31 • SMILE AT YOUR REFLECTION
Transgender Edition
What Is Dysphoria?
A trans man tries to explain from his experience Brendon Lies
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ven though I get asked often, it’s almost impossible to describe dysphoria. After all, every trans person’s experience with dysphoria is different – a few don’t even feel dysphoria, but for those who do, it can be literally unbearable. I’ve heard from many trans individuals I’ve spoken to that puberty is likely to be the worst, since that’s when secondary sex characteristics first develop. But even when speaking for myself, it’s impossible to find the right words to explain what that’s like. So instead, I’ll take you on a journey. When I was a kid, everything about men is what I wanted to be when I grew up. I’m not talking about career opportunities, respect in society, or even how to dress. I wanted the whole nine yards. Whenever I saw a woman wiggle her chest, I felt actual disgust – and at some point, I decided that wouldn’t be me. I couldn’t explain why, it just wouldn’t. I would be a miracle of science and would prove everyone wrong. I simply decided that, once I hit puberty, I would get facial hair, my voice would drop, and everyone would suddenly realize they had been wrong all along. I was convinced. In fact, in seventh grade I happened to get a cold, and I was certain that it lowered my voice several notes. But then I stopped growing.
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My hips got bigger, other guys got taller and started to grow awkward moustaches while their voices properly dropped. And I was stuck with a pixie voice and a bald face. That, for me, was the beginning of dysphoria. It’s like having a hand grow from your elbow. For some kids it starts even younger, sometimes even as soon as they can point at themselves in the mirror. I once heard a story of a three-year-old “boy” who tried to perform self-reassignment-surgery with a safety scissors… the distraught parents took their child to therapy, and soon learned they had a daughter. Dysphoria is no joke. It’s a slow grinding feeling of wrongness, the same gradual pain and numbness that you feel when you get a tattoo beaten into your skin. When you first notice it, it might not be so bad. But over the weeks, months and years, with no cure or acknowledgement, it only gets worse. I’m lucky that for me, hormone therapy was a strong tool that helped relieve the majority of my dysphoria. I finally got the facial hair that I had felt doomed without, my voice dropped into what feels like a normal pitch, I lost a lot of weight on my lower half, and even my hands have more veins. But that wasn’t the only step. As a trans man, I still had the type of busty chest that
most cisgender women happily wear. Just over a year ago, I found myself sitting up late on Google, frantically searching for sterile ways to perform a self-surgery. My insurance had denied my procedure, and I told myself that a self-surgery couldn’t possibly be any more agonizing than what I had been going through. Then I found myself on the Wikipedia page for “Self-Mutilation.” You know what one of the number one causes is? Gender dysphoria. People get so tired of waiting for surgery that they grab scissors and flip a coin to decide between their wrist or their genitals. The next day I called my mother, and we set a goal to save up for my top surgery within four months. Keep in mind even being able to call my parents on the phone makes me one of the lucky ones. That alone is a sad testament to how far trans people have to go before we’re respected. The number one remedy for dysphoria according to countless therapists and organizations is to be allowed to transition and receive whatever medical care is necessary. When we restrain trans people from the care they need, it encourages one of two things: hiding who they are while hoping that the dam doesn’t break, or taking matters into their own hands. Of course, some trans people may not feel dysphoria towards certain parts of
their body. A trans man, perhaps, might hate his chest but have no issue with his voice. It’s important not to push trans people to transition completely unless they choose to do so, or they risk developing an entirely new case of dysphoria. It’s no one’s business what is deemed “complete” for someone’s transition except for the person who is living through it. Not to mention, many surgeries are still being developed – countless trans people are fearful of lower or even upper surgeries (i.e. voice modification surgery, body masculinization surgery, phalloplasty, etc.) because they may be imperfect and come with risks. It’s like a patient turning down spinal surgery because they’re afraid it might completely paralyze them. But for those who take the jump to transition, trust me – it’s not about the aesthetic, and it’s certainly not to “trick” anyone… it’s because it’s their only option. Stabbing your thigh with a weekly hormone injection for the rest of your life isn’t fun, nor is going under anesthesia to prepare for a long painful recovery. It’s done because it’s a necessity to tolerate your own reflection. As a community, we have to eliminate the stigma of treating gender dysphoria. Trans people deserve rights, and the greatest right is to be who we are, free of pain or trauma. And that means respecting our right to transition.
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History Head down to the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Wilton Manors Gallery, 2157 Wilton Dr., tonight at 7 p.m. for the opening reception for “Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals 1933 – 1945.” The exhibition, curated by the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum, includes photographs and documents detailing that dark era for gays in Europe. A $5 donation is suggested. More information at Stonewall-Museum.org.
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Concert Shake, shake, shake your booty tonight at 8 p.m. at the Hard Rock Events Center at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel and Casino in Hollywood. Seventies superstars K.C. and the Sunshine Band will roll back the clock and perform all your favorite disco hits, including “I’m Your Boogie Man,” “Boogie Shoes,” “That’s the Way,” “Sound Your Funky Horn” and “Shake Your Booty.” Tickets start at $35 at MyHRL.com.
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Here comes the latest summer sequel: “Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again,” featuring the music of seventies superband ABBA, opening this weekend in theaters nationwide. Escape the summer heat with cool hits like “Waterloo,” “I Have a Dream,” “The Name of the Game,” “Knowing Me, Knowing You” and more. The all-star cast includes Meryl Streep, Amanda Seyfried, Pierce Brosnan, Christine Baranski and Andy Garcia. Making a special appearance is 72-year-old (and still totally fabulous) diva Cher. Check local listings for theaters and show times. Credit: Universal Pictures.
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The Symphony of the Americas celebrates its 27th annual Summerfest with a special concert tonight at 7 p.m. at the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale. Soloists from 10 renowned European orchestras will join the symphony for a festive musical program conducted by artistic director James BrooksBruzzese. Additional performances will be offered across the region all month. Tickets at BrowardCenter.org.
Don’t miss the world premiere production of S.P. Monahan’s new comedy, “Aunt Jack,” at Empire Stage, 1140 N. Flagler Dr. in Fort Lauderdale, through Aug. 12. Think of “Aunt Jack” as a fresh take on the classic gender-bending French comedy “La Cage aux Folles.” Traditional roles get turned upside down as a young gay man confronts his gay “parents” with a new boyfriend. Tickets $35 at EmpireStage.com.
Georgie’s Alibi/Monkey Bar in the Shoppes of Wilton Manors hosts “Bartenders, Boxers & Briefs,” a fundraiser for Tuesday’s Angels, tonight beginning at 9 p.m. You’ll have the opportunity to bid on sexy underwear modeled by your favorite bartenders and win prizes, too. Mistresses of ceremonies and auctioneers include Nikki Adams, Dame Edna and Miss Kitty. For more information, go to Alibi.lgbt.
If you’re looking for laughs tonight, forget the comedy club! Instead, head to your local movie theater, where Fathom Events presents “Out on Stage: The Movie” at 8 p.m. This one-night special features 17 toprated LGBTQ comedians, including Zach Roe, Irene Tu, Gloria Bigelow, Casey Ley, Julian Michael and Janine Brito, discussing all sorts of taboo subjects as only they can. Tickets are $15 at FathomEvents.com.
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CELEBRATED CRUISE PERFORMER BRINGS SHOW TO FORT LAUDERDALE Edwin Neimann If you have been on a cruise (and who in this town hasn’t?), chances are you have seen Perry Grant perform. As one of the longest running cruise performers in the world, Perry has taken his show all over the seas on some of the world’s most popular cruise lines including Princess Cruises, Celebrity Cruises, Crystal Cruises, Holland America Line and Saga Cruises. During his 25+ year career, Perry has performed with notable Hollywood MGM legends such as Debbie Reynolds, June Allyson, Ann Miller and Jane Powell, and Perry has also held numerous prestigious hotel and bar residencies around the world. Perry Grant’s shows feature a live orchestra, dancers, and Perry on the piano. While performing, Perry dons shiny suits, flamboyant hats, jewelry, and accessories. Many of Perry’s fans have been following him around for years, booking their cruises to coincide with his performance schedule. Fortunately, fans of Perry Grant have the chance to see him one night only here in Ft. Lauderdale. On Saturday, August 18th, Perry brings his show to the Sunshine Cathedral. SFGN had the chance to speak with Perry about his career and his upcoming show in Fort Lauderdale: What are some of your biggest career highlights? In addition to working with some Hollywood BMB legends, I had the honor of performing twice for both Princess Diana and Prince Charles in London, once for Aspects of Love charity gala, and another time for the Grand Opening of Terminal Four at Heathrow Airport. Meeting Princess Diana and speaking with her up close and personal was an experience I will never forget. I dedicate a song to her at every one of my shows because she touched my heart and left this world a better place. What prompted you to bring your show to Ft. Lauderdale? Since I have thousands of fans in many
Perry with MGM legend Ann Miller.
different countries around the world, my main priority was to select a city that my fans could easily fly to. I also wanted to select a city with world class shopping, dining, and sightseeing, so my fans could do lots of things before and after the show. I had heard excellent things about Sunshine Cathedral’s acoustics and large stage, and I knew it was the perfect place for my show the minute I walked in. What do you have planned for the show at Sunshine Cathedral? The audience is going to be dazzled by this high energy show filled with dancers, live orchestra, glitzy costumes, musical comedy, and iconic American songs. “Perry Grant Live in Fort Lauderdale” is an all new show that incorporates many different visual elements and classic Broadway songs, immersing the audience with nostalgia to a bygone era of classic Hollywood glamour. Sunshine Cathedral’s state-of-the-art sound system is going to bring the live orchestra roaring to life, electrifying the fusion of dancers, lights, singing and special effects. The audience will sing along when they hear their favorite classic Americana songs made famous by legends such as Frank Sinatra, Judy Garland, Peter Allen, Shirley Bassey, Ethel Merman, and many others. I’ll also be debuting some newly written musical arrangements and songs. We will also have a special guest artist or two perform, including local celebrity vocalist Sara Burns. The extravaganza will close with showstopping numbers, Broadway style dancing, and a spectacular encore!
See Perry Grant with the Sunshine Orchestra Saturday, August 18 at 8 p.m. at Sunshine Cathedral, 1480 SW 9th Ave. Tickets start at $19 (VIP $100) and are available at Eventbrite by searching Sunshine Cathedral.
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Brett Karlin, artistic director of the Master Chorale of South Florida, will lead a rehearsal of choral masterworks on July 28. Singers of all ages and abilities are invited to join in the annual Summer Sing. Credit: Master Chorale of South Florida.
SING Along with the Master Chorale this Summer J.W. Arnold
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f you like to sing, but find the shower to be a limiting venue, the Master Chorale of South Florida has an opportunity for
you. On Saturday, July 28, the semiprofessional chorus will host its annual Summer Sing and is extending an invitation to singers from all backgrounds to join them for an informal rehearsal of treasured choral classics. More than 100 singers are expected to gather at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church to tackle masterworks by Franz Joseph Haydn, Hector Berlioz and Leonard Bernstein. “Even if you’re not the best singer or maybe sang in high school, this is an opportunity to just show up and sing these great works,” explained Brett Carlin, artistic director. “If you’re not confident with your ability to sight read, there will still be 60 to 80 members of the chorale there, making it an awesome opportunity to sing with some help.” The selections were pulled from the chorale’s upcoming season, including “Bernstein at 100,” Oct. 26 -28; Berlioz “Te Deum,” Feb. 23-24; and Haydn’s “Creation,” May 3-5. The Bernstein works are special for Karlin because this year is the centennial of Bernstein’s birth and the chorale will present a special anniversary concert in
October, including a world premiere work by composer Dominic DiOrio. The biggest benefit for Summer Sing participants, he said, is the opportunity to meet and network with new friends “who also enjoy music and art and films and other things musicians like.” And, of course, the event serves as a membership recruiting opportunity for the chorale. “Folks (can) see what it’s like to be a member of the Master Chorale of South Florida for a day…see what our director, accompanist and singers are like, our rehearsals…if they’re interested they can find out about joining,” Karlin said. Over the years, the chorale has also performed with the New World Symphony, Cleveland Orchestra and South Florida Symphony. For the past eight years, the Master Chorale has been featured in sold out Valentine’s Day concerts with acclaimed Italian tenor Andrea Bocelli at the Hard Rock Live. “Although our singers are largely volunteers, we do have a small professional core and our product is professional quality,” praised Karlin, who has led the organization for five seasons and was also recently named music director for the Master Chorale of Tampa Bay.
The Master Chorale of South Florida Summer Sing will be held on Saturday, July 28 from 10:30 a.m. – 1 p.m. at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church, 5555 N. Federal Hwy. in Fort Lauderdale. Parking is available behind the church. The event is free, but singers are requested to register by July 25 at MasterChoraleOfSouthFlorida.org.
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Joe Trembly Advocates for Broward’s LGBTQ Homeless Individuals National studies show LGBTQ youth have more than double the risk of being homeless than non-LGBTQ youth and 40 percent of all homeless young people self-identify as LGBTQ. Kirk Englehardt
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oe Trembly is happy to help humanize the issue of LGBTQ homelessness if it means increased recognition of the problem and more resources to fight it in Broward County.
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he 53-year-old Fort Lauderdale “I am open with who I am there, which resident was once a homeless gay obviously creates an opportunity for man and forced to take shelter in some individuals, who will then ask me a Fort Lauderdale dumpster. Today, he about other services. I want Keystone is the homeless management security Halls to be known as a safe place, that officer at Keystone Halls, a 90-bed when you think of LGBT homelessness, transitional housing facility Keystone comes to mind, for veterans and others then people will not feel so who are experiencing “I want Keystone uncomfortable coming.” homelessness, including individuals suffering from Stigma, Halls to be known Homeless chemical dependency. Invisible Population Belie Trembly’s outreach Extent of Problem as a safe place, efforts and commitment LGBTQ homelessness that when you to helping South Florida’s is undoubtedly a major LGBTQ homeless issue of concern in think of LGBT population are attracting Broward County, which the attention of funders like has Florida’s largest homelessness, the Community Foundation percentage population of of Broward, which recently couples and is Keystone comes to same-sex announced a $75,000 grant likely home to the largest to Keystone Halls for a new LGBTQ population mind, then people overall LGBTQ transitional housing in the state. But actually program for 45 individuals counting the LGBTQ will not feel so who are experiencing homeless population is homelessness because of hard to do, because of uncomfortable negative circumstances in the stigma attached to their lives. being homeless, coupled coming.” The grant to Keystone with the desire by many - Joe Trembly Halls was one of five awards LGBTQ individuals totaling $300,000 from the to remain invisible at Community Foundation of Broward as homeless shelters that serve the general part of its Broward Pride Program, with population. the goal of uniting Broward’s diverse A national study released in late 2017 community to ensure equality, justice and by Chapin Hall at the University of inclusion of Broward’s LGBT neighbors. Chicago showed LGBTQ youth have more “Oftentimes what we find is that people than double the risk of being homeless still don’t want to identify (as LGBTQ) in than non-LGBTQ youth. Similarly, a order to obtain services or they don’t detailed national 2012 study of homeless feel safe in the shelters, especially for LGBTQ youth by researchers at the transgender individuals,” said Trembly. Williams Institute of UCLA showed that
Joe Trembly, who 30 years ago was a homeless gay man living on the streets of Fort Lauderdale, speaks to LGBTQ community leaders at the Community Foundation of Broward. The Foundation recently announced the award of five grants totaling $300,000 as part of its Broward Pride program, including a grant to an innovative program championed by Trembly. Credit: Community Foundation of Broward nearly 40 percent of all homeless young people self-identify as LGBTQ. “Even without concrete local statistics, we know LGBTQ homelessness exists,” said Linda Carter, President/CEO, Community Foundation of Broward. “It’s our role to identify issues that matter in Broward County and support bold, innovative projects like the Keystone Halls LGBTQ transitional housing program, to begin to meet those needs.” Broward
Pride, A Report to the Community The Community Foundation of Broward recently produced and
distributed “Broward Pride, A Report to the Community,” which captured the voices of more than 50 Broward residents who came together in multiple meetings to analyze the current state of LGBTQ acceptance and inclusion in Broward. The report is available for download at http:// cfbroward.link/BrowardPrideReport2018 For more information about Keystone Halls, the Broward Pride study or about the Community Foundation of Broward, please email Kirk Englehardt, Vice President of Marketing and Communications at the Community Foundation (kenglehardt@cfbroward. org) or call 954-761-9503.
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A Summer of Studio Ghibli Films
July 18 and 21 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Morikami Museum & Japanese Gardens, 4000 Morikami Park Road, Delray Beach. Journey into two fantastic films by Hayao Miyazaki: ‘Castle in the Sky’ and ‘Kiki’s Delivery Service.’ Tickets $5. Visit morikami.org.
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broward county *The Rocky Horror Show
July 26 to 27 at 1:30 p.m. and 7 p.m. at the Coral Springs Center for the Arts, 2855 Coral Springs Drive. The premiere teen performance of the classic, ‘Rocky Horror Picture Show.’ Tickets are $9 for the 1:30 p.m. showing and $18 for the 7 p.m. showing. Visit thecentercs.com or call 954-344-5990.
Aunt Jack
July 19 to August 12 at Empire Stage, 1140 N. Flagler Dr., Fort Lauderdale. This part comedy, part coming of age story follows a multigenerational family of prominent gays as they learn about love, acceptance, identity and sexuality. Tickets $35. Call 954-678-1496.
Friday Night Sound Waves Music Series
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Woody Guthrie’s American Song
July 26 to 27 at 1:30 p.m. and 7 p.m. at the Coral Springs Center for the Arts, 2855 Coral Springs Drive. The premiere teen performance of the classic, ‘Rocky Horror Picture Show.’ Tickets are $9 for the 1:30 p.m. showing and $18 for the 7 p.m. showing. Visit thecentercs.com or call 954-344-5990.
Fridays from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. at The Hub, Las Olas Boulevard and A1A in Fort Lauderdale. Enjoy live, outdoor music spanning genres and tributes every Friday evening through November. Free. Visit FridayNightSoundWaves.com
palm beach county
July 13 to August 5 at Palm Beach Dramaworks, 201 Clematis Street, West Palm Beach. A show featuring music inspired by America and the people who fought to find meaning in their lives. Call 561-514-4042.
Cabaret
A Summer of Studio Ghibli Films
Cabaret
July 6 to July 22 at the Studio One Theater, 777 Glades Rd, Boca Raton. A raucous musical that comes roaring to life in the infamous Kit Kat Klub where some of Broadway’s most memorable songs spill onto the stage. Tickets $25. Visit fauevents.com
July 18 and 21 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Morikami Museum & Japanese Gardens, 4000 Morikami Park Road, Delray Beach. Journey into two fantastic films by Hayao Miyazaki: ‘Castle in the Sky’ and ‘Kiki’s Delivery Service.’ Tickets $5. Visit morikami. org.
July 6 to July 22 at the Studio One Theater, 777 Glades Rd, Boca Raton. A raucous musical that comes roaring to life in the infamous Kit Kat Klub where some of Broadway’s most memorable songs spill onto the stage. Tickets $25. Visit fauevents.com
Flashdance the Musical
July 5 to July 22 at the Lake Worth Playhouse. Dance like you’ve never danced before! Flashdance the Musical tells the inspiring and unforgettable story of 18 year old Alex, a welder by day and ‘flashdancer’ by night, who dreams of going to the prestigious Shipley Dance Academy and becoming a professional dancer. Dinner show and regular tickets available, $27 to $58. Visit lakeworthplayhouse.com or call 561-5866410.
miami-dade county Five Women Wearing the Same Dress
July 20 to August 12 at Main Street Players, 6766 Main Street, Miami Lakes. An irreverent and funny look at the intricacies of friendship and the power of similar dressing. Tickets available at MainStreetPlayers.com
Outdoor Music Series
Third Thursdays at the Perez Art Museum Miami, 101 W. Flagler St. in Miami. Come out for live music from DJs and musicians by the bay. Drink specials available. Free with museum admission. Call 305-375-3000 or visit PAMM.org.
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Chamber Chat
Prioritizing Diversity and Inclusion in the Workplace Denise Royal
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hat does inclusion genuinely look like and how can you build it at work? Diversity comes not only in the form of culture, race, and gender but also includes elements such as sexual orientation, socio-economic background, education level, geographic location, and more. Diversity and inclusion in the workplace provide a competitive advantage to any business. That’s why the Greater Fort Lauderdale LGBT Chamber of Commerce (GFLGLCC) is hosting an enlightening day of educational sessions, a networking luncheon, panel discussion, and interactive training. The GFLGLCC has joined forces with Equality Florida, Greater Fort Lauderdale CVB and the YES Institute to present this unique event.
It will be held at Embassy Suites by Hilton - Fort Lauderdale 17th Street Causeway, 1100 SE 17th Street, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33316. Tickets are $99 for GFLGLCC members, $129 for non-members, and the ticket price includes lunch. Parking is free for event attendees. It is $10 for hotel guests. The day begins at 9:30 with check-in and networking until 10:00. 10 to 12: Learning Sessions: “Diversity and Inclusion in the Workplace” and “Equality Means Business” 12 to 1: Lunch 1 to 1:30: Panel Discussion 1:30 to 3:00: Interactive learning Sessions “Diversity and Inclusion in Customer Relations.” Note: Schedule is subject to minor changes and additions.
Diversity and inclusion in the workplace provide a competitive advantage to any business.
For more information visit, https://www.gogayfortlauderdale.com/events/ details/diversity-inclusion-in-the-workplace-7738
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Top Picks Karaoke for Conservation
Friday, July 20 at 8 p.m. at John Martin’s Irish Pub and Restaurant, 253 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables. Enjoy food, drinks, singing and prizes at this fundraiser to increase education and conservation for elephants. Visit zoomiami.org
* Diversity and Inclusion in the Workplace
Thursday, July 19 at the Embassy Suites by Hilton, 1100 SE 17th Street, Fort Lauderdale. An enlightening day of educational sessions, networking luncheon, panel discussion and interactive training. Cost $99 to $129. Visit gogayfortlauderdale.com for details.
* Taco Brunch and All Day Happy Hour
Every Sunday (opening at 8 a.m.) at Mellow Cafe and Gastropub, 1605 N. Roosevelt Blvd, Key West. Spend the day drinking and downing tacos at this all-day happy hour, each week on Sunday!
Broward Support Services PFLAG
Tuesdays in Fort Lauderdale, Coral Springs and Southwest Ranches. A support group for parents of LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and locations.
SunServe Youth Group
Tuesdays and Thursdays in Fort Lauderdale, Southwest Ranches, Coral Springs and Hollywood. A support group and night of fun for LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and times.
Survivor Support
First and third Wednesdays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Broward Health Imperial Point Hospital cafeteria, 6401 N. Federal Highway in Fort Lauderdale. Find support from counselors and peers who have lost loved ones to suicide. Call the Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention at 954-384-0344 or visit FISPOnline.org.
broward county * Diversity and Inclusion in the Workplace
Thursday, July 19 at the Embassy Suites by Hilton, 1100 SE 17th Street, Fort Lauderdale. An enlightening day of educational sessions, networking luncheon, panel discussion and interactive training. Cost $99 to $129. Visit gogayfortlauderdale.com for details.
*GLLN’s Happy Hour at Drynk
Thursday, July 19 from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Drynk Bar and Lounge, 2255 Wilton Drive. Meet with the Gay and Lesbian Lawyers Network over great drink deals and free appetizers.
*Tropical Twilight — Painting
Friday, July 20 fr0m 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. at the Arts & Crafts Social Club, 902 N. Flagler Dr, Fort Lauderdale. Paint mysterious tropical foliage at this BYOB painting class. Materials and supplies are provided, you bring the booze and snacks. Tickets $35. Visit
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Thursday, July 19 from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. at the Stonewall National Museum, 2157 Wilton Drive. Through reproductions of historic photographs and documents, the exhibition explores the rationale, means and impact of the Nazi regime’s persecution of homosexuals, which left thousands dead and shattered the lives of many more. Suggested donation of $5, refreshments provided. Visit stonewallmuseum.org
‘Paragraph 175’
Thursday, July 26 at 6 p.m. at the Stonewall National Museum, 2157 Wilton Drive. Weimar, Germany was a homosexual Eden in the 1920s: gay and lesbian nightclubs and magazines flourished, the first homosexual rights movement was born...and then the Nazis came to power. Suggested donation
July 18 - July 24 of $5, refreshments stonewallmuseum.org.
provided.
Visit
Lunch With Art
Every Wednesday from 12:15 to 1:15 pm at 41 NE st 33060, Pompano Beach. Indulge your creative side in this free hands-on program. Bring your own lunch or grab a bite to eat at the in-house cafe.
Voices of Pride
Meets at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Join the Gay Men’s Chorus as they practice every week. Free. Call 561-533-9699 or visit CompassGLCC. com for rehearsal details.
Life Coaching
Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. at Latinos Salud Clubhouse, 2300 Wilton Drive in Wilton Man-ors. Get one-on-one life coaching from certified CRCS coaches. For guys living with HIV, their partners, and anyone who identifies as transgender. Free. Call 954-765-6239 or visit LatinosSalud.org.
palm beach county *Onyx — Rogue Theory and
Migrate
Thursday, July 19 from 8 p.m. to 11 p.m. at the Arts Garage, 94 NE 2nd Ave, Delray Beach. Live music, local bands, BYOWhatever. $5 for live music and an art walk. Visit artsgarage. org for details.
Brain Sparks — Neuroscientists
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July 7, August 4 & 18 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the STEM Studio, 1209 Main St. #112, Jupiter. Learn about neuroscience and brains from FAU neuroscientists. Register at sfsciencecenter.org/brain-sparks
LGBTQ Teen Support Group
Tuesdays from 6 pm to 7 pm at the Falk Center for Couseling, 22455 Boca Rio Road, Boca Raton. Join experts in a support group that addresses discrimination, coming out, depression, PTSD and how to deal with these stresses as an LGBTQ teen. Call 561483-5300 to register in advance.
Transcendence
Meets at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. A closed transgender youth support group for teens ages 12 to 19. For more information, email youth@compassglcc.com.
miami-dade county Karaoke for Conservation
Friday, July 20 at 8 p.m. at John Martin’s Irish Pub and Restaurant, 253 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables. Enjoy food, drinks, singing and prizes at this fundraiser to increase education and conservation for elephants. Visit zoomiami.org
Arsht Center Farmers Market
Mondays from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Parker and Vann Thomson Plaza for the Arts, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Purchase fresh food from local farmers, including fruits, vegetables, meats, prepared foods, as well as chefs, live music, and cooking demonstrations. Tickets $45 to $75. Free. Visit ArshtCenter.org/en/Visit/Dining.
POZCONNECT Support Group for Spanish Speakers
Mondays 6 to 7:30 p.m. at Pridelines, 6360 NE Fourth Court in Miami. A support group for HIV+ people, in Spanish. Free. Call Eddie at 305-571-9601, ext. 105 or visit Pridelines. org.
Park, 362 SW Fourth Ave. in Miami. Yogis 18 and older of all levels are invited to a practice led by a certified instructor. Bring your own yoga mat, water, and towel. Free. Call 305358-7550 or visit BayfrontParkMiami.com/ Yoga.html.
key west * Taco Brunch and All Day Happy Hour
Every Sunday (opening at 8 a.m.) at Mellow Cafe and Gastropub, 1605 N. Roosevelt Blvd, Key West. Spend the day drinking and downing tacos at this all-day happy hour, each week on Sun-day!
The Tea Dance After Party
Sundays from 7 p.m. until close at Mangoes, 700 Duval St. Upstairs Ricky Ricardo Room. Boogie the night away with a little help from delicious drinks, great music and free admission.
Yoga
Tuesdays from 6 to 7:15 p.m. at Jose Marti
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Law office of george castrataro 707 NE 3rd Ave #300, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304 954.573.1444 Lawgc.com
law office of Gregory Kabel 1 East Broward Blvd #700, Fort Lauderdale, 33301 954.761.7770 gwkesq@bellsouth.net
Law office of Robin bodiford 2550 N Federal Hwy #20, Fort Lauderdale, FL 954.630.2707 Lawrobin.com
law office of Shawn Newman 710 NE 26th St, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 954.563.9160 Shawnnewman.com
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Trantalis & Associates attorneys Dean J. Trantalis, Esq. 2301 Wilton Drive Suite C1-A, Wilton Manors, 33035 954.566.2226 TrantalisLaw.com
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Ft Lauderdale Gay Men's Chorus PO Box 9772, Ft Lauderdale, FL 33310-9772 954-832-0060 www.theftlgmc.org Gay Men’s Chorus of South Florida 2040 North Dixie Hwy, #218, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 954-763-2266 Gaymenschorusofsouthflorida.org
a/c repair
barber
Licensed & Insured
954-725-3633
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final arrangements
professional services
Kalis-McIntee Funeral & Cremation Center
2505 N. Dixie Hwy, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 954-566-7621 Kalismcintee.com
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Miami/Broward/Palm Beach Paint/Caulk/Remove Grout/Yard Work Fix Drips & Switches/Debris removal Assembles Furniture & Appliances Repair or Fix Call "Avrom" Keith 786-227-9981
getaway
dental Oakland Park Dental 3047 N Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306 954.566.9812 Oaklandparkdental.com
furniture
professional services
Taylor & Turner Pest and Termite Control, Inc
William D. Turner
call us to reserve space! financial services
taylorandturner@yahoo.com 2520 North Dixie Hwy Wilton Manors, FL 33305
health insurance Medicare/MedicaID Florida Blue / Blue Cross Blue Shield 2765 West Cypress Creek Road Fort Lauderdale, Florida 33309 Call Steve Herbstman @ 954-554-7074
health American Pain Experts 6333 N. Federal Hwy, Ste. 250, Ft. Lauderdale, FL 954-678-1074 Americanpainexperts.com
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real estate Fort Lauderdale, Wilton Manors & Oakland Park REMODELED homes:
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bereavement counseling available 2300 NW 9th Avenue (Powerline Rd) Wilton Manors, FL 33311 Mass Times: Saturday 5:00 PM Sunday 10:30 AM Ecumenical Catholic 954.731.8173
www.stsfrancisandclare.org Baptisms • Weddings • Memorial Services
sports Tennis Lessons at Hagen Park in Wilton Manors. Individual or group lessons. Call Robert 732-604-0362 for more information.
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social
transportation RAINBOW RIDES-SAVE MONEY ON YOUR RIDE! - We treat you like family! SPECIALIZING IN AIRPORT RIDES! Need a ride to FLL, MIA, or PBI? (or anywhere else?) I'm a friendly driver with a nice, clean Chevy Malibu. My fixed-rate pricing beat all ride sharing - apps every time. Call or text me to schedule a ride, I'll be there early and I'll text you when I arrive. No 'surge" prices, no hassles. Call or text Nikki at 954-600-3133.
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Helping Buyers, Sellers, Renters, and Investors for over 18 years in South Florida.
$250,000
Brian S. Bedigian, P.A.
RealtorBrian@aol.com www.BrianFTL.com
Your South Florida Specialist for Over 18 Years
from
The Parish of Sts. Francis and Clare
THE BEST SERVICE, THE BEST RESULTS SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST!
Realtor
954.205.5275
SFGN Classified$ To place a Classified Ad, call us at 954.530.4970
help wanted dog runner sought (with references) - Victoria Park, Fort Lauderdale. Call Norm 954-661-3361
oakland park real estate sales
OAKLAND PARK 6PLEX - Great Opportunity Listed at $550,000. Michael Tublin United Realty 561 703 5533
attorney
home health care
Injury or illness? - Unable to work due to injury or illness? Call Bill Gordon & Assoc., Social Security Disability Attorneys! FREE Evaluation. Local Attorneys Nationwide 1-855-643-2430 [Mail: 2420 N St NW, Washington DC. Office: Broward Co. FL (TX/NM Bar.)]
COMPANION AIDE - Strictly Professional, TBI, PCA, and NHTD certified Over ten years’ experience. Provide light personal care, light cleaning. Laundry and major meal prep. Respite for caregiver. Serious inquires call Karl 954-616-8952
automotive HEADLIGHT RESTORATION - Headlights dull, cloudy or yellow? We make them clear again! Mobile Service. Call Joe for FREE ESTIMATE 954-494-0366
electrician
HARRY’S ELECTRIC RESIDENTIAL & COMMERCIAL - Additions, renovations, service upgrades, breaker panels,FPL undergrounds, code violations, A/C wiring, ceiling fans, recessed, security & landscaping, lighting, pools, pumps, Jacuzzis, water heaters, FREE PHONE ESTIMATES 954-522-3357 Lic & Ins. www. harryelectrician.com
employment wanted SPECIAL HIRE NEEDED - Earn $45,000 per year. Experienced, self-motivated professional salesman needed. Work competitively in a highly flexible and relaxed LGBT-friendly environment. Fax resume to 954-530-7943.
employment positions wanted Male-Caregiver - 10+ Experience, Certified in State of Florida. Call Antonio 954.599.3265
seeking employment WPB Personal Chef / House Man - Chef Daniel, prof with neat personality 25 years experience; Looking for full time job Cooking, food shopping, house maintenance, running errands, etc. CV avail on demand, adanielg26@aol.com
handyman
HUSBAND FOR RENT - Is he procrastinating home repairs? He says he will do it tomorrow?? After the football game?? We fit right in - in the house or the yard, small or big jobs: tile, dry wall, paint, plumbing, roof leaks, broken furniture, irrigation, fences, and more! It doesn't cost to hassle us to see the work - so why wait? Neat, clean work for a reasonable price. Call Haim at 954-398-3676, sidnalll@yahoo.com
men’s health/fitness Penis Enlargement - Gain 1 to 3 inches permanently & safely. Resolve ED. Licensed medical vacuum pumps, surgical & supplements. For free brochures/consultation call: Dr. Joel Kaplan 888-978HUGE (4843). www.getbiggernow.com
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internet AT&T - High Speed Internet Starting at $40/month. Up to 45 Mbps! Over 99% Reliability! Bundle AT&T Digital TV or Phone Services & Internet Price Starts at $30/month. Call 1-855-830-9658
cowork office space ALL INCLUSIVE OFFICE - 2201 Wilton Drive address and mailbox, parking space, shared conference room, high speed internet, furnished. Monthly or Annual Lease available. Text 954.801.5850.
palm aire apartment for rent 2/2 Second Floor Beautiful Unit, Renovated. No pets. 1st and Security $1,200/ month. Call Angelo 954770-6540.
piano WANT TO LEARN HOW TO PLAY THE PIANO? Learn from an experienced teacher. All levels and ages welcome. Learn to play classical, popular, jazz, or show tunes. Visit www.edwinchad.com or call 954-826-9555 for more information.
pool service
COOL POOLS- RELIABLE POOL SERVICE Professional pool service.Covering Wilton Manors, Lighthouse Point, and eastside of Pompano Beach. 15 years experience. Licensed and insured.Free estimates. Call 954-235-0775.
painting
GREGG'S PAINTING - I paint both interior and exterior. Great rates, free estimates. I am detailed-oriented, friendly, reliable, punctual, and neat. No job too small. Broward and Palm Beach Counties. Call Gregg at 617-306-5694 or 954-870-5972 Email: gmanbenn44@gmail.com
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television DIRECTV SELECT PACKAGE! - Over 150 Channels, ONLY $35/month (for 12 mos.) Order Now! Get a $200 AT&T Visa Rewards Gift Card (some restrictions apply) CALL 1- 888-597-7205
rentals fort lauderdale
Victoria Park 1BR/1BA - Renovated, Terrazo Floors, 2 A/C Units, New Kitchen Appliances, Large Walk-in Closet, Shared Washer & Dryer, Safe Area, 5 Unit Building. $1100 per month, Call 305-608-5877
Aaron’ s
Low Cost Cremation & Funeral Exceptionally High Quality at Low Prices Complete Direct Cremation
$555*
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Includes Basic Casket
We Operate Our Own Off-Site Crematory
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