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ohn Lawrence report. of Lawrence The case eventuv. Texas, the ally reached the 2003 Supreme Supreme Court Court ruling which and in 2003 the overturned Texas’ decision was oversodomy law and turned 6-3. The invalidated other ruling overturned similar laws around a previous ruling the country died by the Supreme last month from Court in 1986, complications from Bowers v. Harda heart ailment. He wick, which ruled John Lawerence, left, in 1998 with Tyron Garner was 68. there was nothing On Sept. 17, in the Constitution 1998, police were called to Lawrence’s to stop states from making it a crime for gay apartment after a neighbor saw him returnmen to have consensual sex at home. ing home with Tyron Garner. The neighbor Paul M. Smith, who argued in the Supreme then reported a “weapons disturbance.” Court on behalf of Lawrence, told the New Police showed up and burst into the home York Times that the decision “laid the founand said they witnessed the two men having dation for all the good things that have hapsex. Lawrence and Garner were arrested for pened since,” which includes decisions from “deviate sexual intercourse with another state courts endorsing same-sex marriage individual of the same sex.” They were held and the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. overnight and fined $200 each. The neighbor Lawrence is survived by his partner Jose was later convicted of filing a false police Garcia.
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2011: An ‘Epic’ Year for Marriage Equality By Dana Rudolph Keen News Service
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ne leading advocate called 2011 an “epic” year for marriage equality. Was it? While only one state—New York—enacted full marriage rights for same-sex couples, it was the most populous state to do so. Five other states also moved closer to marriage equality than ever before. Public opinion shifted dramatically towards supporting equality. And the Obama administration announced that it no longer considers a key part of the Defense of Marriage Act constitutional. On the negative side, however, three states failed to pass marriage equality bills that had been introduced in their legislatures, and two states passed bills to put measures on their ballots in 2012 that will seek to ban marriage for same-sex couples under their state constitutions. Despite the negatives, Evan Wolfson, president of the national Freedom to Marry group,
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said in an interview that 2011 was “an epic year of real transformation.” On the federal level, Attorney General Eric Holder wrote a letter to Congress in February, stating that the administration believes Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) is unconstitutional and will no longer defend it. Section 3 of DOMA states that the federal government will not, for any federal purposes, recognize the marriages of same-sex couples. Holder’s letter said the administration believes laws disfavoring persons based on sexual orientation should have to pass the most stringent judicial review—heightened scrutiny. And it said the administration would argue so in two cases challenging DOMA in the 2nd Circuit. LGBT legal advocacy group Lambda Legal, in its December “State of the Law 2011” report, called Holder’s letter “game changing.” Wolfson said it represented “an immense historical shift.” Another sign of this shift, he said, was
the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” the military’s ban on openly gay servicemembers. DADT repeal will help fuel the marriage equality effort, Wolfson said, “because Americans are now going to see the women and men serving our country as openly gay members of couples and openly gay members of families.” On the state level, the biggest win in 2011 was in New York, where the legislature passed a marriage equality bill in June. When Governor Andrew Cuomo (D) signed the bill, he doubled the percentage of same-sex couples living in states that allow them to marry. New York is also the only state to have passed marriage equality through a Republican-led legislative chamber, its state Senate. Governor Cuomo, by adding his vocal support to the bill, “put his political capital on the line,” Wolfson said. His success prompted politico.com to call him a “national contender” and leader of the Democratic Party’s progressive base. The Washington Post said his triumph made him “a first among equals when it comes to the jockeying for the 2016 Democratic presidential nomination.” “The freedom to marry went from being a perceived and presumed ‘third rail’ that politicians ran from to now being a pathway to political gain,” said Wolfson. Five other states came closer to marriage equality than ever before. Maryland for the first time passed a marriage equality bill out of a legislative chamber, its Senate, although the measure fell short of winning in the House. And Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, and Rhode Island each passed civil union legislation. But there were disappointments. In Colorado, a civil union bill was killed on a party-line vote in the Republican-led House Judiciary Committee, after passing the Democrat-controlled Senate. And in Rhode Island, the civil union bill disappointed many because a bill for full marriage equality had been on the legislature’s agenda. It was dropped after it failed to gain enough support, despite large Democratic majorities in both chambers and Governor Lincoln Chafee’s (I) promise to sign it. LGBT groups were also disappointed with a provision in Rhode Island’s civil union bill providing extensive exemptions on religious grounds for those who don’t wish to recognize those unions. Chafee himself said the civil union law “fails to fully achieve” the goal of providing same-sex couples with equal rights. Two states saw progress in lawsuits that could lead to marriage equality. In New Jersey, marriage equality advocates have sued the state, claiming that the state’s existing civil union laws do not provide them with full equality—an equality the state Supreme Court said, in October 2006, is guaranteed by the state constitution. In California, a three-judge panel of the federal Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals heard
oral arguments December 8 on procedural matters related to the case to determine the constitutionality of Proposition 8, the state’s ban on marriage for same-sex couples. Regardless of the outcome, the case will almost certainly be appealed to the full 9th Circuit court and/or the U.S. Supreme Court. Three states successfully played defense in 2011. Iowa, New Mexico, and Wyoming held firm against attempts to pass bills for ballot measures that sought to ban marriage for samesex couples under their state constitutions. If passed, Iowa’s bill would have taken away the right to marry that same-sex couples gained in 2009. But there were some clear setbacks in 2011 as well. North Carolina and Minnesota passed bills for ballot measures in 2012 that seek to ban marriage for same-sex couples under the state constitutions. And Indiana and Pennsylvania started the process for such ballot measures, which could see further action in 2012. In Maine, however, LGBT advocates gained enough signatures to place a measure in favor of marriage equality before voters on the 2012 ballot—although advocates in California and Oregon decided to postpone such attempts and continue to build support. These ballot measures could be impacted by what was perhaps the most significant win in 2011: a shift in public opinion towards support for marriage equality. Support for marriage equality nationwide rose about one percent per year between 1996 and 2009, but jumped to a rate of five percent per year in 2010 and 2011, according to a July analysis of over a decade’s worth of polling data by Joel Benenson, President Barack Obama’s lead pollster, and Dr. Jan van Lohuizen, President George W. Bush’s lead pollster. Freedom to Marry commissioned the study. The average level of support for marriage equality was 41 percent in 2009, but 51 percent in 2011, based on four leading national polls—CNN-ORC International, Gallup, Pew, and Washington Post-ABC News. This change is driven in part by “overwhelming generational momentum,” Wolfson explained, with almost 70 percent of voters under 40 supporting marriage equality. But the analysis also concluded that since 2006, support has risen 15 percent among seniors, 13 percent among Independents, and 8 percent among Republicans. Additionally, it found that marriage equality supporters now hold their views as strongly as opponents, which was not the case in the past. “The politics of the freedom to marry have changed dramatically, as has public support,” said Wolfson. All told, he said, the events of 2011 mean that “We now have real wind in our sails as we go forward.”
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lesbian couple living in southern Vermont say they’ll use every tool at their disposal to fight a federal order that one of them _ a Japanese immigrant _ leave the country. Frances Herbert and Takako Ueda (“Tah-kah-ko You-AY-dah’’) of Dummerston received letters this month from the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services saying though they’re married under Vermont law, federal law doesn’t recognize that, and Ueda has overstayed her visa. Herbert and Ueda have been together more than a decade and married this past April. Ueda tells The Associated Press she has no interest in returning to Japan. Federal law allows immigrants to remain in the country if they are married to an American. But the federal agency says it’s barred by law from recognizing the marriage of two women.
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unmarried heterosexual couple, said their attorney, Peter Renn of Lambda Legal’s Los Angeles office. The lawsuit claims the business violated Hawaii’s public accommodation law prohibiting any inn or other establishment that provides lodging from discriminating based on sexual orientation, race, sex, gender identity or expression, religion, ancestry or disability. The couple ended up booking a room in Waikiki and the experience with the bed and breakfast ``soured’’ their trip, Cervelli said Monday while in Honolulu with Bufford, 28. ``In my past experiences in Hawaii, people have been so friendly,’’ she said. ``It was just hurtful. It made me feel we weren’t good enough.’’ Reached by phone, owner Phyllis Young declined to comment and referred questions to her attorney. Honolulu attorney Jim Hochberg said he is representing her on behalf of the Alliance Defense Fund, an organization of attorneys representing people
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niversity researchers are tapping a community health grant worth more than $300,000 to study the high smoking rate among gays and lesbians in Missouri. The Columbia Daily Tribune (http://bit. ly/spGWf7) reports that a University of Missouri research team recently received $315,700 from the St. Louis-based Missouri Foundation for Health. Family and community medicine professors Kevin Everett and Jane McElroy have found a smoking rate of 35 percent to 40 percent within the targeted group, compared to 21 percent among Missouri’s general population. The grant will be used to help develop gay-friendly smoking cessation programs and educational campaigns as well as a new website called outproudandhealthy.org. Eric Risberg, courtesy of Maui news
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federal court has upheld a ruling that Augusta State University was within its rights Taeko Bufford, left, and Diane Cervelli to require a graduate school counseling student to keep her biblical views on gays whose religious freedom is infringed. He to herself. said he hadn’t yet seen the complaint. A three-judge panel ruled Friday that the According to the lawsuit, the Hawaii Civil university was following protocol when it Rights Commission investigated. During the put Jennifer Keeton on a remediation plan investigation Young told the commission and threatened to expel her after she rehomosexuality is “detestable’’ and “defiles peatedly said it would be difficult for her to our land.’’ The commission issued a notice of “reasonable cause to believe that unlawful dis- work with gay clients.The university argued that it would risk its accreditation with the criminatory practices have been committed’’ American Counseling Association if it didn’t and notified the couple of their right to sue. hold Keeton to a code of ethics. The lawsuit wants the business to be or``When someone voluntarily chooses dered to comply with the law, for the court to enter a profession, he or she must to issue a declaration making clear what comply with its rules and ethical requirehappened was illegal and for the couple to ments,’’ Judge Rosemary Barkett wrote in be awarded unspecified monetary compenthe court’s ruling. ``Lawyers must present sation, Renn said: “No amount of money is legal arguments on behalf of their clients, going to erase the humiliation and pain.’’ notwithstanding their personal views. Judges Renn said Lambda Legal is also lookmust apply the law, even when they disagree ing into whether the bed and breakfast is with it. So too counselors must refrain from licensed to operate. Aloha Bed & Breakfast imposing their moral and religious values on is not on a list of properties approved for their clients.’’ transient vacation unit or bed and breakfast The appeals court ruled that the remediuse that have been issued nonconforming ation plan was ``reasonable’’ and it did not use certificates by Honolulu’s Department violate Keeton’s First Amendment rights. of Planning and Permitting.
Keeton filed a lawsuit claiming the institution was punishing her for her Christian views. The Phoenix-based Alliance Defense Fund, which brought the lawsuit, declined comment on the ruling because the case is still under gag order by the court. A spokeswoman for the state Attorney General’s office, which represented Augusta State in the case, did not immediately return a request for comment. Keeton, who said she’s a devout Christian ``committed to the truth of the Bible,’’ enrolled in the school’s counselor education program in fall 2009 and soon began discussing her views that sexual behavior is a personal choice and that gender identity isn’t subject to change. University faculty were concerned that Keeton was scheduled to practice counseling in middle and high schools as part of her degree program and could possibly harm young students with her views. Faculty members were alarmed after she wrote in a term paper that it would be hard with her to work with gay people. The school told her that her language was unethical according to guidelines from the American Counseling Association, and she was put on probation and warned she could be expelled. She was asked in May 2010 to agree to a remediation plan that would require her to attend sensitivity training, read counseling journals and mix with gays at events such as the city’s gay pride parade. Keeton refused to comply with the plan, which she said in court papers would require her to ``tell clients wanting to hear it that homosexual sex is moral.’’ A lower court rejected Keeton’s challenge, and the appeals court in Atlanta upheld that ruling. The case has drawn national attention from religious groups and gay rights advocates. The American Civil Liberties Union and Lambda Legal, the national gay rights law firm, took the opposing side. They argued that counselors shouldn’t discriminate based on sexual orientation and should avoid imposing their values on clients. ``We are grateful to the Court for recognizing how potentially dangerous it would be for a counselor to allow her personal beliefs to get in the way of her ethical obligation to promote the well-being of all students,’’ said Greg Nevins, an attorney for Lambda Legal.
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Navy tradition caught up with the repeal of the U.S. military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell’’ rule on Wednesday when two women sailors became the first to share the coveted “first kiss’’ on the pier after one of them returned from 80 days at sea. Petty Officer 2nd Class Marissa Gaeta of Placerville, California, descended from the USS Oak Hill amphibious landing ship and shared a quick kiss in the rain with her partner, Petty Officer 3rd Class Citlalic Snell of Los Angeles. Gaeta, 23, wore her Navy dress uniform while Snell, 22, wore a black leather jacket, scarf and blue jeans. The crowd screamed and waved flags around them. “It’s something new, that’s for sure,’’ Gaeta told reporters after the kiss. ``It’s nice to be able to be myself. It’s been a long time coming.’’ For the historical significance of the kiss, there was little to differentiate it from countless others when a Navy ship pulls into its home port following a deployment. Neither the Navy nor the couple tried to draw attention to what was happening and many onlookers waiting for their loved ones to come off the ship were busy talking among themselves. David Bauer, the commanding officer of the USS Oak Hill, said that Gaeta and Snell’s kiss would largely be a non-event and the crew’s reaction upon learning who was selected to have the first kiss was positive. “It’s going to happen and the crew’s going to enjoy it. We’re going to move on and it won’t overshadow the great things that this crew has accomplished over the past three months,’’ Bauer said. The ship returned to Joint Expeditionary Base Little Creek-Fort Story following an 80-day deployment to Central America. The crew of more than 300 participated in exercises involving the militaries of Honduras, Guatemala Colombia and Panama as part of Amphibious-Southern Partnership Station 2012. Both women are Navy fire controlmen, who maintain and operate weapons systems on ships. They met at training school where they were roommates and have been dating for two years, which they said was difficult under “don’t ask, don’t tell.’’ “We did have to hide it a lot in the beginning,’’ Snell said. “A lot of people were not always supportive of it in the beginning, but
we can finally be honest about who we are in our relationship, so I’m happy.’’ Navy officials said it was the first time on record that a same-sex couple was chosen to kiss first upon a ship’s return. Sailors and their loved ones bought $1 raffle tickets for the opportunity. Gaeta said she bought $50 of tickets, a figure that she said pales in comparison to amounts that some other sailors and their loved ones had bought. The money was used to host a Christmas party for the children of sailors. Snell said she believes their experience won’t be the last one for gays and lesbians in the military. “I think that it’s something that is going to open a lot of doors, for not just our relationship, but all the other gay and lesbian relationships that are in the military now,’’ she said. Snell is based on the USS Bainbridge, the guided missile destroyer that helped rescue cargo captain Richard Phillips from Somali pirates in 2009. Local News
Wellington Extends DP Benefits he Wellington Village Council has completed a comprehensive policy revision to include registered domestic partners of Village employees as family members. The action was taken at the request of the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council, which has been working with the Village on domestic partnership issues for the past year. Domestic partners of Village employees and their children are now eligible for the same health, dental, vision and supplemental dependent life insurance coverage as employees’ spouses and their children. In addition,Village employees may now take extended medical leave to care for their domestic partners and may utilize bereavement leave to grieve for an employee’s domestic partner, as well as the partner’s children, parents, siblings and grandparents. “When we met with Wellington Mayor Darell Bowen at last year’s gay polo tournament, the mayor emphasized the importance of developing a very inclusive domestic partnership policy,” said Rand Hoch, President of the PBCHRC. “As a result,Village Manager Paul Schofield and his staff developed a profamily domestic partnership policy which is possibly the most inclusive in Florida.”
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2345 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors 954-626-0082 www.TheManorComplex.com
In just two years, The Manor Complex has transformed the club scene in Fort Lauderdale, offering everything from fine dining to live bands and some of the biggest weekly dance parties in South Florida. From Wine-Down Wednesdays, featuring half-priced bottles and tapas, Prime Rib Night on Thursdays, Bubble Gum Fridays in the Epic Nightclub and Noche Latina Saturdays in the Ivy Lounge, there is something for everyone. Saturdays in the Epic Nightclub regularly feature the best DJs from across the country and live performances by some of South Florida’s favorite drag queens. The secret behind the success of The Manor? Jason Tamanini says, “We dedicate ourselves to continuously staying ahead of the trends while making sure to stay connected with the local community. We are now working on a new project that is sure to satisfy the thirsts of South Florida—stay tuned!”
Brett, G ary and Paul of The Manor
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BEST NEIGHBORHOOD BAR
Best Adult Video/Toy Store
Best Drag Queen Honorable Mention
Matty’s on the Drive
Pride Factory
Victoria Michaels
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From the outside Matty’s looks like a typical strip mall bar, but as soon as you walk in you realize that its size is not the only deceptive thing this establishment has to offer. It’s actually three rooms, each one having its own bar and friendly bartender for you to order their devilishly delicious drinks from. Not only do they put the Mary in Bloody Mary (making one of the best ones in town) but their bartenders greet you with such a sense of welcoming that it’s as though they’ve been waiting all night just for you. Philip, a bartender of three years who’s been there as long as Matty’s has existed, is one such bartender. He obliges even the pickiest of drinking customers with a smile and the specials for the night. Warm hospitality is not a common description for bars, most of them focus on getting your drink and getting you out of the way for the next paying customer. Yet Matty’s defies the stereotype so strongly that it’s easy to see why it was voted best neighborhood bar. They even have holiday decorations up for different religions, including an upside down Christmas tree. Hmmm, how queer.
850 N.E. 13th Street Fort Lauderdale, FL (954) 463-6600 Hours: Mon.-Sat. 10 a.m.-9 p.m. Sun. 11 a.m.-7 p.m. www.PrideFactory.MyShopify.com Fifteen years ago, Fort Lauderdale’s Pride Factory opened its doors in a storefront on Federal Highway, a block away from Sears Town. Since then, the Pride Factory has moved to a bigger location, in a warehouse district once home to the legendary Catalog X. Like its predecessor, Pride Factory provides a wide assortment of gay adult DVDs (and a few straight ones), along with gayrotic magazines, calendars, fetish gear, sex toys, condoms and lubricants. But there is more to Pride Factor than adult videos or sex toys. In the words of Manager Rocky Bowell, “Pride Factory is Fort Lauderdale’s Premiere shopping experience and a must see for every visitor. With 15 years of continued excellent customer service, Pride Factory has everything you could need from clothing, to your favorite gay themed movie on DVD, great adult toys or DVDs, and a choice of Fort Lauderdale’s largest lube selection.” A customer might wa k into the Pride Factory to rent the latest COLT feature and walk out with a tee shirt, compact disk, rainbow flag and a box of condoms as well as the DVD. Tourists flock to the Pride Factory to buy all the necessary little items that they left at home.
Mark’s Haircuts for Men
While Drag Queen Victoria Michaels received the most votes for the title of Best Drag Queen we didn’t think it was fair to let her keep the title alone since she regularly contributes to SFGN. Besides just performing at the Boardwa k strip club each week, she’s also an LGBT rights activist and writes a regular column, The Transvestigator, for our weekly newspaper.
2047 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors 954-533-4188 www.markshaircutsformen.com When Mark Hagen moved to the area he couldn’t find a decent place to work so the hairstylist of 22 years decided to open up his own salon, Mark’s Haircuts for Men. He soon hired a second stylist Denis Cortez. The secret to his success is focusing on one thing and doing it right. “We just do men’s cuts and specialize in just that one thing,” he said. “A lot of places do like 12 different things. Everyone is running around trying to figure out where’s this or that. We do one thing and we do it well.”
But enough about everything else she does. “I open up my show with a big show stopper, costume changes, and over the top drag,” Victoria Michaels she said. “And I host the weekly amateur strip contest. Wednesday nights are just so much fun.” Victoria can be found at Boardwalk Bar every Wednesday from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. Or check SFGN each week for her columns.
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2426 Wilton Drive 954-564-1799 www.MattysOnTheDrive.com 75 cent drafts & well on Wednesdays after 10 p.m.
BEST HAIR SALON
Hagen was surprised at having won the Best Of competition. “I’ve never won anything.” His secret to giving that quality haircut is simple.
“We do precision haircuts and listen to the customer,” he explained. “A lot of hair dressers just ask what number and then cut. We try to make them look as good as possible.” Haircuts start at $25. They are open 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. Tuesday through Friday, 10:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday and closed on Sunday and Monday.
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WALK-INS EMERGENCIES
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BEST BREAKFAST
Shawn & Nick’s Courtyard Café 2211 Wilton Drive,Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 563-2499 www.wiltonmanorscourtyardcafe.com Hours: Mon.-Wed. 7 a.m.-11 p.m. Thur.-Sat. 24 hours, Sun. Open till 3 a.m.
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Shawn Bombard and Nick Berry bought the Courtyard Café in 2007 and turned a so-so eatery into Wilton Drive’s Number One diner. And while the Drive has many places to eat dinner, lunch and brunch, Shawn and Nick’s Courtyard Café is the place to go for the day’s all-important first meal. (And thanks to the Café’s flexible schedule, “breakfast” could be any time of the day or night.) As Co-Owner Bombard says: “Our success is based on what we do for the community and the satisfaction of our guests at all times. Our staff takes pride in what they cook and serve. We believe in being part of the community and to give back as much as we can.” The Café’s diverse, reasonably-priced menu and friendly staff attract a “who’s who” of
South Florida’s gay community, which makes the Courtyard Café the Drive’s late night and early morning place to eat and meet. Included in the Café’s breakfast offerings are seven varieties of Eggs Benedict; “the Mess” -- two scrambled eggs mixed with bacon, sausage, ham and American cheese – and the “Country Griddle” layered with scrambled eggs, home fries, mushrooms, cheddar cheese, onions and green peppers topped with sausage gravy and a biscuit.
Pride Center of South Florida
2040 N. Dixie Hwy, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 www.glccsf.org Every day is a pride celebration at the Pride Center of South Florida in Wilton Manors. It’s been around for 16 years, evolving into a destination for community information, health services and an overall place to get together and relax and enjoy yourself.
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Shawn & Nick’s Courtyard Café
Best Community Center
Unlike typical community centers, the Pride Center is a major site for HIV testing and prevention, education and counseling. It also offers holistic support programs for people living with HIV/AIDS, including the nationally acclaimed PALS project. Activities held this year include: Breast Fest, Happy Hiney Health, Latino HIV/AIDS Leadership Summit, Women’s MusicFest, Male on Male Sexual Assault Seminar, Sex Esteem workshop, Black Gay Pride, LGBTQ Youth Halloween Dance, Transgender Health Symposium and Senior Health Expo. Like other community centers, there are fun and games. Where else can you play Bingo, learn yoga, ballroom dancing and introductory Spanish? And let’s not forget about the Big Men’s Club of South Florida (aka Chubbies and Chasers.) “The Pride Center’s programs and services meet the distinct socio-economic, health, spiritual, and safety needs of the LGBT community. We host more than 60 meeting groups each month. More than 17,000 adults and youth attend activities at the Center each year. Outreach activities over the past year directly impacted 26,262 residents and visitors to South Florida,” says Kristofer Fegenbush, Deputy Director of the Pride Center.
BEST BEACH
Best Social Group for Women
Sebastian Beach
Women In Network (WIN)
Intersection of A1A and Sebastian Street Fort Lauderdale Beach What makes a gay beach gay? At first glance, the section of Fort Lauderdale Beach across from the intersection of A1A and Sebastian Street might not seem different from the rest of the Beach. A closer look reveals Sebastian’s unique quality: A beach full of adult men, many of them clad in scanty bathing apparel, with hardly a woman or child in sight. Sometimes a clueless straight tourist couple might drop a towel on Sebastian Beach, only to discover to their dismay the Beach’s unique demographics. Sebastian is not Fort Lauderdale’s first “gay beach.” During the 1970s and 1980s, the beach “where the boys are” was located across the legendary Marlin Beach Hotel, off A1A and Cortez Street. When the “Marlin” was torn down to make room for the touristy Beach Place, the center of gay beach action moved a couple of blocks north, to Sebastian. Twenty years later, the proliferation of gay guest houses and resorts nearby only added to Sebastian Beach’s popularity with gay men from around the world. Longterm couples, groups of friends and tourists alike frequent Sebastian for its combination of sub-tropical climate, sandy beaches, warm waters -- and hot men. Only one South Florida beach comes close to Sebastian as far as the gay community is concerned: Haulover Beach, especially the largely gay, clothingoptional section at the northern end of the Beach, earned an “honorable mention” as South Florida’s second-best beach. Located in Sunny Isles in MiamiDade County, Haulover Beach is a short drive away and well-worth the effort.
General meeting, First Wednesday of every month at the Pride Center at Equality Park, 2040 Dixie Highway, Wilton Manors FL 954-463-9005 x641 www.WomeninNetwork.com Follow WIN on Facebook Lesbians in South Florida have an alternative to the bar scene—Women in Network (WIN). Whether it’s the annual New Year’s Eve party, the Charity Golf Tournament in March or monthly meetings that cover topics such as women’s health or sex and chocolate, WIN provides many ways for LBT women to connect with their community. The organization started twenty-five years ago as a professional network for Broward County lesbians. Current WIN President, Denise Spivak, notes that the non-profit group has evolved into a “tri-county effort, reaching out to Palm Beach and Miami-Dade.” “We try to incorporate as many women as we can,” she adds. Although WIN continues to be a professional network, they have also expanded into a social network with an emphasis on activities often related to philanthropy and education. “[WIN]…gives women another opportunity to meet up with new people and old friends,” says Spivak. Women are not the only ones invited to participate.The WIN website states that their mission is directed towards “the development, leadership, and empowerment of LBT women, their friends and supporters.” Anyone who can contribute to that mission is welcome to join WIN, including men. “We are open to all friends and supporters,” confirms Spivak. “It takes a community.”
congratulations to our SFGN BEST OF contest winners
Denise Spivak wins a gift card to Pride Factory
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Jim Walker of Wilton Manors wins a gift card to The Manor
Kenny Zateeya of Coconut Creek wins a gift basket
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Best Charity
Most residents might not know of Poverello, and the mission to help those afflicted with HIV and AIDS. Dale Madison, fundraising coordinator for Poverello, said the charity was founded 24 years ago and now boasts a thrift store, fitness center and alternative therapy. “People that are HIV diagnosed need to still go to the gym and work out as part of staying healthy,” Madison said. “And our food bank provides more than a million meals a year to our clients.” Madison said being selected as best small charity could not have come at a better time with budget cuts affecting the services Poverello provides. He said the cost of a box of food is $40 and that two boxes used to be given out. That has now been dropped to one box with 21 meals for the entire month. “So many people don’t realize how the budget cuts have affected us.”
Humpy’s Pizza
Shoppes of Wilton Manors, Wilton Manors 954-566-2722 www.HumpysPizza.com It’s been five years since partners Steve DeJong and Dennis Godfrey opened Humpy’s Pizza in the bustling Shoppes of Wilton Manors and in the weak economy, business hasn’t been easy, DeJong says. He attributes the duo’s success to two key factors: “We try to use fresh, quality ingredients—we make the dough here, we use fresh sautéed mushrooms instead of canned, we offer healthy options—and we have a staff and team in place that make Humpy’s a fun and friendly environment.” They also like to provide plenty of variety for their customers and are constantly experimenting with new menu options like the recently-added spinach, bleu cheese and walnut pizza and a refreshing, cool gazpacho soup. Oh, and don’t forget the cupcakes. bill pompano
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2056 North Dixie Highway 954-561-3663 www.poverello.org
Best Pizza
With 16 flavors, they’re selling just as well as the pizzas! They are open from 11 a.m. to 10 p.m. Sunday through Wednesday, 11 a.m. to 2 a.m. Thursday through Saturday.
BEST BATH HOUSE
Best Large Clothing Store
The Club Fort Lauderdale
Macy’s Celebrates LGBT Community
Club Ft. Lauderdale 110 NW 5th Ave Ft Lauderdale, FL 33311-9142 (954) 525-3344 www.theclubs.com If you have never entered a gay bathhouse, you won’t know what makes the Club Fort Lauderdale one of the best in the world. Its incomparable amenities separate The Club from its raunchier and shabbier competition (not that there is anything wrong with raunch, but it’s not on the menu at The Club.) Their huge gym is not just an afterthought. Men actually use it. Their huge outdoor hotel quality patio/pool/hot tub will make you forget that you went to The Club for sex. The spa area with its glass enclosed gang shower, steam room maze and double sauna is regularly sequestered for a good cleaning, a momentary inconvenience that everyone appreciates. The Club Fort Lauderdale attracts a broad spectrum of customers. All age groups, body types and ethnicities are comfortably represented and inclined to play well with each other, except for the inevitable nervous twinks who rush about avoiding eye contact with everyone. Ignore them. They can’t help it. As always, it is not fair to blame The Club if the hunkiest guy in the place doesn’t want to get frisky with you. Take a second look at their gym. Especially delightful is the Saturday/Sunday afternoon poolside buffet. When the food is ready, everyone drops whom their doing and rushes to get in line. When the buffet closes, everyone goes “back to work.” The Club Fort Lauderdale lives up to its motto, “Good. Clean. Fun.”
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Macy’s
Macy’s invites customers to celebrate its magic. But the legendary department store chain also rolls out the welcome mat for the GLBT community. If you’ve been in a South Florida store lately (like the one in Galleria mall) you see that Macy’s practices what it preaches by hiring a diverse sales staff made up of LGBT people. Throughout the year, from Arizona to Washington, Macy’s takes part in Pride parades throughout the country. For years, Macy’s has acknowledged and celebrated the contributions of its LGBTQ workforce and consumers and demonstrated its commitment in a multitude of ways including in company policies, marketing, events, community partnerships and cause initiative support. According to the company’s website, in recent years, Macy’s has picked up the top rating of 100 percent in the Corporate Equality index report, sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation.The index, which rated 584 businesses, measures the extent to which employers protect their LGBT employees. Ratings are based on numerous factors, including nondiscrimination policies, diversity training and benefits for domestic partners and transgender employees. The index rated companies on a scale from zero to 100 percent on their treatment of LGBT employees, consumers and investors. I worked in Macy’s during high school and during a recent holiday season. As a third generation Macy’s employee/shopper, I am proud to put my talents and money with a company that celebrates the magic of diversity.
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Best Boutique Gym
Best Social Group
Best Coffee Shop
Island City Fitness
Mack Planet Monthly Mixers/ Lunches
2230 Wilton Drive 954-564-8828
2040 N. Dixie Hwy, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 www.glccsf.org
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Java Boys
The Outlet
2031 Wilton Drive (Next to Sidelines) It’s hard out there for a trend slut! The cost of staying current in the fashion world is often more than one person can afford but there is hope. And that hope is a clothing store called The Outlet. Though it started out as a hidden gem in the gay community, more and more people are beginning to recognize it for its superb style and even better price range. Gone are the days of swimming to Star Island and dumpster diving in celebrity’s trash bins in the hopes of finding couture cast-offs in wearable condition. Now you can simply wa k into the store and be assaulted with style and bombarded with dapper garments any guy would want.
Because of the continued success of the Boca/Delray mixer they launched a northern Palm Beach County mixer last year as well.
Java Boys has been a staple at 2230 Wilton Drive for almost four years now, says owner Nicki Rose. A lounge area playing fun reruns of Saturday Night Live and free WiFi are only a few of the extras that draw in customers. Then there’s the coffee! A small iced starts at $2.25 and a house hot coffee runs about $1.65 but pair them with Reese’s Peanut Butter cookies or Humpy’s Cupcakes and snack bliss ensues. “Our No. 1 draw is our coffee,” Rose said. “Full service, our amazing baristas and our welcoming atmosphere add to that.” Rose stressed that without the support of her customers Java Boys would be just another coffee shop. Java Boys is open from 7 a.m. to 11 p.m. Sunday through Thursday, and 7 a.m. to midnight on Friday and Saturday.
Best Small Theater Company
Best Large Gym
Best Movie Theater
Best Dog Groomers
Rising Action Theatre
L.A. Fitness
Gateway Theatre
Wilton’s Manor Doggie Daycare Resort and Spa
“We’re constantly being voted for friendliest staff and cleanest gym in the area,” he said. ”We also cater to the local gay community and support all of the other local gay businesses. The fact is we readily support and back our community.” The gym has been open 3 years. The full service facility includes aerobics, a steam room, dry sauna and showers. “Our gym has a much more friendly and personal environment. It’s an environment where you can be yourself,” he said, “You’re not a number here. All the front desk people know all of the members’ names.” Memberships start at $24.99 and new members receive one free personal training session. They are open from 5 a.m. to 11 p.m. Monday through Friday and 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Saturday and Sundays.
1480 SW 9th Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 33315 954-739-8757 www.RisingActionTheatre.com
In recent years, Rising Action Theatre has built a cult-like following, offering mostly gay-themed plays first in Wilton Manors and later at the Sunshine Cathedral in Fort Lauderdale. Like the proverbial phoenix, big changes have been taking place with the non-profit company. This fall, veteran artistic director Andy Rogow assumed leadership of the company and mounted two critically-acclaimed productions (“As Bees in Honey Drown” and “Thrill Me – The Leopold & Loeb Musical”). Even bigger plans are now in the works. Rising Action is currently being liquidated to make way for a new “Island City Stage,” but Rogow promises to continue the same programming that has given voice to the area’s LGBT community. He is also actively seeking a new home for the company back in Wilton Manors. In the meantime, he plans a number of smaller events and readings: “We’re laying the groundwork for a very exciting new company,” Rogow says.
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Launched in March of 2005 by Dan Oropesa and DJ Harvey Mack Multimedia coined the term ‘Gay Owned. Straight Friendly.’ Since then the group has had continued success and keeps growing. They host monthly business networking groups, Mack Mixers, in Broward County and Palm Beach County. They also host their famous Power Lunch, which always sells out, in Broward County every other month.
Multiple Locations www.lafitness.com With more than 30 locations throughout South Florida it’s easy to see why L.A. Fitness was chosen as the Best Large Gym. Just as friends told me that Bally Total Fitness had once been dubbed as the ‘gay’ gym, L.A. Fitness has clearly taken over that title. And nationally they’ve acquired 171 former Bally locations. With so many locations and members there’s plenty of eye candy to check out at any given time or place. Oh yeah there’s also work out equipment as well. There’s also plenty of group classes to choose from and many of their locations offer a dry sauna, hot tub, swimming pool and racquet ball courts. Check each club’s hours, but generally they are open from 5 a.m. to 11 p.m. Monday through Thursday, 5 a.m. to 10 p.m. Fridays, and 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Saturdays and Sundays.
1820 Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304 954-763-7994 Facebook.com/GatewayTheatreFL The golden age of the silver screen lives on at the Gateway Theatre. For more than six decades, the theater, located at the intersection of busy Federal Highway and Sunrise Boulevard, has screened classic films in its distinctive mid-century modern building. The glitterati of Hollywood converged on the theater in 1960 for the world premiere of “Where the Boys Are,” the spring break romp featuring Connie Francis and George Hamilton that made Fort Lauderdale a popular destination for college co-eds for two generations. Today, the theater has been subdivided into a four-plex and primarily screens indie, art house and gay-themed films, but the vintage, nostalgic feel remains (and the popcorn is great, too).
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With a 90 percent gay clientele it’s no wonder Island City Fitness won Best Boutique Gym. And general manager Bryan Nosal isn’t surprised either.
Best Small Clothing Store
When clothes make the man, it doesn’t matter who you are. Gay, straight, mono sexual, bisexual, pan sexual, into David Hasselhoff, this place has savvy attire for all men with a flair for fashion and eye for good values. When The Outlet says they have a sale, they don’t just mean $3 off of leather boots, they mean pair of leather Italian ankle boots for a price that’s to die for. With affordably chic looks it’s no wonder they were voted best small clothing store!
2155 N Dixie Highway 754-223-4776 www.WiltonsManor.com
Wilton’s Manor Doggie Daycare Resort & Spa is the epitome of spoiling a puppy. With a white fence surrounding the immense obstacle course inside, set up for a doggy’s delight, and an open area in the back, what more could a K-9 want? Owners Alan Aghazadian and Josh Meneses only use John Paul Pet, which is Paul Mitchell for those not in the know, and are all about cage-free grooming. Aghazadian said the daycare just opened August 1 and tries to beat the competition by at least $10 on all important services. For a full 12 hours, it costs $28 for daycare and whole grooming starts at around $45. “It is all about the need to socialize and be with other dogs,” he said. Wilton’s Manor Doggie Daycare Resort & Spa is open 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. Monday through Friday and 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday.
December 28, 2011 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com
Best Happy Hour
The Alibi
2266 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors 954-565-2526 The Alibi is lots of things. It is at the epicenter of gay Wilton Manors. It is the home of Broward County’s best burger. It sells more beer than just about any other bar in the county. It sponsors softball teams, charitable events, and runs really fun promotions. It has a Thursday night Long Island Iced Tea night, which has become a weekly institution. Its bartenders have longevity, offer consistency, and the drinks are true. And it is constantly improving itself, just this past summer laying down a new tiled floor, which keeps the atmosphere fresher. It’s easy to see why this establishment wins a ‘Best Of’ award from SFGN. It’s the neighborhood bar that has become the heart and soul of one of the largest LGBT communities in America, enhancing a standard of excellence under the aegis of its proprietors, Jackson Padgett and Mark Negrete. But maintaining that standard is anything but easy. It requires imagination and initiative, new promotions and creative programming. The Alibi is always up to the challenge, from hosting softball teams to turnabout nights to ‘best bartender’ contests. The bar creates comfort zones and relaxed environments where, whether you are in a shirt and tie, or shorts and sandals, you feel welcome, invited, and at home. The bar is open from 11 a.m. to 2 a.m. Monday through Thursday; 11 a.m. to 3 a.m. Fridays; 11 a.m. to 3 a.m. Saturdays; and 11 a.m. to 2 a.m. Sundays. The kitchen is open from 11 a.m. to 1:30 a.m. everyday.
Best Take Out
Best LIQUOR
Best City to Live
Lotus Chinese Kitchen
Wilton Discount Liquor Inc
Wilton Manors
1434 NE 26th St 954-566-5565
Best Take Out this year goes to Lotus Chinese Kitchen. Although it started as a take-out only place in 1982, the high demand for their food caused an expansion into a full dine-in restaurant in 1985. Tragedy stuck in 1990 when the place had a fire and was forced to close. But knowing their patrons would be waiting in the wings for them to reopen, Lotus did just that the very next year.Whether you’re taking out or dining in, this place takes the cake (or eggroll), for best overall experience. The staff is incredibly friendly and when you arrive at your table you are immediately given water and crunchy noodles.The moment you taste the crunchy noodles you’ll become immediately infatuated and no matter what you order the rest of the night you will constantly return to them with adoration in your heart and anticipation in your tummy. However, they are just crunchy noodles and in-between snacking on those you’ll be eating a delicious entrée. Lotus is known for having great Ginger Garlic Chicken, Egg Foo Yong, Shrimp and Lobster Sauce, Fried Dumplings…etc…etc.The list could go on but reciting the entire menu seems silly. Your best bet is to try everything yourself, you won’t be disappointed.
December 28, 2011 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com
2105 Northeast 5th Avenue , Wilton Manors 954-561-0130
You’re headed out to a club in Wilton Manors dressed in your very gay best when you and your crew realize you forgot to pregame.You might be wearing boots made for wa king, but for the love of all that is Nancy Sinatra the last thing you want to do is walk a mile to find some booze. Not mention the high cost of being a lush for an evening. Where are you going to go that’s conveniently on the way and has prices that match the current state of today’s economy? Wilton Discount Liquor, of course! Located just a hop, skip and a jump away from Rosie’s Bar and Grill and The Alibi it’s the perfect location for people with a thirst for fun and a wallet half that size. The high profile location and atmosphere give Wilton Discount Liquor an air of safety and security, two things that are hard to find at 2 a.m. on a Saturday. You can always rely on the Discount part of Wilton Discount Liquor. Although vodka will taste like vodka no matter where you buy it, knowing that you paid a really good price makes that screwdriver or cosmo taste just a little bit better, doesn’t it?
www.wiltonmanors.com
Broward County’s “Island City” has attracted unique and interesting people ever since it was incorporated in 1947; long before it became South Florida’s premiere gayborhood. Centered around Wilton Drive’s Arts and Entertainment District, Wilton Manors combines a small-town atmosphere with all the amenities of urban life. The second city to elect an openly gay majority to its city government (West Hollywood, California was the first city to do so) Wilton Manors is the city with the second-highest proportion of same-sex couples. Provincetown, Massachusetts is number one. “We are thrilled that Wilton Manors has been recognized, yet again, as the ‘Best City’ in which to live,” says Gary Resnick, Wilton Manor’s openly gay Mayor. “Our entire City has worked hard for many years to make everyone not only feel safe and supported in our beautiful Island City, but we thrive on our diversity. It is our diversity that makes Wilton Manors such a great place not only to call home, but also to do business and to visit.” City Commissioner Julie Carson agrees, adding that “our wa kable city nurtures a vibrant business community and night life; acres of park space and open waterways; a top ranked elementary school; and residents who are committed to neighborliness and a sustainable, fiscally sound future. It is amid this beautiful backdrop that my partner and I can walk hand in hand, carefree, among a community of friends.”
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Off the Wall
Crossing the Finish Line By Pier Angelo Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have. – Margaret Mead
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n a Gallup opinion poll released this past May the most divisive social issue was doctor- assisted suicide. Forty-five percent said they found it morally acceptable and 48 percent said the opposite, and this, in a survey that included questions on gay marriage and cloning. The American godfather of assisted suicide, Dr. Jack Kevorkian, died June 3 of this year. Many described him as a crank and a publicity hog, and he was often referred to as “Dr. Death.” But he was also a hero to a large number of the American people and in particular to those suffering slow and undignified deaths. Kevorkian’s cause was the right of people with extremely painful illnesses to end their suffering in the only way possible. It took the courts five attempts to convict him. He did not care he had to spend eight years in jail, he believed it was his mission to push the issue to the forefront of public opinion and open a debate that, in time, will lead to the legalization of assisted suicide. Assisted suicide is the common term for actions by which an individual helps another person voluntarily bring about their own death. “Assistance” may mean providing one with the means (drugs or equipment) to end
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their own lives, but may extend to other actions. The current waves of global public debate have been ongoing for decades, centering on legal, bioethical, religious, and moral conceptions of “suicide” and a personal right to death. Legally speaking, the practice may be legal, illegal, or undecided depending on the culture or jurisdiction. It’s legal in the states, Oregon, Washington, and Montana with some provisions. On Feb. 6, 1997 Charles Hall, a Florida man with AIDS, became the only American with the legal right to physician-assisted suicide when a Florida judge lifts the stay on a previous court ruling affirming his right to obtain such assistance from his doctor. Despite its strict Roman Catholic history, in May 1997, Colombian courts allowed for the euthanasia of sick patients who requested to end their lives. In 2006, Belgium legalized euthanasia with certain regulations. In France a new legislation was passed which states that when medicine serves “no other purpose than the artificial support of life” they can be “suspended or not undertaken”. Euthanasia and assisted suicide were legalized in Luxemburg in April 2009, while in the Netherlands physician-assisted suicide is legal under the same conditions as euthanasia since 2001. In some religious contexts, while a “suicide” is considered to be an offense made out of unknowing, confusion, or despair, as-
sisted suicides are ostensibly actions made in faith, with no expectation of incurred sin or such that would bar transcendence to an afterlife. In several denominations, particularly the Catholic Church, suicides are considered a serious sin, and thus many Catholics oppose the practice of assisted suicide. Hinduism, on the other hand, accepts the right to die for those who are tormented by terminal diseases or those who have no desire, ambition or no responsibilities remaining, it allows death
through the non-violent practice of fasting to the point of starvation. The point is that we ourselves have an obligation to relieve the suffering of our fellow men and to respect their dignity. There are thousands of people afflicted with excruciatingly painful and terminal conditions and diseases, that have left them permanently incapable of functioning in any dignified human fashion, lying in hospitals beds every day. They can only look forward to lives filled with more suffering, humiliation, and deterioration. When such people beg for a merciful end to their pain and indignity, it is cruel and inhumane to refuse their pleas. Compassion demands that we comply and cooperate. We certainly have that compassion toward our beloved pets when their time comes. Why not the same respect and consideration, and love, for our friends and family members? The dangers of legalizing assisted suicide cannot be dismissed, especially the threat of possible undue pressure on old and sick people or the emergence of a social norm that would make it a routine or prescribed method of dying. But at the same time, in a free country, it should be an option. Furthermore, nobody’s life should be dictated by a Church, a Government, or by a majority vote of the Supreme Court. The issue requires no consensus. People should decide for themselves.
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Letter to the Editor
Just Go,West
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In recalling the personality of Britain’s foreign secretary Selwyn Lloyd, Moshe Dayan commented that he “may well have been a friendly man, pleasant, charming, amicable; if so he showed near-genius in concealing these virtues.” The same might be said for Allen West, whose penchant for speaking while having a mouthfull of his own feet is approaching legendary. His latest bon mot was directed against Lois Frankel, who is running for West’s current seat in the 22nd District. Patrick Murphy is also running as a Democrat against West, but West confined his remarks to Frankel when he said, “Maybe she likes to run against black men.” On the other hand, it could be said that West likes to run against white Jewish women. His first “love”, of course, is Debbie Wasserman Schultz, with whom he has an unrequited attachment that is expressed the same way a young boy would speak against the girl he was attracted to, and deny the attraction when asked about it. The more puerile and ill-mannered comments he makes about her, the more I am convinced I’m right. But the nasty rhetoric he directs against these Jewish women pales in comparison to the vile statements he directs against the LGBT community. Not only are his words offensive and fatuous, they represent his callous disregard of the fact that we are among those he is sworn to represent. Isn’t this a version of taxation without representation? - after all, our taxes pay his salary. Frankly, I don’t expect the tea-party to take up our cause; West is one of their constituents. Of all West’s noxious claims about gay and lesbian people, the one that stands out the furthest was his hostility toward the comparison between the civil rights struggle of the 60’s and our struggle today. “I cannot change my color. But people can change their sexual behavior, “ Rep. Allen West said in an interview with the South Florida Sun-Sentinel. The logical assumption of West’s assertion is that there is something wrong with being black, it’s just that black folks were born this way, so we shouldn’t ask or expect them to be otherwise. Gay and lesbian people, on the other hand, engage in a behavior (rather than embrace an identity we were born with), and therefore can be asked or expected to change. That said, the congressman says he doesn’t
expect gay people to become straight any more than he expects to stop eating chocolate chip ice cream or trade in his motorcycle for a scooter. “Everyone has the same basic rights, and no one is telling people in the gay community that they don’t have the same basic rights that any American has,” he notes. Except, tragically, people are. See www.gayamericanheroes.info for proof. West is either appallingly ignorant or willfully disingenuous to claim otherwise. And this is our tragedy, because West is engaged to represent us, he who refuses to see us beyond stereotype. Allen West is not only hostile and dismissive towards those who challenge his claims. He is a trash-talking, gay-bashing shill for those who would push us back into the closet, and further, into complete and forever silence. For those who believe it’s essential to be involved in local politics, and especially for those who don’t, I urge you to take a look at the proposed redistricting maps for our representatives. The 22nd District, which West currently represents, will entirely cover Wilton Manors. That means that Debbie Wasserman Schultz, who represents the 20th District, will represent other folks. Their gain would be our considerable loss. While it is rumored that West might consider another district to the west (no pun intended), I urge everyone who envisions a representative who actually represents us to tell West to just go, West. – Noah Kitty
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By Brian Swinford
Have an event you want to list? If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com.
Theatre Broward County Cirque Dreams Holidaze
From Dec 27-Jan. 1 come to the Broward Center for Performing Arts for Cirque Dreams Holidaze. Created and directed by local resident Neil Goldberg, Cirque Dreams Holidaze is an original new musical extravaganza filled with spectacle, imagination and whimsical dreams. Visit Browardcenter.org
Royal Philharmonic Orchestra
Internationally-acclaimed for the highest standards of music across a diverse range of musical genres, the Royal Philharmonic Orchestra (RPO) is the UK’s most prodigious of orchestras. See this unforgettable performance at the Broward Center at 7 p.m. on Jan. 3. Visit BrowardCenter.org
*Carmen
On Jan. 5 and 6 at 8 p.m. Carmen comes to the Broward Center for Performing Arts. This contemporary ballet, through choreographer Tomas Mazuch’s vision, restores Prosper Marimee’s original novela. The drama of Carmen enchants with its tragic telling of turbulent loves, uncontrolled passion, jealousy and bloodshed. Visit BrowardCenter.org
The Motherf**ker With The Hat
From Jan. 7 to Jan. 25 come to the Gable Stage at the Biltmore Hotel in Coral Gables and see The Motherf**ker with the Hat. Was there ever any doubt that GableStage would be the first to stage last season’s Broadway drama about a former drug-dealing addict trying to kick his habit despite the “help” of friends and a troubled sponsor? Visit Gablestage.org
*Soul Doctor, The Shlomo Carlebach Musical
The Soul Dr. is at the Parker Play House Jan. 11-29. The show is about the journey of a Rockstar-Rabbi. Larry King raved “The crowd roars with laughter and song all night long, the most exuberant new musical, destined to become a hit on Broadway for many years to come!” Browardcenter.org/souldoctor_parker
*Jersey Boys
The Jersey Boys are back at the Broward Center on Jan. 11-29. This is the story of how four blue-collar kids became one of the greatest successes in pop music history. Visit BrowardCenter.org
The Four Tops & The Temptations
When it comes to Motown legends, it doesn’t get any bigger or any better than multi-platinum selling artists The Four Tops & The Temptations! On Feb. 1 enjoy this awesome concert at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts. Hitting the stage with their high energy pop and funk from the 70’s and 80’s, these musical greats perform classic Motown hits from their repertoire. Visit BrowardCenter.org
Willie Nelson & Family
On Tuesday Feb. 7 come see American country music icon Willie Nelson at The Broward Center at 8 p.m. For over 30 years, this “outlaw” singer-songwriter has recorded more than 200 albums and achieved both cult status and mainstream acclaimed. In his career, he blazed a trail through the music business. Visit BrowardCenter.org
Palm Beach Matisyahu
On Dec. 29 at 8 p.m. come to The Kravis center for An Acoustic Evening with Matisyahu. Few artists make an impact as complete as the one Matisyahu made with his Top 40 hit “King Without A Crown.” Visit Kravis.org
*BLAST!
The Kravis Center for the Performing Arts will have a BLAST on Dec. 31 at 8 p.m. BLAST received an Emmy Award for Best Choreography, and is comprised of 35 brass, percussion and visual performers brought together in a unique explosion of music and theatre. Visit Kravis.org
Salute to Vienna
Welcome the New Year with Salute to Vienna at The Kravis Center on Jan. 1 at 8 p.m. a genuine recreation of Vienna’s world famous “Neuhahrskonzert” now a Kravis Center tradition. Visit Kravis.org
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*The Effect of Gamma Rays on Man-in-the-Moon Marigolds
This Pulitzer Prize winning play depicts a mentally unbalanced woman’s far reaching effects on the lives of her two daughters, and a young girl’s struggle to keep her focus and dreams alive. Showings will start Jan. 6-29. Visit Palmbeachdramaworks.org/season.php
Happy Birthday Elvis Tribute Show
On Jan. 7 come to the Crest Theatre and enjoy a memorable night of fun and entertainment! Special appearance by R.J. Franzese with the sounds of Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bobby Darin and more. Be thrilled as Scott, R.J. and the band perform the greatest songs of all time! Visit Oldschool.org/ performances.asp
*Hair
Hair comes to the Kravis Center on Jan. 10-15. This exuberant musical about a group of young Americans searching for peace and love in a turbulent time has struck a resonant chord with audiences young and old. Visit Kravis.org
The Two and Only
Jan. 13-15. This 2007 Tony Award Winner for Best Theatrical Event stars Jay Johnson (best known for the TV show Soap), and a wild cast of puppet characters in one of today’s funniest and most original theatrical experiences. It’s an adult look at life, growing up, having a dream and everything in between. Visit Oldschool.org/ performances.asp
*Alexander, Who’s Not Going to Move!
Miami
Million Dollar Quartet
If you’re into Elvis, Jerry Lee Lewis, Carl Perkins and Johnny Cash come to the Adrienne Arsht Center on Dec. 27-Jan. 1. A fictionalized account of an actual jam session in 1956 at Sun Records studio with Elvis, Jerry Lee Lewis, Carl Perkins and Johnny Cash performing their greatest hits. Visit arshtcenter.org
Macbeth and the Monster
Come to the Mad Cat Theatre in Miami on Dec. 28-Jan. 9 for a family-friendly modern re-imagining of the Shakesperean tale intended to be entertaining for all ages. Written by Los Angeles playwright Angela Berliner and directed by Paul Tei. Visit madcattheatre.org
B.B King
On Jan. 4 The Adrienne Arsht Center will have B.B King the blues king. B.B. King will be singing and playing the blues with relentless passion. Time has no apparent effect on B.B., other than to make him more popular, more cherished, more relevant than ever. For more information visit Arshtcenter.org
*Pilobolus
On Friday March 2 at 8 p.m. come to The Adrienne Arsht Center for Pilobolus. Celebrating 40 years of defying gravity, this incomparable dance company has delighted, dazzled and amazed audiences across the planet with their superhuman flexibility and fascinating forms that challenge the limits of the human body. Visit Arshtcenter.org
Stage Door: Highlighting the Arts
By J.W. Arnold A Supreme Evening with Mary Wilson The Royal Room at the swanky Colony Hotel rings in the New Year with musical royalty Mary Wilson, Dec. 31 and Jan. 3-7. Wilson, co-founder of The Supremes, returns to Palm Beach for her third appearance and will pepper the Royal Room’s usual cabaret fare with her own hits. Tickets are available for both prix fixe dinner and/or the show, by calling the hotel at 561-659-8100. The Colony is located at 155 Hammon Ave. in Palm Beach, just one block south of Worth Ave. and one block west of the Atlantic Ocean.
Film Festival Continues Monthly Screenings Israeli director Eytan Fox’s award-winning miniseries “Mary Lou” will be the next screened on Wednesday, Jan. 11 as part of the Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival’s Afterglow Series. Compared to “Glee” or even “Mamma Mia,” Fox’s film is a musical dramedy about Meir, a young gay man, who searches for the mother who abandoned the family on his 10th birthday. His search takes him on an emotionally harrowing journey into Tel Aviv’s gay community, all set to the pop music of Svicka Pick. The screening will be held at Miami Beach Cinemateque at 8 p.m. with a
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cocktail reception preceding at 7 p.m. Tickets are $6.25 $16.25 at MGLFF.com.
The Culinary Arts on Exhibit
Thanks to Food Network, Whole Foods and a host of celebrity chefs, America’s palate has grown refined in recent years.The very best of Miami’s culinary scene will be on display on Saturday, Jan. 14 when the Miami-Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts the third annual Taste of Miami at the Miami Beach Convention Center. “In two short years, Taste of Miami has grown significantly in popularity as a social gathering and foodie event,” said Steve Adkins, president of the MDGLCC. “So this year, we decided to give our guests what they want and have the entire evening devoted to the ‘Taste’ experience.” Last year, more than two dozen chamber members participated, including City Hall, David’s Café, Seasons 52, Centerplate and the Hyatt Regency Miami. Tickets are $75 in advance and $100 at the door and include tastings, as well as signature cocktails by Bacardi and Grey Goose Vodka. Proceeds benefit the chamber foundation’s scholarship fund. For tickets or more information, go to GoGayMiami.com or call (305) 397-8914.
In this hilarious sequel to Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, Alexander has bad newshis dad has taken a job in a new city a thousand miles away, which means that he & his family are going to have to move away from all his friends and the things he loves. Come to the Actors PlayHouse at the Miracle Theatre in Coral Gables on Jan. 12 at 7 p.m. Visit Actorsplayhouse.org
Wally Cardona: Tool Is Loot
On Jan. 21 come to the Colony Theatre watch this play where each choreographer solicited weeklong encounters with nondance experts, treating their artistic positions to the constant reassessment, opinions and desires of an “outsider”, creating a new work with each expert. 8:30 p.m. Visit Tigertail.org
*Florida Grand Opera Presents Rigoletto Verdi’s Rigoletto, one of the world’s best loved operas will be at the Adrienne Arsth Center on Jan. 28 at 7 p.m.This is the story of a court jester who enables the Duke’s philandering and mocks the husbands and fathers of the victims. When he finds his own daughter to be the Duke’s newest victim, he tries to repay evil with evil, a plan that goes awry. Visit Arshtcenter.org
Key West
Key West Pops Orchestra presents: Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat
Dec. 29-30 in Key West Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice’s production stars Marc Crow as the boy who makes his fame and fortune with his gift for interpreting dreams. The concert features an all-Key West cast with the orchestra conducted by Pops maestro, Vincent Zito. Show starts at 7:30 p.m. at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 401 Duval Street. Call 305-296-6059 or email info@keywestpops.org
Dead Man’s Cell Phone
In a quiet cafe a cell phone rings. And rings. The stranger at the next table has had enough. She confronts the owner of the cell phone, but, well...he’s dead. She begins to answer his calls and suddenly finds herself enmeshed in his life and family. Unfortunately, the dead guy has quite a number of shady loose ends. This plays opening night is Feb 2 at The Waterfront Playhouse at 8pm. Visit Waterfrontplayhouse.org
Community Calendar Broward *Gamma Mu Foundation
The Gamma Mu Foundation in Fort Lauderdale Florida was created to endow financial grants to organizations and individuals in small towns and rural America, that provide direct assistance to people living with HIV or AIDS. Please Join The Florida Members of Gamma Mu Foundation for HEAT 12 in Fort Lauderdale at The Manor Dec 30 from 630-930. For more information Please Email HeatLauderdale@Aol.com
AA Florida Roundup New Years Eve Party AA Florida Roundup New Year’s Eve Party at Bldg A, Main Hall at the pride Center at Equality Park. Florida Round-Up is a non-profit charitable organization that primarily supports LGBT people recovering from alcoholism and addiction. They host an annual convention of workshops, speaker meetings and events. Visit Floridaroundup.org
Grief Support Group
Grief Support Group led by Heartland Hospice meets every 3rd Tuesday at American Burial & Cremation Center @ Jennings Funeral Home 1801 E. Oakland Park Blvd. from 2-4 pm. Call 954-731-4321. If you need support in your time of loss they invite you to attend.
SunTrust Sunday Jazz Brunch
First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live , outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists. Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages. Everyone is welcome to attend, including well-behaved, leashed pets. There is plenty of room to set up chairs, blankets and picnic baskets to experience the fabulous entertainment. Patrons can also stroll along the historic brick-lined walkway to enjoy live music while browsing items from local merchants and enjoying food from area restaurants.
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To Submit Listings Email: Brian at Calendar@sfgn.com Fax: 954-530-7943. Please include a brief description, address, phone number, date, time and cost. Eating Disorder Support group
An Eating Disorder Support group is starting Nov. 4. This group will meet Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. This is a “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. No registration required, free- however donations are welcome. Call 954-764-5150 for more information
Florida Renaissance Festival
Toastmasters
Most Toastmasters meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-599-7916 or email: Tedverdone@comcast.net
Journey back to the 16th century, Feb. 11 to March 11, as you step through castle gates and into the days of yore. Explore the artisans’ village and view live demonstrations of glassblowing, steel-fighting, archery, and more. Feast on hearty food fit for a king while enjoying live performances on stage and in the lanes, including our thrice-daily jousting events. Weekends only, plus President’s Day, 2/20 Visit Broward.org/ Parks/QuietW
Safe “T”
SE Florida Chamber Expo
A meeting place, primarily for gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA), Compulsive Sex Addicts Anonymous (CSA), Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Gamblers Anonymous (GA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), & Overeaters Anonymous (OA), meetings. (954) 7619072. 1231-A East Las Olas Boulevard. Fort Lauderdale. Visit Lambdasouth.com
On Jan. 28-29 come to the War Memorial Auditorium and see what your local businesses have to showcase. Come and see your local community’s businesses products and services. Free Admission. From 10am-6pm. For more information please call Gino Alessio 561-245-8985.
Atlantis | Allure Caribbean Cruise
Gay cruise, largest cruise ship ever built: Allure of the Seas, week of entertainment, parties, dance events, Jan. 29 – Feb. 5. Nearly 5,500 international gay/lesbian guests to sail from Ft. Lauderdale to Labadee, Cozumel, Costa Maya, & back. Atlantisevents.com/Allure-2012-Caribbean-Cruise/11
Boardwalk Friday Fest
Come out to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month. Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile Broadwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-924-2980
Safe “T” is a new support group for gender variant adults 18 plus that meets Wednesday evenings from 6:30-8:00 p.m. at Sunserve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. This is a “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. No registration required, free- however donations are welcome. Call 954-764-5150.
Lambda South
GreenMarket Pompano Beach
At the corner of Dixie Highway and Atlantic Boulevard 8 a.m. – 1 p.m. This outdoor street market provides the best and freshest fruits and vegetables, juices, baked goods, seafood, gourmet teas and coffees and other food items, as well as orchids, plants, and health-related products and services. GreenMarket Pompano Beach is held every Saturday through April 28. Also features art shows, antique automobile shows, and environmental exhibits. Visit GreenMarketPompano.com
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To Submit Listings Email: Brian at Calendar@sfgn.com Fax: 954-530-7943. Please include a brief description, address, phone number, date, time and cost. Young Adult GLBT
A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35. This group meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m. Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity. Visit PrideCenterFlorida.org/contact-us
Light-Up Lauderdale
Light Up Lauderdale is a holiday centric promenade of lights in Riverwalk Park. This event connects the cultural, historical and business districts along New River. November to January. Visit www.goriverwalk.com
Winter HEAT 2012
February 16-20, 2012 Host hotel: Bahia Mar Beach Resort & Yachting Center. Events at: George’s Alibi, Torpedo Bar, Green Room, Heat Waves, Voodoo, Living Room, Winter Waterland. See website for details.Visit Winterheatflorida.com
Alternative MC Tuesday night Eaten Meeting
Tue Nite Eatin Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland park. There will be fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hambergers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. The meeting will begin at 8pm and end around 9pm. For more information Visit Alternativemc.com/events/florida-events
Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group
This is a support group that gives men who have been HIV+ for a long time (5 yrs +) the opportunity to give and receive support around topics of interest and issues for concern that are raised by the members. This group meets on 1st and 3rd Thursday at Sunserve 2312 Wilton Drive from 6:30 – 8 p.m. There is no cost, but donations are welcome.
Gay Male Empowerment Group
Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets on Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155 or e-mail info@ sunserve.org.
PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)
Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge. Visit Community.pflag. org/pflagfortlauderdale for more information.
SunServe Therapy Groups
Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Groups require an intake interview. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-764-5150 to learn which therapy groups have openings. Visit SunServe.org
Fusion Wilton Manors - Connections
Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week. Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event. No charge with no commitment to attend every week. Starts at 7 p.m. Call Fusion Monday-Friday at 954-630-1655.
Women4Women Personal Growth Support Group
This is a safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150
Man2Man Discussion Group
Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed. Bldg A, Room 206. Visit Glccsf.org/calendar/
Palm Beach
*Circus Fusion...Blast!
Clematis Street Block Party
Come out and play Dec 31 for this New Year’s Eve Celebration. Once again, the 500 block of Clematis Street closes off to car traffic and businesses join together for a massive block party. Admission is free. Call 561-659-5980
*2012 MDA Muscle Walk presented by Moore Ellrich & Neal PA
Come walk with us Sunday, January 22, 2012 to support the Muscular Dystrophy Association. So whether you’ve walked before or you’re walking in the MDA Muscle Walk for the first time, we need you because you are the heart (and sole!) of this great event. All participants will receive entrance into Palm Beach Zoo for the day immediately following the walk. Visit Walk.mda.org
*21st Annual Susan G. Komen South Florida Race for the Cure
Registration is now open for the 2012 Susan G. Komen South Florida Race for the Cure. Bring all your friends and family on Saturday, January 28, 2012. If you’ve got a passion for making a difference in our community, then take action today and register or make a donation. For more information visit Komensouthflorida.org
Yoga On The Waterfront
These meetings take place at Compass, and geared toward recovering alcoholics. Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 6 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol.
Sunday on the Waterfront
Sunday on the Waterfront is a free concert series, which takes place the third Sunday of most months in the beautiful downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront area. Bring blankets, chairs, and coolers or purchase treats at the concert. Free parking in all city lots and at city meters. 4:30 p.m. to 7 p.m. May through October. Visit OnTheWaterFront.com
Miami
Sign up for the National Multiple Sclerosis Society 2012 MS Walk on Sunday Feb 26 at 7am. Help raise awareness and funds for research, programs, services and advocacy. MS Walk is the rallying point of the MS movement; a community of friends, family and co-workers coming together with a shared commitment and determination to create a world free of MS. Visit Walkfls.nationalmssociety.org
MIA features contemporary, cutting-edge art of all media including photography, painting, mixed-media, sculpture, installation and video. The fair is unique in its support of the local Miami art community. This year MIA will be held aboard SeaFair. Opening night vernissage is Jan. 12. Visit Mia-artfair.com On Jan. 11 at 1130am MDGLCC/GALLA presents its monthly networking program tailored for attorneys, judges and legal professionals held on the middle Wednesday of each month. Guest speaker: TBD. Truluck’s Restaurant. For more information call 305673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net.
*Business Builders Luncheon
MDGLCC presents its monthly networking program held Jan 26 and on the last Thursday of each month. At City Hall The Restaurant. Registration is at 11:30 am with luncheon/ networking from noon to 1:00 pm. Call 305673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net.
New Year’s Eve in Key West
YOGA Among the Orchids
It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach. Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m. Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561404-2011. Visit OrchidWeb.org
Jazz on the Palm
Jazz on the Palm - Downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the diverse vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every 3rd Friday of month at the new Downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo. com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-palm
BrothasSpeak
This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com
Paths
Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming –out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com
Beach Bon Fire
Living Buddhism
Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat. Visit Compassglcc.com On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness. This group is great for getting internal enlightenment. Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com
Soundscape Cinema Series Free Outdoor Movies
The Exostage is an open, grassy viewing area faces a 7,000 square foot projection wall on the eastern front of the New World Center building, complete with a world-class audio system. Miami Beach Soundscape 400 17th Street. Schedule: Movies at 8 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 7 True Grit, Wednesday, Dec. 14 Chicago, Wednesday, Dec. 21 Some Like It Hot, Wednesday, Dec. 28 Gremlins Miamibeachfl.gov
Winter Party Festival
From Febuary 29 to March 5 come to party at the Winter Party. Which has grown into one of South Florida’s premier events. The Beach Party is set to be held on Sunday March 4th and attracts over 6,000 people to dance on the sands on Miami Beach every year. For more information, go to Winterparty.com
Lambda Dade Clubhouse
Miami International Art Fair
*MS Walk - The Palm Beaches
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Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 PM. Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class. To register, please call 561-804-4902.
On Sat Dec. 31 bring the whole family to the Boynton Beach Mall for Circus Fusion...BLAST! Be thrilled right out of your seat with Soaring Aerial Daredevils in our 80’ High Big Top. Laugh to the World’s Best Comedy! Chill to Gravity Defying Motorcycles Flying High Through the Air! Visit Circusfusion.com The city of Lake Worth invites everyone to come out and enjoy the beach bon-fires with a different dress up theme each night. Bonfire Dates: January 13th (New Year) & 27th (Favorite Movie), February 10th (Pirate) & 24th ( 70’s Night ). Visit Lakeworth.org
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*Sandpipers Networking Event
Sandpipers Networking Event – Wednesday, Jan. 11, MDGLCC presents its monthly networking program held on the middle Wednesday of each month. This month’s location is Escopazzo Restaurant. Cocktail networking event and business card exchange with drawing for prizes. Cash bar and free hors d’oeuvres. For more information call 305673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net
*Miami Beach Music Festival
On Dec 30 Miami Beach will be filled with super stars like Gym Class Hero’s, Ne-Yo, and Cee Lo Green for The Miami Beach Music festival. For more information on this all star event visit Orangedr.com/events/gridiron-bash-pep-rally-1
*“Taste of Miami” Fundraiser
This event will be on Jan14 and will be showcasing the mouthwatering morsels and luscious libations of MDGLCC member food and beverage establishments, “Taste of Miami” will be presented as a stand-alone event this year with proceeds benefitting the MDGLCC Foundation’s Scholarship Program and the LGBT Visitor Center. For more information call 305-397-8914 or email cindy@gogaymiami.com.
US Sailing’s 2011 Rolex Miami OCR
This event will take place Jan 22-28 and isbeing held at the US Sailing Center in Miami a mainstay on the winter circuit for sailors who are campaigning for the next Olympic and Paralympic Games. The event is part of the ISAF Sailing World Cup, a world-class annual series for Olympic sailing. Visit Rmocr.ussailing.org
Art Deco Weekend
January 13 -15, Miami Design Preservation League celebrates 35 years of Art Deco Weekend. There will be live music, an antique furniture expo, classic car show, parade, fashion show, guided walking tours, street entertainment, and more. Come celebrate the South Beach of today, a rich landscape of style, culture, and creativity. Visit Mdpl.org
Homestead Championship Rodeo
This exciting event will take place Jan 27-29 at the Doc Demily Rodeo Arena in Miami. This seven-event rodeo includes bull riding, saddle-bronco riding, bareback-bronco riding, calf roping, team roping, steer wrestling, and women’s barrel racing. The fun also includes cowboy poetry performances, a parade, live music and dancing. Visit Homesteadrodeo.com
A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. (305) 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org
Aqua Ally Awards
On Friday, Feb.10 from 6-9 p.m. The Aqua Foundation for Women will be celebrating those who stand with us in the fight for equality. Come out to the beautiful Bacardi building at 2701 Le Juene Rd. Floor 15 in Coral Gables. Visit Aquafoundation.org
Aqua Foundation’s Second Annual Family BBQ
The Aqua Foundation for Women will be having their second annual family BBQ on Feb. 26 from 12-4 p.m. This event is the perfect opportunity for LBT families to connect with one another in a fun, social place. The beach and playground will be available for your use, there will be delicious food on the grill, and there will be fun activities for all ages. Visit Aquafoundation.org
Key West
Key West ‘Bight’ Before Christmas Holiday Celebration
On Nov24-Dec31 come get you’re jiggy on with great live holiday music, games for the kids, free cookies and eggnog, holiday cheer and a chance for photos with Santa highlight this event. Created as a gift to the community, the gala is produced by the Key West Bight Preservation Association and tenants of the Key West Bight. Call Tom Stroh 305-304-2633
52nd Annual Key West House & Garden Tours
Come tour a series of elegant and a unique part of Key West on Dec 27-28 decorticated for the holidays! Proceeds help benefit the old Island Restoration Foundation. Presented by the Old Island Restoration Foundation, this house and garden tour offers a rare opportunity to see inside some of Key West’s magnificent, charming and tropical residences. Call 305-294-9501 or via email tickets@oirf.org
Florida Keys Art Guild, Art Festival
On Dec. 27 come down to Key West for an awesome Art Fest. This is a free art festival to be held at Bayview Park, enjoyable for the whole family. Dozens of artists from around the country join local artisans to display their work, ranging from fine jewelry, sculpture, paintings and photography as well as fine crafts. Open from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Call Joey Smith 305897-9098 or Email: sarasotajoe2000@yahoo.com
Florida Keys New Year’s Eve Celebrations
The Southernmost City celebrates with a conch shell drop at Sloppy Joes Bar, 201 Duval St.; a descending 6-foot red high heel shoe carrying drag queen Sushi at the Bourbon Street Pub/New Orleans House complex, 724 Duval St.; and a pirate wench descending from a tall ship mast in the island city’s Historic Seaport. Call: 305-296-2388, 305-293-9800
Food And Wine Festival
The third annual Key West Food & Wine Festival will be January 26-29. Events range from extravagant walk-around tastings during our famous sunset, to educational wine and food seminars led by our local talent, to local funky events you would only expect to experience in Key West. Thursday, Jan. 26 through Sunday, Jan. 29. Visit Keywestfoodandwinefestival.com
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nightlife Broward 321-Slammer
Bathhouse. 321 W Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida, 33311. Slammer sex club the best place to cruise for the hottest gay men. Thursday’s is leather night, fri-sat night live dj’s. Monday & tuesday -- $9 entry fee
Atomic Boom
2232 Wilton Drive ,Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 630-3556 Best Sound & Light Show in Broward County. Mondays Porn Bingo with Desiree Dubois. $3 Margaritas, $1 Draft
Boardwalk
1721 North Andrews Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33311. (954) 463-6969. A Cute Little Hangout in Fort Lauderdale Pool-Room/Game Room on One Side and a Bar-Strip Club on the other. Mondays $3 Well & Dom, after 9pm $3 U-Call-It Shots
Clubhouse II
Bathhouse. 2650 E. Oakland Park Blvd , Fort Lauderdale, Florida (954) 566-6750. A Private Club for Bi/Gay men. Bear and Cub Thursday $4 Off For Bear & Cub. Tuesday Leather Night - $4. off wear any type of leather.
The Manor
2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2-4-1 Happy Hour Tues-Friday 3-9pm. Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday - Sunday. Live Music Weds, Fri, Sat, Sun - Visit themanorcomplex.com FOR MORE DETAILS.
Corner Pub Bar
1915 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 564-7335. Redefining What a Bar Should Be. Thursday’s Margarita. Madness $4, Monday’s Underwear Night. 2 for 1 until 9:30 p.m.
Bill’s Filling Station
2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-5978. Large Bar/ Nightclub, Amazing. Drink Specials in Wilton Manors. Wednesday’s After 9pm $10 Miller Lite Beer Bust
The Club Fort Lauderdale
Bathhouse. 110 Northwest 5th Avenue,Fort Lauderdale, FL ,(954) 525-3344 Good. Clean. Fun. 1/2 price rooms... Tuesday Nights and 1/2 price Lockers. Thursdays Nights. Always busy.
Cubby Hole
823 North Federal Highway ,Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 728-9001. The Cubby Hole is one of Fort Lauderdale’s Most Unique and Popular Neighborhood Bar for Men. Underwear Wednesday’s. Boxers n’ Briefs get 2 for 1 on Drinks 9 p.m. till Close
The Depot Cabana Bar and Grill
2935 N Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5377076. Voted the “Friendliest” Gay Bar in Fort Lauderdale. Monday’s $1.99 Drinks and $.50 Wings Open to Close
Georgie’s Alibi
2266 Wilton Drive ,Wilton Manors, FL 33305 ,(954) 5652526. Fort Lauderdale’s Best & Longest Happy Hour. Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m. Wednesdays
Johnny’s
1116 West Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 5225931. Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky FRIDAY NOV 25 FT LAUD. RIHANNA “Talk That Talk” Album Release Event. Celebrating the hit single “WE FOUND LOVE” with Calvin Harris. Free Giveaways. DJ TPROMIX
Monkey Business
2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 514-7819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd. No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People. Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.
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Matty’s on the Drive
2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 564-1799. Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.
Mona’s
502 East Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 525-6662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8pm Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1
Naked Grape Wine Bar
2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-5631 A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday
New Moon
2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-7660 Your neighborhood lesbian bar in the heart of Fort Lauderdale and just minutes from Ft. Lauderdale Beach. Wednesday All the fun, half the price 2-4-1 All Day, All Night
PJ’s Corner Pocket
924 North Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 533-0257. One of The Most Diverse Bars in Fort Lauderdale. $2 Drinks Every Wednesday, Spades Every Thursday
Ramrod
1132 North Dixie Highway, Lake Worth FL $3 Drinks No Cover open till 5AM New location Better than Ever.
The Mad Hatter
1532 North Dixie Hwy ,Lake Worth, FL 33460. (561) 547-8860. Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders, and free pool SundayThursday. Stop by and relax at this no-attitude haunt.
Tag Bar
25 Northeast 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach, FL 33483 954-801-3247. Delray Beach’s only Gay Bar. Mon - Sun: 4 p.m. - 2 a.m. Awesome Drink Specials
Miami Johnny’s
Miami 62 NE 14 Street Downtown Miami Florida (305)640-8749 No Cover 7 nights a week. The hottest men in the universe strip shows nightly from 6 p.m. Sexy from Wall to Wall. Saturday SEPT 3 in Miami FIRE & ICE at the SPOT…The Hottest POP, Hip Hop and Latin alongside the COLDEST Electro and House Beats. all on Miami’s Best Sound System.
Club Space
1508 NE 4th Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 763-8219 South Florida’s Leading Levi, Leather and Uniform Bar/Club. Every night is Bear Night. Bear Happy. Hour Every Thursday. Caged Hunks Sat Night
34 NE 11th St ,Miami ,Florida, 33132,(305)350-1956 Space Miami Voted Best U.S Club IDMA 2011. The go-to venue for any nightlife enthusiast in the nation,The club is proudly marching on into its second decade of operation.
Rosie’s Bar and Grill
Club Sugar
Scandals Country Western Bar
Discotekka
2449 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-1320 Wilton Manor’s Best Burger in Town. Try the Fat Elvis. Happy Hour 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. Oakland Park, FL 3334, (954) 567-2432. Scandals Gay and Lesbian Country Western. Dance Bar in Wilton Manors. Tuesdays Pool League, and Free Dance Lessons
Sidelines Sports Bar
2031 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305, (954) 563-8001 Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards is a unique, friendly, And accepting place to relax with a cold beer, great drinks and Martinis. Happy Hour M-F 4pm to 2am
Smarty Pants
2301 SW 32nd Ave, Miami, Florida, 33145,(305)443-7657. All the Sweetness you’ll need in one Club. Every Thursday Drag Wars with TP Lords. $5 House Drinks & $4 Domestic Beers all night 950 NE 2nd Ave, Downtown Miami, Florida 33132,(305)3509084 One of the Best Night Clubs In Miami. Every Saturday The Hottest DJ’s from the Top Performers. Drink Special Every Saturday
Score
727 Lincoln Rd, Miami Beach, Florida, 33139,(305)561-5521. Score is located in the heart of South Beach, In the thriving and infamous promenade, Lincoln Road. Bigger Saturday’s Sexy Male Dolls
3038 North Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306, (954) 561-1724. Great Local Hangout in Fort Lauderdale with Great Drink Specials. Saturday’s Free Breakfast to Order – 8 a.m.
Swinging Richards
The Stable
Twist
205 East Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, FL 33334, (954) 565-4506 A neighborhood bar with a different theme every night, from drag shows and bingos, to bears and underwears.
Torpedo
2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 587-2500. Your Dance Destination Till Dawn. Open Late for You To Devour The Night. Open 7 nights a week till 4 a.m.
The Cottage
522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth, Fl, 33414. (561) 586-0080 Great Service, Great Food, Full Stocked Bar, Great Professional Tea-Dance every Sunday
Fort Dix
6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, Florida 33405 Directions, (561)533-5355. Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. Place rocks with a Fabulous DJ on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday T-Dance.
H.G. Rooster
17450 Biscayne Blvd, N Maimi Beach, Fl 33160 954-357-2532 Tuesdays-Saturdays from 6pm til 6am come and enjoy Fully nude guys dancing to the best music in South Floirda. 1057 Washington Ave, Miami Beach , Florida , 33139, (305)538-9478 Never a Cover…Always a Groove. Resident star DJ Mika spins tribal. Every Saturday TWIST is full of the hottest men in Miami. Muscle boy dancers taking it off in the Bungalow Bar.
Key West
801 Bourbon Bar
Palm Beach
823 BELVEDERE ROAD, WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33405, (561)-832-9119. H.G. Roosters is West Palms oldest gay club. Sunday’s Complimentary BBQ 5pm, Hot Male Dancers 6 p.m., Karaoke 11 p.m.
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*The Lounge
801 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305)294-4737 Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. Happy Hour specials daily from 11a.m. – 8 p.m.
Club Aqua
711 Duval St.,Key West, Florida,(305)294-0555 Monday’s Dueling Bartenders. Your Bartender’s sing, shake, and stir their way through happy hour 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.
Kwest
705 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305)292-8500 Key West All-Male Strip Club. Daily Happy Hour from 3-8 p.m., And a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night.
Pearl’s Patio Bar
525 United Street, Key West, FL(305)293-9805 ext. 156 Pearl’s Patio is a great place to enjoy a drink and relax. Happy Hour – every weekday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Friday’s are Extended Happy Hour 5pm-9p
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AFTER DARK
By J.W. Arnold Ring in the New Year
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here has 2011 gone? Every year seems to pass more quickly than the last as the days and months fly by. Alas, December 31 is nearly upon us and with it the celebration of yet another new year. As always, the many bars and clubs in South Florida have a big weekend planned as we kiss 2011 goodbye and say hello to 2012. Here are a few of the highlights of the New Year’s weekend: The Lords South Beach, Miami Beach’s swanky gay hotel, has a big weekend planned, beginning with its one year anniversary party on Thursday, Dec. 29. DJ Tracy Young will headline along with a special performance by Heloise and the Savior Faire. Absolut cocktails are complimentary from 9 – 10 p.m. On New Year’s Eve, the party moves to the Penthouse at the Lord’s with a holiday blowout that begins at 10:30 p.m. For more information, go to LordsSouthBeach.com. The Lords is located at 1120 Collins Ave. Peter Cook, founder of the popular monthly gay tea cruise, invites you aboard the luxury yacht Musette for a gay dinner cruise. The four hour cruise includes bistro dinner, party favors, open bar and champagne toast as you float along the waters of the New River and the Intercoastal Waterway. Tickets are $145 per person with reservation at GayTeaCruise.com. Dance in the New Year at The Manor, Wilton Manors’ dance palace, which celebrates The Splendors of Asia with DJ David Knapp. Start with the $55 prix fixed dinner featuring performances by Electra and friends before moving to
the Epic Nightclub. Unlike many holiday events, there is no cover and you still get to enjoy the requisite balloon drop, live Times Square remote broadcast and champagne toast at midnight. The Manor is located at 2345 Wilton Dr. In Miami, Score, Lincoln Road’s longtime dance club, features DJ/Producer Eddie Elias for a great night of dancing. DJ Alex Infiniti will play the warm-up set and there will be plenty of free party favors and a champagne toast at midnight. You’ll find the action at 727 Lincoln Rd. And, in downtown Miami, Discotekka is offering DJ Escape and a special stage production by T.P. Lords. Doors open at 11 p.m. and there will be plenty of giveaways and prizes all night long, in addition to some of the best music in town. Discotekka is located at 950 NE 2nd Ave. If you like hot men, there are plenty of options for your holiday weekend: Boardwalk, 1721 N. Andrews Ave., features special performances by Falcon Studios star Andrew Jakk. The blonde stud will be doing two shows each night, December 29 – January 1. Swinging Richards, the area’s only totally nude go-go bar, is also planning a big night with more dancers, open bar, champagne toast and free 15-minute visits to the VIP rooms with your favorite dancers. Swinging Richards is located ½ mile from Aventura Mall at 17450 Biscayne Blvd. in North Miami Beach. And we can’t forget Johnny’s, with locations in Fort Lauderdale and Miami. Stop by the new Miami club, 62 NE 14th St. in the hopping downtown entertainment district, for some of the sexiest men in Dade County.
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Book Marks by Richard Labonte
Bests are subjective, and Top 10s are limiting, but these are the books that stuck with me most in 2011
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ome are examples of formal queer fiction or standard homo memoir/ autobiography forms, several take a more daring – or daunting – approach to the art of literature; and, auguring well for the future, five of the 10 fiction titles are debuts. In fact, it was a good year for gay (male) debut fiction: among my other favorites are Mitko, by Garth Greenwell; Dirty One, by Michael Graves; We the Animals, by Justin Torres; Chulito, by Charles Rice-González; Songs for the New Depression, by Kergan EdwardsStout; Quarantine, by Rahul Mehta; Moffie, by André Carl van Der Merwe; and My Brother and His Brother, by Hakan Lindquist – not, technically, a debut, though it’s his first novel in English translation. Kudos, too, to two novels by women: Jodi Picoult’s formulaic but formidable Sing You Home, in which the desire of two middle-aged lesbians to have a child collides head-on with Christian hatred; and Rebecca Makkai’s daring and compassionate The Borrower (another debut), in which a young woman librarian befriends (well, kidnaps, in a good way) Ian, a precocious 10-year-old booklover and bound-to-be queer, when his parents try to de-gay him.
My 10 Favorite Fiction Reads of 2011 The Empty Family, by Colm Toibin, Scribner. Master Irish storyteller Toibin queers it up, after last year’s essentially straight novel, Brooklyn, in this collection of nine haunting stories set in different countries and different
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times, but linked by a pervasive sense of melancholy, longing and loss.There’s not a single clunker in a no-word-wasted collection. The Fog: A Novel of Desire and Reprisal, by Jeff Mann, Bear Bones Books. Sex is violence and passion is pain in Mann’s relentlessly brutal yet irrepressibly romantic short novel. From first page to last, except for a redemptive epilogue, this pitch-perfect erotic novel epitomizes a thriller genre known as torture porn, though the poetry of Mann’s prose imbues even the most intense scenes with tender moments. The Girls Club, by Sally Bellerose, Bywater Books. Bellerose’s warm debut embraces the concept of sisterhood with propulsive gusto – mostly the real deal of three very different sisters caring deeply for each other, even as they squabble, but with hints that the sisterhood of nascent feminism has reached the small town where they are realizing their emotional and sexual selves. Love/Imperfect, by Christopher T. Leland, Wayne State University Press. As in real life, gay mingles with straight in Leland’s first collection (after five novels). Seventeen sensual tales, linked by the thematic threads of intimacy, desire and love, depict worried mothers, absent fathers, inter-class sexual affairs and men afraid of their desires. Leland’s supple prose marks him as a short story virtuoso. The Marbled Swarm, by Dennis Cooper, Harper Perennial.
A liturgy of salacious acts invested with luscious language and sly wit, this seductive, exhilarating labyrinth of a novel, with its secret passageways, elusive truths and elegant intricacies, is splendidly unlike anything Cooper has previously written, even as it echoes themes of earlier work The Mechanics of Homosexual Intercourse, by Lonely Christopher, Little House on the Bowery/Akashic Books. The nine stories in this exuberantly nontraditional collection will challenge traditionalists who prefer their queer fiction come from formalists such as Ed White or David Leavitt. One hopes those readers will accept that challenge – homo fiction can always use more young writers who are queer in every sense of the word. The Metropolis Case, by Matthew Gallaway. Crown Publishers. First-time novelist Gallaway strikes beguiling chords in this inventive blend of mystery, romance, music and, skillfully, the supernatural. Technically, it’s a 2010 title, released at the end of December, close enough for 2011 – a cunning novel embracing the universal themes of searching for love, the meaning of life...and the glorious world of opera. The Two Krishnas, by Ghalib Shiraz
Dhalla. Magnus Books. A closeted husband, an unsuspecting wife, an achingly needy younger lover – the three pivotal people in Dhalla’s second novel are stock gay-fiction standards transformed into wrenchingly real characters by the author’s mastery of human emotion; in the story’s nuanced universe, duplicity has consequences and tragedy is inevitable. This is not a happily-ever-after story; its heartbreak is cathartic and inevitable. Wingshooters, by Nina Revoyr. Akashic Books. Xenophobia is rampant in rural Vietnam War-era Wisconsin, where tomboyish 10-year-old Michelle LeBeau, her small town’s only non-white resident, confronts discrimination, bullying and isolation with admirable resilience. Revoyr writes about deep heartache, flawed characters and squandered anger with grace. Zipper Mouth, by Laurie Weeks, The Feminist Press at CUNY. The narrator of this woozy, rapturous short novel, set in Manhattan’s edgy 1980s, engages heroin and cocaine with dedicated delight, maintains a soul-crushing crush on her ambiguously straight drug buddy, Jane, and shares her angst in unrequited letters to the likes of Sylvia Plath and Judy Davis. It’s an ecstatic debut.
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SPORTS
The OutField: The Year of the Gay By Dan Woog
come out, we’re still waiting for the first acn schools, in the military – and especially tive male athlete in one of America’s major sports’ top professional leagues – Major in sports – 2011 was The Year of the Gay. High school, college, even profession- League Baseball, the NFL, NBA or NHL – to al athletes came out of the locker room closet. come out. In 1998 I wrote “Jocks: True Stories of Pro teams asked players to film “It Gets Better” videos – telling LGBT youngsters there is hope America’s Gay Male Athletes.” A sequel – in the future – and a broad array of athletes re- “Jocks 2: Coming Out to Play” – was pubsponded. Spurred by intriguing subjects like lished in 2002. In countless interviews, I’ve former Phoenix Suns president and CEO Rick been asked the same question: “When will a Welts (now president of the Golden State War- big-name male athlete come out?” I always answered the same: “It won’t hapriors), the media jumped on stories examining pen that way. Instead, some athlete who’s nearly every aspect of “gays in sports.” been out all along – in high school and colSo what can 2012 do as an encore? lege – will be drafted by a pro team. They’ll Plenty. Professional teams can take a stand against know he’s gay. They’ll want him because he’s homophobic chants and banners. (Yes, you, good. So it will happen naturally, from the New York Rangers. The anti-gay atmosphere bottom up. The MVP of the Super Bowl won’t in Madison Square Garden is so bad, the New suddenly say, ‘I’m here. I’m queer. I’m going to York Times says, that some LGBT fans have Disney World.” That line always got laughs. I still believe stopped attending games.) Professional leagues can double their ef- we’re on the verge of seeing openly gay athforts to combat homophobia, and embrace letes work their way into the pros, without diversity. It’s great that the National Basket- too much commotion. But I’ve changed my mind on the imporball Association fined Kobe Bryant $100,000 after he called a referee a “faggot.” Now it’s tance of the issue. Now – a decade and a half time for all leagues to include same-sex cou- after I first wrote about gay male athletes – ples in their promotional videos, sponsor there is still not one out male athlete in a major team sport. floats at Gay Pride parades, I’m tired of waiting. bring in all executives for diIt’s time for one of dozversity training – you know, ens of candidates to seize do the same things corporate the moment. America has done for years Earlier this year David (with great success). Testo came out. He had During this summer’s Olymjust been released by the pics in London, the media Montreal Impact, a Divishould explore every gay stosion II professional socry line (there will be many). cer club. Previously, he’d Just four years ago in Beijing, played with Major League Australian diver Matthew Soccer’s Columbus Crew. Mitcham won an improbaTeammates knew he was ble gold medal. NBC – which gay – including big-time seldom misses any up-closestars like Frankie Hejduk and-personal moment, the and Kyle Martino. Most schmaltzier the better – andidn’t care. He was popunouncers never said that Mitlar, and developed deep cham raised the money to David Testo friendships. bring his boyfriend, Lachlan After coming out, Testo told MLSSoccer. to China. NBC never showed the medal ceremony, where Mitcham kissed Lachlan. They com (the official league website, which impressively highlighted his story on its home never even said Mitcham was gay. All of that is important. Chances are good page), “It can’t be that I’ve played professional soccer for 10 years and not known one oththat at least some of it will happen in 2012. But the most crucial event of all still seems er gay player. You just have to imagine all the as far away as ever. Despite all the swim- guys out there struggling with the same ismers, ruggers and soccer players who have sue, and maybe if I take this step, it will cre-
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ate some kind of moment of change.” Yet that was not the only reason Testo decided to come out publicly. Another was the recent suicide of 15-year-old Jamie Hubley. The death of that gay teenager crystallizes for me the reason that an active, major league male athlete must come out this year. He needs to send a message to everyone – teammates, opponents, the media, fans (especially young ones, gay and straight) – that we are indeed here. We’re queer. And we’re on your favorite big-league pro teams.
“It Gets Better” videos are nice. Knowing that an NBA executive is out is fine. But it’s past time for a major sports figure to tell the world who he really is. So the last question is: Who is he? Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer coach, gay activist, and author of the “Jocks” series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his website at www.danwoog.com. He can be reached care of this publication or at OutField@qsyndicate.com .
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s the holidays approach at warp speed, we’re starting to hang icicles and colored lights in our palm trees and across our houses. Soon the Key West neighborhoods will look like a winter wonderland — without the snow! Since many of you may be heading this way during the festive season, this week I’d like to stimulate your appetites with a tour of some of my favorite Key West eateries. Mornings are always a treat with a variety of Keys twists on the breakfast experience — like the wide choice of Eggs Benedict served at Blue Heaven in the heart of Bahama Village. Choose from ham, vegetable, filet mignon, or their special lobster benedict. Add a slice of warm homemade banana bread, and you have a feast! Blue Heaven’s dining is outdoors with live music, wandering hens and “gypsy” roosters running around the courtyard. Their own Bloody Mary will kick-start your day. If you’re longing for French cuisine, check out La Creperie just across the street from Blue Heaven. Serving savory and sweet crepes, this café will tantalize your senses with the aroma of strong French coffee, sizzling butter, and a mixture of accents from around the world. I find it hard to pass up their Croque Madame followed by a “Red Velvet” sweet crepe. Other favorite French cafés are Banana Café and Croissants de France, both located on Duval Street. If I sleep in and feel “brunchie,” you’ll often find me at Harpoon Harry’s. This true 1950’s diner is located across from the Historic Seaport on Caroline Street, and owners Robert and Ron will greet you and offer you a “Bloody Harry.” In their diner you can try fish tacos, Blue Plate specials or half-pound burgers. You’ll dine with colorful local fishermen, politicians and pundits, drag queens and tourists. If a quieter spot suits you better for brunch, try owner/chef Drew Wenzel’s Azur Restaurant. Azur offers al fresco lunch by a waterfall, or an intimate moment in their dining room surrounded by
the works of local artists. Around midday, stop by Kermit’s Key West
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on the corner of Elizabeth and Greene Streets. Pieman Kermit can be seen in the street offering a Key lime pie to the riders of our local trolleys as they make the turn beside his emporium. Kermit has been featured on the “Today Show” and the Food Network, decked out in his chef’s jacket and Key lime green chef’s hat. (For a real treat, try his frozen chocolate-dipped Key lime pie on a stick!) Key lime pie guru Kermit Carpenter doesn’t really throw pies at visitors -- or does he? Time for dinner? Discover El Siboney for an authentic Cuban meal where fresh pork, seafood, and chicken are cooked with olive oil, garlic, and secret spices. In true Cuban fashion, the meals are accompanied by black beans, yellow rice, and fried plantains. If you favor fresh seafood Paella Valenciana, call in advance and bring a couple of friends — I don’t think I’ve ever seen as large a dish of paella served anywhere. A hidden treasure and favorite of mine is the Flaming Buoy Filet Company. Owners Fred Isch and Scot Forste are outrageously entertaining and their dinners are over the top. Steak with blue cheese sauce, black grouper, and scallops wrapped in bacon will tickle your palate. Their lip-smacking lobster mac & cheese is beyond amazing. When it’s time for dessert, stop in to Flamingo Crossing. For many years this ice cream parlor has churned flavors that include mango, Cuban coffee, guava and passion fruit gelatos. Try the guanabana (soursop) for an interestingly unique Key West flavor. The place offers front-row seats on a busy Duval Street corner, where you’ll suddenly find you have become a part of the colorful fabric that makes up our community. Maybe I’ll see you there! Till next time … bon appetit! Steve Smith can be found at KeysVoices.com.
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ROOMMATES GAY/GAY FRIENDLY ROOMMATE WANTED IN BOCA. Located in Boca Raton, right off Military Trail (north of Palmetto Park).Available now. 1 Unfurnished bedroom/ 1 Full Bathroom for rent in townhouse. Neighborhood is family friendly, safe and gated. Community has its own pool and tennis court. Very close to shopping, restaurants, I-95 and schools. Looking for a mature, easy going, gay/gay friendly individual. Non / outdoor smoker preferred. $650.00/ month with a 6 to 12 month lease. Water + Trash included. Call Jeff 561-315-0746 ------------------------------------------------ROOM 4 RENT IN 2 BED/1 BATH. Clean! $500 mo. includes utilities. North of Sunrise/East of Andrews.Walk to Wilton Manors.Must be gay friendly male/ female. Call 954-297-9270 ------------------------------------------------ROOMMATE WANTED TO SHARE TOWNHOUSE IN S. POMPANO. $450 a month. Everything included. Male or female. Call Margie at 954-829-3933. ------------------------------------------------VICTORIA PARK LARGE TOWNHOUSE Lge. Pvt. Bedroom w/full use of home Key West Style Street with view.References with happy stable life.$625 plus 1/2 utilities. cbado@Live.com or 954.709.0505 ------------------------------------------------FTL-CORAL RIDGE POOL HOME Male to share remodeled 4BD/4BA home w/2 males. Unfurn, W/D, chef’s kitchen, wi-fi, lgpvt backyard w/dive-in pool,1.5 mi to beach. $800/mo. 954-609-9405. ------------------------------------------------ROOM FOR RENT in immaculate 2 bedroom 1 bath single family home. Fully fenced backyard, new granite/cherry kitchen. Close to public transport and Wilton Manors. Pets welcome. $500 includes utilities. 201-696-8752
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The Early Years of Attorney Robin Bodiford obin Bodiford is a local girl, born in Miami’s Jackson Memorial Hospital. Soon after college and disgusted with the Anita Bryant debacle, she packed up her girlfriend and her two dogs, and left Florida with her gay brother and his boyfriend. She didn’t tell her parents that they were headed to California. “What’s the first thing I did in Los Angeles? I made my brother’s boyfriend drive me to Grauman’s Chinese Theatre to find Judy Garland’s spot on the sidewalk and put my hands and feet in her prints. I have a letter she wrote to me, thanking me for a getwell card I sent her after she had tried to kill herself. I always said I’m a gay man trapped in a lesbian’s body.” Her brother died of AIDS in 1991. She was his primary care giver, and their parents had moved to California to help. After his passing, all three returned to Florida. “When I moved back, I got involved in gay rights. I was mad as hell and I had this feeling that no one can push me around and that I had nothing left to lose. This was at a time when most lawyers were very closeted. Wilton Manors was becoming a stronger gay community, but even on the Drive, everything was behind closed doors. I was used to the big open gay pride parades in L.A. where you could get people to turn out in the thousands
at the drop of a hat. Here, I think it is the more transient nature of the residents that makes them less inclined to become involved.” In her queer activism, she was her own woman, choosing her battles and holding strong opinions about strategy. “I did not agree with the whole ‘Flush Mayor Naugle’ thing. I thought that idea was bad. It put us on the national stage, but it ended up giving Naugle a national platform he otherwise would not have had. Before that, he was just a local homophobe. I do think the fight was cathartic for our community. I think Naugle’s now back to being nobody. His being on Wiki got me on Wiki where they quoted an article I wrote. Naugle said ‘I don’t hate gay people, I am friends with Robin Bodiford.’ I wrote a rebuttal.” In 1993, Suzanne Gunzburger tapped her to run the campaign to amend the human rights ordinance to include sexual orientation as a protected class. For this battle, she joined forces with Attorney Dean Trantalis, and with Attorney Alan Terl who died of AIDS in 1997. “Alan was very well acquainted with how things worked in Broward County. When it finally came time to go before the commission, there were hundreds who were pro the amendment, and hundreds con. I spoke instead of Alan because he had gotten picked
up at Dania beach for pulling out his dick. We figured he ought to lie low. The amendment passed. At the time there were 7 county commissioners. The only one who voted against us was John Rodstrom who is still a commissioner. Later, through redistricting, he ended up with a larger gay constituency and tried to make himself seem more gay-friendly, but he never honored his promise to support samesex domestic partnerships. “Things got more sophisticated when this came up for a vote a few years later. Groups like Calvary Chapel hired professional canvassers to pass petitions. Much of what they did was deceptive. If Miriam Oliphant had just spot-checked rather than shut down her office to examine the petitions, all that garbage would not have come to light. This was just after 9/11 when I felt so strongly American, but I had to sit across from some rabid
homophobic nut case while the petitions were counted. Miriam found fraud and we won. As an activist lady lawyer, Robin acquired flair from a master. She says, “I learned from Gloria Allred how to hog the camera. How to smile. How to keep talking.” Limited space does not permit the presentation of much of what Attorney Robin Bodiford shared during this brief interview about the early days of queer activism in Broward county. Look for more of her recollections in future issues of SFGN. Should you feel inclined to offer a word of thanks to a true local equality hero who has earned the right to hog a camera and keep talking, call her office. This story originally appeared in SFGN.com, the magazine. Visit RobinBodifordLaw.com for more information.
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