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January 11, 2012 • Volume 3 • Issue 2

SPECIAL REPORT

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Entrapping Gay Men in South Florida Parks

BSO Donates $10,000

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Politics: A Look Ahead at 2012

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Winter Arts Preview

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Profile:

Real Estate Guru John Castelli

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Winner of the 2011 Stars of the Rainbow Media Star Award

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ell I am sure you have all been waiting with baited breadth to find out which venues the Advocate named as the gayest cities in America. Not surprisingly, greater Fort Lauderdale came in as number 4, with Orlando, apparently because of Gay Days, garnering a second place finish. But how Salt Lake City claimed the winner’s trophy as number one is beyond me. I mean, just how many people in the LGBT community come clamoring to you that they just “must move to Salt Lake.” Thinking that that the advocate.com staff is really taking a long reach with that pick. They must have spent too much time at the Sundance Festival.

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Speaking of Sundance, I love going there, but not this year. If I could I would definitely catch the debut of the Ira Sachs film, ‘Keep the Lights On.’ It chronicles an emotionally and sexually charged journey of two men through love, friendship, and addiction. One is an older lawyer and the other younger men, who meet through a casual encounter, but soon find a deeper connection and become a couple. Individually and together, they are compulsive risk takers, their decade long relationship fueled by drugs, sex, and self indulgence. Gosh, nothing like that ever happens here in South Florida.

The Mack Mixer at the Outback on 17th Street rocked again yesterday.

What a team of professionals. Meanwhile, congratulations again this year to the Liberty Suites for its 5th year as a Pink Choice Awards

By Karl Hampe

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Gay Men Don’t Get Fat, They Do Sit-Ups on YouTube winner, the group which rates the top gay and lesbian hotels worldwide.

Sorry, but it is quite impossible to do a serious review of a book written by a Barney’s New York window dresser, and titled “Gay Men Don’t Get Fat.” But don’t tell that to Simon Doonan, who returns to the presses pitching an effeminate tribute to all things floral. The quite amusing takeoff on a 2004 book, “French Women Don’t Get Fat,” Doonan does have a premise, that French women simply cannot compete with gay men when it comes to matters of taste.

Says Doonan, “We gays are the true oracles. We are the chosen people.”

Doonan ruminates on personal style — plus food, relationships and more — in his latest tome (his sixth), which covers the rules gay men often adhere to in a tongue-in-cheek manner. “It’s probably the most demented book I’ve ever written,” he joked. Featuring chapters like, “Moobs (man-boobs) and Fat Asses” and “Macaroons Are So Gay,” it’s satire at its best — and most stylish.

On the totally opposite side of the fence, an openly gay woman is campaigning to become Miss California.

Mollie Thomas is a spirited 19 year old who was raised both on a horse farm in Pennsylvania and in Manhattan by an American mother and a French father.

Thomas says, “My family is so open and accepting that I knew very young who I was and who I loved. “Growing up with a father in the travel industry, Thomas saw the world with her family and lived in Switzerland for the majority of last year.

She also spent time in Thailand working on an elephant reserve and says, “The

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Thai people are amazing, and the culture is beautiful.” She recently relocated to West Hollywood and names The Abbey as her favorite restaurant stop. She is currently taking classes part-time at UCLA, with aspirations toward political science or gender studies.

Randy Phillips, the gay U.S. airman who became an Internet sensation after filming himself coming out to his father, just hours after the repeal of the military’s controversial “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy in September, is finding new ways to utilize his newfound fame.

Now, the 21-year-old Phillips hopes to help his viewers kick off their post-holiday workouts with a video of himself demonstrating “Oblique Side Crunches.” Though he insists on his YouTube page that he was “nowhere near [his] best physical shape” at the time the clip was shot, the toned, shirtless Phillips – who reportedly would like to open his own gym one day – certainly gets my stamp of approval.

Wonder if Peter Jackson has any openings at Push Fitness?

Well, it’s hard to believe we are about to celebrate our second anniversary, and in less than two weeks, on Monday, January 23, 2012, from 6 to 8 p.m., we will be gathering on the patio at J Marks in Fort Lauderdale for cocktails.

Once again, the proprietors, Steve Wilson and Ariel Ayala, are extending us a marvelous courtesy in hosting this event. As we did last year, we are asking our guests to bring at least a ten dollar donation to benefit Tuesday’s Angels. I hope to see you there to benefit a good cause.

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Attorney General Revises UCR’s Definition of Rape

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ASHINGTON – Attorney General Eric Holder announced revisions to the Uniform Crime Report’s (UCR) definition of rape, which will lead to a more comprehensive statistical reporting of rape nationwide. The new definition is more inclusive, better reflects state criminal codes and focuses on the various forms of sexual penetration understood to be rape.

The new definition of rape is: “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” The definition is used by the FBI to collect information from local law enforcement agencies about reported rapes.

The old definition of forcible rape, established in 1927, is “the carnal knowledge of a female, forcibly and against her will.” It only included forcible male penile penetration of a female vagina and excluded oral and anal penetration; rape of males; penetration of the vagina and anus with an object or body part

other than the penis; rape of females by females; and, non-forcible rape.

“This long-awaited change to the definition of rape is a victory for women and men across the country whose suffering has gone unaccounted for over 80 years,” said Vice President Biden, a leader in the effort to end violence against women for over 20 years and author of the landmark Violence Against Women Act. The revised definition includes any gender of victim or perpetrator, and includes instances in which the victim is incapable of giving consent because of temporary or permanent mental or physical incapacity, including due to the influence of drugs or alcohol or because of age. The ability of the victim to give consent must be determined in accordance with state statute. Physical resistance from the victim is not required to demonstrate lack of consent. The new definition does not change federal or state criminal codes or impact charging and prosecution on the local level.

Police departments submit data on reported crimes and arrests to the UCR. The UCR data are reported nationally and used to measure and understand crime trends. In addition, the UCR program will also collect data based on the historical definition of rape, enabling law enforcement to track consistent trend data until the statistical differences between the old and new definitions are more fully understood.

The revised definition of rape is within

FBI’s UCR Summary Reporting System Program. The new definition is supported by leading law enforcement agencies and advocates and reflects the work of the FBI’s CJIS Advisory Policy Board.

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pharmacy…yet), and providing contraception, you name it and we do it,” said Terry DeCarlo, 49, director of public relations and marketing for Broward House. He emphasized. “We turn no one away.”

The charity was founded in 1988 and now, after over 20 years in the business of helping those with HIV/AIDS, they’ve expanded their facilities to include 13 locations and a treatment pool of over 6,000. They are already already home to the Southern Poverty Law Cen“M” House, which caters ter. It chronicles the story of to LGBT teens and offers Jamie Nabonzny, a student different programs includfrom Ashland Wisconsin, ing movie nights and game who stood up to his anti-gay nights, along with counseltormentors with a federal ing services. This will be lawsuit. That lawsuit led to a their first foray into teen landmark decision that held suicide prevention. school officials accountable “At the end of the rope, for not stopping the bullying. these kids can’t talk to their Because of their involveparents, friends or teachment with the film the BSO ers and we want to be that has been invited to Massacomforting source,” Dechusetts to show the movie Sheriff Al Lamberti Carlo said. “And even if we in the town where Phoebe Prince committed suicide in January of 2010. do that immediately for just a few kids who “It was quite an honor to be asked to go up would have otherwise potentially committed to Massachusetts,” said Captain Wierzbicki. suicide, we’ve accomplished our goals, and “The youth our are future and we need to that which the donation seeks to advance.”

DeCarlo is especially thankful for the supdo all we can do to protect them. That’s why this is important. Everybody should have the port of the BSO. “Sheriff Lamberti has been a major presright to go school in a safe manner and not be ence in the organization thus far. He shows threatened.”

The Broward House’s new hotline should up to our numerous events and is a supportbe up and running within the next month. er of what Broward House is trying to accomplish,” he said. “This donation, while his They don’t have a number for it yet.

Besides just helping HIV patients they also first from the BSO is indicative, I think, of his provide a wide array of services to the com- showing up at our events and taking an active role in advancing our mission.” munity.

DeCarlo stressed that this will be a nation“Shelter, food, water, toiletries, medicinal recommendations (they don’t have their own wide project.

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he Broward Sheriff’s Office recently donated $10,000 to a local organization to create a teen suicide prevention hotline.

That charity, Broward House, provides support to HIV patients and ensures they have all the things they need to survive without having to pay for assistance.

The funds will come from the Sheriff Office’s Law Enforcement Trust Fund (LETF), which basically is money collected from drug busts and the seizure of any related assets.

“I’ve always said what a great thing to take money from bad guys and give it to good guys. It was a natural fit for our LTFE funding…Bad money used for good projects,” Sheriff Al Lamberti said.

Lamberti explained that when Captain Rick Wierzbicki, of the Sheriff’s Office Hate Crimes and Anti-Bias Task Force, approached him about the project he said it was a no brainer.

“I saw the movie Bullied. I also know that there have been a couple of incidents right here in Broward County,” Lamberti said.

“Then I saw the statistics and saw that for gay teens there is four times as high a suicide rate. Half of them have thought of committing suicide. That to me is crazy.”

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“This isn’t being built as an isolated project. We need to start out here and truly gauge what the need is in other places and we will expand to other places as necessary,” he said. “The main thing is that not one teen who is even contemplating suicide is left without help.”

DeCarlo adds that advertising will be done through various social networking channels, in addition to word of mouth.

“We’re going to look to have a strong Internet presence in addition to having two manned phones as much as we can,” he said.

The Internet and phone counselors, according to DeCarlo, will be able to not only speak with the teenager – whom he said may range from 13 to 23 – but will also help them use the resources immediately available to them despite their location.

“Listen, even if we get a call from Wisconsin, we will have the necessary numbers available to us to ensure that that child can not do harm to themselves and really to show them that there are people who care and want to help him out of this – even if they’re thousands of miles away.”

DeCarlo goes on to stress that while the percentage of LGBT teens contemplating suicide is higher than those of a “straight” teenager, the program itself does not discriminate.

“Much like the Broward House, there is no one we will turn away. It doesn’t matter if you’re LGBT or anything else,” he said. “If you need help, that’s what we’re here for. Sexual orientation is not a part of our questionnaire.”

Michael Anguille is a contributor to the SFGN. He can be reached at 561-573-8499 or at manguill@gmail.com

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Same Sex Couple Break Up; Fight Over Child Custody

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her egg to be fertilized. It was implanted in her partner’s womb, and a baby girl was born the first week of hey fell in love, 2004. moved in toThe couple gave the gether in a house baby a hyphenated version in south Brevard County of their last names, but and had a baby girl. Now the child’s birth certificate they are fighting over who bore only the name of the should raise the child. But mom who had carried her unlike most couples, they to term. The father was an are two women. One doanonymous sperm donor nated the egg. The othwho had waived his rights. er had it implanted into The child treated both her womb and carried the women as parents, accordchild to term. ing to the appeals-court So which one is the Judge Charlie Crawford ruling, even after they split mother? The woman who up when the little girl was 2. bore the child says it is she and she alone Then, a year and a half later, the birth mom A circuit judge in Brevard County, writing that it broke his heart to say so, ruled that disappeared with the child, leaving the counshe’s right. Under Florida law, a woman who try without telling her former partner where gives birth is the mother. Last week, however, they had gone. Eventually the egg-donor mom a state appeals court in Daytona Beach over- tracked them down in Queensland, Australia. turned his decision, saying the other mother They have since returned to Florida.

Robert A. Segal of Melbourne represents has parental rights, too.

The 5th District Court of Appeal ruled that the egg-donor mom. Michael B. Jones and the U.S. and Florida constitutions trump Robert J. Wheelock of Orlando represent the Florida law and give parenting rights to both other mom. Neither returned phone calls.

The appeals court handed down its rulwomen. State law, it added, has not kept up ing Dec. 23. In it, it asks the Florida Supreme with the times.

“This is a unique case, and the appellate Court to weigh in on a very narrow legal iscourts in Florida have never before consid- sue: Does a woman in a lesbian relationship who gives her egg to her partner have no legal ered a case quite like it,” it said.

Although a growing number of families rights to the child it produces?

Camilla Taylor, a family lawyer with LAMBhave two parents who are the same sex, few involve children whose chromosomes come DA Legal Defense and Educational Fund, a from one woman but who were carried to nonprofit that works on behalf of gays and lesbians, praised the ruling. term by another.

“I think it’s clear the court reached the corStill, it’s an important decision with a wider implication, said Nancy Polikoff, a law pro- rect result, and courts are moving toward fessor at American University Washington greater protections for families that involve College of Law and expert on gay-and-lesbian either varying kinds of biological connections to their children or who have no biofamily law.

“Any ruling that supports the right of a logical connection but have functioned as same-sex couple … is important for its willing- parents in a child’s life,” she said.

The appeals court ordered the case back to ness to recognize that these families exist and a child raised in this environment shouldn’t the trial judge, Circuit Judge Charlie Crawford in Viera, instructing him to give the egg-dobe forced to give up a parent,” she said.

In this case the same-sex couple had been nor mom access to her daughter and to iron in a committed relationship for 11 years, ac- out custody, visitation and child-support iscording to court records. Several years ago, sues. The thing on which he should focus, the they decided to have a child, went to counsel- appeals court wrote, is the child’s well-being.

That edict to focus on the child, said Poing to prepare for it and then discovered that one of them, then a 39-year-old law-enforce- likoff, the law professor, is one of the most heartening things about the ruling. ment officer, was infertile.

The couple went to a reproductive doctor, and the other would-be mom, then 34 SFGN has a media partnership with the Sun and also a law-enforcement officer, donated Sentinel.

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closet again, as it were. They come out of the closet as gay or lesbian. But we have closet writers, closet artists.”

“I remember when I told my mom I was The widely traveled Harris covered gay, she said, ‘You can’t be, you’re not even features as diverse as the gay games in good looking!’”

Paris and HIV issues for POZ Magazine.

– Paul Harris, 2002 “His articles exemplified his zeal and aul Harris, a local gay freelance zest for life,” stated SFGN Publisher Norm Kent, who had previously emjournalist who had written for more ployed Harris as a columnist and freethan one hundred publications worldwide, passed away on New Year’s Eve. lance writer for the Express Gay News.

The one-time Raised in Engpublisher of the land, Harris gradulocal weekly newsated from the paper, the IndepenLondon School dent, and the editor of Economics of the world’s largwith a degree est LGBT publicain economics tions guide, Harris and politics and was 53 years old. later attended the Once known as Guildhall School the ‘Queer Press of Music and Guide,’ the creative Drama in London. genesis for the He had lived in project evolved out America for 23 of his own process years, splitting of saving addresses his time between for him to be able South Florida and to sell his articles. a small apartment in New York.

When he learned He worked for that the guide, several years as which sold on Amaan actor before zon.com, as well as Paul Harris starting his own in local stores, had small publishing company, Upstart Press. been nominated for a Lambda Literary Award, he joked that “it is as hilarious as Amongst other books, he published local nominating the phone book.” writer Paul Gallotta’s Living and Dying in 4/4 Time, the memoir of an AIDS social A playwright and actor, who dressed worker and his struggle to overcome impeccably, Harris was often called upon drug abuse. locally to serve as the Master of Cer“You can’t under estimate Paul emonies for community events. Writing was his passion, however, and his articles Harris’ contribution to our commuwere picked up by LGBT and mainnity. He was out before it was cool, he stream publications across the nation for quietly mentored many writers, myself decades, covering topics from alcoholism included,” Gallotta said. “And through to depression to racism within the gay his newspaper, The Independent, he gave and lesbian community. voice to the voiceless--even when most In 2003, Harris became a photojourpeople didn’t particularly like what he nalist who would later have his aesthetic had to say. He’s left some pretty impresworks displayed in local venues. Harris sive shoes to fill.” credited Arts United with inspiring him Ken Harrison, a friend and healthcare to focus more on his photography. surrogate, will be planning a memorial “Part of the mission statement of next month.

Arts United is to encourage people who When it came to writing, Harris once haven’t thought of themselves as artists, remarked that a writer “should write or have been secret artists, to actually for himself or herself and to write what show their work,” he said at the time. they know; you are your most important “Some people need to come out of the audience.”

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‘Mother Annie’ of Boardwalk Passes On

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other Annie of Boardwalk Bar, a “Legend and Dear Friend” in the LGBT Community here in South Florida, transcended Monday Dec. 26, 2011 after a long battle with cancer. She served as the front door greeter at the Boardwalk Bar in Fort Lauderdale for the past 10 years. Annie is survived by her brother, son, and a host of friends from her second family, the employees, patrons, and dancers of the Boardwalk Bar. Born and raised near Atlantic City, NJ, Annie came to South Florida and began working at Boardwalk since the bar opened its doors. She was by far the best, most dedicated, and honest employee that served at the door as a cashier. At her request, a memorial was held for Mother Annie on Monday, Jan. 9 at Boardwalk to celebrate the life and to reflect back on all the wonderful memories she has left behind as her legacy. Tiffany Aerieagus led the memorial to a packed house and Victoria Michaels

performed “Ave Maria” which was Mother Annie’s favorite song.

Jim and Victor, owner’s of Boardwalk Bar both said, “Not only will she be missed dearly, but she too is irreplaceable and will live on in our hearts and in spirit here at our establishment. We know that she is watching over us because Boardwalk was her home and always will remain as her

memory will forever live on.”

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From Prop 8 and DOMA to Tammy Baldwin, These Are the Things to Look for in 2012

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ignificant events are crowding the calendar for 2012, and each promises considerable drama and suspense for the LGBT community. Here are the ten most important to keep an eye one: The next decisions on Proposition 8: A three-judge panel of the 9th Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals could release its opinions any day now. That’s “opinions,” plural. Before the panel can rule on the constitutionality of California’s law banning marriage for same-sex couples, it must decide whether the Yes on 8 coalition has legal standing to appeal the federal court ruling that Prop 8 is unconstitutional, and it must decide whether there is any justification for Yes on 8’s request that the lower court decision be vacated. The list of possible outcomes in Perry v. Brown –the case brought by the American Foundation for Equal Rights with famed attorneys Ted Olson and David Boies leading the charge—is mind-boggling. Whatever the results, any or all aspects could be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court immediately or they could be appealed to a full 9th Circuit bench and then to the Supreme Court. But the panel’s decision will almost certainly have political impact, too. Not only will it affect the momentum of the marriage equality movement, it will almost certainly become fodder in the presidential campaigns.

The decision, on appeal, in DOMA: A three-judge panel of the 1st Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals will hear oral arguments, perhaps as soon as early February, in a powerful challenge to the federal Defense of Marriage Act denial of federal benefits to same-sex married couples. The challenge, referred to most often as Gill v. OPM, is actually three consolidated cases, two brought by Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD) and one by the state of Massachusetts. While there are other challenges underway to DOMA, this is the “big guns” challenge and the one most likely to reach the U.S. Supreme Court first.

And while there is no deadline by which the panel must render its decision, it is likely to turn out one by year’s end. Then, as with Proposition 8, the case could go to the full circuit court for appeal or straight to the Supreme Court. And, if the appeals court decision is rendered before the November elections, it will almost certainly provoke debate on the presidential campaign trail.

Tammy Baldwin’s historic bid: U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin is not the first openly gay person to run for U.S. Senate, but she’s the

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first who has a real chance of winning. The daily Capital Times is already referring to her as the “likely” Democratic nominee to fill the seat being vacated by Democrat Herb Kohl.

She doesn’t have a challenger for the nomination. But she will have a very tough battle against whomever the Republicans put on the ballot. That’s because the battle will be for more than just one seat in the powerful U.S. Senate, which currently has a breakdown of 53 in the Democratic Caucus and 47 in the Republican. It will be part of a multi-state slugfest between the parties over control of the chamber, the Congress, and the nation’s laws.

The fight for the Senate: Polls at the moment indicate voters are inclined to vote for Democrats over Republicans next November.

But that sentiment is not providing a large margin (one or two points), and it’s too soon to guess who the voters will blame for what 11 months from now. But some Senate races –in addition to Baldwin’s—could have big consequences for LGBT voters. In Virginia, a progay former governor, Tim Kaine, will likely be pitted against an anti-gay former senator, George Allen. In Massachusetts, a pro-gay challenger, Elizabeth Warren, will almost certainly be the Democrat facing incumbent Scott Brown, whose attitude toward the community has been much less friendly. And at least seven other states are expected to have competitive races for the Senate.

Counting the “Gay Caucus”: U.S. Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.) will be starting his 40th year in Congress when the House reconvenes January 17. And it will be his last. He announced last year that he would retire. When he does, the clique of four openly gay members of Congress – Frank, Baldwin, and Reps. Jared

Polis and David Cicilline—will shrink by one.

If Baldwin fails to win a Senate seat, it could shrink by half. But there are prospects for adding members. Openly gay Wisconsin Democratic Assembly member Mark Pacon is running for Baldwin’s U.S. House seat. And there are two other openly gay candidates for the U.S. House this November: Marko Liias from Seattle, Washington, and Mark Takano from Riverside, California. So, the number of openly gay members of Congress could go from four to as low as two (though zero is, technically, possible) to as high as six. But no one will have the seniority and clout that Frank has had and used to advance pro-gay measures.

On hold, and on defense, in Congress: Pro-LGBT bills –such as efforts to repeal DOMA and pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA)— are not likely to see much action in 2012. Anti-gay measures might. Why? Because it’s an election year and Republicans still control the House. Supportive Democrats will not be inclined to push controversial legislation during an election year, because it can detract from the focus on jobs and the economy, where most voters want focus right now. Republicans, on the other hand, have often used hostile measures aimed at gays during election year as a way of putting Democrats on the spot with voters generally and gays specifically.

Ballot battles abound: There will be important LGBT-related ballot measures before voters in several states this year: North Carolina and Minnesota will vote on whether to ban same-sex marriage through an amendment to their state constitutions. Voters in Maine will decide whether to strike down their existing ban on same-sex marriage.

LGBT activists in Washington State are gathering signatures to put a measure on that state’s ballot to gain marriage equality. A small group in California has until May 15 to gather more than 800,000 signatures to put a measure on the ballot there to repeal Proposition 8. And the California Attorney General is expected to announce by January 9 whether opponents of a new bill to include information about LGBT figures in history as part of the public school curriculum can begin circulating petitions to get a repeal measure on the ballot there. All of these have the potential to be big, expensive, and consequential battles.

Fight for freedom of religion: The rightwing Alliance Defense Fund and others have a concerted effort underway in the courts to undermine laws prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. Their strategy is to argue that people who discriminate against LGBT people do so because their religious beliefs require them to do so. Their question to the court is, “What rules? The First Amendment guarantee of free exercise of religion or the equal protection clause that says all citizens should be treated equally under the law?” One case has already reached the U.S. Supreme Court and failed, but other cases –many other cases-- are winding their ways through nearly every circuit in the country. And their outcomes have the potential to chip away at the strength of the nation’s legal mandate that all people be treated equally.

A fight for the White House: The difference for LGBT people between having President Obama in the White House and President George W. Bush has been stark.

So the consequences of November’s presidential election will also be profound. Either Obama stays, and things continue to improve – in law and in society’s attitudes – or a new president is elected from a field of Republicans who seem, at times, to be vying for the mantle of most gay hostile candidate. In the latter case, LGBT people can expect progress to halt or backslide.

Ah, the unpredictable: One of the bigger LGBT stories of 2011 happened in February, and it was one nobody expected: The Obama administration announced it considered DOMA unconstitutional and would not argue for its defense in most cases. Another big story that no one expected: The Obama announced a major new diplomatic mission to push for protection of human rights for LGBT people around the world. And given that Rep. Frank said in January 2011 he’d run for reelection in 2012, it was a surprise, in November, when he announced that he would not.

As Frank pointed out, circumstances change.

Circumstances change, things change, people change. And often, they change each other. But history marches on through time, and only in retrospect can any trajectory be certain as to where it’s going.

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ChamberChat Monthly Column From the Miami Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce

Check out the new LGBT Visitor Center on Miami Beach

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s we begin 2012, we look forward to a year filled with activity and community!

Have you been to the new LGBT Visitor Center, (sponsored by MetLife) on Miami Beach? Located conveniently in the historic Old City Hall building at 1130 Washington Avenue, the Visitor Center is fast becoming your one-stop destination for information, publications, wireless internet access, LGBT curios and weekly/monthly community events. The LGBT Visitor Center can also assist with any travel needs such as hotel and excursion reservations, dining and attraction recommendations as well as being a community resource to assist you during your “fun-cation.” You can even buy your Winter Party tickets at the Visitor Center!

Do you have friends or family visiting?

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The LGBT Visitor Center can handle your hotel reservation needs ensuring that not only will you be staying in an LGBT friendly hotel (Pink Flamingo Certified) but also guarantee that you will get the best rate. The Miami Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce’s Pink Flamingo Certification is awarded to properties that have a non-dis-

crimination policy, offer equal administration of personnel benefits and ensure that staff undergoes diversity training.

The Visitor Center is funded and operated by the MDGLCC Foundation, Inc., the nonprofit arm of the Miami Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. Chamber membership includes restaurants, nightclubs, realtors, retail operators, municipalities and more. Stop by the Visitor Center and pickup a copy of our membership directory. At the Chamber we promote “S.O.M.A.,” which means Support Our Members Always, and we hope you will too!

The first major fundraiser of the year, Taste of Miami, is set for Saturday, Jan. 14 from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. at the Miami Beach Convention Center. Some of Miami’s best restaurants will provide delectable tastes accompanied by Bacardi & Grey Goose cocktails. This annual fundraiser is essential to the ongoing programming of the center as

well as the MDGLCC Foundation’s Scholarship fund. Tickets are $75 in advance and $100 at the door. And if the great food and drink isn’t enough, a portion of your ticket price is tax deductible.

Join us each month as we continue our partnership with the Miami Dade Gay & Lesbian Film Festival hosting the monthly GLOW series screenings on Wednesday, Jan. 11 and Feb. 15. Pre-film receptions are in the Visitor Center followed by screenings at the Miami Beach Cinemateque, with whom we share the first floor of Old City Hall.

Looking to advance in your career? Attend one of the LBT Career Enhancement Seminars at the Visitor Center; next one is “Starting your own business” Jan. 12 at 6:30 p.m.

The NEW gogaymiami.com The MDGLCC Foundation & the Visitor Center are excited to announce the launch of our new and improved website - www.gogaymiami.com - Look for the new gogaymiami.com sometime in January. This new site will provide an integrated community calendar for events, links to chamber members and extensive information for the LGBT resident and travelers visiting Miami & Miami Beach.

For more information about the Visitor Center, any of our events or to inquire about space rental, please contact Cindy Brown, Executive Director at 305.397.8914 or cindy@gogaymiami.com.

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CompassPoints… biweekly column from compass in lake worth

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New Year, New Shoes

By Julia Murphy

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n my eyes there isn’t a better way to start off the New Year than with your best foot forward and why not do it with a positive attitude and a fabulous pair of new shoes? The turn of a New Year has always been a time for looking back to the past, and more importantly, looking forward to the coming year. It’s a time to reflect on the past year, figure out what we can change to fulfill our New Year’s needs and implement the changes. We make up New Year’s resolutions to achieve change by setting goals, but in the end how long do any of us stick to our New Year’s resolutions?

This year I decided that I would set a goal that was actually realistic and simple enough to stick with it forever. My resolution was to be punctual everywhere, simple enough right? Well the first day back to work after the New Year holiday the struggle began.

Running to the kitchen with one high heel on one foot (of course a black platform stiletto) and the other in my hand, trying to balance pouring a cup of coffee while making sure I did not spill any on my Max Mara jacket that was on my arm or my brand new Michael Kors purse barely in my hand. As I was half way out the door, with both shoes on, I couldn’t find my keys and spent 15 minutes frantically looking for them. I started out with a fabulous pair of new shoes and the attempt to put my best foot forward, but in the end I was just the same woman in a fabulous new pair of shoes.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my stilettos but am I asking too much of myself? On a daily basis I get the question “How do I manage to juggle and successfully maintain a life that consists of having a career

as a Medical Case Manager, serving tables part-time, attending graduate school, being in a relationship of seven years, and still maintaining a circle of friends? First I can not take credit for all of it because without an amazing support system of co-workers, loving boyfriend, incredible family, and the best friends I could ask for I wouldn’t make it a single day.

It never really dawned on me until just the other day; I have always used a strategy to maintain my life but never gave it that much thought. Whenever I have wanted to make a change and accomplish something, I have always started by prioritizing what it is I want to accomplish and making sure that I am doing it for myself and not someone else. See it’s all about the right shoes, and the right attitude. That one formula will make all the difference in your world. I positively focus on each day to make sure each and every day counts. If I can make it through the day then I can get to the week, the month, and then the year. When I set a long-term goal, the key is to always have a plan and take it one day at a time, because as we all know Manolo Blahnik did not build a reputation for fabulous shoes in one day.

I set long terms goals with the idea that to get there I need to make equal amount of attempts each and every day. Committing myself to a specific amount of effort each day was the key for me, no more no less.

However, one has to be flexible and remember that this is real life and problems can arise. No one is perfect but what happens if I falter? As the old saying goes, if you fall down one step, don’t throw yourself down the whole staircase. If one day you break your stiletto’s heel and everything completely blows up in your makeup bag, you simply start over. Only focus on getting through one day.

I did have a hiccup on my first day back to work but I took it just as that and didn’t let it discourage me. New Year’s resolutions are hard to stick to but if we remember to take them one day at a time, the battle can be won more easily. If you fall get back up, wipe off the running mascara and keep in mind that tomorrow is another day that can be conquered in a fabulous new pair of shoes!

Julia Murphy is the Medical Case Management Coordinator at Compass Community Center.

She can be reached at Julia@compassglcc.com

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Jesse’s Journal

A Conversation with David Leddick: Author and Actor

By Jesse Monteagudo

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avid Leddick spent Leddick much of his profeslives in a sional life in adverbeautiful home on tising, as creative the Venetian Isles off director of Revlon Miami Beach, suror as manager for rounded by some the Robert Joffrey of the beautiful Ballet before he art objects that he retired to South collects. After years Florida. But Leddick’s in the business and “retirement” was professional worlds, not a typical one: Leddick now enjoys “I was not going to a personal renaisplay golf, so what will sance as both an I do? And I thought author and an actor. as you approach 70, “I think you no one can say you should change ruined your life, so careers every ten you may do as you years,” he says. “And please. So by chance I figure I am in my I got into the nude sixth career about photo thing because A photo by David Vance now. My life has of my interest from David Leddick’s book always been focused in photographer “HOW TO BE GAY around my personal George Platt Lynes.”

IN THE 21st CENTURY” life more than anyLeddick’s coffee thing else. I am very table collection of romantic and being gay I always like to be in George Platt Lynes photos was followed by love with somebody, somewhere.” other collections: Naked Men (1997), The Originally from Michigan, Leddick was Male Nude (1998) and, more recently, The never in the closet: “I had a boy friend when Nude Male: 21st Century Visions (2008).

At the same time, Leddick started to I was four. And all through my school years write novels. Leddick’s first novel was My the boys were always interested in me.

Worst Date (1996), about a gay teenager And I don’t think people put it together or living on South Beach. “People said to me cared too much about it. So I was brought that no 16 year old is like that,” he says. up not feeling guilty about being gay which “But I got a phone call from a young man I think by chance and luckily I never felt who told me that this is exactly what it was guilty about it. I went to the University of when he was 16.”

Michigan and I went to the Navy because Leddick followed My Worst Date with sevthat was what everybody did. And I met eral autobiographical novels: The Sex Squad my first real major romance at Bikini Atoll (1998), Never Eat In (1999), The Handsomest during the hydrogen bomb test.”

Man in the World (2004) and The Millionaire Leddick’s artistic career began in the of Love (2005). fifties when he moved to New York and beLeddick also wrote several non-fiction came a dancer at the Metropolitan Opera. “I made my debut with Maria Callas in Norma. books. His first, Intimate Companions (2000) was a joint biography of George Platt We always did Aida on Christmas and New Lynes, Lincoln Kirstein and Paul Cadmus: Year and it was freezing in there. And we had nothing on except a big headdress. They “They all knew each other and George Platt Lynes and Lincoln Kirstein were in always called the dancers the Sex Squad boarding school together,” Leddick says. and they would open the door when it was “And then Kirstein married Cadmus’s time for us to go on stage and they would sister. And Lynes photographed Kirstein’s yell Sex Squad! Because we had nothing New York City Ballet and Cadmus did on! We were naked! The Sex Squad was all sets for it. And I met Lincoln a number of these people with no clothes on. This was times,” he adds. Leddick also wrote The Sethe 1950s.”

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cret Lives of Married Men (2003), interviews with 40 gay men who married women, and Escorts: 40 Profiles with Photographs of Men Who Sell Sex (2011).

While all this was going on, Leddick became a performer. As he recalls, “My trainer, David Sexton, was producing a Miami Gay Men’s Chorus show. And they needed an older performer. But when we went into rehearsal I noticed my character didn’t have any numbers! I got to have a song! So I got a finale song. And then he wrote a sequel to that show. I died in the first show so I came back as an angel. It was a Christmas show called “It’s a Fabulous Life.”

Leddick followed that with a series of one man shows where he told stories and sang songs accompanied by pianist Andrew Sargent. Leddick even did drag in some of his shows – “Mexico City” and “Presenting Gilda Lilly” – though he assures us that he does drag “only on stage.” Leddick also wrote and starred in a tribute to the late Quentin Crisp; a musical based on his Escorts book; and a musical based on his new book, How to be Gay in the 21st Century.

How to Be Gay in the 21st Century:There’s nothing wrong with being gay but a lot of people do it wrong (White Lake Press), is David Leddick’s latest and wittiest book.

In this book, Leddick muses about the ups and downs of being gay, accompanied by

photos taken by the renowned South Beach photographer David Vance.

“Being gay is just like being Swedish. It’s a little different, but in no important way,” he writes. “There are a lot of people in my age category who are still living in the 20th Century,” Leddick notes. “And other people live in a very different gay environment. My generation is primarily concerned about what other people thought of them whereas in this century people are much more concerned about being fulfilled; who I am and what kind of life I should have so that I really live my life. Whatever I want to do I actually do it. And I think that’s the big difference.”

How to Be Gay in the 21st Century, like other Leddick books, is available through Amazon.com. Leddick also writes about being gay today in his column in huffingtonpost.com and in his blog, “David’s Gay Dish” (davidsgaydish.blogspot.com).

Jesse Monteagudo, Senior Features Correspondent, has been a writer, journalist and South Florida resident for almost 50 years. His articles, essays, interviews and short stories have appeared in three dozen publications and an equal number of anthologies. He and Michael Greenspan, his partner of 26 years, are active in the LGBT community. Jesse can be reached at jessemonteagudo@comcast.net.

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Just JoeKing. Is It Gay-funny or Is It Gay-hateful?

By Tony Adams

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artoonist Joe King, who on Facebook lists “Christian satire” as his primary activity, has produced a 2012 wall calendar called “I’m Not Gay, I’m Just A Sissy” (subtitled “12 Months of Sexual Confusion – Not that there’s anything wrong with that!”).

The strong LGBT online reaction to its content got the calendar kicked off Barnes & Noble in a firestorm that illustrates the sometimes blurry line between satire and hate-speech.

Andy Towle got the ball rolling on his blog Towleroad (http://bit.ly/vruZx9) when, on December 27, he simply highlighted the fact that a reader was upset to find the calendar for sale on Amazon and at Barnes & Noble.

On December 30, The Pink News, “Europe’s Largest Gay News Service” notes that the calendar remains available on Amazon-UK, and reports, “One of King’s cartoons depicts Paul Revere riding on horseback and shouting “The sodomites are coming! The sodomites are coming!”

[The calendar] is dedicated to the memory

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of the US revolutionary hero and to gay rights opponent Anita Bryant.” (http://bit.ly/ sjdXDA) At The Daily Kos, Chrislove writes, “I called Amazon and Barnes & Noble today. I spoke with a supervisor at Amazon who agreed that the calendar is highly offensive. She said Amazon does pull certain offensive items, but it takes a lot of customer feedback to make a decision like that. The customer service representative I spoke with at Barnes & Noble was noticeably appalled that the company was selling the item, and she said, ‘Surely somebody wouldn’t make something like this in this day and age.’ Oh, but they would.” (http:// bit.ly/w4ycgl) Additional mention on Huffington Post (http://huff.to/uhhIHr) and elsewhere resulted in a barrage of demands to Barnes & Noble causing the calendar’s boot and also resulted in an extremely negative ranking on Amazon that may eventually cause its removal from that retailer as well.

The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation takes a clear stand in its description of the calendar as offensive.

GLAAD’s Danny Heffernan writes, “The cartoons employ outdated, highly-offensive stereotypes about LGBT people, and more specifically, gay men…The ‘humor’ it purports to offer relies on a belief that there is something inherently funny about being gay or gender non-conforming. Furthermore, it espouses inaccuracies about LGBT people that only contribute to the stereotypes used to stifle progress toward equality.” (http://bit.ly/vnhiMX) Mr. King’s Facebook response to all this is startlingly cavalier and grade schoolish with its come-on-guys-can’t-you-take-ajoke attitude which is not what one would expect from an experienced satirist whose living depends on the size of his audience.

Saying that he feels like David against a gay Goliath, he writes, “Hoo-we! Hell hath no fury like a he/she scorned... The telephone tree of tantrums is lit up like a Las Vegas marquee for “Boy-Lesque” today with hate mail, threats of boycott and even the risk of Jesus spitting on me for my “Sissy” calendar.

I SAID I WAS A SISSY UP FRONT. Ironic who the real bullies are isn’t it?”

To justify his harrumph over being attacked for the calendar, Mr. King serves up the assertions that he once worked for a lesbian, that the material in the calendar is not new, and that a queer publication once purchased rights to one of his cartoons.

Mr. King’s cluelessness aside, the contentious calendar reminds us that there is a difference between free speech and hate speech. There is a difference between humor and defamation. Sometimes the litmus test of that difference is as simple as “I know it when I hear it” but more often, the LGBT community is faced with a con-

stant barrage of depictions, references, jokes, ads, TV shows, pop songs, movies and bumper stickers that make some of us laugh and others cringe.

Does Mr. King really envision his vocation as being that of the boorish guy at a dinner party who, at table, tells an off-color or racist or homophobic joke and then wonders about the dead silent response? As a gay writer for a number of LGBT media outlets, I sometimes learned this lesson the hard way. The trans community was not shy about letting me know when my attempts at humor or the words I chose were offensive to them. When I would explain that I intended no offense, their reply amounted to “Well now you know.” I took this to heart and have tried to craft my words carefully so as not to offend. I will not always succeed, but I see great merit in trying to elevate the quality of my self-expression.

I suspect that Mr. King, who has not responded to my request for a dialogue about this matter, feels that the rights of a satirist in the area of sexual identity are boundless now that LGBT characters of all types appear frequently in mainstream media. This is naïve. Does he really think we are a humorless and testy lot? Does he really think that making cracks about HIV and AIDS in a world in which so many of us live with the enduring and terrible sadness and grief over the loss of friends and relatives should go unchallenged?

I do not think Mr. King needs a lesson in freedom of speech and why it is different from defamation and slander, but I do think Mr. King would benefit from a lesson in good manners, which, when acquired, always increase rather than decrease a satirist’s ability to delight and amuse. Finally there is that almost unteachable quality called skill. A skilled satirist succeeds where a clumsy one fails. Alas, some people who feel the music never become great dancers.

This article originally appeared in www.10thousandcouples.com.

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SFGN Editorial

January 11, 2012

‘A Lust to Bust’ is a Disgrace to Erase

Norm Kent, Publisher

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oday’s editorial will be short. The front-page story speaks for itself.

There is no defense for what law enforcement officers do to gay men in public parks. It does not happen in Palm Beach alone, though Palm Beach is where our story is featured this week.

From shore to shore, from Seattle to South Florida, ‘bag-a-fag’ tactics are illegally employed by cops to ensnare and entrap otherwise innocent gay men. Mind you, this paper is not endorsing pubic sex in public parks.

Parks are for kids, not tricks. But trickery is not a tactic that police should use to arrest gay men either.

The willingness of the Palm Beach sheriff’s office to devote and dedicate two officers over five years to arrest hundreds of men is indefensible. But the sheriff was given an opportunity to defend it. An elected official, he declined an interview with our Editor in Chief, an accredited writer who has won local awards and is on the board of the local chapter of the Society of Professional Journalists.

It seems the Sheriff may be gayer then he realizes. ‘Stonewalling’ is a policy and practice he employed with Broward New Times as well, when one of their writers, Jose Lambiet, was investigating sexism in the sheriff’s office. That’s unacceptable.

Whether it is Congressman Allen West or Sheriff Rick Bradshaw, you have a duty to answer questions from the press other than the sycophants on the Fox News Channel. And if you are an elected official, you ought to study the extraordinarily high voting demographics of the LGBT community.

The truth is the LGBT press is now more than entertainment magazines showcasing our nightlife. It consists of representatives

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in nationally affiliated organizations, from the Florida Press Association to the National Gay and Lesbian Journalists Association.

The story we report on today was investigated over two years, and required this newspaper spending close to two thousand dollars in public records requests to review over 300 police reports and other materials. The results speak for themselves, as does the silence of the Palm Beach sheriff’s office. Rick Bradshaw, you should be embarrassed.

Nevertheless, without the sheriff’s input, this newspaper reaches the conclusion that for a period in excess of five years a task force of officers was deployed in public parks to interdict sexual activity but wound up instead creating and then perpetuating the very criminal activity they were assigned to stop.

We conclude that the Sheriff’s office unjustly targeted, improperly arrested, and then selectively prosecuted gay men in Palm Beach County public parks.

We further conclude that no oversight units within the sheriff’s office were utilized to screen, evaluate, or monitor the tactical operation employed by the designated officers, which were impaled by due process violations.

We find also, that the sheriff, given an opportunity to discuss these tactics with credible reporters from an established LGBT newspaper, has cowered from his civic responsibility to do so.

We encourage the LGBT community of the Palm Beaches to demand answers and hold the sheriff accountable. Being gay is more than holding pride parades. It is being proud to stand up against injustice, fight discrimination, and respond to challenges.

This story is not over. Rather, it is just begginning. Next week, we will begin talking about what SFGN is going to do about it.

Queer Speak

21st Century Quotes on Gay Rights

“I’m interested in the fact that the less secure a man is, the more likely he is to have extreme prejudice.”

– Clint Eastwood

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Mombian

10 Family Resolutions for 2012

By Dana Rudolph

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he new year is upon us, and with it, a chance for new plans and resolutions. Here are 10 things I resolve to do with my family this year. I hope some of them may inspire you and your families, too.

Play more games: Our family loves board games and card games, everything from classics like Monopoly and Crazy Eights to newer strategy games like Settlers of Catan and Carcassone. (And the latter, I’m happy to say, are more widely available now in mainstream stores.) Not only are they fun in themselves, but they’re great for teaching kids things like counting, arithmetic, the balance between risk and reward, and being a good sport, win or lose. (That’s why my spouse and I avoid playing Scrabble when we’re both PMS’ing.)

There’s nothing like a rainy Saturday afternoon with a bag of popcorn and a stack of games to play through.

Read more books: I admit I’m a book junkie, and can take this one to extremes—but I also find myself doing much of my reading before bedtime, when my son is asleep. I have to remind myself that if I want him to read, I have to model it myself. I hope this year not only to spend more time reading with him, but encouraging him to read on his own as well—at eight years old, he’s at the age when he still enjoys both. Maybe we’ll take one evening a week, set out some cookies, and have a family reading hour.

Cook things together: If the references to popcorn and cookies above weren’t obvious enough, our family often combines food and celebration. I involve my son as often as I reasonably can in cooking (while also allowing him time for homework and Legos).

He’s learning basic fractions and simple chemistry (caramelizing sugar is a chemical reaction!), but also getting involved with our meals in a way that makes him an enthusiastic eater of a wide range of cuisines.

Additionally, he loves to pretend we’re on a cooking show, talking to an audience, as we chop and stir. So far, the cat (our usual spectator) is not impressed—but I think we’ll keep it up through the new year.

Get outdoors: Notwithstanding the above, our family loves to get outside and camp or hike, even if “hike” sometimes means just a walk in a local park. Bringing along binoculars or a magnifying glass can turn even the shortest hike into a scientific adventure. One other hint for families whose children are reluctant hikers: Contrary to expectations,

our son much prefers harder hikes—ones involving rock scrambles and climbing over logs—to flat ones, which bore him. Nature is sometimes best viewed as a playground.

Plant something: Whether it’s our full outdoor garden or a few seeds in an indoor pot, our son likes seeing how things grow. Watering plants can also be a useful early responsibility for kids—if they forget, it’s a good lesson, but not as traumatic as losing a goldfish.

See more local attractions: Even in these tough economic times, there are plenty of ways to have fun for almost no money. Some museums offer special free days—or can be visited free or at reduced cost with a pass from the local library. Libraries themselves often host events such as book readings or crafts. Performances by local high school music and drama groups can also be entertaining. They’re not Broadway-caliber, but chances are, kids won’t notice.

Talk about the elections: This will be the first presidential election year our son is old

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enough to understand to any reasonable degree. I expect we’ll be talking a lot about civics in the coming months. Given his age, if I can convey why our democratic system is basically a good one, despite some flaws, I’ll consider it a success.

Relate a bit of family history: I’ve always loved hearing stories from my parents and grandparents about their childhoods, and

I sense that my son does, too.

Sometimes the stories are simply funny (my father played his share of pranks as a kid); some are of historical interest (remember life before the Internet?); and some help our children understand that many of the challenges they face growing up are ones we had, too.

Record a bit of family history: Family history is, however, a fragile thing. My father died in 2011, taking with him a lifetime of stories. We have captured some through photographs and videos—and even though they are but a pale reflection, they supplement our own memories.

I hope to continue recording our family tales and adventures, while not getting so caught up in documenting that I forget to simply experience and enjoy them.

Tell my family I love them: That may go without saying—but it should never go without saying.

May the year be full of love, happiness, peace, and equality for all.

Dana Rudolph is the founder and publisher of Mombian (www.mombian.com), a blog and resource directory for LGBT parents.

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A LUST TO BUST

SFGN Investigation Reveals PBSO Targeting Gay Men In Parks

By Jason Parsley

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andy McGilton, Shawn Browser, and Gerry Sanders have never met but they have something in common; they were all arrested by the Palm Beach Sheriff’s Office in a five year undercover operation targeting gay men having sex in parks.

And they weren’t the only one’s.

Those three men represent just a few of the more than 600 arrests made by Detectives Peter Lazar and his partner Vaniclov “Van” Garner, from 2005 to 2010. SFGN reviewed more than 300 of those police reports starting with the year 2007, but PBSO acknowledged their operation began two years before that.

Only a handful of the arrests – four to be exact -- were between two men; the rest of them involved an undercover detective soliciting another man for sex using tactics that one lawyer called “disgusting” while another lawyer questioned the legality of the detectives’ behavior.

“They approach, lure and entice guys who are sitting alone in their car, start a sexually charged conversation and then look for a way to arrest them,” said Fort Lauderdale attorney Russell Cormican, who estimates he’s probably represented upwards of a 100 men over the past 15 years for getting busted for public sex.

Two of the men mentioned above, McGilton and Browser, were charged with exposure of sexual organs while the third, Sanders, was charged with loitering in a public restroom.

McGilton and Browser admitted they were guilty of the crime, but neither explored the possibility that they each might have been a victim of entrapment. Most arrestees do not; they can’t afford to do so. While the third, Sanders, denies any wrongdoing, and believes he was a victim of an overzealous cop looking to make an arrest.

In fact, Sanders is still worried about retaliation from the cops and did not want his real name used for this article. At first glance his story might seem hard to believe but police reports confirmed most of the major details as he described them to SFGN (see sidebar on page 23).

Simply put, Sanders was taking a jog through the park, took a short break, and washed his face in the restroom.

Sanders, who noticed two men acting strangely in the restroom, mistook the undercover detectives for potential muggers. After leaving the bathroom he got in his car and left with the detective following him through the park. The incident ended with Sanders being charged with loitering in a public restroom.

Sanders said he’s straight and has a girlfriend. He insists he was not at the park looking for sex.

As for Browser, he posted an ad on Craigslist looking

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for a quick hook up. The detectives responded to it and they agreed to meet at Okeeheelee Park where they promptly arrested him as soon as he exposed himself.

Browser also did not want his real name used.

“They got me all excited by responding to an ad on craigslist...so I pursued it...I met them in the park...they led me down a road...insisted that I’d whip it out before I could suck him,” he wrote in an email to SFGN. As for McGilton’s story: “They approached me. I was standing there for a minute. I wasn’t giving off any signals,” he said. “They asked me what I like to do. [The undercover detective said] my friend likes to fuck. Do you want to get fucked? I told him not really.”

He did, however, end up exposing himself to the detectives who promptly arrested him.

Like many of the other men arrested, McGilton and Browser had to pay fines, attend prostitution classes, and take an AIDS test. Many who wind up in this situation plead no contest and not hire an attorney because they don’t have the funds or are too embarrassed to fight.

Some like Sanders though come to regret that decision.

“Because of my financial situation I didn’t get an attorney to fight it. It was just easier to plead the way I did.

My girlfriend told me to fight this. Basically the judge said this is just loitering in a bathroom,” he said. “I was warned about the detective. I was told, you go up against him and you have problems. I didn’t want to push the issue.”

Cormican pointed out that: “What these defendants do not realize is that once they plead no contest they compromise their ability to sue afterwards for false arrest.

In fact those who accept the state’s offers are usually required to waive their right to sue.”

Even though loitering in a public bathroom is a misdemeanor and may not be a big deal it still showed up on Sanders record and he had to explain the situation at work.

As far as SFGN can tell the operation started sometime between 2005 and 2007 and lasted until 2010. During that time the two police officers made more than 600 arrests of purportedly gay men in public parks throughout Palm Beach County, from Jupiter to Boca. More than half of the arrests were men aged 45 to 70.

That was the detectives’ only job – going undercover and soliciting men for sex and then arresting them. SFGN did not come across any arrests of men having sex with women and only a handful of arrests that involved two men. Even though SFGN requested all of the arrest records that both detectives made since 2007, only about 320 were handed over. The others may have occurred before SFGN’s request.

At least 97 of the arrests between 2007 and 2010 occurred in John Prince Park in Lake Worth

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All Other Florida* Out of State** * OTHER FLORIDA CITIES Coconut Creek - 1 Deerfield Beach - 5 Fort Lauderdale - 3 Gulfstream - 1 Highland Beach - 2 Hobe Sound - 3 Hypoluxo - 1 Juno Beach - 6 Lantana - 7 Loxahatchee - 4 Mangonia - 1 Miami - 1 North Palm Beach 4

15 Okeechobee - 1 Palm Beach - 5 Palm City 1 Palm Springs - 3 Parkland - 1 PGA - 2 Pompano - 4 Port St. Lucie - 3 Riviera Beach - 1 Royal Palm Beach - 5 Singer Island - 2 Stuart - 3 Tequesta - 3 Wellington - 1

** OUT OF STATE Truno, MA - 1 Scranton, PA - 1 Rehoboth, DE - 1 Monticello, MN - 1 Holland, MI - 2 South Carolina 1 Kentucky 1 Minnesota - 1 Norwood MI - 1 Penbrook, PA - 1 Williams, NY - 2 Other - 2

A few arrests, though, were of female prostitutes, but none were of female detectives soliciting straight males in parks. If that were the case Russell Cormican is sure plenty of straight men would be arrested. Out of all of the men Cormican has represented none of the men were straight men busted by a female cop.

“I’ve never ever seen an operation where police utilized a female officer to come on to men,” Cormican said. “If you took an attractive female officer and put her by the restroom in a city park and she walked up to guys as they went in and out and asked them to show their private parts I think they would arrest a lot of guys.”

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ntrapment is a legal defense used by criminal defense attorneys to prove that an otherwise innocent defendant was wrongfully induced into committing an illegal act by the improper solicitations of a law enforcment officer. To prove it up in a court of law, there are two prongs which must be met, states Fort Lauderdale attorney Russell Cormican. He estimates that his office has represented upwards of a 100 men over the past 15 years for getting busted for public sex.

The first part of entrapment, he said, has to do with whether the police induce the crime charged, which means, did the police, through their behavior, encourage the defendant to engage in a criminal act?

Inducement alone, however, is not enough. Simply offering someone the opportunity to do something illegal does not constitute entrapment.

Anyone can still say no.

“The issue is were there overreaching factors. It’s the second part of the entrapment defense that gets tricky,” Cormican explained.

The second part is the issue of predisposition. The question becomes “was the defendant predisposed to act in an illegal manner?”

Are there factors that show the defendant was likely to engage in the improper behavior anyway, or did the police behavior entice the defendant to do something he otherwise wouldn’t have done.

Cormican added that when a defendant uses entrapment as their defense they are admitting to the acts they are accused of, but arguing they only engaged in that behavior because the police encouraged them.

“By going out and creating the crime, they’re not fighting the problem,” he said. “They’re creating the entire incident from the beginning to end themselves. It’s an artificially created act. If that police officer was not there that day the illegal acts wouldn’t have occurred.”

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to ask the police. They’re target19 19 ing gay men, that’s the answer,” he said. “[The police department’s] answer is usually that they’ve re10 7 ceived complaints about gay men 6 5 3 having sex in the bathrooms. But 17-24 25-29 30-34 35-39 40-44 45-49 50-54 55-59 60-64 65-69 70-74 75-79 80-84 85-86 they usually propose the sex acts AGES themselves.”

What is usually happening in these types of operations Cormican asserts: ing for sex,” he admitted.

In 2005, PBC Parks & Recreation contacted “They’re essentially going out and creating If the other person gets too aggressive PBSO requesting assistance with illegal sexual their own crime,” he said. “They’re creating and asks to see the detective’s genitals they’ll activity occurring in PBC park bathrooms and the entire incident from the beginning to the pretend to get nervous in order to avoid do- nature trails. PBSO began to enforce ALL illegal end themselves. It’s an artificially created act. ing so. The detectives also try to make sure sexual activity in public bathrooms, which were If that police officer was not there that day it to strengthen their cases while in the act. mainly located next to playground areas.This wouldn’t have occurred.”

“I could have arrested him when he enforcement resulted in numerous arrests over SFGN also reviewed a deposition where exposed himself the first time, but I want the last few years. The individuals arrested were Detective Lazar explained his undercover more than just a little bit. I would like to get issued a “notice to appear” in court for the operation in detail. a better case, than his pants were up a little charge of Exposure of Sexual Organs.

This is how it goes down: bit, and I had to walk up and see it. I want PBSO responds to all requests to stop illegal “No, that’s all I do. Myself and my partner, something a little bit more like him rubbing activity, regardless of its location, that is what the that’s all we do. We have other park depuhimself,” Lazar said. public expects from our agency.” ties that are uniformed that they do the Further answers are difficult to obtain car burglaries, the vandalism and patrol the since PBSO Sheriff Ric Bradshaw has so far And while the statute may be clearly deparks. That’s what they do,” Lazar stated in a refused to speak with SFGN except for send- fined, Bradshaw’s statement leaves a bit more deposition. ing one prepackaged response through his to the imagination.

“Sometimes I will wear shorts and a tank Public Information Officer Teri Barbera.

According to the Director of PBC Parks top. Sometimes it is just a t-shirt with some This is what Bradshaw sent: and Recreation they never contacted PBSO pants. Each time is a little different,” he

about combating illegal sexual activity and bragged. “600 arrests, at least 300 of those “First of all, SEX in public parks, bathrooms, was surprised when informed of the underare mine. In total we have over 600 now in nature trails, etc. is ILLEGAL per Florida State cover operation. the last three years.”

Statue - 800.03 Exposure of sexual organs: “Wow. I was not aware of that,” said Craig He continued: “When people talk about It is unlawful to expose or exhibit one’s sexual Murphy, director of park operations. “I don’t the weather, they want to talk about, hey, do organs in public or on the private premises of remember requesting any [assistance].” you want to have a good time.” another, or so near thereto as to be seen from Murphy stated he would be aware if anyDuring the conversation with these men such private premises, in a vulgar or indecent one else had requested assistance. he would sometimes keep his hands in his manner, or to be naked in public except in any “I would be aware of something like that,” pockets and pretend he was playing with place provided or set apart for that purpose. he said. “[PBSO] sends us weekly operating himself. In many cases the detectives would Violation of this section is a misdemeanor of reports. I haven’t seen anything out of the tell the defendant they like to “suck” or the first degree, punishable as provided in s. ordinary.” would squat down waiting for the other guy 775.082 or s. 775.083. A mother’s breastfeedPBSO used to have a Parks division, but to expose himself. ing of her baby does not under any circumstance it has since closed down due to budget “I am playing the role of somebody lookviolate this section. cuts according to Barbera. Now Parks and

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ere are the most shocking facts SFGN found during its investigation.

Only 4 of the arrests happened between two men. The rest involved an undercover detective soliciting a man for sex.

In 130 out of 317 police reports the encounter took place within a restroom, while the rest took place in the woods or in a parked car.

In 107 of the reports the officer squatted down in order to get the defendant to expose himself.

In 58 of the reports the officer either told the defendant “I like to

suck” or asked the defendant if he likes to be “sucked.”

And in 74 of the encounters it appeared from the police report that the officer approached the defendant or started a conversation.

In many of the reports, however, it was difficult to conclude who approached who first.

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Healthy Jog Turns Into Unholy Arrest Recreation must rely on the other PBSO units it out of their lives. Something like this has the and individual municipalities to assist in patrolling potential to impact their personal relationships,” the county’s parks. The undercover operation has Cormican said. “So a lot of people don’t want to also since been stopped because of those same fight these and police take advantage of that.” budget cuts.

McGilton and the other men contacted by SFGN also requested to interview Detectives SFGN were all surprised that the information Lazar and Garner. Barbera said Lazar has since about their arrests were still available. All of them retired and did not answer when asked where he say they were led to believe by authorities it retired to. Garner is now a homicide detective wouldn’t stay on their record. but Barbera said he declined to be interviewed.

“I’m surprised it’s on my record.That’s why I’ve But that doesn’t mean nobody else was willing to had a hard time getting a couple of jobs. Never talk about the officers. realized that,” McGilton said.While Browser said: In particular, Michael Salnick, a successful and “They told me not to worry that it will disappear high profile attorney based in Palm Beach County, in 3 years or so....I’m really bummed tho that a did have this to say about Detective Lazar: complete stranger got hold of this...I guess it’ll “In my experience with Mr. Lazar, I never show up as criminal record when I apply for a job.” found him particularly credible or believable,” Cormican confirms that this isn’t unusual. he said. Salnick filed “Sometimes a complaint against the police will Lazar in 1992 for uneven tell people A path to jail? professional conduct up front don’t and the internal infight it. Don’t get vestigation revealed a lawyer. Just go it to be valid. Lazar talk to city proswas given a written ecutor. Don’t reprimand. bother fighting Salnick has been it,” he said. “A practicing law in lot of people Many of the police reports involving West Palm Beach for elect to do that John Prince Park mention this trail.

30 years. because it’s an Another well embarrassing known attorney, Jeffrey Weiner of Miami-Dade thing. The police really do push them that way.

County, had a lot to say about the matter. While And I think a lot of it is because the police really he couldn’t comment specifically about Palm don’t want people to stand up and fight these Beach County he’s seen other police departthings. There are defenses there. What they’re ments in South Florida routinely target gay men. doing is probably illegal.”

“Many departments unfortunately repeatedly While no one from the PBSO would speak target gay men,” he said. “It’s disgusting and terrible. with SFGN, Tony Plakas, Executive Director of Miami Beach is one of the worst in that regard.”

Compass, the gay and lesbian center of Palm Weiner has been practicing law for more than Beach County, did come to Bradshaw’s defense 38 years and is a former president of the Naand said he doesn’t believe there to be any tional Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers widespread homophobia in the ranks of PBSO. and a former president of the Florida Criminal He went on to say Bradshaw has been an ally of Defense Attorneys Association. the LGBT community and praised the sheriff’s “The bottom line is, we’re often and usually outreach efforts to the community. able to get these cases dismissed. Many times In another case Jim Walker, (not his real name), there are no crimes except in the minds of the hired an attorney who recommended taking it to police officers,” he explained. “Prosecutors are a trial and said it would most likely be thrown out, lot more reasonable than the cops on the beat. but he instead decided to settle without a trial But it’s terrible what they put people through. and plead no contest.

The means they use are really offensive. The “I should have gone to court. The attorney games they play.” recommended it,” he said regretfully. “It would He added: “As a lawyer, I’m offended by this have been dropped. But I was afraid I would behavior by the police.” know someone there. I’m married with four kids.

Cormican said these types of arrests are embar- I sat in my car and cried for an hour. I was scared rassing for defendants and many times they do not to death.” want to take it to trial even though there would be And at 78 years old he has no plans on coming a good chance of either dismissal or acquittal. out of the closet.

“Usually it’s straight guys who are married or a “I can’t. My wife, it would be the end of her,” gay guy running around on his boyfriend and don’t he said. “At this point too many people would be want a public battle with police. They just want hurt.

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park and even ran a stoplight to get away from, who he thought, was someone attempting to rob him. erry Sanders was just taking a He decided to pull back in the park, jog in the park at John Prince where the park administration office Park in Lake Worth. It was a regular is located. It was only then that the routine of his. But in January of 2007 detectives finally revealed themselves. that jog turned in to a nightmare The report said that because when he was chased by police and Sanders was a “flight risk” he arrested for loitering in a public rehad to be handcuffed and transstroom. Sanders’ police report is just ported back to the park office. The one of the more than 300 reports detective also accused him of being SFGN examined over the course of uncooperative and hostile and the last year. His is the most outrastated that he was “not forthcomgeous of them. Even though it’s now ing w/his information or explaining 2012 Sanders is still worried about his actions.” retaliation from the Palm Beach Sanders said most of the police Sheriff’s Office and did not want his report is accurate but said it doesn’t real name used for this article. give the reasons why he acted the This is his story. way he did. He admits he was mad, Sanders was taking a jog like because for one he didn’t underany other day. He stopped at one stand what was going on. When he of the restrooms to wash his face finally learned what was happening and immediately noticed something he was even angrier – after all, he wasn’t right. thought he was being followed to be Two men, who were already in potentially robbed, not arrested for the restroom, were acting suspiloitering in a public restroom. cious. Sanders put himself on guard He told SFGN that when the and acted cautiously because he undercover detective started said he was afraid of getting robbed. following him it reinforced the He walked in to a stall and washed notion that someone was trying his hands. Then quickly exited. The to rob him. So he tried his best to police report confirms that part, get away and that’s why he ran the but notes Sanders did not use the stoplight and pulled back in to the stall, a fact that Sanders doesn’t park administration’s lot because dispute. He contends that he was in he thought he’d be safe. One detail the restroom to wash his face bethough he said is missing from the cause he’d been running and simply report is that when he pulled back was taking a short break. in to the park the other officer “The one cop backed up and bent intercepted him and actually pulled down to tie his shoes. I thought they a gun on him. were going to jump me and rob “I had no clue he was a cop,” me,” he said. “I stayed stationary to he said. “I thought they were robsee what they were going to do. I bing me.” didn’t know what was going on.”

After he was taken back to the Finally, in what Sanders said was office he said Detective Lazar just a matter of minutes, he left accused him of looking for sex. the building, but before he did he Sanders, who is straight and has pointed up to a “no loitering” sign a girlfriend, admitted he mouthed hanging above the doorway and off and said “If that was the case, it then pointed at the undercover wouldn’t be with you.” detective. That detail was also Detective Lazar though continrecorded in the police report. ued to press him on the matter, but After the detective left the Sanders said he refused to submit to restroom he got in to his car and backing in to a story, which accordstarted following Sanders through ing to him, was a complete fantasy. the park. The report then detailed To top it off, the detective also a strange stop-and-go chase by the wrote him a ticket for running the detective through the park. At that stoplight. point the detective still had not Because of financial reasons at identified himself as a law enforcethe time he decided to not fight ment official. the charges. He now regrets that Finally Sanders drove out of the decision.

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COMMENTARY

A Felon for Life?

schools, and a variety of venues. Those that plea out may be having to deal with those pleas for the rest of their life, as these cases generally can never be expunged or sealed. An expunction erases a criminal charge from your ‘record.’

Many of those arrested for sexual offenses in public parks are

By Norm Kent charged with the crime of battery. It is easy to prove. All an officer hile everyone wants to be acquitted or have their has to do is show that another person engaged in a touching of cases dismissed, if the odds of that are unlikely, a per- the cop without his lawful consent. It does not have to be a harmson charged with a crime wants to know what is the ful or hurtful contact, just an innocent touching. But an adjudicanext best alternative. tion on this battery charge will prevent it from ever coming off of In those instances, the best thing you can do for your client your record. This means that forevermore anyone will be able to is secure for them a disposition which is known as a “withheld access facts about your arrest, even if you pled guilty out of conadjudication.” venience, and it was the cop who induced or invited you to touch A court may do one of two things with the disposition of your him in the first place. case- it can adjudicate you guilty, or withhold adjudication of guilt.

Two years ago, I handled a case for a drag queen,Tiny Tina, who An adjudication means you have been found guilty and are stuck had been adjudicated for engaging in a lewd act in 1976, when she forever with that finding, in this lifetime and the next. It means hosted a wet jockey contest at the Copa Bar. In the year 2010, she you have a permanent criminal record, which can never be sealed was denied a job at an assisted living facility when a state records or expunged, removed or eliminated, absent a legislative change search revealed that 34-year-old finding of guilt. Fortunately, I eventuor pardon from the Governor. ally had that horrible ruling overturned.

An adjudication of guilt on a felony Still, it is getting tougher to seal or strips you of a breadth of your rights expunge any record of your arrest as a citizen, not only your right to for misdemeanors or felonies. For vote but to hold a variety of public example, charges that are now disservice jobs, as well as professional qualifying, and make you ineligible for licenses. It takes away your driver’s an expunction, include sexual offenses, license for two years, and it impacts acts of domestic violence, battery, your right to collect government residential burglaries, stalking and fleebenefits. Thus, if you are entering a ing police. State law allows you only plea to a criminal charge anytime one expunction ever, and only if you anywhere, you want to seek a withhave never been ‘adjudicated.’ held adjudication of guilt, whether it When the term ‘adjudication’ is used is for a misdemeanor or felony. in traffic court, the meaning is drastiIn Florida and elsewhere, that is cally different. You see, traffic tickets becoming more and more difficult. are considered only ‘civil infractions.’

For example, if you enter a plea to drunk driving, courts Therefore, if you are found guilty and ‘adjudicated,’ it simply means have no discretion. It is mandatory that they adjudicate that you are getting points assessed against your driver’s license you guilty. Fortunately, that is not a felony, so some of your by the Department of Motor Vehicles. It does not mean that you rights are preserved. But more and more criminal acts are have been found guilty of a crime. If that is the worst thing that coming under the penumbra of mandatory adjudications, ever happens to you, then you will have lived a very decent life. the most frustrating of which are battery cases against law Many people come to Florida on vacation and wind up on probaenforcement officers. tion. Many come from urban populations where certain behaviors Very often, the battery charges evolve out of barroom brawls are treated more leniently and liberally. In Broward, if you commit in which intoxicated patrons do not even know what is going on a felony, you are more likely to go to jail than almost any county in at the time. Sometimes a Good Samaritan attempting to render the state. Sell just one ounce of marijuana to an undercover police aid to a police officer is seen by an arriving officer as possibly officer and our state attorney’s office will make you a plea offer of assaulting their fellow officer. They are then suddenly struggling no less than 18 months in Florida state prison. with one officer while trying to help the other. In the melee that Ultimately, these harsh laws present grave consequences to the follows, they wind up in jail too. In other instances, of course, average citizen who makes one costly mistake. It means that a people, good people sometimes do get drunk, and then act badly. momentary lapse today can brand you as a felon for life.

There are no second chances.

This means that years later, your arrest can become subject In addition, more and more legislators are now talking about to permanent public scrutiny, accessible to anyone – friends, expanding the concept of mandatory adjudications to many other enemies, lovers, creditors, employers, credit agencies, and anyone offenses. Florida, for example, now includes fleeing from a police with a computer that has Internet access. officer as one of those offenses. Heaven help you if you do not We live in a country where one out of every 100 adults is hear those sirens. either in prison or under some form of judicial probation or A misdemeanor is less serious than a felony. In fact, the word supervision. For Hispanics and African Americans, those statistics ‘misdemeanor’ is derived from the Latin phrase for ‘misbehavior.’ are even more dramatic.

Unfortunately though, if you are ever adjudicated guilty, even of Too many acts have been declared illegal, and too often only a misdemeanor, you will never, under Florida law, ever be government has restrained our liberties. Florida is one of those able to get your record expunged. And if the adjudication is for a places. Keep it in mind the next time you go off to party. The sun sexual offense, you can be barred from working in nursing homes, tans as well as burns.

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The Maltz is a Cabaret, Old Chum. Come to the Cabaret.

By Donald Cavanaugh

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ut down the knitting, the book and the broom…” it’s time for Cabaret at the Maltz Jupiter Theater. And, according to artistic director Andrew Kato, you can put down your recollections of the Liza Minnelli Joel Gray “sweet and clean-cut musical and get ready for some down and dark performances of a down and dark play with music.”

“This is the 1998 revival that is more powerful and grittier than the movie we all remember so well,” Kato said. “We are really lucky to be able to bring this to South Florida with B.T. Nicholl, the premier director authorized to produce this version.

“In the original musical, the character of Cliff is hinted to be gay or bisexual and in the movie they made him bisexual but the theme wasn’t developed,” said Bruce Linser, a local actor who plays the role of Cliff. “In this version Cliff’s homosexuality and his wish to hide it becomes a major theme that adds to the drama of the play. It’s an exciting enhancement.”

“B.T. is really a great director to work with,” Linser said. “He knows what he

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wants but he’s not afraid to let the actors have a little fun with the production – within reason, of course.”

Christopher Sloan, a New York actor down for the role of the Emcee agreed.

“There has to be some flexibility or the play would be stilted and impossible to watch but everything in this production hangs together so well you don’t want to go too far. It’s an incredibly tight production.”

Sloan, who has performed in the play five different times, also raved about working at the Maltz.

“It’s an incredible theater,” he said.

“It’s beautifully designed and appointed and everyone is absolutely professional.

I’m thrilled to be working here.”

“We do our best,” said Kato who

grew up in Jupiter and remembers waiting table at the old Burt Reynolds Dinner Theater, which was morphed into the Maltz. “When I was offered the position here in 2005 I was a little hesitant about the location but the theater’s motto has always been ‘If you give them quality, they will come,’ and so far that’s been true.”

A unique aspect of the Maltz production is the integration of the musicians directly into the action of the play “It’s been an incredible experience working with the musicians during rehearsal,” Linser said. “They’re an integral part of the play, not an add on just before production. It makes a huge difference.”

Cabaret is a Tony-award winning musical based on the book by Joe Masteroff,

the play by John Van and stories by Christopher Isherwood with a score by John Kander and Fred Ebb. The original Broadway show ran in 1967 with revivals in 1987 and 1998. The last production, which won the Tony Award for Best Revival of a Musical - was based on the 1993 Sam Mendes-directed Donmar Warehouse production from London.

Co-directed by Mendes and Rob Marshall and choreographed by Marshall, it held a 2377-performance run at Studio 54, becoming the third longest-running revival in Broadway musical history. The Maltz Jupiter Theatre is producing this version, with direction from B.T. Nicholl, one of the few directors given permission to direct this particular revival of the show. continued on page 34

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sor to Judith Jamison, Miami native Robert Battle. These cultural ambassadors will offer the artistry and athleticism that has inspired audiences around the world for decades.

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f you’ve tried to drive anywhere in South Florida, then you have already realized the annual flock of snowbirds have arrived, escaping the cold climes up north. Restaurants, beaches—even the local Publix—have been packed since the new year, and so are South Florida’s many premier arts venues as the winter arts season gets into full swing. Here’s a look at some of the highlights of the arts calendar this season:

Broadway Across America brings the best of the Great White Way to South Florida.

In Fort Lauderdale at the Broward Center, Jersey Boys, the jukebox ode to legendary Frankie Valli and the Four Season continues through Jan. 29, followed by Billy Elliott, a touching story of a young blue collar British lad who only desires to dance ballet.

At Miami’s Arsht Center, choreographer Twyla Tharp’s graceful ode to crooner Frank Sinatra, Come Fly Away, runs March 20-25.

BroadwayAcrossAmerica.com Kravis on Broadway presents several touring productions including the genderbending musical comedy La Cage Aux Folles with George Hamilton, Feb. 14-19, and Twyla Tharp’s Come Fly Away, March 13-18. Kravis.org Promethean Theatre, in residence at Nova Southeastern University, presents the 2008 Tony winner, Boeing Boeing, Jan. 13 – 29, a remake of the 1960s French farce about a lothario who dates three flight attendants with plentiful international layovers. Guess what happens when they all descend on his Paris apartment? ThePrometheanTheatre.org Remember Hot Lips from M*A*S*H? Actress Loretta Swit stars in Love, Loss and What I Wore at the Parker Playhouse in Fort Lauderdale, Jan. 17-22. This poignant tale from Nora and Delia Ephron uses clothing and accessories and the memories they invoke in a touching production that will speak to audiences. ParkerPlayhouse.org Miami’s Teo Castellanos brings the culturally rich Miami community to life through a series of sketches in NE 2nd Ave., a one-man show returning to the Arsht Center, Jan.

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George Hamilton Stars in La Cage Aux Folles at the Kravis Center 18-20. From Cubans and Puerto Ricans to Haitians, Blacks and even Gays, he takes the audience on a journey through the intense—and distinct—streets of Miami.

ArshtCenter.org Imagine what the world would be like if big corporations had a monopoly on all the toilets. Slow Burn Theatre, the new company that specializes in edgy musicals, presents Urinetown:The Musical, Jan. 20-22 and 27-29 at West Boca High School. SlowBurnTheatre.com

Dance The Miami City Ballet brings its Program II, featuring the world premiere performances of Viscera by young British Choreographer Liam Scarlett to West Palm Beach’s Kravis Center, Jan. 27-29, and the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale, Feb. 3-5. The season continues with the classic Giselle, Feb. 17-19 at the Arsht Center, Feb. 24-26 at the Broward Center and March 9-11 at the Kravis Center. MiamiCityBallet.org Next Step Dance has earned a dedicated following with its celebration of the male body and this Valentine’s Day, explores the themes of love in all its forms with “Eros,” a signature program of contemporary dance, Friday, Feb. 10 at the Broward Center. BrowardCenter.org Alvin Ailey American Dance Theatre returns to the Arsht Center, Feb. 23-26, under the direction of the hand-picked succes-

Chamber music aficionados have come to appreciate the artistry of the Delray String Quarter. The talented foursome premieres composer Kenneth Fuck’s fifth quartet, the “American,” along with works

by Haydn, Schubert and Gershwin, in performances Jan. 15 at Delray Beach’s Colony Hotel and Cabana Club and Jan. 20 at All Saints Episcopal Church in Fort Lauderdale.

DelrayStringQuartet.com Palm Beach’s swanky Royal Room at the Colony Hotel, 155 Hammon Ave., continues its renowned cabaret series with favorites Ann Hampton Callaway (theme from “The Nanny”) and sister Liz Callaway (Miss Saigon, Cats), Jan. 17-21. Legendary performer Marilyn Maye, veteran of more performances on Johnny Carson’s The Tonight Show than any other performer, takes the stage Jan. 24-28 and Jan. 31-Feb. 4, for two weeks of classic cabaret. Other highlights of the season include James Naughton (Feb. 28 – March 3) and Melba Moore making her Royal Room debut (March 6-10, 13-17). For reservations, call 561-659-8100.

The South Florida Symphony Orchestra presents Fire and Ice when it returns to the Broward Center, Tuesday, January 30.Violinist Chee-Yun will be featured in works by Saint-Saens and Sarasate, under the baton of Maestro Sebrina Maria Alfonso. The program is rounded out with Beethoven’s Symphony No. 3 “Eroica.” SouthFloridaSymphony.org The Youth Pride Wind Ensemble, an outreach project of the South Florida Pride Wind Ensemble, the region’s LGBT band, makes its debut Sunday, Feb. 12 at the Broward Center. The new group, comprised of talented young LGBTQ musicians, will present classics from the band repertoire, followed by a concert from their older counterparts at Fort Lauderdale’s Broward Center. PrideWindEnsemble.org

Comedy The political antics in our nation’s capital have inspired comedians for generations and the current state of affairs is no exception. The Capitol Steps, a comedy troupe founded 30 years ago by former Senate aides, brings their brand of satire to South Florida with performances at the Broward Center (Feb. 12-15) and the Kravis Center (Feb. 28 – March 11).

CapSteps.com Laffing Matterz is back at the Broward Center’s Abdo New River Room this winter, serving up a tasty gourmet dinner with delectable comedy skits in between. You better believe the presidential contest is providing plenty of fodder for these wacky comics, along with Lady Gaga and the never-ending doomsday prognostications.

The Mayans foretold it, afterall. LaffingMatterz.com The South Beach Comedy Festival returns for another season at venues across Miami Beach, Feb. 29 – March 3. The biggest names in stand-up comedy head south for some fun in the sun, but be careful because several of the performances might end up being broadcast on Comedy Central. SouthBeachComedyFestival.com

Literary Arts The Palm Beach Poetry Festival returns to Delray Beach, Jan. 16-21, with readings from eight of America’s most gifted poets, including Pulitzer Prize and National Book Award winner Charles Wright. Local poets will also take the spotlight in events and workshops at Old School Square, 41 N. Swinton Ave. PalmBeachPoetryFestival.org

Photography The 17th annual FOTOfusion, Jan. 24-28, will offer more than 100 workshops, lectures, panel discussions, multimedia presentations, portfolio reviews, hands-on computer classes, demonstrations, and photo shoots taught by an impressive faculty of industry leaders and photographic giants at Palm Beach Photographic Center, 415 Clematis St. in West Palm Beach. FotoFusion.org

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Theatre

The Motherf**ker with the Hat

george schiavone

Recovery Isn’t Easy

ly wants to maintain sobriety, even as he remains in a heated, dysfunctional relationship with a user.

He comes home early to their dingy apartment one day, proud to have landed his first real job, only to discover a mysterious man’s hat on the table. His jealousy enrages and a course of Ethan Henry and Arturo Fernandez in The Motherf**ker events get set with the Hat at Gablestage. in motion that reveals recovery just isn’t easy.

By J.W. Arnold Jackie flees to the apartment of Ralph ableStage Artistic Director Joe (Ethan Henry), his Alcoholics Anonymous Adler likes to make his largely pasponsor, who spews mantra from the Bible trician audiences at the Biltmore of 12-step programs, the Big Book. Ralph uncomfortable. We’ve seen it in programhas carved out a seemingly healthy life for ming like Blasted and In the Next Room (or himself and wife Victoria (Betsy Graver), the Vibrator Play) and now, The Motherf**ker downing vitamin-laced shakes and food with the Hat, the show that had Broadway supplements. Along the way, we meet cousin buzzing last year.

Julio (Alex Alvarez), a somewhat fey characAt the last three GableStage productions, ter and stand-up guy.

Adler took an almost sophomoric glee in Guirgis dishes up a colorful cast of charseeing how many times he could drop the acters who, at first glance, seem somewhat upcoming production’s title in his pre-show two-dimensional, almost caricatures, but remarks, as the little old ladies squirmed in we learn are instead very complex, juggling their seats. passion and aspirations while fighting off But, make no mistakes, there’s nothing personal demons and lots of baggage. No sophomoric about the multiple Carbonell one is quite who they seem. Under Adler’s Award-winning director who has landed direction, the entire cast, and especially the South Florida premieres of several hot Fernandez and Henry, offer nuanced perforBroadway titles and—unrelenting barrage of mances that keep their characters real, even “F-bombs” not withstanding—Stephen Adly when Guirgis throws yet another unlikely Guirgis’ The Motherf**ker with the Hat. curve to the plot.

Adler chose the work, he says, because he Lyle Baskin’s set effectively subdivides intiwanted “something funny to start the year,” mate boxy space to create three separate and Mother is funny, a profane look at the apartments and the scene changes are lives of working class stiffs in New York City, accentuated by Matt Corey’s sound design dealing with addiction and recovery and the and crisp lighting changes from Jeff Quinn to consequences each has on the relationships give the production a cinematic quality. around them.

The Motherf**ker from the Hat Arturo Fernandez stars as Jackie, a good-hearted street punk who has recently Gable Stage returned to his longtime girlfriend Veronica 1200 Anastasia Ave., Coral Gables (Gladys Ramirez) after serving a two-year Thurs. – Sat., 8 p.m.; Sun. 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. sentence for dealing drugs. He has given up Tickets $45-50 at GableStage.org drugs and booze and desperately, desperate-

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Eating Disorder Support group

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An Eating Disorder Support group is starting Nov. 4. This group will meet Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. This is a “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. No registration required, free- however donations are welcome. Call 954-764-5150 for more information

Stage Door: Highlighting the Arts

Theatre Broward County

*Step Afrika - Smart Stage Matinee

On Jan. 11 come to the Miramar Cultural Center/Artspark and enjoy this outstanding dance group. Step Afrika celebrates stepping -- an original art form born at AfricanAmerican fraternities and based on African traditions. As the first professional company dedicated to stepping, their intricate kicks, stomps and rhythms mixed with spoken word pound the floor and fill the air. Visit Browardcenter.org

*Schoolhouse Rock - Smart Stage Matinee

School House Rock Is back and better than ever at the Broward Center on Jan. 13. The action begins when a young school teacher, nervous about his first day of teaching, tries to relax by watching TV. Suddenly the Schoolhouse Rock bunch appears in his home and helps him to instruct his students on a variety of subjects including math, science, history, politics and grammar.

Visit BrowardCenter.org

*Capitol Steps in Desperate Housemembers

If you love satire this is just the musical for you. On Jan 12-15 come to the Broward Center for a look a capital hill in musical form. Former Senate staffers Capital Steps satirize the people and places that employed them during this insightful, irreverent and highly amusing performance. Visit BrowardCenter.org

The Motherf**ker With The Hat

From Jan. 7 to Jan. 25 come to the Gable Stage at the Biltmore Hotel in Coral Gables and see The Motherf**ker with the Hat. Was there ever any doubt that GableStage would be the first to stage last season’s Broadway drama about a former drug-dealing addict trying to kick his habit despite the “help” of friends and a troubled sponsor? Visit Gablestage.org

Soul Doctor, The Shlomo Carlebach Musical

The Soul Dr. is at the Parker Play House Jan. 11-29. The show is about the journey of a Rockstar-Rabbi. Larry King raved “The crowd roars with laughter and song all night long, the most exuberant new musical, destined to become a hit on Broadway for many years to come!” Browardcenter. org/souldoctor_parker

Jersey Boys

The Jersey Boys are back at the Broward Center on Jan. 11-29. This is the story of how four blue-collar kids became one of the greatest successes in pop music history. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Hammerhead Aquatics Annual Fundraiser

SunTrust Sunday Jazz Brunch

Hammerhead Aquatics is hosting the Fabulous Dixie Longate’s Tupperware Party on Saturday evening Jan. 21, 7:30 p.m. at the Center for Spiritual Living 26th and 15th Ave in Wilton Manors. The team plans on going to Iceland for the IGLA (International Gay and Lesbian Aquatics) World Championship swim meet this year. Tickets are $35 in advance and include happy hour starting at 5:30 p.m. Community Leader Carol Moran of New Moon bar will be honored for outstanding contributions to the community. For tickets call John at 954-588-6371 or www.HammerheadAquatics.com.

First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live , outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists. Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages. Everyone is welcome to attend, including well-behaved, leashed pets. There is plenty of room to set up chairs, blankets and picnic baskets to experience the fabulous entertainment. Patrons can also stroll along the historic brick-lined walkway to enjoy live music while browsing items from local merchants and enjoying food from area restaurants.

Florida Renaissance Festival

Journey back to the 16th century, Feb. 11 to March 11, as you step through castle gates and into the days of yore. Explore the artisans’ village and view live demonstrations of glassblowing, steel-fighting, archery, and more. Feast on hearty food fit for a king while enjoying live performances on stage and in the lanes, including our thrice-daily jousting events. Weekends only, plus President’s Day, 2/20 Visit Broward.org/Parks/QuietW

Atlantis | Allure Caribbean Cruise

Gay cruise, largest cruise ship ever built: Allure of the Seas, week of entertainment, parties, dance events, Jan. 29 – Feb. 5. Nearly 5,500 international gay/lesbian guests to sail from Ft. Lauderdale to Labadee, Cozumel, Costa Maya, & back.

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Young Adult GLBT The Two and Only

Jan. 13-15. This 2007 Tony Award Winner for Best Theatrical Event stars Jay Johnson (best known for the TV show Soap), and a wild cast of puppet characters in one of today’s funniest and most original theatrical experiences. It’s an adult look at life, growing up, having a dream and everything in between.

Visit Oldschool.org/performances.asp

Pilobolus

On Friday March 2 at 8 p.m. come to The Adrienne Arsht Center for Pilobolus. Celebrating 40 years of defying gravity, this incomparable dance company has delighted, dazzled and amazed audiences across the planet with their superhuman flexibility and fascinating forms that challenge the limits of the human body. Visit Arshtcenter.org

Miami-Dade

Key West

From Jan. 19 to 21 at the Arsht Center of Miami! The emotional, often humorous one-man play depicts the lives of a Puerto Rican small time drug dealer, a deprived AfricanAmerican young lady, a Haitian jitney driver, a Cuban-Jewish grandfather, Rasta Man, African American adolescent trying to find his footing in life, a Cuban rafter and a gay man, who each take the audience on a journey through the streets of Miami. Visit ArshtCenter.org

In a quiet cafe a cell phone rings. And rings. The stranger at the next table has had enough. She confronts the owner of the cell phone, but, well...he’s dead. She begins to answer his calls and suddenly finds herself enmeshed in his life and family. Unfortunately, the dead guy has quite a number of shady loose ends. This plays opening night is Feb. 2 at The Waterfront Playhouse at 8pm. Visit Waterfrontplayhouse.org

*NE 2nd Avenue

Dead Man’s Cell Phone

The Four Tops & The Temptations

*An Evening in Vienna

Willie Nelson & Family

Alexander, Who’s Not Going to Move!

On Tuesday Feb. 7 come see American country music icon Willie Nelson at The Broward Center at 8 p.m. For over 30 years, this “outlaw” singer-songwriter has recorded more than 200 albums and achieved both cult status and mainstream acclaimed. In his career, he blazed a trail through the music business. Visit BrowardCenter.org

In this hilarious sequel to Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, Alexander has bad news- his dad has taken a job in a new city a thousand miles away, which means that he & his family are going to have to move away from all his friends and the things he loves. Come to the Actors PlayHouse at the Miracle Theatre in Coral Gables on Jan. 12 at 7 p.m. Visit Actorsplayhouse.org

Community Calendar Broward County

Palm Beach County

Wally Cardona: Tool Is Loot

On Jan. 11, from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. - Bldg A, Main 204 at The Pride Center at Equality Park. Drop-In is a group of gay men who meet weekly to share events and opinions. The meeting consists of mainly three groups: 1.Those who attend on a regular basis. 2. Those who drop-in to keep up with things and to meet old friends, as well as make new ones. 3. Those who are from out of the area and are seeking new friends and information -and might even move to paradise!

When it comes to Motown legends, it doesn’t get any bigger or any better than multi-platinum selling artists The Four Tops & The Temptations! On Feb. 1 enjoy this awesome concert at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts. Hitting the stage with their high energy pop and funk from the 70’s and 80’s, these musical greats perform classic Motown hits from their repertoire. Visit BrowardCenter.org

The Effect of Gamma Rays on Man-inthe-Moon Marigolds

This Pulitzer Prize winning play depicts a mentally unbalanced woman’s far reaching effects on the lives of her two daughters, and a young girl’s struggle to keep her focus and dreams alive. Showings will start Jan. 6-29. Visit Palmbeachdramaworks.org/season.php

Hair

Hair comes to the Kravis Center on Jan. 10-15. This exuberant musical about a group of young Americans searching for peace and love in a turbulent time has struck a resonant chord with audiences young and old. Visit Kravis.org

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On Jan. 21 come to the Arsht Center in Miami for MISO’s much anticipated Concert Series returns with a splendid selection of the lively and, at the same time, nostalgic music from the vast repertoire of the Johann Strauss family and its contemporaries. Be part of a tradition born in the Musikverein in Vienna, which has expanded throughout the world and available in Miami thanks to MISO. Visit ArshtCenter.org

On Jan. 21 come to the Colony Theatre watch this play where each choreographer solicited weeklong encounters with nondance experts, treating their artistic positions to the constant reassessment, opinions and desires of an “outsider”, creating a new work with each expert. 8:30 p.m. Visit Tigertail.org

Florida Grand Opera Presents Rigoletto Verdi’s Rigoletto, one of the world’s best loved operas will be at the Adrienne Arsth Center on Jan. 28 at 7 p.m.This is the story of a court jester who enables the Duke’s philandering and mocks the husbands and fathers of the victims. When he finds his own daughter to be the Duke’s newest victim, he tries to repay evil with evil, a plan that goes awry. Visit Arshtcenter.org

A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35. This group meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m. Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity.

Visit PrideCenterFlorida.org/contact-us

Boardwalk Friday Fest

Come out to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month. Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile Broadwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-924-2980

Toastmasters

Most Toastmasters meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-599-7916 or email: Tedverdone@comc​ast.net

Safe “T”

Safe “T” is a new support group for gender variant adults 18 plus that meets Wednesday evenings from 6:30-8:00 p.m. at Sunserve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. This is a “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. No registration required, free- however donations are welcome. Call 954-764-5150.

Lambda South

*SAGE Men’s Drop In

A meeting place, primarily for gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA), Compulsive Sex Addicts Anonymous (CSA), Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Gamblers Anonymous (GA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), & Overeaters Anonymous (OA), meetings. (954) 761-9072. 1231-A East Las Olas Boulevard. Fort Lauderdale. Visit Lambdasouth.com

GreenMarket Pompano Beach

Grief Support Group led by Heartland Hospice meets every 3rd Tuesday at American Burial & Cremation Center @ Jennings Funeral Home 1801 E. Oakland Park Blvd. from 2-4 pm. Call 954-731-4321. If you need support in your time of loss they invite you to attend.

At the corner of Dixie Highway and Atlantic Boulevard 8 a.m. – 1 p.m. This outdoor street market provides the best and freshest fruits and vegetables, juices, baked goods, seafood, gourmet teas and coffees and other food items, as well as orchids, plants, and health-related products and services.

GreenMarket Pompano Beach is held every Saturday through April 28. Also features art shows, antique automobile shows, and environmental exhibits. Visit GreenMarketPompano.com

SE Florida Chamber Expo

Winter HEAT 2012

Grief Support Group

On Jan. 28-29 come to the War Memorial Auditorium and see what your local businesses have to showcase. Come and see your local community’s businesses products and services.

Free Admission. From 10am-6pm. For more information please call Gino Alessio 561-245-8985.

February 16-20, Host hotel: Bahia Mar Beach Resort & Yachting Center. Events at: George’s Alibi, Torpedo Bar, Green Room, Heat Waves, Voodoo, Living Room, Winter Waterland.

See website for details.Visit Winterheatflorida.com

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Please include a brief description, address, phone number, date, time and cost.

Alternative MC Tuesday Night Eaten Meeting

Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group

Gay Male Empowerment Group

Man2Man Discussion Group

Tue Nite Eatin Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland park. There will be fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hambergers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. The meeting will begin at 8pm and end around 9pm. For more information Visit Alternativemc.com/events/florida-events Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets on Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155 or e-mail info@ sunserve.org.

PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)

Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge. Visit Community.pflag. org/pflagfortlauderdale for more information.

SunServe Therapy Groups

Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Groups require an intake interview. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-764-5150 to learn which therapy groups have openings. Visit SunServe.org

Fusion Wilton Manors - Connections

Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week.

Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event. No charge with no commitment to attend every week.

Starts at 7 p.m. Call Fusion Monday-Friday at 954-630-1655.

Women4Women Personal Growth Support Group

This is a safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150

This is a support group that gives men who have been HIV+ for a long time (5 yrs +) the opportunity to give and receive support around topics of interest and issues for concern that are raised by the members. This group meets on 1st and 3rd Thursday at Sunserve 2312 Wilton Drive from 6:30 – 8 p.m.

There is no cost, but donations are welcome.

Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed. Bldg A, Room 206. Visit Glccsf.org/calendar/

Palm Beach County * Eli Young Band

On Jan. 25 at 7:30 p.m. at South Florida Fairgrounds Expo Center come see the Eli Young Band. Fusing a young man’s take on heartland rock with the tougher side of Texas country music and the cocky enthusiasm of alt-country firebrands, the Eli Young Band have become a potent draw in the Southwest on the strength of local airplay and extensive touring.

*Seniors vs. Crime

Seniors vs. Crime is a free service that provides help to seniors who have been victimized by businesses or service providers and need assistance. This event will take place at Mae Volen Senior Center at 1515 W. Palmetto Park Road. By appointment only so call 561-736-3820 or 561-395-8920.

2012 MDA Muscle Walk

Come walk with us Sunday, Jan. 22, to support the Muscular Dystrophy Association. So whether you’ve walked before or you’re walking in the MDA Muscle Walk for the first time, we need you because you are the heart (and sole!) of this great event. All participants will receive entrance into Palm Beach Zoo for the day immediately following the walk. Visit Walk.mda.org

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Beach Bon Fire

The city of Lake Worth invites everyone to come out and enjoy the beach bon-fires with a different dress up theme each night. Bonfire Dates: January 13th (New Year) & 27th (Favorite Movie), February 10th (Pirate) & 24th ( 70’s Night ). Visit Lakeworth.org

21st Annual Susan G. Komen South Florida Race for the Cure Registration is now open for the 2012 Susan G. Komen South Florida Race for the Cure. Bring all your friends and family on Saturday, Jan. 28. If you’ve got a passion for making a difference in our community, then take action today and register or make a donation. For more information visit Komensouthflorida.org

Sunday on the Waterfront

Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 PM. Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class. To register, please call 561-804-4902.

Sunday on the Waterfront is a free concert series, which takes place the third Sunday of most months in the beautiful downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront area. Bring blankets, chairs, and coolers or purchase treats at the concert. Free parking in all city lots and at city meters.

4:30 p.m. to 7 p.m. May through October. Visit OnTheWaterFront.com

BrothasSpeak

Paths

Yoga On The Waterfront

This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com

MS Walk - The Palm Beaches

Sign up for the National Multiple Sclerosis Society 2012 MS Walk on Sunday Feb. 26 at 7 a.m. Help raise awareness and funds for research, programs, services and advocacy. MS Walk is the rallying point of the MS movement; a community of friends, family and co-workers coming together with a shared commitment and determination to create a world free of MS. Visit Walkfls.nationalmssociety.org

Yoga

YOGA Among the Orchids

On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness. This group is great for getting internal enlightenment. Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com

It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach. Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m. Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561404-2011. Visit OrchidWeb.org

Jazz on the Palm

Jazz on the Palm - Downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the diverse vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every 3rd Friday of month at the new Downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo. com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-palm

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Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming –out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat. Visit Compassglcc.com

Living Buddhism

“Taste of Miami” Fundraiser

This event will be on Jan14 and will be showcasing the mouthwatering morsels and luscious libations of MDGLCC member food and beverage establishments, “Taste of Miami” will be presented as a stand-alone event this year with proceeds benefitting the MDGLCC Foundation’s Scholarship Program and the LGBT Visitor Center.

For more information call 305-397-8914 or email cindy@ gogaymiami.com.

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Good Orderly AA

These meetings take place at Compass, and geared toward recovering alcoholics. Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 6 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol.

Miami-Dade County Miami International Art Fair

MIA features contemporary, cutting-edge art of all media including photography, painting, mixed-media, sculpture, installation and video. The fair is unique in its support of the local Miami art community. This year MIA will be held aboard SeaFair.

Opening night vernissage is Jan. 12. Visit Mia-artfair.com

MDGLCC/GALLA

On Jan. 11 at 1130am MDGLCC/GALLA presents its monthly networking program tailored for attorneys, judges and legal professionals held on the middle Wednesday of each month.

Guest speaker: TBD. Truluck’s Restaurant. For more information call 305-673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net.

Business Builders Luncheon

*Wine travels at Bourbon Steak

Skip the average cocktail happy hour for Bourbon Steak’s new wine tasting. Wine tasting costs $20 and includes butter truffle popcorn. Guests can also enjoy a tour of the kitchen’s wood-burning grills. Event happens every Tuesday through Friday from 6 to 6:30 p.m. Call 786-279-6600

Art Deco Weekend

January 13 -15, Miami Design Preservation League celebrates 35 years of Art Deco Weekend. There will be live music, an antique furniture expo, classic car show, parade, fashion show, guided walking tours, street entertainment, and more. Come celebrate the South Beach of today, a rich landscape of style, culture, and creativity. Visit Mdpl.org

Homestead Championship Rodeo

This exciting event will take place Jan 27-29 at the Doc Demily Rodeo Arena in Miami. This seven-event rodeo includes bull riding, saddle-bronco riding, barebackbronco riding, calf roping, team roping, steer wrestling, and women’s barrel racing. The fun also includes cowboy poetry performances, a parade, live music and dancing.

Visit Homesteadrodeo.com

Winter Party

MDGLCC presents its monthly networking program held Jan 26 and on the last Thursday of each month. At City Hall The Restaurant. Registration is at 11:30 am with luncheon/ networking from noon to 1:00 pm. Call 305-673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net.

From Febuary 29 to March 5 come to party at the Winter Party. Which has grown into one of South Florida’s premier events. The Beach Party is set to be held on Sunday March 4th and attracts over 6,000 people to dance on the sands on Miami Beach every year. For more information, go to Winterparty.com

Sandpipers Networking Event

Lambda Dade Clubhouse

Sandpipers Networking Event – Wednesday, Jan. 11, MDGLCC presents its monthly networking program held on the middle Wednesday of each month. This month’s location is Escopazzo Restaurant. Cocktail networking event and business card exchange with drawing for prizes. Cash bar and free hors d’oeuvres. For more information call 305-673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net

US Sailing’s 2011 Rolex Miami OCR

This event will take place Jan 22-28 and isbeing held at the US Sailing Center in Miami a mainstay on the winter circuit for sailors who are campaigning for the next Olympic and Paralympic Games. The event is part of the ISAF Sailing World Cup, a world-class annual series for Olympic sailing.

Visit Rmocr.ussailing.org

*4th Annual LGBT Explore/EXPO — Design District

MDGLCC in partnership with the GMCVB and with the participation of the GLBT Travel Expo presents its 4th Annual LGBT Explore / EXPO at the Moore Building in the Design District (191 NE 40th Street, Miami, FL 33137) on Sunday, Feb. 12, from noon - 5 p.m. More than 100 vendors, suppliers, companies, and organizations showcasing their products and services catered to the LGBT community. Visit Gogaymiami.com

A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. (305) 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org

Aqua Ally Awards

On Friday, Feb.10 from 6-9 p.m. The Aqua Foundation for Women will be celebrating those who stand with us in the fight for equality. Come out to the beautiful Bacardi building at 2701 Le Juene Rd. Floor 15 in Coral Gables. Visit Aquafoundation.org

Aqua Foundation’s Second Annual Family BBQ

The Aqua Foundation for Women will be having their second annual family BBQ on Feb. 26 from 12-4 p.m. This event is the perfect opportunity for LBT families to connect with one another in a fun, social place. The beach and playground will be available for your use, there will be delicious food on the grill, and there will be fun activities for all ages. Visit Aquafoundation.org

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To Submit Listings Email: Brian at Calendar@sfgn.com Fax: 954-530-7943.

Please include a brief description, address, phone number, date, time and cost.

Key West

Food And Wine Festival

The third annual Key West Food & Wine Festival will be January 26-29. Events range from extravagant walk-around tastings during our famous sunset, to educational wine and food seminars led by our local talent, to local funky events you would only expect to experience in Key West. Thursday, Jan. 26 through Sunday, Jan. 29. Visit Keywestfoodandwinefestival.com

*Key West Pride

From June 6 to 10, come show your pride in our tropical paradise, and you’ll find yourself in the midst of a celebration unlike any other. From the opening party to the closing parade, you’ll discover quickly that the best place to show your pride is on an island whose official motto is “One Human Family.” The welcoming island invites you to join us at Key West Pride! Visit Gaykeywestfl.com

Atomic Boom

2232 Wilton Drive ,Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 630-3556 Best Sound & Light Show in Broward County. Mondays Porn Bingo with Desiree Dubois. $3 Margaritas, $1 Draft

Bill’s Filling Station

2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-5978.

Large Bar/ Nightclub, Amazing. Drink Specials in Wilton Manors. Wednesday’s After 9pm $10 Miller Lite Beer Bust

Boardwalk

1721 North Andrews Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33311.

(954) 463-6969. A Cute Little Hangout in Fort Lauderdale Pool-Room/Game Room on One Side and a Bar-Strip Club on the other. Mondays $3 Well & Dom, after 9pm $3 U-Call-It Shots

The Club Fort Lauderdale

Bathhouse. 110 Northwest 5th Avenue,Fort Lauderdale, FL ,(954) 525-3344 Good. Clean. Fun. 1/2 price rooms...Tuesday Nights and 1/2 price Lockers. Thursdays Nights. Always busy.

Clubhouse II

nightlife Broward County 321-Slammer

Bathhouse. 321 W Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida, 33311. Slammer sex club the best place to cruise for the hottest gay men. Thursday’s is leather night, fri-sat night live dj’s. Monday & tuesday -- $9 entry fee

Monkey Business

2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 514-7819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd. No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People. Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Bathhouse. 2650 E. Oakland Park Blvd , Fort Lauderdale, Florida (954) 566-6750. A Private Club for Bi/Gay men.

Bear and Cub Thursday $4 Off For Bear & Cub. Tuesday Leather Night - $4. off wear any type of leather.

Corner Pub Bar

1915 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 5647335. Redefining What a Bar Should Be. Thursday’s Margarita.

Madness $4, Monday’s Underwear Night. 2 for 1 until 9:30 p.m.

Cubby Hole

823 North Federal Highway ,Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 7289001. The Cubby Hole is one of Fort Lauderdale’s Most Unique and Popular Neighborhood Bar for Men. Underwear Wednesday’s. Boxers n’ Briefs get 2 for 1 on Drinks 9 p.m. till Close

The Depot Cabana Bar and Grill

2935 N Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5377076. Voted the “Friendliest” Gay Bar in Fort Lauderdale.

Monday’s $1.99 Drinks and $.50 Wings Open to Close

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Georgie’s Alibi

2266 Wilton Drive ,Wilton Manors, FL 33305 ,(954) 5652526. Fort Lauderdale’s Best & Longest Happy Hour.

Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.

Wednesdays

Johnny’s

1116 West Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 5225931. Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky Some of the hottest Guys around with great happy hour drink specials. Bring all your friends to this sexy Bar.

The Manor

2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2-4-1 Happy Hour Tues-Friday 3-9pm. Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday - Sunday. Live Music Weds, Fri, Sat, Sun - Visit themanorcomplex.com FOR MORE DETAILS.

Matty’s on the Drive

2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 564-1799.

Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.

Mona’s

502 East Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 525-6662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8pm Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1

Naked Grape Wine Bar

2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-5631 A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday

New Moon

2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-7660 Your neighborhood lesbian bar in the heart of Fort Lauderdale and just minutes from Ft. Lauderdale Beach.

Wednesday All the fun, half the price 2-4-1 All Day, All Night

PJ’s Corner Pocket

924 North Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 533-0257. One of The Most Diverse Bars in Fort Lauderdale. $2 Drinks Every Wednesday, Spades Every Thursday

522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth, Fl, 33414. (561) 586-0080 Great Service, Great Food, Full Stocked Bar, Great Professional Tea-Dance every Sunday

Fort Dix

6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, Florida 33405 Directions, (561)533-5355. Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. Place rocks with a Fabulous DJ on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday T-Dance.

The Lounge

1132 North Dixie Highway, Lake Worth FL $3 Drinks No Cover open till 5AM New location Better than Ever.

The Mad Hatter

1532 North Dixie Hwy ,Lake Worth, FL 33460. (561) 547-8860.

Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders, and free pool SundayThursday. Stop by and relax at this no-attitude haunt.

Tag Bar

25 Northeast 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach, FL 33483 954-801-3247.

Delray Beach’s only Gay Bar. Mon - Sun: 4 p.m. - 2 a.m.

Awesome Drink Specials

Miami-Dade County Club Space

34 NE 11th St ,Miami ,Florida, 33132,(305)350-1956 Space Miami Voted Best U.S Club IDMA 2011. The go-to venue for any nightlife enthusiast in the nation,The club is proudly marching on into its second decade of operation.

Club Sugar

2301 SW 32nd Ave, Miami, Florida, 33145,(305)443-7657. All the Sweetness you’ll need in one Club. Every Thursday Drag Wars with TP Lords. $5 House Drinks & $4 Domestic Beers all night

Discotekka

950 NE 2nd Ave, Downtown Miami, Florida 33132,(305)3509084 One of the Best Night Clubs In Miami. Every Saturday The Hottest DJ’s from the Top Performers. Drink Special Every Saturday

Johnny’s

1508 NE 4th Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 763-8219 South Florida’s Leading Levi, Leather and Uniform Bar/Club.

Every night is Bear Night. Bear Happy. Hour Every Thursday.

Caged Hunks Sat Night

Miami 62 NE 14 Street Downtown Miami Florida (305)640-8749 No Cover 7 nights a week. The hottest men in the universe strip shows nightly from 6 p.m. Sexy from Wall to Wall. Saturday SEPT 3 in Miami. FIRE & ICE at the SPOT…The Hottest POP, Hip Hop and Latin alongside the COLDEST Electro and House Beats. all on Miami’s Best Sound System.

Rosie’s Bar and Grill

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Ramrod

2449 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-1320 Wilton Manor’s Best Burger in Town. Try the Fat Elvis. Happy Hour 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.

Scandals Country Western Bar

Oakland Park, FL 3334, (954) 567-2432. Scandals Gay and Lesbian Country Western. Dance Bar in Wilton Manors.

Tuesdays Pool League, and Free Dance Lessons

Sidelines Sports Bar

2031 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305, (954) 563-8001 Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards is a unique, friendly, And accepting place to relax with a cold beer, great drinks and Martinis. Happy Hour M-F 4pm to 2am

Smarty Pants

3038 North Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306, (954) 561-1724. Great Local Hangout in Fort Lauderdale with Great Drink Specials. Saturday’s Free Breakfast to Order – 8 a.m.

The Stable

205 East Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, FL 33334, (954) 565-4506 A neighborhood bar with a different theme every night, from drag shows and bingos, to bears and underwears.

Torpedo

2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 587-2500. Your Dance Destination Till Dawn.

Open Late for You To Devour The Night. Open 7 nights a week till 4 a.m.

Palm Beach County H.G. Rooster

823 BELVEDERE ROAD, WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33405, (561)-832-9119. H.G. Roosters is West Palms oldest gay club.

Sunday’s Complimentary BBQ 5pm, Hot Male Dancers 6 p.m., Karaoke 11 p.m.

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The Cottage

727 Lincoln Rd, Miami Beach, Florida, 33139,(305)561-5521.

Score is located in the heart of South Beach, In the thriving and infamous promenade, Lincoln Road. Bigger Saturday’s Sexy Male Dolls

Swinging Richards

17450 Biscayne Blvd, N Maimi Beach, Fl 33160 954-357-2532 Tuesdays-Saturdays from 6pm til 6am come and enjoy Fully nude guys dancing to the best music in South Floirda.

Twist

1057 Washington Ave, Miami Beach , Florida , 33139, (305)5389478 Never a Cover…Always a Groove. Resident star DJ Mika spins tribal. Every Saturday TWIST is full of the hottest men in Miami. Muscle boy dancers taking it off in the Bungalow Bar.

Key West

801 Bourbon Bar

801 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305)294-4737 Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. Happy Hour specials daily from 11a.m. – 8 p.m.

Club Aqua

711 Duval St.,Key West, Florida,(305)294-0555 Monday’s Dueling Bartenders. Your Bartender’s sing, shake, and stir their way through happy hour 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Kwest

705 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305)292-8500 Key West All-Male Strip Club. Daily Happy Hour from 3-8 p.m., And a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night.

Pearl’s Patio Bar

525 United Street, Key West, FL(305)293-9805 ext. 156 Pearl’s Patio is a great place to enjoy a drink and relax.

Happy Hour – every weekday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m.

Friday’s are Extended Happy Hour 5pm-9pm

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To Submit Listings Email: Brian at Calendar@sfgn.com Fax: 954-530-7943.

Please include a brief description, address, phone number, date, time and cost.

AFTER DARK

By Brian Swinford duo is a musical breath of fresh air in a world of homogenized & overly super-sized corporate rock.

Playing over 200 shows a year, they’ve shared stages with the likes of Maroon5, Lifehouse, Collective Soul, Third Eye Blind, Train, Blues Traveler, Cheap Trick,Vertical Horizon, Fuel. Come out for this evening of breathtaking music, drinks, and friends.

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f you love Drag Wars you’ll love Thursday Night Drag Wars! Club Sugar’s Drag Wars will be hosted by the amazing TP Lords. With a $100 Cash Prize to the Winner Weekly, and free giveaways with fantastic Drink Specials + No Cover All Night Club Sugar is the spot to be on Thursday nights! There will be an awesome mix of music by DJ Alex Infiniti to get your boogie on all night.

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ridays celebrate Fort Lauderdale’s finest natural resource “The Elusive North American Muscle-Bear.” Every Friday at 10 p.m., Ramrod has the best priced shots and some of the hottest men In south Florida can be found here! The 3rd Friday of every month we have Muscle-Bear Mandance with some of the sexiest bears around. Ramrod set the stage for all of the Muscled Furry Men to get on the floor and sweat to the hottest tracks in town by DJ Herbie James.

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ew Moon is proud to present an evening of live music with Sirsy.

SIRSY, the fiery, sultry, soulful indie pop rock

ohnny’s Bar...Sunday’s In Fort Lauderdale 40 hot male dancers DJ Bugie spins the best house music in town no cover and free drinks w/ printout of ad $5 Chambord Vodka Mixes All Night 18+. Don’t forget about Johnny’s Miami with their Happy Hour Drink prices that can’t Be Beat! $2 5-6 p.m., $3 6-8 p.m., $4 8-10 p.m.…Well drinks of course open 7 days a week 6 p.m. to 4 a.m. over 30 hot naked boys dancing all night. Door opens at 5P-5A absolutely no cover.

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ome to Pj’s Corner Pocket in Ft. Lauderdale for some of the hottest urban bartenders around. With pool, awesome drink specials and on Mondays some of the best classic R&B jams around you’ll want to bring all you sexy friends. This cozy bar has something for everyone.

If you’re a Local or a tourist all are welcome.

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f you’re looking for some real fun this week stop by Twist nightclub this Tuesday and enjoy pop, rock, and funky dunk! Showtime is at 1 a.m.

This nightclub never has a cover but always has the groove. Don’t forget that Tuesdays at twist is $5 jumbo blue ice teas and also Flashback with Nathan in the Video Bar.

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ll the hot college guys will be at Club Mova on Wednesday’s nights. College night will be hosted by Tony Ferro, The Pennyback BoyZ & Sookie Stacks. This incredible night club is located on Lincoln Rd at Michigan Ave. With $4 Finlandia and $8 Stoli all night long where else is better than hot young boys and cheap drink prices.

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ber of extra-special VIP seats at cabaret-style tables, including two complimentary beveragCabaret follows the story of Cliff Bradshaw es per person and cast interaction before and (Bruce Linser), an American writer who has during the show.VIP tickets are available by traveled to Berlin in search of inspiration. phone or at the box office; call 561-575-2223.

In Berlin he finds 19-year-old Sally Bowles Be sure to check out Pride Night on (Kate Shindle), an English cabaret performer Friday Jan 13 co-sponsored by South Florida working at the seedy Kit Kat Klub. Their Gay News and Compass Gay & Lesbian relationship evolves and she moves in with Community Center (see box). him. As the Nazis’ control grows stronger, their lives SFGN Co-sponsors Third Annual are thrown into disarray. Pride Night at Maltz Jupiter Theatre Overseeing the action

By Donald Cavanaugh throughout the show is altz Jupiter Theatre announced that its Third Annual the Master of Ceremonies Pride Night will be held on Jan. 13 with hors d’oeuvres at the Kit Kat Klub, servin the lobby at 6:30 p.m. followed by a performance of Cabaret ing as a bell weather for the tenuous and threaten- (see story) at 7:30 p.m.

After the play, Pride Nighters are invited to join the cast in ing state of late Weimar the lobby for dessert and meet and greet.

Germany.

The event is co-sponsored by South Florida Gay News and Show times vary; single tickets $43 - $60. Phone: Compass, the Palm Beach County Gay & Lesbian Community Center. Tickets are $44 for mezzanine seats only.

(561) 575-2223. The “We’re thrilled to hold Pride Night every year,” said artistic show runs thorough Jan 29.Visit www.jupiterthe- director Andrew Kato. “We realize there’s a power in invitaatre.org/shows/cabaret tion. If people don’t know you want them and welcome them, for more information. they’re not going to come. We want groups in the community As a special opportunity to know they are welcome here. We invite suggestions from for the show, the Theatre our audience members for other events like Pride Night.” is offering a limited num-

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John Castelli Has an Appetite for Success; an App for Everything Else

By Tony Adams

he is the liaison to the Griev- hold. Castelli’s reputation among agents is ance Committee (Johnson is unusually strong among his competitors. ow did John Castelli, The highly regarded Ligia Jamieson with currently on that committee.) a boy from Winnetka, He produced a copy of the Century 21 Hansen Realty says “I have been become one of South Code of Ethics and Standards fortunate to work with John on several deals.

Florida’s most trusted and reof Practice of the National He is very well informed and a pleasure to spected real estate brokers? CasAssociation of Realtors. He work with.” telli says Winnetka had a lot to Castelli describes himself as “that crazy is well aware that the mardo with it. Surrounded by sucket can be cut throat and that guy who can’t wait for Monday.” He calls his cessful neighbors, he seemed some agents commit viola- years running the Copa as “the 20 craziest to absorb their confidence and tions against clients and oth- years of my life that I wouldn’t trade for anythe premise of accomplishment. er realtors. The Grievance thing. I’m glad I always had the ability to reSoon after college at Marquette Committee does not police invent myself. You know, for the longest time, and Northwestern, the entrepreagents, but will consider evi- I thought I had a serious personality flaw beneur in him bloomed and grew a dence when there is a com- cause, no matter what the field, I always said bit too swiftly. plaint, and will sometimes ‘Oh I can do that.’”

“With a couple of buddies, I Castelli can also predict the future, tipping send the situation to the Prostarted a film studio that professional Standards commit- us to the fact that the South Florida market duced TV commercials. We rentJason Johnson (left) and John Castelli, business partners in is improving. With inventory low and prices tee for a determination. ed space in a brownstone. The Castelli Real Estate Services He joked about how his po- rising, he suggests with a sly smile that this sign over the door read ‘Fire Escape’ so we called our business ‘Fire Escape own brokerage, Castelli Real Estate Services, sition in the ethics review process helps keep may be a good time to buy.

Studio.’ That business became too success- in 2004. (Castelli’s life partner of 16 years is his brokerage squeaky clean lest they be morful too rapidly. I was just a kid. I didn’t want Stephen Harris.) Their first office was on Fed- tified by breaking the rules they claim to up- Visit CastelliHomes.com for more information. to be that much of a grown-up success just eral Highway in the Victoria Park area. They yet. So I took off for Fort Lauderdale where now have offices in Wilton Manors, Aventumy parents and grandparents had places. A ra, Hallandale, as well as on the Galt Ocean friend of mine, Jim Eilers, had this business Mile and Las Olas Boulevard in Fort Laudercalled the Marlin Beach Hotel. He asked me dale. Castelli has an immediate answer when if I could do something to improve the bar asked how his business grew so well despite operation. I told him that I didn’t know the the worst market since the Great Depression.

“Our philosophy and our business moddifference between Scotch and Bourbon but I’d give it a shot. So I painted the whole place el are key. In real estate there are many perpink, advertised in After Dark, started a Tea sonalities involved. It’s not like selling a pair Dance and relocated the gay beach to across of shoes at Saks where it’s either a size 9 or the street. My domestic partner at the time, not. We create an umbrella of care around Bill Bastiansen, who has since passed away, our agents. We try to provide what they need. figured that if we could do all that for the Even if one of them forgets to have a check Marlin, why shouldn’t we do it for ourselves. ready for a closing scheduled in 30 minutes, I We opened up a dance palace called the Copa can deliver that check to cover them.”

“We ask each of our agents to submit a perin 1974 and ran it through 1995. It was such a success that we opened up Copas in Orlando, sonal business plan. This means that our 80 experienced agents are serious about their Key West and Fire Island.”

Castelli’s disdain for relying on others for work. Also, we have invested heavily in techwhat he could do himself led to his career in nology. Through our website, our agents real estate. With a house in Fire Island Pines have exceptional market access, mapping caand with a few nightclubs to sell, he calcu- pacity and demographic information. We can lated the commissions and, startled by the track what our agents do with leads, messagamount, obtained a real estate license large- es and outreach. We syndicate our listings to ly to buy and sell properties. Castelli admits 300 websites. We lean heavily on technology that his interest in real estate is rooted in his because 60 percent of first-time buyers are Full Charge Bookkeeping Services ignorance about the stock market. In 1999, he under 34-years-old. 71 percent of agents are formed a business partnership over Martinis over 45. My job is to make sure they underwith Jason Johnson who had also recently stand the market and have all the right tools.”

Castelli is a director of the Florida Associagotten his license.

The two men first worked for ARVIDA, tion of Realtors, and a director of the Realtor and then for REMAX before starting their Association of Greater Fort Lauderdale where

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Food chick

By Chef Marci Boland

Feel the Burn and Ring in the New Year with Kale H

appy 2012!

Too much stuffing, pies, sweets and wine?

Let’s get back on track with our healthy living

lifestyle.

Super Healthy Food #1: Kale to the Rescue!

Kale is “all the rave” these days. Full of vitamin C, loaded with beta carotene, tons of calcium, fiber and a truly great fat burner in its own right.

With all these health benefits, what could be the bad news?

Unfortunately many people just don’t love the taste of kale. Now I’m not the right person to ask when it comes to the taste of veggies, because I am a diehard lover of all veggies, but someone like my dear hubby who just does not appreciate many green things describes kale as “eating the grass in our backyard might be tastier”….you gotta love his honesty, right?

Here I share my favorite ways to get that wonder veggie in a variety of forms.

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1. Kale Chips Making Kale Chips is easy.

Tear the leaves into pieces and toss with olive oil, sea salt, and pepper. Spread on a baking sheet and bake at 300 degrees F until crisp, 20 to 30 minutes. Make sure to monitor your chips while they are cooking so as not to burn them.

Store them in airtight containers or bags with paper towels to absorb moisture.

You can try other seasoning blends like Old Bay, Sonoma Seasoning or Mediterranean Seasoning Blends

2. Chicken Vegetable Soup with Kale Ingredients: • 2 teaspoons coconut oil (great fat burner) • 1/2 cup chopped onion • 1/2 cup chopped carrot • 1 teaspoon thyme • 2 cloves garlic, minced • 2 cups chicken broth or Veggie Broth • 3/4 cup diced tomatoes • 3/4 cup cannellini beans • 1 cup cooked chicken, skinned and cubed or nitrate free chicken sausage • 1/2 cup cooked brown rice (optional) • 1 cup chopped kale, stem removed (about one large leaf)

Directions: 1. Heat oil in a medium sauce pan. Add onion and carrot. Sauté until vegetables are tender, 5-8 minutes.

2. Add thyme and garlic.

Sauté for one minute.

3. Add chicken broth or water, tomatoes, cooked rice, chicken, beans and kale.

4. Simmer for 5-10 minutes.

5. Feel free to add the Hot Sauce – great to maximize the metabolic fat burning rate.

3. Morning Green Drink Ingredients • 1/2 pear • 4-5 green grapes • 1/4 banana • 1/2 cup kale • 1/2 - 1 cup water • 1 cup ice cubes • Stevia or Agave Syrup Directions: Place all ingredients in a blender on High. Enjoy immediately.

You can vary the ingredients (adding more or less of each fruit or kale) to suit your taste. This is a great way to start your morning along with a good serving of protein to go along with it (raw nuts, cottage cheese or some hard boiled eggs).

Bon Apetit!

Marci Boland Executive Chef and Owner of L’Hermitage Catering and Gourmet Emporium 3045 North Federal Highway, # 38 954-568-2383 Perfecting the Art of Catering in South Florida Since 1996 Events for from 10-500 www.lhermitagecatering.com

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Great References. Call BJ 954-512-3957 ------------------------------------------------ITALIANO HOME CLEANING SERVICE. Honest, Reliable, Quality cleaning for your home. Bi-Weekly or one-time available. I guarantee my work. Serving Broward Area. Call David 954-608-8913.

------------------------------------------------GET IT CLEAN NOW! JOTA.Home & Office Cleaning Excellent Professional home and/or Office cleaning in Broward County.From Simple Dust & Tidy Cleaning to Complete and thorough Deep Cleaning.

Excellent References from Private & Office Customers.

Call Jorge. 561-577-9285 -----------------------------------------------NINA’S CLEANING. Exceptional Cleaning Service. If honesty, integrity and experience are of utmost importance to you, you’ve come to the right place. Your home will be treated with respect and attention to detail. 12 yrs of experience/ references (954) 601-6141 or e-mail me at jabn1999@yahoo.com -------------------------------------------------

PROFESSIONAL HARPIST Add elegance to the holidays! Talented, experienced harpist for all your parties and celebrations. Go to: HTTP://about.me/billvanpatten or call 954-895-3926 HANDYMAN SERVICES ------------------------------------------------INEXPENSIVE ELECTRICIAN. Electrician 55.00 an hour or set price.

Residential,Commercial& Industrial work Fans,Outlets, Service changes Licensed and Insured, EC0001777. 954-931-5121 ------------------------------------------------LOCKSMITH & GLASS SERVICES All Pro Locks & Glass, Inc..24/7 Commercial & Residential.954-780-5188 office / www. aplag.com. Servicing Southeastern Florida

ASTROLOGY YANNA’S ASTROLOGY Spiritual Advisor & Life Coach Helping people for over 30 years. 954-324-6160 Call for help today.

AUTO REPAIR ------------------------------------------------MOBILE AUTO REPAIR. Gierse’s Mobile Garage, Inc. BMW & Mercedes Specialist.All Makes & Models Welcome.

Licensed & Insured, Credit Cards Acpt’d http://giersesgarage.webplus.net/ Call 954-557-6530 for appointment ------------------------------------------------BARTENDER ATTRACTIVE/ATTENTIVE BARTENDER. Good Looking 42 yr Gay Bartender for your holiday parties. Let me take care of your guests and getting drinks..the most important part!.

CALL JEFFREY 954-566-5300

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HELP WANTED SOUTH FLORIDA GAY NEWS IS HIRING If you are retail and customer focused, computer literate and proficient, web knowledgeable, have outside or Inside sales experience…then you’re hired!

Advertising Sales Representative. Call on clients, guide their advertising campaigns and make a good living. Fax your resume to 954-530-7943 or email norm. kent@sfgn.com

RIVERLAND CLOSE TO DOWNTOWN

Duplex 2BD/1BA or 4BD/2BA also available efficiencies and 1BDs. Large pool, new A/C units, 1 or 2 kitchen, large living room/family room/screened in porch, private back yard. Call Butch 954-632-6639.

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GUARANTEED ISSUE LIFE INSURANCE

NO Med questions. Only $38.00 per mo. Pays $15k benefit & $7,500 for partner.

Call Jim 954-561-8297 www.CorrectCoverageInsurance.com -------------------------------------------------

PART TIME PERSONAL ASSISTANT

5 hours weekly, should have excellent organizational skills duties may include filing, organization of household, (no cleaning), personal errands. Preference for those with Social Media Skills, building Database and mailing lists. Email wjrenaud@gmail.com -------------------------------------------------

BEAUTIFUL SPACIOUS CONDO

Middle River Terrace, Large 2 BD, 2 ½ bath, Washer/dryer, Open kitchen/black granite, private patio/garden, fresh paint/new carpet, 3 year old bldg. $1300 month, 703-505-1042 -------------------------------------------------

2/2 CONDO LIGHTHOUSE POINT

Contemporary furnished master bed/bath most utilities inc 1st fl across from icw seek mature male looking for a quality place to live 954-960-2838 -------------------------------------------------

FIVE STEPS TO FINANCIAL SUCCESS:

1. Prove to us that you have the personality to talk to people on the phone and keep their interest. 2. Do this successfully for one month at $10 per hour. 3. We will sponsor you to take the 215 Florida Insurance License course. 4. We will sponsor your fingerprints to be sent to the insurance department. 5. We will sponsor you to take the state insurance license test pass and you will begin earning up to $100,000 per year selling health and life insurance over the phone as a licensed insurance professional. Are you up to the challenge??? Call Brian at 954-200-0140 to get started today!

------------------------------------------------HAIR DRESSER WANTED. Be Your Own Boss Rent a Salon Chair for reasonable price. Beautiful salon and very cozy. Call 561-909-9055. Delray Location Male/ or Female Hair Dresser Wanted.

------------------------------------------------MAC EXPERT NEEDED. Looking for an expert Mac user. Come to my Ft. Lauderdaelhame and show me how to use my Apple products correctly and efficently.Please Email qualifications, hourly rates, and availability to: macxprt2011@yahoo.com ------------------------------------------------STYLIST W/CLIENTELE WANTED Chair rental, Private, Professional Hair Studio setting. Must be responsible, professional and a person without any substance abuse problems. Contact Dean Allen @ 954-564-1377. www. deanallen-ahairstudio.com ------------------------------------------------EXPERICENCED WAITER. Italian Restaurant seeking a professional and experienced waiter.PT/FT time position available. Fort Lauderdale area. Call 505-554-7103 ------------------------------------------------COMPANION FOR ELDERLY GENTLEMAN with dementia; full/part time, experienced, clean background check, mature, good natured, in good health.

Submit resume, including references and pay requirement to: PO Box 2213, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33303 ------------------------------------------------HAIR STYLIST. Looking for Stylist with following dependable willing to work.Small intimate Salon/ Art Gallery in Wilton Manors SIGNING BONUS PAID FOR RIGHT IND. call 954565-4562 for appointment

INSURANCE & FINANCIAL ALLSTATE DIRECT: PERSONAL auto, home,condominium,boat and life insurance. For a free quote call Joe Mier 305-754-7414

LEGAL SERVICES CREDITORS CALLING? Call Us! The Law Offices of GeorgeCastrataro, PA. Serving Clients With Integrity and Compassion 954-573-1444 ------------------------------------------------PROUDLY SERVING THE SOUTH FLORIDA GLBTX COMM. since 1993.

Law office’s of Robin L. Bodiford, PA specializes in Bankruptcy, Probate, Wills&Trust. Call 954-630-2707 ------------------------------------------------SELZER & WEISS, ATTORNEYS AT LAW Last Will & Testament, Living Will.

Health Care Power of Attorney (POA) w/ HIPAA release, Durable Financial POA, for $399.00. PERSONAL INJURY: Free consult, if no recovery, no fee or cost to you. 954-567-4444.

LICENSED MASSAGE AFFORDABLE, AWESOME MASSAGE

BY JIM Offering Swedish, Deep Tissue, Sports and Lomi Lomi Massage; All in a very comfortable, relaxed and Private Massage Studio conveniently located on the SE corner of Oakland Park Blvd and Federal Highway. Nationally Certified & Licensed. Call Jim Libonati at 954-600-5843. info@massagebyjim. com #MM22293 SPECIAL: First Time Client Rates ------------------------------------------------THE LUXURY YOU DESERVE Traditional Thai Massage and all other modality massage. clohsuwan@bellsouth.net www.thaimassageflorida.com Call or text 954-732-1473. Satisfaction guaranteed.

FL Lic #MA56806 ------------------------------------------------THE BRITISH POUND. John Maroussas LMT Sports Massage, Deep Tissue, Neuromuscular, Trigger Point, Swedish, Salt or Sugar Scrubs. Private Studio w/ Shower. Wilton Manors Location near Bill’s Lic#MA51123 954-999-2240

MOVERS ALWAYSS MOVING know what you’re paying before you move! Licensed & Insured MC/ Visa/ Discover Accepted Family owned 20 years. Complete moving Services. Flat Rate& Free Estimates Call 305-650-9080

PERSONAL TRAINING IF YOU ARE READY TO MAKE A HEALTHIER you a lifestyle call Christy Fritch,BS CPR certified 954-445-2540

PROFESSIONAL SERVICES FREE ROOF INSPECTIONS. Free written Detailed Roof Evaluation. By State licensed Roofing Contractor. Lic # RC29027398 (954) 580-1818 Or (561) 955-0700

REAL ESTATE PALM AIRE. 1BD/1.5 BA condo, all new kithen& appliances, W/D, patio facing golf course, Priced to Sell, Call 954-971-9713 ------------------------------------------------KELLER WILLIAMS REALTY- Ted Adcock, Realtor Cell: 954-609-4393 tedftl@aol.com ------------------------------------------------DISCREET PRIVATE SECURE.FT LAUDERDALE BEACH CONDO $169,900. Building & Unit totally renovated. Ocean views from Bedroom Balcony Living Room.

Intracostal Apartment elegant.Bob McGlynn Exit Realty. rebobmac@yahoo. com 954-478-6321 ------------------------------------------------620 NE 7TH AVE, FORT LAUDERDALE, FL 33304 For Sale: 250,000. 3 Bedrooms 2.5 Bath. Call John Castelliat (954) 563-9889 ------------------------------------------------THE SHAPIRO GROUP INC. Residential Property Management LICENSED REAL ESTATE BROKER. www.shapiroproperty. com 954-434-0175 ------------------------------------------------LUSH 2 BEDROOM HOME FOR SALE Oasis close to restaurants & highway Private & landscaped yard for relaxing Hardwood flooring in living room Call Ana Salazar @ Keyes 954-593-3089 ------------------------------------------------3321 NE 37TH ST FORT LAUDERDALE, FLORIDA 33308 Listing # F1113917: 4 Bedrooms 3 Bathrooms. Price: $825,000 call Jason Johnson Office Phone: (954) 563-9889 ------------------------------------------------HOLLYWOOD OCEAN FRONT CONDO FOR SALE ON PENTHOUSE LEVEL 2 Bed/2 Bath, Newly renovated. Only Motivated Buyers.2,200 sqft.$570,000.

Call 954-328-7412 Ronnie

RENT/LEASE MIDDLE RIVER &LAKERIDGE 1BD/1BA $680/Mth. $175/wk or 2BD/2BA $850/mth.or $225/week w/ a 12 month lease. Pay your deposit and you are in* for more details call 954-527-9225 ------------------------------------------------BEAUTIFUL LG. 1/1 Middle River Terr. French doors lead to your own private patio/ garden, tile throughout. Small quiet mostly gay bldg.

Pets Ok, coin W/D $795./mo 954-791-4195 ------------------------------------------------HUGE 3/1- HALF DUPLEX NEW KITCHEN, Tile Floor throughout, Huge Fenced yard, washer/ dryer, pets ok, pet owner, $1100. / mo 954-791-4195 ------------------------------------------------1/1 FRENCH DOORS/PRIVATE PATIO Middle River Terr, lg. 1/1, tile floors, walkin closet, your own fenced patio/ garden, pets OK, coin W/D, quiet mostly gay bldg, $795./mo. 954-791-4195

------------------------------------------------SPACIOUS OFFICE FOR RENT. Office suite in great building available approx 2500 sf set up as offices with conference room in two adjoining suites. Located at 1220 ne 4th ave just south of wilton manors. 954-763-4214 To see. Rent $2500 with annual lease ------------------------------------------------ANDREWS GARDENS: Oct. 1st Occupancy. 5111 NW 1st Ave., cozy, clean, happy 2/1 private home.Patio, fenced, paver drive, close to everything. $985/ mo. (1st + sec.). 954-629-0393.

------------------------------------------------2/2 WILTON MANORS. Quiet area, w/ pool, laundry, small pets accepted.

First and 1 month deposit. Call Astrid: 954-806-7607.

------------------------------------------------WEST HOLLYWOOD 2/2 Large Unique Duplex, Small office in unit, open kitchen w/ dishwasher, W/D, wood deck patio + privacy fence all around, we are extremely pet friendly, call Rita 954-549-9228 ------------------------------------------------1BED - 2ND FLOOR 1142 NE 4th Avenue, Fort Lauderdale 954-764-0212 or 954-5812573 $700/Mo. yearly ------------------------------------------------VERY PEACEFUL RESIDENCE LAKERIDGE HOUSE: very private, immaculate XLg 1BR, private gated entry, CAC, WD, tile flooring, walk-in closet, ample storage off street parking, fenced patio ZEN meditation/orchid gardens front/rear VERY quiet. Minutes to Publix, $985/mo. Call Joe: 954-610-6712.

------------------------------------------------1/1 CLOSE TO WILTON MANORS &downtown, half duplex, quiet community, private parking, water/garbage included $600/mo + one month security call 954-736-7583 ------------------------------------------------ANDREWS GARDENS: Oct. 1st Occupancy. 5111 NW 1st Ave., cozy, clean, happy 2/1 private home.Patio, fenced, paver drive, close to everything.$985/mo.

(1st + sec.). 954-629-0393.

------------------------------------------------TWO BEDROOM MIDDLE RIVER HOMES CONDO. Two bedroom, two bath condo in pet friendly building with wash/ dryer in unit. Close to Wilton Manors.

First and second floor units available March 1. $975 f/l/s. Jimmy Cunningham licensed Real Estate Agent Castelli RE Services 954-303-7380.

------------------------------------------------GAY ANDREWS AVENUE Large 1/1, all utilities incl, granite, d/w, private fenced tropical yard, all tile, vaulted ceiling, adt security. $750. Call 772-626-1345

ROOMMATES GAY/GAY FRIENDLY ROOMMATE WANTED IN BOCA. Located in Boca Raton, right off Military Trail (north of Palmetto Park).Available now. 1 Unfurnished bedroom/ 1 Full Bathroom for rent in townhouse. Neighborhood is family friendly, safe and gated. Community has its own pool and tennis court.

Very close to shopping, restaurants, I-95 and schools. Looking for a mature, easy going, gay/gay friendly individual.

Non / outdoor smoker preferred. $650.00/ month with a 6 to 12 month lease. Water + Trash included. Call Jeff 561-315-0746 ------------------------------------------------ROOM 4 RENT IN 2 BED/1 BATH. Clean! $500 mo. includes utilities. North of Sunrise/East of Andrews.Walk to Wilton Manors.Must be gay friendly male/ female. Call 954-297-9270 ------------------------------------------------ROOMMATE WANTED TO SHARE TOWNHOUSE IN S. POMPANO. $450 a month. Everything included. Male or female. Call Margie at 954-829-3933.

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------------------------------------------------VICTORIA PARK LARGE TOWNHOUSE Lge. Pvt. Bedroom w/full use of home Key West Style Street with view.

References with happy stable life.$625 plus 1/2 utilities. cbado@Live.com or 954.709.0505 ------------------------------------------------FTL-CORAL RIDGE POOL HOME Male to share remodeled 4BD/4BA home w/2 males. Unfurn, W/D, chef’s kitchen, wi-fi, lgpvt backyard w/dive-in pool,1.5 mi to beach. $800/mo. 954-609-9405.

------------------------------------------------ROOM FOR RENT in immaculate 2 bedroom 1 bath single family home. Fully fenced backyard, new granite/cherry kitchen. Close to public transport and Wilton Manors.

Pets welcome. $500 includes utilities.

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