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ltra-conservative radio talk show host Linda Harvey has slammed Halloween, and of course, she couldn’t pass on the opportunity to bash gays as well. Urging people to skip Halloween, the antigay pundit says the celebration is particularly popular in the LGBT community because of its Satanic origins,Right Wing Watch reports. She starts off: “Most Christians with a sincere faith acknowledge that there is a demonic realm and that Satan and his minions are at work in the world to deceive humans, so why wouldn’t Halloween provide an extremely useful tool.” Then Harvey goes on to say that it is for this very same reason that gays love it. “We all can see it’s a huge celebration in the LGBT world, especially for the genderconfused folks. This illustrates some of the problem. The core of Halloween is glittering artificiality, you can pretend to be someone you aren’t for a night, you can flirt with danger, you can divine a different destiny, but it is all void of the presence of or will of God. “It’s a seduction that says, ‘don’t be afraid, do whatever you want, there’s nothing to fear,’ it’s one of Satan’s oldest tricks.” Harvey is no stranger to homophobic slurs. Dubbed the “Most Homophobic Woman in
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t seems like Chick-fil-A is playing up its proud anti-gay stance on a new series of ads. Gay news blog Towleroad posted a photo of fliers being distributed at Chick-fil-A locations in the Atlanta, Ga. area for partysize chicken trays. A flyer reportedly posted on one of the fried chicken restaurants in Chamblee, Ga. shows a photo of the tray and reads: “Only a fruitcake wouldn’t love our party trays.” According to Towleroad, the image was sent to them via Twitter. Despite the “coincidental” gay innuendo of the ad, Chickfil-A Executive Vice President Steve Robinson told The Advocate that the locally owned and operated restaurants has been using the ad for the past five years during the holidays. Chick-fil-A was at the center of a media firestorm this past summer when the company’s COO, Dan Cathy, told the Baptist Press he was “guilty as charged” for donating millions to anti-gay companies.
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ollywood star and LGBT ally Anne Hathaway is bringing some hardcore support to the fight for equal rights: She has promised to donate money from the sales of her wedding photos to LGBT nonprofits. The Catwoman actress, who’s set to star in the next adaptation of Les Misérables, will be splitting the proceeds between Freedom to Marry and other charities, including the American Cancer Society, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, and The Girl Effect, according to Adam Polaski at Freedom to Marry. The donation, says Polaski, is the “latest way that Hathaway has taken a stand for the freedom to marry. In 2008, she talked publicly for the first time about her brother, who is gay, and explained that their relationship has compelled her to advocate as an ally to the LGBT community.” That same year, Hathaway received the Human Rights Campaign Ally Award for her support of the LGBT community. “I don’t consider myself just an ally to the LGBT community, I consider myself your
family. And so, I’m doing what we should all do with our families — I’m loving you, I support you, I completely accept you as you are, as I hope you do me, and if anyone ever tries to hurt you, I’m going to give them hell,” she said in a passionate speech when she received the award.
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man in Sweden was sentenced to 15 months in jail for the attempted rape of a transgender woman who had to appeal the case to get the conviction. Last summer, a 61-year-old man beat up and tried to rape a transgender woman; he was later acquitted because the court decided the allegations were “invalid,” according to Sweden’s The Local. “The intended crime never had the possibility of being fulfilled,” said Judge Dan Sjöstedt at the time of the acquittal in July. After the victim appealed the case a district court still found that “the rape could never have been fully consummated because the victim was still physically a man,” but charged the man with attempted rape. “It’s a relief to get a conviction; the punishment is in line with what I had asked for,” prosecutor Eva Grandestedt said. “This ruling shows that you can get convicted for attempted rape regardless of the gender identity of the victim.”
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privacy loophole. For its part, a Facebook spokesman issued the following statement to WSJ: “Our hearts go out to these young people. Their unfortunate experience reminds us that we must continue our work to empower and educate users about our robust privacy controls.” Back in July, Facebook rolled out new marriage icons for same-sex couples to update their “married” status on their timeline rather than having to put up with using the marriage icon for straight married couples.
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lesbian couple was beaten up during Atlanta’s Gay Pride celebration— the worst part was that bystanders watch the incident unfold and didn’t do anything, they told Fox 5 News. “Everyone was sitting there watching it and that’s just what blows my mind,” said Brooke Creef. Her girlfriend, Kathryn Katalinich said they were about to hop in a cab on Oct. 13 when two men started saying homophobic slurs directed at them. When they tried to defend themselves the two men attacked them. Katalinich recounts:“He throws me down on the ground, busts my knees up and I get up and he does it again a second time and is laughing,” said Katalinich. “He picked me up and threw me back down.” After the attack the two men ran away. The lesbian couple are hoping the incident was caught by surveillance cameras.
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aying the gay population has “suffered a history of discrimination,” a divided federal appeals court in Manhattan ruled Thursday that a federal law defining marriage as a union between a man and a woman was unconstitutional, adding fuel to an issue expected to reach the U.S. Supreme Court soon. The 2nd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals seemed interested in adding its voice to several other rulings already at the high court’s doorstep by issuing its 2-to-1 decision only three weeks after hearing arguments on a lower court judge’s findings that the 1996 law was unconstitutional. In a majority opinion written by Judge Dennis Jacobs, the 2nd Circuit, like a federal appeals court in Boston before it, found no reason the Defense of Marriage Act could be used to deny benefits to married gay couples. It supported a lower court ruling after a woman sued the government in 2010, saying the law required her to pay $363,053 in federal estate tax after her partner of 44 years died. Jacobs, though, went beyond the Boston court, saying discrimination against gays should be scrutinized by the courts in the same heightened way as discrimination faced by women was in the 1970s. At the time, he noted, they faced widespread discrimination in the workplace and elsewhere. The heightened scrutiny, as it is referred to in legal circles, would mean government discrimination against gays would be assumed to be unconstitutional. “The question is not whether homosexuals have achieved political successes over the years; they clearly have. The question is whether they have the strength to politically protect themselves from wrongful discrimination,” said Jacobs, who was appointed to the bench in 1992 by President George H.W. Bush. He said it was difficult to say whether gays were under-represented in positions of power and authority without knowing their true numbers. “But it is safe to say that the seemingly small number of acknowledged homosexuals so situated is attributable either to a hostility that excludes them or to a hostility that keeps their sexual preference private – which, for our purposes, amounts to much the same thing,” Jacobs said.
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Lawyer Paul Clement, who had argued in support of the law on behalf of the Bipartisan Legal Advisory Group of the House of Representatives, was traveling and did not immediately return a message seeking comment. Brian Brown, president of the National Organization for Marriage, which filed arguments with the appeals court before the ruling, called the decision “yet another example of judicial activism and elite judges imposing their views on the American people.”
Sen. Patrick Leahy, D-Vt., said the decision echoed testimony before his committee that showed the law “has damaging effects on the lives of thousands of American families who are denied the same federal protections as millions of other Americans.” The 2nd Circuit said the law’s “classification of same-sex spouses was not substantially related to an important government interest” and thus violated the equal protection clause of the Constitution. “It is easy to conclude that homosexuals have suffered a history of discrimination,”
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He urged the Supreme Court to take up the case, saying: “The American people are entitled to a definitive ruling in support of marriage as the union of one man and one woman, as 32 states have determined through popular vote.” Dale Schowengerdt, an attorney with the Scottsdale, Ariz.-based Alliance Defending Freedom, called the ruling “off base” and predicted the Supreme Court will disagree with it. James Esseks, an attorney for the American Civil Liberties Union, called the ruling “a watershed moment in the legal movement for lesbian and gay rights.” “It’s fabulous news for same-sex couples in New York and other states,” he said. Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman
Jacobs said, noting that for many years in many states, homosexual conduct was criminal and that even the law’s supporters acknowledge that gays endured discrimination since at least the 1920s. He said the law was written so broadly that it touches more than a thousand federal laws. “Homosexuals are not in a position to adequately protect themselves from the discriminatory wishes of the majoritarian public,” Jacobs wrote. He rejected arguments by supporters of the law that it was intended to limit new categories of eligibility for federal funds, promote uniform administration of federal law, protect traditional marriage and encourage responsible procreation. “Even if preserving tradition were in itself
an important goal, DOMA is not a means to achieve it,” he said. Jacobs disputed arguments that samesex couples have a diminished ability to discharge family roles in procreation and the raising of children, saying the arguments were “inconsistent with actual cases.” And in a footnote, he said that to the extent the law’s supporters contend that “Congress’ laws might actually influence sexual orientation, there is no evidence to support that claim (and it strikes us as farfetched).” Judge Chester J. Straub dissented, saying that if the government was to change its understanding of marriage, “I believe it is for the American people to do so.” “Courts should not intervene where there is a robust political debate because doing so poisons the political well, imposing a destructive anti-majoritarian constitutional ruling on a vigorous debate,” he said. The ruling came in a case brought by Edith Windsor. She sued the government in November 2010 because she was told to pay $363,053 in federal estate tax after her partner of 44 years, Thea Spyer, died in 2009. They had married in Canada in 2007. “This law violated the fundamental American principle of fairness that we all cherish,” Windsor said in a statement. “I know Thea would have been so proud to see how far we have come in our fight to be treated with dignity.” The law, which denies federal recognition of same-sex marriages and affirms the right of states to refuse to recognize such marriages, was passed by bipartisan majorities in both houses of Congress and signed by President Bill Clinton after it appeared in 1993 that Hawaii might legalize gay marriage. Since then, many states have banned gay marriage but several have approved it, including Massachusetts and New York. The government defended the federal law until President Barack Obama and Attorney General Eric Holder in early 2011 directed attorneys to stop doing so. A government lawyer told the 2nd Circuit that the administration reviewed the law and concluded that it deserved a stricter view of what constituted discrimination than the legal reasoning that had previously been applied.
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to its anti-discrimination policy. Because Steve Abrams suggested they give Boca an without actually having to agree to the hat started off as a routine of this, the city and county have run into a exemption, but the suggestion was ignored county’s anti-discrimination policy. That may be hard to do since at the contract over hazardous conflict. In this instance, it happens to be a and the county instead sent the contract waste material has now regional plan for the county to pay the costs back as is, giving Boca 60 days to accept or beginning of this year the county made it clear that they would not do business with erupted into a full-fledged of hazardous material emergencies in some reject it. But now it appears the city staff of any public or private entity which practices war over gay rights between LGBT activists of its cities, one of which is Boca. It’s worth $235,000 to the city. Boca and the Palm Beach County staff are discrimination. and the City of Boca Raton. When the conflict was presented to the desperately trying to find a loophole to allow City officials claim the issue isn’t about gay rights at all, but instead about home County Commission, County Commissioner Boca to move forward with this agreement Here’s what the county resolution says: rule. But the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council is calling it homophobia and “It is hereby the express policy of the has launched a campaign called ‘Boca Bigots Board of County Commissioners of Palm Run City Hall’ to shine a spotlight on what Beach they perceive to be 20 years of slights against County, Florida that Palm Beach County, the gay community. Florida shall not conduct business with nor To make matters worse for the city, three appropriate any funds for any organization weeks ago the assistant city manager of Boca that practices discrimination on the basis of equated protecting LGBT employees from race, color, national origin, religion, discrimination to protecting pet lovers from ancestry, sex, age, familial Status, marital discrimination. status, sexual orientation, gender identity “What’s to keep other groups from and expression, or disability.” wanting to be protected?” Mike Woika told SFGN. “How about me? I’m a pet lover. President of the PBCHRC Rand I think should be included in your antiHoch said in an email to the county discrimination law. Someone who has dogs attorney: should not be discriminated against either.” The issue of gay rights in Boca came to “I can not tell you how upset I am right the forefront last month when the Palm now, having read the exchange of your Beach County Commission was informed e-mails with your counterparts in the City that the City of Boca Raton opted out of of Boca Raton. You struck a deal by which the county’s anti-discrimination clause, the mandatory nondiscrimination language which includes both “sexual orientation” boca raton mayor susan whelchel boca raton deputy mayor susan haynie would be included and “gender identity and in the Interlocal expression.” Boca doesn’t Agreement, but assured include either one, instead Boca Raton that ‘the deferring to the state and City and County agree federal anti-discrimination that the County would requirements. But Boca not have jurisdiction took it to another level over an employment when in January 2011 discrimination claim they passed Ordinance filed by a City employee 5161, which opted them against the City under out of the county’s antithe PBC Ordinance.’” discrimination policy. No County Attorney other city in Palm Beach Denise Nieman denied County has taken such any deal making. an extraordinary step to “This is in response to avoid protecting LGBT the email you received employees. from Rand Hoch late The county, meanwhile, Friday alleging that cthe has a policy stating that it doesn’t do business with This information was compiled from the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council. President of the PBCHRC, Rand Hoch, told SFGN he’s been approaching County Attorney’s the City of Boca Raton for 20 years urging them to adopt anti-discrimiantion language protecting LGBT employees. So far, as noted above, they have not. entities that won’t adhere Their lack of benefits and/or protections for LGBT employees
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Sheriff’s Community Day at Pride Center By SFGN Staff
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he Broward Sheriff’s Office and BSO our community enjoyed this festive day. Sheriff Al Lamberti will be hosting a We couldn’t be happier to partner with the community day Saturday, Oct. 27 at amazing staff of the Broward Sheriff’s Office 3 p.m. at the Pride Center at Equality Park, to provide this event once again.” This is the second year the Pride Center 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. There will be a kid’s costume contest partnered with the BSO to host the Sheriff’s at 1 p.m., cotton candy, snow cones, Community Day. This year they’ve also bounce houses, a K-9 partnered with SunServe and PFLAG. demonstration, SWAT Also taking place that equipment, and free day will be SunServe’s child finger printing. annual Valuing our “Last year’s Community Day at the Families Conference Pride Center was an which starts at 11 a.m. absolute blast and a big There will also be a Halloween Youth Dance hit in our community. a photo from last years for ages 13-18 from 7 p.m. There were LGBT community day families decked-out in to 10 p.m. “The community’s response and creative Halloween Costumes and strapping police officers attendance at last years Sheriff’s Community demonstrating bomb diffusers and an Day at The Pride Center in Wilton Manors amazing K-9 Unit. We had kids painting a was truly phenomenal. It was one of our fire truck and tumbling in a bounce house. best attended events of the year so much so The stars of ‘The Police Women of Broward that we video taped a five minute highlight County’ showed up,” said Deputy Director segment of the SCD and posted it on www. of the Pride Center, Kristofer Fegenbush. bsolive.org so people who could not attend “There were LGBT Seniors petting BSO’s could see what a great day it was,” said beautiful horses. Every age group within Sheriff Al Lamberti.
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Office ‘cut a deal’ with the City of Boca Raton regarding the nondiscrimination language in County contracts. Please be assured that this allegation has absolutely no merit,” Neiman wrote to the Palm Beach County Board of Commissioners. “The City Attorney’s Office also advised that the City of Boca had opted out of the County’s Equal Employment Ordinance as it pertained to City employees. The City is entitled to do so by law. Due to this opt out, the County would not have jurisdiction over discrimination complaints by City employees against the City.” Meanwhile, the PBCHRC is pushing back against city officials’ recent comments about LGBT rights and the city’s denial of four public records request they recently made. They’ve retained the law offices of W. Trent Steele in order to force the city to comply with the state’s public records laws. On Oct. 19, they sent a letter to Boca’s city attorney giving the city one last chance before they file suit against the city. It appears that Boca Mayor Susan Whelchel is standing behind the city’s actions on LGBT rights. She went so far as to tell the Sun Sentinel that she doesn’t see this situation as a civil rights issue. “We follow state and federal laws — cities have the right to opt in or opt out as long as we follow the law,” she said. The Vice Mayor of Boca Susan Haynie stood by those sentiments as well telling the Sun Sentinel: “We feel very strong that ... it’s not necessary to impose the county’s rules on us.” The PBCHRC blasted Whelchel in a letter to her this weekend. The letter starts off with: “I am writing to explain why Ordinance 5161 is a matter of civil rights, since it appears from today’s article in the Sun-Sentinel, that you do not understand.”
it is possible that neither you nor your colleagues had any idea that by enacting the ordinance, you were completely eliminating the civil rights of the City’s gay, lesbian, and gender non-conforming employees, as well as restricting the rights of the City’s female and minority employees.” That very well could be the case since the Sun Sentinel noted that the Boca ordinance in question took a mere 1 minute and 38 seconds to unanimously pass in January 2011. However from Whelchel and Haynie’s recent statements it appears they knew exactly the impact that ordinance would have. The letter ends with demanding some action taken against Assistant City Manager Mike Woika for his comments to SFGN. “Putting it simply, Mr. Woika’s comments are not only ignorant, but also hurtful. There is no longstanding history of employment discrimination against pet owners. While PBCHRC is not calling for a public apology by Mr. Woika, it would seem appropriate for the City to take some disciplinary action in an attempt to assure the LGBT residents of Boca Raton – and our allies – that such callous and hurtful statements are not acceptable.” The letter concludes with “please be advised that long as Ordinance 5161 remains in effect, PBCHRC will move forward with our ‘Boca Bigots Run City Hall’ campaign.” Boca Raton held a meeting regarding these issues on Tuesday, Oct. 23, after SFGN’s Oct. 24 issue went to press. Check back on SFGN. com or SFGN’s Oct. 31 issue for updated
The PBCHRC does give some benefit of doubt to the Mayor and Vice Mayor. “I have reviewed the somewhat misleading January, 4, 2011 memorandum on Equal Employment Opportunity prepared by City Manager Leif Ahnell and Human Resources Director Mark Buckingham, which was included in the backup for the January 25, 2011 City Council meeting at which Ordinance 5161 was enacted. The memorandum makes no reference to “sexual orientation” “gender identity” or “gender expression.” Nor does it inform anyone that the civil rights of female and minority employees would be curtailed. Therefore,
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olitics can be dirty. We all know that. personally to elementary and high schools In the past two weeks, we that all kids should be treated equally and have witnessed dirty tricks and with respect. bad politics by the Log Cabin Second, Lamberti has held community Republicans as well as a Democratic politico service seminars at the Pride Center at trying to tarnish the image of an LGBT Equality Park, actively holding his outreach friendly Republican sheriff, Al Lamberti. programs for the LGBT community, including Two weeks ago, the Log Cabin Republicans actively recruiting gay and lesbian officers. ran a despicable advertisement in the Florida Third, Lamberti has maintained Agenda that visually depicted our slain uniformed officers to be liaisons with the United States ambassador, being carried LGBT community, and supported linkage away from the explosion in Libya. programs in the jail for those living with HIV The convoluted ad seemed to imply that as well as transitional initiatives for homeless because President Obama does not support teenagers, many of whom are young and gay. Israel, the ambassador was killed. The ad had Fourth, the sheriff has even had his no credibility, and quickly led to universal major crimes and homicide units keep the censure, even from the national director of LGBT community aware of ongoing and the Log Cabin Republican unsolved investigations club, a veteran himself. involving LGBT victims. The Florida Agenda Personally, he has come contradicted itself when to rallies and spoken out it suggested they ran it for against LGBT violence. ‘free speech’ purposes. If you want to SFGN uncovered that they support a different did in fact censor the ad candidate for sheriff, to some extent, asking the you have that right. But LCR to remove the word you don’t have the right sodomy. The truth is they to demean this sheriff’s ran the ad to take in the exemplary conduct and cash when it should have outreach to the LGBT been summarily rejected as community in the past offensive, unconscionable four years. We cannot and fact-deprived. It’s not let that stand. censorship when you are More so, the truth a private business using about the two-decade sheriff al lamberti common sense. old raid on the Copa Bar Last week, it was the in Dania Beach is that Democratic activists’ turn to embarrass it was orchestrated by Sheriff Nick Navarro, themselves. Leading the charge was Ron not Al Lamberti, who was then the BSO chief Gunzburger, who sought to give Republican in Deerfield Beach. Sheriff Al Lamberti’s Democratic challenger Ironically, the person who spoke publicly Scott Israel’s campaign a shot in the arm. in defense of the raid for the sheriff at the Instead, he shot himself in the foot. time was then head of the Organized Crime Gunzburger’s transparently political Division, Ron Cacciatore, now a political motive was to use a 21-year-old gay bar associate of — surprise! — Ron Gunzburger. raid to paint Lamberti as a homophobe. It’s There are ways to win an election, and nonsense — pure unadulterated nonsense. ways to lose it. It seems more responsible Regardless of whether you support the to advocate the truth about your candidate, challenger or the incumbent in this year’s rather than lies about your opponent. election, Lamberti’s four-year term in office You can pepper and post all the spurious has been marked by stunning and supportive comments you want on our website to take outreach to the LGBT community at every issue with us, but this newspaper supports turn, including his tenacious support for facts, not fiction; credibility, not crap. prosecuting hate crimes. You can’t undo the truth by making up a First, Lamberti launched an anti-bullying lie 21 days ago or 21 years later. Log Cabin campaign, even sponsoring a film that has Republicans or devoted Democrat, you ought won national acclaim, taking his message to know that.
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Gay Sex Causes Alchoholism?
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ay men find it impossible to stay sober. They relapse again and again. The reason is clear: sex. Sexual addiction. I am not suggesting that all gay men who claim that they are alcoholic are in fact sex addicts but most gay men who can’t stay sober cite sex as the primary reason for relapse. The simple fact of the matter is that most of the time, readily available anonymous hook ups quickly take the place of alcohol and drugs. When a sober man walks into the apartment of a super hot man doing crystal meth, sobriety is quickly flushed down the toilet along with HIV status. I hear the story over and over again. Yet, as a community, we think we can get away with this risky behavior. It is an arrogant vanity. Gay AA is a sad affair. I go periodically— mostly when I flee the super charged straight stag meetings because I find the straight, young newcomers too triggering. While many straight sober people create a new life with AA that involves abandoning bars and other locations that might lead to relapse, gay sober men often want a sober version of the life they had before, complete with dance parties, bars and gogo boys. Any reason to have a party will do—including the absurd “three-month anniversary.” Or, as one galling invitation I received said, “Help Joe S. celebrate his one-month anniversary.” Forgive me if I’m wrong but anniversaries are a yearly celebration. Many of these sober parties are indistinguishable from their non sober equivalent: scantily clad men line up for espresso machines manned by disco shortwearing super hot straight guys more used to shaking cocktails than dispensing coffee to gay guys jacked up on caffeine. Unable to attend drug-crazed gay circuit parties, many gay sober men in LA flock to the sober circuit parties, such as Hot ‘n Dry, which is held annually in Palm Springs. These events are more likely to take someone out than any other reason I’ve ever heard in gay AA. Yearly, after this event, bedraggled gay men turn up at meetings, their eyes blazing from excessive drug use, taking newcomer chips. Should I be surprised? After all, the Hot n’ Dry ticket salesman had assured me that it would be “a sex fest from the moment you arrive at the Ace Hotel.”
By Duncan Roy The absurd idea that we can behave like we have always behaved as long as we have a deluded and lackluster understanding of the 12 steps just doesn’t work. Two years ago, after I appeared on Sex Rehab With Dr. Drew, I suggested that within the gay community, we might have a sexual unmanageability problem and was flooded with vitriol. But that’s not going to stop me from sharing what I believe to be serious issues. The other serious issue within gay AA, in my opinion, is the resistance to God or a Higher Power. Most of my gay sponsees are understandably wary of God. The Christian God—the religious God— hasn’t made them feel very welcome in the past and has actually steeped them in shame and misery. To find that at the heart of AA is a God— even if it’s one of their own understanding—is anathema to most gay men. From what I can determine, most gay men just ignore the God part of the 12 steps—a relevant fact when the God part, in my estimation, accounts for roughly 90% of recovery. Working through the God options with gay men can be excruciating. Why bother looking for spiritual validation when they can get immediate validation on Grindr? I used to love AA in LA; my love for it was actually the reason I first moved to LA. Now I hate it. It’s like a cult—sober grandees ruling over desperate men, the film industry providing the sickest of backdrops: men flaying themselves before agents and film executives in the hope of catching crumbs from the sober table I see this everywhere from the straight stag meetings, where misogyny and homophobia are expressed freely, to the sickest meetings of all: Gay AA in LA. For all of these reasons and more, last November, after nearly 16 years, I stopped
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going to AA meetings. I was exhausted, disillusioned and utterly miserable. My last meeting in LA, at the iconic Log Cabin on Robertson in West Hollywood, was a gay meeting attended by 300 gay men. I couldn’t walk away fast enough. And yet yesterday, after a nine-month hiatus, I walked into a co-ed meeting in Park Slope, Brooklyn. I was an hour early. I helped set out the chairs in ten neat rows and then I made the coffee. During the meeting, I shared my resentments and my fears and afterwards, a tiny woman called Dianne came up to me and let me have two full barrels of her tough love wisdom. “It’s time for you to get fucking humble,” she said. “Come back and do fucking 90 in
doubled down. I had once again fucked a newcomer, counting days. It’s my story in AA. The younger men find my honesty irresistible and I can’t say no. When I first got sober in London, the only gay men I met in AA were old queens at the Eton Square meeting. I met a couple of gay men in NA but within the deluded gay community, at that time, there was a mantra I heard over and over that “quitting was for losers.” Several years later, after celebrities like Boy George got sober, the rooms of AA and NA filled quickly with what we now recognize as gay recovery. Back then I was accused, by my drinking friends, of being a contrarian—of rocking the boat and spoiling it for the others. As it happened, I was in the vanguard. I remember being hounded by drunken gay men who were outraged that I might, just by being sober, challenge their powerlessness and unmanageability. Of course those very same men now thank me for introducing them to the 12 steps. After a few months away from AA, I am ready to start again but, as Dianne said, I’ve got to get humble, forget all those years of sobriety and do 90 meetings in 90 days. For the first time in a long time, I value my life. I should have left LA years ago but I’m a tenacious old queen; I didn’t want to let go. Just one more meeting might fix me. Just one more line, one more Vodka Tonic and the crazy opera playing in my head might stop. Walking back into AA in New York was a relief, a joy—just like it used to be. I want to be sober. The only problem getting in the way of that is me. But I know that if I’m going to be able to do it, I’ll have to learn how to say no to sex. As a single gay man, the consequences are dire if I don’t. Duncan Roy is a filmmaker whose movies include AKA, Method and The Picture of Dorian Gray. He appeared on Sex Rehab With Dr. Drew in 2009, and has written for The Sunday Times, The Evening Standard, The Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian, and The Daily Beast. Roger Ebert has praised his blog as “a moving and evocative chronicle of modern gay life.” This is his first piece for The Fix. Photo Courtesy of Christopher Schirner
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90 like a newcomer.” She was right. After months away from AA, I felt spiritually bankrupt. I stopped fighting and did what we are all meant to in the rooms of AA: I gave in. Later that evening, the young man I helped set up the meeting took me for dinner. We talked recovery. This morning, we had sex. There I was, doing the walk of shame,
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Opinion
The backstory LGBT legacy of Sen. Arlen Specter By Mark Segal
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Segal, leader of the Gay Raiders, who parked outside the district attorney’s office until he emerged and granted them an interview. The Back in the early days of the battle Raiders handed out free donuts and coffee for gay rights, Arlen was district attorney while waiting for Specter.” Arlen eventually went to the National of Philadelphia. He had not taken a stand Attorneys Association and on the gay-rights bill that was before City District Council in 1973. Efforts to set up a meeting asked them to get on board and support went unanswered. So, we had to be a little nondiscrimination. Now, here’s what you never knew. In Arlen’s Republican years in creative. One crisp Monday morning, a caterer the U.S. Senate, when it was hard to support delivered two large coffee makers and LGBT rights, he was always behind the dozens of doughnuts to Arlen’s office. His curtain ready to vote “yes” on gay rights if it staff thought that Arlen had ordered the was needed to assure passage. Only HRC and special treat, and Arlen thought his staff had I were aware of that. That was never more so than with the 1996 vote on the Employment arranged it. At the same time in the City Hall courtyard Nondiscrimination Act, where he broke ranks with the GOP, and and in the halls of the the bill failed by only one building, members of vote. He later supported the Gay Raiders were the repeal of “Don’t handing out flyers that Ask, Don’t Tell” and the read, “District Attorney Defense of Marriage Act. Arlen Specter invites you In 2009, when the to a reception in honor secretary of Housing and of gay-rights legislation Urban Development was in City Council. Please in town and we were in join him at 10 a.m. in his the beginning stages of office, room 666.” the LGBT-friendly senior That really was his residences project, we office number. needed to meet with HUD At 10 a.m., we, along secretary Shaun Donovan, with hundreds of city arlen specter but his schedule was tight. workers and a huge Arlen said, “Don’t worry collection of newspeople, arrived at his office. We walked in and there about it. Just meet me at his next to last stop was Arlen’s staff trying not to look too while he’s in Philadelphia and I’ll arrange it.” surprised at a reception held in their office As Donavan was about to leave, Sen. Specter, that their boss was having, about legislation with me on one side, grabbed Donovan and he had not endorsed. Arlen remained in his took us to his car in the motorcade, where a Secret Service agent had the door open. inner office. At first, the media took pictures of me Arlen allowed the secretary to get in his car handing out coffee and doughnuts to City and then followed and pushed me in at the Hall staffers, and we weren’t sure if Arlen same time. “We’re going to ride with you to would even come out of his private office. the next stop,” he said. The secretary was not Finally, the door to his office opened and about to turn down a senator. I had Donovan’s undivided attention for 20 there he was, all smiles. He walked over, shook my hand, helped me hand out coffee minutes. In hindsight, Arlen and I kidnapped and we then went into his private office. His the secretary of HUD. And a week-and-a-half first comment to me was, “Mark Segal, who from today, we will hold the groundbreaking else would cater a disruption? Did you think on the nation’s largest capital LGBT-friendly I’d allow you to have all the media attention building project. Thank you, Arlen! to yourself?” And then that big smile. The Philadelphia Inquirer the following Mark Segal, PGN publisher, is the nation’s day (Oct. 10, 1973) had a large picture of the most-award-winning commentator in LGBT event, or zap as we called them in those media. He can be reached at mark@epgn. days. The caption read: “District Attorney com. Arlen Specter shakes hands with Mark Photo Courtesy of United States Senate
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THE REGULARS By Karl Hampe
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Milestones in LGBT Parenting History
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ctober is LGBT History Month, so I want to celebrate with a look at some of the historical milestones—of laws, visibility, and community— related to LGBT parents. This is not meant to be a comprehensive look at the 40-year history of out LGBT parents, but simply a brief list of a few LGBT parenting “firsts.” These items may show only part of the story, but I hope they will give readers a sense of the rich history of which we are part. (I have compiled these items from a number of sources; special recognition goes to Carlos Ball’s The Right to Be Parents and Jaime Campbell Naidoo’s Rainbow Family Collections. Any errors remain my own.) Dana Rudolph is the founder and publisher of Mombian (www.mombian. com), an award-winning blog and resource directory for LGBT parents.
LGBTMonth History 1979
: A gay couple in California becomes the first in the country known to have jointly adopted a child. The Gay Fathers Coalition forms—a precursor to the Family Equality Council, the national organization for LGBT parents and their children.
By Dana Rudolph
Jane Severance’s When Megan Went Away becomes the first picture book in the U.S. to show a lesbian relationship.
1973: Sandy and Madeleine’s
Family becomes the first U.S. documentary about a lesbianheaded family. A Colorado court issues the country’s first known opinion involving a transgender parent, upholding his right to retain child custody.
1972: That Certain Summer,
the first television movie to depict a gay dad, airs on ABC, starring Martin Sheen as a dad who comes out to his teenage son, and Hal Holbrook as his partner. Scott Jacoby, who played the son, won a Best Supporting Actor Emmy.
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1977: Lawyers Donna Hitchens and
Roberta Achtenberg in San Francisco form the Lesbian Rights Project (LRP), which evolves into the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), still helping LGBT parents (and others) today.
1976:
Washington, D.C. becomes first jurisdiction in the country to prohibit judges from making custody decisions based solely on sexual orientation.
1974
: A New Jersey superior court judge rules that a father’s sexual orientation is not in itself a reason to deny him child visitation, the first time a U.S. court has acknowledged the constitutional rights of gay fathers.
1978:
The Washington Supreme Court issues the country’s first custody ruling in favor of a lesbian couple (Sandy Schuster and Madeleine Isaacson of the 1973 film above). New York becomes the first state to say it will not reject adoption applicants solely because of “homosexuality.”
Several lesbian mothers and friends in Seattle form the Lesbian Mothers National Defense Fund to help lesbian mothers in custody disputes. martin sheen
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1982: The Sperm Bank of
1994: The San Francisco Gay
California begins operations, the first in the country to serve lesbian couples and single women.
and Lesbian Parents Association produces Both of My Moms Names Are Judy: Children of Lesbians and Gays Speak Out, the first educational film for elementary school teachers about LGBT families.
2008
: Marcus Ewert publishes 10,000 Dresses, the first children’s book to show a clearly transgender child.
2009:
1988:
A group of youth with LGBT parents meets at a conference organized by a precursor to the Family Equality Council, and begins the organizing that in 1999 leads to Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere (COLAGE) as an independent national organization.
1995: A state’s highest court
rules for the first time that a nonbiological mother may try and show that it would be in the best interests of her child for her to remain in the child’s life after parental separation.
1997:
New Jersey becomes the first state to allow same-sex couples to adopt jointly.
1989: Author Lesléa Newman
self-publishes Heather Has Two Mommies, the first children’s book in the U.S. to show a lesbian couple planning and raising a child together.
1985
: A court for the first time allows a non-biological mother to adopt the biological child of her female partner. The ruling, in Alaska, also allows the biological father to maintain a relationship with the child.
1990:
LGBT publisher Alyson Publications launches the Alyson Wonderland imprint for childrens’ titles. It publishes Daddy’s Roommate, by Michael Willhoite, the first children’s book to depict gay male parents, and mass produces Heather Has Two Mommies.
First explicit mention of same-sex parents in a presidential proclamation. In announcing September 28 as Family Day, President Obama says, “Whether children are raised by two parents, a single parent, grandparents, a samesex couple, or a guardian, families encourage us to do our best and enable us to accomplish great things.”
marcus ewert’s
10,000 dresses
2011:
The U.S. State Department updates passport applications to say “Mother or Parent 1 and “Father or Parent 2” instead of just “Mother” and “Father.”
2010: The Kids Are All Right, 2012:
starring Annette Bening and Julianne Moore, becomes the first major feature film to focus on an LGBT couple and their children. It wins Golden Globe Awards for Best Motion Picture and Best Actress (Bening), and four Academy Award nomi nations, including Best Picture.
When President Obama announces his support for marriage equality, he explains that his daughters have friends with same-sex parents, and “I know it wouldn’t dawn on them that their friends’ parents should be treated differently.”
President Obama revises hospital visitation rules so patients may designate their own visitors, including same-sex partners. He was motivated in part by the story of Janice Langbehn and her three children, who in 2007 were denied access to her dying partner and the children’s other mother, Lisa Pond. Langbehn in 2011 receives the Presidential Citizens Medal, the nation’s second-highest civilian honor.
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LGBTMonth History
RuPaul
Billy Strayhorn
Holly Near
“With hair, heels, and attitude, honey, I am
“If you want something hard enough,
“I do not separate my music from my heart, nor do I separate my ideas from my daily life.”
Entertainer 1960-
Composer 1915-1967
through the roof.”
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uPaul is one of the world’s most famous drag queens. He is a successful actor, singer and television host. Born RuPaul Andre Charles in San Diego, California, RuPaul learned about fashion from his mother and three sisters. His parents divorced when he was 7. At 16, he moved to Atlanta to live with his sister and brother-in-law. In Atlanta, RuPaul studied acting, performed as a bar dancer and sang with a band. He gained national exposure with a cameo role dancing in the video for the B-52s’ “Love Shack.” In 1987, RuPaul moved to New York, where he became a popular entertainer in the Manhattan nightclub scene. He was crowned “Queen of Manhattan 1990.” In 1993, RuPaul collaborated with Elton John on a remake of “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart.” The following year, RuPaul had his first solo hit single, “Supermodel (You Better Work),” which topped the dance music charts. Three more dance hits followed: “Back to My Roots,” “A Shade Shady” and “House of Love.” His appearances in “The Brady Bunch Movie” (1995) and Spike Lee’s “Crooklyn” (1995), along with the release of his autobiography “Lettin It All Hang Out” (1996), landed RuPaul a talk show on VH1. He described the “The RuPaul Show” as “the most creatively satisfying, fun-filled working experience I’ve ever had.” That same year, he became a spokesperson for M.A.C Cosmetics, making him the first drag queen supermodel. In six years, RuPaul helped raise over $22 million for the M.A.C AIDS Fund. RuPaul had a role in “To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar” (1995). In the late 1990’s, he co-hosted the morning show on WKTU-FM, a New York dance music station. He produced and starred in the film “Starrbooty” (2007), which he adapted into a nightclub act. He is the host and executive producer of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” and hosts “RuPaul’s Drag U” on Logo. In 1999, RuPaul was named Entertainer of The Year at the GLAAD Media Awards. In 2002, he was honored with a Lifetime Achievement Award by The Most Beautiful Transsexuals in the World Association.
it just gets done.”
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illy Strayhorn was a celebrated composer and arranger. Best known for his collaborations with bandleader Duke Ellington, Strayhorn had an important influence on the American jazz movement. The youngest of five children, Strayhorn spent his early years in Hillsborough, North Carolina. His grandmother, who was active in her church choir, encouraged Strayhorn’s musical interests. In 1924, his mother moved the family to Pittsburgh. At the Pittsburgh Musical Institute, he took piano lessons and studied classical music. Strayhorn’s musical focus shifted when he was introduced to jazz, a genre dominated by innovative and successful black musicians. In 1937, he began to compose in the jazz style and formed his first jazz group. The following year, he was introduced to Duke Ellington, who took him on as a protégé. Strayhorn worked with Ellington for the next 25 years as a composer, arranger and pianist. He composed the band’s best-known theme song, “Take the A Train.” Although Strayhorn and Ellington collaborated on numerous pieces, Strayhorn remained fairly anonymous and was rarely credited or compensated for his work. In 1946, he received the Esquire Award for Outstanding Arranger. Ellington and Strayhorn were equally credited on “Drum is a Woman” (1957). In 1965, Strayhorn played his only solo concert to a soldout theater at the New School in New York City. Some of his best-known compositions are “Chelsea Bridge,” “Day Dream,” “Johnny Come Lately,” “Clementine” and the Ellington Band’s “Lotus Blossom.” Strayhorn was openly gay. There is speculation that his sexual orientation motivated his decision to avoid the spotlight. He was actively involved in the African-American civil rights movement. For the musical revue “My People” he arranged “King Fought the Battle of ‘Bam,’” dedicated to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. At 53, Strayhorn died from cancer. Although relatively unknown during his career, his complex arrangements and classical elements have inspired generations of jazz musicians.
Singer 1949-
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olly Near is a singer, songwriter and activist for social change. She is an articulate political artist. She was raised in Ukiah, California, by politically active parents who were cattle ranchers. She began her show business career acting in films such as “Minnie and Moskowitz” (1971) and “Slaughterhouse Five” (1972), and in television shows including “All in the Family,” “The Partridge Family” and “The Mod Squad.” After appearing in “Hair” on Broadway, Near decided to focus on music. In 1972, she launched Redwood Records, becoming one of the first women and one of the first artists to own a record label. Redwood became a force in alternative music, showcasing the work of politically conscious recording artists. Near has released more than 25 albums. In 1981, she was one of the first out lesbians interviewed by People magazine. She has been in relationships with both men and women, but rather than identifying as bisexual, she describes herself as a “monogamous feminist.” Near was one of the “1000 Women for Peace” nominated for a 2005 Nobel Peace Prize. In 1985, she was named “Woman of the Year” by Ms. Magazine. Near’s autobiography “Fire in the Rain, Singer in the Storm” was published in 1993. In 1996, Near was honored with the GALA Choruses Legacy Award for her unique contributions to the gay and lesbian choral movement. Her portrait hangs at The Freedom Center in Cincinnati, along with other artists for social change, including Pete Seeger and Woody Guthrie. “Singing For Our Lives,” which she wrote to honor the memory of Harvey Milk, appears in the official hymnal of the Unitarian Universalist Church. After living most of her life in Southern California, Near returned to Ukiah, where she sings, composes, and teaches master classes in performance craft and songwriting.
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LGBTMonth History Don’t Know Much About History
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ponytailed, baby-boomer hippie, wearing a Beatles cap, rescued me in the Home Depot parking lot. My car wouldn’t start. Not only did I need a jump to my battery, but also help in opening the front hood. It’s okay to laugh. When someone asks me what kind of car just went by, I say, “a blue one.” We shook hands, exchanged names, and began talking at length about the impact the Beatles had on our generation. Coincidentally, I’d been thinking recently about how much my views on life had been guided by the words of the Beatles’ songs, and lamented that today’s youth don’t have the same consistent inspiration in the music they play. John Lennon’s vision in his song Imagine is as inspired as any spiritual message I’ve read. Do you think there might be teenagers today who don’t know who the Beatles were, and who have never heard the words, “Imagine there’s no heaven…no hell...no countries…no religion…nothing to kill or die for…all people living in peace. Imagine no possessions...no greed or hunger…all the people sharing all the world. You may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one…?” If the man who helped me this morning also jump started the car of a teenager, would they have talked about the name on the man’s cap? Would the teenager have been impacted by learning about something that happened before his or her time? Sitting on our lawn this summer, surrounded by LGBT teenagers who were attending summer camp in Provincetown, I listened to a “Queer Studies” college professor talk about the importance of knowing our community’s history. The teens were all from Massachusetts and surrounding states, yet they, and the adult professor, didn’t know the name Elaine Noble. “So what?” one might wonder. Why do they need to know about the first, openlygay person in American history elected to a state legislative position? That was way back in 1974, in Massachusetts, and what does that have to do with anything today? There was a story in the newspaper the other day about Jewish teenagers having their arms tattooed with the same serial numbers their relatives were labeled with in concentration camps. They did so because their Jewish peers had no awareness of the
By Brian McNaught gas ovens of Auschwitz. Is it possible that black teenagers in 100 years won’t know the name Barack Obama, or why he was significant in American history? Most Hispanic teenagers today don’t know the name Caesar Chavez, the organizer of the United Farm Workers in the 1960s and 70s. In response to the Queer Studies professor’s question on why knowing our history is important, the students were quiet for a while. Then, the most politicallysophisticated one in the group said, “Because it helps us remember where we came from, and reminds us what things could be like again if we’re not careful.” “That’s right,” the professor said. “Why else?” “It provides role models for us,” she replied, “People who made it possible for us to be here today.” Ray and I recently watched the excellent documentary How to Survive a Plague. It
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told of how Act-Up in New York impacted the ability of gay men with AIDS to get life-saving drugs. It made me wonder whether gay men today know the name, Bruce Voeller, who wasn’t given his due in the film? If gay men are now, or will ever be, HIV-positive, they should be grateful to the former head of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force who convinced the American medical community to stop calling the epidemic GRID, for Gay-Related Immune Deficiency, and instead call it AIDS, for Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. It was suddenly no longer a “gay disease.” Barney Frank might never have come out of the closet had Rep. Gerry Studds not done so before him, and Gerry might never have come out if Harvey Milk hadn’t before him, and Harvey might never have won his election had Elaine Noble not crashed through the glass ceiling before him. When I told the LGBT teenager campers about Elaine, they said “cool,” and when Ray explained why most people our age are offended by the word “queer,” the Queer Studies professor nodded in agreement, but the teenagers looked puzzled. I imagine that when the peers of the Jewish teenagers see the tattooed arms with concentration camp ID numbers, they will think about their history of oppression
more often, and perhaps have more awe for those who came before them. I wish more Mexican-American teens knew how Caesar Chavez suffered for their wellbeing. And I’m glad that today we all have Barack Obama as a role model of someone who overcame obstacles to achieve his dreams as a black man. Knowing and sharing the highlights of our history with those who follow us is not just a good idea. It’s a responsibility. Imagine if young people around the world were aware of all of the struggles for social justice which have taken place before they were born. Wouldn’t they see the link between their lives and those of teenagers on other continents? Wouldn’t they understand that we are all just people sharing the world, and that their job is to make sure no one is bullied, or hungry for food or affection? You may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one. Brian McNaught was named “the godfather of gay diversity training” by The New York Times. He works with corporate executives globally, is the author of six books, and is featured in seven educational DVDs. He and his spouse Ray Struble divide their year between Ft. Lauderdale and Provincetown. Visit Brian-McNaught.com for more information.
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Opinion
It’s the Supreme Court, Stupid!
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urge us to avoid the consequences of making homosexuality seem a normal and acceptable choice for the young.” Bork warns that if same-sex marriage passes, “I think we’ll become much more accommodating to man-boy associations, polygamists and so forth.” Romney said of Bork, “I wish he were already on the Supreme Court,” when he announced Bork as his advisor on court appointments. The next president will almost certainly need to replace at least one justice, liberal-leaning Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who at 79 and a cancer patient, is very likely to retire within
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o community has more at stake in this presidential election than the LGBT community. In Barack Obama, we have a Democratic candidate who has embraced full equality for LGBT people. We have a Republican candidate in Mitt Romney who is against the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), was against ending Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT), and is against marriage equality or civil unions for gay couples. In Romney’s vice-presidential pick Paul Ryan, we have a man who not only voted against ending DADT, but also voted against allowing gay people to adopt in the District of Columbia. Paul Ryan has told the president of Focus on the Family that a Romney/ Ryan administration “will protect traditional marriage and the rule of law and we will provide the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) the proper defense in the courts that it deserves.” It doesn’t get clearer, or meaner, than that. The most profound and lasting legacy for any president tends to be their lifetime appointments to the Supreme Court Of The United States (SCOTUS). The Romney campaign has turned to Robert Bork to lead a committee devoted to finding his SCOTUS nominees. Bork is a radically conservative former judge who’s own appointment to the Supreme Court by President Reagan was blocked by the Senate. Romney’s choice of Bork as co-chair of his Justice Advisory Committee wasn’t merely a dog whistle to the extreme right; it was a bullhorn. Robert Bork is rabidly anti-gay. In making the case for a Federal Marriage Amendment to the Constitution to block gay marriage, Bork writes, “Compassion, if nothing else, should
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“Homosexual sodomy? Come on. For 200 years, it was criminal in every state.” LGBT Americans are on the cusp of achieving the full equality under the law sought for decades. The nation is also only one Supreme Court appointment away from overturning Roe v. Wade, Paige and ending hopes for federal marriage rights for gay couples for a generation. The Romney/ Ryan ticket is committed to the latter. The 2012 Republican Party platform is clear in its hatred for LGBT people. The responsibility for drafting the document’s language on gay issue was given to Tony Perkins, president of the Family Research Council (FRC), a man who calls gay-rights activists vile pawns of Satan. In 2010 Perkins attacked Obama when the President denounced proposed legislation in Uganda that would punish homosexual “repeat offenders” with death. Predictably, the Republican platform calls for an anti-gay amendment to the Constitution, and criticizes President Obama for not defending DOMA and for ending DADT. But the GOP document also berates the U.S. for advocating an end to foreign antigay laws as well: “The effectiveness of our foreign aid has been limited by the cultural agenda of the current Administration, attempting to impose on foreign countries, especially the peoples of Africa, legalized abortion and the homosexual rights agenda...We will reverse this tragic course.” The New York Times accurately calls this platform “more aggressive in it’s opposition...to gay rights than any in memory.” Under a second Obama/Biden term, the forward movement on LGBT equality of the last four years will continue. Under a Romney presidency, this progress will end. A Romney shaped SCOTUS will stop LGBT equality, especially on marriage rights, not only for four years, but for a generation. Anyone who says otherwise is either uninformed, or lying. Now go vote as if your life depends on it. In many ways, it does.
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the next four years. Obama already has a history of SCOTUS appointments with Justices Sotomayor and Kagan. Bill Keller writes in the New York Times that for his part, Romney “is committed to filling any Supreme Court vacancies with Scalias.” Twenty-six years ago Antonin Scalia was confirmed to a lifetime seat on the United States Supreme Court, as a legacy of the Reagan presidency. As a Supreme Court justice, Scalia voted in 2003 to uphold state laws criminalizing gay sex. He says the Constitution does not protect the privacy of consenting adults in their own homes, and believes states are entitled to pass laws singling out LGBT people for discrimination. At a book signing earlier this month, Scalia was scornful over the idea that equal protection applies to gay people.
Marc Paige is a writer and HIV/AIDS Prevention Educator.
October 24, 2012 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com
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FEATURE
On the Campaign Trail O
ur whole way of life, in a sense, is on the line,” warned Chaz Bono last Saturday afternoon at the Obama for America campaign field office in Wilton Manors. “We’ve made a lot of progress in the last four years.” The LGBT activist and reality television star was in South Florida to mobilize campaign workers as the Presidential election nears. More than a dozen volunteers assembled
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to hear the transgender Dancing with the Stars alum — and son of gay icon Cher — talk about why the election was important to him. But, there’s more than marriage equality and LGBT issues on Bono’s agenda during this election. He told the intently listening volunteers about the importance of protecting the Affordable Care Act, Obamacare, because he lost a girlfriend to cancer years ago. Then he spoke about
education and the economy. After a few s n a p s h o t s and words of encouragement, the small army of volunteers was dispatched to the corners of Broward County to begin canvassing neighborhoods and Bono sat down to talk politics chaz bono speaks with obama for america campaign volunteers with SFGN. at the wilton manors field office. Politics is nothing new for against the Republicans for the first time,” Bono. His father, Sonny, served as mayor he said. “It makes me really happy.” of Palm Springs, Calif. and was eventually Regardless of his public stand on marriage elected to Congress in 1994 during the equality, Bono enthusiastically supports the Republican Revolution. Bono was tragically President. killed in 1998 in a skiing accident. Chaz, “Every group wants to see their stuff while still living as Chastity, came out as a happen and happen quickly, but he’s lesbian in 1995 and became a spokesperson more than made up for any time it took. for the Human Rights Campaign a year later. Obamacare is huge for the community. Gay Ironically, Bono’s first memories of and lesbian people aren’t just interested in politics date back to 1976, when former gay and lesbian issues. Every American is Georgia Governor Jimmy Carter was elected interested in the economy and where we’re president: going to go from here,” he said. “The first political thing I remember, From the first time Bono heard the and I remember it pretty clearly, was when President speak at the 2008 Democratic Carter was running. My mom was married convention, he knew Obama was “a to Gregg Allman at the time and the Allman principled individual who truly does care Brothers were from Georgia and big Carter about people.” supporters. Mom spent the first night of the Bono added, “If we’re going to move (Carter) presidency in the White House. I’ve forward and be fair minded and take care of been a Democrat as far as I can remember,” our citizens, we have to be invested in health he said. care and education. The Republicans have While working for HRC during the 1996 moved so far to the right and I really don’t election, Bono recalled how the Republicans think that’s representative of how most used gay marriage as a wedge issue to divide Americans feel.” LGBT voters from President Bill Clinton. Bono is certainly not the first celebrity “I spent a lot of time going to events to speak up during a pivotal election— to get [LGBT] people to support [Clinton] he is even hesitant to consider himself despite DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act). a celebrity—but, as he put it, “for these It was a clear, calculating move designed to purposes, if I can come out here and get put Clinton between a rock and hard place, people to listen a little bit because of who I but at the time, he couldn’t have come out am and get them excited, that’s what I can against it.” do.” Bono said this election certainly brings As for his own future political ambitions, the contentious issue of marriage equality Bono isn’t saying, except that he might full circle, now that President Obama is consider running for elective office someday, running as an advocate of gay marriage “if the right situation presented itself.” and support has been written into the Democratic platform. “Now we’re using marriage equality Photo Courtesy of J.W. Arnold
By J.W. Arnold
Chaz Bono Comes to South Florida in Support of President Obama
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FEATURE
Denim & Diamonds The sparkly kind of a fundraiser for a sparkly kind of a church By Donald Cavanaugh do,” said Sylvester. “But just as importantly, it’s a time for people to get together and have some fun.” “We’re expecting around 125 people,” she added. “That’s about how many we’ve had in recent years. We’ve dropped the admission fee to $35 so people feeling the pinch of the current financial environment might still be able to come. “ Organizers have created the First Annual Denim & Diamond Chili Cook-Off event. Contestants are invited to bring two gallons of their best home-made chili in a crock pot that will be disguised in a variety of ways to prevent contestants from stacking the deck. According to Sylvester, the pastor’s partner, Sarah Helen Land has thrown down the gauntlet declaring her chili ‘the best.’ ‘Not so fast,’ say several other registrants who intend to take home the trophy and bragging rights for the year. An announcement in the church’s monthly magazine, Fully Alive, invites attendees to participate in something called the Empty Bowl Project to benefit the church’s Bill Meissner Food Pantry. For more information about the event, to buy tickets or to enter the chili cook-off, call Michelle Sylvester at 561.301.3818. Remember tickets must be purchased in advance and Sylvester will do her best to help facilitate sales. Photo Courtesy of Jurvetson
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etropolitan Community Church of the Palm Beaches (MCCPB) is holding its 7th annual Denim & Diamonds fundraising fun event on Friday, Nov. 2 at 7 p.m. at the historic Jupiter Civic Center at Carlin Park, 351 Old A1A – right on the ocean. Tickets are $35 (tax deductible) and must be purchased in advance. No tickets will be sold at the venue. “The moon will be just past full,” said event coordinator M i c h e l l e Sylvester. “People will be able to take romantic strolls along the shore or stay inside and dance to the music provided by DJ Kenny Mondo Productions.” Catering will be by Park Avenue BBQ, who will fire up a portable smoker and offer a range of barbecued meats and more. In addition to ribs, pulled pork and chicken, Sylvester said there will be a selection of vegetarian foods as well. A cash bar will provide libations of all varieties. “It’s a ‘come as you are’ occasion,” said Sylvester. “Wear whatever you like. Cowboy boots and cowboy shirts? Great. Jacket and tie? You’re welcome with us.” Denim & Diamonds is a fundraiser for the church and the proceeds are used to support facilities projects like the patio or paving the driveway or painting. The late Michael Trueblood, a long-time supporter of MCCPB, started the fundraiser seven years ago. He held several of the events in his home until the demand exceeded capacity and outside venues were chosen. “It’s a fundraiser for special projects or just upkeep to enable us to do the work we
Directions to the civic center: Take I-95 to Jupiter’s Indiantown Road exit, go east all the way to A1A and turn right (south), take your first left and follow road to parking area in front of the old Civic Center.
October 24, 2012 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com
7th Annual
Taste of the
Island Wilton Manors Taste of the Island is an evening of food and libation featuring samples of the cuisine from more than 50 area restaurants and drinking establishments. Join us for an Evening of Food and Libation in the Island City Date: November 5, 2012 Location: Richardson Historic Park & Preserve, 1937 Wilton Drive Time: 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. Like us on Facebook at: www.facebook.com/tasteoftheisland Buy your tickets online at: www.tasteoftheisland.org
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The Pride Center’s VOICE newsletter in next week’s issue of SFGN! + Photos from The Senior Health Expo, Breast Fest, Founders Events, Latino HIV/AIDS Awards & more! +Articles on SMART Ride, Young Adult Group, LIFE Program, Women with Pride, BrothasspeakFTL & more!
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National Breast Cancer Awareness Month
Fighting the Fight E Breast Cancer Survivor Strives To Share Strength By Andrea Dulanto
very October, National Breast Cancer Awareness Month (NBCAM) educates the public about breast cancer. But it’s the individual stories that often help the most, particularly when they are close to home. In Oct. 2011, SFGN shared the story of lesbian business owner Bernadette Zizzo, who was diagnosed with breast cancer in late 2010. At the time of the article, the co-owner of Art Frenzie was recovering from her second surgery and had dealt funding her healthcare. Broward General Hospital eventually provided assistance through Medicaid Out-Patient Eligibility Department (MOPED), but the approval process took about seven months. This experience led Zizzo and her friends Pamela Dodson, Debbie Weisinger, and Debbie Burke to establish the Knock Out Cancer 4 The Cure Foundation. As she told SFGN, the foundation was created so breast cancer patients would “not have to worry about all the red tape I went through.” Recently, Zizzo updated SFGN on her health, the foundation, and what she would tell anyone dealing with breast cancer. How have you been feeling over the past year? I am slowly feeling a lot stronger — mentally, physically as well as emotionally. I have now been cancer-free for almost a year and that feels amazing.
What have you learned as you dealt with the cancer and as you recover? Cancer is not only a physical battle … [but] also an emotional and mental battle. I have struggled with accepting that I don’t have the strength I used to have. I look at this as a challenge to do things I would’ve never done. I am learning that [the] strength I use for my own health and recovery gives others strength for survival. I love knowing that I can help others have strength and courage in their lives. How has the funding for your aftercare been going? My great surgeon Dr. Nicholas Tranakas [fought] for my behalf to get approved for the double mastectomy to be performed and covered through MOPED. I ended up having all aftercare covered. Without
the great healthcare [my doctors] have given me, I would not be where I am. Can you share information about the Knock Out Cancer 4 The Cure Foundation? Last year, I received a lot of support. A huge thank you to my great friends, family, and all who donated their time and gifts, businesses like Sidelines Sports Bar, The Manor on Wilton Drive, the Boardwalk, and Debbie Burke of Art Frenzie. I have been very ill throughout this year with medical issues not related to my cancer, so I haven’t had the strength and time to work on the foundation. [But] I plan to organize another boxing match and hope all the support is still there. I hope to expand this organization within Broward Hospital by having events within medical centers. The time I was confined in the hospital room was a very lonely and low point in my recovery. I’d like to [make] the time spent in the hospital feel a little better for those that are going through what I went through. Since October is National Breast Cancer Awareness month, what can you share with our readers that they may not hear often enough? Do your self-exams and get your mammograms. What would you say to individuals who have been diagnosed with breast cancer or who are survivors? I suggest staying positive even when it’s the last thing you feel like doing. Pray to your higher power for strength. Lean on your friends…you don’t have to put on a strong face all the time. I believe in laughing as much as you can because it truly is the best medicine. Open up your heart… letting somebody in has allowed me to realize I feel more alive than I have ever felt before. You only live once, so why not live life to the fullest, make life worth every minute without regrets. For more information, find Knock Out Cancer 4 The Cure Foundation on Facebook or visit National Breast Cancer Awareness Month at www.nbcam.org.
October 24, 2012 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com
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Tricks & Treats
South Florida’s Halloween scene for the thrill-seeking LGBT person
By Ryan Dixon
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o plans for Halloween? There’s no need to fear, SFGN is here. We’ve scoured over the many events happening around the tri-county area and have come up with a few ideas to make your fright night a little more fun. West Palm Beach is home to a bevy of amazing restaurants and nightclubs. Billed as the beautiful upscale lounge and live entertainment bar in West Palm Beach, Blue Martini comes equipped with an outdoor patio bar, tantalizing tapas menu and an upscale cocktail lounge making it the hot spot for both locals and visitors. Monday Oct. 29, the lounge plays host to one of the sexiest parties in South Florida. The Palm Beach Makos Cheerleaders will be on hand for a costume fashion show sponsored by the Halloween Megastore. The night, hosted by Deshon Allen and Mike Piegaro, also features a costume contest with a cash prize for the winner, $50 bottle specials and halfoff bar tab for all those who are “in the biz.” Miami was a tough decision. How can the party capital of the word just have one great event? With that being said, we present you with two: Vampire Circus and Hellrotika. The Vampire Circus has transformed Miami’s
Bayfront Park into a haven for the beautiful and seductive creatures of the Night. Starting at 8 p.m. and running until Oct. 31, The Vampire Circus showcases a world filled with supernatural circus performers, terror and suspense, enchanted magic and comedy that will leave you dying for more. Tickets start at $20 and are available at www. thevampirecircus.us. Last year, Hellrotika: Seed of the Beast brought out more than 1,200 partygoers in hurricane-like weather, and over 2,000 of South Florida’s showiest partygoers are expected to attend this year’s event at the beautiful Moore Building to showcase the sexiest and most elaborate costumes in South Florida. This year, Hellrotika: Odyssey of the Gods is planned as a perfect combination of dance party and costume extravaganza, with the best costume contest in South Florida. Dance to the heavenly sounds of DJ Pabel Lima, & DJ MIIK in the split-level atrium at the Moor Building. All monies raised at Hellrotika will help fuel SAVE Dade’s efforts in fighting for LGBT equality in South Florida. Tickets are still available online at hellrotica.com. What’s Halloween in Broward County without Wicked Wilton, presented by the
October 24, 2012 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com
Rainbow Business Coalition of Greater Fort Lauderdale. On Oct. 31, Wilton Drive will be shut down from N.E. 21 Court to Five Points starting at 3 p.m. and opening up again at 3 a.m. The party starts at 6 p.m. with a pet costume contest at Georgie’s Alibi hosted by Florida’s own Dame Edna. Costume contests will be held up and down the drive all night long, several of which have cash prizes (see side bar for a list of clubs and their contest times). The RBC is bringing in food vendors as well as setting up a “Spirit Station” in the street for party goers to grab a cocktail or two as they make their way up and down the drive to see and be seen. Many of Wilton’s bars will have live entertainment for the night, highlighted by Electra as MC for a tribute to Alice in Wonderland at the Manor and RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars contestant Latrice Royale performing at Boom. After midnight the party continues in the local bars, many of which have extended their closing times until 3 a.m. As always, this event is free and open to the public. Proceeds from this event will go to benefit The Pride Center. Visit wickedwilton.com for updates and vendor information.
Wicked Wilton Costume Contest Scheduele You spent many painstaking hours on your costume.Why not get paid for it. Here is a timeline for you to plan your costume contest plan of attack. 8:30 p.m.– Rosie’s 8:45 p.m.– Wilton Bier Garden 9:15 p.m.– New Moon 9:45 p.m.– Georgie’s Alibi 10:15 p.m.– Matty’s on the Drive 10:45 p.m.– The Village Pub 11:15 p.m.– Bill’s Filling Station 11:30 p.m.– The Manor
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Miami City Ballet Opens Season with Stunning Performance New company leader brings new focus, new style By J.W. Arnold
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ll eyes were on the Miami City Renan Cerdeiro took the stage next as the Ballet this weekend at the Arsht title character in George Balanchine’s Apollo, Center as the company opened its a 1928 ballet created for Sergei Diaghilev’s first season under the leadership Ballet Russes and set to music by Igor of Lourdes Lopez. Stravinsky. Cerdeiro ably tackled the iconic The Ballet has been in the news for months, role, opening the ballet strumming pastoral the subject of speculation and intrigue. First, tunes on his lute. He later encounters three activist board members forced the announced muses: Calliope, with her scroll and pen retirement of Edward Villella, the company’s (Patricia Delgado); Polyhymnia, the mute founding artistic director, scheduled for muse of mime (Tricia Albertson); and finally, 2013. The search for a replacement this Terpsichore, muse of the dance (Jeanette spring yielded Lopez, a former principal Delgado). dancer with the New York City Ballet, rather The ballet demonstrates some of than Villella’s pick, Miami principal dancer Balanchine’s most clever choreography as Jennifer Kronenberg. Apollo must dance Then, just four first with one and months ago, Executive later with all three Director Nicholas muses simultaneously. Goldsborough, a Cerdeiro maneuvered reputable fundraiser the intricate chains and hired in November complicated lifts with 2012, was ousted amid a strength and grace. reported “cash crunch” To close the program, and Villella’s departure the fiery rhythms of hastened. A new tango heated up the management team has theatre. Turning to the since been put in place, choreography of Paul led by a former Kennedy Taylor, the company Center executive from presented Piazzolla miami city ballet dancers in george balanchine’s apollo. Washington, D.C. Caldera, a four-act If any instability ballet set to tangos by remains within the administrative or Astor Piazzolla and additional music from fundraising functions of company, it wasn’t Jerzy Peterburshsky. While the work is not apparent on stage as the dancers gave staged in the strictest sense of ballroom stunning performances to an enthusiastic dance, the essence of the tango survives in a audience. series of ensemble and couples numbers. It Program I, selected before Lopez’s was interesting to see a male couple paired appointment, began with Les Patineurs during the sizzling ensemble numbers, (The Skating Party). The temperature inside proving the raw emotion of the tango is the Ziff Ballet Opera Theatre immediately not limited to traditional gender roles. The dropped as the curtain rose to reveal a energy of the performance was accentuated Victorian-era ice skating rink, surrounded by sultry costumes by Santo Loquasto and by stark trees. Set to traditional romantic inventive lighting effects from Jennifer music by Giacomo Meyerbeer, Sir Frederick Tipton. Ashton’s ballet introduces groups of skaters, effortlessly gliding across the floor with precision and grace that could earn an Olympic medal in fur-lined, sequined jackets When & Where: designed by William Chappell. Broward Center, Fort Lauderdale: Renato Penteado offered some comic relief Oct. 26-28 as the “boy in blue” who dazzled all with his Kravis Center, West Palm Beach: athletic jumps and spins only to take a spill Nov. 30 – Dec. 2 at the end, and Mary Carmen Catoya and Carlos Miguel Guerra danced a beautiful How Much: pas de deux as young lovers on a date at the Tickets begin at $20 at skating rink. The ballet appropriately ended with a light dusting of snow. www.MiamiCityBallet.org.
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Plagued Documentary Explores Early Days of AIDS Epidemic By J.W. Arnold
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hirty years ago, the AIDS epidemic activists whose fights are documented in and a seeming lack of action from How to Survive a Plague eventually lost their the government galvanized young own battles with AIDS, France says they LGBT activists to take action. A new collectively won the war. documentary opening “This was truly at Miami’s O Cinema the last great this weekend offers an social justice insider’s view of the movement,” early days of ACT UP he said, even and TAG (Treatment dismissing the Action Group) and current fight for the successful effort marriage equality. to influence U.S. drug “What happened policy. in AIDS activism Director David was the complete France took on the transformation project How to Survive of how medicine a Plague in late 2009: and science “I had been thinking are practiced about a project on the today. It wasn’t old days of HIV/AIDS— an inadvertent the plague years—for a transformation, long time. It occurred but one that was to me that the major conceptualized cultural contributions by people with david france, director of how to survive a plague. around AIDS were HIV who had all produced in the only experience middle of those years. There was very little going to the doctor for their HIV. That’s a new thinking after 1996, after the (antiviral) legacy that’s lasting and permanent for all drugs came out,” he explained. Americans.” In what he describes as “detective’s work,” France found himself going from one piece of evidence to another, collecting footage from over 30 individual videographers and hundreds of newscasts, to assemble enough When: footage to really tell the story. Fortunately, Friday, Oct. 26 many of the early ACT UP and TAG meetings and rallies were well documented, with Where: multiple recordings surviving. The filmmaker, 53, arrived in New York O Cinema City at the onset of the epidemic and he 90 NW 29th St., Miami vividly recalls “that feeling that you didn’t know if you would survive. Thankfully, How Much: enough people thought to load up their Tickets $10.50 plus fees at cameras with film to shoot those events.” www.O-Cinema.org While many, if not most, of the young
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By Brian Swinford
Have an event you want to list? If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com. Adventures in Darkness starring Tom Sullivan
Theater Broward County *Steven Wright
The Broward Center for the Performing Arts and AEG Live present Academy Award-winning comedian Steven Wright as he brings his off-kilter yet on-the-money observations to the Parker Playhouse on Saturday, November 3 at 8 p.m. With Grammy Award-nominated recordings, TV comedy specials and numerous film and TV roles, Wright is a prototype comedian that many others continually try to follow. Tickets are $37.50. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com
*Charlotte’s Web Charlotte’s Web, E.B. White’s beloved classic, comes to life on stage as part of the Smart Stage Matinee Series on Thursday, November 15 at 10 a.m. The heartwarming children’s book tells the story of a pig named Wilbur and his friendship with a little barn spider named Charlotte. Tickets are $6 for individual seats, $5.50 for groups of 10 or more and $3 lap seats are available for infants 12 months and under. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com
*Nathan Pacheco
The Broward Center for the Performing Arts and PBS-TV WPBT Channel 2 present power pop and classical crossover sensation Nathan Pacheco on Saturday, November 17 at 8 p.m. An exciting PBS sensation who is being called “the voice of a new generation,” Pacheco masterfully bridges the worlds of opera and pop, delighting audiences with classical favorites along with beautiful original compositions. Tickets are $27.50 and $37.50. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com
*Divorce Party the Musical
Still reeling from her divorce, Linda is rescued by her three friends who have come to turn her despair into a weekend of hilarity in Divorce Party The Musical: The Hilarious Journey To Hell…and Back! on stage from Tuesday, Nov. 27 to Friday, Nov.30 at 8 p.m. From the producer who brought you the Off Broadway hit Menopause The Musical, it’s the ultimate Girls’ Night Out. Tickets are $31.50 and $39. Performances continue through December. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com
*Million Dollar Quartet
Bank of America Broadway Across America-Ft. Lauderdale and Florida Theatrical Association in partnership with the Broward Center for the Performing Arts presents Million Dollar Quartet from Tuesday, Nov. 6 through Sunday, Nov. 18 in the Au-Rene Theater. The Tony Award-winning Broadway musical inspired by the true story of the famed recording session that brought together rock ‘n’ roll icons Elvis Presley, Johnny Cash, Jerry Lee Lewis and Carl Perkins for the first and only time recreates that legendary night. Visit BrowardCenter.org
*It’s A Fabulous LIfe
Will be performed from Nov. 28 through Dec. 2 in the Amaturo Theater at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts. An audience favorite that is returning due to popular demand to the Broward Center for a third time, this gay musical borrows the premise of It’s a Wonderful Life to tell the story of Joe, a gay actor cast in Randolph the Rainbow Reindeer, who has a difficult holiday season filled with family tensions and backstage backstabbing that make him wonder if heterosexuals are happier. Wednesday, Nov. 28 to Friday, Nov. 30 at 7:30 p.m.; Saturday, Dec.1 at 3 and 7:30 p.m.; and Sunday, Dec. 2 at 1 and 6 p.m. Tickets are $35. Call 954-462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org
Lighthouse of Broward presents Adventures in Darkness starring Tom Sullivan on Thursday, October 25 at 7:30 p.m. in the Amaturo Theater at the Broward Center. An actor, singer, entertainer, author and producer who has been blind since birth, Sullivan takes audiences on his journey to live a “normal” life with a performance that will bring tears, laughter and inspiration to all. Tickets are $45 and $75. Visit BrowardCenter.org
Sticks and Stones
A musical play about social issues, bullying and lessons learned, Sticks and Stones is performed as a Smart Stage Matinee in the Amaturo Theater on Friday, October 26 at 10 and 11:30 a.m. This one-woman musical uses music, poetry and video projection to teach children about the critical effects of bullying based on real life experiences of adolescents. It focuses on siblings Scott and Lyn who both experience different problems with bullies, peer pressure and loss of friends. Tickets are $6 and under. Visit BrowardCenter.org
Palm Beach County Avenue Q
Won the Tony “Triple Crown” for Best Musical, Best Score and Best Book. Tells the story of a recent college grad named Princeton who moves into a shabby New York apartment on Avenue Q. He soon discovers that although the residents seem nice, it’s clear this is not your ordinary neighborhood. Call 954-323-7884 or visit SlowBurnTheatre.org
The Rocky Horror Show
Halloween is just around the corner, and who better to celebrate with than the denizens of Dr. Frank N. Furter’s homesweet-castle in Richard O’Brien’s beloved cult classic, The Rocky Horror Show. And Entr’Acte Theatrix is inviting audiences to come do the Time Warp again… when they present ‘Rocky’ at the Crest Theatre at the Delray Center for the Arts at Old School Square from October 25 through November 4. Visit Entractetheatrix.org
Jake Shimabukuro
Renowned for lightning-fast fingers and revolutionary playing techniques, this ukulele sensation’s concerts – featuring an array of genres including jazz, blues, funk, classical, bluegrass, folk, flamenco and rock – are a high-energy, jawdropping musical treat not to be missed. Jake Shimabukuro will be at the Alexander W. Dreyfoos, Jr. Concert Hall at the Kravis Center on Nov. 2 at 8 p.m. Tickets start at $15. Visit Kravis.org
Miami-Dade Martha Speaks
A funny new musical based on the series of books by Susan Meddaugh on Saturday, October 20 at 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. Martha is an ordinary dog who gains the ability to speak after eating a bowl of alphabet soup. Children will enjoy free pre-show art activities and themed airbrush “tattoos” by Young At Art Museum. Tickets are $16 and under. Visit AventuraCenter.org
Last Call
Last Call starring actress, stand-up comedian and world-class bartender Terri Girvin in the Abdo New River Room. The hilarious one-woman show takes place during one chaotic bar shift at the Manhattan bar. Showtimes are Thursday and Friday, October 25 and 26 at 7:30 p.m.; Saturday, October 27 at 3 and 7:30 p.m.; and Sunday, October 28 at 6 p.m. Tickets are $30. Visit BrowardCenter.org
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SPOTLIGHT: The Arts By J.W. Arnold
Dancing Around the Iron Curtain
The South Florida Symphony Orchestra’s Blue Door String Quartet’s Chamber Series continues on Monday, October 29 at 7 p.m. The program features Piazolla’s “Tangoes,” a unique blend of jazz improvisation, counterpoint and dissonance; Shostakovich’s “String Quartet No. 8, 0pus 110,” known as one of the most powerful and personal works of twentieth-century art; and concludes with Beethoven’s “String Quartet in C Major, Opus 59, No. 3.” Tickets are $25. Visit AventuraCenter.org
THE Vampire Circus
Lock your doors, secure your home’s The Vampire Circus will release an army of vampires into Miami and transform Downtown Miami’s Bayfront Park into a haven for the beautiful and seductive creatures of the night on October 18 to 31 at 8 p.m. At The Vampire Circus, spectators will witness a world filled with super natural Circus performers, terror and suspense, enchanted magic and comedy that will leave them dying for more and an exotic ambiance of panic and fear that would make Tim Burton proud. Visit theVampirecircus.us
Idle Warship: Talib Kweli & Res
Talib Kweli’s buzzworthy duo act Idle Warship, with singer/ songwriter RES, will make its anticipated Florida debut at the Center’s Knight Concert Hall on Oct. 19. In 2009, the famed rapper joined longtime collaborator RES to form Idle Warship. The hip-hop/electro group released their first official album, Habits of the Heart, in November 2011. Visit Arshtcenter.org
Lenine
For his Arsht Center debut on Oct. 26, Lenine will perform hits from his highly-acclaimed career, including award-winning favorites “Ninguém Faz Idéia” and “Martelo Bigorna,” as well as new songs from his tenth album, Chão (Ground in English), produced by Bruno Giorgi, JR.Tostoi and LENINE himself. Chão consists of ten songs marked by intriguing, unconventional sounds like a canary’s chirp, a kettle’s whistle, a child’s heartbeat, waterfalls and a hypnotic digital ping-pong noise courtesy of a Facebook chat. Visit Arshtcenter.org
Light/The Holocaust & Humanity Project
Through Nov. 4, at the Arsht Center is convening community organizations, in partnership with the Anti-Defamation League, in a county-wide calendar of performances, activities, education programs and public forums. This program will be a three-month, county-wide human rights collaboration that will focus attention on the work that is being done in Miami-Dade County toward the protection of human rights against bigotry and hate. Visit ArshtCenter.org
Broadway in Miami 2012-13 This season Ziff Ballet Opera House on Oct. 9 to May 12 will hold the Broadway In Miami spectacle. Experience the return of the world’s greatest musical spectacle - Les Misérables - in its lavish new 25th anniversary production, along with the Miami premieres of Broadway’s biggest fun-filled hits including the high-stepping Mary Poppins, the outlandishly colorful Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, the awesomely cool Rock of Ages, and - the 2010 Tony Award Winner for Best Musical - Memphis, a triumph of explosive dancing and powerhouse songs. Visit Arshtcenter.org
Community Calendar Broward County *BOYS N’ TOYS EVENT
Presented by PNC Bank, Kids In Distress Boys N’ Toys is a private yacht hop held at the Fort Lauderdale International Boat Show held on Friday, Oct. 26 at 6:30 to 9:30 p.m. Guests have the opportunity to enjoy cocktails and hors d’oeuvres on some of the most exclusive yachts in this year’s show. Features live and silent auctions with extraordinary gifts, luxury vendors and a variety of activities aboard these select vessels. Contact Patricia Moskol, Development Officer at 954-390-7654 ext. 1068 or email PatriciaMoskol@kidinc.org
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Photo courtesy of Lyle Cogen
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*The SunTrust Sunday Jazz Brunch
The SunTrust Sunday Jazz Brunch featuring hours of soulful sounds of jazz on four stages takes place on Sunday, Nov. 4 from 10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. One of Fort Lauderdale’s most popular community events. Visit BrowardCenter.org
The Four Noble Truths
We all have certain things that feel to us like true sources of happiness, but which in reality have caused us no end of suffering, time and time again. It is our mind of attachment that continues to deceive us, causing us to relate to these things in mistaken ways, and leading us straight into problems and misfortune. Learn how to break this cycle. $10/class or $30/ series includes vegetarian food after class, members free. Visit MeditationInFortLauderdale.org
Taste of the Island
Wilton Manors is holding its 7th annual Taste of the Island at historic Richardson Park from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. Tickets available at Barton Miller Cleaners, Wilton Manors Library, and at Wilton Manors City Hall. Includes a Silent Auction, which will take place in the Richardson’s historical house. Visit TasteOfTheIsland.org
Pride Center Hosts Senior Health Expo
The Pride Center’s third annual LGBT Senior Health Expo will be held from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, Oct. 20 at The Pride Center, 2040 North Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. The Expo will again provide Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) seniors with a unique, comprehensive overview of available healthcare services. Over fifty LGBT-friendly medical, professional, support and financial providers in the fields of healthcare, aging and geriatrics will showcase their services and products through this popular event. Contact: Kristofer Fegenbush, Pride Center Deputy Director at 954-4639005 ext. 111
Adventure Bears - Fall 2012 Caribbean Cruise
Adventure Bears offers a truly unique travel experience where you can relax/recharge from a stressful job or be social with other like-minded traveler -- all while being pampered on one of the finest cruise lines in the world, Princess Cruise newest ship, the Ruby Princess. Call or email Paul B. Stalbaum at paul@crusiedesignstravel.com or 954-566-3377
Broward House presents Wanda Sykes, A World AIDS Day Benefit Concert
Sykes will make her only South Florida appearance in 2012-13 in this one-night only engagement during World AID Days weekend on Dec 2, at 8 p.m. at the Broward Center Au Rene Theater as a benefit for Broward House, Broward County’s oldest and largest HIV/AIDS community service organization. Wanda Sykes is considered “one of the funniest stand up comics” by her peers and ranks among Entertainment Weekly’s 25 Funniest People in America. Visit BrowardCenter.org
Pozitive Attitudes Topic driven Peer lead support group for gay and bisexual men who are infected or affected by HIV/AIDS. Meets every Wednesday 7-9 p.m. at the Pride Center 204 N.Dixie Hwy Room 204. Refreshments, no charge, open meeting. PAHereandNow@aol.com www.PozitiveAttitudes.com
Queer Youth Friday Nights
LGBTQ and allied youth group for people13-21. This Is a drop in group anytime from 6 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. This youth group will be SunServe building on 1480 SW 9th Ave on the second floor. A Safe Space to be yourself! Queer Themed Movie showing at 7 p.m. on Friday nights. This group is a safe hangout to meet new friends, free Wi-Fi to bring your laptop or your iPad, plus board games that you can bring or play the ones that they provide at the group. Visit Sunserve.org/youth/index.htm
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Performer Lyle Cogen stars in Sticks and Stones, a performance piece responding to the epidemic of LGBT bullying across the country.
Sticks and Stones
It’s Okay to Be Gay
Life is a Cabaret
Sexy Spooks Close Photo Exhibit
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ne week after millions across the country donned purple on Spirit Day to draw attention to anti-LGBT bullying, the Broward Center presents Sticks and Stones, a musical play about social issues, bullying and the lessons learned, Friday, Oct. 26 at 10 a.m. and 1:30 p.m. The one-woman musical, featuring Lyle Cogen, uses catchy songs, poetry and video projections to teach children about the critical effects of bullying, based on the real life experiences of young people across the country, including bullying, peer pressure and the loss of friends. Tickets are $6 and group rates are available at www.BrowardCenter.org.
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outh Florida boasts one of the country’s leading venues for wonderful cabaret – the Royal Room at the venerable Colony Hotel in Palm Beach. Last week, the hotel announced another star-studded 2012-13 season at the hotel, featuring the biggest names from Broadway, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Las Vegas. Returning favorites include Broadway and nightclub headliners Ann Hampton Callaway and Liz Callaway, Christine Ebersole and Aaron Weinstein,The Four Freshmen, Clint Holmes, Nicolas King, Marilyn Maye, Faith Prince, Avery Sommers and Steve Tyrell. Also, film and television actress Emily Bergl (Gilmore Girls, Desperate Housewives) will make her Royal Room debut. For ticket information and a complete schedule, go to www.TheColonyPalmBeach.com or call 561-655-5430.
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his is just one of the life lessons learned in Avenue Q, the Tonywinning musical that spoofs Sesame Street with all sorts of adult-themed songs, including: “Everyone’s a Little Bit Racist,” “The Internet is for Porn,” and “If I Could Go Back to College.” Slow Burn Theatre Company, the plucky Palm Beach theatre with a penchant for big musicals, tackles this clever show at West Boca High School Performing Arts Center, 12811 W. Glades Rd. in Boca Raton, Oct. 26 – Nov. 4. If past productions are any indication, this is one show not to be missed. Tickets are $20-35 at www.SlowBurnTheatre.org.
You won’t find ghosts and ghouls at Miami’s LMNT Arts gallery on Halloween night, but you will see plenty of sexy specters and fantastic phantoms. The Midtown art gallery, located at 59 W. 36th St., hosts The Boudoir Diaries Ball on Oct. 31 at 8 p.m. to celebrate the closing of the titillating new photography exhibit, The Boudoir Diaries, by Howard Austin Feld and Christine Alfaro. Guests are invited to explore their own dark sides and dress in their sexy best for the party, which will feature special performances, a guest celebrity DJ, hors d’oeuvres and bottle service. Admission is free until 11 p.m. with free Lucky Player vodka drinks before 10 p.m. After 11 p.m., admission is $20 per person. For more information, go to www.LMNTArtsMiami.com.
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Meditation After Work
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GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group will be held at the chamber offices on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month from 8 to 9 a.m. The leads group is looking for additional members. If you are interested joining, please contact Ken Stollar at Kenneth.Stolar@sci-us.com to see if your category is open and to attend as a guest. Visit Ftlchamber.com/index. php?src=gendocs&ref=GLBX_home&category=GLBX
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Latinos Salud’s programs Multiple programs and groups for bi/gay Latino guys. Latinos Salud’s SOMOS program is for guys 18 to 30. All proceeds will benefit Latinos Salud in our efforts to educate on HIV Prevention and testing. Every Thursday night at 7 p.m. join the Core Group, and help plan alternative activities. Also offers Popular Opinion Leader group for guys ages 25 to 44 and a Life Coaching program for guys ages 18 to 44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Located at 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-533-8681 or visit Latinossalud.org
Queer Youth Nights
LGBTQ & allied youth 13-21 are welcome any time after 6 p.m. at the SunServe building on Wilton Drive for a great place to meet new friends, play board games and a Queer Themed Movie at 7 p.m. Email Afrosch@sunServe.or
Man2Man Discussion
Man2Man Discussion Group meets at the Pride Center on Mondays from 7 until 8:30 p.m. Any subject may be discussed. Members regularly reassemble afterwards for ‘repast’ at The Courtyard, PeterPan Diner. Visit Glccsf.org
On Mondays from 6-6:30 p.m. there will be Guided meditation w/ western Buddhist teacher Gui Passow. Looking for a way to rest and re-charge before starting your evening? Come in for a free guided meditation to clear your mind at the end of the day. This class is free at Drolma Buddhist Center. Call 954537-9191 or visit meditationinfortlauderdale.org
Buddhist Meditation Classes
All the happiness there is in the world arises from wishing others to be happy. By abandoning self-centered thoughts and replacing them with the belief that others are important, we will overcome our suffering and find true happiness inside our own hearts. $10/class or $30/series includes vegetarian food after class. Call The Drolma Buddhist Center at 954-5379191.
Every Sunday of the month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Pre-1980s classic cars, modern classics and custom cars from 19812012 will be showcased. $10 car registration from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. (Show Car Entrance: 20th Avenue & Tyler Street). People’s Choice Award - 2 Classes; Top Ten Vehicles Award. Call 954-214-2457
Living Healthy
Fusion in Wilton Manors will be having a free workshop on healthy choices, and healthy living on Tuesdays from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. This workshop provides interactive learning, practice and mastery techniques for a healthier and more active life, and positive changes for quality of life. Call 954-630-1655
Latinos Salud’s Life Coaching program is for Latino gay/bi guys ages 18-44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Set your goals, and meet action steps to make them come true. 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-765-6239. Visit Latinossalud.org
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S.L.A.A. believes that sex and love addiction is a progressive illness which cannot be cured but which, like many illnesses, can be arrested. It may take several forms -- including, but not limited to, a compulsive need for sex, extreme dependency on one or many people, or a chronic pre-occupation with romance, intrigue, or fantasy. Meets at The Pride Center at Equality Park in Bldg A, Room 200 Fridays 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Slaafws.org
Survivor Support
A Survivor Support Group is being held on the first and third Wednesday of each month at the 211 Community Center, 250 NE 33rd Street, in Oakland Park. The Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention (FISP) is sponsoring this free support group and is open to all family members and friends of those who have died by suicide. Call 954-384-0344 to register. Meets from 7-8:30 p.m. Visit Fisponline.org.
Eating Disorder Support
Dream Car Classic
Life Coaching
Sex & Love Anonymous
Meets Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. A “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. Free. No registration required. Donations welcome. Call 954-764-5150
Sunday Jazz Brunch
First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live, outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists. Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages. Well-behaved, leashed pets welcome. Plenty of room for chairs, blankets and picnic baskets.
Young Adult GLBT
A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35. Meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m. Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity. Visit PrideCenterFlorida.org/contact-us
Boardwalk Friday Fest
Come out to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month. Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile boardwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-924-2980
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Mask-Erade
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Most Toastmasters meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-566-2074 or email: Tedverdone@comcast.net
Tuesday Night Eatin Meeting
Tuesday Night Eatin’ Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland Park. Fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hamburgers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. Meeting begins at 8 p.m. and ends at 9 p.m. Visit Alternativemc.com/events/ florida-events
Gay Male Empowerment
Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155
PFLAG Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge. Visit Community.pflag. org/pflagfortlauderdale
SunServe Therapy Groups
Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-764-5150 to learn which therapy groups have openings. Groups Include a Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group, a Safe “T” support group for gender variant adults, an Intimate Partner Abuse group and others. Visit SunServe.org
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Fusion Wilton Manors - Connections
Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week. Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event. No charge. Starts at 7 p.m. Call 954-630-1655.
Women4Women Support
A safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150
Man2Man Discussion
Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed. Bldg A, Room 206. Visit Glccsf.org/calendar/
Palm Beach County
GLBTA Dem Caucus Annual Celebrity Bartender Fundraiser Theme: A “Pink Slip Rick” Event (Pink attire encouraged). Featuring our “celebrity” bartenders: Rep Lori Berman; Sen Maria Sachs; Sen Elect Jeff Clemens; Rep Mark Pafford; Rep Elect Dave Kerner. No admission charge - generously tip your favorite “celebrity bartender.” Special “Pink” cocktail created for our event featuring Sweet Revenge Wild Strawberry Sour Mash Liqueur. 50-50 raffle / Doorprizes / Music / Food. When: Sunday November 4. Time: 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Location: The Cottage, 522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth.
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The exhibition continues through. November 7. Gallery hours are Tuesday through Saturday 10:30 a.m. until 5 p.m., Monday by appointment only and closed Sunday. These amazingly crafted masks were worn by the indigenous people of Peru living under the Spanish occupation in the 19th century. At a time when the Spanish allowed little room for self-expression among native Peruvians, the indigenous people crafted these masks for their dance festivals, subtly mocking their overlords. Visit Griffingallery.net
Palm Beach Food & Wine Festival
Foodies have a reason to celebrate as a flood of epicurean talent descends upon the area for the Palm Beach Food & Wine Festival 2012. Award-winning chefs and culinary personalities, authors, winemakers, journalists, and mixologists are creating a culinary event of a magnitude never before seen on the illustrious island and beyond. This sixth anniversary year of the Festival includes an expanded lineup, growing from five nights of culinary delights to nearly a dozen events with both day and evening programming, including a star chef golf tournament and trade-only panel discussion. On Dec7-11 at various locations. Visit Pbfoodwinefest.com
Palm Beaches Marathon & Run Fest
December in Florida and striding through tropics. Now that will impress your friends and family. Palm Beaches Marathon & Run Fest isn’t just a race or a way to keep in shape before the holiday parties and cheer; it’s a vacation onto itself. This event will start and finish on Flagler drive on Nov 20-Dec 2. Visit Runpalmbeaches.com
Oktoberfest
Next to the Christmas tree, Oktoberfest is the most popular custom Germany (actually Bavaria) has ever exported to the rest of the world. The American German Club of the Palm Beaches proudly hosts its time-honored Oktoberfest on the second and third weekends of October. A yearly celebration of beer and good times held on ten acres of ground, under pavilion and massive tent; making this “Original Oktoberfest” one of the largest in the country. Visit Americangermanclub. org/oktoberfest.html
Lake Worth Bike Night
The Lake Worth bike night is fun, and it’s for a cause. Join loads of people in downtown Lake Worth every Thursday from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.. The event is free and open to bikers and nonbikers. Visit Lakeworthbikenight.com
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Have an event you want to list? If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com. Alternative Life Style Show Featured guests contribute to the community. All are welcomed to call in. Many give aways and prizes including a contest for free buffets at Isle Capri Casino in Pompano. You can also listen by adding W4CYRADIO to SKYPE or call in at 561-623-9429. Up coming spotlights on parties of interest and special events.
PFLAG
PFLAG is a monthly support, coming out and rap groups for families of & for Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Transgender people. Meeting in Palm Beach County is at 6:30 on the third Wednesday of the month. Call or email Carol at 561-716-9464 Pflag@ pobox.com
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New Alternatives
Social group with regular outings and social mixers for LGBTQ ages 18 to 30. This meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Email matthew@compassglcc.com or Visit Compassglcc.com.
Sober Sisters AA
Support group is dedicated for lesbians who are recovering from alcoholism. Meeting happens every Monday at 7 p.m. at Lambda North Clubhouse. Visit LambdaNorth.net
PBC Gender Support
Drag Queens at Sea
Good Orderly AA
Join ALandCHUCK.travel and CRUISE on Dec 1, with the largest gathering of Drag Stars ever! Join nearly 40 stars along with Celebrity Hostess Michelle Visage for an incredible 8 day cruise with cocktail parties, drag performances, comedy shows, Q&A panels and so much more. Visit Facebook.com/events/148246971907863/.
All ages support group dedicated for transgender individuals. This meeting happens the 1st and 3rd Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. These meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Visit Compassglcc.com These meetings now take place at Lambda North at 18 S. J Street, and geared toward recovering alcoholics. Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 5:30 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol. Email tcamie@aol.com Seniors vs. Crime is a free service that provides help to seniors who have been victimized by businesses or service providers and need assistance. This event will take place at Mae Volen Senior Center at 1515 W. Palmetto Park Road. By appointment only so call 561-736-3820 or 561-395-8920.
Need an excuse to keep partying well after the weekend is over? The Monday-night party at the recently renovated Collins Park lounge. This amazing party will take place at Mokai in Miami Beach. The party, hosted by Mark Lehmkuhl, sort of takes now-defunct Bella Rose’s Black Sunday murder mystery theme but gives it a Patty Hearst twist. Every week, some prominent nightlife fixture gets held for ransom, and the only way it gets returned is if you party your ass off. Only $20 to attend. Visit Mokaimiami.com
Yoga On The Waterfront
Rainbow Circle
Seniors vs. Crime
Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 p.m. Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class. To register, please call 561-804-4902.
YOGA Among the Orchids
It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach. Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m. Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561404-2011. Visit OrchidWeb.org
Jazz on the Palm
Jazz on the Palm - Downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the diverse vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every 3rd Friday of month at the new Downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo. com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-pa
Sunday on the Waterfront
Sunday on the Waterfront is a free concert series, which takes place the third Sunday of most months in the beautiful downtown West Palm Beach waterfront area. Bring blankets, chairs, and coolers or purchase treats at the concert. Free parking in all city lots and at city meters. 4:30 p.m. to 7 p.m. May through October. Visit OnTheWaterFront.com
BrothasSpeak
This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com
Paths
Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com
Yoga
Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat. Visit Compassglcc.com
Rainbow Circle is a peer-led LGBTQ support & discussion group. Topics covered often include coming out, relationships, bullying, peer pressure, drugs & alcohol, depression and selfesteem. You pick and develop discussion topics and are able to express your thoughts and feelings without fear in a safe and supportive environment. This group will take place every Monday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the University of Miami, Flipse Building #302. Visit Pridelines.org
Sex Talk
Sex Talk: Peer Health Educators are young LGBTQ adults who learn how to talk to other young adults about sex, sexuality and HIV/STD prevention. You’ll conduct outreach events, record video messages, participate in a series of performances and organize special events with a purpose. This event takes place the second and fourth Thursday every month at Pridelines Headquarters located at 9526 NE 2nd Ave #104 In Miami Shores from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Pridelines.org
AIDS Quilt Panel Workshops
Miami Beach Community Health Center’s “Making Memories” will assist those interested in creating an AIDS Quilt panel as a way to pay tribute to a life lost to AIDS. Workshops are held the fourth Saturday of every month through October. 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Workshops are free. Visit Miamibeachhealth.org or 305-538-8835 or 1-800-393-1290
Lambda Dade Clubhouse
A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. (305) 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org
Broward County 321-Slammer
Bathhouse. 321 W Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida, 33311. Slammer sex club the best place to cruise for the hottest gay men. Thursday’s is leather night, Friday and Saturday night live DJs. Monday & Tuesday -- $9 entry fee
Atomic Boom
2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 630-3556 Best Sound & Light Show in Broward County. Mondays “porn bingo” with Desiree Dubois. $3 Margaritas, $1 Draft
Bill’s Filling Station
Living Buddhism
On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness. This group is great for getting internal enlightenment. Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com
2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-5978. Large bar/ nightclub, amazing drink specials in Wilton Manors! Wednesday’s after 9 p.m. $10 Miller Lite Beer Bust
Boardwalk
1721 N. Andrews Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33311. (954) 463-6969. A Cute Little Hangout in Fort Lauderdale.
Miami-Dade
Pool-room/game room on one side and a bar/strip club on the other. Mondays $3 Well & Dom, after 9 p.m. $3 U-Call-It Shots
Dress in drag, throw on a wig, or just come out and show support for Miami Beach Gay Pride as four South Beach establishments host the first “Drag Bar Crawl” fundraiser for the annual parade and festival Thursday, Oct. 25, at 8 p.m. at Palace Bar, 1200 Ocean Drive. Drag superstar Tiffany Fantasia will present “Best Float” award from 2012 parade. Tickets available at LGBT Visitor Center, sponsored by MetLife, at 1130 Washington Avenue in Miami Beach or email Ivan Cano at Ivan@miamibeachgaypride.com
The Club Fort Lauderdale
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Ransom Mondays
Bathhouse. 110 NW 5th Ave., Fort Lauderdale, FL, (954) 5253344 Good. Clean. Fun. 1/2 price rooms...Tuesday Nights and 1/2 price Lockers. Thursdays Nights. Always busy.
Clubhouse II
Bathhouse. 2650 E. Oakland Park Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida (954) 566-6750. A Private Club for Bi/Gay men. “Bear and Friends” Thursday $5 Off a room 8 p.m. to 11 p.m. Tuesday Leather Night - $5 off for those in full leather gear.
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Have an event you want to list? If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com. Corner Pub Bar
1915 N. Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 564-7335. Redefining what a bar should be. Thursday’s margarita madness $4, Monday’s “Underwear Night. 2 for 1” until 9:30 p.m.
Cubby Hole
823 N. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 728-9001. The Cubby Hole is one of Fort Lauderdale’s most unique and popular Neighborhood bar for men. Underwear Wednesday’s. “Boxers n’ Briefs” get 2 for 1 drinks 9 p.m. to close
The Depot Cabana Bar and Grill
2935 N. Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 537-7076. Voted the “Friendliest” Gay Bar in Fort Lauderdale. Monday’s $1.99 Drinks and $.50 wings open to close
Dudes Bar
3270 NE 33rd St Fort Lauderdale FL 954-568-7777. Sexy hot men starting to shake the booty daily from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. On Sundays enjoy karaoke with Peter Petrucci. Great drink specials every Monday with $1 well drinks from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m.
Georgie’s Alibi
2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 565-2526. Fort Lauderdale’s best & longest happy hour. Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.
Johnny’s
1116 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 5225931. Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky Some of the hottest guys around with great happy hour drink specials. Bring all your friends to this sexy Bar.
The Manor
2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2 for 1 happy hour Tues-Friday 3 to 9 p.m. Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday through Sunday. Live music Wed., Fri., Sat., Sun. Visit themanorcomplex.com
Matty’s on the Drive
2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 564-1799. Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.
Mona’s
502 E. Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5256662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8 p.m. Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1
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Sidelines Sports Bar
2031 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305, (954) 563-8001. Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards is a unique, friendly, and accepting place to relax with a cold beer, great drinks and Martinis. Happy Hour M-F 4 p.m. to 2 a.m.
Smarty Pants
3038 North Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306, (954) 561-1724. Great Local Hangout in Fort Lauderdale with Great Drink Specials. Saturday’s Free Breakfast to Order – 8 a.m.
The Stable
205 East Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, FL 33334, (954) 565-4506 A neighborhood bar with a different theme every night, from drag shows and bingos, to bears and underwear.
Torpedo
2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 587-2500. Your Dance Destination Till Dawn. Open Late for You To Devour The Night. Open 7 nights a week till 4 a.m.
727 Lincoln Rd, Miami Beach, Florida, 33139. (305) 561-5521. Score is located in the heart of South Beach in the thriving and infamous promenade, Lincoln Road. Bigger Saturday’s sexy male dolls.
Swinging Richards
Club Aqua
1508 NE 4th Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 763-8219. South Florida’s Leading Levi, Leather and Uniform Bar/Club. Every night is Bear Night. Bear Happy. Hour Every Thursday. Caged Hunks Sat Night
Rosie’s Bar and Grill
2449 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-1320. Wilton Manor’s Best Burger in Town. Try the Fat Elvis. Happy Hour 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Scandals Country Western Bar
Oakland Park, FL 3334, (954) 567-2432. Scandals Gay and Lesbian Country Western. Dance Bar in Wilton Manors. Tuesdays Pool League, and Free Dance Lessons
801 Duval St., Key West, Florida,(305) 294-4737. Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. Happy hour specials daily from 11 a.m.- 8 p.m.
Pearl’s Patio Bar
525 United Street, Key West, FL(305) 293-9805 ext. 156. Pearl’s Patio is a great place to enjoy a drink and relax. Happy Hour – every weekday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Friday’s are Extended Happy Hour 5 p.m. - 9 p.m.
The Bourbon St. Pub
724 Duval St. (305) 296-1992. Key West’s premier video bar with LIVE DJ’S nightly. A taste of N’Awlins in the heart of Old Town – Enjoy Key West’s hottest music videos on the large screen while the boys entertain on the bar. No Cover.
H.G. Rooster
823 BELVEDERE ROAD, WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33405, (561)-832-9119. H.G. Roosters is West Palms oldest gay club. Sunday’s Complimentary BBQ 5 p.m., Hot Male Dancers 6 p.m., Karaoke 11 p.m.
Mara (Thurs-Sat)
1132 North Dixie Highway, Lake Worth FL $3 Drinks. No Cover. Open till 5 a.m. Ladies night on Thursdays and Karaoke on Fridays.
The Mad Hatter
1532 North Dixie Hwy ,Lake Worth, FL 33460. (561) 547-8860. Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders, and free pool SundayThursday. Stop by and relax at this no-attitude haunt.
The Bar Lake Worth
Miami-Dade
Ramrod
801 Bar
705 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305) 292-8500. Key West AllMale Strip Club. Daily Happy Hour from 3-8 p.m. And a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night.
6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, Florida 33405 Directions, (561) 533-5355. Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. Place rocks with a Fabulous DJ on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday T-Dance.
New Moon
924 North Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 533-0257. One of The Most Diverse Bars in Fort Lauderdale. $2 Drinks Every Wednesday, Spades Every Thursday
Key West
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Fort Dix
Tag Bar
PJ’s Corner Pocket
1057 Washington Ave, Miami Beach, Fl, 33139. (305) 538-9478. Never a Cover…Always a Groove. Resident star DJ Mika spins tribal. Every Saturday TWIST is full of the hottest men in Miami. Muscle boy dancers taking it off in the Bungalow Bar.
522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth, Fl, 33414. (561) 586-0080 Great Service, Great Food, Full Stocked Bar, Great Professional Tea-Dance every Sunday
Naked Grape Wine Bar
2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-7660. Your neighborhood lesbian bar in the heart of Fort Lauderdale and just minutes from Fort. Lauderdale Beach. Wednesday All the fun, half the price 2-4-1 All Day, All Night
Twist
711 Duval St.,Key West, Florida,(305) 294-0555. Monday’s Dueling Bartenders. Your Bartender’s sing, shake, and stir their way through happy hour 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.
The Cottage (Tea-Dance Sundays)
2211 North Dixie Highway Lake Worth. (561) 370-3954 Thebarlakeworth.com. Men and women share this mostly-locals space as a calm and friendly watering hole. The bar often features live music which can be a nice break from thumping bass.
2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305. (954) 563-5631. A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday
17450 Biscayne Blvd, N Miami Beach, Fl 33160 954-357-2532 Tuesdays-Saturdays from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. Come and enjoy fully nude guys dancing to the best music in South Florida.
Palm Beach County
Monkey Business
2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311. (954) 514-7819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd. No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People. Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.
La Te Da
1125 Duval St. 305-296-6706 Fun Gay-Friendly atmosphere. Cabaret entertainment during season including Randy Roberts and Chris Peterson. Enjoy great live music Tuesday thru Sunday with Lenore Troia. Cover charge may apply. Great outside bar if you just want to enjoy a cocktail and chat while people watching on Duval Street.
Score
25 Northeast 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach, FL 33483 954-801-3247. Delray Beach’s only gay bar. Mon - Sun: 4 p.m. - 2 a.m. Awesome Drink Specials.
Club Space
34 NE 11th St ,Miami ,Florida, 33132,(305) 350-1956 Space Miami Voted Best U.S Club IDMA 2011. The go-to venue for any nightlife enthusiast in the nation, the club is proudly marching on into its second decade of operation.
Club Sugar
2301 SW 32nd Ave, Miami, Florida, 33145, (305) 443-7657. All the sweetness you’ll need in one club. Every Thursday “drag wars” with TP Lords. $5 house drinks & $4 Domestic beers all night.
Discotekka
950 NE 2nd Ave, Downtown Miami, Florida 33132,(305) 3509084. One of the best night clubs In Miami. Every Saturday the hottest DJ’s from the top performers. Drink Special Every Saturday
Johnny’s
Miami 62 NE 14 Street Downtown Miami Florida (305) 640-8749. Open Wed. through Sun. The hottest men in the universe strip shows nightly from 6 p.m. sexy from wall to wall. Free entrance. Free parking. Free VIP rooms. Featuring the Hottest Male Dancers and The Best VIP ROOMS and always $5 Drinks. Full Lineup at ed at
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