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Zoe Saldana Says She Would Marry a Woman Actress revealed that after her male relationships, the ‘right one’ could be female “Avatar” star Zoe Saldana may have been engaged to actor Keith Britton, and then dated Hollywood hunk Bradley Cooper until December, but she says her ultimate love may someday be a woman. “[I might] end up with a woman raising my children,” Saldana told Allure Magazine for a photo shoot in which she

appeared naked, “that’s how androgynous I am.” Besides going topless, the 34-year-old also revealed more about her sexuality, admitting that when she’s in love she gives herself 100 percent to the relationship. “If I have something good in front of me, it doesn’t matter if it’s a person or a pair of shoes,

I’m not going to test something else,” Saldana said. “It’s insecure and it’s immature.” “It’s okay to say, ‘This is what I want,’ and go after it,” she adds. Saldana’s latest film, “Star Trek Into Darkness,” opens in theaters last week. The June issue of Allure hit newsstands on May 21.

Over 30,000 Attend New York AIDS Walk

The walk has raised over $128,000,000 for HIV programs since 1986 The 28th annual New York AIDS Walk, said to be the largest of its kind in the world, took place on Sunday, May 19. Some celebrities headlining the event included Glee’s Alex Newell, Ugly Betty’s Micheal Urie and Martha Wash singing You’ll Never Walk Alone. The walk started and ended

at Central Park. All the proceeds went to the Gay Men’s Health Crisis and more that 40 other local AIDS service organizations. “More than one million people are living with HIV in the United States. One in five (21 percent) of those people living with HIV is unaware of their infection,” GMHC said.

GMHC added: “More than 18,000 people with AIDS still die each year in the US. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) are strongly affected and represent the majority of persons who have died.’ The New York AIDS Walk has raised over $128,000,000 for HIV programs and services since 1986.

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celebrate gay pride with them. Stockholm Pride has launched #GoWest, a new social media campaign. On the #GoWest website people can send out a tweet that will automatically be translated into Russian, inviting people to attend the celebrations. “To celebrate that love, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity and gender

identity is a democratic right, we have taken this opportunity to, with humor and love, direct a special invitation to all of Russia to celebrate Pride with us,” said Stockholm Pride organizers. Unlike Russia, Sweden has been at the forefront in the battle for gay and trans rights recognition. The country legalized gay marriage in 2009.

Three More Quickies to Wake You Up Michele Bachmann Teams Up with Anti-Gay Pundit in ‘Pray Day’ Push The anti-gay Minnesota congresswoman is focusing on advocating for a 9/11 day of prayer

Hospital Sued Over Unnecessary Surgery on Intersex Baby The baby’s genitalia were removed without informing legal guardians of other options available Map Tracks Twitter Hate Speech Across Country Geography students created a map using 150,000 geocoded tweets over a one-year period

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Stockholm Pride organizers are extending an invitation to their oppressed neighbors While several places around the world, including Fort Lauderdale, will be celebrating gay pride this summer, LGBT members in Russia have been banned from doing so for the next 100 years. To try to alleviate their neighbors’ freedom of expression suppression, Swedish Pride organizers are mounting a Twitter campaign to invite Russians to

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Kaitlyn Hunt allegedly had sexual relations with her girlfriend. Normally that wouldn’t be a problem, but in this case, Hunt is 18 years old and her girlfriend at the time was 14, which makes it illegal even though the relationship was consensual and both girls attended the same high school and played on the same sports team. The story went viral this week with people expressing their outrage online. Hunt’s parents are waging a social media campaign to clear their daughter’s name, which includes an online petition on Change.org that’s now topped 100,000 signatures and launched a “Free Kate” Facebook group with more than 32,000 members. Hunt’s been charged with two felonies of “lewd and lascivious battery on a child 12 – 16 years of age,” which, if she’s convicted, could send her to jail for 15 years and put her on a sexual offender list for life. In Florida the age of consent is 18, but there are age exemptions allowing individuals 23 and younger to have a consensual sexual relationship with a 16- or 17-year-old.

“I am outraged,” said Nadine Smith, executive director of Equality Florida. “It’s outrageous a teenager is facing felony charges that carry up to 15 years in because of a relationship with a school mate. These laws are intended to stop adults from preying on children and should not be used to destroy the lives of these two teenagers.” Smith said Equality Florida is pushing this story in the media to bring awareness to Hunt’s plight, as well as contacting legislators and legal organizations. The state attorney’s office has offered Hunt a plea deal that reduces the charges to felony child abuse, which would require two years of house arrest, plus one more year of probation. Hunt has until May 24 to accept the deal. If not, the trial could start in June. “This is complete absence of common sense application of the law and it’s terrifying,” Smith said. “A lot of times these cases stem from a parent objecting to race, gender, or ethnicity of the person their child is dating so they wait to the eighteenth birthday and go to the police. They ignore

the fact that they’re teenagers, and school than four years older. In addition the sex must mates. It’s unconscionable that this law is have been consensual, and the offender must used in this case or any other that involves not have additional sex offense convictions high school sweet hearts.” after the original offense. Hunt’s parents have alleged that Hunt’s For more exclusive coverage, go to sfgn.com. sexual orientation was a factor in their decision to go to the police. The Indian River Sheriff’s Department denies sexual orientation was a factor in the arrest and charges. Legislative director for the Florida GLBT Democratic Caucus, Michael Rajner, isn’t buying it. “The prosecution of Kaitlyn Hunt by the Indian River State Attorney’s Office is an absolute abuse of our criminal justice system and clearly fueled by blatant homophobia,” he said. Florida passed a law in 2007 that may help Hunt if she’s convicted. Nicknamed the “Romeo and Juliet” law, it allows judges to remove individuals from the sexual offender Kaitlyn Hunt, 18, has been charged with two felonies “lewd and registry list if the victim was at least lascivious battery on a child 12 – 16 years of age.” Photo courtesy of Kaitlyn Hunt’s Facebook page 14 years old and the offender no more

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+Superman Writer Considered Killing Character with AIDS Famed comic book writer and creator Jim Starlin revealed during a panel at the Nashville Comic and Horror Festival the he and other creative minds at DC Comics voted to decide which character to kill in the 80s using AIDS. Comicbook.com reports that the revelation came in a story Starlin was telling the crowd. In the late 80s Starlin

had allowed fans to call in and decide if Robin should live or die in the Batman comic, “A Death In The Family.” “When the AIDS epidemic first came to light, DC had this idea to do a book where one of their characters contracted AIDS and died from it,” Starlin told the crowd. “And so, being the nice sensitive subject that it is, they

put out a suggestion box that you were supposed to drop in the name of the character that you thought should die from AIDS.” Starlin said the majority of people voted for photograph Jimmy Olsen should be the one to contract AIDS and die. But because of who played Olsen in the Superman movies

Mom’ Patricia +‘Tanning Krentcil Appears in Gay Porn

Patricia Krentcil, also known as “Tanning Mom,” is scheduled to make her porn debut in the upcoming gay flick Kings of New York by Lucas Entertainment, according to celebrity gossip website TMZ. Film director Marc MacNamara told The Huffington Post that Krentcil, who was launched into the spotlight for allegedly allowing her five year old daughter to tan at a salon, will be playing the owner of a tanning salon where the characters in the porn come to get some color before a weekend in Fire Island. “We expected Patricia to need a bit of handholding, but when she showed up we quickly found out we had to hold more than her hand to prop her seemingly inebriated body up,” MacNamara told Huffington Post. “She seemed to having a great time, but it was definitely a challenging day. In the end she delivered Tan Mom in all her glory and that’s what people are infatuated with.” Krentcil landed the gig after she failed to get into the adult business with Vivid Entertainment. The company turned her down because they “don’t do granny porn.” Krentcil will apparently be paid $1,000 for her fully clothed, non-sexual cameo in the series. Andy Dick, Lady Bunny and Michael Lucas appeared in season one.

Stonewall Summer + Pride Announces Entertainment Lineup

A storied tradition returns to the streets of Wilton Manors this summer when the Stonewall Summer Pride festivities celebrate gay pride once again at the end of June. This year’s events will mimic last year’s twoday event with the parade being held Saturday,

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starring Christopher Reeve, the storyline was scrapped. “That idea got scuttled when somebody told them that the actor who played Jimmy Olsen in the Superman movies was actually gay in real life,” Starlin said. “They got scared and they dropped the whole project at that point.”

right choice. He also expressed his pleasure when the bill was passed. “Could not be more proud of the MN House. 75 votes, and on to the Senate,” Coleman wrote. “Now is the time for marriage equality. #mnmarriage.” The Senate passed the bill and Minnesota Gov. Mark Dayton signed it into law.

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June 22 and the street festival on Sunday, June 23. Wilton Drive will shut down at 3 p.m. on Saturday in preparation for the 7:30 p.m. start time of the Stonewall Summer Pride Twilight Parade. Directly following the parade, international sensation DJ Kidd Madonny takes the stage to get the crowd moving with his unique beats and his one-of-a-kind laser light show. June 23 sees the return of the Stonewall Street Festival. Vendors will be lining the streets starting at 11 a.m. and live entertainment will continue throughout the day. The day will be highlighted by an all-star studded concert starting at 8 p.m. with performances by Grammy Award nominee Amber, “Keep on Walkin” singer CeCe Peniston and the 16-time #1 Billboard Club soflagaynews //

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St. Paul Mayor Renames + Bridge Ahead of Marriage Equality Vote

As Minnesota got ready to become the 12th state to allow gay marriage, St. Paul Mayor Chris Coleman renamed the city’s famed Wabasha Bridge the “Freedom to Marry Bridge,” according to the Mayor’s Twitter page. “I renamed the Wabasha Bridge [to] the Freedom to Marry Bridge for this week,” Coleman tweeted. “Marriage equality here we come #Time4Marriage.” On the days leading up to the House vote, Coleman tweeted he would be keeping a close watch and hoped lawmakers would make the

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A court in Milan, Italy has recognized the civil partnership of two men from London, giving the two the opportunity to apply for local benefits including welfare and visitation rights if one is hospitalized, according to Gay Star News. The civil union between Christian and Federico was added to the Registro delle Unioni Civili of Milan, a list of same-sex couples implemented by liberal Mayor Giuliano Pisapia. The couple, who have been together for eight years, are Italian residents who were able to establish their partnership at the Globe Theater in London thanks to a temporary residency in the U.K. “We paid just [$90] and we could marry in front of 70 relatives and friends,” Federico told Gay Star News. “The recognition by the Milan tribunal is just a little thing, but it’s also an important step towards equality.” The couple says while they’re appreciative of the local recognition, they want their relationship legal in the entire country. “We want to proceed on the recognition of our partnership,” Federico said. “We want the Italian bureaucracy to accept we should have the same rights of a married couple, as it is in the United Kingdom.” The decision of the tribunal does not mean that Christian and Federico’s civil partnership is now recognized by Italy.

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White House to Honor Gay Officials on Harvey Milk Day Ryan Dixon

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The White House has released the list of the 10 openly gay officials it plans to honor The 2013 Harvey Milk on May 22 as “Harvey Milk Champions of Champions of Change: Change.” The event coincides with Harvey •Simone Bell – Georgia State Milk Day, a commemoration of the first Representative, Atlanta, GA openly gay elected official’s birthday. •Angie Buhl O’Donnell – South Dakota Established in 2011, the White House State Senator, Sioux Falls, SD “Champions of Change” Program regularly •Karen Clark – Minnesota State spotlights ordinary citizens who are “doing Representative, South Minneapolis, MN extraordinary things for to their community, •Michael A. Gin – Mayor of Redondo their country, and their fellow citizens.” The list of those to be honored includes Beach, Redondo Beach, CA the Republican Mayor of Redondo Beach, •Kim Coco Iwamoto – Hawaii State Civil California, Michael Gin, the first African- Rights Commissioner, Honolulu, HI American lesbian to serve in a U.S. state legislature, Simone Bell, and the longest •John Laird – California Secretary of Natural Resources, Santa Cruz, CA serving lesbian state legislator, Karen Clark. In 2009, President Obama posthumously •Ricardo Lara – California State Senator, awarded Harvey Milk the Presidential Medal Long Beach, CA of Freedom, America’s highest civilian honor. •Kim Painter – Johnson Country Recorder, Milk, along with San Francisco Mayor George Iowa City, IA Moscone, was assassinated on Nov. 27, 1978 by former San Francisco city supervisor Dan White. •Chris Seelbach – Cincinnati City Council Norm Kent, the publisher of SFGN, will Member, Cincinnati, OH represent the newspaper at the White House •Pat Steadman – Colorado State Senator, ceremony, as a guest of Stuart Milk, a Wilton Denver, CO Manors resident, and the founder of the Harvey Milk Foundation. For more information, go to milkfoundation.org

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Michael “Mr. Miami Beach” Aller didn’t graduate from Miami Beach High School. But the Miami Beach Chamber of Commerce wanted to give him its Outstanding Achievement Award, which is traditionally given to graduates of the high school. Instead of simply changing the rules, the chamber is not only going to give the award to Aller, they’re going to add a bonus: A Miami Beach High School honorary degree. During the Miami Beach Chamber of Commerce’s 91st Annual Gala on June 1, Aller will accept the honorary degree, donning a cap and gown for the occasion. “I love Miami Beach,” Aller said. “I believe in education and being of service to the community.” Aller became Chief Tourism Director and Chief of Protocol for the City of Miami Beach in 1991. Early on in his career he also worked at the Miami Beach Chamber of Commerce. Chamber President and CEO Jerry Libbin commended Aller on his work in the city. “Michael is reflective of everything that is great about Miami Beach. He is outgoing, business savvy, and passionate about this city,” Libbin said in a press release commending Aller. Aller was born in Detroit and his parents were snowbirds. He was in the nursing home business until 1979. He was a snowbird himself until 1980 when he relocated to South Florida. At 73, he lives by himself and has no qualms about it. “When I get home, the last thing I want to do is talk to someone!” he joked. When asked what he would be doing if he wasn’t in the tourism industry, Aller

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remembered his childhood dream. “I wanted to be in show business. I stopped because I was too good,” he laughed. Showing off Miami Beach isn’t too far off. According to the Chamber, Aller has greeted presidents and more than 40 other heads of state while working in Miami Beach. Despite not being a natural graduate of Miami Beach High School, Aller agrees the award should still go to graduates. “I’m glad they are stepping out of the traditional awards a bit to give me this,” he said. “It’s a humbling experience. I have lived a charmed life.” For more information on the gala, visit www.miamibeachchamber.com

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In the movie ‘The Promised Land,” set in rural Pennsylvania, there is a convenience store named Rob’s Guns, Groceries, Guitars and Gas. The only thing missing to fully encompass the American culture is God. It is not surprising that the flavor of the month’s legislation, gun control, has gone nowhere fast. Republicans love guns, Democrats like guns. And the NRA controls them both. Until this country comes up with an enraged grass-roots movement “a la” MADD we will continue to go our merry ways to the “sporting goods” store next door and stock up on baseball caps and AK47s. Four dead in Benghazi call for endless Congressional hearings and apoplectic reports from Fox News. Twenty children slaughtered in a small-town school are quickly forgotten. Gun owners often say: “People shouldn’t have to explain why we need guns other than owning them is a God-given right protected in the Constitution.” The absurdity of the statement is beyond the pale. God never owned a gun, neither did Jesus, in fact I seem to remember Catholic nuns teaching me the Ten Commandments and one of them is “Thou Shall Not Kill.” And of course this gun toting lunatic fringe is predictably anti-abortion (again the bipolar dichotomy), homophobic, racist, rightwingers who most likely do not believe in Darwin’s theory of evolution either. And that’s ok because for those of us who are in favor of gun control Darwinism is really our best bet and perhaps only hope. Recent newspapers’ reports from around the nation tell us why:

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himself to death in December in Newton NC. Awakening to the sound of a ringing telephone beside his bed, he reached for the phone but grabbed instead a Smith & Wesson 38 Special, which discharged when he drew it to his ear.

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In Dunkirk IN. a man using a cigarette lighter to check the barrel of a muzzle loader, was killed when the weapon discharged in his face. Investigators said Gregory Pryor, 19 was cleaning a 54-caliber muzzle-loader that had not been firing properly. He was using the lighter to look into the barrel when the gunpowder ignited.

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A man who tried to shoot a squirrel by taping a .40-caliber cartridge to a BB gun was hospitalized with shrapnel wounds after the cartridge exploded, Gainesville police reported.

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Two local men were injured when their pickup truck left the road and struck a tree near Cotton Patch on State Highway.The two men concluded that the headlight fuse on the oldermodel truck had burned out. As a replacement fuse was not available, Wallis noticed that the .22 caliber bullets from his pistol fit perfectly into the fuse box next to the steering-wheel column. Upon inserting the bullet the headlights again began to operate properly, after traveling approximately 20 miles, the bullet apparently overheated, discharged and struck Poole in the testicles. The vehicle exited the pavement, and struck a tree. Poole suffered only minor cuts and abrasions from the accident but will require extensive surgery to repair the damage to his testicles, which will never operate as intended. It can be argued that Poole did in fact effectively remove himself from the gene pool. He would make Charles Darwin smile.

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My HIV Diary Closing a Chapter

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Ryan Dixon (a.k.a former porn star Kameron Scott) has started taking HIV medication. He’s keeping a diary of his experience. Being in my mid-20’s isn’t easy, add HIV on top of that and we have one hell of a complicated life. I’m making the best out of the hand life has dealt me and the decisions I’ve made along the way. Writing helps free my mind. Hopefully these words will help you understand the plight of others like myself, and inspire you to live each and every day in the moment.

Week 37

(May 10 to May 16) In case any of you missed it on my Facebook page, I’m moving to Atlanta on May 25. I fell in love with the people and the city when I first visited it in August of last year. When I went back in mid-April, I discussed the possibility with some friends there, and one month later it’s a reality. While I’m extremely excited for this new adventure in my life, it does come with some problems. It took a lot of thought on my part whether or not to move. I found a job, found a place to live, found a new doctor but I couldn’t find the same medicine study I’m on right now within a reasonable distance from where I’d be staying. The only study that I could participate in is the exact one I’m in right now and there are no such studies like in Georgia … anywhere. My doctor here is seeing if he can get GSK to cover two roundtrip flights for me to at least to make sure I complete a full year on the study. I reach one year in 11 weeks. If not, I have to figure out a way to afford my

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transportation back to Florida after already spending a ton of money to get away. The resource groups in Atlanta have been helpful and disappointed that there were no studies around. I was directed to several doctors, resource organizations and social services by the Men’s Information Services: Testing Empowerment Resources (MISTER) but no one had a clue about studies. I’m just worried that I’ll have to quit the study and end up on the AIDS Drug Assistance Program waiting to get medication if I choose to continue my ARV therapy. Part of me is interested to see how my body reacts to not taking the meds anymore. This whole “life revolving around pills” thing is evil, although a necessary evil. With all of that being said, I really am looking forward to hitting the ground running in Atlanta. I know there is so much I can do there both in my work and advocacy life. The opportunity to take what life lessons I’ve learned in the last five years and put them to good use was too good to pass up. Leaving SFGN will be bitter sweet, but as the chapter of my life in Florida closes, the Atlanta chapter is full of blank pages just waiting to be filled. This won’t be the last time you read about me in this paper. I still plan on letting the world in on my life living with HIV. Hell, this move should make an interesting read for all of you. To everyone who has read since day one or is reading this for the first time, I hope you continue to read until there is no need for me to write anymore. Here’s to the next chapter…

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San Francisco City of Hope Photos & story by Christiana Lilly christiana.lilly@gmail.com

A group enjoys a day outside on the grass field in the grove of the National AIDS Memorial Grove.

The Castro Theater, open since 1922.

In South Florida, our LGBT claim to fame is the Wilton Manors neighborhood, boastfully the largest gay city per capita outside of San Francisco. During a weeklong trip to the west coast, starting in Los Angeles and driving up the Pacific Coast Highway to the golden city, I had a chance to spend a few days in the city. Sure, Fisherman’s Wharf, Haight-Ashbury and the Golden Gate Bridge (a major flop with all the fog) were on the itinerary, but it was important for me to explore one of its more notorious neighborhoods: The Castro. Named for Mexican revolutionary Jose Castro, a hero of the Stonewall Riots in 1969, Raymond Castro, is also a legendary figure. The city has blossomed from an immigrant neighborhood – Little Scandinavia – to the capital city of the gay civil rights movement. “A lot of people, especially the young ones, have no inkling what Stonewall is. They think Gay Pride is just a big party,” Castro told the New York Daily News before his death in 2010. “None of this would have been possible if it wasn’t for 1969.”

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Names of those lost to HIV/AIDs at the National AIDS Memorial Grove.

A giant rainbow flag waves over the intersection at Castro and Market, right next to the infamous Twin Peaks Tavern. Open since 1935, it has been a gay spot since its lesbian owners took over in 1972. Most notable are the floor-to-ceiling windows, telling everyone that the clientele’s homosexuality was nothing to hide from at a time when gay bars were still being cracked down on. Also at that major intersection, another memorial is in the quest for equal rights. The first memorial of its kind – an unassuming collection of 15 granite posts with pink marble at the top – Pink Triangle Park remembers the 15,000 gay and lesbians killed during the Holocaust. Though many people are aware of the yellow Star of David patches forced on Jews during the war, homosexuals also had a special patch, a pink triangle. Even though it’s at the busy roadway, it’s a small area of calm, where pink flowers bloom and a triangle of pink stones lead visitors through the 15 posts, each representing 1,000 killed. Together, the 15 soflagaynews //

The gay pride flag waves over a major intersection at Market and Castro Street.

Castro Camera, opened by gay rights activist and the first openly gay politicians, Harvey Milk, is now the Human Rights Campaign action center and store, as well as home to the Trevor Project. A painting of Milk above the store, where he lived, looks down on the street.

The 15 granite posts with pink triangles are in memory of the 15,000 gays killed during the Holocaust. Homosexuals were forced to stich pink triangles to their clothing – Jews wore a yellow Star of David patch.

form a larger triangle on the small hillside. The AIDS epidemic, still impacting us today, holds an important part of San Francisco’s history and it has not been forgotten. West of the Castro and at the edge of Golden Gate Park is a peaceful grove in honor of those who lost the battle to HIV/ AIDS and the heroes of the epidemic in the ‘80s and ‘90s, the National AIDS Memorial Grove. An oval pathway leads visitors through a grass clearing surrounded by large trees, purple lupines and other fragrant flowers. Stones bear the names of victims of the crisis, including a large circle filled with names and flowers left by mourners, reminding me of Lennon’s memorial at Strawberry Hills in New York City. During my visit, a man sat at a bench near there, head hung low, and recounted his memories of a friend he lost long ago. My favorite time spent in the Castro was seeing the old camera shop and home of Harvey Milk, known as the “mayor of the Castro” during the civil rights battles of the ‘70s and the first openly gay politician.

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Castro Camera has since been converted to a store for the Human Rights Campaign – a pleasant surprise as someone else had told me earlier that it was now a Thai restaurant, something I thought was an tragedy. Inside the shop the walls gave a timeline of San Francisco’s tumultuous history and the story of Milk’s time as politician and assassination in 1978. Over the store, where he once lived, is a painting on the window of a smiling Milk looking down on the Castro crowd with his infamous slogan on his shirt, “You’ve got to give ‘em hope.” The thought that he’s still looking down on the city and egging on change is a nice one. My trip ended in the Little Italy neighborhood at Francis Ford Coppola’s restaurant, Cafe Zoetrope, with plates of pasta and glasses of wine to celebrate the end of a trip up the coast. However, long story short, we ended up missing our flight. Apparently, San Francisco wasn’t ready for us to leave. Or maybe it was just me. I’ll definitely be back.

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Championing More Than the Super Bowl Brendon Ayanbadejo and Equality Florida to host ‘tackle equality’ SFGN Staff Super Bowl Champion Brendon Ayanbadejo will be joining Equality Florida for “Tackle Equality.” on Monday, May 27 at Kitchenetta, 2850 North Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale. This is following his recent alliance with the organization. The event, held at on Monday, May 27 at Kitchenetta, 2850 North Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, begins at 6:30 p.m. and is limited to just 100 guests. Tickets are $100. For $150, you can go to a VIP cocktail reception prior to the dinner, where you can meet Ayanbadejo. VIP tickets are $150 per person. “Every civil rights movement has relied on the support of those in the majority, and at this pivotal moment in the fight for LGBT equality, the visibility of role models like Brendon is crucial,” said Stratton Pollitzer, deputy director of Equality Florida. “Brendon is a good friend and customer,”

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One Magical Weekend is almost here, and it’s jam-packed with everything except… Sleep. From May 31 to June 2, the 5th annual event, running concurrently with Gay Days and Orlando Black Pride, has raised the bar with the addition of an invigorating, new featured party - WE Party: Wash. “After the demise of a similar event 6 years ago, OMW saw the need to keep the event going as so that we, as gays and lesbians, could celebrate our lives up at Disney,” said veteran OMW producer Terry DeCarlo. “Five years ago we started with just the one party, RipTide at Typhoon Lagoon, and two years later added the Retro-T at Epcot, once again we step it up this year by adding the WE Party on Saturday night.” The headlining event WE Party: Wash kicks off at Epcot’s World Showplace at 9 p.m. on Saturday, June 1. The Spain-based, traveling party crew has crafted an event for sensory overload, transforming Epcot into a thumping, thriving mega-club with three LED walls and scintillating laser lights. WE Party comes stocked with top-rated dancers, production and popular resident DJ Manuel de Diego, who most recently headlined a Winter Party event at Mansion on Miami Beach. The high-energy celebration runs until 2 a.m. for partygoers 21 and up. Tickets are $75 in advance or $95 at the door. If you aren’t done partying at 2 a.m., head over to the Treasure Tavern for Orlando Black Pride’s ALL BOYZ PARTY. The event, dubbed the Meat Packing District, is a flurry of male exotic dancers and porn stars ready to party until 5 a.m. This year, the host is a fresh face among the Orlando LGBT scene. Attendees are invited to mix and mingle with Lonnell Williams, host of 3LWTV.com. “This year I took the week off so I could have a whole two weeks in Orlando,” Williams said. “I’m ready to have a good day, meet people and see how they do it in Orlando. I’m looking forward to seeing the kids misbehave, or behave. Whatever they choose.” Like many other attendees looking forward to One Magical Weekend and other LGBT events throughout the week, Williams has strong words for social organization One Million Moms that is actively protesting the events.

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“I just think that people are really going to just protest us because at the end of the day I think they are jealous or intimidated by our fierceness. They will come out and protest but who cares?” Williams said. “All you’re doing is slowing down your own program. Get on board, honey, or get run over.” Producer Terry DeCarlo believes the recent outcry is even more motivation to pack the Disney parks with LGBT pride. “We are asking for, and need, as many LGBT individuals to come to Orlando this year, wearing their red shirts, to stand together so that we may show our unity and to let this group know that we will not stand for their intolerance anymore,” he said. For returning attendees, original OMW event RipTide at Typhoon Lagoon is back for another year of late-night pool party fun. Grab your swimsuit and be ready to go all night with 7,000 of your newest LGBT friends. The opening One Magical Weekend event closes down Typhoon Lagoon from 8 p.m. – 2 a.m. and features dynamic beats by DJ Manny Lehman. According to event organizers, RipTide is a signature evening not to be missed. “RipTide always seems to be my favorite,” said DeCarlo. “Just to see the over 7,000 smiling people dancing on the sand and playing on the water rides in their bathing suits makes it all worth it.” Save a few bucks by buying your tickets online in advance for $89. Door entry is $99, but this year’s $175 VIP tickets are already out of stock. Just as the weekend winds down, the excitement winds up with the closing night gala, Retro-T – the only dance party in motion while Disney’s doors are open. Make your way to Epcot at 2 p.m. for Drink Around the World, featuring a delectable selection of international cuisine and hosts and hostesses from Germany, England, Mexico and Italy. Once you’re sufficiently buzzed, head to One Magical Weekend’s private party at Epcot’s Odyssey from 5:00 – 8:30 p.m., which is topped off with a private viewing area of Epcot’s signature fireworks show IllumiNation: Reflections of Earth. Your $79 ticket price includes a ticket to Epcot and the soflagaynews //

OMW private party. Already have a pass to Epcot? The Retro-T party ticket is only $30. “[The weekend is] electric... Just knowing that you can walk through the Magic Kingdom and other parks, and/or attend other events like the dances on Disney property while

holding your partners hand or giving them a hug without the stares or comments is an intense feeling,” says DeCarlo. Tickets and more information are available at OneMagicalWeekend.com and OrlandoBlackPride.com.

From May 31 to June 2, the 5th annual One Magical Weekend event, running concurrently with Gay Days and Orlando Black Pride, has raised the bar with the addition of an invigorating, new featured party - WE Party: Wash. Photo courtesy of One Magical Weekend

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WE Party: Wash at Epcot’s World Showplace 1320 Avenue of the Stars Saturday, June 1 9:00 p.m. – 2 a.m. $75 in advance, $95 at the door

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Epcot Drink Around the World & Retro-T 1320 Avenue of the Stars Sunday, June 2 2:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. $79 includes ticket to Epcot and Retro-T $30 for ticket to Retro-T only

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One Million Moms Can’t Stop This Gay Days plowing forward Caity Kauffman

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Call off the mob of moms – Gay Days will be underway in Orlando at full throttle from May 28 to June 3 with pool endless parties, hot DJs, expos and the full gamut of Disney World theme parks. This year marks the 23rd annual Gay Days, but it isn’t without a layer of drama. With turnout expected to be over 160,000, Disney will be peppered with jubilant event-goers showing their LGBT pride in red shirts – something One Million Moms (OMM) wants to put a stop to. The social media-based organization released an official statement insisting Disney cease to host Gay Days – an event the park does not coordinate in the first place. However, interestingly enough, Disney’s recently appointed president George Kalogridis is openly gay.

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But Gay Days President Chris AlexanderManley, who has been with the organization since its inception, said it’s no skin off his proudly red-shirted back. “Any publicity is good publicity. We have proven the haters wrong over the past twenty plus years. All the lies these type groups told back then have proven how ignorant they are,” he said. “Gay Days Orlando is one of the top economic events for central Florida and has the least amount of problems for an event of this size.” Haters beware, there is one mom out there who has stepped up in defense of Gay Days. Darcy Christ, who calls herself a “straight, typical housewife and PTA president,” has challenged One Million Moms with her own campaign: Millions of Moms for Love. “One Million Moms was the final straw for me,” she said. “It’s time to take action. I truly believe more people come from a place of love than a place of hate.” Her Facebook page garnered nearly 500 likes in its first 24 hours and has continued to grow. The campaign has gone so well for Christ, she was caught by surprise when SFGN asked if she was ready for any backlash from OMM. “I didn’t even think about that. I thought, ‘this is what I believe and here we go,’” she said. “I feel very secure in my viewpoint on this.” Christ, who lives in Dallas, has never been to Gay Days, but her brother-in-law and his partner are sponsors of the event. This year, however, she’s flying out to Florida to get her first taste of the festivities and said she couldn’t be more excited. Christ as a lot to be excited about the weeklong event keeps expanding. Alexander-Manley said Taste of Gay Days in particular has grown immensely, with restaurant and beverage partners doubling from last year. On May 30, event-goers over 21 can enjoy a sampling of beer, wine, spirits and tasty hors d’oeuvres for the advanced ticket price of $25. “Good food, drink, and friends. It doesn’t get any better,” he said. Gay Days 2013 is headquartered at the Doubletree by Hilton at SeaWorld Orlando. There are constant pool parties scheduled throughout the week from noon to 3 a.m. The poolside entertainment stays fresh, with 24 rotating DJs spinning at the main lagoon and the women’s pool parties. DJ Jalil, soflagaynews //

who was nominated Best Up and Coming DJ in the 8th annual JustCircuit Awards, highlights the roster of DJs. Attendees can also check out live entertainment throughout the week featuring performances by rapper Trina, club diva Deborah Cox, Go Go’s leading lady Belinda Carlisle and sidesplitting comedy with over the top, two-time Grammynominee Judy Tenuta. Looking for a low-key experience? Bid on jewelry, gift baskets, art and more at the silent

IF YOU G Tuesday, May 28 •Gay Days Kick Off Party 5 p.m. – 9 p.m., $20 at the door •TRINA live in concert Hip hop diva TRINA will turn up the heat with a live concert at Parliament House. Darcel Stevens will open at midnight. TRINA takes the stage at 1 a.m. Tickets are only $10 at the door. 8 p.m. – 3 a.m. Parliament House 410 N. Orange Blossom Trail

Thursday, May 30 •Gay Days at Disney’s Animal Kingdom •15th Annual Gay Days Expo The world’s largest gay and lesbian travel, entertainment and business expo is open to all ages and open to the public! Browse over 100 vendors between 11 a.m. – 7 p.m. Doubletree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld 10100 International Drive •Gay Days 18+ Expo Feeling sexy and sassy? Check out the adults-only expo for free. 11 a.m. – 9 p.m. Doubletree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld

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auction in the Doubletree Mediterranean Ballroom. Proceeds will benefit multiple causes including Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), the Make-A-Wish Foundation and the American Cancer Society. Afterwards, wander the hotel courtyard for a

•Florida Health - Orange County Have fun, stay healthy. Orange County is providing free HIV rapid testing and Hepatitis A & B vaccines. 11 a.m. - 7 p.m. Doubletree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld •A Taste of Gay Days Indulge in a tasting of beer, wine, spirits, and hors d’oeuvres. 21+ with proper I.D. required 6 p.m. – 10 p.m. Doubletree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld Grand Lakes Ballroom $25 advance, $30 at the door •P.I. @ P.H. Welcome Party Flash back to Pleasure Island with DJ Brianna, a sexy Latin revue, the P.I. Explosion Dancers and a laser light show. 8 p.m. - 3 a.m. Parliament House 410 N. Orange Blossom Trail Free before 11 p.m.$10 after 11 p.m.

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•A Night of Laughter with Judy Tenuta Sit back, relax and enjoy the musings of Judy Tenuta. Do you want to meet the self-proclaimed, “the most famous person that ever lived”? Snap up a VIP ticket for preferred seating and a meet and greet with Judy before the show. Regular admission starts at $35.00. Advance VIP tickets are $65.00 or $500.00 for a table of ten. Doors open 7:30 p.m. Show starts 8:00 p.m. Doubletree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld Great Lakes Ballroom

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series of outdoor vendors with a wide variety of goodies and gifts to take home. Dubbed as “a cruise on land,” GayTravel. com ranked Gay Days Orlando as 2013’s number one GLBT destination event. Its Las Vegas counterpart, now in its second year, was ranked number seven. Gay Days emerged in 1991 originally as a single day, the first weekend in June, aimed to encourage the LGBT community to “wear

red and be seen” while visiting the world’s most popular theme park. The event has evolved from a modest crowd of 3,000 to over 160,000 guests from across the world. Gay Days is estimated to have injected over $100 million dollars into the Orlando economy since its inception 23 years ago. The full calendar of events, online ticket purchasing and other information is available at GayDays.com.

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Salute our nation’s veterans tonight at a Memorial Day weekend concert tonight presented by The International Big Band Jazz Café Society at Olympic Heights Community High School, 20101 Lyons Rd. in Boca Raton. You’ll be tapping your toes to those jazzy big band hits that inspired our soldiers to fight on through World War II. The concert will feature one of the world’s greatest drummers, Dick Cully, and his 15-piece band. Proceeds will benefit the Olympic Heights High School bands as part of the “Reboot America Musically” program. Tickets are $20 in advance at HelpUsRebootAmerica.com and $25 at the door. The music starts at 7:30 p.m.

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In the 1970s, comedian Steve Martin used a banjo as a prop in his stand-up act. These days, he’s left his “wild and crazy guy” shtick behind and returned to his musical passion, bluegrass, as a banjo player and Grammy Award-winning bluegrass songwriter with his band, The Steep Canyon Rangers. He’ll be bringing his music to the stage of the Kravis Center in West Palm Beach tonight at 8 p.m. The show will include traditional foot-stomping bluegrass standards, newer bluegrass offerings and, of course, lots and lots of Martin’s classic repartee and classic humor. Tickets start at $35 at Kravis.org.

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Head south to the new South Miami Dade Performing Arts Center this weekend for classic cabaret and more from Connie James. The singer will be belting out classics by George Gershwin and Irving Berlin from The Great American Songbook, along with hits by James Taylor, Stevie Wonder, Joni Mitchell, Chaka Khan and more. James will be doing two shows on Saturday at 8:30 and 10:30 p.m., as well as one show on Friday at 8:30 p.m. and Sunday at 3:30 p.m. Tickets are $25 in advance at SMDPAF,org. The center is located at 10950 SW 211 St. in Cutler Bay.

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This may just be a night to stay in and watch some television. HBO premieres its tell-all biopic, Behind the Candelabra, that is expected to lay out all of flamboyant pianist Liberace’s dirty laundry – sequins and all. Michael Douglas stars as the nimble fingered musician while Matt Damon portrays the pianist’s boy toy, Scott Thorson. We expect this film will do for Liberace’s legacy what Mommie Dearest did for Joan Crawford, since it’s based on Thorson’s own memoir. Start popping that popcorn because this Stephen Soderbergh epic is gonna be good. Check local listings for show times and channel.

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Following his recent announcement that he has joined forces with Equality Florida to fight for LGBT equality, Super Bowl champion Brendon Ayanbadejo will host “Tackle Equality” on tonight at kitchenetta, 2850 N. Federal Hwy. in Fort Lauderdale. At a time when allies throughout the nation are standing up for equality like never before, the former Baltimore Ravens linebacker, a resident of Fort Lauderdale, has made national headlines for his outspoken support of Marriage Equality and an end to anti-LGBT discrimination. Only 100 tickets for the 6:30 p.m. dinner are available at EqFl.org.

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Behind The Candelabra HBO’s Liberace biopic debuts May 26 David-Elijah Nahmod davidwriter@msn.com

Walter Lee Liberace (1919-1987) was once the highest paid entertainer in show business. His uniquely flamboyant act appealed primarily to heterosexual women. The press dubbed him Mr. Showmanship. In his act he would enter the stage in a chauffeured limousine. Swaffed in furs, glitter and jewels, the manicured Liberace would sit at an equally glittering piano and perform what he called a mix of “pop with a bit of the classics” or “classical with the boring parts cut out.” During the mid 1950s, he commanded a salary of $50,000 per week in Las Vegas. At this same time he was paid $138,000 for a one night gig at Madison Square Garden in New York City. He made millions more on television. His hand gestures were grand. Whether they glided across the keyboard, or when he turned to address his audience, Liberace’s hands were like the wings on a bird. The public had never seen anyone quite like Liberace. He took his persona to the ultimate degree. At the end of his performances, audience members were invited up to the stage to caress his clothing, shake his hands, and even kiss him. Looking at clips of the entertainer today, it’s hard to believe that his fan base had no idea they were applauding an effeminate gay man. It was a different world then. People didn’t talk about “such things” in those days. There were scandals. He was “accused” of being gay on several occasions, sometimes by young men who claimed he tried to seduce them. In each instance, the entertainer filed suit, and the accusations were dropped. The truth came out during the final years of Liberace’s life. Scott Thorson, his longtime boyfriend, sued for palimony and published a tell-all book. The much younger Thorson could not be threatened or bought off. He refused to remain silent. He had dedicated years of his life to Liberace and was furious at how callously he had been discarded. But as Liberace lay dying of AIDS in 1987, the two met one final time, and parted friends. On May 26 at 9 p.m., HBO will debut Behind the Candelabra, a biographical drama based on Thorson’s book. Directed by the acclaimed Steven Soderbergh, the film stars Michael Douglas as Liberace and Matt Damon

During the mid 1950s, Liberace commanded a salary of $50,000 per week in Las Vegas. At this same time he was paid $138,000 for a one night gig at Madison Square Garden in New York City. He made millions more on television. Photo courtesy of HBO

as Thorson. The project reportedly found it’s way to HBO after major studios deemed in “too gay.” HBO’s publicity machine in fact promises to reveal the truth — the whole truth — about a life that Liberace worked so hard to hide from the public. Screenwriter Richard La Gravenese (The Fisher King, The Mirror Has Two Faces, The Bridges of Madison ) chatted with SFGN about his process in telling Liberace’s life story. LaGravenese: “I downloaded a lot of his music. I watched whatever documentary or television footage I could find. But my primary source was the Scott Thorson book, which includes a great deal of Liberace’s biography. Not long before we started shooting, Soderbergh got a hold of the transcripts from the palimony suit and we included those scenes verbatim.” SFGN: What did you find to be the most fascinating aspects of Liberace’s personality? LaGravenese: He had a very strong sexual drive that conflicted with his strong, monogamous DNA. He didn’t enjoy a very active social life. He was labeled the hardest working man in show business, and given his

act, you don’t doubt it. So at the end of the day, he wanted nothing more than to be at home with the one man he loved, to cook and take care of him in a very traditional way. But the times were the times. Sexuality had become more public, much more accessible. For a man who had spent his life hiding his sexuality, I imagine the seventies were something of a revelation to him. Were you in contact with any of Liberace’s family or friends as part of your research? LaGravenese: Yes, Ray Arnett, the man who directed all of Lee’s shows for over 20 years. He confirmed what many others had said, including Thorson, that Lee was a big hearted, generous, loving man. Of course he was also a star who had built his career from the ground up, coming from nothing, so he had a star’s sense of entitlement. He was absolutely devoted to his audiences. Did you encounter any restrictions from HBO regarding the film’s overtly gay content? LaGravenese: Not at all. When I wrote the scene of their lovemaking while Lee does poppers, I didn’t think it would get shot. But I wrote it and it did.

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What was your process in deciding which events in Liberace’s relationship with Thorson were the best in painting an accurate portrait of who they were as a couple? LaGravenese: What is important to understand, and the reason I was drawn to the story, is that these two men genuinely loved each other. Perhaps at first there were more hidden agendas, but after awhile, I truly believe these two men loved each other. And that had to be at the core of the story or else it’s not real. Otherwise it becomes some camp parody of a relationship. I believe they had a real marriage in every sense but legal. What is your impression of Douglas and Damon in the roles? LaGravenese: I’m very proud of their performances. I think they’re extraordinary. They found the love and the reality between these two men so that the story is moving, funny and painful because it’s played honestly. Look for Behind The Candelabra at 9 p.m. on May 26. For information on future airings, please visit hbo.com/movies/behindthe-candelabra/index.html

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a&e theater Miami-Dade Theaters Explore Bisexuality, ‘Complicated’ Relationships J.W. Arnold

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In the alphabet soup—LGBTQIA—that we associate with our community, it’s the “B” for bisexuality that can be the most vexing label. It’s taken decades to convince the enlightened public that sexual orientation is not a choice — we’re born this way, aren’t we? — yet the desire or ability to love both men and women seems to contradict this presumption. Some gays and lesbians resent bisexuals for “having their cake and eating it, too,” benefitting from a sexual outlet and the opportunity to pursue a life within the “norms” of traditional society. For others, labeling oneself bisexual may provide a convenient transitional step in the coming out process, proving in most cases, “it’s complicated,” as the character in one of two plays opening this weekend proclaims. Both Ricky J. Martinez’s world premiere, Road Through Heaven, at New Theatre in Miami and British playwright Mike Bartlett’s Cock at GableStage in Coral Gables attempt to shed some light on emotional and sexual fence bisexuals sit. Road Through Heaven, the second play of the talented Martinez’s Island Trilogy, is set on an isolated island ruled by superstition and follows an unlikely love triangle between Victor (Martinez), Delores (Evelyn Perez) and 21-year-old aspiring poet Jesus (Javier Cabrera). Theirs is indeed a “complicated” relationship as Victor and Delores share their bed with Jesus. The locals accuse them of being “afflicted” and bully them, throwing stones and shouting epithets. The unlikely relationship takes an even more surprising turn when Victor, a machismo sugar plantation worker, proclaims his attraction for the youthful Jesus. Each of the characters is driven by passion,

benefitting in their own ways from the threeway relationship. This fact is accentuated by the staging, with the audience sitting right on the stage at the edge of a white sand beach designed by Amanda Sparhawk. At times, the actors are just inches away as they spit out the fiery dialogue. Director Margaret Ledford gets the most from her cast, even though Martinez’s script still needs some development. Set in contemporary London, Cock is, in some ways, just as unlikely a story. Gay men are familiar with that joke: You never hear about a “bisexual” man sneaking out on his boyfriend to be with a woman. In Bartlett’s play, that’s exactly the case, as John (Ryan Didato) finds himself sleeping with a woman, “W” (Julie Kleiner), who he noticed during his daily commute. John’s older ex, “M” (Nicholas Richberg), is determined to fight for his man. The battle for John’s heart takes place in an abstract boxing ring designed by Lyle Baskin and scene changes marked by a bell and effective lighting designed by Matt Corey and Jeff Quinn. Ultimately, John doesn’t become a prize for either. He enjoys the sex with W but loves M. Even M’s father, “F” (Peter Galman), who shows up for the explosive confrontation at a dinner party, but cannot convince John. The cast and production, under the expert direction of Joseph Adler, should dominate next year’s Carbonell Awards. Adler’s staging of the sex scenes, in particular, can only be described as brilliant, if fully clothed. Didato gives the performance of a lifetime, except at his youthful age there will undoubtedly be many more. His John is truly conflicted, certain of only one thing, the need to define himself. Richberg also gives a sublime performance, a lover who is both

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Ricky J. Martinez and Javier Cabrera star in Martinez’s Road Through Heaven at Miami’s New Theatre. Photo courtesy of Eileen Suarez

controlling and vulnerable, and definitely a big drama queen. The same goes for Kleiner, whose W sees the opportunity to catch the man of her dreams and isn’t afraid to go for it, remaining in the fight to the bitter end. But, most importantly, the entire cast is convincingly British, going beyond the obvious accents to the subtle

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facial expressions and gestures that are primarily found in this country on PBS and BBCAmerica. I have to admit, I don’t get bisexuality, but agree with John, “it’s complicated.” One thing I do know is these productions, and Cock, in particular, should not be missed.

What

Road Through Heaven By Ricky J. Martinez

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Cock By Mike Bartlett

When

8 p.m. Thursday – Saturday, 1 p.m. and 5:30 p.m. Sunday through June 2

When

8 p.m. Thursday – Saturday, 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Sunday through June 16

Where

New Theatre at the Roxy Performing Arts Center, 1645 SW 107th Ave. Miami

Where

GableStage at Biltmore Hotel,1200 Anastasia Ave. Coral Gables

Cost

Tickets $40 at New-Theatre.org

Cost

Tickets $37.50 - $50 at GableStage.org

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DateBook Theater

By Christiana Lilly, Calendar@SFGN.com

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Broward County * Rent

Through June 16 at Andrews Living Arts, 23 NW Fifth St. in Fort Lauderdale. Watch the Broadway classic come to life at FAT Village’s outdoor stage. Set in the late ‘90s in New York City’s Lower East Side, a modern take on La Boheme with themes of love, fidelity, the quest to become an artist, and the ongoing AIDS crisis. Tickets $19.95 to $29.95. Visit AndrewsLivingArts.com.

* A GALA Old Time

June 7 and 8 at 8 p.m. at the Museum of Art, One Las Olas Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. A tribute to the 30th anniversary of the Gay and Lesbian Association of Choruses. The first and original members of the Gay Men’s Chorus are invited to participate. Tickets $25 to $40. Call 954- 832-0060 or visit TheFtLGMC.org.

* Sounds of Cinema

June 15 at 2 and 7 p.m. at the Miramar Cultural Center | ArtsPark, 2400 Civic Center Place in Miramar. Enjoy all styles of dancer from the performers of Miami Dancity. Tickets $25 to $45. Call 954-602-4500 or visit MiramarCulturalCenter.org.

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* From Sea to Shining Sea

June 15 at 7 p.m. at the Broward Center Amaturo Theater, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. A collection of music from famous American composers, Broadway, rock and more from the South Florida Pride Wind. Tickets $10 to $25. Call 954-468-3287 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

Kurt Elling

June 8 at 8 p.m. at the Miniaci Performing Arts Center, 3100 Ray Ferraro Jr. Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. Chicago jazz singer Kurt Elling will strut his mastering of “vocalese” and scatting. Tickets $40. Visit SouthFloridaJazz.org.

Israeli Dance Festival

May 26 at 7 p.m. at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. Celebrate Festival Yachad with more than 500 Israeli dancers from around the world. Tickets $10 to $50. Call 954-522-5334 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

Palm Beach County * Cock

Through June 16 at Biltmore Hotel’s GableStage, 1200 Anastasia Ave. in Coral Gables. When John and his boyfriend decide to take a break, he winds up soflagaynews //

meeting the girl of his dreams. Tickets $37.50 to $50. Call 305-445-1119 or visit GableStage.org.

* Sid Parker

May 31 from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Sunset Cove Amphitheater, 12551 Glades Road in Boca Raton. Parker and his “Sax of Gold” will provide a night of jazz and swing music. Free. Visit Facebook.com/ SunsetCoveAmphitheater.

* Rascal Flatts with the Band Perry June 8 at 6 p.m. at the Cruzan Amphitheater, 601-7 Sansbury’s Way in West Palm Beach. A night of modern country with two of the biggest names in the genre. Tickets $40.25 to $79.75. Visit Ticketmaster.com.

Steve Martin and The Steep Canyon Rangers

May 24 at 8 p.m. at the Kravis Center for the Performing Arts, 701 Okeechobee Blvd. in West Palm Beach. Comedian Steve Martin shows of his other talent as a musician with his bluegrass band, The Steep Canyon Rangers, as well as a special performance with Edie Brickell. Tickets $35 to $105. Call 561-832-7469 or visit Kravis.org.

Dancing at Lughnasa

May 24 to June 16 at the Don & Ann Brown Theatre, 201 Clematis St. in West Palm Beach. The audience will be taken back to rural Ireland in 1936 where a man tells the story of a summer spent at his aunt’s cottage. Tickets $10 to $55. Call 561-514-4042 or visit PalmBeachDramaworks.org.

Sylvia

Through June 2 at the Delray Beach Playhouse, 950 Lake Shore Drive in Delray Beach. Greg finds a sweet dog Sylvia and brings her home to his wife, who is not so thrilled to have her in the house. As Greg grows fonder of the pooch, the marriage starts to fall apart. Tickets $30. Call 561-2721282, ext 4 or visit DelrayBeachPlayhouse.com.

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* Absolutely Normal

May 31 to June 2 at the Colony Theater, 1040 Lincoln Road in Miami Beach. The Miami Gay Men’s Chorus performs “Alexander’s House,” a one-act musical about a man who leaves his home to his son instead of his partner when he dies. Tickets $20 to $30. Visit MiamiGayChorus or call 305-431-3761.

* Summer Shorts 2013

June 7 to July 30 at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Back for another round, almost two months worth of nightly shows featuring 90 minutes of theatrical shorts from local actors. Tickets $35 per show. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

Peter London Global Dance

May 24 at 7:30 p.m. at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. A multicultural performance by local dancers. Tickets $20 to $35. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

The Great American Songbook

May 24 and 25 at the South Miami-Dade Arts Center, 10950 SW 211 St. in Cutler Bay. Connie James sings American classics from George Gershwin, Cole Porter, James Taylor, Stevie Wonder, Joni Mitchell, Chaka Khan and more. Tickets $25 to $30. Call 786573-5300 or visit SMDCAC.org.

Angelique Kidjo May 31 at 8:30 p.m. at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. The world renowned singer is known for her impressive resume of collaborations, including Carlos Santana, Josh Groban, Alicia Keys and more. Tickets $35 to $65. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

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Community Calendar By Christiana Lilly, Calendar@SFGN.com

Broward County * Field Day for Foster Care

June 2 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the BB&T Center, One Panther Parkway in Sunrise. A day of fun to help 14 local nonprofit agencies who help foster children, including field day activities, music and food. Form a team to join in on the competition. Tickets $10 to $25 for individuals. Register at ChildNet.us and choose which agency you are supporting.

* Riverwalk Sunday Arts

Fourth Sundays from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. from Historic District to Esplanade Park in Fort Lauderdale. A monthly arts event of artists, performers, storytellers and vendors. Visit GorRiverWalk.com

* Songwriterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Showcase

Second Mondays at 8 p.m. at the Broward Center Abdo New River Room, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. An open mic night in the style of the Greenwich Village â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;60s coffee house sessions. Admission $10. Call 954-468-3287 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

*PFLAG Fort Lauderdale

Tuesdays in Fort Lauderdale, Coral Springs and Southwest Ranches. A support group for parents of LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and locations.

*SunServe Youth Group

Tuesdays and Thursdays in Fort Lauderdale, Southwest Ranches, Coral Springs and Hollywood. A support group and night of fun for LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and times.

*Gender Bender Youth Group

Mondays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at SunServe Campus, 1480 SW Ninth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. A group for LGBT youth 13 to 21 to discuss gender, gender expression, binary systems, friendship, family and whatever else comes up! Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com

Palm Beach County * Dwelling Projects

May 18 to 24 at ActivistArtistA Gallery, 422 W. Industrial Ave. in Boynton Beach. A contemporary art project by Nathalie Alfonso and Sofia Bastidas showcasing their Latin American roots. Opening reception May 18 at 7 p.m., closing reception May 23 at 6 p.m. Call 786-521-1199.

* Dress to Impress for LLS

May 30 at 8 p.m. at Solita Italian Restaurant, 25 NE Second Ave. in Delray Beach. More than 40 male and female models will show off summer fashions from area boutiques. Proceeds from VIP seating will go to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of South Florida. Free to attend, $50 VIP seats. For dinner reservations, call 561-899-0888. For VIP, call Victor at 561-281-1807 or email vc9399@gmail.com.

* West Palm Beach Carnival

June 15th at Sunset Cove Amphitheater, 12551 Glades Road in Boca Raton. Celebrate Caribbean culture with costumes, food and live entertainment. Tickets $15. Visit WestPalmBeachCarnival.com

Miami-Dade County Networking Breakfast

June 6 from 9 to 10 a.m. at the LGBT Visitor Center, 1130 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach. The MiamiDade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts an event for business owners to learn about the networking and marketing opportunities by joining the chamber. Free. RSVP to rsvp@gaybizmiami.com or 305-673-4440 or GayBizMiami.com

Preserve Planting

June 7 from 9 a.m. to noon at Rockdale Pineland Preserve, Southwest 144th Street and Southwest 92nd Avenue in Miami. Help beautify and preserve Rockdale Pineland by helping plant new greenery. Register to eel@miamidade.gov.

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Eco-Action Day

June 8, 15, 22 and 29 from 9 a.m. to noon at Amelia Earhart Park, 401 E. 65th St. in Miami. Help keep the park beautiful by planting, cleaning trash, or removing invasive exotic plants. Call Alan Abolilo 305-685-8389.

*GALLA Luncheon

June 12 from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at City Hall restaurant, 2004 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. A monthly networking opportunity for attorneys, judges and legal professionals. Limited to 20 people. Tickets $35 to $45. RSVP to rsvp@gaybizmiami.com or 305673-4440

Key West

* Key West Pride

June 5 to 9 throughout Key West. Days of nonstop parties, parades and celebration of pride. Tickets $10 to $50 for various events. Visit KeyWestPride.org.

Keys Turtle History

May 23 at the Turtle Museum, 200 Margaret St. in Key West. Turtles have been an important part of the Keys -- learn how the sea turtle industry has negatively impacted the islands. Call 305-294-0209.

Gay Key West Trolley Tours

Saturdays at 4 p.m. meeting at 628 Duval St. See the gay side of Key West on this trolley tour. Tickets $25. Call 800-535-7797 or visit GayKeyWestFL.com.

Hot Naked Sundays

Sundays from noon to 4 p.m. at Island House, 1129 Fleming St. in Key West. A pre-tea pool party. Call 305-294-6284 or visit IslandHouseKeyWest.com.

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DateBook Nightlife

By Christiana Lilly, Calendar@SFGN.com

Broward County Angel’s Cafe

287 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Enjoy happy hour on Thursdays from 6 to 9 p.m. with $3 wines and beers, free snacks, raffles, and music by DJ Sol. Valet parking in rear. Call 954-900-5217.

Boardwalk

1721 N. Andrews Ave. in Wilton Manors. Share drinks over a game of pool or check out the bar and strip club. Call 954-463-6969.

Alibi

2266 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Best and longest happy hour; Wednesdays $2 domestics and$1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.

Johnny’s

1116 W. Broward Blvd in Fort Lauderdale. Some of the hottest guys around with drink specials to make it even sweeter. Call 954-522-5931.

The Manor

2345 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Indoor and outdoor dining followed by hitting the dance floor. Live music Wednesdays, Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays. Call 954-626-0082.

Rumors

2426 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. For a chill night, hit up the bar with great prices. All 954-564-1799.

Sidelines Sports Bar

2031 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Relax with a cold beer for some friendly competition on the pool table. Call 954-563-8001 or visit SidelinesSports.com.

Naked Grape Wine Bar & Tapas

2163 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. A casual, hip bar to try out all sort of wines. Happy Hour all night on Thursdays. Call 954-563-5631.

New Moon

2440 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. The area’s favorite lesbian bar with Wednesdays half-priced drinks. Call 954-563-7660.

Palm Beach County The Cottage

522 Lucerne Ave. in Lake Worth. Tea Dance Sundays with great service, food and drinks. Call 561-5860080.

Fort Dix

6205 Georgia Ave. in West Palm Beach. A great place to mingle and relax with DJs on Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays. Call 561-533-5355.

H.G. Rooster

823 Belvedere Road in West Palm Beach. The city’s oldest gay club, with hot male dancer, free BBQ and karaoke. Cal 561-832-9119.

Mara

1132 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Ladies nights on Thursdays, karaoke on Fridays. Call 561-827-6468.

The Mad Hatter

1532 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders and free pool from Sunday to Thursday. Call 561-547-8860.

The Bar Lake Worth

2211 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. A friendly watering hole with live bands. Call 561-370-3954.

Miami-Dade County Club Space

34 NE 11th St. in Miami. Known for crazy all-nighters to electronic dance music and hip hop. Call 305-3501956.

Club Sugar

2301 SW 32nd Ave. in Miami. Drag Wars on Thursdays, $5 house drinks and $4 domestics. Call 305-443-7657.

Discotekka

950 NE Second Ave. in Miami. Come on Saturday nights for some of the best DJs around. Call 305- 3509084.

Eros Lounge

8201 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. NYC house music on Thursdays. Call 305-754-3444.

Score

727 Lincoln Road in Miami Beach. Located in the heart of South Beach on the famous Lincoln Road strip. Call 305-561-5521.

Swinging Richards

17450 Biscayne Blvd. in North Miami Beach. Fully nude men dancing to the best music in South Florida. Call 954-357-5521.

Twist

1057 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach. Awesome music, muscle boy dancers and never a cover. Call 305- 538-9478.

Key West

* Point5 Cocktail Club

915 Duval St. in Key West. Happy Hour every day from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. with $5 premium cocktails and gourmet pizzas. Call 305-296-0669 or visit 915Duval. com.

The Bourbon St. Pub

724 Duval St. in Key West. Get a taste of New Orleans with the best video bar with live DJs every night. Call 305-296-1992.

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AFFORDABLE DAILY ,WEEKLY & EXTENDED STAYS. CELEBRATING 15 YEARS, GAY OWNED AND OPERATED. 1998-2013 Seven year Pink Choice.com Award Winning Gay Hotel, offering spacious Self catering apartmentswith kitchens. Located just south of the Airport and Port Everglades in Dania Beach. Minutes to Nude and Gay beaches, Wilton manors , Fort Lauderdale attractions & night life. Includes WiFi, VOIP Telephone, BBQ ,parking and laundry. Clothing Optional Heated Pools and Sun Decks. (954)- 927-0090.Or visit www.LibertySuites.com

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BUTLER PLUMBING, INC.Residential & Commercial, Licensed & Insured, Palm Beach 561-613-338, Broward 954 -999-3315, MiamiDade 786-999-2152 24/7 -365 days,info@butlerplumbing.com, www.bultler-plumbing.com“ Just tell your friends the BUTLER did it”

TERRY DAVIS, LCSW, LLC #SW1079 Supportive male therapist, specializes in LGBT issues, HIV/AIDS,addictions, etc. Affordable, sliding scale. Eves/weekend. TdavisLCSW.com* (954) 731-5505

home care COMPANION,HOME CARE,SENIOR SERVICES. Make life a little easier for you or your loved one. 53 yr old experienced caregiver available. Light Cleaning, cooking and laundry included. Also shopping, appointments, gardening and organizing. Im friendly, engaging and compassionate. Hourly or afternoon/evening/ late night shifts available. Bonded insured, college educated and references. Call for more info, Robert 954-707-0264. soflagaynews //

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landscaping IRRIGATION SYSTEM REPAIR AND MAINTENANCE 19 years experience, excellent work, referrals upon request. Call Roberto 954383-8980

Angler Landscape, Inc. Residential and Commercial Lawn and Landscape

(954) 448-6394 Install Grass - Mulch - Rock - Hedges - Trees - Lighting Weekly and Monthly Service

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pets STEVEN JAY’S LOVING PET CARE! I care for your pet in my home. One client at a time if requested. Multiple pets and all pets welcome! I have a very clean home and low rates! Call Steven Jay , 954 -565-1996

licensed massage

property management

EXP. MATURE MALE WPB MASSEUR In-calls only, private studio setting by Belvedere/SR7 in quiet area. Highly skilled, intuitive theraputic bodywork by friendly LMT. Affordable rates but cash only. Early to late, 7 days. Call (561) 2548065 for appt. or walk-in OK. RELIEVE STRESS & TENSION WITH MAGICAL HANDS PRO MASSAGE (FL: MA51008) THE BRITISH POUND John Maroussas LMT Sports Massage, Deep Tissue, Neuromuscular, Trigger Point, Swedish, Salt or Sugar Scrubs. Private Studio w/ Shower. Wilton Manors Location near Bill’s Lic#MA51123 954-999-2240 RECESSION RELIEF $40 per 90 MIN - Out calls higher. Swedish, Deep Tissue, Specialty Back, Lower Body & Feet. Couples Discounts. Seniors Welcome. Delray Beach. 16 years experience. MA18563 Dennis (561) 502-2628 BEST MASSAGE & BODYWORK IN SOUTH FLORIDA READ MY REVIEWS AT WWW.SCHEDULENOW.INFO KEITH ANGEL, LMT (954) 816-7260 MA62951 MM27048 WILTON MANORS MASSAGE Swedish, Deep Tissue, Sports. $59 Swedish Hour. call or Text Chris Tunkus 954-258-8779 1322 NE 4th Avenue Fort Lauderdale, FL www.WiltonManorsMassage.com

Dog Walking: $10.00 starting at Pet Sitting: $40.00 In House Pet Sitting: $45.00 Training: $10.00 starting per visit Pet Taxi (FTL Area): $20.00 Dependable • Reliable Service Delivered with Love and Respect

AFFORDABLE AWESOME MASSAGE BY JIM Offering Swedish, Deep Tissue, Sports and Lomi Lomi Massage for Men; in a very comfortable, relaxed and Private Massage Studio, Conveniently located with plenty of parking. Same Day appointments are welcome; please call Jim Libonati 954-600-5843,,Visit my website for details, rates, testimonials and more: www. massagebyjim.com Licensed and Certified MM22293 STAY TUNED FOR ALL NEW, LARGER, MORE ACCOMODATING STUDIO COMING TO WILTON MANORS May 1, 2013.

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psychic services CHRISTIAN PSYCHIC READER AND ADVISOR BY SHAWN Reunite you with loved ones or family. Will guide you for success. Tell past, present and destiny to come. For further information call Shawn at 954-549-8243

rent/lease furnished PERFECT RELOCATION RENTALS 3 TO 6 MONTHSFrom 325/week & 1300/month. Gay owned and operated hotel resort with beautiful studio, 1 & 2BRself catering turnkey, fully furnished & apartments with full kitchens. Clothing optional pool! Central to Wilton Manors & Haulover nude beach in historic Dania Beach . Pets welcome. Includes ,utilities, parking , cable, wifi , internet/telephone . Call Joe & Jack at 954927-0090 or visit www.LibertySuites.com

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real estate for sale MIAMI WATERFRONT LOCATION, KeystoneNew Stunning Renovation. Boca Style 3274 sq ft, 2 story, Open design Cherry wood kitchen.granite counter,stainless steel appliances. 10 ft ceilings, 4br/2ba +26 ft bonus room,dining room,den large lot and 40 ft long pool. Best Buy $895K, 305-4331775,631-433,0690

rent/lease wilton manors

LARGE 2BR/1 BA Beautiful wood floors, private yard, single family home with canvas covered parking, amazing bonus room, washer/ dryer. Quiet neighborhood walking distance to Wilton Drive/restaurants, clubs, etc. Background check/credit check required. Available NOW!!! $1,650month Please call Terri Wright with Sea Island Realty, Inc 954-401-4918

rent/lease ft. lauderdale LARGE TOWNHOME WITH POOL, EAST FORT LAUDERDALE Beautiful 2BR/2BA townhome in quiet 5-plex.Large eat-in kitchen, central a/c, ceiling fans, Washer/dryer in unit, dishwasher, sparkling pool and more. All in tropical paradise within 5 minutes of the Atlantic Ocean & 1-95 & 8 minutes to Wilton Drive. Master bedroom has walk-in closet and sliding glass doors to private balcony. Great neighbors and neighborhood. Small pet ok. $1,225/mo. Check out photos & complete descriptions at www.YourPerfectApartment.com or call Rick at 954-253-1929 LAKERIDGE FURN. GARDEN STUDIO Central to beach/downtown/Wilton Drive.Clean newly ren. 1 rm and bath. Lg. private fenced courtyard. private entry with parking,laundry onsite, water and electric included. $765/mo. 1st and security with lease. Avail March 1st call 941-548-7989 MIDDLE RIVER TERRACE 1/1 efficency $675/ mo. Or $165/week, 6 mos or 1 year lease. Large 3BD house $1,250, carport, office, and all tile. Pay your first month’s rent with an approved application and you’re in. Water & electric included* Call for details. 954-527-9225 HUGE 2/2 POOL DUPLEX - POMPANO BEACH Updated, Lushly Landscaped, East of Fed Hwy 1 Mile to Beach, D/R, Sep. Laundry W/D, Fab Lrg Pool, New Central AC, Tile Floors, Small Dog or Cat ok. $1390, Available 2/1/13 Call Tim: 754-235-2911 1BD APARTMENT UPSTAIRS 1142 NE 4th Avenue, Fort Lauderdale $700/Mo. Yearly Call 954-764-0212 or 954-581-2573 FULLY FURNISHED TOWNHOUSE FOR RENT Fully furnished 2bd/2.5 bath for rent near LA Fitness and US1, great location close to beach/ Wilton Manors. Full use of pool, free cable, well maintained community, small pets ok. Provide proof of employment, undergo full background check and have first, last and security, $1,600. 954-806-5725

real estate services

roommates WILTON STATION LUXURY CONDO Share 2/2 with loft, private bath, parking, pool, gym and Jacuzzi. Utilities included. Looking for mature professional, background check required. $875 a month ,call 516-655-3216 LAUDERLAKES ROOMATE WANTED Share a 2/2 on lake w/ hot tub, private bath, W/D , dishwasher ,central a/c and cable. $ 400/mo includes utilities & internet. Looking for a mature professional. 1st & security deposit. Background check req. Call Gary 954-803-0885 OAKLAND PARK, ROYAL PARK CONDOMINIUM Professional gay male wants gay roommate to share 2BR/2BA totally updated Condo w/ pool &gym In gated community. All utilities incl, internet and WiFi. You get BR with private BA and use of all common areas. 5 mins to Wilton Drive. Please be professional w/full time job and references. Nonsmoker and dog friendly a must. $ 535/month. 1st month and security required. Call 954-203-2345 MALE ROOMMATE WANTED Male roommate wanted for 2/1/13. Beautiful WPB 2BD/2BA apt to share $650/Mo. Water, Elect, Waste Mgt included. Deposit + 1st. mo. Required. Call 561316-7236 FREE RENT –LARGE 2BR APARTMENT Have your own BR with private bath and shower. Needed, experienced strong mature male caretaker, capable of assisting wheelchair bound gay 55 year old male with spinal cord damage. Smoker. Located State Rd between Oakland and Sunrise blvd . 15 minutes to Wilton Manors. Call Joe at 954-740-2155.

rent/lease hollywood hills

2 ROOMS FOR RENT 1BD/1BA new carpet, kitchenette, $1,200/Mo. will reduce to $775 for experienced handyman. Also 1BD $700/Mo. will reduce to $400 for experienced handyman. No pets allowed. Preferably young and strong male. Contact John 954-549-8243 for more info.

rent/lease oakland park

AFFORDABLE-READY TO MOVE IN NEWLY REMODELED, Oakland Park, ready to move-in 1BD/1BA for $725.00, in newly renovated. Our largest unit. Walk in closet, renovated kitchen and bath, new appl., new tile floors, off-street parking. Smoke free. No pets. $695.00. Call 754-366-7563

rent/lease west palm beach

PB COUNTY-LAKE PARK 2/1 CONDO 2nd Floor Corner - Next to Kelsey Park across from Intracoastal Great Locations. $750 per month - 1 year Lease • No Pets • No Smoking • 1st & Security Call 561-310-0615

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