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Plaintiffs Want FL Marriage Equality Ban Ruled Unconstitutional The plaintiffs in Florida’s marriage equality lawsuit are filing a new motion, requesting that the state’s ban on marriage equality be ruled unconstitutional. The original lawsuit was filed in January. The plaintiffs are Equality Florida Institute and six South Florida same-sex couples: Catherina Pareto and Karla Arguello; Dr. Juan Carlos Rodriguez and David Price; Vanessa and Melanie Alenier; Todd and Jeff Delmay;

Summer Greene and Pamela Faerber; and Don Price Johnston and Jorge Isaias Diaz. The motion, filed May 1, states that Amendment 2, Florida’s ban on marriage equality, cannot stand in light of the Supreme Court ruling that the federal Defense of Marriage Act was ruled unconstitutional. It also states that subsequent state court cases since the DOMA ruling support the assertion that Florida’s ban is unconstitutional.

Hall of Famers Believe Gay Player Will Be Accepted

Once Michael Sam is drafted in the NFL, the Missouri defensive end will be judged strictly on whether he can play and whether he can help his team win. Everything else — even that he’s gay — will be trivial. As the first openly homosexual player to enter the draft, Sam could face scrutiny unlike any player before him. But many of the greatest players and coaches in football history don’t believe he’ll be subjected to

any hatred, harassment, discrimination or bullying by teammates. Sam’s courageous decision to reveal his sexual orientation was an important personal milestone. It was also an historic moment for the NFL and all major sports as it provides a deeper reflection of society’s openness and willingness to accept his individuality. The NFL Draft will be held on Thursday, May 8, to Saturday, May 10.

Anti-Gay NC Republican Has Drag Queen Past Several news sources are reporting that a Republican politician from North Carolina, who opposes same-sex marriage, was once a drag queen and worked at a gay-friendly bar. According to a report by the WinstonSalem Journal (as cited by the New York Daily News) GOP Steve Wiles, a North Carolina state Senate candidate and supports the state’s ban on gay marriage, was allegedly

once a female impersonator known as Miss Mona Sinclair and a drag-show emcee. Wiles, 34, reportedly performed at the gay-friendly Club Odyssey in WinstonSalem, N.C., from 2002 through 2010. The club’s former owner, Randy Duggins, told the Journal that Wiles directed the bar’s weekly drag show.

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Gay Bishop Getting Divorced Gene Robinson, the first openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church, is divorcing his husband, Mark Andrew. Robinson, 66, announced the divorce in a column published by the news organization, The Daily Beast. “While the details of our situation will remain appropriately private, I am seeking to be as open and honest in the midst of this decision as I have been in other dramatic moments of my life — coming out in 1986, falling in love, and accepting the challenge of becoming Christendom’s first openly gay priest to be elected a Bishop in the historic

eep Biden to the Rescue Again

Joe Biden is taking the lead on LGBT rights again. In a similar manner as to his handling of the question of marriage equality, the Vice President’s recent remarks on workplace protections for LGBT employees of federal contractors is causing quite a stir in the Obama administration. In an interview with The Huffington Post, Biden said he doesn’t see why President Obama should not issue an executive order to prohibit workplace discrimination. Biden also reiterated his support for Congress to pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA.) “I don’t see any downside,” Biden told Huffington Post reporter Jennifer Bendery in regards to Obama taking executive action. The Vice President has started the ball rolling on gay rights initiatives before. In the spring of 2012, Biden said he was “comfortable” with same-sex marriage during an interview on NBC’s “Meet the Press.” Those remarks preceded, and likely pressured, the President’s decision to come out publicly in favor of marriage equality. White House Press Secretary Jay Carney dodged the question of an executive order at last week’s press briefing, pushing instead the administration’s support for the passage of ENDA. “We’re focused on the big accomplishment, which would be the passage by both houses of Congress and the signing into law by the President of the Employment NonDiscrimination Act,” Carney said. ENDA was passed in the U.S. Senate last November by a 64-32 vote, but appears to have hit the wall in the House where Speaker John Boehner is refusing to give it a vote. From the Associated Press

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succession of bishops stretching back to the apostles,” Robinson writes. Robinson was ordained an Episcopal priest in 1972. He was elected bishop of the Diocese of New Hampshire in 2003, making him the first openly gay person to hold such a position. He retired last year and is now a senior fellow at the Center for American Progress, a liberal think tank. He and Andrew met in 1987 and they married in New Hampshire in 2010. Robinson and his wife, Isabella, divorced in 1986 after 14 years of marriage. They have two daughters.

ulture Wars Heating in North Carolina

An anti-gay Republican candidate who once worked as a drag queen, an openly gay celebrity singer campaigning for Congress and a group of clergy members challenging a ban on same-sex marriage because they say it violates their religious freedom. Welcome to North Carolina. The Tar Heel State certainly has its share of interesting stories lately. For starters, Steve Wiles, 34, is running for the North Carolina state senate and supports the state’s ban on same-sex marriage. Wiles is a real estate agent whose resumé also includes a stint as a female impersonator at a gay nightclub in Winston-Salem, N.C. and a promoter of the Miss Gay America pageant. “He’s (Wiles) a hypocrite,” said Randy Duggins, who co-owned Club Odyssey where Wiles performed under the name of Mona Sinclair. Meanwhile, a coalition of clergy members filed a federal lawsuit last week claiming North Carolina’s constitutional ban on gay marriage is an unjust law and a direct affront to freedom of religion. “We feel that it is important that any person that comes into community life of a United Church of Christ congregation be afforded equal pastoral care and equal opportunity to religious services that clergy provide,” said Rev. J. Bennett Guess, executive minister with the United Church of Christ. Voters narrowly approved North Carolina’s same-sex marriage ban in 2012. And finally, while he personally supports gay marriage, former “American Idol” star Clay Aiken, 35, said it is “not the issue” he is campaigning on. Aiken, who came out as gay in 2008, is campaigning as a Democrat in North Carolina’s second congressional district to give voice, he says, to those who are often ignored. From the Associated Press soflagaynews //

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“My belief in marriage is undiminished by the reality of divorcing someone I have loved for a very long time, and will continue to love even as we separate,” Robinson writes. “Love can endure, even if a marriage cannot.” He also notes, “It is at least a small comfort to me, as a gay rights and marriage equality advocate, to know that like any marriage, gay and lesbian couples are subject to the same complications and hardships that afflict marriages between heterosexual couples.” From the Associated Press

owa Lawmakers Pass Reformed HIV Transmission Bill

The Iowa Legislature has sent to the governor a measure reducing penalties for people who unknowingly expose someone to HIV with no intention of infecting them. The Iowa House, last week, passed a version of the bill the Senate had approved in February. The Legislature worked overtime to adjourn for the year, passing the bill at around 2 a.m., May 1. The bill changes a current law that says if someone exposes a partner to HIV without their consent, they can be convicted of a felony punishable by up to 25 years in prison. It creates more general rules about infectious diseases, making people eligible for 25-year sentences only if they intend to transmit a disease without someone’s knowledge. The measure gained support from a wide variety of social justice and gay rights groups, who maintain the current transmission law is rooted in the hysteria of the HIV epidemic of the 1980s. Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman Robert Hogg (D-Cedar Rapids) called the current law, “badly outdated and draconian.” The bill now awaits Republican Gov. Terry Branstad’s signature. Of the 34 states with HIV transmission laws, Iowa has some of the harshest penalties. Only Arkansas and Washington are more punitive with maximum prison sentences of 30 years. Randy Mayer, chief of the bureau of HIV, STD and hepatitis at the Iowa Department of Public Health, said the bill closely follows the department’s recommendations. “We believe the bill will move Iowa forward significantly toward having public health and criminally focused approaches that work in concert to reduce transmissions of infectious diseases,” Mayer said. From the Associated Press

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LAAD Honors George Takei

Television icon and staunch LGBT advocate George Takei received the Vito Russo Award at the 25th Annual GLAAD Media Awards Saturday night in New York City. Takei, 77, is best known to science fiction fans for his role as Officer Sulu on the TV series Star Trek. The Vito Russo Award is presented to an openly LGBT media professional who has made a significant difference in promoting equality. In his acceptance speech, Takei flashed his comedic wit, saying “Tonight it is Okay to be Takei,” while acknowledging how GLAAD has helped transform the media from hammering gays with soul crushing stereotypes to becoming a galvanizing instrument for change and civil rights. “We have come a long way,” Takei said. “But as long as LGBT people can be fired from their job for simply being who they are, our work isn’t done. As long as young people are kicked out of their families just for being who they are, our work isn’t done. As long as people are being bullied into feeling that their lives are so hopeless that they are driven to selfdestructive acts … our work is not done.” Other winners Saturday night in NYC, included the Netflix comedy series “Orange is the New Black,” and the major motion picture, “Philomena.” Journalist Sergio Hernandez, of Buzzfeed. com and ProPublica.org, won top honors in the Outstanding Digital Journalism Article category for his story, “Sex, Lies and HIV: When What You Don’t Tell Your Partner is a Crime.” The New Civil Rights Movement was named Outstanding Blog. Visit GLAAD.org for more information.

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Judge Sentences Driver to 15 Years in Miami Heat Dancer Death Rafael Olmeda Sun Sentinel

Mario Careaga is “selfless,” a parade of witnesses told Broward Circuit Judge Ilona Holmes on Monday. He is “responsible.” He is “totally upstanding.” But he is also guilty of driving drunk and causing the death of Miami Heat dancer Nancy Lopez-Ruiz in September 2010, and for that, Holmes sentenced the insurance executive on Monday to 15 years in state prison. “I wish it was me instead of Nancy,” Careaga said, apologizing to the victim’s family. “I just hope someday they [her family] can forgive me.” Careaga, 46, sat in court while more than a dozen character witnesses took the stand, each hoping to persuade Holmes to show leniency in sentencing Careaga, who was

convicted in March of DUI manslaughter. But Holmes went with the maximum allowable sentence for a DUI manslaughter conviction, citing Careaga’s blood alcohol level of 0.24 percent as the basis for her decision. “The blood doesn’t lie,” she said. “That’s a lot more than social drinking.” Careaga is in the Broward County Main Jail. Holmes set a bond of $100,000 for Careaga to go free while his lawyer, David Bogenschutz, appeals his conviction. Among those who vouched for Careaga were: Kathleen Cannon, president and CEO of the United Way of Broward County; Dennis Haas, president and CEO of ARC Broward, a non-profit group that provides services and educational programs for people with autism, Down syndrome and other disorders; and Emilio Benitez, president and CEO of Childnet, the foster care management agency that serves Broward and Palm Beach counties. Holmes also heard from Careaga’s personal and professional friends, who described him as a generous donor and fundraiser for causes that affect children. Cannon said he was “a heart and soul volunteer,” while Haas

called him an “ARC Angel” whose efforts have allowed his organization to continue functioning while government support has dwindled in recent years. Then Holmes heard from the victim’s family, who reminded her of the future that was cut short when Lopez-Ruiz, 22, was killed on the westbound section of road where Sunrise Boulevard splits from Federal Highway. “Nancy was a very sweet child,” said her father, Armando Ruiz-Ibarguen. “From the time she was very little, we noticed how enthusiastic she was about dancing. We did everything we could to pursue her dream.” He asked Holmes to sentence Careaga to the maximum prison term. “You killed my sister,” said Meylin LopezMauldin, looking directly at Careaga. “When you get out of prison and the air touches your skin, and you can reach the sky, think of my sister. She won’t.” Another sister, Marjorie Lacy, told Careaga his apology would carry more weight if he would drop his appeal and serve his time. “If you’re really sorry for what you did, you don’t

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ask for another go at it,” she said. Later, when Bogenschutz made it clear he would appeal the conviction, Lacy said it proved the defendant was not genuinely sorry. On the night of the accident, Lopez-Ruiz had stopped her motorcycle on a gore, a striped section of road not intended for vehicular travel. Careaga, who had been drinking at a party at The Galleria mall, slammed into the victim without warning. He told jurors he was trying to avoid a car that was riding recklessly behind his. But prosecutor Kristin MacKenzie convinced jurors that Careaga could have avoided the crash if he had not been drunk. Blood tests showed Careaga was driving with a 0.24 blood alcohol level, three times the legal limit. Careaga admitted drinking, but denied consuming enough alcohol to reach such an extreme level of impairment. Lopez-Ruiz had just secured a spot on the Miami Heat dance team, which performs during home games at the AmericanAirlines Arena. A college student originally from Tampa, she was due to begin performing publicly two weeks after her death.

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olonel Comes to Lesbian Vet’s Aid

After the Idaho Division of Veterans Services denied a request by a U.S. Navy veteran to be buried with her wife in the state’s veterans cemetery, a former U.S. Army colonel is offering his spot instead. In a letter to the Idaho Statesman, Barry Johnson, a 27-year veteran writes, “I am happy to give my fellow veteran that small peace of mind. And I do it to honor all great Americans I’ve served with a long the way – gay, straight, whatever.” Idaho denied Madelynn Taylor’s request to be buried with her departed wife Jean Mixner because the state does not recognize same-sex marriage.

ay Justice Appointed to Washington Supreme Court

Mary Yu, a King County Superior Court Judge, was appointed last week to the Washington Supreme Court, becoming the first openly gay and Asian American judge to serve in such capacity. Yu, 57, was appointed by Washington Gov. Jay Inslee, who said it was “a moment all Washingtonians can be proud of.” Yu is best known in LGBT circles for having performed Washington’s first same-sex marriage in 2012. She is a native of Chicago and a graduate of the University of Notre Dame Law School. The sixth woman on the nine-member court, Yu must run for election in November to keep her judgeship.

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The sultanate of Brunei has introduced sharia law for its estimated 400,000 inhabitants of the tiny former British protectorate in Southeast Asia. Sultan Haji Hassanal Bolkiah announced the new criminal penal code last week which punishes pregnancy outside of marriage, failure to perform Friday prayers and propagating other religions. Brunei plans to further phase in a death penalty by stoning for homosexuality. The sultan hailed the new law as a “great achievement.” Officials at the United Nations condemned the law which has sparked outrage in the West and resulted in a boycott by gay groups of the sultan’s Beverly Hills Hotel.

orld AIDS Museum Readies for Opening Day

The board of directors of the World AIDS Museum and Educational Center have announced plans to begin regularly scheduled guided tours of the new museum in Wilton Manors. Starting May 15, the museum, located at 1201 NE 26th Street, Suite 111, will operate Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays with doucet-guided tours, said founder Steve Stagon. The museum tells the story of the history of HIV/AIDS through pictures, film, artwork and written material and allows visitors to add their personal experiences via interactive exhibits. It was dedicated last December with a visit from basketball legend Ervin “Magic” Johnson. Visit WorldAIDSMuseum.com for more information.

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International AIDS Fighting Trio Announces Breakthrough Fort Lauderdale foundation funds research to enable Tenofovir to reach the brain Sasha Razumikhin With money from Fort Lauderdale’s The Campbell Foundation, a New Yorkbased research team stationed in Israel was able to overcome the “blood brain barrier” that prevents the HIV fighting drug Tenofovir from passing into the brain to fight the disease. The cash comes from Campbell, which prides itself on funding “alternative and non-traditional” avenues of research toward curing AIDS — it’s given more than $9 million to AIDS focused research since its founding in 1995. The money went to New York-based Lauren Sciences. Lauren has a team of researchers in Israel working at the BenGurion University of the Negev. Lauren’s CEO, Susan Rosenbaum, spoke at the Fourth Annual Conference of the American Society for Nanomedicine in late March. Among her other projects, she announced the breakthrough in her presentation “Product Development and Translations: From Cancer to HIV and

Neuro-AIDS,” in which she described data from its leading programs including the delivery of Tenofovir to the brain by nanovesicles for the Treatment of Neuro-HIV. “The project was hugely successful and with the one-year grant we were able to show delivery of significant therapeutic quantities of Tenofovir into the brain by intravenous administration,” said Rosenbaum. “The Campbell Foundation encourages early innovation. They provided the seed funding that allowed us to take our technology and develop it to the next level for HIV.” Rosenbaum plans to begin efficacy studies in mice this year and start clinical trials roughly two years after. “If this works in humans, we have a new therapeutic [treatment] for AIDS patients,” she said. It’s just another big deal in research that originates from our part of the world.

“There are a lot of drug delivery systems out there, but there are none that get into the brain like this one,” said Campbell Foundation’s Program Officer Ken Rapkin, who vets grant applications before sending them to its all-volunteer peer review board. Campbell Foundation is named after Richard Campbell Zahn, the chemist who pioneered Herpecin-L lip balm. Since 1995, the foundation has funded 126 sets of studies around the world. Funders Concerned About AIDS (FCAA) for example, ranked Campbell in the top 20th percentile of private philanthropic groups that focus on AIDS. The 25-year-old FCAA aims to “mobilize” philanthropic groups like Campbell by initiating them into action (and ranking them). Visit CampbellFoundation.net for more information.

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Donald Sterling and Brendan Eich: A Tale of Two Bigots John Becker

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Donald Sterling, the billionaire owner of the Los Angeles Clippers, made headlines last month when he was caught on tape making disgustingly racist remarks to his mistress about African Americans. His team protested him, corporate sponsors dropped the Clippers like a hot potato, and everyone from Oprah Winfrey to President Obama lined up to condemn Sterling’s racist views. And in a press conference four days later, the National Basketball Association dropped the hammer: “Effective immediately, I am banning Mr. Sterling for life,” Commissioner Adam Silver said, “from any association with the Clippers organization or the NBA.” Silver added that Sterling would be fined $2.5 million dollars — the maximum amount allowed under league rules — and that he planned to urge Sterling’s fellow owners to force the sale of the team. It was an astonishingly swift — and completely warranted — fall from grace, and one that came on the heels of another highprofile toppling: that of Brendan Eich. Eich, as you may recall, was appointed CEO of tech giant Mozilla at the end of March. Because of a $1,000 donation Eich made in 2008 to California’s viciously homophobic Proposition 8 campaign — a cruel and animus-driven crusade that stripped gays and lesbians in that state of their fundamental right to marry — many Mozilla staffers and developers responded to his promotion with protests and boycotts. Popular online dating site OKCupid joined the fray, posting a popup message asking its users to dump Mozilla’s Firefox browser. It was soon revealed that Eich’s antiLGBT political activities weren’t limited to Prop 8. In fact, he’d donated to a whole host of homophobic politicians, including Pat Buchanan, who infamously said that “promiscuous homosexuals appear literally hell-bent on Satanism and suicide” and claimed the AIDS epidemic was the “awful retribution” for gays’ “declared war on nature.” When the Guardian gave Eich a chance to distance himself from Buchanan’s repugnantly bigoted views — which were widely known at the time Eich supported his presidential campaign — the embattled CEO couldn’t even muster a comment. (Silence speaks volumes, doesn’t it?) He also refused

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to apologize for his Prop 8 donation and even implied that his, errrr, less-than-enthusiastic views about the humanity of LGBT people would help Mozilla do better business in antigay nations like Indonesia. With every passing day, and every time Eich opened his mouth, the tech community’s outrage mounted. It soon became clear that he’d lost his company’s confidence and had become a liability. Just nine days after taking over as CEO, Eich voluntarily resigned as CEO. The downfalls of Donald Sterling and Brendan Eich were both largely driven by the free market. In both cases, people and companies responded to bigotry by applying economic and social pressure, and when that pressure became too great, both bigots bit the dust. But the reactions to both men’s ousters were markedly different. In Eich’s case, many on the right — and even some within the LGBT community — rushed to the barricades to defend him. Leading the charge was gay blogger Andrew Sullivan, who hysterically (and falsely) claimed that the pitiable Eich was “hounded” by the LGBT rights movement and “purged” like a “heretic.” The National Review piled on, accusing equality supporters of deploying a “lynch mob.” The Daily Caller said gay-rights activists had “claimed [Eich’s] scalp,” even though not one single LGBT organization commented publicly on the controversy at all. And recently, a group of mostly gay conservatives and libertarians came out with a statement bemoaning the LGBT movement’s “worrisome turn toward intolerance and puritanism” and defending Eich’s “freedom to dissent.” In response, I posed this question to Eich’s defenders: if he had donated to a white supremacist or neo-Nazi group, would they similarly argue for his “freedom to dissent”? If he was a racist or an anti-Semite instead of a homophobe, would they be working so hard to pretend that his views should be seriously considered and vigorously debated? Their unqualified denunciations of Donald Sterling just days later provided the answer. As far as they’re concerned, only homophobia deserves this special form of “tolerance” — some forms of bigotry are worse than others. If that isn’t a vile and disgusting double standard, I don’t know what is.

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A friend of mine who is planning a samesex wedding that my wife and I are hosting, recently asked me about the legal implications of the marriage, considering that it will not be legally recognized in Florida. I prepared some tips for him and wanted to share them.

court in Florida. • What if My Spouse/Partner is Injured or Dies? Heterosexual spouses have direct claims against a person who negligently or intentionally injures their spouse in a claim called “loss of consortium.” Because Florida

• Federal Taxes: For federal tax purposes, the IRS recognizes same-sex marriages that are valid where they are performed, even if the married couple resides in a state that doesn’t recognize the marriage. So for tax purposes, if a gay couple is married somewhere where the marriage is valid and legally recognized, they are treated as married even if they live in Florida. • Healthcare Proxies/Hospital Visitation Authorizations: This is one of the most important items and all same-sex couples should have these. These documents help ensure that same-sex couples are treated more equally to heterosexual couples when medical care is involved. Because the need for these documents will often arise unexpectedly, it is important for a couple to have them prepared before a crisis occurs. This way, the couple is prepared should an emergency take place and each partner has the legal right to be involved, make decisions and protect the other. • Where to Sue or be Sued? If you’re being sued or need to sue someone, it is probably best to do so in federal court. Heterosexual spouses enjoy a marital privilege, which is comparable to the more commonly known attorney-client privilege. Confidential communications between the spouses are protected. In Florida same-sex spouses, even if married somewhere that recognizes gay marriage, can’t take advantage of marital privilege in state court. As a result, in state court, another party may be able to ask about conversations held between the same sex-spouses (which they could not do with heterosexual spouses). Same-sex spouses have a better chance of being treated like heterosexual spouses on the issue of the marital privilege in federal court than state

doesn’t recognize gay marriage, this claim is not available to same-sex spouses or domestic partners. However, same-sex partners may be able to assert a claim for negligent infliction of emotional distress if they suffer a physical injury as a result of emotional distress from witnessing the death or injury of their partner. This claim may not be successful in the Third or Fourth Districts (Broward, Palm Beach, Miami-Dade and Monroe Counties) as these courts have found that a “legal relationship” is required to maintain such a claim. The Florida Supreme Court hasn’t yet decided this issue, but it should allow such a claim as its previous decisions have only required a “close personal relationship,” which is clearly met by a same-sex couple. • Cohabitation Agreements: While Florida doesn’t recognize same-sex marriages, cohabitation agreements or domestic partner agreements are valid. Similar to a prenuptial agreement, such an agreement may set layout spouse/partner responsibilities and provide for a division of the spouses/partners’ property and provide for financial support of the spouses/partners. These agreements make sure that each partner is protected in the event of a divorce or separation. As Florida’s division of property laws that apply to heterosexual marriages will not apply to same-sex couples, early planning is essential to protect both partners. • Durable Power of Attorney: As a parallel to the healthcare proxy, which addresses medical decisions, this document enables a spouse/partner to handle legal and financial affairs of the other in the event the other spouse/partner becomes incapacitated. • Will and Estate Planning: These are

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Traveler’s Rest: A Charming Plantation with a Gay Touch Ric Reily

The route to Natchez, Miss. from I-55 is hilly with broad curves through rolling green countryside. An hour and a half pass before a left across the oncoming lanes onto a country road that crosses railroad tracks, makes a sharp right then narrows and turns a sharp left before disappearing into the forest. Following the 42-foot motor home we take our half out of the middle of the road and hope no traffic appears from the other direction. Cresting a small rise the road descends and seems to disappear, becoming a dirt track carving a domed tunnel under overhanging trees. Narrow and low it is space enough to allow our passage at slow speed without scratching the rigs on low hanging branches. Finally the track straightens and opens on a broad green lawn ringed with blooming wisteria exploding from thick vines clinging to century and a half old oaks. Azaleas bloom along the drive in pinks, whites and purple. We have arrived at Traveler’s Rest, the oldest working plantation in the county owned by the same family for eight generations. The track splits to form a loop driveway circling a bright green lawn passing in front of a 250-year-old low country house. Traveler’s Rest’s current occupants, Windell Weeden and Stephen Cook are antique dealers, house restorers and a couple of 22 years. They have restored the house from an abandoned tumble down to much of its original glory and style. Windell and Steve appear in a Restore America segment with Bob Villa sharing the before and after of Traveler’s Rest. From the house across the green lawn marches the welcoming committee, Windell, Steven, son Mark and two big dogs, Smiley and Curry. Smiley gives me a nosing, a good sniff and then, appropriately a smile. She is an old Southern girl, and graciously welcomes us all to her home. The low country style house is wide and fronted with a gallery reached by broad plank steps. Edged by floor high hedges and furnished with chairs, side tables, potted plants, a hanging porch swing and dogs; lots of dogs, big dogs, small dogs, old dogs and even one crippled Chihuahua. Above the porch

rises a metal roof broken by five deep dormers and topped with four brick chimneys venting 13 fireplaces. Our dog Buckley quickly becomes part of a pack of eight mutts and is greeted by each before settling on one to dominate. He begins hours of chasing, mounting and generally annoying Coco, a wiry chocolate poodle, much to the amusement of Coco’s Dads who insist that Coco deserves the attention in return for just that sort of behavior directed at the other dogs daily. Stepping across the threshold into the dogtrot is stepping into a museum furnished and accessorized like few antique stores. Immediately inside is a grand piano under the first of uncounted crystal chandeliers. There is a second chandelier over a marble topped table in the middle of the huge through house room and a third over a seating area on the far side facing mirroring sets of floor to ceiling doors. Sideboards line the walls, each tastefully, copiously and elegantly filled with vases, photo frames, dishes, bowls, reticulated compotes, cornucopia, clocks, candelabra,

statuary, figurines, an astral lamp and oil and gas lamps. The walls are covered with portraits and paintings. Oriental rugs set off areas and busts on pedestals stand positioned marking spaces against narrow walls between doorways. The effect is magical, surreal and elegant. Moving into the room leads the eye to doorways, two on one side into bedrooms similarly furnished and appointed. A doorway into a sitting room reveals another doorway on its far side, equipped with eight foot high pocket doors, leading into a dining room. From the vantage point of the entry hall, through the sitting room, the dining room easily holds a dual triple leg pedestal dining table surrounded by 10 chairs, with room for more in a pinch. The sitting room and dining room are filled with furnishing and accessories. There seems no end for the eye and I remark that many stores are not so well stocked. A fourth doorway from the entry hall opens into the kitchen where dinner is being prepared, filling the house and the outdoor gallery as well, with the delicious aromas of cooking. This kitchen is huge, just what one

important for anyone to ensure assets are distributed the way they desire upon their death. However, by law, a surviving heterosexual spouse receives a certain percentage if there is no will and is entitled to what is called an “elective share” even where there is. Because same-sex couples cannot take advantage of these provisions, it is essential that they make a plan for the

distribution of their property upon their death. • Adoption: Thankfully, Florida’s ban on gay adoptions has been overturned, but many legal issues still exist. Where one member of a same-sex couple is the biological or legal parent of a child and the other is not, a second-parent adoption is recommended to ensure that both partners have equal parental rights with respect to the child. There are

specific legal requirements in Florida (and elsewhere) to accomplish this. If a second parent adoption is not possible or wanted, then a co-parenting agreement, which spells out the legal rights and responsibilities of each parent, should be entered. If you’re planning to adopt a child from another country, you may want to consider whether to proceed with a same-sex marriage, as some countries prohibit gay couples to adopt.

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would expect of a plantation house kitchen, with a large island down the middle, counters and appliances along the outside wall and a brick fireplace on the inside. Above the wall lining counters are nine ceiling high, glass front and shelved lighted cabinets filled almost to overflowing with assorted clear and colorful, smooth, etched and cut stems and tumblers. The effect is beautiful and each guest is encouraged to select any vessel, which shall be their happy glass, the glass to be used throughout this visit and on any further visits. Windell and Steve live in the old plantation house in perhaps the best style of any of it occupants over the centuries. Windell comments that one does not own a plantation house as the house survives generations of occupants whose task it to maintain it for the next. Some do it better than others and for gay men in Mississippi, plantation living provides a respite from local society and a place to gather, socialize and be open. Who better than gay couples to restore and maintain ancient country homes? Dinner is served in the kitchen and carried into the dining room set for 10; make a plate and sit where you will. The menu is pork roast simmered in the oven for hours, gravy from its drippings, mashed potatoes I watched being made with sour cream, butter and milk, lima beans simmered in bacon fat, southern salad and broiled garlic bread. Fresh Key Lime pie and bread pudding that has been tempting my nostrils for hours is desert and pronounced perfect, as I pronounce my entire meal. Southern cooking is about quantity, family and taste with little or no consideration given to calories. The evening, as the afternoon, cocktail hour and dinner, is filled with stories of the South, history, personalities, ancestors, old houses and antiques, Civil War and slavery, churches and those who attend them. As evening turns to morning leaving for bed seems a change not worth the cost. Sleep can be had anytime, becoming Southern is but a fleeting moment in time. Ric and his partner John are on an epic five month RV tour of the U.S. Leaving Florida in March they are crossing the southern tier to the Grand Canyon. In May and June they will visit New Mexico, travel the Mountain West to Flathead Lake in Montana, continue east through Yellowstone to Mt. Rushmore before heading to Cheyenne, Denver and Hot Springs, Arkansas and will return to Florida in August. While not intended to be comprehensive, these tips should be most helpful. Ari J. Glazer is a partner in the law firm Moskowitz, Mandell, Salim and Simowitz, P.A in Fort Lauderdale and has been practicing law for 17 years. His practice focuses mainly on commercial litigation and appeals. He lives in South Florida with his wife Stephanie and rescue dog Babka.

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Uruguay Leads the Way on Cannabis Regulation Norm Kent

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On Friday, Uruguay released its longanticipated regulations accompanying the law that was signed into effect last December, which made Uruguay the first country in the world to legally regulate the production, sale and consumption of marijuana for adults. The government will now embark on the implementation of the legal marijuana market, which is expected to be up and running by the end of 2014. The regulations for medical marijuana are to be released later this summer. Florida legislators ought to be preparing our own right now. The Uruguayan marijuana regulation system will allow Uruguayan residents over the age of 18 to choose between three forms of access to non-medical marijuana: domestic cultivation of up to 6 plants per household; membership clubs where between 15 and 45 members can collectively grow up to 99 plants; and sales in licensed pharmacies of up to 10 grams per week. Those operating outside the regulated and licit system will face penalties. Marijuana consumers will have to register with the government for one of the three options. The registry data will be confidential and protected. Regardless of the form of access, each individual will only be able to possess 480 grams of marijuana per year. The government has also granted a 180-day amnesty period during which individuals can register their current plants, after which it will only accept applications seeking prior permission to grow marijuana plants. Florida’s new law will also create a medical registry. Right now, people are being scammed by promoters to buy land, secure ID cards, and get into ‘canna businesses.’ That’s premature. What you need to do right

now is get your absentee ballot and support United for Care, the group promoting the medical marijuana initiative. Uruguay’s new freedoms won’t stop their planes or trains from running. In fact, their law limits advertising and promotions, bars smoking in closed public spaces, in the workplace, and at health establishments, schools and sports institutions. Driving under the influence of marijuana is not allowed, and the newly created Institute for Regulation and Control of Cannabis (IRCCA), tasked with regulating and controlling the whole system, will set the THC limits and types of test performed for DUI. Consumption at or during work is also prohibited. Pot can be patrolled without you being imprisoned. The regulations include strong education and health components. While educational centers may ban people who are impaired from marijuana consumption from entering the premises, they are then obliged to offer support and information on marijuana use. Membership clubs also must educate and inform their members about responsible marijuana consumption and the IRCCA must promote harm and risk reduction strategies related to problematic use of marijuana. It’s a head start. Floridians should pay attention. Uruguay intends to keep the price of pot flexible, and would begin at roughly $1 per gram, in an effort to undercut the current illicit market for marijuana. Most importantly, citizens won’t be buying it unsafely, unmanaged, and uncontrolled on the streets. It’s a step forward. Last week, Florida also nominally moved forward with a law that will make marijuana medically accessible to a limited number of very sick patients. It opens the door for a broader,

more far reaching constitutional amendment that voters should pass in November. A report this week reveals an overwhelming majority of Floridians favor the new law. It takes 60 percent to pass. We should reach that number easily. The bottom line is that medical marijuana is an issue whose time has come. Studies in the LGBT community show a vast amount of popularity and support for this initiative. Many within our diverse community are not only smokers for recreation, they are users for medication. HIV patients particularly, recall how useful marijuana was in fighting the wasting syndrome when it was a real threat. We also know how many times that relaxing joint at night could mean a night in jail as well. Each year, over 750,000 Americans get arrested for pot possession.

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Marijuana smokers coming out of the closet for their rights is very much akin to gay citizens fighting for LGBT rights. What is right was not always popular, and what was popular once was not right. We need a new marriage, to blend justice with a joint. Make your vote and voice count. Light one up for freedom this summer. Send a few bucks to United for Care, and register to vote.

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Grindr Plays Integral Role in Ryan Uhre Disappearance Investigation Jason Parsley

The gay dating/hook up app Grindr played an integral role in the investigation into the disappearance and subsequent death of Florida State University student Ryan Uhre, according to a recently released Tallahassee Police Department report. Uhre was last seen February 2 and reported missing on February 7. Since he was known to go “off the grid” for days at a time his friends did not initially think anything of his disappearance. On February 18 his body was found in an abandoned building. The medical examiner ruled that he died from blunt force trauma to the back of the head and died within minutes of his accidental fall. During the investigation the report revealed that the police department used information obtained from Grindr to locate Uhre’s last whereabouts as well as to interview the men he spoke to on the app. Initially Grindr was unresponsive when contacted by authorities.

“At this point there had been no response from Grindr,” the report reads. However that’s not the story Grindr told SFGN. “As a company, we treat all reports of crime very seriously. We encourage that you reach out to the police as if we are contacted by the authorities about an investigation, we fully cooperate with their requests,” a spokesman for the app told SFGN on Feb. 14. The investigation report also revealed Uhre to be a partier who used marijuana and cocaine recreationally, and according to one friend it was normal for Uhre to be “heavily intoxicated.” He also traveled to Fort Lauderdale at least once to pick up Viagara and Percoset from his home and take them back to the fraternity. Unlike initial reports that stated Uhre was closeted, according to his friends, he was open about his sexuality to his fraternity brothers and they were accepting.

Several friends also told investigators they knew Uhre would regularly use Grindr to hook up with guys. In the report a friend also said that Uhre had once attempted suicide in high school after coming out to his parents who did not accept his “lifestyle.” On February 10 police refocused their efforts on getting access to Uhre’s Grindr messages. “Information from Grindr was obtained through subpoena service. It was determined that his last known whereabouts, according to the GPS feature within the application was in the area of 115 W. College Ave. “The last “hit” was at 10:03 p.m.,” the report reads. “Grindr was able to provide the ID numbers and supporting account information of the last two subjects with whom Uhre had contact using the application.” Visit SFGN.com/UhreReport to read the full report.

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Edmund White, Author of “The Joy of Gay Sex” Talks Gay Rights and HIV in America Jeromy Carpenter

Edmund White is a prolific writer and an icon of the gay rights movement and the fight for equality for those living with HIV in America today. He has written a series of books beginning with his coming of age memoir, “A Boy’s Own Story” followed by his memoir about maturing to adulthood in “The Beautiful Room is Empty” which culminates in the Stonewall riots of 1969 which he had the good timing to witness with his own eyes. His stories are easy to identify with as an angsty gay man who remembers the challenges of growing up gay in a country that didn’t fully accept gays and lesbians at the time. His stories are a scrapbook of moments strung together with wonderfully descriptive detail and engrossing prose that will suck the reader in and keep him or her turning pages. White has been a contributing writer to a number of publications and is currently teaching at Princeton University. His work captures the zeitgeist of not only his own generation but the ones that came after his as the nation progressed through the gay rights movement and into a new era that will surely be better than the closeted days of past. In a recent interview with him we discussed his books, his life and his thoughts on the gay rights movement and the future of the HIV positive community in America. Being HIV positive himself for decades, White has been a pivotal member of the community. He helped form the Gay Men’s Health Crisis when the AIDS crisis first began in the early 1980s. For aspiring young writers White suggests setting your sights high and don’t be discouraged easily. He says that you need to be “self-affirming” which means that you need to do what makes you happy because it makes you happy and be content with that despite what others may think. He didn’t start publishing books until he was in his thirties and now he has a whole collection of them. I asked White about the progress of HIV issues in America today. He expressed concern over the fact that many people still aren’t getting tested for HIV. The reason he says: “the attitudes on cruising websites are so hateful.” The use of phrases like “Are you clean?” which inherently implies a kind of filth of those who might have HIV or other STDs, is damaging to the effort to get people tested and treated because it shames individuals of going to a doctor. People are afraid of being

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positive and even more afraid of having to tell their sex partners if they are. White then pointed out that many gay men still haven’t figured out yet that an HIV positive man who is on medication and has an undetectable viral load is a much safer person to have sex with than someone who does not know their status or “thinks” they’re negative but hasn’t been tested in over a year. It is those individuals who typically have the highest viral loads and it is those individuals who are spreading the virus today. soflagaynews //

I then asked White for some advice for any young person living with HIV today. If you want to enter into a dating relationship with someone, White pointed out, that it is nice to find someone else who is also HIV positive, just so that you don’t have to worry about the subject too much. There also happens to be quite a few people out there who are HIV negative but who are OK with HIV positive people because they understand what the real risk is and they’re not unduly frightened by it. Those people are

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also dating material. But, as White pointed out, our health is our responsibility and that means that nobody else is responsible for protecting you from HIV besides you. I asked White about the progress of the gay rights movement and where it’s headed. He said that over the next twenty or thirty years will hopefully usher in an era of normalization of gay life in America, not in the hetero-normative way that so many militant homosexuals are afraid of, but in a way that allows gays and lesbians to be who they want to be without being entirely consumed by their own gay identity. White’s hope is that in the years to come, a person will be an engineer who happens to be gay, as opposed to a gay man who happens to be an engineer. He hopes that who we choose to love will not identify us so much as merely describe a small part of who we are. White speculated that religion, which is the root cause of so much fear and loathing of gay people in America today, will slowly die out in years to come, and that will help further ease the transition of gays and lesbians into mainstream culture in America. My final question for White was “What is the greatest challenge faced by the gay community today?” “If we’re going to have a gay identity,” he said. “then there should be some nobler definition of it than cruising for guys on Grindr and going to the gym.” “I always wished we would get involved with HIV in Africa. Some sort of public service, because there are 44 million people with HIV/AIDS, and most of them are in Africa.” I could not possibly agree more with White. We have fought so hard for medication, recognition, government assistance and respect and we have come so far and the greatest tragedy of all would be if we let all that hard work and all those lessons that we learned in the process go to waste by not using them to help fight AIDS in Africa and around the world. We have been given an incredible gift through our struggles with HIV and we now have a responsibility to use that gift to make the world a better place for those living with HIV in other countries Originally featured HIVster.com

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lifestyle gay history This Week in Gay History May 7 - 13 Quistapp.com

May 11, 2001 — The “Cairo 52” Arrested

Fifty-two men are arrested on a floating gay nightclub called the Queen Boat moored on the Nile in Cairo. Most of them are charged with “habitual debauchery” and “obscene behaviour.” Their trial lasts five months, The 15-year-old is publicly castrated during which time they are vilified in the and killed by a red-hot iron in his anus for Egyptian media and subjected to beatings in admitting to having sex with multiple men. prison. He is one of the youngest victims of the campaign against sodomy in Italy.

May 7,1365 — Giovanni di Giovanni Killed for Sodomy

May 8, 2010 — Cher’s Son Completed Legal Sex Change

May 12, 1937 — Heinz Neddermeyer Expelled from Luxembourg

He is considered to be the first great love of writer Christopher Isherwood. The couple lived together in Berlin until May 1933 when, due to the rise of Hitler and the Nazis, they were forced to flee the country. They traveled May 9, 1726 — Europe and North Africa until this day when Three Men Hanged for Heinz was expelled from Luxembourg and forced to return to Germany. The next day he Buggery in England Gabriel Lawrence, William Griffin, and was arrested by the Gestapo and sentenced Thomas Wright are hanged at Tyburn to three and half years of forced labor and following a raid of Margaret Clap’s molly military service. house. A molly house in eighteenth-century England was a tavern or private room where May 13, 1974 — men could meet potential sexual partners or TIME Magazine Reports on other men with shared interests (for example, cross-dressing or attraction to the same sex). “The New Bisexuals” The magazine says “bisexuals, like homosexuals before them, are boldly coming May 10, 1990 — out of their closets, forming clubs, having OutRage! Formed parties and stalking out discotheques.” The The British LGBTQ rights group is formed article cites Kinsey and feminism as causes at a meeting with forty to fifty people. for the rise in visibility. He takes the official new legal name of Chaz Salvatore Bono when a California court grants his request.

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lifestyle books “Kitty Genovese: The Murder, The Bystanders, The Crime That Changed America” by Kevin Cook Terri Schlichenmeyer You always hold doors open. That’s because your mama taught you to help others; you hold doors for stragglers, lend your ear, dispense advice, volunteer, donate and keep an eye on your neighbor’s house. Really, it’s no big deal. You’re a good helper, but how involved do you get in other people’s matters? Read “Kitty Genovese” by Kevin Cook, for example, and ask yourself what you’d do if you heard a murder. By all accounts, Catherine “Kitty” Genovese was a nice girl with a great smile and a generous spirit. As the manager of a local bar near her Queens, N.Y. neighborhood, Kitty was trustworthy, good with customers, and was known to loan money to regulars in need. She made friends easily and was an “adventurous, troubled but optimistic, hard-working, fast-driving, living, breathing person…” Until the morning of March 13, 1964. It was just after 3 a.m. that morning and

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Kitty was on her way home to the apartment she shared with her girlfriend, Mary Ann Zielonko. Most people thought they were just roommates and, though it wasn’t quite the truth, the women let others believe it because it was safer. In 1964, homosexuality was still illegal. She was in her beloved red Fiat and was driving fast, as she usually did. Perhaps because of the hour, Kitty didn’t notice that she was being followed. Quiet, soft-spoken Winston Moseley had done something noteworthy for a Negro man in 1964: he’d purchased a house in an up-andcoming, mostly white neighborhood where he and his wife, Betty, were raising their boys. Between his good job and Betty’s salary, they were relatively well-off but Betty sometimes worried about Winston. He was an insomniac and liked “just thinking.” What she didn’t know was that he was “thinking” about killing. In early March 1964, Moseley committed the “particularly gruesome” murder of a black

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woman, then calmly went to work. He wondered if killing a white woman would be any different. Two weeks later, while driving around, looking for a victim, he spotted a little red Fiat and had a “compulsion” to find out… You might be asking yourself what’s so unusual about a 50-year-old crime. Author Kevin Cook will tell you as he takes you on a journey through the early 1960s and a death that literally impacts everyone today. But that’s not all you’ll read in “Kitty Genovese.” Cook reminds us in many ways that Genovese was more than just a victim; she was a real person who loved life. On the flipside, we meet the neighbors who supposedly ignored her cries and we’re shown the slow making of a “monster” who seems chillingly without conscience. Cook uses these parallel stories to illustrate what happened as he busts myths that still

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linger to this day. There are outrageous surprises in this book; heartbreak for one, and passages that are grisly enough to make anyone squirm. But if you’re a true crime fan or love good storytelling, “Kitty Genovese” is a book you can’t help but devour. If Cook’s book piques your interest and you absolutely need to know more about this crime and the aftermath, then look for “Kitty Genovese: A True Account of a Public Murder and Its Private Consequences” by Catherine Pelonero. Here, Pelonero takes a deeper look at Moseley and the murders he committed prior to the attacks on Genovese. You’ll also get a few more details on the trial that followed Moseley’s arrest. It’s a nice companion to the Cook book for anyone who’s still curious.

lifestyle gay car geek 2014 Chevrolet Corvette Stingray Convertible – A Worthy Obsession Steve Siler To some, it’s America’s automotive sweetheart, while to others, it’s a mid-life crisis on wheels. To car guys, it’s one of the world’s best sports cars, while others see it as a pretentious dick-size compensation device. As a person who reviews cars for a living, I see it—as do many of my fellow car journos, gay and straight—as the most impressive new automobile of 2014. I’m talking about the bawdy, bitchy and brutally fast Chevy Corvette Stingray. While its new styling is unmistakably Corvette, it has been genetically spliced with exotic Italian DNA, with its long, beveled hood, angular body sides, and a bad boy backside with huge, can-sized quad exhaust pipes poking out from below. Especially in the searing Torch Red adorning my convertible test vehicle, the ‘Vette looks a whole like a Ferrari, and that’s no accident. It drives like one, too. All new Corvette Stingrays are powered by the same, inappropriately loud, 450-hp V-8, with excellent manual and automatic transmissions doing the shifting (I prefer the manual). They’re not just fast in a straight line, either: brilliant steering and scintillating handling make bombing along LA’s Mulholland Drive just as enjoyable as bursting from stoplight to stoplight along Las Olas. It is fast everywhere, a

license-eater if ever there was one. Fortunately, the ‘Vette is marvelous even idling in a parking lot, with the huge V-8 rumbling beneath you, tickling your naughty parts while you savor its world class interior, the first time since the 60s that its interior could be characterized as such. The Troninspired décor and computerized gauge cluster are more science fiction than Euro-chic, but most of the materials used match the stuff found in similarly pricey sports cars from Porsche, Audi and MercedesBenz. The seats are body-hugging buckets that shame the floppy lounge chairs found in prior models, and there are not one, but two low-mounted “oh-shit!” handles for the passenger. And they’re going to need them, at least with someone like me at the wheel. The Corvette has a practical side, too, with hatchback models offering Costco-trip cargo space, and even the convertible boasting a broad, capacious trunk. And did you see that fuel economy? It’s no

Prius, but for a car with such a huge V-8, it’s pretty stellar. And unlike the Prius, it can get you laid. Trust me. If there’s one problem with driving a Corvette, it’s other people. Apparently, nothing brings out the asshole in some drivers like seeing a red Corvette— that they’re not in. No matter how deferent I was driving down the street in this car, or how much I smiled at other drivers, I was constantly being cut off, blocked from merging, whatever. Anecdotally, I’ve found that we gays appear split into three camps: clueless haters, obsessed maniacs and guys who pretend to be haters but secretly are obsessed maniacs. I can’t speak to the first camp because they’ll never understand, but to the latter, I can say that your obsession is fully justified: the new ‘Vette is absolutely terrific.

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Aqua Girl Ready to Make Splash in South Beach Annual event celebrates 15-year anniversary John McDonald

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Aqua Girl, now in its 15th year of fundraising for LBT health, is back. It runs from May 14 to 18 and includes cocktail receptions, pool parties and dance gatherings across South Florida. Revered and popular among the LBT community, it’s perhaps one of the most highly anticipated annual fundraising events of the social circuit. “We’re excited about another great year,” said Robin Schwartz, executive director of the Aqua Foundation for Women. “It’s a fun filled week and a funding catalyst for lesbian, bisexual and transgender wellness.” Widely regarded as the premier event in South Florida for women who love women, Aqua Girl will feature appearances by singer Beverly McClellan (from NBC’s The Voice) and mixed martial artist Jessica Aguilar, in addition to performances by some of Miami’s most well known DJs. Almost half the attendees, Schwartz said, come from outside South Florida, making Aqua Girl a boom to the local economy. “We welcome women of all shapes and sizes and our gay and straight allies alike,” Schwartz said. All proceeds from Aqua Girl are returned to the South Florida community through the Aqua Foundation for Women; they give generously to LBT health and equality causes. In 1999 Aqua Girl started out as a single evening fundraiser for the fight against breast cancer. It’s grown exponentially in popularity ever since. This year Aqua Girl kicks off with a VIP cocktail reception on May 10 in Fort Lauderdale. Some of the other events include speed dating on May 14 and a MMA sponsored pool party (featuring Aguilar) at the National Hotel in South Beach. The party hardly stops during the day, though. Ladies and fellow admirers can take to the dance floor at night, but should note strict dress code requirements at their destinations of choosing. Event organizers ask attendees to refrain from wearing flip flops, athletic sneakers, shorts, baggy jeans, ripped T-shirts, athletic jerseys, sweat pants or baseball caps. “We want this to be a nice evening out,” Schwartz said. A new addition to the Aqua Girl lineup comes on the evening of Saturday, May 17 the when AquaSounds concert will feature McClellan. Local bands will provide warm-up acts as well. For tickets, sponsorship packages, a complete itinerary or general information, visit www.AquaGirl.org.

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The Bears Are Taking Over Fort Lauderdale BeachBear Weekend’s Third Annual Weekend, May 7 - 12, 2014

The beaches and nightclubs of Fort Lauderdale will be filled with bears and cubs as part of the 3rd annual BeachBear Weekend. This year’s event will be no exception. “There isn’t another event that centers around the beach. It’s like a cruise that doesn’t leave port. This is really a great event. It’s a healthy event. I was in the water today and it couldn’t be better,” said BeachBear Weekend Chair Bob Young. Bear tags (registration packages) are $59. Registration is available on the website Eventbrite. This year’s registration package includes a limited edition BeachBear Weekend 2014 tee-shirt (L, XL, and XXL sizes only),

souvenir BeachBear Weekend ID Tags good for entry to Sponsored BeachBear Weekend events at the host hotel, special discounts at local restaurants/stores, food crawl, and more. “The goal here is to help local businesses and give money to charities. That’s the driving force here,” said Young. This year’s proceeds will go to the Pride Center of Equality Park and Abandoned Pet Rescue. Both are non-profits that help the gay community. The Pride Center provides a welcoming, safe space–an inclusive home — that celebrates, nurtures and empowers the LGBTQ communities and our friends and neighbors in South Florida. Its programs and

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services meet the distinct socio-economic, health, spiritual, and safety needs of the LGBT community. Abandoned Pet Rescue (APR) is a non-profit charitable organization that rescues and shelters abandoned, abused, and neglected pets, rehabilitates them and finds them new homes. APR is one of the largest no kill animal shelters in South Florida and is devoted to the welfare of all animals. Most of the over 300 animals are Cats, Dogs and other animals in need of help. Abandoned Pet Rescue is funded solely by donations. Visit BeachBearWeekend.com and Facebook. com/BeachBearWeekend for more information.

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The Cheesesteak Conundrum

Jeet yet? — The Hunt for Another Great Philly Cheesesteak Dave Griffiths You might remember Spanky’s Cheesesteak Factory on Oakland Park Blvd., which recently closed down. They have another location in Miramar, but who wants to drive all that way for a dynamite Cheesesteak? This got my friends and I in a tizzy. We loved Spanky’s. So where is a guy to go for a quick, easy, but really good Philly in Fort Lauderdale? On the hunt, we found that the Quality Diner on NE 26th St. in Wilton Manors has a pretty decent Philly Cheesesteak, but it was missing some of the “bells & whistles” that we really liked, like jalapenos and the right kind of oozing cheese. Also, if you’re in a quick mood, Publix actually has really good cheesesteaks from their deli section. These will do in a pinch, but there are several other options that you should try out locally, which will be better options. Looking for something just like they serve up in Philly? Well we have it right here for you! The Cheesesteak Experience is located just north of Oakland Park Blvd., at 3341 NE 32nd St. across from Galt Ocean Mile. They are known throughout town as being the “real deal.” You have to try their Cheese Steak, which is a 9-inch soft bun with grilled onions and melted cheese wiz sauce. For some, this one might be too cheesy, but for others, it is just right! While their website may not show much, Mr. Nick’s Sub Shop, 901 South Andrews Avenue, is a great place for hot or cold sandwiches. And they deliver! Their cheese steak with onions can be made with Philly beef, or chicken, and all the bells n’ whistles can be added on. The “Chizzer” Steak has two different kinds of cheeses and grilled onions, topped with lettuce, tomatoes, mayo, creamy Italian dressing, pickle chips. You have to also try the Chili Cheese Steak, which has steak & onions topped w/Texas chili & yellow cheese. For those of you who are looking for a bite on the beach, The Parrot Lounge has been serving up great food and great fun since 1970. Their Chicken Philly puts a delicious spin on a classic sandwich with grilled chicken piled high on their toasted hoagie roll. Pile on some waffle fries and this meal is unbeatable. The World Famous Parrot Lounge, 911 Sunrise Lane in Fort Lauderdale, got its name for a reason! You can also team up your Chicken Philly with one of over 50 different craft beers they offer. Stay in to watch the game with friends, or you can call ahead and take-out. So while we still haven’t found another “Spanky’s” yet, the search is on! If you have any other suggestions for other places for us to try, or comments about the places we have featured, please leave us your comments at www.sfgn.com.

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The Plaza Theatre, 262 S. Ocean Blvd. in Manalapan, continues its inaugural spring cabaret series with “Broadway’s Second Bananas” featuring Beth Dimon. One of South Florida’s most beloved actresses, Carbonell Award-winner Dimon will charm you with her performance of these beloved — and many long forgotten — gems from the golden years of the Great White Way. Enjoy the performance in the theatre’s new piano bar tonight through Saturday at 8 p.m. and again, May 15 – 17. Tickets are $30 at PlazaTheatre. net.

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“When we die, we remain present in stories and legends…in dreams…and in art.” This is the theme of “Resonancias,” a new musical multimedia composition by Jose Luis Rodriguez being premiered by FUNDarte this weekend at the Miami Dade County Auditorium at 8:30 p.m. on Thursday and Friday. “Resonancias” is inspired by memories that are passed down by family, but we never lived. The performance will be repeated at the South Miami Dade Cultural Arts Center at 8:30 p.m. on July 18 and 19. For tickets, go to Ticketmaster.com or call 305-547-5414.

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Tonight is the closing night of the Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival. It’s not too late to catch some of the newest gay-themed films being presented at one of the nation’s largest festivals. Tonight, you have plenty of great films to choose from, including the youthful coming out story, “Boys” (“Jongens”) and the disturbing documentary, “Kidnapped for Christ,” to the Israeli comedy, “Cupcakes” (“Bananot”). Later, stop by the closing night party at The Shore Club, 1901 Collins Ave. in Miami Beach. For a full festival schedule, go to MGLFF.com.

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The Wick Theatre in Boca Raton closes out its inaugural season with a jubilant production of the Tony Award-winning musical, “Ain’t Misbehavin’.” Named after the song by Fats Waller, this musical revue is a tribute to the entertainers at nightclubs like the Savoy Ballroom and Cotton Club during the heyday of the Harlem Renaissance. Ron Hutchins directs and choreographed the show, which features Reggie Whitehead, Joy Lynn Jacobs, Debra Walton, Phillip Boykin and Altrinna Grayson, along with a live jazz combo. Tickets are $58. For show times and tickets, go to TheWick.org. soflagaynews //

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The Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival may be over, but it’s never bad to check out what our straight friends in the suburbs might be watching. Head to the Cineplex tonight for “Neighbors,” the story of a young couple suffering from arrested development who are forced to live next to a fraternity house after the birth of their baby. Seth Rogan does nothing for us, but “frat boys” Zac (“rip off that shirt”) Efron and Dave Franco turn up the heat for homo audiences. Check local listings for theaters and show times.

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Head down to the Gateway Theater, 1820 E. Sunrise Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale, for a special screening of “Chef,” Jon Favreau’s comedy about a Miami-born chef (Favreau) who tries and fails to open a restaurant in Los Angeles. He returns to Miami to fix up a food truck he names “El Jefe Cubanos” and patches things up with his ex-wife (Sofía Vergara). You’ll recognize a lot of the locations in this fun film. The movie also stars Robert Downey, Jr., Dustin Hoffman and Amy Sedaris. For show times, go to TheGatewayTheatre.com.

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International Films Go Gay; Now on DVD German & Japanese films stress acceptance, depict taboos with haunting realism David-Elijah Nahmod

“Free Fall” (2013)

German; English sub-titles 100 mins, Wolfe Video “Free Fall” has been described as Germany’s answer to “Brokeback Mountain.” While there are thematic similarities between the two films, both are undoubtedly distinct, yet still impactful. In “Brokeback,” both men are ashamed of their gay identities. Married to women, they go to great pains to hide the truth not only from their families, but from themselves. In “Free Fall,” police officer Kay, played by Hanno Koffler, has fully embraced his sexuality. He enters into a love affair with partner Marc, portrayed by Max Reimelt, lustfully and without shame. While Kay hangs out in gay bars, Marc goes home to his pregnant wife, who interrogates him about where he spends his time and why their sex life is fizzling out. As the truth begins to unravel, Marc goes into free fall and his life rapidly falls apart. While “Brokeback Mountain” made it clear that the protagonists were having sex, “Free Fall” shows its leads fully naked in bed as they moan with delight. The kissing scenes are deep and passionate. Perhaps it took films like “Brokeback,” and others, to kick the doors kick the doors open for mainstream LGBT cinema. In 2014, it’s now OK to show two men making love as two men do. The acting in “Free Fall” is superb. Handsome and sexy, Reimelt, in his early 30s, is a popular German actor. His work in “Free Fall” is stellar. Marc is a happy family man who’s unaware of his fluid sexuality until he meets Kay. At first he’s repulsed by the other man’s advances, yet he’s unable to resist. When confronted by his wife, he desperately tries to hold on to his family even as his attraction to Kay grows. “Free Fall” is a dark, intense and superbly

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acted drama with message that is sure to resonate with the LGBT community. It speaks to the greater mass too; accept and embrace your sexual identity. If not, the consequences could be steep not only for yourself, but for everyone around you.

“Fujimi Orchestra: Cold Front Conductor”

Japanese; English sub-titles 83 minutes, Ariztical Entertainment “Fujimi Orchestra: Cold Front Conductor” is a disturbing Japanese film whose theme and message may not fully translate across different cultures. Inspired by a comic book series, the story was first filmed as an animated film. The new film is a live action remake of the animated version. Main character Kei is a brilliant, young classical music prodigy who appears to be destined for musical greatness. He gives it all up so he can conduct an amateur orchestra in a small town but the reasons for this are unnerving. Exceptionally good looking, Kei is obsessively in love with Yuki, a straight, socially awkward member of the orchestra. As the plot unfolds, they enter in to a battle of wills with Kei pushing Yuki to improve his marginal musical skills. Unable to control his sexual urges, Kei brutally rapes Yuki and, though disgusted by the act, Yuki becomes more determined to hone his musical talents. Confused? The character’s motivations appear to make little sense. Why doesn’t Yuki call the police? Why is the brilliantly talented and handsome Kei (who’d would get mobbed in any gay bar) so obsessed with the decidedly nerdy Yuki? The heart wants what it wants as the saying goes, but the rape scene leaves such an unpleasant aftertaste, the story can become somewhat difficult to follow.

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Dr. Ruth Brings Good Sex to South Florida J.W. Arnold

Actress Debra Jo Rupp thought twice about taking her latest role, Dr. Ruth Westheimer. “What, me be Dr. Ruth? You’re talking about the little sex therapist person, right? I said, oh no, I don’t think I’m the girl for that,” she recalled. But then the “That 70’s Show” star learned the diminutive Dr. Ruth Westheimer served as a sniper in the Israeli army and everything changed. “Then, I knew,” she added with her signature chuckle. “It speaks well of my state of mind at the time. She’s the only person in America who makes me feel tall.” Rupp brings the one-woman show, “Becoming Dr. Ruth,” to Fort Lauderdale’s Parker Playhouse this week and her number one fan — Westheimer herself — will be in the audience. “She is wonderful,” said the 86-yearold therapist who attends nearly every performance. “I have to pinch myself because it’s not me on stage, but she knows I’m there.” Dr. Ruth became a cultural icon 30 years ago when her cable television show, “Sexually Speaking,” brought frank talk about sexuality and sexual relations into living rooms across the country. She regularly concluded the show with her signature advice, “Get some.” Westheimer frequently appeared on “Late Night with David Letterman,” as a guest on scripted television dramas, in commercials and been spoofed on sketch comedy shows. In the January 2009 55th anniversary issue of “Playboy” magazine, she was named the 13th most influential person in sex over the past 55 years. To prepare for the role, Rupp did the usual research and also spent time with Westheimer. “She was alive, and I thought, oh dear God, I’m the only person who does a one woman show about a person who is alive,” Rupp explained, “so I was very careful.” When Westheimer prepared for her media debut, she was encouraged to undergo speech therapy to soften her heavy European accent. “I made a dollar an hour and couldn’t afford them,” Westheimer said, but Rupp “had to hire a speech coach to learn mine!” The play, written by Mark St. Germain (“Freud’s Last Session”), traces Westheimer’s life from her flight from Nazi Germany in the Kindertransport and the battle for Israeli

independence as a sniper in the Haganah to her struggles to succeed as a single mother in America. The author of 31 books, Dr. Ruth recently completed six-year stints teaching at Yale and Princeton Universities. She is now in the second year leading a seminar on family in the media at Columbia Teachers College. “That’s why the play is so important for me, it talks about the importance of the family. I believe the reason I was able to do the things I am doing is because the first 10 years of my life I lived in a loving Jewish Orthodox family. The foundation was set,” she said. “Everything that I do always has something to do with the importance of the family, not just sex, but there’s plenty of sex in the play.” Westheimer and Rupp will be conducting talkback sessions following performances of “Becoming Dr. Ruth,” except the Friday, May 9 show, and Rupp will attend a reception that evening as part of fundraiser for Broward House. Dr. Ruth again offered her sage advice, “I promise good sex to everybody who comes to the show, but no sex in the theater!” Performances of “Becoming Dr. Ruth” will be held through May 11. Tickets are $28 to 66.50 at ParkerPlayhouse.org soflagaynews //

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a&e television RuPaul’s Drag Race Says Farewell to Joslyn Fox Michael Cook

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” superstar Joslyn Fox brought both sexiness and heart to this season of the hit LOGO show. While Fox unfortunately went home during the makeover challenge, she certainly isn’t going to be out of our sight for long. Fox sat down with SFGN to chat about her challenge of making over a straight man into a blushing bride, her relationship with Courtney Act, and an advice book from Ms. Fox? You made it pretty far during this season. How did it feel to be among “the best of the best”? My exit was as graceful as it was because I was beyond excited that I made it as far as I had. I went into the experience thinking that I’m already a winner that I’ve been cast, but I’m probably going to be the first to go home-and I wasn’t! Every time I made it through another challenge and made it through another week, it really boosted my confidence and made me feel so validated. The challenge every year where the girls partner up with straight men can be a tough experience. Your partner especially seemed to be uncomfortable in getting in drag. Thoughts? What I think happened was that the wives of the other guys in the challenge told the other men what they were really getting into, and I don’t think Brittany told Brandon what he signed up for. The other guys were like “yeah bring it on, let me put on some heels” and Brandon was looking at me saying “wait what did I sign up for?” That was definitely a challenge but it was a good challenge. Brandon learned so much during the experience and I was really proud of myself watching the episode. He went from zero to sixty in terms of gay people and he was able to take that home. I know he was able to leave and enlighten his teammates when he got home. I was happy to get on the show so I could enlighten people and change the world in my own little way.

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You went into the competition thinking of fellow queen Courtney Act as a virtual icon, and then as the season progressed your opinion seemed to change. Was that like to have happen during the show? I’ve watched so many reality shows, and reunion time comes and people’s opinions have changed, I didn’t think that happened on “Drag Race.” It was only after watching the show back that I saw that Courtney was really irritated by me, so I guess I was kind of annoying. I realized on the first day that none of the other girls knew who Courtney Act was, especially in Australia, and I felt the need to kind of let the other girls know what a big deal she was. I got so excited and thought that I was being put on SouthFloridaGayNews

the same level of Courtney Act, I think I just got overly excited. What do you think were the best and worst experiences that you are taking away from your “Drag Race” experience? I’m the type of person that needs validation, and I think as human beings we all do. I thought that if I could get on this show, that meant that I was good enough as a drag queen. Going through all of the challenges and experiences with the other girls, I started to realize that I didn’t need the validation from the other girls, the show, or RuPaul — I just needed it from myself. That’s the best thing I can take a way from it. As the show went on, I realized I couldn’t compare myself to Courtney. I don’t need to value myself based on Courtney or anyone else for that matter. That was my “aha moment.” I think the hardest times I had were when I was on the main stage when Michelle (Visage) would critique me because it never seemed like she was happy with my look. Their opinions only fueled the fire for the next day’s challenge though. You’ve just come off a life changing experience that brought you to the attention of millions of people. What’s next? Many of the queens went into this experience already having illustrious careers, I’m still very much under the radar. This is just the beginning for Joslyn. As for recording music, I had a lot of fun recording Ru’s music, and when I came out of the recording booth, the engineers swore that I had done it before. I’ve thought about maybe writing a book. Who knows maybe I will write a book and give some Joslyn advice. I did a lot on the show. I was like the Dr. Phil of the cast! What I wanted to do my whole life was to be in the entertainment world, and now that it’s here I’m taking full advantage of it. I’ve always said “always have your craft ready; when opportunity knocks, you don’t want to be naked, you want to be ready to go!”

a&e theater “Ghost the Musical”

Musical lacks the heart of the film J.W. Arnold

teven Grant Douglas and Katie Postotnik in “Ghost the Musical.” Hollywood blockbusters have long inspired big budget Broadway adaptations. Everything from “9 to 5,” “Shrek” and “Sister Act” to “Fame,” “Footloose” and “The Wedding Singer” have been mounted on the stage. Some have been successful (“Lion King,” “Hairspray,” “The Producers”) while many are quickly forgotten (“Carrie,” “On a Clear Day,” “Promises, Promises”). Right now in New York, audiences can see the latest musical productions of “The Bridges of Madison County,” “Rocky” and Disney’s “Aladdin.” The touring production of “Ghost the Musical,” based on the 1990 box office smash starring Patrick Swayze, Demi Moore and Whoopi Goldberg, opened on April 29 at Fort Lauderdale’s Broward Center and runs through May 11. And like so many other adaptations, “Ghost” struggles to live up to its namesake. The show features lots of whiz bang special effects and a video wall that certainly wow, but this stage production simply lacks the heart of the film. The book follows the film script very closely: Young lovers Sam (Steven Grant Douglas) and Molly (Katie Postotnik) are leading a charmed life in New York City, until Sam is unexpectedly murdered in what appears to be a botched mugging. Sam’s spirit, unable to cross over until he knows Molly is safe, accidentally enlists the assistance of a storefront “psychic,” Oda Mae Brown (Carla R. Stewart). In between the special effects and surprisingly unmelodic songs from Dave

Stewart and Glenn Ballard — the exception being the holdover from the film score, “Unchained Melody,” which they obviously didn’t write — Bruce Joel Rubin’s book plods along with little insight from director Matthew Warchus and non-existent choreography from Ashley Wallen. Unfortunately, this production is hampered most by a non-Equity cast. More and more non-Equity Broadway tours are hitting the road in an effort to cut costs and bolster the bottom line for both producers and presenters. The result is a young cast that cannot come close to the iconic onscreen performances that audiences have come to know and love. In a show like “Ghost the Musical,” this is a fatal flaw (pardon the pun). Only Stewart injects some life into the show as the sassy, Gospel singing Oda Mae. Douglas and Postotnik are appealing, if young, and constantly challenged by the vocal demands of the score. And Robby Haltiwanger’s milquetoast Carl, the traitorous buddy, is never convincing. From the earliest minutes of the show, I was reminded of another hit movie that hasn’t been made into a musical — at least not yet. “Who ya gonna call? Ghostbusters!” Where are Dan Ackroyd and Bill Murray when you really need them? “Ghost the Musical” showings Tuesday – Friday, 8 p.m., Saturday, 2 p.m. and 8 p.m., Sunday, 1 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. through May 11 at the Broward Center, Fort Lauderdale. Tickets are $34.50 to 74.50 at BrowardCenter.org

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Becoming Dr. Ruth

May 7 to 11 at the Parker Playhouse, 707 NE Eighth St. in Fort Lauderdale. Debra Jo Rupp plays Karola Ruth Siegel in the true story of her surviving the Holocaust and later becoming America’s favorite sex therapist. Tickets $28 to $66.50. Clal 954-462-0222 or visit ParkerPlayhouse.com.

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he beautiful courtesan Thaïs has the cities of Fort Lauderdale and Miami at her beck and call. The opera “Thaïs” comes to Miami’s Arsht Center through May 10 and the Broward Center from May 15 to 17.

May 10 at 8:30 p.m. at the Broward Center, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. The female ensemble Brazilian Voices performs Brazilian music of all kinds from Gilberto Gil, Maria Gadu, Lenine, Milton Nascimento and more. Tickets $30 and $35. Call 954462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

Ghost: The Musical

Through May 11 at the Broward Center, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. Molly’s life is changed forever when her love, Sam, is killed. However, as a ghost he stays to protect her and avenge his death. Tickets $34.50 to $114.50. Call 954-462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

* A Tribute to Stan Getz

May 14 at 7:45 p.m. at the Broward Center, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. Saxophonist Billy Ross is joined by the Gold Coast Jazz Society Band. Tickets $40. Call 954-462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

* Never Say Farewell: A Tribute to Cher

May 15 at 7 p.m. at Lips, 1421 E. Oakland Park Blvd. in Oakland Park. Two days before the legendary Cher performs at the BB&T Center, performers will bring you some of her most iconic songs, including “Way of Love,” “Bang Bang” and “Dark Lady.” Plus, a Cher lookalike contest with Alexis Couture, Shelly Michaels and Franchesque Richards. Tickets $10 benefiting the SMART Ride and a $15 food minimum. RSVP to 954-567-0987 or visit LipsUSA.com.

* Thaïs

May 15 and 17 at 7:30 p.m. at the Broward Center, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. The beautiful courtesan Thais has the city of Alexandria at her beck and call in this musical featuring the infamous aria, “Dis-moi que je suis belle.” Tickets $21 to $200. Call 954-462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

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May 15 to June 1 at NSU’s Black Box Theatre, 3301 College Ave. in David. Dog lives next door to her daughter, Maryanne, and son-in-law, who are both tired of having to take care of her. Tickets $35. Visit ThinkingCapTheatre.com.

Maria’s Girls Night Out

Through May 25 at the Coral Springs Center for the Arts, 2855 Coral Springs Drive in Coral Springs. An interactive girls night out, Maria and her friends have invited some hot guys for entertainment, when their significant others have other plans. Tickets $39.22 to $49.82. Call 954-344-5990 or visit CoralSpringsCenterfortheArts.com.

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May 7 at 8 p.m. at the Lake Worth Playhouse, 713 Lake Ave. in Lake Worth. Nine playwrights present their 10-minute plays. Tickets $20. Call 561-586-6410 or visit ThePlaygroupLLC.com.

* Simply Tina

May 10 from 7 to 9 p.m. at Sunset Cove, 12551 Glades Road in Boca Raton. A full band will pay tribute to the song of Tina Turner in a show that’ll have you out of your lawn chair and dancing. Free. Visit www. facebook.com/SunsetCoveAmphitheater.

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Free Friday Concerts

Fridays at 7:30 p.m. at the Delray Beach Center for the Arts, 51 N. Swinton Ave. in Delray Beach. Enjoy live music from the comfort of your picnic blanket or lawn chair every week, for free! Call 561-243-7922 or visit DelrayArts.org.

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Secrets of the La Croix

Through May 18 at Main Street Playhouse, 6766 Main St. in Miami Lakes. Roger La Croix’s Thanksgiving is turning into the worst ever when he can’t watch the big game and his son comes home with shocking news. Tickets $18 to $25. Call 305-58-3737 or visit MainStreetPlayers.com.

Rose and the Rime

Through May 18 at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. A small town in Michigan has been in a never-ending winter for an entire generation, and young Rose is determined to end the curse of the Rime Witch. Tickets $45. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

Through May 11 at Delray Square Performing Arts, 4809 W. Atlantic Ave. in Delray Beach. By the same man who brought you “Sounds of Simon” comes a musical tribute to Barry Manilow. Tickets $35. Call 561-880-0319 or visit DelraySquareArts.com.

Through May 10 at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. The beautiful courtesan Thais has the city of Alexandria at her beck and call in this musical featuring the infamous aria, “Dis-moi que je suis belle.” Tickets $25 to $229. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

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Through May 11 at the Arts Garage, 180 NE First St. in Delray Beach. Doug suddenly turns into a giant talking slug, and his family and fiancee must learn to live with his new appearance and discover how much they truly care about him. Tickets $30 to $45. Call 561-450-6357 or visit ArtsGarage.org.

May 16 to June 8 at the Don & Ann Brown Theatre, 201 Clematis St. in West Palm Beach. George Love weds and beds unsuspecting women before running off with their money -- until he tries to scam Adelaide Pinchin. Tickets $60. Call 561-514-4042 or visit PalmBeachDramaworks.org.

May 17 at 8 p.m. at the Kravis Center, 701 Okeechobee Blvd. in West Palm Beach. A concert filled with music from the most famous video games ever made, fit with laser lights, live action, and solo performers. Tickets $20 and up. Call 561-832-7469 or visit Kravis.org. soflagaynews //

May 13 to 18 at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. The most famous blue performers of all time promise a night of comedy, music and technology for an unforgettable night. Warning, the first three rows are the splash zone! Tickets $26 to $125. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

May 15 at 7:30 p.m. at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Miami’s Young Poets are backed up by an urban classical concert, mixing up Mozart, Rachmaninoff and Bach with hip hop beats. Tickets $26 to $125. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter. org.

May 16 at 8 p.m. at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. A concert filled with music from the most famous video games ever made, fit with laser lights, live action, and solo performers. Tickets $35 to $95. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

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Through June 1 at the Miami Theater Center, 9806 NE Second Ave. in Miami Shores. Three teens of different religious backgrounds come together to solve a murder caused by someone poisoning their water supply in Cordoba, Spain. Tickets $25 to $35. Call 305-751-9550 or visit MTCMiami.org.

Third Thursdays at the Perez Art Museum Miami, 101 W. Flagler St. in Miami. Come out for live music from DJs and musicians by the bay. Drink specials available. Free with museum admission. Call 305-3753000 or visit PAMM.org.

The Big Show

Fridays and Saturdays at 9 p.m. at Just the Funny Theater, 3119 Coral Way in Miami. A collection of comedy mixing the likes of improvisation and sketches. Tickets $12. Call 305-693-8669 or visit JustTheFunny.com.

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BeachBear Weekend

May 7 to 12 throughout Fort Lauderdale. Get your fix of beefy bears with a long weekend of pool parties, food, and clubbing. Tickets $59. Visit BeachBearWeekend.com.

Red Hot & In Style

May 8 from 8 to 11 p.m. at The Manor, 2345 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Bachelors and bachelorettes take the stage to auction off unique dates, all to raise money for families living with serious illnesses. Tickets $20 donation. Contact Deliver the Dream at 954-564-3512 or visit DelivertheDream.org.

* Macallan Scotch Dinner

May 9 at 7 p.m. at NYY Steak, 5550 NW 40th St. in Coconut Creek. Indulge in a four-course Scotch dinner, fit with Arturo Fuente cigars and live music. Cost $145. RSVP to 954-935-6699.

* The Sweet Soiree: The Science of Chocolate

May 13 from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Museum of Discovery and Science, 401 SW Second St. in Fort Lauderdale. What’s not to love about chocolate? Relish in a night of chamapgne, specialty cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, and of course, Hoffman’s chocolates. Tickets $40 for nonmembers, $30 for members. Call 954-467-6637 or visit MODS.org.

* Full Moon Beach Yoga

May 13 from 7:45 to 9 p.m. at Atlantic Avenue and A1A in Pompano Beach. Celebrate the full moon with a yoga practice on the beach. Bring a towel or yoga mat, or just hit the sand. Cost $15, or $12 if you bring a friend. Parking is $1 per hour. Call Tammy at 954609-8604.

The Movement: Bob Adelman and Civil Rights Era Photography

Through May 17 at Museum of Art Fort Lauderdale, One Las Olas Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. To commemorate the 50th anniversary of the Civil Rights Act, photography chronicling the movement. Call 954-525-5500 or visit MOAFL.org.

Henning Haupt, Craig Carlisle and Sylvia Tashis Exhibition

Through May 17 at the Coral Springs Museum of Art, 2855 Coral Springs Drive in Coral Springs. The three artists’ work will be on display, showcasing varying styles of floral art, “big heads,” and installations. Museum admission $6. Visit CoralSpringsMuseum.org

Pride Center Flea Market

First Saturdays from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. at The Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. Scour through arts and crafts from area vendors every month. Call 954-463-9005.

Introduction to Modern Buddhism

Mondays 6 to 6:30 p.m. at the Drolma Kadampa Buddhist Center, 140 W. Prospect Road in Fort Lauderdale. Join a guided meditation and instruction with Western Buddhist teacher, Jay Radin. Free. Visit MeditationinFortLauderdale.com.

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Mondays 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. A weekly informal discussion group among gay men of all backgrounds. Contact John Beuscher at 954-202-4469 or email johnnybushwick@aol.com.

Gender Bender Youth Group

Mondays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at SunServe Campus, 1480 SW Ninth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. A group for LGBT youth 13 to 21 to discuss gender, gender expression, binary systems, friendship, family and whatever else comes up! Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com

SunServe Youth Group

Tuesdays and Thursdays in Fort Lauderdale, Southwest Ranches, Coral Springs and Hollywood. A support group and night of fun for LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and times.

PFLAG

Tuesdays in Fort Lauderdale, Coral Springs and Southwest Ranches. A support group for parents of LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and locations.

GayWrites

Wednesdays at 5:30 p.m. at the Stonewall Library, 1300 E. Sunrise Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. Come join us and write your memoir, poem, blog, novel or short story. Free. Email garri1@earthlink.net

Survivor Support

First and third Wednesdays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Broward Health Imperial Point Hospital cafeteria, 6401 N. Federal Highway in Fort Lauderdale. Find support from counselors and peers who have lost loved ones to suicide. Call the Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention at 954-384-0344 or visit FISPOnline.org.

week acting class for amateur adults wanting to learn the craft of scene study and monologues. Cost $150. Call 561-586-6410 or email Shonna Rash at shonna@ lakeworthplayhouse.org.

Paths

Mondays from 7 to 8 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. A men’s discussion group about relationships, coming out, safe sex and more. Visit CompassGLCC.com.

Sober Sisters AA Lesbian Group

Mondays at 7 p.m. at Lambda North, 18 S. J St. in Lake Worth. A support group for recovering alcoholics. Visit LambdaNorth.net.

Yoga with Deborah

Tuesdays from 6 to 7 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Learn to control your breathing and find peace with this ancient exercise. Must bring your own mat. Class $6. Visit CompassGLCC.com.

Yoga Among the Orchids

Wednesdays at 9 a.m. at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane in Delray Beach. Practice your yoga in the presence of beautiful, calming orchids. $20 a class. Call 561-404-2011 or visit OrchidWeb.org.

Yoga on the Waterfront

Wednesdays at 5:45 p.m. at Lake Pavilion, 101 S. Flagler Drive in West Palm Beach. Take a day out of the week to center yourself on the yoga mat. $10 per class or residents $40 for eight weeks, nonresidents $50 for eight weeks. Call 561-804-4902.

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Wednesdays at 7 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. A discussion group dedicated to gay black men. Call 561-533-9699 or visit CompassGLCC.com.

POZitive Attitudes

Thursdays from 6:30 to 8 p.m. a Compass GLCC of the Palm Beaches, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Get support as you explore your sexual identity and be your true self. Call Forrest at 561-479-8313.

Wednesdays from 6 to 7:30 p.m. at SunServe, 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. An open meeting and discussion group of all topics brought up by participants. Call 954-764-5150. Wednesdays 7 to 9 p.m. at the Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. A support group for gay and bisexual men who are infected or impacted by HIV/AIDS. Visit PozitiveAttitudes.com

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May 9 from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. at Morikami Gardens and Museum, 4000 Morikami Park Road in Delray Beach. This summer, enjoy the sunset with Taiko drumming, beautiful scenery, and delicious food. Continues every second Friday through September. Tickets $8. Call 561-495-0233 or visit Morikami.org.

You Take Such Liberties!

Through May 24 at the Cultural Council of Palm Beach County, 601 Lake Ave. in Lake Worth. A collection of work by Raymond P. Neubert and his subreal paintings. Call 561-471-2901 or visit PalmBeachCulture.com

To Jane, Love Andy: Warhol’s First Superstar

Through May 25 at the Norton Museum of Art, 1451 S. Olive Ave. in West Palm Beach. The love and friendship between eccentric artist, Andy Warhol, and superstar, Jane Holzer, is chronicled in this art exhibit. Call 561-832-5196 or visit Norton.org.

Adult Acting Class

Tuesdays from 5 to 6 p.m. through June 3 at the Lake Worth Playhouse, 713 Lake Ave. in Lake Worth. A 10soflagaynews //

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Green Market

Saturdays 9 a.m. to noon at West Palm Beach Waterfront, 101 S. Flagler Drive in West Palm Beach. A relaxing morning of shopping through green vendors and live entertainment. Contact Katrina Resch 561822-1520 or KResch@wpb.org.

PFLAG

Third Wednesdays from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. at Temple Shaarei, 9085 Hagen Ranch Road in Boynton Beach. A support group for friends and family of LGBT youth. Call Carole 561-716-9464 or Joyce 561-292-3273.

PBC Gender Support

First and third Thursdays at 7:30 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. A support group for transgender individuals of all ages. Call 561-533-9699 or visit CompassGLCC.com

BBAD Open Mic Night

Third Thursdays from 7 to 10 p.m. at the ActivistArtistA Gallery, 404-422 W. Industrial Ave. in Boynton Beach. With beer and wine in hand, check out some of the area’s best musical talent. $5 sign up fee. Call 786-521-1199.

Boynton Beach Art Walk

Fourth Thursdays from 7 to 11 p.m. at the Boynton Beach Art District, 404-422 W. Industrial Ave. in Boynton Beach. Art studios will be open for the public to view, as well as food, music, dancers and live performances. Call 786-521-1199.

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Jazz on the Palm

Third Fridays from 8 to 10 p.m. at the downtown West Palm Beach waterfront. Relax on the water to the sounds of jazz with the family. Free. Visit WPBGo.com.

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Through May 11 throughout Miami and Miami Beach. In its 16th year, the festival will feature 64 films made by directors from 20 different countries, each with its own take on LGBT life around the world. Visit MGLFF.com for tickets and schedule.

* GALLA Luncheon

May 14 at 11:30 a.m. at City Hall The Restaurant, 2004 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Join the Gay and Lesbian Lawyers Association for its monthly networking program with speaker Sue Perez of Morgan Stanley. Members $35, potential members $45. RSVP to GayBizMiami.com, rsvp@gaybizmiami.com or 305673-4440.

Rainbow Circle

Mondays from 6 to 8 p.m. at the University of Miami Flipse Building #302, 5665 Ponce de Leon Drive in Coral Gables. An open discussion about coming out, relationships, peer pressure, bullying, depression and more. Free. Visit Pridelines.org.

HIV Support Group

Wednesdays from 7 to 9 p.m. at South Beach AIDS Project, 1234 Washington Ave. Ste. 200 in Miami Beach. A support group for those who are HIV positive. Free. Call 305-535-4733, ext. 301 or email support@sobeaids.org.

Modern Buddhist Meditation

Mondays and Tuesdays at the Drolma Kadampa Buddhist Center, 1273 Coral Way in Miami. Find inner peace with instruction on meditation with Buddhist monk, Gen Kelsang Nurbu. Cost $10 and $5 per class. Call 786-529-7137.

Book Study

Wednesdays from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Drolma Kadampa Buddhist Center, 1273 Coral Way in Miami. Buddhist monk, Gen Kelsang Nurbu, will lead classes on learning the foundations of Buddhism. Call 786-5297137.

Prayers For World Peace

Sundays from 10 a.m. to noon at he Drolma Kadampa Buddhist Center, 1273 Coral Way in Miami. Buddhist teacher, Todd Ellenberg will lead prayers and meditation. Cost $10. Call 786-529-7137.

Community Yoga Series

Third Wednesdays at 6:15 p.m. at jugofresh Wynwood Walls, 222 NW 26th St. in Miami. Yoga instructor Dawn B. Feinberg leads a monthly yoga class in the middle of Miami’s art district. Mats are available, but yogis are encouraged to bring their own. Free. Call 786-472-2552.

Sex Talk

Second and fourth Thursdays at Pridelines, 9525 NE Second Ave. #401 in Miami Shores. Conduct outreach events, record video messages, participate in a series of performances, and organize special events with a purpose. Free. Visit Pridelines.org.

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