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Miami Commission Hears Transgender Plea

A Miami-Dade Human Rights Committee voted in favor of adding gender identity and gender expression to the county’s human rights ordinance after a spirited discussion last week. Opponents of the ordinance, representing local churches, flooded

the meeting singing songs and chanting disapproval of transgender people. The Miami-Dade County Commission is expected to vote on the new ordinance at its Dec. 16 meeting.

NCAA Division I men’s basketball game. Gordon, 22, from Plainfield, N.J., scored 17 points and grabbed nine rebounds in the M E M B 95-87 ER Minutemen’s win over Siena.

Judge Tosses Charlotte’s Web Regulations An administrative judge tossed out the Florida Department of Health’s proposed regulations for the cannabis oil known as “Charlotte’s Web,” sending the state back to the drawing board. Rewriting regulations for growing and distributing the cannabis

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Panel Recommends Lifting Gay Blood Ban

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A federal panel voted, on Nov. 13, to partially lift a 31-year ban on accepting blood donations from gay and bisexual men. The advisory panel to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Committee on Blood and Tissue Safety and Availability examined data and listened to testimony from critics of the ban, including the American Civil Liberties Union. “Criteria for being a blood donor should be based on science, not discriminatory stereotypes and assumptions. It is promising to see that the U.S. appears poised to move away from the current lifetime ban that prevents gay and bisexual men from donating blood. However, the proposed one-year deferral will prevent two men who maintain a committed, monogamous relationship from ever donating blood. This proposed policy does not distinguish between high risk and safer sex practices,” said A.C.L.U. legislative representative Ian Thompson. The panel voted 16-2 in favor of allowing men who have had sex with other men to give blood after being abstinent for one year.

The Food and Drug Administration is not obliged to follow the panel’s advice, although a spokeswoman for the agency said the meeting provided valuable information and perspective. Currently, there is a lifetime ban on gay and bisexual men giving blood. The FDA’s official position is gay and bisexual men are at an “increased risk for HIV, hepatitis B and certain other infections that can be transmitted by transfusion.” Countries such as the U.K., Canada and Australia have revised their policies to allow gay and bisexual men to give blood after a year to five years of abstinence from same-sex encounters.

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Conservative Ohio Judge Advocates for Lesbian Daughter

Ohio Supreme Court Justice Paul E. Pfeifer told The Columbus Dispatch in an interview that he has a daughter who is a lesbian, and he believes that “it’s time for Ohio to step up and put us on a footing that is not hostile” when it comes to legal recognition for LGBT families. Pfeifer says that he realized that Ohio needed more protections for gay and lesbian couples because his daughter’s two children are not legally his grandchildren, and in his words, “that’s a problem.” Pfiefer follows in the footsteps of Ohio’s U.S. Senator Rob Portman, who also announced that he has a gay child -- his son Will -- which made him come to support legal protections

alaxy Signs Rogers to Multiyear Deal

The Los Angeles Galaxy signed former U.S. Men’s National Team member Robbie Rogers to a multiple year contract last week. Terms of the deal were not immediately disclosed, but Rogers, 27, is the first openly gay player in Major League Soccer. As a defender for the Galaxy, Rogers has appeared in 30 matches and made 22 starts. He is a native of Huntington Beach, Calif. who helped the University of Maryland capture the NCAA Men’s Soccer National Championship. After college, Rogers went on to play for the U.S. team at the 2008 Olympics in Beijing. “We are excited that Robbie will remain a part of our organization going forward,” said LA Galaxy Head Coach and General Manager Bruce Arena. “He has proven to be a dynamic player in our League and an integral part of our success this year. We look forward to his continued contributions in the years to come.”

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Jazz Jennings, a 14-year-old transgender activist, spoke eloquently about her journey before a crowd of more than 500 people at the 12th Annual Equality Florida Gala Sunday evening in Fort Lauderdale. Jennings received the civil rights organization’s Voice for Equality award for her role in bringing awareness to transgender life. “She has a girl’s brain in a boy’s body,” said Gina Duncan, Equality Florida’s Transgender Inclusion Director.

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Duncan introduced Jennings at the Gala, stating “few people in the transgender community have articulated their true gender feelings with more clarity and passion than Jazz Jennings.” Jennings, who calls South Florida home, was recently named one of the “25 Most Influential Teens of 2014” by Time Magazine. She has been featured by 20/20, 60 Minutes and the Oprah Winfrey Show and is currently promoting a 32-page book about her transition, titled “I Am Jazz.” “I wrote this book to tell people it’s okay to be different,” Jennings said. Sunday’s Gala raised more than $400,000 for Equality Florida, which was good news to Deputy Director Stratton Pollitzer, who reminded attendees that the battle for equal rights is far from over.

for LGBT people in the state and nationwide. Pfiefer goes on to say that he neither opposes nor supports same-sex marriage, but he believes that any wording banning samesex marriage in the state constitution is an overreach. The Sixth Circuit, which includes Ohio, is the only federal circuit court after the Supreme Court’s watershed 2013 Windsor decision to uphold state bans on same-sex marriage. The anti-gay National Organization for Marriage (NOM) has announced its intents to operate within the circuit to oppose the reelection of Portman, a Republican, because of his support for his gay son, Will Portman.

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arkozy Campaigns to Repeal Same-Sex Marriage in France

Nicolas Sarkozy, in a campaign to get his old job back, said he would repeal same-sex marriage laws in France if he were to be elected President again. Sarkozy was pressed on the issue during a debate Saturday in Paris for leadership of France’s conservative UMP (Union for a Popular Movement) party. Sarkozy, 59, indicated he would repeal Socialist legislation allowing same-sex marriage and adoption, stating the new law should be written, “from the ground up.” Sarkozy’s comments are surprising considering the politician’s marriage to super model and pop singer Carla Bruni, a strong supporter of gay rights. Bruni is the third wife of Sarkozy, who served as President of France from 2007 to 2012.

eaten and Burned Gay Veteran Dies in North Carolina

An Army veteran beaten by a man he met at a bar died Saturday afternoon, nearly a week after being hospitalized with burns so bad that parts of both arms had to be amputated, police and his partner said. Veteran Stephen Patrick White, 46, died at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, authorities said. Greensboro Police spokeswoman Susan Danielsen confirmed the death when contacted by The Associated Press. She said a 26-year-old man, Garry Joseph Gupton, has now been charged with first-degree murder in connection with the beating last Sunday. A Greensboro city employee, Gupton had initially been

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charged with aggravated assault with intent to kill, according to police. Jim Olive, a bartender at the Chemistry Nightclub in Greensboro, had said earlier in the week that he had seen White and Gupton leave together in a cab around closing time early on Nov. 9. About 4:30 a.m. that Sunday, an employee at Greensboro’s Battleground Inn called 911 to report a man screaming. Around the same time, the fire alarm also was tripped. Police said Gupton was arrested and the hotel had to be evacuated. Firefighters found White unconscious and badly burned in a fourth-floor room. Public Defender Wayne T. Baucino said he met Gupton for the first time Friday. He declined to comment on the case. Gupton has not entered a plea earlier and an earlier $250,000 bond has been revoked, according to Gilford County jail records posted online late Saturday. His next scheduled court appearance is Dec. 10. Guilford County Assistant District Attorney Howard Newman said recently that it appeared White was struck with a telephone, television and another small piece of furniture. He said the fire appeared to have been intentionally set. Alex Teal, White’s longtime partner, said White served in the Army during the late 1980s, then spent several years with U.S. Customs and Border Protection and the Federal Air Marshal Service. He worked as a security contractor in Iraq in 2005 when he suffered severe injuries in a blast, Teal said.

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international A Russian court has reduced the prison sentence for Maxim Martsinkevich (Макси́м Сергее́вич Марцинке́вич) the notorious gang leader who hunts gay men for torture and humiliation. European news agencies are reporting Martsinkevich, who goes by the alias Tesak or Machete, has less than three years remaining on his sentence in a Russian labor camp. Martsinkevich was arrested in Cuba in January for inciting ethnic and religious hatred during a race riot. The 30-year-old skinhead, who once interrupted a Moscow political debate by shouting “Kill the Liberals!” has a well documented record of capturing gay men using social networks and videotaping their humiliation.

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U.S. District Judge Richard Mark Gergel struck down South Carolina’s ban on same-sex marriage last week, in accordance with the precedent set by the Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals. In his decision, Gergel writes the ban violates the equal protection and due process clauses under the Fourteenth Amendment. The decision includes a one-week stay, pending appeal. If the stay is not extended, or the defendants do not seek a stay from a higher court, marriages will begin in South Carolina on November 20. South Carolina legislators banned same-sex marriage in 1996 and voters overwhelmingly approved an amendment to the state’s constitution in 2006 by a 78-22 percent margin.

state In the aftermath of the midterm election, analysts are still trying to figure out what happened to Amendment 2. The proposal to legalize medical marijuana in Florida fell just shy of the 60 percent approval needed by voters. Some have linked the “Yes on 2” campaign to losses suffered by Democrats statewide. “I don’t know yet,” said Debbie Wasserman-Schultz, chair of the Democratic National Committee. “I do know more people voted for medical marijuana than for our governor (Rick Scott). Amendment 2 received 3.3 million yes votes (58 percent), while Scott received 2.8 million (48 percent.)

local Wilton Manors, Miami Beach, St. Petersburg and Orlando received perfect scores (100) on the Municipal Equality Index (MEI), a nationwide evaluation of 353 cities on how inclusive the city’s laws and policies are for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. The index is conducted by the Equality Federation Institute and Human Rights Campaign Foundation and evaluates cities on the following criteria: non-discrimination laws, relationship recognition, municipality as employer, services and programs and relationship with LGBT community. Other South Florida cities and their scores: Oakland Park (87), Fort Lauderdale (76), Miami Shores (61), Hollywood (61), Miami (53), Pembroke Pines (51), Hialeah (49) and Cape Coral (22).

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As leaders from the LGBT community gathered in Fort Lauderdale to discuss the future of the equality movement there was a sense of urgency in the audience. Court wins in states across the United States were blunted by the electoral process two weeks ago as Democrats took a drubbing at the ballot box. Our Fund, a foundation dedicated to connecting the LGBT community in South Florida, hosted a forum at the Museum of Art, in which explanations were given and projections made. Lesbian philanthropist Mona Pittenger moderated the forum. The panel featured U.S. Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz (D-Florida), Equality Florida Executive Director Nadine Smith, Lambda Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart, National LGBTQ Task Force Director of Public Policy and Government Affairs Stacey Long-Simmons and Washington, D.C. Supreme Court lawyer Paul Smith. “We have to make sure we are not complacent,” said Wasserman Schultz, who represents House District 23 in Congress, which includes Weston. Nadine Smith, the CEO of Florida’s largest civil rights organization, acknowledged the LGBT community “took some real losses and lost some real heroes.” One of those heroes was Florida Representative Joe Saunders (D-Orlando) who lost by some 700 votes in the hotly contested district 49. Saunders was a cosponsor of the Competitive Workforce Act, a bill that offered protections to those who identify as LGBT in the workplace. Nadine Smith said the current Florida legislature resembles the Jeb Bush era in Tallahassee. “Nothing has changed,” she said. “We’re still dealing with the same political climate.” And that climate is not friendly for LGBT causes such as same-sex marriage. Currently, there are 32 states in the U.S., including Washington, D.C., where samesex marriage is legal. “It’s easier to name the states that do not have same-sex marriage,” Pittenger said. And Florida is one of them. The Sunshine State, despite having a large LGBT population, particularly in South Florida, is governed by a Republican governor and a state house that has a Republican super majority and is vetoproof. Saunders is gone, but his bill lives on,

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said Nadine Smith, and will be introduced at the next session by a Republican, Representative Holly Raschein of Key Largo. “Just don’t get played,” said Wasserman Schultz, who sounded skeptical as to the bill’s advancement through a committee. Wasserman Schultz, chair of the Democratic National Committee, also warned of tactics employed by Florida Attorney General Pam Bondi. “I have no faith in Pam Bondi,” said Wasserman Schultz. “She will do everything she can to throw obstacles in our way.” Stacey Long-Simmons agreed and warned the audience that the anti-gay National Organization for Marriage was not going away. “We need to be ready for NOM,” LongSimmons said. “They are not just going to sit quietly.” Long-Simmons proudly announced the Task Force has a new name – adding the letter “Q” to its title in a show of support for the queer community. She also plugged the organization’s slogan -- “Be You” -- and encouraged audience members to attend next year’s “Creating Change” convention in Denver. Meanwhile, Lambda Legal attorneys Cathcart and Paul Smith tried to strike a balance between the state court victories for same-sex marriage and the realities of midterm elections that were unfriendly to LGBT candidates and allies. “October was an amazing month, let’s not forget that,” Paul Smith said. “We are in a so much stronger position now with the progress made in the states.” Smith said the Supreme Court has been monitoring the states march to same-sex marriage and is likely relieved there has been no civil disobedience over the issue. One of the biggest applause lines of the evening came when Cathcart lamented Democrats’ midterm strategy of distancing party candidates from President Barack Obama. “I think people are writing off the President too quickly,” Cathcart said. “There’s still a lot of power there. Agencies have a lot of power. Once policy work is done, it’s hard to undo.” All panelists agreed that mobilizing LGBT voters during the next election cycle was vital and some even joked that a theme for the next campaign should be “bring a date to vote.”

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Mark’s List Publisher Struck and Killed by Cars in Keys Elliot Joseph

Mark Haines, 54, from Jackson, Michigan, was struck by three vehicles and killed on November 14, in the Florida Keys, while attempting to cross the street on foot U.S. 1 at Mile Marker 59. The founder of the popular web site Mark’s List had just finished an exhausting day competing in his first Smart Ride. One of the country’s leading HIV/AIDS fund raising venues, Mark had spent months losing weight, getting in shape, and preparing for the adventure. Friends who were with him on the night of the ride said he had been “beaming; that he was celebrating the night of his life.” According to a press release from the Florida Highway Patrol, Haines was on Grassy Key at approximately 7:05 p.m., when he walked in front of a southbound pick up truck, which clipped him and lifted him into the path of another vehicle, which was swerving to avoid the truck. Sadly, a third vehicle, also seeking to avoid an accident, then struck Haines. Haines died instantly. All three drivers remained onsite to offer aid. Haines had gathered with other riders at Hawks Cay Resort after the first leg of the ride, which took them from South Miami to Duck Key. After participating

in the early evening festivities, he walked south towards a hotel that he and his brother James were staying in. The South Florida Gay News profiled Haines in 2012 for his popular website where he oversaw its growth after moving to South Florida in 2003, first to take a job with the Nielsen Ratings Company. As reported in SFGN, Haines jumped into re-making his own website under the Mark’s List brand. The online edition of ‘jump on Mark’s List’ was produced weekly, featuring the LGBT community in popular venues, celebrating nights out and days at play. It is populated with photographs taken by one of Haines long-time friends, Stephen Lang. Over 250,000 photos have been archived by the “Mad Paparazzi.” The company is run by an LLC, with Haines as the only shareholder. “The site is about being fabulous and having fun,” Haines would boast on its front page, “highlighting diversions of interest to the LGBT community.” Having apparently passed without a will, the site and its domain name will inure to the benefit of his brother and sister. His nephew, Matthew, was making arrangements at press time to “keep the legacy alive” and find a buyer. Peter

Clark, the owner of the Hotspots Media Group, scheduled a meeting for this week. Meanwhile, the Pride Center, whose team, the Pride Pack, Haines was competing with, has announced a public memorial service for this Saturday, at 1 p.m. on the campus of the Pride Center at Equality Park, 2040 Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. Most of the riders of the Smart Ride learned of the fatal accident during the closing ceremonies on the White Street Pier on Saturday afternoon. The Ride’s founder, Glen Weinzimer, read a statement to the stunned crowd, prepared by Matthew Haines, Mark’s nephew, which brought tears and shock to the audience. A moment of silence followed. Tributes began pouring in on Facebook almost immediately, from LGBT leaders around the country, as Mark’s List has online portals from across the continent. “He was truly loved by everyone,” said Robert Boo, the executive director of the Pride Center, who will open Saturday’s memorial service. Mark’s brother, James, who rode the Smart Ride with him, and his sister, Cindy, along with his nephew Matthew, will be at the memorial.

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Community Grieves; Posts Memories On Facebook Deidra Doc B Mark Haines, I miss you, you were with us ALL on THE SMART RIDE. You are an angel watching over us, and we made it safely. I hope the flowers I placed, bloom forever, as you did. Love, Hugs, and all the good times, you will always be with us. Herb Sosa The Miami & South Florida LGBT Community and supporting organizations are deeply saddened at the loss of MARK HAINES, founder of Mark’s List Media. Most of us have worked with & known Mark for some time now, and respect his professionalism, support for the community, generosity and all around kindness. At this difficult time we offer our deepest condolences to his family & friends, and are currently working on various ways to honor his memory and legacy. Miik Martorell Oh my god Mark Haines, I honestly can’t believe that you’re gone. From the moment I met you, you inspired me. You created an entire new industry by bringing your dreams to reality. You became a success where others dared to dream. Your enthusiasm and love for what you do has been a guiding light to so many of us in the community. I don’t know how we will ever fill the incredible void that you’re passing leaves us.

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Drew Miller So Mark Haines passed last night shortly after we spoke. We had just rode 100 miles in the Smartride. I congratulated him for such a grand accomplishment. As we talked I admired silently how good he looked. He recently lost a significant amount of weight training for the Smart Ride. He had such an excited look on his face. Proud. Elated. Thrilled like a kid on the first day of school. He seemed equally proud of the fact he just walked 4 miles from his hotel to join us for the dinner and festivities. I said, “seriously? We just rode 100 miles.” Then I thought, well, that’s who he is. He walks and rides his bike all the time and I shared in his pleasure. I am truly saddened. I will miss you Marc.

over the years. Mark, may you rest in peace and may the angels above wrap you in their arms and give you the everlasting love you deserve. My thoughts and prayers are with his close friends and family at this difficult time. You will be missed...

John Gio Spano It is a very sad day for the South Florida community as Mark Haines was killed last night by a car hitting him while he was crossing the street after dinner on his way back to his hotel. He was participating in the SMART Ride, which is just one of countless charity functions he supported and he had just completed half the ride to Key West when his life was cut way too short in Marathon, FL. The only solace I can find in this tragedy is that he died doing what he loved best, riding his bike and helping others. I had the pleasure of working with Mark at the start-up of JumpOnMarksList many years ago and I have long admired his tenacity, courage, strength and fortitude. His contributions are far too many to list here and he has touched literally 1,000’s of lives

Tracy Young I’m saddened and shocked to have awakened this morning to the news that Mark Haines had been struck by a car in Key West and immediately had passed away. Mark and I worked together for many years & I considered him friend. God Bless family & friends of Mark! Such a sad day! #RIP

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Vix Araujo I’d like to take this second to acknowledge everyone whose reached out to Stephen R. Lang and I. We all have different ways of dealing with loss. Mark Haines picked me up when I was at a low point in my life. He believed in me. As he has believed in many of you. Please please please cherish every moment you have with your loved ones. Forgive. I love and miss you Mark.

Mike Trottier “My friend and colleague of almost 10 years, Mark Haines, has died. He rode day one of the Smart Ride but didn’t make it to day two. As Bike Parking Manager, I made sure his bike made it to Key West and I personally loaded it on the truck back to Fort Lauderdale. Goodbye my friend. It was a pleasure knowing you.”

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Debbie for Governor?

Speculation swirls around Congresswoman Wasserman-Schultz’s future John McDonald What’s Debbie’s next move? With the midterm elections behind her, Debbie Wasserman-Schultz now finds herself embroiled in speculation. Wasserman-Schultz easily won re-election to U.S. Congress, where she represents Florida’s 23rd district and was one of the few Democrats to emerge victorious in November. “I’m grateful to my constituents for re-electing me,” said Wasserman, 48, of Weston. In addition to her duties as a Congresswoman, Wasserman-Schultz is the chair of the Democratic National Committee. “My immediate responsibility at the DNC is to choose a host city for our convention in 2016, put together the pieces for our primary process and elect a Democratic President,” Wasserman-Schultz told SFGN following her appearance at last week’s Our Fund Leadership Forum in Fort Lauderdale.

Many political observers feel WassermanSchultz is on track to seek higher office. Blogs in Washington, D.C. are reporting it is “already assumed” she will run for U.S. Senate in 2016. Such a scenario would pit her against incumbent Sen. Marco Rubio, a Republican from West Miami. “I’m not sure she has the votes to defeat Rubio,” said Tim Ross, President of the Dolphin Democrats, Florida’s oldest LGBT political organization. Rubio, 43, is Florida’s junior Senator in Washington. He defeated then Independent Charlie Crist and Democrat Kendrick Meek in the 2010 midterms. Another option for Wasserman-Schultz is running for Florida Governor. A Democrat has not occupied the Governor’s Mansion in Tallahassee since 1998. Wasserman-Schultz insists a Democrat can win statewide in Florida. “Absolutely,” she said. “This is a state where we have about half a million more

registered Democrats than Republicans. This is a purple state. We have close elections every time. The last two elections have been decided by one percent … so no question, yes a Democrat can win Florida.” But a South Florida Democrat, is another question. Some political analysts have suggested in the past that only a Democratic candidate from the I-4 corridor in central Florida can win the governor’s office. But the last four Democratic candidates for Governor, Charlie Crist, Alex Sink, Jim Davis, and Bill McBride, all hailed from that area and all lost to their Republican opponents. Orlando trial lawyer John Morgan, who backed the failed campaign to legalize medical marijuana in Florida, is not thrilled with a potential Wasserman-Schultz statewide candidacy. “It’s not that she’s polarizing to her district. There are people who love her dearly,” Morgan told the Sun-Sentinel. “To

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the guy sitting in his recliner in Crestview, Fla. (Fla. Panhandle) on a Sunday morning, seeing her (on TV), he’s angry about that.” Wasserman-Schultz though angered Morgan during the campaign by coming out against Amendment 2, the effort to legalize medical marijuana. When asked at the Our Fund discussion if Amendment 2 hurt the Democrats at the ballot box, she responded, “I don’t know yet.”

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Supreme Court: Same-sex Marriages May Go Ahead in Kansas Lyle Denniston

First decision since appeals court split on gay marriage

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The Supreme Court, with two Justices dissenting, on Wednesday afternoon cleared the way for same-sex couples to marry in Kansas — the thirty-third state on the list. In a brief order, the Court voted to leave intact a federal judge’s order nullifying the state’s ban on same-sex marriages. There was no explanation, for the order or by the dissenters. Because the judge’s ruling had been on hold only because of a temporary Supreme Court order issued Monday, the Kansas ruling took effect when the Justices’ new order lifted the earlier postponement. State officials are now under a federal court requirement to start issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The Court has issued a series of orders in same-sex marriage cases over the past eleven months, but the Kansas order marked the first time that members of the Court had recorded dissents. Justices Antonin Scalia and Clarence Thomas

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noted only that they would have granted the delay sought by the Kansas attorney general. Kansas officials had attempted to show that their case was different from others that the Supreme Court had chosen to leave undisturbed, arguing that the federal judge’s order was an invalid attempt to second-guess a Kansas Supreme Court order delaying the issuance of same-sex marriages. The federal judge had rejected that claim, but it may have been the one that drew the implied support of Justices Scalia and Thomas. The state still has an appeal pending at the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Tenth Circuit, but that has little promise, because that appeals court has struck down bans in two other states in its region — Oklahoma and Utah. The Supreme Court refused to review those Tenth Circuit rulings on October 6. The Kansas ban is almost identical to those in other states.

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The Kansas plea for delay to the Supreme Court had been closely watched, since it was the first such request to go to the Court since a split developed in the federal appeals courts on the constitutional controversy over same-sex marriage. It is unclear whether that made any difference to the Supreme Court’s discussion of how to react to the Kansas case. However, the new split in the courts of appeals might also have been a reason for the dissents by the two Justices. The decision by the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit, creating the split because it upheld same-sex marriage bans in four states, has not yet been appealed to the Supreme Court, but several petitions for review are expected to be filed in coming days, perhaps even later this week. Reprinted with SCOTUSblog.com.

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Transgender Day of Remembrance Trans Lives Do Matter

David-Elijah Nahmod “Trans lives do matter,” Veronika Fimbres told SFGN. The registered nurse is a leading transgender advocate — she was recently elected to serve on the Board of Directors at San Francisco Pride. Fimbres explains the relevance of the International Transgender Day of Remembrance, the annual holiday set aside to remember transgender people who’ve been lost to violence. “The first Day of Remembrance took place in 1999, and was initiated by Gwendolyn

Smith of the Bay Area Reporter,” Fimbres said. “It was started to bring attention to those Transgender members of society who have been murdered for just existing, for being themselves, for being who they were. This is scary to realize that you could be next, just for being trans. They are not just murdered, they are butchered, dismembered, decapitated, tortured.” Here are some of the transgender lives that have been recently lost to violence.

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Mayang Prasetyo The 27 years old was found dead in her apartment in Brisbane, Australia, which underscores the need to address anti-trans violence on an international scale. Prasetyo worked as a chef on cruise ships and had been married to fellow chef Marcus Volke for less than a year. Volke, who fatally slit his own throat shortly after the murder, is considered to be the killer. Photo: facebook.com

Gunned down on a street in Oakland California in April 2012. She was killed after telling a man who was hitting on her that she was transgender. A few minutes earlier, Martell’s killer told her how “fine” she was. Brandy Martell was 37 years old.

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Aniya Parker Called a “robbery gone wrong” by the LAPD, 47 year old Parker was killed by three men who tried to steal her purse in the East Hollywood section of Los Angeles. Parker died on October 14, 2014. The police are offering a $50,000 reward for information which leads to the killers. Aniya Parker was the second transgender woman of color to be murdered in Los Angeles since June.

U.S. Marine Joseph Scott Pemberton was charged with murdering 26 year old Sueselbeck in the Philippines. Advocates in the Philippines demanded that Pemberton be turned over to the police in that country, but he is currently being held by U.S. military authorities.

Tajshon Ashley Sherman The 25 year old was found shot to death at a housing complex in Indianapolis. The police so far have no leads as to who the killer or killers may be, nor is the motive known. According to news reports, Sherman lived as a woman, yet family and friends referred to her in the media via male pronouns. soflagaynews //

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These are but a small fraction on the transgender people who’ve been lost to violence. “All trans lives matter,” said Clair Farley, Associate Director of Economic Development at San Francisco’s LGBT Center. “No one should be subjected to violence because of their gender identity or expression. Despite the increased visibility in the media, trans

and gender non-conforming people continue to experience extremely high rates of violence. It is becoming an epidemic for trans women of color. We need to do more to stop trans murders in the U.S. and internationally.” International Transgender Day of Remembrance is commemorated on November 20.

In South Florida, Compass, the Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County, is sponsoring a National Transgender Day of Remembrance program hosted by activist/author/performer Lady Dane Edidi. The lady is known as the “Jazz Priestess of Mother Africa.” Suggested donation is $5 and the program begins at 6 p.m., Nov. 20 at 201 North Dixie Hwy. in Lake Worth. SouthFloridaGayNews // SFGN.com // 11.19.2014 // 15

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Tragedy Overshadows SMART Ride

Safety questions surface in wake of popular activist’s death John McDonald

Tragedy has engulfed this year’s SMART Ride as a community mourns the loss of a talented man and questions linger as to his death. SMART Ride 11 raised more than $1 million for multiple HIV/AIDS agencies and services, but the shocking death of Mark’s List founder, Mark Haines is what everyone is talking about. Haines, 54, was struck by a truck while crossing on foot U.S. 1 in the Florida Keys after the conclusion of the first day of riding. He died instantly. “It is a very tragic loss for our community,” said longtime Florida Keys LGBT leader Steve Smith. “Mark was a gentle man, very genuine and he loved what he did. He was very passionate about giving back to the community and he worked hard.” The SMART Ride is a perfect example of giving to a good cause. Participants bicycle a 165-mile course from Miami to Key West over two days. Their efforts are rewarded by donations, which go to the fight against HIV/AIDS, a disease that infects 1.1 million Americans. “With HIV/AIDS continuing to negatively affect so many in our community, events like the SMART Ride 11 are crucial in raising awareness and funds to help those afflicted with this disease,” said Miami-Dade Mayor Carlos Gimenez. In total, SMART Ride 11 raised $1,109, 124 with the Pride Center’s Pride Pack topping the list of 50 teams with $117,812. Haines was riding for the Pride Center. He was rider No. 548. The Pride Center issued the following statement: “We are saddened to say good bye to long term Pride Center supporter, friend and community leader, Mark Haines. Mark always donated his services to promote social service agencies and nonprofits throughout Florida, including The Pride Center, and asked for nothing in return. Every LGBT business owner in town knew Mark and

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thousands of people benefitted from his marketing and promotion skills. Our staff and volunteers were repeatedly inspired by him as he joined our Pride Pack team this year and trained for The SMART Ride. We watched him shed the pounds and increase his speed. We’ve never seen him happier than when he successfully completed his first 100 miles on Saturday. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. We hope they find some comfort in the care he consistently showed others and the joy he felt on his final day with us.” Haines’ death has raised questions as to the safety of the SMART Ride and cycling in the Keys in general. Smith, who serves as the Chairman of the Florida Keys Mosquito Control, said he was confident proper safety measures were taken. “The Monroe County Sheriff’s Office provides an escort for all riders,” Smith said. “We as a county go all out to ensure their safety.” But sometimes accidents happen. Tommy Peek is living proof. Peek, a Fort Lauderdale resident, was struck by a car while cycling near Key Largo, sustaining minor injuries, but finishing the ride. “I fell down and went boom,” he said. Despite his bumps and bruises, Peek said he would gladly ride again next year and strongly supports the SMART Ride. His team, Cintora, finished ninth out of 50 teams, raising $33,823. “Cycling is inherently dangerous,” Peek admitted. “There is a certain risk involved when you get on that bike, but so is life… you take risks in life and it’s better to enjoy it.” Haines’ death is the first fatality associated with the SMART Ride. Friends said he was at the height of training, had lost nearly 70 pounds and found a passion for cycling. “He was an amazing person,” Peek said.

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White Party 2014

America’s largest circuit party returns to Miami Christiana Lilly

The raucous White Party is starting to put its wild 20’s behind it and going into a phase of newfound sophistication. Mixing its roots of high-end class with its fun, party vibes, Care Resource is celebrating the party’s Diamond Jubilee from Nov. 27 to Dec. 1 and keeping with tradition of the milestone gems of diamonds and pearls. “We weren’t always so clubby. In fact, people used to bring their yachts up to Vizcaya,” said Jonathan Welsh, marketing and development manager. “It was something that was very glamorous.” Guests at White Party years ago included Madonna, Rosie O’Donnell, Calvin Klein and Yoko Ono. Once the event moved away from Vizcaya and onto South Beach’s party scene, it’s become a famously long weekend of clubbing.

This year, the pinnacle event and fundraiser will be hosted at the 1-year-old Perez Art Museum Miami (PAMM) in downtown, where a 30-piece orchestra lead by Sam Hyken will be joined by DJ Knapp for a musical experience of old and new. “We’re going back to our roots. We want to bring back the magic, the excitement, and the glamour of the White Party that is kind of reminiscent of what we used to have over at Vizcaya Mansion and Gardens,” Welsh said. “We want to have a classy, fierce, fashionable, magical event but at the same time, it’s at the all-new Perez Art Museum Miami.” In its rebranding, the advertising materials for White Party have been toned down and the agency has been reaching out beyond the LGBT community to spread the word about the event,

because the nature of the disease has changed so much since its attack on the gay community in the ‘80s. As the epidemic has changed, so has Care Resource. Started namely as an HIV/AIDS treatment center, it has expanded to include primary care, gynecology, dental, pediatrics, and other care to help a larger scope of people. “The reality is that HIV/AIDs isn’t just an LGBT thing. It affects everybody. Blacks, whites Hispanics, young, old, it don’t matter who you are -- it can affect all of us,” Welsh said. That’s not to say Care Resource is ditching its entire past of White Party. There are plenty of crazy parties with hot men and women dancing well into the next day -- sometimes, afternoon. Having the club scene has been important, Welsh said, because it draws out throngs of younger people, people who could benefit from

hearing about the importance of getting tested regularly for HIV/AIDS. Last year, White Party brought in $592,425 for the organization (86 cents for every dollar went to Care Resource). It might not sound like a lot, especially for an agency with a $20 million budget, but it does. Since many grants they receive are earmarked for specific programs, having this money gives them more flexibility for expenses and programs that might get left behind. White Party’s events will be hosted in Miami, Miami Beach, and one final event in Key West. Events range from free mixers to the high-end fundraiser at PAMM, as well as all-male or allfemale soirees. For more information visit, WhiteParty.org.

White Party Schedule Thursday, November 27

White Journey 10 p.m. to 5 a.m. The circuit event “Papa Party” is back on the beach with DJ Joe Gauthreaux for a postThanksgiving celebration. Tickets $20. Cameo Nightclub, 1445 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach Friday, November 28

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7 to 10 p.m. Head to Miami Beach’s only gay hotel with an open Absolut Vodka bar at the hotel’s relaxing, intimate lounge. Plus, get a complimentary pass to its men’s only spa. No cover. Hôtel Gaythering, 1409 Lincoln Road in Miami Beach

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10 p.m. to 8 a.m. Get lost in the music by DJs Alain Jackinsky and Ivan Gomez at this mega dance club in downtown Miami -- into the wee hours of the next morning. Tickets $75 Club Space, 34 NE 11th St. in Miami

7 p.m. to midnight Celebrate Care Resource’s 30th anniversary Diamond Jubilee set against the backdrop of Biscayne Bay and the sounds of old and new at this 1-year-old art museum. Tickets $237. Perez Art Museum Miami, 1103 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami

10 p.m. to 7 a.m. Voted by SFGN’s readers as the best nightclub in Miami-Dade County, put on your hottest white outfit and hit the dance floor with entertainers and music by DJs Paulo and Isaac Escalante. Tickets $75. Score Nightclub, 1437 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach

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White Splash Pool Party 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. Miami is known for its pool parties -- lounge by the water or splash in the pool while DJs Grind and Sushiman spin tunes until the sun sets. Tickets $35. Club Space, 34 NE 11th St. in Miami

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Cirque Blanc 10 p.m. to 4 a.m. It’s all about the ladies at the women’s White Party celebration. Thousands of women will be hitting the dance floor in all white, including actresses Yara Martinez and Whitney Mixter. Tickets $20. Nikki Beach Club, One Ocean Drive in Miami Beach

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Swan Song 11 p.m. to 5 a.m. The official closing party for White Party, it’s the longest-running event in the 30-year

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The election is over, the results are in, and we know that barring a major miracle we can forget about seeing ENDA and pretty much anything else LGBT-supportive happen in Congress for the next two years at least. If we’re to be completely honest, however, Democrats won’t have a realistic chance of taking back the House until 2020, when gerrymandered congressional districts are redrawn. With this reality in place until at least the next Presidential election, what should we, LGBTs in general and trans people specifically, be doing to ensure that the future will be better? First of all, we have to refocus on the state and local level. Federal Democrats have repeatedly and clearly demonstrated that LGBT working families can’t count on these people to fight for us, so we have to make our appeals to legislators who might actually be willing to stand up for real American freedom and equality. It’s time for us to stop kidding ourselves and accept that our “friends” in Congress are actually nothing of the sort and that true LGBT equality will only happen in this country once the Democrats see profit for themselves in advocating the issue, as they do with marriage. Given that we already know all of this, we also know that in order to have a hope of that changing, we’re going to have to shake things up. It’s time for a Progressive Party to start dragging Democrats back to the left in the same way the Tea Party forced the GOP even further to the right than they already were. Two years is plenty of time, and I don’t believe it would be as difficult a task as it might appear. While the mainstream media may be loath to admit it, the real energy on the left right now isn’t around Hillary Clinton, it’s about Senator Elizabeth Warren. I was in the audience when Vice President Joe Biden spoke at Netroots Nation this year. He was well received and the audience was

very generous with their support and applause. When Elizabeth Warren spoke a couple of days later, though, that audience of politicallyactive progressives went absolutely insane. A standing ovation, coupled with seemingly endless chants of “Run, Liz, run!” greeted Senator Warren as she took the stage. Make no mistake about it: Elizabeth Warren is a genuine progressive rock star. Unlike our current President, this is a woman who not only talks like a college professor, but legislates like an activist. Elizabeth Warren reminds me of the last presidential candidate to generate this level of support from progressives because he wasn’t afraid to speak the truth about our country and about the Democratic Party, Howard Dean. Dean was the very first candidate I supported for President because I believed he reflected my own views as a progressive rather than feeling my only choice was between “bad” or “worse”. In Senator Warren I see something I haven’t seen since the rise of Howard Dean in presidential politics: A genuine progressive hero, a real leader the left can enthusiastically rally behind who not only gives lip service to our values but governs in concert with them, regardless of who happens to be inconvenienced. She is, in fact, exactly the kind of leader some of us have been waiting for. Elizabeth Warren is modern America’s progressive heart. She can get progressives involved and enthusiastic about federal politics like no one else. If the real goal now is to push America back to the left rather than just planting yet another corporate centrist in the White House let’s spend the next two years working to nominate and elect Elizabeth Warren, a true progressive. We still have no shortage of hope, but what America needs now is change we really can believe in.

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opinion for becker or worse Charles Manson Should Be Able to Marry. So Should You. John Becker

When the public learned this week that notorious cult killer (and lifetime prison inmate) Charles Manson had acquired a marriage license and would soon wed his longtime confidant, marriage equality supporters reacted with outrage on social media. “80yo Charles Manson will soon be getting married, but by all means don’t let gay couples destroy the sanctity of marriage!,” HRC president Chad Griffin remarked on Twitter. Author Christopher Rice added, “Charles Manson is getting married in prison, but by all means, Supreme Court, take your sweet time with my personhood!” Indeed, the Manson marriage serves as a stark reminder of the egregious double standard that exists under the law for straight couples versus gay couples: while consenting heterosexual adults can get married in all 50 states and the District of Columbia, there are still 17 states where that very same freedom is denied to someone who wants to marry a same-sex spouse. The silence of marriage equality opponents like Maggie Gallagher, Tony Perkins, and Brian Brown — who love to wrap their defense of marriage discrimination in lofty terms like the “sanctity of marriage” — exposes the sheer bankruptcy of that argument. After all, as Michael Knaapen wrote on The Bilerico Project, if you’re cool with one of America’s most objectively horrible people getting married, what kind of mental gymnastics does a person have to go through to justify their opposition to legal recognition for the marriages of good, decent LGBT Americans? Some people took things even further, though, claiming that Manson’s marriage somehow threatens or hurts the rights of same-sex couples; others even said they didn’t think he should be able to get married at all. But as satisfying as those arguments may

seem, they actually betray the very ideals of marriage equality. Don’t get me wrong, I am absolutely not defending Charles Manson -- the evil that lurks inside that man’s heart and the monstrosity of his crimes are beyond dispute. But they’re also beside the point, which is that everyone deserves the right to marry the person they love — even if they’re old, even if they’re in prison, and yes, even if they’re a convicted murderer. As a marriage equality advocate, I’ve spent years arguing that moral disapproval of another person’s relationship is insufficient grounds to deny them the freedom to marry. I’d be the worst kind of hypocrite if I turned around and applied to someone else the same unreasonable standard that my oppressors have applied to me. As to the argument that Manson’s marriage threatens the marriages of same-sex couples, that’s so laughably absurd that I could scarcely believe people were seriously making it. (No, honestly, when I read their comments I thought they were joking.) Charles Manson’s soon-to-be-legal union no more threatens my marriage than my husband and I threaten Maggie Gallagher’s. The phrase I often say to opponents of equal marriage applies in this situation as well: if someone else’s union threatens your own, don’t worry about their marriage — see a therapist about yours instead. Marriage equality has moved so far in such a short time because we’ve successfully made the case that not just some, but all loving, consensual, committed adult couples should be protected equally under the law. Saying that Charles Manson — as odious a human being as he is — deserves anything less than we do is a violation of that fundamental principle. When it comes to the marriage, we would do well to remember the words of Abraham Lincoln: “Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves.”

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Marking Mark’s Memory Norm Kent

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The outpouring of love on Facebook for Mark Haines this past weekend was overwhelming in many ways. First of all, we all lost a friend. ‘Jump on Mark’s List’ is a popular website collecting a cache and collage of photographs that visually recorded the lives of gay South Floridians. Mark’s energy and enthusiasm kept it going year after year, month after month. Years in the making, anyone that had seen him driving around his Yaris with 90,000 miles and bent rims knows he did not get rich from the site. It was a labor of love. But the site drove thousands to its pages, so you could see yourself at party and play, at business mixers or beach parties. The site was Mark’s legacy to all of us. It is a memorable legacy. Mark was a warm and loving person, who simply brought laughter and leisure to us all. While here at the newspaper we have to sometimes sadly write about the warts and the wounds of our community, Mark was able to celebrate the tea parties and the toasts. Tiptoe through his site and it shows our community at play, at work, enjoying itself and appreciating life. You know, in a world too often populated by pain, that isn’t such a bad thing. Second, the sheer volume of posts online regarding Mark’s tragic death demonstrated that there really is an LGBT community in South Florida, far more bonded than it is broken. Mark was a person we all cared about, because he was always there with a smile, a hug, and the shared gift of a communal camera. The brief news story SFGN has done on another page in this issue does not do Mark justice. The collection of quotes concerning the measure of his person on Facebook does. Third, losing Mark during the Smart Ride event is awfully ironic, isn’t it? As people left on their journey to the Keys, they did so knowing the roads could be perilous and the dangers real. It’s an athletic event. Like many every year, Mark prepared for it intensely, restoring his body to fitness, slimming down

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and gearing up. It’s a journey we all need to take. It is not a surprise that all the friends with him at Hawk’s Cay on his final night say that his first- and last day’s journey- was probably the best day of his life. Mark had found a physically and spiritually rewarding plateau, energizing his soul and self-esteem. But people do get hurt on the ride, so there are security teams, road patrols, and safety squads. Unfortunately, fate had other plans this past weekend. Fourth, the Smart Ride is as spiritual a bonding experience as you can get, a collective calling, creating bands of brothers coming together for a common purpose. The Ride is a recognition by our community of those lost to HIV and AIDS; of lives shuttered too soon, ending too young. Though not due to HIV, Mark takes his place among those so forever memorialized. He lived long enough to become part of the unique and special Smart Ride Brotherhood, an ever so tight collection of men and women who have breathlessly endured this inspirational journey together. Fifth, as gay men who have seen the scourge of AIDS rape our community for decades, we have become strong souls. We know already and too often what it is like to lose too many friends all too soon. We know that we still have to push forward and carry on. It’s our history yesterday, and our path today. So it has been, and so it will be. This past weekend, at Mile Marker 59 in the Keys, we lost a friend. He was not on his bike when it happened, but he was still Rider Number 548. Perhaps, that is a number the team ought to forever retire. Like so many others who journeyed to remember those lost in years before, now we are called upon to remember one lost to us today. He was 54 years old, his name was Mark Haines, and remember him simply as a guy who always smiled, and made us smile a little more. Goodbye, my friend.

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Community Loses a Hero in Captain Wierzbicki In a week where the gay community has suffered losses, the passing of former Wilton Manors Police Chief Richard Wierzbicki is an equally compelling one which warrants commentary. For decades, the LGBT community had a hard time finding friends in law enforcement. We were second-class citizens whose rights were denied. Only because men with class and conscience stood up to be counted did we emerge with friends and voices in the police community. Captain Wierzbicki, whether serving as a captain for BSO, a champion for the homeless, or as the police chief in the

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Manors, was one of those rare few who also stood beside us, the outcasts. His passing, due to liver cancer, saddens us and diminishes a bright star in our community. He stood by us, he stood for us, and he stood his ground against odds that would have beaten back lesser men. Thank you, Captain, for a life of public service, equal rights, and serving your community. Particularly, we thank you today, for standing up for the LGBT community in all your yesterdays. On behalf of them, we salute you and remember you for all that you have done.

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By Michael d’Oliveira When it comes to art on Wilton Drive, Thomas Alford likes to joke, “I’m kind of taking over the whole street.” Earlier this month, Alford, an artist and Wilton Manors resident, purchased the rights for the Island City Art Walk from Krishan Manners and Tony LoGrande. And Alford, who already organizes monthly street cleanings of Wilton Drive through the county’s Adopt A Street program, says it’s just the start of his plan to make Wilton Drive and the city as a whole more of an artistic destination. “I want to see Art Walk more community involved. Tony and Krishan did a wonderful job . . . [but] I want to carry it to its next stage.” During the event,

sponsoring business along the street host an artist and their work and many serve wine and hors d’oeuvres. Under Alford, the Art Walk has already undergone changes – a move from the Third Friday of the month to the third Saturday and VIP passes good for discounts to participating businesses – and more are on the way. He envisions a music festival, more money from businesses because of increased foot traffic, utility boxes made colorful with artistic decorations and working with guest houses and using Art Walk to attract tourists. He also wants to expand the event beyond Wilton Drive and recruit artists from the

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Local Wilton Manor Resident Hopes to Fund Upcycle Project on Kickstarter By Natalya Jones They say a man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Cindy White, a Wilton Manors resident for the last 23 years, lives by that saying. “A couple of years ago, I began upcycling furniture as a hobby and a way to redecorate,” White said. “I have found really great furniture pieces thrown out in the bulk trash or that friends have given me before they put it out for bulk pick up. I repair, sand, repaint, and reupholster when needed to bring the pieces back to life, making them beautiful once again.” White even manages to fix items seemingly damaged beyond repair. “Some pieces that can’t be

repaired I turn into something completely different and new (For example, dresser or desk drawers),” she explains. “If the dresser or desk is no longer repairable, I will keep the drawers and I will make pet beds with them.” White has always crafted as a hobby, from painting ceramics with her mother at the age of 7 or 8 years old to teaching others how to scrapbook to handpainting toy soldiers and holiday trains made by putting terracotta flower pots together and more. However, White’s hobby extends far more than just a mere hobby.

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Commission May Call for Increased Liquor Tax to Help Homeless By Michael d’Oliveira

As Fort Lauderdale’s restriction on feeding the homeless in public parks grabs national headlines, the Wilton Manors Commission may propose a resolution to help fund programs aimed at helping the homeless. At the next commission meeting on Nov. 25, Wilton Manors Vice Mayor Scott Newton said he would propose a resolution to call for Broward County to pass a one percent sales tax on drinks sold in bars and restaurants and use the money to fund programs that help the homeless. “To me [one percent] sounds pretty reasonable.” He said more should be done to help homeless individuals who are mentally capable of working and improving their situation. “That’s the long term goal, to get them back into society because nobody wants to be homeless.” Miami-Dade already has a one percent Homeless and Domestic Violence Tax on food and beverages, which it uses to assist homeless individuals and victims of domestic violence and abuse. Broward, under state statute 212.0306, could also pass a sales tax to help pay for emergency homeless shelters, food, clothing, medical care, counseling,

alcohol and drug abuse treatment, mental health treatment, employment and training, education, and housing. Businesses that generate less than $400,000 in revenue per year would be exempt. For the first 12 months, the funds raised would have to be used to help individuals who are homeless or about to become homeless. After that, no less than 15 percent of the funds can be used for the construction and operation of domestic violence centers. Mayor Gary Resnick calls Newton’s proposal “a nice idea” but expressed doubts that it would be approved by the county. He also cited the county’s existing homeless outreach programs. The multimillion dollar Homeless Initiative Partnership Administration, which has homeless assistance programs funded in part by the state and federal governments. Commissioners Justin Flippen, Julie Carson and Tom Green expressed support for the idea of helping the homeless but wanted to know more before agreeing with Newton’s proposal. “It might be what he’s suggesting is not necessary,” said Green. Carson said she’s not sure if taxing liquor sends the right message “but I’m glad he’s thinking outside the

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box. I’d like to explore what other people are doing. I will certainly entertain and appreciate any idea to deal with the homeless problem.” At the same meeting, Wilton Manors commissioners are also expected to hold their second and final vote on the anti-panhandling ordinance they approved on Oct. 14. If passed, the law would make it illegal for anyone to panhandle, sell or solicit in the roadway within 200 feet of any intersection on Wilton Drive, Dixie Highway, Northeast 26 Street, Oakland Park Boulevard, Andrews Avenue, Northeast 6 Street and Powerline Road. Michael Rajner, resident and local activist, said the law was a criminalization of the homeless population and said other solutions need to be found. Police and city officials say the law intended to improve public safety, not target the homeless. Carson was the only one to vote against the proposal because she worries the cost to prosecute individuals who break the law could become “exorbitant.” If the city prosecutes someone who breaks the law it would be responsible for funding that person’s defense. Officials are unable to provide an estimate of what that would cost. WMG

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Wilton Manors Voters Re-elect Habitual Liars

The recent re-election of Mayor Resnick and Commissioner Newton indicates that repeating a lie causes it to become truth to the majority of voters in Wilton Manors. Resnick and Newton have told Wilton Manors residents for years and years that there’s no money available to take over operating Wilton Drive to cut down on the number of traffic lanes to make it more pedestrian friendly, create more parking spaces with angled parking and landscape the Drive so it will be closer in appearance to shade tree lined Las Olas Blvd. and downtown Hollywood. Since that song about no money for the Drive began to be sung by Resnick and Newton, money became available to tear down the old city hall building and a new city hall building was built on prime commercial real estate land owned by the City on the Drive. More money has been spent to move the recycling station off the Drive, to construct a grass lined drainage ditch where there was no drainage problem where the recycling center was located, to install technologically primitive coin operated parking meters along the

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“Local Wilton Manor Resident Hopes to Fund Upcycle Project on Kickstarter”

“I would love to make pieces available to young adults who are ‘aging out’ of the foster care system,” she explains. “After speaking with a friend who is a social worker, she explained the difficulties her clients run into when it comes to moving, finding or buying furnishings. They often end up with furniture that comes in a box and has to be assembled because in most cases, it’s the social worker helping them to move and there isn’t always a truck available. I would really like to use my hobby to help these young adults. It could truly benefit them if I could collect more furniture. As a bonus, a big bonus my hobby would also be helping our environment, it would mean a lot less furniture headed to our landfills.” In hopes of getting funds to rent a storage unit for her already collected furniture pieces, White has promoted her upcycle project on the trendy fundraising site Kickstarter.com. Kickstarter projects are easy, fun and usually successful. A Kickstarter project allows users to post creative projects online and try to get funding for it. A description along with the deadline and goal completion are posted. Popular Kickstarter campaigns include Zach Braff’s movie “Wish I Was Here” funds

Drive that people are wont to use because they have to keep returning to the meters to add more coins before their time expires, to purchase land and construct a parking lot off 26th Street that most people aren’t aware is there as no signage has been installed on the Drive to direct people looking for parking to that lot and money was spent just before the most recent election to repave the Five Points area and it’s also been announced that the area of Dixie Highway south of Five Points is going to see city paid for landscaping and street improvements. The No Money for the Drive Song that Wilton Manors voters seem to enjoy dancing to is again being sung as Wilton Manors prepares to charge Wilton Drive businesses special operating fees that will supposedly go to making improvements to the Drive since, “the City has no money for improvements to the Drive.” La, La, La. In most places people who repeatedly tell untruths are called Liars. In Wilton Manors, they’re called Mayors and Commissioners.

White has until November 30 to reach her goal. Those interested in helping out can go to Kickstarter.com and search for “Reduce, Recycle and Relove, Vintage White Upcycled Décor” or visit directly at http://kck.st/1tSdqt5. The project can also be found at Facebook.com/VintageWhiteUpcycledDecor.

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for bands and the infamously raunchy Cards Against Humanity. Other items White hopes to acquire with funds are an electric sander, a personal sprayer for larger pieces and handcarts and professional marketing materials and advertising. The most important item needed, however, is a truck as White can only fit smaller items in her car. “I’m doing good if I can fit 2 chairs and a smaller sized table in my car at one time,” she says. “I’ve had to pass up on a lot of great donations, leave some nice pieces to be picked up by bulk trash or to be picked up by others and pieces that get left out in the weather to be destroyed because I wasn’t able to pick them up.” Although she does mention that she would like to sell certain items, White’s ultimate goal is helping those less fortunate. “I hope to be able to not just help those young adults in Broward County and Fort Lauderdale but in other areas of the state as well,” she says. “At the same time, I hope to create a few jobs, possibly for some of the same young adults and keep a lot of good, sturdy, well made furniture out of our landfills where it can be ‘re-loved’ [aka reused] for many years to come.” WMG

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Metropolitan Breaks Ground in Wilton Manors Press Release

Ascend Properties groundbreaking ceremony with elected officials including Wilton Manors Mayor, Gary Resnick; Wilton Manors Vice-Mayor Julie Carson and Wilton Manors Commissioners Ted Galatis, Tom Green and Scott Newton and Kaufman Lynn Construction executives.

Ascend Properties’ founders and principals Dean Borg, Richard Finkelstein and Michael Wohl

A trio of South Florida real estate developers with an eye for transforming underutilized properties into vibrant new communities have joined forces as Ascend Properties and currently have two new, luxury in-fill projects valued at $100 million underway. Dean Borg, Richard Finkelstein and Michael Wohl have successfully collaborated on numerous projects for the past three decades, collectively delivering approximately 10,000 units consisting of multi-family rentals and for-sale housing collections throughout Florida. Ascend Properties is the next chapter building on their track record of success. Groundbreaking for Metropolitan, an innovative

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179-unit, rental apartment development in Wilton Manors, took place on October 28 and construction already is underway at Pointe 100, an upscale, for-sale housing community in central Boca Raton. “In our current real estate cycle, there is strong competition for quality rental communities, particularly in desirable neighborhoods like the City of Wilton Manors,” said Richard Finkelstein, principal and cofounder of Ascend Properties. “City officials and residents have very high standards and expectations for the finest community project available, which is what Ascend Properties will deliver.” Metropolitan was previously

the site of a dated mobile home park, damaged during Hurricane Katrina after serving as the setting for the blockbuster movie Striptease starring Demi Moore and Burt Reynolds. Located at 1224 NE 24th Street, it is only three blocks from the trendy restaurants and shops of Wilton Drive. With its modern architectural design, Metropolitan will be a distinctive residential community with studio, one-, two- and threebedroom apartments featuring resort-style amenities, including an arts park and a dog park. Its contemporary appeal is designed to meet the expectations of Wilton Manors’ avant-garde residents who demand new, cutting-edge and stylish apartments. WMG

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Photos By David Replogle Humans of Wilton Manors is an attempt at capturing the exhaustive, diverse community of Wilton Manors. The project was inspired by Humans of New York, a Facebook page, which uses photographs and quotes to provide strangers with a view of the daily life of people in New York. Humans of Wilton Manors is posted at Facebook.com/ SouthFloridaGayNews every day at noon or check out SFGN.com/HOWM to see them all. WMG If you could have a super power what would it be? “To be able to be invisible, that way I can check people out without them knowing and check out other “things” without them knowing what I am staring at.”

What is something not many people know about you? “Well I am from New York and I was a studio 54 gal, going to countless party’s, having a lot of fun and just living life to the fullest, and as you can see I have continued being fabulous throughout the years.”

What is your favorite memory together? “Well first of all we are brother and sister, and I would have to say sharing the same grade and having some of the same classes at school growing up it was nice knowing that there was always someone there, and No we are not twins.”

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What is the ONE thing you regret the most? “The first time I ever smoked crack, which created an addiction and couldn’t live without it, Thankfully I realized that I was an addict and I got help and now I am clean and without my addiction.” What are you most proud of? “I just started my own artist studio (Twisted Vinyl Studios) where I take old vinyl records and heat them up bend them, resin them and turn them into trays, orchid planters or I am even working on an abstract design piece now.”

With Thanksgiving right around the corner what are some things you are thankful for? “I am very grateful for my shop, (Cigar Boutique & Vape Love) and how it has turned out and also for all my customers throughout the community who have made it amazing and have welcomed me with open arms I wouldn’t change it for the world.”

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November 9

Wilton Manors Green Market, 9 a.m. at Wilton Manors City Hall

Preschool Story time, 10:30 a.m. at Richard C. Sullivan Public Library Zumba Fitness, 7 p.m. at Island City Park Preserve

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Dog Obedience Class Nov. 6, 13, 20 & 27 from 6:30 p.m. at Hagen Park (Basketball Court) All Breeds Welcome Beginners Obedience Class. Registration at 6:30 p.m., class begins at 7:30 p.m. Rally Obedience Class - Skill Building, Drill Class - Class starts at 8 p.m. $5 per

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Beginner Israeli Dance Class, 7 p.m. at Hagen Park Community Center

Island City Book Club, 6:30 p.m. at Richard C. Sullivan Zumba Fitness, 7 p.m. at Public Library Brains and Balance Past 60, 10 Island City Park Preserve a.m. at Hagen Park

Beginner Israeli Dance Class, 7 p.m. at Hagen Park Community Center

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City Commission Meeting, Brains and Balance Past 60, 7 p.m. at City Hall 10 a.m. at Hagen Park Chambers Zumba Fitness, 7 p.m. at Zumba Fitness, 7 p.m. at Island City Park Preserve Island City Park Preserve Family Storytime, 6:30 p.m. at Richard C. Sullivan Public Library

class Beginner Israeli Dance Class Nov. 6, 13, 20 & 27 from 7 p.m. — 9 p.m. at Hagen Park Community Center Dance with Dan & Jack, where every class is a special event! This program includes great middle eastern music, featuring the latest/best choreography and songs that will lift your spirit and touch your heart. Square Dancing Nov. 6, 13, 20 & 27 from 7 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. at Island City Park Preserve The South Florida Mustangs is the first GLBT International Square Dance Club organized in 1980. Positively no previous experience required. We’ll teach you the ropes beginning with an

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vendors. The Market gives residents and visitors to Wilton Manors an exciting shopping alternative and a chance to view, sample and purchase products. For more information on The Market or to become a vendor, visit GreenWilton. com or contact Frank and Ron at 954531-5363. Preschool Story time Nov. 10, 17, and 24 10:30 AM - 11:00 AM at Richard C. Sullivan Public Library For ages 2 - 5. Caregivers must remain with their children. Zumba Fitness Nov. 10, 11, 12, 17, 18, 19, 24, 25 & 26 from 7 p.m. – 8 p.m. at Island City Park Preserve Are you ready to party yourself into shape? Forget the workout, just lose yourself in the music and find yourself

allemande left and a do-si-do. All you need is a desire to have fun. Questions? Feel free to call Ken 305-343-1710; Randy 305-458-1649; Tom or Chris 954-525-8365. Dance fee only $5. Visit Caller4u.com. Wilton Manors Green Market Nov. 8, 9 & 15, 16 & 22, 23 & 29, 30 from 9 a.m. – 2 p.m. at Wilton Manors City Hall / Hagen Park Wilton Manors Green Market every Saturday and Sunday from 9 a.m.– 2 p.m. in the Wilton Manors City Hall / Hagen Park parking lot. The Market features Organic Produce, Regular Produce, International Baked Goods, specialty items, spices & herbs, soups, cheeses, coffees & tea, bagels, Nuts & dried fruits, baked goods, and various other international and local

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in shape at the original dance-fitness party. Zumba classes feature exotic rhythms set to high-energy Latin and international beats. Before you know it, you’ll be getting fit and your energy levels will be soaring! It’s easy to do, effective and totally exhilarating. Join the Party! City Commission Meeting Nov. 25 at 7 p.m. at City Hall Chambers (Nov. 11 meeting cancelled) 2020 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 Brains and Balance Past 60 Nov. 12, 19 & 26 from 10 a.m. – 11 a.m. at Hagen Park Brains and Balance Past 60 is designed for the unique needs of active older adults who know the importance of staying mentally sharp and physically

stable. Researchers no longer believe that falling or losing your mental capacity are inevitable parts of the aging process and this fascinating class series operates based on the premise that specific exercises will decrease the risk of falling while increasing mental acuity. Family Storytime Nov. 12, 19 & 26 6:30 p.m. – 7 p.m. at Richard C. Sullivan Public Library Island City Book Club Nov. 19, 6:30 p.m. – 7:45 p.m. at Richard C. Sullivan Public Library The Island City Book Club gathers at the library on the third Wednesday of each month. Reading selections include current and classic novels as well as popular nonfiction. All are welcome to join and help select our next book!

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Community / Member Engagement Steve Adkins

President & CEO; Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (MDGLCC)

The Miami-Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (MDGLCC) is the largest not-for-profit corporation in the county for gay and lesbian businesses. With membership on the rise, the Chamber’s mission is to promote a unified and thriving, gay and gay-friendly, business and professional community throughout Miami-Dade County. Our goals are to promote networking within the existing gay and gay-friendly business

and professional community, to promote business opportunities for Chamber members, to promote Miami as a year-round, gay and gay-friendly tourist destination, to provide resources for our members, and to provide outreach from our community to other organizations. The MDGLCC is involved with the community is many different ways, aside from networking. Here are some facts you may not have known...

We support our community - MDGLCC is a frequent attendee at our local community partner’s events. Through our MDGLCC Foundation, we support the LGBT Visitor & Community Center offering a welcome and safe space for visitors and community groups alike. We have active programming within the ranks of higher education MDGLCC partners with both the student and faculty at both the University of Miami & Florida International University hosting networking and student on campus connectivity. We are engaged - The Staff of the MDGLCC sits on the boards of the Greater Miami Convention and Visitors Bureau, the Miami Beach Visitor & Convention Authority, Miami Beach Gay Pride, Miami Gay & Lesbian Film Festival, and the LGBT Business Enhancement Committee of Miami Beach. We also support the One Community-One Goal program at the Beacon Council and are an affiliate organization to the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. We support Supplier Diversity - one of MDGLCC’s main objectives is to identify LGBT owned businesses that are eligible for certification under NGLCC’s Supplier Diversity Program. We support diversity and inclusion - MDGLCC supports passage of a fully-inclusive ENDA (Employment Non-Discrimination Act) providing protections for LGBT employees.

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column tony’s talks It’s Great To Be Alive And On My Bike For Smart Ride 11 Tony Adams

It’s great to be alive, I thought, one hundred miles into the SmartRide, the annual 165 mile bicycle ride from Miami to Key West to benefit the HIV/AIDS community of south Florida. Sun-drenched water on either side of me as I crossed the smooth stretches of concrete that connect the keys was exhilarating. Just a slight wind from the northwest, as I found my pace, a steady 17 miles per hour that kept me ahead of the thickest knots formed by almost 600 riders, and had me alone on the route for long thoughtful passages into the past and the future concurrently. The Smart Ride is about death and mourning and rage. The Smart Ride is about hope and heroes and battles won and lost in our communal life offered up not to God but to the fight against an overpowering, omnipresent and godless virus. It’s about an enemy that uses us but doesn’t know us or hate us. There is an innocence to this virus we seek to destroy. It lives only if we do. It dies only when we do. It is not schooled in malice. It is aggressive by nature, as are we, every time we draw another breath or bear down upon the pedals of our bikes to raise the millions of dollars needed to help those living with HIV/AIDS. The virus doesn’t fight back. It simply survives. It was born that way. Recently, we lost a hero in the battle against HIV/AIDS. Betty Salwak, a quiet, polite, straight wife, mother of two, and religious Presbyterian “church lady” living in Indiana, died after her three-year struggle with breast cancer. In my rarified and urbane gay life, I have never had a friend like Betty. When she contacted me several years ago as someone who enjoyed my relentlessly gay-themed writing, I assumed she was a lesbian trying to come out. I was wrong about that. Betty grew up in Sarasota, Florida. When she made her annual visit home several years ago, she announced to me that she would drive down to Fort Lauderdale for a few days with me. I was worried. What would I do with what I assumed to be a closeted pious midwestern lady for three days? Over dinner, she told me her story and had me in tears. Betty’s brother David spent his life estranged from his family, afraid of their judgement about his sexuality. Alone and dying, David reached out to his family who came to his deathbed, learning for the first time that their brother was both gay and dying from AIDS. Betty learned that

he had been particularly worried about her reaction to his disclosure. The loss of her brother had a profound effect on Betty who then devoted her life to changing hearts and minds about LGBT people, especially those isolated by HIV/AIDS. She was tireless in her efforts to make her church open, affirming and well educated about HIV/AIDS. Three days before her death, as we said goodbye to each other on a video call, she told me her biggest regret was the amount of work she would not be able to finish as a straight ally. She smiled when I told her that she had done her brother proud. The pain of her final days did not stop her from supporting my Smart Ride. As I pedaled faster during the crossing of the dazzling expanse of the Seven-Mile Bridge, the thought that it’s great to be alive became a mantra looping through my head. But would anything I might say, do or write equal the very good life of Betty Salwak? When, on the morning of the second day of the Smart Ride, word spread among the riders that one of our company had been struck and killed by a car the night before, that same question resounded. Mark Haines was not only a friend to many in the LGBT community of south Florida, he was a man who accomplished an awful lot of good for us. Unlike Betty, Mark’s death arrived suddenly, but like her, he left his ride to the finish line incomplete. Post-Smart Ride, I send you these words from Island House Resort and Spa, surrounded by beautiful men both HIV+ and negative, who have all spent lives doing battle with a mindless virus and are now taking time to relax and rejuvenate after having done something good as riders or crew for Smart Ride. The theme of this year’s ride is that we are all heroes, but ask any of these men if they feel like heroes and they would wave you away. We raise a few bucks, we get on our bikes, we go home and we wonder if we will do it again next year. These bones grow old. The bumps in the road are felt more deeply on the spine. The stamina fades. It seems wrong to annoy friends with an annual appeal for financial support. Isn’t it enough that I appreciate how great it is to be alive? Don’t answer that, Betty. I can see your face. Girlfriend, rest. For you, I’ll try to do it again next year.

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This week’s question is “what story should the LGBT community pay attention to this week?” SFGN Staff SFGN’s “Speak OUT” is a weekly feature giving a regular voice to South Florida LGBT leaders. Below are some of their answers:

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Surprise! Florida same-sex couples who got legally married in another state (or Canada) will NOT get each other’s Social Security benefits when one dies. Follow the new lawsuit that seeks to compel the Obama administration to provide full Social Security benefits throughout the country to married same-sex couples, even if they live in states without marriage equality such as Florida. More details: http:// tinyurl.com/mtz6xlq” — Toni Armstrong, Founder/ Director of BLAST Women of WPB

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Now that we lost the election, we have to focus on strengthening our voices with our organizations: Equity Florida, PBCHRC, The Task Force, Lambda and our LGBT community centers. Doing this and with our voices together will silence the voice of the re-elected attorney general Pam Bondi.” — Ruth Berman, LGBT activist

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Everyone should be following the Arnold Abbott story, about the 90-year-old man arrested for feeding the homeless. The Fort Lauderdale City Council has recently passed a draconian ordinance against feeding the homeless. I feel as social progressives, we need to be paying more attention to issues affecting all social justice issues in our community. This one is especially important since a study conducted by the National LGBTQ Task Force calculated that 40 percent of all homeless youth in the United States self identify as LGBT.” — Lee Rubin, board member of OUR Fund

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Lambda Legal and the ACLU have jointly petition the U.S. Supreme Court to review the recent decision by the Sixth Circuit Court. This is the first in what is expected to be a series of demands. If they agree to review, a SCOTUS same sex marriage decision can be delivered by the end of June 2015.” — Anthony Timiraos, CEO/President, OUR Fund Visit SFGN.com/SpeakOut to see more of this week’s responses. Send an Email to Jason.Parsley@sfgn.com if you know of a LGBT community leader that should be or wants to be a part of this list.

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Sandro Botticelli (Italian Renaissance painter 1445 -1510),The name Botticelli is always remembered in the context of his Birth of Venus and other lovely women, but he never married and he also kept apprentices in style. The story goes that he was utterly taken with one young lad and was so proud of his beauty that he painted him naked, sleeping, in a piece called Venus and Mars, where Venus is instead fully clothed. Tom Robinson (born 1 June 1950) is a British singer-songwriter, bassist and radio presenter, best known for the hits “Glad to Be Gay” and “Don’t Take No for an Answer.” At the age of 13, Robinson realized that he was gay. At that time, male homosexual activity was still a crime in England, punishable by prison. Wracked with shame and self-hatred, he had a nervous breakdown and attempted suicide at 16. In 1973, Robinson moved to London and joined the acoustic trio Café Society. In London, he

he Tom Robinson Band, with hits like “Glad to Be Gay,” was formed during a time when male homosexual activity was still a crime in England, punishable by prison.

became involved in the emerging gay scene and embraced the politics of gay liberation, which linked gay rights to the wider issues of social justice. Inspired by an early Sex Pistols gig, he founded the more political Tom Robinson Band in 1976. The following year the group released the single “2-4-6-8 Motorway” which peaked at No. 5 in the UK Singles Chart for two weeks. The song alludes obliquely to a gay truck driver. In February 1978, the band released the live” Rising Free” EP and reached No. 18 in the UK Singles Chart, it included his anthemic song “Glad to Be Gay” originally written for a 1976 London gay pride parade. The song was banned by the BBC. In 2014, he was one of the performers at the opening ceremonies of World Pride in Toronto, Canada, alongside Melissa Etheridge, Deborah Cox and Steve Grand.

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The pink triangle was one of the Nazi concentration camp badges, used to identify male prisoners who were sent there because of their homosexuality. The pink

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2014: Swedish Absolut Vodka’s creative marketing department came out this year with another winning design: A limited edition of its iconic bottle wrapped in the six colors of the rainbow flag. The caption in italics reads: “In an Absolut world everybody is encouraged to be who they are. That world is more colorful, diverse and

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respectful. Be proud of who you are and let your true colors shine. Absolut has been consumed by proud people Since 1879.” Absolut was central to a storyline on Sex and the City where Samantha transformed struggling young actor Smith into the “Absolut Hunk.” The Broadway Musical RENT mentions Absolut in the song “La Vie Boheme.” Absolut was also a major sponsor of RuPaul’s Drag Race reality TV show.

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Richard Wierzbicki Loses Battle with Cancer

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[Eds. Note: Last week, Richard Wierzbicki, the former Wilton Manors police chief and retired Broward Sheriff’s Office captain died after battling cancer for 2 and a half years. This profile of Captain Wierzbicki is from April of 2012 of SFGN.]

There’s more to this captain than a slew of awards So he was promoted five times in 12 years. So he’s been recognized over 80 times for his work on hate crimes and bullying in Broward County. But Captain Richard Wierzbicki has another, less superhero side, one that enjoys sports, history and Asian food. On April 3, Wierzbicki received the AntiDefamation League’s Doris and Murray Felton Excellence in Law Enforcement Award. The ceremony was one of many that the captain would have attended through his long career. The Wilton Manors police chief retired in 2005, but that wasn’t even close to the end of the road for him. He was born in Holyoke, Massachusetts in 1958, into a law enforcement family. Wierzbicki, who found high school to be boring, said that he knew he wanted to be one of two things when he grew older: a boxer or a police officer. “I just found law enforcement more interesting,” he said.

And so, six years after moving to Wilton Manors, Wierzbicki started off as a police aide for Pompano Beach in 1978. Not three years later, he would make police officer in Wilton Manors, where he would climb the ladder and spend the next 27 years of his career. Out of the following nine years he was patrolling, Wierzbicki clearly remembers the night he was out for a domestic disturbance call. He was training another officer, and didn’t expect to end up ducking from whizzing bullets. The memory stays with him to this day, and he’s glad to have made it, saying he was very fortunate. Manors was more laid back then, he said, and definitely not as vibrant. It was during his time there, he said, that the LGBT community started moving in and setting up its culture around the small city. “I knew we had to change the way the police department operated,” Wierzbicki said. “We had to diversify the department to represent the community in Wilton Manors.”

And so the captain got to work, changing the psych exam for incoming officers and taking a more focused stand on the officers’ ability to deal with diversity — a facet he said was not largely taught at the academies. The captain would later push hard on domestic violence, bullying, homeless abuse and hate crimes. His 2005 retirement was well earned. But duty called Wierzbicki back home, and he rejoined the police force in 2008, titled Commander in the Department of Law Enforcement for the county. That same year, Sheriff Al Lamberti put Wierzbicki in charge of the newly formed Hate Crimes/Anti Bias Task Force. The new organizations would win its own recognition from the LGBT community and be looked on as an expert authority for the issues on which it focused. Wierzbicki’s testimony was partially responsible for the state’s policy revision in 2010, adding ‘homeless’ as a category for hate crime. Later that year, Wierzbicki would testify in front of the senate about violence against the homeless.

But behind all of his heroic endeavors and community status, Wierzbicki has hobbies and pleasure just like anyone else. He likes to exercise, lift weights and he regularly runs at the local LA Fitness. His wife Mindy and he have made it a habit, and priority to check out new restaurants. His favorite cuisine is Asian, and hers German. As they decide where to go, sometimes the conversation becomes what Wierzbicki calls a tug-of-war. He follows baseball, specifically the Detroit Tigers. And since he’s got a friend who plays for the Philadelphia Phillies, he likes them, too. But the Tigers always come first. If you ask Wierzbicki which character in the series most resembles him, he would say Luca Brasi, who was known for being able to fight hard fights and get the job done. “I love to take on challenging and difficult assignments,” Wierzbicki said. “Especially if I get to help a person who really needs it, or an organization.”

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What’s inside? Good question – and once you learned that you could determine the answer by taking things apart, well, nothing was safe. The hidden parts, an object’s guts, were always more complicated and more interesting than what was on the outside. Isn’t life like that: what you don’t see is sometimes better than what you do? Unraveling her story for examination in “A Cup of Water Under My Bed,” author Daisy Hernández, lets us find out. Until she was in kindergarten, Daisy Hernández’s entire world sat in Union City, New Jersey. Her parents, her Cuban father and Colombian mother, spoke only Spanish at home – although Hernández learned a smattering of English here and there; more, once she was sent to Catholic school. English always held a certain fascination for her but Hernández’s three tías insisted she keep up with her Spanish, which she resented. There were words that didn’t translate easily from English to her parents’ language, so there were things she couldn’t share with her elders. To “make that leap… to leave for another language hurts.” Perhaps not surprisingly, when she told her father that she wanted to be a writer, he told her she’d “gone crazy.” Still, Hernández pursued her dream, maybe because storytelling was in her blood: her Mami loved sharing tales of her own immigration from Colombia, how she’d heard that money grew on trees but, instead of finding cash on the ground like leaves, she’d had to find a factory job. Such stories of strength in her mostlyfemale household gave Hernández a map of life and relationships. She learned about men and whom to marry, disappointing her Mami and tías with her first Colombian boyfriend. American boys, they told her, were better because “Anything made in America works” but, at seventeen, Hernández was sure she was in love. That Colombian boy taught her a lot about sex. So did a feminist body-awareness class she took early in her college career, which was where she suddenly understood a long-

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Daisy Hernández, author of “A Cup of Water Under My Bed” held feeling that, once articulated, would hurt her mother and cause a rift with her favorite auntie. “I love kissing boys,” Hernández says, “but a girl. I could kiss a girl.” My first impression of “A Cup of Water Under My Bed” led to heavy sighing. It starts with a dismaying tale of invisibility and poverty, which made me think I had another pity-party memoir in my hands. Ach, I was wrong. With wit and respectful grace, author Daisy Hernández shares stories of love for family, of strong (despite herself) roots, and of assimilation and claiming who you are without losing who you were. These tales are sprinkled, essay style, with powerful anecdotes of self-discovery that I couldn’t get enough of. I also enjoyed the unwavering tone that Hernández takes, speaking her truth, firmly, no arguments. That no-nonsense attitude mixes nicely with quiet humor and familial devotion to make this a don’t-miss for memoir fans. And if that’s you, then have “A Cup of Water Under My Bed.” You’ll like what’s inside.

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The number 13 may be considered unlucky to many, but for Nancy Goldwin and Carol Moran. The two are partners in business and in life and 13 has consistently been a lucky number for them. “We met on a Friday the 13. We signed the lease for this place on 1.13.13. And we got married after knowing each other for 13 years,” Goldwin said. For the last year, they’ve worked together to create a casual dining experience at 13 Even on Wilton Drive that’s highlighted by craft beer and affordable wine. The restaurant has a very welcoming vibe. That’s by design. “We change people’s minds when they come in. We believe in good service. When people come here, we want them to laugh, eat good food and have a great time,” said Goldwin. In between laughs, patrons get an education about what’s served behind the bar. Unlike Moran’s former New Moon bar, 13 Even only serves craft beer and wine. “This is a different audience. This is not just a bar. We only carry beer and wine. All we serve is craft. (Including selections from Funky Buddha from the local Oakland Park brewery.) It’s an education and it’s beneficial,” Goldwin tells SFGN. The growing business at 13 Even

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coincides with the growing audience for craft beer. “Beer is becoming what wine is in terms of popularity,” said Goldwin. If you’re unfamiliar with craft beers (or wine for that matter) 13 Even is the place to learn. Goldwin says patrons can taste and wine or beer to get a feel for what they enjoy. “We’ve turned people on to a lot of new beers,” she said. The establishment also features monthly wine tastings. They happen on the second Tuesday of every month. “We usually have four wines to taste. They are paired with food that’s not on the menu,” said Goldwin. Tickets are sold in advance; they are usually in the $45 range. When it comes to food, 13 Even is not the place to go if you’re looking for a greasy burger or a plate of fries. Lighter fare is on the menu ranging from a variety of flatbreads to baked goat cheese and sautéed skirt steak. Happy Hour is Monday thru Friday from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. Flatbreads, empanadas and select wines are only $5. A few beers are $2.50. 13 Even is located at 2037 Wilton Drive Wilton Manors, FL 33305. You can find out more at 13-even. com.

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It’s been weeks since Halloween, but zombies are on the loose in Fort Lauderdale! “Evil Dead - The Musical,” based on the cult film franchise, comes to the Parker Playhouse, tonight through Saturday. In addition to some dismembered limbs, demons telling bad jokes, and catchy tunes (“Look Who’s Evil Now” and “All the Men in My Life Keep Getting Killed by Candarian Demons”), there’s also a designated “splatter zone.” Thursday and Friday at 8 p.m. and Saturday at 7 and 10 p.m. Tickets start at $36.50 at ParkerPlayhouse.org.

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Tonight is Museum Friday. On the third Friday of each month, explore two of Wilton Manors’ world-class museums, the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Wilton Manors Gallery, 2157 Wilton Dr., and the World AIDS Museum, 1201 NE 26th St. in Wilton Station. Check out the permanent and traveling exhibits or meet up with friends for a night of LGBT history and culture. Both museums offer free admission and free Hopper shuttle bus service will run from 7 – 11 p.m. For more information, go to Stonewall-Museum.org and WorldAIDSMuseum.org.

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You gotta love this guy! Terry Fator, the first winner of “America’s Got Talent” will be appearing tonight at 8 p.m. with all his “friends” at the Hard Rock Live in the Seminole Paradise at Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino in Hollywood. The skilled ventriloquist captured the nation’s hearts and has since been a huge hit in Las Vegas and venues across the country. Afterwards, try your luck at the slots or check out the many world class restaurants at the Seminole Paradise. Tickets start at $39 at HardRockLiveHollywoodFL. com.

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It was fate: A born-and-bred Big Apple actor meets a Paris-born writer at a jazz jam in Manhattan. Soon, The Hot Sardines are taking their contagious joy to audiences. Bandleader Evan “Bibs” Palazzo and lead singer “Miz Elizabeth” Bougerol combine with an ensemble of musicians and a tap dancer to play “hot jazz” with glamour, grit and passion – as it was during the 1920s, ’30s and ’40s. See them live tonight at 7:30 p.m. at the Kravis Center in West Palm Beach. Tickets start at $30 at Kravis.org.

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Years before Mae, Marilyn and Madonna, Sophie Tucker was the first superstar, “the last of the Red Hot Mamas,” who ruled the worlds of vaudeville, radio, Broadway, Hollywood and television. “The Outrageous Sophie Tucker,” a new documentary about the bawdy and brassy legend, is making its world premiere in South Florida before going into wider release in New York and Los Angeles. Check local listings for show times Check local listings for show times at theaters in Miami-Dade, Broward and Palm Beach counties. For more information, go to MenemshaFilms.com.

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November is Transgender Awareness Month and the Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors, is wrapping its observances with a Trans and Alternative Lifestyles Panel Discussion tonight at 7 p.m. in the Main Hall of the Schubert Building on the center’s campus. Members of the local transgender community will discuss the many issues facing trans youth and adults. This important discussion is part of The Community Collaborative Transgender Educational Series and is open to the public. For more information, go to PrideCenterFlorida.org.

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Usually this time of year we get concerned about balance among the holidays. No, I’m not talking about Christmas vs. Hanukkah. Our complaint at this point in the calendar is rather that Madison Avenue is trying to hype up the December holidays before we’ve even had a chance to celebrate properly the National Gay Holiday -- uh, Hallowe’en, of course... duh!! To say nothing about National Coming Out Day (Oct. 11). That doesn’t even touch on many of the other holidays we celebrate throughout the year, most of which get hardly any hoopla at all. Moreover, some among us have barely gotten over the High Holy Days when they’re being asked to dust off their dreidels and get out their Hanukkiahs (the actual name of the Hanukkah Menorah). Others among us haven’t even yet had a chance to celebrate All the Saints (on All Saints and its eve, Hallowe’en), and yet are expected to start unraveling the lights that make Florida Power and Light watch its output meters and its transformers with trepidation, and its profit margins with glee. Add to that the fact that between Thanksgiving and the end of the year you have a nearly non-stop orgy of holiday celebrations and it’s enough to make you cry out, “Stop the treadmill! I want to get off!” Fortunately the original Fort Lauderdale Gay Men’s Chorus is coming to your rescue with a show that helps you ease into the holidays with its new show, Hooray for

the Holidays!. First, the performance takes place before the holiday crush gets underway and you still have energy to enjoy it. Secondly, it first takes a look at some of the other holidays that pop up throughout the year that deserve a bit more attention, and then moves on to the December holidays in proper fashion. The first act looks at some of these other holidays with a variety of numbers, some of them comical and some of them poignant and sublime. All of them are entertaining and edifying, done by a chorus known not only for its sound but also for its showmanship. Then in the second act, having gotten us into a celebratory mood by letting us revisit some of those holidays that perhaps whizzed by too fast, the Chorus takes us through numbers that remind us why the holidays of this season touch our hearts as they do. Since his return, the founder and director of this first gay men’s chorus in Florida, Dr. Gary Keating, has taken this talented group of men and produced a sound that has been rightly described by professional musicians as being mind-blowing. Along with that, you will be treated to numbers that highlight some of the superbly gifted individuals in this extraordinary group. But beware! This musical and entertainment extravaganza will take place only one night, Saturday, November 22, at 8 p.m., at the Museum of Art, Fort Lauderdale, corner of Andrews and Las Olas.

Tickets are $25 General Admission and $40 V.I.P. and can be obtained by visiting www.theftlgmc.org. For risk-takers who

like to live on the edge, some seats may still be available at the door. Plenty of parking across the street from the Museum.

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artin Nusspaumer and Kelly Kaduce star in Florida Grand Opera’s production of “Madama Butterfly.”

Is opera in America on its last breath? For decades, the proverbial canary in the coalmine has been singing warnings of aging audiences and certainly the Great Recession of 2008 dealt a serious blow to companies that relied on gifts from wealthy benefactors and their investments. The music world was shocked when the venerable New York City Opera, Mayor Fiorello LaGuardia’s “People’s Opera,” unexpectedly closed last year. Even through the darkest days of the recession, Florida Grand Opera (FGO) seemed immune to the troubles, mounting opulent productions season after season. Last week, South Florida audiences learned in an unprecedented series of town hall meetings that FGO was also in trouble, amassed a huge debt, sold many of its assets and laid off dozens of staff. Indeed, when General Director Susan Danis took the stage before the second act of “Madama Butterfly” to plead her company’s case before the opening night audience on Saturday, she was already singing to the choir—a choir of tuxedoclad, jewel-bedecked patrons who had already generously supported the cause and would need to find another $17.5 million dollars to keep opera in Miami. Fortunately, Danis chose Giacomo Puccini’s beloved classic to open the season. The 1904 opera is a staple of the repertoire (performed by FGO 12 times before), filled with some of the Italian composer’s most familiar melodies and guaranteed to draw audiences of all ages. And the packed Arsht Center theater proved her right, cheering the signature arias throughout the evening and offering thunderous applause after the final curtain. Originally a flop in Italy, “Butterfly” went through several adaptations, including versions premiered at the Metropolitan Opera in 1906 before Puccini made his final revisions in 1907. Set in Nagasaki in 1904, the opera opens as a U.S. Naval Officer named Pinkerton (tenor Martin Nusspaumer) rents a house on a hill for him

and his teenaged, soon-to-be wife, Cio-Cio San (soprano Kelly Kaduce), Japanese for “Butterfly.” All along, Pinkerton knows this is a marriage of convenience, a simple dalliance until he returns to America to marry a proper wife, but the girl sadly devotes herself to her new husband. Years pass after Pinkerton’s return to America. Cio-Cio San is alternately consoled by her skeptical handmaiden, Suzuki (mezzo Caitlin McKechney), and urged to abandon her devotion by the U.S. Consul Sharpless (baritone Todd Thomas). When Pinkerton does return, he learns that Cio-Cio San has bore his son (Sebastian Powell) and plans to take the boy home with his new wife, (Hailey Clark). Needless to say, the story does not end well for the heartbroken Butterfly. Under the direction of conductor Ramon Tebar, the performances are brilliant and brisk. Kaduce approaches Butterfly’s signature aria, “Un bel di” with power and confidence. The handsome Nusspaumer soars in “Duvunque al mondo” while lending the likeable cad eventual hope of redemption. McKechney offers an anguished interpretation of “E Izaghi ed Izanami,” even though her rich mezzo is occasionally overpowered throughout the opera by the orchestra and her fellow singers. In contrast with his contemporaries and keeping with tradition, Puccini’s lush, romantic opera about an American in Japan is sung in Italian, and punctuated by musical statements from the “Star Spangled Banner.” It’s somewhat jarring to the sensibilities of a modern American audience, but underscores the innate musicality of his native tongue. The production is set in a detailed, full-scale Japanese house designed by David P. Gordon and borrowed from Sarasota Opera (Danis’ former company), accented with beautiful costumes by Allen Charles Klein. Flowering cherry blossoms signal the change in seasons and a tattered and faded American flag marks the length of Butterfly’s devotion.

Florida Grand Opera repeats performances of Giacomo Puccini’s “Madama Butterfly” at the Arsht Center on Friday, Nov. 21 and Saturday, Nov. 22 and at the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale on Thursday, Dec. 4 and Saturday, Dec. 6. For tickets, go to FGO.org. soflagaynews //

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Years ago on a bitterly cold and snowy night in Denver, my husband and I trudged across much of downtown in a driving blizzard to see a musical production about the life and times of Patsy Cline. The set was period fifties, the costumes and music followed right along. “How I Stepped Out as a Transvestite from BLUNDERLAND,” a play by Rufus Cadigan has much the same look and feel. Cadigan’s play chronicles the life of Bill Carlson from his journey to find himself as a drag entertainer to a deacon of the Episcopal Church. The show opens on a cozily lit stage furnished with a simple vanity adorned with wigs and junk food remnants. Blunderland is the place we each live until defining ourselves and no longer allowing others to do it for us. Blunderland is the place we realize the Church prays for all the oppressed except gays. Once each figures out, in Bill Carlson’s words, “you are what you are and that needs no excuses”, Blunderland is relegated to the annals of life. As a little boy, Carlson dreamed of dressing up as a girl. He became an entertainer at The Office, a gay bar in Rockford, Illinois where his alter ego drag star Seaway Rose strutted her stuff in sequined gowns. Beginning in the 1950’s, running all the way to the 2000’s, Blunderland takes its audience on an intimate and whimsical journey through the sexual, physical and emotional stages of Carlson’s existence; eventually revealing how a man so dissimilar to his world was able to find his own drumbeat to march to. Told in a narrative, the play navigates through bad boyfriends, public discrimination, the closeted military, and a drag career culminating in a man who still has the ability to smile. The show baits the audience throughout, asking them to join in

The Fort Lauderdale Gay Men’s Chorus opens their 28th season with “Hooray for the Holidays!”, a concert designed to ease you into the end of the year holidays by musically celebrating great holidays from throughout the year!

Saturday, November 22, 2014, 8pm at the Museum of Art | Fort Lauderdale, One East Las Olas Blvd., Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33301. Tickets start at $25.00. For more informationvisit www.theftlgmc.org or call 954-832-0060.

Funding for this project is provided in part by the Broward County Board of County Commissioners as recommended by the Broward Cultural Council.

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the festivities of Bill’s life, but mostly to enjoy what they have left of theirs. The storyline is the life of one man, yet the story transcends that man to become a history of the LGBTQ struggle for rights and recognition. Never has such a summary of our common struggle been exhibited so clearly. Cadigan, the playwright, said of his friend Carlson, “I think his life was a remarkable journey of a man who faced enormous difficulties and despite the hardship of much of his life, lived with great dignity, warmth and kindness to others, and a wonderful sense of humor.” In the spring of 2008 a reading of the play was finally performed. Mr. Carlson played himself and through the monologue told his story to an invited audience of friends and community supporters. His LGBT friends cried and laughed together watching Bill being Bill, a show more difficult than necessary as none of his invited siblings, family or relatives bothered to attend. “The play was written for our company,” explains Skylar Branstool, the show’s director. BLUNDERLAND stars Mark Phillip Schwamberger, an Evolution actor and Managing Artistic Director, as Carlson. “Mark is truly amazing and someone who really pushes himself. I don’t think anyone can say otherwise after seeing what he does in this show,” beams Branstool. “I don’t want people to simply see that he was a drag queen. I want them to understand what a struggle it was for him to find that path towards self-acceptance and to actually follow it. Lack of understanding and acceptance is still something the gay community faces and his fight proves that we still have so much more to do,” says Branstool, “I know that Carlson’s generation has taught me a great deal.”

Finally, Blunderland had its world premiere in June, 2013 during the annual Columbus (Ohio) Pride Celebration. Now Schwamberger is bringing Blunderland to South Florida with performances at Andrews Living Arts Studio, 23 NW 5th Street between November 19 and 22.

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a&e film Documentary Chronicles Life, Career of Original Red Hot Mama J.W. Arnold

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Photo: Singer Sophie Tucker and her longtime accompanist, Ted Shapiro. Years before Mae West and Marilyn Monroe became popular, Sophie Tucker was the original blonde bombshell. Tucker was there when the phonograph was invented, as well as movies, radio and television, and she was a star on each. “The Outrageous Sophie Tucker,” a new documentary from William Gazecki, offers an intimate look at the original “red hot mama” who blazed trails for generations of performers to follow, from Bette Midler and Madonna to Lady Gaga. The daughter of Ukrainian Jewish refugees, Tucker was born on the boat to America. The family settled in Hartfort, Connecticut and opened a kosher restaurant. Long hours toiling over hot stoves and serving customers didn’t appeal to the charismatic young girl, who entered local talent contests and later would move to New York to join Ziegield’s Follies. She then became “acquainted” with William Morris, claiming to be the famous talent agent’s first client. Tucker was not physically stunning by contemporary standards, she always struggled with her weight. But, it was her singing, which incorporated the syncopated rhythms of black jazz and throaty vocals, that set her apart from her contemporaries. She wasn’t afraid to sing about sex and was proud to empower other women to broach then-inappropriate topics. Tucker was not successful in marriage, although she did have a son, who she left behind for the vaudeville circuit. The film carefully tiptoes around questions around the singer’s sexuality, though, as Tucker almost always had an affectionate female companion, from traveling maid Molly Elkins to Lady Edwina Mountbatten, the Princess Diana of their generation. During the Prohibition era, Tucker became

a big draw at speakeasies and even became close friends with Al Capone, staying up hours into the morning playing cards with the gangster after her performances. Tucker maintained a busy schedule of performances until just months before she succumbed to cancer in 1966. She famously insisted on rising from her wheelchair for a final bow at a birthday party just weeks before her death, punctuating the moxie of her long career. In addition to a wealth of archival film performances and television interviews, the film is punctuated with insightful commentary from biographers Lloyd and Susan Ecker, singers Tony Bennett and Michael Feinstein, comedian Bruce Vilanch and Barbara Walters, whose father owned a Miami gambling club where Tucker performed. But the real treasure trove for Gazecki was Tucker’s scrapbooks. Over her nearly seven decade performing career, she thoroughly — practically obsessively —catalogued her photographs, letters, press clippings and mementos in a series of scrapbooks, eventually amassing 400 volumes stored at the New York City Library and Brandeis University. The scrapbooks became a visual theme for the film’s transitions and inspired several effective motion graphics created by Greg Digenti from Tucker’s photographs. The singer’s life further comes to life thanks to artful digital colorization by Diego Lopez. A 1962 survey asked Americans what they thought when they heard the name, “Sophie.” An astounding 95 percent replied, “Tucker.” The performer has been gone for a half century, but her legacy still resounds in the performances of today’s stars. “The Outrageous Sophie Tucker” is an important film that should not be missed.

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Voices of the Island: A Caribbean Mike Birbiglia Russian State Symphony Orchestra Nov. 20 at the Adrienne Arsht Center, 1300 Fantasy Nov. 19 at the Kravis Center, 701 Okeechobee Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Birbiglia has no shame Through Nov. 22 at the Miami Theater in Miami Blvd. in West Palm Beach. The musicians performs compositions by music’s greatest composers, including Tchaikovsky, and Rachmaninoff. Call 7469 or visit Kravis.org.

Russian in sharing his embarrassing stories, from being classical arrested in New Jersey to fending off zombie rats. Mozart, Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org. 561-832-

Nov. 22 at 8 p.m. at the Museum of Art Fort Lauderdale, One E. Las Olas Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. A performance by the Fort LAuderdale Gay Men’s Chorus singing holiday tunes from throughout the year. Tickets $25 to $40. Call 954-832-0060 or visit TheFortLauderdaleGayMensChorus.org.

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Nov. 23 at 5 p.m. at the Aventura Arts & Cultural Center, 3385 NE 188th St. in Aventura. A part of the Miami International Piano Festival, the French pianist returns to perform pieces by Bach, Janacek, Schumann, and Brahms. Tickets $30. Call 305-4668002 or visit AventuraCenter.org.

Detroit

Through Nov. 23 at the Adrienne Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. A couple gets to know the new neighbors next door, soon to find out it will threaten their lives they way they know it. Tickets $45. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

* San Francisco Symphony

* Milton Nascimento

* Diego El Cigala

PAMM Outdoor Music Series

Madama Butterfly

The Big Show

Nov. 22 at the Adrienne Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Michael Tilson Thomas returns to his role as music director in this performance of Liszt, Prokofiev, Samuel Carl Adams, and Ravel. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org. Nov. 22 at 8 p.m. at the Fillmore Miami Beach, 1700 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach. “El Cigala” is known for his Spanish-Dominican Romani flamenco singing. Tickets $51 to $95. Call 305-6737300 or visit FillmoreMB.com. Through Nov. 22 at the Arsht Center, 1300 Biscyane Blvd. in Miami. The Florida Grand Opera performs the classic tale of an American sailor who marries a young geisha. Tickets $25 to $229. Call 305-9496722 or visit ArshtCenter.org.

Nov. 26 at the Adrienne Arsht Center, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. The Brazilian musician is known for bringing together Africanized jazz with Latin American folk music. Call 305-949-6722 or visit ArshtCenter.org. Third Thursdays at the Perez Art Museum Miami, 101 W. Flagler St. in Miami. Come out for live music from DJs and musicians by the bay. Drink specials available. Free with museum admission. Call 305375-3000 or visit PAMM.org. Fridays and Saturdays at 9 p.m. at Just the Funny Theater, 3119 Coral Way in Miami. A collection of comedy mixing the likes of improvisation and sketches. Tickets $12. Call 305-693-8669 or visit JustTheFunny.com.

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Free Friday Concerts

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Nov. 21 to Dec. 14 at the New Theatre at the South Miami-Dade Cultural Arts Center, 10-950 SW 211 St. in Cutler Bay. A rabbi and a gospel singer have an unlikely relationship, and with each one experiencing a life changing moment, they need each other more than ever. Tickets $26. Call 896573-5300 or visit New-Theatre.org.

* David Cadouch

Nov. 26 at 8 p.m. at the Kravis Center, 701 Okeechobee Blvd. in West Palm Beach. The top 10 finalists of the TV show stop in Miami on their national tour. Tickets $30 and up. Call 561-8327469 or visit Kravis.org. Through Dec. 14 at the Delray Square Performing Arts, 4809 W. Atlantic Ave. in Delray Beach. Edith Piaf, who was allegedly raised in a brothel by her grandmother while her parents worked as performers, lived in a life in the spotlight. Tickets $37.50. Call 561-8880-0319 or visit DelraySquareArts.com.

* The Gospel According to Jerry

Shores. Caribbean shamanism and magic is the focus of this performing arts feature, including audience participation. Tickets $20. Call 305-7519550 or visit MTCMiami.org.

* So You Think You Can Dance?

Through Nov. 23 at Island City Stage, 1140 N. Flagler Drive in Fort Lauderdale. A young man with tuberculosis discovers that he could be covered by insurance if is HIV+, so he sets out to date an HIV+ man. Tickets $30. Call 054-678-1496 or visit IslandCityStage.org. Through Nov. 23 at the Broward Center, 201 SW Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. Head to Springfield High School’s 1958 prom where four girls, the “wonderettes” sing hits from the ‘50s and ‘60s as they dream of their future. Tickets $45. Call 954462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org.

* La Ley

Nov. 21 at 8 p.m. at the Fillmore Miami Beach, 1700 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach. The Chilean 8 p.m. at the Kravis Center, 701 rock band has won both a Grammy and Latin Blvd. in West Palm Beach. The Grammy Award. Tickets $53.50 to $128.50. Call Traffic performs the band’s hits. 305-673-7300 or visit FillmoreMB.com. and up. Call 561-832-7469 or visit

* Dave Mason’s Traffic Jam

Nov. 19 at Okeechobee member of The Phantom of the Opera Tickets $20 Nov. 19 to 30 at the Broward Center, 201 SW Fifth Kravis.org. Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. The beloved Broadway musical of an opera house’s phantom and his * The Odd Couple obsession with up-and-coming singer Christine. Nov. 20 to Dec. 7 at the Lake Worth Playhouse, 713 Tickets $34.75 to $124.75. Call 954-462-0222 or Lake Ave. in Lake Worth. Two divorced men, the visit BrowardCenter.org messy Oscar Madison and neat freak Felix Unger, come at odds with one another when they decide Evil Dead -- The Musical to become roommates. Tickets $29 to $72. Call Nov. 20 to 23 at the Parker Playhouse, 707 NE 561-586-6410 or visit LakeWorthPlayhouse.org. Eighth St. in Fort Lauderdale. Over the top gore in this hilarious musical of five college students * Atlantic City Boys on their way to an abandoned cabin in the woods. Nov. 21 to 23 at the Delray Center for the Performing Tickets $36.50 to $73.50. Call 954-462-0222 or visit Arts, 51 Swinton Ave. in Delray Beach. The quartet ParkerPlayhouse.com. perform hits from ‘60s groups like The Beach Boys, The Drifters, and of course Frankie Valli and the * Dave Mason’s Traffic Jam Four Seasons. Tickets $45. Call 561-243-7922 or Nov. 21 at 8 p.m. at the Broward Center, 201 SW visit DelrayCenterfortheArts.org. Fifth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. The member of Traffic performs the band’s hits. Tickets $39.50 to * Romeo and Juliet $69.50. Call 954-462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter. Nov. 21 to 23 at the Kravis Center, 701 Okeechobee org Blvd. in West Palm Beach. The tragic story of starcrossed lovers is performed by the Miami City * Marvel Universe Live! Ballet to Prokofiev’s score. Tickets $20 and up. Call Nov. 21 to 23 at the BB&T Center, One Panther 561-832-7469 or visit Kravis.org. Parkway in Sunrise. The superheroes of Marvel have enjoyed a resurgence on the screen, and now * Lady Fancy they’re here for a live show with special effects, Nov. 23 at 7 p.m. at the Lake Worth Playhouse, pyrotechnics, aerial stunts, and other impressive 713 Lake Ave. in Lake Worth. The Fort Lauderdale feats. Tickets $27.80 to $173.95. Call 954-835-7000 performer heads to Palm Beach with her ]Gospel or visit TheBBTCenter.com. Jubilee and the Jubilettes for a night of fun and feel good music. Tickets $25, benefitting MCC of the * Winter Wonderettes Palm Beaches. Visit LakeWorthPlayhouse.org. Nov. 21 to Dec. 28 at the Coral Springs Center for the Performing Arts, 2855 Coral Springs Drive * The Hot Sardines in Coral Springs. When Santa comes up missing Nov. 23 at 7:30 p.m. at the Kravis Center, 701 at a holiday party, the Wonderettes must find Okeechobee Blvd. in West Palm Beach. The him while singing holiday favorites with ‘60s French and American band will reinvigorate the flair. Tickets $59. Call 954-344-5999 or visit audience’s love for the music of ‘20, ‘30s and ‘40s. CoralSpringsCenterfortheArts.com. Tickets $30. Call 561-832-7469 or visit Kravis.org.

* Hooray for the Holidays!

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Fridays at 7:30 p.m. at the Delray Beach Center for the Arts, 51 N. Swinton Ave. in Delray Beach. Enjoy live music from the comfort of your picnic blanket or lawn chair every week, for free! Call 561-2437922 or visit DelrayArts.org.

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broward county * Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20 from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. A night to honor transgender people who have lost their lives because of discrimination, as well as a call to action for the community. Free. Call 954-463-9005 or visit PrideCenterFlorida.org. * “Sex Happens” Reading and Book Signing Nov. 21 at 7 p.m. at the Stonewall National MuseumWilton Manors Gallery, 2157 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Dr. Arlen Leight talks about his book “Sex Happens: The Gay Man’s Guide to Creative Intimacy.” Free. Call 954-763-8565 or visit Stonewall-Museum.org. * Fashion Design Intensive Nov. 22 and 23 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Museum of Art Fort Lauderdale, One E. Las Olas Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. Kathleen Colussy leads two, oneday courses in fashion design. Cost $100 and $35 materials fee for each class. Visit MOAFL.org. * Markham Park Target Range Anniversary Celebration Nov. 22 at 10 a.m. at Markham Park, 16001 Florida 84 in Sunrise. Celebrate the 30th anniversary of the target range at the park with archery and firearm demonstrations, food trucks, a tour of the new facility, and BSO’s mobile command. Free. Call 954357-8868. * “Soldier of Change” Reading and Book Signing Nov. 22 at 5 p.m. at the Stonewall National Museum- Wilton Manors Gallery, 2157 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Captain Stephen SnyderHill came out after the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell while serving in Iraq and has become an LGBT activist. Free. Call 954-763-8565 or visit StonewallMuseum.org. Camelot Days Medieval Festival Nov. 22 to 23 at TY Park, 3300 N. Park Road in Hollywood. Be transported back to the days of castles, knights, and gypsies with an artists’ market, living chess game, music, and more. Tickets $15. Call 954-357-8811 or visit CamelotDays.com. * Fantasy of Lights Nov. 21 to Jan. 3, 2015 from 6 to 10 p.m. at Tradewinds Park, 3600 W. Sample Road in Coconut Creek. The park comes alight with Christmas- and holiday-themed displays for the community to drive through and enjoy. Tickets $14 per car. Call 954-3579970 or visit HolidayLightsDriveThru.com. * Trans and Alternative Lifestyles Panel Discussion Nov. 25 from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. Members of the community discussion issues surrounding transgender people. Free. Call 954-463-9005 or visit PrideCenterFlorida.org.

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* World AIDS Day Vigil Nov. 30 at 7 p.m. at Hagen Park, 2020 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Join the community for a candlelight vigil, walking from Hagen Park to the Pride Center for a rally. Free. Call Mary Schuch at 954-522-4749, ext. 1202 or visit WorldAIDSDayBroward.com. Living Healthy Tuesdays through Dec. 23 at the Pride Center, 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. Join the sixweek workshop for those with health concerns or caregivers. Learn about handling emotionally difficult situations, exercise, healthy food choices, and more. Free. Register with Bruce Williams at 954-463-9005, ext. 109 or email bwilliams@ pridecenterflorida.org. Gender Bender Youth Group Mondays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at SunServe Campus, 1480 SW Ninth Ave. in Fort Lauderdale. A group for LGBT youth 13 to 21 to discuss gender, gender expression, binary systems, friendship, family and whatever else comes up! Free. Visit SunServeYouth. com PFLAG Tuesdays in Fort Lauderdale, Coral Springs and Southwest Ranches. A support group for parents of LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth. com for dates and locations. GayWrites Wednesdays at 5:30 p.m. at the Stonewall Library, 1300 E. Sunrise Blvd. in Fort Lauderdale. Come join us and write your memoir, poem, blog, novel or short story. Free. Email garri1@earthlink.net SunServe Youth Group Tuesdays and Thursdays in Fort Lauderdale, Southwest Ranches, Coral Springs and Hollywood. A support group and night of fun for LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and times. Survivor Support First and third Wednesdays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Broward Health Imperial Point Hospital cafeteria, 6401 N. Federal Highway in Fort Lauderdale. Find support from counselors and peers who have lost loved ones to suicide. Call the Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention at 954-384-0344 or visit FISPOnline.org.

palm beach county National Transgender Day of Remembrance Open Mic Nov. 20 at 6 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Lead by Lady Dane Edidi, an activist, author and performer. Donation $5. To sign up, call 561-533-9699 or email events@ compassglcc.com. * Coming Into Fashion: A Century of Photography at Conde Nast Nov. 20 to Feb. 15, 2015 at the Norton Museum of Art, 1451 S. Olive Ave. in West Palm Beach. From the publishing house that prints famed magazines Vogue, Glamour, W, and Vanity Fair are 150 images from 80 of the world’s best fashion photographers. Admission $12. Call 561-832-5196 or visit Norton. org. * RCB Fine Art Gallery Opening Nov. 21 at 7 p.m. at Rolando Chang Barrero Fine soflagaynews //

Art, 711 Lucerne Ave. in Lake Worth. Celebrate the opening of the gallery with a ribbon cutting on the pink carpet, sips and bites, and of course, art. Free. Call 786-521-1199 or email RCBfineart@gmail.com. Mi Pajaro Through Dec. 12 at FAU’s MacArthur Library Galley, 5353 Parkside Drive in  Jupiter. View the works of Rolando Chang Barrero, a sneak peek into his installation at Art Basel in December. Free. Contact at Diane Arrieta 561-339-9426 or email diane. arrieta@gmail.com. Exit 26 Through Dec. 12 at FAU’s Ritter Art Gallery, 777 Glades Road in Boca Raton campus. A thesis exhibition by 26 emerging student artists and designers spanning the range of media. Free. Call 561- 297-2966 or visit FAU.edu/galleries. Afterlife: Tombs and Treasures of Ancient Egypt Through April 18, 2015 at South Florida Science Museum, 4801 Dreher Trail North in West Palm Beach. Explore the world of the afterlife with a screening of “The Mummy,” activities, a mummy wrapping contest, and more. Tickets $20. Call 561832-1988 or visit SFScienceCenter.org. Sober Sisters Mondays at 6:15 p.m. at Lambda North, 18 S. J St. in Lake Worth. A support and discussion group for female recovering alcoholics. Visit LambdaNorth. net.

miami-dade county Festival of the Trees Nov. 20 from 6:30 to 9:30 p.m. at the Coral Gables Country Club, 997 N. Greenway Drive in Coral Gables. Thirty “trees” will be on display, designed by top area designers and artists. Tickets $72, benefitting the FIU College of Architecture’s interior architecture department. Visit festivalofthetrees.net. * The Cabaret One-Year Anniversary Party Nov. 20 at 8 p.m. at The Cabaret South Beach, 233 12th St. in Miami Beach. Reminiscent of an underground cabaret in New York City, come out to celebrate with live music. Free. Visit TheCabaretSouthBeach.com. * Richard Dawkins and Davis Ives Nov. 23 at 6 p.m. at the Biltmore Hotel’s GableStage, 1200 Anastasia Ave. in Coral Gables. Scientist Richard Dawkins is known for his books on evolution and the absence of a god in our world; he is joined by playwright, David Ives. Tickets $125 to $150, benefitting the production of “New Jerusale.” Call 305-445-1119 or visit GableStage.org. * Rainbow Shopping Day Nov. 29 at noon at the LGBT Visitor Center, 1130 Washington Ave. in Miami Beach. In the spirit of Small Business Saturday, LGBT and ally businesses are the focus of this shopping day. Start at the visitor center for music, drinks, and vendors, then hit the streets for holiday purchases. Plus, free gift wrapping. Call 305-6734440, gaybizmiami.com, or email info@gaybizmiami. com.

Out of the Closet, Into the Light Mondays from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. at MCC of the Palm Beaches, 4857 Northlake Blvd. in Palm Beach Gardens. AA for the LGBT community. Free. Call 561-775-5900 or visit MCCPalmBeach.org.

Rainbow Circle Mondays from 6 to 8 p.m. at the University of Miami Flipse Building #302, 5665 Ponce de Leon Drive in Coral Gables. An open discussion about coming out, relationships, peer pressure, bullying, depression and more. Free. Visit Pridelines.org.

Positive Connection Tuesdays at 6:30 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth. Men who are HIV positive are invited to come together for support, education, and advocacy. Closed group. Call 561324-1626 or visit CompassGLCC.com.

HIV Support Group Wednesdays from 7 to 9 p.m. at South Beach AIDS Project, 1234 Washington Ave. Ste. 200 in Miami Beach. A support group for those who are HIV positive. Free. Call 305-535-4733, ext. 301 or email support@sobeaids. org.

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