Shell Point Life December 2011 by Shell Point Retirement Community

December 2011 Vol. 6 Issue 12

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DECKING THE HALLS BRINGS BACK MEMORIES OF MEANINGFUL CELEBRATIONS

HOLIDAY TRADITIONS By Rochelle Cherniawski, Editor While I was growing up, I didn’t really take the time to reflect on my family’s Christmas traditions. I just thought that what my family did was what every other family did. All moms proudly put up trees filled with home-made ornaments. All dads struggled in the front yard with tangled balls of lights as snow engulfed the house. All kids sent a lengthy wish list to Santa with a message of reassurance regarding how good they had been throughout the year. And, of course, everyone went over to Grandma and Grandpa’s house on Christmas Day to do a gift exchange and overindulge on a holiday feast. However, as our traditions began to change over the years, I took notice. Mom added a second Christmas tree to display her more elegant sense of style. Dad developed an organized system for storing the lights and tried to get them up before the first snowfall. My brother and I stopped sending letters to Santa and started playing the role of Santa ourselves. And while we still went to Grandma and Grandpa’s on Christmas Day, the crowd that gathered continued to change each year with marriages, babies, moves, and conflicting plans.

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When I got married, my husband and I merged our traditions. And now that we have children, our traditions will continue to develop. You’ve most likely noticed a variety of changes in your holiday traditions as you’ve gone through the various phases of your life – especially after moving to Shell Point. One couple that has held on to their holiday traditions is Peter and Jerry Nanfelt of Eagles Preserve. Every year they delight in setting up multiple Christmas trees throughout their home, each adorned with ornaments that represent fond memories. Turn to page 10 to read about their holiday traditions. In addition to the Christmas tree, another iconic and meaningful symbol of the Christmas season is the nativity scene. When we learned of a number of residents and staff members that have special stories related to their cherished nativity scenes, we wanted to share them with you. Those stories begin on page 3. As you celebrate the holidays with your tradition, I wish you a season filled with peace, love, joy, laughter, and many memories to cherish.

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Jerry Nanfelt of Eagles Preserve is an expert at decking the halls for the holiday season.

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“And this shall be a sign unto you; ye shall find the Babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.” LUKE 2:12

Shell Point Life is published monthly for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community. AVP of Communications Lynn Schneider Editor Rochelle Cherniawski Art Director Rich Cerrina Senior Graphic Designer Wendy Iverson Graphic Designer Kathy Grove

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Nativity scene displayed in the King’s Crown lobby.

O Holy Night Iconic Images of the Birth of a Savior Every family celebrates Christmas with their own meaningful traditions, and Shell Point is no exception. Christmas trees are trimmed, carolers prepare to serenade their neighbors, holiday cookies come out of the oven, and crèches are displayed with care. Nativity scenes are inspired from the accounts of the birth of Jesus according to the Gospels of Matthew and Luke. It is common throughout the Christmas season to see nativity scenes displayed in a variety of forms. Crèche displays have been created from wood, wax, ivory, glass, and a variety of other mediums. Some are simplistic in their design

For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior which is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:11 while others are extremely intricate. Live nativity scenes can be organized to include any number of people and animals – depending on various traditions. Regardless of its presentation, the nativity scene is a reminder of God’s greatest gift to mankind — His son Jesus Christ. This Christmas season, Shell Point residents and employees shared stories and pictures of their most memorable nativity scenes from all over the world. Some crèches are handmade, and others are gifts from long-time friends, but each one holds special significance to its owner. continued on next page Shell Point Life | December 2011

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Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call His name Immanuel. Matthew 1:23

Gloria Lee Meyer

(Rosemont)

Meaningful Blessing Of all the nativity scenes that Gloria Lee Meyer (Rosemont) has collected through the years, this one is particularly memorable. She acquired this beautiful blue glass-blown crèche in 1975 during a trip to Italy. It was crafted in Murano, Italy, a little island near Venice that is famous for producing glass works of art. As she continued to tour Italy, Gloria Lee stopped in St. Petersburg Square as Pope Paul VI was greeting a large gathering. Imagine her surprise when the pope stopped right in front of her and personally blessed the nativity scene that she had with her that day! Since then, Gloria Lee displays it every Christmas in a place of prominence.

Joy Darnell

(Pharmacy)

Feliz Navidad! Joy Darnell keeps her Christmas tropical each year when she puts out this ornate crèche from Mexico. “My parents took a vacation to Mexico back in 1992, and brought me back the figurines as souvenirs. But the set wouldn’t be complete without a little stable, so my dad built one for me!” The first Christmas Joy displayed the crèche, her daughter Kate was only two years of age. Kate didn’t understand what nativity scene stood for. “We had to tell her ‘Don’t touch the baby Jesus!’ repeatedly, to keep it away from her curious hands. Fortunately, baby Jesus stayed safe,” laughs Joy. After Christmas, she stores it in its original Spanish newspaper wrapping.

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And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy – the Son of God. Luke 1:35

Gail Krauss

(Assistant Chaplain) sented this crèche to me at the end of

Mali Memories Not many nativities come as miniature as this clay set from Mali, West Africa. Assistant Chaplain Gail Krauss received it as a souvenir from her friend Colette Boudais, after touring several West African countries with her. “She pre-

females too – guess who does all the heavy work there?” Gail loves to display her crèche in her home during the holidays. “When Colette gave me this crèche, I discovered that each piece was wrapped in used cement bag paper pieces! Only in Africa could you find a nativity scene like that!” Gail laughed.

our trip together. It means a great deal to me, because she works closely with our children who serve in Africa.” Gail’s crèche measures about 2.5 inches high and was hand painted by a local African woman. “The interesting thing is that the Wise Men are really women! And the shepherds are

She will bear a son, and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins. Matthew 1:21

Joyce Seckinger

(Lucina)

Scenic Souvenirs Every world traveler keeps souvenirs; for Lucina resident Joyce Seckinger, this means a collection of more than 25 nativity scenes! “When I started traveling, I purchased nativities in each country I visited. I have twenty-five or thirty now!” Her interest in nativity scenes can be traced back to a favorite aunt. “My mother’s sister was an accomplished potter who not only made a beautiful nativity scene, but also hand painted it. Eventually, I received it, and started collecting more to display with it.” Recently, Joyce took a three-week missions trip to Africa, where she helped missionaries run a guesthouse. “I picked up two crèches to remind me of the memories made during the trip. The clay set is from Mali, and whittled wood set is from Burkina Faso.” Her favorite of the two creches? “I don’t have a favorite,” she laughed. “They are both so unique!”

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When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. Matthew 2:10

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Dr. David Nesselroade Collecting Christmas Each year, it seems like the Christmas season starts earlier, but for Dr. David Nesselroade, the festivities never end! “Christmas is my favorite holiday,” he shared. “Last year, I hid my Christmas tree in the corner of the room and let it peek out all year long.” Not only does he love setting up multiple Christmas trees, but he also displays wreaths, tapestries, toy trains, and nativity scenes in honor of the Christmas season. “My wife

(Larsen Pavilion)

Julianne got me started. I can’t wait to decorate my office as soon as Thanksgiving is over,” Dr. Nesselroade said. “My favorite pieces are the nativity scenes. There’s something about them that just catches my eye and really captures Christmas for me. I usually keep at least five in my office each year.” He tends to favor unusual crèches, like the diamond-shaped “Pillars of Heaven” crèche he purchased this Christmas. “Each pillar of wood has a scripture carved into it

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that illustrates its part of the Christmas story. The set can be arranged into several different shapes. It’s very nontraditional, which is what first attracted me to it.” Another unique crèche includes a large wooden carousel with a large fan. “This set is from Germany. When lit, the six candles around the base make the fan spin, which rotates the carousel. It is at least twenty years old, and it still works!” Dr. Nesselroade actually has two nativities that feature a carousel system. “The other carousel crèche, which I believe is from Israel, was the first nativity scene in my collection. The tropical theme makes it perfect for Florida.” Does he have a favorite nativity scene? “Whichever set is the most recent, so this year, my Pillars of Heaven crèche. We’ll see what happens next year!” One thing is for sure – Dr. Nesselroade’s office will be bursting with Christmas cheer!

(Public Relations)

A Father’s Handiwork It’s not easy being an only child living away from home, but each Christmas, this nativity brings cheer to Jessica Clark as she dreams of her family in Georgia. “My dad made this crèche for me when I turned 21. Every year, it reminds me of the love, time, and effort he put into creating something so meaningful for me. Every time I come home, I see it and think of my family.” As a public relations and event coordinator in the marketing department, Jessica knows all about setting the scene for the holidays. “My crèche usually goes up outside my house on the weekend after Thanksgiving, with a special spotlight that shines on baby Jesus, Joseph, and Mary. I am so proud of my dad’s handiwork.”

And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among those with whom He is pleased!” Luke 2:13-14

Libby Frankwich (Arbor) Handcrafted from the Heart Libby Frankwich, one of The Arbor’s newest residents, has already found a festive way to give back to her community by donating this beautiful handmade crèche. “I made that set during a night class. It was the first time I’d ever tried to make pottery! I wanted something I could decorate my house with for Christmas, so I picked this nativity scene as my first project.” Handcrafting a ceramic nativity is much more complicated than it looks! “The crèche was completely white when it dried, so I painted the figurines by hand and put shading in the grooves to add depth.” When Libby moved to The Arbor from Rosemont, she thought it would be a great idea to donate the crèche. “My son thought I should give it to The Arbor, and I have to admit, I can’t wait to see it displayed in The Arbor for the first time this December!”

When the angels went away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go over to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.”And they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in a manger. Luke 2:15-16

Jill Aalderink

(Island Service Desk)

Cornhusk Créche In 1995, Island service desk coordinator Jill Aalderink purchased this cornhusk crèche from a local merchant in a quaint Honduran village. “A man had a table by the side of the road. But he didn’t know what they were and didn’t even have them placed in the correct set up.” Jill bought one of his colorful crèches, and arranged it to show the vendor how to best display his wares. “I explained to him what each piece meant and how they represented the birth of Christ. What a unique way to share the gospel!” The man took Jill’s lesson to heart. “When I returned to his booth later, he was sitting behind his table, beaming. He’d arranged all his other nativity scenes to look just the way I’d showed him. He was so proud,” Jill laughed. “This creche is incredibly meaningful to me,” said Jill. “I think of that man each Christmas and pray for the people in that tiny impoverished village.”

Thanks be unto God for his unspeakable gift. 2 Corinthians 9:15

Market Place Extended for

Special Performance:

Holiday Shopping Friday, December 9 8:30 a.m. – 11:30 a.m. • Admin Courtyard The Administration Courtyard on The Island will be filled with special holiday shopping vendors for a special extended Market Place shopping experience on Friday, December 9. This event will allow you to mingle with friends, enjoy delicious food, and purchase unique holiday gifts. In addition to the regular vendors we welcome gift products by CAbi, Scentsy, Mrs. B’s Kettle Corn, and Miche Bags.

Specialty Vendors Offer Great Gift Ideas Scentsy: Discover fragrances that fill your home with comfort without the risk of a lit candle. Scentsy is a safe, wickless alternative to a scented candle and comes in fragrances such as freshly mowed grass, gentle

rain shower, sweet cherry blossoms, and many more! A small decorative warmer of your choice uses the warmth of a small light bulb to heat scented wax. Lisa Legiec, Scentsy’s representative, will have countless options to show you. CAbi: Experience the ultimate clothing shopping experience as Jodi Lucker personally shows you the latest in fashion apparel. With a special Shell Point discount, you will be able to save money while shopping from the rack of designer clothes that will make the perfect gift for the fashionista in your life. Mrs. B’s Kettle Corn: Enjoy the aroma and taste of freshly popped kettle corn. Slightly sweet and salty, this popcorn is simply delicious! Shaved Italian ice and fresh

Holiday Carols with the Symphonic Chorale of Southwest Florida

squeezed lemonade will also be available during this special event! Miche Bags: You may have seen her at our Market Place before, but now is the time to really check out what Elaine Kerns has to offer. Using interchangeable outer shells, women have the versatility to change the look and feel of their purse without removing its contents. Miche Bags are simply a woman’s dream purse! Be sure to shop at the extended Market Place on Friday, December 9, from 8:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. Wrap up some unique gifts for those on your list this holiday season – and perhaps even a little something for yourself!

The Gift Shop that

Keeps on Giving

Did you know that the lovely and unique gifts available in the Shell Point Gift Shop were each made or enhanced by a Shell Point resident? Each day at Shell Point there are talented residents making amazing wood and clay figures, stained glass art, beaded and sewn items, hand-painted crafts, and more. These items are created in the creativity center, meeting rooms, and throughout residents’ homes at Shell Point. The Gift Shop offers a wonderful

incentive for artisans who continue to take the challenge to refine their abilities. It also serves as a goal for the resident trying a new creative endeavor. And, the Gift Shop provides a place to find one-of-a-kind gifts for any occasion. As an added bonus, the Gift Shop makes sure that a portion of all profits are used to buy wonderful gifts for the enjoyment of the entire community – such as the floating Christmas tree in the lagoon. Extravaganza • December 6

The Shell Point Gift Shop is open Monday through Saturday from 9:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. Be sure to visit the Gift Shop Holiday Extravaganza on December 6 and take advantage of the free gift wrapping service!

UPS Room Ready for Holiday Shipping The UPS Room volunteers are once again extending their hours to meet the high demand for sending Christmas packages. Please remember, the UPS Room accepts cash or checks only. Plan to take advantage of this convenient service, located in the Tunnel on The Island, to get your Christmas gifts to your loved ones on time.

Extended Holiday Hours:

Weekdays December 5 -16 10:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. Pre-packed boxes only.

1:00 p.m. to 2 p.m. Box selection and packing assistance.

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Friday, January 13, 2012 at 2:45 p.m. or 6:45 p.m. The Village Church Auditorium on The Island at Shell Point

The 2012 Gala will feature entertainment by The Lennon Sisters and desserts by FineMark National Bank & Trust

The Legacy Foundation is pleased to announce the Gala 2012 Celebration of Life at Shell Point Retirement Community – Tapestry! Please join us for the celebration of the generous spirit that sets Shell Point apart as a wonderful community in which to live and invest one’s energies. Following in the tradition of previous Gala celebrations, we will welcome special guest artists to provide lively entertainment. The 2012 entertainers are a trio that America fell in love with as the “girls next door.” For 13 years on The Lawrence Welk Show, The Lennon Sisters charmed the nation with their sweetvoiced harmonies. Throughout the years,

Dianne, Peggy, and Kathy have combined their extraordinary natural vocal talents, hard-working professionalism, striking looks, unassuming personalities, and strong family values to earn a place in the homes of millions of fans nationwide. The Lennon Sisters are still adored to this day, and they will certainly bring an element of charm and grace to the Gala celebration. The 2012 Gala is presented by the Legacy Foundation and Shell Point with a partnership from FineMark National Bank and Trust to provide the refreshments for the event. Personal invitations, including details on how to RSVP, will be delivered to each resident prior to the event.

Save the Date

Pavilion Auxiliary Annual Meeting The Magic of Volunteering Thursday, January 19 2:15 p.m. The Church Auditorium/IS

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Peter & Jerry Nanfelt Enjoy Decking the Halls of Their Eagles Preserve Home for Christmas

At Christmastime, Shell Point sparkles with holiday decorations. Lobbies and atriums are decked with garland and ribbon, while large Christmas trees are intertwined with thousands of twinkling lights that reflect off ornaments of gold and silver. Outdoors, the towering palms at the entrance of the community and along Shell Point Boulevard provide a stately parade of lights against the night sky, and the smooth surface of the water in the lagoon reflects the bright colors of the floating Christmas tree. Nearby, the life-size nativity scene creates a peaceful tableau that reminds us of that holy 10

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night more than 2,000 years ago that gives us the true meaning of the season. Decorating for the holidays is a custom here at Shell Point that continues to bring joy and delight to residents throughout the community, whether they put up individual decorations in their own homes or opt to enjoy the décor throughout the community. One couple who enjoy celebrating the holidays in a big way is Peter and Jerry Nanfelt of Eagles Preserve. The Nanfelts have created a lifetime of memories that are represented through their holiday decorations, as well as a custom of holiday hospitality that they enjoy sharing with others.

Peter and Jerry Nanfelt are the perfect example of two opposites that attracted. Jerry was born and raised in the south — Durham, North Carolina to be exact — and she still has the soft Southern accent to prove it. Peter was raised in a home in Caldwell, New Jersey. The couple met while attending Nyack College in Nyack, New York. “My friends all thought I was crazy for picking a school up north,” said Jerry with a chuckle. “And the last thing my father said as I left for college was, ‘don’t you go up there and marry a Yankee!’” However, when she did marry that ‘Yankee,’ her parents loved him!

Peter used to tease Jerry when they first met that he needed a translator to understand her accent, and she would retort that Yankees just don’t know how to talk. But it was clear to everyone that they were a perfect match. The couple dated throughout college and when they graduated on Monday, June 1, 1959, they immediately packed up their things and drove to North Carolina where they were married that Thursday, on June 4. Peter planned to seek a C&MA pastorate in North Carolina, so that summer they were provided an opportunity to work and live at a summer camp in Hendersonville, North Carolina, while the couple candidated at various churches on the weekends. Said Jerry, “We had just come from our honeymoon and were moving into this little camp where at least we had a place to live and eat, but when the director’s wife was showing us our room, she noticed the twin bunk beds and said, ‘Well this isn’t going to work.’” They quickly took the bunk beds apart and although one was a few inches higher than the other, they lined them up side by side to accommodate the newlyweds. That summer, Jerry waited tables in the dining room and Peter washed dishes in the kitchen. By the end of the summer they were called to serve in a small church in Marion, North Carolina. “It was really like starting a church from scratch. We did everything,” she said. “While Peter preached, I played the piano with our first daughter, Terri, sitting in a stroller beside the piano. We were there for two years and enjoyed this first ministry experience.” Peter and Jerry Nanfelt have created a lifetime of memories that are represented through their holiday decorations, as well as a custom of holiday hospitality that they enjoy sharing with others.

“During those first years, we had a small apartment and didn’t do much decorating. We would travel back to our parents to celebrate Christmas. But even then, we started to develop our own little Christmas traditions.” One of those early traditions was to splurge for Christmas Eve and have shrimp cocktail. “Even now, no matter what else is on the holiday menu, we always have shrimp cocktail!” continued on next page Shell Point Life | December 2011

Home for the Holidays Continued from page 11

Called to Serve Both Peter and Jerry felt called to serve as overseas missionaries, so after their two years in Marion, they received an assignment from The Christian and Missionary Alliance to work in Indonesia. The couple packed up their belongings, and with their 11-month old daughter embarked on a two-month trip to the other side of the world. They traveled on an ocean freighter that accommodated only ten other passengers. “Those two months on board ship were where our little family left their familiar western world, to begin a ministry on the island of Kalimantan (formerly known as Borneo) in Indonesia,” said Jerry. Upon their arrival in Indonesia, the couple quickly became aware of the giant change that was in store for them! They started with a brief stint at language school on the island of Java. It was during language study that the couple had their second child, Tammi. When Tammi was just two weeks old, and her older sister Terri was two, Peter and Jerry carried their family into

the jungle of Kalimantan where they set up their new home in a traditional bark house that sat on a wooden platform elevated about two feet off the ground. The exterior of the house was covered in tree bark and the interior walls were made of woven reeds taken from the nearby river bank. “Since the walls between the rooms were made of woven reeds, we could just poke our fingers through the wall to peek in to check on the children in the next room,” said Jerry. Ten years later, Peter and Jerry’s third child, Robert, was born.

Christmas in Indonesia The Nanfelt family lived in Kalimantan for four years and since they were in the jungle, they did not have a lot to decorate with. “The one thing we did have was popcorn,” explained Jerry. “It was easy to pop and it gave us something that we could do with the kids. So we spent hours stringing these elab-

“Decorating for Christmas has never been about making it so beautiful or perfect. Our Christmas decorations have always been inspired by the children.”

orate strands of popcorn and then draped the garlands, one above the other, all around the inside of our house.” “Of course, we had these little lizards called ‘cicaks’ throughout our house – and they would eat the popcorn. So by the time Christmas rolled around, we mostly had bare pieces of string looped all around the house. We were basically feeding the lizards!” After a few years in Indonesia, Peter’s mother sent the family a Christmas tree. “We were so excited, but when we pulled it out of the box, we realized it was silver with pink decorations! It was quite a sight to see and so our Indonesian friends came to our house every year to see that silver and pink Christmas tree. They knew that Americans were different, but I can’t imagine what they thought about that tree!” “Christmas to the local Christians was strictly about church,” she said. “In their minds, it had little or nothing to do with the family or the home. They had no concept of the Western traditions of giving gifts or personal celebrations. So we had church services every day, that whole week during Christmas, and each service lasted several hours. Since we participated in all the services, we always waited until all of the celebrations were completed before we had our own small traditional Christmas at home. Living in the jungle, we didn’t have much to give our children, but we always had some small gifts for each one and we would exchange them usually sometime in early January.” Continued next page The Nanfelts served in Indonesia for 18 years. Each Christmas season they would observe and participate in the local holiday celebrations before returning to their home to partake in their own traditions.

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English they didn’t know what Elvis was saying. Also since they heard it on the radio from the States, they assumed it was Christian.”

Christmas Back in the States

Home for the Holidays Continued from page 13

As Peter and Jerry served in other areas of Indonesia, they found the tradition of churches putting up Christmas trees more common. The Indonesians loved to put up Christmas trees and decorate them with real candles. On Christmas Eve, they would light the candles and sing ‘Silent Night.’ “We hardly went to a one of these services where

the tree did not catch on fire and someone would run up to the tree to bat out the flames as everyone else continued to sing,” said Jerry with a laugh. According to Jerry, there were other times when the people had picked up examples of Western culture and made them their own. “For instance, one year as we were going to a Christmas service on the island of Java, we were greeted with amplified music coming from the church,” she said. “l will never forget the look on Peter’s face when he recognized the voice of Elvis Presley singing, ‘I’ll have a Blue, Blue Christmas Without You’ coming from the church. Since the song was in

The Nanfelts served in Indonesia for 18 years until 1979 when Peter was asked by The Christian and Missionary Alliance to return to the States to serve the missionaries in East Asia as their Regional Director at the denomination’s National Office in Nyack, New York. Once back in the States, the family celebrated their Christmases in the more typical traditional ways but the influence of their overseas ministry could be seen throughout. “Decorating for Christmas has never been about making it so beautiful or perfect,” said Jerry. “Our Christmas decorations have always been inspired by the children and in the early years we had fun trees that were covered with things the kids would come up with. Later, as the kids got older, they started getting creative and coming up with ideas for various themes. Each year, as part of our presents to one another, we have exchanged ornaments and many of them have the date printed on them. Each of these represents a small part of the history of our family.” “As we would put them on the tree each year, we would talk about our memories of them, such as when they were given or where they were from. When our children grew up and got married, I packed up their personal ornaments and gave them to them to take to their new homes to start their own traditions.” “Now Peter and I have our own ornaments and they often reflect something that is meaningful to us,” said Jerry. “For instance, when Peter concluded his ministry as overseas director, he received an ornament from every single country overseas where the C&MA missionaries work. Many of these ornaments are key chains, which represent the countries that do not have tree ornaments. A bow tied on them does the trick.” “Each year when we put these ornaments on our tree it helps us to remember the wonderful people we have known and have Peter and Jerry love the beauty of Christmas trees and enjoy having several throughout their home during the Christmas season. As they decorate the trees each year, they enjoy talking about the memories of each ornament, such as when they were given or where they are from.

“No matter where we have lived throughout our lives and all of our travels, we bring a little bit of each place back with us and include it in our Christmas celebrations.” worked with over the years. It is also a reminder of the many countries we have had the privilege of visiting during our lifetime.” Peter and Jerry also love the beauty of Christmas trees and enjoy having several throughout the house during the Christmas season. “Some years ago, when we lived in a larger home, we actually had nine Christmas trees all sizes all decorated differently throughout the house! Not only did we enjoy them, but so did our family and friends during the Christmas season!” The couple lived in Nyack for ten years and then moved again when the National Office for the C&MA was relocated to Colorado Springs. Peter traveled to 75 countries around the world while giving oversight to the work of the C&MA’s 1000 missionaries. In 1998, Peter was elected president of the C&MA and he served in that position for seven years. The couple remained in Colorado Springs for another two years while

Peter served as a mentor to pastors around the country. He finally retired in 2010. The couple had known for a long time that they wanted to retire to Shell Point when their official service with the C&MA was completed. They moved to Eagles Preserve in July 2007.

Christmas at Shell Point Peter and Jerry have already created their own new traditions for Christmas here at Shell Point. “Last year I was given a beautiful wreath made from seashells for my front door. I got excited about using seashells in some of my decorating for the holidays and I did a tree with shell ornaments, which I made, to go along with the shell wreath on our door,” said Jerry. “No matter where we have lived throughout our lives and all of our travels, we bring a little bit of each place back with us and include it in our Christmas celebrations. Now, Shell Point is our home and a lovely part of our holiday traditions.”

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My siblings, Nancy and David, and I were very close in age; four years separated us. I well remember the humble Christmas tree and ornamentation in our home. We would be so excited days, and even weeks, in advance of the Christmas holiday. We would sit or play around the Christmas tree in the “good” living room before bedtime and discuss our gift wants, dreaming of Christmas morning. And we would wait. But we were certainly not the first to wait. Between the Testaments, Israel had been waiting 400 years for a prophet from God who would signal relief from the tyranny of Rome. The opening chapters of Luke’s gospel are layered with waiting people. Zacharias, the priest, with his wife, Elizabeth, were waiting

for a child to fill their arms. Mary was waiting for the birth of the Promised One. Joseph worried about Mary and waited for wisdom. Simeon and Anna were both awaiting word of the fulfillment of God’s promise for a coming Messiah. But instead of waiting passively they were all looking expectantly for God to show up. Henri Nouwen called this “present to the moment,” like the table server on the alert to his customer’s need. Simeon worshiped daily in the temple, not in despair but in trust and confidence. The words he spoke when meeting the Child were full of hope realized, “…my eyes have seen your salvation which you have prepared, a light to bring revelation to the Gentiles, and the glory of your people Israel.”

(Luke 2:30-32, NIV). Sometimes we wait upon God for answers to our prayers and solutions to our problems and the answers and solutions do not seem to come. We may doubt He is listening, that He cares, or become fearful that God is powerless to help us, or, even worse, that there is no God. But God speaks just as He did the very first Christmas. He gave messages to Zacharias, Mary, and the shepherds, telling them not to be afraid. When we ask and then expectantly wait upon God, we will experience the fruit of patience. God always responds in the perfect time as we learn the grace of waiting. “When the time had fully come, God sent His Son.” (Galatians 4:4, NIV).

Christmas & New Year’s Dining at shell Point Celebrate Christmas Day and New Year’s Day by choosing to eat at one of Shell Point’s dining locations where the holidays are always joyous and festive occasions. If you wish to dine in the comfort of your own home, there are also options for complete ready-to-serve meals. Island Cafe

The Island Café is available for a casual breakfast or a light lunch on Christmas Day from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. On New Year’s Day, enjoy dining during the regular hours of 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. The Island Café is also offering mini or regular size fresh-baked holiday pies for take out during the holiday season. Stop in or call 454-2286 to place an order. Crystal Room

A traditional buffet will be offered in the Crystal Room from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Christmas day. Menu choices include handcarved beef tenderloin, baked salmon with scampi sauce, and roast turkey. For the side items, choose from whipped or sweet potatoes, dressing, green beans amandine, and squash casserole. You can also enjoy festive holiday desserts such as pumpkin, mincemeat, pecan, and apple pies as well as an 16

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assortment of cakes. The extensive Crystal salad bar and freshly-baked breads and rolls are also included. Seating in the Crystal Room is based on the availability of tables. The Crystal Room will be closed on New Year’s Eve, but stop in on New Year’s Day for Sunday brunch from 10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. In addition to our very popular omelet station and carved-to-order prime rib, the chef will be offering roast pork, sauerkraut, greens, and black eyed peas to help you celebrate the New Year. As an added treat, you can start out your New Year’s feast with a glass of sparkling grape juice and end it on a sweet note at the chocolate fondue station. Christmas Family Feast

Another popular option for Christmas Day is the Family Feast meal available from the Crystal Room. The fully-cooked and ready-to-serve feast includes a whole roasted turkey or sliced baked ham, potatoes, dressing, gravy, cranberry sauce, and vegetable for just $49.95. One Family Feast serves six people. Pumpkin pies and dinner rolls are also available for additional cost. Order by noon on December 19 and pick up at the Social Center on Christmas Day between 10 a.m.

and 2 p.m. Call 454-2199 or stop by the Crystal Room to place your order. Palm Grill

For a special Christmas dinner, plan on dining at the Palm Grill between 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. Choose an appetizer such as Florida seafood chowder or North Pole shrimp cocktail. Entrees will include filet mignon, roast turkey, surf and turf (boneless short ribs with pan sautéed sea scallops), or Chilean sea bass and Gulf shrimp scampi. Call-ahead seating is available by calling 454-2059 on Christmas Day. The Palm Grill will be open for lunch and dinner on New Year’s Eve with a special dinner menu and live music from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m.

Christmas DaY Island Café: 7 a.m. – 2 p.m. Crystal Room: 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Palm Grill: 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. Promenade Café: Closed

New Year’s DaY Island Café: 7 a.m. – 7 p.m. Crystal Room: 10:30 a.m. – 2 p.m. Palm Grill: Closed Promenade Café: Closed

A Traditional European Christmas Celebration Renowned Dutch Pianist

Jan Mulder

Saturday, December 10, at 2:15 p.m. Sunday, December 11, at 6:15 p.m. Traditional Christmas carols and contemporary classics will be woven together in a tapestry of praise to celebrate the birthday of a King as The Village Church Choir joins world-renowned Dutch pianist Jan Mulder to present A Traditional European Christmas Celebration. More than 80 voices of The Village Church Choir will perform with a Festival Orchestra consisting of members of the Southwest Florida Symphony, Sarasota Symphony, and the Naples Philharmonic, along with special guest pianist Jan Mulder. As the choir and orchestra unite in the spirit of Christmas, audience members will also join their hearts and voices to experience the sights and sounds of a spectacular Christmas concert celebration.

Tickets for this concert are $10 each. To purchase tickets, or receive additional information about the concert series, please call (239) 454-2147 or visit www.shellpoint.org/villagechurch.

All are invited to attend Special Holiday Services at The Village Church

A Service of Lessons & Carols Sunday, December 4, at 6:15 p.m. Again this year, a Service of Lessons & Carols will mark the beginning of the Christmas season celebrations at The Village Church. The service will begin with the opening carol, Once in Royal David’s City, which has traditionally been the first carol sung in the service since it was originally presented at King’s College in 1918. The service has profound dignity and simplicity with carol singing and Scripture reading. Each lesson follows the same format: a

reader introduces the Scripture lesson, reads the passage, and concludes by saying, “Thanks be to God.” After the Scripture lessons are read, the congregation will join with hearts and voices singing the carols, accompanied by organist Crawford Wiley. The entire Shell Point community is invited to attend the Service of Lessons & Carols.

Christmas Eve Carols & Candlelight

Saturday, December 24, at 7:15 p.m.

The Christmas Eve Carols & Candlelight service marks the night of God’s proclaiming His Son’s birth in the little village of Bethlehem. This service has become a tradition embraced by the entire Shell Point community, along with many families and friends. All are welcome to attend and join in this candlelight service as we worship the Holy Child in the manger.

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Celebrating the Jewish Holiday Hanukkah with the Lighting of the Menorah Mel and Shirley Bleiberg (Eagles Preserve)

Meaningful Heirloom Mel and Shirley Bleiberg (Eagles Preserve) both grew up in households that celebrated Hanukkah. Shirley said, “Growing up in the ’30s and ’40s, Hanukkah wasn’t considered a holiday where you exchanged gifts. It was a time that we lit candles and perhaps dined on some ethnic foods such as potato pancakes.” When their three children were growing up, lighting the menorah and saying the prayers of thanksgiving was a meaningful tradition in the Bleiberg home. The kids received one big gift on the first night, and small gifts for the next seven nights. For Mel and Shirley, Hanukkah has always been about more than gifts. They truly embrace the meaning of the festival and the significance of the menorah. Mel explained, “The menorah is symbolic of the first recorded war for the freedom of religion. It represents

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religious freedom.” The menorah that Mel and Shirley light each year has been in their family for generations. It was Shirley’s father’s grandmother’s menorah. She explained, “My parents were immigrants. When my father went back to former Austria/Hungary in 1937, his mother gave it to him to share with his family. We don’t know if it was her mother’s or her grandmother’s. We estimate that it is at least 150 years old.” While grand in its appearance, it is actually a peasant’s copy of a spectacular menorah that is seen in the Israel Museum. Mel said, “Ours is actually a cheap imitation that was hand-crafted by peasants who couldn’t afford a nice menorah. Instead of expensive and heavy metals, it is made of hand-stamped, thin sheets of hammered brass. And it only burns olive oil – which is what was originally used to light the menorah.” Someday, Mel and Shirley will pass their menorah down to the next generation, who will continue to embrace the significance of the religious symbol and celebrate their faith with pride and thanksgiving.

Simply Symbolic For Max and Karen Liberles (Eagles Preserve), Hanukkah is a time of year that remains simplistic in its celebration. Throughout the eight days of Hanukkah, Max dons his yarmulke at sundown and the couple

light the candles on their menorah as they say the traditional prayers. Karen converted to Judaism when the couple married. Max, however, was raised with the expectation that he would one day become a rabbi. “My father was a rabbi. There were many rabbis in my family. But I just wasn’t called to follow that path.” After moving from Chicago to Shell Point, the couple has become involved at Temple Beth El in Fort Myers and continue to explore their faith. “I’m still studying the Torah,” said Karen. “And after two years of study, I celebrated a Bat Mitzvah when I was in my late 60s!” Max added, “As a child, Hanukkah meant candy, cookies, gifts, and games. As an adult, I now appreciate the deeper meaning of Hanukkah - the recognition of victory in an ancient war for freedom of religion, perhaps for the first time in human history!”

Max and Karen Liberles (Eagles Preserve)

While Max and Karen admittedly keep it simple when it comes to practicing the traditions of their faith, they still have a mezuzah hung at their front door and they make it a habit of lighting the menorah during Hanukkah and remembering the message of this holiday – the fight for freedom of religion over tyranny.

Celebrate the Season and Stay Healthy Take Steps to Enjoy a Healthy Lifestyle Wellness Specialty Classes Release the stress and worries of the day with Therapeutic Nordic Walking on December 13 at 4:00 p.m. in the Woodlands Commons. Lindy Smith, certified Nordic Walking expert, will use specially designed walking poles that will instantly make you recognize the postural effects of walking tall with intent, balance, and stability. After a brief instruction on technique, you will move at your own pace while participating in stress-busting breathing.The cost of the class is $5 and pre-registration is required at either service desk. Pilates Stretch is a great way to work on your centering, control, flow, breath, precision, and concentration. This class is

offered every Monday and Wednesday in the Island Health Club at 3:00 p.m. Instructor Michelle Smith said, “We designed the class so you can attend when you can fit it in.The class is a great way to strengthen your core and stability.” The cost is $5 per session.

Shell Point as Your Resource Hit the driving range on December 1 at 1:00 p.m. to Swing Your Way Back to Golf! The session starts with fitness supervisor Michelle Smith leading the group in a golf specific, active stretching routine designed to loosen muscles. Then Michael Raber, PGA professional, will lead a warm-up routine that you can use every time before you head out on the course. Michelle will then

return to the range with static stretches that you should practice at the conclusion of your game. Sign up at either service desk. The Golf Pro Shop will supply clubs if needed.

Save the Date: Shell Point Walking Outing at Wa-Ke Hatchee Park: January 3 Balance Basics at Assisted Living: Starts January 3 Shell Point Health and Wellness Expo: January 6

50 bo oths!

The Shell Point

Health & Wellness Expo Learn about Services, Programs, and Products that Support Your Health Shell Point Specialty Doctors Synderman’s Shoes The Bloodmobile Ada’s Health Food Store Various Give-aways Healthy Snacks Door Prizes

Fitness Classes Personal Training Travel & Education Social Opportunities Volunteerism Special Interest Programs Spiritual Services

Housekeeping & Security Healthy Eating Nutrition Education Home Health Assisted Living / Skilled Nursing

Medical Center Pharmacy

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To include a listing for an upcoming event or activity, please contact Mary Franklin, resort services manager, at 454-2152 or email: maryfranklin@shellpoint.org

Mac User Group Thursday, December 1 1:15 p.m. Manatee Room/IS It’s that time of year when we take care to mail Seasons Greetings to our friends and loved ones all around the world. Many of us have extensive address lists. The Mac’s Address Book program can help with the arduous task of addressing your special holiday cards and letters.

Annual Tree Lighting with The Naples Carolers Thursday, December 1 5:45 p.m. Festivities and Entertainment 6:30 p.m. Tree Lighting Ceremony Amphitheater/IS Take a step back in time as we celebrate the wonder of Christmas through the eyes of Charles Dickens. Enjoy mulled apple cider and scrumptious cookies while anticipating the excitement of our annual tree lighting in the lagoon. The Naples Carolers will entertain with a capella Christmas classics while Mr. and Mrs. Claus will distribute special treats! Be sure to head over to The Village Church directly

following the tree lighting ceremony as the Shell Point Singers continue spreading the holiday spirit through song! Shell Point Singers Holiday Concert Thursday, December 1 7:15 p.m. The Village Church/IS Following the conclusion of the nostalgic tree lighting ceremony, the Shell Point Singers, under the direction of Randy Woods, will lead a journey into a world of favorite Christmas songs. Familiar renditions of jingles from Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker as well as classical themes of Fa-la-la-lala used to Deck the Halls will bring excitement to the evening of community and song..

Shell Point Market Place Fridays December 2, 9, 16, 30 8:30 a.m. – 11:30 a.m. 9, 16, 30 RAC/IS Each week the Market Place is bustling with the sounds of laughter, conversation, and transactions. From practical gifts to extraordinary finds, you are sure to enjoy shopping at the Market Place in the Resident Activity Center. Mark your calendars to shop the extended Market Place on Friday, December 9, where new vendors will sell great Christmas gifts!

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PROGRAMS • PARTIES • MOVIES • OUTINGS • EXCURSIONS

Holiday Shopping at Coconut Point Mall Saturday, December 3 9:00 a.m. Island pickup 9:10 a.m. Woodlands pickup 9:20 a.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 2:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $8.00 (lunch on your own) Coconut Point Mall has 113 stores and 25 restaurants - all surrounding acres of lakes with a boardwalk. This is the perfect shopping destination for picking up holiday gifts, and the early date leaves plenty of time left for shipping them to loved ones all around the country. The Mediterranean ambiance will be complimented by holiday music as you stroll through the mall.

Photo Club Meeting Thursday, December 8 2:15 p.m. Manatee Room/IS

It is time for the annual scavenger hunt! Anyone interested in participating is invited to submit one image in each of the four categories: 1) Mailbox, 2) Smile, 3) Water, 4) Humor. All entries must be submitted to Harold Seer (Parkwood) by midnight on December 1. Entries can be provided to Harold on a CD, flash drive, or via email at haroldseer@sprintmail.com.

Veterans’ Club Friday, December 9 10:00 a.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL This will be a social meeting, including music and holiday treats. The performance will be a surprise – you’ll have to come to see who will be singing the traditional Christmas carols.

Information Forum Saturday, December 10 10:00 a.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL Find out what Academy Computer College class is right for you. Instructors will be available to answer your questions and guide you along the correct path.

Gift Shop Holiday Extravaganza Tuesday, December 6 10:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. Gift Shop and Social Center/IS Get your Christmas shopping done at the Shell Point Gift Shop. Not only can you purchase unique items, you can also have your purchases wrapped while enjoying holiday refreshments.

The Shell Point Garden Society Wednesday, December 7 11:00 a.m. Oak Room/WDL All gardeners are welcome to attend the December meeting of The Shell Point Garden Society to hear John Kiseda, Education Coordinator for Lee County Parks and Recreation, speak on composting for a small garden.

Saturday DVD: The King’s Speech (2010) Saturday, December 10 2:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL This poignant film is based on a true story of King George VI’s (Colin Firth) quest to find his voice, eventually seeking help from Lionel Logue (Geoffrey Rush), an Australian speech therapist. The men become friends as they work together, and after his brother abdicates the throne, the new King relies on Logue to help him make a radio broadcast on Britain’s declaration of war on Germany in 1939.

Holiday Sounds Christmas Concert Monday, December 12 7:15 p.m. The Village Church/IS The sounds of Christmas cheer will be evident as talented Shell Point residents take the stage for their annual holiday concert. Groups such as the Polished Brass, Tone Chimes, and Rollicking Recorderists will delight us will special performances and a few surprises. Refreshments will be served at the conclusion of the concert.

Dine out at the Pewter Mug Tuesday, December 13 4:15 p.m. Island pickup 4:25 p.m. Woodlands pickup 4:35 p.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 8:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $8.00 (dinner on your own) Location: North Naples If you have been waiting for that perfect prime rib dinner, your wait is over! The Pewter Mug specializes in entrees which are cleverly labeled The Prime Minister Cut, The Big Daddy Cut, or The Flintstone Cut. Of course there are plenty of non-beef offerings as well, but the Pewter Mug has been famous for their prime rib since 1970! Entrée prices range from $15.99 to $39.99.

Beach Day Thursday, December 15 8:30 a.m. Island pickup 8:40 a.m. Woodlands pickup 8:50 a.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 3:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $16.00 (includes lunch) Enjoying the beach is a year-round activity in Florida, so come and join us for our monthly beach day outing. We provide the transportation and picnic lunch but you will need to bring along your personal beach supplies. Beach Day is all about fun in the sun!

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HAPPENINGS PLACES

TO GO,

Sunday DVD: A Christmas Story (1983) Sunday, December 18 2:30 p.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL Nine-year-old Ralphie tries to convince his parents, teachers, and even Santa that a Red Ryder BB gun is the perfect Christmas present for him. Their responses are negative, most often with the warning, “You’ll shoot your eye out.” The movie ends with an unforgettable Christmas dinner at a Chinese restaurant with singing waiters performing Deck the Halls, in a way you’ve never heard before.

Jack’s Famous Wood Fired Pizza Party Tuesday, December 20 Service Begins at 4:15 p.m. Cost: $10.00 (per person – all you can eat) Administration Courtyard/IS Watch as your gourmet pizza is handcrafted then placed in an imported Italian brick oven. Using oak and maple hardwood, the wood fire oven bakes your pizza at 900 degrees, producing a crust that is crisp on the outside and light and tender on the inside. Toppings include pepperoni, sausage, and meatballs. as well as specialty pizzas such as veggie, pesto, white, margherita, and “The Works.” Salad, drink, and dessert are included.

PEOPLE

MEET, & THINGS

The forested pathways at the Calusa Nature Center will be lit up for the holidays, creating a fanciful winter wonderland – Florida style! Santa will be there along with the animals, and holiday songs will be sung by kids. This yuletide trip is bound to make your spirits bright! Considerable walking is required for this outing and uneven walkways may be encountered.

Christmas Cantata Sunday, December 25 4:15 p.m. Resident Activity Center/IS Come be part of a Shell Point Christmas on Christmas Day! Cantata #16, Let’s Do Christmas, written by Ruth Rodgers (Palm Acres), will be presented by a group of residents, visiting family members, and guests. This annual happening consists of choir selections, soloists, orchestral selections, and favorite readings. Delightful refreshments will be served following this festive Cantata.

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guardian angel, Clarence Odbody (Henry Travers). Clarence shows George all the lives he has touched and the contributions he has made to his community. With this film’s endearing message that “no one is a failure who has friends,” Frank Capra’s heartwarming masterpiece continues to endure and remain as powerful and moving as the day it was made.

Lunch Outing to Sunshine Seafood Café Friday, December 30 11:00 a.m. Island pickup 11:15 a.m. Woodlands pickup 11:25 a.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 1:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $6.00 (lunch on your own) Located right here in South Fort Myers, the Sunshine Seafood Café offers casual fine dining with a tropical twist. Sunshine Seafood Café has just moved to a new building and they are excited to offer more space. Their lovely lunch menu includes selections, such as the quesadilla of the day, the Sunshine club, Blind Pass shrimp, and wood-grilled American hamburger. Many selections on the lunch menu are priced under $10.

Movie Night: It’s a Wonderful Life (1946) Tuesday, December 27 6:45 p.m. Social Center/IS

27 New Year’s Eve Celebration at the Palm Grill Friday, December 31 Dining: 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Entertainment: 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Palm Grill/WDL Enjoy a selection of five extraordinary entrées and specialty desserts all while being entertained by the jazz sounds of Daniel Klimoski. This New Year’s Eve will certainly be a night to remember.

Holiday Arbor Lights: Calusa Nature Center Friday, December 23 6:00 p.m. Island pickup 6:10 p.m. Woodlands pickup 6:20 p.m. Eagles Preserve pickup 9:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $18.00 (cocoa and cookies served, includes admission)

Keep the Christmas spirit alive by enjoying this classic movie with your neighbors and friends. James Stewart stars as George Bailey, a man whose imminent suicide on Christmas Eve brings about the intervention of his

Sign-up required for this activity. Call Island (454-2282) or Woodlands (454-2054)

Special event bus will be running

Walking required

Making Christmas Bright The last day to contribute to the Employee Christmas Fund is Friday, December 2. If you have questions about how to participate, please contact Dick Rockstroh (Turban) at 433-5252.

Walking up and down stairs

Americana event

SPRING ACADEMY

SPECIAL DELIVERY Look for your Academy of Lifelong Learning spring semester brochure to arrive in your Shell Point mailbox and on www.shellpoint.net on Wednesday, December 14. Registration will begin online and at either service desk on Thursday, December 15. Classes will begin on Monday, January 9.

SUPPORT GROUPS Cancer Support Program 1-on-1 mentoring The goal of this resident-led program is to establish group mentoring connections between newly diagnosed cancer patients and cancer survivors. Contact Barbara Maruchi (Lakewood) at 433–9488.

Cancer Support Group Wednesday, December 7 at 1:30 p.m. Osprey Room/IS Ladies and gentlemen are all encouraged to attend the resident-led Cancer Support Group. The intent is for a meaningful and uplifting session. Contact Barbara Maruchi (Lakewood) at 433-9488, Reta Ariss (Turban) at 433-4139, or Don Wilson (Turban) at 466-3953.

Caregiver Support Group Therapy Tuesdays, December 6, 27 at 10:30 a.m. 2nd Floor Educational Room Pavilion Rehabilitation Building/IS This therapeutic group is aimed at helping residents deal with issues of being a caregiver for someone with a memory disorder. The resident with a memory disorder may be cared for in independent living, assisted living, or skilled nursing. Contact Mardee Lader at 415-5435.

Diabetes Group Appointment

Parkinson’s Support Group

Friday, December 2 at 1:00 p.m. Social Center/IS There will be a special presentation in December by Merck – Journey for Control. All participants must pre-register by calling 1-877-532-4545 and selecting event #4008278. This meeting is limited to 20 people, and both insulin and non-insulin diabetics are encouraged to attend.

Monday, December 5 at 10:15 a.m. Village Church Hospitality Room/IS This group provides support to Parkinson’s patients, as well as their family and friends. Contact Janine Hammond, case manager, at 454-2186.

Healing Journey Grief Support Wednesday, December 7 at 2:45 p.m. Village Church Hospitality Room/IS Healing Journey is a series of sessions which examine the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual effects of grief. The sessions are led by Dotty Morrison (Cellana) and Judy Mayer (Junonia). The sessions are now closed. For more information call Dotty at 337-4015 or the church office at 454-2147.

Masked Marvels Sleep Apnea Support Group Thursday, December 1 at 1:30 p.m. Grand Cypress Room - Section B/WDL The purpose of this group is to bring awareness and support to those dealing with the challenges of sleep apnea. Contact Larry Chrouch (Eagles Preserve) at 481-7188.

The Vision Enrichment Group Tuesday, December 3 at 10:15 a.m. Social Center/IS All are welcome to attend the December meeting to discuss the benefits of e-readers. Florence Putman (Eagles Preserve) is the chairperson. For more information, contact Angie Prichard at 454-2134 or Sandee Weber at 225-2929.

Walk With Me Caregiver Support Group Thursday, December 1 Coffee and dessert at 1:30 p.m. Meeting at 1:45 p.m. Village Church Hospitality Room/IS Attend this support group to share your caregiver experiences with friends. Each meeting offers the opportunity to embrace spiritual support and renew inner strength. Contact Joyce Seckinger (Lucina) at 4661354 for more information.

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THE ARBOR

December

Events

KING’S CROWN Thu ....1 ......December Birthdays w/ Side by Side (COM) ..2:00 p.m. Thu ....1 ......Shell Point Holiday Sing (VC) ........................7:15 p.m. Fri ......2 ......Holiday Card Sale (GS) ..................................11:30 a.m. Fri ......2 ......KC Tree Lighting Ceremony w/ music (GS)....6:30 p.m. Sun ....4 ......2nd Advent Celebration w/ Santa visit (GS) ..6:30 p.m. Mon....5 ......Lunch/Shopping to Rib City and Target (L)....9:15 a.m. Mon....5 ......Tone Chimes Christmas Melodies (COM) ......2:30 p.m. Mon....5 ......St. Nicholas Night ............................................Bedtime Tue......6 ......Gift Shop Extravaganza (Social Center) ........10:00 a.m. Tue......6 ......Pre-K Children Holiday Show (COM) ..........10:00 a.m. Tue......6 ......Holiday Music Memories (COM) ....................2:00 p.m. Wed ....7 ......Kingdom Kids’ Christmas Show (COM) ........3:30 p.m. Thu ....8 ......Decorate a Holiday Cookie (DR) ..................11:00 a.m. Fri ......9 ......1st grader Christmas Show (COM) ................10:00 a.m. Fri ......9 ......Nativity and Holiday Lights Tour (L) ..............5:30 p.m. Sat ....10 ......Village Church Christmas Party (VC) ............2:15 p.m. Sun ....11 ......3rd Advent Celebration (GS) ..........................6:30 p.m. Mon ..12 ......Lee County Jr. Drill Team (COM) ..................6:30 p.m. Tue ....13 ......Vicki Lei “Tis the Season” (COM) ..................2:00 p.m. Tue ....13 ......Candlelight Dinner (DR) ................................5:00 p.m. Thu....15 ......Speaker Series: Brian Bedford Photos (COM) 6:30 p.m. Fri ......16 ......Sounds of Christmas Choir (COM) ................1:30 p.m. Sun ....18 ......4th Advent Celebration (GS) ..........................6:30 p.m. Mon ..19 ......Resident Council (COM) ................................2:00 p.m. Tue ....20 ......Wellness Series: Stay Healthy (COM) ..........10:00 a.m. Tue ....20 ......Food Advisory (DR)..........................................2:30 p.m. Thu....22 ......Winter Wonderland Luncheon (Arbor) ........11:00 a.m. Thu....22 ......Holiday Favorites w/ Tune Toppers (COM) ....2:00 p.m. Fri ......23 ......Annual Holiday Lunch to P.F. Chang’s (L) ....10:00 a.m. Fri ......23 ......Holiday Vespers (COM) ..................................2:45 p.m. Sat ....24 ......The Nativity Story (SCR) ..................................6:30 p.m. Sun ....25 ......Christmas Dinner (DR) ..............................11-1:00 p.m. Fri ......30 ......Wellness Speaker: Susan Maley (COM) ........10:00 a.m. Sat ....31 ......New Years Eve Party (DR) ............................4-6:00 p.m. Sat ....31 ......Countdown to 2012! (DR) ..............................6:00 p.m. 24

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Thu ....1 ......Birthdays w/Vicki Lei, keyboard (CMR) ..........3:00 p.m. Fri ......2 ......Arbor Tree Lighting Ceremony (1FL) ..............6:00 p.m. Mon ..5 ......Lunch/Shopping to Rib City and Target (1FL) 9:00 a.m. Tue ....6 ......Gift Shop Extravaganza (Social Center) ........10:00 a.m. Tue ....6 ......Making Recycled Christmas Cards (4CR) ........3:00 p.m. Wed ..7 ......Christmas Songs w/Tune Toppers (CMR) ........3:00 p.m. Thu ....8 ......Decorate a Holiday Cookie (DR) ....................11:00 a.m. Thu ....8 ......Holiday Goodies and Cheer (Gazebo) ..............2:00 p.m. Fri ......9 ......Nativity & Light Tour (1FL)..............................5:15 p.m. Sat ....10 ....Village Church Christmas Party ........................2:15 p.m. Mon ..12 ....Graham Milligan’s Christmas Praises (CMR) ....1:00 p.m. Wed ..14 ....Arbor Candlelight Dinner w/music (1DR) ......5:00 p.m. Thu....15......Wellness Speaker: Stacey Daniels (CMR) ......10:00 a.m. Thu ..15 ....Ted Rodgers presents Arbor Cantata (1FL) ......2:00 p.m. Fri......16 ....Sounds of Christmas Choir (CMR) ..................3:00 p.m. Tue....20 ....Christmas Songs w/Dot & Friends (2FM) ........6:30 p.m. Thu ..22 ....Ladies’ Winter Wonderland Lunch (1DR) ......12-1 p.m. Fri......23 ....Arbor/KC lunch to PF Changs (1FL) ..............10:00 a.m. Sat ....25 ....Movie: Christmas Without Snow (1SR) ..............2:00 p.m. Tue....27 ....Shell Point Gift Shop (1FL) ............................11:45 a.m. Tue....27 ....Couples Date Night (1CK)(1SR)......................4:00 p.m. Fri ......30......Wellness Speaker: Susan Maley (CMR) ............9:00 a.m. Sat ....31 ....New Year’s Eve Dinner (1DR) ..........................5:00 p.m.

LARSEN PAVILION Thu......1........Birthday Bash (2/3 DR) ....................................2:30 p.m Thu......3........Resident Council Meeting (3DR) ................10:00 a.m. Fri ........2........Pet Therapy w/ Sammie (2/3 DR) ......10:00/10:30 a.m. Sun ......4........Catholic Communion (IRR)..........................10:00 a.m. Mon ....5........Music w/ Dot ..................................................10:00 a.m. Mon ....5........Music Sing-A-Long ........................................10:00 a.m. Tue ......6........Ruth Rodgers (3 DR)......................................10:00 a.m. Thu......8........Christmas Traditions Dinner (1 Main DR) ....4:00 p.m. Fri ........9........Pet Therapy w/ Sammie (2/3 DR)........10:00/10:30 a.m Sun ......11......Catholic Communion (IRR)..........................10:00 a.m. Mon ....12......Music w/ Dot (2DR) ......................................10:00 a.m. Mon ....12......Graham Milligan (3 DR)................................10:00 a.m. Tues ....13......Ruth Rodgers, Piano (3 DR) ..........................10:00 a.m. Wed ....14......St Micheals Church (2/3 DR) ................2:00/2:30 p.m. Thu......15......Johnny Johnson (3 DR)....................................2:30 p.m. Fri ........16......Pet Therapy w/ Sammie (2/3 DR) ......10:00/10:30 a.m. Sat........17......Tom Cannon (3 DR) ......................................1:30 p.m. Sun ......18......Catholic Communion (IRR)..........................10:00 a.m. Mon ....19......Music Sing-A-Long (3 DR)............................10:15 a.m. Mon ....19......Music w/ Dot (2 DR) ..............................10:00 a.m. Tue ......20......Ruth Rodgers, Piano (3 DR) ..........................10:00 a.m. Fri ........23......Pet Therapy w/ Sammie (2/3 DR)........10:00/10:30 a.m Sun ......25......Christmas Dinner (1 Main DR) ....................11:00 a.m. Sun ......25......Catholic Communion (IRR)..........................10:00 a.m. Mon ....26......Music w/ Dot (2 DR) ......................................10:00 a.m. Tue ......27......Ruth Rodgers, Piano (3 DR) ..........................10:00 a.m. Fri ........30......Pet Therapy w/ Sammie (2/3 DR)........10:00/10:30 a.m

A Craft Bazaar to Remember High Attendance Marks A Busy Two-Day Event The 2011 Shell Point Holiday Craft Bazaar was another spectacular event. “This year’s Craft Bazaar attracted 200 more shoppers than last year’s Bazaar” exclaimed program coordinator Melody Desilets. Beautifully hand-crafted items, ranging from designer handbags to intricatelycarved wooden birds, adorned numerous tables throughout the Woodlands Commons. Barbara Hilton (Rosemont), chairperson of the event, revealed that some of the crafters even sold out of the items they were selling! In those instances, Barbara had the privilege of sending holiday shoppers over to the Gift Shop on The Island to find an additional selection of resident-made items. Overall, the Shell Point community, as well as shoppers from the surrounding community, enjoyed the Craft Bazaar and are looking forward to another great event next year.

SPOT Casting Call Nine Roles to Fill for February Show Shell Point’s Own Theater, more commonly known as SPOT, is gearing up for its 17th performance and they need you! The show, More Than Meets The Eye, is a comedy by Fred Carmichael. There are nine roles in the cast, so there are lots of opportunities to participate. There will be two auditions held in December: • Monday, December 19, at 2 p.m. in the Social Center on The Island • Thursday, December 22, at 4 p.m. in the Manatee Room on The Island All are welcome to give it a try, even those who have not participated in the past. The best part is that no memorization is required! Both men and women are encouraged to join in the fun. More Than Meets the Eye will be presented on February 16.

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One Call Does It All All Day, Every Day Shell Point Call Center Operates Twenty Four Hours A Day, Seven Days A Week

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One of the pleasures of living at Shell Point is the knowledge that you are part of a very professional and progressive organization that never settles for the status quo and always seeks excellence. We have seen excellence in the growth of the healthcare facilities with the completion of the Waterside Medical Complex. Shell Point’s recreation and activities programs are superb, as are the concert and speaker series featured each year. The beauty of the ever-changing landscaping speaks for itself. All this and more has been the result of the desire to be the very best in the business and to better serve Shell Point residents. That same motivation for excellence was the force behind the creation of the Shell Point 24/7 Call Center. Although the concept of expanding the hours of the Call Center was discussed in the past, the thought of 24/7 operations was relatively new and the process that made it a reality came from a very diverse group of Shell Point employees from sales, resident support services, and business services. In 2009, director of sales Ted Benjamin, case manager Janine Hammond, and purchasing

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manager Justin Schiff were selected to par- only thing that changed. The staff tripled ticipate in the inaugural Florida Association in number with the addition of two fullof Homes and Services for the Aging time and three part-time employees. The (FASHA) Leadership Academy conducted by the University of Florida Leadership Development Institute. Shell Point’s senior management team asked the group to research the subject of afterhours communications challenges. The conclusions and recommendations of their study supporting a 24/7 Call Center was approved by president Peter Dys in January 2010. From there, an action plan was developed, a timeline for implementation was established, and, as scheduled, the Call Center began operating on a 24/7 basis in July of 2011. Call Center operator Lori Lindblad documents a The hours of operation were not the service call from a resident.

Shell Point’s senior management team asked a focus group of employees to research the subject of after-hours communications challenges. The conclusions and recommendations of their study supporting a 24/7 Call Center was approved by president Peter Dys in January 2010.

Left: A trip hazard was called in regarding the walkway that leads to The Woodlands tennis courts. Maintenance workers Bob Blaine and Travis Allen worked together to smooth the surface. Below: Maintenance workers Steve Prenoveau and Ralph Savage handle a variety of service requests, such as this call to repair a towel bar in Oakmont.

Operationally, the most significant aspect of the Call Center functioning 24/7 is that residents don’t have to question whom to call after hours. Now all calls, regardless of the time of day, are directed to 454-2190. ONE CALL TRULY DOES IT ALL! Call Center and surrounding offices were business visits by residents are from completely renovated, with construction 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. Assistant Vice President completed in October. One of of Operations Scott Moore the principle features is an easysaid, “The implementation of the access service window in the 24/7 Call Center is proceeding nicely. Facility Operations building for Residents don’t live their lives based residents and staff to use whenon an 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. schedule. ever they need to come to the Thus, we feel as though offering 24Call Center to conduct business. Scott Moore, AVP hour access to the Call Center, Although open for phone calls of Operations seven days a week, is important to 24/7, office hours for personal ensure that we are meeting the needs of Shell Point residents – regardless of the time of day they need assistance.” Operationally, the most significant aspect of the Call Center functioning 24/7 is that residents don’t have to question

whom to call after hours. Whereas calls after hours used to be directed to the Shell Point security team, now all calls, regardless of the time of day, are directed to 454-2190. One call truly does it all! Also, there are a few significant additions to the Call Center’s responsibilities. Most notable for residents are that Comings and Goings, Morning Assurance, and Nurse Call are now handled at the Call Center. It is also important to mention that residents should share the Call Center phone number with family and friends. If a family member ever experiences difficulty contacting a resident, the 24/7 Call Center will assist! Regardless of the time of day, please don’t hesitate to call 454-2190 for any work orders or issues you may have!

Call Center operators Kymberlee Blair, Tammi Bernhardt, Keri Perkins, Lori Lindblad, and others are on the receiving end of “2190” calls. They generate work orders to assist Shell Point residents and staff with a variety of service requests.

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Q&A

FineMark National Bank & Trust Answers Your Questions

Question: How often do I need to review my estate plan? TIFFANY WILLIAMS,

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Although there’s no hardand-fast rule about when you should review your estate plan, you should know it’s important to do a review immediately after any major life event, once a year for a quick review based on the economy or tax code changes, and every five years for a thorough review. There are also circumstantial events that may require you to make changes to your plan to ensure it still meets all of your goals. For example, be sure to review your estate plan if: • Your marital status has changed or the marital status of your children or grandchildren has changed • There has been an addition to your family through birth, adoption, or marriage • Your spouse or family member has died, become ill, or is incapacitated

cuted a codicil to your will) • The executor, trustee, or guardian has changed his or her mind about serving in that capacity Reviewing your estate plan will not only give you peace of mind, but will alert you to any other changes that need to be addressed. Send FineMark Your Questions

• There has been a substantial change in the value of your assets or in your plans for their use • Your income level or requirements have changed • You have made a change in your estate plan (e.g., you created a trust or exe-

Do you have a banking or financial question? FineMark is currently accepting questions from residents to be answered in this Q&A column. Stop into FineMark and leave your question with Tiffany Williams, or call 461-5999 to speak with any member of the FineMark team.

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Why do many people with a charitable gift annuity benefiting Shell Point obtain another one . . . and another? There are at least three reasons: 1. Satisfaction

Most donors ease into their first gift annuity with a degree of concern. After all, this is a new arrangement for them and they wonder how well it will work. Will the payment amount be as promised? Will the checks arrive on time? It doesn't take long for any uneasiness to vanish. Donors soon discover they are having a positive experience. They learn they can count on the income to arrive as promised. And this payment satisfaction draws them back for another annuity.

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Having a life-income agreement like a charitable gift annuity involves an interdependence not experienced with normal annual giving. For one thing, the person is not only giving financial support, but receiving it. This enhanced sense of partnership encourages the feeling that "we are in this together." Additional annuities deepen this connection even further.

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at 85 it is 8.4 percent. A 90-year-old (and older) will receive 9.8 percent. So for many annuitants, it makes sense to obtain additional annuities as they grow older. In today’s interest rate environment, the ability to receive regular fixed income, to obtain an income one cannot outlive, to get income tax benefits, and yet make a strategic difference for the causes they care about, have made charitable gift annuities a very popular giving tool.

3. Better Rates

Gift annuity rates are determined by the annuitant's age. The older you are, the better rates you receive. For example, the current rate for a single-life gift annuity involving a 70-year-old person is 5.8 percent. The rate increases to 6.5 percent for a 75-year-old. At age 80 it is 7.5 percent, and

Gift annuities offer other advantages as well. To obtain further information, please contact the Legacy Foundation at 466-8484. Executive Director Timothy Stephenson will be able to provide a personalized illustration to show how a gift annuity can benefit you.

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Karen Anderson, director of human Haitian employees and their families followresources, was named by the ing the devastating earthquake in 2010. Human Resources Florida State Council as Community Involvement the 2011 HR Professional of the Year. Karen received the distinguished honor for her Passionate about helping others as they commitment to advancing the human seek to enter the job market, Karen serves resources profession by serving as a positive on the board of Dress for Success, where she role model and setting standards for others educates HR professionals about ways the in the field to follow. In her position at Shell program can benefit their organizations and Point, Karen applies her their employees. She also serves on expertise to enhance the the Employer Advisory Board for effectiveness of the organSouthwest Florida Works - the ization and the surroundstate government agency responsiing community. ble for developing work skills for Karen joined the HR the unemployed and underemdepartment at Shell Point ployed, she participates in an in 1996 and was named annual resume coaching event in director in 2001. During the community, and she serves as this time, the Shell Point an “employer expert” regarding the employee population has human resource needs of organizagrown from 425 to more tions in the area to ensure they are Karen Anderson, than 900. In her past fifincluded in transit planning. Director of Human teen years with the organKaren obtained her certificaResources ization, she has managed a variety of tion as a senior professional in human important issues, including the formation of resources in December 2009, and has served a number of employee assistance programs for four years on the board of the southwest such as special assistance for employees fol- chapter of the Human Resource lowing Hurricane Charley, and support for Management Association, including a role

Looking at Financial Markets Recent years have each had their own uncertainties geopolitically and within the financial markets – 2011 has been no exception. We will be discussing the tremendous volatility in the financial markets and the challenges we face with the European debt crisis. Join us for this

timely review of the year and a discussion of what we should expect for 2012. Light refreshments and coffee will be served and there will be time for questions and answers following the presentation. This Legacy Foundation seminar is free; however, seating is limited and reservations are required. Please register at either service desk under the course name: LEGACY.

as chapter president in 2010. She is also past president of the Southwest Florida Chapter of the American Society for Training and Development. Recruiting and Training

“We are proud of Karen’s role in our organization and throughout the community as she recruits, trains, and supports Shell Point’s valuable employee resource,” said President Peter Dys. “I am pleased to see her recognized by her peers with this well-deserved award.” Karen received the Human Resources Professional of the Year Award during the Human Resources Florida 2011 Conference in Orlando in the presence of more than 1,500 human resource leaders.

Year End Wrap Up and Outlook for 2012 Wednesday, December 14 10:00 a.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL Speakers: Jason Scoggins, VP and David Moreland, VP, UBS Financial Group The Scoggins/Moreland Group and Timothy A. Stephenson, Executive Director of the Legacy Foundation, Chartered Financial Consultant

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It is estimated that there are more than five million Americans living with Alzheimer’s disease, and nearly 11 million more serving as caregivers. On Saturday, October 22, a group of 25 Shell Point residents and staff members, along with their friends and family members, gathered in Centennial Park in downtown Fort Myers to participate in the 2011 Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

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“The Alzheimer’s Association holds this two-mile walk each year to bring focus to the important research that is needed to find a cure for this debilitating disease,” explained Cindy Johnson, manager of the memory care unit. “We joined together to show our support by our presence for those affected by this disease. And for the second year in a row, Shell Point won the cheer competition!”

The Memory Walk is the nation’s largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer’s care, support, and research. This year thousands of people across the country participated in the walk to support the fight against Alzheimer’s disease. Shell Point certainly stood out in the crowd in Fort Myers as proud supporters of the cause. The event raised more than $30,000 in support of the move to end Alzheimer’s disease.

Bakeless Bake Sale Thanks You BY BAKELESS BAKE SALE COMMITTEE ME (COQUINA), LINDA NICKERSON (LUCINA),

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nurses and new equipment to enhance healthcare services. As a direct result of your donations, the Auxiliary will be able to continue serving the residents and staff of the Pavilion in many meaningful ways. In turn, the numerous recipients of your donations are grateful and appreciative of the support

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To register to vote, you must use an offiThe Presidential Preference Primary Committee has officially selected cial Florida Voter Registration application. Tuesday, January 31, 2012, for the date of the You can download an application online at Florida Presidential Preference Primary www.leeelections.com, visit one of the Lee (PPP). Florida is a “closed primary” state. If County Elections offices, pick up an applicayou wish to be eligible to vote in the tion at any Lee County Library, or register when representatives Democratic or Republican GET OUT THE from the Lee County primary elections in Florida, Supervisor of Elections you must be registered with Office are at Shell that political party. Voters Point. You may also registered with a minor use the application to political party, or without party affiliation, may not vote for partisan change your party, change your address, or candidates in primary elections; they may update your signature. Once we receive and only vote for issues and nonpartisan candi- process your application, you will be mailed a voter information card. This card will list your dates. The 2012 Presidential Preference can- precinct location, city, county, state, and feddidates will all be Republican. In order to eral districts. There are three methods of votbe eligible to vote in the PPP, you must be ing in Florida: registered as a Republican. The “book clos1) Early Voting ing” date for this election is 5 p.m. on Early Voting is currently offered eight January 3, 2012. That is the final opportunity that people new to the state of Florida days before an election at all of our office can register to vote and the final day that locations and at the East County Regional people already registered to vote can change Library. Lee County registered voters can their party and be eligible to vote in the PPP. vote at any Early Voting site. The hours are

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10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Monday through Friday, and 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday and Sunday. 2) Vote-by-Mail or Absentee Ballot To request your ballot-by-mail, call 239533-6919 or 239-533-8683. We advise that you request your ballot as soon as possible. We can also arrange that you vote-by-mail for all elections through the General Election in November of 2012. The last day to request to have your ballot for the PPP mailed to you is January 25, 2012, or the Wednesday before Election Day. 3) Traditional Voting on Election Day If you choose to vote on Election Day, you must do so in your designated precinct. If you have any questions regarding the upcoming election or your registration status, call LEE-VOTE (533-8683). To ensure that you are prepared to vote in the Presidential Primary in January, see the Lee County Supervisor of Elections Office at the Shell Point Market Place on Friday, December 8.

Election Guidelines

BY NITA DEWEES (SAND DOLLAR)

Helpful Tips for Stress-Free Voting Election year 2012 is coming and it’s time to get prepared! Consider the following as you get ready to cast your vote. Make your voting experience pleasant by ensuring that your address is up to date on your Voter I.D. card. If you need to make a change to your address, call the election office at 533-6918 to get it corrected. All corrections must be made at least thirty days before the election. If you wish to make a change to your party affiliation in order to vote in the Presidential Primary, that change must also

be made thirty days prior to the election. If you are registered as an Independent, you may only vote for other non-partisan items on the ballot. When you head to the polls, leave your Voter I.D. card at home. You only need to bring your photo and signature identification. Even if they are on different documents, you must have both. If you receive an absentee ballot, but would rather vote at your designated precinct, bring the absentee ballot with you to surrender at your Precinct. Do not throw

it away. However, remember, if you want to vote absentee, you must mail your ballot or deliver it to the Election Center. Precinct 83, located in The Village Church auditorium, cannot accept a voted absentee ballot. It is sure to be a busy voting year. Mark these dates on your calendar: January 31 - President Primary August 14 - Primary November 6 - Main Election Voting is not only a right, but it is an American privilege. Please vote! Shell Point Life | December 2011

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Featured Style Nancy Hall of Turban wears a stylish low-maintenance hairstyle that is very modern and flattering to her face shape. The haircut is achieved with layers that follow the shape and curves of Nancy’s head, but are elongated in the nape and parameter around her face. The added length in the nape that rests softly on the neck is perfect for someone with a low neckline or face shape needing to be slimmed by elongating the overall style shape.

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The longer hair resting softly on her face in the cheek area also adds feminine lines to this soft style. Her hair style is shown here with two style options. The first style is finished in the Salon through blow drying and use of a curling iron. Styling in this manner gives the hair Nancy Hall’s flattering hair cut offers maximum versatility. She can opt for a “wash and fluff” approach (left) or go for a more polished look with a curling iron (above).

specific shape and hair direction. Nancy prefers this style option for special occasions. The second style option is an easy-doesit “wash and fluff” version. Nancy chooses to periodically get a permanent wave for style support. She prefers a loose body perm so the hair looks as though it has natural wave. After shampooing, she gently spikes and fluffs with styling foam for added support and style preservation. Both style options provide a level of versatility to this flattering cut. If you would like to know the variety of styling options for your haircut, your Shell Point stylist will be happy to help. Contact the Salon & Spa at 489-8400 to schedule an appointment.

Advanced Esthetics Education Education is a priority for the professionals stylists in the Shell Point Salons & Spa. Recently, esthetician Kendal Colosimo and I traveled to Fort Lauderdale for two days of intense advanced education at the annual Florida Esthetics Conference. We had the honor and privilege to meet and attend several classes instructed by Lydia Sarfati, CEO and founder of Repechage. Shell Point Salon & Spa offers skin care treatments exclusively by Repechage. Repechage means second chance; to renew.

Simply put, Repechage offers products exfoliates by removing dry surface skin. with the most effective ingredients for Benefits are similar to anti-aging, sun damaged skin, and renewal of healthy skin. It is loaded microdermabrasion, with antioxidants and peptides found in but without skin irritamany types of seaweed to target specific tion or reactions. Robyn Church; Lydia skin conditions. Much was learned Sarfati of Repechage; throughout this twoThe advanced esthetics training and Kendal Colosimo focused on disorders of the skin such as day period to enhance Rosacea and technical skills such as the pros the quality skin care services offered at Shell and cons of galvanic current. The training Point. We look forward to sharing what we also covered “the vacuum,” a system that learned with you!

December Salon Savings

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Festive Holiday Skin Care Cranberries aren’t just for turkey dinners! Relax and rejuvenate your skin with our special cranberry facial during December! Cranberries are full of antioxidants that can help ward off wrinkles, reduce redness, decrease pore size, and prevent signs of aging. Enjoy one hour of pampering in the new Island Salon & Spa skin care treatment room. It is sure to reduce holiday stress and leave your skin soft and supple. 32

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5% added to any amount purchased in December All gift certificated purchased in December will include a free 5% value added! Purchase a gift certificate for someone special or treat yourself to extra savings for the services you already enjoy.

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On Wednesday, November 9, and Thursday, November 10, an adventurous group of Shell Point residents boarded a luxury motor coach for an overnight Academy on the Go trip to St. Petersburg. For many, the highlight of the trip was the very first stop - a guided tour of the new Dale Chihuly Exhibit housed in a stunning 10,000 square foot setting of the Morean Arts Center. “The Chihuly Exhibit was wonderfully amazing,” said Rose Donnelly, administrative assistant to resident life. “It was remarkable to see such a forgotten art form make such a presentation in so many ways — floating in a water feature, spread among a botanical garden, and hanging in the foyer of a multi-million dollar home as a magnificent chandelier.” The group was in awe of the museum and its intricate lighting used to display all of the Chihuly blown glass pieces. Everyone was also amazed to tour the actual working “hot shop” and observe some of the glassworks being created! The second day of the trip offered participants the choice of a morning visit to the Museum of Fine Art of the new Salvador Dali Museum. In the afternoon, they ventured to Mixon Farms for lunch and a tour of their orange grove operation. After an exciting two-day trip, the group returned to Shell Point with new knowledge, friends, and experiences, as well as a desire to sign up for the next overnight Academy on the Go trip! Shell Point Life | December 2011

Introduction to Alpha Invitation to Participate in Faith Exploration Series Alpha is much more than the first letter in the Greek alphabet! Alpha is a dynamic way of exploring the basics of Christian faith. Time magazine has said, “Many claim Alpha has changed their lives and appear genuinely happier for the experience.” The Guardian wrote, “What Alpha offers, and what is attracting thousands of people, is an opportunity to discuss the big questions – life and death and their meaning.” Alpha began at Shell Point eight years ago, and has grown so much that more than 400 people have taken the course at Shell Point! The talks are given by Anglican priest Nicky Gumbel of Holy Trinity Brompton Church in London. His humor and clarity of expression, coupled with a low-key presentation style, make the fast-moving talks the focus of each evening and an easy lead into small group discussions.

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During the winter of 2012, the course will be open to all at Shell Point. People of faith from all churches are welcome, as are people who are uncertain of their beliefs. You will find this to be the most welcoming, supportive group you can find - anywhere! Just ask anyone who has attended. The evening begins at 4:30 p.m. with a delicious buffet dinner catered by the Palm Grill and ends a little more than two hours later, in time for your regular evening activities. In between is great food, new friendships, stimulating talks, and an opportunity to discuss matters of importance with others. Best of all, the entire course is free, including all meals, due to the support of The Village Church. You are invited to an introductory session on Tuesday, January 10, in the Grand Cypress Room of The Woodlands. There will be a talk after dinner, entitled, Christianity –

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Each Alpha presentation begins with a dinner in the Grand Cypress Room. Gathered around the table are Maurine Berkner, Keith Verral, Doris Snyder, Rodey Nelson, George Nelson, Fran Kahler, and Doug Quelch.

Boring, Irrelevant, Untrue? Following the talk you can decide whether you wish to sign up for the remaining Alpha sessions. Call The Village Church office at 4542147 to sign up for this introductory dinner and presentation. Act now, as spaces are limited and fill up very quickly. The deadline for registering is Friday, January 6.

Doris Young helped prepare the shoe boxes for shipping.

327 Boxes Filled with Gifts for Boys and Girls Imagine the wonder in a young child’s eyes when they receive a box of gifts, packed with love, from someone thousands of miles away! That is the beauty of Operation Christmas Child. Since its inception in 1993, Operation Christmas Child has hand-delivered more than 86 million shoe boxes filled with Christmas gifts. Each box is wrapped, labeled, and packed with school supplies, clothing, toys, and personal hygiene items for distribution to hurting children around the world. Participating in this project has become one of the annual Christmas traditions at The Village Church. This year, The Village Church and the Shell Point community packed and sent a total of 327 boxes!

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Richard Gregg and Priscilla Waltz were among the group of residents who helped load the boxes for transportation to the drop off location.

Women’s Ministries Celebrates Christmas

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A Reading of The Best Christmas Pageant Ever On December 14, Women’s Ministries of The Village Church will host a very special Christmas coffee with entertainment provided by Shell Point’s Polished Brass who will set the mood with festive holiday music. Coffee and Christmas goodies will be served, but the highlight will be a dramatic reading by resident Neal Clarke (Coquina) of the entertaining and popular Neal Clarke Christmas tale by Barbara Robinson, (Coquina) The Best Christmas Pageant Ever.

The story centers around the Herdman kids, clearly community outcasts and possibly the worst kids in the world. They lie, steal, smoke cigars, swear, and hit little kids. When someone lets the word out that rehearsals for the annual Christmas pageant are followed by cookies, donuts, and other refreshments, the Herdman kids show up and proceed to hijack the production. None of them has ever heard of the Christmas story before, so they develop their own interpretation of the tale — the Wise Men are a bunch of dirty

spies and Herod simply needs a good beating. Come hear the tale and find out how the Herdmans make the pageant the most unusual anyone has seen and, just possibly, the best one ever! Seating at tables for coffee is limited to 200, so please pick up a free ticket at The Village Church in advance. Overflow seating for those without tickets will be offered in the mezzanine. All are welcome to attend this special Christmas coffee event on Wednesday, December 14, at 10:15 a.m. in The Village Church.

Welcome Home! For more information, or to reserve rooms for your visitors, contact the Guest House

(239) 454-2123 The holiday season brings together family and friends to relive past traditions and reflect on the many blessings in our lives. And for many, Shell Point serves as the perfect gathering place for holiday gettogethers due to the tropical setting, mild climate, activities, dining options, and close proximity to local beaches. While it’s wonderful to see family and friends during the holidays, it can also be overwhelming to attempt to play the role of full-time host or hostess at your home. The Shell Point Guest House is available to provide comfortable accommodations at reasonable rates. Located on The Island, the Guest House offers your visitors easy access to concerts at The Village Church, dining at the Crystal Room and Island Café, and a variety of activities happening throughout the community. In addition, extensive ren-

Invite Your Visitors to Stay at the Shell Point Guest House this Holiday Season B Y C I N D Y O ’ G R A D Y,

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ovations and upgrades have enhanced the Guest House rooms to now include the option of one king or two queen beds, fresh paint, new carpeting, updated bathrooms, new window treatments, and much more. The Guest House monitors rates of nearby hotels and adjusts pricing to remain competitive. In addition to the new competitive pricing structure, the Guest House also offers special rates for residents, and discounts to members of AAA, AARP, the military, and guests who stay longer than 30 days. As an added bonus, residents can charge rooms to their monthly statements – which can be a very nice Christmas gift! December 2011

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Concert & Speaker Series Music is in the Air with Two Dynamic Performances in December B

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Don’t miss two outstanding concerts this December as we welcome pianist Yoonie Han and the popular Boston Brass to the Shell Point stage. There is still time to purchase the “Pick Three” option to save a total of $25 off the single ticket price. And remember, tickets make great gifts for family and friends this holiday season.

Yoonie Han Monday, December 5 at 7:00 p.m. Grand Cypress Room/WDL

Concerts and Conversation Series

South Korean pianist Yoonie Han is praised for her flowing tones, poetic phrasing, and heavenly singing melodies. The 26-year-old musician has won top prizes from distinguished competitions and accolades for her performances in major concert halls in the U.S. and around the world. Throughout the 2011-2012 seasons, Ms. Han will make her European debuts with the Berliner Symphoniker, the Bergamo Festival in Italy, and Salle Cortot in Paris. Her U.S. appearances will

include debuts at the Kennedy Center and Boston University’s Tanglewood Institute. In the spring of 2012 she will embark on a tour of Steinway and Sons’ locations throughout the U.S. and Europe. Han made her solo debut with the Seoul Philharmonic at age 13, and has since performed with some of the top ensembles, including the Buffalo Philharmonic, Helsinki Philharmonic, Houston Symphony, Banff Festival Orchestra, and I Pomeriffi Musicali di Milan. Ms. Han received a bachelor’s degree from the Curtis Institute of Music, a master’s degree from Juilliard School, and is currently pursuing a doctor of musical arts at Stony Brook SUNY.

Single tickets: $25

Boston Brass Thursday December 8 at 7:30 p.m. Church Auditorium/IS

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For the past 25 years, Boston Brass has set out to establish a one-of-a kind musical experience. From exciting classical arrangements to burning jazz standards and the best of the original brass quintet repertoire, Boston Brass treats audiences to a unique brand of entertainment which captivates all ages. Through more than 100 performances each year, Boston Brass play to audiences at concerts, educational venues, and jazz festivals. In addition to solo performances, Boston Brass regularly performs with other ensembles, including orchestras and jazz bands. They have performed in 49 states and 21 countries and have conducted master classes around the world. Boston Brass has been featured on CBS’ The Early Show and National Public Radio’s Performance Today. They have also performed at The Great American Brass Band Festival and have recorded several diverse albums. This concert will feature some of the recordings that appear on their two holiday albums, entitled, Christmas Bells are Ringing and The Stan Kenton Christmas Carols.

Single tickets: $35