Program Previews: Concerts, Medical Breakthroughs, and More!
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SETTING THE TABLE FOR POW/MIA
MISSIONS MINDED
A Heart for the Gospel
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COUNT OUR BLESSINGS By Mary Kay Grimaldi Listening to the stories of our featured residents in this month’s issue, I learned a great deal about the value of the phrase “home is where the heart is.” These missionaries who embraced such diverse environments all talked lovingly of the people they served who became like surrogate families. Read about how they followed their heart to find home (pages 3-12). As Florida’s “snowbird season” commences and the holidays approach quickly, find a wealth of reasons to congregate close to this home. Friends form a community here at Shell Point, with activities such as Season of Praise concert with Fort Myers Mastersingers, Fall Mission Week, and Thanksgiving Eve service all at The Village Church (pages 20, 23, and 42); as well as the Concert Series performances (page 22). Get out and vote (Tuesday, November 8), and don’t miss the Veterans Day tribute and the POW/MIA table display (page 21). Attend some classes from the Academy of Lifelong Learning (pages 16–18), and LifeQuest Happenings (pages 24–31),
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including Friday Market Place, Suzy Q pontoon trips, and the Holiday Bazaar (November 4-5). Thirty one years of leadership by Shell Point President Peter Dys will be recognized at a retirement celebration for residents on Thursday, November 10; be sure to RSVP and come to extend your well-wishes. It has been quite an honor to experience first-hand the legacy this visionary has built. Can anything compare? My mother just moved into a retirement community near her longtime home in Elmhurst, Illinois. Like most devoted, but long-distance daughters, I have been frantically investigating what her future lifestyle and healthcare arrangements entail. I am comforted by the assistance of local family members overseeing this transition for the loving lady who raised me so well. However, I still feel that only a thorough onsite visit will assure me that these new surroundings qualify to become the comfortable, familiar home she deserves. We have a high ideal to match with Shell Point as a barometer!
Shell Point Life is published monthly for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community. Editor Mary Kay Grimaldi Creative Director Rich Cerrina Senior Graphic Designer Wendy Iverson Graphic Designer Kathy Grove Contributors Laura Slack, Michelle Tompkins, Teri Kollath, Beth Crenshaw, Robyn Church, Debbie Brewer, Bev Chandley, Dora Robbins, David Singer, Ginny Miller-Plaza, Tom Frackenpohl, Jan Emrich, Melody Desilets, Randy Woods, David Pavey, Morgan Clayman, Claude Emler, Sarah Nadal, Juliana Metzner, Steve Morton, Roger Palms, Susan Uhleman, Marilynn Fowler, Ann Erickson, Dotty Morrison, Tom Irwin, Matt Whelan, McKenzie Millis, Janine Hammond, and Peggy Zimmerman Do you have story ideas or photos to share? Contact Mary Kay Grimaldi, editor, by calling (239) 454-2055 or emailing marykaygrimaldi@shellpoint.org Back Issues Available Online Is there an issue of Shell Point Life that you just have to have? Was your friend or family member in a recent issue but you lost it? You can find the current issue as well as back issues of the magazine at www.shellpoint.org/shellpointlife.
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David and Nancy Pavey (Coquina) loved the people they served through their ministry in France and England, showing how much they care as ambassadors for God. Read about them on pages 4-6. 2
“Declare His glory among the nations, His marvelous deeds among all peoples.”
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Mission Work
A Life’s Calling BY MARY KAY GRIMALDI
Since its founding 48 years ago, Shell Point has been a retirement haven for many missionaries whose sense of “community” spans a broad field. A life of ministry can take many forms, from living in Japan or France, to working with Native Americans or mentoring pregnant teens. Learn why these neighbors followed their heart and adapted their lifestyle to form bonds of friendship and faith with strangers. They found ways to fit in, to help where needed, and especially to share the Word of God. Read their stories to understand how they earned the trust of peoples from distant cultures, to ultimately feel welcomed and belong in an unfamiliar place.
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Nancy and David Pavey moved to Shell Point in 2008, where he now serves as assistant pastor at The Village Church, with an emphasis on administration and people care, including running the 10-week Alpha course each year, an introduction to Christianity. David is also a regular contributor with devotional messages on SPTV.
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avid Pavey (Coquina) was born into a devout, Christian family in Bristol, England, trusting Christ as Savior when he was nine. During his teens, he began a Bible club at his high school, and saw several friends come to Christ as a result. After graduation, he spent a summer doing evangelistic outreach in France with a team of young English people. “The experience made such an impression on me that I volunteered to return as a pastor some day, if God ever made this possible,” David said. At 19, he sailed to New York on the Queen Mary for further studies. Nancy (Spees) Pavey was a thirdgeneration missionary kid (now known as “TCK,” third-culture kid), born in the Belgian Congo (now the DR Congo), where the official language is French. Her grandparents, Bob and Christina Deans,
arrived in 1929 in the heart of Africa to pioneer a mission outreach 50 miles west of Nyankunde, deep in the Ituri rainforest, with Nancy’s mother, then 16, and siblings. Following five years at a boarding school in the Congo, Nancy moved when she was 13 years old to live with Christian foster parents in Kansas. Later, at the University of California, Berkeley, Nancy met David who was studying French there following Bible college in Chicago. She later transferred to Wheaton College in Illinois, and they married in 1962 after Nancy graduated with a degree in elementary education. After helping to plant Valley Church of Moraga, California, in 1968, David left his job as a teacher in the Oakland school system, and this bilingual couple, targeting Christian ministry in France, embarked on a series of overseas endeavors with their two young sons.
MINISTRY À LA FRANÇAISE “A friend from Emmaus Bible College had founded a mission organization, International Teams, and asked us to lead a group of young Christian workers to Lyon, in southern France, at the invitation of a local French church,” David said. “We came to believe this was God’s call, so we put our hands to the plow, trusting God to open or close doors as we began to move.” For eight years during the 1970s, the Paveys realized two major accomplishments as they shared the message of the Bible with the predominantly non-religious population of this major city. One was opening a Christian coffee bar on the ground floor of a 17th century building in the old part of town. “It had to be a French idea in order to succeed,” David explained, “but we gave significant help. Because it was located in Continued on next page
David in Lyon, France, circa 1970, where the Paveys helped establish a Christian coffee house to spread the Word of God among the predominantly non-religious population.
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“For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes.” —Romans 1:16 (NIV) a pedestrian neighborhood, we could easily fish young people in off the streets on Friday and Saturday nights.” Some were converted as a result. “We would also rent big auditoriums to show Billy Graham films,” said David, leading to the second major coup, in collaboration with two French couples and one American to plant a new church, which is still thriving today, with good leadership and its own building. “The French tend to be skeptical about Christianity, but we did what we could,” David said. “Our ministry was all about relationships, earning trust. Young people, dissatisfied with the status quo, were most
Quiet Please! David published Quiet Please! God Sometimes Whispers in 1989, a book of devotional readings, dedicated to his mum and dad, Nancy, and their children. “These meditations are about listening to God, so that we might live for Him,” according to the foreword. “[They] are culturally informed, yet there is an intentional simplicity that reminds us that God is really there…This book also reflects something of the author. There is a warmth, an understanding of the heart, a deep love for God…that tell us a lot about David Pavey.”
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likely to change. Most adult believers made a commitment to Christ before they were out of their teens.” For a dozen years in Prospect Heights, Illinois, David served as a missions administrator. A talented pianist, Nancy was active in promoting and playing contemporary worship music in their church and at conferences during those years, as well as mentoring young women. The couple then returned to France, based in suburban Paris. During this second term in France, David worked as field leader for International Teams in Western Europe, facilitating some 40 church workers in France, Austria, Spain, and Italy. Nancy traveled with him during these years. “We developed longtime friendships in Europe, and are still in touch and working with the older generation,” Nancy said.
THE ROAD TO EARN TRUST In 1997, David returned to his native soil becoming part of the leadership team of a large Baptist church in Luton, a working-class community near London, England, which was experiencing an influx of émigrés from Kosovo, Albania, Syria, the Congo, and other countries. In time, about 20 adult migrants attended services on Sunday mornings. Nancy helped by conducting up to five Bible studies each week. “Nancy and I made outreach to these immigrants a priority, seeking to demonstrate and communicate the love and message of Christ to them,” David said. “When we saw people on our doorstep, we saw an opportunity, not a threat.” The couple helped refugees with practical needs and items for their homes.
Top: The Paveys became close with an Albanian refugee family, who recently visited Florida from their newly established home in the UK. Above: David visits immigrant friends from the Balkans living in Luton, England.
Like Christian Robin Hoods, the Paveys collected and provided baby supplies, furniture, and appliances. They helped immigrants find homes, jobs, medical help, and prepare forms relating to immigration and benefits. The Paveys also helped communicate with lawyers, the courts, doctors, and hospitals. “The migrants didn’t warm up to us right away, but as we served people, they started to listen, and we earned their trust; some accepted our message, and some didn’t,” said David. “We didn’t serve for results or reward, but because God called us to serve, and we responded. “For years we just loved the people. They don’t care what you know, until they know that you care.” David and Nancy were encouraged a few years ago by their visit to Aberdeen, Scotland, where Nancy’s ancestors received their original call to the Congo. Today, a fourth generation of missionaries, the Paveys’ two sons are involved in mission work in France, with their wives. “And we are not through being God’s ambassadors yet,” David promised. n
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would warm slate blocks on the wood stove, wrapping them in towels to keep her younger sisters’ feet warm. She was #5 of eight girls (including a set of twins who came along second in line), all born on her family’s property in Meadowlands, located 200 miles north of St. Paul, Minnesota, where her parents had met. But it was hard to make a living in the north country, farming on the 30 acres they had cleared near the small woods. So they Continued on next page
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eventually joined her mother’s brother back in the city, where virtually everyone worked for the 3M conglomerate (formerly called Minnesota Mining and Manufacturing Company). “My mother was always interested in finding a church for us to attend and to be involved as a family,” Anna said. “We often listened to good Gospel broadcasts on the radio, and one Saturday night, we heard Rev. Paul Kenyan, an evangelist from the C&MA (Christian and Missionary Alliance).” Anna’s mother proclaimed that if they were preaching like this at the church in St. Paul, then we wanted to go there. “The minute we walked in next Sunday morning, we were home,” said Anna. She signed her confirmation vow to be faithful to the Lord, then later taught at Vacation Bible School (VBS).
GIFTS FROM FRIENDS: Over the course of her missionary travels, Anna collected gifts presented for her kindness – a pink quilt with traditional star pattern made by Sioux ladies marking her 25th anniversary as an Alliance worker; a handbeaded necklace made by Roberta Big Knife; and a silver ring inset with mother of pearl and engraved with the initials “HM” (made by evangelist Herman Williams).
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These steps launched a life of Alliance work for Anna, after attending St. Paul Bible Institute (SPBI, now known as Crown College) in St. Bonifacius, Minnesota. While she was initially interested in helping those in China, by the time she graduated, the country was closed to missionaries. Following her evolving interests each year, Anna soon became certain she would go to the Philippines. “I joined prayer bands, attended meetings, and studied the country. I knew in my heart that this was for me, and anxiously prayed to the Lord for an answer,” she said. Soon after graduating and taking a job to pay off her small college debt, a pastor came to visit. His sister was a missionary at Fort Totten, North Dakota, working with the Sioux tribe at Devil’s Lake Indian Reservation. “She was looking to replace a co-worker who was getting married and moving away,” Anna said. “Just as I had envisioned it earlier, when the right place came, I would know it.” So she left the bright lights and noises of the city for a different world, the experience of a lifetime. Anna traveled 400 miles by train to Devil’s Lake, the closest stop to her Fort Totten destination. It was a quiet and totally black night when she arrived at the place
she would call home for the next three years. She settled into life in the free-range prairies of the Dakotas, where horses and cattle wandered corral-less. “I awoke one night to a most unusual sound, and learned that these large animals would wander into the yard then rub up against the building to get warm,” she said. “In Minnesota, temperatures in the winter could go to 20 below zero, and the colder it got, the more still the air became. But in North Dakota, the colder it got, the harder the wind would blow. On a bare stretch along the highway, snow drifts could be up to 10 feet high. They became like brick walls, packed solid.”
LEARNING INDIAN WAYS
Fort Totten was built after the Civil War by the U.S. Army to protect American settlers in the area. Later, the fort was adapted for use as an Indian boarding school, one of several run by the federal government through the Bureau of Indian Affairs. When Anna arrived in 1942, it had transitioned into what she called a “farmer fort,” mostly housing government workers, with a church building for regular services, Bible studies, and youth work. “All the kids mingled and attended the same school, spending time together at parties,” Anna said. “During winter we would toboggan
and ski, without any fancy equipment. The kids practically grew up on ice skates.” “I just became one of them,” she said, describing her later years at Fort Yates in western North Dakota, where Chief Sitting Bull was originally buried. “The older Indian ladies would gather for quilting; it was their way to have fun, although they usually asked me to help with cooking in the kitchen.” The women loved sewing and treasured donations of old clothes, especially men’s suit pants, trimming the less-worn legs for quilt patches, and saving the sturdy zippers and buttons for other projects. “I would teach them some traditional Christian hymns translated into their Sioux language. Their favorites were ‘Higher Ground’ and ‘Nearer My God to Thee,’” said Anna. Fry bread was a traditional treat at these ladies’ meetings, made of heavy dough shaped like a thick pancake, and paired with a cup of dark coffee. Most meals revolved around game in this part of the country, particularly the abundant pheasants, which the natives called “chinks.” “We just about lived on those birds,” Anna remembered, while fish were more prominent on the menu in her home state,
the land of 10,000 lakes, where her family feasted on Northern Pike and Walleye.
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Then, during the early WWII years, men headed to the West Coast to work in defense plants, and many Indians moved to Seattle. The fort became a ghost town. Anna’s roadtrip for God next took her even further west, and further north to Montana, where a co-worker had a vision to convert an old school in Ronan, near the entrance to Glacier Park. “It was quite an adventure, finding our niche,” she said. “Like Abraham, we went out, not knowing whither we went.” It was a long way from North Dakota, hauling everything they owned in suitcases with virtually everything rationed – from gallons of gas to the two bald tires they needed to last the duration of the trip. They arrived and found an Alliance church on solid footing there, and it became a new home away from home where Anna spent the longest, most fruitful years of her mission work. Anna was asked to scout out land for another church just a little further south, in Missoula, Montana. “We had $10 for
Anna recalls a special memory that she captured in 35mm slide format of her friend Ellen Big Sam from Arlee, Montana. Years later, an artistic neighbor painted a portrait of this Sioux mother sitting on a fringed blanket holding her son Nelson Big Sam cradled in an intricately beaded baby board with snowcovered mountains in the distance.
expenses, and still brought back change after two days searching,” she said. “We pinched pennies, even using a $1 gift for my birthday, to get enough to spend $25 each for four lots just one block off the main street in Arlee, where an Indian population was centered.” Spending 14 years there, Anna felt she had planted roots and blossomed in Arlee. Every summer, she coordinated a kids Bible camp in Kalispell, and the Alliance presence was felt all the way north in Polson and Whitefish up to the Canadian border. Her mission accomplished, Anna eventually turned her head south for Florida, moving to Bradenton to get re-acclimated. She has been at Shell Point several years now, visiting The Village Church every chance she gets. n Shell Point Life | November 2016
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ob and Karen Formica (Cameo) are among the newest residents of Shell Point, moving here in June 2016. They decided at this crossroads in their lives that this would be a logical home base for their ongoing travels to the 121 Christian and Missionary Alliance (C&MA, or Alliance) churches in the Florida district. Having heard President Peter Dys’ presentations to church ministers, encouraging them to begin saving early for their retirement and consider Shell Point as their “Lifestyle with Lifecare” choice, the Formicas found that the numbers worked in their favor, applying the C&MA workers agreement modified contract. Still actively working, Bob and Karen are now global link associates, encouraging local congregations to engage in international missions and explaining how churches can be more involved in spreading the good news of the gospel overseas. They are away from their Shell Point home three Sundays every month, and Bob will soon lead a group on a pastors’ vision trip to countries like Russia and Jordan.
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Karen made a commitment to the Lord when she was just 11 years old, acknowledging her pastor’s simple “yes or no” question about whether she would go wherever
God asked her to go. She attended Bible school and seminary in Canada. Bob had the same schooling in New York, though his journey to God’s work began on a different path. “I was raised in an Italian Catholic family,” Bob said, “but God seemed far away and impersonal. I lacked purpose and direction for my life, and was not happy, even attempting to fill the void with alcohol and drugs. One day while attending a vocational school, I saw a sign for a Bible study and decided to attend.” Reading the Bible filled this void, particularly John 3:16 (“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life”). “It dawned on me that night that what people at the Bible study had, I was lacking in my life,” Bob said. “I realized that it’s not about religion, but about a personal relationship with Jesus. I was born again that very night, and my desire for alcohol and drugs was totally gone. My life was radically changed, and God gave me a peace, love, and joy I had never known before.” During the next year, God led Bob into the Alliance, as he was impressed with the power and simplicity of the church’s emphasis on Jesus Christ as Savior, Sanctifier, Healer, and Coming King. Continued on next page
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FIRST ASSIGNMENTS These future missionaries met in Toronto while they were both enrolled in a four-week linguistics class. “Mission boards conduct these programs to enable missionaries to learn how to adapt their native tongue to the different sounds and grammar in the countries where they will be assigned,” Karen explained. Among the 173 participants in that particular class, Bob and Karen met for the first time. “Within five weeks we were engaged, went home to meet each other’s parents, and were married six weeks later,” said Bob. “Within four months, we were living on Luzon Island in the Philippines.” As missionaries with the Alliance, Bob was there to plant churches, partnering with the strong national pastor structure on this country’s largest island, home to its capital of Manila. Karen became involved in women’s ministries, and focused on raising their three children who came along during the 10 years they spent amid this Southeast Asian culture in the western Pacific. “It was a joy working with these pastors, and seeing them grow in faith and leadership,” Bob said. Through TEE (Theological Education by Extension), students learn each week how to teach and apply the Biblical truths through study of the Book of Matthew. This two-year program equips lay people who cannot attend Bible school. After the Philippines, the Formica’s furlough placed them in Fort Myers at North Shore Alliance Church for the next decade, while their children grew from elementary school to high school age. From there they moved on to the First Alliance Church in Orlando for seven years.
MINISTERING YOUTH “We had a sense that God was calling us into a totally different ministry,” Karen said, describing their entrée into the role of house parents at a crisis pregnancy home in Coconut Creek, on Florida’s east coast. They mentored pregnant teens, many of who were part of the state’s foster care system, through “4Kids – His Caring Place.” “It’s unique how God called us to this
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The Formica family includes (L-R) son Joseph, a Brazilian jiu-jitsu coach in Naples, pictured with Theresa; daughter Carolyn, an occupational therapist, along with husband Cory, a paramedic, who lives in Orlando; and daughter Marie, a nurse in Tampa; joined by parents Bob and Karen.
new role,” Bob said. After 29 years of marriage, this young couple now serves as parttime relief house parents at Lifeline Family Center, a maternity home in nearby Cape Coral. For 20 years, this ministry has provided a positive alternative to abortion for young women faced with unplanned pregnancies, giving both mother and baby hope for the future. In Isaiah 40:11, God promised to “gently lead those who are with young.” This safe, Christian home setting offers a dozen girls a structured life, daily coping skills, and opportunity for a career and personal growth – optimistically providing a secure future for each child.
Lifeline Family Center’s Life Scripture “The Lord will guide you always; He will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a wellwatered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.” – excerpt, Isaiah 58:11
“During a typical day, the girls are awake at 6 a.m., feeding and dressing their babies for day care by 7:15,” Karen said. “They then clean their rooms, eat breakfast, have devotions, then meet for group prayer and discussion from 8:30-9 a.m.” To expand their education, the girls are typically in classes seven hours each week day, working toward a high school GED or associate degree, and learning about parenting, cooking, and other household skills. “Each girl is assigned to cook meals for a week, but all pitch in with the kitchen chores,” said Karen. “Their babies join them at 5 p.m., and by 7 they have time for play or reading to the children before the young ones’ bedtime at 8 p.m. After another hour with time for reflection and prayer, the girls are ready to retire to their rooms by 9:30 p.m.” This five-day routine creates a pattern of comfort and stability, with opportunity for individual activities on Saturday and attending church each Sunday. These new mothers arrive pregnant, then can stay for two years learning how to make good choices to live on their own and support themselves and their children. The Village Church provides regular financial assistance to this ministry. “Many of these girls typically have broken relationships or family issues, so counseling is provided,” Bob explained. “They work through relationship problems and past hurts, and many find genuine healing and reconciliation. “Through our work we have seen God change many hearts.” n
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It started in 1972, when Shell Point resident volunteers found a new purpose for canceled stamps. The Alliance Stamp Ministry has been collecting, trimming, sorting, and selling stamps to collectors in an effort to raise funds for Spanish-language Christian reading materials. Since the ministry began 44 years ago, $924,000 has been donated to help spread the word of God in Latin America. Publicaciones Alianza prints these materials, and in September, its President Daniel Fanderwud, along with book author Debora Steffens, made the journey from Argentina to talk with ministry volunteer co-leaders Ben and Treva Crump (Junonia) to learn more about their efforts, and to see firsthand how the stamps are processed to be sold. “Stamps have a second life,” said Jim Riccitelli (Arbor), who serves as the Elder Liaison to the Stamp Ministry from The Village Church. “And it may provide eternal life through use of these books in the Sunday school programs in Latin America,” added Treva.
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artha Hoke (Sundial) is a national Christian women’s club speaker, world traveler, and musical soloist. She spent 22 years with her husband Don in Japan, learning the language and the ways of life amidst the populous Tokyo metropolis, the country’s capital … and helping to spread the Word of God. Don was founder and president of the Tokyo Christian College, and it was in 1954 that Martha leveraged her home economics skills to ‘win friends and influence people’ there by organizing Christian women’s clubs. “I offered free American cooking classes, and the room was jammed,” she said, explaining that during that era, Japanese husbands were not open to hearing directly about Jesus, but they certainly enjoyed tasting the strange, new dishes their wives learned to make. “After the meatloaf, pies, or cookies were assembled and baking in the oven, I played songs at the piano,” Martha said. “The ladies especially liked ‘What a Friend We Have in Jesus,’ and after hearing my Bible lessons, many became Christians.” Having taught music at Columbia International University in South Carolina, Martha further applied her musical talents when teaching music and classes at the local missionary children’s school. She also spoke and sang at various U.S. Air Force bases in Japan.
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“Don knew evangelist Billy Graham and Billy’s wife, Ruth Bell, when they were students at Wheaton College in Illinois,” said Martha, who later became friends with Ruth and Ruth’s parents, who had been medical missionaries in China. While Ruth considered North Carolina her home, she had compassion for the peo-
“After the meatloaf, pies, or cookies were assembled and baking in the oven, I played songs at the piano.” —Martha Hoke ple of Asia, sending prayers and support to mission efforts throughout Japan, Korea, and elsewhere. Meanwhile, Martha continued speaking to Christian women’s clubs at luncheons around Switzerland. After spending two years as director of the Lausanne World Congress on Evangelism, an English-language church in Switzerland, Don returned to the United States in 1974 to become executive director of the new Billy Graham Center for Evangelism, established at Wheaton College. The Center developed into a “world hub of inspiration, research, preaching, and training” to glorify Christ, designed to serve every church in teaching the Gospel to the world.
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After establishing the Center, Don returned to the pulpit in 1978 as pastor of Cedar Springs Presbyterian Church in Knoxville, Tennessee. For 18 years, he answered the call from God every day,
growing that congregation from 635 members to almost 2,000. Martha shared Bible classes each week at her church and also at a nearby restaurant and country club. In the meantime, their son Steve became vice president of a mission in California, while living in Fort Collins, Colorado. Another son Don was a business executive in Nevada, but was killed in an airplane crash in the Philippines. Martha started a yearly women’s Bible conference in Gatlinburg, Tennessee, and visited the Shell Point Guest House when she came here to speak at a Christian women’s conference in the area. After Don retired, they became Shell Point residents. Later, after Don became ill and needed the consistent care provided by the Larsen Pavilion, Martha was there with him all day, tucking him into bed each night. She now volunteers as a member of the Pavilion Auxiliary, welcoming guests at the reception desk. Over the years, Martha has taught Bible classes at the Social Center, King’s Crown, and Grand Cypress Room of The Woodlands. She directed game night every Friday for two years, taking special care to gather various singles to join and play. “I enjoyed it, and met so many fine people,” she said. “Often the teacher gets more than they give.” During her annual dramatic readings of Christmas stories at The Village Church, she would sometimes invite children from a local Presbyterian church, who would sit at her feet, nibbling her delicious cookies, enraptured as they listened to “Aunt Martha’s” Christmas tales. “I’ve had a wonderful life, and the best is yet to come, in heaven!” Martha said. n
Martha sang classical music and sacred songs during two radio programs while in college in Johnson City, Tennessee. “My voice teacher wanted me to become an opera singer, but the Lord had other plans for me,” she said. Later, as her husband Don was assistant to the president at Columbia Bible College in South Carolina, she became music director there, teaching glee club and private voice lessons. Shell Point Life | November 2016
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and the special challenges inherent with the brokenness that comes from strife-ridden displacement. Seth Mendell (Tellidora) continues his series The Inter-War Years (19181939): Witness the Rise of Communism, Fascism, Nazism, and Militaristic Japan with the last two sessions on Monday, November 7, Part Five: The Conflicts of the 1930s: Japan’s Aggression in China: The Italo-Ethiopian War and the Spanish Civil War (FLL33) and on Monday, November 14, Part Six: The Approach of War – Nazi Aggression in Austria,
Czechoslovakia, and Poland (FLL38). This concludes his second series, bridging his series of WWI in fall semester 2015 and the series on WWII coming in fall semester 2017. Digital Painting on the iPad (FLL34) is another example of the way Herb Sklar (Eagles Preserve) challenges himself, and us, to explore and enrich our artistic experiences. Join him on Wednesday, November 9, for a half-day workshop to learn how to get started painting digitally, using an app that is “like having a closet full of art supplies!” Susan Willoughby launches another four-Wednesday session of playing bridge with instruction, beginning Wednesday, November 9, with Intermediate Bridge (FLL35). The Diverse and Contrasting World that We Live In: The Not-So-Trivia Quiz (FLL36) on Saturday, November 12, is this semester’s opportunity to learn from a new trivia contest as we enjoy lunch with Professor Adrian Kerr. Shell Point Retirement Community has grown in its nearly 50 years from a single neighborhood to become Florida’s largest continuing care retirement community with five distinct neighborhoods, rich with beautiful landscapes and amenities. Join President Peter Dys as he shares 31 years of recollections and presents The History of Shell Point (FLL31) on Thursday, November 3.
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David Singer (Tellidora) will present Photo Journalism: The Least of These (FLL37) in a two-part program called
on Monday, November 14, and Tuesday, November 15. This visual tour of prison life was compiled during his many years working with Chuck Colson, founder of Prison Fellowship, a ministry dedicated to changing the lives of prisoners and their families through the Gospel.
David Singer (Tellidora) is a photo journalist who has traveled the world. His writer’s grasp of illustrated storytelling brings to life Matthew 25:40, “I tell you the truth, when you did it to the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!” In this two-part program Photo
Journalism: The Least of These (FLL37) on Monday, November 14, and Tuesday, November 15, we travel with David into prison life in the U.S., Latin America, and Russia; relief work following hurricanes in Honduras, Houston, New Orleans, and Galveston; work in “garbage villages” in Guatemala and Egypt; Bible work in the military and among Native Americans; relief work among the poor in Appalachia and among Hispanics in Northeast Los Angeles; and Bible work in Liberia and among the blind in the Philippines. Each November, we welcome staff from the Lee County Sheriff’s Department and Abby Services, Inc., to provide an educational program developed by AARP, AAA, and the American Occupational Therapy Association, to make sure our car fits us. Sign up for CarFit (FLL39) on Tuesday, November 15. In Partition: How England Managed the Separation of Southern Ireland, Pakistan, and India (FLL40) on Tuesday, November 15, Professor Adrian Kerr focuses on the momentous times leading to independence for each of these rich and vital areas belonging to Great Britain. To be able to understand the current turmoil in the Middle East, we must first step back in time to understand the history and culture of the great powers that have ruled the region. In The Middle East: What Are the Origins of the Turmoil? (FLL41) held on Tuesday, November 29, Professor Adrian Kerr will investigate some of the most infamous milestones on this
long journey, and we will complete the picture by reviewing the current conflicts that continue to engulf the region.
Legacy Foundation To Be Frank: Building the American Dream in Business and Life (LS03) will be presented on Tuesday, November 1, by Frank Morsani, businessman and author; and Al Hanser, founder and chairman of the Sanibel Captiva Trust Company. Enjoy pearls of wisdom and anecdotes that Frank has to offer from his book, by the same name. Every two seconds another American becomes a victim of identity theft. While there are steps you can take to reduce your risk, there are other types of theft that cannot be prevented, which could result in grave consequences. Join us on Wednesday, November 9, for Identity Theft: More than a Financial Risk (LS04) as the Legacy Foundation and FineMark National Bank & Trust co-host this presentation conducted by Carrie Kerskie, director of the Identity Fraud Institute at Hodges University, and herself a victim.
Academy On the Go Our educational field trip for November is so packed with education, adventure, and excitement, it has to last two days! Join us Continued on next page
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November’s Academy On the Go trip will be packed with education, adventure, and excitement!
Safari Wilderness Frank Lloyd Wright design
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on Thursday, November 10, and Friday, November 11, as we travel to Lakeland and Lake Wales for Enter the World of Frank Lloyd Wright, Take an African Safari, and Enjoy the Bok Tower Gardens Sanctuary (OTG05) on this overnight adventure.
Technology Penny Modrich (Nautilus) continues to lead the Apple iPad, iPhone, & Mac: Free Walk-In Clinic (T3-04) every Saturday through November 26. Bring your device and your Apple password for answers to your personal questions by knowledgeable volunteers. Larry Brock (Eagles Preserve) will teach a course on three Thursdays beginning November 3 to show you how to use almost any Android device. Bring your Samsung Galaxy, Google Nexus, Motorola Droid, Acer, Toshiba, or LG to Intro to Android Smartphones and Tablets (T3-22) to learn basic operations. The New Apple TV: The Beginning of the “Future TV” (T3-21) taught by Bruce
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Join this month’s Academy On the Go adventure on Thursday, November 10, and Friday, November 11, as we travel to to Central Florida – Lakeland and Lake Wales — for Enter the World of Frank Lloyd Wright, Take an African Safari, and Enjoy the Bok Tower Gardens Sanctuary (OTG05).
Findley (Sundial) on Thursday, November 3, explains the small black box that connects to your HDTV, bringing the ability to explore many new entertainment functions. Penny Modrich presents Printing from Your Apple iPad/iPhone (T3-11) on Monday, November 7, to show how easy it can be to connect and print from either device to an “air print” printer. On two Mondays, November 7 and 14, Bob Jakubiec (Lucina) will offer a detailed examination and explanation of your iPad’s controls, along with interesting operations and manipulations in Basic iPad 1 (T3-12). Apple iPhone: Is it time to change your iPhone and make your life easier? (T3-18) will be taught by Bruce Findley on two Mondays, November 7 and 14. This class introduces you to the capabilities of the two latest iPhones – the 6s and the newest iPhone 7. The New Apple Watch: A Day in the Life of My Watch (T3-19) will be taught by Bruce Findley on Thursday, November 10. See and touch the most personal device Apple has ever made, to help you understand why you might want or need one. Megs Singer (Tellidora) teaches all you need to get started connecting with family and friends through Apple iPad: Facebook Basics (T3-13) on two Thursdays,
November 10 and 17. In Apple iPad: Calendar (T3-14) on two Mondays, November 14 and 21, Penny Modrich teaches the useful and easy-touse app that can ensure you never miss an appointment again. Bruce Findley will take you from opening the box to customizing this device, in Apple iPhone: The ‘New’ Watch and the New Operating System (T3-20) on Thursday, November 17.
Stay Tuned Please refer to the Academy brochure or on the resident website for more information. There is also a calendar you can print online. Continue to confirm your class selections in the Weekly Reminder, as any last-minute changes will be posted there or on SPTV. You can contact either service desk for registration and questions. We welcome ideas for future courses, and look forward to seeing you at an Academy class soon!
2016-2017 Medical Breakthroughs & Discoveries
Healthcare Speaker Series Highlights
Leading-Edge Medicine The Shell Point Health Connection program, hosted by The Legacy Foundation, has scheduled four interesting and informative sessions for its 2016-2017 Medical Breakthroughs & Discoveries healthcare speaker series, designed to share updates on the latest advances in medical research and healthcare practice. Search your fall Health Connection catalog for details, and plan to attend these stimulating discussions. They are free and open to the public, but sign-up is required – Shell Point residents contact either service desk; event line for the public, call (239) 433-7936.
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Medical Advancements in Minimally Invasive Hip and Knee Replacement
Genomics & Precision Medicine: One Size Healthcare Does Not Fit All
Thursday, December 8, 2016, 2:15 p.m.
Monday, February 13, 2017, 2:15 p.m.
Presented by Dr. Daniel J. Harmon, Lee Memorial Health System
Presented by Dr. Alexander S. Parker, Mayo Clinic
Grief is a Journey: Dealing with Loss as We Age
Shifting Landscapes: Controversies, Updates and Advances for Prostate Cancer
Thursday, January 5, 2017, 2:15 p.m. Presented by Dr. Kenneth J. Doka, Senior Consultant to the Hospice Foundation of America
Tuesday, March 28, 2017, 2:15 p.m. Presented by Dr. Jason A. Efstathiou, Massachusetts General Hospital
Underwriting provided by these sponsors:
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The Season of Praise concert series begins on Sunday, November 13, at 6:15 p.m., at The Village Church, with the Fort Myers Symphonic Mastersingers and the debut of the Mastersingers City of Palms Youth Choir presenting a festive celebration of sacred songs, entitled The Future of Music. Since forming in 2001, the Mastersingers have grown from a small chorus to a diverse vocal ensemble of more than 65 men,
women, and young musicians, representing all walks of life: doctors, lawyers, homemakers, nurses, businessmen and women, music educators, musicians, retirees, and talented students from our city. Under the baton of Jeff Faux and Matt Koller, these singers are dedicated to the performance of significant choral works as well as innovative programs, and enjoy a reputation for musical excellence. Selections include Mendelssohn’s setting of
Psalm 43; the Kyrie and Gloria from Mass by Persichetti; the timeless spirituals Sometimes I Feel like a Motherless Child and Down by the Riverside; and more. All concerts require the purchase of a non-refundable $10 ticket, available at the church office or online at www.shellpoint. org/seasonofpraise. For more information, call (239) 454-2147.
LifeQuest Discussion Group: Emotional Dimension
Transitions – A Journey of Personal Discovery How change can enhance our emotional and spiritual strength Presented by Pat Divinnie (Eagles Preserve) Saturday, November 19 • 10 a.m. • Grand Cypress Room/WDL Join resident Pat Divinnie (Eagles Preserve) as she uses her past experience and expertise to highlight the emotional and spiritual aspects of change. Pat has a bachelor of arts degree in Bible Literature and a master of science degree in educa-
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tion. Her work experience ranges from positions in the healthcare industry to serving as a personnel officer in the military, retiring after 35 years of civilian service in the federal government. For the most part, Pat worked within the specialty of personnel
security, spending the last 13 years as a federal transition assistance program officer. While working closely with the disciplinary arm of Human Resources, she assisted individuals who were being dismissed from federal service to transition to other careers.
A SMALL TRIBUTE FOR VETERANS DAY
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Setting the Table The POW/MIA, or “missing man,” table is smaller than the others, symbolizing the frailty of one prisoner alone against his or her oppressors. This table is separate from the others, and is set for one. The white tablecloth draped over the table represents the purity of their response to our country’s call to arms. The empty chair depicts an unknown face, representing no specific soldier, sailor, airman, or marine, but rather all who are not here with us.
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The table itself is round to show that our concern for them is never ending. The Bible represents faith in a higher power and the pledge to our country, founded as one nation under God. The black napkin stands for the emptiness these missing warriors have left in the hearts of their families and friends. A single red rose in the vase signifies the blood that many have shed in sacrifice to ensure the freedoms of our beloved United States of America. This rose also reminds us of the families and friends of our missing comrades who keep the faith, while awaiting their loved one’s return. A yellow ribbon on the vase represents the yellow ribbons worn on the lapels of the thousands who demand with unyielding determination a proper accounting of our comrades who are not among us. The slices of lemon on the plate remind us of their bitter fate. The salt upon the plate represent the tears of their families. The glass, turned upside down, reminds us that our distin-
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The honorary lighting of a memorial candle at a POW/MIA table.
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2016-2017 SHELL POINT CONCERT SERIES FINE & PERFORMING ARTS CONCERT SERIES
The Four Freshmen Saturday, Nov. 12 • 7:30 p.m. • Village Church/IS • Tickets: $35 The Four Freshmen was one of the top vocal groups of the 1950s, and formed the bridge between 1940s ensembles like the Mel-Tones and harmonybased rock & roll bands like the Beach Boys and groups like Spanky & Our Gang and the Manhattan Transfer. The group’s roots date to the end of the ‘40s and a barbershop quartet-influenced outfit called Hal’s Harmonizers, organized at the Arthur Jordan Conservatory of Butler University in Indiana, formed by two brothers, Ross and Don Barbour. Their repertoire centered on standards such as “Moonglow” and “The Christmas Song,” and they began to show an unusu-
ally free, improvisational approach to their harmony singing. A couple of membership changes brought Bob Flanigan, a cousin, into the fold alongside Hal Kratzsch, and suddenly the Four Freshmen were assembled in all but name. They are completely self-contained instrumentally, each member playing more than one instrument and allowing the others to switch off to different roles. Their first hit single was “It’s a Blue World,” released in 1952. They released their first LP, Voices in Modern, in 1955, a vocal pop effort showcasing the members’ complex playing and singing. This approach to devising and creating albums
would have an influence on groups like the Beach Boys that was nearly as important as their harmony sound. With membership changes along the way, and following the arrival of the “British Invasion,” the Four Freshmen was voted Vocal Group of the Year by Down Beat magazine in 2000, and Mosaic Records label proudly proclaimed the quartet’s validity as a jazz outfit in 2001.
CONCERTS & CONVERSATION SERIES — FLUTISTS
William & Beth Larsen Monday, Nov. 21 • 7 p.m. • Grand Cypress Rm/WDL • Tickets: $25
Flutist William Larsen has performed Bach’s Brandenburg No. 4 and Pandora’s Waltz: a flute concerto, written by James Stephenson III in honor of his 25th season with the Southwest Florida Symphony Orchestra, where Bill has been the principal flute for 31 years. The flutes that Bill plays are hand-
made to his specifications by Chris Abell in Asheville, North Carolina. The instruments are entirely modern in terms of scale, bore, and key design, and are made of grenadilla wood, like that used for clarinets and oboes. Beth Larsen serves as second flute/ piccolo with the Southwest Florida Symphony and the Palm Beach Opera Orchestra, and plays third flute/piccolo with the Naples Philharmonic Orchestra.
She also teaches flute and piccolo privately at home in Fort Myers. “Nearly 20 years ago, Bill and Beth Larsen taught me discipline, technique, theory, and musicality. Always encouraging and supportive, they helped me navigate my musical journey as well as my personal one, and I find that I’ve applied their lessons to all areas of my life ever since.” —Jessica Randolph Burbank, flute student.
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Through the Arab-American Learning Center, Pastor Awabdeh helps refugees in his community who have lost everything – their possessions, culture, language, and identities. The Arab Christian Church offers services that help them settle in their new land.
Pastor Awabdeh will speak at The Village Church on Sunday, November 6, at 10:15 a.m. and 6:15 p.m., and at the Social Center on The Island on Monday, November 7, at 7:15 p.m., with a presentation titled “An Open Conversation with Raed Awabdeh.” For more information about this upcoming series with Raed Awabdeh, contact the church office at (239) 454-2147.
Raed Awabdeh also will speak about Middle East Refugees: God Hears the Cries of the Oppressed (FLL32) at a class for the Academy of Lifelong Learning on Monday, November 7, at 10-11:30 a.m. in the Grand Cypress Room of The Woodlands.
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November LIFEQUEST HAPPENINGS
Six Dimensions: Physical • Emotional • Spiritual • Educational • Community & Social • Natural Environment For questions about these and upcoming events or activities, please contact Michelle Tompkins, Resort Services and Wellness Manager, at 454-2152, or email: michelletompkins@shellpoint.org
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UNDERSTANDING AND RESPONDING TO DEMENTIA-RELATED BEHAVIOR TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1 • 10:30 A.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Behavior is a powerful form of communication. It is one of the primary ways for people with dementia to communicate their needs and feelings, as their ability to use language is lost. However, some behaviors can present real challenges for caregivers to manage. This program shares how to decode behavioral messages, identify common behavior triggers, and learn strategies to help intervene with some of the most common behavioral challenges of Alzheimer’s disease. Emily Reese, gerontologist and program specialist for the Alzheimer’s Association Florida Gulf Coast chapter, will lead this presentation.
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COOKING WITH SHELL POINT CHEFS: FESTIVE, LIGHT FARE YOU CAN PREPARE WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 2 • 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS As the holidays approach, we all become busy with social gatherings. Join in as our Shell Point chefs share some of their favorite holiday recipes that you can serve at your own parties! Chef Todd will demonstrate tarte tatin, a French pastry, while Chef Brett will make some of his own family dishes: mini-breakfast strata and pineapple-orange Julius.
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PHOTO CLUB THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 3 • 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS
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Interested in photography? The Photo Club invites you to its monthly meeting, as this month’s Critics’ Wall challenge focuses on “Reflections.” Bring your best interpretation of this theme, and receive helpful comments and critiques from club members, while enjoying the photography of others.
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Hot off its world premiere in Washington, D.C., comes a witty and moving look at one of our country’s most beloved voices. Erma Bombeck captured the frustrations of her generation by asking, “If life is a bowl of cherries, what am I doing in the pits?” Discover the story behind this award-winning humorist who championed women’s lives with amusement that sprang from the most unexpected place of all – the truth.
HOLIDAY BAZAAR FRIDAY & SATURDAY • NOVEMBER 4 & 5 9 A.M.- 2 P.M. • WOODLANDS COMMONS Talented Shell Point residents spend the year designing, crafting, creating, and enhancing quality items for sale – just in time for the holidays. This popular event will feature unique items along with specialty holiday décor, handbags, jewelry, three-dimensional paper crafts, special artwork, children’s items, books, wood sculptures, tasty treats, and more. All are invited, so gather your friends, and prepare for a fun day of shopping! Cash or check only.
CAUSES AND TREATMENT FOR SECONDARY GLAUCOMA FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 4 • 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Trevor Elmquist, DO, founder of Elmquist Eye Group, will discuss two causes of secondary glaucoma. Learn the causes, treatment, and important diagnostic information about Pseudoexfoliation syndrome and Pigmentary glaucoma.
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FLORIDA REPERTORY STUDIO THEATRE: ERMA BOMBECK: AT WIT’S END FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 4 6:30 P.M. ISLAND 6:45 P.M. WOODLANDS 7 P.M. EAGLES PRESERVE/ESTUARY 11 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $50
“Friendly” and “convenient” are two words that describe this weekly event. The vendors are knowledgeable with excellent customer service to help you find what you’re looking for – whether it’s juicy tomatoes, fresh BBQ, custom baskets, or honey. Stop by and enjoy the atmosphere, which features bi-monthly live music.
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SHELL POINT CARES! WALK TO DEFEAT ALS SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 5 7 A.M. ISLAND 7:10 A.M. WOODLANDS 7:20 A.M. EAGLES PRESERVE/ESTUARY 11:30 A.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN The Walk to Defeat ALS is an opportunity to come together for an important cause, raising money for a cure and bringing hope to people living with this disease. With sponsorship from the Shell Point Community Thrift Store, join fellow residents and employees in this effort. Lace up your walking shoes, hop on the bus, and gather at Miromar Outlets for a one-mile walk.
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PHOTOGRAPHERS’ FIELD DAY AT THE NAPLES ZOO MONDAY, NOVEMBER 7 7:15 A.M. ISLAND 7:25 A.M. WOODLANDS 7:35 A.M. EAGLES PRESERVE/ESTUARY 3-4 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $27 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) All photographers are welcome to join this outing, arranged in conjunction with the Shell Point Photo Club. Nobody will be rushing you along to keep up with the group! Even the zoo has agreed to open for you before their usual hours of operation. Sign up today to catch the animals and exhibits in action. Lunch is available for purchase, or you may bring your own.
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DIVAS THROUGH THE DECADES MONDAY, NOVEMBER 7 • 7 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL Divas through the Decades is a musical tribute to some of the most influential female vocalists in American pop music, featuring songs from the 1940s, through today’s current hits.
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The show features music made famous by various divas we all know and love. The stage show is filled with electrifying vocals, cutting-edge choreography, dramatic costume changes, high-energy dancing, comedy, and sentiment!
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2016 PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 8 • 7 A.M. – 7 P.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH/IS The Village Church at Shell Point is the polling location for Precinct #83. As parking is limited on The Island, residents are advised to use the Island tram, blue route, green route, or special election bus scheduled for that day. Timing details will be posted on each court bulletin board.
AQUA VOLLEYBALL SKILLS WORKSHOP
This class was designed for those interested in learning more about Aqua Volleyball at Shell Point. Fitness Coordinator Cheryl Cooper will lead residents in learning the basics of the sport, and help seasoned players brush up on their skills. All levels and interests are welcome.
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LEARN ABOUT THE CARE COORDINATOR FOR SHELL POINT MEDICAL CENTER TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 8 • 10:15 A.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS The J. Howard Wood Medical Center is enhancing services to residents living with two or more chronic illnesses who may benefit from additional assistance in setting up appointments with specialists, arranging transportation, and follow-up with multiple providers in the community. In this seminar, Carol Clark, ARNP, EdD, will introduce you to the people involved.
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BUFFET DINNER DANCE WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 9 • 4-5:30 P.M. THE CLUB Come enjoy a delicious buffet dinner in The Club’s Banyan Grille banquet room, then dance to music by the incomparable Jerry Dycke. Sponsored by the Resident Dance Committee, cost is $20 per person (includes gratuity). For tickets call: Bob and Mil Anderson, 489-3254 or 940-5237; John Bendall, 454-5953; Nita DeWeese, 985-0455; or Phil and Lois Gannon, 482-5965.
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PRESIDENT PETER DYS RETIREMENT CELEBRATION — BY GOD’S GRACE, CELEBRATING A VISIONARY LEADER
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Calling all golfers to play in this charity event, hosted by The Legacy Foundation. This year, proceeds benefit Shell Point residents and the greater community through renovation of the Hope HealthCare hospice unit at Shell Point, located in the Larsen Pavilion. Call (239) 466-8484.
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THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 10 2 SEATINGS: 11:30 A.M. & 4:30 P.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH/IS
13TH ANNUAL SHELL POINT OPEN GOLF TOURNAMENT
VETERANS DAY CEREMONY FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 11 • 2:15 P.M. THE VILLAGE CHURCH/IS Join your Shell Point friends and neighbors to extend a heartfelt “thank you” to those who have served in the military. Cub Scout Pack #140 and Hope HealthCare Hospice Honor Guard will present the colors, recognize all veterans, and help make this a special time of remembrance. We will all stand and sing as a community to The National Anthem and God Bless America. Consider starting with lunch at The Crystal Room featuring guitarist Dean Miller from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.
Join fellow Shell Point residents to honor President Dys for 31 years of stewardship for our community. A light meal will be served; a meal ticket is required. Be sure to RSVP via the invitation reply card sent via campus mail to all residents. Doors open 15 minutes before the program begins. Note: This event will be replayed the following week on SPTV, Channel 12.
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A film about young love, the futility of war, and how to make sense of the darkest times. Based on the First World War memoir by English nurse and pacifist Vera Brittain. Starring Alicia Vikander and Kit Harington.
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AVIATION CLUB THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 17 • 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Dan Philgreen, a member of the SPTV production team for nine years, with a private pilot’s license to operate Shell Point’s aerial camera, will explain the features of the SPTV drone program, including how Shell Point uses the equipment, applicable regulations and recent changes. He will show us Shell Point’s own “bird” – the DJI Inspire – and discuss its flight, video, and safety systems, offering his opinion about the current state of drone proliferation. Following the indoor presentation, we will go outside for a flight demonstration over The Island lagoon. Come one, come all.
BRAIN BOOT CAMP
Exercising our bodies keeps us strong and helps guide us through the daily physical demands of life. Yet, as much as we rely on our mind and memory, we rarely give them a good workout to keep them in top shape. Brain Boot Camp is not like an exercise class where you can stand anonymously in the back of the room. This workshop will provide unique challenges for everyone. During this 45-minute session, Fitness staff Hannah Hosterman and Anna Valle will lead the group in engaging intellectual activities.
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More than 1.2 million people in the United States are diagnosed with skin cancer each year. If you have been diagnosed, you may be concerned, as many are, and wondering how this might have happened. Haiken Dermatology will discuss what you can do about it and, above all, whether you are in danger.
SATURDAY AT THE MOVIES: TESTAMENT OF YOUTH (PG13) (2014) SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 12 • 2 P.M. & 7 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL
SKIN CANCER: DETECTION, PREVENTION & TREATMENT
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COMPUTER CLUB THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 17 • 2:15 P.M. MANATEE ROOM/IS Mike Peterson from Computer Medics will be sharing with us the mysterious “hot keys” that are present on every laptop keyboard, and even some desktop keyboards. These shortcuts will help us access special commands to make operating our computers more enjoyable.
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THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 17 6 P.M. ISLAND 6:15 P.M. WOODLANDS 6:30 P.M. EAGLES PRESERVE/ESTUARY 11:15 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $60
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 18 •1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS This program had such a long wait list from the September session, we just had to bring it back! If you love dark chocolate, join Laurie Nienhaus as she takes you on a journey around the world – the world of tea and chocolates, that is. Learn more about chocolate while indulging in “high-octane” samples containing 60-80% cocoa solids. Each chocolate will be paired with a tea that can hold its own.
This beloved Tony Award-winning musical will be presented like you’ve never seen before in this high-energy, 10-person, two-piano, theatrical version. You have to wonder how they’ll fit all of Edwardian London on a 20’x20’ stage. Join us and find out! Artistic Associate Jeffrey Binder, formerly of Broadway’s Lion King and Mary Poppins, doffs his hat as Henry Higgins, taking us from Covent Garden to Ascot in this thrilling, heartwarming, and “loverly” musical.
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BEACH DAY FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 18 8:30 A.M. ISLAND 8:40 A.M. WOODLANDS 8:50 A.M. EAGLES PRESERVE/ESTUARY 3 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $16 (ICE CREAM ON YOUR OWN) A favorite outing for many residents, beach day gets us all out in the sun, shade, and surf! The group will head to Delnor-Wiggins Pass State Park for fun, food, fresh air, and friendship. A picnic lunch will be served, and a traditional stop for ice cream will be included on the trip back to Shell Point. Come and get some sand in your toes!
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SUNDAY MATINEE: GEORGE STEVENS’ THE DIARY OF ANNE FRANK (1959) SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 20 • 2 P.M. GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL In Nazi-occupied Holland during World War II, shopkeeper Kraler hides two Jewish families in his attic. Young Anne Frank (Millie Perkins) keeps a diary of everyday life about the Franks and the Van Daans, chronicling the Nazi threat as well as family dynamics. Anne’s father, Otto Frank (Joseph Schildkraut), returns to Amsterdam many years after the eventual capture of both families and finds his late daughter’s diary.
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LIBRARY BOOK TALK TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 22 • 2:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Connie Brown (Parkwood) will be reviewing The Death of Cancer by Dr. Vincent T. DeVita, Jr., a physician, medical researcher, administrator, and cancer survivor. Dr. DeVita writes with historic depth and authenticity about the true story of the fight against cancer and the clashes between conservative healthcare administrators and strong-willed oncologists. In the book, the author shares his ideas of how to improve efforts to combat cancer in the future. Discussion and refreshments will follow the review.
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ORGAN CONCERT WITH TOM HOEHN
A native of St. Joseph, Missouri, Tom Hoehn began playing the organ at an early age. By the age of 12, he was playing in church, then studied classical and popular organ through his high school and college years. As a well-respected organist in the community, Tom has played at numerous venues, including the Florida State Fair, Tampa Bay Rowdies Soccer Club, and the Boston Red Sox Spring Training in Winter Haven. Come hear this talented musician perform songs you know and love! Light refreshments will be served before the concert.
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 28 • 6:45 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS This Academy Award-winning film is said to be a milestone in filmmaking! After surviving Auschwitz in Germany, Karel (Ivan Jandl), a young Czech boy, is determined to reunite with his mother, Hannah (Jarmila Novotna), holding out hope that she is still alive. Karel is befriended by an American soldier, Ralph Stevenson (Montgomery Clift), who teaches him English phrases and even considers bringing him back to the United States. However, nothing can deter Karel from looking for Hannah, who is also desperately searching for him.
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TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 22 5:30 P.M. LIGHT REFRESHMENTS 6 P.M. CONCERT WOODLANDS COMMONS/2ND FLOOR
MOVIE NIGHT: THE SEARCH (1948)
FACE YOGA TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 29 • 1 P.M. GROUP FITNESS STUDIO/THE CLUB We exercise our bodies for stronger, firmer muscles, but what about our face? Learn this simple facial exercise regime, which helps lift, firm, tone, and reduce wrinkles. Robyn Church, Salon and Spa manager, will introduce you to this easy 20-minute routine to turn back the hands of time.
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TERRIFIC TUNES WITH NOSTALGIA TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 29 • 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Enjoy a pleasant afternoon as you listen to Nostalgia play with jazz-inspired style. Bring your friends and neighbors, and throw your cares away, as you take a trip down memory lane. Nostalgia will have you singing along to some of your favorite tunes.
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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 30 10:15 A.M. ISLAND 10:25 A.M. WOODLANDS 10:35 A.M. EAGLES PRESERVE/ESTUARY 1:30 P.M. APPROXIMATE RETURN COST: $7 (LUNCH ON YOUR OWN) Keylime Bistro is nestled in the middle of the Historic Captiva Island Inn Village, in the heart of “Olde Captiva.” Island-style lunch selections and appetizers typically run $8-$12. Treat yourself to a slice of their award-winning key lime pie for $8.
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FALL BINGO WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 30 • 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS What is fall without a friendly game of BINGO? Come enjoy this classic game with your Shell Point neighbors. This will be a fun afternoon filled with laughter and friendly competition. Prizes for the winners! Light refreshments for all!
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ANNUAL TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY THURSDAY, DECEMBER 1 5:45 P.M. LIVE ENTERTAINMENT & FESTIVITIES 6:30 P.M. TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY AMPHITHEATER/IS It’s a “Nutcracker Christmas” this year at the annual tree lighting ceremony. Enjoy the wonderful sound and ballet of the Naples Carolers and The Dance Warehouse as together they perform “The Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairies.” You can also enjoy a festive treat of freshly roasted nuts, delicious Christmas cookies, and warm coffee. This community-wide event will inspire your holiday spirit as we kick off the Shell Point Christmas season!
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Come for Christmas shopping with free gift wrapping. Enjoy holiday cheer with cookies and punch. Win prizes and gift certificates at this fun and festive event for all!
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FINDING JOY (FOR CAREGIVERS)
SUPPORT GROUPS ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS THURSDAYS, NOVEMBER 3, 10, 17 & 24 4:30 P.M. • SABAL ROOM/WDL This is a fellowship of those who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other to solve their common problem and help others recover from alcoholism. This “open” meeting of AA welcomes those who struggle with alcohol issues. For information, call the intergroup phone number, 275-5111.
CAREGIVER SUPPORT TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1 & 15 GROUP 1: 9:15 A.M. • GROUP 2: 10:30 A.M. MEDICAL CENTER CONFERENCE ROOM/IS These therapeutic groups are aimed at helping residents deal with issues of being a caregiver for someone with a memory disorder, whether the resident is cared for in independent living, assisted living, or skilled nursing. Dr. Nancy Spencer facilitates the groups and can be reached at 454-2043. Sign-up is required.
COPD SUPPORT TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1 • 1:30 P.M. • OAK ROOM/WDL Any Shell Point residents with concerns about their breathing are invited to come meet with Kenneth A. Tolep, MD, FCCP, one of the area’s leading pulmonologists, who schedules appointments to see patients at The Arbor Medical Center. For additional information, call Ken Peterson (Oakmont) at 482-3779.
CPAP SUPPORT
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 10 • 1:30 P.M. MANATEE ROOM/IS The focus of this program is you, the caregiver or former caregiver. We will explore ways to identify and reduce stress, improve communication skills, and understand and handle difficult feelings. Contact Jane Johnston (Turban) at 464-5903 or jjejjohnston@gmail.com.
HEARING ENRICHMENT WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 23 • 1:15 P.M. SOCIAL CENTER/IS Poor hearing can affect many aspects of one’s life. This group seeks to help residents cope with hearing loss, share information, learn about services and products that may help, and offer support to each other. Friends and family are encouraged to attend. For more information, call Katalin Carrow, case manager, at 225-2929.
GRIEFSHARE THURSDAYS, NOVEMBER 3 & 10 • 2:15 P.M. VILLAGE CHURCH CHAPEL This is an 11-week program providing help and encouragement after the death of a loved one. This special weekly seminar and support group is designed to help you rebuild your life. We know it hurts, and we want to help. Led by Jim and Judy Mayer (Junonia), call them at 454-3139 if you have questions or are planning to attend.
MEMORY CARE TUESDAYS, NOVEMBER 1 & 15 GROUP 1: 9:15 A.M. • GROUP 2: 10:30 A.M. BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CONFERENCE ROOM/IS These groups are designed to provide education and support to residents who have some type of memory disorder. The objectives are to identify practical strategies to help residents better manage memory loss, address long-range planning, and offer an environment that fosters a sense of purpose and heightened self-esteem. Note: Individual assessment is required before joining a group. Call Kathy Fratrick, LCSW, at 454-2073. Individual appointments are also available.
THIS GROUP MEETS QUARTERLY; THE NEXT MEETING DATE IS TO BE DETERMINED. If you’ve been diagnosed with sleep apnea and use a CPAP device, consistent use can make a tremendous difference in helping you feel more energetic and healthy during the day. Education and support for CPAP users has shown to increase compliance with use of the device. For more information, contact Larry Chrouch (Eagles Preserve) at 481-7188.
PARKINSON’S ENRICHMENT
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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 4 • 1 P.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS All diabetics are encouraged to attend this meeting, which covers various topics and includes open discussion. For more information, contact Stephanie Devlin, case manager, at 454-8246.
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 8 • 2:15 P.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS This group provides educational opportunities and support for those dealing with low vision. Florence Putman (Turban) is the chairperson. For additional information, contact Angie Prichard, case manager, at 454-2134.
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MONDAY, NOVEMBER 7 • 10:15 A.M. KING’S CROWN COMMUNITY ROOM/IS This group aims to provide support and educational opportunities to those affected by Parkinson’s disease as a patient, caregiver, family member, or friend. Meetings include speakers, group discussions, and emotional support. For more information, call Janine Hammond, case manager, at 454-2186.
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“Working with a physical therapist keeps me accountable.” —Eliot Sugerman (Eagles Preserve)
“I have been most impressed by the individualized support and treatment provided by the Shell Point therapy team,” Eliot said. “I highly recommend that anyone who is being treated for COPD or other pulmonary diseases consider an evaluation with the therapy team at the Rehabilitation Center at Shell Point, especially if you have difficulty motivating yourself to do exercises at home that would be beneficial.” If you are interested in learning more about this program, please call the Rehabilitation Center at 454-2256.
Physical Therapist Parthiv Shah guides Eliot Sugerman through light cardio movements to strengthen airways, and improve posture and breathing. During each session, the therapist measures pulse rate, as well as inhalation and exhalation capacity to determine progress. Shell Point Life | November 2016
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Parrot Key Caribbean Grill
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Lunch Outings and Nature Trips
Doc Ford’s Rum Bar & Grille
For reservations and information, call (239) 454-2136, Monday – Friday, 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. Woody’s Waterside Restaurant
Fees for residents are $5/trip; the cost for non-residents and guests is $10/trip. Each Shell Point resident may bring up to four guests per trip.
Schedule: November – January 1st & 3rd Mondays 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Parrot Key (Fort Myers Beach)
New! Rum Runners Restaurant
2nd & 4th Mondays 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. Rum Runners (Cape Harbor) 1st & 3rd Tuesdays 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Woody’s Waterfront Restaurant (Pine Island)
Matanzas on the Bay
2nd & 4th Tuesdays 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Doc Fords (Fort Myers Beach)
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5th Tuesday (November 29 , December 30, and January 31) 1 – 3 p.m. Nature Tour & Ice Cream at Jasper’s
Wednesdays Open for private charters Thursdays 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Matanzas on the Bay (Fort Myers Beach) 1st & 4th Fridays 10:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. Pincher’s Crab Shack (Tarpon Point) 3rd Friday 10:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. St. Charles Yacht Club (Iona Shores, resort attire and credit card required)
Plan a date when you can enjoy some time on the water!
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working as a boat captain at North Star Marine, he followed his dream and moved to Florida in June 2015, and now lives in Cape Coral. A year after exploring the local waters on his own vessel, Russell decided to give the Suzy Q a try. “I love the positive attitudes of the residents, volunteers, and staff here,” he said. “It’s an absolutely uplifting experience coming to work each day.”
Join Captain Russell and the rest of the resident volunteer crew as they head for daily lunch excursions on the comfortable Suzy Q pontoon boat. Parrot Key and Doc Fords, both in Fort Myers Beach, have been added to the lunch destination schedule this fall, as well as a two-hour nature tour and stop at Jasper’s floating ice cream shop.
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he year 1886 is often regarded getting a tax deduction if the resident item- or repairs of the current fleet,” Dianne explained. “We have a reliable Suburban as the birth year of the modern izes his/her income tax return. “Approximately 90% of our vehicles SUV donated in 2004 by Wallace and Mary car, when German inventor Karl Benz built the Benz Patent-Motorwagen. are for resident use,” said Dianne. “Medical Mercer (Arbor) that is now more than 20 Benz received a German patent for his vehi- appointments, personal transportation, years old. This vehicle still makes daily cle, which was designed to be propelled by airport drop-off and pick-up rank highest. trips carrying donations to the Community an internal combustion engine. Originally Family and friend visits, port of call drop-off Thrift Store.” A donated SUV transporting donasold for $1,000 in 1886 (valued at $25,640 and pick-up, as well as special events, shopby today’s standards), this three-wheeled ping, and dinner outings all require a mode tions … that is the ultimate example of automobile with a rear-mounted engine of transportation, and we are most happy to generosity! “That Suburban was great while we were hauling our boat in Wisconsin 12 would pave the way for the modern conve- provide these services.” Like any machine, vehicles eventually years ago,” Wally Mercer said, “but when niences that vehicles provide for us today. we moved to Shell Point, Vehicles have value, allowwe thought it would be ing people and goods to be Wally and Mary Mercer (Arbor) donated their Chevy Surburban to better used by the organiquickly and safely transported Shell Point, which the Transportation team has utilized for more than zation. To this day, I still from one place to another, and 10 years. see our trusty SUV makopening a vast realm of posing its way down Shell sibilities. Shell Point is quick Point Boulevard, so in to realize the significance and our mind, we made a good worth of these vehicles, pardecision to donate it!” ticularly Dianne Morton, If you can no longer Transportation manager, who operate your vehicle, or oversees the daily operation of are looking to replace a fleet of 46 vehicles. it, consider donating “With 2,400 residents living it to Shell Point; you in four neighborhoods, having could play a large role safe and reliable modes of transin helping to revive the portation is of utmost imporTransportation fleet. tance,” she said. “Maintaining Once you make the inithese vehicles, whether they tial decision to donate, are cars, vans, trucks, buses, or an evaluation of the golf carts is a daunting task – vehicle will be scheduled one that we try to do with fisto ensure that it will be cal responsibility. In our current fleet, we have 16 vehicles donated by gen- wear down and become unreliable. Once safe and in good running order for the purthey are deemed unsafe or repairs are too pose it will serve in our community. erous residents.” A gift-in-kind, specifically a vehicle, costly for the current state of the vehicle, To schedule an evaluation of your offers multiple benefits for both the donor they are retired from the fleet. “Vehicle donations to Shell Point vehicle for donation, contact Dianne and Shell Point. The donor is able to get more “mileage” out of the vehicle by donat- go the extra mile in the sense that they Morton at 454-2061, or Jeff Cory from ing it for use by the organization, as well as help us avoid costly leases of new vehicles The Legacy Foundation at 466-8484.
…A donated vehicle transporting donations to the Community Thrift Store — now that is the ultimate example of generosity!
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CO-HOSTED BY THE LEGACY FOUNDATION AND FINEMARK NATIONAL BANK & TRUST IN CONJUNCTION WITH THE ACADEMY OF LIFELONG LEARNING
Identity Theft: More Than a Financial Risk Presented by Carrie Kerskie, Director of the Identity Fraud Institute at Hodges University
Wednesday, November 9, 10:15 a.m. The Village Church/IS (LS04) Every two seconds, another American becomes a victim of identity theft. While there are steps you can take to
Sign-up required; contact either service desk.
reduce your risk of financial identity theft, there are other types of theft that cannot be prevented, which could result in grave consequences. Learn about the types of identity theft, tips to reduce your risk of becoming a victim, and resources available if you have become a victim. Carrie Kerskie is a prominent national speaker, trainer, author, and consultant on the topics of identity theft, fraud, and data privacy. She appears regularly on various local news programs, such as NBC, ABC, and WINK networks.
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followed by “Choose how updates are delivered” • Under the section “Updates from more than one place,” turn the toggle to the “Off” position If you need assistance with this or any other issues, call (239) 454-2190 to place a work order for a technician who will get you up and running in no time!
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“dumb” questions. As people share experiences and opinions, we learn from each other and new friendships form. More than 27 million people in 169 countries and 112 languages have found answers to many of life’s important questions by taking the Alpha course, which is offered by every major U.S. church denomination in all 50 states. Alpha is of special appeal to those who may not attend church regularly, but are seeking answers to life’s “big” questions. It also offers insights to churchgoers who are uncertain of their Space is limited for this series. Sign up now by calling The Village Church office. beliefs or want a refresher course in Christianity. More information presenters walk us through the Alpha mate- can be found online at alphausa.org. Space is limited to 50 participants, so rial in a way that is fresh and clear. These informal discussions focus on call The Village Church office at 454-2147 discovery rather than dogma; there are no to sign up before January 4. have been all around the world, filming in Canada, the UK, France, India, Hong Kong, Israel, and New York. Nicky Gumbel, an Anglican vicar in London, and two young
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ore new homes are coming to The Estuary. Beginning in January 2017, we will begin accepting 10% deposits for specific Estuary Phase II homes and villas. Life at The Estuary offers opportunities for meaningful connections in a comfortable, familiar setting that beckons to a timeless “old Florida” lifestyle. Live oaks shade the pathways that wind around the Audubon-certified, championship 18-hole golf course, just a short block away from the entrance to The Club at Shell Point. Centrally situated across a four-acre lake, The Cove community building invites friends for a refreshing sunny swim in the neighborhood pool. Now is the time to act and plan your move to Shell Point, where quality of life relates directly to quality of lifestyle and relationships. If you have questions about The Estuary, please call our Welcome Center today at (239) 466-1131, press 1 for Sales.
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Save 50% on any styling “add-on” of your choice with the
purchase of a haircut and/or hairstyle service! The right product makes all the difference in style results and longevity. Offer is valid at all salons. One product per visit please.
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60% off
Mirabella Cosmetics at the Island Salon & Spa Clearance special; offer good while supplies last.
The Grand Opening of the Seagrape Salon & Spa was a huge success!
Wayland Jensen (Estuary) was the first gentleman to grace the barber chair at Seagrape Salon & Spa, assisted by stylist Shelley Burns.
Jerry Nanfelt (Lucina, top) was invited to pull the winners’ names for the salon gift baskets at the recent grand opening. Lucky Geraldine Mockler (Turban, left) and Pat Ostrom (Eagles Preserve, right) were the winners.
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Few things can bring us as much happiness and fulfillment as using our time and efforts to help when needed. Recently, residents from all three assisted living facilities gathered to make more than 100 toys for the animals of the Gulf Coast Humane Society. As a nonprofit, animal welfare organization, the Humane Society relies on generous donations to achieve its mission of caring for the abandoned and neglected pets of Southwest Florida. Every year, the shelter takes in, cares for, and finds homes for more than 2,000 animals. One of the most difficult parts of this process is ensuring that the lives of the animals are enriched while they are living at the shelter. Shell Point residents contributed to the wellbeing and happiness of these animals by making the toys, then personally delivering them, and sharing time and love with the pets. “It was so touching to see how passionate the residents were about this project, and it was amazing to see how much happiness we brought to the animals of the shelter,” said Jennifer Connors, Activities leader at The Springs. “Many of our residents have worked with neglected animals in the past and were grateful for the opportunity to continue that admirable work.”
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Time is running out to contribute to the Employee Christmas Fund. Please have your contribution in by Friday, December 2.
It is said many times in many ways: Shell Point stands apart as Florida’s preeminent continuing care retirement community. It’s a community characterized by heartfelt caring and caring excellence.
Tangible markers affirm Shell Point’s elevated status – the State of Florida recently surveyed our skilled nursing facility, the Larsen Pavilion, finding zero deficiencies. This accomplishment is extremely rare. Likewise, Shell Point’s ongoing occupancy rate over 96 percent testifies to its popularity as the place to retire in all of Florida and beyond. Year after year, our residents commit to an enviable, unsurpassed degree of volunteerism, as more than 1,000 residents donate tens of thousands of hours to serve our neighbors and friends, and assist staff in many ways. Three groups coalesce to embody Shell Point’s caring spirit: an administration dedicated to the wellbeing of its employees and residents, employees dedicated to service, and residents filled with gratitude for living in a beautiful and welcoming environment. As the billboard claims, “Life is good here!” But it’s the employees, the people who vacuum our floors, empty our trash, fix our
appliances, plan our events, cook our food, schedule our transportation, and trim our hedges – people we rub shoulders with every day – who provide the infrastructure and friendly, welcoming feel. They are the glue that holds us together as a family. A Cascade of Gifts
Perhaps the Employee Christmas Fund best exemplifies this as a genuine community, committed to generous sharing and caring. Founded by residents as a way to thank Shell Point employees for their responsive service, last Christmas this fund provided 978 eligible, full-time employees with a gift of $610 each. A total of 1,213 contributions from residents in 2015 testifies to the robust participation. This in turn enabled a cascade of additional gift-giving by our employee family to their families: “It makes me feel special that somebody cares about me at work,” said Tony Arias, Environmental Services Manager. “I have a son in college, and this gift allows me to buy books and a meal ticket for him.” Housekeeper Aeelene Fernandez expressed the gratefulness of her five grandchildren to Shell Point residents who give back to them every Christmas. Lead Housekeeper Josette Bontemps also knows that Shell Point residents think of her at Christmas time; the money she sends to her home country means a lot. Last year resident contributions through the Employee Christmas Fund brightened many lives and nourished the family bond between residents and employees. But that was last year…
Thank you
The deadline for contributions to this year’s Employee Christmas Fund is Friday, December 2, and it is fast approaching. We thank all of you who have already given, and for those who plan to give – give now! Help the people who serve you every day to celebrate Christmas knowing that your concern for them is tangible, that you want to magnify their Christmas joy with a gift. There are several easy ways to contribute: • You can give online at www.shellpoint net/christmasfund, and follow the prompts. Go here also if you have questions or want to know more about the fund. • You can give by check made payable to Shell Point. Don’t forget to put “Employee Christmas Fund” on the memo line, and send it via campus mail to Cashier/Administration. • Cash gifts or checks can also be put in donation boxes at the Resident Activity Center on The Island, the Pavilion lobby, or at the Woodlands Commons reception desk. Time for contributing to this year’s Employee Christmas Fund is running out. Give whatever you can; we encourage every resident to participate and help us reach last year’s level of generosity. Express your appreciation for the efforts and dedication of Shell Point employees with a contribution today, and enjoy the holiday celebrations as this gift is distributed to staff on Friday, December 9. Shell Point Life | November 2016
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Providing Hope
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The South Fort Myers Food Pantry Coalition needs your help so they may continue to serve the local community each week. Many clients of the food pantry are under-employed and cannot afford all the basic necessities of day-to-day life. They are faced with “food insecurity” – not knowing how long the food they have will last, and if they’ll have money to get more when it’s gone. There is a great need for canned meats (tuna, roast beef, chicken) as well as nutritious, protein-packed soups, peanut butter and jelly, as well as reusable grocery bags. Monetary donations are welcome also; please make checks payable to the Harry Chapin Food Bank, and mark the memo line “South Fort Myers Food Pantry.” Remarkable buying power allows each donated dollar to purchase at least $6 worth of food. If you are traveling for the holidays and wish to donate early, please call The Village Church at 454-2147 to make arrangements to pick up your donation. Thank you, and God bless you for providing hope to our local community.
FOOD DROP-OFF AREAS ARE AVAILABLE THROUGHOUT THE SHELL POINT CAMPUS: • • • • •
The Village Church The Island & The Woodlands service desks Fitness Center at Eagle’s Preserve The Club at Shell Point Golf Pro Shop The Cove at The Estuary
The South Fort Myers Food Pantry Coalition
STOPPING HUNGER ONE CART AT A TIME. The South Fort Myers Food Pantry Coalition, Inc., was formed in 2008 and incorporated in 2010 by a coalition of churches and supporting partners. It is operated entirely by unpaid volunteers to serve the South Fort Myers and Sanibel/Captiva areas. All gifts to this 501(c)(3), non-profit organization are tax deductible.
Thanksgiving Eve Service Celebrates God’s Provisions The annual Thanksgiving Eve service is one of the special holiday traditions enjoyed by the Shell Point community. As you gather with your family and friends to celebrate, plan to attend the Thanksgiving Eve Service at The Village Church on Wednesday, November 23, at 7:15 p.m., and give thanks to God for His bountiful provisions. Senior Pastor Andy Hawkins will lead the service, joined by several Shell Point employees and residents who will share their expressions of gratitude as we pause to count our blessings: Ronette Icso, assistant vice president of Sales and Marketing; Kevin May, Property manager (Woodlands, Eagles Preserve, and Estuary); and Doug Potts, director of Long Term Care (Larsen Pavilion administrator). The talented Yvonne Schneff (Sundial) will sing an inspirational song, 42
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and the Shell Point Singers along with The Village Church Choir, under the direction of Randy Woods, minister of Worship and
The harvest season is a time of grace and bounty; a time to celebrate God’s provisions
Music, will combine their voices in a festive expression of praise to God for His goodness. Spirited congregational singing will also be a significant part of this com-
munity service of praise and thanksgiving. This year, our Thanksgiving offering has been designated for benevolence that provides resources to respond to urgent needs and crisis situations experienced by employees of Shell Point. Employees may apply for emergency grants through Human Resources. The most common situations involve eviction/utility shut off prevention, car repairs, family crises, and funeral travel expenses. Please make checks payable to The Village Church, and mark “Thanksgiving offering” on the memo line. The harvest season is a time of grace and bounty; a time to celebrate God’s provisions and to give special thanks. All are welcome to join in this community Thanksgiving Eve Service. Come and count your blessings as together we express our thanksgiving to God.
THANKSGIVING DAY DINING Thursday, November 24 Thanksgiving is a day of many traditions. Why not make it your tradition to dine at a Shell Point restaurant, where options are numerous and sure to please our residents and their guests? Dining choices range from a bountiful buffet, full-waited service, and even a complete, home-cooked dinner ready to take home and serve:
The buffet price is $27.95. You may use your Passport Dining Plan, charge to your account, pay by credit card, Shell Point gift card, or cash. The Crystal Room will be closed for dinner on Thanksgiving day.
The Palm Grill 11 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Start the day with a casual breakfast at the Island Café, where you enjoy a complete cooked-to-order breakfast hot off the grill or just relax over a cup of freshly brewed coffee and pastries. If you want just a light lunch instead of the traditional Thanksgiving meal, the Island Café staff will be there to serve you from 7 a.m. – 2 p.m. The Island Café is also offering fresh-baked holiday pies for take-out during the holiday season. Stop in or call 454-2286 to place an order.
For full-waited service in a smaller, formal atmosphere, the Palm Grill aims to please. Manager Tom Irwin, Chef Todd Glaesmer, and the rest of the Palm Grill staff will be serving Thanksgiving dinner from 11 a.m. until 4 p.m. Menu options include traditional turkey dinner with all the trimmings, filet mignon, slow-roasted ham, or Florida grouper. Save room for a piece of pumpkin pie or choose from our dessert menu. All dinners come with soup or salad. Prices range from $23 to $30. The Palm Grill does not accept reservations, but call ahead to check on seating availability – 454-2059.
The Crystal Room
Order a Family Feast
The Island Café 7 a.m. – 2 p.m.
10:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m.
The festive Thanksgiving buffet in the Crystal Room features hand-carved roast turkey with dressing, baked ham with raisin sauce, baked salmon with a dill Beurre blanc, herb-roasted chicken, and many other holiday favorites. Accompaniments include a variety of vegetables, an extensive salad bar, and a large selection of holiday desserts – don’t miss the pumpkin and mince meat pies! The Crystal Room will be open from 10:30 a.m. until 2:30 p.m.; however, seating is based on table availability.
If you would like to have a traditional Thanksgiving meal prepared for you and ready to take and serve in your own home, the Crystal Room is offering our annual “Family Feast” meals for Thanksgiving. Each meal is fully cooked and ready to eat. Select from whole roasted turkey or baked ham dinner. The turkey dinner includes dressing, whipped potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, and green beans amandine. The ham choice comes with raisin sauce, sweet potatoes, and green beans amandine. Either one of these delicious dinners can be ordered for $59.95.
Holiday desserts and dinner rolls are available for an additional cost to complete your menu. Orders must be placed by noon on Sunday, November 20, and can be picked up at the Social Center on Thanksgiving Day between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Call 454-2199 or stop in the Crystal Room for more information and to place your order.
Harvest Brunch at The Banyan GrillE 11 a.m. – 3 p.m.
Come taste a smorgasbord of culinary delights at this newly opened dining room, at The Club at Shell Point, from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. The price is $32.95 (plus 18% gratuity); call 225-2953 for reservations. Start with caramelized pumpkin and blue Hubbard squash soup, followed by a cornucopia of fresh Autumn salad offerings, including shrimp cocktail. The chef-attended carving station includes oven-roasted sage and citrus turkey, and brown sugar and maple-glazed ham, or choose rosemary pork tenderloin, grilled swordfish with tomato-fennel butter, or herb-roasted chicken Rockefeller. Side dishes included roasted Brussel sprouts with pecan bacon to gingered spaghetti squash and grilled asparagus with raspberry onion. Desserts includes pumpkin cheesecake, chocolate pecan tartlets, and many more.
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Nature’s Notebook BY STEVE MORTON,
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Gumbo Limbo Tree Dance I watched intently as Shirley carried each of the red clay bricks from where they were neatly stacked near the ashbin in the alley, to the sidewalk near the back porch of our two-family flat on Russell Boulevard in St. Louis. Shirley stacked her bricks into two equal towers with a level of concentration and engineering prowess well beyond her six years of age. Shirley’s mother was singing along as she looked out the kitchen window and thoughtfully faced the radio toward the screen so we too could hear the music on the old Philco. Despite her daily training, Shirley was never able to successfully teach me how to dance. She completed the brick construction, placing an old broomstick across the two towers and announced, “Now, we will limbo.” Chubby Checker was in heavy rotation on the radio, playing his chart-busting single, Limbo Rock:
Every limbo boy and girl, all around the limbo world. Gonna do the limbo rock, around the limbo clock. Shirley lithely glided under the broomstick. Upon my turn, I crashed into the bar like a Scottish lummox. She patiently replaced the stick, and we tried again to see how low we could go.
Setting the Bar Years later, I remember Shirley and her limbo dance every time I see one of my favorite Florida trees. Bursera simaruba is native to Florida, the Caribbean, and tropical Americas. The tree is unique with its coppery red peeling bark and large, muscular branches. Like a prize fighter gavotting about the ring, arms aloft in victory, the tree is a study in strength and grace. Like the words in Papa Hemingway’s sentences, no more branches
were included than those needed. With skinlike bark so thin, every vein and sinew is apparent as in the Danseur noble. This tree seems to be fluid in motion, anchored to the ground in an arboricultural contradiction. In Jamaica, simaruba is known as “copperwood” and readily roots from branches placed in the ground, creating a “living fence post.” The soft wood is easily carved and has traditionally been used for constructing American carousel horses. In South Florida, we refer to this as the “tourist tree” because, like our Northern visitors unused to subtropical sun, the bark/skin is red and peeling. Dr. Jerry Jackson, our local naturalist on National Public Radio, claims that the Gumbo Limbo tree name came from the African Bantu language, a reference to the sticky quality of the tree sap that made it useful in catching birds. Today, the tree’s resin is known as chibou and is used for glue, varnish, and incense. In spite of its varied names, the Gumbo Limbo tree makes a great addition to the native tree palette in South Florida. At Shell Point, we have used the tree in parking lot islands to create pools of shade. As the trees have grown and matured, drivers seek spaces under the Gumbo Limbo to keep their autos cooler from the intense sun. Find Gumbo Limbo trees in the parking lots of Oakmont and Lakewood in The Woodlands, at the Larsen Pavilion, and recently installed at The Club. Even if someone is watching, gracefully arch your back and hop under the shady branches of the Gumbo Limbo tree. How low can you go?