18 minute read
Tawana Trammell
During Women’s History month the women that are usually celebrated are well known trailblazers. This year I would like to spotlight those of us that have survived life obstacles and are living our best lives. While our names may not be well known or our deeds recognized, the fact that we are still standing is historic.
While I am not well known, my story reflects other women that have suffered in silence. I was raised by a teenage single mother with assistance from my grandparents. My father was alive and well and I was his only biological child. However, he abandoned me and chose to assist his future mates with raising their children. For a long time this left a scar because no one can take the place of a parent no matter how hard they may try.
Advertisement
Unfortunately, as I continued to grow, I would have to endure further betrayals. I was molested as a child by those that I should have been able to trust. I buried these secrets inside until I went to college and could no longer maintain the magnitude of this hurt. By the time I decided to inform my family, they did not know how to deal with the situation or chose not to address it at all. Everyone was sad, but I never received the support this trauma warranted. As life continued, I was faced with another obstacle. My mother, my love, my friend, and greatest supporter became addicted to drugs. At this point in life I felt numb. I watched her struggle with this addiction until she surrendered her life to God. I watched God supernaturally deliver my mother before my eyes. From that day to this day, she has been drug free!
As a result of my experiences, my views on life and people were significantly impacted and this affected my decision making as a young adult. I made relationship decisions that I would not have made if I was mentally and emotionally healthy. In addition, I lived in shame and guilt which resulted in me not sharing my story with others. This is the first time I have spoken of my feelings related to abandonment and abuse this openly. This is because I decided not to hide my scars or wounds anymore but instead allow my healing to encourage others.
What I have learned is God is Faithful, Forgiveness is Freeing, and Women are Resilient! In spite of the obstacles put before us we continue to love, nurture, and support. Sometimes we carry out these task at our own demise.
We have a “can do” attitude and it pushes us to survive. We perform our duties at work, home, and community with a mask on, sometimes never
C E L E B R A T I N G Her Story
Tawana Trammell Founder of TLK Empowerment Services, LLC Licensed Clinical Social Worker Author Speaker
allowing others to see or know who we truly are. This is usually because we are unsure of how others will respond or who we can trust with issues of the heart. I would like to encourage you to deal with the issues that may haunt your past, present, or future. Don’t be ashamed to seek professional mental health treatment if needed. While I am a therapist, I also require a therapist at different intervals of life. I believe we need to treat our mental and emotional health like we do our physical health. I would like to challenge you to get an annual mental health check up. You are worth the investment!
Today I celebrate us!
Those of us that continue to overcome life challenges with a smile. Those of us that refuse to allow our negative experiences to define who we are. Those of us that continue to be kind, courageous, loving, supportive, and successful! We are who God has created us to be! We are all Black History and WE ROCK!!!
W O M E N S HERSTORY MONTH
Tiffany Marie approaches each day with grit & grace. Motivating women to LIVE authentically. As the curator of SPEAK THAT Affirmation Collection and Pink Table Talk, Tiffany promotes positive change in the lives of women through authentic conversations that are rich and transparent. She encourages every woman to SPEAK LIFE over dry areas and to use positive affirmations as a road map to walk in the fullness of who they are destined to become. Tiffany’s goal is to help women excel through personal doubt and fear, triggering personal strength and inspiring them to unleash the power within.
She is also the Founder and Executive Director of Aspirations of Life, a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization founded in 2009. Tiffany Marie is the lead author of, “Grace” , a cross-generational book written by thirty-five women, ages 29-95 years old. Each author shares letters filled with the advice they’d give to their younger selves. “Use Your Wings Girl” , her mantra, and the second book is a workbook journal that takes readers on a 40-day journey to spiritual and personal growth.
Tiffany's favorite quote is one by Michelle Obama,
"Success isn't about how much money you make. It's about the difference you make in the people's lives.
Contact Information Tiffany M. Fincher TiffanyFincher785@gmail.com www.tiffanymfincher.com
Social Media IG- ConnectWithTiffanyMarie FB- ConnectWithTiffanyMarie
S H E R O C K S I T C O M M U N I T Y D A Y O FService Walk a Mile in Her Shoes
For the past several years, She ROCKS It has partnered with Sarah's Circle a local women's shelter to help raise awareness about the homelessness among women in the Chicagoland Area.
Sarah's Circle hosts an annual walk. The walk is a mile long and during the walk groups stop and read a letter written by a woman who was homeless but found help from Sarah's Circle.
This walk is She ROCKS It annual community day of service. Our friends, followers and volunteers sign up to join our walking team. It is an opportunity to give back, raise awareness and support a cause that aligns with the mission of She ROCKS It non-profits S.H.E Inc, Sisters Helping Eachothers. Our mission is simple, we want to help women move beyond their past and focus on rebuilding their future.
She ROCKS It supports organizations that offer help, healing and support to women in need. We look to give of our time, treasures and talents to help other fulfill their missions.
C E L E B R A T I N GHer Crownz
Shettima Webb
Goddess Oshun Crownz ME Marketplace Model Esteem -Model Development 7451 Madison Street, Forest Park, IL
6360-6362 Delmar Blvd University City, Missouri 63130 (314)875-0280 Website: https://www.Maine-chicclothing.com Email: mainechicclothing@gmail.com Slogan: “Second Fiddle To None”
4294-4296 East Natural Bridge Ave St. Louis, Missouri 63115 (314)349-1450 Website: https://www.NittysSalon1andretail.com Email: nittysalon1andretail@gmail.com
TAMEYA BANKS
Her Tameya Banks a 38 year old entrepreneur since the age of 24. When SRI Magazine asked Tameya what led her to becoming and entrepreneur and following her dreams. She told us: GOD told me to walk by FAITH & Not by sight. That is when I found the key to a Good GODLY SUCCESS in life. I opened my 1st salon/ store in 2009, then Story unfortunately my baby brother was murdered in the heart of me building my dream. Two years later the vision became BIGGER! I wanted to start a business in his memory because he encouraged me to do it.
In 2011, Nitty ’ s Salon 1 was created and because my Swag in fashion was so intense my sister pushed me to start a boutique, then Nitty ’ s Salon 1 & Retail was birthed. In December 2018, my husband and I were sitting thinking about what I stood for, to always WIN in life and to encourage other women to do the same, to be “Second Fiddle to None. ” so we created Maine Chic Clothing, which has its own store front on Delmar in (THE LOOP).
C E L E B R A T I N G
We cater to women of all walks of life. No matter what you ’ re doing, no matter what event you ’ re attending, or what career you have, we got you!
C E L E B R A T I N G
Her Story
Dr. La’tifah Qawishabazz is the CEO of Be’l Bla’k Couture Ltd. in Chicago IL. La’Tifah, bears the title of Head Designer. She performs every facet of the launch process of her designs, from concept and construction involvement to merchandise control.
In September 2018, Dr. La’tifah showcased her first collection during New York Fashion Week. Since that time, she has taken part in four seasons of New York Fashion Week along with, Chicago Fashion week, LA Fashion Week, and Miami Fashion Events. Her brand has been published in ASC Magazine and Vannie Magazine NYC and a host of online magazines. She continues to push her brand forward in 2022 with collections that highlight and honors her ideal of a mode of distinctive design that is Fresh and unexpected.
Photographer: Tasha Dwhaj
Dr. La'tifah Qawishabazz
ThomKat Fashion and Art Boutique is an expansion of The Ladies Room Resale Boutique that’s located in downtown Lombard. At ThomKat FAB, we provide a unique and fun environment to buy and rent gowns, suits and tuxedos. Thomkat offers 100’s of different unique, ecclectic, vintage and modern gowns for sale or rent. Our gown sizes ranges from 0 – 24. Modestly priced for both rent and sale. Our beloved quote........We believe "Your dress should be tight enough to show you a re a lady howevere loose enough to show that you are a woman". by fashion designer Edith Head
Catrina Hagel
SheSheShe Wrote That
Enigma The Only Child Syndrome - Description: Being a parent is undoubtedly one of the toughest tasks on earth. Nevertheless, a parent's flagrant foul on the parenting field can be extremely damaging and detrimental to their child's emotional well-being. Good children can make bad parents, just as bad parents can make good children. For Crystal, things just got real!
Caramel Insides - Description (Rated- X) Nudity and sexual content: Sisters, Cara and Melanie Bell, are highend call girls being divided by men, money, and their future. Changing
directions will prove to be more than a challenge.
A Book Of Lucid Dreams - A Dream Journal (The Bold Journal)
Analyzing your dreams can help you learn about your feelings and possibly prepare you for what will happen when you dream. As a lucid dreamer, this can be beneficial in helping you alter your dreams. Use this BOLD Journal to take the sentient journey of eyes being wide shut and discover for yourself what it all means.
Subscribe-Like- follow
TALVA Talva is an Independent Author and Ghostwriter from California. She is working on more adult fiction novels, along with a children ’ s book. You can keep up to date with her work through her website, her Amazon author page, and on social media sites under 'Talva Author. ' Her books are available on all bookseller's platforms in the following Meet formats: Hardcover, Paperback, eBook, and Audiobook.
Website: https://www.ttalva.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/talvasbook IG: https://www.instagram.com/talvaauthor/ Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B01N4BT0FI Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7300972.Talva Audible: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=caramel+insides&i=audible&ref=nb_sb_noss_2 G: https://play.google.com/store/books/details/Talva_Caramel_Insides? id=ZxLUDwAAQBAJ
C E L E B R A T I N G Her Story
COURTNEY BARDEN
Founder, Inherent Skin
Meet Courtney Barden a federal Labor and Employee Relations Specialist and Adjunct Professor. She has a master's degree in public administration and a Doctor of Education degree in Leadership. During Women's History Month we recognize her. She is the owner of Inherent Skin which is an ancestral inspired brand that celebrates and embraces identity, complexion, and beauty. Courtney shares that she grew up around strong, loving grandmothers for whom Inherent Skin was inspired. She credits her grandmothers Delta and Vera. She says these amazing women taught her the importance of community, devotion to family and hard work.
"I always admired the natural and inherent beauty my grandmothers exhibited while they were working hard to uplift my family and people throughout their community. After losing my grandmothers in 2017 and 2019, I decided to incorporate everything I learned from them into a business that would help keep their memory and legacy alive."
All of the products and more information can be found at..
Chantrice Marshall
Chantrice is first a Woman of God, Wife, Mother, Nurse and officially an Author. In December 2021 I recently released and wrote a book titled I’m Not Cursed, or Am I? which talks about Generational Curses, the sole purpose is to help break Generational curses no matter how deep they are. I believe many people are living under the dark cloud of generational curses and don’t even know it. To be honest that was once was my testimony, for this reason this book is writing with the aim to help break generational curses and experience Generational blessings. My book explains what a generational curse is, some of the generational curses I talk about is Alcoholism, Drugs, Colorism, unhealed childhood trauma, and more. It tells you how to break the curse, prayers, and affirmations. I have been trying to write this book for over 10 years but let me be honest hitting rock bottom in life is what pushed me to my purpose. I had recently taken a 7-day prayer challenge with Iyanla Vanzant, and one of the things she said that stuck with me was, you know the good thing about hitting Rock Bottom in life is the only way you can go is up. But you have to do the work to get out of Rock Bottom, do something different, fix yourself, heal yourself. That’s what I did, I healed myself. Turned my pain into power and completed my book. Although I am blessed to be a nurse for 7 years. I always knew I wanted more in life and felt incomplete. Outside of nursing I tried Real Estate, Life Insurance, and a list of other things that I wasn’t consist with or giving my all. Finally, God lead me back to writing. But it wasn’t until I got closer to him, healed myself and seen life different. I Really want more ladies to know that once you heal yourself and get closer to God your dreams will become your reality. And I know many people want to know exactly what that rock bottom was lol, we will save that for Book number 2. I hope you enjoy
C E L E B R A T I N G
Her Story
C E L E B R A T I N G
Her Story
relax, release & be renewed
IN 2022
In 2022 take some time just for you! So much has happened over the past few years, many of us have gotten so busy "handling things" that we have not handled the most important person in our lives "ourselves". Consider taking a staycation, this doesn't require lots of planning, or lots of money. Find a local nice hotel about 50-60 miles away from your home, book a oneor 2-night stay, make it all-inclusive dine there for breakfast, lunch and dinner, this way you don't have to leave, you can be relaxed all weekend long. Try a few breathing exercises; inhale, exhale while listening to some soft instrumental music. Allow yourself to be taken to a quiet place where you can clear your thoughts and spend quality quiet time with yourself. In 2022 commit to self-care so that your mind, body and soul and be renewed. Whatever you decide to do for you in 2022, be sure it is Soul Satisfying! Remember, you don't need permission, and no explanation is ever needed to Live Your Best Life! J Dawloms
C E L E B R A T I N G
Her Story After the Fall tells the story of one woman’s journey through grace and redemption. It is a book to help others who feel like they have fallen so far from grace and God’s love to ever enjoy the promises that have been spoken over their life, find a safe place to release their issues, and walk through their own journey of grace and redemption. In her first major book, the founder of Broken 2 Blessed
Ministries, Lisa Seymour becomes vulnerable and transparent with her masked issues, undealt with hurt and pain, the need to feel valued as a woman, her loss of children, her identity, shame, guilt, and most importantly, her struggle in her relationship with God that led to her fall.
This book is her answer to starting the missing conversation in the church about restoration, grace, and redemption after the fall. As Lisa shares, there is an after, after the fall.
Stacie P. Calvin wears many hats, as many of us do. To name a few, she is a mother, a GramMawMa, an author, a certified holistic coach, a certified owner/operator of an online CBD dispensary, and an encourager with a zest for life.
Stacie wrote A Sound Mind | The Rebirth, released on her 50th birthday. #FullBloom
A Sound Mind | The Rebirth is a memoir of Stacie's journey of re-finding herself after experiencing a life-changing adventure. Was it all just a dream, or was it a reality? Within this memoir, you will find that words have the power to open up worlds of opportunities through confirmation, one from SRI Magazines very own CEO can be found on page 35 of the book. Stacie is in full bloom, and in HER-STORY, she gives us the treat of several inspirational quotes, acronyms, and things that helped her throughout this voyage. Stacie realizes that her inner satisfaction, her truth, ultimate fulfillment, purpose, and true happiness will never be fully unlocked until she unleashes her unique gift that will resolve the world's unique need. She shares the four promises that we must claim to our path of having a sound mind.
Success looks different for everyone. Through affirmations and action Stacie is currently living... her rebirth. The collaborations through She ROCKS It platforms with SHE PUBLISHING LLC sharing my story with the world is awwwmazing... launching SHE•Sassy Publishing. Stacie is grateful to be in this space with so many empowering women!
Stay Connected with Stacie P. Calvin
Website: Stacie P. Calvin - S.H.E. PUBLISHING, LLC (shepublishingllc.com) FB: (1) Stacie Calvin | Facebook IG: StaciePatrice (@asoundmindtherebirth) • Instagram photos and videos
Purchase Your Copy Today!
S.H.E. | A Sound Mind: The Rebirth by Stacie P. Calvin (shepublishingllc.com) AMAZON | A Sound Mind: The Rebirth: Calvin, Stacie P: 9781953163134: Amazon.com: Books BARNES & NOBLE | A Sound Mind: The Rebirth by Stacie P. Calvin, Paperback | Barnes & Noble® (barnesandnoble.com)
