The Bits in Between: Anyone Can Be a Father But

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The Bits in Between: Anyone Can Be a Father But…

Dad, Daddy, Pop, Papa, Pa…there are many names for ‘father’ in the English language, but does it matter what you call the men we celebrate in June?

‘Father’ might be termed more a biological term than a relationship one. A father contributes one-half the biological components necessary to make a baby. A father’s role is pretty much done at conception. A father doesn’t need to be present in a child’s life to be a father. Bur he does have to be in a child’s life to be a dad, or daddy, or any of those other familial roles. He doesn’t have to be a father to be a father-figure. Many children note stepfathers who are more dads than their biological fathers. Some uncles or family friends even step into a dad role.

While any man can create life, it takes commitment and dedication to shape that life. Being a true dad requires more than just a man’s genetic makeup. Being a dad is less about biology but everything about time, emotional support, patience, and devotion.

A popular greeting card sentiment reads “Anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a dad.” On June 20 this year, don’t just celebrate who made you. Celebrate who made you who you are.

Lizbeth A. Dison Publisher and Editor