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Inside Motivated Teens Haz The Entertainer Kayjuna Lema Chris Sposato Andrew Flemming Aalai Wolffe
Hiding to Live or Living to Hide? How gun crime affects your peers
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47 Style 8 F or The Boys: Skateboard Style 10 Beauty Products That We Recommend! 15 Fashion Attitudes: Street Style 27 City Living: Urban Looks for You
Features 12 Teen Obesity: Begin Your Journey to a Healthier You 16 Advice on Saving Your Money 24 Troika: Keeping the Drama on Stage 17 Fun in the Sun! Exciting Things to do in Bermuda 38 Sex: Parents Think They Know It All
22 14 Gun Crime: A Victim’s Thoughts 4 Your Voice on Violence 48 Post High School: Travel the World with Up With People
Careers & Education 40 Senior Students: Applying for College 41 Tips for a Successful School Year 19 Never Work a Day in your Life: A Career in Hospitality 20 Careers in Nursing with RN LeAnnette Magba-Kamara 22 Extreme Artistic Makeovers: Kevin Busby
21 Bridging the Gap Between College and Career: Lonnie Bascome
People 24 Triple Threat: Aalai Wolffe 34 More than just your average teen: Miss Teen Bermuda 2011 36 Teen with a Purpose: Andrew Flemming 42 Hair and Nails: A Young Entrepreneur’s Passion 44 Entrepreneur with a Vision: Zaria Dill-Spence 50 Bermuda’s Eye Opener: HAZ 46 Sailing: High School Invitational with Chris Sposato 47 Netball: More Than Just a Game with Kayjuna Lema teen 3
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EDITOR’S NOTE
HELLO BERMUDA! It’s been 4 years since we have produced the last Teen SHOWOFF and there hasn’t been a better time to relaunch the magazine then now! Teens like you are facing more challenges than ever before. Whatever it is that you, your friends or family are experiencing, I hope that Teen SHOWOFF can be your beacon of light. Let us inspire you to dream big and strive for the best that life has to offer.
PHENOMENAL TEENS! Bermuda is exploding with intelligent, talented, creative, adventurous, determined young leaders! I am thrilled to present the 3rd issue of SHOWOFF Teen. Thank you to all of the teens who contributed. In this issue you will experience a taste of the excellence that Bermuda has produced. Some people say otherwise about the youth of Bermuda but DON’T LISTEN TO THEM! You are awesome and there’s a page waiting to highlight your passion. Chris Sposato, Kayjuna Lema, Aalai Wolffe, Shaunte Simons, Andrew Flemming, Ann-Tene Oldfield, Zaria DillSpence and Makeem Bartley are examples of teens with a purpose, doing what they love! Your attitude determines your altitude. If you decide that you can, then you will! If there’s something that you dream about, then go for it! I pray that this issue sparks that fire inside of you. I know that you’re the next best nurse, designer, academic, athlete, entrepreneur, performer or whatever it is that you desire to be.
Yours truly, Patrice Morgan Chief Editor
Enjoy! Patrika Dill Editorial Manager
PRESSING ISSUES! YOU TOLD US What your concerns are about the rise in violence, particularly gun crime!
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I think it’s too late for some from what I’ve heard.Those that are involved can’t get out. Bermuda needs to focus on the young ones who aren’t deep in at the moment and provide a positive outlet for them. And Bermuda really needs to govern what gets played on the media.Things like TV shows and music on the radio because that heavily plays a role in how they act. If they are listening to gangsta rap all day, they are going to grow up to be gangstas or at least have that mentality. -Michael
preventable if people spoke out before things got out of hand. Not only does the violence affect Bermuda as a whole, but also affects countries, people who are affiliated with Bermuda or who want to be affiliated with Bermuda. -Jane We all need each other and to make a change is to look out for each other.We should have neighborhood watch or groups. Violence is out of hand and it has to stop. Government needs to reach out to the people of Bermuda. It is unsafe. -Amanda
I feel like the violence that’s been happening in Bermuda could have been
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contributors
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CONTRIBUTORS IZABELLA ARNOLD WARWICK ACADEMY Loves most about Bermuda Its close sense of community and untouchable beauty. Your strengths I have always been a very independent person and am very focused and goal driven. Lasting impressions It will have to be two special people in my life, my parents.Yes, they do drive me crazy at times, but at the end of the day I am the way I am because of every good moral they have instilled in me. They are different characters and I am always able to get two opinions if I need help. I am very grateful for it and I couldn’t have asked for better. Who is your favourite
teacher and why? My Montessori teacher from when I was 3-6 years old, Mrs. Turner. Those core values she instilled helped me throughout my school career. I am able to look abstractly and practically at a situation. Future Plans I would love to pursue a career in acting. Bermuda will always be my home and one day I would hope to become involved with politics here and give back to the community in a very effective way. Words to live by Do not follow someone else’s dream. Find your own and pursue it to the best of your ability. Bermuda is full of opportunities for anyone who reaches out and proves themselves worthy.
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KJELD CONYERS-STEEDE CEDARBRIDGE ACADEMY Appreciates most about Bermuda Bermuda is filled with the world’s most beautiful people and views that I have ever seen. Bermuda should be the eighth wonder of the world. Your strengths I would have to say that my determination and my consideration are my strengths. When I set my mind for something I go for it and with no turning back. Lasting impressions A person who has made a lasting impression in my life is my father. The obstacles in my father’s life made him stronger and gave him the determination to do right and to make himself better for his family. Future plans My future plans are to study business management
at a University of my choice and to earn my Masters degree in architecture. I will also start my own architecture firm. Favourite subject My favourite subject is history point blank!I like history because the past is more interesting than the present. The past was rough, uncaring and unforgiving. Words to live by Don’t change who you are to fit the “norm” being an individual means to be yourself. There is one quote I live by that was created by Dr. Seuss. “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who matter don’t mind, and those that mind don’t matter.”
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LET’S HEAR IT for the boys!
Skateboard style - Anthony Webb, owner of Choices gives you his picks of popular accessories to make your look complete. In his store you’ll find brands like Seduka, Artful Dodger, Xray, Supra and DGK.
Quick look Behind the scenes of our city-style photoshoot
As contradictory as it may sound, it was the end of August when we braved a scorching hot day to create these winter looks. Though the heat took its toll on us, our team still managed to make our photoshoot amazing!
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Marco Santos organised and styled our men’s looks effortlessly. He helped get our goods to the scene of the shoot and managed to prepare all six of our models for each outfit change in the space of two hours in a stress-free manner!
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Keisha from Soave Hair Salon worked her magic to give our models a creative hairstyle. She used colourful headbands and a floral piece to add detail.
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Our aim was to bring a fun and exciting appeal into the overall look of the models. We enlisted freelance make-up artist Hannah Collins to give the models’ faces bold and shimmering eyeshadow in green, purple, blue and pink colours.
Since you work hard and play hard, why not put a little AXE in your life? We love the Axe Shower Gel in ‘Excite’ because it has a fresh woody scent, and the Axe Deodorant Body Spray in ‘Cool Mist’ because it contains a menthol, quartz and zinc fragrance. This personal care line meets our seal of approval.
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WHAT’S HOT for the girls!
Diara Benjamin of Cedarbridge Academy chooses the best selection of beauty products for teens.
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GET CLEAR SKIN These products contain antibacterial properties and are designed to help those with oily and blemished skin. Each product contains tea tree, lemon tea tree oil, tamanu oil and white willow extract which helps to clear and tone the skin. Try these products if you are prone to break outs such as acne. Pictured (from left to right): Tea Tree Skin Clearing Foaming Cleanser, Blemish Gel and Lotion.
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1. Revlon Nail Polish #85 I love nail polish and the Revlon line has many pretty colors to choose from. When it dries it is smooth and some of them have a scent as well. 2. Clairol Herbal Essence Hydralicious Shampoo I like this product because it smells really good, leaves you with soft hair and the purple color is really nice. 3. Degree Girl Deodorant in Just Dance I was drawn to this deodorant because of its sweet smell. It last long enough to take you from day into night. 4. Revlon Color burst lip-gloss Hot Pink #110 This gloss has a beautiful pink color and it is fashionable enough to be seen with. 5. Secret Scent Expressions Body Splash in So Very Summer Berry You can collect the whole range of these body sprays. They are small enough to take to school and you can easily freshen up throughout the day with it. 10
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Take your ! body back
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s a little girl, eating, you could say, was a comforting family past-time. With a Mexican grandmother on one side and a Portuguese grandmother on the other, the kitchen was the place to be. Helping to roll the greasy taquitos, and knead the fresh dough for bread, little did I know that as I grew older, I was setting myself on an awful path. By the time I turned nine years old, my pediatrician was warning me of my risk of becoming overweight. Obesity, diabetes, heart disease and cancer all affect my family. This not only applies in my case specifically, but many Bermudians have an immediate family member that will suffer from one of these conditions. It is the harsh truth, but can be prevented. In Bermuda, 19 percent of our teenage population ages 11-18 are overweight or obese. This is the third highest percentage in the world following behind the US and Canada (“Health In Review”, 58-59). Teens, like me, with a family history of obesity are more likely to be overweight or struggle to get rid of and keep off excess weight. Other major causes can be 12
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overeating, irregular meals and lack of daily exercise. Turning 16, I received a shiny Vespa for my birthday, and I began to stray away from walking place to place. I began to neglect my body with my new found fun. Obesity can lead to many health complications if action is not taken to lead a healthier lifestyle. These include: cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, musculoskeletal disorders (such as degenerative disease of the joints) and some cancers. It not only can lead to physical problems but also major psychological consequences. In most cases teasing and taunting can be as damaging as being overweight. The key thing to remember is that you are in full control of your body, how you treat it, and your future well-being. Even if you do come from a family that struggles with health issues, you can break that chain with hard work and determination. To be healthy and active there is no need to do trendy sports such as football, swimming or dancing, but it could be something such as volleyball, cycling or even wind surfing. The key is to enjoy yourself and feel the satisfaction you get after
“You are in full control of your body, how you treat it, and your future well-being” working hard and burning calories. Suggestions to begin your journey to a healthier you: • Join a nearby gym. Community Center Sandys 360 provides activities including swimming and use of a state-of-the-art gym. • Try out for a school team and look forward to interschool competitions. • Get a group of friends together and keep each other motivated in an activity such
as walking or running. A group effort with your close friends is always enjoyable. • Try cycling to school or work and eat wholesome foods such as nuts, whole grains, fruits and vegetables. This will keep your mind and body in good shape. It does take a little extra effort, but you can make it routine. I guarantee that you will begin to feel a difference physically and mentally. I’ve done it for myself and you can too.
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REAL LIFE: e m i r C n u G One person’s candid thoughts on how gun violence feels when it hits close to home…
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iolent crime in Bermuda has escalated beyond what most Bermudians ever dreamed possible. With every gunshot the community cringes, vigils are attended and tears are shed. This Island paradise has been shattered repeatedly and there seems to be no end in sight. Victims are not only the people who are shot but also the families and
witnesses. These are the words of an individual (who wishes to remain anonymous) who was directly affected by gun crime in Bermuda. I’m afraid to go out and it’s uncomfortable at home. Every sound to me is another gunshot. I feel like a child again, images of the Boogie Man in my head. Sleep, peace and how life used to be is a lost privilege to me. Can you imagine not knowing who
caused this feeling for me? I’m a man! Almost a man but I feel like an abandoned infant so unclear, uncertain and unhappy. Most days I don’t know whether I’m coming or going. I want to know who caused this pain; yet I don’t want to know. I don’t feel safe, I wonder if my family and friends are safe. Some days I wish I could have died that day then I wouldn’t have to worry about anything anymore. Most days I pray for this to be a dream. The talks of relocating to another country scare me. My home is Bermuda; my family, friends and future are here. I didn’t choose my family so why do I have to suffer like this? My friends, we have been
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together since primary school. Why did things move from shooting hoops to shooting guns? I don’t want any part of this but we are guilty by association. TRAPPED is the word to describe what I am. If I had a gun I would be the next person to pull the trigger, but then my mom would be devastated if she had to bury me, her only child. Suicide isn’t my answer even though I couldn’t tell you how many times it crossed my mind. At night when it’s quiet outside I try really hard to put together the events of that day or maybe it was night. It’s such a blur. We were chilling and then the loud bangs followed by sirens, blood, flashing blue and red lights, bright fluorescent white lights, tears, flowers, more tears, white – lots of white and now all I have is fear. Fear of the unknown. I’m not a heartless thug. I don’t drink alcohol, smoke weed or mess with anyone. I wish people wouldn’t classify all young Bermudian men this way. My neighbourhood does not define my identity. I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time and now my life has changed forever. Who can help me? Can anyone help me? Who can protect me? Will things change? Can I be the change? How can I initiate the change? Through my tears I try really hard to see who caused this pain, but all I can see is the Boogie Man. The image of an unknown monster is constantly in my head. I so desperately want justice for every fallen soldier but I feel useless. I’m just a blind witness filled with fear.
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Fly guy! Where’d you get those red accessories? Mickey Mouse goes urban!
Harlem pants are so in right now. We love the colourful rain boots!
It’s the red socks! We love the Skateboardsailor look.
Strike a pose! Boho-chic chicks in the city.
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Fitted t-shirts and cropped distressed jeans are so grown up and trendY!
The graphics on his shirt and cap are so necessary! Plus who wouldn’t love a pair of those hot headphones?
Cargo pants and cropped denim jackets are so cool! teen 15
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BUDGETING FOR TEENS WORDS Honey Adams, The Department of Consumer Affairs
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• Pay yourself first and put at least 10 percent of your earnings into a savings account for emergencies.
• Determine what your goals are, write them down and establish how much to save each week and what will be left to spend.
• Consider sharing DVDs with friends instead of buying new ones. Share magazines and look for second-hand CDs and movies. However, do not download DVDs or CDs and make copies for distribution as this is against the law.
• List your needs and your wants separately. There is no problem with saving a little for the latest fashion must-have, but your savings is for your needs first and what’s left can be used on those items on the ‘want’ list.
• Don’t be afraid to shop the sale racks when looking for that new outfit. Most local stores have good sales and if you are patient and shop around there are savings to be had. Check the labels and try to buy clothes that are washable rather than dry clean only.
•Cell phones, and more specifically, BlackBerry’s, seem to be the must-have item for all teenagers. Be careful, this is one area where many tears have been shed when the bill arrives. Especially those teens that took the BlackBerry on vacation and came back to face the dreaded roaming charges. Data roaming is expensive. If you don’t really need your mobile device when you are away, turn it off! • Make sure you are on the right cell phone plan, get unlimited nights and weekends, unlimited text messages, use your device during off-peak hours and always check the bill.
•Eating out takes a big chunk out of any budget. Pack a lunch, use up those leftovers and cut back on eating out every day. A lot of restaurants serve large portions that most people can’t complete on their own, so instead of everyone ordering separately share meals amongst your friends. • There are plenty of articles written specifically for young people regarding money management. Take the time to go online and research this information. Budgeting and saving money does not have to be difficult. Find easy ways to cut unnecessary costs and save on a regular basis. For more information on how the Consumer Affairs can help you and your family visit their website at www.ca.gov.bm
• If you ride a motorbike you can save on gas if you
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• Start by keeping a list of what you spend every day and save all of your receipts. Do this for a couple of weeks and the unnecessary expenses should become obvious – then you can determine where cuts can be made.
• Have a money saving strategy that will work for you and try not to make too many changes at one time. There are key areas where we all can save money; entertainment, clothing, transportation, cell phones, and food and beverages.
walk around the corner to your friend’s house instead of revving up the bike for a two-minute ride. Get a pedal bike if you work close to your home or school.
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ife is what you make it, even on our small Island called Bermuda. Instead of sitting around complaining that there is nothing to do, get up, get out and explore your options. Whether it be indoors or outdoors, these options may not be obvious to you. Here are a few suggestions that you and your friends can use to start having fun. Are you talented? Start your own group: • Form a band • Start a cheerleading squad • Create a dance group • Set up a singing group • Organise a talent show
Give back to your community by volunteering: • You can earn co-curricular hours • You will make new friends •Y ou will feel a sense of pride and satisfaction Get active and join a team for example: • Netball • Football • Softball • Basketball These sports and many others may be available at your school, so check it out. Often local organisations, community clubs and churches are looking
for participants. You never know, there may be opportunities for you to travel to different countries with these teams. Hang out with your friends and be creative: • Have photoshoots • Write a play • Write poetry and publish a book • Write your own music and produce an album • Organise a games night. Be sure to include all-time favourite snacks such as S’mores or roasted marshmallows • Have a sleep over and watch movies all night
• Have a girls night • Compete with your friends at a game of bowling • Play a round of mini-golf • Organise a private house party with your closest friends only • Have themed parties. Everyone can show up dressed as their favourite character, artist or represent a culture • In the summer time enjoy swimming, picnics, and beach parties Use these suggestions to drop the line “I’m bored” and start enjoying our paradise home called Bermuda. teen 17
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through the Fairmont Hotels. College graduates in the field of Hotel Management/ Tourism rotate through different areas of the hotel and train in the management of those areas. This 18-month programme allows a transfer to an overseas Fairmont hotel for further experience.
Dreams start small Mr. Tucker started as a teenager working at La Trattoria Restaurant as a busboy, and fell in love with the hospitality industry. He graduated from CedarBridge Academy with a dream. In three and a half years he fulfilled his goal at Johnson & Wales University where he was awarded a Bachelor’s degree in Hotel Management and an Associate degree in Tourism.
Pros and cons There are countless reasons for seeking a career in the tourism industry: • You serve as an ambassador for Bermuda • You feel a sense of pride and respect • You gain knowledge about Bermuda’s activities and events • You are helping to develop one of Bermuda’s main sources of revenue • You are assisting with taking Bermuda to the next level on the global market On the negative side, tourism is seasonal and can make job security appear questionable. However, this affects mainly the front office and other staffing areas, more than management. On the flip side, with proper planning, the
Leadership Development Program He was recently appointed to the Leadership Development Program (LDP), but is not a new face to tourism. The LDP internship programme is available to Bermudians
“Do what you love and you’ll never work” off-season can be used as extended vacation time for many.
persons, applying for scholarships, and furthering their education.
Getting involved “Bermuda is tourism,” says Mr. Tucker. “It’s what we are known for and what we tend to do best. It is extremely important for us as Bermudians to choose a career path in tourism to keep our industry alive.” He estimates that approximately 40 percent of the employees at the Fairmont are guest workers. He encourages young Bermudian men and women to pursue tourism as a career. He suggests that they start by getting involved now by seeking placement in a summer programme or job, talking with experienced
Find your passion A wise person once told me, “Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life.” That’s how Mr. Tucker feels about working in the tourism industry. He says, “No two days are the same; you are forever gaining experience about tourism and Bermuda, as well as building new relationships with both guests and colleagues. It’s an unpredictable journey and one that can take you around the world.” It’s time to find your passion, and it just may be a career in Bermuda’s Tourism Industry. teen 19
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Worldwide there always appears to be a shortage of nurses. Nursing in Bermuda is a career that holds many possibilities. Of course you can find medical nurses at King Edward VII Memorial Hospital; however the field of nursing goes far beyond.LeAnnette Magba Kamara is a Registered Nurse at MidAtlantic Wellness Institute (MWI), in the psychiatric department. Zaria Dill-Spence: Describe your daily routine? LeAnnette Magba-Kamara: My daily routine changes from day to day but consists of discussing cases, constant component, clients-service user and ward round. These daily tasks include the help of doctors and other nurses from the department. ZDS: What do you enjoy best about working as a nurse? LMK: I enjoy the idea of being able to critically think while working. It allows my mind to think outside the box. I also enjoy how dynamic nursing is, one year I can work in the psychology department and the next I would be in the nurse-teaching department. ZDS: What type of educational background do you need to have 20
to become a nurse? LMK: To be able to become a nurse in Bermuda you have to have your Bachelor’s degree, which is usually a four-year course. ZDS: How many hours do you work each day? LMK: My working day is based on an eight-hour shift, which starts around 7.00 a.m. and ends at 8.00 a.m. ZDS: Do you have to wear a uniform while working, please explain what it means? LMK: Yes, my uniform consists of a pair of white long pants and a white top. That white shows which department you work in and has your tag attached. The shoes are all white nursing shoes.
ZDS: Have you always wanted to be a nurse? LMK: Nursing was a dream of mine since I was two years old. Not many young Bermudians are nurses, which led to the shortage we have today of young Bermudian nurses. ZDS: Are there any challenges associated with your job? LMK: Every job has its challenges. In nursing there are troubles with treatment, deciding which patients need treatment or who is not getting treatment. Another trouble is time-management; time is priceless and cannot be wasted. ZDS: Are you satisfied with the position you hold? Would you like to move forward? LMK: I would always love to move forward in my career
but I am more than happy to be where I am now. ZDS: How many years have you been working as a nurse? LMK: I have been a nurse for four years. I started overseas in Massachusetts in 2009 working in a rehab and a hospice. After two years, the year of 2007, I came back to Bermuda to become a Registered Nurse. ZDS: What advice would you give to a young person who wants to become a nurse? LMK: Learn all you can while you can and remember education is key. Also, studying frequently on the subject and build your memory skills. Nursing is a social job, which means having a positive attitude is the best way to enjoy the day.
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Bridging the Gap Between College and Career with Lonnie Bascome Lonnie Bascome, 26, talks candidly about career planning. He shares the tough decisions that he faced while in college and what life’s been like since he’s been back home. Here, he documents the measures that he took to navigate into Bermuda’s financial industry via Butterfield Bank’s Management Trainee Programme.
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s a Bermudian, the decision to pursue a degree in Aviation Operations and Management is a road not often travelled but admired greatly. To master the controls of an aircraft is an accomplishment many will only imagine doing compared to the more common disciplines Bermudians go off to college or university to study. I was able to obtain in four years a Bachelor’s degree which taught me, along with flying, great knowledge in the field of running an aviation business. Some of the flight ratings I obtained are my private pilot license; instrument rating, which allows a pilot to fly based solely on instrumentation within the cockpit; commercial license; multiengine rating, a transitional course to an aircraft with multiple engines; flight instructor ratings; and, lastly and also most recent, a seaplane rating. I attended AeroSim, formerly Delta Connection Academy, at the same time I was in Jacksonville University
in Jacksonville, Florida. To look back at what I have accomplished I have to say that it wasn’t easy to sacrifice and give up one thing in order to achieve another. A perfect example of this is when I was on a soccer scholarship and played Division 1 soccer for two years. For those in college now, this is the year you declare your major and start taking classes that count towards that major you select. I remember very vividly my coach saying to me, “Lonnie, I’m not getting any ROI,” his return on investment. I took a step back and I thought to myself, my time here in university is really to pursue aviation and I don’t feel like the time I’m investing is giving good returns in helping achieve this goal with soccer pulling me in another direction. So I decided to give up the very thing that was my vehicle into university because I was determined to seize the opportunity to accomplish what I set out to do. In late 2009, three and a half years later, I achieved that goal and ultimately reached a
personal dream of mine. I soared among the clouds and visited many places in doing so but little did I think I would soon be working at Butterfield Bank. I now work on a team that continues to be dedicated to providing sound financial assistance to the Bermudian community. I used every bit of knowledge from my Aviation Operations and Management degree to place myself within Butterfield’s dynamic Management Training Programme, which has provided me with a great start to a promising career. Along with my fellow Management Trainees I can testify that using those core characteristics
which make up a complete leader (perseverance, selfdiscipline, dedication and the willingness to adapt) are the tools one needs in today’s shifting business climate. As a reality nothing works out as smooth as we all hope they would. You take what you learn from your, often diverse, educational experiences and tailor them to fit the requirements needed for any particular job, and it is the kind of aptitude that any prospective employer likes to see. As advice, for those continuing on to higher education, the hard work begins after you obtain that hard-earned degree. teen 21
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Extreme Artistic Makeovers with Kevin Busby WORDS Khaivon Castro, Cedarbridge Academy
Kevin Busby is one of the most gifted automobile customizers Bermuda has ever seen. As the owner of KB Custom Designs, his talents have taken him across the globe to places such as Australia, Germany and New York.
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r. Busby began his artistic pursuit during his teenage years to help keep out of trouble. In his younger years he did not have a strong passion working in the family business because it seemed that he did not have time to enjoy sports like cricket or football. Over the years his passion for this art form grew because he began to see the fulfillment of customers when his work was completed. Mr. Busby stated, “There is no dollar value that could be compared to the customer’s smile when my work is complete. That is a payment in itself.” One of Mr. Busby’s finest works of art can be seen rolling around the streets of Bermuda. The Hope for Life bus was designed and created by him and his team. What
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started out as a pink and blue bus can now be seen as an exquisite piece of art on wheels. KB Custom Designs completed an extreme makeover on this former pink and blue bus. It is now the crowning joy for Commissioner of the ISL, David Bascome and the Hope 4 Life program. Mr. Busby and his team completed the total transformation of the bus from its original state in a record 14 days. He is currently working for famous comedian Kevin Hart doing a complete body upgrade on his GT Bentley. Mr. Busby has been travelling back and forth working on this $300,000 vehicle, a task that’s only given to the best in the business. He enjoys traveling around the world especially because there are no laws that prevent him from expressing the highest level of his talent and skill. Unfortunately in Bermuda, there are certain guidelines that must be followed that clearly impede his creative talents. He says, “In the United States the sky is the limit,” as it relates to the freedom he has to create
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careers unique and over the top designs. What he enjoys most about his career is the fact that his customers come to him with a design but he is allowed the freedom to marry it with his creativity. Thereby, he is able to create a beautiful piece of artistry. Mr. Busby has been in business for more than 30 years doing a craft that he was never formally trained in. He recognizes that Bermuda no longer has a technical school which makes it more difficult for young people to get the training they need if they want to pursue this type of career. He can tell you that there is great money making potential in this line of work. A person can earn anywhere form $800 to $1100 per week, depending on the area in which they specialize in such as dbda-text-168x116.pdf
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mechanical, body or painting. His advice to those interested in a career in auto body is to seek out employers that offer apprenticeships. He also noted that initially people are drawn to the glitz and glamour of the career, but once they realize the labor that goes into it, they sometimes take another route. Mr. Busby is convinced that apprenticeships will be the best way to gain exposure in this industry. He is an excellent example of someone who has taken full advantage of his gift. The passion Mr. Busby has for his craft speaks through his work. In the near future, he hopes to see the development of a new Technical School in Bermuda come to fruition. Search for KB Custom Designs on youtube.com to see an awesome auto transformation
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Troika is a charity-based performing arts organisation that combines singing, dancing and acting to create a theatrical performance. Young adults 13 to19 years old audition and compete for a spot in their productions. The auditions are held early in the year and once the spots are chosen, that is the final cut.
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roika produces about 20 plays each year in which participants display numerous talents. They have grown popular quickly from their beginning in 2009. The folks behind the scenes are co-founders Nishanthi Bailey, Shoa Bean and Seldon Wooldridge. This year director Lawrence Floyd, choreographer Zalika ‘Zazi’ Millett and music director Leroy Francis, were some of the few that helped make the magic of Troika performances. Talented Bermudian performers display a combination of dancing, singing and acting on the stage, but the young people that participate are not only performers. Beyond the stage, Troika also supports the young people to experience the trade such as learning music technology and production skills. Their main focus is to create a safe haven to be exposed to the arts, to provide a creative outlet to young adults who enjoy the arts and for young adults to express themselves freely through the arts. Troika also encourages teamwork, trains players to work together in environments with many different people and personalities, and harvest good collaboration. It is important to the co-founders to help the young adults find themselves in the arts; they believe that is what the idea of Troika is all about, and the coming together as a whole is the meaning of Troika.
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“Troika also encourages teamwork, trains players to work together in environments with many different people and personalities, and harvest good collaboration.”
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One of Troika’s esteemed participants, Aalai Wolffe is not new to the performing arts world, and is not finished with it either. Aalai started dancing in 2006 at the age of 10, and has enjoyed it ever since. It is one of her deeply fond passions and she has gone the extra mile on her journey to becoming a professional dancer. She studied and practiced ballet, jazz, tap, hip-hop, and modern dance. Aalai also started singing in December 2010 and acting in July 2010. She is what you would call “a triple-threat” in the performing arts world. Headstrong and ready to enter the world of hardcore practice and commitment, Aalai strives to become an actress while pursuing singing and dancing. Aalai starred in the August 2011 Troika performance, Misunderstood, and did a phenomenal job. She has the voice
of an angel. In Troika’s latest theatrical performance, Misunderstood went into the heart of the school environment, exposing you to the many different types of personalities and the true drama that teens face every day. Also, to shed light positively on our young folks, though facing obstacles, they push and fight every day to overcome them. Aalai is grateful to Troika for a great summer experience. She believes that that anyone interested in the arts should have the opportunity to participate. “It benefited me well, giving me a wider prospective of the performing arts world, and benefits the rest of the young people as well.” Aalai attended the St. George’s Prep Primary School, followed by a brief stay at Somersfield Academy and Clearwater
Middle School. Currently, she is in her second year of CedarBridge Academy, and enjoying it. Aalai’s inspiration comes from her role models Justin Bieber, Beyoncé, Michael Jackson, and don’t forget the support from her family who definitely want to see her succeed in what she loves. But what does Aalai do when she isn’t practicing and enjoying the performing arts world? To get away, the young star enjoys cooking, singing and surfing the internet. Aalai believes she will go as far as she desires, and aspires to be a professional of the performing arts in the future. With great faith in her future career, after high school, she plans to go to Juilliard University to study music, singing and dance. She is not only good at performing arts, she is also an honour student. Overall, Aalai is determined to do well with this career of performing arts, she is ready to go out into that world and show them everything she has to offer. Don’t be surprised if in the next 10 years you see her name posted in the bright lights of entertainment. She encourages young children to continue to strive for their goals and have the fortitude to stay focused. Troika plans to travel to the United States during the summer of 2012 to expose young people to the stage outside of Bermuda. To learn more about their endeavors email them at info@troikabda.com. teen 25
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Him: Artful Dodger pants, Radaii sneakers, DGK shirt, snapback and backpack all at Choices Her: Dollhouse jacket, Trash & Luxury crop top, necklace and BCBG Generation shorts at Gibbons Co.Him (right): Focus jeans, Supra Sky III sneakers, DGK fitted hat, hoodie and t-shirt all at Choices
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Dare to be different: Not just your average teen WORDS Izabella Arnold, Warwick Academy
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t the age of five Shaunte Simons already had a dream to become a judge. Now at 17 she can look back with pride on her accomplishments and move towards making her dream a reality. Over the years she has built up an extensive repertoire among the community and still continues to impress. Her latest achievement was earning the title of Miss Teen Bermuda 2011. Shaunte not only dominates on stage but in school. She graduated with honours and was a major player in Bermuda Youth Parliament as opposition leader. Her achievements also include Duke of Edinburgh Award Bronze, Junior UN trip leader, National Youth News Council, Youth Peace Builders and she’s a dancer at The In Motion School of Dance. This September, Shaunte moves closer to her dream when she begins her studies in British Law at the University of West England. A great experience Shaunte’s journey to being crowned Miss Teen Bermuda 2011 began when her mother came across an article in the newspaper. Terry Smith (the Miss Teen Bermuda event coordinator) was searching for young girls 13 to17 years old to compete for the Miss Teen Bermuda crown. The five-week adventure began with a total of 13 girls participating in etiquette 34
“Have a positive outlook on life, set yourself away from everyone else and express what’s inside.” classes and learning the walk and talk of pageant life, three times a week for two hours. Reflecting on the overall experience Shaunte said, “When I entered the competition I thought of it more as a great experience. It took a while to sink in that it was in fact a competition as all the girls were very friendly and had such a great vibe.” The format of the competition was different from your average beauty pageant. They were not only looking for girls with a pretty face, but it was the inner beauty and the personality that took precedence. There were five main categories in the competition. The Photogenic category included the girls posing in bathing
suits for a photoshoot at the Fairmont Southampton. The second, Teen Supermodel, saw the girls modeling clothing from local stores. This was similar to the America’s Next Top Model ‘go-sees’. Shaunte was then placed in the top three for the Talent Portion. The next part was Best Dressed where the contestants were able to demonstrate their personal style. Lastly, Shaunte won Miss Sweet Charity for her charitable work. A winning approach: Dare to be different One at a time the top five gave their prepared speeches. “I started by saying something different. Rather than walking
up to the microphone and saying ‘Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen’, I said ‘Jack and Jill went up the hill to smoke some marijuana. Jack got high and dropped his fly, Jill said yes, pulled up her dress, and then they had some fun, and now they have a son.’ The whole room went silent, as in ‘What is this girl doing?’ I then said good evening and went on with my speech on abstinence and how the average age for teens to start having sex is 11.” This was a huge risk for her to take but it landed her with a standing ovation and she walked away that evening with the coveted crown. Future success In December, Shaunte will travel to St. Kitts for the annual Digicel Haynes Smith Miss Talented Teen Caribbean Competition. She mentioned that she’s a little fearful right now about the talent portion, as she will perform a self-written monologue. She will play a woman at two different periods in her life. She is now beginning to break through that selfconsciousness and hopes to place well. After talking with Shaunte I know that she will shine like the star that she is. Shaunte’s words of wisdom: “Have a positive outlook on life, set yourself away from everyone else and express what’s inside.”
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DO YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY OR A SPECIAL MESSAGE OR ARTICLE THAT YOU FEEL NEEDS TO BE SEEN? We are recruiting student writers and photographers to contribute in our 2012 spring and fall issue. Qualities of Applicants: Reliable and able to meet deadlines Have a strong interest in writing Benefits: Check with your school advisor to see how you can use your role with us as credit towards community or co-curricular activities. You’ll receive name recognition in those issues and can add your experience with us to your resume. To apply: Email two sample articles to admin@showoffmagazine.net, along with a short description about why you would like to contribute. Please include your full name, contact information, age and school that you attend. Only teenagers need apply.
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Exceptional teen: “From a role model, to a friend, then a tutor” WORDS Kjeld Conyers-Steede, CedarBridge Academy
Andrew Flemming exemplifies a positive young Bermudian male. He graduated valedictorian from CedarBridge Academy in June 2011, maintaining a 4.0 grade point average(GPA)during his entire four years. His exemplary performance, like icing on a cake, was recognised when he received the ACE Foundation’s Robert Clements Scholarship. This interview contains the secrets of his success. Kjeld Conyers Steede: What made you push yourself to be successful? Andrew Flemming: My drive for success came from my determination to be the best that I can personally be. It also stemmed from a desire to work hard now, so that later I will not have to. Of course, a push from family and teachers helped to keep me on track. KCS: What do you plan to do in the future? What are your goals? AF: In the future, I intend to take up a career in reinsurance. I would also like to visit different parts of the world to gain experience and exposure. I would like to have a better understanding of how people around the world interact with each other with the hopes that I learn a thing or two from their lifestyle. KCS: What made you want to be a role model for students at CedarBridge Academy? AF: To be quite honest, I never walked into CBA expecting to be a role model, but rather fell into that role. While it was never my intention, I cherished the opportunity because it allowed me a gateway to 36
KCS: What are the most outstanding highlights in your high school career, and why? AF: The opportunity to be the head boy at CBA, as well as having the overall highest GPA for my year. These are definitely the main highlights of my high school career because both have afforded me so many other opportunities. For instance, my role as head boy allowed me the opportunity to meet HRH Prince Edward, Earl of Wessex, and his wife HRH Sophie, Countess of Wessex.
network with my underclassmen. KCS: What advice would you give to someone who is applying for a scholarship? AF: Start early and do not skimp on details! Getting all of the information for scholarships is time consuming, and so it is important to give yourself enough time to get everything that you need and be able to hand in the required
documents before the deadline. Also, do not forget to put in the extra bit of information about yourself. KCS: Which college will you attend in the fall and what will you study? AF: In the fall, I will be attending Mount Saint Vincent University in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada. While there I intend to study business administration with a concentration in economics.
KCS: Whom do you thank for your success? AF: There are many whom I thank for my success. First, God, for allowing me the facilities to be able to even achieve my goals. I thank my family for their continued support and motivation that they have given to me, particularly in times of doubt. I thank my educators – both principals and teachers – for without them, I would not know what I know. Lastly, I thank the people who I choose to call my friends, for they too have had a great impact on my life. They have helped me to become a better person, even if there is a bit of trouble on the way.
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LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX & RELATIONSHIPS
Parents THINK they know it all?! A real life scenerio about the highs and lows of dating and the mis-communication that occurs between parents and their children. Don’t let your life mimic this article.
Tina says: My mom is nosy, hates my friends and is always nagging me. NAG, NAG, NAG! “Where, have you been, where are you going, who are you going with, have you finished your chores, did you do your homework?” I’m sure no one else has a mother like mine. Every other day she wants to take my phone away or cut my computer privileges for stupid stuff. She just doesn’t understand me. My mom wants me to be miserable, like her! I don’t even want to be here talking to you but since I am let me tell you what’s been going on. A few months ago my friends and I were waiting for the bus. I had on the cutest outfit! This guy came up to me (he was so fine). He said, “Hey Shorty come holla at me.” I rolled my eyes and ignored him because I ain’t nobody’s Shorty. He said, “Alright sweetie be like that.” Later that evening I saw him again. It was hard to keep from blushing but I’m nobody’s punk. He approached me and this time said, “Good evening my name is Jason. What’s your name? I can see that you’re a classy lady so I had to adjust my
game. I would like to get to know you.” I told him my name. He asked if I was busy later. I told him yes but I gave him my BB pin when he asked for it. We were constantly on BB for two weeks and eventually we exchanged numbers. Jason was so perfect. He was handsome, down to earth and smart too. I introduced him to my mom, of course, she hated him. Every time his name came up she started talking about sex and birth control. She was so annoying! We kept hanging out together anyway. Sometimes she thought I was with my girls but occasionally she knew when I was with Jason. We went to the movies, mini golf, Harbour Nights, parties. I met his family and I was officially in love. I loved Jason. We kissed a lot, held hands and fooled around but he never asked me for sex like the other guys. One day we were chillin’ at his house and we talked about sex. He knew that I was a virgin and he promised to wait until I was ready. In my mind (and my body) I knew I was ready but just had to make sure that he was the one. My friends, Tisha, Shawna
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and JJ were all having sex. They always teased me because I planned to wait for “the one”. I love my friends but they are so stupid sometimes. One night, a few months later, Jason and I were alone at my house. My mama was at her night job. We did our homework and then ate dinner. Without going into detail I’ll just say that my friends can’t tease me anymore! It was his first time and mine. We didn’t plan for it to happen so we didn’t use any protection because we didn’t have any. I figured that it didn’t matter because it was both our first times and JJ told me that you can’t get pregnant the first time anyway. Eight weeks have passed and I’m not so sure about a few things anymore. When I leave here mom is taking me to the doctor because I haven’t had my period in awhile. My “friends” have been spreading rumors about me and I found messages from Shawna on Jason’s BB messenger two weeks ago inviting him to her house. I’m sure it’s innocent, I think. Jason has been acting a little weird. He was supposed to be with us today. Maybe it’s just the pressure of school, right? When mom heard me talking to Tisha earlier she had to give her unwanted opinion. Just because Tisha is pregnant doesn’t mean that I am too. She always thinks she knows it all! I just wish…
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“I don’t want her to be a teenage mother who later becomes a middle-aged woman trying to fulfill her dreams”
MOM: Permission to speak please! In a perfect world my daughter would go to school, get perfect grades, receive a scholarship to the college of her choice and graduate with honours, without the distractions that seem to consume our impressionable teenagers. However, this world is far from perfect, and despite my hopes and dreams for my princess, she is far from perfect too. I just wish that she would understand that I was once a teenager too, filled with thoughts, passions and desires that I was too young to understand. Unfortunately for me, back then, no one talked to you; it was just “be seen and not heard” and “do what I say, not what I do”. I had so many questions that went
unanswered, I made so many mistakes that could not be corrected, I had so many desires that I had to satisfy… and, being the “good girl” I was expected to be, I was left to my own devices to figure it all out. So when I ask her questions about her thoughts, her feelings and her desires, I just wish she would open up to me. You see when I talk to her, I talk from experience; experiences that I am trying to help her avoid, but the more I try to help, the more she pushes me away. The more I try to warn her about false friends and backstabbers, the more she confides in her peers. The more I try to encourage her to slow it down with her boyfriend the more she runs to him for solace.
Her defense is that I don’t understand her, I am prying into her life and I am overbearing. Yet when she finds herself in trouble, I am the one who helps her out of bad situations, has her back when her friends turn on her and wipes away her tears when her boyfriend hurts her, only because I care. I don’t want her to be a teenage mother who later becomes a middleaged woman trying to fulfill her dreams amidst the harsh pressures that life brings to the unprepared, like me. I know that in life we learn from our mistakes, experience brings wisdom and if she doesn’t listen she will feel, but that’s not what I want for her. I want so much more for her, but I need her to want so much more for herself. I pray that the results of the test do not confirm my greatest fear. Tina is only 15, I wish she would have listened and waited until she was older to have sex. Tina always says that I think I know it all, I hope this time she is right and I’m wrong. FACTS: • You can get pregnant the first time you have sex. • You can get pregnant and catch Sexually Transmitted Diseases if you don’t use protection during sex. • Listen to your parents, teachers, counsellors and mentors. Abstain from having sex. • Parents seem like they know it all because often times they have experienced what you’re going through. (Names in this article have been changed to protect identity) teen 39
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ATTENTION SENIOR STUDENTS! Nothing compares to the university experience. What do you plan to do after you graduate from high school? by tina steede
Reasons to start applying now Many colleges require hard copy applications and transcripts. If you wait too late your application package may not arrive at the school in time. Snail mail is just that (sometimes slow and unreliable). 40
If you wait until the last minute and you plan to apply to several colleges, your courier charges and express transcript fees will add up.
Scholarships! Most scholarship applications require a copy of your acceptance letter. Remember, scholarship deadlines are as early as March 1 and some are even sooner. College application deadlines vary. If you send your application in January or February it may take longer for the college admissions department to process your documents due to volume of applicants. If you don’t have your admissions letter in your hand when scholarship applications are due you could lose out on a scholarship.As soon as you send off your college application begin to research scholarships. Scholarship applications can be tedious and time consuming.
Many scholarship applications require information that you may not have on hand: • Make sure that you have your proof of citizenship. • Collect proof that you’ve been educated in Bermuda for at least five years. • Speak to your teachers, coaches, principal and guidance counselor to secure people who are willing to write your reference letter. • Show your new college administrators how organised and determined you are. Start preparing today for the biggest educational step in your life. Search for scholarship information online: bermudascholarships.com www.bdacareers.bm
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education plan your time carefully. • Study material daily. When test time arrives you will only need to review. • Ask your parents/ friends for help in advance if you think you may need it.
SET THE ATMOSPHERE FOR EFFECTIVE STUDY SESSIONS • Set aside a time for homework and studying. • Find a quiet place where you’re not likely to be disturbed. • Turn off your television, cell phone and instant messaging.
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• Take breaks at predetermined intervals so that you don’t burn out. • Prepare a snack before you start to study, have it nearby to eat during your break. • Be sure to tell your friends and family that you are busy so that they don’t disturb you.
PLAN TO SUCCEED! Hard work and dedication always pay off. Remember to stay focused and always dream about walking across the stage to collect your diploma. It is your boarding pass to the next phase in your educational career.
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AT SCHOOL • Take good notes in class. If you don’t know how to take notes ask your teacher or guidance counselor for strategies. • Ask questions in class. Challenge your teachers to give you as much information as they possibly can. • Use the library for research. Librarians can assist you with
projects and resources that you may need. • Communicate with your teachers. If you don’t understand a concept ask for help. • Attend tutorials as soon as they are offered. Don’t wait until exam time when your whole class is scrambling for extra help.
AT HOME • Read your syllabus and do research. Dig deeper than what your teacher told you. Be prepared to ask questions related to your content. • Review your notes every night. If in doubt follow up with your teacher the next day. • Start homework on the day it is assigned not the day before it is due. • If you have a big project
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HAIR AND NAILS:
A young entrepreneur’s passion WORDS Janaesha West, Bermuda College
CedarBridge Academy graduate Ann-Tenne Oldfield tells us why passion and determination bring you closer to your dreams.
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his 17-year old young teen has run her own business ‘Hair and Nails’ for the past three years with the support of friends, family and her clients. She has self-advertised via BlackBerry Messenger, Facebook and through word of mouth. Her clients are often repeat customers who have patronized her since her inception. Janaesha West: How long have you been doing nails and hair? Ann-Tenne Oldfield: I have been doing nails since 2009 (when I started my business).
I started doing hair in 2005 and just matured in my craft. JW: How did you learn about cosmetology? ATO: I taught myself but I had inspiration from family members, my older cousin had a hair salon so I picked up things from her. As for nails, one night I was just trying stuff on my nails and I asked my mom if she liked it. She said that I should start a business, so the next day she took me to a shop to pick up supplies. After that I started doing her nails, my nails and then it branched off. JW: Do you specialise in anything specific? ATO: Yes, I do a lot of braiding, perming and weaving because that’s what I started
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“If you do it, you have to love it. Show that you have the passion…” off doing first. When it comes to nails I specialise in acrylic. JW: Are you planning on taking your business to the next level? ATO: Yes, but right now I’m going to Bermuda College to get my degree in business administration, so that I can run my company successfully and have the foundation to sustain it. After that I will travel abroad to further my degree in cosmetology so that I will have papers to say that I’m qualified.
JW: Do you have any advice to younger females who want to go into cosmetology? ATO: If you do it you have to love it. Show that you have the passion to do all aspects of cosmetology because if you don’t it will show in your work.You must have the drive and do what you love. For more information about Ann-Tenne you can email her at maria_sweet_71@hotmail.com
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onsidering starting your own business? The following are four tips that you should consider prior to getting started: Some entrepreneurs are born, others are made. Some of us are natural entrepreneurs. A lemonade stand at ten years old, a babysitting club at 15, a cosmetics business to carry you through college.... Sound like you? Then this means that you’re naturally a risk-taker. Or you may not be. Regardless of which category you fall in, let go of all ideas about the typical traits of a successful entrepreneur. No theory can tell you that you don’t have what it takes to build a successful business. If you want to, you can.
Start with what you love Remember that we are usually good at things that we enjoy the most. Building a business around what you are passionate about ensures that when the going gets tough your passion carries you through. At the very least, that means that every day you will wake up going to a job you like. So if you are starting a business, make sure it’s something you’re passionate about. Know what you are good at A common pitfall for entrepreneurs is thinking they have to be good at everything. It is true that when you choose to be a one-person operation, you often have to do several jobs, but you
don’t have to know everything. It is important to focus on what you are good at. Seek out the expertise you don’t have. Knowledgeable help is available so don’t be afraid to use it. Surround yourself with positive people It is never too early to find trustworthy and knowledgeable advisors and mentors who will nurture your efforts to bring your business idea to fruition. Make sure they have your best interest at heart. They will guide you, encourage you and provide you with a sounding board. If you have questions about starting a business, just ask BSBDC: Email us at info@bsbdc.bm or call 292-5570.
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TEEN WITH AVISION: Young entrepreneur By Quinceé Dill, The Berkeley Institute
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erkeley Institute student Zaria Dill-Spence participates in two, soon to be three, extracurricular activities. She attends violin classes at the Bermuda School of Music, takes Spanish classes at the Bermuda International Languages and Arts Institute, and soon Zaria will join a karate class. Each of her activities are usually once a week, except for violin which is twice a week. After high school Zaria plans to attend Bermuda College to get her Associate degree. After Bermuda College, she will continue her education in England where she will study Business Management. Not only is Zaria active in extracurricular activities, she is a 16-year-old entrepreneur. She runs a babysitting service called Ria’s Babysitter’s Club. Zaria was inspired to form her business after she attended an entrepreneur luncheon hosted by Bermuda Small Business Development Corporation. After listening to the speaker, Magnus Greaves, she decided to start a business immediately. Zaria chose this business because she loves watching children and she also wants to make a little extra money. What better way to use your time than to do things that you enjoy? Zaria isn’t new to babysitting. Zaria has three
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sisters Diamond, Shabrique, and C’leisha. She started babysitting her sisters and cousins when she was 10. Family and friends were her initial customers but today Ria’s Babysitter’s Club accepts new clients. Zaria also collaborates with other teens by connecting them with families who need a sitter.
About the club Ria’s Babysitter’s Club is for children aged between one and 12. Each sitter will care for no more than three children at a time. At Ria’s Babysitter’s Club they don’t only watch your children, they also help your children with homework if needed.
At Ria’s Babysitter’s Club, Zaria and the other babysitters babysit at the clients’ home, but if necessary they babysit at their own homes too. Currently there are five members of Ria’s Babysitter’s Club, including Zaria, however she always considers new hires. Potential employees must be 13 to 17 years old. To become an employee you have to be an outstanding teen like Zaria. You must complete Babysitters Training and also be Infant/ Child CPR and First Aid certified before Zaria will accept you into the club.
Future plans Zaria’s plans for
entrepreneurship exceed the babysitter’s club. After high school she intends to start a business. Zaria wants to create a community entertainment centre, similar to America’s Dave and Buster’s. Babysitting now, while she is young, will give her the opportunity to learn more about children and their families. This will help her as she moves closer to her long-term goals. If you are interested in becoming a member of Ria’s Babysitter’s Club, or if you want their services, you can reach Zaria Dill-Spence at riasbabysittersclub@gmail.com or at 517-2867.
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Just for teens As a teenager, you might not feel like you have much power in your house. But in the consumer world, teenagers are a force to be reckoned with. Take the time to understand your consumer rights and responsibilities now. Become a savvy consumer. Visit www.ca.gov.bm for more information ‘Just for Teens’.
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High school sailing nal: invitatio to Chris Sposa WOR DS Sha
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Seventeen-year-old Chris Sposato took the opportunity to sail at the ripe age of eight years old with the Royal Hamilton Amateur Dinghy Club (RHADC).Chris never had any fears of the water, but if he did, he soon forgot them because of the fun that he had out at sea.
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ince there are few requirements to start sailing, it was easy for him to learn the ropes, literally! The main challenge that Chris finds with sailing is remaining physically fit to effectively handle the sails. He says that the beginners’ programme at RHADC is simple enough to get you started but difficult enough to help develop new skills. In June 2011, Bermuda had its first high school sailing invitational. It was a bright, beautiful, and breezy Friday, perfect for a sailing regatta. Originally an annual sport in America, the Bermuda Sailing Association wanted to make sailing a popular sport for high
school students. Students from high schools around the Island participated in this new event. Yet, most of the sailors were not new to this type of competition. The races were set up with an A and B division with two sailors on each boat. Boats in the invitational included 420, J20, J24 Laser and OPTI sailboats. If school teams had more than one boat in a division, they alternated turns. This is exactly what Chris Sposato of Saltus Grammar School did with his teammate Brandon Morris. They switched places with Alex Davis and Daniel Oatley in the A division races. Even with over 100 teens sailing with the RHADC Island-wide, it seems that
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there will never be a shortage of spaces. This means more opportunities to get involved with this activity and to make many lifelong friends. While it is easy to meet new people in Bermuda, Chris and many others have travelled to Brazil, Turkey, USA, Trinidad, Curacao, US Virgin Islands to compete and gain contacts internationally. Chris knows that without sailing, he probably wouldn’t have seen those beautiful sights at such a young age. He has won many awards for competing in regattas and is glad that Bermuda is including sailing as an interschool sporting event. Chris has enjoyed sailing over the past years and intends to continue in the future. He plans to attend college and sail with a college team after he graduates from high school. Beyond college Chris
definitely wants to continue sailing competitively. The Bermuda Sailing Association wants to make the inter-high school regatta an annual event. Due to the success of the races and generous donations, Bermuda School Sports Federation might make it happen. Soon, Bermuda might even compete within the Interscholastic Sailing Association in the US. Students who are interested in sailing should contact The Royal Bermuda Yacht Club for more information.
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More than a game WORDS Shai Scott, The Berkeley Institute
Family ties Sixteen-year-old Kayjuna Lema has been playing netball since the age of 7 and today is a dedicated player with the team Signworx Netts. Kayjuna also plays for her school, The Berkeley Institute. When asked why she plays netball Kayjuna said, “My mother as well as other older women played the sport; it made me want to explore, or just try it out.” Her younger sister is following in her footsteps and is becoming a great netball player too.
She is now training to become an umpire in netball. She believes it is sad that netball is not taken very seriously, because this is a sport that can go very far with the support of our young people. She is a big promoter of netball and believes that it can be just as big as football and cricket in Bermuda.
Opportunity for travel Kayjuna has represented Bermuda internationally as a member of the Bermuda Under-16 National Squad Team. She has traveled to Florida, Atlanta, Barbados and St. Kitts with the team. Versatility Kayjuna plays the center position. On the court she is known as lefty; the short, aggressive, yet full of energy player who you see fighting for every ball that comes her way. “I can play Wing Attack too and occasionally Wing Defense, but I will soon be trained for all the positions because a good player is versatile on the court.”
“Netball is something that young ladies can benefit from physically and socially” Positive experiences Netball can be both a hobby and a passion. “When I know I am having a game, the week before I get very enthusiastic about it and I just can’t wait! It’s the feeling I get before and after a game that makes me want to play more and has me pumped for the next game.” Netball has also been a great character builder for her
and she has seen the impact on other players. Throughout her years of playing netball she has made good friends, three are her best friends. She also added, “It has been a good thing for me, because I have had many people and peers come to me and tell me that I am such a great player and person. I am glad to hear people say that about me. That shows that I am doing something right.”
More than just a game This popular Bermudian sport represents friends, team work, discipline, travel and responsibility. Netball is something that young ladies can benefit from physically and socially. It creates tight bonds and lasting friendships. When you are on a netball team you are not just a part of a team you are a part of a family. Kayjuna believes that if given the opportunity, all young girls should become part of a netball team. Like Kayjuna you can have positive experiences with the game. You gain self-confidence while having lots of fun. The camaraderie shown on the court makes the game become even more exciting and competitive. These are the kinds of moments that make a team work! teen 47
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My post high school experience:
Around the world in 180 days WORDS Janaesha West, Bermuda College
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n 2009, I saw Up With People for the first time in Bermuda. When the show ended I was determined to travel with them after I graduated from CedarBridge Academy. On January 7, 2011 my journey began in Denver, Colorado to start staging with Cast A 2011, my family for the next six months. Cast A’11 had approximately 100 people from all over the world: Sweden, Switzerland, England, Mexico, France, Bermuda, Canada, Japan, Taiwan, China, Ukraine, Denmark, the Netherlands and the USA. It was quite an experience watching the diverse personalities and cultures combine to form a family. Initially it was difficult to break through cultural differences but the cast moved from being a group of people who were accepted into UWP at the same time to becoming brothers, sisters and best friends.
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As a member of UWP we performed a show with a live band called, “A Song for the World”. We performed songs from countries including, Japan, Ireland, Mexico and America. We started our venture with a four-week American tour starting in Denver. Next we performed in Orlando, Vero Beach, Ft. Lauderdale, and Lakeland, Florida. Our first international performance was in Freeport, Bahamas. During the European Tour we travelled to Brussels, Belgium; Wassenaar, Netherlands; Dronten, Netherlands; Prague, Czech Republic; and Weinfelden, Switzerland. We ended our experience with the Mexican tour to Querétaro, La Laguna (Torreón), Cuauhtémoc, Monterrey and Toluca where we changed our name from Up with People to Viva la Gente. The venue for the show was often a sight to see. In Mexico we performed in
the center of a lake, in Wassenaar we performed in a modified plane hangar from the war, and we performed for V.I.P guest in beautiful theatres. I participated in community service (Community Impact, CI), and lived with host families from different countries. Interacting with seniors and teens who don’t speak your language, rebuilding a playground in Mexico and doing activities with children in classrooms was a major part of the experience. Community service outside of my comfort zone helped me to mature. Breaking barriers through C.I. is what UWP represents. It’s our way of giving back, because everybody understands the universal language of music. Host families are your family outside of the cast; they are the people that take care of you while you are travelling. My favorite things about host families were the opportunity to learn about multiple
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cultures and teach them about mine. Learning the way they live and interact with each other was phenomenal. I was amazed by the various landscapes as we travelled. As a cast we participated in educational activities to help break through cultural barriers as well as real life values, such as interview processes and public speaking.
My post high school experience was unforgettable. I encourage other Bermudians to join Up With People. Each cast is different but each participant will have life changing experiences. Performing for thousands, impacting communities, meeting lifetime friends and having everlasting contacts around the world are the things that I will always cherish.
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INTERVIEW: Makeem Bartley WOR DS Janaesha
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Makeem Bartley better known as HAZ[ard-ous] is an 18-year-old MSA senior student who is new to the scene with a diversified style of hip hop music. Unlike others in the field, Haz has changed the scene showing that hip-hop is an art form that can be an intellectual endeavor. Janaesha West: How long have you been rapping and who are your influences? Haz: I began rapping at the tender age of 9. This may be cliché but my biggest influence is my mom, because she sacrificed a lot for me, and definitely my two boys Adrian Ferris and Jalen Simmons, they have been an influence musically and personally as well. My main influences were NAS; Bone, Thugs & Harmony; as well as Lupe Fiasco. In 2000 I started hearing types of rap and I was like, “Hey this is nothing like the music that has been out.” So I thought maybe I should give it a try since I was so dissatisfied with the average artist, but I just wanted to take a crack at it. JW: What is the meaning behind “Eye Opener”? Haz: “Eye Opener” is my debut mixtape; it’s for people who have a misconception of rap being all about hooliganism, money, females and clothes. You could rap and be intellectual and civil 50
because it’s not limited. I just bring a different light as an artist. If I don’t make people think then I’m not doing what I want to do. Music is a sub division of art and art makes you think. JW: Do you have a favorite song on the mixtape? Haz: I really can’t choose one song, but if I had to I would choose “A Geeks World”. Because being a “geek” was once negative but it is now turned into a positive reference in fashion. It’s like you once dissed us and now you are glorifying us biting this swag. It’s just ironic how all of a sudden being a “geek” is cool now. I like to say that cool is a myth because everybody is equal. If I classified myself as a geek it wouldn’t really change much for me. I do what I do and people should just embrace their individuality. JW: Was the song “Lemon Pie” written about someone special? Haz: Not exactly, it was written before the relationship
“… I do what I do and people should just embrace their individuality…” that I am in now, so it wasn’t really influenced by anybody. I just wanted to test my ability to talk about love.
but there will be videos unrelated to the mixtape.
JW: Is the mixtape available in stores? Haz: No, the mixtape is not available in any stores. It is completely free and can be downloaded on www.datpiff. com/profile/hazthegreat. I like to stress that the mixtape is completely for promotional use.
JW: Are you preparing another mixtape anytime soon? Haz: I started preparing for the second one before “Eye Opener” was finished. I’m not going to release the title for the next mixtape, but “Eye Opener” was just the beginning and the next one will be really deep.
JW: Are there any music videos to the tracks on the mixtape? Haz: At the moment I’m not shooting any songs related to the mixtape
JW: Do you have any advice for younger rappers in Bermuda? Haz: Just completely be yourself and don’t let anybody change you.
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