My name is Phyllis Young. When I was 18 years old, I had an abortion. It was the worst decision I had ever made in my entire life. For almost 30 years, I suffered in silence, with the shame, guilt, pain, loss and isolation that comes after an abortion. Several years ago, I was blessed with the opportunity to attend a Rachel’s Vineyard weekend retreat! There, I experienced the profound mercy, healing and restoration that only God can give! I was given the chance to name and give honor and dignity to the baby I lost through my choice of abortion. I now have a great passion to help others who’ve had an abortion. I’ve since been trained, approved by and joined the worldwide ministry of post-abortion retreats called, Rachel’s Vineyard. Sister Nancy Boushey, along with Sisters Fran and Luella, have welcomed us with open arms and every means of possible support, to their Benedictine Monastery of the Good Shepherd just outside of Rio Grande City. There, they have provided us with a perfect setting for these retreats where men and women alike can come for a weekend retreat away from it all. So, for those of you who have had an abortion and need healing, this is your time! Consider this your personal invitation.
This is your time to heal and receive God’s forgiveness and mercy! This is your time, to be rid of the pain and suffering and to start the amazing life that God has truly intended for you all along! This is your time to give your baby a name, as well as, the honor, dignity and respect that they deserve! I speak from my heart and from my own experience. Know that all has been prepared with great care and with much prayer for you. The Benedictine Monastery is the beautiful oasis that has been chosen for these retreats. When you step onto the grounds you feel that you’re truly stepping upon holy ground. Here, you will find a safe non-judgmental atmosphere in which to heal. Although this is a Catholic retreat, all are welcome. We will celebrate Mass and the Sacrament of Reconciliation will be available. All meals are provided. If the cost of the retreat is an issue, please let us know. All inquiries are confidential! Please call me at the above number or email me at the email address above! Take courage, Jesus is calling you!
DO THE FOLLOWING COMMENTS SOUND FAMILIAR? To open the vast and deep richness of our ancient, yet very fruitful celebration, one must simply ask, “Why do we, as Catholics, do what we do during the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass?”
Mass is the formal and official worship service for Catholics. It is the central act of Catholic worship. It roots from the very first Christians and is so spiritually profound, that it would behoove everyone to invest time, energy and effort to prepare for this memorial of the Passion, Death and Resurrection of the Lord. It would also benefit every Catholic to understand all the parts of the Mass.
In this limited space, I could not possibly explain the Mass completely, even partially, nor is it my aspiration to do so. The gifts of the Mass are so extensive. The value and mystery of this deeply spiritual encounter, with all its external and internal participation, cannot be measured by any earthly standards. The graces bestowed upon you during the Liturgy are immeasurable.
Have your children ever shared these disappointing comments with you? “Mass is boring!” “I don’t get anything out of Mass.” “I don’t understand what the priest is doing.” “It seems to be the same thing over and over every week.”
The focus here is to help you prepare for Mass and foster a greater ambition for the spiritual fulfillment it provides. What you will find in this article are suggestions, ideas and hopefully, encouragement. This is only a minuscule explanation and an introduction of recommended practices to help develop the proper mental and spiritual attitude that will prepare you for your encounter with our Lord Jesus Christ. The goal is to establish simple spiritual habits as you begin this journey to prepare yourself and your family for the wonderful experience of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.
Perhaps, you’ve heard a friend express these sentiments. I suspect many of you reading this article may feel or have felt these emotions at one time or another. Those statements represent a frustration and clearly an intellectual, spiritual and emotional absence from the most perfect form of prayer that Catholics have: The Liturgical Celebration of the Eucharist. These discouraging comments sound appropriate from someone who does not prepare for their encounter with our Lord Jesus Christ. They are clearly stating they lack the familiarity and understanding of Church teachings regarding the most magnificent of gifts we have received from Jesus. For Advertisement call: (956) 295-1458 or (956) 295-1460
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“…Take and eat; this is my body.’’ “And Drink… for this is my blood to the covenant, which will be shed on behalf of many for the forgiveness of sins.” (Matt 26: 26, 28) Understanding the Catholic Liturgical Calendar will give you an insight about the Mass you will be praying. The Catholic Church has a one year seasonal cycle that starts with the Advent season, but it does not start January 1st. Familiarity with this calendar is certainly recommended for a fulfilling year long journey of your Catholic Faith. If you
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LET’S BEGIN WITH YOUR ATTIRE. It’s all about showing respect to Almighty God! We hear people say… “God does not care what I wear.” Well, the truth is… you should care! You dress for a date, party or other social event in your finest, don’t you? You dress well because the event you will be attending is an important or special event. Well, the Mass is an important and special event as well, and it happens every day. Dressing appropriately is a great reminder for our children about how important our encounter with Jesus is. PLAN ACCORDINGLY: You must fast one hour before Mass. Most important for all to remember is that you must be in the state of grace – in other words, free from mortal sin. If you are not in the state of grace, you must receive absolution in the Sacrament of Penance before you receive Communion. (If circumstances have not allowed you to go to confession before Mass, you may still attend Mass, but may not receive Communion; although, you may receive Spiritual Communion.) For more information on receiving
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It is wise to read and meditate on the Mass readings all week before
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participating in Sunday Mass; although, many people prefer to pray and meditate on the readings they heard on the previous Sunday or during the week. Either is fine, or as my kids say… “It’s all good!” Develop your own style and do what helps you to stay motivated and looking forward to that next encounter with your friend, Jesus. Being a good steward of your time will allow you to utilize it well and leave early for Mass. As you make your way to the church, understand you need to transition your mind from this busy, chaotic world to the wonderful experience that awaits you as you accompany Jesus in this reenactment of His Passion, Death and Resurrection. If driving to church, turn your radio off or listen to inspirational music. This will help you get into the spiritual state of mind that is conducive for an audience with Jesus. Use this time to invite the Holy Spirit to help you gain wisdom and full understanding of the Scripture you will soon listen to. Pray that you may be enlightened, so you may continue to grow in your faith. Seek guidance from Him for your spiritual life and ask for assistance in your new commitment to prepare better for Mass. Implore the Holy Spirit to keep all the worldly distractions outside of church and the crying babies or “other inside distractions” to a minimum. Pray for all those participating in the Liturgy with you so they may stay focused on the true meaning of their visit to God’s house. Contemplate on your particular intention for this Mass. Conceivably, your intention will be for a sick relative or troubled friend in need of God’s blessing. Talk to Him about whatever person, situation or special intention you feel needs the graces of this journey of our Lord to Calvary. con’t. on pg. 8
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101 Questions About The Mass
By Thy Kingdom Come Inc.
Q: Where does the Mass come from?
A: Jesus Christ, Who is the God-Man, revealed the Mass at the Last Supper, before He died on the Cross, to redeem the world from sin and death. He instituted the Mass and the Eucharist to perpetuate the Sacrifice of the Cross – to be continued throughout the ages until the end of time, as He said, “Do this in remembrance of Me.” Q: Why do we have to go to Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of Obligation?
A: Sunday is a holy day because Jesus made it holy by His resurrection from the dead on Easter Sunday, the Holy Spirit made it holy by descending from Heaven on the apostolic Church on Pentecost Sunday. From the beginning of the Church, Sunday has been designated “The Lord’s Day.” (Rev. 1:10) By her authority, the Church has made every Sunday a day of obligation; and she has designated a few other days of the year, which are of special liturgical importance, as Holy Days of Obligation. Attending Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of Obligation is a grave obligation unless there is a serious reason for being unable to attend (which does not include vacation – when a Catholic church is accessible.) Q: Is it true that the more I participate in Mass, the more grace I will receive for myself and for others?
A: Yes, the more we participate in Mass with faith and devotion, the more
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grace we receive. Every Mass is a source of countless graces that are so needed today. For this reason, daily Mass is strongly encouraged. St. Leonard said that, except for daily Mass on the thousands of altars around the world, the human race would long ago have been destroyed because of its sins. This can be said even more so in our day, with its crisis of faith and escalation of sin. A Mass well participated in can change the world and greatly help other persons and the souls in Purgatory.
Q: Why are faith, grace, and participation so important in Mass?
A: The Church calls for the faithful to have “full, conscious, and active participation” in the Mass. Only those whom believe with faith the truths of the Mass can benefit most full from the grace and fruits of the Mass. Q: What is the purpose of the small water bowls at the entrance of the church?
A: The holy water fonts are present so that we may bless ourselves as we enter into Christ’s presence. Each time we do this, we are renewing our baptismal commitment with water and the invocation of the Trinity, and it serves to forgive venial sins and focuses our mind on our purpose of being in church. By doing so, we implore God’s grace and protection as well. Con’t. on pg. 11 For Advertisement call: (956) 295-1458 or (956) 295-1460
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The following is a brief outline of the order for the Roman Catholic Mass introduced in 1969, after the Second Vatican Council. This Mass is commonly called the Novus Ordo. It is the Mass that most Catholics today are familiar with.
The Novus Ordo is most commonly celebrated in the vernacular. (Vernacular: The native language of the country where it is celebrated or the common language of those who attend that particular Mass.)
INTRODUCTORY RITES
(Entrance · Greeting · Penitential Act · Glory to God · Collect)
A Catholic Mass begins with the processional of the priest toward the sanctuary of the church. During the Entrance procession, there is often a gathering song followed by a Greeting to the assembly, the Penitential Rite (a time of reflection on one’s sins and a prayer for God’s mercy), which concludes with the Collect/
Opening Prayer.
LITURGY OF THE WORD
(First Reading · Responsorial Psalm · Second Reading {on Sundays and solemnities} · Gospel Acclamation · Gospel · Homily · Profession of Faith {on Sundays, solemnities and special occasions} · Universal Prayer)
This part of the Mass will offer Scripture readings from the following areas:
First Reading
A Scripture reading from the Old Testament
Responsorial Psalm
A Psalm is selected from the Book of Psalms. The congregation interacts by offering a response (usually sung).
Second Reading
A Scripture reading from the New Testament
Gospel Acclamation
The congregation praises Christ’s presence in the sacred Word of God.
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Gospel Reading
Taken from one of the four Gospels: Matthew, Mark, Luke or John
Homily
The priest or deacon will address the congregation on what has been read.
Profession of Faith
A summary of the Catholic Faith recited in unison by the congregation
Universal Prayer
A collection of short prayers of petition are read and after each petition is said, the congregation will respond by saying, “Lord, hear our prayer” or similar words.
LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST
(Presentation of the Gifts and Preparation of the Altar · Prayer over the Offerings · Eucharistic Prayer {Preface · Holy, Holy, Holy · First half of prayer, including Consecration · Mystery of Faith · Second half of prayer, ending with the Doxology} · The Lord’s Prayer · Sign of the Peace · Lamb of God · Communion · Prayer after Communion)
The Liturgy of the Eucharist, along with Communion, is the most sacred part of the Mass. Catholics kneel during the Eucharistic prayer.
Presentation of the Gifts and Preparation of the Altar
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Prayer Over the Offering
The priest may say or sing this prayer.
Eucharistic Prayer
At this time, the congregation kneels.
Eucharistic Acclamations
Holy, Holy, Holy Consecration Mystery of Faith Doxology and Great Amen
The Lord’s Prayer
The recitation of the Our Father
The Sign of Peace
The priest will prompt the congregation to offer each other a sign of peace. Congregation will shake the hand of people around them saying, “Peace be with you.”
Breaking of the Bread / Lamb of God
CONCLUDING RITE
(Announcements · Final Blessing · Dismissal)
This segment is the conclusion of the Mass and contains the final prayers and blessings. The priest will leave the church in a procession accompanied by a hymn.
Final Blessing
Given to the entire congregation
Dismissal
Given by the celebrant – “Go forth, the Mass is ended.”
Recessional
The priest processes out of the church during a final hymn. For a detailed outline of the Novus Ordo and the Traditional Latin Mass, “Extraordinary Form of the Roman Rite” also known as the “Tridentine” Mass, go to: www.MYCATHOLIC411.com.
Communion
People proceed to the front of the church, genuflect or bow and receive Communion, then return to their seats. After returning to their places, people are encouraged to immediately kneel in silent prayer. Anyone who has not received the Sacrament of the Eucharist or is not Catholic may proceed to the front with arms crossed over their chest to receive a blessing or may remain kneeling in prayer while Communion is distributed. This is a sacred time for Catholics. Do not engage in unnecessary conversation during this period of the Mass.
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At this point, because you are serious about your Faith and want to show God how much you value your relationship with Him, you have arrived early for Mass. Once you have arrived at the church and before you go in… For God’s sake, (pun intended.) TURN YOUR CELL PHONE OFF! “And He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, ‘So, you men could not keep watch with Me for one hour?” (Matt 26:40) So, can you turn off that gadget for one hour to be with your Lord? Once you are inside God’s house, have a conversation with Him about anything you want. He is your confidant. Use this time to offer up all your prayers; perhaps, using the acronym ACTS: Adoration, Contrition, Thanksgiving and lastly, your Supplication prayers. First, glorify and praise God! Give Him all honor and glory. “Holy, Holy, Holy Lord, God of Power and Might, Heaven and Earth are full of your glory. Glory be to God the Father, Glory be to God the Son, Glory be to God the Holy Spirit, all three in One.” He is an awesome God. Offer Him your sincere praise as your One and Only God. Let God know you worship Him and Him alone. Next, talk to Him about your sins. Seek forgiveness and promise to make reparation. Tell Him about your renewed commitment to work more diligently at your vocation in life. Thank Him for your ability to worship Him freely in this country. Thank Him for all you have received, the joyful events and those trying times that have made you stronger. In years past, I learned a simple order for supplication prayers...you simply look at your hand and start with your
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little “pinky” finger. This should remind you to pray for the smallest. So, pray for the unborn, and pray for anyone contemplating an abortion and for their families. Pray for all those involved in the pro-life movement and seek to get involved as well. Pray for the reversal of Roe vs. Wade. The next finger would be your ring finger. This is actually the weakest one of your hand, so pray for the weakest. Pray for those that are suffering from any type of illness: mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually and for those that are near death. Pray for those that find themselves in difficult situations including: the souls in purgatory, the poor in spirit, those incarcerated, the homeless, unemployed, and those struggling with addictions. Pray for those being persecuted in other countries for practicing their Catholic Faith. Your third finger is the tallest finger. It reminds us to pray for our leaders. Pray for the Holy Father and his intentions. Pray for all our bishops, priests and all religious. Pray for vocations and for all Religious Orders that they may be in peace and communion with the Holy See. Pray for world leaders to exemplify Christian character and do God’s will. Pray for world peace. The next finger is the index “pointing” finger and this may remind you to pray for those that instruct. Pray for our children’s educators, the men and women who may have great influence over them and our society. Pray for all Catholic universities and schools to teach true Catholic Doctrine. Last, but not least, is your thumb. When your hands are in proper prayer posture, this is the one digit closest to you, reminding you to pray for those closest to you, including yourself. This is a good time to offer up your supplications con’t. on pg. 10 For Advertisement call: (956) 295-1458 or (956) 295-1460
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by praying a Rosary, Chaplet or Novena and asking the Virgin Mary and the Saints to intercede on your behalf. The “five digit” prayer suggestion is a simple, yet an edifying method to use for your supplication prayers. There are many wonderful Catholic books with prayers to recite before Mass, like the prayers of St. Ambrose and St. Thomas Aquinas, as well as prayers to recite after Communion and at the end of Mass. Church Missals may include some prayers, as well. Consider buying your own Daily or Sunday Missal to have access to Mass readings at your convenience.
(To learn more about the Holy Rosary, chaplets, novenas, and/or the pro-life movement, go to: www.MYCATHOLIC411.com).
Having a conversation with God involves listening as well. So, during this quiet time in the presence of the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of our Lord Jesus Christ, you might just want to kneel or sit there quietly listening to Him. Technology has our senses so wired these days that many people don’t remember what being “unplugged” feels like. They don’t remember what it feels like to turn off all of their gadgets and to be surrounded with the peaceful, quiet, and tranquil sound of silent nothingness. In this silence, you may gain the illumination, enlightenment, education, knowledge, wisdom, or call it what you may. If it allows you to experience the fullness of this spectacular Sacrament of the Eucharist with all your senses, then you can share and teach your children what you have heard, seen, touched, smelled and tasted. The Eucharist is “the source and summit of Christian life.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church 1324) It is a treasure more valuable than any worldly possession you could ever hope for.
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So, pray to the Holy Spirit to guide you toward obtaining the necessary gifts to steadily begin an aggressive and comprehensive study of the Mass and your Catholic Faith. Use the theological virtues of faith, hope and love to guide your actions and your spiritual life. May the few suggestions in this article allow you to have an enriching participation in the liturgy and motivate you for a lifetime of preparation, not only for Mass, but for eternal life with our Lord Jesus Christ, knowing that upon your death, you will leave a legacy and an inheritance for your children that will help them to know, love and serve God. . “Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6) Find time in your daily schedule to challenge yourself to learn more about the Sacrament of the Eucharist. With little time and effort, you will understand why Catholics do so many things in Church and during Mass. You can learn why we bless ourselves with Holy Water, genuflect, sit, stand, bow our head, strike our breast, and so much more. Finding answers to these questions will help reveal the Mass more clearly to you. You will be amazed and grateful to learn all the truth, symbolism and meaning behind this wonderful, ancient, yet timeless, prayer we take for granted daily. Certainly, you will gain new friends, like the Angels and Saints present at every Mass. (See other articles in this issue for more information on the Mass or go to www.MYCATHOLIC411.com) If you would like to participate and experience the Mass in Latin, visit:
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8:00am (Latin–Extraordinary Form) 9:30am (Latin–Ordinary Form)
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Q: Why do we stand, sit and genuflect at Mass?
A: We engage in different forms of posture at Mass to correspond with the various parts of the Mass. For example, we sit during the readings and homily because they are instructional, but stand during the proclamation of the Gospel since it is about the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. We also stand during the prayer parts, whether the ones said by the priest alone or by the congregation as a group. We kneel in adoration during the consecration when the bread and wine are changed into the Body and Blood of Christ and before and after receiving Christ in Holy Communion. To view all “101 Questions About The Mass” go to: http://www.catholicmass.org/english.html or www.MYCATHOLIC411.com.
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