How to Enjoy Being Single by Justine Mfulama

https://www.justinemfulama.com/single/be-happy-single-godly-ways-enjoy-being-single/

The one thing I am the proudest of in my life is my life. That might sound vain to you, but trust me when I tell you that it’s not what you think it is. I’m not rich, I’m not famous, but I’m blessed.

As a single Christian woman, I have not always considered myself blessed. For a long time, I was looking for success and fulfillment in all the wrong places – a man, a job, a title.

It took a while until I realized that I already had everything I needed for this season of my life. I had flexibility, opportunities, and a healthy dose of self-esteem.

Once I discovered the benefits of being a single woman, my perspective shifted and life felt like a blessing. That’s why today I’m sharing how to enjoy being single no matter your age.

Are all single Christian women struggling?

I know a lot of you can relate to how I felt before. Because if you have been desiring to be in a relationship for a while, enjoying your singleness can seem hard at times.

But the truth is you don’t have to struggle through your single season and can choose joy instead. the trick to how to enjoy being single is to understand that it isn’t an outside circumstance that suddenly makes you feel good about being single. You have to decide to choose joy amid challenges which will help you be happy as a single Christian woman.

And this might sound easier than it seems, but it is true. Of course, as always I don’t want to let you hang by simply telling you to “choose joy”. Instead, I want to provide you with practical steps on how to enjoy being single.

1. Build/ deepen your relationship with God A thriving relationship with Christ will help you prepare for marriage. Because it teaches you that a relationship shouldn’t be performance-based but build on commitment and sacrifice.

2. Live a full life Dare to live a full life! Now as a Single Christian Woman! And if you really like something and feel like that’s something you would enjoy more if you were in a relationship. Great, don’t cross it off your list yet and revisit it once you are in a relationship or married. Don’t make the mistake to wait, when you could be living.

Stay tuned for more tips to enjoy your singleness!