A MOTHER’S LOVE IS UNMATCHED

DEBORAH RISPER

Circa September 11, 1999, I became a Mom for the frst time. To put it in a better perspective I was a Mom at the tender age of 15. Yup, a baby raising a baby is what most would call it. I believe that Romans 28:8 has been and ALWAYS be my portion when I stepped into this Motherhood role. This role as many would attest is one with no formal training and no manual to pull out. It boils down to the Motherly love you have for your children. I am the Mother of 4. Their ages are 21,16,12,10. They are afectionately known as the “Fantastic 4.” If you know a little about the comic characters known as the Fantastic 4, you’d know that each of them has diferent personalities. Each of my children has taught me valuable lessons in life that I’ll forever be grateful for. Their presence alone can make a dark day turn into light for me. I’m in awe that God allowed me to be their Mom on this side of heaven. My prayer is that sharing a small piece of them with the world will allow them to shine brighter as well as make an impact wherever this story may be read.

Meet Decarah

Afectionately known as “Beau.” She is the oldest of the crew and the one who stands up for what she believes in, even if that means turning away from the crowd. I am amazed at the level of independent thinking that allows her to see the world freely. She is truly a world traveler at 21. She has spent her last 4 years studying to be a child psychologist and will soon move on to grad school. I can tell you, the girl keeps a bag packed! Decarah has taught me unconditional love and how to see things from a diferent light. She came into my life when I felt I didn’t want to live and saved my life. From that moment on I knew I had to live for her. I am thankful even now that not only do I hold her responsible, but she also does the same for me. To my Beau, thank you for my reason. Thank you for loving your young Mommie through the mistakes. Thanks for seeing me as perfectly, imperfect! I love you!

Meet Martreon

Martreon is my determinator. Before he could fully walk, he developed a sense of determination to get to where he wanted to go. Be it fast crawling, he got there. By the time he started walking, he ran! We could not put him down because he would take of without hesitation. I never realized that at the tender age of 2 he was showing me who he was. He is the one who has a drive and a desire to succeed. He is serious about his academic & sports success. Martreon has created a positive character for himself that I couldn’t be more proud of. His hunger & commitment for greater is the fuel to my fre. Martreon has taught me to stick it out. When we moved to a new state not knowing a soul, he stuck it out and fnally I believe he can call Arizona home. Son son, my love for you will forever run deep.

Anytime I want to give up, I will always remember your hunger and determination to continue on my path for success. I love you!

Meet Marreon

They say three is a charm and I can tell you this one has pierced my heart BIG time. Marreon brings a diferent beat to the Risper family. He has a carefree, soft, calming, and charming characteristic. Though he is the one with few words when he speaks it means something. Marreon is always the one I have to push to see the inner hero because I think he knows his impact is far more powerful than what he wants to admit. Marreon is the one who teaches me patience. Though some days I feel like I don’t have them, he reminds me to take my time and move carefree. I cannot tell God Thank You for Marreon’s balancing. Marreon, Momma is so Grateful to have you as an early birthday gift. Your calming spirit is everything to me. I love you!

Meet Maliyah

Maliyah is the boss baby of the bunch. She is truly my mini-me. Maliyah does not take any mess and stands up also for what she believes in. She is an entrepreneur by heart and her charm and wit can sweep you of your feet. She is a fghter for sure and she can overcome anything. Maliyah teaches me who to remain the boss at all times. Her fghting spirit tells me no matter how rough it gets, you have to fght in you. I’m so glad God graced me with my “oops baby.” Maliyah Mommie love her some, you boss baby. Every time I want to give up I hear your sass saying “uhn,uhn.” I thank you for being my shadow and assistant at many business events. I love you!