ETIQUESTIONS

BY DR. BARBARA BAGERLY-HINOJOSA

I always get so confused when someone asks me to pass the salt or pepper. Do I pass just the one they are asking for, or do I pass both of them? For example, if someone asks me to pass the salt, do I also pass the pepper?

What a great question! While it may seem counterintuitive, it is most appropriate to pass both the salt and pepper at the same time, even if someone asks you to only pass one. The general rule is salt and pepper stay together.

I always find it rude when people are texting or talking on their phones while we are at the dining table. What is the rule about phone usage when you are seated at a dining table?

Telephone usage is such a part of our lives these days. It is a great idea to text or talk on the phone before you are seated for dinner. Once you are seated at the dining table, put your phone away and return to it once you leave. It is considered rude to talk on the phone or to text while at the dining table. If you are in a situation where you need to take a call or text, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom before reaching for your phone.

I have been finding myself communicating more and more through email. What are some email etiquette rules I should keep in mind?

The best rule is to always remember that email is not text messaging. In an email, you should have a greeting and a closing. Your sentences should be written as complete thoughts with proper punctuation. Always remember that an email should stand on its own. It should not be a part of a thread of conversation, similar to a text message. Finally, never use emojis in an email Keep it professional.

Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa, Ph.D. is a wife, mother, and educator living in the Rio Grande Valley of Texas. She is a graduate of Our Lady of the Lake University with a Ph.D. in Leadership Studies. In addition, she holds an Associate of Arts degree in Education from McLennan Community College, Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Texas – Pan American, and a Master of Arts in Educational Supervision from the University of Texas – Pan American. Dr. Baggerly-Hinojosa’s current research is focused on servant leadership, gender issues in leadership, and leadership communication. www.leadershipempowermentgroup.com