St. Mary's Home Gratitude Report 2017 by Sonja Barisic

St. Mary's Home 2017 Gratitude Report

You Make It Happen.

Thank You for Giving the Gift of a Good Life

A “Good Life Giver” is a caring and compassionate supporter of the children and young adults of St. Mary’s Home and The Albero House. We owe our deep gratitude to you, the many incredible Good Life Givers who gave generously in 2017. You make a difference to the essential programs and services at the heart of our mission. We can’t thank you enough.

Who is a “Good Life Giver?” You are.

You are a caring and compassionate supporter of the children and young adults of St. Mary’s Home and The Albero House. You make a critical difference to the programs and services at the heart of our mission. Because of you, we are able to provide quality care within a homelike environment so each person here can achieve his or her fullest potential. To provide that care, we need to raise nearly a million dollars each year through contributions to the Home. We are very grateful to you and to all of our many incredible Good Life Givers who gave so generously in 2017. Everything that happens here at St. Mary’s and The Albero House is for the benefit of the 100 children and young adults who live here. Throughout this report, you will see just some of the ways that your generosity touched the lives of these individuals over the past year. Thank you for providing the children and young adults with a good life. In deep gratitude,

Sharon Goodwyn, President St . Mary’s Home Board of Directors 2

H. Wayne Jones, CEO St. Mary’s Home

St. Mary’s Board of Directors Sharon S. Goodwyn President H. Gregory Kilduff Vice President George L. Consolvo Treasurer Dr. Allen “Trey” Hardin White III Secretary Nancy Wilcox Immediate Past President Michael P. Cotter Christopher B. D’Surney Michael E. Duffy Ann T. Gimbert Auxiliary Board President Richard N. Knapp Vincent A. Napolitano Alvin J. Schexnider, Ph.D. Honorary Directors Carl M. Albero George Compo Joan Damsey, FACMPE Sandra R. Gordon Frederick J. Napolitano, Sr. Patricia Perry Suzanne Puryear Cynthia Rector-Jones William J. Ripley Norma J. Taliaferro

St. Mary’s Foundation Board of Directors Michael P. Cotter President M. Powell Peters, Esq. Vice President H. Gregory Kilduff Secretary/Treasurer Christopher B. D’Surney Steve Fredrickson Nancy Wilcox St. Mary’s Home H. Wayne Jones, CEO Joseph Toland, M.D. North Shore Pediatrics St. Mary’s Medical Director Nabil T. Tadros, M.D. Long Term Care of Virginia The Albero House Medical Director

Good Life Givers 2017 Camp Aloha Connects Kids

Visionary Society $50,000 +

Auxiliary Board of St. Mary's Home Raymond E. Klabnik, Jr. Revocable Trust Mr. Paul Michels United Way of South Hampton Roads

Leadership Alliance $10,000 - $49,999 Beach Ambassadors City of Norfolk Clark-Janis Foundation Mr. and Mrs. John J. DeVan L.S. Febre Irrevocable Trust Mara and Steve Fredrickson Jo-Kell, Inc. Mrs. Jane R. Miller Mr. Monroe Nash, Jr. PRA Group Team Hoyt VB VuBay Foundation We Promise Foundation

Enrichment Circle $5,000 - $9,999

Kids Get Colorful

amda grasped a brush. With a little help, she carefully dabbed purple paint on the wings of a butterfly. Hamda was among a group of children who decorated pottery at Color Me Mine with our good friends from We Promise Foundation. Later in the summer, kids attended Camp Horizon because of the Foundation’s continued generosity. A longtime supporter of the Home, We Promise gave St. Mary’s a $27,000 grant for camp.

hen Girl Scouts Emersen Miller and Morgan Lynch toured St. Mary’s with their troop, they got an idea: Create a camp for the kids. During Camp Aloha, children painted, tried out musical instruments, displayed their fashion sense and enjoyed other activities. The fun camp fostered a connection between the kids at St. Mary’s and their peers in the community. Congrats to Emersen and Morgan for earning the Girl Scout Silver Award for organizing the five-day camp.

American Mechanical, Inc. Camp Foundation Carrington Family Foundation Chesapeake Bay Wine Classic Foundation Patrick E. and Brenda C. Corbin Douglas & Marianne Dickerson Foundation Mr. Mike Gomez Mrs. Judy C. Lewis Peter Decker Children's Charity Inc. Priority Toyota Charity Bowl Ruth Camp Campbell Foundation Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Scherzinger Sertoma Club of Norfolk Mr. and Mrs. Gregory L. Takacs Maria Grace Tyburczy Trust Warden Family Foundation Wells Fargo Foundation

Kids Fling into Spring, Fête Fall

Ambassador $1,000 - $4,999

he children and young adults, their families, staff and friends from the community celebrated the start of autumn with our annual Fall Festival. Jeremiah enjoyed the face painting. Other kids and guests checked out the crafts station and a petting zoo or munched on popcorn and cotton candy. Earlier in the year, the kids similarly heralded a different change of season with our Spring Fling. Both events are always free and open to the public.

Kids Find Fun in Spare Time

alim and other children enjoyed aiming for strikes during the Rotary Club of Hampton Roads’ Annual Bowl-A-Thon. The kids, a grandparent, club members and St. Mary’s staff competed in two teams. Each team took a round. Thank you to the club for supporting St. Mary’s for more than 15 years! And special thanks to the club’s Joe Mulkerrin for treating the kids to pizza.

Anonymous AB Homes Mr. and Mrs. Jake Allison Mr. Michael Alston American Borate Company Mr. and Mrs. David W. Bailey Baker's Crust, Inc. Mr. and Mrs. James F. Baur Chris and Terri Beale Mr. and Mrs. Charles Beitz Mr. and Mrs. Eric & Jennifer Belin Mr. and Mrs. Dennis Bell Biffledinked Running Mr. Robert Boyd Patrick and Ann Brogan Mr. and Mrs. Richard Buonfigli Ms. Mary M. Casper Children's Specialty Group, PLLC Coastal Prosthetics & Orthotics, LLC Dr. David B. Crouse, Sr. R. & C. Dickerson Family Fund of the Hampton Roads Community Foundation Mr. Chris D'Surney Ms. Katherine J. Dutlinger E. T. Gresham Company, Inc. Estate of Elizabeth Anderson Campbell Estate of Kenneth E. Finck Event Staffing Inc. Exmore Moose Lodge #683 Ferguson Fraternal Order of Eagles # 795 Mr. and Mrs. Eric Froyen Scott Gaynelle Mr. and Mrs. Thomas W. Godfrey, Jr. Bernard and Sharon Goodwyn Elise Hicks Insight Therapeutics, LLC Ironclad Technology Services, LLC Jalbert and Associates Inc. JEB Little Creek - Fort Story Chapel

Ms. Elizabeth C. Jennings Johnson Family Foundation Mark, Debbie, Kellee and Turner Jones Mr. and Mrs. Wayne Jones Mr. David H. Jones Mrs. Mary Sue Jones Mr. Kevin Keller Mr. James T. Kennedy Kerneos, Inc. Mr. and Mrs. Richard N. Knapp James R. Knight and Mary J. Gibson Capt. and Mrs. Alexander C. Konczey Mr. Vincent E. Lascara Mr. Stanley Lichtman and Mrs. Paulette M. Lichtman-Panzer London & Norfolk, Ltd. Gulam and Rafique Mahmood Mr. and Mrs. Michael D. Marquart MassMutual LCDR John P. Maynard Mr. and Mrs. Charles V. McPhillips Steven F. and Jeanne H. McSweeney Mermaid Factory LLC MHA, Inc. Michael Baker International, Inc. Mr. Don Michals Ms. Marjorie C. Miller Mr. and Mrs. Frederick J. Napolitano, Sr. Mr. and Mrs. Vincent A. Napolitano NATO Headquarters Supreme Allied Command Transformation Naval Station Norfolk Chapel ROF Mr. and Mrs. Richard H. Nebe NRHA Employees Charity Fund Dr. and Mrs. Donald Nuss Ocean View Women's Golf Association Dr. and Mrs. Edward C. Oldfield III Mr. and Mrs. Richard E. Olivieri Order of Alhambra Order of Alhambra Padul Caravan #69

Ms. Anita Peele Mr. Robert A. Perry Mr. Robert Picone Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Pilato Ms. Nancy L. Pillar Steve and Janet Pitler Mr. and Mrs. Ray and Mary Preston Prospera Financial Services Ms. Mary-Jo Rawson Mr. and Mrs. Harry Reilly Mrs. June Reiter Rotary Club of Cape Henry Rotary Club of Hampton Roads Rotary Club of Portsmouth Karen W. Royall Dr. and Mrs. Alvin J. Schexnider Mr. Kenneth R. Scott Mr. and Mrs. Wayne E. Shank Mr. and Mrs. Wirt Shinault Mr. and Mrs. Noel D. Silverman Mr. and Mrs. Emmett Smith Mr. and Mrs. Stephen M. Snyder Ms. Susan K. Sobota Southeast Virginia Community Foundation Mr. Jesse B. Spry III Mrs. Jane E. Summerlin SunTrust United Way Campaign Mr. Russell S. Turner United Way of Greater Williamsburg The USAA Foundation, Inc. Mr. Jerry D. Vance Virginia and John L. Sinclair Foundation Mrs. Elizabeth Visalden Mr. and Mrs. Salvatore Vitale Ward's Corner Lions Club Wells Fargo Advisors, LLC Mrs. Karen Witherspoon RD Womack

Advocate $500 - $999

Anonymous (2) 726 SOLD, Inc. Mr. James S. Ball Ms. Theresa R. Basil-Flippen Beach Suburban Republican Womens Club Mr. and Mrs. William F. Beasley III Edward Binkowski Mr. Bob Bogatitus

Mr. and Mrs. Ralph L. Bollinger Broad Bay Point Greens Garden Club Mr. Paul I. Burlage Mrs. Marie E. Callaham Mr. and Mrs. Mal Cameron Capital Concrete, Inc. Sue and Bill Cashman Casone Enterprises Ms. Linda D. Charlton Mr. Curtis Consolvo Ms. Crystal L. Copeland-Miller Mr. Bernard Cory Mrs. Marian Cotton Mr. and Mrs. James D. Dolan Dominion - Surry Power Station Mrs. Gayle N. Donovan Shannon and Kevin Edsall Mr. and Mrs. Jesse M. Erwin, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Oliver D. Foster Mr. Leslie H. Friedman

Mr. James Friesz Ms. Laura Godfrey Patrick and Pamela Hall Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Hilton Ms. Stacy T. Holleran Holy Spirit Catholic Church Mildred U Jacobson Revocable Trust Mr. and Mrs. Nabil D. Kassir Edith, Severn & Sarah Kellam Mr. and Mrs. Robert Laibstain Ms. Wendy Leach Little Neck Circle of The King's Daughters Mr. and Mrs. Lowell A. Martin Mr. and Mrs. Edward J. McPhillips Mrs. Julia B. McPhillips Mr. Troy McQueen Meso Inc. Lee and Mary Murphy Dr. Pouran N. Nowroozi and Dr. Ali Nowroozi Nuckols Tree Care, Inc. Mr. and Mrs. John A. Planinsheck Mr. and Mrs. John J. Quealy George and Pat Rector Mr. F. Scott Ripley and Mrs. Michele Ripley Tim and Tracy Ross Mr. and Mrs. Melvin Runzo Mr. Bradford D. Sargent Sentara Healthcare Dr. Jean Shelton Capt. James A. Smith The M Standing Revocable Trust Mr. and Mrs. Mark W. Strickland Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Tedesco Tidewater Officers' Spouses' Association The Virginian-Pilot Ms. Kelly N. Wright

Ballet Brings the Holidays to St. Mary’s

K It’s Fall, Y’all Helps Provide Loving Care

achel, who lives at The Albero House, and her parents were among guests who enjoyed bluegrass music and family friendly activities during It’s Fall, Y’all. Because of generous sponsors and donors like you, our event raised more than $40,000 to help individuals like Rachel receive the loving, complex care they need. Thank you to our sponsors, including lead sponsor PRA Group and food partner Baker’s Crust. And thank you to everyone who came out and made the event a great success! Save the date: Our next It’s Fall, Y’all will be Sept. 21, 2018, on the grounds of St. Mary’s. (photo courtesy of Hampton Roads Photography)

ids, staff and friends experienced an enchanting holiday treat: a visit from Richmond Ballet. Two company dancers dressed in costume from "The Nutcracker" demonstrated ballet movements and a former dancer read from her book, "Richmond Ballet The Nutcracker, as told by the Sugar Plum Fairy."

Teens, Volunteers Dance at Prom

Changemaker $250 - $499

yquawn and other teens got the royal treatment when they dressed up for their prom in May. They danced the afternoon away in our Atrium and also had fun posing for silly photo booth snapshots. Thank you to our Auxiliary Board for providing tuxes and dresses. And thank you to the many staff members, plus volunteers from Grassfield High School and LifePoint Christian Fellowship, who worked hard to make this annual rite of spring so fun!

Beach Ambassadors Support Kids

ly had a great time visiting Hunt Club Farm over the summer with our friends from Beach Ambassadors. We were honored to once again benefit from the group’s Battle of the Beers, which raised $15,500 for the Home. As a parent wrote on our Facebook page, “Thank you so much for caring about our kids!”

Alan and Esther Fleder Foundation Mrs. Veronica Z. Ballentine Edward S. and Lynn F. Barnes Mr. and Mrs. Willie Barnes, Jr. Bishop Melvin L. Bellamy Dr. and Mrs. John T. Bowers Mr. Steven Z. Bowyer Raymond and Kathryn Brandi Ms. Gwendolyn W. Brehon Mrs. Sandra L. Burroughs Ms. Daniela Carlson Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Causey LCDR and Mrs. Joseph A. Chop USCG Ms. Virginia L. Cochran and Mr. Hugh D. Ruegsegger Ms. Marissa K. Collins Mr. and Mrs. William T. Connaughton Dan Coogan Mr. and Mrs. Michael Cotter John and Connie Craig Mr. Axel L. Crimmins Ms. Ada-Clarke N. Davis Mr. Christopher F. Delahanty Mr. Paul Delphos Bobby and Patti Dwyer Robert M. Edmonds, DDS Mrs. Eileen Faggert Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Fleder Mrs. Barbara H. Fleming Bubba Fleming Capt. Peter Fullinwider Mr. and Mrs. William C. Giermak Earle and Becky Gower Mr. Mark A. Gregory Mr. William A. Gresham Ms. Mary P. Hall Mr. Martin T. Hardison The Hayes Family Anders & Leslie Hellstrom Ms. Diane Henley

Mrs. Margaret R. Horn Mr. and Mrs. Thomas G. Hunt, Jr. Ms. Salina James Ms. Lisa Johnson Ms. Lynn Johnson Hilary and Donny Johnson Mr. and Mrs. Peter Jones Dan and Kathy Law Dr. and Mrs. Bruce I. Longman Dr. Thomas G. Lundquist Skip and Linda Margiotta Mr. Thomas Martin Mr. and Mrs. Richard E. Massey Mr. and Mrs. W. E. McCardell, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Robert McCartney Michael and Janet McCarty Mr. and Mrs. Gregory R. McCracken Mrs. Mary Lou McPhaul Mr. Michael J. McPhillips Mr. Charles L. Miles Ms. Mary E. Moberg Norman and Susan Olitsky Mr. Roger D. Oswalt Mr. Charles E. Parker Mr. Marlin C. Patrick Mollie and Mike Pavlik Mr. Dennis W. Plank Mr. Edwin J. Rafal Mr. Arnold Rausch Mr. Michael W. Reagan Mr. and Mrs. Michael Regna Mr. and Mrs. John F. Reinhart Dr. and Mrs. Marcus C. Rice SECEP REACH Program Ms. Shirley J. Skinner Martha and John Stewart Suffolk Foundation Sharon and Chuck Taylor Mr. and Mrs. Michael L. Tucker United Way of Greater Atlanta, Inc. United Way Of Greater Philadelphia & SNJ United Way of Lancaster County United Way of Metropolitan Chicago

United Way of the National Capital Area United Way of Virginia's Eastern Shore Ms. Christine S. Vaughan Mr. and Mrs. Charles A. Weaver Wells Fargo Community Support Campaign Mr. and Mrs. Conrad A. Widman Mr. and Mrs. Michael D. Wills Womens Transportation Seminar Hampton Roads Chapter Mr. David M. Woolard Ms. Mo Zoll

Silas has lived at St. Mary’s for almost three years.

With Colton at the Auxiliary’s Gala are his mother, Auxiliary Board member Roxane Ward, center, and Nancy Wilcox, immediate past president of St. Mary’s Board of Directors, Auxiliary Board member and co-chair of the 2017 Gala. (photo courtesy of Hampton Roads Photography)

Auxiliary and You Help Create a Good Life

As soon as a beaming Colton made his entrance, he was surrounded by people eager to greet and hug him, including his parents. Colton, who lives at The Albero House, was an honored guest at the St. Mary’s Auxiliary Gala and Auction on April 1, 2017, at the Peter G. Decker Jr. Half Moone Center in Norfolk. Colton and other individuals who live at St. Mary’s Home and The Albero House are benefitting from more community outings and much-needed medical equipment because generous sponsors and donors like you helped St. Mary’s Auxiliary Board raise $80,000 from the event. For the seventh year in a row, presenting sponsor Checkered Flag donated a car for a raffle to conclude the Gala. The raffle raised $23,000, with the 2017 silver Toyota Corolla going to Cathy Engesser of Virginia Beach. The Gala included a passionate speech from Jen Cameron, whose son, Silas, lives at St. Mary’s. The family’s decision to bring Silas to St. Mary’s has enriched his life, Jen told the crowd. Silas, now eight years old, attends school all day and enjoys field trips and recreational therapy programming, his mother said. He also has an entire team pushing him to reach his full potential, she said. Jen thanked the staff for taking such good care of Silas. “There is nothing that touches a mother’s heart more than when people love your child and you can see and feel it,” she said. She also thanked people like you who support the children behind the scenes, through their gifts of time or money. “You help these kids live a good life,” she said. The Auxiliary Board has been helping to provide a good life to children for more than six decades. Among other things, the Board funds respiratory therapy vests and tuxedos and other items for our annual prom.

Jennifer and Jon Cameron at the 2017 Gala. Their son Silas lives at St. Mary’s Home. (photo courtesy of Hampton Roads Photography) 12

Auxiliary Officers Ann T. Gimbert President Patricia Kramer Vice President Marie Siebeking Treasurer Joanne Rentner Recording Secretary Roxane Ward Corresponding Secretary Madelyn Sawyer Parliamentarian Mollie Pavlik Immediate Past President Members Betty Bade Janette Crumley Stephanie Hemingway Karen Hibbard Rachel Jiral Lin Jolley Laura Livingston Jennifer Lynch Julie Martinette Hanan Mitry Kimberly Parker Mona Pavlik Angela Phillips Rita Reeves Suzanne Smith Barbara Stufflebeem Lori Ann Tamayo

Kathleen Weaver Kelly Wiggs Nancy Wilcox Honorary Members Carole Anne Albero Angie Fowler Betty Jackson Jackie Napolitano Shelia Napolitano Lucy Oldfield Thank you to the sponsors of the Auxiliary’s 12th Annual Gala and Auction in 2017: Presenting Sponsor Checkered Flag Ruby Sponsor PRA Group, Inc. Gold Sponsor Kerneos TowneBank Silver Sponsors Kaufman & Canoles, P.C. and George & Linda Consolvo PF&A Design Friends of St. Mary’s Pat & Jim Kramer Mercer Roof Engineering Corporation TS&W Teamsters Local 822 Vandeventer Black 13

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The Guardian Society

The Guardian Society recognizes donors who have included St. Mary’s Home in their wills, trusts or other estate plans to help provide excellent care and meaningful programs for future generations. If you have created a legacy of support or would like to speak to someone about doing so, please contact Kathleen Kaurup at (757) 446-6793. Members Anonymous (3) Anonymous in Honor of Cornelius A. & Veronica Z. Ballentine and Paul & Nancy F. Zydron Jr. Carl M. and Carole Anne Albero Frances McPhillips Benson, in memory of Sarah Benson Ed and Tricia Blair Linda Consolvo Mike and Sandy Duffy Dr. and Mrs. James E. Etheridge, Jr. Steve and Mara Fredrickson Mr. and Mrs. William C. Giermak Thomas and Catherine Giordano Thomas and Suellen Greise Bob Guess & Patti Petty Stephanie S. F. Hemingway Mr. Steven M. Hornstein Ms. Patricia E. House Mr. and Mrs. Alexander C. Konczey The Earl and Soozi McLain Family Charitable Gift Fund Jackie and Fred Napolitano Lucy J. Oldfield in memory of Lee and W. Henry Jordan Ms. Leslie A. Paul and Mr. Bill Seib, in memory of Robert D. Paul Mr. Michael V. Scotece Martha and John Stewart Mrs. Martha P. Taylor Dr. Allen H. “Trey” White III Mo Zoll

Certified United Way Agency

St. Mary’s Home is a certified United Way agency and receives support from individuals who designate St. Mary’s on their pledge forms in addition to the following Alexis de Tocqueville Society members. Mr. and Mrs. Jake and Pam Allison Mr. Michael Alston Mr. and Mrs. Mark T. Jones Mrs. Mary Sue Jones Dr. Thomas G. Lundquist Chuck and Theresa McPhillips Mr. Paul Michels Mr. and Mrs. Frederick J. Napolitano, Sr. Mr. Richard E. Olivieri Mr. Stephen Snyder Mr. Russell Turner

FIELD TRIPS SPLASHES DAYS KIDS SPENT AT WHERE OUR – 673 – IN THE POOL SUMMER CAMP KIDS/ADULTS – 660 – – 587 – ARE FROM

2017 Sources Of Contributed Revenue ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■

Individuals Bequests Community Corporate Foundation United Way

– 96 –

Western Virginia: 8 Central Virginia: 11 Northern Virginia: 4

29% Bowling – 58

13% 14%

Dave & Buster’s - 57

14% 12%

– 5,713 –

– 24,820 –

18%

Hampton Roads: 72 Eastern Shore: 1

24/7/365 Movies – 74

We’ve made every effort to check for accuracy at the time of printing. If there is an error or an omission, please contact Kathleen Kaurup, director of philanthropy, at (757) 446-6793 or kkaurup@smhdc.org so we can correct it in our next publication.

PHYSICAL THERAPY AFTER-SCHOOL INTERACTIONS SNACKS SERVED

SOCKS MATCHED IN “VIRGINIA’S LARGEST CLOSET” – 73,000 –

Museums – 60

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Thank You for Giving the Gift of a Good Life

Your gift helps individuals at St. Mary’s Home and The Albero House benefit from the specialized, well-rounded care they need. To donate: • Go online to saintmaryshome.org • Call (757) 622-2208 or (800) 237-6555 • Send your gift in the envelope provided with this newsletter

You make a difference. Thank you!