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Georgian Style, Brought to Light

Fashion, Footlights and Lots of Fabulous!

COCA Travels with Purpose and Style

Sophisticated Littles

Torrey Pines: Where Chivalry

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Mi Casita Es Su Casita

Of Note...Rock On

Bibliotaph...All Things Great and Small

Bells & Whistles

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Message in a Bottle

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10 Things Carolyn Kindle Betz

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One of my favorite sayings is “focus on the positive.” Push out those negative thoughts and stay present. Each time I write these letters, I find myself starting with why the coming months are my favorite time of year, regardless of whether the temperatures are in the single or triple digits. If I ever moved away, I’d have to come back for spring to see the trees budding, greenery returning and three of the year’s biggest fundraisers in action: Marygrove’s Bloom, Variety Week and COCAcabana. The other best part of right now? March Madness! I “bled” orange for years at Syracuse University, but my family always stayed loyal to the Duke Blue Devils. Our trips to my sister’s undergraduate choice led to exceptionally “crazy” times at the Cameron Indoor Stadium as the fans say. Despite my claim to fame that Lawrence Moten once stepped on my foot at a party, the Fab Five of the 90’s Duke team won my teenage heart. And years later when #0 took the court, I had such pride for St. Louis and a rising young star. Seeing Jayson Tatum blossom from his days at Chaminade to the NCAA and now the NBA with the Boston Celtics is inspiring as a parent. I’ll never forget years ago, his dad told me he could tell Jayson was going to be a basketball star when he was just four-years-old. One can hope for the best for a child, but to see dreams actually come true is what life is all about. I am honored to be able to introduce you to Jayson’s son, “Deuce,” in this installation of “Sophisticated Littles” (pg. 28). You’ll see he too might have the skills in the Tatum genes! Speaking of sports, flip to the back of the magazine for an inside look at the woman who is part of what could become the first female-led ownership group to have an MLS team. Find out what Carolyn Kindle Betz can’t live without, besides her pledge to bring us a soccer team (pg. 88)! The home in this issue is stunning as we would typically expect from Ken Stückenschneider. He never disappoints. Take a close look at the exquisite mural in the dining room section (pg. 14), hand-painted by the talented Peter Engelsmann. It’s just one of the many treasures added to the estate that includes hand-painted wallpaper and a bespoke rug from Agra, India. As you can tell, I get excited very easily about positive things happening around us! We tried to fit as much as we could in this issue– so much that we are pleased to announce we are working on a double issue for May/June! As a national publication with operations in nine other cities, we all only publish six times a year which is why we are increasing our online storytelling. We want to be able to share more of what we cover. It’s not breaking news, doom and gloom, political pieces or stories that make you feel like you are missing out in life. We focus on lifestyle pieces, inspiring stories, cute kids and pets, philanthropy, cultural arts and homes that are dreamed to life. When you have time, look at our blog, sophisticatedstlouis. com, browse our website, slmag.net, and send me a note about a story you’d like to see told. I’d love to give you the platform.

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Diane Anderson “It is amazing how one person can make a difference around the world. Kate Corbett, Founder of WorldPediatricProject.org wanted to give back because a children’s hospital in St. Louis saved her child’s life. That was just a few years ago. Now her nonprofit helps 1,000 children around the world! I am humbled and fortunate to be able to capture these angels who are among us to make our world a better place.”

Elise Hofer Shaw “There’s a difference between rocking a hot trend and looking trendy,” says Hofer Shaw, the stylist behind this issue’s Sophisticated Source pages. “It’s all in the approach— and not taking one particular trend too far.” In addition to spearheading the content for Sophisticated Living’s Chicago printed magazine, Hofer Shaw also contributes travel stories to all of the magazines under the Sophisticated Living umbrella.

Johnny Fugitt “As wonderful as it is to appreciate homegrown artistic talent in St. Louis, there’s an even greater sense of pride derived from seeing members of our community thrive on the world’s biggest stages. From T.S. Eliot to Chuck Berry to Ellie Kemper, St. Louis’ creatives and performers showcase our city to the world. COCA’s recent trip to New York highlighted how the organization opens doors for the next generation of St. Louis’ artists.”

Joan Lerch “The chance to write about a fabulous home and a fantastic organization? I really do have the best job in the world! Always a treat to chat with and learn from master designer Ken Stückenschneider and see his latest exquisite project, and it’s a privilege to write about Variety the Children’s Charity and the great work they do in our community.”

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Gracie hand-painted wallpaper is the perfect canvas for a still life grouping of David Austen roses and a Chinese bowl.

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Twin sofas upholstered in Bennison fabrics, and two shield-back Sheraton mahogany chairs invite great fireside conversation.

GEORGIAN STYLE, BROUGHT TO LIGHT Written By Joan Lerch / Photography By Alise O’Brien

First on the to-do list? Pull down the ivy! After they purchased this classic Georgian, the new homeowners knew they wanted to transform the 60-year-old house, which had great bones, but dark and dated interior spaces. It would take a dream team of talent to bring their vision to life, but when their builder recommended removing the ivy that enveloped the structure, the husband and wife team truly took matters into their own hands. She remembers, “We cut it down ourselves, and it’s like pulling off glue!” About one year later, the slate-roofed Georgian beauty was ready for her close-up, with just enough neatly trimmed ivy surrounding the perfectly centered front door. Set at the same level as the paved forecourt in the traditional style of an English country house, and accented with a classic lion door knocker,

it’s a welcoming approach to the beautifully redesigned spaces across the threshold. The homeowners chose architect Paul Fendler, of Fendler + Associates, to remake the house for more room, more light, and to better accommodate their lifestyle. They had worked with him on two previous homes, and the wife describes him as their “favorite” architect, saying “He’s just so pleasant, and so friendly, and he works well with everybody. And that’s the kind of architect you want.” Fendler began with a redesign of the west wing, combining a small galley kitchen and eating area to create a stunning new kitchen with garden and front courtyard views. A new breezeway with a separate copper-topped entry connects the kitchen to the garage, a practical convenience seamlessly incorporated into the home’s balanced exterior.

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In the living room, antiqued mirrors above the doorway and fireplace reflect light from the double French doors.

The centerpiece of the all-white kitchen, designed by Keith Gegg, of Gegg Design and Cabinetry, is a fabulous center island that is party-ready, with seating for five, and “hanging-out” room for quite a few more. In addition to garage and garden access, the new kitchen is connected to the entrance with a spacious walkthrough butler’s pantry, configured to include a new powder room. Tucked behind a pocket door, the new powder room features hand-blocked wallpaper by Farrow and Ball. The butler’s pantry is customized with an abundance of glass-front cabinetry, as well as a coffee bar, and also opens to the formal dining room. Ken Stückenschneider, of Stückenschneider Decoration & Design, was chosen to bring the new interiors to life, and he developed a scheme from the Chinese Gracie wallpaper in the entry hall, hand painted with birds, butterflies and flowering vines. “The wallpaper design recalls 18th century chinoiserie— 16 slmag.net

the European and American Colonial interpretation of Asian decorative objects,” he explains. “The elegant naturalism is echoed in the plaster Rococo-style mirror that we freshened up with white flat paint, and then paired with an Art Deco console that relates back to the twisted tree trunks in the wallpaper.” The console table is flanked by two shield-back 18th century English hall chairs from Jules Pass Antiques. In the living room, twin sofas upholstered in “Pandaranda,” a hand-blocked printed linen from Bennison, create an inviting seating area centered around the fireplace. Two sets of French doors lead to a newly enlarged terrace, where removing an encroaching magnolia allowed abundant sunlight to fill the room. Stückenschneider dressed the newly brightened windows with sheer draperies, edged with wool and grosgrain tapes, granting full access to the light.

Well lit by a window, the new powder room is also illuminated by light sconces from New York’s Remains Lighting.

A stunning mural by St. Louis artist Peter Engelsmann takes the formal dining room from beautiful to spectacular. Contemplative herons look poised for flight from the chair rail that is a trompe l’oeil masterstroke, and large pots echo the owner’s front porch pots and lion’s head door knocker. Planning the mural involved considerable research and lengthy discussions between the artist, the client and the designer. “We brought some of the color palette from the living room, but the homeowner did not want the colors to be too tropical,” Stückenschneider says. “The work of 18th-century Italian painter Giovanni Battista Tiepolo, famous throughout Europe for magnificent palazzo frescoes, inspired the final choices,” he adds. Describing Engelsmann’s artistry, the homeowner says she was fascinated by the process and thrilled with the results. “I really love his work. It was a real collaboration, and the most fun for me

was watching it happen. It took Peter about six weeks, working eight hours a day.” The artist is so meticulous, she explains, that he might spend an entire day painting one tree, only to return the following day and do it over until he’s satisfied. “The mural changes colors depending on the light and the time of day,” she adds. When the sun goes down, dinner parties are illuminated by a cut-glass Waterford chandelier, selected by the homeowner during a trip to Ireland with her dad. The home’s classic architecture incorporates an “enfilade,” where a series of rooms and doorways are formally aligned along a single axis, offering a glimpse into each one. The design was often used in European palaces, Stückenschneider explains, where access through the rooms determined the rank of the visitor. In this house, each room’s color palette complements the next, drawing on the theme and colors of the Gracie wallpaper. slmag.net

A cut-glass Waterford chandelier illuminates the Sheraton style table and Baker Federal-style chairs, centered on a bespoke rug of knotted wool and silk, handmade to the designerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s specifications in Agra, India.

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Serenity reigns quietly supreme in the master bedroom, dressed in custom linens and overlooking the terrace.

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The tiniest member of the family waits patiently by the back door to the newly expanded kitchen.

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Tucked away and private, the master bedroom sitting room is a sanctuary decorated in the soft color palette found throughout the home.

At one end of the enfilade, through two sets of double doors, a serene master suite suggests that it really is possible to sleep on a cloud. Here, the homeowner did not want any patterned fabrics or wall coverings, explaining that she has an all-white bedroom in another home and wanted that same serenity. A richly padded headboard and bespoke loveseat are finished with details inspired by the Ferragamo family’s Hotel Lungarno in Florence. Roomdarkening draperies in a gentle blue open to enjoy a view of the terrace and gardens beyond. Fendler recreated the master suite’s adjoining rooms to give the couple “his and hers” bathrooms, a laundry room, and a private sitting room with a fireplace. While the bathrooms share the same flooring and wallcovering, thoughtful details clearly distinguish “his” from “hers.” This was something of a challenge, the lady of the house admits. “It was interesting trying to find a wallpaper that worked in a masculine and feminine space— something that didn’t have flowers.” Soft grey willow branches work smoothly in both spaces, as does the grey and white tile floor from Waterworks. “And of course, he got the bigger vanity,” she

says with a smile. “But I wanted a place to sit when I put makeup on, and I also wanted to have more windows.” The homeowners, along with Fendler and contractor Dan Compton, of P.J. Prifti, were at first puzzled by the windowless bathroom, because the corresponding exterior wall had two. After determining they had been boarded up in a previous remodel, the windows were restored inside, giving the homeowner the lightwashed bathroom she wanted. For a sublime way to begin or end the day, Fendler created a private sitting room from the existing exercise room, completing the master suite. Stückenschneider chose plush seating pieces upholstered in “China on Oyster,” an 18th century chinoiserie pattern relating once more to the avian theme and muted colors of the entry hall wallpaper. (The homeowner’s love of birds is woven into several rooms of the house, so she is especially delighted when the neighborhood rafter of turkeys—13 total— pay a visit to the garden.) That abundance of ivy? It’s compost. The massive magnolia? Firewood. And every boarded-up window is now opened to the sun— proving there was, indeed, light at the end of the enfilade. sl

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FASHION, FOOTLIGHTS AND LOTS OF FABULOUS! Written By Joan Learch

Prepare to welcome spring on a perfectly delivered high note in March, when St. Louis welcomes an internationally acclaimed soprano, as well as the brilliant young vocalist who brought Jennifer Hudson to her feet on NBC’s “The Voice.” The excitement continues the second week of April, beginning with a fashion show straight from a New York design house, and concluding with a black-tie gala at the Stifel Theatre. It all begins March 29, when multi-Grammy winner soprano Christine Brewer is the special guest host at the 10th annual Sing for Siteman concert at John Burroughs School. Proceeds from the concert, chaired by Pat Burkhart and Kim Eberlein, benefit the Siteman Cancer Center’s Discovery Fund in support of cancer research projects. Brewer will be joined on stage by four artists from Opera Theatre of Saint Louis: Teresa Castillo, Rehanna Thelwell, Edward Graves, and Robert Mellon, accompanied by pianist Timothy Cheung. Soprano Susannah Biller will also be part of the concert’s 10th anniversary celebration. The Burroughs Performing Arts Center will also welcome back one of its own, Kennedy Holmes, described by singer Blake Shelton as “the greatest artist of all time” after her spectacular performance on “The Voice.” Her special guest appearance will be a first for Sing for Siteman, but the stage is familiar territory to the current Burroughs eighth grader. Presented by Centene Charitable Foundation and hosted by Edward Jones, the evening begins with a cocktail reception, followed by the concert and then an opportunity to meet the artists. “We are forever grateful for the artists who offer their time and talents to make this event possible, the volunteers who help make it happen each year, and of course all of the supporters who come out to enjoy a great concert for an important cause,” says Timothy J. Eberlein, MD, director of the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center at BarnesJewish Hospital and Washington University School of Medicine. If you need further proof that winter is well and truly banished, look no further than the second week of April, when Variety the Children’s Charity of St. Louis launches Variety Week, their pillar fundraising campaign to benefit children with physical and developmental disabilities. The highly anticipated events begin with a glamorous fashion show, wrapping up with a can’t-miss-it evening described as “St. Louis’ premier black-tie gala.” The curtain opens with the Runway Lights Fashion Show at Union Station on April 6. The perennial favorite, which includes 24 slmag.net

an elegant gourmet luncheon, has showcased Ralph Lauren, St. John, Carmen Marc Valvo, and other notable names through the years. This year’s runway models will be dressed in the Spring 2019 collection by Lafayette 148, the New York-based fashion house known for sophisticated, clean-lined designs and luxury fabrics. No matter which pieces you decide you must have, you’ll be in stellar company — fans of the groundbreaking brand include Helen Mirren, Glenn Close, Michelle Obama, Drew Barrymore and Oprah Winfrey. Runway Lights will once again be chaired by Thelma Steward, the vice president of Variety’s Board of Directors and a much-loved supporter of the Variety kids. “Thelma is just a beautiful soul,” says Jean Larson Steck, Variety’s director of communications. “She’s so genuine, she really relates to the kids and knows how to reach them.” Although Steward has been an integral part of Variety’s mission for many years, Steck says she sometimes hesitates to speak at events because she’s prone to emotional tears. “That really speaks to her genuineness.” If the Runway Lights Fashion Show whets your appetite for a wardrobe re-do, why not start with a new evening gown for Dinner With the Stars? The glamorous night of dining and entertainment closes out Variety Week on April 13, in the Art Deco splendor of the Stifel Theatre (formerly the Peabody Opera House). Dinner With the Stars will also celebrate Variety’s 2019 Man and Woman of the Year, chosen for their contributions to the St. Louis community. Past years have honored some of the city’s most prominent citizens, including Thelma Steward in 2012, and her husband David Steward, in 2006. This year the charity has chosen media executive Spencer Koch and civic leader Carol Staenberg to be Variety’s 2019 Man and Woman of the Year. For 23 years, Variety Week has all come together under the guidance of chair Marilyn Fox. When her husband Sam (Variety’s 2002 Man of the Year) was US Ambassador to Belgium, the St. Louis native returned to her hometown to continue her leadership role. “She is just a delightful person and they both do so much for the community,” Steck says. And thanks to the generous support of the Centene Charitable Foundation, the Steward Family Foundation, and World Wide Technology, all proceeds from the fundraising events directly benefit Variety. An opportunity to support cancer research and children with disabilities—Can you think of a better reason to get dressed up and have a fabulous time? sl

A preview of Lafayette 148: the spring runway collection will be on view at this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Runway Lights Fashion Show during Variety Week.

Grammy-award winning soprano Christine Brewer will perform at Sing for Siteman on March 29.

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COCA Co-Artistic Director of Dance Antonio DouthitBoyd, COCA Executive Director Kelly Pollock, Mikhail Baryshnikov, COCA Co-Artistic Director of Dance Kirven DouthitBoyd following a tour of the Baryshnikov Arts Center.

COCA TRAVELS WITH PURPOSE AND STYLE Written by Johnny Fugitt / Photos provided by COCA

Two persons never really know each other until they travel together. Encountering the unexpected outside familiar surroundings allows us to be ourselves and reveals our lesspolished nature to fellow travelers. This is why many still cherish relationships developed over hikes, summer camps or study abroad programs from decades past. Even if we travel more as we progress through life, our opportunities to form new relationships through travel often wane. Community development or service trips, both domestic and international, are standard ways to support an organization, further a mission and, as a byproduct, create lasting friendships. Another popular way of supporting an organization while traveling is to bid on a charity auction trip. One local charity is changing the nonprofit-travel paradigm by connecting supporters with executive leadership and the organization’s mission in a different way. These are not trips spent swinging a hammer or providing the helping hands so many organizations require. Nor are

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these trips where one writes a check and disconnects from home and the organization. Instead, these are exclusive experiences specifically tailored to connect strategic partners with the work and leadership of an organization. Such trips require many hours of planning and there are risks for an organization to open the kimono, but the value of relationships created through these immersive, experiencerich and relationship-focused trips can not be overstated. COCA recently returned with 32 supporters from a behindthe-scenes trip to New York City. Co-Artistic Directors Antonio and Kirven Douthit-Boyd, Executive Director Kelly Pollock and Director of Advancement Pam Mandelker created an itinerary that started at The Juilliard School. Former COCA teaching artist Alicia Graf Mack, who last year became Juilliard’s first African-American female Director of Dance, hosted a tour of the esteemed Upper West Side school. The group then headed to Broadway for a private event with COCA-alum Joe Grandy before enjoying his newly-produced show “The Prom.”

Some of the New York trip guests with COCA alumni and staff after brunch at Legacy Records in Hudson Yards. Photo by Jacob Blickenstaff.

“Table One” at last year’s COCAcabana celebration. Photo by Diane Anderson.

The group also enjoyed an exclusive experience at the Baryshnikov Arts Center with Mikhail himself, a man considered one of the greatest male ballet performers of all time. “We met over an hour with Baryshnikov,” says Shereen Fischer, Co-VP of Development who cohosted this trip with her husband Michael, Linda and Jesse Hunter and Kim Kuehner. “He spoke with us, talked about what he does and talked about how it coalesces with what COCA does. I had a life-size poster of Baryshnikov on my bedroom door as a child, so that was a very exciting moment for me personally!” From an artist alumni brunch to a private event at The Modern Restaurant at MoMA with St. Louis’ own Danny Meyer, the trip featured one COCA-connected behind-the-scenes experience after another. It would be nearly impossible for the individual traveler to create this sort of itinerary, but the trip wasn’t just about opening must-know-somebody-doors. Each experience paid tribute to the ways COCA impacts artists and how the organization helps artists reach new levels in their professions.

COCA alumni Karina Encarnación (center) and Lauren Morrow (right) talk with COCA Co-Artistic Director of Dance and alumnus Antonio Douthit-Boyd during brunch at Legacy Records in Hudson Yards. Photo by Jacob Blickenstaff.

Robert Merlin, an attorney and travel consultant with SmartFlyer, was also on the journey. “For my wife, Melissa, and me to see COCA’s strong impact on the arts community - both here and in New York City was a tremendous experience. As long-time supporters of the organization meeting the alumni who have been impacted by our involvement and who, in turn, are impacting and affecting the greater arts community was meaningful and helped confirm that COCA showcases and cultivates the best of St. Louis.” “It is really vital to our success and our mission to have more people understand the importance of what COCA does for the youngsters in St. Louis as far as shaping the trajectory of their lives,” says Fischer. Missed the trip? The next best way to connect with COCA is at COCAcabana 2019 on the 26th of April at The RitzCarlton, St. Louis. This year’s theme of Upside Down promises interesting performances and surprises. Always just a few weeks after Variety Week, both are St. Louis’ premier annual philanthropic gatherings. sl

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SOPHISTICATED LITTLES Written by Carrie Edelstein / Photography by Kate McKenna

LITTLE INFO Meet Jayson Christopher Tatum, Jr. AKA “Deuce!” While his dad is the NBA superstar from St. Louis who plays for the Boston Celtics, this little guy is quite well known too. The top shot one-year-old is described as smart, adventurous, independent and funny with great social skills. “He walks around the Garden post- game like he owns the place,” says Grandma. “He waves or high fives everyone from security and media to the cheerleaders and ushers.” LITTLE LOOK Deuce is wearing Nike Tech Fleece for this photo. His normal outfit of the day is some sort of Nike jogging suit and either Jordan’s or those adorable Penny Hardaway Foams. With Dad’s debut of Nike’s self-lacing shoe, we’re voting for a “L’il Deuce” version to come out next! Deuce likes to accessorize day and evening wear with a baby golf club. LITTLE LOVES Deuce loves anything basketball. Grandma says, “Like his dad when he was young Deuce has a hoop in every room of the house (bathtub included) in various heights. When he is shooting hoops he wants to clap after every attempt.” When he misses, Dad says, “No no no. No clapping. You missed.” And of course Deuce thinks that’s funny! He attends all of Daddy’s home games and went to the playoff games at home and away last year. “When Jayson is on the road, he enjoys watching and clapping and pointing at the television.” In between practicing baby 3-pointers, Deuce likes to swim and hit the Little Gym. LITTLE LIT Reading is a passion, and Deuce often is enthralled with a few books at a time. His literary recommendations include anything by Dr. Seuss, “God Bless You and Good Night,” “BedTime Prayers” and a custom personalized book called “Jesus Loves Jayson Jr.” LITTLE EXTRA Two full-sized flashy fawn Boxers live with Deuce, you know the kind most humans are afraid of! But Deuce is the boss around these “gentle giants.” Speaking of giant, Deuce has a huge appetite. He loves his fruits and vegetables, but chicken parmigiana and spaghetti are his favorite meals. He keeps it healthy with spinach, broccoli, blueberries, pancakes, green smoothies and yummy tacos. sl * Do you have a “Little” you’d like to see featured? Reach out on our social handles @sophisticatedlivingmag on Instagram or leave a comment on our blog at sophisticatedstlouis.com.

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TORREY PINES Where Chivalry is Alive and Well Written by Cortney Vaughn / Photography provided by The Lodge at Torrey Pines It’s a popular destination from St. Louis: sunny Southern California. And with resorts aplenty running from Orange County down to the Gaslamp District of San Diego, there is one that warrants at least a day trip from wherever you stay. A winding road with a meticulously groomed landscape transfers you from the city lights of San Diego onto the grounds of a secluded, yet grand resort, replete with clinker-brick masonry, straight from the Show Me State. From the moment we arrived at The Lodge at Torrey Pines in La Jolla, our eyes fixated on the radiant stained glass windows, the famous Pinus Torreyana trees, and the type of hospitality that seems to have almost dissolved over time. Happy faces gleamed in the lobby around every turn with both families and couples, cuddled up around fireplaces as if they were in the comfort of their own home. Down a cozy hallway, we were shown our exquisite first floor room, designed with a fireplace at the foot of the bed, perfect to cozy up to when the cool ocean breeze comes at night. With a bathroom fit for a queen and lavender permeating the air, the best part came when the balcony doors were pulled open, revealing a gorgeous sunset. The view across the 18th green of the world-famous Torrey Pines golf course

was complete with a spectacular glimpse of the ocean just on the other side. Imagine the view in 2008 when Tiger Woods won his last major at the same course. From that moment, I knew it was going to be a trip to remember. Upon arriving, we did a quick turnaround for dinner. The Lodge’s signature restaurant, A.R. Valentien, highlights regional San Diego cuisine served in an elegant, timbered indoor-outdoor dining room overlooking the property as well as the chic green and white cabana striped umbrellas at the pool. The restaurant takes its name from a talented early 20th-century California artist whose works are exhibited throughout the restaurant. For a more casual or lunch option, The Grill offers amazing cuisine with cozy fire pit seating and spectacular views of the putting green. I’m certain the seats have been donned by some pretty famous golfers for a round of conversation and cocktails after completing the 18th hole. Our 5:30am wake-up call gave us a much-needed head start on the day. As we strolled up the 18th fairway from our balcony with clubs in tow, the sun was peeking out above the Pacific. The locals teed off at dawn which let us know that Torrey Pines is a true golf-lover’s paradise. slmag.net

We chose to play the difficult but fair South Course at Torrey Pines, and boy were we in for a treat! The first hole is a welcoming Par 4 that leads up to a beautiful view of the ocean. Luckily, we were playing with two San Diego natives who entertained us with a wealth of local course knowledge throughout the day. The third hole is the signature Par 3 on the South Course, overlooking the ocean and beautiful La Jolla. The front nine was filled with picturesque views as the holes run back and forth along the coastline. The back nine provides a challenging test of golf for even the best of amateur players. My boyfriend recently achieved the honor of “hole in one” status at a St. Louis country club. And he did not disappoint our foursome; he was fortunate to have a two-putt par on the difficult 475-yard Par 4 12th hole. Much like the mid-day sun beaming down on us throughout the round, our game was heating up after a string of pars lead us to the famous Par 5 18th hole. After his best drive of the day, he had no choice but to go for it over the small pond that covers the left side of the 18th green. After some short game miscues, he tapped in for bogey and we thanked our playing partners for such a wonderful day of golf. After the round, we headed into the pro-shop which was filled 32 slmag.net

with all the latest gear for the 2021 U.S. Open venue. We decided on a relaxing post-round lunch with drinks at The Grill where he regaled me with stories of all of his great shots from the round (most of which I missed due to the distracting but breathtaking ocean views). This truly was the best day ever! I’ll be honest- I had my sights set on the spa since the moment we arrived at the hotel. The locker rooms were immaculate, the steam room and sauna prior to my service allowed me to truly decompress before my appointment. I chose the Signature 80-minute massage and I’m so happy that I did. I left utterly relaxed and ready to start our drive up the coast to the hustle and bustle of Los Angeles for the second half of our trip. If you’re looking for a romantic getaway, a family trip or a golf/spa trip with friends, I highly recommend at least an overnight stay at The Lodge at Torrey Pines, just 20 minutes south toward the ocean from the beautiful Rancho Valencia also visited by our Sophisticated Living members. The breathtaking views and worldclass golf are all just bonuses to the hospitality you’ll find around every corner. I’m still in awe of the staff and the chivalry we found. I know that you’ll feel the same. sl

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MI CASITA ES SU CASITA Experiencing sunny SoCal hospitality at Rancho Valencia Written by Caylee Matthews “Welcome to our home,” said the lovely attendant who greeted me by name as he offered me a blood orange iced tea in the courtyard of Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa, the only Relais & Châteaux property in Southern California. I could hardly imagine a better setting to call home for a few days: 45-acres that were once part of a 1,000-acre orange grove in the midst of a high-end residential neighborhood just 25 miles north of downtown San Diego. Originally opened in 1989 and owned by an adroit and wellness-oriented San Diego-based investment group since 2010, the resort closed for 10 months as part of a $30 million property-wide refresh completed in October of 2012. Even with the opulent upgrades, the new owners worked with the original architect to ensure that the buildings and grounds remained quintessential Southern California, from the Spanish Colonial architecture to the abundant bright pink bougainvillea. Meshing well with the surrounding residential area, the 49 allsuite casitas average a generous 1,000 square feet, and have either a private garden patio or outdoor spa patio with a jacuzzi. The interiors of the guest rooms boast bespoke rustic-style furnishings, vaulted beamed ceilings, brightly hued commissioned artwork from Mexico City that pops against the warm vanilla-colored walls and wood tones, sumptuous bed linens, walk-in closets, and enormous bathrooms with deep soaking tubs.

My favorite design feature, which I came to appreciate on my very first morning, was a console table outside the front door of my casita, which facilitated daily delivery of sunshine in a glass—aka freshly squeezed orange juice— along with my newspaper of choice. Call me old fashioned, but I relished in what I saw as an invitation to ease into each day. Activities and amenities at Rancho Valencia embody the “work hard, play hard” ethos. For instance, I had no qualms about indulging in a Baja chorizo and egg burrito at breakfast, a signature Rancho burger at lunch (they had me at black truffle aioli), or a bite or two of dessert at dinner, knowing that I’d need plenty of fuel to power me through each day’s packed itinerary. With 95 complimentary fitness classes each week, ranging from hard-core cardio to yoga for beginners, fitness junkies will think they have found heaven-on-earth. An offering of an aprèsclass cold-pressed juice or protein shake is a nice reward and serves as a little extra motivation for those who aren’t as keen on exercising. For a more freestyle calorie burn on property, guests can partake in biking (the resort has a partnership with Italian bike manufacturer Pinarello), hiking, croquet, and bocce ball. A tee time at one of five nearby country clubs can be arranged by the concierge. slmag.net

The resort offers 18 tennis courts, including a "main stage" center court with seating, and two new courts with red ClayTech finishing.

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Reflecting the passion of its original owner, the property debuted in 1989 with 18 tennis courts, a huge number for a resort with just 50 rooms. The resort has retained its draw as a haven for tennis enthusiasts as reflected in its rating by Tennis Magazine as Southern California’s No. 1 tennis resort each year since 2008. The new owners added two European clay courts and refurbished the 16 plexi-pave championship courts, tennis clubhouse and pro shop. Court time and use of a ball machine are included amenities that fall under the $35 daily resort fee. Robin White, a two-time U.S. Open Women’s Doubles Champion who played professionally for twelve years, used to train at Rancho Valencia in the 1990s. Today, “Rockin” Robin is back at the resort as its Tennis Director, leading an esteemed team of tennis professionals. Her passion is as palpable as her patience while instructing newbies, and in short order she had me feeling relatively comfortable on the court.

I was ready for a reprieve after working up a sweat on the tennis court, and the spa at Rancho Valencia offers up ample opportunities for relaxation. Finding a quiet nook and soaking up the sun in the spa gardens or seeking shade and solace inside a cabana next to the lap pool is a restorative exercise in and of itself. Spa treatments incorporate Natura Bissé and ISUN skin and body care products. During my blissful 90-minute facial, which included the trifecta of a scalp, foot and hand massage as part of the service, the products that were applied to my face smelled good enough to eat! Dining is a delight, whether you are inside one of the exquisitely outfitted dining rooms, or al fresco, where you can frequently spot hot air balloons dotting the sherbet-colored sky at sunset. While each on-site dining destination has its own distinct personality, they share a conscientious commitment to utilizing the best of what’s freshest according to the season, as well as sourcing as locally as possible, including the resort’s own gardens. slmag.net

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With servers attired in riding-inspired uniforms, The Pony Room pays homage to the area’s rich equestrian heritage (Del Mar racetrack is only 10 minutes away). While the vaulted ceiling calls to mind the airiness of a barn, the reclaimed wood floors are more literal: barn wood from a Tennessee farm. Serving lunch and dinner, there are 150 varieties of tequila behind the bar (I preferred to enjoy mine in a spicy margarita). Across the courtyard is Veladora, which has similar ceiling architecture as its neighbor, but in a darker hue that adds gravitas apropos for this finer dining destination. A largely monochromatic color palette enables the room’s two focal points—a large artwork by Damien Hirst comprised of thousands of butterflies, and a fireplace surround executed in Venetian plaster tinted a vibrant royal blue—to take center stage. The Mediterranean-inspired dishes are tantalizingly plated, allowing you to discern the freshness of the ingredients even before the first bite crosses your lips. A private dinner in the Wine Cave is a delight for both foodies and oenophiles. Substantial wood doors open to reveal

a long, barrel-vaulted room clad in brick from floor-to-ceiling. Displayed behind a wall of glass is a collection of 250 of the resort’s most prized vintages (from micro-producers in California all the way to Tasmania), along with five full-sized oak barrels filled with the resort’s own private blends. Dan Chapman, an advanced sommelier and champion of boutique producers, said that Rancho Valencia goes to great lengths to get their hands on outstanding and hard-to-find wines, some of which are offered by the glass. If you happen to be on property during the weekend, join Chapman for sabrage demonstration and chat about all things bubbly. While there is certainly enough to keep one sufficiently busy on property, complimentary use of a Porsche Cayenne or Boxster convertible makes it easy to hit local highlights, including Torrey Pines State Reserve, the Flower Fields of Carlsbad and LEGOLAND California. Just be sure to make it back by sunset, as Rancho Valencia has some of the best views around. sl Rates at Rancho Valencia start at $650, per night. For more information or reservations, RanchoValencia.com or call (800) 548-3664.

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Of Note... Rock On

Compiled by Colin Dennis

This page top to bottom: The Stonehenge Bar set from Paradigm Trends resembles stone but is made from practical resin ($185; paradigmtrends.com). Hancock & Moore Noble chairside table (to the trade; hancockandmoore.com). Black stone floor lamp from Damon Art (price upon request; damonart.eu). Taylor King Mitchell dining chair (to the trade; taylorking.com). NativeStone 72" Avalon tub in a slate finish (price upon request; nativetrailshome.com). Jonathan Charles two-piece faux marble drinks table (to the trade; jonathancharlesfurniture.com). Maison Valentina Diamond towel rack of polished brass and nero marquina marble (price upon request; maisonvalentina.net). Resin gold Rock On! hand from Audenza ($20; audenza.com). Opposite page: Think Thin is composed of natural stone panels cut at a delicate 1/2-inch thickness, which dramatically decreases the cost and manpower required for both shipping and installation (price upon request; nemotile. com). The Equilibriste sofa by Patrick Knoch for Extranorm rests on a rocking stainless steel base ($6,765; extranorm.com). First rocking chair designed by Muller Van Severen for Valerie Objects ($2,760; valerie-objects.com). Knife set designed by Sylvia Pauliac ($2,390/set; creations-pauliac-mousseau.com). Sagaform rocking whisky glasses ($49.95/6; gyrofish.com). Handmade Rocca bath mat from Aquanova with a pebbled effect ($236; aqua nova.com). Mosaic tile from Artaic's ReSalvage Collection in a Corcabo Ash pattern (price upon request; artaic.com).

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Bibliotaph... All Things Great and Small

Compiled by Victoria Chase

This one-of-a-kind, freshly photographed recipe collection presents portraits of America's foremost food personalities and their intimate stories about food, family, and their passion for cooking — each accompanied by one or more of their personal signature dishes and family favorites. Joe Yonan (Editor)—America The Great Cookbook—hardcover, 482 pages, Weldon Owen (weldonowen.com)

In an era of technology and digital communication, many of us find ourselves a bit out of practice when it comes to engaging in face-to-face small talk. Author Melissa Wadsworth provides simple advice, engaging visuals, and brief exercises to learn the art of small talk in a variety of situations. Melissa Wadsworth—How to Make Small Talk: Conversation Starters, Exercises, and Scenarios— paper over board, 160 pages, Adams Media (simonandschuster.com)

Perfect for any Jane Austen enthusiast, this pocketsized book is packed with memorable quotes from one of the most influential writers of all time. The Tiny Book of Jane Austen—hardcover, 192 pages, Insight Editions (insighteditions.com)

Spanning nearly a century and encompassing everything from bouts on the turf to the hardwood, this book is a compilation of essential columns from more than three dozen masters of the pressbox craft, written with passion, spontaneity and humor. John Schulian (Editor), Charles P. Pierce Melding history, psychology, art, and obsession, bestselling (Foreward)—The Great American author Simon Garfield presents an intriguing look at humans' fascination with small things, and what small things tell us about Sports Page: A Century of Classic Columns from Ring Lardner to our larger world. Simon Garfield—In Miniature: How Small Sally Jenkins—hardcover, 421 pages, Things Illuminate the World—paper over board, 336 pages, Atria Library of America (loa.org) Books (simonandschusterpublishing.com)

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bib 'li' o 'taph, [bib-lee-uhtaf, -tahf ]: a person who caches or hoards books With expert guidance for projects ranging in scope from hanging baskets to flower beds, you'll be able to turn your backyard into a bright summer paradise. Emma Hardy—Small Summer Gardens: 35 bright and beautiful gardening projects to bring color and scent to your garden—paper over board, 144 pages, CICO Books (rylandpeters.com)

A guide for living small in the big world, the book's references to pioneering projects from the early 20th century provides perspective for modern living concepts. Dr. Klaus Kemp, Tessa Pearson (Editor)—Petite Places: Clever Interiors for Humble Homes—hardcover, 256 pages, Gestalten (us.gestalten.com)

Author Will Friedwald sketches the history of the greatest jazz singers—including the likes of Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Nat King Cole and Sara Vaughan—by dissecting their finest albums. Will Friedwald—The Great Jazz and Pop Vocal Albums—hardcover, 432 pages, Pantheon Books (knopfdoubleday.com)

Travel writer and photographer Mark Bedor showcases twenty-six horseback rides across the United States. Mark Bedor—Great Rides of Today's Wild West: A Horseman's Photographic Journey Across the American West—hardcover, 240 pages, Skyhorse Publishing (skyhorsepublishing.com)

Photographer Derry Moore and interior designer David Mlinaric offer a panoramic tour inside some of Britain’s finest manor houses, halls, castles, and public buildings built between the 18th and the 20th centuries. David Mlinaric (Writer), Derry Moore (Photographer)—Great English Interiors—hardcover, 224 pages, Prestel Publishing (prestelpublishing.randomhouse.de/)

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Bell Nexus air taxi concept

BELLS & WHISTLES

Transportation highlights from the 2019 Consumer Electronics Show Written by Andre James Serving as the first major car show of the calendar year, the annual Consumer Electronics Show (CES) in Las Vegas also provides a barometer for both the progress of electric vehicles and how close we are to fully autonomous vehicles. Automotive companies are increasingly utilizing the CES to showcase concept cars of the future along with more ready-for-market leading-edge technology. We rounded up a few notable launches and lurches toward a future where a driver (and in some cases the road itself) are optional. AUDI Audi’s booth at the CES was designed around the motto "from driving experience to digital driving adventure,” and placed the spotlight of two technologies for the in-car entertainment of the future. In the “Audi Experience Ride,” backseat passengers can experience movies, video games, and interactive content even more realistically using virtual reality glasses. The “Audi Immersive In-Car Entertainment” project takes up the action in movie scenes

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and translates it into real vehicle movements. In order to establish this new form of entertainment on the market as quickly and comprehensively as possible, a subsidiary of Audi, Audi Electronics Venture GmbH, has co-founded a startup named holoride GmbH, in which it holds a minority interest. Also available for ogling was Audi’s four-door Aicon, a sleek autonomous vehicle designed for fully electric operation, and engineered to cover distances up to 500 miles on a single battery charge. BELL Resembling a drone with seating for four, the full-scale Bell Nexus air taxi concept unveiled at CES aims to begin test flights in early 2023. The vertical-takeoff-and-landing (VTOL) vehicle will be powered by a hybrid-electric propulsion system, with six 8-foot tilting ducted fans that enable Nexus to go from vertical liftoff to horizontal flight.

Audi Aicon

Audi e-tron equipped with the "Audi Experience Ride"

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BMW Vision iNext display

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BYTON M-Byte SUV prototype

Nissan LEAF NISMO RC

BMW The focal point of the BMW’s CES stand was Vision iNEXT, and the BMW Intelligent Personal Assistant, which constitutes the central element for interaction between the driver, their vehicle, and their digital world. The BMW Vision iNEXT formed the optical highlight of the exhibition stand, which also showcased the interior design principle “My Favorite Space” with harmonious, natural surfaces and technology that is kept discreetly out of sight and only becomes visible and operable when required by the driver or passengers. Stealing headlines outside the show floor was BMW Motorrad’s self-riding BMW R 1200 GS motorbike, which wowed onlookers as it steered itself around the convention center’s parking lot without falling over. Development of this test vehicle, with its comprehensive understanding of ideal lines and perfect cornering, correct braking point, and traction-optimized acceleration, can help the driver constantly improve their skills. BWM Group subsidiary Designworks unveiled a camper concept in partnership with The North Face to showcase a new fabric from The North Face called FUTURELIGHT, which uses nanospinning technology to create the world’s most advanced, breathable, waterproof material. BYTON The Chinese electric car startup previewed the digital cockpit of the production version of its M-Byte SUV. BYTON’s 48-inch, curved Shared Experience Display (SED) remains the world’s largest in-car display for a production automobile. The user can interact with the SED via a seven-inch Driver Tablet positioned at the center of the steering wheel or an eight-inch Touch Pad between the driver and front passenger seats. The production version of the BYTON M-Byte is slated to debut in mid-2019, with massproduction starting at the end of the year.

Mercedes-Benz Vision URBANETIC

Toyota TRI-P4 automated driving test vehicle

MERCEDES-BENZ The first Mercedes-Benz vehicle from the EQ brand—the EQC crossover SUV— celebrated its U.S. premiere. A pair of electric motors at the front and rear axles provides a combined output of 402 horsepower. The watercooled onboard charger is suited for AC charging at home or at public charging stations. The MBUX Interior Assistant makes various comfort and functionality tools simpler and more intuitive. Making its first North American appearance, the MercedesBenz Vision URBANETIC concept is a driverless vehicle aimed at ride-hailing and delivery fleets. Switchable bodies on the autonomous driving platform can accommodate up to 12 passengers; in cargo configuration it is able to transport items on ten 40-by-48-inch pallets. NISSAN The all-new Nissan LEAF NISMO RC, an electric race car with more than double the maximum power and torque output of its predecessor, made its North American debut at Nissan's CES display. Two electric motors at opposite ends of the chassis, a new all-wheel-drive system, and a full carbon-fiber racing monocoque structure creates an optimal power-to-weight ratio with an impressive performance of zero to 60 mph in 3.4 seconds. TOYOTA The Toyota Research Institute introduced the TRI-P4 automated driving test vehicle, which is based on the fifth-generation Lexus LS flagship sedan. In a press release, Toyota stated that the P4 is a much smarter research vehicle than its predecessor, thanks to greater computing power, allowing its systems to operate more machine learning algorithms in parallel for faster learning. All computing system power is drawn from the vehicle’s hybrid battery, with the 12v battery now serving only as a backup. sl slmag.net

Romantic Story wallpaper from Londonart (londonart.it)

MAISON + MODE Home and Haute Couture Trends from Paris Written by Bridget Williams Designing eyes were turned to the ‘City of Lights’ during the latter part of January as interior aficionados assembled at the Parc des Expositions for the Maison+Objet tradeshow, and fashionistas flocked to runways staged around the city for Haute Couture Fashion Week. We consulted experts at Maison + Objet for insight on what’s new and next in the realm of home decor, and found that complementary themes could be culled from the runways. Veteran interior design and trend hunter Elizabeth Leriche curated 500 pieces for “What’s New” in the Décor Zone at Maison+Objet. She grouped her selections around three different themes: Minimal Brutalist referred to almost monastic minimalism, offering variations on pared-back pieces and raw materials and

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lines; Luxury Graphic was inspired by the decorative arts of the 1930s to the 1970s, and featured luxurious pieces executed in marble, brass and velvet; and, Ethnic Arty, which celebrated the fusion of cultures and the blending of traditional savoir faire revisited by contemporary designers. “These diverse and, at times, opposing themes bear witness to the fact that we live in a society full of paradox where absolutely anything goes,” said Leriche. She noted a rise in the application of concrete, both the actual material and imitation versions in wallpaper, paint, lights and even seating. She also pointed out a new approach to decorating walls using rugs as a wallcovering, and said that electric blue is making a comeback.

Blue butterflies under glass from Objet de Curiosité (objetdecuriosite.com)

Trink bar cart by KANN DESIGN (kanndesign.com)

Ceramic Paris plate from faïencerie Georges (faienceriegeorges.com)

Mappemondes chandelier from Benoît Vieubled (benoit-vieubled.com/en/)

One Minute Mickey by Marcel Wanders for Leblon Delienne (en.leblon-delienne.com)

Ceramic pieces from ChoufMoi (choufmoi.be)

New Marble tableware from BORNN Enamelware (bornn.com.tr)

Oscar rug from Rug Society (rugsociety.eu)

Geode concrete pendant light by Natalie Sanzache (nataliesanzache.com)

Swivel velvet armchair from Ethnicraft (to the trade; ethnicraft.com)

Akonandi Human Indigo pillow by ArtPILO (artpilo.com)

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Ziad Nakad s/s 2019 Photo by Isidore Montag/imaxtree.com

Temple II cabinet from Malabar (malabar.com.pt) Sky Blue pleated paper lampshade from Ian Snow (iansnow.com)

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Alin Le Kal s/s 2019 Photo by Carlo Scarpato/imaxtree.com

Inresse side table from BIPOLART (bipol.art) ASTAIR chair from Ligne Roset (ligne-roset.com)

Adeline Ziliox s/s 2019 Photo by Carlo Scarpato/Imaxtree.com

Bongรณ bar cabinet from Green Apple (greenapple.pt) FUNGO marble table lamp by UP Group (ungroup.it)

Patrick Pham s/s 2019 Photo by Salvatore Dragone/imaxtree.com

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François Bernard, director of Paris-based trend consultancy agency Croisements, used tastes—savory, sweet, bitter, acidic, and spicy—for the starting point of his top trends in the Share Zone, which focused on tableware. Sweet celebrated pastel tones. Savory embraced whites, greys, blacks and sometimes bluish blacks like volcanic salt. “It is all about rough materials, creating a warm and contemporary rustic feel,” he explained. Bitter turned the spotlight on the green color palate, offering a fresh take on traditions. Acidic showcased yellows and yellowy-greens in all their glory, perpetuating the vintage trends of the 1950s and 1960s. Spicy brought about a riot of red and terracotta. “It’s all about embracing the outdoors, street food, global cultures.” Bernard singled out the commingling of contemporary design with 18th century aesthetics; a rise in popularity of the color red; an increasing use of burnt wood; marbled effects on crockery and platters; and, the “molten” trend, with mirrors and lights flaunting oozing, drip-like silhouettes. In the Leisure Zone, which showcased travel and fashion accessories, stationery, games, connected objects and souvenir gifts, stylist François Delclaux focused on the concept of travel, and the notion of whisking visitors off to three fictitious

countries. Wood Land celebrated wood and all things hipster and natural; Ice Land turned the spotlight on shiny and metallic pieces; and, in Sun Land, all the items exuded a summery vibe and a colorful punch. “These themes also allowed me to make the whole space revolve around nature, which is an extremely vibrant subject,” explained Delclaux. Delclaux pointed out that wood has started popping up in the most unexpected places, including iPhone covers, perfumed candle holders, spectacles, and even technological devices. He noted that nautical motifs can be found in abundance, adorning trays, jewelry, coasters, embroidered patches and even snowballs. “A very 1950s Miami-esque vibe puts coral pink center stage – Living Coral has even been elected color of the year by Pantone,” he added. For each session of Maison+Objet, Paris-based forecasting agency NellyRodi analyses the latest consumer trends and sociological phenomena, and groups them into a theme. The topic chosen for 2019 was Excuse My French!. “There’s a renewed curiosity about the French abroad, a sort of fascination at the moment,” said Vincent Grégoire of NellyRodi. For Grégoire, the movement is linked to globalization: “In a world where things are becoming standardized, people are looking for something different.” sl slmag.net

Sunrise at Airport Mesa. Photo by Bridget Williams.

GOOD VIBES ONLY Feeling the Love in Sedona Written by Bridget Williams Sedona, Arizona is a curious creature. I cannot think of another place where you can be standing in the parking lot of a CVS at sunrise and be absolutely gobsmacked by the view, as I was during a visit last summer. As part of a pre-dawn run, I’d made my way from the verdant valley oasis of L’Auberge de Sedona, an 11-acre resort nestled beneath a canopy of trees on the banks of Oak Creek, and up into the high desert to reach Airport Mesa, the site of one of Sedona’s four main natural vortices. For the uninitiated, a vortex is a place where concentrated energy radiates from the earth’s surface, and is purported to facilitate balance, prayer, healing, and intuitiveness. This cosmic presence also helps to explain the surplus of soothsayers, alternative healers, and “magic” crystal shops in Uptown Sedona. After stopping to catch my breath in the aforementioned parking lot, I joined a hoard of people speaking a multitude of languages who’d assembled to patiently wait as the sun’s rays slowly animated the panorama of anthropomorphic and kaleidoscopic red-rock peaks. I can’t say whether I benefitted from the “masculine” energy said to be present there, but based on 50 slmag.net

the expressions of awe plastered on the faces of those around me, there was definitely something powerful about the majestic sight. Situated at an elevation of 4,326 feet, Sedona is a town of 10,000 residents surrounded by more than 1.8-million acres of stunning scenery. A 90-minute drive north of Phoenix, 30 miles south of Flagstaff and just two hours from the Grand Canyon, the area is a four-season playground, complete with seven golf courses; hundreds of hiking and biking trails in the Red Rock Secret Mountain Wilderness Area, the Munds Mountain Wilderness Area and the Coconino National Forest; 80 art galleries with 200 local artists represented in local shops and galleries; the Verde Valley Wine Trail; and a host of tour operators offering everything from off-road jeep excursions to hot air balloon rides. It was easy to forget that we were still in the desert as we turned off of bustling Highway 89A and into the valley where L’Auberge de Sedona, A Destination Resort, is located. The grounds are lush, green, and dotted with mostly single-story cottage-style structures. If it weren’t for the famed red rock buttes crowning the treetops, it would be easy to envision this as an upscale camp in the Northeast.

The terraced hillside above Lâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Auberge de Sedona offers prime red rock views.

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Chapel of the Holy Cross Photo by Bridget Williams.

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Lodging options encompass 62 luxury cottages (many with an outdoor, open-roof cedar shower), 21 traditional lodge-style guest rooms, or a stand-alone five-bedroom Creek house. The recently renovated rooms, suites and cottages rely on a muted color palette to reinforce an aura of tranquility. Oak Creek is the property’s main attraction, and the sound of water rushing over smooth stones in the creek bed provides a constant calming soundtrack audible throughout the property. The most covetable rooms, in my opinion, are the Creekside Cottages with a covered porch, which deliver a dry front-row seat for enjoying fleeting desert deluges during monsoon season (June-September). Even if you aren’t staying creekside, you can dine next to the water’s edge at one of two recently renovated restaurants on property. Cress on Oak Creek is a fine-dining destination that pairs informed and attentive service with a constantly changing prix fixe dinner menu built around locally sourced seasonal ingredients that meld Southwest culinary traditions with French cooking techniques. More casual in concept, ETCH Kitchen & Bar complements its cuisine with a creative and comprehensive beverage list, including custom wine labels created in partnership with local Verde Valley winery Page Springs Cellars. While Sedona’s beauty sells itself, L’Auberge de Sedona’s healthy lineup of on-property amenities and activities enhances the destination’s healing heritage. In the L’Apothecary Spa for instance, guests can concoct their own bath soaks and body scrubs using fragrant local plants and herbs such as rosemary, piñon pine, juniper.

A daily schedule of events encompasses activities such as lectures on local geology and history, guided photographer’s walks, Forest Bathing (a practice that originated in Japan, and is focused on soaking in the essence of the forest rather than taking a literal bath there), guided meditation, interacting with local artists through an artistin-residence program, fitness hikes and yoga classes, and seasonal offerings. The recently completed Vortex Treehouse offers a reflective space for private meditation sessions and wellness experiences. After a creekside coffee each morning, we never drove more than a few miles in either direction to reach a trailhead. While the most popular routes are heavily trafficked during high season, it takes minimal effort for those craving solitude to find roads less traveled (visit sedonasecret7.com for tips). If you are looking for greasy-spoon goodness, head over to the famous Coffee Pot restaurant (coffeepotsedona.com), which literally offers 101 omelet choices (don’t even think about asking for any substitutions). For a more elevated experience, time your dinner for sunset at Mariposa (mariposasedona. com), where the views are as delectable as the Latin American cuisine prepared by Chef/owner Lisa Dahl. Guacamole greatness and 89 different tequilas can be found at 89Agava Cantina (89agave. com), a lively bar and Sonoran-style Mexican restaurant operated by L’Auberge and located just above the resort on Highway 89A. From the time that dawn’s first light tickles the trickles of Oak Creek, through guided stargazing with an astronomer, staying at L’Auberge de Sedona makes it even easier to feel the love for Sedona. sl Rooms at L’Auberge de Sedona, A Destination Hotel from $305/night. For more information or reservations visit lauberge.com.

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MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE The story of Cramoisi Vineyard

Written by Sofia Torres McKay / Photography by Ingrid Moriarty I am a proud native of Mexico. In 2002 I moved to San Francisco to further my career in the IT industry. A one-year contract turned into three, and during that time I met Ryan McKay, a native of Eugene, Oregon and a wine enthusiast who worked three cubicles from me. We married after two years of dating. Ryan’s passion for pinot noir began while working as a wine buyer in his early 20s. When we started dating, he shared with me his passion for wine and cooking (he is a great cook!). I met pinot through Ryan and fell in love with both, leading me to learn more about wines from Oregon and the different AVA’s there. We started traveling together to wine country, and he expressed his desire to one day grow grapes and make wine as a little home family experiment. At the time I thought it was a nice idea to own our own vineyard, but we did not know anything about wine growing, and we did not have money to invest in one, so we left it as a lofty dream. After our first son Mateo was born in 2005, I took a break from my career, while Ryan accepted a promotion that took us from San Francisco to Toronto, Canada. I was excited for the two of us to share in the experience of being immigrants. After the birth of our second son Jonathan, we relocated to Vancouver, BC. In Vancouver, I resumed working for my previous employer, and discussions during family dinner time increasingly focused on buying a vineyard. Ryan wanted to go back to his roots in Oregon, an idea

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that appealed to me as I wanted our boys to grow up surrounded by family. In 2010 we started formally looking for a small place where we could develop our dream and passion for wine growing. After several trips to Oregon, we spied a “For Sale” sign on a 10-acre farm on Worden Hill Road in the Dundee Hills overlooking the Willamette Valley. The Dundee Hills are special because they offer optimal cold air drainage during the colder fringes of the growing season in spring and fall. We closed on the property in 2011, and in 2012 we began planting at an elevation of 500-to-600 feet. Since we did not have the money to plant our land all at once, we started little by little, which gave us the opportunity to research what clones and rootstock have the best potential to grow phenomenal wines. Today, five acres are planted to pinot noir, all of which are unique soil and clone/rootstock combinations. Our clones are a mix of the best clones from Oregon’s first pinot plantings (Pommard), Dijon clones imported from Burgundy (667, 777) and rare clones such as 122 from Vosne-Romanée, a ‘Grand Cru’ vineyard in Burgundy. Our one-acre of chardonnay had its first harvest in 2018. To honor the heritage of our grapes, we decided to name our place Cramoisi, which translates to “crimson” in French. Ryan continues working his day job and helps at the vineyard as his schedule permits. In 2017, I left the IT world to devote all

of my efforts to our family venture and raising our two sons. I am proud to say than I am one of the few Hispanic women vineyard owners in the Willamette Valley. Cramoisi Vineyard is farmed biodynamically; we believe than if you take from Mother Nature you need to give back to her. We are not yet certified but looking to do so in the next two years. Our wine maker is Drew Voit, who has produced some of the most esteemed and highly rated wines in the Willamette Valley. Drew asks lots of questions about the style of wines we want to make, so it is about our own style and not his style. In 2014, our vineyard produced enough to make one barrel (25 cases) of wine. The following year, the first formal vintage, we produced 200 cases. Production increased to 300 cases in 2016 and 600 in 2017. Our goal is to top out at 1,000 cases by 2022. We are focused on quality versus quantity, so that we can grow one of the best wines in the Dundee Hills AVA. Since the business is very small, I perform numerous roles in the vineyard, including vineyard management, marketing and sales, event planning, relationship building and management, and administration, among others. Being a Latina woman in this business is not always easy, and potential clients often ask me about my origins. Some verbalize their surprise that I am Mexican woman who owns

a vineyard rather than simply working in one. While these remarks are exasperating and frustrating, eventually I learned to embrace my unique perspective, life experiences and heritage, which includes the color of my skin and my accent, and I now feel happy that people continue to be interested in my unique story. Because there are not many people like me in my position, being able to turn the tables and use my background as a positive virtue allows me to view myself as a channel to help others and work together as a community. This work includes being active with ยกAHI VOY! and ยกSalud!, two non-profit organizations dedicated to supporting the education and ambitions of winery and vineyard laborers, with a wide range of programs from English-language classes to cellar training. When I came to this business and committed myself 100% to my family venture, I was looking not only to grow grapes and sell wine, but also to tell the story about what is behind the bottle and the years of work that come before the first bottle is even filled. Cramoisi wines have a body, a soul, and a different energy that tells you a story. That story is not only about the owners and the wine maker, it is also about the vineyard stewards who spend the time in the vineyards, rain or shine, hot or cold, up or down, early or late, to complete the story. sl

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2019 Alfa Romeo 4C Spider

LA MECCANICA DELLE EMOZIONI

Alfa Romeo packages pulchritude and performance using Italian panache. Written by Andre James / Photos courtesy of FCA While the flashier fronds on the family tree of Italian automobile manufacturers often garner the lion’s share of attention, brands with deeper roots—Fiat, Maserati and Alfa Romeo—have been turning heads and amassing accolades for more than a century. The first Italian car, essentially a petrol-powered tricycle, was built in 1884. A little more than a decade later, Fiat was founded and produced its first model, a FIAT 4HP, which had a a top speed of 22 mph. Alfa Romeo wasn’t far behind, tracing its roots to the Società Anonima Italiana Darracq, established in 1906 by Frenchman Alexandre Darrracq with backing from Italian investors. Three years later, after a slow start to sales and economic hardships, managing director and Italian aristocrat Ugo Stella acquired the company and relaunched the plant under a new name: Anonima Lombarda Fabbrica Automobili (ALFA). Designed by Giuseppe Merosi, the 1910 24 HP was the first car to come off of the production line at Portello in Milan under the Alfa name; the 4.1-liter engine could reach speeds up to 62 mph. In 1911 ALFA made its foray into motor racing, beginning a long and storied run as a constructor and engine 56 slmag.net

supplier in Grand Prix motor racing, Formula One, sportscar racing, touring car racing and rallies. Enzo Ferrari drove Alfas in the 1920s before striking out on his own. ALFA faced financial challenges during WWI and was acquired by Nicola Romeo, a successful electrical engineer from Naples, Italy. While automotive production ceased during the war, the company continued to prosper by making airplane engines and portable compressors. Investors took the company public in 1918 under the new official name of Alfa Romeo, and resumed building and designing automobiles at the end of WWI. The marque’s four-leaf clover “Quadrifoglio” logo first appeared in 1923 on an RL Targa Florio. It was painted on the front by legendary driver Ugo Sivocci, who was looking to break a string of runner-up finishes. While he went on to win the Targo Florio race in Sicily, Sivocci later perished in a crash while testing a new race car that did not bear his lucky clover. From that point on, all Alfa Romeo race cars featured the four-leaf clover on a white triangle, with a missing corner symbolizing the loss of Sivocci.

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A race version of the 8C 2900 earned three wins at the 1938 Mille Miglia.

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Alfa Romeo Stelvio Quadrifoglio in Misano Blue, Rosso Competizione and Trofeo White

In spite of their laurels, financial woes plagued the company over the decades. Fiat Group Automobiles acquired the brand in 1986, beating out the likes of Nissan and Ford to keep it under Italian control. The 1995 Alfa Romeo 164 was the last Alfa sedan sold in the United States before the brand returned to North America two decades later. By 2018, Alfa Romeo’s annual sales in the United States reached a record 23,820, nearly doubling sales from the previous year. Current Alfa Romeo models available in the United States include the Stelvio SUV, the Giulia sports sedan, and the 4C Spider, with powerful Quadrifoglio versions of both the Stelvio and Giulia representing the cutting edge of Alfa Romeo design and performance. Named for the Stelvio Pass, a mountain pass in northern Italy, the Stelvio Quadrifoglio (MSRP from $73,700) holds the

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Nürburgring record for the fastest production SUV, making it the fastest production SUV in the world. Available in six models, Stelvio (MSRP from $40,195) is well-equipped with standard premium features including a direct-injection 280-horsepower turbocharged and intercooled 2.0L engine delivering 0-60 mph in 5.4 seconds, DNA drive mode selector, genuine leather interior, remote start with passive entry, bi-xenon headlamps, dual exhaust, class-exclusive carbon-fiber driveshaft, and a flatbottom Formula One-inspired steering wheel. The Quadrifoglio variant boasts an all-aluminum, 2.9L, twin-turbo V6 engine with 505 horsepower, completing the 0-60 mph sprint in 3.6 seconds and able to reach a top speed of 176 mph. In 2018, the Alfa Romeo Giulia won the 25th edition of the “Compasso d’Oro ADI,” the most prestigious world design award. As the first of a new generation of vehicles on an all-new

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platform, the Alfa Romeo Giulia (MSRP from $38,195) and Giulia Ti (MSRP from $40,195) models embody Alfa Romeoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s "la meccanica delle emozioni" (the mechanics of emotion) spirit, delivering race-inspired performance with a class-leading 280 horsepower and available Q4 all-wheel-drive system. Standard accoutrements in the mid-size sedan include leather seating, Apple CarPlay and Android Auto, passive entry, remote start, bi-xenon headlamps with LED Daytime Running Lights and LED taillights, DNA Drive Mode selector and back-up camera with rear park sensors. The Giulia Quadrifoglio (MSRP from $73,700), highlights Alfa Romeoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s exclusive motorsports expertise with a best-in-class, Ferrari-derived, 505 horsepower, 2.9-liter twin-turbocharged V-6 engine with a 3.8 second 0-60 mph time and a top speed of 149 mph. Also notable on this variant is its carbon fiber hood,

roof and rear spoiler; adaptive performance suspension; DNA Pro with Race Mode; torque vectoring; carbon fiber active aero front splitter; Harmon Kardon Premium Audio System; carbon fiber interior trim; full-speed Forward Collision Warning-Plus; and 3D Navigation. Handcrafted in Modena, Italy, the Alfa Romeo 4C Spider (MSRP starting at $66,900) offers a state-of-the-art Formula 1-inspired ultralight carbon fiber monocoque chassis that enables a 10.4 power-to-weight ratio. Advanced technologies include the all-aluminum 1750cc turbocharged engine with direct-injection, dual intercoolers and variable-valve timing, enabling supercarlevel performance. The 4C Spider delivers 237 horsepower and 258 lb-ft of torque, powering it from 0-60 mph in 4.1 seconds with a top speed of 160 mph. sl For more information visit alfaromeousa.com.

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As pet owners, we all tend to think we have the smartest, most handsome or most beautiful creatures on the planet with a variety of tricks up their paws. Tanner can “get the mail,” pull in the trash bins on cue, stretch on demand into yoga poses and identify his human sisters by name, often heading the mad dash for carpool once the backpacks have been loaded. Rory can pull wads of cash out of Mom and Dad’s clothes in the dirty laundry basket, jump into the bathtub, full or empty, whenever thirsty and will stand on hind legs for what seems like an hour, waiting for a treat. Whether these are tricks or neuroses are all in the beholder’s eyes. So the pair of “repawters” scoured the internet, this time Instagram, for a fourlegged someone who could maybe teach them a trick or two. They found “Radical Ruger,” an Australian Shepherd with a certified list of 100 tricks – and an agent. It’s only fair to say Ruger had a head-start from the time he was a puppy. His mom, Kaitlin Bockman, has a degree in agricultural business and animal science, and runs Mind Your Manners dog training. At just 25, she’s been training all kinds of pets, including service and assistance dogs, since she was a teenager, and then she went to college to learn more about the animal industry. Bockman’s first trick dog came as a service dog for her own seizure disorder. As that dog helped her, she taught him 40 tricks. His shorter legs didn’t allow for the strength required for some more advanced moves. “I got Ruger knowing I wanted to do fun and active sports,” says Bockman. “You can’t really start training for agility or disc until they’re two or older so you don’t cause a lot of stress to their joints so we started with obedience and tricks. And by the time he was four months old, he knew about 30-40 tricks. We just kept expanding on that and now he’s at over 100 tricks.” With that talent, Ruger has landed commercials for Purina, and he performs in shows from their Gray Summit location to 66 slmag.net

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“Radical Ruger” wears his “Rex Specs” to protect his eyes from the sun, wind and debris when doing tricks, kayaking, boating or riding in Bockman’s UTV. See more photos by Kaitlin Bockman on Instagram @radicalruger.

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EVERYTHING ON THE TABLE Q&A with Butler’s Pantry

Written by Carrie Edelstein / Photos provided by Butler’s Pantry When it comes to event and party planning, Butler’s Pantry has grown into a household name for catering. It’s a secondgeneration family owned operation, deeply rooted in tradition but taking pride in innovation. Just last year, Vince Bommarito, Jr., a James Beard nominee, joined on as Chief Culinary Officer, leaving his long-time post at Tony’s for this exciting new challenge. With summer being one of the most popular times for events, we wanted to get down to the basics about what Butler’s Pantry has to offer. What range of services do you offer in addition to catering? We can supply everything from event equipment (china flatware, glassware, chairs, etc.) to beautiful florals and event design from our award-winning Butler’s Pantry Design Studio. Our focus is everything that’s on your table so the client can simply enjoy those around it. It seems every year, thanks to Pinterest and Instagram, the requests and demand for originality keeps growing. What are some unique displays, interactive stations and dishes you offer? There is no better feeling than when a client brings an inspiration photo from Instagram or Pinterest and it’s from one of our

events. We pride ourselves on customizing celebrations to create experiences that are memorable and social media worthy. This summer, we like the natural light and fresh feeling of the season. We’re planning some interactive dishes like the Veggie Garden - vegetables that “grow” out of pumpernickel soil with a green goddess base. You simply pick your own veggie, gather a scoop of breadcrumbs and finish with the green goddess dip. It is fun and absolutely delicious! Or, how does a ceviche station, mixed to order, sound? Guests can select a choice of fresh fish cured in citrus and customized with fruits, veggies, herbs and spices. When making recommendations for clients, what kinds of events work best for buffet style as opposed to table stations? It really depends on the event. We’ve catered private dinners for two and festivals for thousands. Stations tend to allow for more creativity and a diverse selection. They are also ideal for larger events with a higher guest count. When entertaining in a client’s home, preventing congestion is a must and stations then serve as a great option. When it comes to buffets, they can be simple or elaborate, depending on the client’s needs. If keeping it simple, start with choosing a salad, vegetable, starch, protein and dessert. It covers all the bases and is friendlier on a budget. slmag.net

What are some trends for summer weddings and events like barbecues and graduations? How far ahead should bookings be made? An exciting trend for summer weddings is paying homage to your hometown through menu choices. St. Louis is rich in its cuisine and our chef has created a line of street tacos with inspiration from historic St. Louis neighborhoods. There’s a corned beef and cabbage for Dogtown, meatball and marinara for The Hill, PB&J for The Delmar Loop and finally shrimp and grits for Soulard. Each taco is unique, scrumptious and perfect for honoring St. Louis! Summer is also the perfect time to celebrate birthdays, engagements, graduations and so much more. When you’re ready to book, we are ready to plan! We encourage our clients to set a date ASAP; the more time we have to collaborate, the more they can enjoy the process and the event. If you book a summer wedding celebration at Palladium Saint Louis or The Coronado, we are offering discounted pricing for brides and grooms. And 74 slmag.net

for other kinds of parties, we understand that the St. Louis summer heat can limit outdoor entertaining during the day. But there’s nothing better than winding down an evening on the back patio, on the pool deck, on a rooftop…Why not create a reason to move the party outdoors when the sun goes down? We love offering a fun after dinner drink, paired with a dessert cigar! How many events and parties do you typically serve in a summer? Last year, between Memorial Day weekend and Labor Day weekend, we produced more than 800 events and had the pleasure of serving more than 50,000 guests. The events ranged from laidback barbeques to elaborate high-end dining experiences to soirées hosted in private homes. No matter the occasion or size, Butler’s Pantry can create memories to last a lifetime! sl *In addition to catering and event services, Butler’s Pantry offers brunch at Café Madeleine at The Piper Palm House in Tower Grove Park. And, sample something sweet at Piccione Pastry in The Delmar Loop.

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SkinBe Med Spa celebrated their one-year anniversary with a party that included giveaways, raffles, treatment demonstrations and live music from MC Jody Rhew. Guests were treated to handpicked flower bouquets from Rudy’s Flower Truck as well as special event pricing and promotions on skin treatments and injectables.

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Cecelia Ann Fox, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey L. Fox (Lotta) of Clayton was crowned “Queen of Love and Beauty” at the 134th annual Veiled Prophet Ball. Miss Fox is a sophomore at Tulane University and a graduate of John Burroughs School. The event was held at the Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch.

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Guests were given special goggles to “dine in the dark” at the St. Louis Dining in the Dark Visionary Award Dinner. The event was held at the Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis in Clayton. St. Louis Cardinals players Harrison Bader and Paul DeJong were presented with the Foundation’s Visionary Award and John Mozeliak, the President of Baseball Operations for the team, was recognized for his ten years of support of the Foundation Fighting Blindness.

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More than more than 175 artists, educators, philanthropists, corporate citizens and arts organizations attended an awards presentation benefiting the Arts and Education Council. Entertainment included Kennedy Holmes, the finalist from NBC’s “The Voice,” along with acclaimed jazz pianist Peter Martin. The event was held at the Chase Park Plaza Royal Sonesta Hotel.

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The false mindset of fixing it later Individuals facing a divorce or family law matter are often faced with difficult decisions. Their spouse (or the other party to the family law case) may have an attorney. They indicate that their attorney is simply going to draw up the paperwork to conclude the case quick. When faced with this, many decide not to get a lawyer. Their mindset is that although the settlement paperwork is flawed in many respects, they can simply go back and fix it later. In other words, the view of some is that they should simply agree to the settlement that is being proposed. That will make the divorce or family matter end. After the case is done, many think they will just come back later and fix what was wrong with the original agreement. For example, if there are children, and a prior child custody or support order, they figure that they will just modify it later. This strategy is based on an incremental view that you can simply bite off certain parts of the case (like getting divorced) and then later deal with the other issues in the future. Often, this approach is based on saving attorney fees or keeping things civil with their soon-to-be ex-spouse (or the other party). The problem is that modifying a prior court order is not simple or easy. It can be harder to fix something that was not right to begin with than to simply make sure it was fair and just from the start. This is because to modify a prior court order as to custody or support, a party typically has to show a change of circumstances of a substantial and continuing basis. In other words, one cannot come back to court with the incremental argument that they agreed to what they originally agreed to just to get the case done, but that it was not really right from the start. In most courts, this argument will not work. A party has to show that some-

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10 Things Carolyn Kindle Betz Cannot Live Without Written by Carrie Edelstein / Photo Courtesy of The Taylor Family She’s a third-generation Taylor family member who is leading the ownership group trying to bring a Major League Soccer team to St. Louis. If all goes as planned, this would be the first femaleled ownership group in MLS history and one of the few in any sport. Carolyn Kindle Betz is the President of Enterprise Holdings Foundation, the charitable arm of Enterprise Holdings Inc. The Foundation has contributed more than $354 million to thousands of nonprofit efforts since its inception. And while that keeps her plenty busy, MLS4THELOU, the ownership group bidding for the expansion team, is one of her current passions, along with a scarf she can’t live without. Kindle Betz says, “By far, the best accessory I own. It is a reminder of how great St. Louis is and why we need an MLS team.” As for the rest of her must-have list, there better be Goldfish at that soccer concession stand! And, you might be surprised that it’s a fleet of… shoes that makes the top ten! 1. “My family: All of it! I might be biased but my nieces are the cutest ever. My husband is pretty great too!” 2. Shoes and purses. “There is no better way to dress up an outfit and show your ‘flair’ than a great pair of shoes. Sensible should not factor into the perfect outfit. Like shoes, purses can be statement pieces. Not to mention, you can carry anything you could possibly need with you at all times. I can have snacks, band-aids, makeup and gum at any given time.” 3. Goldfish. “These little pieces of magic have been known to be my breakfast, lunch and dinner. Not to mention, anyone with children usually has some handy so you don’t have to go far to find them. I ‘share’ with my nieces – one for them, five for me.” 4. Beach Sunsets. 5. Old and new friends. “Good, true friends make you a better person.” 6. Mom’s Christmas cookies. “These are truly a wonderful, sinful indulgence around the holidays. She has been making them my entire life so when the mixer comes out, the holidays have started.”

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