Overcoming Guilt with Senior Care Decisions

SETTING EXPECTATIONS FOR YOUR ROLE AS A CAREGIVER

Getting Prepared for the Position

It’s not always easy watching a loved one age. This can become especially hard when they reach the point of no longer being able to take care of themselves. And, if you didn’t already find yourself providing some level of assistance before a major life event occurs, you may now find yourself in the role of being the caregiver.

You may have intentionally elected to become a professional caregiver or a caregiving volunteer to help those in need.

In any case, if you’re new to this journey, here are some helpful tips to keep you prepared as you embark on this path.

THE ROLE OF CAREGIVER

This is a role you can find yourself in rather quickly without knowing it happened.

A serious health event is typically the catalyst for this type of situation. However, this change can also happen gradually, and the role of caregiver might be taken on without even realizing it until you're deep into the process.

For instance, you may initially stop by just to check on your loved one. Gradually the number of visits increase, and

progressively those visits turn into helping prepare meals, assisting with lawn maintenance, light housekeeping, and managing medical appointments.

Before you know it, they’re heavily relying on you and unable to do many of these things themselves.

Whether you had a conversation about it or not, at a certain point you realize you’ve accepted and taken on the role of caregiver.

Although you're now taking on the responsibility to care for someone else, you may already have quite a lot of responsibilities of your own (perhaps children or a full-time job). It’s important to know and understand the responsibilities that come with your new caregiver role. This way you're better able to care for them with confidence, empathy, preparedness and love throughout this journey.