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Finding our feet in 2020 DURING a recent conversation with a relative, he remarked that his primary school aged boy was still settling in to 2020 and trying to find his feet, so to speak. At school with a new teacher, new rules, new kids and a new year to come to terms with.
We've spoken to a local circus school operator who was in the Moscow Circus for 10 years, to a couple of passionate local mums who've started up a parenting course of sorts and two women running an incredible workshop for children to teach them about mindfulness.
That's the thing about a new year, you spend so much of the first half saying "I can't believe it's 2020" before you realise you're a quarter of the way through the year already.
There's also local dads who've invented the Clever Elly - a truly groundbreaking, and yet simple device to help remind parents to check the back seat when they hop out of the car.
I tend to feel a bit the same as my relative's young boy.
There will be some resistance to this idea.
It's been an interesting, big start to the year, with fear and panic around the coronavirus as well as the utterly devastating bushfires in our part of the country. It's been busy and frantic, with my daughter starting 4-year-old kinder and long day sessions.
I found it difficult, thought-provoking to write as someone toying with the idea of having a third. As always we've worked hard to bring you great local events, kids books and more. Bayside Glen Eira Kids magazine is a Star News Group publication.
My aim each edition is to bring something new to you as a parent, grandparent. Maybe a fascinating birth story, a business idea or a topical issue that gives you a different perspective.
Many parents would say they don't need it, how could you possibly forget your child?
I'd love to hear from you if you have any feedback, any stories, any news I should know about.
But the research shows it can happen, albeit rarely. It's worth a read.
As we work to establish ourselves in this most beautiful part of Melbourne, we rely on the eyes and ears of the suburbs we write for.
We've also got renowned author Steve Biddulph writing in this edition.
By March, I finally feel as though I'm in a rhythm with work and the children, it's a new kind of normal. I'm sure many of you reading this will feel the same.
This column about raising our boys a certain way is one of the most profound columns I've read on the topic.
And then I realised it was time to start looking at primary schools! That really blew my mind.
We've also got some great feature pieces like making friends as adults, tips for having kids at your wedding (I share my tips after getting married late last year) and a fascinating discussion around how to know you're "done" having kids.
For our second edition of Bayside Glen Eira Kids magazine, we've tried to find some great local stories to make our magazine really relate to you at home.
Can you ever truly know?
It will move you.
Bayside Glen Eira Kids will be published quarterly prior to each of the school holidays. Bayside Glen Eira Kids Cnr Princes Hwy and Army Road, Pakenham, 3810 PO Box 9, Pakenham, Victoria 3810 Phone: 5945 0666 Fax: 5945 0777 Editorial Danielle Galvin danielle.galvin@starnewsgroup.com.au Phone: 5945 0666
That's you! Send me an email - daniele.galvin@ starnewsgroup.com.au if you have a story idea or event we should showcase. Take the time to follow us on Facebook and Instagram - and as always - happy reading!
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CONTENTS
Cover
IT'S YOUR LIFE A course in motherhood
New hope for peanut allergy sufferers PAGE 15
REALITY BITES
Charlie and Archie at Landcox Park in Brighton East. Picture: Rob Carew
Tips for having kids at your wedding
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EDUCATION
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The circus comes to Moorabbin
A love of learning and education
How to know you're "done" having kids
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LIfe-saving device developed by local dads
Sleep skills and support
A column on choosing to have two children
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PAGE 5 A mindful workshop for kids PAGE 6
IT'S YOUR LIFE
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TODAY
PAGE 25 Achieving work life balance Dads invent
Making friends as adults
IKEA putting safety first PAGE 7
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Fly in fly out wife's honest approach to life
Victoria's top baby names
PARTY TIME
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Born to Party
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School uniform's stitched to success
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How to find your village
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ENTERTAINMENT
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Swimming school's focus on trust and consistency
Jimmy Rees' new chapter
The terror of travel with kids
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Steve Biddulph on the dialogue around raising boys
EDUCATION
BOOKS
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Teaching children about sounds
Tech-savv toddlers need boundaries
50 things to do with kids before school starts
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Great giveaways and competitions
Getting the kids to school on time
Children's books
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HEALTH
FASHION
CALENDAR
Tips for healthy eating with Susie Burrell
Fabulous, high quality garments for kids
Kids calendar
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Mums create a modern village
Freya Owen and Christy Hopwood have created a course to help new mums.
IT'S often said that there's no rule book when it comes to raising children. But it's also true for many parents that knowledge is power, and the best way to prepare for parenthood is to read up on what's to come, draw on experiences from those around you, and listen to various experts. Local mums Christy Hopwood and Freya Owen have started a course in motherhood called Mama You've Got This. Their idea was to create a version of the "modern village" - drawing on experts, health professionals and others to support the parenting journey. They hope their masterclasses will empower local mums, giving them the opportunity to connect with experts and each other to help them through each stage of their baby's development. Freya, a mum of three young boys, and mum of four Christy, (one girl and three boys) met when their children were in 4-year-old kindergarten. The pair came up with the idea through a shared love of babies and helping other women. Here, they share their start-up idea with Danielle Galvin, and explain what they hope to achieve. How did you come up with the idea of the business? We came up with the idea of Mama You've Got This through a shared love of babies and helping mamas. Through having our own children we consulted countless experts along our journey (each of our children had different needs) and from this experience we discovered the best of the best in the industry. We always wondered why there wasn't a course that taught you everything you needed to know about looking after your baby at each stage if the baby's development. So we created one. We wanted to provide mums with supportive villages of experts and other mamas to go on the journey with. We wanted to create one place
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We felt it was important to have a physical village where you could get a hug from a fellow mama" where all the information and insights on being a mama was housed, and we wanted to impart the knowledge we had gained from our own experiences of motherhood. Everyone says you need a village to raise a child and yet in 2020 where is that village? We felt it was important to have a physical village where you could get a hug from a fellow mama on one of those days (as mamas we all have them) and get the very best expert information. We're all in this together, doing the best we can. Why is it so important - why do we need a course? Being a mama is THE MOST important role of all, yet up until now there has been no course to learn what to do at each stage of your baby's development. We want mamas to be prepared - not just for giving birth but also for what to do with the baby when it is born and beyond. Babies are complex and unique. They don't come with a manual, yet we expect parents to know what to do. It was for this reason we wanted to bring together Melbourne's top experts to make the transition to motherhood easier, and instead of mothers spending hours on Google they could spend the time cuddling their baby as we could provide them with all the information they need, plus a connection to a fellow mama to meet for coffee or a park play. Initially, when we came up with our business idea we wanted to go to the
mama's house and let them have a shower, take a nap while we looked after their baby to give them a rest. But then we realised we would only be helping them for the day when having a child it is for life. So instead we decided to come up with a course which would give them all the tricks of the trade, knowledge and information they need, so we could help them not only for a day but for the rest of their lives. I love that you have classes for raising toddlers too. I've got a theory that we are often supported so much initially as new mums - but you can sometimes feel a bit isolated as your child enters those toddler years. Do you agree? YES absolutely!!! Also two year old's get so complex, they discover the word no and they need to be toilet trained. They also decide that they suddenly don't like anything green in colour. It was for this reason we thought a toddler course was so vital, not only for gaining the expert advice you need but also for meeting another mama at the same stage as you, so you can run after the toddlers at the playground together. When your baby hits toddlerhood it is also the age when new siblings may be planned/born.
experience for our parents, so we create a warm atmosphere of honesty and compassion and love to get to know our mamas and their babies (babies are welcome at our Baby Basics and Infant Essentials classes). Classes are held in a beautiful yoga studio and we have a mat on the floor for the babies to play and refreshments available in the break, to encourage mamas to mingle. Our two-hour pregnancy class is designed to empower parents as they go through the biggest change in their lives, and will ready them for birth of their baby and beyond. Our expert obstetrician, expert midwife, expert dietitian and mama experts give insight into the later stages of pregnancy, birth and early days at home. Our 2.5-hour Baby Basics Masterclass will equip pregnant mamas and mamas of newborns for the first weeks of motherhood. Our 2-hour Infant Essentials Masterclass is for mamas and babies 3-8 months old. This Masterclass runs with three expert presentations from our sleep, mama psychologist and our dietitian experts. The class features demonstrations and a Q&A. Mamas will learn how to introduce solids, strategies to help your baby sleep through the night and tips on how to manage the challenges of motherhood. Our 2-hour Toddler Masterclass is for mamas and dadas who hear from three experts - a dietitian, behaviour and toilet training expert.Parents learn how to emotion coach their toddler to cut tantrums off before they happen, and how to recognise and support their toddler when they just need to have a meltdown.
Our classes are real, relatable, informative and interactive.
Our expert dietitian will give top tips and tricks on how to make sure veggies end up in mouths (less on the floor!) and parents will learn toilet training basics and tips on how to ready the family for the arrival of a new sibling.
We want each session to be educational and an empowering
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Tell me about the classes and what they involve.
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Circus with devilish charm By Danielle Galvin WHEN children come into the Little Devils Circus studio in Moorabbin for the first time, it's fair to say they are very often blown away. It's a vibrant, lively and colourful atmosphere. Behind the circus, Sergei Druzhina and his wife Louise, the director of Little Devils, have a fascinating story to tell. "My background is in circus," Sergei explains. "I was in the Moscow Circus for 15 years and when I came to Australia I met Louise, she had already been teaching kids and adults in circus. "We thought the kids in Melbourne could really benefit from circus as a way to build confidence, coordination and concentration, and so we started the company." With Louise's background in teaching, and Sergei's background in
acrobatics and travelling the world with the Moscow Circus, it was a natural pairing. "Little Devils teaches children a whole range of activities, juggling, hula hoops, spinning plates, acrobatics, tightwire, aerial and many other skills." Classes run for children as young as 3 all the way up to adults. While it attracts the natural born performers, Sergei says it's rewarding to watch the shy, under-confident children come out of their shell. "The sporty and active kids really enjoy it and they get a lot out of it," he said. "But where we really see that benefit is the non-sporty kids." One of the benefits is that it's not a competitive group sport, which can be off-putting for some kids. "It's a race against yourself," Sergei said.
Grace and Elliot in the aerial ring at Little Devils studio.
Many of the students don't know about Sergei's background in one of the greatest circuses of all time. But it's fair to say he's found his calling.
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"I'm very happy here in Melbourne," he said. "It's great to be able to pass the skills down to the kids."
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create a 'wow-factor' because they are just so plentiful and beautiful. It is food styling at its best". This unique catering business provide traditional Greek pastries such as spanakopita and tiropita (cheese and spinach parcels) and keftedakia (Greek meatballs) as well as other non-Greek nibbles such as homemade honey soy chicken drumettes, sliders and pizza wheels which are popular with adults and children alike. Grazing tables can be booked for any special occasion, and are often sought after by clients celebrating birthdays, bridal and baby showers as well as corporate events. Grazing With Stella also offers kid-friendly grazing tables and can cater for all dietary needs. Check out @grazingwithstella on Facebook and Instagram. www.baysidegleneirakids.com.au
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Dads device will save lives By Danielle Galvin A group of Melbourne dads have joined forces to create a device they hope will save the lives of Australian children.
From left, Alex Vashchenko, Andrew Orkin and Sluv Yerusalimsky.
It's almost like a voice inside your head to check the back seat"
Father-of-two Andrew Orkin is one of the brains behind the Clever Elly device, a dual USB charger that plugs in to your car and reminds you each time you turn your car off to check the back seat. It's hoped the Clever Elly will prevent parents from accidentally leaving their child in a car, which can have fatal consequences. There are 10 different verbal reminders on rotation. The concept is simple, but Mr Orkin said it's all about building a "life-saving habit". "It's almost like a voice inside your head to check the back seat," Mr Orkin said. "It's become a simple, inexpensive device." Mr Orkin and two of his friends from high-school developed the device and
The device in place inside a car.
believe every car should be fitted with the technology to remind parents and grandparents alike. "The same way we put on a seatbelt, we should have this," he said. During their research, the Melbourne dads discovered how easy it is for parents on auto-pilot to suffer from a memory lapse, and forget their child is still strapped in their car seat. He said for some parents, it's hard to come to terms with the fact that none of us are immune to these sorts of memory lapses.
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It was an experience of his own that spurred him on to develop the Clever Elly.
unlikely circumstances that can happen."
"It's a good habit, it's a habit everyone needs to have," he said.
He said the long term goal is to make it standard in the automotive industry to have some sort of reminder to parents
"What happened to me was I had a phone call from work and I was driving to my kid to daycare. I took a phone call and it was intense and during the call, I realised I had started driving to work. "I only realised by accident, my son made a sound in the back. "It was a series of unfortunate and
The technology is there, but he said there has to be a market for it. "We don't want to make money off it, we just want to change the industry I guess," he said. "The same way seatbelts took decades to introduce, this is a worthy device."
Lunch set to be served at Toot Toot Toys HEALTHY lunch options will soon be served up at Toot Toot Toys in Bentleigh East, even more reason to visit the one of a kind toy shop, cafe and play space. Partnering with FIO Cookhouse next door, customers will be able to choose from the menu a healthy Little Lunchbox option for children, sandwiches, yoghurt and tubs of fruit, as well as something for the adults, including wraps and a poke bowl. The menu is allergy friendly and
Toot Toot Toys owner Carly Kohler said it has been much requested by customers. Lunches will be available Wednesday through to Sunday. The shop has also recently introduced a huge range of new items from local brands and from small businesses run by mums, something that's important for Carly. Toot Toot Toys has something for everyone, and the staff are thoughtful
and happy to help choose the perfect gift, even offering to gift wrap it too. "The Toot Toot team know kids. We know what kids love and we have plenty of present ideas!" Carly said. "We like to say you can walk out the door 'party ready' - with a present in hand, gift wrapped for you and with a beautiful card too." Visit the store at 637 Centre Rd, Bentleigh East or online at https:// www.toottoottoys.com.au/
What a treat! There will be plenty of options for kids and parents looking for a quick meal.
Looking for a special birthday present or newborn baby gift? We have a beautiful range of unique quality toys, with a focus on educational, wooden and eco friendly toys. We love helping to choose presents we know kids will love! Our brands including LEGO, Brio, Thomas & Friends, Micro Scooters, Yumbox, Bruder, Janod, Mister Fly, Olli Ella, Nana Huchy, Miniland and more.
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Educating beautiful minds By Danielle Galvin EDUCATING Mindful Minds is all about helping children to develop mindfulness skills early in life, to help them understand themselves and others better and to develop ways not just to survive in the modern world, but to thrive in it. Sisters Carrol James and Margaret Gray started running the workshops as they believe it can be hard for children to navigate an increasingly technology and social media driven world. "Kids don't get a chance to switch off and unwind and find solace in a place where they can safely recharge to take on the next day," Carrol said. "Our workshops are fun, interactive and we encourage the children's versions of their experiences, so we can tailor the conversation to what is going on for them and we are able to do this as we limit our class sizes to 15.
"We use various methods;- cognitive therapy play, mindful meditations, breathing techniques and listening." The unique program runs on Mondays at Connect Health and Community in Bentleigh East. The sessions are designed for children who are over thinkers, reactive, have anxiety or need help managing stress, ADHD and any other child who may need a better understanding of their emotions. The after school hours program for children aged 6-12 years includes meditation, simple breathing and self-soothing techniques. "We have found it incredible just how much the kids open up and feel supported knowing that the other students are going through difficulties, it helps them see they are not alone in what they feel," Carrol explained. "The program has seen significant shifts in lowering anxiety, increasing
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compassion to self and others, respect for the people around us, this has come about by increasing their ability to identify emotions, which in turn ultimately enables them to manage themselves more easily in difficult situations. "Being able to say to children it's OK to have a voice and tell us how you are feeling - that's the best gift we can give our kids." The aim of the program is to help guide children to recognise and identify different emotions.
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"And as a parent don't we want to make our children's lives to be as easy as they can be, with EMM we can help them with the tools they need to do this with their own positive way, as we want them to be able to stand on their own two feet with confidence and ease," Margaret said. NDIS self managed participants are welcome. To find out more, visit https://www.facebook.com/ educatingmindfulminds/
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A safer home is a better home RESEARCH commissioned by IKEA revealed one in four Australians do not have safety top of mind when it comes to making decisions about their home. However, almost half of Aussies (48.8%) admit they would like to be educated on the dangers and risks around the home. In 2018, IKEA launched an app called 'Safer Home'. The app, which is available from the app store, helps consumers learn about key development milestones based on their child's age so that parents are aware of hazards and can make adjustments around the home accordingly. When it comes to safety testing, no product is exempt. When IKEA develops products for children, the first step is to see things the way children do. Their world revolves around play and movement, and bumps and bruises along the way are a normal part of growing up - but serious injuries are unacceptable. Through the IKEA product testing phase, the intended and unintended uses of products by children are carefully considered, to identify and
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Victoria’s top baby names
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According to the Births, Deaths and Marriages Register, there were 419 Olivias born in 2019 and 537 Olivers born. Both choices have been high on the list for the past decade.
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Charlotte, Mia and Amelia continue to be popular girls' names for the ninth consecutive year in a row, while Jack, William and Noah have continued to place in the top five baby names for boys since 2014.
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Acting Attorney-General Ben Carroll said choosing a name can be tricky. "The birth of a baby is a wonderful and special time for parents - but settling on what little bub will be named is not always an easy decision." he said. "It's always fascinating to learn why parents have chosen a particular name for their child, whether it is because they simply like the name, or because it has cultural or significant family ties." All births in Victoria must be registered with Births, Deaths and Marriages, which can now be done online at www.bdm.vic.gov.au.
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PSW's aim is to make sure every child feels comfortable in high quality garments and to ensure every school's brand is immaculately represented.
"That style of store is really to provide that one on one fitting service and ensuring that customers are getting the right fit of uniform for their child," he said.
Greg Madigan, general manager of sales and marketing at PSW, said the company tailors to the individual needs of schools and designs, manufactures and manages new uniforms for them. "The whole theme around that is making the school look great - so if there's a traditional school uniform and people are looking to upgrade or try something new, we would be at their doorstep to provide that service," he said. The company has enjoyed a busy back to school period, helping to get students ready for the school year. "To see the volume of parents and kids come through, leaving with a smile on their faces, particularly the Preps and Year 7s as they head into new
Last year, PSW opened a brand-new warehouse style store in Cheltenham, after 30 years in the area.
"Of our 18 stores there's roughly one third of them operating under that warehouse concept. "It's about providing better service and outcomes for parents, schools and kids." Heading into winter, PSW has introduced some new garments including a customisable beanie and puffer jacket."We are always trying to continually improve and offer new items and uniforms," he said. " A lot of the time we are guided by what schools want but we also want to get ahead of the curve and find out what the next fashion product might be that could suit a uniform."
PSW’s Greg Madigan with the customisable beanie.
PSW is proud of its service to schools. "We manage the whole supply chain right through from concept and design to delivery of the uniform either direct to
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Learn to swim with confidence WHEN it comes to teaching your child to swim, CJR Swimming School focuses on providing a quality educational framework and building trust with your child to help them on their individual swimming journey.
and teachers," she explained. "This helps us to achieve positive experiences and develop confidence in the water". She also believes consistency is key when it comes to swimming progress and efficiency as well as providing lessons within a quiet and safe environment.
Owner and swim instructor Catherine Russo has been teaching swimming for 15 years, and has been operating CJR Swimming School at a private facility in Bentleigh East for the past 7 years.
"Your child will not only feel secure during our lessons but they will know how to be safe around water through constant water safety awareness and learning and performing important water survival skills," Catherine said.
She has also recently branched out to a second location, running lessons on a Sunday morning at another private facility at Berendale School in Hampton East.
In a review on the CJR Swimming School Facebook page, one mum said she would recommend the swim school "200 per cent".
CJR Swimming School prides themselves on personally catering to the needs of each and every student. Catherine Russo with students from left, Paige 6, Lily 5, Alisha 6, Amelia 7.
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It’s Your Life
Raising boys with backbone and heart By Steve Biddulph I'M sitting in a room with 200 mothers of boys. It's an all day workshop and we have enough time to really dig deep into what makes some boys turn out well, and some to go off the rails. I start off in an unusual way - I ask the women a question: What would be their idea of a perfect man? Now, in a room full of young mothers - in fact, any women really - this is a question that leads to some ribald humour. But then we get serious, and I write on a huge whiteboard what they call out. Soon we have a list of about 40 qualities. They range from kind, gentle, loving, thoughtful, through to trustworthy, honest, loyal, calm under pressure, and many more.There is something very poignant and moving about some of these answers. I'm aware that some of these women are describing things that their present or former partners may not have been. Many women have had painful and hurtful experiences of the men in their lives, though plenty, of course, have positive and good partners (perhaps just needing a few tweaks!) The reason I do this exercise is that for parents of sons, it's very important to know where you are going long-term with raising them to be good men. The qualities we see in good men are there for one reason alone - somebody raised them to be that way. In fact, there are really just two main qualities boys and men need to have: Backbone and heart.
Heart is what we most often think of first with goodness - being kind-hearted, caring, patient, helpful, warm, affectionate. And also open-hearted able to talk about sorrow, fears, hurts and concerns, in an open way. For most of the 20th century, men weren't able to do this and so were often a kind of walking time bomb, either frustrating to be around, or dangerous, since you felt their moods but couldn't talk about or work through them.The second quality that we want to and can instil in our sons (and equally our daughters of course) is backbone. Once in a school I saw a small boy stand up for his friend against some huge bullies. He was not strong or tough, but he knew that bullying was wrong, and it lent him courage. And in fact the bullies backed away, something about that small boy's moral courage got through to them. That is my idea of backbone. Doing what is right. It also includes being trustworthy - keeping one's word, showing up, being reliable. Not quitting when things get difficult. We can actively talk about these things and teach our sons how to do them. In the recent running scandals about private school boys' behaviour and attitudes towards women and girls on public transport, it seems to me that these kids had not been given these messages at home, at least not enough to stand up or stand apart from the mob behaviour. To turn out well, our boys need to be given enough love and care to be empathetic themselves.
As parents, we all have different ideas for what it takes to raise kind boys.
To be taught by fathers and mothers to treat others with respect, and see their dads doing that - being warm-hearted, being self-sacrificing, being strong and reliable. Having the conversations right from little boys (or girls) about what a good human being actually looks like, and behaves like. So one day their partners will smile and say 'I married a
good man'. And thank their parents for raising them that way. Steve Biddulph is the author of Raising Boys, and The New Manhood. He is visiting Melbourne just a few times this year, so be sure to catch one of his life-changing evenings for dads and mums. www.stevebiddulph.com
Free car seat checks VICTORIAN parents can now access free car seat fittings and safety checks. Professional fitters are inspecting child car seats to make sure they're installed and being used correctly. The free car seat fittings and safety checks will take place across council areas at numerous locations including neighbourhood houses and community centres. Parents and carers are also provided with information on how to check whether their precious cargo is travelling safely. The initiative comes after worrying data revealed around 70 per cent of child car restraints are not fitted or used correctly - making injury up to seven times more likely. Kidsafe Victoria data revealed the risk of life-threatening injuries in a car accident can be four to six times 12 AUTUMN 2020
greater if a child is seated in a poorly installed restraint. On average, six children under the age of 13 are killed and around 160 are seriously injured in vehicles on Victorian roads each year. "The data tells us that kids are far more likely to be injured if they're in a poorly-installed restraint. That's why it's crucial they are in seats that are checked by the experts," Health MInister Jenny Mikakos said. "I urge all parents and carers to take advantage of this landmark program - it will help keep kids safe and give them the important peace of mind that their children are properly secured." Parents and carers can register their interest to attend a child car seat safety check session at kidsafevic.com. au/road-safety/free-child-car-restraintchecking-program/
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Samantha Buxton pictured with her father, Richard Buxton.
THE Crescent Brighton offers fully independent living, with one or two bedroom apartments in the heart of Brighton. The village offers retirement living at its finest, with premium services, security, parking for residents and guests and extensive communal facilities. Living at The Crescent Brighton means you'll be exposed to a wonderful close-knit family of people. They value privacy as well as social engagement. Formerly known as Rylands of Brighton, The Crescent Brighton was developed by Buxton Group Retirement. Richard Buxton founded the company in 2000, when he was looking for accommodation for his parents in their aging years.
He could not find something suitable in Brighton where they were living, and so developed The Crescent Brighton.
The village is also close to major supermarkets, a cinema, medical services and plenty more.
His parents lived there for many years and it is now run by Richard and his daughter Samantha Buxton.
Despite the age of The Crescent, now 18 years old, the building continues to stand the test of time and is still presented as beautifully as the day it opened, including the beautifully landscaped and manicured gardens.
"We believe the family business is an important point of difference in an industry with many large scale operators," Ms Buxton said. "We are very hands on and personally committed to adding value to the lifestyles of our clients." The Crescent is located just 350 metres from Church Street, it is also easily accessible for public transport, as well as being in close proximity to beautiful cafes and restaurants, specialist shops, parks and Brighton beach.
Buxton Group Retirement has ensured this by consistently reinvesting back into the building through regular improvement and maintenance programs for the benefit of residents. "We have just completely renovated the front of house areas creating a new, larger hospitality space including a new bar and coffee servery, new commercial kitchen to service our bistro, new and
larger private dining room seating 16 (for private functions), new manager and staff offices, meeting room and new bathrooms," Ms Buxton explained. Unlike many other villages, The Crescent offers 7 day dining for residents and guests in the bistro, an important service to help residents feel happy and supported in a village community. Staff manage the building 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and there is also a 24-7 emergency call system for peace of mind for residents. Additional service packages can be curated by the management team. To enquire, visit https:// thecrescentbrighton.com.au/ or call 1300 204 032.
Good tech habits start young By Danielle Galvin PARENTS should develop a family tech agreement as a family when their children turn 3, the eSafety Commissioner says. A family tech agreement is a set of rules about how digital devices are used in the home. The idea is for all family members to agree to it, and keep it on the fridge or somewhere visible. "The reality is children are on devices from a younger age - they're learning to swipe before they take their first steps," eSafety Commissioner, Julie Inman Grant, said. "These rules not only provide parents with tools to help keep their children safer online, they encourage kindness when using technology and help limit potential 'tech tantrums'. "The Family Tech Agreement makes it easier for parents and carers to set boundaries around the use of tablets, TVs, computers and gaming consoles in the home. www.baysidegleneirakids.com.au
"Family discussions around the agreement can also help build a young child's understanding of networked technologies and set good online habits early in life." Rules include asking before using a device or playing a new game online, only using devices in shared spaces of the home and only talking to people you know online. ABC Playschool favourites Big Ted, Jemima and friends are heading up the new campaign, and feature in the tech agreement designed especially for young children.
Children as young as three are using devices.
"It's really important for parents and carers to model good digital behaviour in order for their children to effectively develop good online habits," she said.
"Young children are surrounded by technology, so with the help of the Play School toys (trusted friends of our audience) we're giving them the best tools to navigate the digital world to ensure they have a safe and positive experience online," Amanda Isdale, ABC Children's Development and Co-Production Manager, said.
"We encourage parents and carers to build these good habits together deciding on the right amount of screen time and setting clear rules is a great example.
Ms Inman Grant said another thing to consider is exploring the internet together.
For more information visit https:// www.esafety.gov.au/parents/childrenunder-5/family-tech-agreement
"By including young children in decision making will help them think critically about the content they watch and how they spend their time online."
An example of the family tech agreement.
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Tips on healthy eating from Susie Burrell By Eliza Henry-Jones
Banana Nut Bites PREPARING healthy food for your children - whether they're just starting solids or jetting into the teenaged years - can be difficult.
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Susie Burrell, one of Australia's most well-known dieticians, knows all the tricks in the book for getting kids to engage with healthy eating habits.
• 1 cup oats shredded coconut
Turns out, we need to start by focusing on what we're eating, particularly when we're around our children. "The most powerful thing parents can do is model healthy eating behaviours themselves," Susie says. "Next, only keep the healthy foods at home that you want your kids to eat and enjoy family meals together as often as possible." Anyone who spends time with toddlers will probably know one (or 50!) who just love white food - rice, bread and pasta. Susie, an ambassador for healthy spread brand Mayver's, notes that these sorts of foods are very easy to overeat and don't have much nutritional value. So what foods are important for fussy toddlers? Susie recommends a focus on nutrient rich lean proteins such as oily fish like salmon, which is very important for omega 3 fats, lean red meat for iron and then at least two serves of brightly coloured vegetables such as peas, spinach, carrots, sweet potato or beans every day. "Offer these foods at 1-2 meals each day to ensure optimal nutrient intake," Susie advises. "And then add some dairy, wholegrain carbs such as wholemeal bread and good fats like avocado and 100% Mayver's nut spreads, where there are no allergy concerns in the family." It can sometimes take 7-10 introductions of a new food before a
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child will accept it. Parents can help though. "Make the foods taste and look appealing," Susie says. "Let the kids see you eating new foods and as long as kids eat a few different vegetables and types of fruit, it doesn't matter if they don't eat everything you offer. It's important to let children make a mess with their food, particularly when they're very young and experimenting with new tastes and textures. Susie also recommends setting firm boundaries around food. One mistake Susie notices parents making is encouraging fussy eating. "Giving kids too much choice and letting kids snack too much so they refuse to eat their main, nutrient rich meals," Susie points out.
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Eat the sorts of healthy, nutrient rich foods you'd love your kids to eat, sit down together for meals and enjoy the family time.
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Scientists working on peanut allergy vaccine RESEARCHERS at the University of South Australia are working to develop a vaccine to cure potentially lifethreatening allergies to peanuts. The vaccine would help reprogram the body's natural response to peanut allergens. Severe allergic reactions can include impaired breathing, swelling in the throat, a sudden drop in blood pressure, dizziness, and even death. Peanuts are one of the most common food allergies and the most likely food to www.baysidegleneirakids.com.au
cause anaphylaxis or death. In Australia, there is particularly high prevalence of peanut allergies with one in 200 adults, and almost three in every 100 children affected. Dr Preethi Eldi, who is leading the project, says it has great potential to change lives. "Parents are constantly protecting their child from being exposed to peanuts in all forms - from popular breakfast cereals and school snacks, to biscuits, cakes and even health foods -
whether at home, school, or in social situations. "And, it means being vigilant and imposing very stringent dietary restrictions, not only for the child, but often, also for family members," Dr Eldi said. "If we can deliver an effective peanut allergy vaccine, we'll remove this stress, concern, and constant monitoring, freeing the child and their family from the constraints and dangers of peanut allergy."
Professor John Hayball is also working on the vaccine and explained it would trick the immune system into seeing peanut allergens in a new light, so that the body responds normally. "We're effectively reprogramming the body to see peanuts as an entity that can be cured by a vaccine, rather than an allergen that elicits an allergic reaction," he said. It is being developed in partnership with Biotechnology company, Sementis and UniSA's Experimental Therapeutics Laboratory. AUTUMN 2020 15
children come in and settle in quickly."
Education
Another important aspect of Story House Early Learning Black Rock is keeping parents and families up to date with what the children are up to. "It's about having an honest, open relationship between educators and families," she said.
A love of early learning
"Everyone is involved in everything, even our cook Margerita is always coming in to the rooms and doing cooking classes, leaving snacks out for the parents - it's lovely." "It's really like a family. Everyone contributes and it makes a difference."
STORY House Early Learning in Black Rock fosters a love of learning and curiosity for all of the children who attend.
Importantly, the dedicated educators are committed to setting up a nurturing and inviting place for children to thrive, and it shows.
Service manager Belinda Wilkins believes it's imperative the educators help to create an inquisitive and inclusive environment for the children to grow.
"The first thing I noticed and commented on when I joined the service was the team," Belinda explained.
"We've just completed a big re-vamp of all of our resources and our learning environments and it's looking really beautiful," she said.
"They have such amazing relationships with the family and the children.
Belinda believes the centre has worked hard to create a positive atmosphere for everyone who walks through the door. "The children run in at the start of the day and they never want to leave!" she said. Story House Early Learning in Black Rock believes that the value of play is of utmost importance to children as it is their way of learning about their world. "Children are so happy here and they don't want to leave!"
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The centre is located at 173 Bluff Road, Black Rock. Visit https://www.shel.edu.au/ story-house-black-rock/ or call 9598 4103.
Study into the modern day meal deal FAMILY dinners might be a thing of the past for many modern families, but a new Monash University study suggests there's great merit in a more flexible, modern approach.
children kept a video and photo log of meal times, providing researchers with a unique look into how families are coping with busy lifestyles and schedules and the impact on eating habits.
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The research found families are often eating dinner on the go, at the kitchen bench or in front of the television.
Likewise, the families interviewed gave an insight into their long work hours, busy schedules and commitments, with some children
Monash Professor of Sociology Jo Lindsay said it was time to challenge the expectations of the role of sit-down family meals.
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Supporting children’s health and wellbeing SLEEP and rest play an important role in any child's development, as well as supporting their emotional wellbeing. At Niño Early Learning Adventures, there is a real focus on supporting children's health and wellbeing in a holistic way. The Niño Early Learning Adventures Infant Specialist Training and Curriculum is a specialised program to benefit children enrolled at the centres, as well as families and educators. It is a stand alone program unique to the early childhoodservices sector. For many parents of babies and toddlers, creating good sleep associations and routines can be a tricky, daunting prospect and support can be hard to find. This program supports children to achieve lifelong benefits associated with good sleep and rest. Nicole Atcheson, Niño ELA's Infant Specialised Practitioner, explains that
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she endorses a response base gentleapproach to help children settle at sleep time, taking into account the child's emotional needs, while responding to their cues. There is also a hotline for families who are enrolled at Niño ELA centres to connect with Nicole to discuss some of their issues or concerns regarding their child's sleep or rest. It's an invaluable, free resource. "We also run parent evening sessions where parents can come along and we do a general session around difficult sleep, where parents can ask questions," she explained. "It does open the door for parents to know they are not the only ones struggling, so it opens up a bit of a network too. "We also really enhance and train our educators around safe sleeping and settling techniques so supporting them in furthering their understanding of child development and sleep."
Nicole Atcheson, Niño ELA’s Infant Specialised Practitioner, pictured with Lewis.
Training is also provided to all educators with a focus on reading baby's cues, sleep settling and infant development, as well as the circle of security, primary caregiving and the health and wellbeing of babies, in a caring and safe environment. Nicole spends a lot of time with fellow educators to mentor them about infant development, sleep and rest to support the differing needs of children as they grow. The program aims to support children both at home and at care.
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The hotline is also available for families who may be experiencing postnatal depression or anxiety, or other mental health issues where they can seek support and assistance, before being referred on to an appropriate provider. The staff at Niño ELA believe creating happy, thriving children in an inspiring, safe environment is paramount. To find out more or for centre tours, visit https://ninoela.com.au/
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people reach out to you, recognise it and (if you can) reciprocate. Go and have that cup of coffee; take your child for that play date at the park.
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Be vulnerable. This doesn't mean spilling all of your darkest secrets the moment you meet someone but it does mean putting yourself out there. Strike up conversations with people - they might be someone working at your local cafe, another parent at the school gate, someone who works with you. Ask them to grab a coffee with you. Get out there. Love reading? Join a book club. Want to learn to sew? Go to a local community house. Have a child who loves swimming? Take them to the pool. Engage with your passions and your community. Cyber-friends. Social media has been linked to our increasing sense of loneliness, but it can also help us to connect. Join Facebook groups, particularly local ones, and do a call-out for people who might like to catch up. Find other people who share your values or interests. Don't take things personally. If you're feeling lonely or isolated, it's easy to believe that people don't want to spend time with you. If a parent at the school gate says they don't have time to talk that day, remind yourself that it's very unlikely to be about you. Everyone has a lot of things going on in their lives.
Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s vital for parents to find their village, the people who make up the fabric of their lives.
How to find your village By Eliza Henry-Jones ISOLATION and loneliness are increasing problems for people in Australia, with one in four of us feeling lonely. In fact, young, single parents are particularly at risk of social isolation, with 38 per cent of men and 18 per cent of women impacted. Isolation and loneliness sometimes overlap but are separate issues. Loneliness is a more subjective and personal experience, while isolation is more quantifiable - linking to how many people you interact with. For instance, you can be isolated by not lonely, or lonely but not isolated. As parents - and people in our own right - it's vital for us to find our village, the people who make up the fabric of our lives. Finding a village for ourselves and our children can be exhausting, difficult work.
One thing to keep in mind is that people don't need to be in your life for hours every week to be important parts of your life. Think of the people in you and your children's lives as a tapestry even if people write a letter every few months, call once a fortnight or take your children out for a day in the school holidays, it all counts. It all adds up into something beautiful and vital. Where have your friends come from? Take a look at your friends - your village. Where did you make those friends? Perhaps you met them at school or grew up together because your parents were friends. Perhaps you met them at a book club or a car club or while playing sports. Perhaps you met them through mutual friends or perhaps you ran into each other at the doctor's office and started chatting. Chances are, you've made friends before and you can definitely do it again.
Where do we learn how to make friends? You've learnt a lot about making and maintaining friendships from your family. Are there similarities between how your parents conduct their social lives and how you conduct yours? Or do you seem to make friends in a way very distinct from your parents? It's useful to reflect on where your approach to friendship comes from. Making friends and creating a village for yourself and your children is not only a wonderful thing to do short-term, it also shows children how to foster and maintain healthy friendships as they move into adulthood. How can we make a village for our children and ourselves? Be open. Notice the people around you and the ones that you interact with. Put down your phone/laptop/tablet and engage with the people around you. If
Reconnect. While there can be reasons we lose touch with people, sometimes it's worth reconnecting. Reflect on the people you've been close to over the past few years and consider reconnecting with those who you'd like to see more of. This might be school friends, family or old neighbours. Recognise. We're all unique people. We might want friends who message us every day, or see us weekly, while other people might find that this is far too intense. People may not be able to support you or see you as often as you'd like, recognise that everyone has their own stories and lives and that, chances are, they're doing the best they can. Ask questions. Get to know people. Time is so precious, it's a wonderful thing to spend your time actively listening to someone and asking about their lives. Small things. Friendships need to be maintained. Send messages, write letters and make phone calls. Offer to pick up someone's groceries if they're sick, send a card on their birthday. Let people know you're thinking of them however makes sense to you, even if you don't have time for frequent catch-ups.
Storytelling a family affair for Clair By Melissa Grant YOU could say storytelling runs in the family for children's author Clair Hume. As the daughter of popular author and illustrator Alison Lester, Clair was constantly listening to stories and telling her own from a young age. However, her path to published author was a bit of a long and windy one. Clair has just released her first children's picture book, The Bad Bassinis, and jokes that she feels somewhat embarrassed about following in her mother's footsteps. "I guess she leaves quite massive shoes to fill, so the bar feels unattainably high!" she says. "But at the same time, my brothers and I grew up around stories - telling
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them, listening to them and giving mum feedback on them as soon as we could talk - so maybe a natural direction was always going to be in storytelling and writing and shaping stories." Clair says it's only through her job as a book editor that she has come to truly appreciate the work of her mother, who has authored more than 25 children's books including The Quicksand Pony, Magic Beach and Noni the Pony. "I was reading her books to my daughter a few years ago and had to call her to say, 'Wow, these stories are really good, mum!' because I'd always just taken them for granted I guess." Clair's younger brother Lachie has written and illustrated two picture books and older brother Will is also a writer. Clair, who grew up in Melbourne's southeast, completed a visual arts degree before moving to North
Queensland where she learned dive photography and did filming for a while. It was only when she returned to Melbourne and did a professional writing and editing degree at RMIT thatt she started to write more. Before having kids, Clair and partnerr Troy got a dog called Dave. The red heeler and Pomeranian cross inspired Clair's first book, non-fiction title Do You Love Dogs.
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The couple and their children (and Dave) last year relocated to Brisbane where Clair commissions the kids book list at the University of Queensland Press. However, she loves returning to where her own story started. "I'm lucky mum and dad still live in the house we grew up in. It's such a lovely gift to have your childhood home to return to," she said.
Clair Hume, the daughter of Alison Lester, has just released her first children's picture book.
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Entertainment
Swim classes for all ages The aim is to provide an introduction to swimming for those who have not had swimming classes before.
FOR any child growing up in Australia, learning how to swim is an essential, life saving skill and it is vital children learn water survival skills from an early age.
Parent participants would be providing a great role model for their children, showing that they understand how important it is to learn how to swim.
To build on their competency and confidence around the water, it is important to have a consistent approach when it comes to water safety, including in swimming lessons.
It will also give these parents more confidence when they are with their kids in water environments.
At Glen Eira Leisure, there are classes for all ages 7 days a week to fit around busy schedules.
The Little Buccaneers classes (children under three) encourage water confidence with a parent present in the water.
With over 120 teachers there are teachers to suit any student's needs. The new Aqua Play Group sessions for three to six month olds (accompanied in the water by a parent) are a great opportunity for parents to get in the water with their bub and begin to familiarise themselves with water and gain confidence.
They involve specially adapted games, songs and routines aimed at water familiarisation and development of safety and swimming skills, and they're great fun.
The sessions are led by an instructor with songs, games, submersion and floating activities.
There are numerous classes to suit children of all ages.
Aqua Play Group sessions are free come and join in on Monday (9:15am) and Thursday (9am) mornings - parents pay casual entry.
available for children from 6 months of
Lessons in the Swim School are age. Glen Eira Leisure also runs a Learn to
Swim initiative for the Culturally and Linguistically Diverse (CALD) community, which is a free 5 week course for adults who don't know how to swim.
They are held in the wellness program pool (heated to 34 degrees) which is a comfortable environment for both parents and children. If you're ready to get involved - bring your child to Glen Eira Sports and Aquatic centre to find out more, 200 East Boundary Road Bentleigh East.
What a hoot! A new chapter for Jimmy Rees By Danielle Galvin JIMMY Rees is a household name these days. He's more than just every preschooler's favourite as Jimmy Giggle on Giggle and Hoot, the ABC's longrunning show. Last year he competed on Dancing with the Stars, and he's got something of a social media following thanks to his hilarious tidbits sharing the chaos of his everyday life with three kids.
He's back on the road and Jimmyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s excited to pull on the costume.
This year marks a new chapter for Jimmy, touring around with Giggle and Hoot after wrapping up production of the show last year after 10 years on the air.
my goodness!' before quickly adding it's Tori who runs the show and has some incredible organisational skills. "For people having twins - it's like having 10 jobs at once!
He's working on some new projects as well as spending more of his days running after the three boys, Lenny, and twins Mack and Vinny. In late March he'll start touring and he can't wait. "It's always been such fun getting out and meeting people," he said. "It's going to be great to pull on the costume and get out to the east coast, Adelaide and regional Australia." This year he's thinking of taking eldest son Lenny, 4, on the road.
"I would just say do what you can, try not to get fomo because they do take over your life. Pictured with his children Lenny, Mack and Vinny and wife Tori.
year ago - like 'how do you know that person?' and I say 'well I don't, they know me!'" Lenny loves watching dad on stage. "He loves the stage and the theatre of it all," Jimmy said.
"When I travel up north I think I will take him with me, he knows what to do and there's plenty of crew to help look after him," he said.
"It's fun for him, he gets the royal treatment and gets to go backstage."
As for having a well-known, recognisable dad, Lenny's aware his dad is pretty special.
After the last show, Jimmy admits the 'waterworks started' when he thanked the crew behind the camera, and all of the memories of the past decade came flooding back.
"I think over the years he has gotten more used to it or understood other people watch the show," he said. "He started asking questions about a 20 AUTUMN 2020
Making the decision to wrap up after 10 years was a difficult one.
Growing up, Jimmy recalls being inspired by the likes of TV host Rove
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"Try get them in a routine, you benefit from it and so do they.
McManus, and an eagerness to get in front of the camera.
"My wife's Instagram has some great tips and tricks!"
These days, his life is chaotic and full of adventure and fun, although he could never have imagined how incredible his life would be and that his job title would be "children's entertainer".
On his Facebook page, Jimmy often posts about his children - the hard times and the hilarious everyday moments.
"It was such an amazing show," he said. Jimmy and his wife Tori opened up about the fact they had difficulty conceiving in between having Lenny and the twins.
One video recently showed all three boys of a morning, Lenny dancing on the TV unit and his baby brothers following suit. "It may as well be real - it's all chaos at our joint!"
Tori suffered miscarriages and eventually after two years of trying they tried IVF.
The tour won't be the last you'll see of Jimmy. He has some exciting projects in the wings, and he's always keen to reprise the much loved role of Jimmy Giggle.
Asked about any advice for anyone having twins, he laughs and says "oh
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Education
Fifty things to do outdoors with your kids AN N independent school for girls in the UK has come up with a bucket list of fun and outdoor activities for children to tick off before they turn 5. Burgess Hill Girls in West Sussex developed a list of 50 things for girls to do to get them outside, build their curiosity and love of nature, and get them away from their screens. It follows research showing that many preschoolers are spending less and less time in nature. Some of the things to do include hunt for worms or fly a kite. The school, for girls aged 2.5 to 18, has made headlines around the world with the novel idea. Headteacher Liz Laybourn told Danielle Galvin they know young children love to play on their parent's phones, iPads and tablets, and have even mastered the "swipe" action early on. "In the same vein, playing and exploring seems to be a thing of the past and children are not developing some of the most important life skills resilience, ability to failure, taking risks, adaptability, being comfortable in the environment and trying things that they have never been encouraged to do," she explained. "It was relatively easy to think of the 50 things, as many we had ourselves done as young children, and then we thought about the types of activities we now encourage our nursery pupils to do. "Our focus as a school is on outdoor learning and allowing the pupils to try real live things. "Education is best when it is alive." Ms Laybourn explained while they weren't necessarily witnessing young children being addicted to screens, it's an ongoing issue for both parents and educators.
The list of activities is aimed at girls heading into school.
"Not necessarily screen addiction but a definite lack of dexterity in their motor skills due to being used to swiping screens rather than using keyboard skills," she said. "Phones and tablets are an easy option to keep children active when out for dinner or when parents are busy. "Once they get a taste of it they just want more and more. "It can be a real challenge for parents." The school posted the challenge with a graphic on their website in January, encouraging parents to take part and share their successes. "We have created this list to encourage girls to be bold and curious from a young age and challenge themselves to try new activities." "It is specifically targeted at girls of pre-school age to help them learn essential skills before they start their first year of school." The list encourages girls to mix potions, make slime and mud pies, and gaze up at the stars. Although there's one activity Ms
Laybourn had to explain - egg rolling. "Egg rolling is when the children paint hard boiled eggs - make them truly pretty and individual and then
find a really steep hill to roll them down," she said. "A tradition in some areas of the country but great fun!"
Ten steps to get the kids to school on time By Julie Cliff IF you have school age kids you will have no doubt spent hours in the mornings yelling "hurry up, where are your shoes, clean your teeth faster, turn off the telly, hurry up (again)" and racing out to the car and swearing at the traffic. But it doesn't have to be like this. Follow these 10 steps to get to school on time with less stress and less shouting! Research 1. Know how long it takes everyone to get ready: Even if the kids have been at school for years, do a dry-run on the weekend, and time each stage - shower, dressing, breakfast, pack bag. Also time how long it takes you to drive to school, park the car and walk to the classroom. Once you know this information you can plot out your morning. The most important times being the time your
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alarm goes off and the time you walk out the door. Stick to these times and you will rarely be late again! After School 2. Unpack school bags: Each afternoon the kids need to unpack their bags as soon as they walk in the door. Put lunchbox on sink to be washed out (or straight into the dishwasher, or better still, get them to wipe it out and put it away for the next day). School work, diary and take home books put in a dedicated spot. Before bed 3. Kids to shower: Save arguments over wasted water, knotted hair and shampoo in the eyes by getting the kids to have their shower in the evening. 4. Prepare clothes: Get all school clothes out and lay on bed. Ensure shoes are under the bed (there are few things worse than looking for shoes as you are trying to get out the door in the
morning). Add underwear, socks and hair accessories. 5. Pack lunches (or at least non perishable): Add as much to the lunch as you can the night before. In theory, you certainly can pack the whole lunch including sandwiches and put them in the fridge overnight. At least spend some time on the weekend cutting up fruit - this will keep for at least three days, longer for some fruit. 6. Set the table for breakfast: Decide what's for breakfast the night before and get out plates, bowls, spoons etc along with cereal or bread. 7. Set an alarm: Parents have great success giving ownership to the kids here. Give them an alarm clock, let them figure out how to set the alarm and leave them to get up when it goes off in the morning. In the morning 8. Checklist: Create a checklist and
ensure kids tick off all their 'jobs' (breakfast, get dressed, pack bag, etc) before they are allowed free-time. 9. Time to go: Know the time you need to head out the door to the car and set an alarm in your phone with a five minute warning. 10. Parents/caregivers: Follow all of the above for yourself so that you aren't the one holding things up in the morning! Next steps? Following at least a few of these 10 steps will drastically change how your school mornings run. Julie Cliff is a Professional Organiser at Space and Time which helps busy working mothers live easier, far less stressful lives through simple, easy to implement organising systems to clear the clutter - both mentally and physically. Sound familiar? Julie would love to hear from you via info@ spaceandtime.com.au
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Fashion
High quality clothes for your kids.
New Aussie clothing label for stylish kids GROWING up in the 80's and 90's, Goldie + Ace designers Alana Tiller and Chris Kontos reminisce about a time when kids clothes were made to last. It was the time of the well-loved hand me down.
With a nod to the era they grew up in, their brand new collection 'Family Ties' takes inspiration from the fashions and the family values growing up in Australia.
That's why they created the Australian mini label in 2017, with a focus on quality fabrics, and on simple, easy to wear shapes for children.
Take a look and you'll find the coolest acid washed drop waist jeans (the Mini Mom Jean), soft corduroy overalls, colourful jersey skivvys and old school parkas (that even have zip off sleeves).
Their philosophy is quality over quantity, and they hope to continue the beloved hand me downs by designing clothes built to last.
Their mantra is simple - buy less, wear it more and pass it on - creating a shopping experience to leave a minimal footprint on our planet.
Their unique range is like nothing you'll see anywhere else, with the vision to let kids be kids, these are high quality garments available in sizes 0 up to 6.
They are committed to using only compostable or reusable packaging components.
Made using the softest yarns and dyes to care for young skin, all pieces are designed in Australia with a promise not to shrink, stretch, fade or pill. Alana and Chris are proud to work with talented local artists to develop their gorgeous, hand illustrated prints.
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"We live in a time where every purchase should be considered. Where quality should supercede quantity. A time where we all need to take a more responsible and thoughtful approach to the consumption of fashion and our children's wardrobes." To see the collection, visit https:// goldieandace.com/
You could win a $200 voucher redeemable at Goldie + Ace https://goldieandace.com/ High quality mini clothing for stylish little ones. To find out more, visit starcommunity.com.au/ competitions for details and terms and conditions.
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Reality Bites
Tips for having kids at a wedding By Danielle Galvin I'D always loved the idea of having children at my wedding. In primary school, I was a flower girl at my cousin's wedding and it was one of the most vivid, favourite memories I have of my childhood. I remember dancing the night away with my extended family, and how excited I was to have my hair up in a bun, ringed with flowers. I wore a dress made by my late aunty. When I got married in December last year, both my children, aged 9 months and 4 at the time, were there. Earlier in the year my daughter was a flower girl at my best friend's wedding, and she was one of about 10 children who attended.
or if you're looking for something more affordable, asking a teenaged relative is another idea. At our wedding, we hired a local nanny who had great reviews, and she was beautiful with my two children, and my 10-month-old nephew. It was the best money we spent, especially because my four-year-old wasn't 100 per cent on the day and found it all a bit overwhelming. 2. Have a designated play area If you search social media you'll see photos of teepees set up with toys, activities and small tables for kids to play at after the ceremony and leading into the reception. It's a great idea, especially if there are going to be lots of kids from toddler age up. 3. Buy activity packs
Gone are the days when kids aren't welcome at weddings.
One thing we learned from a recent wedding is that children don't care about speeches, as lovely as they are.
At ours, there were numerous babies and a few toddlers too.
The reception for them can often be the most tiring, boring part.
During the planning process, we thought long and hard about how to make it as easy as possible.
That's why it's great to engage them and cater to them as much as possible.
The priority was making sure they were well looked after, happy, comfortable and that we could also enjoy the day (it was 12 years in the making!) With this in mind, below are some tips if you're planning on having children attend your wedding, in the bridal party or if your kids are coming along to an upcoming wedding: 1. Hire a nanny or pay a relative or someone you trust to babysit Having someone dedicated to the children all day is important, particularly during the afternoon when people are getting ready and into the evening as they get tired. Hiring someone local who comes highly recommended is a great option,
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Activity packs with colouring in books, stickers and more is a good way to keep them busy, even if only for an hour or so. 4. Be conscious of nap times. Weddings can be a long day for everyone involved. If kids are in the bridal party and need their hair done or might be required for photos, it's always good to try and plan out the day and try to factor in a nap or at least some rest time for any children attending, before the reception. It can be an overwhelming day for them and a nap may help put them in a good mood, whether that's in a car ride on the way there or a quiet spot at the house where you're getting ready.
There's a few ways to make the big day easier on kids.
5. Stay somewhere close by. We weren't to know at the time, but booking a venue with accommodation on site was a lifesaver for our children. It meant they were all in bed by 8pm, asleep and content. It also meant that for our guests who had children in attendance, they also put their children to bed so they could enjoy the night.
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Another idea is staying somewhere close by, as opposed to trying to drive home late at night. 6. Know when to call it quits. As parents, most of us are in tune with our children when we can see they are over-tired, cranky and a meltdown is imminent.
Most had a relative stay too, to tend to the children.
If possible, if you have a young child in a wedding party who is also invited to the reception, get someone to pick them up early in the night.
Most asked a relative to stay as well on site so they could be with the children until the end of the reception.
By 8pm most preschoolers would be getting tired and ready for some down time.
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Reality Bites
Why I’ll only have two children By Melissa Meehan I always wanted to be a mum. For me it was something I felt I was born to do. I've been blessed with two beautiful girls and it's everything I ever wanted. But how do you know when you're done having kids? For me. The decision was easy. Before I met my husband I always wanted three. He wanted one. So we agreed on two, and I always thought I'd be able to twist his arm for a third. But after giving birth to my second daughter in August - I know for sure that I'm done. I always marvelled at the female body. How a woman could be growing a baby while still living her normal life, beaming with that pregnancy glow. Full house ... how do you know when you've finished adding to your family?
How to know you’re ’done’ having children By Danielle Galvin FOR some parents, the decision on how many children to have is an agonising one, very often a source of great conflict. When one parent wants just one more, and the other is adamant to be ’done’ having children. Perhaps the discussion has changed over the years, and one party is left frustrated, scared, resentful. For others, the decision appears easy. Career progression, financial burdens and many other factors come into play, and both parents are on the same page. But what about when the decision doesn’t seem so black and white? Regardless, it’s an intensely personal one to make. Ann Davidman is a renowned marriage and family therapist based in Oaklands, California who helps couples and mums decide if they want children in the first place. She describes herself as a Motherhood Clarity Mentor and says regardless of whether the woman is a mother already or not, deciding to have another child, involves the same process. Her advice is for women to start by setting aside what she calls the “external factors” clouding your judgement - whether that’s age, finances or even concerns about the
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world you’re bringing your child into. “If you’re focussed on those factors, there’s no way to figure out what you want,” she said. “That’s part of the process, identifying all those externals that pull at your psyche and put them aside. “Figure out what’s in your heart, what you really want for you.” She hastens to add that someone may want three children, but decide to have one or two because of certain conditions in their lives. But it’s important to recognise that desire in a tangible way. “When a couple already has a child and they are trying to figure out have a second, I don’t think you can have a conversation around what are the pros and cons, and how this will impact the child we already have,” she said. “That is an important conversation but the timing of that conversation needs to come after both of those people have gone to their own corners, and looked inside and (thought about) really what do I want just for me? “When they each have that clarity, they need to share that with each other, not convince each other of how they each feel, but so each person can hold and honour what the other person feels and what they want. “When both people feel like the other person really gets where they are at, then you can talk about what are the
conditions or what would have to happen so we both are happy.” Ms Davidman says the process doesn’t need to drag out, even though for many couples the battle is ongoing. “There are people who are one of three siblings, so in their mind they should have three children, so that’s more about a projection,” she said. Her advice is to know why you have made the decision - to stop having kids, or to try for another. “I have a strong opinion, that if people know why they are making a decision, whatever that decision is, they will be much happier down the road,” she said. When either parent remarks that they are “so done” it can mean different things for different people. “The subtext of ‘I’m done’ can be either I’m done, I can’t take it anymore, I’m so exhausted, it can be reactive,” she explained. “But it can also be a from a place of clarity, as much as I wanted another, I am done procreating, I am happy with the one or two children I have I want to give them everything I have, I don’t want to raise another child.” To find out more, visit https://www. motherhoodisitforme.com/. Ms Davidman has also released a book with Denise L. Carlini, called Motherhood - Is It For Me? Your Step-byStep Guide to Clarity.
I never experienced that glow the closest I got to it was working up a sweat while heaving into the nearest toilet bowl. And let me tell you. I vomited a lot - right through both pregnancies. The second was way worse than the first (despite ALL of the medication). Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) is a severe type of morning sickness that causes constant vomiting, nausea and dehydration. This meant I vomited numerous times every day that I was pregnant. It was bad with my first but my OB (helpfully after I was already pregnant with number two!) told me it gets worse with every pregnancy. This time around I was prescribed a pharmacy (that's the collective noun for numerous tablets, right?) of drugs - some given to cancer patients to help them cope with the effects of chemo therapy. And I was still sick more than five times a day. I was working two days a week in the city and doing two days a week at home and looking after a very active toddler too. It was exhausting. I was lucky that my boss saw I was struggling and allowed me to work from home when I needed. And then I went into preterm labour at 32 weeks. They were able to hold her off but I was hospitalised on strict bed rest until she arrived five weeks later. By then I was taking 20 tablets a day to minimise the vomiting, dull the nausea and keep the baby healthy and inside for as long as possible. The emotional and physical toll that pregnancy took on me was intense, and while I love my girls more than anything in the world I couldn't go through it again. It not only puts the baby's health at risk, but mine too. And for me to be the best mum I can be, I need to be able to run on all cylinders. AUTUMN 2020 25
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Seven tips for better work-life balance
By Rachel Hickingbotham
time each morning to enjoy some ritual grounding activities always equals a more productive, effective day and more connected to how you show up as a parent. Make it a habit each morning to transfer tasks from your to-do list into the block of time they are best tackled in. If you have a partner you are sharing the load with, try and schedule in a planning chat at least once a week so your social, home and kids' schedules are sorted out for the week.
WHEN you are a parent trying to work and keep everyone happy, the juggle struggle is real. While searching for solutions for a better life, I discovered that "balance isn't something you find, it's something you create, by crafting your life with purpose". These words from life coaches, Kate and Debra from Flourishing Mothers inspired me to design my own happier and more balanced life.
6. Get focused
1. Decide what 'balance' means to you The first step is to get clear on what you need and want in your life. This is where your values come in and consideration of where you are at in your life right now. Flourishing Mothers suggest that we "make sure we're giving our energies to the things that are most important to us. Because, when we live our lives in balance with what's most important, our life makes sense to us, feels 'right'. We feel satisfied, energised and motivated. And when we don't, we feel sluggish, irritable or unhappy," says Kate and Debra. 2. Write your Essentials, Important & Dream Lists ■ What are the essential, nonnegotiable tasks in your life? These could be the things that you do for your children that you cannot share and the work hours you have committed to and cannot change. ■ What are the next most important tasks or events in your week? You might include exercise, housework, meal- logistics, connecting with others and self-care. ■ Lastly, write down everything else you would like to add to your life but is not essential. This is your 'dream list'. 3. Introducing 'Block Scheduling' for your weekdays Block scheduling or 'time-blocking' is a game changer for working parents. Put simply, it is a way that you decide
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An example of a Block Schedule.
when you wear your 'parent-hat' and when you wear your 'working-hat' each day.The beauty of this daily plan is that it ensures you get your tasks ticked off each day but allows you to roll with the punches of parenting as well. It will take some time to get used to and become disciplined to stop what you are doing and move from block to block, but it is worth persisting with. Tips for creating your own Block Schedule: ■ Grab a piece of paper and divide up each weekday into blocks. It is best that all blocks are 2-3 hours long.&bull; Label the blocks whatever you like, but keep them simple such as: Morning, First Work, Lunch, Second Work, Afternoon, Dinner & Bedtime and Evening Block. ■ Take your Essentials, Important and Dream Lists and start slotting them into your Block Schedule. Start with your essential commitments, then
your important tasks and then see what time you have left over. 4. Divide and conquer If you have a partner or someone you can share the load with, now is the time to get them involved. Set up some time to talk. "Communicate your needs with your partner and work out how you can divide essential tasks, suggests psychologist and busy mum of two, Brigid Foster. Divide up the kidtransporting and meal-logistics with your partner. "Organise pickup and drop-off of kids and share childcare with your partner and friends. Utilise your supports and help them out in return," says Brigid.
"You're not doing anyone any favours by trying to do it all at once. Pick one thing at a time to focus on. There will be time for the other things later," says Claire. The key to making this system work is to focus on what 'block' you are in and sticking to your task list. Set a timer for when your planned block is ending and focus until your timer goes off. Stop what you are doing and move onto the next block. What you don't get done, you can move into your next work block. When the timer goes off, you won't always slide from one task to another seamlessly, but you will get better over time. 7. Be kind to yourself
5. Make planning a priority
Make self-care a daily consideration. "Pay attention to self-care - you can't pour from an empty cup," says psychologist, Brigid Foster. "Practice mindfulness and be present in your downtime." It is also important that you know your limits. Not everyone goes at the same pace. If you are awake in the night with a baby or have an illness, then factor in the time you need to rest and don't expect to tick off as many items on your to-do list. "Be honest with yourself about what you can achieve," says Brigid. This is when delegation and outsourcing can help.
Add 'planning time' to your essential tasks list. Business & Marketing Coach, Claire Riley suggests that you gift yourself time & space to focus and 'set up' every day. Taking some dedicated
Following these tips will not result in a perfectly balanced life, but have a go at blocking your time and sharing the load. You may soon see that over time, a more balanced life is simpler after all.
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Bronwyn is on social media as 'the everyday FIFO wife'.
my therapy. But I've been able to connect and help others not feel so alone in what is an isolating process. 3. Anecdotally speaking I've noticed a turning of the tide when it comes to miscarriage in particular. It seems to be that as women we are talking about it more, sharing it online, opening up about the pain and heartache, whereas in the past many of us would never have dreamed of sharing it online. Is this something you have noticed too? Absolutely!! And I think it's great. I think it's like mental health, people never used to talk about it! It was always pushed under the rug and people had to fend for themselves, but as time has gone on and with social media and the internet these days you can ask and find basically anything you're looking for online so there was no surprise that people started sharing these types of things online. I feel we have the internet to thank for allowing people to be so open and share their stories. 4. How are the boys settling in to the school year - your youngest just started prep? Surprisingly really good!
Bronwyn wants other women trying to conceive to never feel alone.
The everyday FIFO wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s honest approach to life ON Bronwyn Delaivuna's social media account, known as the everyday FIFO wife, she shares some incredibly raw moments of her life. The Sunshine Coast mum has opened up about her IVF journey, being a fly-in, fly-out wife of husband Tony, and her two energetic, young boys Ray and Mack, including her feelings around her youngest starting school. Last year, she shared the details of a miscarriage, just a couple of days after she posted to her thousands of followers that she was six weeks pregnant. She was inundated with similar stories, which led her to create the 'Support Mama' Facebook group for women trying to conceive. Bronwyn also shares her IVF journey with her sons. "I never shy away from showing my boys the truth about IVF, I encourage and educate them with no hesitation,
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and no question is brushed off because it might be too much for them to handle," she posted.
business account where I probably shared more about me than I professionally should have!
"They love, comfort and support me in every way they know how and I cannot wait to see the men they grow up to be."
I had a lot of FIFO wives chat to me on my business account, and so decided to create another account that was more personal where I could post and speak openly about the FIFO life but also about my anxiety and fertility struggles.
On her website, Bronwyn shared details of the miscarriage in a blog post entitled "Miscarriage - and just like that you're gone". She has dozens of comments from women thanking her. One woman summed it up well: "In a world where there is so much silence, thank you for being so loud." Here she chats to Danielle Galvin about being completely transparent, and what to say to someone who is trying to conceive. 1. Tell me about being a FIFO wife and why you started up your Instagram account! I started up my account after having a
2. You've been so honest, open and truly incredible sharing every step of your journey trying to conceive. Was it a conscious decision to share it or did it just happen that way? It honestly just happened and I think that was just from being so open with my life! I'm basically the biggest over sharer ha ha, but people could resonate and, in turn myself and the people reading my word vomit posts, felt comforted knowing we weren't alone and so I continued not just for myself as I truly believe that speaking openly is
Mack our youngest is the youngest in his class and I was concerned that we maybe should have kept him back to start the following year. But he is absolutely thriving to my surprise, which has made me so content knowing sending him at this age was a good idea. Ray. Ha ha Ray is Ray! He is so adaptable and outgoing so I didn't need to stress with him. 5. I know you've blogged in the past about what not to say to someone trying to fall pregnant. What's the most important thing to keep in mind? Being sympathetic is key I feel. Some passing words that may not be a big deal to you may be to someone else, and that's only because you most likely haven't been through what the other person on the receiving end has. So compassion is needed, but look that's not to say don't say nothing at all! Just be sympathetic of what the other person may be going through and choose your words wisely, cause I can say first-hand some comments have stuck with me even if the person didn't intentionally mean it. 6. What would you say to someone who is trying to conceive, who's been trying for a few months or a few years and who is feeling consumed and devastated by it all? Oh boy! I used to absolutely hate this word, because I'm basically the opposite of it's meaning, but patience. I have learnt a lot through our four years of trying to conceive and being a mother also, but patience is something we can hold on to because this is the journey to our destination and sooner or later your questions will be answered or that beautiful baby will be in your arms no matter how your baby was conceived.
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Mumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s incredible triplet delivery By Melissa Grant WHEN Bianca Aiono Robertson discovered she was expecting triplets, she hoped to birth them naturally. That was despite feeling somewhat terrified at the prospect of having three babies and coming off a marathon 43-hour labour with her first. Having undergone fertility treatment to have a second child with her husband Peter, a multiple birth was always a possibility. However, Bianca had only really entertained the idea of twins, so was a bit taken aback when she learned triplets were on the way.w "(I felt) a mixture of amazement, and terror - it was surreal," she said. Scans confirmed there were three babies, however an early pregnancy test strongly indicated Bianca would be having more than one. "When I did the pregnancy test it should have shown up one to two weeks pregnant because it was a day before my period was due," she explained. "It came up two to three weeks almost immediately, instead of the usual three minute wait - the hormone levels were so high. Also my progesterone had been around 30-40 at that time precisely - and this time it was 106! "And - I was so sick - within a few weeks of falling pregnant." With experience in delivering triplets, doctors were on board with Bianca's plan to deliver her babies naturally. And as a wellness coach and former athlete, Bianca was familiar with pushing her body to its limits and the power of keeping a positive mindset. However, doctors warned Bianca she wouldn't be able to carry her toddler Maverick around. They also told her she would be housebound and need a full-time carer. "None of those things happened," she said. "In some respects it was easier than the first time round because my body went from athlete to pregnant versus mother of one to mother of four - that was an easier transition." Bianca says her experience as an athlete and wellness coach helped her throughout the pregnancy - to an extent. "I have a very high pain threshold and am resilient to the point of being stubborn and a little unrealistic," she said. "It helped me in that respect, but also it still meant my expectations were a little high. "For instance, I still thought I looked like I was pregnant with one even though others thought I was huge! I was able to tolerate it until I found out how heavy I really was carrying and then that blew my mind. "Mindset plays a huge part in staying positive, and navigating through all the obstacles - so that helped a lot."
Bianca cuddles her triplets not long after their birth. Pictures: Melissa Jean Photography
Indiana came head first, Dakota was breech and Hendrix was footling extraction. Bianca said the labour - which lasted nine hours - was actually easier than she had anticipated. "I got an epidural right from the time they broke my waters so that they could manually turn the babies if needed," Bianca explained. "The hardest part was being induced with a balloon catheter - I had to be on the gas for that. "I actually expected it to be much harder but the babies were smaller, it was my second time around, I had an epidural early this time." Bianca said it was a whirlwind experience. "I guess I was also in work mode so I didn't relax and enjoy the moment too much. I only had literally seconds with the babies for the first 24 hours then I was able to cuddle them the next day," she said. "It was a total spin out holding two girls at once, talking to my son, and then realising just because I had been doing skin to skin with these babies - I still had another one to look after who hadn't had his mummy yet - that was full on!"
Pictures: Melissa Jean Photography
It was two-and-a-half weeks before the triplets went home with Bianca, Peter and older brother Maverick. With four kids under four, settling into a routine proved somewhat difficult. "It just has to be flexible and instinctive," Bianca said. "It's hard because it's very rare to have a rest - it's like they're on a string and one will wake up as soon as another one goes to sleep - and that happens the entire day."
Bianca gave birth to her three babies - all vaginally as planned - on August 21 last year at 34 weeks.
Bianca said the relentlessness and exhaustion of caring for three little babies (and a toddler), and being logistically unable to breastfeed them all like she did the first time round has been tough.
Indiana Leilani, Dakota Mereana and Hendrix Sione were born within the space of 25 minutes, weighing 2.19kg, 2.95kg and 2.2kg.
However she is loving all the cuddles, kisses and smiles her three babies bring and says the best bit is knowing how much more joy there is to come.
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Bianca cuddles her triplets not long after their birth.
Bianca and the triplets with husband Peter and son Maverick.
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Books
Teaching children about sounds By Danielle Galvin AUSTRALIAN author, Barbara Murray, is a passionate authority in teaching phonics to children, and believes it's critical in helping build a foundation for successful reading, writing and spelling. Ms Murray, a former primary school teacher and well-known author of the literacy program, Sound Waves, has recently released a beautifully illustrated boxed set of books aimed at children in the first year of primary school. The set, called Sound Stories, is an introduction to help children develop an awareness of the 43 sounds, or phonemes, that make up Australian spoken English. The Australian National Curriculum recommends that all Australian primary schools include phonemic awareness and synthetic phonics in their literacy program. Ms Murray explained that phonemic awareness is initially innate. "It comes naturally to children. They start with sounds when they are babies," she explained. "As they get to talk, they forget the individual sounds. "All you are doing is refreshing their memory of the sounds they picked up originally. "You don't have to teach kids to talk,
The boxed set is available through Barbara's website.
" I loved developing a curiosity about language in my students."
Author Barbara Murray is a passionate about teaching phonics to children.
you do have to teach them to write." Sound Stories provides a story for every sound of Australian spoken English in the one set of books, with illustrations from Sarah Hardy. Sound Waves is a resource used in classrooms all over Australia and in countries overseas. Ms Murray had been teaching the phonemic approach in her classroom for 30 years, before coming up with the idea for Sound Waves. "Teaching was my passion and a phonemic approach featured daily in all my classes across the whole primary school.
Ms Murray believes developing an understanding of phonemes doesn't have to be daunting. In fact it's quite simple. As an example, the "eer" sound is featured in a story called Tameer Nearly Disappears and follows the baby reindeer Tameer who disappears into icy water, only to be rescued by her fierce and fearless reindeer father. Words in the story and illustrations that promote the "eer" sound include Tameer, reindeer, nearly, disappears, fearless, fierce, tearful, clear and cheer. "I designed each 'Sound Story' so that delightful, engaging illustrations will entice children to observe, imagine, predict, draw conclusions and create a possible storyline as part of an open discussion with others present, before the story is read to them," Ms Murray said.
"Discussion about the words that name and describe items and actions in the illustrations and the common sound heard in these words, follows." The four books in the set are: ■ Book 1: An Introduction to Consonant Sounds, Part 1. The Bolton Boys' Balloon Adventure and other stories ■ Book 2: An Introduction to Consonant Sounds, Part 2. Robbie Robot to the Rescue and other stories ■ Book 3: An Introduction to Vowel Sounds, Part 1. Anna Ant's Antics and other stories ■ Book 4: An Introduction to Vowel Sounds, Part 2. Bertie Bird and the Earthworm and other stories The books have an RRP of $24.99 and can be purchased from bookstores. The faster and cheaper way is through http://www.barbaramurray-author. com.au/
Children’s books...
Say Cheese! Frances Watts, Illustrated by Marjorie Crosby-Fairall A trio of meerkats taking selfies is pretty darn cute to say the least. It's the kind of cover that will make you want to take a book off the shelf! Sure enough, the meerkats aren't the only cute animals in Say Cheese! The bright and colourful children's book features a host of wild animals who attend South Furriest Public School. There's plenty of fun to be had on school photo day - there are students who are too hard to fit in the frame and spots and stripes that don't go together. You get the picture! Scholastic, RRP $24.99
Daring Delly Country vs City
Ella at Eden: New Girl
Fire Watcher Phoenix
Laura Sieveking
Kelly Gardiner
Matthew Dellavedova
The story will enthral ballers aged 7+ with plenty of court action. Dellavedova (or Delly as he's widely known) draws on his own childhood experiences of playing basketball to deliver a fun read. The story centres on Delly, a determined boy who is excited to play for his local team but is thrown a curveball when a storm damages their home court. How is the team going to train for their next game in the city? Can they win?
The hugely popular book character among young girls, Ella, returns in a new format. Ella is off to high school in this title aimed at tween readers who are well versed with the Ella Diaries. New Girl - the latest offering in the Ella and Olivia series - is a great read for young girls, particularly those who may be curious about boarding school. There are lots of twists and turns as Ella goes from enjoying her new school to dealing with some unexpected dramas including insulting the school diva and tracking down a mysterious thief.
The second book in the compulsive fantasy trilogy by award-winning author Kelly Gardiner. The historical timeslip fantasy takes readers from 1941 to 1666 as Christopher Larkham tries to go back in time to find his new friends and discover more about the power of his phoenix ring. However, not all goes to plan and he finds himself in a smaller, older river port town where a Viking invasion leads to one helluva fire. How did the ring get Christopher here and how can he get back to his own time? A thrilling read for kids aged 8+.
Scholastic, RRP $14.99
Scholastic, RRP $15.99
This latest offering from Aussie NBA champ Matthew Dellavedova is a slam dunk!
Scholastic, RRP $14.99
How to Make Banana Muffins Stella Hong A personalised book that's sure to want to get your child into the kitchen and cooking some delicious banana muffins. This book is one of two new offerings from Story Antics, a unique personalised children's book offering. In this colourful and engaging book, you can insert yourself and your child into the story. Basically your child becomes the chef! The picture instructions are easy for toddlers and preschoolers to follow. You'll be inhaling those muffins in no time! Story Antics, RRP $19.99
We've teamed up with Story Antics to give away vouchers for 20 readers to purchase their very own copy of How to Make Banana Muffins, a personalised recipe story book for kids. For your chance to win, visit www.baysidegleneirakids.com.au/competitions www.baysidegleneirakids.com.au
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Mum Kelly Egginton with Lara.
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Parents Kelly and Luke Egginton with children Lara and Patrick.
Baby journey through cancer, surgery and IVF By Melissa Meehan IMAGINE being told you had three months to fall pregnant before facing a lifetime of infertility. That's exactly the news Chirnside Park mum Kelly Egginton faced, with son Patrick just three months old in her arms. Pregnancy had already been a bit of a rollercoaster for Kelly and husband Luke - they had spent more than 12 months trying to get pregnant with Patrick and had found out they were pregnant with him during a visit to the Peter MacCallum Cancer Centre. It was only months earlier Kelly's appendix had burst while she was at work, later finding out what caused it to burst was a mucus producing tumour. Weeks later she received a phone call from the doctors saying she needed to see a gastroenterologist and would likely need chemotherapy at Peter Mac. "I went to Peter Mac and they pretty much said I needed to have an operation and hypec (a type of chemo) to mop up any tumour cells that had gotten into my abdominal cavity," Kelly said. "And at the same time they would do a bowel resection to remove polyps found in my bowel during testing. "That was pretty confronting - it was big surgery and we had been trying to get pregnant with Patrick for over a year by then." So Kelly set about asking whether the chemo and operation would affect her chances of getting pregnant. And luckily, they said she would likely be on the waiting list for a while and it was OK to keep trying. By her next appointment at the cancer hospital - Kelly was pregnant. Patrick was born the following May and Kelly was back at Peter Mac within six weeks of his birth.
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"It was always in the back of my mind that I was not going to be able to care for them, play with them, change nappies, put them to bed ... but we were able to go to a Wiggles concert before my surgery."
They began all the pre-operation testing, including scans that picked up she had two tumour masses sitting near her liver. "So that was added to the list of surgery," she said. Again, Kelly asked about whether the procedure would affect her growing family.
The operation lasted almost five hours and Kelly was in hospital for eight days.
She and Luke had never discussed how many children they would have - but coming from big families they always thought it would be more than two.
They didn't find any other disease either, a relief for Kelly who had consented for them to take away any organs affected by the cancer cells.
They were sent to the Royal Womens' Hospital IVF clinic armed with questions - and were told the type of chemotherapy Kelly would need could gravely affect their chances of becoming pregnant. "They said the chemo could destroy, or affect my uterus and ovaries," Kelly said. "It might ruin my eggs, my uterus all of that, they couldn't guarantee that it would 100 per cent be fine. "So we had to go back to Peter Mac and they gave me the OK to try again for three months to get pregnant - but it had to be with full on IVF." So with a newborn in tow, Kelly and Luke started their IVF journey. They went straight into a stimulation cycle but Kelly got pretty sick from that through ovarian hyper stimulation, which meant they couldn't do a transfer in the first month. They were able to harvest 14 eggs, 10 of them fertilised and three made it to day four for freezing.
It was a success.
"The recovery was pretty hard - the operation was on December 3, 2018 and I started to feel OK between Christmas and New Year," she said. Kelly Egginton.
So faced with her final month, and two attempts that were unsuccessful Kelly tried again. "It was a fair bit of pressure. Early on I was thinking 'this is good for my babies to be further apart?', but as we got to the last month I thought to myself 'I'll go back to Peter Mac if it doesn't work and ask for one more month'," she said. "The second time - it was upsetting, I was quite upset about it but I had a cry and moved on." Kelly had her third and final transfer in November and was successful. Lara was born the following July and Kelly was back at Peter Mac six weeks after she was born. So with two kids under two, Kelly and Luke started another journey - her treatment and recovery.
She had her first transfer on 9 October 2017 and received a positive pregnancy test soon after.
By September she was told there was no delaying the surgery and she would need to have treatment before the end of the year.
But her HCG levels didn't rise high enough for doctors to be happy, so she stopped medication and had in effect a miscarriage.
"It was confronting, even though I knew it was coming, I had this new baby in my arms and we were talking about major surgery," she said.
"It was hard." But Kelly says she couldn't have got through it without Luke. "He was amazing. I only saw him once in the eight days I was in hospital and then I went back to hospital for another four days because of fluid around my lungs," she said. "I didn't see the kids which was hard but I knew they were being well looked after by Luke so I wasn't worried about them." Lara was still very young, but Patrick was a little clingy to Luke when Kelly returned home. It took him a little while to warm to his mum again after Dad had been the sole carer for so long. Kelly is now fighting fit and has been given the all clear. "It was a bit of an emotional rollercoaster - but its just part of my journey," she said. "I don't feel too emotional about it - but I think having two kids sped up my recovery and that was great." For now Kelly will continue six-month check-ups at Peter Mac and hope the surgery and chemotherapy has done its job.
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Kids Calendar
What's on
this autumn
Tickets via eventbrite.com.auRippon Lea Estate & Gardens, 192 Hotham Street Elsternwick
MARCH 28 BLACK ROCK FARMERS MARKET
APRIL 14
Royal Avenue, Sandringham (next to Bayside City Council Offices)
AUDITIONS FOR ZINK THE ZEBRA
8 am - 1 pm
Would your child love to perform in a play? Dramawise Academy is now casting for their advanced production, Zink the Zebra. Children aged 10-14 are warmly welcomed to join our cast for a full theatrical production in October
MARCH 28 MARCH 28 - APRIL 19 EARTH HOUR MOVIE SCREENING
The Lorax is about a 12-year-old boy on his search for the one thing that will enable him to win the affection of the girl of his dreams. To find it, he must discover the story of the Lorax, the grumpy yet charming creature who fights to protect his world. 2pm-4.15pm, Glen Eira Town Hall Tickets are $5 per person (children aged under one year are free). Bookings are essential. www.gleneira.vic.gov.au/our-city/ whats-on/earth-hour-movie-screening
FLOWERS GO KABLOOM
There is something for everyone at Chadstone these School Holidays. For more information visit chadstone.com. au or connect with us @chadstone_ fashion on Instagram. www.baysidegleneirakids.com.au
Every year a picture book, written and illustrated by an Australian author and illustrator, is read simultaneously in libraries, schools, pre-schools, childcare centres, family homes, bookshops and many other places around the country.
Hear the story, sing songs and participate in a simple craft activity.
357 - 359 Monbulk Road, Silvan Tel: 9737 7722
FREE TRIAL OF CHILD & TEEN DRAMA CLASSES
Brighton & Beaumaris Library: 10:45AM - 11:30AM
APRIL 8
These classes offer children and teenagers the perfect opportunity to explore improvisation, drama games, puppetry, storytelling and selfexpression.
PYC BIRTHDAY BLOW OUT Peterson Youth Centre is turning 20 in 2020 and Bayside Youth Services is hosting a big birthday party to celebrate.
This event is aimed at young people and their families aged 10-17 years old with a connection to Bayside.
Chadstone’s celebration of dance and physical performance extends throughout Saturday evenings with breaker battles hosted by Australian hip hop trailblazer and ARIA awardwinning N’Fa Jones, as well as thrilling performances that defy the laws of physics by internationally renowned Gravity & Other Myths. Plus, be inspired by as local dance groups take the stage each Sunday.
NATIONAL SIMULTANEOUS STORYTIME
APRIL 15 & 16
Giveaways plus much more!
Train with The Australian Ballet School or bust a move at a Hip-Hop dance class these School Holidays! Free classes are available daily, suitable for children aged 3 - 16.
Bookings required.
Auditions: Tuesday 14 April 4.15pm6pm in Glen Iris / Malvern.
The free event includes the following complimentary activities; unlimited bubble soccer, a rock-climbing wall, young musicians from Bayside, popcorn and fairy floss.
LET’S DANCE
12.30PM
Expect the unexpected at Tesselaar KaBloom, Festival of Flowers this autumn Enjoy a carnival of colour and a brilliant family day out in Melbourne's Dandenong Ranges at Tesselaar KaBloom, Festival of Flowers. Expect the unexpected as there is nothing quite like Tesselaar KaBloom; a spectacular show where circus arts and flowers collide.
Held in the second week of school holidays, it's the perfect way to celebrate Victorian Youth Week.
MARCH 28 - APRIL 9
90-92 Bignell Road, Bentleigh East.
MAY 27
4th Saturday of the month
Come along to a screening of The Lorax followed by sustainable craft activities. We will make bug hotels and seed bombs.
Community Room
Please contact Youth Services on 9599 4622 or via email: freeza@bayside.vic. gov.au. 12 PM - 4 PM, Peterson Youth Centre, Highett Rd, cnr Highett Rd & Peterson St, Highett,
APRIL 12 EASTER FUN DAY AT RIPPON LEA ESTATE Easter Bring the family, a picnic basket and your keenest eyes for a widespread Egg Hunt through every corner of the gardens at Rippon Lea Estate. Please note the hunt is from 10am to 3pm. There will be fairground rides, jumping castles and outdoor games, and the Mansion will be open hourly for all to explore. Plus, stay on the lookout for our Easter Bunny Team, who'll be guarding our giant Rippon Lea eggs.
For more information and to book your audition, Email dramawise.academy@ outlook.com 0432 995 488 www.dramawise.squarespace.com
Wednesday 5pm ages 6 to 12 Thursdays 6pm ages 12-15 Classes begin April 15 and 16 in Caulfield South For more information and to book your free trial email dramawise.academy@ outlook.com 0432 995 488 www.dramawise.squarespace.com
APRIL 26 BAYSIDE TALENT MANAGEMENT SCOUTING DAY
So come and join us in turning the pages of Whitney and Britney: Chicken Divas by Lucinda Gifford with the rest of Australia.
Hampton Library: 10:30AM - 11:15AM
MAY 31 BUMBLE BEE BABY AND CHILDREN'S MARKET Bumble Bee Baby and Children's Markets are excited to announce our upcoming market at Hampton Community Centre. With up to 40 stall holders you are sure to snap up some bargains on new, handmade and preloved baby and children's goods for all ages! At only $2 entry for adults (children < 12 yo free ) and plenty of free parking it is the perfect Sunday morning outing! Hampton Community Centre, 14 Willis St, Hampton. 9am-12pm
Bayside Talent are on the lookout for some fresh faces 0-15yrs to both top up our numbers & compliment the talent they currently represent. This is a free event, but places are limited, so book your session now! The Studio Melbourne, 2/31 Isabella St, Moorabbin VIC 3189 Register for your free session: https:// www.trybooking.com/BIYZR If you have any queries, please contact the office on 03 9773 3783 or office@ baysidetalent.com.au
MAY 15
JUNE 30
PAEDIATRIC FIRST AID AND RESUSCITATION (PARENT AND BUBS SESSION)
AN OPPORTUNITY TO SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILD AND MEET OTHER DADS IN A RELAXED SETTING.
Paediatric first aid and resuscitation is a three-hour course which can provide you with the skills to save your child's life. Moorleigh Community Village -
Glen Huntly Maternal and Child Health Centre, Corner Royal and Rosedale Avenue, Glen Huntly. 9.30AM - 11.30AM AUTUMN 2020 31
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