WINTER 2021
Tribute for mums by
SAMUEL JOHNSON Boroondara mum’s
UNIQUE VILLAGE Snow trip tips from
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Make the most of winter I CAN always tell winter is here when my jacket-hating, summer-loving five-year-old tells me she’s cold of a morning. As a tot she refused socks, shoes and warm jackets. She’d happily play at the park in the cold wearing shorts and t-shirt while I shivered in my puffer jacket and beanie, hugging my hot coffee for warmth. So when she finally relents and wears a puffer jacket and boots instead of skirts and sandals, I know it’s time to get the heater on and the fluffy winter socks out! This winter edition we’ve got a really interesting mix of stories for you. We’ve got some big names, including actor Samuel Johnson. You may recall Samuel created Love
Your Sister, a ‘million strong village’ of Australians committed to vanquishing cancer.
shares her beautiful birth story with me, I get to know about the Canterbury Toy Library, and more.
Well Samuel is now paying tribute to mothers with a book called Dear Mum. Ninety celebrities share heartfelt and intimate tales of appreciation of their cherished mothers.
As Melburnians, most of us have pretty sad and grey memories of winter last year in lockdown.
At 58, celebrity Gretel Killeen truly believes the best is yet to come. With a colourful and diverse career this whip-smart Aussie icon is most famous for her eight years hosting big brother, as well as being a stand-up comedian and author.
So with that in mind, let’s not hibernate (unless you want to of course!)
I caught up to chat about her latest hilarious and profound book, My Daughter’s Wedding.
We always love to hear about new ideas for stories in our great community.
I know we are all hoping this winter won’t be the same.
But rug up, get out when you can! Enjoy our wonderful Melbourne. Don’t forget to keep in touch via our Facebook and Instagram.
There’s also a few local stories sprinkled in there too: a local mum
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CONTENTS IT’S YOUR LIFE What a village looks like PAGE 3
Photography Rob Carew
Pregnant women and HG
Inspiring girls to choose STEM
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HEALTH
Childcare fees set for an overhaul
Why screen time can be good for families
Talking about birth trauma
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Best is yet to come for Gretel Killeen
New research into common childhood surgery
PAGE 4 Cooking preppy-style PAGE 4
Advertising Manager Mandy Clark
PAGE 26 Help to find your local school
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Born to party
Cover
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Fun in the snow at Mt Buller
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PAGE 17 Shining a light on endo PAGE 18 Preparing for birth
ACTIVE KIDS
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Mud pies should be on the menu
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DENTAL
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Great snow trip tips for families
Oral health lessons for kids
ACTIVITIES
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Local activities
Modern Orthodontics Burwood
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FASHION
A playgroup for young and old PAGE 5 A piece of Canterbury’s history
PAGE 7 Local mum shares birth story PAGE 8 Samuel Johnson’s collection of mum letters PAGE 9
EDUCATION Supporting teens heading into exams PAGE 20
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Mental health program coming to schools PAGE 20 Early education at St Catherine’s
Gracie Jiu Jitsu keeping it REAL
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A world of difference at Discovery Bay
The science of baby talk
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Co-teaching model at Preshil
Quality toys at Windmill
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PAGE 12 Have a whale of a time at Phillip Island
Catching up on learning after Covid chaos
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Boroondara mum’s
UNIQUE VILLAGE
Fashion to keep your child comfy and snug
Snow trip tips from
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REALITY BITES Double trouble for Federal MP
Social media junior PAGE 34
BOOKS
Tackling teen anger
Born ready to face puberty
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Teaching kids financial literacy
Children’s books
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The rise of the e-baby generation
KIDS CALENDAR
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What’s on this winter
Exceptional outcomes at Andale School
Letting stuff go just like a teenager
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What a village looks like Fran Portet noticed a gap in the market and decided to bring back the village. Picture: Rob Carew
By Danielle Galvin
might want to be.”
IT’S often been said that parents these days have lost the village.
Fran, who had worked in media and marketing, was beginning to see a gap in the market.
But it’s also true that there are new and different ways to connect with each other more than ever before. For Boroondara mum Fran Portet, she realised about six years ago that the village is still there. But these days, it’s spread far and wide. At this time, her 20 weeks pregnant sister-in-law, who lived in Sydney, was diagnosed with cancer. Here in Melbourne, Fran felt helpless. “It turned out the most helpful thing we could have done was to hire them a deep freezer, which we did,” she explained. “Because so many people had been dropping food off, they had this massive influx of food, which they really did need but not all at the same time. “When you are far away from people it’s hard to be as helpful as you
The same was true when a friend also received a cancer diagnosis, and the wider friendship group rallied together, bringing food and trying to offer practical help. And then again, for another friend, this time with a very sick newborn. It was here that Fran got the idea to bring back the village. Eighteen months ago, she started building ‘It Takes a Village’, a website which delivers collective support-giving and gifting in one destination. Six months ago, she turn the website on. You start up a Village for someone, send the link around to the rest of the friendship or family group to contribute to, and the recipient gets an email at the other end to redeem their Village credit with any of the ‘helpful service providers or sustainable product providers’ on the site. Fran recalls when she’d search for the
‘most helpful things to give a friend with cancer’ or ‘sustainable gift for pregnant friend’ she’d be presented with lists on Google. Many of the ideas were similar and practical: offer to walk the dog, hire a cleaner, cook a meal, go over and do some laundry. “I thought, wouldn’t that be amazing if you could click ‘buy’ at the bottom of that listicle and the give them that village of support that allows them to redeem the things they need,” she said. “It didn’t start as a business idea in my mind, I just kept noticing this gap. “I couldn’t find anything at all that was similar or the same.” It’s also meant to help out the ‘organiser’ of any friendship group, the one who always looks after the gifts. “This is meant to be helpful on both sides of the equation, so your contribution or your help or your gift to your friend is as easy as a click, with the money collating together,” she explained. “And at the other end where it’s
received, it’s so much more than money, it allows them to choose the things they actually need or want.” Fran, who has two young kids and is pregnant with their third, knows all too well that the most useful gifts for a new mum are the practical ones. “Before I had children I was always giving size zero Dunlop volleys [as baby gifts],” she said. “There’s so much gifting that’s beautiful but not so useful or helpful and ends up in landfill.” There’s not just cleaners or healthy home meals you can choose from, there’s also dog walkers, family photographers, pregnancy support services, mobile massage, and more. On her website, Fran has a simple message. “Being there is easier than you think.” Visit https://www.yourvillage.com. au/ to find out more. Fran is also keen to hear from local suppliers who want to get involved. Visit https://www.yourvillage.com. au/ to find out more.
Screen time can actually be good for families WOULDN’T it be nice to harness your child’s enthusiasm for the television or iPad into something more productive and positive? Well, experts say parents can use this to make their family stronger. “Families often struggle with the balance between healthy screen time and family time together,” Associate Professor Julie Green said.
for parents looking for screen time tips and tools. The resources are based on evidence, approved by experts and cover topics ranging from getting the balance right on screens, to using screens to help children learn. “Enjoying time together is one of the key ingredients for family cohesion,” Prof Green said.
Prof Green, executive director of the Australian Government-funded parenting website raisingchildren.net. au, said screens don’t have to divide parents and children.
“Watching videos and playing digital games with younger children and teenagers is just as valid for building relationships as doing other activities if that’s what everyone enjoys.
“They can be used as a force for good too. Sharing screen time with your child is a social thing to do,” she said.
“As with any activity, though, it’s important to find a balance - and parents can help their children do this by encouraging them to get outside and enjoy physical activity and face-to-face time with friends and family. It’s also good to remember that screens aren’t recommended for children under two.’”
“It shows you care about things that matter to them - and this sends them an extremely powerful message.” raisingchildren.net.au has developed a comprehensive suite of new resources www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
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Best is yet to come for Gretel By Danielle Galvin LOOKING back at an incredibly diverse career, Gretel Killeen is confident the best is yet to come. She’s known for her books, her TV career, and for her no nonsense approach and comedic flair. She truly is in a league of her own. Here, she answers questions on her new book, My Daughter’s Wedding. I’ve heard you say you’ve been obsessed with the relationship or the love between mothers and daughters - how intense, complex, fraught it is that’s so true! Particularly around weddings and big events. I also really appreciate a book or a show that’s focussed on the relationship between women. It’s more common these days but the relationship between the significant women in our life can often be the most important. Have you had this idea for a long time? Yes, for as long as I can remember I’ve been fascinated by the power of women, their intellectual and emotional strength and their extraordinary capacity to love. I’m intrigued by every facet of the mother daughter relationship as these pillars of strength both collide and support. But, please note, this novel is also a comedy. Tell me about the central characters in the story and how they intersect (without giving too much away, of course!) My Daughter’s Wedding is about mother-daughter love over three generations, but it’s also about the hilarious, safe and sometimes ridiculous
support we receive from our friends, and our connection to our extended family. The lead characters are the mother (Nora living with mother guilt and anger), her daughters (Hope and Joy, one has a massive unexplained chip on her shoulder, the other is far too kind) and the grandmother ( Daphne, who’s living with increasing dementia.) The close friends are Soula (an amateur bikini-line waxer) and Thilma (whom they found in a cab in the 1980’s). I believe you’ve said My Daughter’s Wedding doesn’t draw on your own personal life events particularly, is that right? My Daughter’s Wedding only draws on my personal life in that I am both a mother and a daughter. I’ve found in writing this novel that the frustrating, beautiful and complicated bond that exists between mothers and daughters seems to be universal, so I added my imagination to the theory and focused on the broader picture. Are there more stories/novels in the pipeline? Yes, I’ve written many books in my life. The novel I’m currently writing is about - well, the meaning of life. I remember reading My Life is a Toilet when I was young (and loved it) - you really have had an incredibly diverse career. And of course some will know you for your work as an author, your time on Big Brother. Is there anything you’re most proud of, or a piece of work you look back on, as your best? Thank you. I’m proud of a great deal of the work I’ve done, but I think my best is yet to come.
Gretel has a new book out exploring complex relationships between women.
For mothers of young girls - what do we have to look forward to? I’m often told the teenage years don’t compare to the toddler years. Which I find interesting! Ah, you have some very interesting years ahead of you. In my observation ‘the toddler years’ are largely about a little person who is frustrated by their lack of independence, learning to express themselves as they discover boundaries. The teenage years can be that very same issue- but the teenager now has words, adult energy and power, and that can be mind-blowingly overwhelming. For the benefit of all of us our children need to develop their independence, but the process can be really painful ( especially for the mothers.) ps. Good luck and have faith, all will be fabulous in the end.
Cooking, preppy-style THERE comes a time when every littlie wants to ‘cook something all by themselves’. It’s almost a rite of passage that parents either welcome as a bonding experience and a chance to teach; or dread, because of the mess, danger or time/effort involved. So it’s mighty handy to have a recipe at hand that doesn’t need an oven, cooktop or sharp knives, is easily supervised, and is a treat in school lunch box or as a healthy snack.
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• A few drops of vanilla essence • 2 tbsps chocolate chips • Desiccated coconut METHOD: 1. Place broken up biscuits in a large sandwich bag and crush fine. 2. Add muesli, wheat bran, flax seeds, peanut butter and chocolate chips. Mix well. 3. Knead mixture well into a dough using your hands. 4. Divide the mixture into 10 equal portions and roll out each into a ball
No-bake cookies
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Residents at BlueCross Darnlee chat via Zoom to the kids involved in the playgroup.
A playgroup for young and old By Melissa Grant THERE’S a playgroup in Toorak that’s bringing generations together. Each fortnight at aged care facility BlueCross Darnlee, residents and children interact via video over Zoom. They play games, sing nursery rhymes, and have show and tell time. The online all ages intergenerational playgroup started in March and will go face-to-face when it is possible to do so.
The Zoom sessions bring much joy to the residents and families involved.
The sessions are scheduled for half an hour, however it’s not unusual for them to run overtime because of the fun being had by all. Show and tell time is a big component, with children and residents eager to share what they’ve been up to. Residents often share their art, craft work and personal photos, while the kids love showing off their toys. There’s also ‘get to know a resident’, a segment where a resident, with the help of staff members, talk about their life including what they used to do and whether they have children. The interaction between the generations is beautiful to see. Bluecross Darnlee Leisure and Lifestyle Coordinator Divya Babu said there were playgroup sessions taking place inside the aged care facility but that all changed when Covid hit. “When we had kids coming in face-to-face from the local kindergartens or schools, we’d have 20 of them coming in,” she said. “But with the world we are living in, we’ve had to go online which has been really hard but it makes a huge difference for the residents - seeing them (kids) on the screen. “They read stories, sing songs, talk about their days.” Divya says there are four families regularly involved in the Zoom www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
Elizabeth Wilman, aged 14 months, enjoys the fortnightly sessions.
playgroup sessions, with the ages ranging from 12 months to four years. Typically between three and five residents take part in each fortnightly session, which is a real highlight on their social calendar. “It’s good to see the residents waiting for them (the kids) to come online - it’s beautiful,” Divya said. “I believe intergenerational connection is very important these days.” South Yarra toddler Elizabeth, aged 14 months, is among the kids whose faces appear in the fortnightly Zoom calls. Her father, Ryan Wilmann, says it’s lovely to see the interaction between generations. “Elizabeth loves it, not just with the oldies but with the babies that join. She loves seeing other babies on there,” he said. “As soon as you see your kid’s face and the older generation look into the camera, you see them want to pinch their (child’s) cheeks virtually.” Ryan said his partner signed their
family up for the virtual playgroup after finding out about it online at a time when mum groups were unable to catch-up due to the Covid lockdown. The family are looking forward to one day meeting the aged care residents in person. “It will be good to go and see them,” Ryan said. “I can’t wait to be able to go there and let her (Elizabeth) roam.” Maureen Hatcher of Playgroup Victoria says the virtual playgroup started after the organisation was contacted by BlueCross Darnlee. “The aged care facility reached out to us some time ago,” she explained. “The feedback from staff is that it has been amazing - that’s when you realise that there have been so many changes in the residents.” The intergenerational playgroup is one of a growing number popping up all over Victoria and the rest of the country. The benefits of these playgroups are plain to see. They encourage friendship across the generations, reduce feelings of isolation that often come with ageing,
build respect between generations and allow the elderly to share their wisdom with the parents and children involved. Playgroup Victoria believes in the idiom, ‘it takes a village to raise a child’ and that this is captured in settings where multiple generations come together to learn, play, connect and have fun.In addition to the intergenerational playgroups where show and tell is a big component, there are also intergenerational playgroups with a baby focus. While doing some pilot programs, Maureen discovered that aged care residents love seeing babies on computer screens. Maureen was visiting a facility where an Italian-born resident was quite upset until she came into the room for the baby intergenerational playgroup. “Her face changed - she started saying bambino, bambino,” Maureen recalled. “It was so beautiful to see.” If you are a family or part of an aged care facility keen to start an intergenerational playgroup, contact Maureen on mhatcher@playgroup.org. au BlueCross Darnlee is also looking for some volunteers to run its fortnightly Zoom sessions. If you are interested email Divya at DarnleeLL@bluecross. com.au WINTER 2021 5
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A piece of Canterbury’s history Helen Dudley, the president of the Canterbury Toy Library. Picture: Rob Carew
By Danielle Galvin THE beginnings of this local Boroondara gem aren’t entirely known. The Canterbury Toy Library is located next to Canterbury Gardens and is operated out of a beautiful old period building that was originally home to the Canterbury public library. “It has been operating since at least 1983 so coming up to 38 years of operation this year,” President Helen Dudley explained. “Unfortunately we don’t have complete records but from what I can tell things have changed a lot since the beginning. “Many toy libraries begin with a group of parents wanting to share toys, they would often be completely volunteer run. We’ve heard from past committee members who borrowed from the toy library as children that it was originally run from the garage of a local committee member before it moved into the beautiful building we share today. “In the past the toy library has had large committees made up of local
parents working together to provide a service for the local community unfortunately the days of large volunteer committees have slowly changed and we operate at the moment with a small group that work together on the future direction of the toy library and all of the day to day operations.” These days, like many community organisations and venues, it’s changed significantly. “We have a small membership of around 60 members which makes it a great place to meet new people local to the area,” Ms Dudley said. “These days we are also very lucky to have a paid staff member that keeps the toy library running each session and the support of Boroondara council and many others that provide grant funding so we can continue building our collection of high quality toys for all to share and borrow.” After 2020, like many local groups and organisations, the committee had to change the way they’d always run it in line with restrictions, and had to close during the shutdowns. “We operated a click and collect
service so members were able to reserve toys for the first time and we had a committee volunteer at the toy library at one stage disinfecting each toy that was returned by hand which you can imagine was a mammoth task,” she said. “Thankfully this year we are almost back to operating as usual with a few ongoing restrictions in place it is much more manageable. “I think some of the benefits during the COVID era were being able to return and borrow new entertainment options from puzzles and board games to active play toys that can be used inside or in the backyard. “We have just recently purchased a new range of board games and active play toys that are being enjoyed by families at the moment, it can be a lovely weekend activity choosing a new board game to play together.” Last year, they were thankful to receive their first grant funding in recent years from the Bendigo Bank, Maling Road and City of Boroondara. “We are very grateful for their support that allowed us to rejuvenate our collection during a difficult year which
gave families and children something to look forward to borrowing the new toys when restrictions allowed during lockdown,” Ms Dudley said. Next year, the toy library will be moving to a new purpose built space in the Canterbury Hub, which will mean they will be able to open on weekdays, too. For Ms Dudley, it can be hard to put into words how truly wonderful the toy library has been for local families. “For children I think it brings a world of choice, a space where parents can say yes and kids can choose to borrow based on their current interests - from space to dinosaurs, play cafes, trains, scooters they can explore something new each week if they choose or borrow different versions of old favourites. “For parents it’s a lovely welcoming service where you can meet others in the same stage of life, save space in your home and getting involved in the running of the toy library can be a great way of meeting new friends that live in the same area.” To find out more, visit https://www. canterburytoylibrary.com.au/
How to make a fairy garden By Carole Levy
bedroom or on the kitchen window ledge.
MANY kids discovered the fun of growing things during lockdowns, with families kicking off veggie patches or doing fresh plantings to spruce up their yards.
FAIRY GARDEN IN A POT 1. Lay down newspaper or tarp to create a potting area.
Getting outside and putting hands in soil is always a joyful experience but not so much during winter. When it’s cold and rainy outside, kids can still get into gardening indoors. It can be simple and rewarding and maintains their connection to growing and nature. Here’s one idea that not only will the kids enjoy but it will look great in their 6 WINTER 2021
2. Three-quarters fill a wide bowlshaped pot with potting soil 3. Get cuttings of different types of succulents - just snap a piece off an existing plant and it’s ready to just pop into the soil. Getting the succulent collection is part of the project - browse through gardens of family and friends to snaffle different types. Three to four varieties will be plenty for effect.
4. Collect pebbles in different sizes and shapes to ‘decorate’ on top of soil. This is another part of the project that will keep the kids engaged. 5. They can also ‘paint’ some pebbles with craft glue, then sprinkle with glitter for a bit of drama. 6. Get some tiny fairy figurines - from $2 shops - and any other ornament the kids like, then arrange the garden. 7. Lightly water - succulents don’t need a lot, and are very hardy so not likely to disappoint by keeling over too soon. 8. Job done! Kids proud. Mum or dad supervises the clean-up - the only downside.
When it’s cold and rainy outside, kids can still get into gardening indoors. www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
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Great snow trip tips for families IF you’re already a snow family you can possibly skip this as you know just how good family time is on the snow and you’ve already booked your winter escape by now! However if the skiing caper is new to your tribe, we asked the team at Mt Buller for tips on how to get your gang sliding on snow with the minimum of fuss. ■ Plan ahead - booking everything in online and well in advance is a must. Not only will you get the best price, you can bundle everything from resort entry and parking, accommodation, rental equipment, lift passes and lessons into one convenient online purchase. You have the reassurance of the Covid Refund policy and can then relax knowing it’s all locked in! ■ Embrace the mid-week and off peak - if you can, skip the weekends and make the most of quieter days in resort (and cheaper prices). You’ll have more of the mountain to yourself, better access to lesson times and will feel like a local. ■ Give yourselves time - Mt Buller is an easy 3-hour drive from Melbourne and it’s brilliant that it’s possible to make a day trip, but staying the night is so much better - especially with small kids. Give yourself time to unwind and explore more of the village, enjoy the convenience of having a cosy room for quick clothing
changes, warm ups and time to give those ski legs a rest. Part of the fun is seeing the sunset, treating yourself to a family dinner and taking time to soak up the whole experience. ■ Mix it up - of course skiing and snowboarding will be high on the agenda but there is plenty more you’ll want to squeeze onto the list! Meet the sled dogs for a photo shoot, browse the shops for cosy winter gear
and souvenirs, bounce and climb in the Buller Air Zone, see a movie at Australia’s highest cinema or take a snow shoe tour and explore the village trails. ■ Spring into ... Spring! Many of us think snow is only for winter but Spring is the best time for families with more sunshine, consistently good snow cover, better value and a bustling calendar of fun events like
Pond Skim, Eighties Day and Grand Final festivities. September on the slopes is seriously good fun and might become your favourite time to visit! Mt Buller makes planning a snow escape easy with lots of information at mtbuller.com.au and even has a handy First Time Visitor Guide (search First Time Mt Buller to download it). So the only question now is - can you keep up with the kids on skis?!
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A positive birthing experience By Danielle Galvin AS Boroondara mum Nancy prepared for the birth of her first child, she thought about learning how to breastfeed and getting through labour. It was difficult to imagine, like it is for many first time mums, how it is that you can manage the pain of birth and how breastfeeding will go. It can be an anxious lead-up to the birth, and it’s often the fear of the unknown that runs at the heart of it. “For me it was the birth and breastfeeding was what I was most worried about, things you couldn’t control or didn’t know how it was going to go,” she explained. Nancy did a hypnobirthing course with Lisa Simpson, who runs Breathe and Birth, to help prepare for the birth. She said it helps give you the tools to stay calm. “The way they talk about it kind of
was due, she said don’t worry so much about the birth most people go back for more than one,” she said. Nancy actually went into labour on her due date, and went on to labour for just over 24 hours, with the first stage stretching on for quite some time. “We did all of that at home kind of using the hypnobirthing techniques, and using the TENS machine as well,” she said. Nancy shared her birth story for her first baby.
gets into your head,” she said.” “Contractions are surges that bring you closer to your baby.”’ Overall, Nancy is happy to share her birth story as a largely positive experience. A few weeks after the birth of her son, she couldn’t recall the pain, and moreover, couldn’t even describe it. “Someone actually said to me, a family friend, a couple of weeks before I
“I think it was just a nice distraction to have. “I was kind of texting the midwife throughout, giving her updates. “And it got to a point where I thought I am in too much pain, but my waters hadn’t broken.” When she’d decided she had enough and it was time to go to hospital, it was the change of scenery, from the car to the hospital, that helped give her the energy for the next stage. A few hours after arriving, a midwife
performed an exam and Nancy’s waters broke. “From there it went really quickly,” she explained. “That was kind of the turning point, he was kind of ready.” In the end, after pushing for what seemed like a long time, her baby boy was born. Nancy had in her birth preference that she had wanted to try for a natural birth. “I was a bit surprised, I went to hospital thinking I needed something, and by the time I got to transition and got to pushing it didn’t even occur to me.” She’s grateful she was able to stay at home for so long safely with her partner and she’s happy that mostly it went to plan. She’s also happy she found hypnobirthing which helped give her some tools too.
New program shows kids how to save water By Melissa Grant STONNINGTON and Boroondara kids are becoming ‘water watchers’ as part of an educational program making a splash in schools across Melbourne’s eastern and northern suburbs. Students are learning about water waste in the classroom and applying what they’ve learnt at home with the help of free interactive water saving devices and solutions. The lesson that every drop counts is an important one. In the last five years alone, our water usage has risen about 10 per cent. Melburnians are now using an average of 161 litres of water per person per day - that’s enough water to fill 4764 large cups of tea in just one week. It’s hoped the educational program, run by Yarra Valley Water, will help drive down those figures. The program is called Water Watchers and it involves visits to
Kids are learning to be ‘’water watchers’’ as part of a Yarra Valley Water education program.
primary schools from water crusaders named Welly, Washy, Wavy and Wade. The four water crusaders have begun visiting schools across Melbourne’s east, and recently went to De La Salle College in Malvern. Students are taught about where
water comes from, how people consume it and why we all have a role to play in saving it. Many leave the fun education sessions with the desire to change their water consumption behaviours at home and in the wider community.
As part of the program, kids have access to a 3D mini-series and digital platform that takes the effort out of saving water at home by encouraging fun and entertaining ‘missions’ for kids, driven by a fictional squad of intergalactic water crusaders. Parents are also able to sign up to receive a biodegradable, 100 per cent natural rubber ‘ring’ tap attachment modelled after Welly, Washy, Wavy or Wade, who remind residents to use less water. Yarra Valley Water Managing Director, Pat McCafferty said The Water Watchers program was all about making water saving a fun and positive experience for families. “The Water Watchers provide customers with an easy, environmentally friendly tool that can kickstart water-saving habits that will last a lifetime” Mr. McCafferty said. To view The Water Watchers videos or to sign up for a device, visit www. yvw.com.au/Water-Watchers
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It’s a collection of letters from notable Australians to their mums.
A collection of mum letters HE’S unconventional, disarmingly genuine and charming. Samuel Johnson, who created Love Your Sister, a “million strong village” of Australians committed to vanquishing cancer, has brought together 90 celebrities and well-known Australians for ‘Dear Mum’. He invited them to write a letter to their mums and it’s emotional, funny, brilliant.
Samuel answered some questions with Danielle Galvin at the end of his promotional tour for the book, which raises funds for cancer research. Firstly congratulations on the new book. I really love the idea of asking people what they’d tell their mums. Everyone’s relationship with their mums is so unique/complicated isn’t it? Is this a call to action that we all need to go and have a chat to our mums if we still can? We know that we love people. We throw
around “I love you“ without a second thought. But how often do we take the time to really explore why we love someone? Exactly why. Or precisely how? Writing a letter, honestly and from the heart, inevitably opens a can of worms. You discover feelings you didn’t know you had. Stuff that’s been bottled up for years. You gain appreciation and insight. And the recipient is invariably left richer, and the letter invariably has a great impact. We like to be valued or the right reasons, especially by those closest to us. It’s been a truly cathartic experience for each and every contributor. Even if your mum is lost, like mine, and will never read the letter, it still helps to express it all. I’m immensely touched that many of our readers have given this book to their mums with their own letter inserted. The proverbial bus might hit us tomorrow. I’d rather die knowing my loved ones knew exactly how I felt about them. And letters just mean more. It’s like having a poem or a song written about you. Recently you visited the Mornington Peninsula, and I saw a good friend’s mum got a photo with you! I went on to
the LYS Facebook page and there were dozens of other people who you happily posed for photos with, and you look genuinely happy to meet people and hear their stories. Has this been a part of the Love Your Sister journey you love? I’ve visited over 1200 towns during my tenure as Head of Cancer Vanquishment at ’Love Your Sister’ and it’s my face time with other families that fuels my work and provides a sense of belonging that I never felt in showbiz. People think it must weigh heavy, given the horrific effects of cancer on families, but sharing our stories is never a tax, always an honour and energises me in ways that are hard to explain. Is there a story/letter in the book that will particularly surprise/touch readers do you think? Guy Pearce’s letter to his mum, lost to dementia for 22 years now, is the letter that will never leave me. They all leave their mark, but Guy’s letter is indelibly etched into my soul. That letter isn’t going anywhere. I’ve heard you describe the book as a wonderful montage for all kinds of mums. Even though we know mums can be flawed, complicated. I thought was so beautifully said. I can imagine collating the book was incredibly difficult at times too - such an emotionally charged topic? Thankfully, our contributors respected my request for complete honesty, which, delightfully, means this collection of letters is an intricate of real mums, as opposed to some Hallmark tribute to the idea of mums. It’s what I’m most proud of about this book. It’s a true tribute.
Unleash your child’s creative voice GIVE your child the gift of channelling their energy into joyous, confident, healthy self-expression, in the creative and social environment of NIDA’s Melbourne-based Winter Holiday program. Whether your child is five years old or 15, choose from a wide range of NIDA courses that will unlock their unique self-expression: from musical theatre to stand-up comedy, drama school to vlogging/tv presenting. Watch your little one delight in their
newfound performance skills in Mini Pop Stars, or for those young action movie fans in search of a mission, try Rogue Force Academy. Courses start from Monday 28 June at NIDA Melbourne in Southbank, as well as multiple offsite venues, including Abbotsford Convent and Wesley College, St Kilda campus. Book early and save! Enrol your child with NIDA four weeks’ in advance this Winter and you’ll save 10% with an Earlybird discount.
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Daughters and inner signs Girlhood is wonderful, but we need our ‘weapons’ sharp, writes STEVE BIDDULPH. WHEN we first learn that our baby-to-be is a girl, we have a flood of emotions. Joyful ones and, also sometimes, anxious ones. Because you can’t help but be aware that the world can be a very bad place for our daughters. For most of my life as a psychologist, I was campaigning about raising boys. But in the mid 2000s we began to notice something bad happening with the mental health of girls. Some of it was in the way girls’ lives had changed with social media and the huge emphasis on looks and general pressure to grow up too fast. Those were taking an enormous toll, and it started shockingly young. But some of it was the old evils of a world that had always misused girls and women. Sexual predation, sexism and violence often terrify the parents of daughters as they move beyond our protective sphere. In my talks on Raising Girls I tell the story of two girls - Kaycee and Genevieve. Kaycee is only 14 when she attends a party of one of her school friends, which has very poor supervision and lots of alcohol. A 17-year-old boy from her school persuades her to have sex with him in an upstairs bedroom. She then discovers that he has done it for a bet with his friends, and is crushed
and humiliated. She tells no-one for many years. Genevieve is more fortunate. She meets a boy at 16, and for many months has the beautiful time we all would want for our kids, knowing how special young love can be. But he begins to want to have sex, and she is wildly confused. Luckily she is close to her mum, which Kaycee was not. And so she tells her mum all about it. Her mum listens for a long time as she pours out her feelings. Then she does something rather wise and amazing. She says “sometimes our body knows what is right for us, even when our brain is mixed up. Our body sends us signals”. Instantly Genevieve can relate to this - “You’re right - I love being with him, but when he comes on too strong, I feel squashed and uncomfortable. I don’t want to rush into having sex”.
When I tell this story to an audience, the women in the room visibly nod their heads. They know what I mean - our bodies do know what is right for us. Whether that is a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’.
life, and the migraines ended and have never come back. Somewhere inside her ‘knew’.
In a new book I have just finished writing, called Fully Human, I go deeper into this idea, from the latest neuroscience, that we have physical signals - a kind of ‘supersense’ even further down than our emotions, which knows when we are safe or in danger. It is our deepest self, below all the conditioning which girls receive to be polite and agreeable and think of other people’s feelings first. It says ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to everything around us. One friend of mine in her 40s had suffered from a migraine every week since she married, and then one day discovered that her husband had been having an affair all those years. She booted him out of her
Our body knows what is right for us. We have to change the way boys and men treat girls and women but, in the world as it is now, hearing inner signals is a powerful weapon that you can encourage your daughter to sharpen. And you can do it at any age.
Neuroscience shows we all have this ‘intuition’ but mostly don’t listen to it.
Steve Biddulph’s new book is Fully Human - a new way of using your mind, published by Pan Macmillan. www.stevebiddulph.com Steve Biddulph AM Author - 10 Things Girls Need Most, Raising Girls, Raising Boys. Complete Secrets of Happy Children, The New Manhood and Fully Human
A fabulous lifestyle right on your doorstep MARTHA Bay, a community for modern retirees from RCA Villages, offers its residents a wonderful combination of lifestyle and security, all set in an ideal location for loved ones to visit and share the joy of exploring the beautiful Mornington Peninsula region. Located in popular Mt Martha, the village is fast taking shape, with only a couple of stages left to be sold. The sophisticated Clubhouse with amazing facilities including a gym, lap pool and lawn bowls green is due to open in October.
And to scratch the cultural itch, there’s The Briars, the National Trustmanaged historic Beleura House & Garden, and amazing Baluk Art Gallery with aboriginal art to explore - all less than 10 minutes afield.
If plans are afoot to visit grandma and grandpa who have already taken up residence at Martha Bay, families can kick back for a while in the luxe villa which is enticing in itself, but there’s so much to see and do in the wonderful surrounds. Mount Martha Beach, considered one of the best on the peninsula, is five minutes by car down the road, while Moonlit Sanctuary Wildlife Conservation Park (where crocodiles and other creatures roam) and Boneo Discovery Park’s mazes, giant games garden, mini golf and jumping castle are both within a 20-minute drive. And the iconic Arthurs Seat chairlift is just 15 minutes away. Kids sorted. Residents will have a plethora of choices to make holidays a roaring 10 WINTER 2021
success, with plenty less than 20 minutes away. There are wineries galore for fun and food in the sun, the nearest Mont Rouge estate (15 minutes) and just a bit further afield, Red Hill Estate and Polperro Winery - with others in between. On the trip, check out farm-gate produce.
Mount Martha is home to many eateries. Donato cafe is directly across the road for brekkie and lunch, Milkbar & Co is five minutes away for brunch, while highly regarded Volpino Pizzeria & Wine bar and sophisticated Assaggini Wine Bar & Restaurant are similarly close.
Martha Bay’s lucky residents have these choices on their doorstep yearround, as well as more than 30 towns spanning Seaford to Portsea, where boutiques and antiques and hot springs beckon. And if they want to head overseas or travel around Australia, they get to return knowing everything is left secure and maintained. Beautiful villas and apartments are available now with a choice of designs to suit. Martha Bay by RCA Villages, 111 Craigie Road, Mount Martha. Enquiries: 1800 998 990 or www.marthabay.com. au www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
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Gracie Jiu Jitsu keeping it REAL GRACIE Jiu Jitsu Burwood’s Keep it R.E.A.L. program is all about teaching your child the skills to recognise bullying behaviour, share and manage in the moment.
Science tells us that babies love baby talk
It stands for: respect (everybody), educate (the bully), assist (the victim) and lead (the way). The purpose of the bullyproof classes is to teach children verbal assertiveness, control and defence and to give kids the knowledge that they are stronger and more capable than they may know. Most martial arts programs rely on striking the attacker with violent punches, kicks, knees, and elbows, but in the Gracie Bullyproof program, they take a different approach. It teaches children how to diffuse confrontations with words and never to initiate physical aggression. “We will teach your child to use verbal assertiveness to deter bullies and several non-violent self-defence techniques to stay safe if physically assaulted,” Robbie Singh, head instructor at Gracie Jiu Jitsu Burwood, said.
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“Instead, we use leverage-based control holds to neutralise threats without violence. “The bottom line is: we will prepare your child to defend themselves against bullies without turning them into one.” If you’re interested learning more, visit https://graciejiujitsuburwood.com. au/ for more information. Gracie Jiu Jitsu Burwood is located at 2/5-13 Sinnott St, Burwood
“And, of course, learning a language earlier helps you learn it better, so bilingualism is a win-win.” The study took place in 17 labs worldwide, with babies ranging in age from 6-9 months, both bilingual and monolingual babies. Babies would sit on their parents’ laps while recordings of an English speaking mother using baby talk or ‘adult directed speech’ would play.
New research out of UCLA’s Language Acquisition Lab, alongside 16 other labs around the world, found that babies do indeed pay more attention to baby talk. It’s especially poignant for families who are multi-lingual.
Researchers measured how long each baby looked in the direction of each sound.
“Crucially for parents, we found that development of learning and attention is similar in infants, whether they’re learning one or two languages,” Megha Sundara, a UCLA linguistics professor and director of the Language
“Baby talk has a slower rate of speech across all languages, with more variable pitch, and it’s more animated and happy,” Ms Sundara said. “It varies mainly in how exaggerated it is.”
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Quality toys WINDMILL is well known for providing quality educational toys & equipment to generations of children since 1977. The shop recently compacted into one of its original two shops but they still carry a huge range of products and go a long way back into their warehouse. With the sudden Melbourne lockdown providing the right product to suit the particular child is of great importance.
online when they can’t see the products in real life. The staff at Windmill are always happy to offer product advice over the phone. They have been frantically trying to put most their great products on their website: www.windmill.net.au. They have also been preparing for their annual mid-year sale that runs from June till the end of July.
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and craft materials and kits. Windmill has also gained a great reputation with parents and physios for providing products for Children with particular special or individual learning needs or handicaps. These include toys with tactile, auditory and visually stimulating qualities such as: Teslas USB powered Lamp, a range of sensory products and products to improve fine motor and gross motor skills such as Bilibo, a rocking and spinning plastic rounded shell or seat wedges for improving posture and pencil grips and more.
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3 Point Motors - 60 Years In The Making Celebrating 60 years of being the destination for Mercedes-Benz On June 1 2021, 3 Point Motors celebrated 60 years as the destination for Mercedes-Benz in Melbourne. Proudly family owned and operated by the Campbell family for three generations, 3 Point Motors has come a long way from humble beginnings. It started back in 1947 when Ray Foo and Charles Kellas started a panel repair business in North Fitzroy. At the time, it would have been inconceivable that a thriving successful Mercedes-Benz dealership would emerge from their fledging two man smash repair business. In 1951, they were approached by Standard Cars who were the importer of Mercedes-Benz vehicles at the time to assist with any required body repairs. Their workmanship was well-respected, as such, Star Motor Panel Works were approached by Mercedes-Benz to form part of the Dealer network in Australia. In June 1961 under the name of 3 Point Motors, they were named an authorised Mercedes-Benz Dealer.
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Have a whale of a time on Phillip Island Whales arrive in Phillip Island waters during winter.
WHAT’S so special about being on Phillip Island during winter? Witnessing the arrival of Humpback and Southern Right whales into the coastal waters. Pack up the family and explore the Phillip Island and Bass Coast Whale Discovery Trail, featuring some of the finest vantage points in the region. Grab some warm clothing and a pair of binoculars, head out to one of the fantastic lookouts and trails from Phillip Island to Inverloch, and marvel at the area’s stunning landscapes along the way. Those wanting to get closer to the marine giants can join one of the Wildlife Coast Cruises whale and dolphin boat tours that circumnavigate the island in search of whales.
Join one of the Wildlife Coast Cruises whale and dolphin boat tours.
The Cape Woolamai Beach Lookout offers a good vantage point.
Join in the local celebrations of the arrival of these majestic creatures with a range of special events from 11 June and the Island Whale Festival weekend 2-4 July.
Local community and visitors alike have the opportunity to engage with a range of activities that will not only entertain but also allow you to appreciate the wildlife and natural habitats of Phillip
Island and the Bass Coast region. During the festival, choose from various activities and events, including talks, workshops, whale spotting, whale cruises, comedy dinners and more! Stay up to date with the latest announcements, including program and booking information at islandwhales. com.au Follow the action on Facebook and Instagram at @islandwhales. Book your winter whale escape and explore more things to see and do at visitphillipisland.com.au Remember to look after the coastal environment by watching out for wildlife on the roads and by keeping to the designated tracks.
Explore the WHALE DISCOVERY TRAIL, iconic bays, headlands and beaches as you go in search for whales from spectacular coastal viewing points or join a Winter Whale Cruise. Discover special events from June 11 and the Island Whale Festival weekend July 2-4.
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Immunisations made simple
SOME pregnant women in Australia are missing out on medications to treat severe nausea and vomiting by pharmacists and medical practitioners due to misleading labels and a lack of understanding about what’s safe.
MANY new parents and caregivers say it’s a daunting task to find out about Victorian immunisation requirements when enrolling children into childcare, kindergarten and school. The Boroondara Families online hub is home to our immunisation dates calculator which helps parents find their child’s immunisation requirements, book immunisations and learn more about how immunisations can protect children from diseases. Developed in collaboration with the community, the Boroondara Families online hub is a one stop shop for local parents and care givers when it comes to raising children. Boroondara Families helps you: ■ See which immunisations your child needs, and when they need to get them using our custom-built immunisation dates calculator. You can also add these important dates to your device’s calendar. ■ Learn about the kindergartens in your local area and understand how kindergarten works. Use our kindergarten dates calculator to see when your child can start based on their date of birth.
Pregnant women feel HG symptoms ‘trivialised’
The Boroondara Families online hub is a helpful resource for parents.
■ Find local childcare that suits you and your family’s needs from long day to occasional care. ■ Browse our database of local children’s playgroups, sports, and other activities by age, location and activity type. ■ Find resources to help navigate some of the challenges of parenting. Get your child’s immunisation schedule today. Visit Boroondara Families at www.boroondara.vic.gov. au/families. Boroondara Families was Highly Commended in the Customer Experience Achievement of the Year category at the 2021 MAV Technology National Awards for Excellence.
A new study of 249 women who suffered from severe nausea and vomiting during pregnancy (NVP) or hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) examined their experiences during pregnancy. One in four women reported being denied medications for NVP and HG at some stage during pregnancy. This most commonly involved the over-the-counter medicine doxylamine and interactions with community pharmacists. Caitlin Kay-Smith, co-author and founder of the consumer organisation Hyperemesis Australia, explained more. “HG is a severe form of NVP and affects 5-10 per cent of pregnancies. Research shows that women with HG have a higher risk of negative maternal and fetal outcomes, but these possible harms are poorly recognised. This means that ensuring women have access to safe and
effective treatments is really important.” Associate Professor Luke Grzeskowiak, a Hospital Research Foundation Mid-Career Fellow at Flinders University and SAHMRI, said some women felt their symptoms were trivialised and their suffering wasn’t heard. “Underlying explanations for women being denied access to medications can include a lack of provider awareness of clinical practice guidelines, misleading labelling produced by pharmaceutical manufacturers (e.g. most doxylamine packaging states not to use during pregnancy), or genuine concern or uncertainty regarding the fetal safety of specific medications with or without consideration of the benefits of treatment.” There are calls for the Australian Therapeutic Goods Administration (TGA) to consider following international efforts aimed at improving medication labelling laws, such as the Pregnancy and Lactation Labelling Rule introduced by the Food and Drug Administration in the United States.
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Time to talk about birth trauma By Melissa Grant WELCOMING a child into the world is meant to be one of life’s most joyous events. However, for many women and families childbirth is an upsetting experience that leaves lasting physical or mental scars - or both. In fact, one in three Australian women describe their birth experience as traumatic. It’s also estimated that between 10 and 20 per cent of first-time mothers sustain a long-term physical injury from childbirth.
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It’s not uncommon for women to experience incontinence, constant lower back pain, sexual dysfunction, pelvic floor injuries and pelvic organ prolapse.
Then there are others, according to Amy, who seek support but have their concerns dismissed. Amy says while birth-related trauma is often minimised by medical professionals, many women feel like they haven’t been given adequate information to prepare for birth.
Some suffer from psychological birth trauma, including anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder. If the prevalence of birth trauma sounds shocking or surprising that’s because it is somewhat of a taboo topic. There’s a strong narrative that women should be grateful for delivering a healthy baby, which often stops them from sharing their traumatic birth experiences or getting help. Antenatal classes don’t tend to discuss the possibility of birth trauma most focus on the pregnancy, labour and breastfeeding. In a recent episode of Insight on SBS, a mother of three explained how she had never heard of prolapse until she had one. “This wasn’t to be expected, I didn’t expect it, I didn’t know about it,” she said. Pelvic organ prolapse is when one or more of the organs in the pelvis - the uterus, bladder or bowel - slip down from their normal position and bulge into the vagina. It can be severe but not uncommon - more than half of all women who have given birth experience some level of prolapse, according to the Continence Foundation of Australia. Yet too many women suffer in silence. However, the Australasian Birth Trauma Association (ABTA) is working hard to change that. The charity is dedicated to supporting
Amy Dawes and her daughters Eliya and Indi.
women, partners and families after birth-related trauma.
along in their healing journey.
It provides peer-led support for those affected, while raising awareness about the types of trauma and the help available. The association was co-founded four years ago by Amy Dawes, an Australian mother who suffered a birth injury from the forceps delivery of her first daughter, Eliya. Amy sustained a third-degree tear but thought things would get better on their own. She had no idea of the extent of the damage until her daughter was 16 months old. Her pelvic floor muscle had been pulled off the bone and she was diagnosed with pelvic organ prolapse, a condition she’d never heard of. “I was a qualified personal trainer and I knew nothing of how crucial the pelvic floor is to how the body should work,” she said. “When I was diagnosed I hadn’t heard of prolapse.” There were also indications Amy was suffering from acute stress disorder as a result of her diagnosis. She sought support from a psychiatrist and, crucially, was introduced to other women who had suffered similar birth-related injuries but were further
“I got to connect with other women going through the same thing,” Amy said. “When I got through the initial shock of the diagnosis and worked towards getting mentally better, I wanted to help other women.”
The majority of mums who have sought support from the association said their antenatal classes didn’t discuss what happens when birth doesn’t go to plan and possible interventions, such as forceps or cesareans. “The attitude that we can’t scare women, it’s not working,” Amy said.
One of the main things the ABTA provides is peer support. There are more than 2500 women in the association’s private support group, where birth trauma stories are shared.
“Statistically, one in five Australian women need an emergency cesarean, and one in three require assisted delivery. They are really big stats - we need to be informing women.”
“The group supports women who have had babies weeks ago, months ago, years ago and even decades ago,” Amy explained.
The ATBA runs an annual awareness week dedicated to shining a light on birth-related trauma.
“We support women who have had vaginal births, vaginal birth with interventions, emergency C-section, planned C-section, epidural or not... no matter how ‘normal’ it looks from the outside, you can still feel affected by it.
The theme of this year’s awareness week, from July 19-25, is Better Healing. People are invited to take part in the annual ‘walk n talk’ event to start the conversation and fundraise for the ATBA, which relies solely on the donations of generous supporters.
“Incontinence, for example, can impact women regardless of the mode of delivery. Many women think ‘this must be my new normal’ or when they do seek help they are told ‘you’ve just had a baby, what do you expect?’
The social media hashtags are #starttheconversation #saferbirthsbetterhealing #walkntalk.
“Many parents are so busy caring for their kids that they just think they should put up with it or don’t even realise that they can seek support.”
“The more we raise our voice the harder it is to ignore.”
“There is power in sharing the stories and reducing the stigma,” Amy said.
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New research into common childhood surgery PARENTS of children who’ve had their adenoids and tonsils removed will tell you that the surgery can be lifechanging. It’s commonly picked up when children snore, breathe with their mouths open, an show aggressive and hyperactive behaviours during the day. The recommended treatment is an adenotonsillectomy - the removal of adenoid and tonsils. But new University of South Australia research suggests while the surgery can cure a child’s snoring it doesn’t change their behaviour. That’s despite many parents and doctors believing it does. The researchers looked at children’s behaviour at six months, two and four years after an adenotonsillectomy for clinically diagnosed sleep disordered breathing disorder (SDB). The study was conducted in
partnership with the University of Adelaide and the Women’s and Children’s Hospital. Comparing them to a group of non-snoring children, the study showed improvements to children’s sleep and quality of life, but not their behaviour. Lead researcher, UniSA’s Professor Kurt Lushington, the lead researcher at UniSA, said it shows the realistic expectations following surgery for parents “As most parents would attest, when a child has a bad night’s sleep, their behaviour reflects this the next day,” Prof Lushington said. “But when their sleep quality is affected by snoring, parents often hope that by fixing this problem, they’ll also fix any associated behavioural issues. While I’d love to advise the opposite, this is not necessarily the case. “Our research shows that a child’s
quality of life improves following an adenotonsillectomy, which is clearly linked to a more solid, less interrupted sleep. But when it comes to behavioural difficulties, we did not see any significant changes.” But interestingly, many parents still reported improved behaviour, probably in part due to their child finally getting a better night’s sleep. “In clinical practice at a child’s post-operative review, many parents report major improvements in behaviour and attentiveness,” Prof Lushington explained. “No doubt this is reassuring, but it’s probable that other factors are at play - most likely more sleep for the whole
family and less worry from the parents, that together translate as a calmer, more attentive and emotionally responsive environment during the day. “Beyond this, there is evidence to suggest that intervention much earlier in life may help. We may be leaving surgery too late.” “Previous work conducted by UniSA found that an adenotonsillectomy at younger age of 3-5 years - may be important. Our previous work has suggested this too, so there is scope for further research. “At this point, ensuring parents are fully aware of what an adenotonsillectomy can and can’t achieve for their child, is vital.”
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Health
Shining a light on endometriosis By Danielle Galvin
“There are many factors contributing in the delay in diagnosis, normalisation of symptoms by patients just thinking periods are meant to be painful,” Ms Ciccia said.
IN recent years, endometriosis has been making headlines. But experts say there’s still a long way to go to getting women diagnosed quicker, and getting the funding, research and attention it deserves as a debilitating condition. Endometriosis a relatively common disease in which the tissue similar to that of the lining of the womb grows outside it. While it affects around 11 per cent of Australian women, often starting in the teenage years, there’s still a long way to go to break down the stigma. The pain, often dismissed as ‘bad period pain’ can be incredibly debilitating for sufferers. CEO, co-founder and director of Endometriosis Australia, Donna Ciccia, said the organisation was founded in 2013 in the hopes of raising awareness about endometriosis and to normalise the conversation. “It’s because of ambassadors such as Emma Watson the Yellow Wiggle and Olympian Emily Seebohm and many more, that we have been able to gain attention and increase awareness about endometriosis with patients and the
“Endometriosis is a multifactorial disease and it can affect many areas of your life from basic bodily functions like urination and defecation and intercourse to mental health and wellbeing.
Endometriosis can be a terribly debilitating disease.
general public,” she said. “Even though awareness has increased I don’t think the understanding of the gravity of living with endometriosis has reached everyone.” Shockingly, there are often long delays in getting diagnosed, sometimes between 7-10 years. According to the organisation, symptoms vary hugely from pelvic pain, fatigue, pain around ovulation or during your period, pain with bowel movements, pain during or after sex, heavy or irregular bleeding, pain when you urinate and having trouble holding on when your bladder is full. Ms Ciccia said sometimes women aren’t believed or are dismissed when they seek medical help.
“Endometriosis impacts on every facet of your life and for a very long time.” Unfortunately there’s still some misunderstandings about endometriosis, particularly for teenagers and younger women getting the help they need. “It is still common for stigma to be attached to periods and period pain, our latest free webinar on adolescents explains that is not uncommon to have period pain as a teenager but it should ease as you age,” she said.
“If pain or painful periods puts your life on hold please seek help,” Ms Ciccia said. “There is a wonderful new tool on our website by RANZCOG called RATE and this screening tool may help explain to your GP what is happening for you and help plan a treatment plan going forward.” In March, Tasmanian MP Michelle O’Byrne told parliament the normalisation of period pain means women often won’t seek help for 2-3 years. She said a lack of education in GPs could also add on a couple of years to a woman getting diagnosed. “There is now a national action plan which outlines a road map to overcome these diagnostic obstacles. “The annual cost of endometriosis in Australia is $7.4 billion.”
“It is not common to have severe incapacitating pain and we do know teenagers are not too young to have endometriosis.
As part of Endometriosis Awareness month back in March, buildings around Australia were lit up in yellow as part of an awareness campaign.
“I think the stigma surrounding periods stops many, not only teenagers from seeking help.
“If you are one of the one in nine women around Australia impacted, don’t accept living in pain is a normal thing, seek help.
If you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms, it’s time to seek help.
“And the rest of us must be good allies for those who live with endo.”
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understand their bodies, prepare, and recover, including the important 6 week post-natal check-up. At Fitwise, they also provide 60 minute private Birthwise classes, that teach physical birth skills. It is relevant for both your first pregnancy and subsequent pregnancies. These antenatal classes go over breath techniques, positioning, partner support skills and relaxation key skills to enhance your birth experience and ensure you are prepared. If you are interested in any of the services listed, or if you have any questions, contact the practices on 9822 4999 (Armadale) or 9486 0512 (East Melbourne).
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DENTAL
Oral health lessons for kids ORAL health lessons are being launched in early learning centres and schools as research shows little more than half of Australian adults brush their teeth twice a day.
who only brushed once a day, 12 per cent thought brushing more often wasn’t good for the teeth, while 37 per cent said they didn’t need to,” Dr Chinotti said.
The Australian Dental Association and SugarByHalf are behind the new suite of lessons that integrate oral health into mainstream learning.
“And 29 per cent of those who didn’t brush twice a day said this was because it caused pain and discomfort - which points to a very real need for these people to see their dentist.
An ADA survey conducted late last year found only 53 per cent of Australian people were brushing their teeth twice a day. ADA Oral Health promoter Dr Mikaela Chinotti said the research uncovered some concerning trends.
“These results show there’s still some way to go, and education forms a large part of that.” The suite of lessons use the purposebuilt storybook Guardians of the Gums, which has been produced in collaboration with Cool Australia.
“Worryingly, of those respondents
The lessons will be used by teachers to integrate oral health into everyday maths and science lessons, aiming to help kids make nutritional food and drink choices for early learning through to Year 2. These lessons allow for oral health to be taught in schools Australia-wide, in alignment with the national curriculum. Other findings from the 2020 ADA Adult Oral Health Tracker which demonstrate the need for greater education include: ■ Only a quarter of adults floss at least once a day, with 31 per cent reporting to ‘never’ clean between their teeth. ■ Two-thirds of adults aren’t aware that
medical conditions such as asthma, diabetes and heart disease can impact on, or be impacted by, their oral health ■ 13 per cent of parents reported their children drank soft drink daily, while 39 per cent consumed soft drink 2-5 times per week. Just one can of soft drink takes people above the recommended daily sugar intake and can contribute to tooth decay and weight gain ■ 10 per cent of parents report taking their child to the dentist only when they have a problem, and 60 per cent do so every 12-24 months ■ 32 per cent of people aged above 15 have untreated tooth decay
Bringing smiles to patients every day MODERN Orthodontics in Burwood was founded by specialist orthodontists and husband and wife team Dr Larry Li (Ching Fan) and Dr Kyoko Hibino. Larry and Kyoko have both been in the dentistry field for more than 20 years, and in orthodontics for more than 12 years. Larry prides himself on being a caring and friendly orthodontist, with a passion for the profession. “My favourite part is meeting with people (patients, team members and colleagues) and being able to bring smiles to everyone at the end of the day. That would make me smile,” he said. Kyoko is gentle, friendly and enjoys
providing orthodontic treatment to children, adolescents and adults. “I had my orthodontic treatment when I was a teenager and it improved my confidence tremendously. “It made me realise the importance of having healthy and straight teeth and how dentists and orthodontists can help people achieve that. “Since then, I have been interested in the field of dental health especially orthodontics and I want to help people achieve the smile they want.” Modern Orthodontics is located at 1 Leonard St, Burwood, call 1300 367 678 or visit https://www. modernorthodontics.com.au/
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Education
Supporting teens heading into exams A healthy mindset is all they need.
AS the end of the year creeps up and Year 12 students begin to prepare for their final exams, many parents worry about how best to support their teenagers. Australian parenting website Raising Children Network has some simple tips to look after the wellbeing of the whole family in what can often be a stressful period. Executive Director of Raising Children Network, Associate Professor Julie Green, says parents of teenagers can support their children through exams by encouraging the following good habits: Sleep Good quality sleep helps your child to concentrate and remember things vital for exams and exam prep.
Conversely, poor sleep or not enough sleep affects concentration, memory and behaviour, making it harder for your child to learn. Encourage a regular bedtime routine in a dark room and electronic devices switched off. Wind-down time Encourage ‘wind-down’ time to provide a relaxing buffer between studying and bedtime. Relaxing activities might include a warm shower, writing in a journal, reading a book or magazine or listening to quiet music. Exercise Physical activity has lots of benefits, including assisting with stress and helping sleep patterns in the evening. Encourage your teenager to keep up
with their normal sporting/exercise activities, where possible, during the study and exam period. Even a walk around the block in the fresh air can help. Nutrition One of the most nurturing ways you can help your teenager through the study and exam period is to provide nutritious meals and healthy snacks during the day. A healthy diet includes lots of fresh fruit and vegetables, dairy, nuts and grains and proteins such as eggs, meat, legumes and fish. Try to avoid processed foods high in fat, sugar and salt. Caffeine Ensure your teenager avoids caffeine (found in energy drinks, coffee, tea,
chocolate and cola) in the late afternoon and evening as this can disrupt their sleep cycles, causing insomnia. Bedtime Turn off electronic devices an hour before bedtime. This includes loud music, mobile phones, computer screens and TV. Switching off mobiles can be hard for young people, but late night phone calls and text messages can lead to broken sleep. Support Your teenager still needs a strong relationship with you to feel confident as they meet the challenges of studying and exams. You can build this strong relationship by working on open communication and staying connected.
Mental health program coming to schools AUSTRALIA’S first mental health literacy and action program is on its way. The program seeks to address the mental health and wellbeing needs of young people at school and is set to be delivered by researchers at Monash University.
This program seeks to improve young people’s mental health, coping and resilience through an evidenced-based 10-session prevention program at school. Research has shown young people prefer to go to informal methods for help, such as family, friends or the internet.
The Monash research team involved in the project is seeking expressions of interest from schools across Victoria to take part.
“Sometimes the internet does not provide accurate or age-appropriate information and so we want to give young people correct and practical information, also strategies to support their mental health that could benefit them now and into the future,” Alexandra said.
The program was first developed by Professor Joanne Riebschleger in the United States. Now, it has been adapted for Australian schools as a preventative approach to increase knowledge of mental health in the classroom and develop coping mechanisms for students, such as help seeking skills and resilience. The research team, including Alexandra Marinucci, a PhD candidate who is leading the program evaluation as part of her doctoral dissertation, will work alongside other provisional psychologists to deliver the program. During the peak of the Covid pandemic last year, a headspace report found one in three young people experienced a high level of distress. This compares with data from before 20 WINTER 2021
During the peak of the Covid pandemic, a Headspace report found one in three young people experienced a high level of distress.
the pandemic that found one in seven young people were affected by a mental illness. Along with these alarming figures, young people are five times less likely to seek help when distressed. “Not only are we in a global pandemic, we are in a mental health pandemic. It is critical we shift our focus
to preventative approaches to mental health care and support through early intervention and increasing mental health literacy of our population,” Alexandra said. Stigma or a lack of knowledge are common barriers to young people getting the help they need or helping others.
“Given the increased levels of distress experienced by young people exacerbated by Covid-19, we are in a critical moment to shift our focus to a preventative approach that directly promotes positive youth mental health. “Evidence-based school programs surrounding mental health for youth are lacking and this project seeks to change that.” Interested schools can contact Alexandra (alexandra.marinucci@ monash.edu) or Christine (christine. grove@monash.edu). www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
Education
A time to explore and discover EARLY childhood is a time for young children to wonder, explore, discover and make meaning of the world. At St Catherine’s School Early Learning Centre, children are offered rich learning experiences through the educational program.
are faced with many challenges or demands during their busy day. It is important that they are able to adapt to changing situations, respond to tasks and bounce back when challenges arise. Resilience and flexibility are pivotal to successful functioning in the classroom context.
We take a holistic approach to learning and development with opportunities for the children to build upon their physical, social, emotional, personal, creative, cognitive and linguistic skills. These experiences build and expand the children’s knowledge and their understanding of the world offering a foundation for the child to transition into the next step of their educational journey once they commence Prep.
Expressive and receptive language skills In the classroom environment, the ability for children to engage in reciprocal conversation with both their peers and educators is fundamental. The children also need to be able to clearly articulate their thoughts and ideas, and to follow teacher instructions. The language rich environment in the Early Learning Centre provides our young learners with opportunities to improve and build these skills.
The children at the Early Learning Centre are provided with numerous learning opportunities: Ability to interact socially and play It is important for children to develop the essential skills to engage in reciprocal play and interaction with others, to consider other ideas, and to compromise or problem solve when things may not go to plan. These strong social opportunities in the early learning context, provide young children with the practice to develop and refine these skills.
The children at the Early Learning Centre are provided with numerous learning opportunities.
Build on their level of independence As young children begin trying new tasks and attempting to do things for themselves, they build on their level of independence. They develop their self-help skills in relation to managing their belongings, dressing themselves, bathroom routines and meal times. Developing competence in these areas,
provides children with the confidence to independently manage these tasks when they arise during their day. Ability to identify and regulate emotions For successful functioning in a group context, self-regulation of emotions and behaviour is essential. Young children
Children require the time, space and opportunities to develop a range of skills, learnings, understandings and behaviour in their early years. This lays a strong foundation for the transition to school and successful lifelong learning. The high-quality and rich learning experiences offered at the Early Learning Centre at St Catherine’s School highlights our commitment to holistically support young children’s learning and development, and building a strong foundation for future learning.
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A world of difference at Discovery Bay DISCOVERY Bay Early Learning and Kindergarten is a welcoming centre inspired by the Montessori method of teaching, where children are given the tools to guide their own learning. Located in Balwyn, the centre is a unique offering in the area with dedicated, passionate educators who support and guide each individual child’s development under the Montessori philosophy. Montessori is an innovative way to approach learning: by encouraging children’s independence through self-direction. “The environment is set up for children to take out materials that are of interest to them, and they are given an opportunity to work at their own pace, rather than in a group setting,” centre manager Sarah Power explained. “Montessori believed in a mixed age classroom setting which enables the educators to teach each child individually or in small groups. Areas
are set up with activities that range from Practical Life, Sensorial, Mathematics, Language and Culture and children are free to choose activities based on their individual interests and skills.” The centre has a unique but familiar feel, with classrooms providing a stepping stone into the start of each child’s educational journey. The centre offers different sessions, a long day or a mid-day session, which provide a level of flexibility for parents who work from home, in an office and in the city. “We do allow [families] to mix and match the two sessions,” Ms Power said. Each room is thoughtfully designed and set out with the children’s interests in mind. There is a covered outdoor area which children have access to, and ample indoor and outdoor play areas. Ms Power said they also arrange to take the children to the local park for
Centre manager Sarah Power and director Russell Cagnacci.
ongoing excursions to teach the children about the environment and sustainability. In June, they are planning to host a parent’s information night to invite the families into the space for a discovery session, teaching them about what the children get up to and introducing the Montessori philosophy. Director Russell Cagnacci explained that they are incorporating STEM (science, technology, engineering and maths) into the 4-year-old classroom
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and offering opportunities to enhance children’s learning in these fields. “It’s part of a plan to introduce children to these disciplines for future careers. At Discovery Bay Early Learning and Kindergarten we not only prepare children for school, we prepare them for life” Discovery Bay ELC is located at 317-321 Whitehorse Road, Balwyn. Visit https://discoverybayelc.com.au/ or call 7018 9585 and book your tour today.
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The co-teaching model at Preshil With two teachers in each classroom, there are different ways for teachers to work together.
PRESHIL is proudly Australia’s oldest progressive school. Established in 1931, it continues to be a place where relationships and community are central. While progressive may conjure different things for different people, it is remarkable that elements of the program which were progressive at the school’s inception remain at the forefront of best practice today. Co-teaching is one such element. Central to the primary school program is the model of co-teaching which is in place for children from the Kindergarten through to Grade 6, and has been a hallmark of a Preshil primary education for many years. Each classroom has a kitchen, soft furnishings and two teachers so that the learning space is warm and inviting.
At Preshil, the dynamic classrooms are places where teachers work together to model cooperation and negotiation while being able to be responsive to the children in the moment. These features of co-teaching yield enormous benefits for the children, as Paul O’Leary and Nanaki Kaur, co teachers for Grades 1 and 2, explain more. “When you’re team teaching, sharing, getting feedback through care, relationship, support, it’s happy teachers, happy students.” With French being the language of acquisition at Preshil primary, when Madame Suzanne visits each day, the teachers join the children in lessons and are able to model the joy of participation in learning and giving things a go. This reinforces for the children that a school is a community of learners; adults and children alike.
“Many times when I’m learning with the children, and sharing my perspective or my understanding, and positioning myself in a way that “oh I actually don’t know what this means”, and getting the children to tell me what they think, it’s very powerful,” Ms Kaur said. Behind the scenes, the co-teaching model ensures that each child’s learning is considered by two professionals who observe, plan, instruct and assess from two unique professional perspectives, and bring these to bare during planning times to create a nuanced and deep understanding of each child’s learning. As a school offering the International Baccalaureate Primary Years Programme, Preshil co teachers have time dedicated to collaborative planning. As Paul O’Leary states, “every afternoon we discuss the children’s progress, their needs.” Ms Kaur said what she likes about co-teaching. “What I like about co-teaching is that
It broadens our professional horizons, we have different perspectives, we bring different values, different expertise, and we collaborate to create a program.” There are also crucial benefits for teachers in working in a partnership; the positive impact teamwork and support provide to a teacher’s professional development, and teacher wellbeing. Co teachers have one another to learn from and debrief with, and when there are moments of joy, there is someone cheering alongside. These benefits are not limited to the teachers, because a supportive classroom environment is one in which the whole community benefits; children and adults alike. “Co teaching promotes teacher efficacy because we are constantly reflecting and validating each other, and that all goes to improving teacher practice,” Ms Kaur said. At Preshil, co-teaching will remain a priority.
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Education
Catching up on learning after Covid chaos By Carole Levy MANY parents are worrying about their kids falling behind in their school work because of what may have been missed during Covid’s remote learning period. A solution that many are turning to is private tutoring, but does the money invested actually help? The short answer is yes, tutoring can be very effective in remedying learning shortfalls, as well as extending students beyond what they learn in the classroom. Tutoring can also build confidence, and gives focus to children who may be distracted in a busy classroom situation. A study conducted by the Education Endowment Foundation found that students who receive one-to-one tutoring can make five months’ extra progress over a school year, while one Melbourne tutoring company’s internal
research showed that 82 per cent of parents saw their child’s grades improve and 85 per cent noted an increase in confidence. Many parents are turning to private tutoring after their children missed out on classroom time during the Covid lockdowns last year.
According to Melbourne’s Cluey Learning, measuring a valuable tutoring experience comes down to more than just exam marks. Cluey co-founder Michael Allara says that at the end of the day, the learning program is the biggest indicator of tutoring success. “The mode - online or in-person, private or group sessions - can enhance or detract from that but it doesn’t determine effectiveness,” he says.
students, tutors and parents; and it demands tutoring in the context of the child.
■ A broad range of experience dealing with a variety of students/learning challenges
“A tutor should always pursue quality teaching, but they also need to be matched to the needs of your child. There’s no point in assigning a disciplinarian if your child responds best to a softly-softly approach. Similarly, your playful child might learn best from someone with a more exuberant nature who can turn learning into a game.”
■ Offers content that’s relevant and up to date
QUALITIES TO LOOK FOR IN A TUTOR
Group and one-to-one tutoring is available, but busy parents (and children tired after a long day at school) may prefer online tutoring (such as Cluey provides) - with real-time face-toface interaction.
“All of the component parts need to be considered, including the tutor, content program, revision of the methodology, and whether you can see a shift in your child’s attitude towards learning.
■ In-depth understanding of their subject area
“Quality tutoring requires relevant content developed by experts; it necessitates constant feedback from
■ Friendly and supportive nature, with an ability to communicate to someone who is struggling
■ Provides consistent feedback and analysis A tutor’s resources need to be as useful as possible to each student, which means they must be aligned with what a student is actually covering in class.
Exceptional outcomes for exceptional kids ANDALE School is a hidden gem nestled in the quiet leafy suburb of Kew. “You know, I had such a hard time finding Andale at first,” Anna, an Andale parent says. “It’s so discrete. I was surprised to walk through the gate and discover a world of opportunity. “A kitchen garden, the multipurpose sports area, and wonderfully calm and focussed classrooms. All tucked away. What surprised me was the breadth of programs without the fuss.” Andale has been educating primary school children in Kew for 40 years. ‘Children come to Andale because they are experiencing learning difficulties that make it harder for them to progress in a mainstream setting,” explained principal Justin Walsh. “Our skilled, specialist education qualified teachers understand the learning needs of our students. And so are able to provide appropriate learning interventions for all.
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“Our classes are small by choice. Our teachers and in-house therapists work together to develop and manage individual learning plans for each student. “With psychology, OT and speech therapy on-site, we can really target individual strengths and needs. It’s intensive but effective.” Parent Anna says Andale is incredibly unique,
Andale offers an inclusive, learning environment.
“I have not found a school that offers what Andale does. “Small class sizes, well-designed curriculum, individual learning plans, and the integration of skilled therapists. “We couldn’t be happier with Andale. Not just because our daughter loves to come here. “We also know that Andale School is equipping her with curiosity, community, and a love of learning.” Andale is an inclusive, collaborative and nurturing learning environment in which every child can be themselves - extraordinary. Andale School is located at 84 Charles Street, Kew. Call 03 9853 3911 or visit andale. vic.edu.au www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
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Inspiring girls to choose STEM By Melissa Grant GIRLS are less likely than boys to pursue a career using science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM). That’s why a nationwide campaign has been launched to inspire more female students to choose STEM subjects and open their eyes to careers that use these skills. Even in primary school, girls are less interested in STEM subjects, with gender stereotypes having a major impact. Studies, for instance, have shown that most children perceive science as a male profession. When asked to draw a scientist, children draw nearly twice as many male scientists than female ones. Furthermore, girls are perceived as not naturally suited to STEM subjects boys are seen as better at numeracy, while girls are seen as better at humanities. It’s concerning given that STEM is a big part of many new jobs and jobs of the future. To tackle the issue, the federal government has launched Future You, an initiative that aims to smash gender stereotypes around STEM. Since launching in October, more than 2.3 million young Australians and
Hallie Owers and Zara Plummer explore the Future You website, which is part of a campaign to smash gender stereotypes around STEM.
their parents and carers have explored Future You, an online platform aimed at children aged 8 to 12. The platform features 12 diverse and relatable characters, including a builder, miner, game designer, farmer, nurse, ecologist and a Moon to Mars Mission Director. It also includes video animations, skill-based games and information about STEM. Children’s perceptions of STEM jobs as being for women, or women and men equally, improved after engaging with the platform. Before the campaign, only 20 per cent of girls aged 8-12 said they were ‘very interested’ in STEM but after seeing the Future You online platform, that
increased to 68 per cent. Boys have also benefited, with strong interest in STEM increasing from 43 per cent to 60 per cent after interacting with the career videos, games and quizzes. The Future You Initiative is led by Australia’s Women in STEM Ambassador, Professor Lisa HarveySmith. She says the statistics are “extremely encouraging” given that two years ago, 27 per cent of Year 11 and 12 girls considered STEM-related subjects compared to 48 per cent of boys. “Future You is showing the power of engaging with our younger generation to ensure women study, enter and stay
in STEM careers down the track,” she said. Prof Harvey-Smith said STEM skills would be needed in areas where there would be massive skills shortages, including digital, cyber security, green energy, manufacturing and the space industry. “When you say STEM, people think of scientists in a lab coat. But it’s environmental scientists, creating solar power in solar cars, digital skills we need in the internet age. Really, STEM is everywhere in every industry,” she explained. Prof Harvey-Smith says there is a real need to smash gender stereotypes around STEM. Children as young as six years old, she says, are influenced by gender stereotypes which can impact their interest in STEM. By the age of 10-14 years, the STEM gap between girls and boys widens. “We know the 8-12 year age group is critical to longer term interest in STEM careers,” Prof Harvey-Smith said. “The Future You platform was designed to engage these children and excite them with the many career options that require STEM skills and more importantly, to show that these jobs are for everyone.” https://www.womeninstem.org.au/ futureyou/
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Childcare fees set for overhaul By Melissa Grant FAMILIES with two or more children in childcare are set to save thousands of dollars in fees each year. Childcare subsidies for second and subsequent children will be increased to as high as 95 per cent and the subsidy cap removed for high income earners as part of a $1.7m spend on childcare included in the federal budget. The changes aren’t due to begin until July 2022, however Prime Minister Scott Morrison says they could be implemented earlier “if possible”. The fee overhaul means families with two children aged five and under in childcare four days a week, for example, would save between $41 and $125 each week. Treasurer Josh Frydenberg says the policy is designed to make childcare more affordable and give parents the choice to work extra hours. Currently, parents are given the same subsidy for their second child, which means the cost of childcare doubles. Childcare subsidies are also capped at $10,560 per child, with families earning more than $189,390 having to pay full fees once the subsidy runs out. Under the new subsidy system,
childcare fees would be subsidised between 80 per cent and 95 per cent for second and subsequent children. The subsidy cap would also be scrapped. For example, a family earning $110,000 a year will have the subsidy for their second child increase from 72 to 95 per cent, and would be $95 per week better off for four days of childcare. Education Minister Alan Tudge said the measures would further ease the cost of childcare and encourage workforce participation, particularly for larger families. “These measures will help remove the barriers for parents, particularly mothers, to return to the workforce or to increase their hours, as their family grows,” he said. Minister for Women Marise Payne said the investment in the Child Care Subsidy would deliver greater choice for Australian women and men as they balance their family and work responsibilities. “For women in particular, it opens the door for those choosing to work or to work more, which is critical to their own economic security and a prosperous Australian economy,” she said. “These changes strengthen our economy and at the same time provide greater choice to parents who want to
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work an extra day or two a week.” However, Opposition Leader Anthony Albanese says the federal government has “missed an opportunity” to reform childcare and boost women’s workforce participation. Mr Albanese said “Labor’s cheaper childcare plan” lifts the subsidy and “smooths” the taper rate across the board, regardless of how many children a family has and how old they are. He also claimed Labor’s childcare plan would assist 1 million families instead of 250,000. “The many Australian families
struggling under the cost of out of school hours and vacation care will not benefit at all from the Morrison government’s lift in subsidy,” he said . “Families desperately need immediate relief from soaring childcare costs, yet these changes are not even set to come in for over a year.” Mr Morrison said the changes required to the current system were quite complex, while giving some hope fee relief could come sooner. “If it’s possible to do these things earlier then we will certainly look at that,” he told Sunrise.
Website to help find your local school THE government’s Findmyschool website has been updated to provide parents with the latest information to find the school zone they live in. The website allows families to find their closest, and other nearby, government schools, giving clarity on what their options are. Schools can be found by typing in a residential address or searching by school name. Findmyschool will show the zone for the current enrolment year and the 2022 enrolment year. Every child has the right to enrol at their designated neighbourhood government school or, if there is capacity, at another government school of their choice.
updated website includes school zones for the 14 new schools and campuses opening in 2022. “We will deliver 100 new government schools by 2026 and when a new school opens, the zones around nearby schools have to change to accommodate it,” Mr Merlino said. “The website takes the guesswork out of identifying their closest government school, giving families the clarity they need when deciding which school to enrol their child in.”
When the site was launched in 2019, it was the first time school zones were easily accessible in one place.
In the past five years, the government has invested more than $9 billion in more than 1600 school upgrades - creating more than 10,000 construction jobs - and is now ahead of schedule on its commitment to open 100 new schools by 2026, with 48 new schools opening between 2019 and 2022.
Acting Premier and Minister for Education James Merlino said the
Families can look up their school zone online at: findmyschool.vic.gov.au
No student currently enrolled in a school will be required to change schools.
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Families can now look up their school zone online.
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Introducing your School
Lyn Rodda
Our vision: ‘Empowering curious and caring learners to thrive in an inclusive community.’ The purpose of the Solway Primary School community is to: • Nurture self-aware individuals who are confident to be themselves, think for themselves and express themselves • Prepare students with the knowledge, skills and capabilities to pursue their future aspirations
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• Develop strong values of empathy, respect and inclusion • Encourage active participation in community building, sustainability, and working collaboratively with others to make the world a better place • Foster resilience and adaptability in individuals, encouraging a well-balanced lifestyle that supports physical, mental and social health and wellbeing • Inspire and motivate all to love learning and be ambitious in their current and future endeavours
Additional programs we offer include; The Arts, Chinese, Library, PE, Science, Humanities, Technologies and Sustainability Programs; Instrumental Music tuition, access to GATEWAYS, and JMSS programs. In 2022 we look forward to developing our Science program.
School tours for prospective parents are available via appointment. Please contact the School Office to arrange one on 9813 9700 or email us at solway.ps@education.vic. gov.au. I look forward to meeting you.
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• Provide a welcoming, comfortable and stimulating environment for all learners
As an educator and father of three, I know the importance of selecting the right school for your family, it can be daunting, so visiting schools and meeting the people is one tangible way to encounter the atmosphere and culture that exists. My own first impression of St Dominic’s Primary School was that of a welcoming and family friendly community. I now know this can be attributed to the Dominican pillars that the school and Parish has based its foundations on: prayer, learning, service and community. At St Dominic’s, our strong Christian values, focus on pastoral care and social and emotional learning helps us to maintain excellent results and a healthy community atmosphere. We believe that wellbeing is fundamental to successful learning. Children and young people who are happy, confident and able to establish meaningful relationships are better placed to achieve positive learning outcomes. At St. Dominic’s, we believe that the learning environment of our students needs to be safe and supportive for the development of the ‘whole person’. Like many schools we have effective learning programs, great facilities and a caring and talented staff. We offer Italian, Performing Arts, Visual Arts, Physical Education, interschool sport, private piano/guitar lessons and a range of other extra curricula activities. I invite you to come and experience the difference for yourself and see what St Dominic’s has to offer your family.
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I am incredibly proud to be the Principal of such a wonderful school. Solway is at the centre of a connected community, actively involved with the school and valued for the generosity of time, energy, and expertise that its members bring to the school.
At Parkhill Primary School, literacy and numeracy are the priority, with a whole school learning and teaching approach providing students with explicit instruction and stimulating, challenging tasks. Inquiry learning and STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art and Maths) form a huge part of the school day, allowing children to access learning across the other curriculum domains in a connected and real way. Our school garden hosts our kitchen garden program where children tend the garden, learn about sustainability, growth and enjoy cooking! Our vision is to nurture success in all students through their learning by developing a sense of who they are, where they belong and how they can make a difference. We achieve this by providing a safe and stimulating learning environment, rich in our values of care, unity, respect, honesty and persistence. Students are encouraged to become inquirers, knowledgeable, thinkers, balanced, principled, open-minded, caring, risk takers, reflective and communicators.
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I am very proud of our school which offers a broad range of specialist subject areas including Science, Performing Arts, Physical Education and Mandarin. We promote educational excellence in both faith and learning, with a strong emphasis on the development of the whole child. We are currently taking school tours, so if you are interested in learning more about us please contact reception.
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Elaine Brady Parkhill Primary School is situated in Ashwood on grounds which offer so much green space for students to enjoy. Our new buildings support children in their learning journey. The flexible spaces allow for closed, more traditional style learning environments, with larger rolling doors allowing for more flexible breakout spaces when needed.
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Mud pies should be on the menu By Alana Richards GIVE a child a pile of toys and a pile of mud and it’s not hard to guess which one they’ll go for first. And why not? It’s a kid’s rite of passage to enjoy getting covered in all things messy and fun and winter is the perfect time to let them get their hands dirty. There’s no better time to get into a muddy mess than winter, so here are some good reasons from Early Childhood Australia to just let them go and worry about the washing later… Teaches kids to engage with nature Mud provides a wonderful opportunity for children to discover and experiment. From drawing with it to moulding it into shapes, creative play is endless with all of the different things it can ‘make’. Supports physical development Manipulating mud helps to develop fine motor skills for little hands, and the ever-popular mud slip and slide move is a great one for developing large motor skills. Imaginative play is inspired by mud inventions and social skills are built as children cooperate and play together. Builds immunity It’s not new news that research tells us
how good it is for a child’s immune system to play outside and get dirty from a young age. Exposing kids to mud, living creatures and germs as they explore the natural environment around them strengthens the immune system and this can lead to less allergies and a body that can fight off bugs as they grow. Creates happy smiles The smile on the face of a muddy child speaks for itself, but a study from the
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memories, smiling and free playing in their natural environment and tell them about the hidden developmental benefits later. Mud pies anyone?
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Reality Bites
Double the fun for Federal MP By Danielle Galvin WHEN Labor MP Anika Wells spoke out in Federal Parliament to share a message in support of Multiple Birth Awareness Week, she had two special little guests with her. The Member for Lilley held Ossian and Dashiell, her twin boys, to address the House and raise awareness about testing for zygosity and identical or fraternal multiples. “I never expected to be standing in front of the House with twins, and that is the experience of many twin parents out there,” she said in March. “I just ran into a twin mum, coming into this place, who said, ’Is it the case that Centrelink and Medicare still do not consider twins to be a multiple birth?’ “I said: ’Yes, that is the case.’ Centrelink and Medicare do not consider twins to be multiple births as it currently stands. “She said, ’You get in there and tell that parliament that, when you are giving birth to twins, it definitely feels like two babies are coming out,’ and I promised to do that. So, twin parents: I see you, I hear you, and I’m here for you.” The twins have an older sister, Celeste, to Ms Wells and her husband Finn. Ms Wells explained why it’s so important to know about whether twins are identical or not. “You’d be surprised how many parents out there don’t know for sure and they probably don’t think it matters. “It’s important for health reasons. Identical twins are more likely than fraternal twins to get the same illness. If one twin is diagnosed with a particular condition, the other can be checked for early symptoms. “Identical twins are also always compatible for organ transplantation or bone marrow donation, if they ever need it. “It’s important too for twins to know their own identity, and for parents to estimate the likelihood of giving birth to further sets of twins - only fraternal twins are an inherited trait.”
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Lilley MP Anika Wells with Oshy and Dash in parliament.
When Ms Wells gave birth to the twins on 20 October last year, Opposition Leader Anthony Albanese announced their safe arrival in parliament, noting how special it was that a sitting member of federal parliament had welcomed twins. She says no two days are the same as a busy MP and mum of three. “As fellow parents of small children can testify, there is no real “regular day”. “Same with my work, which is incredibly dynamic and varied. “The wheels can, and do fall off regularly. The baby might throw up on you as you’re dressed for work and ready to run out the door, you run out of nappies in the middle of the function you’ve brought the twins along to, you get to daycare only to discover you’ve left the twin backpacks at home. “But we all just get on with it, we have to. “Having a supportive partner who shares the load makes what I do as a Federal MP possible. Hats off to those parents who do it on their own.” Many Australians might not know
that some government agencies don’t recognise twins as multiple births. It’s an issue Ms Wells has been championing. “When the Australian Multiple Birth Association (AMBA) first lobbied the Federal Government for the Multiple Birth Allowance in the 1990s, they were only able to secure the allowance for triplets or more. “This still excludes the majority of families with multiples - those with twins. “Financially it can be a challenge, because unlike with singletons, parents of multiples can’t “stagger” expenses like childcare, education, sports fees. And often the increased costs start during pregnancy, with multiples often leading to higher medical costs, mothers having to finish work earlier etc. “There’s an AMBA research project underway to quantify these insights. Once that data’s in hand, lobbying for the review of financial support for families of multiples will begin in earnest.” In the months since Dash and Oshy were born, it’s been full of unique
challenges, but also unique experiences that only parents of multiple children experience, Ms Wells said. She described it as a great privilege. “It’s particularly special to witness their relationship with each other - how they reach out to hold each other’s hand when they are teething. “Their bond is beautiful to see.” She hopes she can be a voice for parents of multiples. “A voice for multiple parents is important because they face some particular difficulties too. “Because of the increased cost of care, parents of multiples are less likely to participate in the workforce. “Another key difference is the increased likelihood of higher medical costs, with the health risks of multiples and their mother increasing by tenfold and the risk of post-partum depression is doubled. “That’s why it’s so important we review our childcare system in Australia, which is the most expensive in the OECD, not only for parents of multiples with for all Australian parents who are trying to manage the juggle of work and family.”
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Social media junior: Do you run and hide? By Danielle Galvin
they can get them into Instagram when they are of age,” she said.
THERE were reports earlier in the year that tech giant Facebook was working on an Instagram for kids platform.
But according to Instagram boss Adam Mosseri, children who are under 13 are asking to use Instagram, and perhaps this would be a way to let them use the platform, and have it be a safe space.
It would reportedly allow children under 13 to safely use the platform, with heightened controls. It certainly raises questions about the dilemma for parents: do you let your child have an introduction and a taste of social media, or ban them from it as long as possible in a bid to keep them safe? Of course, there’s no right or wrong answer. Social media expert Meg Coffey has an interesting take on it, and two differing perspectives. “The cynical way is that they are just trying to get children on board early so
“The other side ... if it’s inevitable that they are going to use it, let’s give them a place that we can control it, where we can control as much of it as can be controlled. “(But) I also keep coming back to, again this is the cynicism, all of these tech guys don’t let their kids anywhere near social media or technology. “And I go OK so you’re not letting your kids anywhere near it, but now you’re building a platform for kids? It’s an inner turmoil for I think everyone.” Ms Coffey, who says she is not a
parent but greatly sympathises with the job of raising kids in the digital age, said parents play a role.
Similarly, talk to your younger children about what they know about social media.
Asking kids about who they are following, what are they engaging with, what they’re up to is critical.
Why do they want to be on Instagram or Facebook or YouTube?
She says the social media apps for kids, such as Facebook Messenger Kids, are a positive start. She wants to believe they put the right boundaries in place so that kids can play and be involved, but they’re not bullet proof. “It comes back to parents paying attention and having conversations, an open conversation, if something makes you feel uncomfortable come talk to me about it, don’t hide it from me,” she said. “I think let the kids have access if you are going to be a parent that pays attention.”
What do they know about the platforms and what do they do if they see something strange or scary or that makes them feel icky? In her view, find an age appropriate way to chat about it, and remember each child will be different in terms of their own maturity and understanding of the digital sphere. From time to time, most parents will be guilty of handing their child an iPad and letting them scroll or watch whatever they like. But Ms Coffey said just keep the lines of communication open, constantly talk to them about what they are seeing.
When teen anger is more than acting out By Carole Levy HOW do you cope if your teen becomes aggressive or even violent towards you? It is common to keep this kind of abuse behind closed doors and not confide in anyone. Many parents feel that they have failed to control their child, or that they are responsible for the behaviour in some way. In addition, they may not know where to turn. However, any kind of aggression can be stressful, and can cause an atmosphere of tension and fear for the entire family, not to mention the possibility of physical harm if their teen becomes violent. No parent should feel obliged to put up with an unruly teen, and as with any type of domestic abuse, help and support is available. There are a number of techniques and tips that you might find helpful. DEFUSING HEATED ARGUMENTS It’s useful to remember that your own behaviour can improve or worsen an aggressive situation, so it’s important to be a good role model for your teen. With that in mind, it is worth trying to maintain a calm and peaceful 34 WINTER 2021
presence. You need to be strong without being threatening. Remember that your body language, as well as what you say and how you say it, should also reflect this. Avoid staring them in the eye, and give them personal space. Allow them the opportunity to express their point of view, then respond in a reasoned way. If an argument becomes very heated, take a deep breath, hold it for a few seconds and then exhale. Repeat five times. This technique is very useful in intense situations. If your teen is becoming aggressive during arguments, suggest this technique to them when they’re calm, so they too have a way of controlling their anger. If an argument feels out of control, you can also try explaining to them that you are going to walk away, and that you’ll come back again in half an hour. Given the chance to reflect and calm down, you and your teen will both be more reasonable when you resume your discussion. As with toddlers, if you give in to teenagers because their shouting and screaming intimidates or baffles you, you are in effect encouraging them to repeat the unreasonable behaviour as a way of getting what they want.
If very heated arguments happen frequently, it may be worth suggesting counselling to your teen. They’ll benefit from talking to someone new and unbiased, someone who isn’t in their family and who won’t judge them. Remember they may not know how to handle their anger, and this can leave them frustrated and even frightened. Some guidance from an outsider can be very helpful. DEALING WITH VIOLENT BEHAVIOUR Sometimes, teen aggression can turn into violence. If they lash out at you, or someone or something else, put safety first. Let your teenager know that violence is unacceptable and you will walk away from them until they’ve calmed down. If leaving the room or house isn’t helping, call the police — after all, if you feel threatened or scared, then you have the right to protect yourself.
you set. They need to know that any kind of violence is unacceptable. ■ TALK TO THEIR SCHOOL: Find out if their aggressive behaviour is happening there as well. Some schools offer counselling. ■ ARRANGE COUNSELLING: If your teen admits they have a problem and is willing to get help, book an appointment with a counsellor or psychologist as soon as possible. Sources: Raising Children Network, Women’s and Children’s Health Network GET HELP: ■ Raising Children Network: Australian resource for parenting newborns to teens ■ ReachOut Parents: Online service to help parents help teenagers ■ 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 (24-hour, national sexual assault and domestic family violence counselling service)
GOOD ADVICE GIVE THEM SPACE: Once they have calmed down, you may want to talk to them about what has happened and suggest that they let you find them some help.
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Do kids these days have enough skills when it comes to handling money?
Teaching kids financial literacy By Danielle Galvin IN recent times there have been growing calls to increase financial literacy, and encourage children from a young age to learn about money. It’s not just about earning pocket money and coins.In a digital world, your child may not have seen you use coins or notes to pay at a cafe. Peter Foley, owner and financial adviser of Thirdview Financial Planning. He is a Certified Financial Planner,; with more than 20 years experience, and helped answer some questions about teaching your kids the basics. Should parents be mindful of what our children pick up from us in terms of personal finance - our spending habits, how we talk about it, how we stress about it? Absolutely. Our children pick up far more than we realise. I recently rang my wife to find out what date her wages would be deposited into our account because she had recently updated the details. My son overheard and immediately became worried asking if we had run out of money. This turned out to be a good learning opportunity for our son on what wages are, why it’s good to have savings and how to pay off debt effectively (i.e., ensuring your wages are paid straight into your mortgage offset) but it reminded me that our children are always listening and learning from us for better or worse. In terms of giving practical examples to kids - how can parents make things like superannuation or taxation engaging and/or interesting? Pocket money is the answer most www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
parents come up with here and it is an effective tool for learning the value of money, savings as well as investing when your children are older. I generally find once your kids are old enough to understand the basic concept of responsibility (i.e. doing chores) then they can learn how pocket money links to that. In other words, if I do work then I get some money and I can spend that on what I’d like. From that, you can teach your children the value of money and how to use it. Having a piggy bank for that pocket money is the first step but I have found it’s even more effective to have two. One for savings and one they can spend currently. That lesson is a hard one early on but setting your family rules around when the savings bank can be used is important or you’ll lose engagement. For example, you might say that the savings bank can be used but only when the family goes on holidays. That way your children are still seeing the benefit of that saving and learning that it is worth it. Alternatively, you might say the savings can only be spent once they reach a certain dollar figure and this may encourage a savings habit. If you couple that with the fact that you as parents have also saved for the holiday it’s a lesson that really sticks because it becomes a case of ‘monkey, see, monkey do’. In terms of engaging children about super and tax, these concepts obviously become highly technical so stick to high level basics here and find a way to make it engaging. I remember using a cake as a substitute for money with my children.
I took a nice fresh chocolate cake and started slicing it up. Some of it represented tax which went to another person, some was put away for later (that’s your superannuation) and I then ask ‘If we had a bigger cake would it be fair to give that bit more to someone else’? Depending on the age of your children they’ll understand the idea of fairness and I’ve taught kids as young as Year One who grasped this notion pretty well. This would help explain Australia’s tiered income tax rates. Engaging kids with any medium will work it doesn’t have to be sweets. So long as it’s something that they’re interested in and is tangible the same lessons apply.
Mind you you’re ultimately teaching them delayed gratification and this is a tough lesson for children but if you persist they eventually understand that it’s worth it. All ages will have a different ability to learn about money so be in the conversation with your kids is the main thing here. My eight and ten-year-old sons are just learning about investing and what a share is. The journey is a fun one and I described owning shares in a toy company or shipping company since that’s two interests they have - toys and ships. They also loved the idea of voting rights as much as the notion of investing which surprised me so that was a tangent we went off on that I didn’t expect.
When, in your view, should parents start speaking to our children and teaching them about money?
In an increasingly digital world - is it harder for parents to explain that our bank accounts aren’t just a bottomless pit of money?
You can definitely start the basics as early as around 3 years-old. And by basics I mean showing them money and teaching them what each coin or note is. This is about the notion that money actually exists and that different coins or notes hold different values. You can build on this when playing shop games with your child which most kids love to do. Act as the shopper and when ‘paying’ for your items use it to discuss money. You can introduce the idea that you’re paying for weekly groceries from the ‘ groceries budget’ and then buy a treat at the ice cream store which you’ve saved for separately. You can even use a different purse or wallet to take that money out of. Eventually your child will ask ‘What’s a budget’? and you’ll be off on another lesson.
Yes, for sure. I’ve heard many parents lament this. I’ve heard many stories of children buying games or movies on Pay TV platforms not even realising they were spending money. Again, this is a good moment to stop and explain money though. If you keep coming back to the concepts that they relate to and bringing it into their world, grasping the nuances of money will be easier. If your family routine is to have an ice block at the shops every Friday use that moment, if you go to the movies every school holidays anchor your money lessons into that. Find that way into their headspace so the money lesson you want to teach is anchored more easily into their every day life and you can make the conversation more tangible even when the money isn’t physical WINTER 2021 35
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The rise of the e-baby Kyle and Casey, pictured with daughter Molly, met via Tinder. Picture: Rob Carew
By Melissa Meehan IT was once the topic discussed in hushed tones. But internet dating has become so popular, and successful, that by 2038 more babies will be born to parents who met online than offline. And while 2038 seems a lifetime away, that’s when a Monash University report finds the so-called ‘e-baby’ generation will be in the majority. Over the next 10 years they will make up 34 per cent of all newborns. Using a nationally representative survey of over 2000 Australians and projections from current trends in online dating, the authors of the report pinpoint 2038 as the year when more than half of babies born will be born to online couples. They are amazing figures, especially given few couples openly admitted they met online in recent years.
Former Mail Newspaper Group editor Casey Neill met her husband Kyle on Tinder back in 2015. “We both swiped right,” she said. “Kyle was with some older mates who wanted to know how this online dating stuff worked. “So with them egging him on and a few drinks under his belt, he got up the courage to send me a message and we set up a date a few days later.” Online dating was already pretty popular back then, but Tinder didn’t have the daggy and desperate stigma some of the older websites had, she said.
“For our first date we went out for dumplings and Kyle reckons that was it - after he saw me scoff noodles and dumplings he was sold,” she said. “I wouldn’t say I thought I’d found my husband that night, and I definitely didn’t peg him as the father of my future child! I’d had a fair bit of bad luck with dating, so I just took it one day at a time.” He proposed on a holiday to America in September 2017. They got married in October 2018 and their daughter Molly was born October 2019. She’s 18 months old now.
seek family-inclined commitments. The report then considered current trends, finding that based on the share of births that are e-babies, an estimated 20 per cent of all babies born in this millennium are e-babies. Further, the report reveals that 21 per cent of online couples that had a baby did so within a year of meeting. Aussie couples who meet online most commonly have one child (21 per cent), with over one in eight (13 per cent) welcoming two children. Men are also slightly more likely than women to have children with a partner they met online (38.9 per cent v 35.4 per cent).
But she still wasn’t keen to let people know how they’d met.
It’s quite the love story, and it’s not unusual.
VP International at eHarmony, Romain Bertrand said the results of the report were good news.
“I’m not sure I ever actually told my parents we’d met online - they might have found out in our wedding vows,” she said.
The report also found that couples who met online in more recent years (2014-2020), on average have 2.3 per cent more babies than those who met face-to-face (1.38 vs 1.35). This suggests a key group of singles use technology to
“In our first ‘Future of Dating’ report with Monash University, we’re delighted to see that online dating has created so many Australian families, and that it will continue to increase this wonderful legacy.”
They moved out together within five months.
Try letting stuff go just like a teenager does By Julie Cliff - Professional Organiser
Stand back and think, without any bias, do I really need this?
MEET Captain Risky. He’s been sitting on our teen son Robbie’s desk for the past couple of years. Robbie recently cleared his desk while doing some maintenance on his computer and decided that Captain Risky no longer had a place.
No longer seen Robbie said ” If you are at the point where you don’t notice it, it’s obviously not necessary for you to still have it. Someone else might be able to use that blanket, someone else could use that teddy. Try and think if others could get better use out of it than you have.”
My husband was quite puzzled by this and wondered why he wouldn’t want to return him to where he was. I thought it would be interesting to capture a teen’s perspective so I asked him a few questions as to why he was happy to let the item go. Here’s how a teen thinks about stuff they no longer want. Perhaps this teen’s logic could help you let go of items you longer need or want. Acquired, not deliberately chosen Captain Risky turned up to our house somehow over the past few years. At the time Robbie thought it was novel so he put it on his desk. It was not something he ever wanted or saved up for and deliberately purchased; he just acquired it. 36 WINTER 2021
Outgrown Robbie is now 14 and Captain Risky is not that cool. If Captain had tattoos, was dressed in black and had a black crow on his shoulder he may have more chance of hanging around for a bit longer. But Captain Risky has been outgrown. Captain Risky.
Joy or misery? We normally surround ourselves with things to keep us happy or remind us of something, but what is the point if it no longer brings the same joy or only brings you misery (Robbie’s words).
Nothing is forever when you’re a teen Robbie gives his room a good clear out once a month. He rearranges his furniture, prints out new photos or favourite album covers and starts with a clear slate. It seems changing your mind and the items that surround you is a teen’s prerogative.
No emotional attachment The above factors show that Captain is not part of Robbie or a significant part of his life. It’s an object that was a bit of fun at the time, but there is no emotional attachment to the item so it’s time to say goodbye. If you need help letting go of keepsakes, check out this blog - How to let go of keepsakes See if this article resonates with why you may be emotionally attached to your stuff. Read here. Next steps? Try some teen logic to help you let go of items you longer need. Need help? Space and Time is a Melbourne based business helping working Mums create an ecosystem at home that supports the family. Space and Time clients find that organising coaching helps them get everything done, and give them more time for spontaneity, enjoyment and relaxation. Reach out to me info@ spaceandtime.com.au if you need to declutter and get organised at home. www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au
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Books
Born ready to face puberty By Melissa Meehan IN an online centric world, our kids are growing up quicker. They have access to so much information, so much more than generations past. So talks about the birds and the bees, puberty and other things our parents used to teach us by leaving a book on the end of the bed (and running in the other direction) need to happen earlier. That’s where Michelle Mitchell comes in. The author of A Guy’s Guide to Puberty and A girls Guide to Puberty says it’s completely normal to grapple with when those conversations need to happen. “The good news is that they were born ready,” she said.
Michelle shares that she was recently giving a talk to a group of 10 year olds, one of whom was contacted by a modelling agency via social media and asked to give them her contact details. “That kind of thing brings some urgency to those conversations,” she said. “Because these young kids can be making really critical decisions for themselves. “It is a much more sexualised world.”
Some signs they are ready: ■ Become embarrassed about being naked in front of others
Michelle, a former teacher, has spent the last 20 years working with disengaged young people and speaking at scools about puberty.
■ Start gravitating towards same sex friends
And she says it’s increasingly evident that parents are needing to have these conversations with younger kids.
■ Begin to discuss sexual concept without any degree of accuracy
“But between the ages of eight and 10 is the perfect time to make a start.
Previously they’d say 12 is a good time to talk about sexuality, but Michelle says between the age of eight and 10 is often the sweet spot.
“And they are important conversations to have, because they are being exposed to many things earlier than we were, because they are online.”
Each of child has their own special needs which may include trauma, birth order, disabilities, learning challenges or emotional maturity.
■ Curious about gender differences, pregnancy, sex
■ Interested in knowing more about their bodies ■ Ask questions ■ Look at parent’s bodies differently Michelle’s books act as a starting point which will open up the conversations at home. The books, each aimed at either sex,
explains how to care for your body, emotions and brain. “If we want open hearted conversations with our kids about tough topics we have to be prepared to initiative them in an open-hearted way,” she said. “I personally think that they should never have to be the one who initiates difficult conversations, so always assume they need you and step into that space. Let’s be prepared to go to them, and in doing so grow with them.” Her book isn’t a tough read either, it very cleverly includes cartoons that simplify some of the bigger issues and break it down so that younger kids can understand without being overwhelmed.
Children’s books...
Winner Winner Bin Chicken Dinner
Harmony
Kate & Jol Temple, illustrated by Ronojoy Ghosh Our favourite bin chicken is back! In this sequel to the popular picture book Bin Chicken, Ibis is looking for dinner but isn’t having much luck until she spies the most wonderful food wonderland of all ... the school playground. Winner winner! There are a few hiccups along the way, but in the end the Ibis gets the last party pie. This is yet another hilarious read about the pesky bird that everyone loves to hate! Perfect for kids aged 3+ Scholastic, RRP $17.99
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The Exploding Life of Scarlett Fife: Book 1
Kokey Koala and the Bush Olympics
Set in 1914, this young adult novel is a gripping love story that plays out against a backdrop of the First World War. Tom is in the blood-soaked landings of Gallipoli, while Gracie marries another.
Maz Evans, illustrated by Chris Jeavons
Trixie Whitmore
It’s not until American teen Noah joins his mum Deborah, grandfather Will and greatgrandmother Gracie in Australia that the secrets of the past are revealed - secrets that will take them back to the beaches of Gallipoli.
In this laugh out loud tale, Scarlett is in big trouble after her big feelings lead to a hamster getting into the vicar’s trousers at her aunt’s engagement party.
Richard Yaxley
A compelling multigenerational story about connectedness, family and the power of truth. For readers aged 12+ Scholastic, RRP $18.99
Scarlett Fife has big feelings. Unfortunately, every time she pushes her feelings down something explodes.
If she loses her temper again she will miss out on her trip to the best theme park on the planet.
This classic children’s adventure book is being republished just in time for the Tokyo Olympics. Originally launched to coincide with the Sydney 2000 Olympics, Kokey Koala and the Bush Olympics is about a cute koala who participates in a series of Bush Olympics sports with the hope of winning a gold medal. Kids will love exploring the book’s beautiful hand-painted illustrations that detail Australia’s native fauna and flora.
A fun book for parents and children who have, at one time or another, lost control of their feelings
The ‘find and discover experience’ is complemented by rhyming poems throughout.
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Ocean Reeve Publishing, RRP $24.99 (hard cover) and $19.99 (soft cover)
A fun and educational book.
Bedtime is Boring David Campbell, illustrated by Daron Parton A hilarious sequel to Stupid Carrots, Bedtime is Boring features a funny bunny called Billy who just doesn’t want to go to bed. He’s had his bunny bath, he’s read his bunny book but (you guessed it) he just doesn’t want to go to bed. Billy is too busy for bed. And bedtime is boring! Oh, and he needs to pee. But guess what happens when Billy Bunny finally hits the hay? A relatable story for many families! For kids aged 3+ Scholastic, RRP $17.99
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