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What Do They Call You? Did You Know? Crowned In His Eyes Crowned Even Through Pain Crowned To Live Crowned To Believe
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What Do They Call You? Stef a nique A part of my name close to Stephanie similar to my Dad's (Steve) can be said to derive from the Greek name Steve which means crown, crowned, garland, or victorious. The ending part should've actually been unique. With both meaings put together my name would mean uniquly crowned or uniquely victorious.
What Does He Call You? I challenge you to research the meaning of your name to know what your earthly parents call you and if there is a connection with what your Heavenly Father has said concerning You. If you feel your name has no special or positive meaning ask GOD to show you in His word what He has called you.
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Did you know: In Matthew 23:9 Jesus tells us to call no earthly man our father. Does this mean I can't call my Dad or the man that raised me father? No it means we should give honor where honor is due. We should honor our earthly parents just as we honor our Heavenly Father. It speaks of the authoritative power a father has over his children given to him by GOD the Father of creation, heaven, and earth. It tells us that GOD himself does not take the love he placed on us lightly and he expects for us not to take lightly the roles we have in others individual lives. It is another way of Jesus telling us how much we are cared for and valued in the sight of GOD here on earth and in heaven!
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Crowned In His Eyes
God sees His daughters frustrations and confusion. He would love to sit right next to us and tell us exactly what to do as His daughters. We are the apple of His eyes. Our Father loves us unconditionally despite our flaws. And He knows us and always has according to Psalms 139:13-14
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"Wait patiently upon the 13 For thou hast possessed my Lord for He desires to reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb. crown us with eternal life!" 14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
So daughters wait patiently upon the Lord for He desires to crown us with eternal life!
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Pastor Sandra Randle is the founder of both Rise Up In His Glory Church and Women on Fire By GOD (a prayer ministry for all). Pastor Randle is a Certified Christian Counselor that encourages hurting women. As a grandmother to 8 and a great grandmother of 4 she passionately reaches all generations with the message of purity, integrity, righteousness, and truth that GOD is blessing Her to walk out daily. Pastor Randle teaches virtually via Facebook every Friday night at 7:30pm.
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He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 10
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"He will Crown You and that is the best peace ever!"
As most women experience life especially in our "Love Lives" we want life to be perfect. Due to this many of us may have suffered through times of verbal as well as physical abuse. We can be so blinded with wanting to see the good that we will loose ourselves and get off track.
Do not ignore the hurt and pain that you are going through. I know when I was going through past pain and hurt that is when GOD came and "CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER". I then realized that I am a strong , Independent, Intelligent, Beautiful, and most of all GOD fearing woman. I encourage all of my sisters in Christ to fully trust GOD in your times of trouble. He will Crown You and that is the best peace ever! Brittany Marbley is a Medical Professional that is studying to become a Christian Counselor and Chaplain. Her goal is to encourage and inspire Youth to be whole in Christ and reach for thier dreams while enjoying life.
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Crowned To Live Abundantly...what does abundantly mean. because whatever it means I'm not sure I'm living it, I thought. Then she said it my therapist said it "a fulfilled life", Yes, I want to live a fulfilled life. I want to live fill as though I am reaching my full capacity and potential in every area of my life. John 10:10 says Jesus came so that we may live a fulfilled life in Him. If you feel you are not living as such do an inventory of yourself. Are you in the will of GOD? Are you doing what GOD has called You to do? If You answered NO to these questions you need to go back to GOD and ask him what season you are in and if you are out of his will what do you need to do to come back into perfect alignment. Through a lifestyle of sacrificing and helping others, I began to lose myself. At some point I forgot to live, but also during this time GOD taught me how to seek Him. He taught me how to be content in every season of my life. Contentment may not look the same for all of us and neither will living a fulfilled life, but we have to live as GOD has called us to live specifically and fully.
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3 Tips for Establishing a Fulfilling Life. Make a list of all the things you would like to do.
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Separate this list into things you already do, would like to do. Begin researching activities near you that you can do to do the things on your lists. Evaluate what you do like to do and what you don't like. Remember this is not about failure, this is about learning who you are and what you like.
Look at your talents, what do people tell you you are good at and ask for your help with/ Do you enjoy doing these things? Can You start a profitable business doing these things? If so Pray about it and begin doing it.
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If you've already done the above You should be able to see your life becoming more fulfilled.
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You should also look into how you can volunteer with organizations small and large. Don't forget to spend time alone and with GOD rejuvenating.
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Philippians 1:6 " Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ."
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any days it is hard for me to gain my composure in faith. I have to ask myself am I double-minded, am I faithless, why do I feel so mediocre. Why do I feel as though I'm not doing enough or being enough for GOD and or His kingdom. As a young woman so many women have told me to have patience, to believe the promises of GOD. To believe the things I am waiting for will come to past. The faith and energy that it takes to believe on some days is overwhelming. To believe that I'll get married, that I'll one day birth children and be able to rear them up righteously. To believe that more women will pursue purchasing this magazine. That these pages will bless many women, teens, and young girls lives.
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hen this happens, I have to stop and Thank God that this is now my biggest issue to focus on my future. I Thank Him that at this moment I have all of the essential things needed for life. Then if I need to I cry, some may call this a pity party, but if this is how I need to reset, I do so, and I encourage you to do the same if You need to.
also write down everything I'm feeling, if I write down something multiple times I know that is the thing that's causing me to have a little doubt. I normally don't share what I write with others I just try to go to GOD in Prayer concerning these things and ask Him to renew my strength in Him. Though many days I feel it hard to believe what God has already said about me, because I can't see it. I know by going to Him during these days, I'm growing in faith. The pain of unbelief is pulling me closer to a believing thought process. I believe I have been crowned to do the works of GOD and for this I encourage You to believe according to Philippians 1:6.
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20 Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets: 21 She crieth in the chief place of concourse, in the openings of the gates: in the city she uttereth her words, saying, 22 How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge? 23 Turn you at my reproof: behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you. Proverbs 1:20-23
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Crowned Daughter In life we have many experiences, we have to look to God to give us wisdom. Proverbs 1:20-21 tells us that GOD will crown his daughters with wisdom we just have to have an ear to hear when wisdom cries out and a mouth to answer when wisdom cries speaking what GOD gives us to speak. Crowned Daughter, Though there may be times when you may not know something and be in pure ignorance GOD doesn't want You to stay there. Being in a constant state of not growing is immaturity and is called foolishness in Proverbs 1:22 As GOD's daughters we have to have an ear to hear wisdom to become wise Crowned Daughter, Though our hearts may have been trampled on many times we have to hearken to the voice of wisdom to accept knowledge. In Proverbs 1:23 GOD informs us he will pour out His spirit to us and make His words known to us we just have to have the Heart to accept correction and to turn from error. Crowned Daughter, You are GOD's vessel and He loves You, he has written a whole guidebook (The Bible) teaching You to live crowned as His daughter. If you struggle with any of the areas above that add to Your crown go and read the scriptures and meditate on them allowing GOD to transform You. Also, read the books of Psalm and Proverbs.
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Lady D. is an Apostle, a Certified Christian Counselor, a radio personality, and a published author. She is the founder of Divine Servitude Reaching Ministries. Lady D. is always eager to diviniely serve God and bless His people. Support Her ministry and upcoming endeavors by following Divine Servitude Reaching Ministries on Facebook.
We have to look to GOD to give us wisdom.
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I AM Protected in My Father's Hands
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A father's role is to nurture his children by protecting them. Though his touch may not be as careful and considerate as the mother or woman of his child(ren)'s life it should still be a nurturing touch. A father's touch should still be soothing and his child should still know He cares. Have you ever seen a daughter run into the arms of her father? That's what our relationship with our fathers should look like both earthly and heavenly. If you have experienced pain at the hand of your father, I Pray GOD heals your wounds. I also Pray He sends men with Godly character to show You the love of a Father. GOD as our Father wants to be consistently present with us and provide for our needs. just as a daughter sits in the lap of her earthly father and shares stories of her day, her dreams, and her tears GOD our Heavenly Father wants to do the same for us.
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You are protected and crowned in the Father's Hands!
I Pray if You have not learned to go to GOD for everything that You learn to go to Him and trust Him daily through all of your life's circumstances good and bad. Always remember He desires to hold You in His hands, as they are His protection for You.
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I AM CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER
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I Know Am CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER Because:
Some of the ways I show others I Am CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER is:
The scripture(s) that remind me that I Am CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER:
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Areas I feel I Am not CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER are:
Ways I can help others to Know They are CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER is:
The scripture(s) that remind me that I Am CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER:
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Answered Prayers:
The scripture(s) that remind me that I Am CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER:
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Write the attributes below ,from scritpture, that makes You CROWNED HIS DAUGHTER:
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I AM ROYALTY
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For the daughter with No Father Present: Dear Heavenly Father, I ask that You come down and be with your daughter, no matter her age or her mistakes she needs to feel your presence. She needs to know You care for her. She needs to feel your presence as she walks throughout the day and when she lays in bed at night. Father wipe her tears away and sit beside her. Comfort her and let her know you hear even her deepest darkest prayers. Let her know although she does not have a physical earthly father present you will be with her and guide her to earthly men that can help her grow in you. Let her know that she is cherished and given good gifts through you. Let her feel your presence and your love.
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The Present Father He is present Even in the lonely spaces Even In the dreary places When you are contemplating what's next When you are wondering how to make it happen He is present When life is hectic When life is full Even when it fells like Your life is empty He is present When provision is needed When You feel defeated He is present Your Father never leaves You, He is always present.
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Enjoyed Perry's Steak House with my Dad this year as His only child and daughter there, I was able to sit next to Him and bask in His presence. Though I went as a gift to him, it was a gift for me as well.
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It reminded me that no matter how many children my heavenly Father has He always invites me to come and sit next to Him so He can share precious moments with me.
About the Editor Stefaniq'ue Tillis is a Certified Christian Counselor and vessel that has always desired to allow GOD to use her to esteem and represent Him. Stefaniq'ue is the creator, and General Editor of Purely Esteemed Magazine, the founder of Purity Reigns International Ministries, and the owner of Unique Creations Graphics, Publications, and Productions.
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At this time I would like to take out time to Thank each woman that has helped this magazine come to full publication with the articles you have submitted and the prayers you have prayed,. I Thank You for Your time and commitment.
~ Purely Stef
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