From the Editor

On July fourth morning, at 6:30am, my family was getting ready for our annual all day beach party when my phone rang. It was a friend we were meeting there. But instead of calling to discuss the fun day ahead, he told me his son was in an accident, was in the hospital, but was okay. Not “come to the beach” okay, but still, okay. He had gone out to see the sunrise and collided with a car while he was on his ebike. He is one of the lucky ones. He walked away from the accident with minor injuries.

Before that happened, my intention was to use this space as a reminder to be patient and kind while on the island, and to please be safe as you travel around the island. Clearly a reminder is needed now more than ever.

The same traffic laws for cars apply to bikes. If you're a bicyclist, stop for stop signs and red lights completely. Ride on the correct side of the road. Wear a helmet. Signal you’re turning. Don’t speed.

Driving in OCNJ has become a bit of a real life Frogger game with none of the cute graphics and sound effects; one ride through town and it’s obvious how serious it can be at times. Different vehicles (e-bikes, golf carts, scooters, and other motorized vehicles) coming from all directions.

And don’t forget the pedestrians.

It's the law on the island to stop for pedestrians at crosswalks. But I’m calling common sense on this one.

If you’re a pedestrian trying to cross the street, please look both ways. Please don’t assume the cars see you. Please don’t step into traffic unless the cars come to a complete stop. And please don’t get so angry if a car doesn’t stop. Sometimes it’s not easy to see people crossing and it is dangerous to come to a screeching halt. Common sense dictates waiting until it’s safe to cross or until a car yields.

Drivers, slowing down a bit won't get you to your avocado toast at Bungalow Bowls that much later. And I know your daughter needs to go to work... but the slower you're going, the less likely there's an issue. Either way – take a beat. Cross when it’s safe. The beach will still be there. Will you?