Alumni Dinner 2019

ALUMNI DINNER

St. Sebastian’s hosted its Alumni Dinner on October 24, filling Ward Hall with more than 150 Arrows from across the decades. During the event, Chris Galligan ’69 was honored with this year’s Alumni Service Award and Bob Souza, former head coach of the varsity football team, was celebrated for his 41 seasons of devotion to the football program.

Honoring a Loyal Arrow

Chris Galligan’s days as an Arrow date back to the fall of 1963 when he arrived on Nonantum Hill as a 7th grader, following in the footsteps of his older brothers, Tom ’62 and John ’65. His younger brothers, Marty ’73 and Peter ’76, also attended St. Sebastian’s. A talented and energetic student, Chris was a member of the 1967 undefeated football team and the starting goalie on the 1968-69 hockey team, guided by legendary coaches, Henry O’Brien and Henry Lane.

Since graduating from St. Sebastian’s in 1969, Chris has been a loyal Arrow over the years, helping to organize class reunions and attending almost every one of them. In the months leading up to his 50th Reunion in May 2019, he assumed a leadership role on the 50th Reunion Committee, helping his classmates to achieve 63% participation and spearheading a Class Gift in excess of $100,000. During his introduction, Headmaster Bill Burke noted that “Chris was a rock-solid, invaluable member of the St. Sebastian’s family from day one as a student and he has remained ever thus throughout every sacred moment of his life as an alumnus.” Headmaster Burke went on to praise Chris and his wife, Andi, for their “upbeat, happy, and positive nature, their great sense of faith and honor, and how they always give freely and fully of themselves—much to the great benefit and delight of their school.”

Chris then shared a few words, reminiscing about his experience at St. Sebastian’s, the connections he made with classmates and teammates, which continue today, and especially his memories of skating for Coach Lane on the outdoor hockey rink. Along with his wife, Andi, he acknowledged his four Arrow brothers, who were all in attendance, stating, “The five of us are very grateful to our parents for giving us the opportunity to attend St. Sebastian’s.” Chris also expressed his amazement at the extraordinary transformation of the campus while noting “the mission of St. Sebastian’s continues as strong, steady and focused as ever.”

From left to right, top to bottom: Chris Galligan ’69 receives a round of applause; the Galligan family; Chris delivers remarks; Alumni Association President Charles Haley, Headmaster Bill Burke, Board President Jim Elcock with Chris in his St. Sebastian’s chair.

Celebrating a Beloved Coach

Following dinner, it was Coach Souza’s turn to be in the spotlight. A three-sport varsity athlete in high school who went on to play football at West Point, Bob has had a life-long love of the game. In the fall of 1978, he joined the ranks at St. Sebastian’s to serve as head coach of the varsity football team as well as to teach social studies. After Henry Lane retired as Athletic Director in 1997, Bob took on this role for many years and continues to serve as Athletic Coordinator. He is also the proud parent of two Arrows, Matt ’93 and Mike ’96. Over the course of four decades, Coach Souza was the face, backbone, and leader of the Arrows football team, always modeling and demanding hard work, integrity, and toughness. Under his guidance, St. Sebastian’s won seven ISL championships—1982, 1990, 1994, 1999, 2001, 2012, and 2018—and led the team to five NEPSAC Super Bowls, capturing the trophy in 2012 and 2014. He has received several awards, including induction into the Massachusetts High School Football Coaches Hall of Fame in 2010 and recognition as Coach of the Year by the Gridiron Club of Boston in 2012.

The celebration of Bob’s 41 seasons at the helm kicked off with a presentation of a football helmet clock by alumni

From left to right, top to bottom: Coach Bob Souza embraces Sedale Threatt ’03 after he gives a heartwarming speech; John Fiore ’79, P’14,’19 and Joe Lawler ’81, P’20 present Bob with a clock; Bob and his wife, Pat; Bob with his family and ISL trophies in the foreground.

fathers John Fiore ’79, P’14,’19 and Joe Lawler ’81, P’20— two members of his first team in 1978 whose sons played on Coach Souza’s final team in 2018. Guests then enjoyed a video highlighting Bob’s career as head football coach, including old photos, game footage and interviews with former players Matt Noone ’81, P’19, ’22, Connor Strachan ’14, and Joe Hulbig ’92.

George Tahan, Director of Athletics for Belmont Hill School, launched the speaking portion of the event, sharing his great respect for Bob and thanking him for his guidance and friendship. George presented Bob with an ISL service plaque, as well as a gift from Belmont Hill, a wooden panel featuring the two rivals’ school seals and the following words: “Thank you for 41 seasons of friendship, sportsmanship, competition, and coaching excellence.”

“For 41 years, the last words I said to every team before we left the locker room were, ‘Let’s go have some fun.’” —Coach Bob Souza

Brian Strachan P’11,’14, whose two sons played for Bob, shared three of his favorite stories, noting that “there’s a million Coach Souza stories.” Sedale Threatt, Jr. ’03, then took the microphone, expressing his deep gratitude to his former coach: “So many of us have been honored to have you poured into our lives. I am the man I am today because of your love and your dedication to this community, this family, this brotherhood.” Bob’s son, Mike Souza ’96, gave a heartfelt speech, noting what a rare gift it’s been to see his father through a different set of eyes and the many lessons he learned from his dad on the football field. “You teach us that it’s great to win, but that there’s a way to win that’s much more important than actual victory. It’s all the things I just talked about—hard work, respect, accountability, being there for each other, integrity, courage.”

Bob then reflected on his 41 seasons as the varsity football head coach, sharing many memories with a packed Ward Hall filled with many of his former players and students from over the past four decades. “St. Sebastian’s has provided me with a very rich and rewarding experience,” shared Bob. “It goes without saying that it’s been a labor of love.” Bob recalled how early on in his career at St. Sebastian’s he created goals for the football program that have served as his guiding principles over the past four decades: to win, but to do it in a way that would earn the respect of the opponent; to always be competitive, while striving to be the best and continually working to get better; to provide a positive experience for the players; and to build leaders who would serve as role models within the school community.

Headmaster Burke closed out the night. In his speech, he said about Bob: “And there he was last fall in the gathering darkness after his last game, ignoring the noise and speaking from his heart to his boys of the day and to his boys of yesterday, to his boys who love him, to his boys who would run through a wall for him, to his boys who will never forget the lessons they learned from him. How do you thank a man for 41 years of all of that?”

From his first season as head coach of St. Sebastian’s varsity football team in 1979 to his last in 2018, photos of Coach Bob Souza from across the decades.

ARROWS CONNECT

Commercial Real Estate Networking Event On December 3, forty members of the St. Sebastian’s community gathered at the offices of CBRE for a commercial real estate networking event. Alex Cook ’91, Chairman of the Alumni Board’s Professional Networking Committee, led a panel discussion on the changes facing the commercial real estate industry. Tony Coskren ’01, of Newmark Knight Frank, Brian Daly ’05, of Boston Properties, John Hynes ’06, of Boston Global Investors, Brian McKenzie P’18,’20, of CBRE, and Theodore Touloukian P’23, of Touloukian Touloukian Inc., all shared insights and outlooks based on their diverse experiences in the sector.

Thanks to our panelists for making it a thought-provoking and successful evening and to all of the alumni and parents who attended.

Alumni Professional Networking Events

The St. Sebastian’s community has always recognized the strength of our connections and gathered regularly at networking breakfasts over the years. The Alumni Board’s newly minted Professional Networking Committee has taken a rifle approach to this long standing tradition by organizing two events per year focused on a particular industry. Following a successful commercial real estate panel discussion, the Committee is currently planning a technology industry event scheduled for April 14 to bring together St. Sebastian’s participants from this dynamic and forward thinking sector.

Be on the lookoutfor future industry-specific events brought to you by the Alumni Board.

Looking for an internship, industry contacts, first job, next job, or career advice? The Arrows Connect network is the place to start.

Arrows Connect is our own networking directory connecting members of the St. Sebastian’s community to each other. Your profile has already been set up by the Alumni Office. Just upload your LinkedIn profile to the site, answer a few short questions and your profile will be complete. As a member of Arrows Connect, you can access an extensive directory of professionals, find qualified candidates to hire, post job offerings, volunteer to be a mentor, and more.

Register today to make the most of your St. Sebastian’s network! arrowsconnect.org

ARROWS’ GATHERINGS

Receptions in DC & NYC On November 11, members of the Class of 2021 on their Junior Class Trip joined alumni and members of the extended St. Sebastian’s family at the annual Washington, D.C. Alumni Reception. Following an address by Headmaster Burke, the Class of 2021 received advice and inspiration from an outstanding lineup of speakers including current Georgetown freshman, Jared Price ’19, Thayer Wade ’13, and US Army Col. Christopher Conley ’94.

St. Sebastian’s alumni were hosted by Mark O’Friel ’79 at the Harvard Club for this year’s New York Reception on November 12. As always, a good crowd was in attendance to hear an update on their alma mater and enjoy the company of fellow Arrows.

Alumni Sports Day In keeping with the Thanksgiving-week tradition, the St. Sebastian’s School Alumni Office hosted its annual Alumni Sports Day on November 24. Alumni returned to campus for a great day of athletic competition and camaraderie on the hockey rink, basketball court and squash courts.

TOP: Brothers Thayer ’13 and Patrick '21 Wade at the Washington, DC Reception; BOTTOM: Brothers Tyler ’15 and Connor ’11 Wiik at the New York Reception.

Class of 2019 Yearbook Reception While home from college for Thanksgiving, the Class of 2019 returned to St. Sebastian’s on November 27 for the annual Yearbook Reception. Our most recent alumni received their copy of the yearbook, which was dedicated to Coach Bob Souza. After a lunch spent reminiscing with old classmates and catching up with faculty, last year’s seniors were presented with their Class of 2019 plaque, which will join the 74 other class plaques lining Alumni Hall.

CLASS NOTES

WHAT’S NEW?

Keep your classmates up to date on your accomplishments, family members, travels, or anything else new in your life. Send us photos, too!

Submit class notes and photos online at: stsebs.org/classnotes

Deadline for next issue: APRIL 1, 2020

Photos will be published based on quality and available space. Please be sure to send the highest quality image possible and identify everyone in the photo.

Share your IDEAS for Alumni Profiles

Do you know an alumnus you would like to see profiled in an issue of St. Sebastian’s Magazine? Tell us about it! Send an email with your suggestions to our Communications Office at communications@stsebs.org.

1950 James Harnedy writes: “It doesn’t seem possible that I and my Class of ’50 will be celebrating our 70th year as Arrows in 2020. Over the late summer and fall, I have been in touch with Jim Allan, Jim Delay and Gerry Powers. I’m still working as editor of Activities Guide of Maine. It’s an adventure magazine with a readership of 41,000. The winter edition went to press on the day before Thanksgiving. My 10th book, Forgotten Tales of Down East Maine, was released by The History Press in mid-May and Goose River Press 2019 Anthology for the holiday season just came out with one of my essays: “The Scent of Winter,” which defines the transition Mainers make for their long winters. I’m still holding down the fort here in Bucks Harbor, Machiasport, with Duncan, my wonderful canine companion. I still often think of my days on The Hill, but I’m sure others of my classmates have their memories of those longago days.”

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1966 George DeMambro reports: “I recently have joined Schooley Mitchell as a Business Optimization Specialist. Our core service is pretty simple. We save your business money in these areas, merchant services, telecom, and shipping. I am very excited to be part of this organization.”

1972 Mark Sullivan retired in November and relocated to Sarasota, Florida. He notes, “I am assuming that since my health is still good, I will end up looking to do something either part time and with less stress.”

1973 Vincent Gandalfo shares that his classmates, Andy Maloney, Mark Canavan, and Tom Cook and their wives gathered at Vincent’s home on October 19, 2019, to welcome

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LEFT: 1965 classmates Mike Lajoie, Gerry Riley (Riles), and Ed Davis on Riles’s porch in Kennybunk. RIGHT: Thomas Giblin ’75 with his fiancée, Jennifer Arsenault.

him and his wife, Lisa, back to Boston after 37 years in New York (see photo). Vincent notes, “Glad to be back home!”

1975 Thomas Giblin reports: “I’m living in a new house in Shrewsbury. Great town! Still practicing law when I have to. I referee FIBA/FIMBA, college and high school basketball and high school lacrosse. It is what keeps me sane and provides great friends. I have done a few Arrow games in both. For those of you who did not hear, we lost my dad a year ago to Parkinson’s. He lived 91 strong and super years. His shoes are extremely hard to fill, but I keep trying! He loved all my classmates and reveled in St. Seb’s memories. I am engaged to a super woman, Jennifer Arsenault. We have not figured out a date for the next step but suffice it to say, I am a very lucky guy!! I get together with Ed McDermott and Rich Murphy and relive the old days as often as possible. Both are doing great. Ed has battled through a few minor health issues to still be one of the greats from our class. Coaching debate team at Holy Cross and still has a sharp sense of humor! Murph just retired from many years in the special education field in Central MA. He is a very well-respected authority in the field, but remains a humble and super friend. Saw Joe Fahy at our 40th Holy Cross Reunion. The guy never ages!! He was doing great and still living in the Chicago area. My kids, Gus and Annika, are doing great at 21 and 17 respectively. Parenting has been an education and the most wonderful inconvenience a guy could ever have. Again, I am blessed. Hope to see or hear from my classmates whenever they are around or need legal assistance or a referee!”

Third Annual Nonantum Cup Challenge

The third annual Nonantum Cup was held in July at Granite Links Golf Club, continuing the tradition of a competition on the links between the Classes of 1970 and 1971. Once again the lads from 1971 were victorious with a score of 3-2. A great time was had by all and it was a wonderful way to kick off the 50th Reunion celebration for the Class of 1970.

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1973 classmates Andy Maloney, Mark Canavan, Tom Cook and Vincent Gandolfo gather at Vincent's home in October 2019.

MARCH RECEPTIONS in Florida

If you live in Florida or are looking for a great excuse to head to warmer climates, join us! All members of the St. Sebastian’s community are welcome, including alumni, parents, and grandparents.

3/12 Vero Beach 3/13 Jupiter 3/16 Naples

For more details and to RSVP, visit stsebs.org/vero, stsebs.org/jupiter, or stsebs.org/naples.

Save the Date

Recent Alumni SOCIAL for the Classes of 2000-2015

April 7, 2020 7:00-9:00 PM Park Avenue Tavern NYC

The 1969 Football Team Celebrates the 50th Anniversary of Their Undefeated Season

Prior to the Homecoming game on Saturday, October 12, the 1969 football team was recognized for its undefeated season. Thirty alumni, including football players and classmates from 1970, 1971 and 1972, joined in celebrating this great feat. Joe Duffey ’70 talked about the make-up and character of the team. He spoke of big plays made by different teammates in key games. Paul Costello ’68 also addressed the group. Paul had the unique opportunity to play on the 1967 undefeated team, as well as be part of Henry O’Brien’s coaching staff for the 1969 team. The program closed with a moment of silence for the eight deceased team members.

Following the reception, members of the 1969 team met on the 50-yard line for the playing of the national anthem. The celebration culminated with the pre-game coin toss. Colonel Brian Campbell ’71 asked the referee if he would consider using his Army Challenge Coin, which was presented to Col. Campbell during his first tour of duty in Iraq for outstanding support of the 399 Combat Support Hospital. The referee’s response was, “only if you toss the coin.” It was a fitting end to a memorable celebration for the 1969 football team.

REUNION 2020 MAY 15 & 16

Calling all 5’s and 0’s! Reserve your seat for Reunion weekend.

Mark your calendar now and help us fill your class table!

If you would like to be involved in the Reunion planning, please contact your class agent. We can’t wait to see you in May! CLASS NOTES

Register online at: www.stsebs.org/reunion

Sign up by March 15 and save $10 on the Clambake.

1979 Courtney Matthews writes: “On November 1st, I was promoted to Deputy Superintendent for the Boston Police Department. I am now the assistant bureau chief for the Bureau of Professional Standards.”

1982 Chris Kennedy shares: “Happy in realty. Gratefully recalling the challenges of HS which our two daughters are currently experiencing.”

1990 Rev. Dr. Virgil Glenn III reports: “I am now the pastor at Grant Chapel A.M.E. Church in Wichita, Kansas. Over the Thanksgiving Holiday, our family traveled to Charlotte, NC, to spend the holiday with my sister, her husband, our parents (who traveled from Brockton, MA), and a host of aunts, cousins and in-laws. A wonderful time was had by all.”

1992 Brian Faherty continues his acting career, playing an ill-fated Corrections Driver in the Season 7 Premiere of Showtime’s Ray Donovan on November 17th and shooting dice with Midge on the third episode of Season 3 of Amazon’s The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, which was released December 6th.

1994 Tim Foley reports: “After two years as the Communications Director for New York State Assembly member Amy Paulin, I’ll be taking on a new role in January 2020 as the Executive Director of the The Builders Institute (BI)/Building and Realty Institute (BRI), a building, realty and construction industry membership organization. The association, based in Armonk, has more than 1,800 members in 14 counties of New York State. The Board of Directors selected me to be only their third Executive Director in their 73-year history.”

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1999 Chris Marich writes: “We are very blessed raising Ben (8), Hadley (7) and Lucy (3) in New Canaan, CT.”

2006 Andrew Conway continues to teach chemistry, coach squash and varsity tennis, and advise seniors on their college process at St. Sebastian’s. He and his wife, Lydia, are expecting their first child in January 2020—a little boy and hopeful future Arrow (class of 2038?). They have lived on Bunker Hill in Charlestown for nearly 5 years, but this December, they sold their home and are headed to Needham just in time for Christmas and the new baby. The Conways are surely due for a busy, but happy 2020!

This issue of St. Sebastian’s Magazine includes Class Notes submitted as of December 31, 2019.

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Actor Brian Faherty '92 plays an ill-fated Corrections Driver in the Season 7 Premiere of Showtime's Ray Donovan.

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Rev. Dr. Virgil Glenn III '90 with his family at Thanksgiving. n Tyler Coskren, son of Tim '00, celebrated his first birthday on December 12, 2019. n Rosalyn Olivia, born to Andrew '06 and Elizabeth Maxwell on March 22, 2019. n Mike Coskren ’04 married Anna Darbaidze on June 28, 2019 in Bellagio on Lake Como, Italy. The reception was held at the Grand Hotel Villa Serbelloni. His brothers, Tim '00, Tony '01, and Nick '05, as well as several St. Sebastian's classmates, were in attendance for the festivities. n Three generations of Burkes, including Bill and Patty (far right), their four sons, Will '95, Dan '97, Matt '00, and Sam '04, their daughters-in-law, Gaia, Kathryn, Jeannette and Sophie, and their grandchildren, Liam, Isla, Jackson, Dillon, Mackey, Owen and Sean, gather in St. Sebastian's Chapel for the christening of Mackey and Sean.

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Peter DeFalco ’04 married Kate O’Neil in a beautiful ceremony in the North End of Boston in August. Peter (far left) celebrates with his fellow Arrows alumni (from left to right), Andrew Baker ’04, Anthony Laham ’04, Jon DeFalco ’06, Garrett Mancini ’04, and Matt Nagatori ’06. n Bob Souza visited with Blake '17 and Bryce Gallagher'19 and their parents after their game vs. Ohio State at Northwestern in October 2019. n James Orscheln ’17, a junior at Wake Forest University, spent the fall semester abroad in Sydney, Australia. While there, he had the chance to spend some time with fellow classmate Jackson McKeigue’17, a junior at Georgetown, who also spent the semester in Australia. Arrows everywhere! n Tommy Seidl ’17, Timmy Noone ’19 and Maynel Fuentes’16 all played in the Oldtime Baseball Game on August 22, 2019, at St. Peter’s Field in Cambridge. The annual event featured Roger Clemens and was played as a fundraiser for Compassionate Care ALS and in honor of John Welch, the longtime Fenway Park security supervisor who died in December 2019 after an inspiring battle against ALS.

ARROWS BROTHERS Back on Campus

ALUMNI GOLF OUTING May 15, 2020 / 8:00 am Shotgun Start South Shore Country Club, Hingham, MA

Open to all St. Sebastian’s alumni

The Condron Brothers—Devin '92, Brett '95 and Casey '94—are back on campus together, a rare occasion, for Homecoming 2019.

ARROWS FOREVER DAY 5.28.20

Save the Date—St. Sebastian's 4th annual giving day is scheduled to take place on Thursday, May 28, 2020. On Arrows Forever Day, we ask our alumni and other members of the St. Sebastian's community to give in support of the Annual Fund. We hope you will help us make Arrows Forever Day a success again this year. Every gift counts!

Registration and sponsorship information: www.stsebs.org/alumnigolf

IN MEMORIAM

We extend our deepest sympathy to the families of the graduates and friends of St. Sebastian’s School whose deaths are reported with sorrow.

Robert M. Birmingham ’62 Robert passed away peacefully at his beloved home in Osterville, MA, on November 3, 2019, at the age of 74. He attended St. Sebastian’s, the Canterbury School and Villanova University. Bob’s gift for connecting with people and his entrepreneurial spirit served him well in his career. In 1985, he bought Steinway & Sons with his brother, Jack ’59, and together they revitalized the company and restored Steinway pianos to their original and unparalleled excellence. From Oyster Harbors Club to Cape Cod Healthcare and the Cape Cod Symphony, Bob focused his many talents on improving the community around him. He loved nothing more than being with his friends and family. Bob is survived by his beloved wife Fran; children Kate, Maggie, Suzy and Michael; grandchildren Matthew, Eli and Ben; siblings Lois, Paul, and Mark ’70; nieces and nephews including Devin ’84, Mark Wrightson ’94, and Skip Wrightson ’97; and sister-in law Karen Birmingham P’84, GP’14, ’17. His brother, Jack, predeceased him.

Andrew Boschetto ’78 Andrew passed away surrounded by his loving family on October 25, 2019, at the age of 59. While at St. Sebastian’s, Andrew was on the golf team, as well as a part of the photography club and weightlifting club. He was labeled “one of the most ambitious men in the class” and a sharp dresser. Andrew is survived by his children, Andrew, Alan and Alexandra, sister Susan, grandchildren Rome and Lucca and his future 3 granddaughters.

Thomas A. Cahill ’55 Thomas passed away on May 1, 2019, at the age of 82. While at St. Sebastian’s, Tom was involved in The Walrus, Debate Society, Altar Society and many more extracurriculars. He always had an interest in science and was considered one of the outstanding scholars of his class. He earned a bachelor’s degree at The College of the Holy Cross and a doctorate in physics at UCLA. In 1967, Tom joined the UC Davis faculty. During his five decades in research, he delighted in applying his physics expertise to problems in the public sphere, especially those in environmental science. He engaged in battles to save Mono Lake, remove lead from gasoline, protect air quality in national parks, and safeguard first responders following the 2001 World Trade Center disaster. Cahill is survived by his wife, Ginny; his daughter, Cathy and his son, Tom.

Hanford T. Crosby, Jr. ’55 Hanford, known as “Bing,” passed away on July 21, 2019, at the age of 83. While at St. Sebastian’s, he was a dedicated member of the golf team, and was also on the tennis, intermural basketball and softball teams. He was inspired by his favorite faculty member, Fr. Keating, to serve as a sacristan. After graduating from St. Sebastian's, Bing went on to college and founded a successful landscaping company. He then moved on to sales, working in the rubber and automotive industries. He was a long-time member of St. Linus Church in Natick. All of this he shared with his wife, Margaret, the love of his life, who passed away in 2011 after 41 years of marriage.

Gerald P. Hynes ’57 Jay passed away on October 3, 2019, at the age of 80. While at St. Sebastian’s, Jay was the co-captain of the golf team, as well as a member of the intermural basketball league. He was always an enthusiastic participant in all the school’s social functions and was known for his witty personality. After graduation, Jay attended Boston College, where he met his future wife, Rae Johnson. He was the owner of Interstate Drywall, Inc. of Wellesley Hills. He enjoyed work, golf, travel and music. Jay is survived by his wife, Rae, daughters, Elizabeth and Jennifer, and grandsons, Christopher, Zachary and JJ.

Herbert H. King ’53 Herbert passed peacefully on November 2, 2019, after bravely fighting breast cancer for 13 years. While at St. Sebastian’s, Herb was known for his sly wit and casual good humor. He was one of the best and most consistent basketball players in his class, and a member of the intermural softball team and debate team. After graduating from St. Sebastian’s, Herb attended Stonehill College where he met Denise, the love of his life. For almost 40 years, he worked in the field of public housing. Herb loved to travel and was an avid sports fan. In addition to Denise, he is also survived by his daughters, Maribeth and Deb, two sisters, Raymah and Maureen, six grandchildren, three great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. His daughter, Dina, predeceased him after her own valiant battle with breast cancer.

ALUMNI RELATIVES & FRIENDS

DickranBabigian, Sr. December 3, 2019 Grandfather ofJacob ’20

Helen Balouris August 31, 2019 Grandmother of Nicholas Grover ’22

Kathleen Sullivan Blake September 30, 2019 Sister of Michael Sullivan ’67

Susan Chisholm July 15, 2019 Grandmother of John’22

SaeR. Choi September 10, 2019 Grandfather of Matthew Choi’22

Grace Foreman October 5, 2019 Grandmother of Jack Foreman’24

PatrickHoarty July 26, 2019 Father of Thomas ’75 and Brendan ’77

Jeanne Louise Kerzner September 4, 2019 Grandmother ofJohn’19 andSam Randall’21

Virginia Leonard November 2, 2019 Mother of Jay ’85 and Mark ’88, grandmother of Thomas Repetti’06 Kevin Martin September 10, 2019 Grandfather ofKevin Martin’12

Meghan Anne Martin August 24, 2019 Wife of Patrick ’99, sister-inlaw of Trustee Shawn Martin and aunt of Ryan ’17, C.J. ’17, Cameron ’18, Owen ’19, and Trevor ’19

Stephen F. McDonough August 20, 2019 Father of Brian Compagnone’92

Mary L. McNamara August 23, 2019 Mother ofTrustee John ’81 and the late Greg ’84, grandmother of Johnny ’14 and Billy ’18

Theresa Anne Myles August 19, 2019 Mother of Lee ’69 and Kevin ’72

Chad Andrew Pierce November19, 2019 Stepson of Gil Carney ’70

TheresaRonayne December 3, 2019 Grandmother of Aidan Garrity ’20

James D. Malone ’48 James passed away on August 23, 2019. While at. St. Sebastian’s, Jim was the manager for the basketball team and played baseball and JV football. He was also a member of the French club, Science Club and Debate Society. His yearbook states, “he did much to contribute to the happiness of our St. Sebastian days.” Following his passing, Jim’s wife, Maureen, shared, “Jim was always promoting St. Sebastian’s to friends and relatives. He was proud to carry the distinction of being a St. Sebastian’s graduate.”

John F. McMorrow ’59 Jack passed away on November 16, 2019, at the age of 78. While at St. Sebastian’s, he was a member of the Dramatic Society, Debate Society, National Honor Society and JV basketball team. Jack was known for his wit and friendly personality. Following St. Sebastian’s, he earned a bachelor’s degree in Finance at Boston College and an MBA from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. Jack worked for RCA, Polaroid and Union Pacific Corporation before turning his skills to the non-profit world of education, serving as CFO at the Council on Economic Education in NYC, the College of St. Joseph in Vermont, and St. Mary’s Ryken in Maryland. In retirement, he continued his consulting work in financial and compliance for non-profits and investment management. He lived an honorable life strong in his faith, sense of responsibility and love of his family, friends and community. He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Sheila; children John, Christine and Tyler; and siblings Joanne and Bill.

Michael D. Reilly ’05 Michael died peacefully in his sleep on December 1, 2019, at the age of 33. While at St. Sebastian’s, Michael was a member of the varsity basketball and golf teams. After graduating from Fairfield University, he spent some time in San Diego. Upon his move back to Boston, he began working with his Dad at Fernwood Investment Management in Quincy, working his way up to Portfolio Manager. Michael truly lived life to the fullest. He could light up any room with his amazing dance moves and self-proclaimed “voice of an angel.” His quick wit, wonderful humor and out of this world personality were sure to bring a smile to the face of everyone he met. He is survived by his wife, Jennifer; parents Dianne and Thomas; sisters Nicollette, Courtney and Kelsey; and six nieces and nephews.

Andrew J. Sisto ’97 Andy died suddenly at his home, at 40 years old. While at St. Sebastian’s, Andy was a member of the varsity football and baseball teams, as well as the International Club, SADD and Spanish Honor Society. After graduating from St. Sebastian’s, he attended Bates College where he received a BA in Political Science and Government and worked in the insurance industry. He was the proud father of Dominic and Isabella, and brother to Jeffrey ’93, Christopher and Cameron. He also leaves behind several nieces and nephews, aunt and uncles, cousins and friends.

This listing contains deaths reported before December 15, 2019. To see a complete listing of alumni who have passed away within the past twelve months, please visit www.stsebs.org/inmemoriam. To report a death of a St. Sebastian’s alumnus or relative to the Development Office, contact Kelsey Kane at kelsey_kane@stsebs.org.

Providing for Future Arrows

Peter ’55 and Honey McLaughlin GP’13,’19,’24 can still recall vividly the day their oldest grandson, Jake ‘13, called to tell them he would be attending St. Sebastian’s School. They knew St. Sebastian’s was in the running, but it was not until Jake visited the campus and experienced the camaraderie among the students and faculty, that he was sold on becoming an Arrow like his grandfather.

Although Peter had stayed connected to the school over the years through his role as a class agent and his friendship with Henry Lane ’47, that phone call was the beginning of a deeper relationship with St. Sebastian’s. When Jake started in the 7th grade in the fall of 2007, Peter joined the Alumni Board. Since then, two additional grandsons – Peter Blake ’19 and Nicolas ’24 – have become Arrows. In 2017, he joined the Board of Trustees and has also served as Chair of the Grandparents’ Fund for several years.

Through his involvement, Peter has had the opportunity to see the value of a St. Sebastian’s education and believes it starts with the mission of the school. “What stands out in my mind is the sacred partnership between the school and parents to make every boy as good as God wants him to be in body, mind, and spirit,” noted Peter. “The commitment to the individual student is exceptional.”

As grandparents, Peter and Honey are very proud of Jake, Peter and Nicolas and delighted with each of their experiences at St. Sebastian’s. “What I’m seeing is men of character that have a moral compass and concern for others. I think that’s a hallmark of the school,” shared Peter. Recalling two of his grandsons’ graduations, he added, “You just see the warmth between the teachers and the students when they walk down the aisle after getting their diploma.” Honey has been impressed by what she’s witnessed as well and loves coming to campus for games, Grandparents Day and other events. “It’s very much like family for us when we come here.”

“I have great confidence in what the school is doing now and what it promises,” stated Peter. This belief has promoted the McLaughlins to make a generous bequest to the school. As members of the Monsignor Charles D. McInnis Society, they join a growing number of alumni, parents and grandparents who feel the same way and have chosen to support the school through their estate planning. By providing a legacy gift, the McLaughlins will help build the endowment and support future generations through financial aid, something they believe is a strategic priority for the school.

Thank you, Peter and Honey, for your leadership, generosity and support!

For more information about gift planning and including St. Sebastian’s in your estate plans, contact James Barron P’16,’19 in the Office of Planned Giving at 781.247.0158 or james_barron@stsebs.org or visit plannedgiving.stsebs.org.

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