Stylish Milk Magazine No.2 by Stylish Milk Magazine

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magazine Jan / 2016

All Things Mama + Little

"This issue of Stylish Milk celebrates Motherhood and the beautiful little lives created out of love. We hope you enjoy this monthly cup of pretty."

Image by Brandis Allison, Editor, Artist + Founder of SM Model: Jenni of Jennifer Lehner Photography

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Stylish Milk Mag

All Things Mama + Little No.2 / January 2016

Editor, artist, designer + founder Brandis Allison

Photography contributors Emily Butterworth Annalee Courtright Cristina Toff Max Grey Bianca Delopez Nesha Sampson Bernadette Uzcategui Belinda Love Kei Fuchigami

FASHION BloggerS Paula Mathias Meet Madeleine

Brand partners

CONTENT CONTRIBUTORS

The Minted Moose Nori Child House of Strawberries Hello Charlie Studio Live Kreatve Clothing She She Marie Boutique Telegraph Ave Onyx Avenue Shayla Clay Designs Blueprint Society Fawn Kids Clothing ModerneChild Lola And Lulu Mama Mermaid Made To Play Kids Allegra And Luca

Jena Holliday Sarah Molitor Jackquel Carter Nicole Lahey

Featured mompreneurs Bonnie Ryan Kate Roginielewicz Emily Butterworth Brandis Allison Bernadette Uzcategui Amanda Buechler

HOME CONTRIBUTOR Krisztina Paskuly

BUNNY HOSTESS Michelle Vilasineekul

STYLE CONTRIBUTORS Emily Butterworth Bernadette Uzcategui

On the cover Sarah Molitor of JudeAndHudson Image by Annalee Courtright Photography Floral Crown by Annalee Courtright Maternity Attire by Pink Blush Maternity

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Magazine, for being a part of my life in this way and for your

Holiday Gift Guide Issue (November 2015) was a special edition, showcasing handmade brands. This issue, is more "me" and my vision for what Stylish Milk truly is - a celebration of YOU, the Mommy, the Maker, the Dreamer, the Creator, the Mompreneur.

love + support. It's not an easy I am a mommy of three little

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enjoy this issue.

happy chaos that is my everyday, for anything in the entire

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world. I also at times, feel really lonely. And so my contributors

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celebrate the ups and downs.

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We share our journey. The

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PREGNANCY

#Stylish Milk Chat Brandis Chit-Chat's With SM Readers to find out what cravings they had while expecting their bundles of joy.

Images By: Brandis Allison, Editor of STYLISHMILKMAG / Model: Jenni Lehner of Jennifer Lehner Photography

nutella on everything -Morgan, LivinLikeOwen fish fillets with extra, extra tarter sauce, hot french fries, orange juice and chocolatey-chocolate milk. -Haley, NatyRose_ pineapple and watermelon -Jordann, JaJenks00 wood-fired pizza with pepperoni and spinach salad -Tara, TBrackeen

chocolate croissants with my first and all things salty with my second - pickles, olives, french fries! mmmmm -Megan, BroBroSparks

bagels + cream cheese, greek yogurt + peanut butter mixed together, graham crackers, oj, pink lemonade + chocolate -Karolyn, TheBrileyBirds

steak and chocolate chip cookies -Ashley, NeverlandCrewClothing

jolly ranchers -Miranda, MirandaSeuis

pickles with kosher salt until my lips burned from the sodium -Brandi, Brandi_Olmos

peanut butter, always! -Brittney, Haizel_Creations

potatoes! -Kim, LittleFireBrigade

beets with my first and root beer with my second -Terri, TBFarley727

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Mama Diary A Chat About Motherhood, Blogging + Mompreneurship with Jena Holliday of

ASpoonfulOfFaith

Editors Note: I had the pleasure of chatting with a lovely friend, the mama behind the Insta g ram pa ge ASpoonfulOfFaith, Jena Holliday, 28, of Minneapolis MN Brandis, Editor of Stylish Milk: Tell me what you would do if you had zero responsibilities for a day? Jena: I'd totally start the day at the coffee shop with the gospel and some caffeine to get some good morning vibes in the way! I'd then head home and likely work on something creative - drawing, watercolor, DIY crafts. This is what I love to spend my time doing so that'd probably take up most of my day. I'd also get Layla involved, since she's starting to understand a bit more, so it would be so beautiful to share this with her. I'd probably end the day with a thrifting run! I really love finding new or used things and giving new life to them and it makes me feel so much better about shopping for myself! Ha! SM: What is your favorite part of being a mommy? J: Getting to see life again through my daughter's eyes. Being challenged to be a better version of myself

everyday. The sweet hugs and kisses from your little one that only a mama knows. The bond that is formed immediately following birth. Motherhood is so amazing to me, it's shown me a lot about true life, what is important, what's not, and what sacrifice and love is. SM: Tell us more about your second pregnancy. How far along are you and is it going as you had expected / hoped? What is your favorite part of this pregnancy? How about your not so favorite part? J: I'm at 32 weeks now! Woo! It's so different, I definitely understand why women say each pregnancy will be different. I would say this time around I am noticing more of the not-so-good parts of being preggo - like being uncomfortable! And this one kicks like crazy, which is showing me - it's a different baby so I can't expect the same thing as with Layla. My favorite part is getting to tell my daughter that her "brudder" is in there, although she doesn't truly understand it all. It's still so sweet to see her talk to my belly, kiss it, and point to her belly afterwards! No, honey, your brother is not in there!

SM: The one thing you do for yourself, every single day? J: Get lost in my worship music and spend time with my bible. It's definitely my daily bread. SM: What/Who is the single most influential presence in your life, that gives you strength and passion in every aspect? J: Jesus! He has restored my passion for art, strengthened my heart in tough times, and given me a dream and vision for the future. I would also say my mother is such a great influence to me. She's raised seven kids and is such a cool, calm person. I never understood that about her, until I became a mother. She has found so much peace and wisdom in her relationship with God, that it has always helped her as a mother and I am honored to have her as a guide and help in my life. SM: Speaking of motherhood; Becoming a mother is a lifealtering event. What is the most memorable of first moments for you? J: The most memorable moment would be when we first brought Layla home from the hospital. I remember life being so chaotic. We were new parents, we didn't know what we were doing, and my husband told his best friend it was a good day to come over and cook for us. It was a disaster. I remember his friend cooking, me crying because I was in pain from my c-section, and my husband leaving and picking up a new rocking chair for me, because I could not sit comfortably on our couches. The entire time, Layla

was fine. Cooing, sleeping, and just perfectly happy - while the adults were trying to get it together. I think that was one of the hardest moments for me, but one with a significant meaning. It showed me that life was never going to be the same again, that I would definitely be tried, but to appreciate the people I have to help me, relax and go with the flow. That's exactly what Layla was doing, she knew no other way but to go with it. That has definitely helped me as a mother. SM: The last delicious treat you craved and ate? Gotta love those pregnancy cravings! J: Simple, but I was totally craving white chocolate covered pretzels over the holidays and I made some yummy ones with sprinkles. SO GOOD. SM: So, Jena, tell us more about your day job and your duties. What's it like working a full time job and being a commissioned artist? Tips on balancing two jobs and a family while expecting? J: Well during the day, I work in digital marketing as a social media analyst. So I analyze social media performance and help strategize towards sales and traffic goals. I think juggling working full time and going after your dreams can be a tricky space to be in. It took me a while to figure it out, but I've learned that I can't spread myself too thin. I've got to designate time to work on my art, time to spend with my family and time to relax. I've also got to be okay with priorities switching on me suddenly. I remember when I first started, I'd

say I want to work on something for an hour and then it seemed like everyone was pulling on me to do something else. I'd get frustrated and try to work through it - spending double the time not fully attentive to anyone or anything. What I do now, if my daughter is pulling at me - I give her my full attention; if my husband wants to talk - I make him the priority; and I don't stress about the rest. My motto is I will get to it. It will get done. I don't set unrealistic expectations, I give myself a lot of grace and time to get things done. But grace and Jesus is the big key here. You can't do it all alone and you don't have to. One step and one thing at a time. SM: I am personally, a huge fan of yours and the custom art you created for me is so dear to my heart. I am also a fan of your blog, SpoonfulOfFaith.com. It's beautifully written and inviting. What made you decide to start a blog? What's your favorite thing about blogging? J: I started blogging about six years ago and it was honestly just a creative outlet for me. When I closed down my first blog and started running Spoonful of Faith, I started blogging to share my life and journey in being a mom, entrepreneur, and new to Christ. I wanted to use it as a journal and it has been so much more than that. My favorite thing about blogging is that is allows me a space to creatively be myself. No rules, whatever I want and I don't have to fit into anyone's box. And sharing Gods word and connecting with others through it all!

SM: What steps did you take at the very beginning of your blogging days, to get started and to get noticed by new readers? J: I stayed consistent and faithful. I really had to dedicate myself to saying 'I'm going to write and post no matter if 1 person reads or 100 people read'. It's gotta be important to me no matter what, for it to be important to others. I shared my blog everytime I posted something. It's hard to share ourselves with the world at times, but keep putting yourself out there, keep sharing, even if you think no one is paying attention - someone is watching you! You never know who you can reach just by being faithful with that. I partnered and aligned with other bloggers, businesses, and people ONLY where it was a natural fit. Nowadays you see people doing whatever they can to gain traction and that's never been my style. I really value and treasure my readers and those who follow me and so I only give them what I really like or care about. I only promote or talk about people that really matter, inspire, or believe in.

SM: Jena, you have a fantastic, engaged, social media following on Instagram. In what way have you grown your community, your followers, authentically? J: Sharing real parts of me and my life and what I'm learning on our journey through life. Doing my own thing and producing my own voice and vision has also helped and this is solely through understanding my identity in Christ and not being afraid of it. I used to approach social media with an intention to grow and gain followers and now I'm at a point where I really want to make relationships with people, share who I am and my work, and be a light to others. I've found out that it's not fun unless I'm being me, talking about what I care about, and another key is to care about those who follow and interact with you. Why should someone care about your life if you don't interact and care about there's? Isn't there's just as important as yours? I've made great friendships with some awesome people from commenting and sharing our lives on Instagram. Don't underestimate what you can do with it! SM: Let's talk about #hashtags. Do you hashtag? If yes, tips on finding tags that reach your target audience? J: Yes! I think it's important. You really have to know what your customer and target audience is and what they care about. Then what has helped me is finding

out what hashtags they are using, who they are following, and using those insights to form your own set of hashtags. Also, freshen up your hashtags often. For different topics I use different sets so I'm reaching people with different interests. SM: Blogging. It is definitely powerful, fun, creative, interesting, exhilarating, therapeutic even. Do you have any specific advice for mommies who are thinking about starting a blog? J: Start it! I told my sister this, as she wanted to start blogging, but she was unsure of what niche she should be in and what she should focus on or even how to begin. I explained to her that it was HER blog and not to get caught up in all these rules people put out there. In the end, people will be coming for HER and she should remember that it can look and feel however she wants it to look and feel; it's hers! Also, not to be afraid or so obsessed with it being perfect if I went back to my first post 6+ years ago; it's embarrassing! Lol! Mostly because we grow from the person we were when we began. We develop and change and things get better the longer and more experience we have - so quit judging yourself so much today and know it will get better and bigger and it will form into something that you absolutely adore. Maybe not from day one, but if you don't start today, you're only wasting time wondering on something you could be building! It's a journey, embrace it!

SM: Being a Mompreneur is difficult. Can you tell us one challenge you have faced recently and how you overcame it? J: A recent challenge I've faced is staying true to what is IN me and doing work that I love vs. only what pays. There's a constant balance we do as entrepreneurs and I've really wanted to ONLY do what I love. And in seeking that, I've lost people who loved things I've done in the past because I wasn't doing much of that type of work anymore. I've also seen it shift and have new people in my life, who support where I'm going. I've overcome it by understanding that there will be ups and downs in business, but that you should always do what you love. If you don't love it, then why are you doing it? If it's only for the money or for all the wrong reasons, it will rob you of your joy. It will do more hurt to you then help and it won't benefit your life. You will be miserable and where is the life in that? People may not agree but you've got to make the best decision for your well-being!

night owl. I have random moments in the night I'll wake and just felt led to draw, or read my bible. Those quiet times have helped me spiritually and mentally. My friends don't understand how I do it all, but it's definitely got Jesus written all over it.

SM: What is one thing (other than meeting your new baby) that you're looking forward to most in 2016? J: I'm really excited for what I can accomplish this year. I am going to be taking some big steps towards running my business full-time and it's exciting! I'm also taking on some projects and I am looking forward to the doors, opportunities, people that I will be connected with. I'm excited for where my relationship in Christ will grow. I'm very expectant of great things! SM: I won't keep you much longer, as I have just one last, very vital question for you. What life advice would you give to a mommy, seeking balance in her world? J: Honestly, balance for me is found through my relationship with Christ. I really have discovered that I can't do everything all the time. I let God lead me in the direction I go with my work, my family, and my life. It has helped me to not worry as much about things that I don't have the capacity for and helped me to stay present with what I am doing. It has brought me so much peace. I believe that before Him, I was trying to do so much and often felt like a failure. I have a lot of days where I don't get to everything I need to, but I allow myself A LOT of grace each day. Was I present with my family, friends, and Jesus? Is there anything on fire? If not, we are good. I'm also a

Follow Jena's Journey: ASpoonfulOfFaith Blog: SpoonfulOfFaith.com In The Woods, Fall Photos: Images by: Laura Ann, LauraAnn_Photography Jena is wearing a Gap dress + H&M Leggings Layla is wearing an Emma's Garden Sweater, Leggings from Carters and Old Navy Boots Snow Photos: Copyrigt Jena Holliday Jena is wearing a Long Cardigan from Forever 21, Tank Top + Leggings from H&M and a Coach Backpack Layla is wearing a Black/Silver Dress and Leggings from H&M, Gap Kids Booties and a Leather Jacket from Osh Kosh

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Meet Sarah, The Mama Behind The Insta-Page

JudeAndHudson And Learn More About Her Styled Maternity

Shoot with Annalee Courtright Photography

"I'm Sarah Molitor, the mother behind the Instagram page JudeAndHudson and I am due any day now, with our 3rd baby boy, Chase. I love baking and cooking, keeping up with the boys and spending time with my family.

more intimate feel, but we also braved the cold for some sunset pictures! Overall, it was amazing. She directed me so smoothly on how to look and pose, and made me laugh the entire time.

Hudson is 20 months old. He is attached to his older brother, loves the corners of his blankies and finding airplanes in the sky. He is super ticklish.

Maternity Pictures; You should have them taken. I felt so goofy at times, but I trusted Annalee in what she was doing and in how she guided me. I'm not a model, so when I would 'stare into the distance' I figured I would look ridiculous. But you know what? She was right. When I saw the images the first time I couldn't believe they were from our shoot. She made me feel so beautiful and glowing. She made me feel so 'elevated' from my normal mom self!

This is my third pregnancy and I knew I wanted photos taken. I asked my friend (and photographer) Annalee if she would be interested in a maternity shoot to highlight my PinkBlush Maternity items. She loved the idea and suggested a styled shoot and took it from there. I wanted some indoor photos for a

My husband has LOVED looking through the photos, which makes me feel even more beautiful. And for the future, I have these special moments recorded of just myself and my sweet babe in the womb! Simply put...this experience and the final images are irreplaceable."

My oldest, Jude, is 3 years old, all boy and loves knowing what his shirts say. He is quite the bookworm. He loves helping his little brother with everything!

Maternity Top: PinkBlushMaternity / Flower Crown: Annalee Courtright Photography

Twelve Must-Have Small-Shop Essentials For Your Littlest Loves

Written by Cover Model + Mother, Sarah Molitor, JudeAndHudson Images of Sarah by Annalee Courtright Photography

LITTLESAPLINGTOYS

KENNEDYANDREESE

Who doesn’t love wooden toys and blocks and well, wooden everything?! Kimber and her husband are doing it right making everything from blocks, home decor, toys and more with modern designs, all in their own wood shop!

Micah has your little girls and guys covered. She makes skirts and leggings in a variety of colors and styles that people ooo and ahhh at. Her fabrics are always modern and up to date to make your little one look hip as can be (while still being affordable).

What I love: They offer most all of their products in various stains and each product is safe for your child (and you) to handle, while still being fun to play with and use. Toys can also be personalized! Our name blocks are in multiple stain colors and match our nursery in every beautiful way possible.

What I love: The leggings we have for baby Chase are neutral and lightweight (and the most adorable plaid). Perfect for year round wear, whether layering in winter or with a onesie in the heat of summer.

Fun Fact:

They are the largest toy seller on Etsy and for every toy purchased, a new tree is planted!

Micah is my sister, and encouraged me to start my judeandhudson page. I could say SO many great things about her. She really loves what she does and each item is handmade by her! She also offers the ability to ship gifts to your friends, ANYWHERE, tied up beautifully with a handwritten personalized note, with your words.

PLUCKY.MUSTARD Debra is incredibly talented and hand-paints EVERY shirt she sells! Every shirt!! Her designs vary from adorable to whimsical and everything in between. Seeing the “Oh hello Life” design on the tiniest newborn onesie ever is enough to make you want another baby! I chose the sprout color because it felt like a dash of brightness and spring in the middle of winter! Plus, I love green!

THELITTLEDOEBABY We ALL love moccasins! Especially for itty bitty babies. And Mikayla brings to life beautiful moccasins in gorgeous colors. Real leather, handmade and long-lasting. They are affordable, too!

What I love:

The paint is non toxic and completely washable AND retains its color! Perfect for us moms who throw everything in the laundry without a thought.

The softness and flexibility of the leather. So perfect for newborn little feet (and an active child’s foot). I also love their affordability!

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Debra can take custom orders and has an entire rainbow of colors to choose from! Perfect for any occasion.

Every Friday is “littledoefriday” where a certain color moccasin is featured at an amazing price! Always worth coming back for more! Never miss another deal!

YOUNGBUCKBEANIES

TUBBYTODD I love putting beanies on my boys and this new baby will be no exception. These beanies are thick enough to keep your little warm and light enough to keep them from sweating. The perfect combo!

What I love: All the colors and patterns! I’m beanie obsessed and I can tell you that these are quality and long lasting and create that oh so perfect slouch look! Fun Fact: Young Buck Beanies has the whole family covered. They make beanies in all sizes from NB to Adult and they are always sewn after you make your purchase for BEST quality.

No one knows bath time like Andrea. With six products that cover everything from bath time to potential skin issues, its no wonder people (like myself) covet each bottle of goodness. My boys have been begging for more bubbles at bath time ever since we got tubbytodd. And I have been treating my own extreme dry skin like a boss with the all-over ointment. What I Love: The versatility. I use them AND my kids use them. Plus each product smells wonderful and fresh! Fun Fact: A little goes a long way. Since they are made with such quality, you only need a little each time to do the trick, whether for bubbles or hand cream.

POTATOFEET MODERNBURLAP I have no fear of losing pacifiers anymore thanks to Kati. Besides having an amazing line of leather moccasins, PF also have the most adorable leather pacifier clips. Neutral and beautiful colors are available along with being the perfect length so nothing hits the ground when spit out of baby’s mouth. At only $8 you just can’t go wrong. What I love: They are washable and wipeable by hand for easy clean up! Also they are handmade in the USA and you can feel the durability of the leather! Fun Fact: They can be attached to ANY baby item that has a little hole for the clip to be looped through! And they are made out of 100% leather just like their moccs.

For me, muslin swaddles are a MUST. With MB, you get the best of both worlds; muslin swaddles with adorable black+white designs that are trendy and beautiful! Very appealing for any type of style. What I love: Muslin is breathable and lightweight which makes it safe for your baby. Our Modern burlap swaddles get multiple uses: swaddling, a tummytime blanket, changing mat, stroller cover, nursing cover, burp cloth and more. We take them everywhere we go. Fun Fact: Black and white designs are a conscious choice made my Modern Burlap because they enhance baby’s vision and stimulate brain development. Win-win for you and your little. They also offer soft “anytime blankets” and other fun products.

Maternity Top: H&M / Maternity Jeans: PinkBlushMaternity / Boots: Nordstrom

Maternity Top: PinkBlushMaternity / Flower Crown: Annalee Courtright Photography

SARANONIBLANKET

COVEREDGOODS If you want the most lush, cuddly blanket around, then SB is the place to go. The softness is unreal and they come in ALL sizes. And snuggling that newborn babe? The receiving blanket is absokutely perfect.

What I love: Besides being the softest blanket ever, I love the variety of color choices along with various options for texture and lining. I chose the ivory swirl/gingersnap lush for my babe because I wanted those soft neutral tones to match his nursery.

I know first hand that nursing in public can be awkward/scary. Jamie, creator of CG is a mom of 4 and has solved that problem with her nursing covers. Not only do they cover you all the way around, but they are long enough to cover you and your baby, sufficiently. What I love: I love the length and that there are no annoying wires or plastic. You just slip it over your head to nurse comfortably. You also have a great view of your baby. They are made of breathable stretchy fabric, for use in any environment.

Fun Fact:

Emily is a mother of 5 and so Saranoni is a “grow with your family” company. There is a blanket in every size and color that you (or your kids) could possibly want. These blankets are great for snuggling a newborn babe or just hanging out by yourself, snuggled up on the couch.

These covers are for more than nursing. Use them as a carseat cover, shopping cart cover or even as a trendy scarf (great to have on hand for those unexpected nursing sessions in public).

PINKBLUSHMATERNITY HAPPYBABYWRAP With this being baby #3, I know I will be doing a lot more babywearing. HBW is the shortest wrap on the market, made of incredibly soft, stretchy, organic bamboo. With the Happy Wrap, you can cuddle, nurse discreetly, and keep your newborn babe completely cozy and tucked away when needed. Plus, you can be hands-free. What I love: Since the wraps are stretchy, they can fit most body types. They are stretchy enough to allow room for baby to be snuggled in and I’m obsessed with all the color choices. Fun Fact: They give clear directions on how to tie your wrap, for the perfect fit! They also give tips for adjusting as needed.

PBM is the primo-site for maternity clothing (as well as jewelry, scarfs, hats, shoes and more). You will find everything you need to feel and look beautiful. What I love: That I can have an entire pregnancy wardrobe available at my fingertips. They have pieces for every season. I have been wearing my jeans non-stop and they don’t fall down! The robe I get to bring to the hospital will feel like a dream. It's so silky soft (and gorgeous too). Fun Fact: For some outfit inspo, head to their website. Not only will you see amazing outfit pairings, but they have a lookbook that always will give you ideas for dressing your bump! Plus, they often have sales and deals that you won't want to miss!

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Mama Diary A Chat About Motherhood, Parenting + Brand Representing with Nicole Lahey of Ready.Set.Chaos

Editors Note: I had the pleasure of interviewing the amazing mama behind the Instagram page Ready.Set.Chaos, Nicole Lahey, 28, from Long Island, New York. Brandis, Editor of Stylish Milk: Tell me what you would do if you had zero responsibilities for a day? Nicole: This is an easy one; I would pack everyone up and go to the carousel at the Cradle of Aviation. My kids are obsessed with carousels and will play musical horses on it for hours. This Carousel is a historic attraction to Long Island and was recently restored and moved to the museum. I remember going on this carousel as a kid, as do both of my parents, my husband, and his parents. It’s pretty cool to be able to share something with your children that both you and their grandparents enjoyed as kids. SM: What is your favorite part of being a mommy? N: This is so cliché, but I love watching them learn new things. Stephen and I choose not to help our kids learn new tasks. For instance, at the playground we stand back and watch them. There are a few parts of

the playground that my kids have not yet conquered and that is perfectly okay with us. We believe that if they cannot do it on their own today, that they should try again the next day and work at climbing the tower or the net on their own. We don’t freak out if they fall, instead we make sure they’re okay, kiss their bruised ego, and encourage them to try again next time. One specific moment I remember involves the ever so scary monkey bars. Harper was eyeing the monkey bars for months, but was never tall enough to reach them. Finally one day she climbed up and realized the bars were within her reach, she climbed up and down to reach them about 10 times, and each time she backed down not sure if she was capable of doing it. Over about a weeks time, and watching many a seasoned monkey-bar-climbers complete the course, she finally gained confidence and picked her feet up off of the platform. She was so proud of herself, and I was even prouder. She swung there until her arms gave out. I know that if I had helped her do that, the sense of accomplishment wouldn’t have been as great, this was something she learned and executed all on her own and as a parent I find this to be extremely important for her future.

SM: Tell us something you wish you knew before becoming a mother. N: I wish I had known to expect that the person looking back at me in the mirror, would never be the same after having her first child. Looking back almost four years, before Harper was born, I was a completely different person than I am now. These changes were not something I took on a conscious effort to undergo; they were more of a transformation if you will. Becoming a mother is the most scary, wonderful, amazing, stressful, selfless thing that a woman can do. Right off the bat, we had so many issues with our daughter; they transformed me into a take no crap, protective, outspoken advocate for this delicate life that Stephen and I created together. Our daughter was hurt and she needed me to be her voice, she needed me to speak for her and find out every single little speck on information that was available to me in order to help her through whatever it was she was going through at the time.

My tenacity to help “fix” my daughter pushed away many of my friends, who were not yet mothers. They couldn’t quite understand what I was going through emotionally and backed away, which left me hurt. My eyes are now open - I have to say that this transformation has really protected me in a way. I vowed to keep only healthy relationships around my children and I; I gave up the dead weight and moved forward into life as a Mom which opened the door for new amazing life long friendships with people who understand how Stephen and I parent.

change one person’s diapers. I personally believe there is no better time to have a child than r i g h t n ow. Eve r y t h i n g w i l l eventually fall into place, although it may be hard, making your older children siblings for the first and second time is truly a gift. It makes you appreciate how much your older kids have grown, and you get to see your little one step into a whole new role; this is totally the most beautiful thing to witness. I would give up every single minute of sleep to watch my son caress his baby sister and say her name in his goofy little toddler voice.

SM: What is the one thing you do for yourself, every single day?

SM: What life advice would you give to a stranger that just asked 'how do you find balance'?!

N: Shower, although its usually never alone. It is actually so much easier to wash my older two if they come in the shower with me, instead of having to lean over a bath tub.

SM: Becoming a mother is a lifealtering event. How did it change your lifestyle?

SM: How was the transition from two babes to three? I know for myself, it was incredibly difficult and no matter how much I tried, nothing ultimately could prepare me. Do you have any advice for mommies thinking about having a third child?

N: Motherhood took a toll on my friendships and the ways that I interacted with others. I previously would have unhealthy relationships in my life for one reason or another. After becoming a mother, I quickly realized that my time was precious and that if it wasn’t appreciated, that there would always be someone happily willing to soak up every ounce of my love and attention.

N: Transitioning from two to three was really difficult for us. I remember having a much easier time when Gunnar was born. Having three kids so close together in age, and so young, means we are caring for three babies. Harper is somewhat selfsufficient now, but she’s still only 3. Gunnar is becoming interested in the potty, so it will be a little less difficult when we only have to

N: Balance is something that I look at over time, not just a day at a time, but more like a week. 'So we didn’t eat well today; that’s okay because there’s tomorrow and the next day ahead of us. I haven’t touched the laundry in a few days, well then there’s always Sunday and most of it will get done then.' I feel like we are always playing catch-up with house work, but I would rather spend the day doing something fun with my kids and engaging them rather than mopping my floors. So if you ever visit my home, you may find a few dog paw prints on the floor, but also three very happy and amazing kids.

Follow Nicole on Instagram: Ready.Set.Chaos + Read her Blog: ReadySetChaos.com

SM: On your blog, ReadySetChaos.com, you mention dabbling in natural parenting. Can you tell us more about that decision? N: My first child, Harper, had a really difficult beginning to her life. She and I both struggled right from the start. Between her stay in the NICU resulting in my PTSD, and feeling completely detached to my baby that had to lay in a plastic box on a completely different floor of the hospital; we struggled to nurse, to sleep, and to get in any sort of groove. From the start, Harper was gassy, uncomfortable, and covered in rashes. I took her to our mainstream pediatrician for advice and support and his solutions just didn’t make sense to me. I turned to a local breastfeeding group I belonged to and looked there for support. Another mother, who also struggled with her daughter, gave me guidance, support, love, and the best advice I would receive. We took Harper to a Holistic Pediatrician; he would prove to be the answer to our prayers and the best resource for our family. From there we learned more than we ever thought we would about nutrition, infant feeding, sleep, bodily autonomy, and parenting. Slowly but surely we got our daughter to a place of comfort. The damage done by the NICU in her very first days is still something we are working on healing today. The mixture of antibiotics, seven x-rays, and formula just destroyed our perfect baby’s gut; her line of defense; her immune system. Her skin issues, food allergies, and the colic she experienced as an infant all lead back here; gut

health. We vowed to never let this happen again with future children. When you know better you do better. I wouldn’t say that I chose to parent in a natural way, it was more of a last resort, the only thing that helped our daughter, instead of hurt her. Parenting in this way is also instinctual for me; we treat our children how we as adults would want to be treated, and we respect our children, their bodies, and what they have to say. If parents treated their friends the way they are told to treat their babies, they wouldn’t have any friends. Think about it, if you left your friends to cry alone in a dark room, spanked them for not listening, or cut their genitals without consent, you probably wouldn’t have any friends. We need to realize that we as parents do not own our children, but that we must guide them and support them while they explore and grow into the individual that they already are. We guide our children out of love, not anger and make decisions for their health out of education, not fear. We understand that our children are their own person right from birth; they have a voice that should be heard and cultivated. Most parents these days, get in the way of their children’s growth. Stephen and I have chosen to step back and let our children explore the world around them, knowing we will be there to catch them if they fall and keep them safe. There has been no greater joy in my life than watching my children accomplish a new task on their own.

SM: What made you decide to start a blog and what is your favorite thing about blogging? N: I started blogging because I used to write (sometimes I still do it) really long-winded instagram captions to make a point and spread information. Friends and followers kept telling/asking me to write a blog and how if I did, they would certainly want to read it. I didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t think I had time to do this, so it took me about a year to make the commitment. I hired a web designer to set it up for me and it was up and running in about two weeks time. I wrote my first post and became addicted; finally there is a place for me to be me. I can sit and write about anything I want without being pressured to say what other people want me to say or have a deadline looming over my head. If I finish writing one night and feel comfortable with what I wrote it will get published right then and there. If not, then it may wait until the next day or the end of the week. I am the type of person that if I find information, or an amazing product, I want to share it with everyone. This is my space for that and Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m really enjoying the little page I created for myself.

SM: So Nicole, you are a Brand Representative for some HUGE brands. Do you have any advice for mommies who are looking to land the bigger shop gigs, too? N: Be a LOYAL customer. Beau Hudson was one of the first shops I purchased from when I got into instagram. I would place an order almost every restock, to my husband’s dismay, and genuinely loved their product. I ordered from them so often that I knew what was in stock and a little bit of what was going on within the company and therefore was able to help other customers with their orders and questions. By doing this, I formed a really nice personal relationship with the owner and it just continued from there. It also helps if you style your children uniquely; everyone is wearing the same things these days so you have to find your style and edge. One of the main reasons companies have brand reps is to get their product “out there” and seen by other potential customers. What better way to do this, with minimal investment, than to put your product in the hands of those who are friends with your potential clients and have decent photography skills? Companies love seeing their product styled with other companies that use instagram; that way their product is reaching the other companies customers as well. This is why it is important to tag your photos and always allow shops to share them.

SM: What steps did you take at the very beginning of your brand rep days, to get started and noticed? N: At the same time I joined instagram, I started bettering my photography skills. I took my camera everywhere and shot my kids wherever we went. Shooting like this helped me to understand my camera and light much better and faster. I then started purchasing clothing for my kids because I always struggled to find Harper clothing; if you couldn’t guess by now I’m not into super girly sparkly stuff, so the clothing options for my daughter at the time were very limited. Finding instagram shopping was like a whole new world to me. I finally enjoyed dressing her and shopping for her. My new found clothing addiction coupled with my new found love of photography I believe, was the beginning. I started posting photos of my kids dressed up in clothing from instagram at places we visited. Many different shops and fashion pages started sharing our photos and from there my follower list grew. Somehow, I stumbled upon some brand rep contests, and figured I would enter the kids. One of the first ones I had entered, Mama Said Tees, chose Harper. I then started entering more and more, but I tried to stick to companies that we had previously purchased from, or intended to purchase from anyway. I no longer enter these contests, because I feel like if there is a company out there who likes my kids and my pictures, they will somehow find us and we can start that way.

SM: What's the most challenging part of being a brand representative? N: For me, the most challenging part is deadlines. I have started telling companies that they are welcome to send us items, but not to expect anything by the next day. I generally get photos of new items taken within the week, but sometimes it can take more. I have three kids, sometimes showering myself and getting out of the house takes up half of the day so styled photos of my kids are not always on the top of my list. I also decided that companies could only send us one or two items at a time. I was getting four shirts for one kid; between life and working with other companies it was taking me too long to get the photos out. Because of this, I no longer consider myself a brand rep. I only have an agreement with Beau Hudson, but other than that I have terminated my “repping” agreements. I chose to do this so that I can give my followers a look into our lives in a genuine way. If I don’t like something, or don’t like the message, I wont put my kids in it; I really didn’t want to waste anyone’s time so I felt that if I was going to continue taking pictures for free that it would have to be on my own terms. Repping also usually means you have to post notifications and sales, I feel that if you rep for too many companies, especially around the holidays, your feed is littered with what other people want you to say. Again, this wasn’t me, it didn’t feel genuine, so I needed to back away from that. SM: Having a social media presence is definitely a part of the Brand Reppin' gig. Do you have any advice for those looking to grow their followers, authentically? N: Be Nice! Seriously, you’re the new kid on the playground so you have to put yourself out there, get to know people and interact. I purchased most of my children’s wardrobes off of instagram and shared their photos wearing those pieces or showing the items in their room. I then became friendly with the shop owners and we grew from there. I recently had been going through a hard time and I cannot tell you how many “strangers” (people I haven’t actually met in person) reached out to me to show their support and asked if they could help. This meant the world to me and you bet I will be returning the favor if ever I can. Be raw; show the good, the bad, and the ugly. Motherhood isn’t easy, in fact it can be hilariously messy and sometimes lonely. People want to see

things that they can either relate to, or that will give them a good laugh after a hard day. I usually try and pair a photo with a funny caption based off of something one of my little goofballs did or had said that day. Take clear, well light, and happy photos of your children in clothing that you can tag in hopes that they will share your photo. SM: What is one thing you're looking forward to most in 2016? N: I am looking forward to a family trip that we are planning to Disney this Fall. I literally cannot wait to see Harper and Gunnar’s face when we get there. Harper has been collecting change from philanthropic family members specifically to buy things when we go on our trip. She has been so patient about saving her money and even responsible. If she has a dollar in her pocket while we are at the supermarket she will pull it out and offer to help me pay for food, so I am excited to watch her use the fruits of her labor on herself. SM: I loved learning even more about you, Nicole. Thank you for sharing your heart, voicing your opinions and sharing advice. You are truly a gem and one of the kindest women I "know" on Instagram. Do you have any final thoughts or advice? N: My advice goes to the very pregnant woman waiting on her (first) baby: Expect your world to change in every single possible way and don’t fight it, ride the wave called life.

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