Sowetan 'S Mag' November 2016 by SundayTimesZA

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The Festive Edition

AYANDA THABETHE “What a year!”

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recently read somewhere that eMzansi, December is not just a month, but, in fact, a lifestyle. I couldn’t agree more! It’s the time to enjoy long, balmy days and fun, festive nights. Being from the coast, I can safely say that the festive season is one of my favourite times of the year. I always think about the sea, sun and sand I will enjoy when I make my annual trip back home to Durban for Christmas. For our festive edition, fellow Durbanite Ayanda Thabethe shows us how to look like a

modern disco goddess (page 10), perfect for the party season! The ever-handsome Lungile Radu talks us through his year (which he has been owning), as well as his future plans on page 20. We gain some inspiration from a man who has built a name for himself eMlazi, Max Mqadi, the owner of Max’s Lifestyle (page 24), a shisa nyama that was named among the top restaurants in the world. Halala! For those looking for a way to cool down or enjoy family fun, see our Ultimate Festive Guide on page 26, and if you’re still scrambling for what to buy your loved ones, see our ideas on the gift guide, pages 27-28. Here at Sowetan S Mag, we love to give to our readers, so let us know what you want to see in the New Year and you’ll stand a chance to win the fabulous necklace and bracelet Ayanda is wearing on the cover. With all the fun we are about to experience, please do keep safe. Until next year! xxx

Cover Spaghetti strap top, R999; shorts, R899; waistcoat, R2 299, all Witchery; brooch, R549; necklace, R1 199; bracelet, R799, all Mimco

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Spirit A fun workout can also be sexy and build confidence

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Gift Guide

GIVEAWAY Make a lasting first impression at your end-of-year celebrations with this statement-making set of jewellery from Mimco. The Stratosphere choker cleverly combines the ultra-modern tones of silver and rose gold with the classical charm of ivory glass pearls and clear crystal. Match it with the Stratosphere wristband, and you’re sure to be the talking point at any party. This elegant set is valued at R1 998.

CONTENTS

From hosting to acting, Lungile Radu has been dominating TV screens this year

Black tax: young black professionals on coping with financial demands from back home

Spoil your loved ones with this season’s most desirable goodies

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SUMMER STYLE

THIS SEASON WE TAKE OUR CUE FROM MABRRR’S RELAXED LOOK. AND ADD A CONTEMPORARY SPIN WITH SHIRT DRESS text KHOMOTSO MOLOTO photography HERBERT MABUZA

Shirt dress, R160, Mr Price; Carvela wedges, R1 495, Spitz; Giorgio Armani sunglasses, R3 390, Sunglass Hut; Utopia sling bag, R199, Zando; Watch, R1 299, Mimco.

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Gavin Rajah shirt dress, R1 000, Spree; hat, R499, Witchery; handbag, R1 299, Mimco; bracelet, R99, H&M; Carvela sandals, R1 495, Spitz.

1. The shirt dress is a classic statement piece that can be dressed up or worn down, depending on the occasion. 2. One can wear this piece alone, or pair it with a maxi skirt, or even wide-leg trousers. 3. Must-have daytime accessories for the perfect easy-dressing trend are fab shades, a hat, or a statement belt.

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Disco Fever The hottest trend this season is statement eyes, and there’s no better way to achieve this than with a bold metallic colour. Try this one , R 130, from 3ina.

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beauty

Top Tip: When wearing red lipstick, be sure to keep the rest of your makeup minimal.

The Shoe Fits We are sold on Carolina Herrera’s new scent Good Girl, R960 for 30ml. This ultra-feminine fragrance, in a bottle that looks like a stiletto, includes notes of sambac jasmine, tuberose, and roasted tonka bean.

Yes to Serums Pond’s Age Miracle ReGen Serum, R200, is an intense and highly nourishing serum. Its major benefits include enhancing overall skin radiance, as well as helping to reduce age spots.

Magic Mist Clarin’s Fix’ Make-Up, R355, is a refreshing mist that sets and holds your make-up. Using it revives radiance and brightens the complexion.

Red Hot Lips The classic red lip is a beauty staple this season, and we encourage you to spoil yourself with Chanel’s Rouge Allure Velvet in Rouge Feu, R610.

FEELING

FESTIVE

The year is finally coming to an end, and we’re here to make sure you’re party-ready with these fabulous finds for the holiday season text NTOMBENHLE SHEZI photography KATINKA BESTER

Nail it Have fun with your mani this season with a mix of funky colours from Crabtree & Evelyn, R190 each.

Luscious Lashes False lashes belong to every eye makeup style this season. Reusable Couture Classical Volume Lashes, Catrice, R80. 6

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Nightcap Prevent late nights from taking a toll on your skin with Clinique’s new Moisture Surge Overnight Mask, R470.

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Crop top, R199; skirt, R250, both Legit; ring-bracelet, R249, Aldo.

AYANDA THABETHE’S

The name Ayanda Thabethe may be new to the entertainment industry, but it’s one we’ve been hearing often of late. We speak to the up-and-coming actress about love, life, and everything else

STANDOUT YEAR

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showing off her petite, but toned frame. She’s recently joined the gym, and image is something she’s very aware of. “I just felt like I wanted to maintain my weight and maintain my image as well,” she says. “Being in the entertainment industry comes with that; you have to try by all means to always look good, to present the best version of yourself. The way you look talks about you before you can say anything about yourself.” She stresses that the exercising and healthy eating is also to help her keep up with her busy lifestyle. On the topic of love, Thabethe is less forthcoming. She was previously married to former television presenter Andile Ncube, and now laughs at the question of romance on the horizon, stating only that THE CLOSE-UP she is happy where she is in her life. Persistent rumours, Three things people would be shocked however, have done the rounds about her and musician to find out about you Dash from the group DreamTeam. The pair have both 1. I have two degrees; I have an honours in disputed the rumoured romance, saying only that they marketing. are friends. Thabethe does, however, know exactly 2. Acting is the scariest thing that I have what kind of man she is looking for. ever done. “Somebody who is able to support me in my dreams, 3. I always plan ahead, and when things in my career path; someone who does not compete don’t go as planned I get frustrated. with you, but rather uplifts you, and helps you become Finish the sentence a better version of yourself,” she says. Thabethe also Women should always… love themselves. says communication is important, adding that she is Love is… feeling complete and content. looking for someone who shares the same principles If I had a million rand… I would probably as her in terms of family, health, and the future. buy my first property. Having grown up in a family of women, Thabethe is Favourite Christmas memory a firm believer in strong female connections. Her My family didn’t really celebrate Christmas friends, she tells me, recently celebrated her for the longest time. I have sisters and we’re achievements by holding a surprise lunch for her. all living in different parts of the world, so “There aren’t enough women in life who celebrate each my favourite Christmas memory was when other,” she says. “My friends are very accomplished in we all got together and had a secret Santa their own careers, and in their own lives, but for them (exchange). It wasn’t really about the gifts, to have taken time out to celebrate my achievements, it was about being together as a family, shows the quality of women I have around me.” sharing stories about our childhood, and Another woman she considers inspirational is her seeing the smiles on people’s faces. I think co-host on BET-A List, singer Nandi Madida, whom it was a really special Christmas. she describes as hard-working. “She’s a phenomenal Best New Year’s Eve party story woman and I admire her for having done so much Last year I was in Mauritius with four of my work while she was pregnant,” Thabethe says. “And it’s girls, and we had a ball. We walked by the a good example for women that you can do it all: no beach, saw the fire crackers, and went to a club one can limit you.” there called Club Banana. We were dancing I ask Thabethe about motherhood, which she says and having a good time and then the people she’s looking forward to. “Motherhood is something there, the whole club literally just started a lot of women aspire to,” she says, adding that she buying us drinks. I think it’s because they does not yet feel ready. Thabethe says she would need hadn’t seen that many black girls together! to be in a good space, be with the right person, and for it to be the correct time. “It changes your whole life, your whole perspective, your whole outlook, and you suddenly have to turn your life around for a particular individual,” she says. So what does the future hold for her? “I have a lot of future plans, but everything depends on God. He’s brought me this far and he’s the one who determines my future and where I go.”

yanda Thabethe is an actress and television presenter who appears to have popped out of nowhere and owned 2016, with her sweet personality and style captivating fans from the outset. With a lot on the go, the 30-year-old is fast becoming a difficult woman to pin down. After a bit of phone tag, she eventually answers. She’s soft spoken, and her voice inviting and warm. Thabethe has just stepped off the set of her TV show when I finally catch her for a chat, but she gives me her undivided attention. Perhaps this always-ready attitude is what has propelled her so far, so swiftly. Thabethe, who hails from Umlazi in KwaZuluNatal, says the past year has been “crazy, but one of the best years of my life. It was everything I hoped it would be career wise.” Just a year ago, she quit her management job to pursue the bright lights. The self-confessed “goofball” had a regular nine-to-five job as a brand manager at cosmetics company L’Oréal, but these days, she can be seen lighting up the screens on a number of shows, including BET-A List on DSTV. Thabethe is one of five girls who were raised by a single mother. She once remarked in an interview that being a middle child is part of what made her want to stand out and shine; she’s certainly doing so now, and was recently shortlisted on SowetanLive’s Mzansi’s Sexiest Top 24, a nod that was “unexpected”, but well received. She says it’s refreshing that people were able to get her kind of sexy, which according to Thabethe, is not the overt sexiness we’ve become accustomed to. And what is it exactly that makes her sexy? “Confidence, originality, being myself. I’m proud of the skin I’m in, the body I’m in,” she says. Her confidence must have come in handy during her scenes in Rockville, where she played a stripper named Aliyah. Thabethe danced her debut around a stripper pole and had the internet in a frenzy. Before her Rockville debut, Thabethe had appeared on SABC 1 soapie Generations: The Legacy. Her rising star has also caught the eye of retailers, and she recently landed a gig as the new face for Legit’s summer range. She describes her style as “effortlessly elegant; looking good, without looking like you tried too hard”. Of late, Thabethe has also been serving fierce with her Instagram videos,

‘This year has been crazy, but one of the best years of my life. It was everything I hoped it would be career wise’

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Shirt dress, R140, Mr Price; crop top, R2 400, Ted Baker; culottes, R1 199, Topshop; ring, R549, Mimco; earrings, R129, H&M.

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Top, R1 499, Country Road; bomber jacket, R150, Mr Price; earrings, R199, Mango.

Stockists Aldo 011 884 4141 Country Road woolworths.co.za H&M hm.com/za Legit legit.co.za Mimco woolworths.co.za Mr Price mrp.com Nine West 011 783 2356 Ted Baker 011 450 1156 Topshop 011 685 7070 Witchery woolworths.co.za Credits photographer Steve Tanchel / Red Hot Ops fashion editor Khomotso Moloto makeup Lesley Whitby / Lampost, using MAC hair Saadique Ryklief model Ayanda Thabethe photographerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s assistant Themba Mokase fashion intern Ranaa Patel location Tashaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s, Flamingo Room, Nelson Mandela Square, 011 883 0389

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HAIR TEXT NTOMBENHLE SHEZI

BOUNCE ESSENTIAL HAIR Bounce essential hair offers five distinct textures: B.E Afro, B.E Kinky Curly, B.E Blow Out, B.E Coily, and B.E Deep Curled, available as wefts, wigs or clip-ins. For this shoot we used the B.E Afro wig to enhance Thabetheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s natural hair. STYLING TIPS For women who are conservative about wearing extensions for the first time, start with a pack of clip-ins; once you see how well they blend with your own hair, you will be sold. For women who are braver, a bit of extra hair, whether worn in full or as an extension, as hairstylist Saadique Ryklief did with Thabethe, is a great way to amp up a glamorous look. Follow @bounceessentialhair on Instagram to find out more tips and see videos on how to style and take care of your Bounce Hair.

Off-the-shoulder top, R1 199, Witchery; necklace, R1 199, Mimco.

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KICKING UP HER HEELS Nkateko Maswanganye’s Rockingnheels classes are all about building confidence text EMMANUEL TJIYA

elebrity fashion designer Victoria Beckham once famously said, “I can’t concentrate in flats”, and in those five simple words redefined the way we view heels. Similarly, here at home dance choreographer Takkies, real name Nkateko Maswanganye, is changing how women feel about heels. As founder of dance workout class Rockingnheels, Takkies has managed to convince women to trade in their trainers in favour of heels during a strenuous dance routine. Established in 2013, Rockingnheels classes run twice a week in Cape Town, Johannesburg, and Pretoria. “I realised that there was a gap in South Africa for ladies who wanted a fun workout, but also a sexy, confidence-building class,” she says. These days, Takkies hosts classes for a range of functions, including corporate events, female empowerment seminars, and bachelorettes. And the demand is so great, she is looking to set up additional locations. Her aim with Rockingnheels is to create a safe space for women, so that they can own being sexy and boost their confidence. “Being sexy is a different ball game for women; you need to be so comfortable in your own skin to master it,” Takkies says. “Being sexy and owning a room doesn’t mean dress less, but it’s in your attitude and your walk. It’s your confidence glowing from inside out and how you carry yourself.”

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MAINTAINING A HOT BODY, TAKKIES STYLE 1. Eat throughout the day: It’s very important to eat healthily. I eat five times a day. Breakfast is very important, then I snack on fruit, nuts, or biltong. Lunch as usual, then I snack again or have a homemade smoothie when my brain tells me I’m hungry. Later I eat supper at about 6pm or 6.30pm. Eating frequently helps to speed up your metabolism, keeping your weight consistent. 2. Drink up: Drink lots of water every day. If you don’t like the taste of water, you can add fresh fruit to it. If you feel as if you need energy throughout the day, try coconut water, because it has amazing hydrating powers. But my favourite is green tea: I drink it every day, because it improves my physical performance. 3. Juicing/blending: Summer is a great time to enjoy natural fruits and vegetables filled with nutrients, antioxidants to protect your skin from the sun, and the vitamins and minerals you need. I usually start my morning with a nutriblast before I go to gym or work. 4. Keep fatty foods at a minimum: It’s okay to eat chocolate or your favourite snack, but make sure you don’t eat too much of it. For example, if, like me, one of your favourite chocolate slabs is Lindt, have two blocks and put it away. 5. Exercise: Try to exercise at least three times a week, and if you can, mix up your different forms of exercise, for example, road running, gym, boxing, dance classes, or home workouts.

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LUNGILE

RADU Not stopping anytime soon

Kitted Out

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grooming

A slick grooming kit, with a shaver and brush, should be on any man’s wish list this Christmas. We love this Edwin Jagger imitation ivory and nickel set from Crabtree & Evelyn, R3 500.

A Seductive Scent La Nuit de L’Homme L’Intense, R 1 650 for 100ml, a scent from Yves Saint Laurent, is a creation of deep, seductive, oriental chords and reflects the charisma, courage, strength, and seduction of the contemporary man. Ingredients include iris concrete, vanilla, tonka, patchouli, violet, and sage.

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We pick the perfect products to make sure your grooming regime remains easy and uncomplicated these holidays

Easy on the Eye Late nights will leave your eyes looking puffy, but the gel-like formulation of Bio Effect EGF Eye Serum, R790, can help combat that by rebalancing moisture levels around the eyes — leaving the skin looking radiant and firm. 18

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Cool, Calm, and Conditioned No shaving routine is complete without the perfect aftershave to help prevent razor bumps and soothe irritated areas. Try Bleu de Chanel Hydrating Aftershave Gel, R730, for a hydrated, soft finish.

All that Moisture Packed with apple extract and rosemary, Six Man Men’s Moisturising Cream, R405, is a soothing moisturiser that helps soften skin without leaving it shiny. Suitable for all skin types.

Beard Work Clinique For Men’s 2 in 1 Skin Hydrator + Beard Conditioner, R465, is an oil-free lotion that instantly improves skin and softens your beard. Apply it over your facial hair, and over time your beard will be easier to groom.

No Sweat We're loving Axe’s rebranding, and its new antiperspirant, R32, which offers 48-hour protection, is an easy fix for those long, hot summer days, whether you’ll be breaking a sweat or simply coping with the seasonal heat.

Run Dry Washing your hair daily can strip it of the natural oils that keep it healthy and well moisturised. Label M’s dry shampoo, R254, works as a perfect alternative, because it absorbs excess dirt and grease without the need for water.

MARVIN GAYE

Knit sweater, R450, Woolworths; watch, R2 620, Swatch; belt, R1 190, Gant; jeans, R3 900, Replay; Kilburn Marshall speaker, R4 899, Superbalist; sneakers, R1 310, Converse.

STRIPE UP

GAINING INSPIRATION FROM MARVIN GAYE, KEEP YOUR LOOK COOL AND CASUAL, AND LET YOUR ACCESSORIES DO THE TALKING text Khomotso Moloto photography Lex van Rossen / MAI

T-shirt, R129, H&M; chinos, R599, David Jones; Ray-Ban sunglasses, R1 990, Sunglass Hut; Lacoste sneakers, R1 195, Spitz; Skull candy bluetooth head phones, R1 499, luksbrands.co.za

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Slim vest, R120, Woolworths; shorts, R140, Mr Price; Ray-Ban sunglasses, R1 990, Sunglass Hut; cross-body bag, R1 100, Woolworths; Carvela sneakers, R1 950, Spitz.

1. This is set to be the summer of the print, but if print on print gives you the chills, stripes are a good option. 2. Don’t believe the myth that horizontal stripes make you look big — they add a fresh, beach style to your wardrobe. 3. When it comes to accessories such as watch straps, belts, and socks, opt for chunkier stripes.

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the irrepressible

For someone who has made a career out of working in the public eye, it comes as a surprise when Radu reveals he’s quite shy. He adds that people tend to mistake his shyness for arrogance. “I’m a really dope dude, but a shy dude as well. I don’t open up to new people that easily,” he says. “A lot of people mistake that for arrogance. But I’m just like ‘whatever’. I mean I’m not going to be going around to people and saying ‘I’m shy’.” Looking at Radu’s hosting abilities on the lifestyle reality show Mzansi Footballers, it’s hard to believe. The hit show gives viewers a sneak peak into the private lives of soccer hotshots, such as Benni McCarthy, Thuso Phala, and Kagisho Dikgacoi. Radu says the show is a great way for him to refuel his ambition. “That’s my favourite part and what I like about Mzansi Footballers — to get inspired by our favourite local soccer stars. Finding out what kind of cars they drive and what cologne they use is rarely afforded to us. But it also adds context to the story that they worked hard to be where they are.” Radu, who exudes total swagger with his signature salt-and-pepper look, is not just a pretty face. Together with comedian Thomas Gumede and television presenter Siyabonga Ngwekazi, he owns the black-owned film and television production company Parental Advisory Productions (PAP). Some of the notable big-name titles the trio has produced include reality shows Forever Young and Love Back, as well as Mandla and Lexi. Radu says the next big move for PAP is to produce its first scripted TV drama in 2017 and, ultimately, take on the international market. The production company’s aim is to produce high quality, locally inspired shows that audiences can relate to, and its output has already doubled since 2015. “We have paid our dues in the industry. We have worked in front and behind the camera. The future is bright. It’s time to take it to the next level — take it international now, and do our own feature films and documentaries,” he says. Even with his countless high-profile jobs, Radu is first and foremost a family man. He cites fatherhood as his biggest highlight in 2016. He and wife Bobo Mokgoro are the proud parents of a 20-month-old son. And he is quick to share that he is definitely planning on having more kids. “It’s a beautiful experience, just watching him grow. I’m planning on having a whole soccer team,” he says. It has been 13 years since Radu made his debut in the entertainment industry and we fell in love with his trademark husky presenting voice. His colourful CV boasts an eclectic mix of coveted hosting gigs, ranging from Fear Factor to Big Brother Mzansi. He believes the secret to his longevity is identifying his passion early on in his career. Radu says it’s not just a job, as he loves what he does every day. “There is a whole lot of change that I still want to do, and empowerment that I still need to do. I guess that is the reason that I’m still here today.”

LUN GILE RADU Whether it’s his presenting and hosting gigs or his big acting comeback, Lungile Radu has been dominating our television screens this year − without being in your face about it text EMMANUEL TJIYA photography STEVE TANCHEL/RED HOT OPS fashion editor KHOMOTSO MOLOTO

ungile Radu has perfected the art of being a famously elusive star. While some of his counterparts have fallen into a trap of overexposure — which can be both a curse and blessing — Radu has reached a point in his career where he can be flying under the radar, but still be the talk of the town. “2016 has been a great year for me. It’s been a year of growth in every avenue — whether it’s business, or personal and family. I’m just thankful for everything,” Radu says. The 35-year-old heartthrob started his year by scoring a highly sought-after job. In January, he hosted the inaugural season of The Voice South Africa on M-Net. The first season, headlined by musical coaches Lira, Kahn Morbee, Bobby van Jaarsveld, and Karen Zoid, was a huge success, with Cape Town musician Richard Stirton crowned as the winner. The show is set to return for a second season in early 2017, and Radu will reprise his role as host. “Hosting the first season of The Voice South Africa was seriously right up there with some of the best 20

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jobs that I’ve ever done in my life. The magnitude of the production, the amount of talent that we were surrounded by, and the coaches was just amazing,” he says, adding that he is looking forward to the second season, where he will be bringing “twice as much energy, enthusiasm, and effort”. It has been three years since Radu last dazzled the small screen with his acting talent. In mid-2013 he departed from his much-loved role as Sibusiso Vilakazi on Rhythm City — a character he had portrayed since the soapie’s inception in July 2007. But his two-year hiatus ended in October, when he was cast in the second season of Mzansi Magic TV drama It’s Complicated. “It was awesome to come back to acting after Rhythm City. I didn’t realise until then how much I actually missed it,” Radu says. “It’s different from presenting, hosting, and producing. Acting is also unlocking another side of your creative world, which I love so much. I promise you, I’m not stopping now that I’m back in it.”

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Is your family using you? While many people would answer that question with a resounding “no”, and suggest that any money spent on family should be disregarded, could we be “paying back the money” without even realising it? text KARABO DISETLHE-MTSHAYELO illustrations RENDANI NEMAKHAVHANI

Most of us are familiar with the concept of “black tax”, but for those who are not, it is basically the notion of family or community members who feel entitled to being paid back by monetary means for all the years they invested in their children. Be it education, clothing, or even the R5 coin one carried as pocket money to school, the reality is that some families who were instrumental in one’s upbringing may feel the need to be “paid back”, especially if the subject of their “investments” is working and earning what is perceived to be a decent salary. Although this practice has been happening for centuries, the truth is that it’s been pretty much a hush-hush affair and swept under the carpet — a sort of tacit 22 S

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agreement between an individual and their family’s bank accounts. That is, until Togolese football player Emmanuel Adebayor finally decided to break his silence in 2015, and went public with how he had been suffering from black tax for years, becoming one of the only celebrities who has ever spoken up about the black tax phenomenon. Adebayor accused his family of milking him dry, and spoke up about how keeping up with their demands had depleted him. While many people could relate to Adebayor’s tale of exploitation, there were a few who were on the fence about the matter of paying your family back: many felt that it was simply the right thing to do, if only as a sign of gratitude.

But is it really? While anyone would be irked by the notion of a family member blatantly demanding money or seeing one as a cash cow, could there be sneakier ways that our families use to exploit us? Comedian Celeste Ntuli, who has a stand-up show appropriately called Black Tax, seems to think so, and says that the concept of black tax is twofold. “Look, there is nothing wrong with helping your family out, especially if you come from a disadvantaged background,” she says. “But some family members, or even the community at large, can take it a bit too far.” Ntuli says that the festive season can be particularly tough. “You would find that people would automatically feel that because you came home for the holidays from Joburg, that you have to give them some sort of payment because you are ‘making it big’ in Joburg. My question is always, ‘Why don’t YOU come to Joburg to make it big yourself?’ It just doesn’t make sense,” she says. Ntuli emphasises that some situations warrant taking a closer look and evaluating if you are actually helping family members or enabling them. “You would find that your sister expects you to fork out money because she needs help with her three children; that she is unemployed and that the children’s father is not around. Well, how did she get to the third child without realising that her formula was not a winning one? Why does she go around having unprotected sex, only to expect other people to pay for her baggage?” Ntuli says this type of situation is one where instead of helping, one is, in fact, enabling the person. “Some people sit back and think that it is okay. What they need to do is get up and start making means to live, and to get themselves out of their current situations. I feel that black tax allows some people to be lazy.” Ntuli says that some black tax can be inconspicuous, and that one may not even see it. “You would find everyone is seemingly so happy to see you when you go home for the holidays, that is, until that dreaded ‘Can I have R20 for cool drink?’ plea comes up. My answer is always no. Instead, what I can give you is advice on how to get yourself out of the situation you are currently in, so you can afford your own cool drink. Throwing money… is simply exacerbating the situation,” she says. Thirty-two-year-old single mother Tshepiso Shongwe, who is a customer relations consultant at one of the major banks, says she can relate to the inconspicuous black tax phenomena, and that whenever she goes home to the Free State, she must always ensure that she has money on her. “My home is down the street from the main road where I usually get off the taxi from Johannesburg, and I promise you, I can easily spend R100 on my way to my house. It’s almost like people have a certain sense of entitlement about being given money or gifts if you do not stay in the same area as them, because they tend to have the misconception that wherever you are, you are striking it rich!” she says. Shongwe says black tax can be based on how you look and what you seemingly can afford, which can make you the victim of a feeding frenzy. She says she even dreads going home for the holidays this year. “Things really got crazy when I managed to buy myself a modest car last year. People start automatically assuming

that you have money, and start checking out what clothes you are wearing and how well-kept your weave is,” she says. “Even the mere fact that you have a weave automatically makes you Oprah Winfrey in their eyes. It almost makes me not want to go home this December.” Shongwe says family members are no better, and tend to have expectations about being bought certain things. “I mean I have no problem with buying groceries when I’m home, and helping my parents out where I can, but it really does get irritating when even my grown cousins’ kids come up to me and ask me to buy them a certain brand of shoes, or the latest PlayStation game. Where am I meant to get the money? It’s just not fair! Worse, if you tell them that you don’t have money, you will always get that sceptical look of disapproval.” Shongwe says people forget she has her own responsibilities in Johannesburg. “I have bills to pay, I have rent, accounts, and a life to lead over there,” she notes. Social worker Khumoetsile Tsimane says that when it comes to black tax, it can be a double-edged sword. “One really has to take a step back and evaluate if you are being manipulated, or if there is a genuine need that warrants you helping out,” she says. Tsimane says it is important to differentiate between needs and wants. ‘You should never really feel an obligation to pay for certain things if there is no genuine need for it. Helping one’s elderly parents who do not have capacity to fend for themselves speaks to one’s humanity, but it should never be looked at as an obligation, or worse, a debt,” she says. “When you help you parents out financially, do so because, firstly, you can afford to, and because it feels right. Do not ever allow yourself to be manipulated into it.” When it comes to extended family members, Tsimane says this is where one should tread carefully. “It goes back to the needs and wants thing we spoke about earlier. Are there dire situations that you can find family members in that warrant you stepping in to offer help? Absolutely. But make sure that it is help you are offering, and not spoon feeding,” she says. “Do not allow yourself to be the victim. Instead, offer them practical solutions to their problems, like offering to help them draft a professional CV to start job hunting, for example. But do not ever buy into the manipulation that can be black tax. Remember, you can buy them fish to eat for today, but teaching them to fish will see them being able to feed themselves for a lifetime.” Karabo Disetlhe-Mtshayelo is a freelance writer who enjoys lifestyle stories, travelling, and learning about new cultures and practices. He is married and lives in Maraisburg.

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MAX MQADI RESTAURANT OWNER, MAX’S LIFESTYLE

It takes thinking outside the norm to be a successful businessman, according to street-smart Max Mqadi text MDUDUZI NONYANE photography WARREN VAN RENSBURG

ho is Max Mqadi? I would describe myself as a visionary. I grew up in the township of Umlazi, from a very poor background, but a born hustler. I am just trying to make a legacy for myself — a man that is not afraid to try new things, especially in business. How did you become an entrepreneur? Being in business was like a vision to me: I saw that people from the suburbs have a negative attitude towards the townships, and entertainment spaces within the townships. When people visited Durban, they never used to come to Umlazi. They would just end up in the city. So I wanted to change those kinds of thoughts and show that Umlazi is a good and safe place to spend your time and have fun. How did Max’s Lifestyle come about? Max’s Lifestyle is a result of a vision I had to expose the township of Umlazi to people that had heard only negative things about it. I knew that I had to build the infrastructure to support my vision. So after my bank loan application was declined, I sold my seven butcheries that I had owned in various parts of Umlazi and used the funds to build Max’s lifestyle, which cost me about R15-million. It started as Max’s Butchery, but I realised that this was now a lifestyle, and I then changed the name to Max’s Lifestyle. What makes your restaurant so popular? We were named the number one tourist destination in Durban by the KwaZulu-Natal (KZN) provincial government. This seems to have drawn different people, from even outside KZN, including celebrities such as actor Menzi Ngubane; Sport Minister Fikile Mbalula; and, most recently, the New Zealand rugby team. But the reason that has people coming back for more is my staff. I employ 150 people on a registered and permanent basis. They bring value to the facility and give excellent service to customers. What are some of the challenges you have faced? Well, funding was the greatest challenge of them all. I went to the bank and tried to borrow the money, but the bank required so many things, like security checks to ensure that they will get their money back — something which I did not have. It was not easy, but thanks to the support of people of Umlazi, I was able to succeed. What would you say to a person trying 24

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to start a successful business? I would say that rule number one is patience, followed by determination. South Africa is really short of entrepreneurs. For instance, I am always pushing my children to become entrepreneurs. You are the boss of your own life, and you don’t depend on others for your wellbeing. This always brings the opportunity to create a legacy from your own brand. What is your biggest achievement? Besides being named as the number one tourism destination in Durban, we hosted some Soccer World Cup activities in Durban, and also the Durban July. People come from different parts of

South Africa to spend time at Max’s Lifestyle. We also hosted US rappers Common and TI. They wanted to experience what it felt like being in the township in KZN. Where do you see Max’s Lifestyle in five years’ time? So many people have asked me to open a Max’s Lifestyle in Jozi, Cape Town, Bloemfontein, and other places in South Africa, so in the future we will be looking towards expanding in that direction. Hiring more professional chefs is another priority, as this will encourage more people to come to Max’s Lifestyle to eat, while changing the face of the townships as a place that people can wine and dine.

motoring

OFF-ROAD

ADVENTURES The holiday season offers a fantastic opportunity to experience life away from the concrete jungle, and what could be more refreshing than going for a 4x4 adventure on a road that doesn’t appear on any map? Motoring writer Vuyi Mpofu takes us through some of her favourites

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My favourite brute-on-wheels at the moment is the newly designed Toyota Hilux, a vehicle so tough Toyota coined a new word to describe it: “tougher-er”. It is hard-hitting from every angle, and jam packed with myriad technologies, such as active traction control and the differential lock, which make driving on any terrain easy and comfortable. For those who don’t have steady clutch-accelerator balance skills, the hill-assist control will spare you the embarrassment of rolling backwards when you attempt to conquer a steep incline. What goes up must come down, but instead of enduring a few palpitations while descending a sticky slope, the downhill-assist control function will get you down slopes looking like a pro! I also love the Isuzu KB range of 4x4 bakkies, which offers a number of functionalities and driver aids. Take, for instance, the long-lasting multireflector or projector halogen headlights, which provide bright illumination for the best possible visibility for the driver, and low light for oncoming traffic. The KB 250 LE model comes standard with sturdy 16-inch alloy wheels, while the KB LX sports a rear-view camera to assist with identifying obstacles such as anthills when edging away from a buffalo you might have mistaken for a rock! And should you need to make quick entry into your Isuzu after being chased by an angry pack of hyenas, you will be thankful for keyless entry in the flagship Isuzu KB LX. Roughing it over the holidays doesn’t mean you and your passengers should be roughing it in your bakkie too — which is why I enjoy the interior of the Ford Ranger Wildtrak. It’s designed to ensure comfort over rugged terrain, and is durable, spacious, and has been crafted to reduce noise and vibration. The Ranger also comes with dual TFT instrument cluster displays, making it easy to access the vehicle’s information — from infotainment to performance — on a low-glare, high-quality flat screen.

From top to bottom: Isuzu KB range, from R235 000; Ford Ranger Wildtrak, from R338 900; Toyota Hilux, from R385 800.

SAVE ON FUEL The ever-rising cost of petrol needn’t dampen your holiday plans. Follow these tips to save money at the petrol pump by simply adjusting your driving style to be more fuel efficient. 1. Avoid speeding: The faster you drive, the more fuel your car consumes. Travelling at a lower speed reduces your overall fuel consumption. 2. Become a smooth operator: Hard acceleration and braking increases fuel consumption unnecessarily. If you want to reduce your consumption, adopt a smooth driving style by accelerating smoothly and braking gently. 3. Travel light: Extra weight in your car can

drastically increase your car’s fuel consumption. 4. Avoid excessive idling: Idling consumes fuel unnecessarily, so make sure to rather switch off your car if you will be idling for a while, such as when you are waiting for your friends to go to the next stop! 5. Plan your trips: Planning your route and travel times can help reduce your overall fuel consumption. One trip is more fuel efficient than many different trips. 6. Minimise air conditioning: Air con is great, but it does bite into your fuel consumption. Whenever possible, rather open your windows, and use the air con only when you really have to. November 2016

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YOUR ULTIMATE FESTIVE GUIDE The festive season is a time for unwinding and getting together with family, and the best part is here eMzansi, we get to enjoy it during summer! Check out our ultimate festive guide to help you get through the silly season. text LONDIWE DLOMO

THE FOOD

THE DRINKS Whether you’re a teetotaller or a tippler, there’s a drink out there just for you. For those who enjoy alcohol, gin is making a strong comeback, and seems to be the favourite for summer cocktails. There are loads of yummy gin cocktail recipes available: if you like them complicated, do try the Lavender Gin Cup – although you’ll need 14 days to make the lavender gin – or go for our quick and simple choice. Gin and Mint This a crisp, refreshing drink, and you’re welcome to add some lemon juice for that extra kick. 50ml gin Two tender sprigs of fresh mint 1cm thick slice of fresh cucumber, quartered 100m chilled elderflower pressé (NB: not concentrate) Small mint sprig and thin lemon slice to garnish Place the gin, mint, and cucumber pieces in a shaker or glass jug. Stir for a minute, while also pressing on the mint leaves to help release their juices. Then strain into tumbler with ice cubes, top up with the elderflower pressé, and garnish with lemon and mint. Simply leave out the gin if you’d prefer to go alcohol free.

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With the weather becoming hotter, lighter meals are recommended; besides, spending hours in a hot kitchen at this time of year is not very comfortable. With this in mind, an alternative to the usual traditional stuffed chicken or turkey can be seafood. Pick n Pay recently launched its Christmas menu and the perfect Norwegian salmon dish was one of the irresistible showpieces. We share a recipe for hot smoked Norwegian salmon with shredded fennel, apple, and lemon salad. You can visit the Pick n Pay website for more recipes. Salmon Salad 2 portions smoked salmon, flaked 1 Granny Smith apple, finely sliced 1 fennel bulb, finely sliced 8 radishes, finely sliced 30g pea shoots handful of micro herbs edible flowers for serving Dressing: ¼ cup (60ml) 100% orange juice 2 tbsp (30ml) lime juice 2 tbsp (30ml) dill, chopped 2 tsp (10ml) Dijon mustard ½ teaspoon salt Whisk together the orange, lime, olive oil, dill, mustard, and salt in a large bowl.Toss apple, fennel, radish, and pea shoots together, with dressing to coat. Arrange salmon on platter with fresh ingredients,then add the micro herbs, with a few of the edible flowers and extra lime wedges for seasoning.

FAMILY FUN The festive holidays are treasured because this is the time when people spend their days with family. And there are lots of places the family can visit together, such as markets. One of the best markets is the Fourways Farmers Market, which is open every Sunday. Another option is the Brown Sense Market at The Farm in Midrand, which is a platform for black entrepreneurs. This market takes place on the last Sunday of every month. And there’s also the Locrate market in Soweto, which is held on the first Sunday of every month. If you’re an active family, Bounce trampoline park at the Waterfall Lifestyle Centre in Midrand is the place for you. There’s free jumping, dodge ball and you can even have birthday parties there, or just take the family on a high-flying adventure. There are also designated jumping areas for children under the age of six. For the even more adventurous, head over to Soweto Outdoor Adventures, where you can go-kart, go quad biking, rock climbing, and paintballing.

NIGHT LIFE If you’re a lover of night life, there is no shortage of parties this festive season. All the hip-hop heads will be heading to Maftown Heights on November 25, which will take place at Mary Fitzgerald Square. The event is in its seventh year and started out as a strictly Motswako celebration, but has expanded to include rappers who are friends of Motswako. House DJ Black Coffee will host his second annual Block Party at FNB Stadium on December 3. The event sold out completely in 2015, which is why it’s coming back this year: who would say no to 12 hours of music? This one is clearly for the advanced concert-goer! Also on December 3 is a treat for the lovers of the late Brenda Fassie’s music. A Brenda Fassie and friends show, with a four-piece live band, will take to the stage, at Carnival City. DJ Shimza will once again host his one-man show on Christmas Day at Mehlareng Stadium and take it to the Eastern Cape on December 28.

PRESENT TIME

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SATCHEL Bossi satchel, R2 499, available at Spree.

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BAG Bamako Collection Nigerian print and cobalt blue ox hide, R1 650, available at One of Each, oneofeach.co.za, 021 802 5894.

SHOES Metal-cap sneaker R160, Mr Price; David Jones espadrille slip-on shoes, R399, available at Woolworths.

WIRELESS HEADPHONES Philips cordless headphones, R399, available at Makro.

GADGET Moto Z smartphone, available in black and lunar grey, R12 999. Available at Takealot.com, Cellucity, and Dion Wired.

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TOYS Monopoly Mzansi, R449.95, available at all leading toy stores nationwide; Barbie Fashionistas, from R199.99, available at Pick n Pay, Checkers, Makro, Game, Toys R Us, Takealot.com, and Just Fun Toys.

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real wedding

THE REAL DEAL

Kofi and Sihle

A night out led to a journey of love

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hen Kofi Asiedu-Darkwah reluctantly agreed to a night out with a friend, he had no idea that his life was about to change forever. The sales manager from Zippy was about to meet − and later marry − Sihle Thango, his “Zulu Lauren Hill”. “I walked into the club one night and saw this young Lauren Hill look-alike,” he says. “I immediately had two thoughts run through my mind: firstly, Killing Me Softly, followed by Ready or Not, Here I Come,” Kofi says. But his charms didn’t immediately work. With his first approach having failed when Sihle barely noticed him, Kofi dug deeper. “Well it was clear plan A hadn’t worked, but I wasn’t flustered. I still had 25 more letters in the alphabet. It was time for plan B,” he says. After finally managing to get a smile out of his now bride, Kofi says he knew she was “the real deal”. The pair became engaged on his birthday in July 2015. “It seems everyone was in on the secret except me,” says Sihle of that momentous day. The junior doctor at Chris Baragwanath Academic Hospital recalls how on arrival at Ulusaba Game Reserve in Sabie Sands, where Kofi was to celebrate his birthday, they were whisked away to an afternoon game drive, which ended with sundowners in the bush. “Before I knew what was happening Kofi was down on his knee with a ring in his hand. To be honest I don’t think I even heard exactly what he said. Instead of responding ‘YES’, I did the ugly cry that will haunt me for the rest of my life,” she laughs. The pair was married in September during a beach wedding on the KwaZulu-Natal north coast in a nautical-themed ceremony. Guests were treated to an Indian-inspired menu, after which they danced the night away at the reception. “Our wedding was the perfect event to begin this new stage of our love journey. And we can’t wait to experience what this new journey has to offer,” Sihle says.

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SOSHA BOY FOR LIFE Funnyman Warren Masemola may have spent most of his adult life living in Jozi, but his heart will forever be in Soshanguve, Pretoria, where his mom is text NOMFUNDO XULU-LENTSOANE illustration SYLVIA MCKEOWN

he comic actor and voice-over artist, who is well known for his roles in several TV shows, including Ses’Top La, Scandal!, Ring of Lies, and Heist, says he misses even the smallest things about his kasi. “I miss riding a taxi. My brother used to be a taxi driver and a lot of his friends would let me ride for free,” he says, before another memory springs to mind. “I enjoyed sphatlho so much that I would use all of my savings to go feast on it. The owner of this one café where I used to buy it actually ended up calling me Sphatlho.” The South African Film and Television Award-winning actor remembers how Sundays were everyone’s favourite days in Soshanguve. “The main intersection, which was called Transfer, would be crowded with people from different sections of the township, and they would be dressed in their Sunday best just to go and buy their weekly or monthly bus tickets. The occasion also comprised socialising with friends, 32

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smaller nyana dance challenges, called Vaya, headed for the City of Gold. motorbikes, and drag races.” “I left home for Joburg to pursue my Masemola is also an avid cyclist, career straight after finishing matric. and says cycling has been a part of his I missed out on about 10 years of family life for as long as he can remember. “As bonds,” he says, adding that he has teenagers, my friends and I would cycle been making up for lost family time about 20kms to Thorntree View, which ever since. is now known as Soshanguve Block XX, “When I visit Sosha, I hardly go just for fun.” anywhere but to my mom’s. I try to The 33-year-old says he’s always visit her and my siblings every two been an active person. Growing up, he weeks, but sometimes I'm out of played all kinds of the province, on 'I enjoyed sphatlho so much games, regardless a shoot, for more that I would use all of my of which gender than a month,” they were deemed Masemola says, savings to go feast on it' fit for. but makes it “Skomboriki was my favourite game clear that he still knows all the cool in primary school. As I got older I went spots in his hood. on to play cricket, tennis, rugby, and “Aubrey Matlala Road has a number basketball, and my cousins and I often of entertainment establishments. went all the way to Morula Sun to swim. People should definitely go there and I eventually got into dance, which is visit pozis such as Van Tuka Lounge, what actually introduced me to acting.” Manamela Jazz Tavern, and MacNose When the acting bug bit, Masemola, Cafe aka Short Left.” who is currently featuring in a film Although he no longer eats

meat, only fish, Masemola says his township also serves some of the best half-skop. “Nobody makes it like my grandmother did, but there is an establishment that comes close to the family recipe in Block G/H. But sometimes I just want my mom’s pap.” Unfortunately Soshanguve, like many South African townships, has its pitfalls, and Masemola feels that an intervention is needed. “Drugs are rife in Sosha. For example, sports facilities are now being used as nyaope, ntash and phashpash smoking spots. If I could, I would eradicate the drug abuse and create opportunities that can empower the youth to become gamechangers.” But Masemola never fails to find the humour in any situation. “I enjoyed attending Christ Centered Church when I was younger because the pastor was charismatic and a brilliant role model… and the congregation had beautiful ladies,” he says.

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