Bullying

Bullying is one of the darker themes in Matilda The Musical, and a theme that remains an issue for schools, students, and teachers. The scars from bullying can last for years, and many times the effects of being bullied can be permanent. Through Matilda The Musical, the bullying comes primarily from adults, be that Mr. Wormwood belittling Matilda’s interest in books and learning or the torments of Miss Trunchbull. The musical highlights how bullies use intimidation techniques to physically and psychologically torture their victims.

Research has shown that when adults respond quickly and consistently to bullying behavior, they send the message that it’s not acceptable, which can stop bullying behavior over time. Bullying can threaten a student’s physical and emotional safety at school, which in turn can negatively impact their ability to learn. School staff and students should be trained to prevent and address bullying, which can help sustain bullying prevention efforts over time.

There are many things students can do when faced with bullying as well. Importantly, students should talk to an adult they trust rather than keeping their feelings inside. This can both help students feel less alone and help to create a plan to stop the bullying. It’s also important to take steps to protect yourself and others from cyberbullying by not sharing anything that could hurt or embarrass anyone, thinking carefully about who sees what you post online, and keeping parents or a trusted adult in the loop about any messages online that make you sad or scared.

If you witness bullying, there are safe things you can do to make it stop. You can talk to a parent, teacher, or another trusted adult so they can step in and help. And you can also exercise kindness toward the person being bullied, showing them that you care by sitting with them, talking with them, or inviting them to do something. Additionally, it is important to treat everyone with respect. If you find yourself feeling like being mean to someone, stop and think and then find something else to do. If you have bullied someone in the past, apologize.

Overall, it’s important to talk about bullying. Not saying anything could make things worse for everyone. As Matilda The Musical shows, help from caring and kind people can help those being bullied escape from the grasp of an abusive person.