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In this edition, we are celebrating Women’s History and women making moves in Central New York. You will read about three diverse women in our “Syracuse Women Inspire” section. Doreen Simmons and Dr. Karen Lawitts broke into career fields that were once dominated by men. Ellen Gutmaker is making a difference for community members with developmental disabilities. Turn to page [43] and read about these women making moves.

“There are no mistakes, no coincidences. All events are blessings given to us to learn from.” — Elizabeth Kubler-Ross We all have goals and we make plans to achieve them. And when we surpass those goals, we move on and aim to climb even higher next time. Do we do this for personal gain or simply because we’re restless? For me, I constantly aim higher, no matter what, but not because I want more in any aspect of life. Instead, I do this because I know that moving forward and working harder will benefit my community. We have this same mindset at Syracuse Woman Magazine. Where we live and work (and play) is an important place and I like to think of that place as a thriving and strong community. The more we do to help others, the better our own lives will be. This very ideal is the main root of a local foundation’s beginning. Almost 60 years ago, Rosamond Gifford’s endowment was left in the hands of the community her family called home. Today, The Gifford Foundation has been awarding grants to numerous causes in Central New York. The giving is, and always has been, done in accordance with Rosamond’s instructions. However, her instructions did not tie the hands of the board. The foundation gives to benefit community groups, not individuals. On July 8, 1954, the legacy of Rosamond Gifford was continued and it’s still working today. Read about her family’s history on page [27]. Another incredible example of giving back to one’s community is that of the Jim and Juli Boeheim Foundation. By turning to page [22], you will learn how the organization came to be and how this CNY couple has made it their mission to help those who are battling cancer.

We are still celebrating “firsts” as women, but one day we will live in a society where we have broken every glass ceiling and we will merely just celebrate. In our own city of Syracuse, our Common Council finally has all four councilor-at-large seats elected to women. On page [18], you will get a chance to learn more about these leading ladies with our Q&A. This month also marks the annual kickoff of the Vera House White Ribbon Campaign. In its 20th year, the campaign is will run from March 28 through April 6 in order to raise awareness about domestic and sexual violence. You can register for the annual Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event set for March 28 in downtown Syracuse by visiting whiteribbonwalk.kintera. org. We’ll see you there! Remember, the 2014 WISE Symposium is set for April 8. Like the last two years, we’ll be publishing a special WISE edition next month! Plus, our inaugural Bridal & Beauty Book will be out in June with an exciting bridal fashion show featuring everyday women like you. These are promised to be exciting editions! As always, keep in touch with us online at facebook.com/SyracuseWomanMagazine and on Twitter at @SyrWomanMag. You also can follow me on Twitter at @FarahJadran for behind-the-scenes coverage of SWM and lots of tweets about running, food and fashion! Until next month, be beautiful and genuine. In other words — be you! Sincerely,

Farah ON OUR COVER... Staff of The Gifford Foundation was shot by Cindy Bell, of Focus Studio at 920 N. Salina St. in Syracuse. Cover photo: Kim Vanderhoef, front; Lindsay McClung and Sheena Solomon, second row; Marnie Kelly and Heidi Holtz, third row; Dirk Sonneborn, fourth row. Special thanks to The Post Standard for supplying an illustration of Rosamond Gifford, which is one of the few images remaining.

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Single Mom’s Club - 3/14 Brought together by an incident at their children’s school, a group of single mothers from different walks of life bond, and create a support group that helps them find comedy in the obstacles of life, as well as their inner strength to overcome their personal challenges.

Muppets Most Wanted– 3/21 The entire Muppets gang embarks on a global tour, selling out grand theaters across European destinations. But mayhem follows the Muppets overseas, as they find themselves unwittingly entangled in an international crime caper headed by Constantine—the World’s number one criminal and a dead ringer for Kermit—and his dastardly sidekick Dominic, aka number two, portrayed by Ricky Gervais.

Noah– 3/28 God is saddened at the wickedness of mankind and sends a great flood to destroy all life on Earth, but instructs Noah, a man “righteous in his generation,” to build a wooden ark and save a remnant of life from the Flood. Noah builds the ark and saves his family and representatives of all animals from the massive flood waters which cover the Earth.

Sabatoge – 3/28 An elite DEA task force deals with the world’s deadliest drug cartels and specializes in complex mobile operations. The team executes a tactical raid on a cartel safe house. What looks to be a typical raid turns out to be an elaborate theft operation, pre-planned by the DEA squad. After hiding millions in stolen cash, the team believes their secret is safe - until someone begins assassinating them one by one.

OUT & ABOUT POWER UP YOUR NETWORK! — MARCH 5 Bring a business buddy to the March 5 WBOC Program! Feel like your networking muscle is getting weak? Get your skills into gear and power up your network this year! There comes a time in our professional lives when we might feel like we have done all the networking we can possibly do and that we have no more connections to make. You can be leading your field by a mile, but there is still more ground to make. Powering up your network means you are expanding your reach in your career, but also you are increasing your ties to the community. In this new and improved network, you are learning how to give back and still gain. By making your skills and expertise known to others that might not have otherwise come to know you — means you are reaching a new audience. In this program, you are going to spark up new connections and find new ways to network. Also, you have been asked to bring a business buddy, and for a good reason! Your business buddy is here to not only make new connections but also to learn something new about you. Now, let’s power up! The program will run from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. at The Genesee Grande in Syracuse. Register at wboconnection.org or register at the door.

Springtime 10k in Jamesville – April 19 Come join the running fun with the inaugural Springtime 10k set for Saturday, April 19! Designed to give athletes a chance to preview the Ironman 70.3 Syracuse course, the race is set in the beautiful Jamesville and LaFayette countryside and created to give people an excuse to get up and get active! The course is also a great tune-up for the May Mountain Goat run or any early summer half marathon. Also, Race Director Ken Hammond says this is a perfect race “to help shake off the winter blues.” There will be awards for the top three males and female overall and in the following age groups: 18 and under, 19-29, 30-39, 40-49, 50-59, and 60+. A donation from the race will also be made to Hope for Heather Ovarian Cancer Awareness of CNY, a non-profit organization in Syracuse. The organization’s mission is to raise funds to support ovarian cancer research, to promote education and awareness, and to help to provide comfort to women and their families devastated by cancer. More info for Hope for Heather can be found at HopeforHeather.org.

SYRACUSE FASHION WEEK – April 9-12 Syracuse Fashion Week is a biannual celebration of style and fashion in Syracuse and Central New York. The 2014 inaugural season kicks off on April 9 and runs through April 12. The philosophy is always inclusive, never exclusive. These four days will bring together designers, boutiques, stylists, artists, musicians, bars, restaurants, and other businesses that have a vested interest in the quality of life of Upstate New York. Plus, Syracuse Woman Magazine is a proud sponsor of this CNY event! While clothing is celebrated as one of the essentials to a happy human existence, another vitally important essential is food. Hunger and food insecurity is, unfortunately, an ever-growing concern in many areas of the country, including CNY. For this reason, Syracuse Fashion Week is partnering with The Food Bank of Central New York to raise awareness and funds for this social issue. Syracuse Fashion Week is an extension of the wildly popular Syracuse Style Fashion Event. Started in 2009, Syracuse Style, the fall runway show under the tent in Armory Square, has brought thousands of fashion lovers to Downtown Syracuse. And don’t fret, Syracuse Style will continue, as always! Photography by James Bass.

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BY LAUREN BOUDREAU I PHOTOS BY RICK NEEDLE Walking into Café at 407, you suddenly realize there’s something about this place. It’s unique and eclectic, but most of all, it’s welcoming. The café opened in 2009 to benefit “a little organization” called Ophelia’s Place and it was recently renovated with the help of donations by community members. Picture frames without pictures sit on a brick wall. There is an array of funky furniture, from wood flower-painted chairs to metal 1950s kitchen tables to a builtin bench along the back wall, and a collection of artwork created by local middle school students. Hanging on the walls are display chalkboards most cafe’s use for menus, but here they have inspirational quotes about loving yourself, building community, and what “beauty” really means. But what really makes this place special is what encouraged it — Ophelia’s Place. Ophelia’s Place is a non-profit organization created to provide support, outreach, and education for individuals and families impacted by eating disorders, disordered eating and body image issues. The founder, Mary Ellen Clausen, first opened Café at 407 as a way to finance the organization. Since then, the business has taken on a life of its own and became a staple in the community. “It’s a beautiful circle of change when you see the cafe in action,” Mary Ellen says. Rachel Siffered, supervisor for Café at 407, says she never expected the cafe to impact her as much as it did. “I came here kind of just thinking I would just work here and just leave,” Rachel said, “But I ended up being able to use my photography and graphic design work.” The largest factor that keeps bringing people back though, she says, is the cause. “The fact that it’s more than just a café and that it’s for a cause is really cool...so I think we draw a different kind of customer because of that. Our customers are really cool.” The café houses a meeting room in the back where many community groups come to meet. Rachel says for most people it’s an office away from home. But for the manager Tony Burrows, “this place means everything.” “I treat this place like it was my own,” he said. “I truly can tell you that each and every day I can’t wait to get to the café. It’s my safe haven.” Tony came to work at the café when he was personally asked by Mary Ellen. “I can’t tell you how happy I have been since that day.” If it isn’t the ambiance that gets people to keep coming back, then it’s the food. A newly added coffee bar offers all the traditional favorites (lattes, cappuccinos) while at the same time providing handcrafted drinks only found locally — pour over or something like drip coffee. Also available are a variety of wraps and paninis. The most popular sandwich is the Vermont: a chicken, bacon, apple, white cheddar, and special maple mayonnaise panini. But if you’re looking for something lighter, the apple walnut salad is also a crowd favorite with mixed greens, apples, walnuts, beets, blue cheese, and dried cranberries with a balsamic vinaigrette. You also have the choice of adding chicken. What’s particularly great about purchasing any food or drink is that every bit of it helps Ophelia’s Place. Tony says the café employees even agree to donate their tips. “We call it the little café with a big cause.” Visit Café at 407 at 407 Tulip St. in Liverpool or visit opheliasplace.org to learn more about the café and Ophelia’s Place.

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Journey of a dress the

Longtime favorite wrap dress turns 40

BY JASMON BROWN There is something to be said about a dress that has lasted 40 years and still shows no signs of fading away. I don’t think Diane von Furstenberg knew she had a gem on her hands when she first created it. In fact, did you know the wrap dress didn’t even start out as a dress? In 1974, a top and skirt that wrapped similar to kimonos was combined to look like a dress and the look led to the birth of the iconic wrap dress. A one-of-a-kind piece that every woman wanted to wear! Being able to stay on top in the fashion industry is very difficult, but the ability to adopt new trends has made it possible for the wrap dress. The style of the wrap dress started out with simple geometric patterns in a variety of colors with a midi length. You can now find wrap dresses in a variety of colors and patterns with trendy embellishments and the option of midi or maxi length. One of its best features is the position of the tie which has made the dress perfect for women of all sizes. At a time when women’s fashion was being taken more seriously, it was only right that the wrap dress had great success in the ‘70s and the following decade including major celebrity devotion from actresses like Candice Bergen, Mary Tyler Moore, Betty Ford, Angela Davis, Cheryl Tiegs and Cybill Shepherd. With the colorful patterns and signature style DVF was the sole supplier, putting the wrap dress in a competition all by its self. Nothing screams, “I got to have it,” more than the wrap because it was an exclusive designer item. What woman doesn’t love the feeling of exclusivity? As countless emerging designers and new fabulous fashion ideas came onto the scene, the wrap dress began falling by the wayside and eventually took a brief hiatus. But the look bounced back in 1997 and gathered a newfound following. As all of the original wrap dress fans enjoyed the rebirth of this dress, the new generation was in awe with this fashion staple. It gained a new buzz after celebrities found ways to glam up the simply chic wrap dress on the red carpet. The outpour of admiration for this iconic style caught the eyes of designers like Ann Taylor, Michael Kors, Calvin Klein and many more who then adopted the style and put their own spin on this charming dress. Not to mention our First Lady Michelle Obama is a longtime fan of this look! To celebrate the iconic dress, Diane von Furstenberg created “The Journey of a Dress” — an exhibition that is running through April 1 in Los Angeles. It showcases pictures of the wrap dress journey. The label also has created a limited collection of pop-art printed wraps in collaboration with The Andy Warhol Foundation. And that’s not all — DVF is asking women to share their own stories surrounding the wrap dress. She urges readers to share their first encounter with the dress, special moments and anything else that included your wrap dress. Congratulations on 40 years, wrap dress! To get all of the information about the DVF wrap dress celebration you can visit dvf.com/ wrap40. Jasmon hosts body image coaching, image consultations and various workshops. Find more information on sizefabulous.com. Follow her on Twitter at @SizeFabulous.

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ily Tsay has always been a creative person, celebrating a successful career in interior design. In addition to creativity with design, her outlet and passion has always been to make jewelry. Over 20 years ago, Lily began to craft her own jewelry rather than buying something from a store. She was fascinated with figuring out how things work together and using her creativity to create jewelry that was simple, yet sleek. Rather than use “traditional” materials such as precious stones, she wanted to use unique objects and materials to create one-of-a-kind pieces. In addition to creating jewelry for herself, Lily began to give pieces of her work as gifts. “I like creating things that people appreciate,” she says. After several friends and family members requested handmade jewelry, Lily started to think about the possibility of selling her pieces in local stores. Upon losing her job in interior design, she began to craft even more. “Making jewelry was my therapy,” she says. She took several pieces to local stores and made an agreement to sell on consignment. Once checks started coming in for Lily’s sold items, she realized that

there was a market for her craft. She decided to expand her product line and sell at craft fairs, in addition to her consignment items in stores. “When you’re starting out on your own, it’s easy to feel alone,” says Lily. “At the WISE Women’s Business Center, you’re not alone—there are classes and networking opportunities to help you persist.” Since pursuing her business officially for six months, she has made connections with four additional local stores in the Syracuse/Rochester area and is hoping to connect with potential vendors in east coast cities such as Boston, New York and Washington, DC over the next several years. Glad to be an entrepreneur with flexibility in her work day, Lily is grateful to have additional time at home with her three teenage sons and occasionally gets to work with her husband, a ceramic artist, to create unique pieces of jewelry. “Though I’m in the early stages of being an entrepreneur, I am a firm believer that people should find what fulfills them and makes them happy,” Lily notes.

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Celtic&cuse It’s March and that means two things: St. Patty’s Day and March Madness. For this issue’s Fabulous Finds, we sent Syracuse Woman Magazine intern Lauren Boudreau to find the best of everything Irish while still showing school spirit. All items can be found and purchased at Cashel House Agent of Irish Imports, 224 Tompkins St., Syracuse, or at cashelhousegifts.com.

rugby shirt It’s not exactly basketball, but this rugby shirt does combine sports and the Irish spirit. It features Ireland’s colors (which does include orange!) and will keep you warm when walking to any game. This sweatshirt is for both men and women. So, get into your Irish and sports spirit because this shirt will get you pumped for either.

CELTIC CRADLE OF LIFE NECKLACE This beautiful necklace by Keith Jack shows your Irish pride with class. The Celtic Cradle of Life symbolizes that our lives and the lives of those we love are forever intertwined. The many twists and turns represents our destiny and that our past, present and future will always be woven together. Irish or not, the message is clear and any woman would love a beautiful necklace with such meaning.

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syracuse hat It’s March and it’s still cold! Get your “Orange on” with this cute, basketball hat. No one will question your school pride when you walk around with Orange on your head! Wearing this hat saves you from having to dye your hair orange for the big game.

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traffic light necklace This odd, yet beautiful necklace is traditionally Irish and has its roots here in Syracuse. The traffic light represents the story of the traffic light on Tipperary Hill and how the Irish youth demanded that the Irish green be over the British red. After a long dispute with the city, they got their wish and so the light remains. This is the perfect gift to celebrate Irish roots. Plus, whenever someone asks why you’re wearing a traffic light on your neck, you’ll have a great story to tell.

The Trinity Knot is probably the most famous Celtic symbol. It is found in so many jewelry designs, including these pearl earrings, without its meaning being understood. The Trinity Knot has many interpretations. It can mean never-ending or eternity. It can also represent the Holy Trinity or be a symbol of three promises made in a relationship: love, honor, and protection.

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BY LAUREN BOUDREAU I PHOTOGRAPHY BY JUSSARA POTTER

For the first time in history, all four Councilors-at-Large on the Syracuse City Common Council are women. Take a look below at what they had to say about what inspires them, how they plan to improve Syracuse, and what being a woman in politics means to them. 1. What does it mean to you to be a part of the first all-women Common Council-at-Large? 2. Who, women in particular, inspired you to be where you are today? 3. How do you balance community involvement with being a Councilor and your day job?

4. What are some of your goals for this term? 5. Do you believe this will inspire more women to become leaders in their community? If so, how?

KATHLEEN JOY On the Council: 8 years

1. It is very inspiring to see the people who live in Syracuse and our colleagues support our leadership. I think it signals the right approach to public service. 2. All of the women in my family inspired me through their actions and their character. Each showed me how to be strong while compassionate and to lead by example.

4. We must continue to create opportunities for growth, concentrate on our neighborhoods and commit resources to our schools. The City has serious fiscal challenges. I would like to pursue the Council’s 2013 Fiscal Plan which addresses each of these issues. I believe that being a woman, mother and community leader will help shape the discussions in these areas. 5. Most certainly. Women should recognize that they can affect change when they step up and take a role in their community. Leadership is not limited to public office. It can be through volunteering, writing a letter to the editor, or simply adding to a discussion.

JEAN KESSNER On the Council: 4 years

1. The fact that four women are the Councilors-at-Large is historically interesting, however women have served on Common Council for decades. I, from a lifetime of experience, know women to be thoughtful, intelligent, and capable. 2. First inspiration for me was my mother, Dorothy Kessner, who was the first woman elected to office in Perry County, Indiana. The election came within a couple of years of my mother being widowed and having a family of seven children, all girls, to raise and get through college. Now, when I am feeling a little overwhelmed with everything I have to do, I wonder how in the world she managed, and managed so well. 3. I work long days. I could not accomplish my present schedule if I were married or if I had a child at home. My son is married with a family of his own and lives in another state. I have adopted my community as my family and derive a lot of satisfaction from my work as a councilor-at-large. 4. My goals are to work in ways large and small to get more Syracuse residents into jobs that pay a living wage; establish full day Pre-K for Syracuse children; institute community policing, and develop legislation to deal with substandard and un-shoveled sidewalks. 5. Women have seen that women can serve successfully in government positions. Women in politics are capable of all the actions and emotions of others in politics. We have strong opinions and fight for our causes.

HELEN HUDSON On the Council: 2 years

1. To me it means that we are breaking the symbolic glass ceiling. We are showing women and girls everywhere that women can and are a part of politics on all levels. 2. The women in my family has always been my inspiration, especially my mother. I watched her from childhood until well into my 40s get up every day and go to work and work hard. She

has always told me that nothing worth having comes easy.

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3. All four of us are full-time Councilors, have full-time careers in addition to our Council positions and all volunteer in other community organizations. We each bring all of those skill sets to the Council and use them in our decision-making.

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Making History Meet the women of the Syracuse City Common Council 3. I’m fortunate because everything that I’m involved in seems to center around the wellbeing of my community. 4. To be a part of helping to turn Syracuse around, bringing some stability and sustainability back into our communities and our neighborhoods. 5. Yes, I do because I think that when young women can see other women that are a representation of themselves it makes them think, “I can do that.” When they can see you at the store or in the neighborhoods and can say, “that’s my neighbor,” they know where you came from to get where you are. It gives them a sense that they can get there too.

PAMELA HUNTER On the Council: 1 year

1. The fact that all four Councilors-at-Large are woman reflects the continuing direction of more women involved in government at all levels. There have been women on the Common Council before, but the key break-through was the election of Stephanie Miner as our first woman mayor. 2. I was inspired by Congresswoman Eleanor Holmes Norton for her relentless advocacy for her D.C. constituency. I was also impressed by Donna Brazille for her political savvy. 3. I am the regional director of an organization that provides services primarily to people with epilepsy or traumatic brain injuries. I bring many of the skills for that job to my work on the Common Council so the two positions are a natural fit for me. 4. Increased public safety and reducing absentee and slum landlords. To attain these I will strive to help all parts of city government to work together for all the people of Syracuse. 5. I don’t know about inspiring anyone, but the four women Councilors-at-Large can help make women in government the norm, not the exception.

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I don’t know about inspiring anyone, but the four women Councilors-atLarge can help make women in government the norm, not the exception. --Pamela Hunter

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Reinvent yourself & evolve with the WBOC

Tanya Gesek BY ALYSSA LAFARO I PHOTO BY CINDY BELL

“There is in every child at every stage a new miracle of vigorous unfolding,” said Erik Erikson, developmental psychologist. What Erikson means is that, throughout life, we continue to evolve as we encounter new experiences and stimuli for greater understanding of ourselves and others. This is the perfect quote to describe Tanya Gesek, a clinical psychologist who specializes in children, adolescents, and their families. It’s also exactly why she decided to join WBOC (Women Business Opportunities Connections) in August 2013 — to help her evolve in her career. Tanya has evolved and reinvented herself many times over. She grew up in Long Island, but made her way to Upstate New York when she attended the State University of New York at Geneseo — about 40 minutes south of Rochester — for a bachelor’s degree in psychology. She then moved to Storrs, Conn., to attend the University of Connecticut for a master’s in school psychology, and finally ended her educational journey in College Station at Texas A&M University, where she received her Ph.D. She loved Upstate New York so much that, upon graduation, she applied to jobs in all major upstate cities. “I am so glad I ended up in Syracuse,” she said. “I have held a variety of jobs in the field of psychology, but love my job in the Developmental Evaluation Center at Upstate University Hospital.” Tanya works at Upstate 16 hours a week, where she conducts developmental evaluations. “It’s a team format, so I get to work with occupational therapists, speech therapists, and pediatricians to help families understand why their child may be struggling. Many of the kids that come through our center have autism. It is a very rewarding job.” When she’s not at Upstate, Tanya is busy running her own practice, and until recently, could be found teaching at Syracuse University, where she was a visiting assistant professor of psychology from 2009 to 2012. “I loved teaching there,” she told me. “But even more than teaching I loved advising students. It was such an honor to be able to help college students decide what they wanted to do with their lives. I enjoy the connections I made there to this day. ” Although Tanya loves the “mix of activities” she gets to do between Upstate and her own practice, it just isn’t enough. For the past seven years, she’s been a member of the local television talk show “Bridge Street,” where she discusses a variety of topics, from parenting and children to mental health and families. “I am privileged to be a part of their team. They have even let me cohost four times now. It feels good to satisfy my inner diva,” she laughed. Tanya joined WBOC upon the recommendation of fellow psychologist Christine Allen. She’s a unique member because she doesn’t have a major path toward business, but WBOC still offers support, friendship and resources. The connections she’s made are priceless, she said, and even if she can’t use them for herself, she can recommend them to others in need of a service. “I’m still learning great ideas to make my business more efficient,” she told me. “The info I learn at monthly meetings has already helped, and just the sheer moral support and positive vibe maintains my confidence.” “Even though growth is not an issue for me, quality and efficiency are important to my practice,” she continued. “I want to continue to evolve, and to reinvent myself often. I want to stand out, and the members in WBOC help me do that.” Women Business Opportunities Connections (WBOC) is a non-profit organization that has been supporting the Syracuse and CNY area for more than 20 years. To become a member, visit wboconnection.org or follow the organization on Twitter at @WBOConnection. Syracuse Woman Magazine is a signature sponsor of the WBOC. “Whether running our own business, working for an employer or launching a new endeavor, we are connected through our entrepreneurial mindset.”

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The Jim & Juli Boeheim Foundation:

Making A Difference

BY EMMA GROSSMAN I PHOTOS COURTESY OF THE JIM & JULI BOEHEIM FOUNDATION

Syracuse University is known, among other credentials, for their national championship basketball team. At the helm, Coach Jim Boeheim has led the Orange to 43 consecutive winning seasons and an NCAA title in 2003. Well known for his achievements on the court, Jim and his wife, Juli, also give back to their community. They have pledged to battle cancer. Officially founded in 2010, the Jim and Juli Boeheim Foundation began to serve children in need with a focus on supporting cancer research and advocacy. Since then, Jim and Juli have gone above and beyond to honor this mission. “We hold a handful of events where all the money raised goes directly to the foundation and is put back into the community through grant programs” said Kelly Taylor, the foundation’s administrator. There are two grant programs, one held in May and the other in October, where projects or programs can apply for funding. The foundation encourages people to apply because typically a quarter of $1 million is donated during each grant program. The Jim and Juli Boeheim Foundation is made up of many programs in order to help children in the community. Some of these programs are Courts 4 Kids, Sneakers 4 Kids, and Rooms 4 Kids. In Courts 4 Kids, the program is designed to refurbish or rebuild sites for children in the Syracuse area. Partnered with Carmelo Anthony, Time Warner Cable, and TVOne, the Boeheim Foundation will open four sites to promote healthy and drug-free living. Sneakers 4 Kids is similar in that the goal is to provide comfortable sneakers for children in Central New York. The hope is that the shoes will help provide children to participate more in school and activities and to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Rooms 4 Kids is the newest program aimed to help children. This program, partnered with Anthony Congel, a local Syracuse artist and painter, will provide four children every year ages six to 12 with a painted bedroom makeover. 22 march 2014 :: syracuseWomanMag.com

Another partnership with National Grid, and Warner Energy, the Jim and Juli Boeheim Foundation has dedicated much time and effort into the Boys and Girls Club of Syracuse with their program, Adopt-A-Club. The Boys and Girls Club is in the process of being revamped by the foundation in order to deliver a safer and positive impact on children and their families. In addition, Warner Energy will be installing solar panels on the roof of the facility. “As part of the foundation mission we strive to enrich the lives of kids in need within our Central New York community,” said Jim Boeheim, “Our children need and deserve a safe place to come after school and on weekends. There are many educational and recreational programs at the Boys and Girls Clubs that we need to keep running for our children.” And, you’ll have to make a fast break to get your tickets fast for the next upcoming event. The 15th Annual Basket Ball Gala, sold out last year, is hosted at the Turning Stone Casino and Resort on April 26, 2014. Held every year by Jim and Juli Boeheim, the gala has raised $4.8 million over the past 14 years. Players from the Syracuse University Basketball team will be at the event and guests will enjoy dinner, dancing, and a jam-packed evening of music and entertainment. One of the newest and exciting developments for the Jim and Juli Boeheim Foundation is their new partnership with the Upstate Cancer Center. Currently, a grant request is processing to underwrite pediatric cancer research under Dr. Timothy A. Damron’s study. This is the Boeheim Foundation’s first commitment to pediatric cancer research, tying their donations specifically to those in need in CNY. “Jim and I are honored to grant $100,000 to the Upstate Cancer Center to underwrite pediatric cancer researcher Timothy A. Damron, MD,” said Juli Boeheim. “Supporting Tim’s work allows us to fulfill both facets of our foundation’s mission.”

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BY EUNICE WILLIAMS I PHOTO BY CINDY BELL

In an era where economic development is crucial to our community, many organizations, like Onondaga Community College, are taking steps to prepare diverse college students for our future workforce. For the third year in a row, Onondaga Community College will host the National Diversity Council/Tri-State Diversity Council’s Upstate New York College Diversity Summit. The event will run from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m. on Saturday, March 29.

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The purpose of the College Diversity Summit is to promote dialogue about diversity, inclusion, and leadership topics that pertain to college students who are preparing to enter the workplace. The Tri-State Diversity Council (TSDC) is committed to enhancing the appreciation for and understanding of the value of diversity and inclusion in today’s global society. The theme for the 2014 Summit is Preparing Tomorrow’s Workforce and breakout session topics will touch upon various subjects, including How to Land a Job & Present Yourself Professionally; Defining and Building Your Brand; Bridging Cultural Barriers within the Workplace; and others. Students also have an opportunity to network with various business leaders from organizations that are involved in the Tri-State Diversity Council, either as corporate partners or event sponsors for the College Summit. Over the past three years, OCC has partnered with the National Diversity Council to bring local business leaders and educators together to speak with students attending colleges, including Hamilton College, Keuka College, Niagara University, Onondaga Community College, St. Bonaventure University, SUNY Cortland, SUNY Oswego, and Syracuse University located throughout Upstate New York. Equally, the business leaders have come from all over New York. Business leaders who have already been secured include: Melanie Littlejohn, Regional Executive CNY at National Grid, as our breakfast keynote speaker; Jerry DiBartolo, Director of Business Operations at Aerotek; Bruce Hamm, Director of Business Engagement at MACNY, the Manufacturers Association; Melanie Johnson, Organizational Development Manager at SRC, Inc.; and Jeff Anderson, RPO and Talent Acquisition from Kenexa, among others. Sofia Reed, a Regional Manager for the National Diversity Council said, “The Summit has proven to be a great success!” Last year, more than 150 students and several business leaders and educators attended the event and students expressed a great satisfaction with the knowledge and networking opportunities they gained from the Summit. Reed proclaims that the success that resulted from the Upstate New York Summit sparked the launching the program in another city. “Once this idea was mentioned amongst the Tri-State Diversity Council’s Board of Directors, business leaders jumped on it and decided to organize the initiative in the New Jersey area, as well,” Reed said. Eunice Williams is the Vice President for Curricular & Instructional Support Services/Diversity Services at Onondaga Community College. If you are interested in attending the Upstate College Diversity Summit, please contact Sofia. Reed@nationaldiversitycouncil.org or williame@sunyocc.edu. Additional information regarding the Summit can be found at the following link as well: tristatediversitycouncil.org.

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A legacy serving the CNY community

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Rosamond Gifford:

The Gifford Foundation celebrates 60 years of giving

by farah jadram I photos courtesy of the gifford foundation syracuseWomanMag.com :: march 2014

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You hear her family name often and you see her name associated with organizations and events throughout the community. But very few know much about the woman whose legacy has helped dozens of local organizations provide services to the people of Central New York. Many accounts and pieces of research have come together over the years, especially since the passing of Rosamond Gifford in 1953. Even so, there is still much mystery the only child of one of Syracuse’s most historically-prominent families, who lives on in the works of so many organizations.

LOOKING BACK Labeled as a “recluse” by those who knew her, it isn’t hard to understand why we still cannot locate many photos of Rosamond, who was born in 1873. In addition, not many people got to know her. What we do know about Rosamond is that she inherited an estate worth $1.25 million after her father, William Gifford, passed away in 1917. Rosamond’s father served as the district attorney for the city of Syracuse. Her mother, Mary Augusta Ayers Skinner, was from the Tully area, where Rosamond spent much of her childhood. There was a short period of time where Rosamond was married to Alfred LaFayette. According to the account in, “Promise & Performance,” Rosamond had run away to Scranton, Pa., in the fall of 1895 to be married. The marriage lasted only four years before LaFayette’s gambling and drinking had taken their toll. LaFayette was described as having a threatening nature toward Rosamond. The two lived in Chicago, but Rosamond insisted on spending her summers in the country with her mother at the Tully residence. However, when Lafayette asked that Rosamond return to Chicago with him for the duration of the summer in May of 1899, she made her preference known. To counter, LaFayette revealed to Rosamond that he had “a girl in Chicago,” and that she should be worried about losing him to the young woman he described as “a sport.” Soon after, Rosamond found herself in court testifying to LaFayette’s affair. She and a Chicago building manager confirmed what she had seen and when the judge asked if she wished to assume her maiden name, she replied, “I certainly do!” In addition to her family’s successes, Rosamond also claimed her own accomplishments. In 1904, her father suggested that she return to Boston to study music. She lived between Newton and Boston with a cousin related through marriage. Her father wanted her to play any instrument but the piano, which he did not like. She chose the concert harp. Besides teaching music after her first two years of studying, Rosamond also played at social gatherings for extra income. Also, she received income from a property her mother gave her and 100 shares of Goodrich Rubber Preferred, which her father gave her as a birthday gift. She eventually returned to the Syracuse area permanently in 1913 when her father asked her to take over his farm and business affairs. Rosamond was very fond of animals. This love for animals was apparent as the milk of about 40 goats provided meals to the numerous cats that roamed her home freely. In 1929, twelve years after inheriting her father’s estate, Rosamond moved from the Thompson Road farm (later sold to the Society of Jesus, who founded Le Moyne College on the property) to Jewell, N.Y., on the shores of Oneida Lake. It was at this time that Rosamond began her secluded lifestyle, coming to Syracuse only to visit her lawyer or banker. It was through the assistance of Rosamond’s lawyer and banker that the private foundation was endowed upon her death. And so, The Gifford Charitable Corporation, now known as The Gifford Foundation, was born.

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THE GIFFORD FOUNDATION

From her closest contacts, it was understood that Rosamond disliked the idea of the federal government getting any of her money, and so she made her income tax payments out to the “Infernal Revenue Service.” Those who knew Rosamond’s focus for the endowment became members of this new board — such as her lawyer, George Alston Smith who represented her for about 30 years and her banker, Howard E. Zinsmeister. On July 8, 1954, the first board meeting was held in the Onondaga Savings Bank Building, which was also the location of the law firm she used. In 1955, the foundation was worth more than $6 million. At that time it was the largest single charitable corporation in Onondaga County. Rosamond’s endowment was only to be used to benefit community groups, not individuals. While the instructions were specific in its grant-making goals, identifying “religious, educational, scientific or benevolent uses,” it actually allowed the foundation to be diverse in its giving. Over the past 60 years, the foundation has grown and it has established and maintained its unique approach in helping the Central New York community.

60 YEARS OF GIVING

Since its inception the Gifford Foundation has provided grants totaling about $38 million to Central New York organizations, helping start up or build major educational and cultural institutions. No matter what, the grants were always meant to benefit the men, women and children that reside in Onondaga County. Throughout the years the foundation has provided an array of community grants, many of which were for equipment, computer systems and capital projects. Among these efforts, the foundation helped launch the Rosamond Gifford Lecture Series in 1995. ADVANS (Advancing and Developing the Value and Assets of Nonprofits in Syracuse) was launched in October 2007 to help strengthen nonprofit organizations’ operating capacity to sustain mission-critical programs. With the help of Susan Kenny Stevens, ADVANS has “matriculated” 13 nonprofits with five more set to complete the program in June. Six more will begin the ADVANS track soon after. By the end of 2015, Gifford will have invested more than $2.8 million in these 24 nonprofits through the ADVANS program. This means the CNY community will benefit from stronger, healthier organizations with more ability to advance their missions and programs. More recently, the foundation has adopted a firm belief in the strength of awarding smaller grants to more grassroots organizations and those with extensive outreach in the community. Dirk Sonneborn, the current foundation executive director, strongly supports this recent shift in grant-making strategies. The foundation’s mission focuses on the causes and not just the symptoms of the community. “The flexibility [of the endowment] allows us to be responsive to the times and the particular needs of the community at any point in time,” Dirk said. “[Rosamond] was not restrictive and expansive in what she listed. She kept it short and to the point.” With a similar view, Heidi Holtz, foundation director of research and projects, says the endowment’s terms have never stated too many particulars. “The foundation can think in terms of community,” Heidi said. “It’s dedicated to exploration and we have a board that is willing to take those chances.”

Dirk described the board as diverse since it has a variety of members with different backgrounds and interests, and an array of community influence. In addition, he says the foundation board is “agile” in that it has a responsive role in Central New York. One of the main visions for the foundation’s future is to focus on improving current community efforts. The ADVANS program is an exceptional example of this mindset. “That model [of ADVANS] is how we view all grant-making,” Dirk said. “If you don’t have a sound board, the programs fall apart. These organizations understand this.” Heidi says the foundation’s staff and board sees great worth in listening to people applying for grants. “We listen to them talk about their projects,” she said. “This is our way of knowing what’s going on in the community and it’s really valuable.”

ROSAMOND’S LOVE FOR ANIMALS

In 1999, the foundation awarded the largest grant in its history. With a $2 million grant, the foundation helped make an educational endowment fund possible at the Syracuse Burnet Park Zoo. The zoo was then renamed the Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park. The endowment ensures ongoing financial support for the Friends of the Zoo, the non-profit organization that exists to provide financial support to the zoo through funds dedicated to the welfare of our animals, educational programs and family-friendly facilities. “The endowment gives us long-term support and lends credibility to our work,” said Janet Agostini, president of the Friends of the Rosamond Gifford Zoo. “Since 1999, our education department has experienced growth in the types of programs we offer and our staffing.” The Rosamond Gifford Zoo (which is celebrating its 100th anniversary this year) is an Onondaga County Park. County staff, under the supervision of the zoo director, is responsible for the 43 acres, 15 buildings and the more than 700 animals that call the zoo home. “The zoo’s mission is being supported through the endowment and its benefit to our education department,” says Ted Fox, zoo director at the Rosamond Gifford Zoo. “Our educational programs enhance our guest experience by teaching conservation, interpreting a living animal collection and promoting public understanding of the relationships between animals and people.” Through the endowment from The Gifford Foundation, the zoo maintains an Outreach Collection of animals used for on-site and off-site education programs (like Zoo To You) — “bringing people close enough to care.” The endowment also supports the care of that animal collection and an animal staff member dedicated to zoo’s Outreach Collection. Although there happens to be lingering confusion among the three entities, The Gifford Foundation, The Friends of the Zoo and the Rosamond Gifford Zoo — all of which operate separately — there is a common thread. “Rosamond Gifford’s legacy and gift fits with the Friends of the Zoo’s giving philosophy — supporting a community resource that contributes to quality of life in Central New York,” said Janet Agostini. “The Friends, the zoo and the Gifford Foundation are similar in that they are entities serving the community.” Zoo director Ted Fox says the extensive investments The Gifford Foundation has made in the community are undoubtedly noticed. And like the foundation, Ted says the zoo also helps many organizations and serves many sectors. “In the same way, the Rosamond Gifford Zoo is a community resource and asset that serves many and appeals to all ages and walks of life.”

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ROSAMOND’S LEGACY LIVES ON

With 60 years of giving, much has been done through grantmaking, but the board continues to look forward. Harvesting the strengths of Syracuse and improving the effectiveness of other community-oriented groups in Central New York has been the foundation’s mission and it will stay on this course. However, there is always more that can be done. Although Rosamond’s very private nature leaves an aura of mystery around her life, the last act of establishing this foundation is evidence of a deep-rooted love of this community. 30

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We may never know every detail of a private woman like Rosamond, but what we do know about her is that what she has left behind was meant to help those who continue to work, live and thrive in Central New York. Interviews for this feature story were conducted with The Gifford Foundation, The Friends of the Zoo and the Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park Zoo. Historical references were acquired from giffordfoundation.org and text from “Promise and Performance,” a book that was prepared by the Rosamond Charitable Corporation in observance of the 50th anniversary, Copyright 2003.

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Should they be a ‘tell all’?

by susan dutch

I grew up a huge fan of Carly Simon’s music, and her song, “We Have No Secrets,” was one of my favorites. I would blast it on my radio in the ‘70s as I cruised around in my powder blue ‘68 Cougar: We have no secrets. We tell each other everything, about the lovers in our past, and why they didn’t last. We share a cast of characters from A to Z, we know each other’s fantasies. And though we know each other, better when we explore. Sometimes I wish, often I wish, that I never knew some of those secrets of yours. Beyond being a classic tune that often gets stuck in my head for days, the lyrics provide excellent food for thought: Just how much should we reveal about our love history to our present love? Should we really tell each other everything? About the lovers in our past and why they didn’t last? Should we know each other’s fantasies? Can too much information about our past relationship be toxic for the future of our current relationship? Have you ever engaged in one of those daring conversations with your partner and found yourself revealing details about the cast of characters whom you’ve had flings with? It seemed harmless at the time. Yet once you revealed those juicy little tidbits, and just as it appeared the information had deepened your connection with him, it came back to haunt you like last night’s chili. Such as when you bumped into one of those characters you mentioned while out with your current love and suddenly TMI meets OMG! It’s not only ackward, but in some instances, it causes a fight or a rehashing of everything in a much different tone. On the flip side: Do you really want to know everything about his past relationships? Does it truly help you understand him better to know how wicked their fights were (which you can only assume led to passionate make-ups)? Do you feel closer to him after you lured him into admitting that he and his ex were proud members of the mile high club? Or when 32

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he mentions that she made a mean omelet, had a knack for telling jokes or gave amazing back rubs? Such raw data provided in the name of transparency (or unbridled curiosity) can also occasionally bring out the little green monster in you, wondering if he revealed certain things about her because he wishes you were more like that, or worse yet, still thinks of her when he’s on a flight to Chicago. It’s not that I am suggesting we bury our heads in the sand about each other’s pasts. In fact, the past made us who we are. Had it not been for the rocky roads traveled in former relationships, your paths may never have crossed. In fact asking questions about former relationships may help ascertain the probability of success this time around. It may be very helpful to hear why those previous relationships didn’t work out, and better yet hear what responsibility he or she assumed for the failure — knowing full well there are two sides to every story. You just might discover a common denominator or see patterns of behavior, and in some cases, identify red flags that tell you to RUN! I would however, strongly advise that you do not have such conversations on a first date or he may RUN! We all know honesty is the best policy, but heed a word of caution from the mouth of a great songwriter: Before you take the truth serum, (which in my case usually involves wine) or unleash your enquiring mind, remember that ‘although we know each other better when we explore,’ you may often wish that you never revealed some of those secrets of yours...or worse yet, knew some of his. Susan Dutch is a freelance writer and blogger who enjoys writing from a “been there, done that learned from it” perspective, particularly when it involves love and relationships. You can join the conversation on her blog: mizmatch.com, follow her on Twitter at @mizmatchblog, or ‘”like” her page on Facebook!

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BY FARAH F. JADRAN I PHOTO by mike okoniewski A young girl’s dream of taking the field for a nationally ranked women’s lacrosse team was almost lost. But endless determination and family support has placed Addy Tauro on the defensive end of game play for Syracuse University Women’s Lacrosse. Addy, a Skaneateles native, is a sophomore studying public health at SU. Although Addy has been playing lacrosse for more than 10 years, she was initially planning to be a student and not a student-athlete. It was thanks to Sandy Dransack, her Elementary State Street gym teacher, that Addy got her start in lacrosse. She played throughout grade school and also played for a modified lacrosse squad. “I loved the fast pace and the history of it,” Addy said. Her love for the sport was apparent. Addy and I sat together on the bleachers of Manley Field House while the SU Men’s Lacrosse team practiced in the middle of January. As she described what made her into a committed lacrosse player, her smile said it all. “It’s a team sport, you have to be with your team.” Addy says that the entire squad must think as one person when they’re on the field. While playing in high school, Addy said she did not play with a consistent squad, which made it difficult to master the “team as one person” mindset. “I always wanted to have a firm base of girls around me.” While the bond was not there, Addy said she was struggling to fully believe in her potential. Addy was thriving in the high school offseason as a member of the StarRiders Club Lacrosse, founded by Dick Lighton, a well-known and respected leader in the sport of lacrosse. Also, Addy would play in an array of summer tournaments and she went to lacrosse camps. Addy says Lighton was an immense influence on her game and confidence. Plus, Addy’s father also played a part (and still does) in keeping her confidence up. He knew her past experience was less than desirable, but he knew she would overcome it and prevail. But when it comes to college recruiting, it is actual minutes played and stats that get you noticed. Despite Addy’s raw talent, she simply did not get played enough. “It was pretty depressing,” said Addy of her senior year of high school. “I was thinking about how I would not succeed in lacrosse in the future and how I would be done [playing] in a couple of months.” However, her dream to play lacrosse in college was not to be forgotten. During her senior year, Regy Thorpe, the SU Women’s Lacrosse assistant coach and recruiting coordinator, was hosting a clinic for a StarRiders practice. Addy’s skills were finally noticed by a college recruiter. “He [Coach Thorpe] showed interest in me and I was glad I got to show myself since I didn’t play in many [high school] games.” It was at this time that Thorpe and SU Women’s Lacrosse Head Coach Gary Gait learned that Addy was set to go to SU but not as a part of the lacrosse team. Soon after, Addy was invited by Thorpe to an SU winter clinic. “I was at the lowest point of my sport and thought I couldn’t go anywhere in my sport,” Addy said. “It was a dream come true…these were the best coaches I could ask for.” She continued to smile and described the offer to play at SU as “mind-blowing” since she was once told by a coach she would “never make it to this point.” This year Addy (No. 34) is focusing on her conditioning and her speed. She’s learning to take more charges and she’s working on her overall defensive mindset. What has she learned from her journey of adversity? “You have to persevere, you can’t give up,” said Addy as she clasped her hands and held them near her heart. Even though Addy never experienced an official signing ceremony during her senior year, she in turn received her supportive SU teammates and coaches, something she always wanted. Equipped with a “new line of support,” Addy still reflects and says that her father always said she would play Division I lacrosse. “Without the support of my dad, my coaches at SU and my team, I may not have believed and may not have made it here.” Addy and her teammates are full speed ahead in the 2014 season and she’s continuing to enjoy her classes. “I know I am in the right place,” Addy said. “Everyone says, ‘you bleed orange,’ but you really feel it. I really do bleed orange.”

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Each year when I take my children to the pediatrician for their yearly check-ups, I receive the same paperwork about milestones, growth expectations and eating habits. The last sentence on the paperwork, each year, says the same thing: “monitor and evaluate your own diet and exercise examples.” As women we are great at juggling many tasks, and keeping it all in balance. But sometimes our own health and well-being can fall to the wayside amid our other tasks. We pour our hearts and energies into friends, relationships and family. But don’t take the time to realize how our own well-being can affect those around us. We set examples every day for the people we love. More times than not, we influence the decisions of others without realizing it. A recent Gallup Poll found that people who are overweight tend to be friends with overweight people, and smokers tend to be friends with other smokers. While I don’t agree 100 percent with the findings it is an opportunity to talk about how people make decisions in groups of influence. When is the last time you went to lunch and ordered a salad? Did others also order a salad? In a group setting, just like in our families, our decision-making tends to change so to mesh with the majority. Sure, there are some rebels, but they are an exception rather than the rule.

Women especially have influence on the behaviors of those they love. Changing your own habits can be a great way to begin making changes for your family and friends. Want to start a new family tradition? Try a short walk after dinner or a Sunday hike. Incorporating aerobic activities into your schedule will begin to solidify those actions as regular behavior in your families. I have a friend that I walked with daily — it was our release. By 4 p.m. I would get the text, “you up for a walk?” After weeks of walking and chatting while pushing our strollers, it had become our own routine. The first week that we didn’t walk, it was my son who asked, “Mommy, are we going for a walk today?” Without realizing it, my son was already in the habit of our walk. He looked forward to getting out and enjoying the fresh air, and he missed it when it was gone. To this day, my son is still the first dressed and ready for family walks. His behavior has been changed to include outdoor activities in his everyday life. I’m hoping that those decisions and memories stick with him. If you are a smoker, take the steps to quit. Change your own health history and you can encourage others to do the same. Have a friend who is a smoker? Make a pact to help each other kick the habit for good. Having someone to rely on to keep you accountable can make that change easier. The simple step of quitting smoking can have a tremendous effect on your overall health. Small changes can cause big results. Making one healthy decision a day can forever change your history and your family’s as well. These changes don’t need to be dramatic. Here are some simple steps to forever changing your health history: 1. Quit smoking today. 2. Skip lunchtime chips. Switch to carrots or celery sticks. Same great crunch with fewer calories. 3. Make a date to MOVE. Schedule 15 minutes a day of increased steps. Do stairs, walk or even go for a run. 4. Go meatless on Monday. There are great recipes for increasing your fruit and vegetable intake. 5. Make ONE healthy decision, and then make another each day! Looking for other ways of getting healthy? Check out Renee Benda’s blog at Bendifulblog.com. See tips and tricks for healthy living and fitting in fitness. You also can follow her on Twitter at @cusecomm.

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It’s the morning rush-hour and you have to get the kids to school on time. You grab lunches, double check that backpacks are packed and you’re out the door. This might be the daily routine for Nicole Johnson, but every weekend between January and March her weekends are booked with something else — Monster Jam — and Syracuse is her final stop before World Finals in Las Vegas. Nicole was born in California and now resides in Las Vegas. She is a wife and mother of two boys. Her love and passion for cars, motorsports and driving itself make her family’s extracurricular activities anything but typical. She took the wheel of the Scooby Doo Monster Jam truck last season. Now entering her fourth season of being a 10,000-pound monster truck driver, Nicole reflected on how she came upon the dirt-piled scene. Since 1992, Nicole has been driving off-road vehicles and in particular, she has excelled in rock crawling competitions which takes custom built buggies on extreme paths complete with an obstacle course. “You can be on a vertical angle and then drop off a steep cliff,” Nicole said. It was her vast experience that made her transition to the Monster Jam arena so smooth. But the open road and the rugged terrain have always had a special place in Nicole’s heart. “I have always been attracted to cars,” Nicole said. “My dad built me a go-cart and I never raced it, but I drove on streets until I stirred up the cops!” Her father, a diesel mechanic, taught Nicole how to drive stick when she was in first grade. “I was never a good backseat driver…I need to be behind the wheel all the time.” Luckily Nicole’s husband shares similar interests. It was actually during one of the couple’s four-wheeling outings that Nicole realized she was good at rock crawling. And anytime driving has to be done, even if it just around town, Nicole takes the driver’s seat. Nicole’s competitive nature has also come into play when she enters a Monster Jam competition. “I can’t play a game of monopoly without getting competitive,” she admitted. Even before breaking into what was once a completely male-dominated motorsport, Nicole was already changing the “norms” by completing a degree in construction management. She and her husband started a construction company together in 2000 and in 2012 they opened a custom gun shop in Las Vegas.

“Guys always think I have a lot to prove, but I put my head down and work hard,” Nicole said. Her father taught her to work twice as hard all the time. She grew up working for her father and so he set a higher standard. “He never wanted his employees to think we were handed anything.” Of course there is respect to earn in any field, but Nicole has always known that she belongs in Monster Jam. “I always dreamed about having a team of my own,” Nicole said. “I realize how rare it is to be in the position to drive a Monster Jam truck. I appreciate it even more.” Being a mother of two boys (13 and 15), Nicole said she often catches them bragging to their friends about what their mom does. She recognizes that her kids have become accustomed to how different her job is. “They are proud of their mom…and I always remind them that I am the coolest mom.” Rolling such a large truck or bursting into flames is always a possibility whenever Nicole’s competing, which is why she emphasized how important safety is. Because Nicole was raised around motors, she has never known any different. “I don’t know what it’s like to be a total ‘girly girl,’” she said. “I lie awake at night thinking about cars.” Her childhood love for cars grew into a career path and now she sometimes wonders why she is one of few women in the arena. “Everyone said it was not possible for me to have a career in motorsports, but it’s what I know,” Nicole said. “It’s hard for me to know why there wouldn’t be more women in it.” She’s roared into Monster Jam arenas in Houston, Atlanta and Tampa Bay, this year alone. Her truck travels with Dennis Anderson’s Grave Digger Monster Jam truck which is an honor in itself, according to Nicole. She flies home between competitions and leaves Scooby Doo in the hands of a great crew team that repairs the truck on the road. “I always come back to a pristine truck.” Expect nothing but action when she comes to the Carrier Dome on March 8. “Scooby Doo and I have never been to Syracuse.” Because she grew up watching Scooby Doo cartoons and many people have, she knows it resonates with not only the kids in the crowd but their parents, too. “I enjoy seeing how excited the fans are, it’s a fun experience.”

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‘Cuse Women’s Basketball: building the future

by farah jadran I photos courtesy of SU athletics

This season started off with a seven-game winning streak and strong wins, and hard-fought losses, in its ACC debut. As of Feb. 23, the Syracuse University Women’s Basketball team stood at 20-8. For the past eight years, the Orange has been guided by Head Coach Quentin Hillsman, who led the 2012-13 team to its best winning percentage in the NCAA era of the program’s history, going 24-8, advancing to the program’s fifth NCAA Tournament. With these achievements comes a new state of mind and a focus on a program-changing factor — strong recruiting. Next to their expertise in recruiting, the team’s two female assistant coaches also bring years of experience at the college level and in the WNBA.

KELLEY GIBSON

Fourth-Year Assistant Coach, Recruiting Coordinator

Kelley’s basketball career began at age 6. She was always finding herself with opportunities to play ball with her relatives and she was always playing against boys. “I grew up in a small town and they didn’t have basketball for girls in middles school,” Kelley said. She persevered and played in a youth league for boys. Sometimes she would be driven to places up to an hour away just to practice and hone in on her skills. Her natural talent earned her a spot on the University of Maryland Women’s Basketball team. She remains in the school’s record books among the leaders in 3-pointers, assists, steals and blocks. Kelley graduated from Maryland with a degree in kinesiology before moving into the pro ranks. Kelley brings insight in the game having played internationally in Russia, and her WNBA career is an added bonus to contribute to the team’s knowledge. As a Houston Comet (2000-04), Kelley helped win the 2000 WNBA championship and ranked in the top-10 on Houston’s all-time games played chart. Before coming to SU, Kelley finished a season as assistant coach at Southern California University. Prior to that Kelley had coached at Maine, the University of Maryland, Baltimore County and American University. Kelley is focused on the team’s future. “[Student-athletes] that want to play at the next level know they need a certain work ethic.” Having been at that “next level,” Kelley knows how to help these young women get there. “Coach Q has done a great job turning this program around,” said Kelly of her reasons to come to SU. “He’s a winner. We have a great group, staff and core group of players.” 40

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SASHA PALMER

First-Year Assistant Coach, International Recruiting Coordinator Sasha is closing in on the completion of her first year with the Orange after six years as the head coach of the University of Pittsburgh at Johnstown, a Division II program. “Sasha is a very accomplished coach,” said Coach Hillsman. “She was also a dominant player collegiately and professionally.” Upon her appointment to the staff last summer, Hillsman described her experience as an invaluable asset to the SU student-athletes and the program as a whole. Sasha, a Northern Michigan alumna, played professionally in Europe for two years, playing for Lausanne Olympic in Switzerland (2002) and Basket Club Racing in Luxembourg (2003). She also spent four years as a member of the four-time Women’s Eastern Basketball Alliance (WEBA) champion Harrisburg Horizon. Being a college basketball coach was not always in Sasha’s sights, but during her master’s studies at Shippensburg University of Pennsylvania she realized it was the perfect fit. Before coming to SU, Sasha thought she would never be an assistant coach and that if she left the helm at Johnstown, it would be for another head coaching position. However, coaching with Hillsman was different. “He trusts us with recruiting and development and what we’re doing with the student-athletes,” Sasha said. “You take what you learn from your head coach and it’s been great so far.” Sasha describes the current team as young and strong. Like all young teams, it takes time to build depth. “We want to win and we’re depressed when we don’t,” Sasha said. “It all starts with the players and recruiting the top players — people who want to win.”

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DOREEN SIMMONS Partner, Hancock Estabrook

BY LAUREN BOUDREAU I PHOTO BY RICK NEEDLE

When you hear the term, “lawyer,” what comes to mind? Try this image out for size: A one of a kind, gentle woman whose work for non-profits and as the role of founding president of the Northern District of New York Federal Bar Association has earned her the 2013 American Inns of Court Professionalism Award. This lawyer is Doreen A. Simmons and it is the first time an attorney in the 32-county Federal District Court, Northern District of New York, has received this award. Walking in to Hancock Estabrook, the firm where she works, you’re greeted by panoramic views of downtown Syracuse and Onondaga Lake. They sprawl across the wall behind the secretary sitting at her large, elegant desk. “It’s nice to turn around and just watch the water,” she says. To either side of the entrance are plush, Victorian-style couches that look too fine to sit on. But when Doreen appears, suddenly the room feels welcoming. Doreen’s long-time experience with non-profits and mentoring youth has kept her humble and grounded. “Sometimes I wondered if I really deserved this (award) when I looked and considered other people who were in the same situations that I was,” she says. It is not surprising then that she was excited for herself, but because she says it felt like she was representing all of the attorneys in the Northern District. Attorneys “who do all the right things, both in mentoring young people, young attorneys...and exhibiting civility in the courts.” Mentoring was a huge component of the award. When she started as a young attorney, Doreen was only the second female attorney to be employed at Hancock Estabrook and later she bcame the firm’s first female partner. While it may seem daunting to be the minority in a career field or in a workplace, Doreen says she never felt discriminated against or isolated. In fact, Doreen pays tribute to Hamilton White, a senior partner at the time. He gave her one of her first big assignments and was “never critical, always calm” when she would panic about mistakes. “I do know I would have had many more panics in my career if I had not experienced that act of salutary mentorship,” she says. Doreen’s own daughters also inspire her to mentor young women. “I think about women that helped them, not just mom because no one listens to their mom, and I think of how fortunate they were to have women that mentored them and it kind of inspires me to want to mentor other young women.” Thus, for 20 years, Doreen has contributed to the local Girl Scout Council by providing them legal counsel. She says that she recognizes “all the good they do for women and for young girls to be able to understand alternate paths for their development.” It was at a very young age that Doreen decided to go to law school. She was always fascinated by the Constitution. But it wasn’t until a distant relative told her that women should not be lawyers. It was then that she knew she had to succeed. “That kind of incentivized me because it was a time where very few women were going into the legal profession,” she (continued on page 46)

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KAREN LAWITTS, DDS 29-Year Dental Practice Owner

BY LAUREN BOUDREAU I PHOTO BY JUSSARA POTTER

When Dr. Karen Lawitts entered dental school at Northwestern University in 1977, there were less than 10 women out of 112 students. She didn’t notice the gender gap at the time, but after she graduated she was suddenly hit by a wave of sexism. She became well aware that she was in the minority. After finishing her residency at Upstate Medical University, she realized no one would hire her because she was a woman. “I actually went to a couple of interviews and they were very honest. They said they were afraid to hire me because I would quit once I started a family.” She wrote 75 letters to dentists in Chicago, where she did her undergraduate degree, asking for employment. Only one wrote her back, another female dentist. However, it wasn’t the experience she had wanted. But Karen didn’t give up. “I had to really pound the pavement. You can’t give up.” Today, the medical field welcomes and encourages diversity, especially women. “It’s so different now,” Karen says, “now everybody wants a woman to work for them.” In 2013, the Association of American Medical Colleges reports that 295 women were enrolled at SUNY Upstate, while 373 were male. But being a woman was only half the battle. After returning to Syracuse, she knew that opening her own practice was a necessity, but it proved to be easier said than done. Like many students graduating today, Karen was in debt. In order to start a business, she needed another loan. “At the time all I wanted to borrow was $5,000 and I went to four different banks but because I owed so much [in student loans]…I couldn’t get a loan.” It was only through the kindness of strangers that her luck turned around. Her accountant introduced her to William Racey, a loan officer, who later became her patient. “He was the only one who would give me a chance. He just talked to me and wanted to see what I wanted to do with it.” Racey then offered her the finances she needed to start her business. Not long after, she was situated on University Avenue, with 450 square feet, one dentist chair and two employees. She had a landlord who thankfully allowed her to make up a few months rent until her business was more established. It may not have been much, but it was hers. Karen did all her own advertising. She handed out cards around the university area and made sure her office was listed in the phone book. It worked, because soon she was inundated with clients. The success didn’t surprise her. Since the fear of the dentist is prevalent in so many people, she feels that being a woman makes her more approachable. “You can’t generalize and say that women are more gentle, but I think there’s a feeling that women can be more gentle.”

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ELLEN GUTMAKER

Executive Director, Arc of Onondaga BY EMMA GROSSMAN I PHOTO BY JUSSARA POTTER

“It was something that I was drawn to when I was younger,” explains Ellen Gutmaker when discussing her passions for working with people of disabilities. “It was really about the connections with the people I was working with; not only the impact I had on them, but the impact they had on me.” Ellen, the newly named Executive Director of Arc of Onondaga, has been working with people with disabilities for more than 30 years and has no plan to change that. Right out of college with a bachelor’s degree from William Smith College in psychology and sociology, she began working at Arc of Ontario. Fifteen years later, she transferred to Onondaga and has been there ever since. As one of the largest providers of services to people with developmental disabilities since 1951, Arc of Onondaga aids thousands of individuals and employs 500 people. Thriving on community involvement, Arc is a community-based organization which relies on members of the community to build its base of support. According to Arc of Onondaga’s website, their mission is to assist individuals with developmental disabilities achieve their fullest potential. Their vision is that all people with developmental disabilities will be respected, contributing citizens who will achieve their fullest potential for independence and inclusion in the community. Since Ellen’s career began, medicine has evolved considerably, which also changed her job. When she began working for Arc, many institutions were still open — leaving people with disabilities looked at as a whole, rather than a focus on individuals. Ellen explained that the mindset of services has advanced dramatically since her start at Arc. “Over the years, the way we look at how services are provided has changed,” she said “It used to be that the professionals knew best, we now look at how the individual feels. There is more focus on the individual.” Services are now provided in a personalized manner, designed around an individual’s needs and desires. Ellen has experienced these changes and supports the evolution of these services. Some of the changes Ellen has been a part of include: more programs within the community, smaller settings for individuals, day programs, vocational programs, and volunteer work within the communities. The changes will not stop there, especially with Ellen in her new position. Ellen hopes the future of Arc on Onondaga will continue to include high quality services to people. A hope to offer new kinds of services is also possible in the future. Currently, Ellen is driving new significant changes that will be taking place in the upcoming years. Ellen has a true and pure love and passion for her job at Arc of Onondaga. Her favorite part of her job is seeing the impact that the services and supports have on people. “To me the job and the work that we do are about partnerships.” She and the staff have all (continued on page 46)

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says. Thankfully, this would be the only discrimination Doreen would receive. Even if she had received more, it surely would have only driven her harder to be successful.

At the time, Karen was the only woman with a yellow pages ad, so if someone wanted a woman, they would go to her. “So, actually it helped me,” she says.

According to The American Bar Association’s statistics from the Commission on Women, men make up 66.7 percent of the legal profession while women only make up 33.3 percent. Doreen feels, though, that law isn’t a male-dominated field anymore. “You can’t base that just on numbers,” she says. “I think women attorneys have a tremendous influence now in the legal profession.” “So, it’s not just a matter of the numbers that are lawyers, but you also look at the women who are attorneys that have become more influential.” When it comes to the women who inspired her, Doreen says there’s too many. “Many of the women who inspired me weren’t necessarily because of who they were but what they did.” She says she was inspired by women who knew how to balance their career with a family. As for how she manages her daily life along with being a partner at a law firm and working with multiple non-profits, Doreen says, “I just say a quick prayer.”

Today, Karen has a significantly larger office with six dentist chairs and 10 employees, including another “talented” female dentist, Dr. Nancy Yeates.

made great connections with the individuals that they are working with. These connections have developed into friendships, which are fulfilling to all involved. “Having an impact on others is the most rewarding part of this job.”

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She’s had her practice for 29 years, but she didn’t always know dentistry was the way to go. Neither of her parents worked in any part of medical field. “I had a close friend whose father was a dentist in Syracuse and he encouraged me.” Karen liked that dentistry was an occupation that combined science and being able to work with your hands, and being able to help people. In her practice, Karen is a firm believer in education and teaching her patients to maintain healthy dental habits. “The mouth is the gateway to the body,” she says. “I’m a big believer in prevention...and stopping things before they become problems.” With all her expertise and experience, Karen says that she would like to mentor someone. “I would love to help someone because I learn from doing,” she says. Her advice for opening a new practice is to be the best in your chosen field. “You can do the dentistry,” she says, “but the business part is difficult...because there are things you can’t even dream of that you have to do.” Most of all, owning a practice means you’re continually learning.

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Many people have gained from Ellen’s selflessness and dedication. “Seeing the individuals we support gain new skills, increase their independence and lead full lives” is part of what motivates Ellen to do what she does every day. Ellen has found time to be involved on other boards within the community. She served on a board for the Manufacturers Association of Central New York (MACNY), which is a local company serving the needs of industrial manufacturers. Ellen also is involved with New York State Rehabilitation Association (NYSRA), to help provide statewide rehabilitation agencies. Although Ellen has dedicated 30 years to her profession, she has also dedicated time to raising a son with her partner, who supports her longtime commitment. When Ellen takes some free time for herself, she finds herself engaged in history. She watches historical based movies and reads a fair amount of historical nonfiction. Ellen also enjoys traveling. Keeping up with the trend, she tends to visit many historical locations, but of course makes the occasional visit for a beach getaway.

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SWM’s Events SWM CELEBRATES 3 YEARS!

Syracuse Woman Magazine was pleased to host a three-year anniversary celebration at Olive’s Eatery in Baldwinsville. The event featured food and desserts from Olive’s and also cupcakes and cookies from a gluten-free bake shop on Syracuse’s Near Westside, The Cookie Connection. SWM fans enjoyed a strolling fashion show by The Changing Room and Two Twisted Sisters, also at the same location, and numerous prizes from local businesses were given away in the raffle. The event helped raise more than $500 for the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund. SWM would like to thank all of its loyal supporters, readers, contributors, photographers and the staff for making this magazine a success. Here’s to many more years of your favorite women’s magazine in Central New York!

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The Syracuse University Women’s Basketball team has hosted many special events during their home games. This season SWM was on the Orange scene for National Women and Girls in Sports halftime celebration on Feb. 3 and also for the Orange Goes Pink game on Feb. 6. The SU Women’s Basketball team and many other teams across the country, wear pink jerseys to raise breast cancer awareness and to commemorate Kay Yow, former North Carolina State University head women’s basketball coach. The Kay Yow Cancer Fund is a charitable organization committed to being a part of finding an answer in the fight against women’s cancers through raising money for scientific research, assisting the underserved and unifying people for a common cause.

MISS SYRACUSE TRIPLE CROWN SCHOLARSHIP COMPETITION 2014

SWM and several community members gathered at the Palace Theatre on Feb. 16 for the Triple Crown Celebration during the 2014 Miss Syracuse Scholarship Competition. The event celebrated the talents, passions and academics of New York state’s brightest stars. The event featured special appearances by Amanda Mason, 2013 Miss New York, and many local title holders. Three titles were awarded plus the winner of Miss Outstanding Teen was decided. Adrienne Wilson, of Troy, was crowned Miss Syracuse; Caitlin Nolan, of Camillus, Miss Erie Canal; and Nina Zesky, of Kirkville, was named Miss Salt City. The Miss Outstanding Teen title went to Amanda St. Amour, of Syracuse, and she will compete next for the national title. All newly crowned titles holders will compete in the 2014 Miss New York competition this May.

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26 BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY’S FASHION SHOW

WHEN: 6 to 9 PM. WHAT: Come out for an exciting night of women’s professional roller derby as Assault City Roller Derby battles their way to victory! These ladies know how to skate hard and be fierce, and if you like what see, they are currently recruiting! WHERE: Allyn Hall Gym, Onondaga community College, 4585 W Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse WHEN: Hours vary each day WHAT: Gather ideas about home building, home improvement projects and to set up appointments with the experts. WHERE: NYS Fairgrounds INFO: For a list of exhibitors and hours, visit hbrcny.org. WHEN: 11:10 to 12:20 PM WHAT: Featuring Onondaga Community College administrators in various stages of their careers. Moderated by Onondaga President, Dr. Casey Crabill. WHERE: Mawhinney Hall, room 345, Onondaga Community College, 4585 W. Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse INFO: No registration necessary. WHEN: 10 AM WHAT: New venue combined with old fashioned charm and new age twists as we celebrate the life and legacy of Heather Weeks! This vintage style runway show benefits Hope for Heather. WHERE: Syracuse University Hotel and Conference Center, 801 University Ave., INFO: - Call Kellie 315.471.4636 or Frieda at 315.657.7879 for tickets or sponsorship

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high heels History

BY emma grossman

No outfit is complete without the finishing touch of the highheeled shoe. This accessory, however, was not always a woman’s fashion statement. Shoes have been part of many historical times. Throughout the centuries, heels have had their fair share of ups and downs in the rollercoaster of fashion. The first depiction of shoes dates back to 3500 BCE where ancient Egyptian murals illustrated men and women wearing high-heels. Ancient Egyptian butchers also have been known for wearing heels to keep their shoes clean from blood and carcasses. The heel trend continued with the ancient Roman’s and Greek’s who wore platform sandals called kothomi and then later buskins. Actors found high-heels useful to help indicate varying social statues and the importance of characters. As time continued, the patten heel was developed in the Middle Ages. This connected to the bottom of an expensive shoe to protect it from mud and debris. Later, a heel developed in Turkey called the chopine which was created out of cork or wood and varied from seven to 30 inches. The brave women, who wore the 30 inch high-heeled shoe, often needed a cane or a servant to help them walk. The chopine’s popularity soared into style and spread throughout Italy, Spain, and France. Catherine de Medici made the heel more stylish and functional in the mid-1500s. At the age of 14, engaged to Duke of Orleans and insecure about her short stature. She was 5-foot tall. Catherine used high-heels to keep the Duke’s attention off of his favorite mistress, the tall Diane de Poitiers. In the 18th Century, King Louis XIV of France wore heels with intricate miniature battle scenes which took to the name “Louis Heels.” The King had two rules: absolutely no one was allowed to wear heels higher than his own and only nobility could wear the color red in their heels. After King Louis XIV’s reign, heels were not popular again until the 1860s with Victorians. They found that high-heels emphasized the instep arch which was seen as a symbolic curve of a woman. Like corsets, the heel was thought to be harmless and beneficial to health because it helped to alleviate backaches and make walking less tiring. The 20th Century was full of highs and lows for the heel. The “Roaring Twenties” saw a more comfortable and flat soled shoe. The depression of the ‘30s saw a lower and wider heel. The 1950s brought Christian Dior into the picture, where he and Roger Vivier developed the stiletto, which in Italian is a word for a small dagger with a tapering blade. The 1970s presented fashion with platform shoes. In the ‘80s and ‘90s, Monolo Blahnik’s high-heels took over catwalks and fashion. Today’s woman has an endless amount of choices when it comes to shoes: stilettos, wedges, flats, boots, flip-flops, sandals, heeled-tennis shoes, name it, we have it. Women today still rock the high-heels. “A pair of shoes can change everything!” explained Ann Marie Giannino-Otis, a breast cancer survivor who wore sassy heels as a source of power during her double mastectomy. Markita Collins of Markita Collins Ministries exclaims “High heels, part of my every day wardrobe! Five inches or higher!” Others have found that heels are not practical. One Syracuse Woman Magazine reader said, “I can’t even tell you how often I try on heels. I end up buying flats every time…” and Mel Mogenson of CNY Roller Derby said, “I very rarely wear high-heels. They make my legs look great. I feel like a knockout in them, but they hurt my feet.” Unquestionably, high-heels have had a strong impact throughout fashion history. The rollercoaster ride for heels is sure to continue as fashion evolves. Though the fate of the high-heel is unknown, one thing is for sure: the high-heel is the sole of fashion history.

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2014 Audi A6 Premium Plus, Cold Weather Package, Audi Side Assist, Audi Guard all-weather Floor Mats $3,999 due at lease inception. Excludes taxes, title, other optionsand dealer charges. *Rate based on MSRP $36,995 of 2011 and destination charge. Monthly payments total $14,220. Purchase option at lease end for $20,050 36-month closedend lease offered to qualified customers in Central New York by Audi Financial Services through participating dealers. Must take delivery by February 28, 2014. Lessee responsible for $0.25/mile over 10,000 miles per year, insurance, a disposition fee of $350 and other financial liabilities at lease end. Advertised offer requires dealer contribution. Model shown. A4 Premium Quattro. Higher MSRP will affect lease price. Prices exclude taxes, title, other options and dealer charges. ÂŠ2012 Audi of America, Inc. See your dealer, visit audiusa.com or call 1-800-FOR-AUDI for more details. **Rate based on MSRP $51,840 of 2011 and destination charge. Monthly payments total $25,164. Purchase option at lease end for $28,512. 39-month closed-end lease offered to qualified customers in Central New York by Audi Financial Services through participating dealers. Must take delivery by February 28, 2014. Lessee responsible for $0.25/mile over 10,000 miles per year, insurance, a disposition fee of $350 and other financial liabilities at lease end. Advertised offer requires dealer contribution. Model shown:A6 Premium Plus. Higher MSRP will affect lease price. Prices exclude taxes, title, other options and dealer charges. ÂŠ2012 Audi of America, Inc. See your dealer, visit audiusa.com or call 1-800-FOR-AUDI for more details.

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