SWM October 2012 Issue by Barbara McSpadden

october 2012

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FOR BREAST RECONSTRUCTION

SWM EXcluSIVE:

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AN ELECTION Q&A

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ETC 7 PLATTER CHATTER 8 FASHION FORWARD 10

SPECIAL FEATURE: COLLEEN LATRAY

WISE WOMEN 17 W.B.O.C.’S LEADING WOMAN

FOR A GOOD CAUSE

SW FABULOUS WEDDING

IN HER OWN WORDS

MUSIC VIEW: A SONG OF SUPPORT

SPECIAL FEATURE: MENORAH PARK GALA 32 COVER STORY: BETH BALDWIN

SPECIAL FEATURE: STAMPED WITH HOPE

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HEALTHY WOMAN 44 SPECIAL FEATURE: WELLSPRING BREAST CENTER 46 SYRACUSE WOMAN MAGAZINE EVENTS 48 CALENDAR OF EVENTS

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Letter from the editor “I would just, so love to find something before my mom leaves this earth. It would be a great gift because I know how badly she wants that.” — Daniel Baldwin If there’s something you didn’t already know about breast cancer, chances are it’s in this edition of Syracuse Woman Magazine. In this Pink Edition, we have included several inspiring stories about survivors, events that will benefit research and awareness, and of course, our incredible cover woman, Beth Baldwin.

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Photography Cindy Bell Kelly Kane Cathryn Lahm James Bass Genevieve Fridley Eric Payne

For some, it may come as a surprise that Beth has never agreed to be on the cover of a magazine, or to really be featured in this way. However, for those that know Beth well, there’s good reason for this. When I asked her to be our Pink Edition cover woman, she immediately said, “yes,” but she then told me she had never said, “yes,” before. I was honored and very grateful, of course, but then curiosity kicked in! She said this time was different because she knew I was doing a story about her for the right reasons. This wasn’t (and isn’t) going to be like a story in People Magazine about “Beth Baldwin, sister to the famous Baldwin brothers.” Rather, this story is about Beth, her mother’s mission and why she chose to help continue this important mission. Turn to page 34 and find out why Beth (if you didn’t already know) is an amazing important part of this community.

Contributing Writers

As always, we have our “Syracuse Women Inspire” section, which is always very popular. However, in this edition, we have three diverse women with different stories about their battles with breast cancer. Each of them has a message that’s not only inspiring, but also encouraging. Flip to page 55, and be inspired. Also in this edition is a feature on breast reconstruction surgery options since there are so many questions to be answered and decisions to be made when diagnosed with breast cancer. Turn to page 50, and learn about the options for you, a relative or a friend.

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Also, some great events benefiting the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund are going on this month! In particular is the second annual Shop, Spa & Style that will be held on 10.11.12 at the Palace Theatre. Special thanks goes out to the Shop, Spa & Style Committee and the following: Mr. Shop, Charney’s, Isabella’s, Heidi, Paul Karaz, Ellie Mia, Apricot Lane, Skaneateles 300, Mod Squad, Melissa James, Matthews Salon & Spa, Innovations, CNY Laser, Cindy Hawks (LMT), Elizabeth Greene Nails, JR Painting, Eco Chic and Clothes Mentor. And a few days later, the second annual A Run For Their Life will take place on Oct. 14, turn to page 30, to see who’ll be singing this year’s National Anthem! Lastly, I would like to share that the Women Business Opportunities Connections is hosting a special new member discount for those who join the non-profit group during the month of October. All new members can join with a $20 discount to their membership fee. This is an incredible group of women who are all on a mission to succeed in business, but also, to see their friends and colleagues succeed! Learn more at

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ON OUR COVER… Cindy Bell, of Focus Studio, 900 N. Salina St. in Syracuse, shot our October cover woman, Beth Baldwin, of the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY. Antonietta Moritz provided makeup and hairstyling. Find her on Facebook at Trucco.

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The historic Barnes-Hiscock Mansion will once again host its third Annual Holidays at the Mansion from Nov. 2 through 11. Local interior designers will set the mood with beautiful decorations and create an atmosphere the whole family can enjoy. A number of special events will take place that week for an additional charge, including a lecture on the political climate of the mansion at various times in its history, a princess and prince theme party and a ladies’ night. A pre-event party will also take place on Nov. 1. Those in attendance will have the chance to enjoy a glass of wine, listen to holiday singers and sample Victorian Edibles. Additionally, author Thom Filicia will be signing copies of his latest book. Regular admission into this event is $60. Patron support is $75.

DUCT TAPE FOR A CURE

Looking for a fun accessory this fall? How about a way to benefit breast cancer? Danielle Delfanian has both questions answered with unique accessories! All made out of duct tape: bracelets, purses, wallets, flower-tipped pens and bouquets have become part of the Roses for Breast Cancer organization. The goal is to help those who are diagnosed with breast cancer and raise $5,000 in the next five years to benefit the Upstate Cancer Center.

Regular business hours are from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., with extended hours from 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. on Nov. 6 and 8. Admission is only $10 and children under 5 get in for free. No senior or group rates are offered. For more information, a complete list of events or to buy tickets, visit www.grbarnes.org.

Danielle began the foundation in 2011 after attending the American Cancer Society’s Making Strides Against Breast Cancer kickoff breakfast in August. Her stepmother was diagnosed with cancer in 1998, so Danielle decided it was time to “stick it to cancer.” She wanted to do innovative fundraising and duct tape items seemed like the perfect idea. Since that time, she raised more than $2,700 for the cause and an additional $7,000 for local cancer organizations. Roses for Breast Cancer will be at the Great Northern Autumn Festival between Oct. 19 and 21 and will take place at the Great Northern Mall in Clay. You can also check out their website at

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BY TERENCE HARTNETT I PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY KANE First, you walk down a covered staircase from the street level in Syracuse’s Armory Square to a basement room with exposed brick walls and concrete floors. A hidden staircase leading to a windowless room sounds like the makings of the headquarters for a secret organization, but Empire Brewing Company is anything but. The restaurant seats more than 100 diners and the bar is comfortable and spacious. There is a feeling of welcome pervading the room, from the dining area to the open kitchen. Small and large groups of patrons enjoy one another’s company over a pint of Amber Ale (brewed on site) or a plate of fajitas or jambalaya. Those who have never ventured downstairs to enjoy what Empire has to offer are missing out on unique beer and food that is fresh in more ways than one. The beer on tap is brewed either yards behind the bar in a brewery (visible through a large window along one of the walls) in the dining area or at the New York City location. Apples from Beak and Skiff in Lafayette, pumpkins from Critz Farms in Cazenovia, even basil grown in the brewery’s own garden all find their way into the variety of beers available at the bar. Besides the beers available on tap all year long, Empire has a number of seasonal brews. Soon the fall will bring Pumpkin Ale, Apple Ale, and Maple Porter, adding to an already diverse selection of beer. But if no beer will satisfy, patrons can simply look at Empire’s full wine list. The kitchen is just as active and diverse as the brewery. Chef Kevin Griffin works with the head brewer Tim Butler to make what’s on tap complement what’s on the menu and vice versa, Griffin says, “the relationship between the kitchen and the brewery is strong.” Butler is conscious of the interplay between the beer he brews and the food that patrons will enjoy with it. The Amber Ale is what Butler considers Empire’s “flagship” beer. It has been in production since 1994 and has been the top seller both in the bar and in distribution. Its balance of malt and hops makes it very drinkable and complements the menu. Empire is committed to seeking out and serving local food. Their menu includes a list of farms in the area where they purchase meat, produce and even butter. “We try to go for uncomplicated, flavorful, and local as possible,” Griffin said. Empire offers a broad range of cuisine from burgers made from beef, pork, and elk, to a Bayou catfish burrito and a side of cornbread. Along with the variety of the set menu, every day features a different “Prime Cut” which is the chef’s choice of meat dressed to his digression. For Griffin, the “Prime Cut” is a daily creative outlet, “I like to play. It’s never the same day twice.” Empire Brewing Company is a place where people are having fun whether they are eating, drinking or working. The kitchen is full of curious and creative people whose goal is to enjoy their food and their jobs. The well-informed bartenders will be glad to inform patrons about the beer on tap, how it was made and what dish it may go best with. If you’re still unsure, you can even try a sample. Between the service, the food, and the beer, if you don’t like Empire Brewing Company, it’s probably because you’ve never walked down those steps. Visit the Empire Brewing Company at 120 Walton St. in Armory Square or online at www.empirebrew.com.

How many times have you gone into a department store looking for a comfortable bra that looks good and fits right? You find a few cute ones in the size that you think you wear and tote them into the fitting room. For the next 20 minutes, you try each one and quickly check your appearance in the mirror, but this one is too snug or that one has underwire that cuts into you. So, you go back out and grab a different size or a different style and go through the same process again and again and again. Eventually you end up so frustrated that you leave without buying a single one of them. Patrice Haley, owner of Every Body Bras and Intimates in Fayetteville, estimated that about 85 percent of women are in the wrong bra size. “They’re aware they’re in the wrong size, but they don’t know what’s wrong with it,” she said. Her boutique is dedicated to helping customers find the proper fit, comfort and style for each unique bust. They carry a wide range of band sizes from 30 to 46 and cup sizes ranging from A to K. The style is purely European with brands like Conturelle, Prima Donna, Simone Perele, Fantasie and Freya, because they all have a grasp on fit and size. To see what she meant about being in the wrong size, Patrice invited me to come visit the store and get fitted. Every Body Bra and Intimates is tucked away next to L.L. Bean in the Fayetteville Towne Center. It has an atmosphere that is welcoming and cozy. The walls are lined with bras of different colors and styles and two circular couches sit on the showroom floor for customers who are waiting. The windows are lined with red flowers and white lights that illuminate the window panes. On the opposite side of the store are the fitting rooms. Patrice, a petite woman with strawberry blonde hair, blue eyes and an eloquent style greeted me upon my arrival. We talked a short while and with measuring tape in hand, she led me into one of the fitting rooms. In the fitting room, she asked to see my bra before taking the measurements. A trivial smile pulled at her mouth as I did this, and she said, “I can already tell you’re in the wrong size.” She went on to explain that the back strap was far too high, and typically it should rest horizontally and be able to be pulled no more than two inches from my back. As I looked at my black bra, adorned with blue trimming, I was surprised at what Patrice told me. My bra felt comfortable enough and I never questioned that I was anything other than a 34B. From there, she wrapped the measuring tape around me and noted that it was a bit over 27 inches, which would equate to approximately a band size of 30, depending upon the style or brand. By looking at how the wire rested on my bust, she determined that I was about a C cup, another shock. She then disappeared for a moment and returned with numerous bras dangling from her hand. Some were simple, others which were brightly colored, some had padding and others did not. Once she told me what to look for when bra shopping, she suggested a different style that I would have never considered before. “We try to get people to break out of their comfort zone,” Patrice said. “There’s a whole different world out there.” For more information about Every Body Bras and Intimates, visit www.everybodybras.com.

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BY JENNA SCHIFFERLE I PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY KANE Colleen LaTray has always loved golf. Often she can be found playing a round with her dear friend Michele Argenteri or putting with some of her family members. She loves everything about it, from the cut of the grass to the feel of the club to the dimples on the golf ball. On Sept. 19, 2008, however, those dimples took on a whole new meaning for Colleen. Suddenly, they weren’t just a design on a ball but rather a warning sign of something more serious. Dimples, Colleen learned, are a warning sign of breast cancer. She was diagnosed with invasive, ductal breast cancer that same day. A million thoughts ran through her head, and she began preparations for treatment immediately. “I was told by a doctor, ‘it will be a long year, but this is beatable.’” She would eventually have to go through multiple surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation and infusions. On top of processing all of this, however, Colleen still couldn’t believe that she didn’t know dimples were a sign of breast cancer. If she didn’t know, then surely thousands (maybe even millions) of other people out there didn’t know, either. Slowly, she began telling her loved ones the news and informed them about dimples being a sign of breast cancer. She wanted to spread the word to as many people as possible and share the information that she learned. Less than a month after her diagnosis, Colleen sent out an email to her second cousin, Brian Carroll, and her best friend, Michele, asking for their help in raising awareness. From there, the Dimples Awareness Foundation was formed. Both Michele and Brian admired Colleen’s dedication to helping others in the midst of her own crisis.

At events, they bring their awareness wheel for people to spin and learn facts that they may not have known previously. They start talking to people and let them know the warning signs of breast cancer and the facts about dimpling. Events also are key to reaching out and educating younger women and helping parents start discussions with their children about health issues that aren’t always easy to address. “Everyone’s situation is different,” Colleen said. “But sometimes the unknown is scarier than the known.” With all the support from board members, friends and family, the Dimples Awareness Foundation has support in all four corners of the U.S., she added. They are now spreading their efforts into other continents such as Africa and Australia, where Colleen and her family traveled and brought golf balls to hand out, T-shirts to sell and their own knowledge to spread with others. Regardless of what part of the world Colleen, Brian, Michele and other board members find themselves in, the idea of spreading awareness has extended well beyond events and fundraisers and become greatly fueled by word-of-mouth. Talking to people has been the easiest way to accomplish their goal. “One day it’s gonna happen, and I’m surprised it hasn’t already, where somebody’s life is saved or greatly improved by the awareness we raise,” Brian said. “Somewhere along the line, somebody is going to say, ‘Oh my gosh, I happened to see this squishy golf ball at my friend’s house and I have some dimpling. I got it checked out; we caught it really early. I never would have known if it wasn’t for the Dimples Awareness Foundation.’” To learn more about the Dimple Awareness Foundation, visit www. dimplesawarenessfoundation.org.

“If you think about it, this was just a month since her diagnosis, and she was facing all this treatment and surgery and all the impact on her family and everything else and she was still thinking about how she can help others,” Brian said. He remembered that Colleen was so dedicated to her cause that she used to come to board meetings in her wig to plan events and discuss details. They all gathered together in December 2008 for the first board meeting and formed a mission statement and discussed fundraising events. They all agreed on the slogan, “Dimples Belong on Golf Balls, Not Women!”. Next, the group ordered T-shirts and golf balls with the slogan on them to hand out. Each member handed out two golf balls to each person they came across, one for their self and one to pass on to another person. The board also decided that their biggest fundraiser was going to be an annual golf tournament and started preparations for the first one that took place at the Turning Stone Resort and Casino in July 2009. Brian worked for PGA Tour at the time and got people from the tour to help with the event. At the most recent one in 2011, not only did they sell foursomes, but they held a silent auction afterward for people who were not golfers. The tournament raised more than $18,000 overall to help educate people about early detection and dimpling. Within Syracuse, the Dimples Awareness Foundation has spread the word about dimples at games at Syracuse University, on WABC, during the LPGA Futures Tour (now called the Symetra Tour), at the New York State Fair on Women’s Day, and even on the Lifetime Network.

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If you have battled any type of cancer, more specifically breast cancer, what kind of attitude would you have? “I’m grateful for breast cancer,” says four-year survivor Patti Muller. According to her close friends, Patti has become a force to be reckoned with. Patti, the Syracuse area manager for California Closets, realized years ago that things really do happen for a reason. “I couldn’t ignore how many signs there were [when I got breast cancer] and how this was meant to be,” she said. “This was God’s way of telling me, ‘you don’t pick the cause, I will pick one for you.’” The cause chosen for Patti was the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY. While Patti became rapidly educated about her diagnosis and breast cancer in general, she also began making friends who were dealing with the same disease or who had already won the fight. Plus, “the angels of the Fund,” Carol M. Baldwin and her daughter, Beth Baldwin, were there for Patti. “The day after surgery, two days after Christmas, Carol called me,” Patti said. “All her sons were home and she could have focused on all the people visiting her for the holidays.” Instead, Carol spent an hour on the phone with Patti talking about anything and everything to keep her mind off the surgery she just underwent. “It’s not what happens to you, it’s what you do with it,” Patti said. “That’s what Carol did and that’s what I teach my kids.” Connecting more dots in her journey of breast cancer, Patti realized she was meeting many women and for good reason. In particular, is Cindy Bell, who is not only a photographer for Syracuse Woman Magazine (and the shooter for this page’s photo), but also, she’s a breast cancer survivor herself. During the spring of 2009, one year after Patti’s treatment, Cindy invited her to be a part of a photo shoot for a line of greeting cards Cindy was working on. Each card featured a cancer survivor as an “alter ego.” So naturally, Patti was made out to be Wonder Woman as she flew over New York City, cape and all. Patti truly believes that her friendship with Cindy was born from what many might see as a horrible thing. In the same way, she believes that even this collaboration with Cindy for the “WBOC Leading Woman” article is meant to be. Being a part of the WBOC has been another blessing for Patti (and Cindy, too) because of the endless channels of support the organization provides, not just for your business but for personal things like a breast cancer diagnosis. With the help of her friends and colleagues in the WBOC and many other dedicated women in the community, Patti is ready to continue her destined mission with the second annual Shop, Spa & Style fundraiser for the CMB Fund. This year’s event has been many months in the making and it’s going to be fabulous, much like its creator. Patti has made arrangements for this year’s event to take place from 5 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Oct. 11 (10.11.12, yes, even the date is creative!), at the Palace Theatre in Syracuse. Tickets are $50 each and this includes great food, shopping, select spa treatments and a fashion show that will feature breast cancer survivors and their family members. Ticket information can be found on Facebook or by calling (315) 701-4382. The WBOC is a local non-profit organization that has been providing support to women and access to innovative events and workshops for 20 years. Now, through the end of October, new members can join the WBOC with a $20 discount on the membership fee. For information on how to become a member, visit www.wboconnection.org.

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ooking for an evening of hospitality, sweet indulgences and shopping? Come to Au Chocolat in the village of Baldwinsville between 3:00 and 9:00 p.m. on Thursday, November 8th, to experience just that. Au Chocolat is the premier specialty shopping event in Baldwinsville! From the time you arrive to the time you prepare to leave, you won’t lift a finger. Choose from one of the 18 participating shops or eateries to start the tour and then enjoy complimentary limousine coach service for all your stops during your Au Chocolat experience. At each stop you will be served a chocolate treat and be able to socialize with community members as you get to know all that Baldwinsville has to offer. So be sure to join us at each shop for a sweet treat, special promotions and your passport to an evening of conviviality and hospitality as you explore the many varied boutiques nestled within our charming historic village. à la MAISON @ Cottage Designs (2nd Level) 25 Syracuse Street 440-6637 Distinctive Décor, Accessories And Gifts For The Home

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What’s better than leaving work on a Thursday and heading straight to a world-famous brewery for a Brewmaster’s Tasting and behindthe-scenes tour? How about, at the same time, you come to find that you’re helping to create a world with more birthdays? This October, Central New York residents will have the opportunity to do both — helping to advance the American Cancer Society’s mission of a world with less cancer and more birthdays. On Thursday, Oct. 25, the American Cancer Society and Budweiser Brewery in Lysander are teaming up to present Hops for Hope. This exclusive event, which will be held in the Brewery Ballroom from 6 to 10 p.m., will include a Budweiser Ambassador-led, behind-the-scenes tour of the largest Budweiser plant in the world, a catered dinner from Dinosaur BarB-Que, a Brewmaster’s Tasting during cocktail hour, raffles, dancing and more. Ticket prices are $100 and only 250 tickets will be made available for the event. “This area has a great community of young professionals and individuals looking for a unique event to make a difference,” said Betsy Guilfoil, director of special events for the American Cancer Society’s Eastern Division. “This night is sure to be a fun and rewarding experience for all our guests.” In 2012, more than 1.6 million new cases of cancer are expected to develop in the United States. New York state alone will account for almost 15 percent of these, with more than 109,000 cases expected this year. Hops for Hope will give Central New Yorkers a chance to lessen these statistics, and become part of the fight to ending cancer for good. “We felt there was a niche open to fill with an event like this — an event that is about more than just food and beer,” Guilfoil said. “It’s about supporting the lifesaving mission of the American Cancer Society while experiencing a night filled with fun and philanthropy.”

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“This year, 14 million cancer survivors will celebrate another birthday and Budweiser Brewery is proud to support the American Cancer Society’s commitment to making that number soar. Budweiser has been a terrific partner for this new event,” Guilfoil said. “This is a cause that has affected a lot of their employees, families and customers and is close to their hearts.” Funds raised at Hops for Hope will help the American Cancer Society fight cancer in CNY through research and programs for patients and their families. The American Cancer Society is available 24-hours a day, seven days a week at (800) 227-2345 or at www.cancer.org so no one ever has to face a cancer diagnosis alone. From providing general information, to providing wigs for people facing hair loss due to treatment, to offering free rides to and from treatment, there are a variety of programs to help patients deal with the cancer journey. The American Cancer Society combines an unyielding passion with nearly a century of experience to save lives and end suffering from cancer. As a global grassroots force of more than three million volunteers, the organization fights for every birthday threatened by every cancer in every community. Tickets for Hops for Hope can be purchased by contacting Betsy Guilfoil at (315) 433-5632 or by email at betsy.guilfoil@cancer.org.

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From the first time they met, to where they live, work and play; to where they were happily wed, Cristin Ruddy and Michael Manfredi are full of Syracuse soul! Cristin and Michael met at the Blue Tusk, located in Syracuse’s Armory Square, and their first date was at split between the downtown Sakanaya and Freedom Of Espresso. Now, the couple lives above Blue Tusk in Central Armory Condos, which makes for interesting guest entertainment. When guests come over, Cristin enjoys standing in the corner of their apartment and saying, “We met

directly below where I am standing.” Cristin and Michael met in Armory Square and had their first date there. They live in Armory, the ring was made in Armory, the wedding dress was found in Armory and they wed in Syracuse on July 28, 2012. Take a look at (just a few, there’s so many!) the unique, hyperlocal aspects of the Ruddy-Manfredi wedding! All photography provided by James Bass Photography, an Armory Square photographer, of course!

WHAT TO WEAR & THE LOOK ON YOUR WEDDING DAY Cristin found her wedding gown, shoes, handmade hairpiece and veil all at Spybaby Bridal in Armory Square, and just around the corner she had her hair done at Industry Salon. Local makeup artist, Erica Abdo stopped by Cristin’s apartment to get her ready for her big day! The bride’s lingerie was purchased at Isadora, also in Armory Square. The groom’s tux was purchased from Koolakian and Manro Menswear in Hanover Square.

WHERE THEY MET… & THE RING SHOP JUST INCHES AWAY! On their wedding day, Cristin and Michael were sure to walk alongside the Blue Tusk’s patio that’s only a few steps away from Kenn Kushner Designs. The Tusk is home to their first encounter and Kushner’s shop is where the couple bought their engagement and wedding bands.

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LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION The wedding and reception were held at the historical and grand Landmark Theatre, located at 362 S. Salina St. in Syracuse. The rehearsal dinner took place at Empire Brewing Co., and the Sunday brunch and hotel of choice for guests was the Jefferson Clinton Hotel.

The Syracuse couple chose to have the Syracuse area Kandied Kernel’s caramel popcorn for their guests since the ceremony and reception were at the Landmark Theatre. The wedding cake (and flowers) was purchased at Wegmans. The guests’ Welcome Bag had Dinosaur Bar-B-Que chips, Wegmans bottled water, and candy from Sweet On Chocolate. Karen’s Catering provided the catering.

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What does an entrepreneur do after retiring from one extremely successful business? Open another of course! What do high school students look for between classes? Summer jobs! I decided that opening my own business was the right thing to do, but it was the right thing to do with my daughter, Emily Harris, by my side. My daughter and I have combined our love of music to become the singing duo that’s known as “Special Event Music.” We were sure to make the word, “Event,” singular. The name was chosen because we focus on one event at a time to be sure each event is spectacular. I am familiar with the saying, “Mothers hold their daughter’s hand for a short while and their hearts forever.” Well, our duo also holds microphones! I retired from my 30-year Lia Sophia distribution and marketing business two years ago and found more time for my love of music and making people happy through song. My daughter Emily, a 2012 Cicero-North Syracuse High School graduate, grew up surrounded by music. As an infant, Emily would be present at my voice lessons with Amanda Carnie, and at bedtime she preferred to be sung to sleep instead of having story time. As she got older, she cultivated her natural talent with her vocal, piano and violin lessons. One of her favorite toys growing up was a Barbie Karaoke machine! And now, Emily enjoys audience response and interaction.

fiancé Lloyd and son Tyler), visiting friends, cooking, baking, traveling and reading. Also, I make time to help with non-profit community efforts. Currently, I serve as the board president for the Zonta Club of Syracuse. I view Special Event Music as a dream job, where a mother and her teenage daughter can spend precious time together to share and build a rich musical legacy. Time is spent in performance and in rehearsal. As many vocalists and musicians know, one three-minute tune can take 50 repetitions to prepare. We can perform one-hour concerts such as Songs of Love, Best of Broadway, Songs of the Holiday Season, National Pride Patriotic Songs, and Soulful Jazz and Blues. And what we love most is that we come to you, bringing our piano and sound system. Nothing energizes and entertains a group of any size like the sparkle of live music. In the very near future, I would love for Emily and me to entertain on stages around the world, on cruise ships and on tropical islands. I believe our new tagline would be: “You supply the palm trees, we’ll supply the music.” You can find Special Event Music on Facebook, through the Syracuse CEO and Cicero Chamber of Commerce, or by phone (315) 699-6644. Emily and Theresa cantor at Sacred Heart Church in Cicero; Theresa has been a member of their chancel choir for the past 20 years.

Today, the voices of mother and daughter combine in beautiful harmony, something we cherish as a family. With collaborative accompanist Dr. Jerry Exline on keyboards, Special Event Music performs in all genres at corporate events, private parties, all wedding ceremonies, as well as providing funeral planning: song selection and presentation. Two surprising but fun and growing aspects of the business include a comedy set featuring parodies of popular songs and also a singing telegram service. When I’m not singing, I enjoy spending time with the rest of our family (including my syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012

BY AMY M. MANLEY I PHOTOGRAPHY BY ERIC PAYNE

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hree days before Christmas in 2011, Kay Crawford sat silently waiting for the doctor to reveal the results of her tests. She had always had regular exams, was an advocate for her own healthcare and had no family history of cancer. Yet, the nagging, “what ifs,” tormented her. When the doctor returned with the diagnosis, her worst fear was confirmed; it was breast cancer. For Kay, the first of the year would begin with a lumpectomy, radiation treatments and the outbreak of uncertainty that many breast cancer patients endure. “I have other health issues that I thought would give me trouble as time goes on. “ Kay explained. “I never thought that breast cancer would touch me!” Fortunately, Kay was able to turn to one of her strongest pillars of support for the past 30 years, the Spirit of Syracuse Chorus. Each Tuesday night, 75 women from all parts of Central New York come together to sing four-part a cappella harmony in the Sweet Adeline’s Barbershop style. Collectively the women not only share their passion for music, but they also share the triumphs and troubles of their daily lives. Many consider it to be like a second family they see once a week. Since stepping in as chorus director a few years ago, Kay has built a well-known reputation as a straight shooter. And this moment in her life would be no different. Standing in front of her musical flock, she laid everything out; her diagnosis, her treatment and her belief that it was going to be OK. Chorus member Joanne Jenners knew exactly what Kay was feeling. Twelve years ago, Joanne underwent a lumpectomy and then a year of treatment with chemotherapy and radiation after she was diagnosed with breast cancer. The harsh treatments wreaked havoc on her body, and zapped her energy and stamina. But when she was able, she still marched up on the risers to “ring a chord” with her sisters in song. “Singing helped me stay invigorated.” __ Jill Keuchler

And that support continued outside of the rehearsal hall. “The woman who stood next to me at rehearsals appeared at my house with a lovely dinner the night of my first chemo treatment,” Joanne said. Thirty years ago, Mary Jane Cassano also kept singing through her breast cancer treatments. Mary Jane, a long-time Sweet Adeline member, Mary Jane, says it’s important to have a positive outlook when faced with the insidious disease. “They are not alone in the fight. New treatments are being discovered every day and soon we’ll win the fight” On Oct. 14, the Spirit of Syracuse will sing the national anthem at the start of the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY’s second annual A Run for their Life 5K/15K. It’s an opportunity the

chorus leapt at; not only because it supports an organization dedicated to helping other women in the community, but also because it strikes close to home for the group. On the night the chorus was first invited to sing, Kay stood up in front and asked threeparticular women to step off the risers and join her in facing the group. “We have been asked to sing for the Carol M. Baldwin foundation.” Kay said. “I want you all to see the face of your sisters in song who have fought the battle and won. We are going to sing for them. We are going to sing for us.” And the chorus whole-heartedly agreed. Ten months into 2012 and Kay’s tests are coming back clean, and the future is looking good. Women who are diagnosed with invasive ductal carcinoma have a 90 percent survival rate with early detection, and Kay’s cancer was. But she knows that many more women face a much tougher road to recovery. Being a part of the A Run For Their Life event this year is an honor for her and a reminder of how special it is to be a survivor. “Every step we take, I reinforce in my thoughts how lucky I am…no cancer, no chemo, no ongoing trauma. I have dodged a bullet,” Kay said. “Every day I realize that it happened to me and there are many, many people that are watching out for me and saying prayers for me. I am so very grateful.” Learn more about the Spirit of Syracuse at www.spiritofsyracuse.com.

Sunday, October 14, 2012 Syracuse University’s South Campus, Manley Field House The second annual Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY’s run-walk to benefit local breast cancer research at SUNY Upstate Medical University. Proceeds from the Fund’s events also benefit lecture series within the field of breast cancer research. www.cmbarunfortheirlife.com syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012

Mary Ellen Bloodgood, chief executive officer of Menorah Park, knows firsthand that the DeWitt retirement home and assisted living facility is not “just for Jews.”

in 1912. There will be mementos conveyed through videos and collages. Dr. Irving Goldman, the grandson of one the home’s founding fathers, will share his personal connection to the home’s history as a guest speaker.

She, herself, identifies as Episcopalian, but she learns from those around her. The local rabbis have been very generous in bringing her up to speed, she said.

“Dinner dances are wonderful and they’re gorgeous,” she said, “but we want people to walk away thinking, ‘Oh, I remember that’ and, ‘My mother was part of that’ or, ‘I’m part of that.’” Mary Ellen also hopes people will come away thinking about what the next 100 years could hold for Menorah Park. This includes offering more care to people in their homes and expanding the internship program in order to attract more young people to the field of geriatrics, she says.

“And it’s unusual for a Jewish home,” she said. “I can tell you that I’m probably one of three [non-Jewish CEOs]. But I’ve been embraced, not only by this association, but by this community.” Menorah Park is nonsectarian and welcomes people of all faiths, ethnicities and cultures. Mary Ellen came on as chief financial officer 26 years ago and has been CEO for the past 11 years. “We have a very loyal staff and I feel very fortunate that I’ve been involved in Menorah Park for these 26 years,” she said. She’s thrilled to be a part of the organization’s 100-year celebration, which culminates with a gala on Oct. 27 at Temple Adath Yeshurun in Syracuse. The theme is “Honor Our Mothers and Fathers,” one of the tenets of Judaism. “When Menorah Park was founded 100 years ago in 1912, the founding mothers and fathers came together to really make a home for their parents that were frail, perhaps didn’t have any other place to go,” Mary Ellen said. “Still using that as our main mission over the next 100 years is something that is extremely strong and extremely important to us as an organization. Certainly when I look at my own parents and my own grandparents and how I would want them treated at the end of their lives, that’s really important to me as well. So it’s personal, but it’s also the mission of the Jewish home.” The gala’s program will be light on speeches. Instead it will focus on the rich history of Menorah Park, which started as the Jewish Home for the Aging

“An opportunity to work with seniors is something that’s our passion, and we want to be able to bring that younger person into the field and say, This is a great opportunity for you, you can get back as much as you give,’” she said. Mary Ellen is confident that Menorah Park will continue to move forward and find new and improved ways to fulfill its mission — to assure maximum independence and dignity for seniors through the highest quality of health, residential and community services. Before even coming to Menorah Park, she saw that the volunteer board of directors was visionary. “I knew a lot of things were going to change for the better over time, and it just didn’t strike me, this organization, as a facility that was going to stay the same,” she said. “The status quo’s not good enough. There’s always more to do and new ways to provide better care, so that’s what really drew me to the Jewish home.” Tickets to Menorah Park’s 100th Anniversary Gala are $150 per person, and all are welcome to attend. The event is black-tie optional and will feature dinner and dancing to the music of the Stan Colella Orchestra. To make your reservation, call 446-9111 ext. 166.

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This isn’t about Beth Baldwin. This isn’t about what she’s done or what she will do. Instead, this is about the survivors, those who lost their battle with breast cancer, and those who are still fighting, and those who are yet to be diagnosed. “I’ve always been the one who’s behind the scenes,” Beth said. “Every organization needs a ‘front and center person.’ My brothers do that very well. [My daughter] Jacqueline does that very well.” Beth says there needs to be someone who can be out of the spotlight who is making it all come together. Her daughter Jill is good at this, too. “I can’t do what they do and they can’t do what I do.” The realization of these individual talents is what makes the Baldwin Family so strong and what has made the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY an unstoppable force. The fund, which provides grants and money for research at Upstate University hospital, is on a mission to find a cure for breast cancer, and has been for several years. What might seem like a tall order is actually one that Beth believes is on the horizon. “I know we’re close,” she says. “How do I know? I just do.” The Angel’s Undying Faith How does she “just know” that a cure is out there and that it’s close? Beth’s faith must be one of the most certain truths I know of. She truly lives her life with her faith in God as her guide. There is nothing that will shake this angel’s faith, not even a disease like breast cancer, and Beth, executive director of the fund, has witnessed it all. The number of hours spent at someone’s side during chemotherapy or during their final day, or final hours has gone beyond counting. She does this without hesitation and with great compassion. But how does she voluntarily put herself in situations like these? “People keep asking me that,” Beth said. “I never really thought about that.” So, I asked her again. “My reason for doing this is to be quiet and still for others. No one else needs to know I am doing it,” she said. “Just God needs to know. I feel very blessed to be chosen to do what I do.” Instead of telling you a story about how Beth is so “amazing” or “compassionate” (which, she is), she told me a story. This story, and a few others, will help you see why she chooses to hold the hands of those fighting all types of cancer, not just breast cancer. Stacy’s Second Battle On the day of this year’s annual golf tournament fundraiser, I asked Beth if there were any survivors playing or in attendance. She immediately brought

up Stacy Huntington, a woman who would begin her second battle with breast cancer that same week. Stacy also organizes Hoops For a Cure, another annual fundraiser that benefits the fund. It is because of people like Stacy that Beth does what she does. Stacy, avid golfer and runner, loves to be outdoors and, therefore, being on the links at the Turning Stone for this year’s event was more than fitting. Beth said the beautiful, fresh air on Sept. 16 was exactly what she hoped for. Stacy was able to play, sometimes using one arm for a stroke here and there because of some pain. However, according to Beth, it’s hard to tell when a lot of women have breast cancer, unless they lose their hair. Why? “Because they keep going,” she said. “If Stacy is here then that means I need to be here.” A few days after the tourney, Beth sat with Stacy and her husband during her chemotherapy treatment. “My role?” she said. “I try to listen, and if there’s a lot of silence, I try to talk. I say things that are motivational.” What is Beth sure to not do in the presence of someone fighting his or cancer? “I try not to cry, but I never tell them not to cry,” Beth said. “Sometimes that can be a good thing for them. I like to think that’s the cancer leaving them. Their tears have to leave them, too. They are the ones going through it and they’re the strongest in the circle.” In order to become a survivor, they have to be strong, and this shows everyone else their attitude: “I’m going to make it.” Her gift is the ability to be a rock, an unmovable and indestructible rock for those who need her most. “I am able to emotionally control myself. If they can be strong, and they’re the ones going through it… God’s gotta give me that gift to give me strength to do it,” Beth said. “And if that means you [wait] to cry the whole way home from Upstate [University Hospital], then you cry the whole way home. But I’m not crying for me, I’m crying for her.” In another way, Beth knows it’s sometimes her job to take the role of a mother, sister, daughter or friend to those who are sitting in for a treatment, or for those who are enduring the final hours and minutes of their life. On the Outside, Looking in the Window “I’m looking into what I’m seeing and it reminds me kind of the journey of a soldier,” Beth said. “I’m watching them go into war and battle and have no idea what they’re getting into. They can be young or old, a man or a lady.” Beth says people fighting cancer are so much like soldiers that when they finish treatment or reach a state of remission, it’s like a homecoming celebration at Hancock International Airport. “Their life is forever changed. They’re not the same person who got on the airplane and went to another country,” she said. “It’s the same way that the person with cancer is forever changed by experiences.” And in some cases, she says, soldiers may witness death and people with cancer will witness the disease take the lives of others. syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012

When she’s on the outside, looking in, and sees what affects those closest to the person who is battling — she knows to assume another role. “My role as a human being is to be their cheerleader,” she said. “I witnessed this with my own mother [when she was diagnosed]. She didn’t want to expose her kids to fear, she wanted to be the strong mother. It’s like I am supposed to be the one holding the sign at the airport for the soldier…or holding their hands at Upstate [Uuniversity Hospital]” “The hardest part and my favorite part is to be there with the patient, whether it’s the treatment…or when I’ve been there when people have died of breast cancer or any type of breast cancer.” Being there when someone lets go, Beth says, is not easy and she won’t pretend that it is. “When you’re helping someone go to the other side, it’s tough, but it’s beautiful.” Beth finds the beauty in something that may appear grim when that person describes to them what they see before they pass away. In particular, she remembers a 14-year-old girl dying of cancer who described what she saw as she began to let go. “Her mom was unable to tell her, ‘It’s OK, you can go,’” Beth said. “It was my duty to do that.” Beth recalls that the girl’s legs were bent as she lay in bed. Great fatigue caused her legs to sway and bump into her as she stood by her bed. Beth went to

steady the girl’s legs. “Ouch.” She hurt her even with the slightest of touch because she was so fatigued and weak at 60 pounds. All of a sudden, the girl’s arms went into the air and she flailed them about. Beth refrained from stopping her arms as she feared hurting her again. “Why are your arms in the air?” Beth asked her. The girl replied, “There’s a man at the end of my bed and his arms are out,” she said. “He’s calling my name…and I don’t want to go.” “It was hard that day…” Beth broke down and tears filled her light green and gray eyes. Not at the girl’s home, where she was that day, but in the Fairmount Panera. She held true to not cry in front of the strong young girl who was fighting the good fight, but she let her emotions go as she and I spoke. “I’m afraid to go,” the girl said. Beth said she asked her why. “Because I don’t know anyone in heaven.” Beth told the girl to look for her father, Mr. Alec Baldwin, who was already there. Beth’s father was a social studies teacher and the girl loved that subject so she felt this was the best way to comfort her at that moment. “She said to me at one point, ‘I feel like I’m going, will you come with me?’ I said , “sure,’” said Beth as she continued to dry tears from her eyes. “I couldn’t tell her I couldn’t go. I was thankful that I was there.” The girl passed away on her own mother’s birthday. She hung on so she could see her mother’s

one last time. Beth says she remembers this happened when the fund wasn’t even in existence yet. It’s clear to me, looking from the outside in, that her calling was already in full force. While the girl’s father worked at home for his own business, her mother was unable to be there on a daily basis because she was working to keep the health insurance available to her daughter. “I slept at their house for two weeks on a mattress, trying so hard to help her mom and dad,” Beth said. “Again, you feel like you’re looking inside to someone else’s house, literally.” The Rock of Gibraltar & the Baldwin Name Every day, Beth spends countless hours giving to others and checking on others. All her siblings and children confirm this of their mother. Everywhere she goes, someone either thanks her for helping them or tells her they know someone she touched. How do I know this? Five times within three hours, while at the Fairmount Panera, a different person greeted Beth while we talked. Each had a different reason to say “hello” or “thank you”. “You’re like the Rock of Gibraltar.” This is what Billy Baldwin told his sister Beth. She asked him to explain further. “It changes and gets older as the water hits it, but nothing is going to destroy it,” he said. “You have that conviction, nothing is going to stop you.”

“My father always told me to remember that I was a Baldwin and to be respectful of my name,” Beth said. For this reason, Beth believes it’s her duty to represent that part of the fund’s name with full regard. And for the same reason, her children find the same honor in the family’s mission. “I am very proud of my family,” said Jill Keuchler, one of Beth’s daughters. “We will not stop until we find the cure for breast cancer.” Since she was very young, the fund has been a part of her everyday life. ”It has impacted me not only through my grandmother being a survivor, but also from survivors I have met along the way and remembering those we have lost along the way.” Beth’s only son, Jonathan, says it’s an assumed duty to be involved in the fund. “It’s an indescribable feeling, but to continue the crusade and passing it down through the generations tells you a little something,” he said. While he says he “has no choice” but to be involved, he says with great pride, “I was raised by the queen, Carol, my mother, and five sisters.” Finding a similar path as her mother, Jacqueline Baldwin-Calveric says there’s a plan for her as well. “Even though this is a family mission, it is something that has touched my heart in so many ways,” Jacqueline said. “I’ve watched my friends die, my family members battle… recurrence strikes people when they least expect it. I know this is God’s plan for me.” Beth repeatedly says she never feels drained by what she does for the fund. “I don’t know what it is,” she said. “It’s just gotta be God giving me that strength.” This rock-like strength is what enhances Beth’s faith in what she sees as a cure for breast cancer in the near future. “My mom is the life source of this fund,” Jacqueline said. “She wakes up and breathes this fund, and barely takes time to take care of herself because her life consists of helping others. Everything she does for this fund is because she wants to. [It’s] because her mission in life is to stop suffering and pain associated with breast cancer. I look at her every day and hope and pray that I can carry on what she has given to so many others, and to the foundation of this fund.” As Jacqueline assumes that “front and center” role Beth describes, she knows that it’s her mother’s footsteps she will follow. “I would be lost without her,” Jacqueline said. And so would countless people in this community that call Beth their angel on earth. To learn more about the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY, visit www.findacure.org.

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BY FARAH F. JADRAN I PHOTO BY CATHRYN LAHM Nowadays, how many handwritten letters do you receive? Many people may not receive any, besides a Christmas card or two, but we all know that most of those are now mass produced with a family portrait on photo paper. But for some people, writing a letter means more than just the contents of the message. At times, it’s the stamp that recalls with nostalgia a time when people took the time and effort to send a hand-written note. To this day, Chris Keevil’s father-in-law still sends out handwritten letters because of breast cancer awareness stamps — his stamp of choice. Chris, the general manager of Campus Copy located on the Syracuse University Hill, is a part of a new wave of hope in the Central New York community. Chris is an avid stamp collector and also a firm believer in doing the right thing for a good cause. Alongside Chris in this newly realized stamp mission is Natalie Dolan, a customer relations coordinator for the United States Postal Service, and also an avid support of raising awareness through the breast cancer stamp. Natalie recently met Beth Baldwin at a Syracuse Chiefs Game. She immediately knew that there was something more she wanted to do in collaboration with Beth as she’s always used the USPS to mail pink blankets to women battling breast cancer and to mail any other materials for the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY. “I thanked her for using the Postal Service and I told her I had wanted to do something more with the breast cancer awareness stamps.” Natalie says the stamp alone has raised $90,000 for research through USPS sales. Every time a stamp is purchased, 10 cents is donated to breast cancer research, which makes a simple stamp purchase so much more meaningful. Plus, Natalie says all the CMB Fund merchandise, like the cache envelope, provides a tangible item for you to keep, but you’re also giving to an important cause. This year, it all came together. “Beth had expressed an interest in doing a cache and described it to me,” Chris said. “I’m a stamp collector and knew what she was talking about so I ran with it.” During this year’s NYS Fair, the special breast cancer awareness envelope cache made its debut. “It’s a great opportunity for someone else who wants to do something for breast cancer” Chris said. “It’s just another great way to get involved with the community.” With Chris creating the concept, and Natalie’s design, the cache was also a wonderful collaborative effort. It’s not the first time he’s offered his efforts to the breast cancer community. In 2011, Chris got involved with a breast cancer fundraiser in Tully. The high school girls’ lacrosse team played a game against Marcellus to honor the mother of one of the team members. The fundraiser was created to raise funds for research through the CMB Fund. However, the night before the event, the beloved honoree, Patricia Bailey, passed away. Chris jumped in and reprinted the programs so they would read: “In memory of Patty Bailey.” The event is now an annual occurrence. “Everyone just came together,” Chris said. “It was amazing to me to see all these community members come together.” Like the lacrosse game, Natalie and Chris believe there are so many different avenues that people can take to make a difference. The next time you plan to write a letter or if you’re looking for a cache to add to your collection, think about how you’re spreading awareness and know you’re stamping that letter with hope. The caches are three for $10 or $5 each and can still be purchased by emailing cmbfund@gmail.com or calling (315) 672-5288. syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012

I sat at a table inside a café in Liverpool with a perfect spiced chai latte in front of me. My best friend sat across from me at a hand-painted table and the music had a cool vibe. It was one of those summer days that you long for, not too humid, just the right amount of breeze. Everything conspired to inspire my artistic mind, and I realized what an incredible room Café at 407 was for an art show. Not one to let a moment pass, I contacted Jodie Wilson-Dougherty, the executive director of Ophelia’s Place, to see if she would allow an art show in Café at 407. That day, I learned that the café is the main support for the nonprofit eating disorder and body image issue resource center, Ophelia’s Place. Perfect! The show would be a fundraiser. They say ignorance is bliss, and I spent the next few months in total bliss as I planned the event. I sent emails out to artists I know from around the world, hoping to hear back from one or two, the usual number for a show. When 40 responded with an excited, “Yes!”, I had a feeling we were onto something. It’s only fitting that the artwork is from around the world, since Ophelia’s Place is a one-of-a-kind, globally-recognized resource center. The date for the dreamt-up event is set for Nov. 3. The show will run from 6 to 9 p.m. and there will be nearly 100 pieces of artwork on display. Pieces being sent from around the world include sculptures, furniture, paintings, jewelry, wearable art, handmade books, and more. Artists are from as far away as Japan, and as close as Liverpool, and many will be at the event. Although the show will only remain up for one week, I expect

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many of the pieces will sell the first night. Attendees should expect an amazing evening of music and refreshments and incredible artwork for sale all the while they’re supporting Ophelia’s Place. The incredible response from artists and community members shows that the organization itself was, and still is, desperately needed in Central New York. The mission of Ophelia’s Place is to provide information, direction, support and counseling to individuals and families dealing with disordered eating. Its survival rests solely on donations and fundraising events, along with the Cafe. And now there’s yet another way to feel connected to this safe place. Local gallery owner Caroline Szozda has the immense task of hanging the show, and has donated her expertise and time. Szozda owns the Szozda Gallery located at 501 W. Fayette St. in Syracuse. With her gallery experience and eye for what art lovers like, Szozda says she encourages interior decorators, corporate sponsors and business owners to arrive early for the best selection. The gallery will remain up for one week post show and will be available for viewing and purchases during café hours: 7 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday through Friday and 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Saturdays and Sundays. The café is located at 407 Tulip St. in the village of Liverpool. Park on the street for free for the gallery event and when you stop by for a cup of coffee! To learn more about Ophelia’s Place at www.opheliasplace.org.

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BY JILL ZIMMERMAN

For many women, the fear of breast cancer is as debilitating as the disease itself. Even 15 years ago, breast cancer treatment brought to mind radical mastectomies that left a woman’s body with irreparable physical damage. Today, the treatment of breast cancer has changed drastically. “It’s no longer something that women have to fear,” says Olga M. Stanton, director of radiology and COO at Saint Joseph’s Imaging. “Cancer is just a really scary word, people are very afraid of it,” says Rose Hudson, a breast cancer survivor. “I tell people to think positive, you can’t be afraid.” “My cancer was discovered during a routine mammogram,” says Hudson, who is a medical technician at St. Joseph’s Medical, PC (DBAw North Medical). Hudson, now 54, was diagnosed with Stage III breast cancer at age 52. “It hit me like a two-by-four, it was the last thing I was expecting.”

While both Kunz and her sister tested negative for both BRCA genes, her oncologist believes she has a very strong, unidentified, genetic component. Hudson also has a strong family history of breast cancer, though not a typical first-degree relative connection--she is one of five cousins to have breast cancer. “I never gave a thought to it before, because none of our mothers had it,” said Hudson. More and more people are deciding to learn whether or not they have a genetic abnormality that puts them at greater risk. The nonprofit Breastcancer. org says women with BRCA gene mutations have up to 80 percent risk of developing breast cancer--most likely at a younger age. “Now I’m healthy, cancer free, probably stronger than I was before,” Hudson proclaims, “But it was hard, I’m not going to lie.”

Mammography is still the number one way to screen for breast cancer, according to Stanton. It is fast, inexpensive and provides an overview of the whole breast. Annual mammograms can detect cancer early — when it is most treatable. For most women, an annual mammogram is recommended starting at age 40, but sooner for some depending on risk factors.

Hudson underwent a bilateral mastectomy with a TRAM flap reconstruction, which involves transferring an abdominal muscle to the chest, and also had her ovaries removed as a preventive measure. “I talked to some women who had this done, and they minimized it,” Hudson recounts. “I think that we need to be honest with each other, about how things really are during recovery. Even though I’m fine now, it was a painful surgery, and I went back to work in seven weeks, but it was not an easy year.”

“Young women should have a risk assessment and consult with their physician,” encourages Margaret (Peg) Kunz, also a breast cancer survivor, whose husband is a radiologist at SJI. “Having a baseline mammogram is important, but if they meet the criteria for high risk screening, then they should have an ultrasound or MRI. It saved my life.”

Kunz agrees that surgery and reconstruction are not for the faint of heart. “Any kind of treatment, whether it’s a lumpectomy with radiation or chemo, or a mastectomy with or without reconstruction, it takes a very tough person to go through cancer,” she says. She opted for a bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction by tissue expanders with implants. “The reconstruction process for me was a very lonely and a very tough process.”

Kunz, a registered nurse and post-operative breast cancer exercise specialist, tested positive for breast cancer four years ago, when she was 46 years old. Her personal history of having dense breast tissue made it difficult to read her annual mammograms. It was an MRI that detected the tumors in her left and right breasts, well before they would have appeared on a mammogram. In New York and other states, physicians are required to inform patients if dense breast tissue is found during an exam. Dr. Stanton explains that in a dense breast, which X-rays do not penetrate as well, more area appears as a solid white mass on a mammogram. Tumors also appear as solid white areas, which make them more difficult to detect in a dense breast, she says. In these instances, a physician may recommend supplemental breast cancer screenings by ultrasound or an MRI to ensure early detection. “My maternal grandmother had breast cancer, my mother died of ovarian cancer at age 54, and my sister died of breast cancer at age 40,” Kunz recounts. “I have a strong family history.” Abnormal DNA can be inherited, making one statistically more likely to develop cancer. Mutations of the BRCA1 and BRCA2 (BReast CAncer) genes are most common among the 5 to 10 percent of breast cancers linked to inherited gene mutations.

In addition to advancements in detection and treatment, breast reconstruction after mastectomy has evolved to become an integral component in the therapy for patients with breast cancer. “At the time, I thought very few women were coming forth and telling what it was really like to have reconstruction, the nitty gritty of it,” describes Kunz. “And it’s not a large number of us who go for bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction. I mean there is a slight increase in that procedure but it’s not like everyone is doing it, nor should they.” In 2012, St. Joseph’s Imaging started the Comprehensive Breast Health Program to ensure quality care for their patients who need further treatment after a mammogram. “That is so key, when you go into an imaging center, where one out of eight women are walking out with a diagnosis of breast cancer,” says Kunz. “So, you hear those words, ‘I’m sorry, you have breast cancer,’ and the conversation doesn’t end there at SJI, they help you navigate through the screening, diagnosis, and treatment processes.” “Having a strong support system is important,” Hudson agrees. “At the end of everything, you want to feel that you got the best possible care, and that is what The Program does,” says Dr. Stanton. syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012

BY FARAH F. JADRAN

With loads of information at our fingertips, we should know, as women, that it’s best to perform monthly self-exams. And by age 40 (or depending on family history), we should know that getting an annual mammogram, also is the best thing we can do for our health. While the term, “should,” is emphasized, we know this is not always the case. Now, more than ever, Dr. Deepa Masrani, of Upstate University Hospital, says that women “must take responsibility for their own health.” Any skin changes on the breast, lumps, dimples or changes in nipples (or nipple discharge) should be immediately reported to your primary care physician, according to Dr. Masrani. “Just getting an annual mammogram is a very important way for women to take control of their [breast] health,” Dr. Masrani said. During this past summer, Upstate University Hospital took over the Wellspring Breast Center on the Community Campus. Now, the center has three radiologists that maintain breast imaging as their primary focus. “Having three specialized women’s imagers available at any given time for screening mammogram reports will make the review process run more smoothly and efficiently,” she said. Wellspring also offers a full comprehensive curriculum of breast care with digital mammography and breast ultrasound. Dr. Masrani says patients can take full advantage of onsite breast biopsies and breast surgery referrals as well. Wellspring has consult rooms, a patient conference room, two breast ultrasound exam rooms, biopsy facilities, and two diagnostic mammography rooms. The waiting areas are spacious and comfortable. Comfortable cloth robes, herbal teas and aromatherapy all add to the overall atmosphere. At Wellspring, a breast specialist team is available to provide examinations, diagnostic testing and treatment as needed. If a biopsy is necessary, the team will provide options, immediate scheduling and support throughout the entire process. The staff of health professionals aims to provide peace

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of mind by bringing knowledgeable specialists and the latest technology together in one location. Apart from the available digital mammography, Dr. Masrani says Wellspring patients have access to a 3 Tesla Breast MRI Unit, which is used for high resolution imaging diagnostic purposes to screen women with high risk of breast cancer. Over Dr. Masrani’s years of experience, she says that having digital breast mammography, breast ultrasound, and breast MRI have made a noticeable difference on how she and the Wellspring staff focuses on breast health. In addition, Positron Emission Mammography (nuclear imaging of the breast) has been immensely effective, especially for patients who cannot get a breast MRIs because they may be claustrophobic. More so, Dr. Masrani says that the two newest waves of breast technology are what will make the execution of breast health stronger at Wellspring. The first technology is Breast Tomosynthesis, which is a multi-slice mammogram that provides more details when evaluating dense breast tissue. This process helps resolve breast abnormalities in a more efficient manner. “This will cut back on diagnostic callbacks for patients and reduce patent apprehension,” Dr. Masrani said. “Also, it will decrease the number of unnecessary breast biopsies.” The second technology advancement is the 3D Automated Breast Ultrasound. Now that the state of New York has legally mandated that dense breast tissue be reported on every screening mammogram, the 3D Automated Breast Ultrasound comes in use. “These patients will need a supplemental screening with 3D Breast Ultrasound,” Dr. Masrani said. “This is the new tool which takes away the operator dependency involved in routine breast ultrasound.” To learn more about the Wellspring Breast Center, visit www.upstate.edu/ community/services/wellspring.php or call (315) 492-5007.

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CAROL M. BALDWIN GOLF TOURNEY TAKES TO THE GREEN More than 500 golfers teed off Sept 16. at the Turning Stone Resort & Casino to support the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY for its annual fundraiser. Supporters, survivors, health professionals and advocates all gathered to help find a cure. Daniel Baldwin was in attendance and shared beautiful sentiments about his mother’s fund while letting us know that he is the only Baldwin brother that can actually play golf. “I would just, so love to find something before my mom leaves this earth,” Daniel said. “It would be a great gift because I know how badly she wants that.”

MISSION ALFRESCO HITS THE SYRACUSE SCENE In celebration of the Rescue Mission’s 125th Anniversary, the community was invited to an exciting outdoor dining experience on Thursday, Sept. 14. While a torrential downpour entered the scene that evening, it didn’t stop attendees from having a good time! Mission Alfresco offered a “do it yourself” outdoor dining event in the Everson Plaza, the secret location that was revealed only hours before it kicked off. From Syracuse Woman Magazine and the guests at the REDageddon table, we say “Congratulations on 125 years of beautiful work in this community. We’re thankful for all you do!”

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HANDBAGS HELPING HEARTS, A SOLD OUT SUCCESS More than 250 women attended the annual Handbags Helping Hearts event held Sept. 20 at the Stickley, Audi & Co. Showroom in Fayetteville. As Go Red For Women Syracuse’s exclusive women’s magazine sponsor, Syracuse Woman Magazine was honored to be in attendance again and to have donated a Nicole Miller bag filled with chocolate, wine and jewelry, that was auctioned off that evening. The event was emceed by 93Q’s Amy Robbins and featured several speakers, including longtime American Heart Association supporter and president and CEO of Stickley, Audi & Co., Aminy Audi. Also in attendance was Go Red For Women Chair Susan Crossett.

OUT OF THE DARKNESS COMMUNITY WALK Time: Registration 10 AM; Walk 11 AM What: A walk to benefit local and national suicide prevention and awareness programs Where: Long Branch Park in Liverpool Contact: Debra Graham at (315) 664-0346

FALL NYS WINE TASTING Time: 1 to 6 PM What: Sample wines from wineries such as Glenora, Bully Hill, Three Brothers, 1,000 Islands, Hazllitt and more! Event catered by Koto Japanese Steakhouse, Top This Pizza and Jake’s Grub N Grog. This is a free event. Where: Liquor Town, 5501 Brewerton Road, Brewerton

WOMEN TRANSCENDING BOUNDARIES PROGRAM Time: 3 to 6 PM Who: All women are invited to attend. What: A monthly meeting where women can hear several illustrious women from the past who will present their passions, cause and personal stories. Tea, sandwiches and pastries are provided. Where: Jowonio School, 3049 E. Genesee St. Info: www.wtb.org

PINK IN THE RINK Time: 7:30 PM Who: Syracuse Crunch vs. Wilkes-Barre/ Scranton Penguins What: A night of breast cancer awareness Tickets: www.syracusecrunch.com

CONNECTIONS 7TH ANNUAL WOMEN’S CONFERENCE Time: 8 AM to 4 PM What: A day-long conference for women across New York State. This year’s theme is Overcoming Fear, Managing Risk and Maintaining Growth. There will be six keynote speakers. www.facebook.com/ConnectionsWomensConference Where: The American Foundry, Oswego syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012 49

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“After reviewing your test results, we must inform you about the diagnosis. You have breast cancer.”

different,” he said. Because breast cancer types vary so much, it’s important to realize that every breast cancer patient is different as well.

Once a woman receives this news from her doctor, the human mind will undoubtedly race with questions and concerns about what will happen next. Once you know if your individual case requires a lumpectomy or mastectomy, you will then make several important decisions all while you’re dealing with many emotions.

No matter if reconstruction is fully desired, DeRoberts suggests that breast cancer patients take a look at their options just in case they choose to revisit the procedure later in life. In addition to performing an autologous tissue flap reconstruction, DeRoberts explained that a surgery involving an implant means a woman will go through a series of procedures involving breast expanders. He says this is the most common of breast reconstructions and can be done immediately after a breast cancer surgery or later in life for a delayed reconstructive procedure. Similar to the look of an implant, an expander is placed below the muscle to stretch the skin of the breast area. This is necessary to make room for the implant especially after a mastectomy. Also, this creates a mound for the breast implant to be placed. The expander is filled with saline each week until the area is expanded enough for a permanent saline or silicone implant to be inserted. The recovery for an implant procedure is shorter (a few weeks versus six weeks or more) than the recovery for an autologous tissue flap reconstruction, DeRoberts said.

New York state law requires that hospitals inform all women undergoing breast cancer surgeries (such as mastectomies) about the option of breast reconstruction and available procedures. According to three Central New York breast reconstruction surgeons Syracuse Woman Magazine consulted, there are numerous doctors available to perform such procedures if a woman so chooses. At CNY Cosmetic & Reconstructive Surgery, both Dr. Anthony Deboni and Dr. Gregory Baum have performed numerous breast reconstruction surgeries. Deboni says breast cancer patients come to see him when it’s time to start the discussion about reconstruction. At this time, women will know if they’re having a mastectomy or lumpectomy and can begin learning about the options. Options include procedures such as an implant reconstruction or an autologous tissue flap reconstruction. The autologous tissue flap reconstruction requires the woman to take more time for recovery because it’s a more extensive surgical procedure. “We have to identify what procedure should be done at a surgical point of view,” Deboni says. “It’s a matter of assessing the patient’s body and we must cover the pros and cons and help the patient make the best decision.” No matter what may be chosen at the time of her breast cancer surgery, Deboni says it’s important for women to understand that “reconstruction is always an option” no matter how many years later they may change their mind. “We have to do it at the right time for them,” Deboni says. While he’s been performing breast reconstruction surgeries for more than 14 years, he says each case is always different. “I can never put myself in their chair or in their brain,” Deboni says. “What might seem important at the time of diagnosis may not seem the same down the road.” He says he has had many patients who receive a reconstruction consultation who are primarily focused on “just getting the cancer out” of their breasts. In this case, an implant or an autologous tissue flap reconstruction doesn’t pose any great importance, according to Deboni’s experience with some patients. Over the years, Deboni has had several patients who choose to use prosthetic breasts or none at all, it’s purely a personal decision that takes place for each woman. However, after the breast cancer is gone, some patients may reconsider reconstruction after all. No matter what, Deboni says, “it’s always available and there are many options, and it’s an important discussion.” Dr. Dean DeRoberts, of Syracuse Plastic Surgery, agrees that a discussion about breast reconstruction options is a good idea, and not just because it’s the law. “There’s not one path for everyone,” DeRoberts says. “That’s the thing about breast cancer, there’s not one right answer for everybody. All breast cancer is not the same.” Over the past 12 years, DeRoberts has come to realize that options and decisions vary from patient to patient. This became especially apparent when he met his first male patient with breast cancer. The patient thought he just had a mere mass built up in his chest, but after removing it, DeRoberts learned it was an unusual form of breast cancer. “There’s always going to be something

After a mastectomy the remaining breast skin and muscle is stretched over time with a tissue expander. If there is not enough muscle to cover the implant, an acellular dermal matrix (ADM) can be used to accelerate the expansion process. In some cases, the use of an ADM can allow for a one-step reconstruction. The implant technique requires less surgical time and recovery time than the flap technique. A subsequent surgery and recovery period are required to remove the tissue expander and place the permanent saline or silicone implant.

“I usually sit down with each patient for about 45 minutes to an hour to have this conversation,” DeRoberts says. Because a TRAM flap (transverse rectus abdominus myocutaneous) is such a big surgery, according to all our experts, and an implant surgery is so much smaller in comparison, DeRoberts is sure to have all his patients take into account the recovery time. In addition, DeRoberts says that if radiation is involved for the cancer treatment, the, scar tissue will be harder in the chest tissue, making it difficult to expand. “There is no basic procedure when it comes to breast reconstruction because everyone is different,” DeRoberts said. “There’s lots of options and they need to be discussed with each woman.” In the same way, Dr. Kara Kort, associate professor of surgery at Upstate Medical University, has always been amazed at how every case differs. “For some women, it doesn’t matter,” she said. “Some women are comfortable having their breasts removed and not having reconstruction. It’s a very individualized personal decision.” Breast reconstruction decisions are not ones you can predict, Kort says. For example, during her 13 years of experience she has had a breast cancer patient in her 30s, who was married and didn’t feel the need to have an implant or autologous tissue flap reconstruction. However, she’s come across a woman who was in her 70s and unmarried, who wanted immediate breast reconstruction after her cancer operation. Above all differences in wanting or needing reconstruction, Kort says she feels fortunate to be able to offer these options to women facing this decision. “Many women have been referred to me from places where breast reconstruction is not available,” Kort says. Many patients travel an hour or more to see her for advice on breast reconstruction as well as to have their procedure done. “My heart always goes out to these women,” Kort says. “I’m sure it’s very traumatic, it’s a cancer like no other. It’s very different than colon cancer.” Because there are many personal decisions to make, Kort says she’s happy to know that women have many available resources in the CNY area and she hopes that someday all women, no matter where they live, will have those same options readily available, too. Most of all, these breast reconstruction experts say that giving yourself plenty of time to make the right decision is the best choice a woman can make. Get informed and be confident that you’re doing what’s best for your body.

Autologous flap reconstruction replaces the breast with tissue that is transplanted from another area of the patient’s body. Often these techniques use either abdominal tissue or back tissue to reconstruct the new breast. After flap reconstruction, patients are left with two surgical sites. One incision will be at the breast and one at the donor site. Surgical time and recovery times are significantly longer than with the implant technique. This technique benefits patients because the reconstructed breast is their own living tissue and usually lasts a lifetime. syracuseWomanMag.com :: october 2012

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ANN MARIE GIANNINO-OTIS Surviving her breast cancer battle & Author of Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer

BY TERENCE HARTNETT I PHOTO BY GENEVIEVE FRIDLEY Knowledge is power: A piece of wisdom often spoken but rarely lived out. For Ann Marie Giannino-Otis, the phrase defines a journey from championing breast cancer awareness, to becoming a patient herself, to sharing her experience with the world through an honest blog with an honest name: Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer. Ann Marie has been involved with the Komen Race for the Cure as a team captain for seven years. Her team, Cure or Bust, is always made up of family and friends. It has been the largest participating team for the past four years and also, twice it has been the biggest fundraising team. It was the morning of open registration this past May that she found a lump on her breast. Ann Marie was a passionate believer in early detection and knew she needed to see a specialist. A lumpectomy was performed and the lump was tested. It was cancerous. She was shocked to find out that the routine mammogram and sonogram that had been performed had not detected the cancer. The lump was ductal and therefore could not be detected by these conventional screenings. For Ann Marie, this was a pivotal moment. She had experienced breast cancer first through her grandmother and then through her extensive work with Race for the Cure. Even with this experience, Ann Marie was blown away. Experiencing breast cancer firsthand was a life-changer and Ann Marie felt she needed to do something to signify that. This is how Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer began. Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer was created as a way to communicate to family and an expansive circle of friends exactly what she was going through. The posts are honest, straightforward and funny. They communicate what Ann Marie is going through in her own voice, such as this post: “Tomorrow I have the fabulous opportunity to be injected with radioactive dye. Doesn’t that sound great? NOT!!!” As well as bringing a smile and a laugh to a life-altering situation, the posts educate and encourage women to be breast-cancer conscious. Her latest post is focused on early detection, clearly stating, “early detection saved my life from stupid dumb breast cancer.” Although the initial intention of the blog was to communicate with a close circle of friends and family, the blog’s message reached further than that. Ann Marie started to receive emails and blog comments from other women with breast cancer as well as other forms of cancer. When explaining the success of the blog, all Ann Marie had to say was, “people can relate to you when you’re honest.” Among others, Ann Marie heard from a 16-year-old girl with bone cancer. She had seen photos on Ann Marie’s blog that were taken before her mastectomy surgery and her eye was drawn to Ann Marie’s shoes. Ann Marie posted a photo of the bright pink pumps she was going to wear into surgery, her “attitude shoes.” Ann Marie’s newest friend thought that her attitude was admirable and wanted to follow suit. Soon after, the young girl received a packaged arrived for her from Ann Marie. Inside was a pair of pink pumps, her own pair of “attitude shoes.” (continued on page 58)

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“I ’m a survivor, and I did what I had to do.” JUDY HOOPER & LAURA MEDICO

Mother-daughter breast cancer survivors BY JENNA SCHIFFERLE I PHOTO BY CATHRYN LAHM Both Judy Hooper and her daughter, Laura Medico, wake up each morning thankful for the day they’ve been given. In turn, they dedicate those days to helping others, specifically breast cancer survivors. Their hope is to help other women through difficult times and work toward finding a cure. Why are they so dedicated? Judy’s life changed 12 years ago when breast cancer was detected during a routine checkup. Breast cancer runs in her family, so Judy was always adamant about getting checked regularly. “Early detection is key,” she said. After a mastectomy and reconstructive surgery, she hoped the worst was behind her. A year later, breast cancer was detected in her other breast. The second time she was more prepared. “I’ve been there, so I knew exactly what to expect. I said, ‘OK, let’s get through this.’” And she did exactly that. Slowly, she got back on her feet. “I’m a survivor, and I did what I had to do. You never give up.” The hardest part for Judy, however, came when her own daughter was diagnosed with breast cancer. Judy always feared that her daughter would have to face breast cancer, but she never imagined that she would develop it at such a young age. Laura was only 32 when she was diagnosed. In September of 2003, Laura went in for her annual checkup and was told that there were lumps in one of her breasts. In midOctober, she went through a needle biopsy and then an open biopsy to isolate some of the calcifications. The biopsies, she said, were scarier than anything else she went through. She had never even broken a bone, let alone been put under anesthesia. She was entering uncharted territory. “What if it is cancer? What does that mean? Am I going to wake up with one of my boobs missing? I just remember there were so many questions.” Laura’s doctor finally confirmed that she had non-invasive cancer on Nov. 7. The cancer was only in early stages and therefore treatable. The recommended course of action was a lumpectomy. The lumps would be removed, and then she would need to follow up with radiation. However, with her family history, Laura feared that the cancer would come back. For months, she contemplated what to do. She had to make a decision but was already dealing with the stress that came from the divorce she was going through. There was also the added pressure of learning to raise her daughter as a single mother. “My plate was already heaping full,” Laura said. “And so then you throw this on top. It was a very overwhelming burden and I felt like I wasn’t up to the challenge.”

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After a lot of soul-searching, she reached a decision. She planned to take her treatment a step further and have a double mastectomy with reconstruction, though she was only affected in one of her breasts. The fear that it would spread weighed heavily on her. Finally in March 2004, she had the procedure and began rebuilding her life. (continued on page 58)

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“It is really important to live every moment and just cherish life.”

JULIA WAMP

Breast cancer survivor & Founder of Alive! Foundation

BY JENNA SCHIFFERLE I PHOTO BY KELLY KANE There are certain people in life who get into your mind and inspire you to make a difference in the world, whether by means of a kind gesture or a story of them overcoming adversity. For Julia Wamp, that person was Jeff Keith. Julia’s husband used to work with Jeff in New York, and she soon learned that Jeff was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 12 and had to have his leg amputated. Despite this, he remained active, participated in sports and eventually founded an organization called the Connecticut Challenge for cancer survivors. Jeff found peace with his experience and he now lives a healthy life. To Julia, that was nothing short of amazing. Then in 2005, Julia received news that changed her life forever: she had breast cancer. She was 37 years old and had three kids under the age of four at home. She had no symptoms and no family history of cancer; the news seemed to come from left field. “Hearing the word cancer is an awful thing....my kids were only babies,” she said. She decided to wait until after her daughter’s first birthday to begin treatment. Her husband, an avid sports fan, told her to take things one step at a time, like quarters of a game. If she could get through each part, she could beat the sickness. First, she went through testing and had a lumpectomy. She came through it, but the cancer came back. The doctor told her that the next step was a mastectomy. At that point, Julia decided that if one breast was going to be done, she was going to do the other one, as well. On July 7 of that year, she underwent a double mastectomy with reconstruction, then followed it up with four months of chemotherapy and lastly, six weeks of radiation. Game over. “You finish your treatment and the doctors say, ‘OK, you can go back to living normal.’ But you never really can….There’s this piece missing.” As she tried to get back on her feet, Julia’s husband reached out to Jeff as a role model. Julia learned how to take care of herself and do what was best to stay healthy, both physically and mentally. She had always been athletic but could not keep up during her treatment. After treatment, she watched the Skinnyman Triathlon go past her home in Skaneateles. Julia had moved with her family and decided it was time to get back into an exercise routine. She took an interest in the event and began training and before long she was a participant. That was when she discovered that she loved cycling; it was therapeutic for her. Then, this past January, Julia and her husband decided be proactive and start a program for cancer survivors called the Alive! Foundation. They wanted to help educate survivors on what kind of care is best for them and how to get back to living right. After someone has an injury, they go to rehab to recover. Cancer survivors have no aftercare. And right now, there are about 12 million cancer survivors nationwide, Julia said. That number is expected to more than double in the next decade or so, she added. The goal of the Alive! Foundation is to promote survivorship and fund programs that help survivors find out how to live healthy, happy lives. (continued on page 58)

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ANN MARIE GIANNINO-OTIS JUDY HOOPER & (cont) LAURA MEDICO (cont) Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer has attracted a following among breast cancer survivors, patients and those who believe in early detection of breast cancer just like Ann Marie. “They want help, they want to hear the real side to it… and you need that. What’s going to happen to me, what’s really going to happen to me?”

Ann Marie and her husband, Tom Otis, have four boys, and all five of the men in her life fully support the blog. Although the eldest of the boys is 12 years old, all four of them have seen the blog, including the pictures of their mother after the mastectomy. “They’ve seen all of it, they need to be aware,” she said. Awareness, knowledge, and education of breast cancer are the focus of Ann Marie’s message, both through her blog and her work with friend and photographer Genevieve Fridley. Together they are hosting an exhibition of the photos that illustrate Ann Marie’s journey. The event will take place from 4 to 7 p.m. on Oct. 21 at Pascale’s Restaurant in Fayetteville. Advance sale tickets are $10 and are available through Paypal linked on the Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer Blog as well as the event on Facebook. Ann Marie has a lesson to offer anyone she comes into contact with, whether in person or though her blog: Knowledge is power. And her husband Tom could not have put it better. “Some people would crumble under the pressure, and she’s turning it into something that’s helpful for other people,” Tom said. “She’s made it bigger than herself.” Learn more about Ann Marie on her Stupid Dumb Breast Cancer blog, Stupiddumbbreastcancer.blogspot.com.

Since their experiences, both Laura and her mother work closely with the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund of CNY where they often volunteer their time. Judy is a Reach to Recovery consultant and helps inspire and give advice to women going through breast cancer. Laura spreads words of inspiration to other people through her Facebook page, “Inspiration is Everywhere”. She posts quotes daily to help people through their difficult times. Both women are especially dedicated to working with A Run For Their Life, a 5K/15. At the event last year, Judy noticed that many people went without hats, mittens and scarves. It broke her heart. She got a group of knitters together with the help of her local library and the In-Stitches Knitting Shop in Manlius and did a “knit-a-thon.” “All last winter busy little hands were busy knitting hats, mittens and scarves at the Canastota Library as well as some busy knitters making knitted items on their own,” Judy said. Together, she got people to knit more than 630 items to sell in the merchandise tent at this year’s event. Judy’s dedication and personal battle with breast cancer earned her the dedication of the Tenth Baldwin Endowed Lecture Series for her “Informed decision-making in Breast Cancer with Special Attention to Mastectomy and Reconstruction.” When she celebrated the honor at the Turning Stone in 2011, she smiled and felt appreciated for all her hard work. That is the feeling that both Judy and her daughter hold close with they lie down at night; the feeling of making a difference.

JULIA WAMP(cont) The main fundraiser, Ride for Alive!, consists of a 10-; 25-; 50-; or 100-mile bike ride around Otisco, Skaneateles and Owasco lakes. This year, 183 people participated in the event on July 14, of which many were cancer survivors. The weather was warm and everyone gathered at 8 a.m. for the opening ceremony where they shared the stories of their own struggles. From there, they took to the paths, and Julia’s three young children rode the 10-mile ride with their grandpa. While many participants were avid cyclists and trained for months before the event, many people with no experience took place in the lower-mile rides. “It was really incredible to see families of five or seven come out and do the event with no background in cycling,” Julia said. In the next few months, Julia hopes to expand the programs that the Alive! Foundation has created. In addition, the Board of Directors and Advisory Committee will help decide how to best use the funds that have been raised thus far. Ideas such as yoga, spinning classes and cooking classes for survivors are now in the works, and Julia is hopeful that the foundation can make a difference. “One of the greatest things we learned [from my experience] is to really celebrate every moment. It is really important to live every moment and just cherish life.” Learn more about the Alive! Foundation at www. rideforalive.org.

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Numerous issues are swarming this year’s election, but what’s steering your decision this year? Since we know our Central New York readers are staying in tune with what their communities need when it comes to its leadership, we asked a few of them to chime in with their opinions on the upcoming election. We had five local women participate in SWM’s “Women’s Take on Politics Q&A” to see which issues are hot and what will motivate women when they’re at they’re casting their ballots. Each woman was asked to answer the following questions: 1. Are you a single-issue voter? 2. What issue poses the highest concern to you during this year’s

election?

3. Do you agree or disagree that women are a “special interest group” when it comes to politics? 4. Is there an issue being overplayed, but not addressed thoroughly in the Buerkle-Maffei Congressional race? 5. What is it about either (Buerkle-Maffei) candidate’s stance on

the economy and current job deficit that makes you confident in a future with him or her in office?

6. What NYS issue or concern is most affecting the way you will vote in the races for Assembly and U.S. Senate?

1. No I am not. I believe there are several issues of

importance that I will consider when casting my vote. It is also not the party but the person I believe can do the best for Central New York that affect my decision.

2. I think education is of the utmost importance

because it is the foundation for the future. If children are receiving a quality education, from elementary school through college, society will be better off. The flip side is increased poverty, and a lack of higherskilled employees.

3. I don’t like to think of myself as part of a special

interest group. I think women are moving toward a position of strength and their interests mirror the interests of the country.

4. I think the economy has been a hot topic for

each of the candidates. Each candidate states that the

other’s plan won’t work to improve the economy, and that their own idea is the solution, however, specifics are lacking. As a small business owner, I have a strong interest in a thriving economy, and in turn a thriving business. 5. I have to say I am a bit of a cynic when it comes to

one of the candidates fixing the economy and lowering the job deficit. I think this is such a large problem and I do not have confidence in either one to be able to affect real change. Given the current atmosphere in Washington, cooperation is not a priority, and the constituents pay the price.

6. The economy. We need to have a plan to move

forward with economic recovery. I will be following carefully what the candidates say, to see if there is a clear, workable solution put forth.

1. No and yes – depending on what the stance was on an issue that I feel strongly important about. 2. Economics, jobs, health care for ALL Americans, both young and old. 3. We women comprise 53 percent of the populace which makes us automatically a special interest group. Women individually and collectively should have the ability to dictate those issues most important to us as women.

Linda Brown-Robinson, Syracuse Owner, “In The EVENT Of…”

4. The issues being discussed in the congressional race between Buerkle and Maffei are extremely important to Central New Yorkers but not always portrayed honestly. They are: jobs, comprehensive health care for young and old, job training, education and addressing the expense of higher education.

Mary Price, Syracuse Owner, Kilnfusion Studio

5. Buerkle’s position is the trickledown theory but it does not work – we’ve experienced it before and if put us in the deepest financial hole this country has experienced. Maffei’s position in part is to allocate back some of the enormous revenues that the financial institutions received and have accumulated as a part of the bailout by the taxpayers. And it’s only fair that those who earn more should be taxed more. 6. My priority for candidates in the U.S. Senate race would be for creation of sound, good paying, and gainful employment for Central New Yorkers. My concern for the NYS Assembly races would be to bring some cohesiveness to both bodies to work for the betterment of the citizens of the region, and to pass bills that will bring a better quality of life for the residents of their districts.

1. Sometimes. Generally, I support a candidate based on various issues most important to me and my community, but if they support an issue that intends to restrict how someone chooses to live their life, that’s a major turn off. 2. Education. I believe education should be one of the top priorities for all politicians. It gets talked about a lot, but we don’t see enough political promises put into place.

3. Disagree. Women have achieved an established level of equality that has outgrown that archaic box. 4. Not that I’ve seen. 5. Dan Maffei’s plan for small businesses and infrastructure investment appears to be a better fit for our community and more specific to our local needs. 6. Education.

Nicole Davidheiser, Onondaga Independent Insurance Agent Ross, Stepien & Kadey, Inc.

1. I am not a single-issue voter. I think it’s important to keep a broader “for the greater good” look at all the issues and vote appropriately. While I feel stronger on some issues than others, I would think it unfair to vote on one leg of someone’s platform alone. 2. I am definitely concerned over our nation’s spending and the future and stability of our country because of it. I’d like to see honest and transparent bipartisan budget reform. I believe our citizens deserve fiscal responsibility and it starts with our local representatives standing up for us, doing the work, and voting appropriately. Our nation’s spending has a tremendous systemic impact on every household. We should be demanding change.

Angela Renna, Clay WBOC President & Partner, Sterling Financial Group

3. I would have to agree that women are a “special interest group.” NOW (National Organization for Women) a special interest organization, has been in existence since 1966 with over 500,000 members. It’s not surprising that a political special interest group for women would grow this large and have such a powerful influence over our political leaders. While the views of this particular organization might not fit the ideals of all women, I think it is important to (even at its most fundamental core) recognize that women are a force to contend with in the political arena and certain issues will be a hot button. 4. Both sides talk about the importance of supporting our kids and continuing the high standards of our

1. No. I believe our government is optimized by taking a wholistic approach, not a single issue stance. 2. The economy. I feel that the economy is the basic foundation that ultimately supports stronger education, more comprehensive health coverage, and can alleviate many others challenges. 3. Women are absolutely a “special interest group.” Just look at organizations like the WISE Center, Women Ties, & W.B.O.C. They are all women’s organizations created in the sole interest of advancing knowledge and producing solutions through communication and cooperation.

education. However, neither side is addressing how to manage this issue given the budget cuts with more to come. I’d like to hear how we are supposed to continue to educate our kids at the same level while doing so with less resources, fewer teachers, and larger classes. I’d much rather hear truthful and candid talk on the topic, instead of hiding behind the issue. 5. I think both Maffei and Buerkle are acutely aware of the importance of small businesses to the economy of Central New York. Supporting bills that hinder the ability of small businesses to create jobs and maintain jobs, kills our local economy. Buerkle’s voting record demonstrates a concern for job creation and economic stimulus. I believe we need a conservative approach with our fiscal future. I’m confident that she will represent well in these areas. 6. The NYS issues that are most important in my vote for the races in the Assembly and Senate have to do with supporting small business growth and encouraging businesses to operate in New York state. I think that’s how we can support job growth and stimulate our economy. Major legislature such as health care reform and tax reform will have huge impacts on the sustainability of small business. Our great state, our great country, was built not on government handouts but on men and women working hard and living their American dream. I’d like to see us get back to providing opportunities.

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