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Contributing Columnists: Tye Green
I am officially dubbing December ‘08 Out Loud’s Pussy Power Month. So practically everything you read in this edition will be dedicated to the power, wonder and beauty of the PUSSY. Don’t even behave as if you don’t think about it, wonder of it, and aim to return to it’s warmth at least once a week (for some once a day) Additionally you may have noticed that there is a man on the cover… well it’s ENOCH…. He is the official Sistah Speak DJ, and my personal friend. Has anyone noticed how many traffic accidents there were this past week. I mean school pusses, cars hitting houses… people, please, PLEASE be careful out there. The weather is changing, and in as such slow the hell down and leave early enough that you don’t have to endanger my life as you attempt to make your destination on time. So I actually got my girl to contribute something to this issue, I’m so happy! The Pretty Boi calendar is almost done, so look out for information on the Pretty Boi auction and showcase in January ‘09. it’s gonna be a hot one ya’ll! As you read this edition, think about what your new years resolutions will be and send
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Sex and Sexuality; I am Woman Feel Me Cum! by Tye Green Does anyone remember The L Word episode when Dana ejaculated during sex? It was hilarious because she had truly believed that she’d done something wrong, but in actually, her partner was doing something right; stimulating her g-spot. Dana almost always had the awkward sex scenes on The L Word, but one can learn a lot from her sexcapades.
like. I’m sorry for making a lot of people feel insufficient in their sex lives, but the truth hurts, and it can also be eye opening.
For the receiver, be totally relaxed and with someone you trust won’t hurt you. I know this may seem like a no-brainer, but Every woman has the capacity to when trying something new, don’t ejaculate. They just need a part- try it with a booty call or somener who understands the female one you brought home from the anatomy, and willing to do what it club. takes to help them achieve this. • For the giver, take one finger, And even if they don’t have a or two (or three if she can handle woman or man (I can’t believe I and wants that) and make the said that!) to do this, it can be “come here” motion while inside. achieved alone. This motion successfully stimuThe problem with doing it alone is lates the g-spot and another area I believe Dana probably thought that once you’re into your mascalled the prostate (I know, don’t she had peed on her partner, ask). Even if she is dripping wet, turbation session, some women which is where the embarrassuse lube, and start off lightly intend to stop after the touch ment came in. And there is docu- seems a bit much or if they feel creasing the pressure of your mented evidence stating that fingers as her body tells you to out of control. With a partner, some women have some form of it’s up to that partner to stop if (or she does). I would even advise you to gently suck, and kiss her urinary incontinence, which is why things get uncomfortable or if they appear to ejaculate, but in you feel as if you just can’t take clit as you do this. actually they are peeing on their it anymore. But sometimes when a • While doing the “come here” partner. Gross right? I think that woman says, “stop” she doesn’t motion as you stretch out your is horribly gross. The thought of mean STOP. Partners know the fingers you should feel the someone peeing on me makes me difference, and hopefully they smooth roof of her vagina. When physically and violently ill. So oblige their lover in either case. pulling the fingers in to make a women please, I urge you to be The key to “squirting” or ejacuhook you should feel a small pea checked out for this just in case. lating is working through those like bump. This is her g-spot. If you do have this problem, “Oh shit baby I can’t take any Both areas are extremely sensimake sure that your partner more” moments. tive to touch, and if done impropknows and understands. I don’t Here are the steps to a success- erly, you could hurt her. mean to offend anyone with this ful ejaculatory orgasm. • Pay attention to your partissue. ner’s motions. Make sure that the • Make sure that both people For the women that actually fingering motion isn’t making her involved (if you’re not doing it ejaculate, nothing can be more alone) are comfortable with their uncomfortable, and that she’s pleasing. This is supposed to be own bodies, and each other’s bod- enjoying it. If you’re doing it the ultimate orgasm. Like the end right her actions and sounds will ily fluids. When a woman ejacuall to all orgasms. Like, if you lates a lot of fluid is expelled. So make the experience pleasurable haven’t had one of these, you for you as well. if you’re afraid of wetness, this don’t know what great sex feels type of orgasm isn’t for you. (continued on next page) Volume 2 Issue 3
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Sex and Sexuality; I am Woman Feel Me Cum! by Tye Green Try not to think about your arm tightening up and burning a little. Just listen to hear moans, and feel satisfaction in satisfying her. Keep your motions consistent. Try one stroke per second.
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Right before she ejaculates, she won’t be able to control her body as she violently grinds in the air. So keep some distance from her knees and feet and your face. Trust me, I know from experience.
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Female ejaculate can spray up to four feet. Sometimes it’s just a squirt, and other times you will need a raincoat. Just be aware that I unless you’re prepared for it, try not to have you face down there so you don’t drown. If you’re not face down in her love area, be ready to have your body soaked with her wetness.
your legs are no longer wobbling, and your heart rate goes down) go pee immediately. This will help you not get a urinary tract infection. For the giver, know that even if you and her break up, she will never EVER forget you. If you stay together, she will always want you to take her to those heights. Don’t get discouraged if she doesn’t ejaculate every time. Even if she doesn’t, make sure the orgasm you give her is close to it.
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Whoever tries this, hit me up and let me know how it worked out for you. Until next time, Tye
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And speaking of feeling her cum…… An Erotic Story of Passion In my life, I have a prize. She is 5’8 with hips that sway like willow trees in the cool night-time Louisiana breeze…… She has long reddish brown hair that is a wild mane of “grrrrr”. She has full lips, perfectly placed breasts, and skin that is soft enough to make you long for sensual quiet naps with your head on her belly. She is my spicy hot, mocha colored, sassy yet tough diva…. My tough girl…..My princess in shining armor. She works hard, with her hands…. Yet they are always soft on my skin. She has earned respect from men and women alike. She demands perfection in every aspect of her life. But for now we’ll talk about her sensuous side.
removes her DKNY shirt to expose her sports bra clad breasts. I wonder if she knows how much I love it when she is bossy. As I move closer, I gently caress her skin…. arms, shoulders, neck, back….. I touch and tease with my fingers and finger nails…… “Baby, your touch feels so good to me.” I say nothing. I then kiss her neck… barely….. licking and teasing with my lips and tongue.
“Bite me baby!” And I do…. Nibbling on her skin as if I were famished. I kiss the top of her right breast and am brought to moisture….. She is so damn soft! She moans in my ear and then, at the thought perhaps of losing control flips me over. We have a routine; she comes in from work, And with one movement she has my inner thigh checks the mail, chit-chats with the kids, and under her skillful tongue. Now she knows my hungrily looks for me. I stay away purposely, be- weak spot, and I hope I’ll be spared tonight. No, cause I want my time to be all mine. As I prepare she kisses and licks me right at the point where her dinner, I hear her talking to me through the the hip & thigh meet….. OMG! Just as I’m getting kids using code. “Gosh, I could just devour any- into the grove of this, she takes my clit into her thing that crosses my lips right now!” The kids mouth. Slowly licking the tip…. Tickling & teasing crack up and tell her she’s greedy. I, however be- me until I want to scream! Ohhhhhhhh yessssss come misted down below at the thought of her baby!!!!! ravishing my “treats” “Dang, I heard on the radio that a torrential storm is headed our way, I think I At what point did her fingers enter me? I don’t will be swept up in the moist downfall before the know but my body responds accordingly. In and night is over.” At this point the kids just ignore her out her fingers probe me, forcing my walls to conthinking she’s lost her mind. But me, I know extract at each thrust. Her lips never leave my actly what she’s talking about, and I agree! clit…. She sucks it like a baby to a nipple….. FUCK!!!! THIS FEELS SO DAYUM GOOD!!!! At After the kids have retired to their rooms, she this point….. I feel her tongue plunge deep inside comes to me….. I have her dinner prepared on of me. Her finger gently massaging my clit the her bed tray so she can relax as she eats dinner. entire time…. Ahhhhhhhh……..I have to reach for “Feed me.” she implores…… Teasingly I ask her my pillow to cover my mouth for fear of being what would she like to be fed, food prepared by heard by the sleeping children. She then stops, my hands, or moisture dripping on my hands. places her hand behind the small of my back and She quickly responds with “Both!” Her dinner dis- flips me over to the “ride wit me” position that she appears very quickly as she turns to truly appre- loves so much. “Come get what’s yours” she tells ciate what I have for her. me. I feel her clit rubbing/grinding/gyrating against mine…. Uncontrollably I am forced to While I don’t consider myself to be all that sexy, I move in rhythm. My hips sway as our clits do know that I possess a certain sensuality that touch… she grabs my ass/pulls me in deeper. gets to her. I was wearing a black satin night *continued on page shirt…… and nothing else. She loves my long legs, so I try to show them to her every chance I get. “Come to me!” she demands hungrily as she Volume 2 Issue 3
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What’s in a Name? by AJ and friends
There are songs heralding the greatness of it and poems with stanza after stanza speaking of its wonder. Statues have been erected showcasing it’s beauty and it is hands down the best portal of human life known to creation. It has at times been accused of whipping men and women alike. In Eastern Philosophies it is known as the 2nd chakra. (And the most powerful I might add) If you’re a woman, you have one. If you’re a lesbian you’ve probably touched, tasted, caressed, and have been face deep in one or two, or perhaps even three simultaneously.
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If you happen to find yourself in an establishment that provides open minded entertainment, you are willing to give up a weeks pay just to get a glimpse of it. And in the middle of the night voices can be heard ringing throughout the night air thanking God for it. It is the vagina.
Snatch- Cuz when you finger it, it kinda looks like you’re snatching it….
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Pocket book- perhaps cuz it hold mysterious and magical ingredients
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VJ- Ok, I can work with that… an abbreviation
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Cooch/Coochie- Cute I suppose
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Tu-Tu- maybe this is a term for little girls
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Cooka Moma- Wow, cuz it’s sweet like cookies
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Lady Place- This is my personal term.
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Camel Toe- Wow all cuz women wear tight pants
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Juice Box- Thanks Young Joc
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Coody Cat/Coody Mama- This must have come from the childhood term for cooties!
Well that’s the medical term for it, the biological scien- • tific term for it. However how many times have you heard your lover say in the heat of passion, “Oh, your vagina is so damn good?”
Cunt- ummmm yeah, I don’t know
My Bushy Girl- I guess this is for the non shavers
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Money Maker- In homage to all the ladies of the night
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Punanay- I think this is a Swahili term
• Cookie- Yummy How many lust filled requests have been made stating, “Please just let me get a taste of your vagina?” I’m going • Pokashee- I have absolutely NEVER heard this one to imagine that not one person reading this has ever • Love Box/Treasure Box- All the goodies that come heard or spoken those words. out… So what do we call it? What are the names that we have • Pirates Gold- I’m always left feeling like I found affectionately labeled that oh so precious part of the treasure after I visit one female anatomy? I asked and you told. Here are a few of the terms that • Pearl Tongue – technically used for the clitoris, but hey have been given to us by our mothers, grandmothers, nanas, aunties, and female peers for years and years alike. Look at the list; Study the list; Take the list and do what you will with your newfound terminology database for- VAGINA!
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Va Jay Jay- Sounds like a sports team!
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Wiskcat- See above reference to Kitty Cat
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Pussy- this has to be the most used term (I often wonder how the name for a cat became the title of my……
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Kitty Cat/Cat- I’ve never heard it meow but it sure feels like it purrs at times
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Twat- sounds kinda like squat, maybe cuz it’s down low???
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Special Place– I don’t care who you are, that portion of the ananatomy is hands down the most SPECIAL PLACE there is!
LESBIAN Enoch IS Real
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MUSICIANS TO LOOK pendent film "Jihad, the Struggle Within", which started out as a short class project but went on to be a feature length official selection in the St. Louis Filmmakers Showcase in 2001. Enoch's 2004 successes stemmed from acting as the shadow silhouette in AOANH's "Raver, Jinn and the Dawn". He went on to co-produce and make a brief cameo in a short film called "Zignal to Noiz" which was an official selection in The St. Louis Filmmakers Showcase and the St. Louis International Film Festival. In 2005 as part of the 48 Hour Film Project he provided the score for a short film, titled "Masterpiece", and... "Wreck Conciliation", a Romantic comedy/Silent film, done as part of the 48 Hour Film Project 2006, was coproduced, co-directed and scored by Enoch. He also narrated and provided score material for a short called "My Winning Year", made for The National Film Challenge 2005, and directed by Kenny Kinds. This film won an award for 'Best Use of a Prop' in the Central Time Zone. Another film, called "Doggone" won "Best Surprise Ending" for the same competition in 2006, also directed by Kinds and with Enoch appearing in a cameo, providing a score track, and serving as location manager and co-producer. He is the co-producer the soon-to-be on tour documentary called "The Hunger", and appears in Bohoflow Productions' "Ruzzian Roulette", a music video and feature film on the topic of HIV which won the award for 'Best Innovative/Experimental Film' as part of the St. Louis Filmmakers Showcase 2007 and coming to a festival near you. The end? Probably not. In the meantime check out “Knocturnal Sunshine”
The artist, actor, deejay, and producer commonly known as Enoch was born Shawn Williams in St. Louis, circa 1968. Once upon a time, you could find this young man doodling profiles of afros on sketch pads or trying to invent what would eventually be known to him as remixing and multi-track recording. You may have heard one of his carefully selected slow-groove tapes or perhaps been at one of the high school dances in the gym where he and his best friend were the deejays and the life of the party. Hobbies become careers. The afro doodling lad later became a barber after receiving a set of clippers for Christmas and perfecting his craft on family and friends for free. The cassette recorders with condenser microphones became the prerequisites for learning about producing and recording with on-screen editing software. Putting the right songs in order to set the right vibe became the norm and commanded the reputation for being the everappropriate deejay. In order to fully pursue a career in the music industry, he has since retired as a barber and currently, you can find him performing around St. Louis at numerous places including a weekly addition to Soul Sessions at The Jazz Bistro, an artist showcase and open mic, bi-weekly appearances at The Delmar Lounge and monthly at Urban Lounge for "Soul Safari: an adventure in grooves from around the globe", as well as "Sistah Speak', an open mic, held at Cicero's with SC3. Enoch, formerly known as DJ Knock Knock on the 1s and 2s, IS now Real, and just released his first E.P. called "Enochulated" which includes performances by Lamar Harris, Tracy Mitchell, Marcus Leonard and 'Chitown's finest' DJ Snooze! "Knocturnal Sunshine, aci- Look for Enoch IS Real on the web at: dafrobossabrokensoul", the syndicated podcast, feahttp://www.myspace.com/enochisreal turing Soul, Acid Jazz, alternative Hip Hop and Lounge is now on hiatus and soon to replaced by "Global Warmth" and heard on www.knocradio.podomatic.com. His film credits include starring in, co-writing and co-producing an indeVolume 2 Issue 3
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YOU WANT TO SEE MOVIES WITH PEOPLE LIKE YOU? Most of the movies that we review can be found on Netflix. They’re affordable and convenient and have quite a few titles to chose from for the GLBT movie viewer Lesbian Sex and Sexuality I expected to see a film dealing with serious sexual issues amongst lesbian. What I got was a guide to authentic lesbian film erotica. Was I disappointed? HELL NO! It’s nice to know that there are films out there for US by US
counter– Man finds out there are a LOT of women out there that want to have children; Man has new career path. In addition to some occupational drama at the mans workplace, the ensuing stress that he finds himself in proves to be more than he bargained for., Good story line but the lack of realism makes this movie lose points with me Noahs Arc
Ok, I know this sint’ a lesbian show, nor is it a movie, but I just had to give my propr to cute little Noah and the boys. Dramatic, senShe Hate Me sual, and all out fun, I’m sad to see Woman want to have a baby; woman that they’ve not been picked up for is gay; woman finds man to proanother season, but ecstatic to see vide ;baby making stuff– by way of that a movie is imminent. Look to a business transaction sexual en‘Noahs Arc, Jumping the Broom’
soon.
Rating System What a waste of time!
I got it because it was a gay film.
I liked it. I Bought It!
Lesbian Literature that Literally Moves You…. Every ones life story is different and coming out stories are no different. From the afro centric woman from the Caribbean, to the Jewish mother of 3 from Long island, this book is filled with a diversity that reminded me of our vast diversity. Some of the stories literally made me weep, while others caused me
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to laugh so hard that I had to separate myself from company. It features stories from Elizabeth Lorde Rollins, daughter of the renowned Audre Lorde, and heather Lewis whose teenage coming out just happened to coincide with the Nixon scandal of which her father was deeply involved in. Editor Joan Larkin did a wonderful job at putting together a mix of women whose backgrounds vary as much as their skin color. “A Woman Like That” which won a 1999 Lamda award is a must read.
LESBIA-SCOPES SCORPIO-Intense your middle name and if it isn’t intense, well it might just not be worth doing. You’re really feeling being mysterious right now. Perhaps because big changes are coming for you. Try to pull back from your usual superficiality SAGITTARIUS-Are you feeling freer than you have in a long, long time? I bet it feels great. Your finances are about to catch up to your free sense of mind, just be patient. Plan a trip. CAPRICORN– She wants you, she’s proven it time and time again, you just have to let go of some of that control. If you do, you’ll see that she (a Sagittarius ) has a few tricks up her sleeve as well.
time to inhabit your personal space with a new queen cat, perhaps you need to remember that it took you a while ARIES– Feeling kinda exhilarated to learn the one you’re dealing with. Maybe you need to but scared to go head first into things like you usually do? What go to the next step before you step away from her. a concept, being cautious. New year, new moon cycle, think about VIRGO– Life is messy, the sooner you realize that the it. TAURUS– It’s about time people easier you;ll be on everyone paid more attention to fiscal re- else and the simpler your life sponsibility and security matters. will become. Sometimes, it is If others do this, you can ease up you, not them that’s the problem. a bit and be silly for a change. I woman, are you good in bed. Just stop, relax, and breathe dammit! You are as good as you are and getting better by the minute.
know it doesn’t sound very sexy but you can be very seductive when you relax about other issues.
GEMINI– Schedules make you feel confined and you’re starting to feel a bit antsy.. Let your mind and spirit wander and I will be the loyal companion that SHE needs. AQUARIUS-You want to be Just remember to only let your creative, perhaps with writ- MIND and SPIRIT wander, not ing, but your block is the your hands. fact that you want it for the CANCER– You hear the songs wrong reasons. Be creative talking about change is good, but for yourself, you don’t have you are worried about your peace to impress anyone else. of mind. Perhaps it’s time to PISCES– For reason that change the way you think on are best left in the stars, things, or shall I say the way you you are questioning everydon’t think on things. thing i.e., the meaning of LEO– Before you decide that it’s life, are you with the right Volume 2 Issue 3
LIBRA– Stop taking her to the club every week and spend some one on one time with her. She’s trying to see you for who YOU are, not the you that your friends know.
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Diamond’s Are a Girls Best Friend,,,,The BFF Corner by Ms. Diamond What’s up OTB readers. This is Ms. Diamond…. I’m back to speak my mind. Okay my subject this month is about reality shows. First of all… I hate that I love them so much. I can’t miss an episode of any of them. I just can’t look away. I mean lets start off with Flavor of Love. Now, somewhere along the road as he was growing up someone must have told him that he will never find a girl…. I mean look at him... But people, these girls were straight pulling each others hair out over this horrific man. Then they proceeded slob down his throat like he was someone hot. I know he supposed to be rich but there’s gotta be some kinda of physical attraction there. And he had three seasons. I believe that Flavor Flav said to his fellow classmates as he was graduating , one day I’m going to have all the tack head, hood rat, ghetto ass bitches (and I use that term loosely, cuz some of them are worse than even a female dog) fighting over me… FLAVOR FLAV!!!! lol! Well, I guess he was doing something right; he’s got like 7 kids. Apparently if you put on a good enough ‘show’, you can get your own show. Example, New York. Now this chick is the one you love to hate. I could not stand that heffa but I could never miss an episode. It was like a train wreck every week. Here’s another one that isn’t even close to being all that yet, she’s got all these men (another loosely used term) fighting over her.. Are you serious?! Then there’s the routine; They give out nicknames… they have challenges. They give out a chain to the ones they want to keep. I really hope Flava trademarked his ideas as he was the one who started the whole nickname thing. But New York, New York, New York….how did she get a New Goes to Hollywood Page 12 Out Loud!®
show? Come on Out Loud readers…. For those who watched the show, do you HONESTLY think she is going to make it in Hollywood??? NO! she is way too hood for Hollywood. If she does, I can totally see her in a spoof movie… ya know those movies that make fun of other movies. I don’t think I could ever see her on the Emmy Awards, or Golden Global Awards. Maybe the MTV or VH1 but never true Hollywood awards. Hell, look how long it took Halle to win an Oscar… and Denzel had to play a thug to get an award. Now, we have Real Chance At Love. Okay…. People…. Its like a cycle repeating itself. I was going to say at least they are decent, but then I watched the show. Are they trying to see how many girls they can get to tongue them down before the end of each night? And why do they try to switch up girls. What kind of shyt is that? I just don’t understand why people turn to a TV show to find true love…and as long as the cameras are rolling, there will always be fronts and fakeness. How can you be yourself when you're trying to be something else so one person can choose you? Is it really worth it? I don’t think so. Oh, and have you ever seen the Bachelor? Those are some conniving bytches on there. WHEW! They will do anything for that rose. They tell on each other like preschool children. Then the Millionaire. At least with this one you know what to expect, a bunch of money hungry people. They go through all these weeks of trying to be something that they’re not so a man will choose them. Then, at the finale they found out he’s broke… so broke they can’t even pay attention. LMAO!!! But you gotta love it! Then, then… there are shows being sprung from other shows.
What's with this Charm School?! Can you really make 16 whores into housewives? Most of the girls on these shows are strippers, dancers, porn stars amongst other professions. Maybe I’m just naive but I will never go on a reality to find love. Too many cameras, too much drama, and I think it’s a joke. Only because…how many people have actually stayed together after they got together on a reality show??? I will never compete with 20 something girls over on person. NEVER! MUAHAHAHA!!!! I would be the first one to go home. Its all about competition. I never thought about love being a competition until these shows emerged. Can you really find love in front of a camera and you only got 4 weeks?! Yes out Loud® readers… those shows only last about 4 weeks. But its good TV. Why can’t people do things the normal way…post an ad on black planet and/or MySpace and sit back and wait for the notes to roll in! lol but for real, who doesn’t love reality. that’s why they are sooo additive and catching…. America loves drama. If you have noticed people…. Every network has at least 3 reality shows. that’s where all of our television shows are heading. All reality. So get ready people cause you never know if you will wake up to a camera in your face.
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According to you…… Pussy is ………. Tye Green says…..
Nikki says….
It may be called a flower Some may call it the delectable passion fruit
Goes good with any meal…
My heart and soul calls it
Pussy!
The undeniable reason of life The reason that men and women alike Can enter an insanity plea if they lose thee Beautiful, and original to every woman’s anatomy….. Pussy.
BEasy Says….
Taylored Poet says…… It is the eternal she… Soft/warm/moist/deep/conforting/ welcoming/enticing/sexy/nasty/ exciting/suprising/thought provoking/ skillful/breathtaking/alluring/ Pussy is as mystical as SHE…..
Pussy is power and pleasure rolled into one perfect package. Pussy is SHE It has the power to gain the most unattainable materials and emotions. Ms Anonymous says… Pussy can make you laugh and make you cry…. Pussy is the tomb at which I bury my All at the same time. innermost secrets only to rise and be freed from the insecurities of those It can make the most steadfast individual weak at the knees….. secrets. And when you are weak…. You must tap into the power and pleasure that the AP says….. pussy gives off…. Treat the pussy right and you too can have that….. Pussy is an abyss of blissful happiness power and pleasure…. . A cove of protection and the 9th wonder of the world….
Adande says…..
Pussy
Pussy is the main artery of necessity… It’s walls will breathe for you…. It’s flow will cleanse you… And you will be left hungry and helpless to its magic…. It you’re lucky, you will drown in the depths of it’s blessings, pussy
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Happy Born Day Kim! Volume 2 Issue 3
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An Erotic Story of Passion…….. Damn, I can feel her moisture. (or is it mine?) As much as I love being the “bitch” in control, I love it when she grabs my hair….. and she does, pulling my face close to hers. “Look at me!” she demands. I think this about the 5th time I’ve cum! But there is something about looking into her eyes as I’m about to explode…… She’s in my ear now, “You don’t like this do you? You want me to stop don’t you?” HELL NO!!!!! (She likes this) Daddy, please don’t stop. I need to feel you! In fact….. I need to taste you! Now, this is not a treat that I’m allowed to partake of often. She’d much rather be the one doing the “supping” But on tonight, we must share each other’s nectar. So I turn, while still riding my princess in shining armor.
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just one finger slowly inside. It’s as if we are playing out some sort of rhythmic musical interlude, because I notice that with every stoke my finger takes inside of her, she is blessing my body in like fashion. For a while the only thing happening… in/out/in/out/in/out/…. Moans of excitement drip from both of our lips…. OMG!!!! Baby, I love you more than you could ever imagine. You feel perfect! Your body against mine, perfection.
I knew that I wouldn’t be allowed inside of her precious cove for too long, and I was right. She once again took control of thangs….. Gently turned me over and ravished my jewel. I was so close to exploding I could literally scream. “Do not cum yet!” UGGGGGG!!!! As badly as I wanted to ignore her, I obeyed. She did things with her lips and tongue and fingers that are inexI am so caught up in the moment that I don’t no- plicable, but highly enjoyable. Finally, after what tice that she has taken the same pillow that was seemed to be forever, she allowed me the priviused to muffle my voice to quiet her own. I have lege…. “Right now, explode….” And I did. I exto smile at this….. Miss Betsy Bad Ass….. I ten- perienced a body jolting, mind bending, heart racderly find her clit with my tongue, slowly & softly ing climax that exceeded every fantasy that I massaging and licking. Her essence is so damn could have imagined. But that was not the best good to me. I begin now to suck on her clit as if part. The best part was the aftermath. We held I’d not had any nourishment in years. I attempt to each other so close that it seemed that we truly sneak my fingers inside of her cove…. Now usu- were one being. This is why she will forever be ally this is a no-no, but the heat is definitely on my Louisiana Princess in shining armor. tonight, because she doesn’t even stop me. Take
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Come out come out wherever you are! Coming out stories from As a woman who is pretty much as publically out as possible, it occurred to me recently that I don’t have an actual ‘coming out’ story. I’ve never sat my mom down and through tears and shaky vocal patterns proclaimed, “mother, your only daughter, your only child, is a lesbian.” Nope, never had that moment. My mother of course knows; after at least 5 serious female/female relationships, countless gay pride appearances, a CD that drips with lyric after lyric screaming :I’m a dyke!” that I’m gay. I’ve had thrust upon me from that God fearing, deaconate of the church, Sunday school teaching, communion giving woman the lectures on how this ‘thing’ that I do is sending me directly to hell. That her heart cries for me a night, because she has first hand knowledge that her only child is not going to spend eternity in heaven with her. I’ve heard it all. Scary thing is, I’m in a close to 3 year relationship with my wife, and my mother LOVES her. I mean asks about her before she asks about me or her grandchildren. Chastises me on whether or not I’m making sure her nutritional needs are being met. This woman, MY MOTHER loves my GIRLFRIEND– Well she refers to her as my roommate, but lest I digress, she loves her. In thinking about my ‘non coming out story’ I was compelled to ask a few of my friends of their moment of truth. What is your coming out Volume 2 Issue 3
story? Ms DiaMond- When I got caught by my mother having sexual relations with my at that time girlfriend. She claimed to have known all along, but she proclaimed at that moment that she’d rather I be a prostitute than a lesbian.
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Tye-When in 2004 I decided to marry my then girlfriend, I told my brothers then contemplated how to tell my mother. I get a phone call from my step dad wishing me a Merry Christmas and congratulating me on the wedding. My heart stopped, I took a deep breath, and hoped that he hadn’t….”I told your momma that you were getting married.” He had. Despite my fear at being disowned, she simply told me that while this wasn’t in God’s plan, she loves me, I’m her daughter, and she was hurt that I didn’t feel I could tell her
us know that it was unacceptable, and they threatened to take basketball away from us. We lied, said it was a faze, (even thought we were full on dykes at that point) and was good. I called my mom when I was 16 and told her at 1:00 am that I thought I may be bisexual. She asked me bi what? I said bisexual. She said she had to go cause she couldn’t deal with it at that point and hung up. She called back about an hour later and asked if she was dreaming. We talked about it later on that week. (Taylored Poet is my mom lol)
AP-I came out to my mother in 2004 at my daughter’s birthday party. Coming from a family of evangelists and generally religious people, I was worried about having my own voice with them. I was out to my friends, just not my family. So for whatever reason, at that birthday Shorty DuWop– I sent my party, I sat her down and told mother a long drawn out email explaining my life ‘style’, assur- her that I was attracted to women. That I had done all the ing her that she did nothing things she wanted me to do wrong, expressing my love for such as school, career, and her, and she responded kids. She amazingly just said with…… Nothing. We’re fine that she was glad I told her, that now, she even treats my girlshe didn't’ have to hear it from friend as a part of the family. someone else. We now have Stephanie/Goddess– My father an even closer relationship. told me he knew that I was on Twin Girl A– When I was bout the other side of the tracks” . I 15 my 1st girlfriend and I would never got a chance to find out his reaction to it, as he passed a write letters back and forth. She lost the letters and her cousin few days later. It took my found them, gave them to her mother a few months to get over mom and all hell broke out. Her it, but my sisters to this day mom called my dad and at 2 am don’t accept me, and it’s been 8 they decided to have a meeting years since I told them. with us about the notes. They let
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ASK A FEMME/ ASK A STUD Dear Stud,
My girlfriend of 2 m onths asked me a while ago can we ha She first told me th ve a threesome. at she had a woman in mind, but then ch and told me that I ca anged her mind n pick whomever I want. I’m not even do this, but if I do, sure if I want to I want to pick a stu d. I am a femme, a stud; a HARD stud and m y girlfriend is , How do I tell her what I really want, I’m going to far in ex and do you think pecting her to sa y ye s? Thanks, L
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My imme diate re sponse is ship to b that it’s ring in a too e arly n e w person. think yo in your r u’re read Having s elationa y i d (I’d serio t h this so e a t if you bo usly won arly on t th d e r h o w u h g y h) You b your girl process. o t wants h have t SO don’t o be in o be afraid most she n t h t o tell he e choosin can say is r your pr g no. But s The who e f erences. he may s le stud/f T urprise y he emme th thing els ou and s ing is mo e . J us t a y re a stat yes. ke e p a n o e of min open in w pen mind d t hatever h an anyand keep you decid communic e to do. Have fun ation , OTB
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ASK A FEMME/ ASK A STUD Dear Stud I’ve always wondered why you stud chicks are trying to emulate men? Are you not happy with yourselves? Do you feel all girly when you are having your monthly visitor. Do you hide out? Do you wish that your pussy was really a penis? And exactly what do you get out of having sex with a strap? I wanted to ask these questions for the longest, but I had no one to ask. Thanks, Christina
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P –vs– P…….. by DarkQueen The power of the P word has taken the whole world of men by storm. They will lie, cheat, steal, and kill for it. We’ve seen the most powerful men in the world willing to risk everything they have just for 45 minutes with some good pussy. It’s no wonder why men are so aroused by two women having sex. From the nape of a woman’s neck down to her shoulder blades sliding down her breast winding up into that fold between her thigh and waist making your way to that wet sweet spot, a woman’s body is nothing if not sexy. Anywhere from the softness of smooth dark chocolate skin to the silkiness of a buttermilk complexioned sistah, that sexiness can and will stop you in your tracks and demand your full attention. People ask me how could I be a lesbian, and I think “How could you not be?” When you have this powerful connection to the human senses and you have them in a relationship with another person, some shit is bound to go down. When the relationship is one of dual Pussy’s, things get passionate and heated. In between the sheets however, things get trickier. In my experience more masculine woman (Studs) don’t want to admit to their friends that their feminine counterparts gave them the thrustful satisfaction of a strap. ‘Stud’ like any other label comes with its own set of stereotypes and expectations. Some studs, especially those with true transgender issues will try to live up to these expectations even at the expense of the sexual satisfaction of their partner. A stud may be looked up to for her physical strength within household. She may be expected to carry groceries, open doors, pay for dinner, and kill the bugs in the house. Some people are shocked to see a pregnant stud, as though it’s some kind of mystic marvel for a woman (even a stud woman) to be with child. A more feminine woman (Femme) will usually be perceived as more docile, domestic, and much less aggressive in the bedroom. Although some femmes may be a lady in the streets and a lion in Page 20 Out Loud!®
the sheets it’s still very rare for one to get the privilege of doing the “fucking”. But to our advantage we are expected to enjoy being on the receiving end of oral sex. A femme may be looked on to be a good cook, housekeeper, and mother. Although most lesbians will tell you that they have an natural dislike for labels, the fact is that we need them. Labels help determine what your daily activities are in the relationship. At bare minimum we need to have clear defined rolls in our relationships. They may vary from partner to partner but the need for understanding what we are supposed to bring to the table doesn’t change. The important thing to remember is that each person is different and will have different needs. You can’t expect one woman to do what the other did without prior knowledge. Each relationship should be made up of rules you set for yourselves. You should always have intimate conversations detailing what the absolute yes’s and no’s are. That way you can run in opposite direction if you hear something you can’t deal with or you can run toward them with champagne, chocolate covered strawberries and dental damn in hand if you hear something you like. Being spontaneous to find out the grey areas is a part of the fun of getting to know someone new. Communication is the best way to have a successful relationship and sex life. If you can’t talk about sex with your partner then you should most definitely not be laying down with them. Have fun exploring your options and tickling your lesbian senses! You lesbians that have been with the same person for a while need to loosen up and not be so afraid to try something new. You just might like it! Darkqueen ®2008
Spirituality Speaks…. By Taylored Poet (guest Spirituality columnist) At a time when we all need to acknowledge the presence and power of the Creative force that caused us all to BE (God, Jehovah, Allah, whatever your title is for him/her) some rather troubling news came my way. We all know that under the best of circumstances predatory types will take advantage of people, primarily women and children, they feel they have a right to have. It takes the love of God to refrain from lashing out and desiring the spontaneous death of all of these people. Many people who have loved ones who are gay or lesbian like to believe that we are this way because some horrific thing happened to us thus changing us eternally from a normal heterosexual individual to a less than Godly homosexual. While many of us have had our body’s and minds taken by force or manipulation, for many of us that act had nothing to do with our sexuality. We were gay around the same time that we ‘were’ and in as such we are safely immersed in Gods love. For the ones that chose homosexuality as a release or a safety net from the evil acts done to them in the past, you too are loved. For the parents of individuals that have had their personal space invaded, you simply CAN NOT waste time blaming yourself. Your time can be used more effectively. You are not so powerful that you could have
prevented any act by an ignorant person, even if those acts are perpetrated upon your child. Your job is to listen, support, and maintain the sanity of your child. You have to IMMEDIATELY begin the process of healing WITH your child. This thing that happened to him or her is affecting you on a very intimate level, and you too need healing. Bringing in outside help is not a sign of weakness, in fact it is a sign of strength– strength in acknowledging that God has bestowed gifts upon some of his/her children; therapists, psychologists, are there to help you and your child. Prayer first, reaching out next. Suicide is, amongst the black community a not often talked about issue. But if we all stop and really think about it, we know someone who has been on the brink of suicide, or we ourselves have thought about it. This is not a sign of weakness of person, it is a sign of weakness of spirit. And we ALL experience sprit weakness from time to time. If you or your child finds yourselves in the position of thinking that the only outlet for your pain is to leave this life as we know it, please, stop and allow some of the outside sources that exist for the only purpose of helping you save YOUR life help you. Know that you are loved, even in those moments that alone feels soooooo the norm.
Love is being directed in your direction from the unlikely sources, just take the time out and recognize them. When we pray for strength, or patience, or comfort, the creator does not wave a magic wand and sprinkle you with those things. God instead opens your eyes to the many opportunities that have to be strong, to be patient, and to be comforted. That difficult situation that you find yourself in right now, just may be Gods gift of ‘chance to be strong’ The waiting and waiting that you’ve been going through in hopes for the manifestation of the next great thing in your life is Gods gift of ‘stand still and be patient’ That person that you never in a million years thought would listen to you as you vent, hug you when you need to be held, and tell you that they love you at the most surprising moments, that’s Gods gift of ‘love and comfort’ You are not defined by the things that have happened to you, you are defined by your continued living DESPITE the things that have happened to you. Peace.
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