Aug./Sept. 2024
Volume 2 Issue 5
Your Purpose and Promise; It’s All God
A Letter From The Editor
There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!
In the midst of whatever you are going through, one thing that you must always remember to do is keep your eyes on the prize. By doing so, you are able to avoid any unnecessary distractions. Outside noise and distractions can be dream destroyers. Something else that we must be mindful of is understanding the purpose of our fight. Are you fighting for a prize, or are you fighting just by fighting? The funny thing is that God gives us all a warrior spirit, yet knowing when and how to brawl is key.
A Letter from the Editor
What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?
For me, I hope that when it is all said and done, God sees things the way that I do. That is meant to be funny, but honestly, I am truly grateful for the life He has blessed me with. While everything hasn’t happened as I thought that it would, it’s only by God’s grace that I am here. I would believe this is the testament shared by many, as God shines his love on all of us, without prejudice.
I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.
I also appreciate the times He saved me, even in the midst of wars and battles that I initiated. I realize now that I was actually misusing the benefits of that warrior spirit and following my own direction instead of allowing God to lead me to where the fight would be appropriate and beneficial to His plan. Championship fighters all have something in common: they have someone in their corner to coach and direct them throughout their fights. When I was fighting my own fight and not listening to what God wanted me to do, I really didn’t give myself a fighting chance to win, and I didn’t.
The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.
Our primary goal in life should always be to please God and do what He expects us to do in all situations. It’s ok to be firm and resilient. However, we must always incorporate wisdom into our decision-making. Even when we believe no one is looking, God is always there, in our corner, offering direction and encouragement. Yet, if we can’t hear Him, or if He is tuned out by the things that we allow to distract us, we’re actually denying ourselves access to His promises of triumph.
Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.
Terry
Terry L. Watson Editor/Founder
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On The Cover
Walker Wellness & Aesthetics
Taneka Walker
Houston, TX
Remembering A Legend
Shelia Jackson Lee
Houston, TX
Making Her-story: Women in Sports
United Services Coalition
Houston, TX
Thank You For Representation
Houston Welcomes Home Olympians
Houston, TX
A Day of Giving Back
Becoming Kings and Queens
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Texas Southern University
Dr. Lucy Ojode
Big Sister, Little Sister Aneisha Hughes
The Mayor of The Town of Walls Keidron Henderson
The POOF Teen Center Destiny Alexander
Big Sister, Little Sister Mentoring Program
Enriching the Lives of Young Women
Big Sister Little Sister Mentoring Program, BSLS, was founded on July 7, 2008, in the top floor dorm of Wheatley Hall Dormitory at Florida A & M University (FAMU) by Aneisha Hughes. Big Sister Little Sister is a national mentoring program with a global impact that promotes life skills, wellness, and principles of self with a focus on personal and professional development.
“We aim to consistently impact young women and girls of color by ensuring their individual potential is reached as lifetime leaders with access to quality resources, mentors, and programs that prepare our members for success,” said Aneisha.
BSLS is now operating nationally at 19 chapters and has impacted over 15,000 women and youth since its establishment. Similar to any other brand story, BSLS started off as an idea when Hughes was a teenager.
Initially, she was approached by the sophomore class cabinet to brainstorm and execute an event for incoming freshmen. She came up with multiple ideas, but BSLS resonated most in her heart. BSLS was supposed to originally be a semester log initiative geared to transition incoming freshmen girls, but that vision has now expanded almost 16 years later.
FAMU is ranked the biggest and top Historically Black College or University (HBCU). BSLS mentors women and girls primarily of color to develop positive relationships in communities, campuses, and workplaces globally.
Making HER-story: Women In Sports
Women’s history came to vibrant life at the Houston Galveston Area Council’s stirring event, “Making HER-stoty: Women in Sports,” where an ensemble of remarkable women gathered to honor the unwavering spirit of female athletes. This collaboration of pioneers brought forth the important message for all women that encourages and motivates women to be great every single day.
Working alongside the event coordinator, Dominique Williams, Tramashika Dewalt, UISC founder, played a pivotal role in coordinating the panelists for this event, which blossomed into a symphony of empowerment, bringing together a constellation of trailblazers. Each woman on the panel shared her brilliance, contributing to the ongoing narrative of women’s progress in sports. From the groundbreaking pioneers who shattered glass ceilings, such as Debra Rossow, the first woman in the WB (now the WNBA), to the triumphant achievements of Alex Singer, the first female GM of a professional soccer team, the stage was ablaze with the fierce determination of women carving out their place in history.
At the heart of every great story in women’s sports lies an indomitable spirit and an unwavering dedication to excellence. Debra Rossow’s journey, from her record-breaking days at the University of Las Vegas Lady Rebels to her pioneering role in the Women’s Professional Basketball League (WBL), serves as a beacon of inspiration for generations to come.
Rossow’s trailblazing path, etched with resilience and determination, reflects the essence of women’s history in sports. As one of the first women to grace the WBL, she shattered barriers long before the WNBA took center stage. Her success on the court was not merely a testament to her talent, but also to her character – she attributes her achievements to her coachability and obedience, virtues instilled in her from a young age.
Yet, Rossow’s story extends far beyond the confines of the basketball court. Following her professional career, she returned to her roots in Southern Brazoria County, where she embarked on a new journey as an educator and coach. For over three decades, she has dedicated herself to molding young minds and instilling in them the values she learned through sport – perseverance, resilience, and the importance of education.
Rossow’s message resonates loud and clear: education is the cornerstone of empowerment. As she imparts her wisdom to the next generation, she emphasizes the significance of having something to fall back on, echoing the sentiment that education provides a sturdy foundation upon which dreams can flourish.
In celebrating Rossow’s legacy, we not only honor her remarkable achievements in sports but also recognize the profound impact of women’s education. Her story serves as a reminder that through resilience, determination, and a commitment to lifelong learning, women can conquer any challenge and write their own inspiring chapters in history.
Another trailblazer we had the privilege of speaking with was Houston Dash’s, Alex Singer. On September 6, 2022, history was made as Alex Singer was announced as the inaugural general manager of the
Houston Dash, becoming the first woman to hold this position in the club’s history. Singer’s journey from a rookie defender in Women’s Professional Soccer to her influential role at Octagon, where she negotiated groundbreaking player contracts, exemplifies her deep roots and extensive experience in the world of women’s soccer.
Singer’s appointment signifies a significant milestone in women’s history, highlighting the growing presence and influence of women in leadership roles within professional sports organizations. As the first general manager of the Houston Dash, Singer is poised to elevate the club to new heights, both competitively and in terms of its global reputation. With her vision and dedication, she aims to transform Houston into a premier destination for international players, solidifying the Dash’s position as a powerhouse in women’s soccer.
In the tapestry of women’s history in sports, the stories of these remarkable women shine brightly, igniting inspiration and leaving an indelible mark on all who hear them. From the triumphant strides of Cynthia Cooper, a four-time WNBA champion, to the visionary leadership of Helen Bohanna, a sports agent and WNBA team owner, each narrative is a testament to the boundless potential and resilience of women in athletics.
Liz Mayerich, the fencing owner and coach of Houston Swords, stands as a beacon of empowerment, breaking barriers and nurturing the next generation of athletes. Tanesha “Coach Tee” Barefield’s journey, as the first African-American woman to own a basketball gym in Houston, embodies the spirit of perseverance and determination, while Tyeisha Charles Smith’s trailblazing path as a former Houston Heat women’s football running back inspires us to defy expectations and reach for the stars.
As a privileged guest amidst such luminaries, it was an honor for UISC founder, T Dewalt - whose sports journey traces back to her time playing for the Army Women’s Basketball team and Volleyball Team in South Korea from 2005 to 2006 - to stand shoulder to shoulder with these titans of achievement, collectively etching new chapters in the records of greatness.
Every compelling narrative from this event and from each speaker is fueled by an unyielding spirit and an unwavering dedication to excellence. Similarly, United in Service Coalition (UISC) embodies more than just an organization; it stands as a beacon of hope, a symbol of unity, and a force for transformation. Established by Tramashika ‘Ms. T.’ DeWalt, a devoted female veteran, our mission is firmly grounded in the conviction that collective action can shape a world where each person flourishes. Just as women athletes push boundaries and inspire others with their resilience, UISC strives to ignite change and foster a community where solidarity and support reign supreme.
As we immerse ourselves in these remarkable narratives, we’re reminded that women’s history in sports is more than just a list of accomplishments; it’s a legacy of bravery, perseverance, and empowerment. These women have laid the groundwork for future generations to aspire higher, dream bigger, and reshape the narrative of what can be achieved. Their stories resonate as a call to action for women everywhere to embrace their strength, pursue their ambitions, and make a lasting mark not only in the realm of sports but also in broader society. Through collaboration and support, we can amplify these messages and further the mission of UISC to bring veterans and the community together, fostering unity and empowerment for all.
Walker Wellness & Aesthetics Clinic
By Terry L. Watson
Born and raised in Birmingham, AL, Taneka Walker has committed her life to serving and helping others.
Taneka is a dedicated family nurse practitioner. After high school, she joined the United States Air Force and served her country while simultaneously pursuing her passion for nursing. She earned a Bachelor of Science in Nursing from Wright State University. She added to her educational merits and obtained two graduate degrees: a Master of Business Administration and a Master of Science in Nursing. Beyond her professional achievements, Taneka is a loving mother of two. She retired from the military in April 2023 after serving for 25 years. “My commitment to both my family and career exemplifies my dedication to helping others and living life to the fullest,” she says.
Today, Taneka is the owner of Walker Wellness & Aesthetics Clinic, based in Houston, TX. The Brand is wellness and aesthetics, and their tagline is “Experience Wellness The Walker Way”. Her company began in 2022 under the parent name of The Scalp Boss. Taneka shares that The Scalp Boss was founded based on the personal challenges she faced in her everyday life, such as alopecia and the pressure and stress of maintaining military weight standards. These experiences fueled her passion to create solutions that help others overcome similar struggles. “Our mission is to provide support and effective treatments for those dealing with hair loss and weight management issues, empowering them to lead more confident and fulfilling lives.”
Now operating under the name Walker Wellness and Aesthetics Clinic, her goal is to provide a range of services tailored for individuals looking to regain their lost confidence, whether due to hair loss, weight gain, aging, or the challenges of everyday life. Their offerings include Hair Restoration, Medical Wigs, Medical Weight Loss programs, Botox and Aesthetic treatments, and DOT examinations.
Our mission is to provide support and effective treatments for those dealing with hair loss and weight management issues, empowering them to lead more confident and fulfilling lives.
Photos by Taneka Walker
As a nurse practitioner and business owner, Taneka admits that she loves restoring confidence in her clients. She also professes to be a firm believer in the power of knowledge and takes great joy in educating her clients and empowering them to become the best version of themselves.
Taneka adds that her original focus was on aesthetics and hair loss services, but the services that have garnered the most attention have been weight loss services. “Despite it being my passion, I realized the need and started to provide the services that made a difference for my clients. It forced me to look at the market differently, and due to an agile business response, I was able to re-brand and offer the original service but put more focus on overall wellness. Developing that service line forced me to pivot and adjust to the needs of others. One of my slogans was restoring confidence one strand at a time. Now I’m restoring health one pound at a time. Learning to be agile has been one of the best moves I have made as a small business owner,” she says.
Developing a business from the ground up has been very challenging, Taneka says. “My challenge was developing an entire business model revolving around aesthetics and hair loss. I learned that when you have created a business model around one aspect and another aspect takes off, it creates challenges. Resources were tied into that promotion, but the other services that were not as funded started to take off. As a business owner, I learned to adjust and start to do what the customer requests. I made changes and started to market appropriately out of my own pocket to fund this new line of business. What I learned from this is to adjust and understand what to put the resources on and make changes that keep you afloat. You can be stubborn and close, or you can be agile and adaptable; making the changes and becoming Walker Wellness has been a move that has positioned me for sustainability moving forward.”
Branding and marketing are some other consistent challenges that Taneka has faced. From navigating ever-changing algorithms to keeping up with the latest social media trends. She says, “The digital landscape evolves rapidly, requiring constant adaptation and creativity to stay relevant. It can be overwhelming to manage these demands while also focusing on providing top-notch services to clients. However, these challenges also present opportunities to connect with a broader audience and showcase the unique value our clinic offers. By staying agile and embracing innovative marketing strategies, I aim to build a strong, recognizable brand that resonates with our community.”
Looking ahead, Taneka plans to expand her practice by opening several locations throughout the Houston and Dallas areas. This growth will allow her to serve more clients and bring herr specialized care to a wider community. Additionally, she plans to introduce new services and innovative treatments to stay at the forefront of wellness and aesthetics. “By continually evolving and improving, I aim to make a lasting impact on the lives of even more individuals seeking to regain their confidence and well-being.” www.walkerwellness.org h
Mayor
Town of Walls - Desoto County
By Terry L. Watson
Keidron Henderson has a strong affinity for the Town of Walls, MS, one of the main reasons why he became Mayor. “I just wanted to serve,” he says.
Upon being elected, Keidron Henderson rewrote the history books. He is not only the first African American Mayor in the town of Walls but also the first African American Mayor of any municipality in DeSoto County’s history. In the mid-90s, Desoto County became the third fastest-growing county in the United States, and even today, it remains the fastestgrowing county in the state of Mississippi. With a population of nearly 1,300, Walls is the slowest-growing part of Desoto County, and Mayor Keidron has made a commitment to serve and do what is needed to move his county forward.
That commitment was made in 2020 when he was elected Mayor, and in five years, things have happened. Before being elected, Walls did not have a new subdivision to break ground in over a decade. Under his leadership, they have broken ground on four new subdivisions, they have the largest Solar Farm in Mississippi, and the town’s Fire Station is vamping up its training to accommodate its staff in-house. They have also added more officers to the Police Department and additional MTE’s to the Municipal Office. Even today, they do not have a bank or grocery store, but Mayor Henderson remains optimistic. In all of their growth and changes, Keidron has kept his focus on maintaining his town’s quality of life.
Keidron Henderson is a native of Walls, Mississippi. He attended Horn Lake High School and later went on to attend The University of Mississippi. His ultimate goal was to play professional football in the National Football League, though his dream was sidelined due to injuries he suffered in high school and college. He is a husband, a father of four, and has two grandchildren.
Mayor Henderson is a “casino guy.” He has worked in the casino business for over 20 years, which was his first job after graduating college. While the compensation for being Mayor doesn’t cover all of his family’s needs, Mayor Henderson continues to work in the casino industry today.
Photos by Mayor Keidron Henderson
When asked what he loves most about what he does, Mayor Henderson says it’s the service part of it. “We have spearheaded some great events. The senior population is often left out of the equation when communities plan grandiose events. We have made it a priority not to exclude this portion of our population and create activities and opportunities just for them. Our youth are very important as well. Recently, we gave away free backpacks and free haircuts, as well as lunch during an event. We were also able to partner with the YMCA and their Delivering Smiles program. Parents were able to get free meals for their kids. Being a part of programs such as these and bringing stakeholders together makes it all worth it,” he shares.
Recently, Mayor Henderson lost his mother, Betty J. Henderson. That loss is something that he continues to deal with, and he says she had the most significant impact on his life. “When you are seventeen years old, and you see your dreams dissipate from your eyes, your mother will say some encouraging things to you. She told me that God didn’t probably have the NFL in my plan, but He had great things in my plan. My mother spent thirty-three days in the hospital, and we talked about some great things in her final days. She reminded me of the conversation we had about me doing great things. Being Mayor is an example of having the opportunity to do great things in terms of service. She taught me to love people and always to be humble. She taught me that no matter what type of success I was able to be blessed with, always to be humble and love people. That skill has served me well, not only in being Mayor but also in my professional career. It’s not easy, but it is a learnable skill that my mama taught me,” he shares.
When you are seventeen years old, and you see your dreams dissipate from your eyes, your mother will say some encouraging things to you. She told me that God didn’t probably have the NFL in my plan, but He had great things in my plan.
Mayor Henderson also credits Gary Anderson with having a significant impact on his life. Gary was the Vice President of Start Operations at Horse Shoe Casino. He moved to Mississippi to open a new market in the early 90s. “He took me under his wing and became my personal mentor. He taught me how to protect margins, financial attributes, casino design, budgeting, forecasting; Literally everything that I know about the Casino industry, he taught me,” Mayor Henderson shares.
It is apparent that Mayor Henderson’s journey has been full of twists and turns, and he professes there isn’t much that he would change about the way things have happened. “You learn something from every fork in the road that you take. God has given me this journey, and it is designed to fulfill His purpose in my life. Every challenge and every setback is already written. If I had the power to change anything, it would be for my mother to be healthy. I wouldn’t have wanted for her to develop her sickness, and she would be here to see the things that I am doing. This is my journey, and I just want to make sure that when God comes for me, I don’t have any music left in my music box,” he says.
Looking ahead, Mayor Henderson says that he is looking forward to making the Town of Walls, MS, better for all citizens. Due to its geographical location and close relationship to Memphis, TN, Walls has a lot of potential on various fronts. “My focus as Mayor is to move our town forward. I want to do more of what we have already been doing. I want to provide access to all citizens. For any stakeholders in our community who want to be a part of furthering our town forward, the door is wide open for them. The door is wide open for everyone, and no one has to look in the peephole.”
P.O.O.F. Teen Center
By Terry L. Watson
Planning Our Own Future, or Planning Our Own Funeral; that is the meaning of the organization’s name, P.O.O.F. The double acronym was chosen by the groups founder and director Destiny Alexander, as she wanted to send two messages. “We teach funeral in terms of legacy not tragedy,” she says.
Destiny says she started her program three years ago, but the vision and the volunteer work started over eight years ago. “POOF began after I became pregnant with my son when I was only 19 years old. His father was sentenced to 25 years in prison when I was eight months pregnant. I understood that he had three things going against him coming into this world: He was a black male, his father was in prison, and society told us he had a higher chance of going to prison because, last but not least, I was a high school dropout. This was a lot, but I knew I had to do something different with him. I had to work to make ends meet. Because of the things that I instilled in him early on, he started planning his own future. He graduated from one of the best schools in the state of North Carolina, The School Math & Science. We both learned that society doesn’t define us. He’s currently enrolled in college on a full ride,” she says.
Photos Provided by Destiny Alexander
Destiny is a native of Durham, the Bull City. She is a North Carolina Central University Graduate and holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work and a Master’s in Public Administration. In addition to her son, Destiny has a daughter who is a senior at the City of Medicine and a 10-year-old German Shepherd, Pebbles. “My testimony is short and sweet. I was a single mom, a high school dropout, and financially unstable. I embodied nearly every stereotype imaginable. However, through it all, I’ve learned that society does not define me—I define myself. These are the lessons I aim to impart to the teens we work with. We teach them that as long as they hold onto their morals, values, and beliefs, they can achieve great things in life. I understand that change is possible, and despite some teens being dismissed due to their behavior, I believe that in the right environment, at the right time, change can occur, especially with teens.”
A nonprofit organization, The POOF program is an entrepreneurship pathway program with three pillars: financial literacy, world travel, and life preparation. Each of these pillars is designed to equip teens with essential life skills. Financial literacy is facilitated through the establishment of savings accounts, providing a foundation for financial understanding and responsibility. World travel is encouraged through obtaining and learning about passports, enabling teens to broaden their horizons and experience different cultures firsthand. Life preparation emphasizes the significance of life insurance, ensuring that the importance of this aspect is understood within the black community.
Destiny says, “Our program follows the carrot approach, where we don’t dangle goals so far out of reach that teens give up. We believe in creating a safe space where teens can progress at a pace that suits them. Within the first 30 days of joining our program, they can achieve a milestone (bite a carrot), and within 60 days, they can accomplish another (second bite of the carrot). By 90 days, they are on their second carrot, signifying progress and growth. Our approach is centered around building routines and a safe space of trust, allowing us to understand the needs and aspirations of each teen. We guide them towards further programs, support them in continuing with the travel component, or provide them with the necessary skills within our program. Trust is a crucial component in our work, and once established, it forms the basis for our continued progress and impact in working with teens.”
More than anything, Destiny shares that she loves seeing teens acting their age in a safe space where they can have fun being around each other, not tearing them down. “I enjoy watching their grades go up. I enjoy all of it. I enjoy that we are creating law-abiding citizens and not being part of a statistics,” she says.
For most nonprofit organizations, funding can be a real hurdle, and for Destiny and The POOF Teen Center, this also has been the case. Destiny shares that she annually invests $67,000 solely for the building costs of the space they operate in. That is in addition to expenses for food and facilitating activities for the teens. To ensure their teens have a safe and conducive learning environment, she has allocated over $100,000 towards these efforts. “While I have
not completely overcome this challenge, I am actively seeking solutions. One approach I am exploring is having a dedicated team member focus on grant writing to secure additional funding. This will not only allow me to continue impacting the teens we currently serve but also expand our reach and impact to a broader audience,” she says.
Moving forward, Destiny says her next objective is to acquire a permanent space for the program. “I am excited about the prospect of creating a dedicated teen space where they can feel like they’re stepping into a different world. Currently, we rent out our space for events to help offset building costs. My dream, hope, and goal are to purchase a space by 2026 that we can transform into a genuine teen center, resonating with the vibe and atmosphere teens desire,” she says.
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Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother
By Terry L. Watson
CHAPTER FIVE: Adapting To New Difficulties
Throughout the caregiving experience for my Mother, one thing has always been consistent: one day is never the same as the day before.
Adapting to the constant change has also helped me to learn a lot of new things about myself. I have been known to be a little anxious and impatient; however, while caring for my Mother, that responsibility has always required a new level of patience. Furthermore, while watching others care for her, some professionally trained, some serving from the depths of their hearts, I have always measured their efforts by how they respond during difficult moments. Being a caregiver requires that the person administering the care possesses one important gift: the ability to care for someone just as much or even more than they would care for themselves.
When I decided to bring my Mother into my home to live, I admit that I didn’t fully understand what I was getting myself into. (For details about my thoughts at the time, please read Chapter One of this series.) It’s Mom, and I am here for whatever she needs, yet caring for her needs has been so much more than that.
To know my Mom, I mean to truly understand her; you also understand the significance and importance of her visits to the hair salon. Within the first month of arriving at my home, I was seeking ways to help make her feel more like her old self. Her physicians had informed our family that Mom would never be the old version of herself, and due to the damage of the brain injury she endured, she would have little or no memory of what life used to be for her. Still, getting her to the salon, I thought, would provide a place to connect, socialize, and embrace her womanness among other women. For the most part, my Mother spent a lot of time with me, her grown son, and by God’s grace, she didn’t lose her genuine self. Getting her to a former place where she blossomed into her full beauty, I believed, would be good for her.
The day arrived for Mom to visit her stylist, and when presence was made inside the building, her emotions began to rise from within. There were some tears, but I processed those to be representatives of some emotions that had been silenced for nearly four months. Her stylist was happy to see her, and my Mom was even happier to see her, but I was more astonished by the first thing that my Mother said to her stylist. “Look what happened to me?” I knew then it was my time to sit in the waiting room as she had arrived in her element, and she was about to receive some much-needed healing and therapy from her personal hairstylist.
When my Mother’s session was complete, we got back into my car and headed back home. Of course, I took some photos of her fresh, new style. She was popping, and I was sure to capture this moment for her and my family, who weren’t there. It was refreshing to see her look sort of like her old self but even more beautiful. I felt as if I was looking at a new version of her, free of the toxins that played a role in leading up to her stroke. I also realized that ensuring that each day for the rest of her days is better and more memorable than each day before. I am a son first and then a caregiver. h
I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine. I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You!
Texas Southern Professor Named Fulbright Scholar, Heads to Rwanda for Prestigious Program
Dr. Lucy Ojode, CPA(K), a distinguished professor in the Texas Southern University Jesse H. Jones School of Business’s Department of Business Administration has received a Fulbright U.S. Scholar Program award. As part of this esteemed international exchange program, Dr. Ojode will spend the 202425 academic year in Rwanda training entrepreneurs who are seeking their Executive MBA.
“I am honored and deeply grateful to receive this Fulbright award,” said Dr. Ojode. “I truly appreciate the support from my colleagues and students. This year marks my 20th year at Texas Southern University, and it has been a wonderful journey since 2004. I have thoroughly enjoyed my classes, students, and colleagues, and it has always been a joy to be part of this academic community. I am excited to embark upon this opportunity to build connections between TSU-trained entrepreneurs and the burgeoning markets that exist in Africa.”
Dr. Ojode’s selection as a Fulbright Scholar underscores her commitment to academic excellence and her dedication to fostering global understanding. As she heads to Rwanda, she will be part of a broader effort by Fulbright Scholars to make meaningful contributions to communities abroad and at home, enriching both their host institutions and their home institutions with their experiences and insights.
“Texas Southern University is a proud partner to the Fulbright Program,” said President Jim Crawford. “The U.S. Department of State has named the University as a Fulbright HBCU Institutional Leader for four consecutive years in recognition of our support for Fulbright exchange participants and our promotion of Fulbright program opportunities on campus. The presence and contributions of those visiting scholars and our international students over the years add to TSU’s culturally rich environment in myriad ways. Likewise, we are delighted to share Dr. Ojode with the world through this tremendous honor. We look forward to the new knowledge she will create and share, which she will bring back from Rwanda.”
The Fulbright Scholar Program, one of the most prestigious academic exchange initiatives worldwide, annually awards more than 1,700 fellowships to college and university faculty, administrators, researchers, artists, and professionals. This program facilitates cross-cultural collaboration and provides scholars with the opportunity to build their skills, expand their global networks, and gain invaluable international insights.
Active in over 3,500 countries, not only does the Fulbright Scholar program enhance the professional and personal growth of its participants, but it also fosters a global network of accomplished alumni who serve as leaders and educators worldwide.
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Provost and Senior Vice President for Academic Affairs, Dr. Carl Goodman, praised this achievement, stating, “Dr. Ojode’s selection as a Fulbright Scholar is a testament to her exceptional contributions to academia and her unwavering dedication to her students and colleagues. We are proud to see her represent Texas Southern University on this global stage and look forward to the valuable perspectives she will bring back to our institution and community.”
Since 1946, the Fulbright Program has provided over 400,000 talented and accomplished students, scholars, teachers, artists, and professionals of all backgrounds with the opportunity to study, teach, and conduct research abroad. Fulbrighters exchange ideas, build people-to-people connections, and work to address complex global challenges. Notable Fulbrighters include 62 Nobel Laureates, 89 Pulitzer Prize winners, 80 MacArthur Fellows, 41 heads of state or government, and thousands of leaders across the private, public, and non-profit sectors.
City of Houston Joins Houston First Corp., and the Sports Community to Welcome Home the 2024 Local Olympians
Becoming Kings and Queens Plans Day of Giving Back
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The City of Houston is officially kicking off a citywide, monthslong celebration to honor some of the incredible athletes returning from the 2024 Olympic Games in Paris.
In collaboration with Houston First Corp., Harris CountyHouston Sports Authority and the sports community, Houston will demonstrate its collective pride and excitement by hosting several events and festive celebrations to welcome home the athletes who competed on a global stage.
The campaign, “Welcome Home HOU,” symbolizes the spirit and enthusiasm that fans across Houston felt as they watched their favorite Olympians compete on the global stage.
After taking part and, in some cases, winning gold, bronze, or silver medals, several Olympic athletes, our local heroes, recently received a hero’s welcome and were greeted by family, fans, and city representatives waving signs and cheering their return at Bush Intercontinental Airport.
Houston’s sports community - the Houston Dash, Houston Astros, and Houston Texans—along with the University of Houston and Rice University—have announced plans to salute these incredible athletes on their home turf.
The Mayor’s Office will carry the torch through Thanksgiving Day with an Olympic-themed parade honoring present and past individuals who have competed in the Olympics.
“I congratulate and welcome home the amazing men and women who represent Team USA. They made us proud as Americans and Houstonians as we watched them compete against some of the world’s greatest athletes. Whether or not they won a medal, they are winners to us, and that is why we will acknowledge their courage, character, sportsmanship, and perseverance,” said Mayor John Whitmire.
The Welcome Home HOU website will be updated regularly with information about upcoming events. www.visithoustontexas.com/welcomehou/
BKQ Day of Giving Back – a day where compassion meets action, and every small act creates a ripple of positive change!
Join us for the BKQ Day of Giving Back, as we come together to assemble BKQ Blessing Bags for the homeless community. It’s more than just a day; it’s an opportunity to make a meaningful impact and spread kindness far and wide.
Our volunteers, or as we like to call them, “Royalty in Action,” will be assembling Blessing Bags filled with essential hygiene supplies to bring comfort and support to those facing homelessness. Each bag is a symbol of care and community, a tangible expression of the BKQ commitment to making a difference in the lives of others.
Becoming Kings and Queens believes in the power of collective goodwill, and the Day of Giving Back is our way of giving back to the community that surrounds us. By participating, you become a part of a noble cause, contributing to a brighter, more compassionate world.
Join us on this day of unity, generosity, and impact. Let’s come together, assemble Blessing Bags, and share the warmth of BKQ kindness with those who need it most.
BKQ Day of Giving Back: Because small acts of kindness can make a royal difference in the lives of others!
Becoming Kings and Queens, Inc is a nonprofit organization located in Spring, Texas. Founded in early 2020, our primary mission is to create and provide leadership building opportunities, through education, mentorship, and volunteer work.
We know that our strength lies not only in the words we stand by, but most importantly through the actions of our initiatives. In the beginning, we realized that by working together we could overcome our challenges much more efficiently, and that is why we ultimately decided to launch Becoming Kings and Queens, Inc.
A Dedicated Professional & Community Leader
By Terry L Watson
Photos Provided by LaMicra Martin
LaMicra Martin of Indiana describes herself as a dedicated professional and community leader.
She has enjoyed a career in health administration, focusing on improving patient experience, safety, and quality care, which has spanned 26-plus years. LaMicra is also a fellow Hoosier Women Forward Alumni, an organization that acts as a political and civic leadership training program designed to empower Democratic women to become more active participants in politics and leaders in their communities. In 2018, LaMicra ran for the position of Floyd County Commissioner in Indiana, followed by a run for Floyd County Auditor in Indiana in 2022. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Health Administration/Health Information Systems and a Master’s degree in Healthcare Administration from the University of Phoenix. Additionally, she is the sitting Vice President of the Indiana Democratic African-American Caucus (IDAAC) of Indiana.
While serving to meet the needs of her community, LaMicra founded Brothers Reaching Up Higher (B.R.U.H.), a 501c3 nonprofit organization that encourages positive self-esteem and self-worth for young men aged 10-19.
The areas of focus for B.R.U.H are Life Skills, Mental Health, Trade Careers, and Entrepreneurial Guidance. With Life Skills, LaMicra says, “Our community is rich with individuals eager to share their expertise. We collaborate with mentors, professionals, and volunteers who guide our B.R.U.H. young men in developing essential life skills. With Mental Health, we are aware that depression and anxiety disproportionately affect young men, who often lack access to mental health resources. At B.R.U.H., we prioritize self-awareness, self-confidence, and open communication to promote mental well-being.”
As my boys were growing up, their friends would come and stay and hang out all day if they were not in school. Some of the friends would stay longer than normal, which led to the question of what was going on with the home front.
Many trades offer on-the-job training or vocational education. With its Trade Career service, LaMicra’s organization seeks partnerships with companies willing to invest in young men, equipping them with valuable trade skills for a successful future. Finally, with their Entrepreneurial Guidance, they utilize engaging workshops to empower youth with the technical skills necessary for starting their own businesses and pursuing rewarding careers.
B.R.U.H. was created in 2019 for young men. LaMicra shares, “As my boys were growing up, their friends would come and stay and hang out all day if they were not in school. Some of the friends would stay longer than normal, which led to the question of what was going on with the home front. After learning some of their home challenges, I decided to try to give an alternative to living. B.R.U.H. teaches real-life skills and provides mental health check-ins with a licensed therapist.”
In addition to Brother Reaching Up Higher (B.R.U.H), LaMicra also manages Martin & Associates LLC. Martin & Associates LLC offers Event Planning and Coordination, Event Design and Décor, Catering Services, Entertainment and Activities, Audio-Visual Services, On-Site Management, and Notary Services. Martin & Associates LLC derived from LaMicra’s Gifts & Décor, a home-based business that decorated for events and made items for decorations. “We collectively combined and added to the business, including notary services in 2018,” she says.
LaMicra says that she loves bringing joy to her clients. “Our services are designed to create memorable and successful events tailored to meet the specific needs and preferences of our clients. Creating a space for individuals and families to have a day to celebrate their joys, accomplishments, birthdays, and dreams, and knowing that we are a part of their occasion, inspires me daily,” she says.
As a business owner, LaMicra has faced some adversities. One was ensuring a steady cash flow and also managing finances effectively. Attracting new clients to continue to build a loyal customer base, which takes time and effort is another challenge she has faced. Staying ahead of competitors, which can be difficult, to differentiate their services and maintain a competitive edge is another challenge she has faced.
LaMicra’s future plans involve continuing to support her community in the capacities that she is able to. Her plans also involve assisting with finding the right vendors and venues for her clients’ events. h
Young Tech Scholars Graduate From Verizon Innovative Learning Program At TSU
Information obtained from Press Release
The 2024 summer graduation ceremony for the Verizon Innovative Learning STEM Achievers Immersion camp, directed by Texas Southern University, marked a significant milestone for dozens of young scholars. Over the course of three intensive weeks, these middle school students engaged in a transformative educational experience designed to spark their interest in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics) fields.
The camp provided a robust curriculum that included hands-on training in advanced technologies such as 3D printing, AR/VR (augmented reality and virtual reality), and electronics. These experiences not only enriched their knowledge but also prepared them for future STEM-focused careers.
Throughout the camp, students were immersed in an environment that promoted creativity, critical thinking, and innovation. They had the opportunity to work on various projects that allowed them to apply theoretical knowledge to practical scenarios. For instance, through 3D printing activities, they could bring their imaginative designs to life, while AR/VR sessions offered them a glimpse into the future of interactive technology. Additionally, learning about electronics provided them with a foundational understanding of how modern devices operate, fostering a deeper appreciation and curiosity for the engineering behind everyday gadgets.
“The program is very crucial said Jason Nwanter, Verizon Undergraduate Intern. People who want to dig deep into tech at an early age get to meet other like-minded people.”
The graduation event was a celebration not just of the students’ hard work and achievements but also of the potential future leaders in the STEM fields. By participating in the Verizon Innovative Learning STEM Achievers Immersion camp, these young scholars gained valuable skills and insights that will serve as a strong foundation for their educational and career aspirations. The program’s success underscores the importance of providing accessible, high-quality STEM education to underserved communities, ensuring that all students have the opportunity to excel and innovate in an increasingly technology-driven world.
Shelia Jackson Lee
She was a memer of the United States House of Representatives, and from Texas. She was born in Queens, Queens County, N.Y., January 12, 1950. She graduated from Jamaica High School, Jamaica, N.Y. in 1968 Rep. Lee received a B.A. from Yale University in 1972, a J.D. from the University of Virginia Law School in 1975.
Rep. Lee was also a lawyer, private practice; staff counsel, United States House Select Committee on Assassinations, 1977-1978; member of the Houston City Council, 1990-1994, a Houston Municipal Judge from 1987-1990, and was elected as a Democrat to the One Hundred Fourth and to the fourteen succeeding Congresses.
She served until her death. Huami Magazine remembers Representative Shelia Jackson Lee.
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Dr. Lindsay Tutoring Services
By Terry L. Watson
Dr. Haile Lindsay
Lindsay Tutoring Services moves by the motto “Providing tutoring excellence in the subjects of science, math, and engineering.” Owned and founded by Rev. Dr. Haile K. Lindsay, Lindsay Tutoring Services focuses on serving students of all types, from children to adults, from elementary school to college. They offer a variety of services that focus on the following topics: Math, Science, Engineering, and Standardized Test Preparation.
Math: These services include Elementary School Math, Middle School Math, Middle School/High School Algebra I, High School Algebra II, High School Geometry, High School Trigonometry, High School/College Precalculus, High School/College Calculus, and College Calculus.
Science: These services include Elementary School Science, Middle School Science, High School Physics, High School Chemistry, College Physics, and College Chemistry.
General Engineering: The services offered include General Engineering, Statics, Mechanical Engineering Design, Fluid Mechanics, Heat Transfer, and Thermodynamics.
Standardized Test Preparation: Services offered include SAT Prep for Mathematics and ACT Prep for Mathematics.
Dr. Lindsay is a native of Greensboro, NC, and resides in Bowie, Maryland. He is the only child of the late Janice Foust and the youngest of two of Michael Friday. Dr. Lindsay matriculated through Guilford County Schools and graduated from James B. Dudley High School in 1997. After Dudley, he attended NC A&T State University in Greensboro, NC, and majored in Mechanical Engineering. Due to the favor of God, the support of his family and hard work, Dr. Lindsay earned a B.S. (summa cum laude) in 2001, a M.S. in 2003, and a PhD in 2007.
Lindsay Tutoring Services is grateful to God for providing us the opportunity to tutor some great young men, women, and adults. We have had numerous students matriculate through high school and onto college.
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After completing his studies at NC A&T, Dr. Lindsay accepted a job with the U.S. Nuclear Regulatory Commission (NRC), where he has been employed since 2008. While at the NRC, some of his accolades include the Special Recognition Award at the Black Engineer of the Year Awards in February 2013, the NRC’s EEO Award for African Americans in 2014, and the NRC’s Meritorious Service Award for EEO Excellence in 2021.
Dr. Lindsay has been happily married to his wife, Pamela, for almost 20 years, and they have three children, Tory, Tiras, and Tierra, and four grandchildren: Micah, Kassius, Victoria, and Tory, Jr. Additionally, Dr. Lindsay serves as an associate minister at The Sanctuary at Kingdom Square in Upper Marlboro, MD, and has been a member there since 2009. He was ordained as a Minister of the Gospel in 2015.
After years of serving as a tutor for a couple of companies in the area, Dr. Lindsay made the decision to launch Lindsay Tutor Services in 2016. He shares he knew that all he had to do was trust God in the process. “Lindsay Tutoring Services is grateful to God for providing us the opportunity to tutor some great young men, women, and adults. We have had numerous students matriculate through high school and onto college. Over this past year, we’ve had a hand in two young men who graduated from high school and now are headed to Morgan State University and Virginia State University, respectively,” he says.
When asked what he loves most about what he does, Dr. Lindsay says it’s the opportunity to see his clients excel and gain confidence in the work they are doing. He also loves the opportunity to serve and mentor others. Those are understandable joys of success. However, with success also comes challenges. Lindsay Tutoring Services has been forced to learn how to manage a flow of steady clientele coupled with having so many other responsibilities; though challenging, it appears that he has adapted quite well.
Moving forward, Dr. Lindsay shares that he plans to continue to impact lives by providing tutoring excellence to clients in the subjects of science, math, and engineering. He also plans to continue to make a digital footprint on Instagram, Facebook, and Threads. “Our company will continue to grow thanks in large part to the parents and clients who believed in Lindsay Tutoring Services,” he says. h
