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Going To The Dentist Can Be FUN? Believe it or not, kids actually enjoy going to TenderSmiles4Kids. With so much to do, it makes time go by so quickly! Every dental chair has a flat screen TV hanging above, so each patient can watch television or a DVD of their choice. The waiting area offers a game room with PlayStation, Xbox and a homework station for kids to do school-related work. The reception area also features a 228-gallon fish tank filled with exotic fish, which is the central attraction of the whole office. For younger children, age-related books, toys and TV shows are also offered. At the end of every visit, kids receive goody bags filled with toothbrushes and stickers, each child will also receive a balloon to celebrate a great visit! Dr. Max commented, “Parents know their kids are at ease and they can have peace of mind knowing their children will be taken care of. It makes their lives easier.” This is why most parents ask if they can be patients too!

At TenderSmiles4Kids, the entire team is committed to providing every patient and family a superior level of comfort and service! Dr. Max receives a great deal of gratification from the fact that children actually enjoy a visit to his office! You can find more information on our website:

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Dr.Max’s “Toothfairy Mobile” is a favorite attraction for children at community events. The children get to know the other side of dentistry beyond drillings and fillings.

TenderSmiles4Kids specializes in working with children with special needs and or anxieties. If needed, they can help your child feel relaxed and at peace during their important dental care with these services:

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Complimentary Initial Consultation For Children Under the Age of Two.

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Featured Articles Pediatric Dentistry Tender Smiles 4 Kids...........................................................2

Medical Professionals BeriEsthetique......................................................................3 Rehability Pain and Injury Center.........................................5 Atlantic NeuroSurgical Specialists........................................7 Bella Derma Medi Spa..........................................................9 Liberty Pain Center.............................................................10 Ocean Hematology & Oncology.........................................11 Shore Gastroenterology Associates, P.C.....................14, 15 Sergey Bogdan, MD, FIPP.................................................16 Allen Morgan Fertility and Reproductive Medicine.......21, 39 Barnabas Health Medical Group: Dr. Sumy H. Chang.......22 Seaview Orthopaedic & Medical Associates......................23 Monmouth Ocean Medical Services, LLC..........................25 Toms River X-Ray, CT & MRI Center...........................30, 31 Vein Center for Women......................................................33 Jersey Shore Pharmacy.....................................................34 Total Hearing Care.......................................................36, 37 Caring Heart & Brain Imaging.......................................38, 64 The Witlin Center for Advanced Eye............................46, 47

IT Services RS Technical Services.........................................................6

Health & Wellness Holistic Care Services..........................................................8 Meridian Fitness & Wellness..............................................13 Improve Health Solutions...................................................40 Nina Radcliff.......................................................................45

Fine Jewelry The Jewelry Link...................................................................8

Salon & Spa Hair & Company Oasis Spa................................................12

Hair Replacement & Wigs Valerie’s Barber and Beauty...............................................17

3 Elder Life Management Elder Life Management......................................................35

Contemporary & Rattan Furniture Heritage House Interiors...............................................42, 43

Garden & Local Honey From The Garden...............................................................44

Adult Community

Law Law Offices of Laura D’Orsi, LLC.......................................18 Straffi & Straffi, Attorneys At Law.......................................19 Ansell, Grimm & Aaron, PC................................................20

Divorce Support Programs Divorce Support Net...........................................................20

Orthodontics Holmdel Orthodontics.........................................................24

Specialty Cakes & Chocolate Novelties Chocolate Carousel......................................................26, 27

Fashion & Beauty Lynne’s Fashion Boutique .................................................28

Adult Day Care We Care Adult Care...........................................................29

Bathroom Remodeling Beautiful Bathrooms & More.........................................32, 41

Carpet & Flooring Best Carpet & Flooring.......................................................32

Fountainhead Properties....................................................48

Insurance & Annuities, Investment & Retirement MetLife................................................................................49

Women of Monmouth County ............................. 51 Theatre & Entertainment Iluminate.............................................................................52 Gazillion Bubble Show........................................................52 Buyer & Cellar....................................................................53 50 Shades!The Musical......................................................53

Travel Vagabond Travel Agency...................................................55

Business & Finance Pearls of Wisdom...............................................................61

Fine Art Photography Annette Jenkins Photography.............................................63

Community......................54, 56, 57, 58, 59, 60, 61, 62

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Welcome to the May/June 2014 Issue Of Monmouth County Woman

Despite the late snowfall in April, the pair of Canadian geese had arrived right on time. As they do each year, the couple started their annual nesting by the mailbox outside our office window, and I knew spring had finally arrived! Now it’s time for the rest of us to start celebrating springtime with activities that help us transition from the world of snowmen to sandcastles. Being healthy and fit is a critical step toward enjoying all of the many summer activities at the shore. Our Health & Wellness and Medical Professional articles offer a plethora of information to meet your needs, from the top of your head to the tip of your toes. For instance, on page 13, you will find a 7-Day VIP pass to Meridian Fitness & Fitness located in Hazlet. Susan, owner of Holistic Care Services (page 8) is excited about teaching you stand-up paddle boarding to enjoy this summer. In this issue, you will find great gift ideas for upcoming holidays, such as Mother’s Day on May 11th and Father’s Day on June 15th. Show appreciation for your mothers, fathers, grandparents, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, and other moms and dads in your life with gift certificates for products and services from many the businesses in this issue. Annette Jenkins Photography is offering Mother’s and Father’s Day specials along with a $50 credit towards prints when you mention her ad on page 63. A beautiful and tasty chocolate dessert from Chocolate Carousel on pages 26 & 27 is a sweet way to attract a loved one’s attention. Prom and wedding season is right around the corner. Lynne’s Fashion Boutique has a dress for every mother of the bride, along with the perfect dresses for any cocktail party, business event or other special occasion (page 28). If your hair is frizzy, curly or damaged, Hair & Company Oasis Spa is offering exclusive May/June specials for Brazilian Blowouts and Keratin Treatments on page 12. We’ve added exclusive savings on Facebook.com/TheCountyWoman. One “Like” will allow you to enter to win amazing giveaways and give you access to the printable coupon section, so you can enjoy exclusive savings from our advertisers. Take advantage of everything the Jersey Shore has to offer, including the many wonderful events you read about in our Community section. We’re sure you will find every article in this issue of Monmouth County Woman overflowing with valuable information. When a particular article is relevant for you or your family, take a minute and call, email, tweet, or Facebook the business to let them know! We wish you a safe and happy summer and thank you for your continued support of the Monmouth County Woman magazine. Warmest regards, Lynn Wolf & the Staff of Monmouth County Woman

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Blackberry, IOS (Apple), Android, Windows . . . Which One Is Right For Your Business?

oday’s phones are sophisticated computing devices that have more computing power than the large main frame computers of the 1970 era. What you can do with them is quite amazing and unfortunately for the business owner, somewhat confusing. Your choice of a smartphone and the ecosystem behind it will have significant impact on your business, its productivity and security. Managing these devices is an important and much overlooked aspect of their use. As with any project integration these devices bring their own set of issues, expenses, legal and financial exposure. Sensitive corporate information can be easily transported and lost. Multiple divergent devices can be a management nightmare and the Bring Your Own Device (BYOD) movement dramatically increases the number of expensive security incidents.

Avoid Security Breaches Of Sensitive Information

Operationally, integrating these devices into your networking environment is challenging enough without the concern of security or data breaches. An implementation example for one of our clients required the deployment of twenty Samsung Galaxy S4 smartphones for field technicians. A specific mobile application was available for use to connect to their existing server based CRM system. A method for managing these devices was implemented to control their use. This method remotely controls the device, allows tracking of its location, prevents Father’s Day

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the users from making changes, limits what applications can be installed or used on the device and controls what hardware features are turned on or off. It also can remote wipe the phone, lock or unlock it, and remotely push out updated applications. All of this is done from a single console managed by an administrator.

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Integrating mobile devices into your business is not as simple as making a purchase at a retail store and turning the device on. It requires the guidance and expertise of an IT professional to cost effectively integrate them, which if done properly will save time, aggravation and money.

For a free consultation, please call Robert Schwartz at 732-792-0707. *RS Technical Services provides computer and networking support to small business. All brand name and product specific references belong to the product owners.

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President and CEO RS Technical Services, Inc. Robert Schwartz received his education in Electrical Engineering Technology from MSOE with additional training in Electronics courtesy of the US Navy. Prior to creating RSTS in 1993 Robert spent 15 years as the CEO of American Instruments, Inc. A scientific instrument company providing equipment and support to organizations like, AT&T, IBM, NASA, Intel, the DOD, other government, research facilities, universities and large enterprise companies. Robert brings to our clients strong analytical and problem solving skills. His technical experience spans more than thirty five years in Electronics, Computer Science, Physics, and Chemistry.

RS Technical Services, Inc. Testimonial: “We have used RS Technical Services for the past seven years. Robert’s level of knowledge and expertise impressed us from the get go. He literally changed the way our infrastructure was constructed within days of a major internal IT disaster. My company could not function without the prompt care and dedication of Robert and RS Technical Services. He is always there when called upon within minutes, and I know that I can rely on his advice at all times. It is a rare occurrence these days to find someone as competent and trustworthy as Robert.” ~ Stewart Lenner, President, Arrow Environmental Services

June is a special time for Dad! Father’s day falls mid-month, June 15, 2014, and is a celebration for all that he does for the family. Typically, it is a day to let him have some time on his own to sit on a hammock while sipping a cool drink with nothing to do. That’s a great way to celebrate, but if your kids are looking to do something more active to show him their appreciation, check out these simple ideas for a grand day.

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• Serve Dad breakfast in bed. • Have the kids make a fun banner that says, “You’re the best dad!” and hang it outside his bedroom. • Have your kids make their own construction paper cards. • Think about what Dad loves best and plan a family outing for the day. • Create a photo album of special memories. • If the weather is good, have a BBQ. • Give Dad two to three hours on his own to do as he pleases.

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Medical Professionals

Dr. Benitez of ANS Honored for Saving Local Police Officer

JhWl[b_d] I^ekbZ 8[ <kd$ Atlantic NeuroSurgical Specialists (ANS) is one of the nation’s leading neurosurgical practices. Our sub-specialized practice consists of board-certified neurosurgeons, including 5 fellowship-trained spine specialists, 3 fellowship-trained endovascular surgeons and a team of fellowship-trained brain tumor specialists offering minimally invasive endoscopic skull base surgery. We are nationally renowned and among the very best practicing medicine. This type of high level collaboration and multidisciplinary approach to surgery and care doesn’t happen everywhere, but it does happen here. With access to state-of-the-art equipment and the best treatment options available, patients no longer have to travel to big cities to get the advanced care they’re looking for – we’re in your backyard, ready to help you when you need us.

Local neurosurgical practice saves police officer who suffered a blood clot in his brain stem Neptune, NJ… Ronald Benitez, MD of Atlantic NeuroSurgical Specialists (ANS) recently received a “Life Saving Award” from PBA Local 155 for saving Ramsey Police Officer Rich Falotico from a life-threatening stroke. The award ceremony took place at the Ramsey Country Club in late December. “The most rewarding part of my job is to see my patients recover and enjoy the life they had before,” says Benitez. “I was moved by the PBA honoring me for just doing my job. I could say the same about Rich being a police officer, but I am sure he would say the same thing.” Rich Falotico, 41, of Allamuchy, was home when he suffered a blood clot in his brain stem, a deadly condition that affects the blood supply to areas of the brain. If left untreated, the prognosis is most probably fatal for these severe types of strokes. “If it wasn’t for the emergency responders, my wife, and Doctor Benitez, I would not be here today,” says Falotico. “The dinner gave me a chance to shake their hands and really thank them for saving my life.”

Don’t let insurance come before your health. ANS sees all patients. For more information visit www.ansdocs.com or call 732.455.8225.

Dr. Benitez chose to treat this stroke utilizing the remarkable mechanical thrombectomy procedure where a device is used to capture the clot and remove it during the actual stroke. Using a specialized biplane angiography machine, he is able to navigate this device through the arteries originating in the patients groin into the vessel of the brain being affected to retrieve the clot. The procedure is technically challenging and does require special training. Dr. Benitez is the Director of Endovascular Neurosurgery at three of New Jersey’s comprehensive stroke centers and has treated and saved hundreds of patients, along with his two partners, Dr. David Wells-Roth and Dr. Kyle Chapple, from this devastating illness. Falotico’s story starts when he woke up on a Friday morning in June with a severe throbbing headache at the base of his head. He remembers never feeling pain like it before, but shrugged it off as a bad headache. After a morning of increased symptoms, including a feeling of tingling in his face and blurred vision, his wife, Marilyn, called 9-1-1. The situation went from bad to worse and Rich’s life was in jeopardy. After being airlifted from the Allemuchy elementary school, he was taken to Morristown Memorial Hospital, where he was met by Dr. Benitez. “Time was of the essence in this case,” states Benitez. “If the condition was left untreated, Mr. Falotico did not have a chance of survival, and even with treatment there was no certainty he would recover fully, but we had to try to save him.” Dr. Benitez went on to explain the condition Mr. Falotico was in during the time of his transport. If Mr. Falotico was conscious, he was most probably experiencing locked-in syndrome. Locked-in syndrome, or LIS for short, is a condition in which a patient is aware and awake but cannot move or communicate verbally due to complete paralysis of nearly all voluntary muscles in the body except for the eyes. Total locked-in syndrome is a version of locked-in syndrome where the eyes are paralyzed, as well. Some patients live the rest of their lives in this condition if not treated.

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What does Holistic Care Services Offer? Holistic Care Services offers Holistic Care Coaching on land (nationwide via Skype and phone) and at our Stand Up Paddle boarding (SUP) water studio at the Jersey Shore for men and women. As a practicing Registered Nurse with expertise in Holistic/Integrative healthcare, my specialties include: Holistic Nursing, Integrative Nutrition/Health Counseling, Stand-Up Paddleboard (SUP) lessons, SUP-Yoga, SUP fitness programs and Yoga therapy (private studio sessions).

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WHAT IS THE DOWNTIME? Immediately after the treatment you will notice a bright redness to the skin. The total healing time depends on the depth of needles used and the number of overlapping passes our skincare professional performs. On average, patients are red up to 2 to 4 days. Some patients heal completely in as little as 24 hours. Utilizing quality skincare products that we will provide you with can help to speed up the healing process.

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Patients notice an immediate “glow” to their skin. Visible changes to the skin develop over the course of several days and weeks. Results continue to improve up to 6 months after the treatment as collagen production continues.

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS: “I look forward to every treatment because I see results immediately. All of my friends compliment me on my skin now and I am so happy. I have had many other treatments before to treat my acne scars, and nothing worked as well as skin micro-needling. I would highly recommend it to anyone!” – Elizabeth K. “Micro-needling is a fantastic treatment! I was in no pain and I could go back to work the same day. After a few days my skin was so soft and the texture had improved dramatically.” – Kathleen Y. “I used to have problems with acne scarring, but since I’ve started this treatment, my skin feels and looks so much better. I’m a changed person and I have regained my peace of mind.” - Leslye S.

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of cases yes, through maintaining a healthy weight and an active life style with aerobic exercise and core strengthening. Avoiding lifting, pushing or pulling objects that are meant to be moved by more than one person. Avoid excessive weights during home exercises and focusing on moderate weights with more days of exercises throughout the week is usually a better choice. If you keep having pain every time you do an exercises, it’s time to re-evaluate if that exercise is right for you. And perhaps find an alternative routine. Smoking cessation and adequate hydration are vital to spine health.

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CW: Are there specific exercises or stretches that folks can do to prevent injury to that area? Please describe. Dr. Ghobriel: It is best

to use a reasonable instructor, swimming and stationary bike are typically good for most people but if you already have pain it is best to consult with your physician about a regimen tailored to you with the help of your physical therapist.

CW: Please tell us about one of your patients that suffered from this condition. Dr. Ghobriel: We have

had a patient who fell and came to the office carried by his family members, didn’t respond to therapy and strong pain killers for weeks. He received one epidural and he was back to his usual activities and routine.

We had another patient who suffered of severe sciatica while pregnant that made her bed bound. After evaluating the risks versus the benefits, she wasn’t getting better with long conservative treatment. An epidural was done for her, she was able to be discharged and go home, complete her pregnancy and deliver a very healthy baby and back to her very busy work and life style. We also have many patients who come in with severe pain, unable to go back to work and not responding to heavy medications and therapy. Patient receives between 1-3 sessions of epidural injections and they are able to return back to their lives with little or no medication. Periodically they will come back for repeat injections when the pain builds up again and they are able to avoid surgery in a lot of cases except in severe conditions where surgery is inevitable to relieve compression of a pinched nerve that either causes severe pain and could cause or lead to the onset of weakness, trouble with bladder or bowel control or even loss of sexual function in males.

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Conservative treatment in the first couple of weeks. Including antiinflammatory medications, rest, avoiding activities that increase the pain, then proceeding to either chiropractic treatment, physical therapy or epidural injections or combination.

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taking ( the way the patient describes it), physical examination of the patient, radiologic testing; MRI is the best but XRays are also helpful.

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Majority of cases will subside within 2-4 weeks. If it doesn’t then an MRI should be done and a pain management specialist should be consulted. If there is weakness or trouble with bowel or bladder function or sexual function, the patient should see their doctor immediately.

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shooting down the buttock, thigh front or back, leg and possibly foot with or without numbness and tingling. Pain can be stabbing, burning, electric, achy, constant or comes and goes.

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Dr. Ghobriel is the appointed Chair of the Division of Pain Management at CentraState Medical Center. Dr. Ghobriel completed her fellowship training in interventional pain management at the prestigious Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital. Following that she joined Liberty Anesthesia as a staff anesthesiologist at Centrastate hospital and now heads the Liberty Pain Center as the Clinical Director. Dr. Ghobriel is double board-certified in anesthesiology and pain management by the American Board of anesthesiology and is the sole in-house pain management specialist at Centrastate hospital. She is responsible for managing acute care patients including but not limited to; spine injuries, cancer pain and postoperative pain. Her training and practice focuses primarily on the treatment of all disorders of the spine and joints using a combination of conservative treatments as well as state of the arts techniques for spine and joint injection and minimally invasive surgery. Dr. Ghobriel also takes a personal approach towards managing her patients with focus on how their ailments affect their daily activities, goals, and sense of well-being. She is very active in her community, conducting a series of community lectures to increase the public’s awareness of the latest in pain management techniques and therapies. Dr. Ghobriel is also involved in staff teaching in the field of pain management with lectures conducted for the nursing staff and the family residency physicians. She is also a member of the following societies: America Society of Interventional Pain Physicians, Interventional Spinal Injection Society, American Society of Anesthesiologists and American Medical Association.

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Professionals, Goldwell, Paul Mitchell, Vidal Sassoon, and Pivot Point. She was also certified in keratin complex keratin treatments. This season we are moving away from multi dimensional color highlights and seeing more of an overall stunning rich color. Also, a shorter haircut can give you an uplifting and stunning look that will turn heads.

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Julia Roberts had striking auburn to honey blond hues, which is the perfect example of mixtures of different techniques used at one sitting to achieve that beautiful look. Jennifer

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Unique Aquatics Programming For Monmouth County By Julianne Dods, Meridian Fitness & Wellness

Not only is swimming fun – its social nature makes it the most popular recreational activity across all ages and fitness levels – it’s also a fantastic total body exercise. From reduced pain to increased muscle strength and cardiovascular endurance, swimming is the perfect complement to your fitness regimen.

A Variety Of Programs Offered

Meridian Fitness & Wellness currently offers a wide variety of Aquatics Programming. Competitive Stroke classes focus on refining stroke skill as well as improving strength, endurance and speed.

This drill based program is great for young swimmers to hone their skills in a positive environment. Silver Splashers is the perfect class for active adults looking to improve water confidence or stroke technique, while Master Swim classes are geared towards triathletes and competitive swimmers training for their next event. “Generally not competitive in nature, our Master Swim program supports recreational swimming for fitness and is a great way to maintain a consistent training program year round,” says Danielle Parisi, Aquatics Director at Meridian Fitness & Wellness in Hazlet. One of the most popular classes at Meridian Fitness & Wellness is the Parent & Me program which is just

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as much for the parents as it is for the children. “Parent & Me is an educational opportunity for us to impress upon the parents in our community the importance of water safety,” says Parisi.

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According to the American Red Cross, drowning can happen in as little as two minutes and is often referred to as the silent killer of young children. “Even if your child is an experienced swimmer, accidents happen,” says Parisi. “We want to ensure that swimming remains a positive, fun outlet for children and parents.” Meridian Fitness and Wellness also offers private and semi-private swim lessons with clients ranging from 6 months to those well into their 70s. “It is so important to introduce children to water safety and proficiency at a young age,” says Parisi. “Swimming is a great form of exercise for children they don’t even realize they are engaging in physical activity when simply playing with their friends in the water. Learning to swim at a young age has also been said to increase children’s cognitive and social skills.” Although, swim lessons are not just designed for young children; Teens and adults who have never learned to swim or who are not proficient in the water also benefit from structured swim safety programs.

“In my years of being a Water Safety Instructor, I have come to learn that many people harbor a fear of the water,” says Parisi. “Adult non-swimmer classes stress the importance of water confidence while mastering the technique of relaxing and breathing properly which I believe is the most important key to water safety and, ultimately, swimming.” If your family plans to spend time by the water this summer – at the beach, pool or even the lake - it is important to familiarize yourself with water safety skills and risks. A general knowledge of swimming and water safety skills will protect not only yourself, but potentially your family and fellow swimmers as well. For those interested in water aerobics classes, Meridian Fitness & Wellness offers a variety of options including Aqua Pilates, Arthritis Aqua, Aquasize and H20 Blast to name a few. “Water aerobics are suited for those of any fitness level, but specifically older adults,” says Parisi. “Regular participation improves quality of life and decreases occurrences or instances of disability by building muscle strength in a vigorous yet low impact environment.”

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Answers To Your Questions About Celiac Disease which can result in anemia (low blood count). Patients can also develop osteopenia and osteoporosis (weakening of the bones), headaches, fatigue, damage to dental enamel, joint pain, and abnormal liver tests.

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Celiac disease is a condition in which the body has an immune reaction to a protein called gluten. Gluten is found in wheat, rye, barley, and many prepared and packaged foods. When someone with celiac disease ingests gluten, the immune response causes inflammation that can damage the lining of the small intestine. Since the small intestine is responsible for absorbing nutrients in our diet, damage to its lining can cause malabsorption.

What are the symptoms of celiac disease?

The symptoms of celiac can be different in each person. In mild disease, one may not have any symptoms at all. The most common digestive symptoms include diarrhea, weight loss, abdominal pain, bloating, and excessive gas. However a small percentage of celiac patients may actually have constipation or even be obese. Since the disease leads to a decreased absorption of nutrients and vitamins, patients could suffer from iron deficiency

Anyone can have celiac disease including children and adults. It is estimated that 1 in 141 people in the US have celiac disease and it is most common in Caucasians. It also tends to occur with greater frequency in people who have family members with celiac, those who have type 1 diabetes, autoimmune thyroid disorders, and a skin disease called dermatitis herpetiformis.

How is celiac disease diagnosed?

that has a camera on the end. A tissue sample, or biopsy, will be taken to assess for damage under a microscope. If the diagnosis of celiac is confirmed, you will be tested for many nutritional deficiencies including iron, folic acid, vitamin B12, and vitamin D. A test to measure the bone density may also be performed.

How is celiac disease treated?

The treatment for celiac disease consists of a complete gluten free diet. In addition to foods, gluten can be found in packaged goods, medications, supplements, and even certain make up products. Some common foods which needed to be avoided include bread, pasta, pastries, cereal, beer, and many sauces and condiments. Foods which don’t include gluten are rice, corn, potatoes, soybeans, fruits and vegetables, gluten free breads and pasta, as well as wine and distilled alcoholic drinks. Many grocery stores in the area have sections devoted to gluten free products. In fact, many vacation spots and cruises will offer gluten free menus. It is best to consult with a dietician that specializes in understanding a gluten free diet and lifestyle. Your doctor can monitor the response to treatment by following antibody

If you feel you may have celiac disease, it is important to see a doctor before eliminating gluten from the diet. Initial testing for celiac includes a blood test which looks for high antibody levels to gluten. These include tissue transglutaminase antibody and endomysial antibody. Over 90 percent of people with untreated celiac disease have increased levels in the blood. Before having these tests, you should continue to eat a normal diet that includes gluten. If these antibodies are elevated, you will need an upper endoscopy. During this procedure, the gastroenterologist will examine the small Services: bowel lining Adult Gastroenterology with a flexible instrument Colon Cancer Screenings

levels. These will usually normalize within 6 months to a year. You may also be prescribed vitamins to help treat any nutritional deficiencies. About 10 percent of people may have symptoms despite following the diet carefully. While other conditions may contribute to ongoing symptoms, the most common culprit is inadvertent ingestion of gluten. A small percentage of people can have refractory celiac disease, where digestive symptoms do not improve despite following a gluten free diet.

dreaded but rare complication of untreated celiac is small intestinal cancer (lymphoma). In children, undiagnosed celiac disease can lead to diarrhea, short stature, delayed puberty, and certain neurological conditions. It is essential to meet with your doctor regularly and undergo monitoring of antibody levels and any nutritional deficiencies. While embarking on a gluten free diet can seem like a daunting task, there are many resources available to patients to make the journey easier and manageable.

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In addition to having ongoing gastrointestinal symptoms, patients with untreated celiac disease can have malnutrition. Deficiencies of important minerals and nutrients can lead to changes in hair, skin, or nails, ongoing diarrhea, and even changes in taste or smell. Malabsorption of calcium and vitamin D can lead to issues with fertility and miscarriage. Some people also experience lactose intolerance. Another

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Growing up in New Jersey, Dr. Akhtar graduated from Rutgers University as a Henry Rutgers Scholar. He completed his medical education and training at Tufts University and then Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City. During his fellowship, he further sub-specialized in advanced endoscopic techniques in EUS and ERCP.

Dr. Terrany is board certified in gastroenterology and liver disease. While he has a special interest in esophageal disease and advanced endoscopic procedures, his practice encompasses all areas of clinical gastroenterology. Dr. Terrany is active in teaching medical residents and students at Monmouth Medical Center and Jersey Shore University Medical Center. He has given numerous lectures and actively trained physicians in performing endoscopic procedures.

Shamina Dhillon, M.D.

Dr. Dhillon completed medical school at UMDNJ-New Jersey Medical School. She completed her internal medicine and gastroenterology training at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN. During her training at the Mayo Clinic, she received several national awards for her research in Barrett’s esophagus, ulcerative colitis, and Crohn’s disease. In addition to her full-time practice, Dr. Dhillon is a clinical assistant professor at Robert Wood Johnson Medical School.

Junsuke Maki, M.D.

Dr. Maki completed his internal medicine residency at Mount Sinai Hospital and pursued his gastroenterology and hepatology fellowship at The University of Pennsylvania, where he specialized in the areas of inflammatory bowel disease and esophageal disorders. He is board certified in internal medicine and gastroenterology and is currently an assistant clinical professor of medicine at Drexel University.

Penny Turtel, M.D.

Dr. Turtel graduated from Cornell University Medical Center and completed her medical residency and gastroenterology fellowship at the Mount Sinai Hospital in New York. Board certified in internal medicine and gastroenterology, Dr. Turtel is a Fellow of the American College of Physicians and the American College of Gastroenterology. Areas of publication and ongoing special interest include inflammatory bowel disease and small bowel diseases. Dr. Turtel has been listed in Best Doctors in America, Top Doctors (New York and New Jersey), Inside Jersey and US News and Health Report.

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I’ve always followed a very simple rule in my pain management practice. I believe that everyone should leave my office with some level of pain relief. Though the ultimate goal of my work with patients is to help them get out of pain. Too often, their pain colors every aspect of their lives. It’s great to see their reactions when my treatment results in a reduction of pain or its elimination. Once pain is managed or eliminated, we can begin the journey toward physical well-being. In my field of specialty, we have to think differently than most other physicians. Most doctors are biomedically trained. They believe all pain has a tissue injury as a cause. We believe that pain often has a biological/psychological component. That’s why I spend a great deal of time listening to my patients rather than talking. That’s how I begin to uncover underlying factors that contribute to pain.

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We treat pain associated with several debilitating conditions and syndromes including: Herniated Discs, Spinal Stenosis, Osteoarthritis of the back and joints, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Fibromyalgia, Spondyloarthropathies, Myofascial Pain, Pain Syndromes secondary to Peripheral Neuropathy, Postherpetic Neuralgia, and Headaches.

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Back pain is one of the most common types of pain, but is often mistreated. I use a conservative and minimally invasive approach that focuses on treatment and prevention of back pain. Also Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy (RSD): I have helped hundreds of these patients with RSD return to work.

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Effective pain care requires a true partnership between physician and patient. We use a balance of interventional pain management and pharmacological approaches to improve our patients’ quality of life and ability to function. We work in conjunction with referring physicians, physical therapists, and other contributing doctors because I feel this gives me the ability to design a more specific treatment plan based on many factors. Before refining a treatment plan I request and review MRIs, CTs, X-Rays, and any other relevant imaging or labwork. Our facility is certified by the American Association of Neuromuscular and Electrodiagnostic Medicine to perform EMG tests, which is a diagnostic test that helps me locate the source of nerve related pain. This test helps to identify issues such as Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, Cubital Tunnel Syndrome, Peripheral Neuropathy, Radiculopathy and Plexopathy.

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I am proud to say that we recently received accreditation through the American Association for Accreditation of Ambulatory Surgery Facilities. This is an honor bestowed upon only those facilities that pass through the rigorous process of proving compliance in accordance with the state, HIPAA and OSHA regulations, and is generally only awarded to larger facilities and hospitals. I am Licensed and Board Certified by the American Board of Medicinal Specialites in Pain Medicine and

Sports Medicine and fellowship trained in interventional pain management. Please see my website for a complete list of credentials. My staff consists of highly trained and experienced employees that offer a professional, but friendly atmosphere. They include knowledgeable management to answer insurance and billing questions, front desk receptionists, certified Medical Assistants, Registered X-Ray Technicians, and Registered Nurses, all with years of experience in this specialized field. All excel in providing exceptional care to our patients.

After being born and raised in Dnipropetrovsk, Ukraine, Dr. Sergey V. Bogdan received his medical training at Leningrad Pediatric Medical School and then in Saratov State Medical School in Saratov, Russia. In 1988, he started working as a trauma surgeon at the Russian Military Hospital in Leipzig, Germany. He moved to America in 1994 and completed his medical training residencies at New York Hospital and Nassau University Medical Center. His most relevant educational experience was a fellowship done at the Neurology, Headache & Pain Relief Center in Linwood, NJ, where he focused on Interventional Pain Management. Dr. Bogdan now lives in Staten Island, NY with his wife, Irina Bogdan, who is his practice’s manager. They have one daughter, Lena, 29, who is graduating from her residency as an Orthopedic Surgeon and will soon be working in New York City at the Hospital for Special Surgery. Dr. Bogdan has many interests and hobbies including numismatics, playing chess, and reading classic literature novels. He also enjoys taking long hikes in the woods and watching movies, and his favorite place to spend time off is in Aruba. He supports numerous causes and charities including the UJA-Federation of New York and his local Catholic church and police department.

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Rebuilding Credit After A Bankruptcy: What You Need To Know is an “end” rather than a “new beginning”. I try to relay the latter, as it is the intent of the bankruptcy courts to provide the honest debtor a fresh start. This fresh start includes the ability to rebuild one’s credit over time. Let’s address the various subparts that pertain to the overall theme of rebuilding one’s credit: Presented by: Daniel Straffi, Jr. Straffi & Straffi, Attorneys At Law

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Generally speaking, it takes people approximately two years to rebuild their credit after the filing of a bankruptcy petition. I emphasize to clients that although your credit will take an immediate hit, the bottom line is that you are being proactive in addressing and resolving the situation. This is a far better approach than languishing with poor credit for a number of years and getting nowhere. In some cases, it is best to take the initial credit hit, wipe the slate clean, and start to rebuild.

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visit. During this part of the exam, the doctor or practitioner will do a breast exam to make sure that your daughter is developing normally and to detect lumps, cysts, or breast problems. The doctor also will show your daughter how to do a breast self-exam, which helps her become familiar with how her breasts feel so that she knows which lumps are normal and which may indicate a potential problem. The purpose of the pelvic exam is to check the external genitalia to look for sores, swelling or any other problem in that area. The internal exam helps to determine infection and pregnancy. The exam should not hurt. An important part of the gyn exam is the pap smear. In a pap smear, cells are gently scraped from the cervix using a small wooden or plastic spatula and a small brush. The specimen is sent to a lab to check for abnormal cell changes and cervical cancer. Testing for sexually transmitted diseases can be done at the same time. The specimen is then sent to the lab for processing. 8IBU JT JNQPSUBOU GPS IFS UP SFNFNCFS JT UIBU SFHVMBS DIFDLVQT BSF BO JNQPSUBOU QBSU PG QSFWFOUJPO PG EJTFBTF &BSMZ EFUFDUJPO JT UIF CFTU XBZ UP QSFWFOU TFWFSF TFRVFMBF GSPN EJTFBTF

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Chocolate Carousel is a family owned and operated bakery and dessert shop located in Wall, NJ. Chocolate Carousel offers layer cakes, cupcakes, pies, pastries, cookies, handmade chocolates and, of course, our specialty designer cakes and wedding cakes! While it takes a team effort by all our sales staff, administration and bakers to make this business successful, today we wish to introduce you to our Cake Design Team. Chocolate Carousel is proud to employ these formally trained and talented cake designers & pastry chefs. Their blend of talent and areas of special interest make Chocolate Carousel the perfect spot to find unique, beautiful cakes for your special event in a creative, professional environment.

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Owner Lisa Porada is a lifelong resident of New Jersey, living in Shrewsbury for 15 years with her husband, John and their two daughters. Lisa graduated from Rutgers with degrees in Spanish and Political Science and Drew University with a Master’s in International Affairs. She worked for several years on Wall Street and later at a consulting firm in New Jersey. However, her love of creating sweets, originating from a high school job in a sweet shop, inspired her to leave the corporate world and pursue her dream. Chocolate Carousel was founded once Lisa completed training in chocolate, pastry and cake design. Lisa runs the company and acts as the executive pastry chef and lead cake designer. Having just celebrated its 12th anniversary, Chocolate Carousel is widely known for its beautiful cake creations, creative designs concepts and exceptional quality and service. Chocolate Carousel has received a number of local and national awards for its work and philanthopy.

Jennifer started as an intern at Chocolate Carousel in 2009. She graduated from Southern New Hampshire University in 2010 with an associate’s degree in Baking and Pastry. She was honored to receive the “Baker of the Year” award at her graduation. Shortly after graduating she joined the team at Chocolate Carousel. She loves putting her twist on recipes, making them her own. Over the years she worked hard to grow within the company to her current role as lead Pastry Chef. Equal to her love of baking, Jen enjoys decorating and is an accomplished wedding cake designer. Having started her career at a young age, Jen is looking forward to a bright future as a pastry chef.

Kristen developed an interest in baking at a very young age and knew she wanted to be a pastry chef. As a child she enjoyed helping her grandmothers make holiday cookies and homemade fresh pasta. After graduating Central Regional High School in 2005, Kristen attended Johnson & Wales University and graduated with an Associate of Science in Baking and Pastry Arts in May 2007. She joined the Chocolate Carousel team in early 2013 and has been enjoying the experience. Her skills as a pastry chef have enabled her to develop exciting new flavor combinations for stuffed cupcakes and cake fillings and flavors. She enjoys the opportunity to be creative with

Born and raised in Brooklyn NY, Oneydy moved to Jackson, NJ at the age of 14. In high school she completed a dental assistant program, later realizing her passion in baking was her true calling. Oneydy attended the Institute of Culinary Education in NYC. At ICE she had the privilege to work one on one with Chef Michael Laiskonis and later worked at Daniel Boulud db Bistro Moderne restaurant with Chef Ashley Brauze. However her love of cake design couldn’t keep her out of the bakery industry. Oneydy joined Chocolate Carousel and is an accomplished fondant artist specializing in custom sculpted pieces and specialty cakes. She works with brides to custom designs their cakes and enjoys taking the cake from design concept to creation.

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Born and raised in Central NJ, Nicole’s interest in the culinary field started back when she was in middle school and discovered the Food Network. She was inspired to take a cake-decorating course in high school and quickly realized her passion for pastry. Nicole graduated from Johnson & Wales, Providence, RI campus in 2008 completing the Baking and Pastry Arts Program with an Associate in Science. Upon graduation, she was offered a cake decorator position at a bakery in her hometown. Nicole is thrilled to be part of the design team at Chocolate Carousel. She has had the opportunity to expand the scope of her work, use her creativity in decorating a variety of cakes, and work with brides to help them create their dream wedding cakes.

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Abbey discovered her love for baking at a young age by helping her mom in the kitchen. This evolved into a passion for cake design by the age of 15. As an artist Abbey found cakes a way to express herself using a different medium. She attended the Culinary Education Center of Monmouth County under Chef Adrienne Longhitano. She won the gold medal at the Skills USA wedding cake competition and graduated with honors and the bronze leaf award for outstanding GPA. Upon graduation she began her career as a pastry chef and has had the opportunity to work with several celebrity clients. A true artist, Abbey approaches every cake as a work of art. She is so excited to be joining the team at Chocolate Carousel and looks forward to creating amazing cakes there for years to come.

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friend of my parents’, Linda, came to me with a problem. Lately, she has been dizzy with partial loss of vision in her right eye. When her doctor examined her, he heard an abnormal sound in her neck (called a “bruit”). His concern was she had carotid artery Cyrus Khorrami, M.D. stenosis and was at risk to have a stroke. Her doctor recommended a carotid ultrasound. Upon hearing this, Linda was very worried and wanted to know more.

Q: What is the carotid artery? What is stenosis? A: We have two carotid arteries located on each side of

our neck. It is the pulse we feel when we lightly press on the side or our neck. The carotid arteries carry blood from the heart to the brain. Over time, a waxy substance called plaque can build up in the carotid arteries. Plaque is made up of fat, cholesterol, and blood cells. This plaque can harden and start to calcify. Plaque building up can narrow the inside of the vessel decreasing the amount of blood going to the brain. This is called stenosis and can lead to a stroke. Another fear is that a piece of plaque will become loose and travel with the blood to the brain. This can also lead to a stroke.

Q: What causes this plaque build up? A: The mechanism of plaque build up is complex. However factors that accelerate plaque build up and stenosis include high blood pressure, high cholesterol and fat in the blood, smoking, and diabetes

Q: What are the symptoms of carotid stenosis? A: Sometimes there are no symptoms and the condi-

tion is instead detected during a physical exam, as in the case with Linda. Sometimes carotid stenosis can cause a person to have dizziness or vertigo. Sudden partial loss of vision can be from plaque dislodging from the carotid artery wall and traveling to occlude the blood supply of

the eye. In severe cases, a patient can present with small, temporary strokes called transient ischemic attacks (TIA). The danger of TIAs is that they often lead to much larger, potentially debilitating strokes.

Q: What is a carotid ultrasound? A: An ultrasound is a machine that uses sound waves to

see inside the body. A probe is placed on the body. Sound waves are transmitted and received by the probe and a computer creates pictures of the body. This works much like sonar on a submarine. Ultrasound is extremely safe, and uses no radiation. The test is inexpensive and it can detect blood flow in real time. The ultrasound can detect plaque and the degree of narrowing inside the blood vessel. It can also detect direction and speed of the blood flow. Treatment can be implemented to decrease the amount of plaque and restore blood flow.

Q: How is this test performed? A: All jewelry around the neck is removed. It is recom-

mended for our patients to wear open neck shirts. The patient lies on a table, facing upwards. The ultrasound technologist places the probe on both carotid arteries and takes pictures. A radiologist interprets these images.

Normal carotid artery without stenosis.

Small amount of plaque in the carotid artery which is beginning to narrow the blood vessel.

Q: Are there any other tests that can detect stenosis? A: Sometimes the blood vessels are very tortuous which limits detailed evaluation. Also, the ultrasound cannot see the blood vessels when it enters the skull on its way to the brain. In such cases, a CT scan or MRI can be performed to image the carotid arteries.

Q: If I have stenosis, what can I do? A: If the amount of plaque is mild and not causing

significant stenosis, medications can be used to reduce the amount of cholesterol and fat in the blood as well as to control blood sugar. Exercise is highly encouraged. Smoking cessation is a must! If the stenosis is critical, a vascular surgeon maybe needed to clear the blocked arteries.

A large amount of plaque causing stenosis and impeding blood flow.

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What is unique about the family owned radiologist business, Toms River X-Ray CT & MRI Center? Large corporations or hospitals run most radiology practices. Ours is a family run practice, which is very unusual in radiology. My father founded our practice. My mother has been the office administrator for many years. I serve as the medical director. As with any family run business, we take pride in what we do and work hard to provide the very best service possible. For us, when it comes to providing the best of care to our patients, there is no detail too small. We deeply care for our patients, many of whom have been with our practice since 1981. We strive to treat all of our patients like they are a part of our family. As the medical director, how would you describe the many different services Toms River X-Ray CT & MRI center provides for its patients? Our office has as all the equipment one would find in any top-level academic hospital. Our services include ultrasound, x-ray, fluoroscopy, bone density, nuclear medicine, CT, MRI, mammography, and PET/CT (for cancer diagnosis as well as diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease). What is a common misconception people have about your business? Some people believe that radiology tests are long and uncomfortable and potentially dangerous due to the use of radiation. However with modern equipment and techniques, today’s procedures are fast, comfortable, and very safe. Not all radiology exams use radiation to obtain the images. As for the exams that do use radiation, the levels received during a single test are negligible and not dangerous. Please describe the education and skills of the radiologists at Toms River X-Ray CT & MRI. Why is it important to note that radiologists are doctors? Radiologists are medical doctors who specialize in diagnosing and ultimately directing the treatment of disease and injury by using medical imaging techniques such as X-rays, CT, MRI, mammography, and ultrasound. Radiologists are experts in anatomy and the diagnosis of disease. In order to communicate with their colleagues (surgeons, pediatrics, OB/GYN, etc.), the radiologists have to be as knowledgeable as the specialists referring to them. In order to provide the very best care, we must have the very best doctors in our office. All of our radiologists are highly trained and have many years of experience. Almost all of our radiologists have advanced subspecialized training from top academic centers. This allows us to provide the type of quality care seen at any university hospital while allowing us to provide the personal attention and level of service of a family run business. How do you work as a team with other specialty doctor groups in order to solve a patient’s health complaint? All doctors should work together as a team to provide the very best and most complete care for every patient. The more I know about our patients’ medical histories, their current symptoms, and the concerns their doctors may have, the more accurate I can be when interpreting a study. That is why I have a very close relationship with most of the doctors in this area. Most of the referring physicians have my private phone number and often call with questions and helpful information. It is this level of direct communication and teamwork that results in the very best care for our mutual patients. What are the most common health conditions you see at Toms River X-Ray CT & MRI? Our facility sees everything and anything you can imagine. The purpose of a test can range from something as simple as looking for gallstones or pneumonia, to detecting breast cancer with screening mammograms, to diagnosing and following cancer treatment. The health conditions diagnosed are as numerous as the number of possible diseases. How has your business changed in response to the health insurance industry over the past 3 years? With the pressures for insurers to keep health care costs low, it can be challenging to ensure that patients get the best quality care through their health plans. My staff strives diligently to work with patients and insurance companies to keep costs manageable without sacrificing our level of service.

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How do you keep current on new developments in your field? Medicine is a constantly evolving field. Radiology is particularly exciting, with new technologic breakthroughs and advances in imaging. The best way to keep current is to attend conferences and constantly read medical journals. We are required to have 75 hours of continuing education every three years. Since I find my field fascinating, I enjoy reading as much as I can about it. All of our equipment is accredited by the American College of Radiology, which is the highest standard for equipment. In order to maintain this accreditation, we are always upgrading and replacing our equipment to provide the very latest technology and best image quality. What do you find most rewarding about your business? I am very blessed that I have found a field that I love, where I am able to make a positive impact every day in many people’s lives. Helping someone and making a difference is the greatest reward I could ask for.

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So I Have DVT? (Deep Venous Thrombosis)

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which can be fatal when acute. Chronic recurrent PE can cause decreased pulmonary function and pulmonary hypertension. DVT in the deep veins of legs can also create prolonged suffering in causing swelling, venous hypertension, skin changes, and ulcer in the leg. These above reasons are why it is not only important to diagnose and treat the condition when present, but also take precautions to prevent it. There is a general push to administer prevention for every patient, regardless of risk. As a result of this, many patients receive unnecessary therapies, which not only do not provide the benefits desired, but cause additional complications. The guidelines provided by ACCP are evidence based, include new innovations, and provide more than 600 recommendations for prevention, diagnosis, and treatment of venous thrombosis. New evidence-based guidelines form ACCP recommends considering an individual patients’ risk of thrombosis when deciding for or against use of preventive therapy. These guidelines are published in the February 2012 issue of the Journal and focuses on risk stratification of patients, namely a patient’s risk for DVT as opposed to the patient’s risk of bleeding from prevention therapy. These recommendations consider various major clinical areas such as medical, non-orthopedic surgery, orthopedic surgery, pregnancy, cardiovascular disease, atrial fibrillation, stroke long distance travel, and pediatrics.

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Spending Down For Medicaid Doesn’t Have To Totally Impoverish Both Spouses By Judith S. Parnes

A recent article in the Asbury Park Press resulted in some alarm and generated many questions. The headline read, “Medicaid’s Asset Grab!” and in large letters under the headline, the article stated, “families are billed after loved one dies.”

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owever, these words need further clarification because families are not typically billed. Rather, it is the estate of the deceased that is billed. The fact of the matter is that there are rarely substantial assets owned by someone who has been on Medicaid. Understandably, one of the biggest worries of a married couple (when one spouse needs to go into a nursing home), is that the spouse who is still at home will become impoverished in order to pay their partner’s bills. While it is true that the nursing home spouse may not have more than $2,000, or $4,000 in some cases, in countable assets in order to receive Medicaid benefits, federal law permits the “Community Spouse” to retain up to $117,240 in countable assets (cash, stocks, bonds, real estate in addition to the home, etc.). In New Jersey, the Community Spouse may only protect 50 percent of the total countable assets of both spouses, up to a maximum amount of $117,240 for 2014. In other words, all countable assets in the husband’s name, wife’s name, or held jointly—are totaled

up and then divided in half. The spouse remaining in the community is then permitted to keep one-half of the total, up to $117,240. The other half, minus the $2,000 exemption allowed to the nursing home spouse— must be “spent down” prior to accessing Medicaid.

How The ’50 Percent Rule’ Works For example: If a couple owns a house, car, and resources in the bank (including an IRA), the house will be exempt regardless of its value, as long as the Community Spouse is living there. One car of any value is also exempt. Personal property up to 2000 and an engagement and wedding ring are all exempt. However, any bank accounts and retirement accounts are countable. If the assets total $200,000, then the Community Spouse can keep $100,000 (50 percent). If it totaled $300,000, however, the Community Spouse can protect the full maximum amount of $117,240 even though that is less than 50 percent of $300,000.

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It is imperative to understand that the spending down process in Medicaid is complex. You cannot simply give excess assets to a child, unless they are considered disabled under federal law. Any gifting can incur a penalty period of disqualification from Medicaid coverage: the greater the gift, the longer the penalty period. All gifts made within the five-year look back period before the date you apply for Medicaid will be counted. Elder Life Management is frequently called upon to assist with care transitions and the Medicaid application process. Only by being educated consumers, can we best approach the extreme financial realities of Long Term Care.

For couples that have limited assets, the Community Spouse is allowed to protect the first $23,448, even if that’s more than 50 percent of the couple’s total assets. Once the split amount is determined, resources Call Elder Life Management, need to be monitored to assure a smooth transition to 732-493-8080. Medicaid. It is typically too late for Medicaid Planning Judith S. Parnes, L.C.S.W., C.M.C., Gerontologist and when someone is already Elder Care Consultant is Executive Director of Elder Life utilizing Long Term Care Management, Inc., Ocean, NJ. ELM provides quality elder care Services. planning, management and Medicaid application services to older adults and their families. Please visit www.elderlifemanagement.org or call (732) 493-8080 for more information. 931 West Park Avenue, Ocean, New Jersey, 07712.

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On behalf of my entire family, I would like to express my most heart-felt appreciation to Elder Life Management. The services provided to my mother were invaluable.” “I would also like to thank your Care Manager Sue H. Her professionalism was evident in every aspect of the care she provided. She always listened very carefully and her responses were always constructive and positive. Her attentiveness and availability was very comforting. Sue’s genuine compassion and concern were always present. — Anne D., Middletown, NJ

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CW: What were some of your symptoms? EC: My symptoms sounded like reflux however there was some indication of irregular heart symptoms. The hospital kept me for three days performing numerous EKG’s, a chest X-ray (my second in a week), an Echo and a nuclear stress test. Even though there was some indication of irregular heart, the tests were clear and I was sent home with medication for reflux. I returned

to Dr. Deluca still complaining and he changed the reflux medication. I returned again because my blood pressure was still high even on medication and I was still having several episodes a day of severe chest pains. Dr. Deluca was convinced it was the heart and once again rescheduled the PET Perfusion Scan. Sure enough, my left circumflex was 90% blocked and two stents were inserted by way of a heart catheterization. CW: What do you recommend that people do to avoid this sort of misdiagnosis happening to them?

EC: What I went through – three days in the hospital with numerous time consuming tests that did not even show any results was frustrating. This nonintrusive, low radiation, 45 minute scan cannot be compared. Chest pain is chest pain – dangerous to ignore.

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Caring Heart & Brain Imaging is honored to be the first in the state of NJ to bring the AMYVID PET Scan to its residents, and provides this breakthrough in diagnostic capabilities even before Medicare does. Lorraine adds, “We want to deliver this imaging resource to you so that you can make decisions based upon diagnostic accuracy. This fantastic imaging tool can diagnose and differentiate the forms of dementia at even earlier ages. Another important benefit to undergoing a PET brain scan at CHCI is the reduction of radiation exposure. Our scanner does not use CT in obtaining brain images. This is a huge factor for patients who may have had substantial radiation in the past. Caring Heart and Brain Imaging. Early detection and treatment can help slow down the progress of Alzheimer’s disease. If it’s not important to you for your reasons, it is important for your children and their future! May/June 2014 May/June 2014

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Stress-Reduction Techniques Could Help Make a Baby Dr. Allen Morgan, MD, Morgan Fertility and Reproductive Medicine, Lakewood

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ealthcare providers have long observed a connection between stress and infertility, but until now, there has been little scientific research to back this up. That has changed recently thanks to a study published in the Journal of Human Reproduction. Using a biomarker for stress called alpha-amylase, researchers tested the saliva of women who wanted to conceive. The women who had the highest levels of this salivary stress biomarker had a 29% decreased probability of pregnancy over time. The study did not prove that stress causes infertility, nor did it indicate that stress might be the most important factor, but it did indicate a link between the two. How does stress impact my body? We do know with certainty that stress causes several neurochemical changes in the body. Under stress, the body produces an increase in the hormones adrenaline and noradrenaline, as well as cortisol, the primary stress hormone. In the short-term these hormones produce tense muscles, queasiness and an increase in breathing and heart rates. So it’s clear that stress can negatively affect the body in a variety of ways. How it interacts with the reproductive system is less clear – there are many complex factors at work. But empirical evidence suggests that in women, excessive stress may lead to complete suppression of the menstrual cycle. This is often seen in ballerinas and marathon runners. In less severe cases, it could cause anovulation or irregular menstrual cycles. In men, sperm counts, motility, and structure are altered under stress. Problems such as impotence and difficulties with ejaculation are often caused by emotional distress in men. The resultant failure to conceive creates further stress, which results in further loss of fertility and so on. This creates a vicious cycle. What’s the worst stress can do? Eventually, a couple’s failure to conceive could start unraveling the relationship itself. Each begins to experience a loss of self esteem, depression, anger, and anxiety over disappointing his or her partner. Men may begin to feel guilty and start questioning themselves, resulting in relationship problems and reduced sexual activity. The couple may not look forward to sex anymore. The focus may change to procreation rather than making love. This causes an emotional roller-coaster ride, occurring each month, which in turn causes significant marital disruption. All of this reinforces the cycle of stress and infertility. But, there are ways to reduce stress and thereby increase your chances of getting pregnant.

Stress Reduction Techniques Get a Massage improves circulation, which increases blood flow, bringing fresh oxygen to body tissues. Massage can be used to enhance self-esteem, while boosting the circulatory and immune systems to benefit blood pressure, circulation, muscle tone, digestion, and skin tone. Try Acupuncture a method of natural healing that encourages the body to improve overall functioning. The acupuncture treatment consists of the insertion of tiny thread-like needles into specific points on the body. In modern medical science, research suggests that acupuncture acts as a stimulus to the nervous system, prompting it to send messages to the muscles, spinal cord and brain to correct these internal imbalances and encourage healing. More specifically, acupuncture stimulates specific nerve fibers to carry electrical impulses back to the hypothalamus, which in turn regulates hormones and releases neurotransmitters like dopamine, adrenaline, and serotonin. These effects enhance and activate the body’s ability to heal itself, promoting physical and mental health. Stop Smoking Cigarettes or Marijuana. Smoking tobacco has been linked to low sperm counts and sluggish motility. Long-term use of marijuana can result in low sperm count and abnormally developed sperm. Decrease your Drinking. Alcohol can reduce the production of normally formed sperm needed for a successful pregnancy. Watch your Weight. Both overweight and underweight men can have fertility problems. With too much weight, there can be hormonal disturbances, and when a man’s too lean, he can have decreased sperm count and functionality. Exercise in Moderation. Excessive exercise could lower your sperm count indirectly by lowering the amount of testosterone in your body. And as you might have guessed, stay off the steroids -they can cause testicular shrinkage, resulting in infertility. Value your Vitamins. Low levels of vitamin C and zinc can cause sperm to clump together, so keep your numbers up. Vitamin E can counteract excess free-oxygen radicals, which can also affect sperm quality. Free Yourself of Toxins. Landscapers, contractors, manufacturing workers, and men who have regular contact with environmental toxins or poisons (pesticides, insecticides, lead, radiation, or heavy metals) are all at risk of infertility.

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What The Dewey Color System Says About You The Dewey Color System identifies how primary and secondary color preferences trigger your personal traits and express how you are in the world. Two out of three participants in the Dewey Color System test believed it gave them a stronger awareness of themselves. Three out of four participants believed the System better described how they live their lives. For more about the Dewey Color System, log onto www.deweycolorsystem.com.

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visionary. Your power is the ability to visualize the future. You are a dreamer and a visionary-wistful, imaginative and eccentric. You are preoccupied with the future. Your dreams give you the mental discipline to concentrate and stay on track. You need to justify your life by making a positive impact on the world, even on those you don’t know. Thinking about the future energizes you.

giving. Your power is wisdom to know what is needed. You love facts! Your motivation is personal growth. Finding common ground is the game you play best. You calm troubled situations and bridge differences. Your awareness of others’ perspectives allows you to express contrary, unpopular feelings without offending anyone. By keeping people listening, you allow solutions and possibilities to unfold. You accept people for who they are.

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Should you prefer red first without thinking, you are practical, resourceful and

direct. Your power is the use of experience to improve things; your motivation is to better control your world. You know exactly what you want. Money, power and status give you a sense of security but ultimately you use them as a means of expression. You’re not one to hoard your wealth. On the contrary, you would give the shirt off your back for those you’re concerned about. You are ambitious, driven, confident and outgoing.

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nurturing, concerned and comfortable. Your power is creating supportive environments. Your motivation is to understand who you are and what you want. You’re the perfect audience for other’s problems. They interpret your concerns as encouragement to talk about their lives. They feel you can see beyond outward appearances and truly understand who they are. Like fertile soil, you nurture people so their dreams can grow. determined, dramatic and empowering. Your power is seeing new possibilities, ideas and strategies. Our motivation is to become more self-powered. Our search for personal power is certainly no secret. You are reflective and thoughtful. Others see you as witty, clever and full of pride, and they are right. You need to show off your stuff. You are strong-willed. You know exactly what you want from others.

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Should you prefer orange first, you are bold, sentimental and dedicated. Your power is implementing change without disruption. Your motivation is to discover how things are made. You are dedicated to your job, hobbies, friends and family. Your realistic view of the world allows you to identify what is not important. You are a doer and have a sharp eye for spotting physical things that are not working.

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color, personality or combination of hues. It is just who you are. The most important thing you will learn from the Dewey color test is who you are. When working in business or in your personal life with a matching color person, adjust your personality and take a step back. If you are working with a yellow person, slow down and give them the facts. Let a blue person dream: it’s what they do best. You can’t change others, but you can change and adjust yourCrab Table self. Find out your friends, colleagues and family’s color preferences. You will be amazed at how much better you relate once top design you know and understand hue they are. *This article was taken from the September 2013 issue of RetailerNOW magazine.

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Helping Bees Make Better Honey Bees are always keeping busy, pollinating, eating, and turning everything they come into contact with into delicious raw honey. If you want to help bees pollinate the right plants to get the most honey crop try planting these: Herbs- Lavender, Catmint, Sage Cilantro, Thyme, Fennel and Borage.

With the weather changing there are more reasons to pick up a jar of honey than you can imagine. From The Garden Inc. has plenty of options for honey that are sure to make your spring all the sweeter. Some research supports that local honey obtained as close as possible to where you live may help build immunity to some seasonal allergies. Allergies are triggered by continuous exposure to the same allergen over time. Even if a particular plant is not allergenic initially, it can potentially become very allergenic if you spend too much time in the same environment as the plant. Honey made by bees in the vicinity of the allergenic plant will contain tiny amounts of pollen from that plant. This honey will act as a sort of vaccine if taken in small amounts - a few teaspoons per day for several months can provide relief from seasonal pollen related allergies.

Perennials- Crocus, Buttercup, Aster, Hollyhocks, Anemone, Snowdrops, Geranium.

Honey has also been found to be especially useful in treating upper respiratory infections. A study at Penn State College of Medicine in 2007 found that a small dose of honey was more effective than an over the counter cough treatment for children. There’s more to honey than medical treatments. It works great as a reminder of a celebration or a welcome gift for favors and thank you’s. At From The Garden, we offer a wide variety of gift sets, favors and other items that work great at any occasion. With wedding season here, you can give your guests favors with custom labels and tags for your special day. Learn more about our favors and gift ideas at our shop in Freehold, where you can also find our line of body products such as hand cream and lip balm. We are very pleased to announce our new product for spring, a honey sugar scrub that feels great on your skin and is made of all natural ingredients! You can learn more about how the honey gets from the beehive to your countertop at our shop with our indoor observation hive. It’s a great way to see how the bees go about their day and just what goes into a jar of honey.

Drew and Patty would love to meet you and share the benefits of real, local honey with you. Stop by our honey farm on Fairfield Road!

Annuals- Calendula, Sweet Asylum, Poppy, Sunflower, Zinnia, Cleome, Heliotrope. With a full and healthy garden you can help bees in your area stay healthy and pollinate better plants to help create better honey.

Did you know? During medieval times mead (honey wine) was part of a marriage ritual. After the wedding the bride and groom were provided enough mead to last one full moon. They were encouraged to consume this sweet wine to instill good luck in their marriage. Mead was also believed to promote fertility and virility. From that ritual and belief sprouted the term “honeymoon.”

From the Garden Honeycomb Platter Give your cheese and fruit platters a unique twist by adding honeycomb! Ingredients: - 1 From The Garden Honeycomb - 6 ounces assorted fine cheese (try sharp cheddar, brie, and/or goat cheese) - 2 teaspoons fresh rosemary, chopped - Fresh bread or crackers - Any combination of apple or pear slices, grapes, and fresh berries Directions: Place the honeycomb on a serving platter. Sprinkle with chopped rosemary. Arrange the cheeses, fruit, and bread or crackers around the honeycomb. Enjoy!

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Dr. Nina’s What You Need to Know: Deciphering Commonly Used Nutrition Terms “Free” What: The product does not have any of that particular nutrient, or contains so little that it is unlikely to make any difference in our bodies. The definition varies depending on the product. Who and How: Fat free: less than 0.5 grams per serving. Saturated fat free: less than 0.5 grams per serving.

Cholesterol free: less than 2 milligrams per serving. Sodium free: less than 5 milligrams per serving. Sugar free: less than 0.5 grams per serving. Calorie free: less than 5 calories per serving. Aliases: “without,” “no,” “zero”

“Low” What: The product does not contain more than the recommended amount of that nutrient. The definition is specific to the product that it is describing. Who and How: Low fat: 3 grams or less per serving. Low saturated fat: 1 gram or less per serving. Low cholesterol: 20 milligrams or less per serving. Low sodium: 140 milligrams or less per serving (very low sodium is 35 milligrams or less per serving). Low calorie: 40 calories or less per serving. Aliases: “little,” “few,” “low source of,” “contains a small amount of ”

“Reduced” What: The term is used to describe a food that has been altered to take out at least 25% of a certain component. This does not automatically mean that the item is healthy or good for you.

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What: Describes a food, whether it is altered or not, that contains 25% less calories or nutrients than another similar food or totally different product. For example, hummus can have 25% less fat than another brand of hummus or a creamy cheese dip. This term helps us compare products. Aliases: “fewer”

“Light” or “Lite” What: Describes a food that is reduced in fat, calories, or sodium by at least 50%. Be careful not to interpret that a “light” product is “low” in either fat, calories, or sodium. This term is also used to describe texture and color. For example “light brown sugar” or “light and fluffy.”

“Lean” and “Extra Lean” Who: Meat, Poultry, Seafood, and Game Meats. What: Lean means 10 grams or less of total fat, 4.5 grams or less of saturated fat, 95 milligrams or less of cholesterol per serving (and per 100 grams). Extra lean means 5 grams or less of fat, 2 grams or less of saturated fat, and 95 milligrams or less of cholesterol per serving (and per 100 grams).

“High” Who: Calcium, Fiber, Protein, and Vitamins. What: Describes foods that contain 20% or more of the Daily Value of a certain nutrient per serving. Aliases: “Rich in,” “excellent source of ”

“Good source” Who: Healthy Nutrients and Vitamins. What: Describes foods that contain 10% to 19% of the Daily Value of a certain nutrient per serving. Aliases: “More,” “enriched,” “fortified,” “extra,” “plus,” “added” The next time that you are in the grocery store and comparing a product that says light and another one that says reduced, take a minute to make sure you are choosing the best item for yourself and your family. It isn’t always obvious and the meaning may get lost in transition. Hopefully this crash course in food terminology will provide good insights on your path to a healthier you.

ABOUT NINA RADCLIFF, MD: Dr. Nina Radcliff is dedicated to her profession, her patients and her community, at large. She is passionate about sharing truths for healthy, balanced living as well as wise preventive health measures. She completed medical school and residency training at UCLA and has served on the medical faculty at The University of Pennsylvania. She is a Board Certified Anesthesiologist and a member of the American Society of Anesthesiologists where she serves on committees for Young Physicians and Communications. Author of more than 200 textbook chapters, research articles, medical opinions and reviews; she is often called upon by media to speak on medical, fitness, nutrition, and healthy lifestyle topics impacting our lives, today.

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The Witlin Center For Advanced Eyecare

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that affect the anterior visual system. With 30 years of experience and close to 35,000 eye surgical procedures, Dr. WItlin is uniquely qualified to handle medical and surgical conditions of the eye. Dr. Witlin is a board certified ophthalmic microsurgeon who has always been on the cutting edge of technology from

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the beginning of his career. Many companies look to his expertise when new and improved products come on the market, as they feel confident that his surgical outcomes will be useful in encouraging other doctors to incorporate their products for patients who may the need them. People often travel great distances just to get surgery with this renowned physician. Dr. Ortenzio is a graduate of PCO and has spent all of her career in 2 large ophthalmology groups in Central New Jersey. She has specialized training in the treatment of dry eye and utilizing the Lipiview/ Lipiflow system. She also follows the majority of our glaucoma patients in our practice and is particularly skilled in ocular surface disease. Lynne Griffin our Office Administrator has 30 years of experience in healthcare management and has been with our practice for 10 years. Among many things, she is responsible for making sure that the doctors and staff provide the individualized service that is often lacking in large practices like ours. Each patient is offered the best options for their visual results and the training she provides the staff not only from her own experiences but through continuing education enhances the level of attention each patient receives. She assures you will have positive office visits, and

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Our friendly and professional staff will

make you feel comfortable right from your first phone call through your office visit to make your experience as pleasant and easy as possible. Our highly skilled technicians will assist the doctors in your evaluation and answer all your questions and concerns to make a potential surgical venture not so scary! We are dedicated to the care and preservation of your vision and look forward to making you part of our list of ecstatic patients past and present.

Using the most sophisticated and cutting edge techniques, The Witlin

Center provides several types of vision restoring procedures from laser assisted cataract surgery, premium lens implants, glaucoma surgery, and laser vision correction (Lasik). In addition we can treat corneal diseases and some retina related issues that do not require surgical intervention.

Numerous optometrists from all over the state send their patients to the Witlin Center simply because Dr. Witlin can provide surgical outcomes that other doctors aren’t able to by using the most sophisticated technology available to him. The inception of the Precision Laser System increases the safety of

breaking up and removing the cataract causing less trauma to the eye. Many patients are attracted to this technology. The premium lifestyle lens implants can more completely correct your vision and improve the quality of your outcome after cataract surgery. These implants have optical and technical features that allow patients to have improved vision without the use for full time glasses. Not everyone is a candidate for all we have to offer so Dr. Witlin will discuss these things with you in depth at your consultation.

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are referred to us by other doctors or satisfied patients. We do not do routine eyecare but will refer you to other physicians as we prefer to concentrate on helping preserve or restore sight to patients with more serious ocular conditions. We participate with most insurance companies and will submit all your claims for you. We will explain the often complex intricacies of your policy so you understand what your carrier will and will not pay for as some of the services we provide are an out of pocket expense to patients.

We encourage you to visit our website (www.witlineyecare. com) or call the office to schedule an appointment 732-698-9300.

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With 30 years of management experience, Lynne keeps current in the industry as a member of AAOA, attending seminars around the country and running educational lectures. A resident of Little Egg Harbor, Lynne enjoys relaxing with her husband Dennis at their house “down the shore,” out on their boat, going to the gym, visiting Atlantic City and fine dining. She also enjoys her college-aged children, Shane and Nicole, and strives to live by her motto: WORK HARD AND PLAY HARDER!

Nicole Filiano

Surgical Director, The Witlin Center for Advanced Eyecare

As the Surgical Director at the Witlin Center, Nicole is also a Certified Ophthalmic Assistant (COA) and continues her education as a Surgical Assistant. She loves what she does because she assists in patient care and helps improve a person’s quality of life. She spends her free time outdoors as much as she can cycling, hiking and enjoying small picnics. Nicole also enjoys spending time with her fiancé, Luis, and her stepdaughter.

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Born and raised in Elizabeth, NJ, Esmeralda has been with the Witlin Center for 2 years. Her cheery personality makes her a welcomed addition to Witlin’s World. She plans to pursue a degree in Optometry, and eventually become a doctor. Some of her favorite hobbies include cooking and scrap booking, and spending time with her fiancé.

Medical Director of the Witlin Center for Advanced Eyecare

Richard S. Witlin, M.D., F.A.C.S., has been one of the pioneers in refractive surgery in the New Jersey area. In 1981, Dr. Witlin performed the first radial keratotomy procedure in central New Jersey. He is one of the most experienced LASIK surgeons in the New Jersey area, having performed over 6000 LASIK procedures. He is one of the few surgeons certified to do laserassisted cataract surgery, and has performed 35,000 cataract procedures since 1997. The surgical results have been outstanding, with over 98% of his patients achieving 20/40 or better visual acuities. Dr. Witlin is an enthusiastic surgical educator, and maintains faculty appointments at several prestigious teaching hospitals in Philadelphia and New York City. Dr. Witlin enjoys many other activities besides ophthalmology. He is an avid theater-goer, world traveler, wine-collector, and family man who enjoys spending time with his 3 children.

Dr. Lisa Ortenzio

Dr. Lisa Ortenzio is a 1990 graduate of the University of Delaware and received her Doctorate from the Pennsylvania College of Optometry in 1995. Her professional career has been spent almost exclusively in ophthalmology. Dr. Ortenzio has extensive experience attending to pre and postoperative cataract and LASIK patients, including multifocal lens implants, numbering in the 1000’s. She has a special interest in anterior segment disease, especially dry eye, treating conditions from the routine to the rare. Dr. Ortenzio has specialty training for the Lipiview/Lipiflow system, the only FDA cleared procedure that treats the root cause of dry eye. She also has a strong background in the medical treatment of glaucoma, utilizing the most up to date diagnostic testing to treat this potentially sight-threatening condition. Dr. Ortenzio resides in Edison with her husband, daughter and miniature dachshund. She is a member of the Junior League of Elizabeth and enjoys music and entertaining.

Alicia Harbienko

Ophthalmic Technician, Dry Eye Assistant to Dr. Ortenzio

Alicia Harbienko has worked with Dr. Witlin for 2 years. Outside of work, she enjoys the outdoors. Fitness and nutrition are a passionate interest for Alicia since she not only works in health care, but also promotes the importance of living healthfully and happily. She resides in Sayreville with her 10 month old chocolate Labrador named Kobe Beef!

Brooke Sutter

Ophthalmic Technician/Front Desk Receptionist

Brooke has been a member of “Witlin’s World” for 6 years now, first as a technician and now splitting her time between seeing patients and running the front desk. She enjoys going out with friends to local eateries or to hear live music, spending time with her rescue kitties and watching WWE. She says, “Being a part of the Witlin team has been a great experience thus far & it keeps getting better & better!”

Will Stern

Marketing Director, The Witlin Center For Advanced Eyecare

Since 2008 Will has been responsible for keeping up relations with Referring Optometrists throughout the state of NJ as well as coordinating Continuing Education Seminars. He also handles the marketing & social media aspects of the practice. Will resides in Monroe Twp. With his wife Joelle and 2 daughters, Avery & Aubrey.

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Spring Into Senior Savings At Fountainhead 55+ Community

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look at what will be your new home. Modular homes are now the best solution for rebuilding after the storm. They are built for permanent placement on basements, crawl space or slab. Manufactured homes are also available at Fountainhead and can be a solution to private property owners. The subtle differences in construction are undetectable after completion. The use of manufactured homes in land lease communities is the most popular solution as site work is a significant variable in private land placement. The long-term cost effectiveness is in a land lease community. Efficiently combining the home financing costs and land use costs into a combination that is fixed and reaches maturity before a mortgage would. New manufactured homes, averaging just under $100,000 and “ready-for-residents” can be the right answer for people who realize land ownership is the most costly element of single-family home ownership. Especially in the later years, a lot of the expense can be eliminated with no downside. Fountainhead’s experienced housing consultants can offer insights and information in a stress-free environment. Quality construction, energy efficiency and a vast selection of options to personalize your new home make this an opportunity home shoppers should look into. Couple that with an Ocean County location just 8 miles from Freehold, 10 miles to Six Flags, 15 miles to Toms River and Arneytown (Brig. Gen’l Doyle Cemetery), 20 miles to Seaside and Point Pleasant and you’ve found your pot of gold. Land leasing offers less expensive costs for utilities, taxes, trash, and home maintenance. At Fountain-

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Laura D’Orsi Matrimonial Law Attorney Ms. D’Orsi practices matrimonial law in Red Bank, New Jersey, at the Law Offices of Laura M. D’Orsi, L.L.C. Before opening her own law firm, Ms. D’Orsi practiced matrimonial law with two boutique matrimonial law firms in Northern New Jersey and in Monmouth County. Ms. D’Orsi has been a licensed attorney since 1990 and is a member of the Bars of New Jersey, New York and District of Columbia. She has practiced matrimonial law exclusively for 14 years. Ms. D’Orsi received her Bachelors of Arts degree from Lehigh University and her Juris Doctor from Emory University School of Law. She remains active with the Lehigh University Alumni Association. She is a Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney, co-chair of the Monmouth County Bar Association Family Law Committee and a trustee of the Monmouth County Bar Association. She is a member of the Collaborative Divorce Professionals of New Jersey and is a Certified Mediator. She regularly assists the Court with Court ordered Mediations. Previously, in addition to practicing law, Ms. D’Orsi helped run a battered women’s shelter in Essex County, New Jersey. Ms. D’Orsi enjoys travel, skiing and cycling. She skis frequently in Vermont and Colorado. She enjoys spending time with her husband and two children, ages 9 and 12. Law Offices of Laura M.D’Orsi, L.L.C., 52 Reckless Place, Red Bank, New Jersey 07701, (732) 741-3121. www.lauradorsilaw.com

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Dr. Mariam Ghobriel Clinical Director, Liberty Pain Center Dr. Ghobriel completed her fellowship training in interventional pain management at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital and is double board certified in anesthesiology and pain management by the American Board of Anesthesiology. She is now the Chair of the Division of Pain Management at CentraState Medical Center and heads the Liberty Pain Center as the Clinical Director. Dr. Ghobriel is the primary pain management specialist at Centrastate Hospital, responsible for managing acute care patients including but no limited to; spine injuries, cancer pain and postoperative pain. Her training and practice focuses primarily on the treatment of all disorders of the spine and joints using a combination of conservative treatments as well as state of the art techniques for spine, joint injections and minimally invasive surgery. Dr. Ghobriel also takes a personal approach towards managing her patients with focus on how their ailments affect their daily activities, goals and sense of well-being. Dr. Ghobriel lives in Monmouth County with her husband and three boys. She is very active in her community and enjoys running, listening to music, reading and most of all spending time with her family. To contact Dr. Ghobriel, please call 732-303-0102 or visit www. libertypaincenter.com.

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Ever since she was a child, Stacey (Pollack) Rose wanted to help others feel better in their relationships. Friends and family would seek her out, looking for relationship advice. It is no accident she later created The Rose Relationship Learning Center. As she says, “Because relationships don’t come with directions.” Stacey is passionate about helping people create and maintain the types of relationships they desire. Stacey received a Master of Social Work from Fordham University in 1991 and recently completed her PhD in Educational Psychology from Walden University. Stacey’s practice offers individual, marital/couples and family psychotherapy. In addition, Stacey has also co-founded Divorce Support Net, with her colleague, Jennifer Cory, M.S. Stacey stays busy being a mom of two teenagers. She is proud to be both a ‘soccer mom’ and a ‘dance mom’. She also has a ten year old shih-tzu who brings her much joy. In her spare time, she loves to run, work out, and constantly learn to better herself in all areas of her life. To learn more, visit www. staceyrose.com or divorcesupportnet. com. Stacey can also be reached at Stacey@staceyrose.com or 732-5171177.

Patty Ostaszewski – Chief Executive Officer has enjoyed many years of employment at HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital of Toms River. She was originally hired as the Evening Nursing Supervisor in 1989, promoted to the Chief Nursing Officer in 1992, and assumed her role as Chief Executive Officer in 1996. Patty values the team with whom she works at HealthSouth and appreciates their talent, professionalism and contributions to delivering high quality patient care. High quality patient care remains a priority focus for Patty in her CEO role, ensuring that rehabilitation patients achieve outstanding clinical outcomes and superior patient satisfaction. HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital of Toms River has been in the Top 10% of the UDS database as a superior performing rehabilitation hospital for 7 consecutive years. This ranking is based on a program evaluation model for more than 1,000 rehab facilities nationwide. The hospital is also recognized by The Joint Commission for DiseaseSpecific Care, and has achieved certifications in Cardiac, Brain Injury, Diabetes, Stroke, and Pulmonary Rehabilitation. For more information or to contact Patty call 732.581.2041 or email: pattyostaszewski@comcast.net.

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Taking It With You: A Packing Primer You’ve booked your long awaited vacation with your Travel Professional and you’re ready to pack your suitcase. Now the big question is:

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With so many new fees and restrictions the airlines have imposed for baggage, you will have to consider leaving your entire closet at home from now on. Some airlines are charging for carry-on bags now, and other airlines let you board first if you have no carry-on bags. So what are the essentials to pack? Here is a packing primer from Carole Kaiman, Travel Professional that might help with the process.

For a week in the Caribbean: • 2 swimsuits (put 1 in your carry-on so you can go right to the beach) • 2 cover-ups (1 with sleeves for evenings dining on the beach & 1 Pareo) • Yoga pants and 2 tank tops • 2 shorts and 2 tees • 3 sundresses • SHOES: Flip flops, flat sandals, wedges, sneakers • Pashmina • Sunglasses • Packable sun hat and foldable beach bag • Costume jewelry, (leave the real jewels home) and an evening purse Must Haves: • Insect Repellent, Sun Protection (with at least 30 SPF) • Facial and body moisturizer • Make up Bag: waterproof mascara, eyeliner, hair conditioner and shampoo

If you’re cruising in the Caribbean • Add a few more tee shirts and another pair of shorts • Lightweight sweater, rain poncho, and zippered plastic bags for wet suits. • Whatever you forget you can purchase on board or at the ports or resorts. A few years from now what you will remember is the total experience of your vacation, NOT the things you forgot to pack. *Remember, your Vagabond* Virtuoso Travel Professional can assist you in planning a vacation with the most value and added touches to make your experience a memorable one. Our dedication to our clients before, during and after every vacation makes a world of difference.

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Letter From NJAWBO Shore Region President Jackie Berman April Showers Brings May Flowers! The seeds have been planted and now it’s time to reap the benefits of months of hard work. The past month NJAWBO Shore had a numerous amount of opportunities for our members to increase their sales. We just had our annual growth and business procurement event, networking and education meetings. Now members need to follow through with new connections and education they have been given. Follow-up is the most important aspect after an initial meeting.

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Non-members are invited to attend a Shore Region event at member price – mention this article! Dinner Meeting & Installation of Officers May 22, 6:00pm Bella Vista School Road East, Marlboro Luau June 26, 6:00pm Alcouer Gardens Bowne Road, Ocean For details, or to register, visit: www.NJAWBOShore.org

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May is a very important month for the NJAWBO Shore region. It is the changing of the board. As my term as President comes to an end, I want to thank everyone on my board and my members who have made my presidency so successful. I wish Liz Milio, the incoming Shore Region President, the best of luck and our continued support. At the May 22nd meeting, our state president, Mary Adelman, will be installing the new board and will speak on your personal branding. At this meeting, our 2014 Donna Myers Entrepreneur Scholarship will be awarded.

Just this past March we had five new members join and one member rejoin after a few year’s absence. She stated this was the one organization she had missed and needed to rejoin as soon as possible. June 26th we have a fun event planned. It’s our annual luau at Alcouer Gardens. This year’s scheduled speaker is Reggie Flimflin, owner of Basin Bar in Asbury Park. Hear Reggie’s remarkable story and how she had to change her life goals after 9/11. July and August we have two great opportunities to meet other organizations. July we have a meeting with the Greater Monmouth Chamber Women in Business group and in August it’s the NJAWBO Day at the Races at Monmouth park. As the end of my term winds down, I wish you all good luck and hope to see you at a NJAWBO Shore meeting. Energize!! Empower!!! Engage!! Warmest Regards, Jackie Berman President, NJAWBO Shore Region

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We are kicking off the summer season in style with our Walk with Ronald this year! Join us on June 8, 2014 at Six Flags Great Adventure in Jackson, NJ for a stroll through the park with Ronald McDonald, your friends, classmates & colleagues! Last year we had over 500 walkers joined in including teams from Kohl’s, Best Buy and New Brunswick Schools, along with several RMH family teams. This year’s special guest is R&B Platimum recording artist Olivia! She will be leading our walk, but first she will be doing a mini-concert just for RMH! Don’t forget – if you walk, pre-register and raise the minmum amount, you will receive a free Walk with Ronald t-shirt, parking and admission to the park for the whole day! Or, get a team together and hold your own walk in your own neighborhood, any day you chose! Either way, all you have to do is raise $50 if you’re age 18 or under, $75 if you’re 19 or older to receive the Day Pass to Great Adventure! For more information and/or pre-register visit www.rmh-cnj.org

All aboard our Riverboat Cruise! Departing from Bogan’s Basin in Brielle, jump aboard The River Queen. Bring your friends and family to sail along the beautiful, calm inland waters of the Manasquan River, Point Pleasant Canal and Barnegat Bay while enjoying a sumptuous supper buffet, wine, beer and soft drinks. Dance to the tunes of The Point DJ while searching for treasure in a scavenger hunt, all aboard the River Queen Riverboat! For details contact Diana Alikas at 732-222-8755 x. 31 or email Diana@rmh-cnj.org Thursday, June 26, 2014 – The River Queen sailing 6:30p.m. from: Bogan’s Basin • 800 Ashley Avenue • Brielle, NJ 08730-1751 Tickets $75/person Walk with Ronald

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Jersey Girls StayStrong Multisport Club – Tri It, You’ll Like It!

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The Jersey Girls StayStrong Multisport Club is an official USA Triathlon registered all-female multisport club based in Spring Lake Heights. The Club welcomes female athletes interested in sharing training, information and motivation and is open to women of all ages and levels of athletic ability.

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ith almost 300 official members throughout New Jersey and the tri-state area and nearly 800 Facebook followers, the Jersey Girls StayStrong Multisport Club has enjoyed exciting growth since it’s formal announcement as an official USA Triathlon club at the Philadelphia Marathon in 2011.

2014 Season Kick-Off

The Club launched its 2014 season in March with a weekend of focused training, individual consultations, networking and motivational speakers specifically focused on the needs of female athletes. “This was an exciting weekend for our club members to regroup and prepare for the upcoming triathlon season,” said Moira

Horan, founder. “We wanted to provide an opportunity to learn from experts about a wide variety of triathlon related topics and focus on issues pertaining specifically to women where appropriate. I think we succeeded.” Day one activities began with a 90-minute indoor bicycle trainer class led by three-time world triathlon champion, coach, mother and cancer survivor, Karen Smyers, at the Shrewsbury Firehouse followed by an informal dinner catered by My Kitchen Witch of Monmouth Beach. A local fitness club played host to a full schedule of triathlon related presentations and activities on day two beginning with an early morning swim coached by Horan and Smyers. Throughout the day, participants consulted

About JGSSM Founder, Moira Horan

with industry experts, received individual coaching and enjoyed fitness classes under one roof in an expo-like setting. Smyers served as featured motivational speaker to share her story and discuss how to train like a champion. Industry experts offered presentations, including: training and race day nutrition, the importance of advanced directives, injury prevention for athletes and anti-inflammatory day-to-day nutrition. Representatives from CGI Racing, Cycles 54, DelMo Sports, HUUB Design wetsuits and a local fitness club also were on hand to provide information.

JGSSM Member Benefits In addition to the annual kick-off event, Club members enjoy ongoing training, education and encouragement from female athletes at all levels. Other

Moira Horan is a USA Triathlon Certified Level 1 Coach, a Level 2 Total Immersion Swim Coach and currently is working on gaining USATF certifications. She started running in 1993 after quitting smoking and has since run more than 20 marathons, including New York City, Boston and New Jersey. She also has raced countless triathlons of various distances, including Ironman Florida, Ironman Lake Placid and the Ironman World Championship in Kona in 2007. Follow Moira on Twitter at https://twitter.com/MoiraHoran.

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benefits include: • corporate rate membership at a local fitness club, • triathlon related product discounts direct from manufacturers, • discounted entry into many local and national triathlons and other events, • discounts from triathlon related retailers, including Runners High locations in Freehold and Metuchen, Cycles 54 of Wall, Infinit Nutrition customblended nutrition solutions, Road ID and more. For the Jersey Girls, it’s not just what you get. It’s about being thankful for what you have and giving back to those in need. “Our philosophy is to support and encourage club members while remembering to pay it forward,” said Horan.

The tradition of giving back extends throughout the organization with the Jersey Girls StayStrong Foundation, a 501 © (3) charity established to help those in need in local communities. All funds raised are contributed directly to the designated charity. Training with the Jersey Girls StayStrong Multisport Club helps club members get race-day-ready and offers the training necessary to reach the finish line with a smile - whether it is a 5K race or sprint triathlon, qualifying for the 70.3 World Championships or taking a shot at the podium in Kona. It’s always more fun to train with a group! That’s why club members gather for regular group training which includes swimming, biking and running. All paces are welcome.

Join the Club

Visit www.staystrongmultisport.com or download the mobile app at http://staystrongmultisport.mobi/ for information about joining the club, weekly training, special events and more. Club members participate in many events throughout the swim/bike/run season. Women interested in joining should feel free to introduce themselves any time they meet a club member or see the Jersey Girls StayStrong Multisport Club tent.

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