Monmouth County Woman - September/October 2017

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LAURIE LOMBARDI: A CLINICAL DIETITIAN/ NUTRITIONIST AND RX GRADE, PARA-MEDICAL SKINCARE EXPERT. Laurie Lombardi embodies what a true beauty chemist is.

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Peripheral Neuropathy is a nerve disorder known to affect millions of people throughout the U.S. It is a complication found in several different medical conditions including Diabetes, Peripheral Vascular Disease, Post Chemo­ Radiation therapies and Metabolic disorders being some of the most common. Underlying the above disease processes is the problem of impaired circulation to peripheral blood vessels, particularly the smaller ones (capillaries). Without sufficient blood flow to nerve tissues, oxygen and nutrients cannot get into the tissues and the waste products of metabolism cannot get out. When functioning normally, nerve tissues receive nutrient rich, highly­oxygenated blood carried to them by capillaries, however they are easily clogged by this debilitating process. The peripheral nervous system eventually becomes distressed and damaged due to starvation and toxicity. In advanced cases of diabetic neuropathy, blood glucose can also damage the walls of these tiny blood vessels supplying nerves, especially those in the legs and feet.

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MicroVas is a FDA cleared, non­invasive vascular treatment system that delivers electromagnetic energy to targeted areas of the body. After years of research, this technology was originally developed to treat Navy SEAL divers for hypothermia. It has since been engineered as a ground­breaking innovation with the ability to address the root cause of neuropathy, often a lack of nerve fiber circulation in the injured area. MicroVas’ powerful, deeply penetrating waveform causes blood to pump and circulate much more efficiently by significantly raising tissue oxygen levels, resulting in a potent effect on the microcirculation. Studies have demonstrated marked increases in tissue oxygen supply within minutes of initiating treatment. In contrast to other technologies available, this process even results in new capillary formation, laying the groundwork for new tissue growth and repair while accelerating the healing process. MicroVas also accelerates lymphatic drainage as much as ten to thirty­fold, notably reducing swelling and stimulating the body’s immune response. Its therapeutic effects are often dramatic, long­lasting and our unique approach of implementation is designed to help you achieve optimal results for long­term relief. My oncologist highly recommended a MicroVas program being offered at a premier area hospital to treat my neuropathy. Fortunately, I found it available closer to home at Rehability. The MicroVas combined with all the manual treatments on my legs and feet by the wonderful therapists’ have helped me make a remarkable recovery. ­ Sal D.

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Financial Management Whole Life Insurance: A Surprising Alternative to Education Funding Debra Serafin, MBA As Director of Financial Educational Services at Innovative Wealth Partners, LLC, my passion for teaching has not stopped upon retiring from public education, but has been transformed into educating clients about financial independence. Open communication, sincerity and the personal touch is our signature approach provided to all our clients.

Shannon O’Connor At Innovative Wealth Partners, LLC, we use a team based approach to educate our clients on the strategies to develop a financial plan that works under the widest range of circumstances and prepares for life’s unexpectancies. Knowledge and education are critical to making good financial decisions.

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You’ve probably heard of a 529 Plan when it comes to saving for your child’s college education. It’s probably the most recognizable vehicle for college savings because of its favorable tax treatment for qualified educational expenses, as well as a state tax deduction in some states. But it’s not the only option available to you. A whole life insurance policy can help you accomplish your college savings goals similar to the way a 529 plan can. But there are differences between the two that might make whole life insurance a more suitable option for you: • Take income tax-free college loans.1 You can use the cash value in your policy to take out loans tax-free to help pay for college expenses (or other uses) without having to worry whether they’re qualified education expenses or not. • Get guarantees without market volatility. A 529 plan likely has funds tied to market returns. While that can allow your college fund to grow over time, a down market could significantly affect what you can afford at a particular given time. Timing is everything. Imagine a market downturn occurring right before your student’s freshman year. Whole life pro­vides you with guaranteed premiums, death benefit and cash value that won’t decrease based on financial market performance. Any dividends paid will enhance your cash values and death benefit. • Have options in case of disability. What if you became disabled while trying to build up savings for that college education? With whole life you have an optional waiver of premium rider to guarantee your college funding goals stay on track. • Benefit from savings that may not affect financial aid considerations. FAFSATM financial aid guidelines currently don’t count your life insurance policy’s cash value as an asset, which means you could qualify for a higher level of aid. A 529 plan is considered an asset by FAFSA. Note: some colleges do view life insurance as an asset in determining financial aid. • Fund an education should the unthinkable happen. Life insurance provides an income tax-free death benefit to your named beneficiary, which could fund an education.

Let’s talk about planning for your child’s college education. ‘Distributions, for any purpose, are not taxed under current law provided the policy avoids Modified Endowment Con tract (MEC) status and remains in force. If tax-free loans are taken and the policy lapses, a taxable event may occur. Loans and withdrawals from life insurance policies classified as modified endowment contracts may be subject to tax at the time the loan or withdrawal is taken and, if taken prior to age 59½, a 10% federal tax penalty may apply. Withdrawals and loans reduce the death benefit and cash surrender value. Withdrawals from 529 plans are tax-free if used for qualifying education expenses. FAFSA is a registered trademark of the U.S. Department of Education. Whole life insurance Is issued by The Ohio National Life Insurance Company on policy form 06-PW-1 and any state variations. Waiver of Premium for Total Disability Rider is issued on form number 82-LWP-1 and any state variation. Guarantees are based on the claims-paying ability of the issuer. Dividends are not guaranteed. Products, product features, and rider availability vary by state. The issuer is not licensed to conduct business in New York. Clients should consult their own tax advisors regarding the comparative tax benefits of 529 plans, as well as the potential taxation of distributions from both 529 plans and whole life insurance policies.

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1 sheet puff pastry, thawed and rolled out into a 14in square. 4 boneless chicken breasts, cooked 1/3 cup herbed soft cheese 1/4 cup fresh parsley , chopped 1 large egg Optional ingredients-chopped spinach, diced roasted red peppers, additional cheese, etc.

Preheat the oven to 400 degress. Roll out puff pastry, cut into four equal sized pieces. Place 1 1/2 tablesoons of herbed cheese in the center of each piece. Top herbed cheese with a chicken breast and then chopped parsley Next, fold the corners of the pastry over the chicken breast. Place chicken pastry seam side down on a baking sheet covered in parchement. Lightly brush the top with a whisked egg. Bake for 20-25minutes or until crust is golden brown.

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Hello, Readers of the Monmouth County Woman! My name is Chris Lam, and I am the proud owner and Publisher of the Monmouth County Woman. I wish to extend a warm welcome to our new readers and longtime readers as well. This past year, it has been truly exciting and energizing to be a part of the Monmouth County Woman! Please be sure to check out our Meet the Staff section on pages 12 & 13, where you will find some useful insight on all of us here at the Monmouth County Woman. I am lucky to be surrounded by such a talented, dedicated and knowledgeable team. Welcome to the September/October issue of the Monmouth County Woman! We truly hope that you enjoyed all of the fantastic things that the Jersey Shore had to offer this past summer season. Now, on to fall, which means back-to-school, changing of the seasons and eventually getting ready for the holidays. But, remember to make time to take advantage of what makes Monmouth County such a great part of the Jersey Shore area, as you will read in this issue. Our mission is to continue to provide you, our readers, with valuable, engaging and educational information that you have relied upon during the 9 years of the Monmouth County Woman. I am looking forward to many years of serving as the publisher of the premier educational publication in Monmouth County. I also welcome your feedback, so please drop me a line! I am always interested in hearing what our readers have to say about our publication. Best, Chris Lam and the staff at the Monmouth County Woman Publication

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Contents

^ Medical Professionals

REHABILITY........................................................................2 All-Care Physical Therapy Center, LLC...............................7 Quality Dermatology..........................................................10 Gastroenterologists of Ocean County...............................18 Professional Hearing Center.............................................21 Allen Morgan Fertility and Reproductive Medicine............25 Atlantic Neurosurgical Specialists.....................................26 Relievus.............................................................................27 Toms River X-Ray, CT & MRI Center.................................29 Ocean Otolaryngology Associates, PA..................31, 32, 33 University Urology Associates of New Jersey.............34, 35 Barnabas Health Medical Group: Ocean Gynecological and Obstetrical Associates.........36 Paonessa Colon and Rectal Surgery, PC..........................38 Ocean Hematology & Oncology........................................39 MonaLisa Touch® North Dover..........................................42 Memory Enhancement Center..........................................43 Vein Center for Women...............................................44, 45 Institute for Advanced Radiation Oncology......................47 Personal Enhancement Center..........................................67

^ Financial Management

Innovative Wealth Partners..................................................3

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^ Adult Day Care

^ Law

^ Fashion & Beauty

Living Well Counseling Center, LLC............................... 8, 9 Levin Cyphers, Attorneys at Law......................................11 The Matus Law Group.......................................................15 EFC LAW PRACTICE.........................................................48

^ The County Woman Team

Meet The County Woman Team..................................12, 13

^ Health & Wellness

Meridian Integrative Health & Medicine............................14 Cleansing Concepts..........................................................19 The Natural Pharmacy.......................................................24 Lice Lifters.........................................................................37 Freehold Yoga Center................................................. 40, 41

^ Pets

BLUE SAGE Veterinary Wellness Center...........................16

^ Orthodontics

Holmdel Orthodontics.......................................................16

^ Home Health Care

United Methodist Communities Homeworks....................17

^ Permanent Hair Removal

^ PACE Program

^ Pediatric Dentistry

^ Professional Dentistry

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Beacon of Life...................................................................20

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We Care Adult Care, Inc....................................................23 Lynne’s Fashion Boutique, Inc..........................................28

^ Life Coach

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^ Assisted Living

Spring Oak of Toms River..................................................37

^ Adult Community

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^ Theatre & Entertainment

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^ Business & Finance

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Pediatric Dentistry

Remember, Damaged Teeth Do Not Grow Back: Use A Mouthguard in Sports! Youth and adolescent sports participation has grown steadily over the years. It is estimated that 20 to 25 million youths currently participate in competitive sports. Along with the rising number of young athletes, there is an increase in the incidence of injury. By some accounts, approximately 36% of all unintentional injuries to children and adolescents occur during competitive sports. Of those injuries, 10-20% are maxillofacial injuries, according to the American Dental Association.

Common sense dictates that it’s a good idea to wear a mouthguard if you play contact sports or engage in any activity where you could potentially damage your teeth. Dr. Max recommends wearing a soft plastic mouthguard piece when playing the following sports: basketball, boxing, field hockey, football, gymnastics, ice hockey, lacrosse, racquetball, soccer, handball, squash, surfing, volleyball, weightlifting, and wrestling. Other experts include baseball and softball infielders on that list. Dr. Max further recommends that the mouthguard be worn during all practices and games.

There are several reasons why people don’t wear mouthguards. Sometimes they don’t know that the activity that they are engaging in requires a mouthguard. Teenagers may not wear them due to peer pressure. After all, nobody wants to be the only one on the team who wears a mouthguard! Others might complain that a mouthguard is uncomfortable or interferes with their speech and breathing.

However, there are five excellent reasons to wear a mouthguard. They will: 1. Protect against tooth fractures 2. Protect against tooth displacement 3. Protect against knocking out a tooth 4. Protect Against Soft Tissue Injuries 5. Protect Against Jaw Fractures

SELECTING A MOUTHGUARD There are three types of mouthguards: • Ready-made or stock mouthguard • Mouth-formed “boil and bite” mouthguard • Custom-made mouthguard made by Dr. Max These mouthguards vary in price and comfort, yet all provide some protection. According to Dr. Sulla, the most effective mouthguard should be comfortable, resistant to tearing, and resilient. A mouthguard should fit properly, be durable, easily cleaned, and not restrict speech or breathing. Dr. Sulla will create a customized mouthguard that will fit perfectly and even match your team colors! It’s often said that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Sports mouth guards not only protect your teeth, but they can protect against many injuries that can occur in and around your mouth.

Should an injury to your teeth occur, you will find the consequences not only inconvenient, but they probably will affect your appearance more than wearing a mouthguard would have in the first place. I hope that this article will increase your awareness of the implications of wearing or not wearing a mouthguard so that you can make an informed decision.

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Managing Rheumatoid Arthritis Have you ever noticed the joints in both of your hands to be swollen and painful? Do your joints remain painful and stiff for a long period of time, well into the morning? Has your ability to open jars, cut food, and turn doorknobs become more challenging? You may be one of the 1.3 million Americans suffering from Rheumatoid Arthritis. Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA) is a systemic, chronic, autoimmune disorder that can cause joint deformities. It can also decrease your ability to perform activities of daily living (ADL’s), cause muscle spasm and shortening, increase ligament laxity, and destroy bone and cartilage. In some cases, the synovial lining of tendons and tissues of internal organs may also be affected. Research suggests that hand involvement is an early clinical sign of RA, with joint swelling occurring at the small knuckles or your proximal interphalangeal joints (PIP’s) and your larger knuckles or metacarpophalangeal joints (MCP’s), and wrists. Signs and Symptoms of RA vary as the disease progresses, and symptoms may go into remission or exacerbate. • Stage I: Early, Acute, Inflammatory: Increased pain, joint swelling and warmth in the knuckles and wrists of both hands • Stage II: Moderate, subacute: Decreased range of motion (ROM), decreased pain symptoms, and weakening of soft tissues and joints • Stage III: Severe, chronic active, destructive: Decreased ROM, increased soft tissue involvement, and increased joint deformities • Stage IV: Chronic: Severe deformities affecting both hands, with the dominant hand being more severely damaged Causes and Risk Factors: The exact cause of rheumatoid arthritis is unknown, but those with a family history of rheumatoid arthritis, are more likely to be diagnosed with RA, due to the genes affecting the immune system making people more prone. Both genders may be affected, but women have a greater than 75% chance of getting RA, with onset between 20-50 years of age. Treatment Options: In accordance with seeing a Rheumatologist to manage RA symptoms, occupational therapy and physical therapy can help: • Decrease Pain in joints • Maintain or increase range of motion & strength

Marian Nashed, OT Hand Therapist Marian received her Master’s Degree of Science in Occupational Therapy from Howard University, in 2011. She graduated with honors and served as the President of Pi Theta Epsilon, Beta Alpha Chapter, as part of the National Occupational Therapy Honor Society. Marian is continuing her education at Thomas Jefferson University, in Philadelphia, PA, to obtain her Doctorate in Occupational Therapy, with an emphasis on clinical education. She is also a certified American Occupational Therapy Association (AOTA) Fieldwork Educator.

Provide education on adaptive equipment and compensatory techniques to resume ADL performance • Fabricate resting hand splints to prevent further joint deformity & recommend daytime splinting options. • Resting hand splints: Allow your fingers and wrists to remain in good alignment, and decrease your pain. • Silver ring splints: Allows freedom to perform activities during the day, while keeping the fingers positioned in proper alignment. The Hand Therapists at All-Care Physical Therapy Center, LLC, are equipped with the knowledge and measuring kit required to evaluate the most appropriate splint to improve function. Joint Protection & Energy Conservation Techniques: • Replacing doorknobs and faucets with levers to decrease the amount of strain on the joints. • Using a pizza cutter or rocker knife to cut up food instead of a traditional knife to decrease stress to the joints • Adding built up, large cushioned handles, for commonly used items like kitchen utensils, gardening tools, and pens. • Using spring loaded scissors that are readily available to open up packages, instead of fingers to pinch. • Avoid using squeeze bottles or tubes, to decrease stress on the joints. A better alternative would be pump bottles for shampoo, toothpaste, lotions, and soaps. • Use lightweight cookware, to avoid excessive load to the joints. • Use both arms to carry objects, close to the body, and avoid using hand to lift heavy groceries and handbags. Rheumatoid Arthritis can have a significant impact on the use of both your hands making your ADL’s more challenging. Recognizing and addressing RA in its early stages will provide the best prognosis for this chronic disorder. At All-Care Physical Therapy, our hand therapists specialize in the treatment of RA and other hand disorders. Contact your physician if you are experiencing these symptoms and ask if an Occupational Therapist at All-Care can help. OT hand therapy is currently practiced in our Toms River (732-569-6556) or Whiting (732-849-0700) locations.

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Counseling Center

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Learning To Cope With Anxiety Imagine... It’s Sunday evening around 5PM. You’re getting dinner ready, thinking about the great weekend you just had, when all of a sudden you realize tomorrow is Monday morning and a new week is about to begin. As you start to think about your responsibilities for the week ahead, you start to notice apprehension and begin to feel overwhelmed. With anticipation, your thoughts start to race, your heart rate increases, and you begin to have difficulty breathing. The symptoms feel as if they are coming from left field, and yet all you know is it feels like a giant weight is resting on your chest. These symptoms, however, are the common body responses many of us experience as a result of fear, anxiety, and stress. When thinking about how to manage the symptoms and emotions of anxiety, it is first important to notice and understand what happens to our mind and our body when we experience a sense of threat. As mentioned above, typically our body responds to anxiety, fear, or stress by exhibiting physical symptoms causing behavioral reactions such as fight, flight, freeze, submit, or attach. These threat responses are apparent in anxiety-provoking situations where we respond by fighting, either verbally or physically; running away, either physically or psychologically; freezing when trying to make a decision about how to respond; submitting to the emotions we are having, allowing them to overtake us; and/or attaching to someone or something who may protect us from the distress. When we are in touch with the physical signs and behavioral reactions to anxiety, fear, and stress, we are better able to identify strategies to manage the symptoms we are having. One way to become aware is to work on engaging in mindful activities. By doing this, we can increase our awareness of ourselves, which can support in identifying

what our mind and body may need to relieve the stress. Ultimately, we need to remind ourselves that our emotions serve as a function to provide us with information, and can motivate us LINDSEY CAPELLI, KATELIN WEISSER, towards some sort of action. LPC, NCC, SAC LCSW, LCADC To support ourselves, it can be important to keep in mind that many of us experience anxiety and stress at some point in our lives. By recognizing when this is happening, we can create a personal toolbox of skills to utilize when anxiety or fear comes up. For some this toolbox may include breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, and self-soothing; while for others it may include distraction through mindful coloring, physical activity, and/or cooking a meal. Whatever our skill set is, it is important to practice them on a regular basis to ensure our anxiety or stress do not overpower us. At Living Well, we work to help our clients develop their own set of skills for their toolbox, and assist them in accessing those skills whenever needed. Our goal is to provide the support, guidance, and validation to work through anxiety-provoking and stressful situations. We look forward to helping our clients find a sense of inner peace and strength.

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A Passion for People: Living Well Counseling Center Gets You on the Path to Recovery They say that teamwork makes the dream work and therapists Katelin Weisser and Lindsey Capelli are living proof of that adage. Believing that true growth can only come from within, they started Living Well Counseling Center with the philosophy that their clients already have all the tools necessary to succeed in life. “Our job is to help you tap into your inner strength to allow growth to occur,” Lindsey adds. The mission behind Living Well is simple: a nurturing environment coupled with a goal oriented approach leads to a positive therapeutic experience. Katelin says, “As therapists we take pride in the ability to create an atmosphere which balances acceptance and change. Our belief is that by increasing selfcompassion, personal validation, and mindfulness techniques, our clients can achieve their desired results.”

MCW: Tell us about your client population. Lindsey: We service a wide range of

individuals including adolescents, adults, and couples/families. We also provide various types of group counseling.

MCW: What kind of Therapeutic Models do you use? Lindsey: We utilize a myriad of

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different models depending on the therapeutic need. For couples, we favor the Gottman Method, which teaches couples to generate better understanding between each other and identify strategies towards conflict resolution. For individuals, we utilize motivational interviewing and compassion focused therapy. Additionally, we specialize in DBT, EMDR and other trauma focused therapies.

MCW: What are the most common issues that you treat? Katelin: While I would say I am

comfortable working with a wide range of issues, I have a great deal of experience working with clients experiencing Growth Comes From Within trauma, addiction, and behavioral issues. I have dedicated much of my time toward learning about how biological MCW: Tell us about your educational background. and environmental factors come together in creating the emotions, thoughts, and Katelin: After graduating from High School in New Jersey, I began my college behaviors we experience in our daily lives. career at San Diego State University. While I had originally started school as a Lindsey: We also see a lot of patients struggling with self-injurious behavior, postnursing major, I quickly realized (after completing my first year) my passion was in traumatic stress disorder, family conflict, life transitions and suicidality. the Social Work field. I graduated from San Diego State with my BASW and went MCW: Do you accept insurance? on to complete my Masters in Social Work at Rutgers University. Later, I returned Katelin: Although we do not accept in-network insurance policies, we do accept to Rutgers to complete coursework toward my certification as a drug and alcohol out of network benefits and will provide clients with a bill to send to insurance counselor. companies so they can be partially reimbursed for services. If a client does not have Lindsey: My desire to study psychology developed in high school, which quickly any out of network benefits, we will work with them on a sliding scale on a limited evolved into a plan to obtain a degree in psychology with a goal to obtain my basis. masters. In putting my plan into action, I attended Roger Williams University MCW: What is the most gratifying aspect of your profession? in Bristol Rhode Island, and later went on to complete my master’s degree in Katelin: There are many aspects of my job which I find to be gratifying. I would Psychological Counseling from Monmouth University. say the most gratifying aspect is when I see clients find their own vision of success and report happier healthier lives. I strongly believe clients are the best experts in MCW: What sets your practice apart from others like it? their life and I am simply a guide to assist them in finding ways to access the best Katelin: Living Well offers a great deal of specialized training through evidence versions of themselves. based practices. Lindsey and I both have vast experience in the areas of trauma, Lindsey: For me, one of the most satisfying parts of my job is being able to addiction, mental health, and personality disorders. In addition, we are dedicated connect with the community. Learning from my clients, and hearing their life to ensuring we provide the highest quality of treatment to the clients we serve. We stories allows me to stay centered and humble. Supporting my clients through do this by collaborating with each other to explore the best strategies to take when the therapeutic relationship, while they flourish and gain knowledge from our working with each individual client. relationship, brings me much fulfillment and gratification.

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Medical Professionals

Lentigo Maligna Melanoma The incidence of melanoma has increased steadily in last decades. The American Cancer Society estimates that 76,380 new melanomas (about 46,870 in men and 29,510 in women) were diagnosed in the United States in 2016. The number of deaths from melanoma is estimated at 10,130 persons (about 6,750 men and 3,380 women). Lentigo maligna is a deadly skin cancer, a subtype of melanoma in situ. It affects women more commonly than men. Lentigo maligna melanoma is one of the subtypes of invasive melanoma that represents 5-15% of cases. Lentigo maligna melanoma most commonly occurs on sun-exposed skin, especially of the face, more so in elderly persons but might affect people of any age. It is characterized by an irregular border, more than one color, and large diameter. Lentigo maligna melanoma is most often found in the head and neck. Sometimes other areas are affected, too. The danger of this type of melanoma is that oftentimes it is mistaken for discoloration called melasma, freckle, age spot, liver spot or sun spot.

Risk factors: • Ultraviolet radiation exposure • Age • Increased number of moles/freckles • Fair skin • Sunburn or sun poisoning • Working outdoor • Genetic: about 10% of melanomas are familial The biopsy, performed by a health care professional (usually dermatologist) to diagnose lentigo maligna, does not influence patient survival or rate of metastasis. Previous concerns that incision into a melanoma promotes its dissemination have been allayed. Lentigo maligna is usually treated with surgery after biopsy has confirmed the diagnosis. Melanoma should be managed by a multidisciplinary team that includes a dermatologist, surgeon, and medical oncologist, as well as other allied health professionals. Since prevention of lentigo maligna is the best option, please do not ignore annual skin checks with your dermatology health care provider.

FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL 732-244-2666 OR VISIT WWW.QUALITYDERM.COM RENATA FLAKS, DNP (DOCTOR OF NURSING PRACTICE)

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Four Tips For A Four Letter Word…Divorce Divorce…a four-letter word, as it means the break-up of a relationship and maybe even a family. Sometimes it’s an event that’s been coming for a while and sometimes it’s a complete surprise. Either way it is life-altering. The psychological effect on a spouse and children is inexplicable and it is incumbent on parents to get some assistance as to how to manage this with the kids, no matter their age.

At our firm, we approach the dissolution of a marriage in a different manner.

For us it is not just another case, but an opportunity to help our client and family to get through the process in the most effective and sensitive way. That does not mean we don’t “fight” for everything our client is entitled to; quite the contrary. But there are ways to ensure your rights are advanced without adding to the hyper-emotion and the raw feelings that are surely present. Our collective background of over 125 years of experience has caused us to embrace a much different style. We have a singular goal to get through the process, regardless of who initiated the action, in such a way as to preserve respect.

2. Contact a lawyer, maybe a couple, and immediately schedule an appointment. The purpose is to see if there’s a chemistry and agreement on how the matter will be litigated. The other reason is to get educated. Divorce has changed drastically; information is empowering and you should get it, you deserve it.

Harry Levin, Managing & Founding 3. Organize and collect Partner & Colleen Cyphers, Partner as much of the financial information as you can, including tax returns, investment reports, bank accounts, credit card statements, etc. Courts do not concern themselves with “fault”; divorce is an economic process.

4. Talk to the kids. Not only are there resources available online, your lawyer can refer you to experienced counselors who can help you get through and give you advice.

The key when facing a relationship dissolution is knowledge! Our practice has evolved such that we find ourselves representing the wife far more. We chalk that up to the reputation we’ve earned for advancing, in particular, You need to know HOW divorces work, even if this is not your first. The the wife’s position, which requires insight and understanding. law changes. You also need to know about your financial situation and what you can expect during the process and after you are divorced. You need not be overly Divorce has changed drastically. The reason for the divorce used to be afraid; some fear is good, but it should not paralyze you, and an experienced important; it no longer is. For example, adultery, while a reason for divorce, does not mean there is an economic impact. attorney is essential. Also, the old rumor that you need a “killer shark” is likewise an outdated belief. The laws in New Jersey have already set the stage for how the financial, visitation and spousal support (alimony) is to be determined. Sure, there are individual considerations but on balance, there will be a fair split of ALL your assets, including any business, along with the payment of child support. If you find yourself facing a divorce, here are 4 things (there are others too) you need to do. 1. Take a deep breath, a very deep breath, and accept that you must “take control,” for your benefit and for the kids. This is not a time for feeling sorry for yourself, it is a time for action.

At LevinCyphers, our approach and mission recognizes that our client is going through a very difficult time and that our representation is not limited to the legal issues but also to the client as a person. We hope that this explanation has been helpful, that’s our goal. We are committed to wife-centered representation, taking into consideration all of the individual factors of your life and marriage. We have successfully represented thousands of clients, helping them to get through their legal matters. If you find yourself needing information or representation, please consider contacting us for an appointment in our Red Bank offices.

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The County Woman Team

Meet The Talented Team Of Professionals There are countless reasons why the County Woman Publications Magazines have enjoyed so much success throughout the years. Besides serving as an important hub where local folks can learn about various business and health professionals, the magazine has built a sense of community among its loyal readers. As a trusted source of advice and information, the focus continues to be on high quality articles that are of interest to women and their families of all ages. Behind every issue lies a talented team of professionals who produce the magazine each month. This page gives our readers a chance to get to know them a little better.

Chris Lam, Publisher

Lauren Shover, Office Production Manager

What do you enjoy most about publishing? I derive a great deal of satisfaction from being able to partner with our clients and learn about who they are, what services they provide, and how they wish to present themselves to their audience. To me, publication media is a fantastic way to convey a message quickly while providing engaging and informative content for our readers. I am so proud of our tremendous team and the passion they have for our clients and readers.

What do you find to be the greatest challenge? I view challenges as opportunities. For the County Woman, there are opportunities for us to continue growing our coverage areas and to strengthen our online presence. We continually challenge ourselves to be the number one educational resource for our readers. What are your goals for the County Woman this year? First and foremost, my primary goal is to continue the same high standard of magazine content, client service, and sense of community that our readers deserve. Beyond that, we will be undertaking a project this year to survey our readers for their insight and feedback so that we can provide the best readership experience possible. So be sure and keep an eye out for that! Have you learned anything new about yourself since starting this new endeavor? Yes, there are so many discoveries I have made. In particular, I have enjoyed using my creative side more than ever, and have been mastering the art of time management. There are countless things that happen behind the scenes of each issue and to be able to produce and distribute the County Woman on a bi-monthly basis takes an enormous amount of work. It would not be possible without our team members performing to their full potential.

What are your goals for the magazine this year? As Production Manager, I have been able to oversee each cycle very closely. These days technology has become a huge part of everyday life. I would like to see the magazine become even more tech savvy. As a millennial, designing an app, or creating the website to become more mobile-friendly would be an ideal incentive to offer our clients. Additionally, I would like to see our social media continue to thrive. Over the past few years, the combination of print and social media is one of the most effective ways to advertise businesses. What do you enjoy most about your job? There are many things that I enjoy about working at the County Woman Publications. From the talented contributing writers, editors, and designers, whom I have learned so much from, to the clients which I have built long-lasting relationships, and lastly, the team of wonderful individuals, whose synergy results in making the publication a success. I would like to thank all of them for their commitment and dedication! If you were not in publishing, what kind of work would you be doing? When I am not in the office, I enjoy spending time with my Chocolate Lab, Bear, and my three cats. I have always had a passion for animals and my love for them continues to grow. If I were not in publishing, I would enjoy a job where animals are the focal point.

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Behind The Pages Of The County Woman Publications Kristina Pruitt, Regional Sales Director

What are your goals for the magazine this year? My goal is to remain a quality and leadgenerating tool in our clients’ marketing plan. I would like to reach even further into the communities we serve with helpful information, especially in the areas of health, women, and children. We have exciting growth on the horizon!

What do you find to be the most challenging aspect of your role as Sales Director? Because I travel quite a bit for my work, inclement weather can really put a damper on my disposition and safety. Sometimes, it can also be challenging to educate business owners on the importance of marketing. Spending money to create public awareness can add up. Our goal is to design a marketing plan using the combination of print and online media which best fits the client’s business goals. What is the most rewarding part? I enjoy getting the opportunity to speak with community leaders and hear about their triumphs and issues. Sales in any field can be a very rewarding position when the goal sits ultimately with the success and satisfaction of your client. Our staff takes a vested interest in the outcome for our clients and in the education of our readers. What do you think makes the County Woman so unique among other publications? Our commitment to solid and helpful information creates a connection between our contributors and our readers. We have bridged the gap for many organizations to work together and for community members to learn more about what’s happening in their own backyard.

Jessica Sochocky, Production Assistant

What do you enjoy most about the Graphic Design Field? To me, graphic design is a way to express yourself and be able to create anything from your imagination. It is a wonderful feeling and highly rewarding for me to be able to create the exact image the client desires to help increase their exposure in the community. I look forward to expanding my knowledge and continue to grow with this ever-changing field.

What is the most challenging aspect of your position? Working for a publication that covers multiple counties throughout the state and the many businesses far and in between is stimulating and rewarding. With so much going on, we continually try our best to be precise in showcasing exactly what our clients want in each issue. The goal is always to make their pages fresh and exciting so that it grabs our reader’s attention. This is a fast paced position that requires high levels of customer satisfaction, working towards the same goal of making an outstanding magazine with a personal touch. What do you think makes the County Woman so unique among other publications? The magazine remains very special to our readers and writers. We offer completely custom design pages for our clients that are unlike any other publication. We don’t just list a businesss’ name and their services; rather, we give an inside look to businesses in a friendly informative format. This helps the business to get one step closer to providing the help or expertise that our readers may need. I have always cherished this about the County Woman because we do our best in getting this information to our readers in a fun and educational way.

Desiree Hoover, Billing Manager

What do you enjoy most about working for the County Woman Publications? The best part for me is the culture of our office and the dedication and personal touch that is incorporated not only into our publications, but also with our customers gives me a sense of gratification. How did you get started working for the magazine? I joined the County Woman team last March. I have a BS in Business Administration with a concentration in Finance and a MBA with a concentration in accounting. I have worked for Aramark, Thermo Fisher and Campbells in various accounting and finance roles. I jumped at the chance, when I saw the opportunity to work for a company like The County Woman publications! As the Accounting Manager, what do you enjoy most about your job? I enjoy finding ways to reduce existing costs and expenses as well as reshaping processes to be as efficient as possible. This will allow more time for strategic planning. What do you enjoy doing in your spare time? When I am not in the office, I like to spend time with my husband and four children. I am very excited about my future here at the County Woman!

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Health Health & & Wellness Wellness

What is integrative medicine? Integrative medicine is patient-centered health care that looks at all aspects of health and illness. Integrative medicine looks at the whole person, and not just the disease or symptom. It takes into account the person’s lifestyle, from the physical and psychological to the environmental and genetic. It uses all medical systems for healing and treatment, from conventional approaches and mind-body medicine, to old world traditions such as botanicals and acupuncture. It cherry-picks the best of traditional medicine and what is commonly called alternative or complementary medicine. It stresses prevention and less invasive, more natural treatments. Integrative practitioners believe that everyone has an incredible capacity to heal.

What is unique about the Hackensack Meridian Integrative Health and Medicine program? Through our program, we offer a cuttingedge team approach through medical consultations with our nurse practitioner and physician, treatments from an acupuncturist, dietary consults with a nutritionist, and lifestyle improvements with our health coach and health psychologist. Patients who are seen in our center get a comprehensive evaluation of the five pillars of health: resilience, purpose, nutrition, activity and sleep. The team consists of specialists who have exemplary training in integrative and functional medicine, treating the whole person—mind, body and spirit. Patients can self-refer to any of the integrative medicine staff members, meaning if someone wants to see the nutritionist, they do not need to see the integrative physician first. Above all, at Hackensack Meridian Integrative Health & Medicine, each patient partners with an integrative practitioner to create an individualized treatment plan. As a result, our patients become empowered to make healthy lifestyle changes.

Empowering our community to reach the highest level of health and wellness

Hackensack Meridian Integrative Health & Medicine has developed a comprehensive health and wellness program like no other. Completely customized and focused around our five pillars of health and wellness: sleep, activity, purpose, nutrition and resilience. Begin your path to wellness with one of our Integrative Medicine Physicians or Nurse Practitioners. To schedule a consultation, call 732-994-7855 or, for more information, visit MeridianIntegrativeMedicine.com

What services, classes and events are offered? To learn about our classes and events, visit our website: MeridianIntegrativeMedicine.com, like us on Facebook: Meridian Integrative Health & Medicine, and follow us on Twitter @IntegrativeHMNJ.

Visit our Center for Integrative Health & Medicine at Meridian Health Village in Jackson at 27 South Cooks Bridge Road, Suite 2-3, Jackson, NJ 08527.

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How To Change An Irrevocable Trust

Written by Christine L. Matus Esq. When dealing with irrevocable trusts, the ability to effect change can be difficult to understand, presenting more questions than answers. The correct answers often depend on a variety of factors, but a good starting point is state law and the trust document itself. When modification or termination of an irrevocable trust is sought, a possible mechanism is for the trustee or beneficiary to seek a court order. When it comes to interpreting language in an irrevocable trust, appointing a trustee or providing directives to a trustee, a non-judicial settlement agreement may be an alternative to filing a court proceeding. In some states, trustees, heirs, spouses and beneficiaries are among those permitted to enter into a binding non-judicial settlement agreement, so long as the terms do not violate a material purpose of the trust, the terms and conditions could otherwise be properly approved by the court, and any modifications sought are not already provided for in the trust.

Some states also allow trust “decanting” as another means for modifying irrevocable trusts. A trust decanting involves a trustee’s exercise of discretion to distribute trust assets to another trust with dissimilar terms. The ability to decant irrevocable trusts depends on state law and varies from state to state. Even if the trust is irrevocable, it may still be possible to carry out a change in who receives estate assets upon the death of the trust creator through exercising a power of appointment. A power of appointment is

created when one person grants another the authority to dispose of property by designating a recipient of that property. It is not unusual for the creator of a trust to have assigned the surviving spouse or trustee a power of appointment. If this power was granted, and the requested modifications of the trust involve disposing of property or changing a designated beneficiary, exercising a power of appointment could be a means to that end. Some states also allow trust “decanting” as another means for modifying irrevocable trusts. A trust decanting involves a trustee’s exercise of discretion to distribute trust assets to another trust with dissimilar terms. The ability to decant irrevocable trusts depends on state law and varies from state to state. For help with concerns involving irrevocable trusts, you should meet with an estate planning attorney to assist you with analyzing your trust instrument and to discuss the modifications being contemplated, the applicable law and the best course of action.

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Making the Most of Fall Harvest, Compliments of Chef Steph Autumn Vegetable Medley with Rosemary and Nutmeg

Serves 6

9 ounce(s) fennel bulb with stalks 2 cup(s) butternut squash cut into 1/2 cubes 1 1/2 cup(s) parsnip cut into 1 inch thick slices 1 1/2 cup(s) carrot cut into 1 inch thick slices 1 tablespoon(s) olive oil 1 1/2 teaspoon(s) rosemary, fresh chopped 1/2 teaspoon(s) salt 1/4 teaspoon(s) pepper 1 dash(es) nutmeg freshly grated 1/3 cup(s) Parmesan cheese

Preheat oven to 425°. Trim tough outer leaves from fennel. Cut fennel bulb in half lengt wise; discard core. Cut each half into three wedges. Combine fennel, squash, and next 7 ingredients (through nutmeg) in a large shallow roasting pan coated with cooking spray. Bake at 425° for 35 minutes or until vegetables are tender, stirring occasionally. Sprinkle vegetable mixture with cheese, if desired, just before serving.

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Pets Pets

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Back to Health: Your Pet’s Spine

The spine is one of the most important, yet frequently neglected, areas of a dog or cat. Taking proper care of the spine is one of the most efficient and dramatic ways to improve overall health in our pets. Many people intuitively know that taking care of the back and neck can improve mobility, soundness, and athleticism (hence all major sports teams have chiropractors on staff). However, few people realize that caring for the joints in the spine can also affect immune function, behavior, digestion, and internal organ function. Between each vertebra are joints which are held in alignment by ‘core’ muscles. These joints and muscles are very close to spinal nerves. If these joints are not functioning properly, the spinal cord and brain will not receive proper information through the nerves that are traveling in and out of the spinal cord at that location. This may result in anything from back or neck pain, to lameness, anxiety, incontinence, autoimmunity, digestive issues, or internal

organ dysfunction. It also may cause improper balance between parasympathetic (rest and digest) and sympathetic (fight or flight) nervous systems, which can wreak havoc on overall health. Unfortunately, conventional veterinarians are not trained in proper spine care. And so it will not be addressed unless you seek out a specialist. This specialist should be a veterinarian or human chiropractor who has taken advanced classes and training to become certified in spinal manipulation on animals. Most dogs and cats enjoy having their spine worked on. These sessions may involve thorough questioning and review of medical history. The spinal manipulation itself is a soft, hands-on technique where muscles and soft tissues are released in a systematic way. When done properly, it can help your pet achieve overall greater health.

We Believe That Every Animal Deserves To Thrive At Blue Sage Veterinary, we believe in treating the animal, not the disease. By looking at the current patterns of disharmony, we are better able to address the underlying issue, thereby allowing the body to function at its optimum level. We provide holistic medicines and modalities which can be used alone or integrated with conventional medicines.

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Orthodontics Orthodontics

Back-To-School Backpack Essentials For Braces! As students start making the transition to going back to school, Dr. Sezer Olcay wanted to share a list of “backpack essentials” specifically for braces wearers. If you’re heading back to school with braces for the first time, we want that transition to go smoothly! Therefore, Dr. Olcay and our staff put together a few helpful tips for all our school-aged patients who are heading back to the classroom this fall.

Eat Smart

Instead of reaching for that candy bar at break time, choose something else that won’t harm your braces, like yogurt or applesauce. If you carry your lunch, be sure everything you take along with you is bracesfriendly. You can still take sandwiches as long as you cut them into small, bite-sized pieces. Soft fruits are great, like bananas and oranges, as are softer vegetables like cucumbers and peppers.

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Carry A Braces Care Kit

It’s a great idea to take a braces care kit along with you to school that you can keep in your backpack or locker. Just use a small zippered pouch or something similar that has a toothbrush, toothpaste, dental wax and extra elastics inside. Then, after lunch, you can slip into the bathroom to brush or floss your teeth. Simply place a small bit of wax onto an irritating piece for relief. If something does become loose or broken on your braces, contact us right away instead of waiting until your next appointment.

Wear A Mouthguard While Playing Sports

A mouthguard should be worn whenever you’re playing a sport or when you’re partaking in any physical activity that poses a risk of injury to the mouth. There are special mouthguards made specifically for people wearing braces that you can find easily online. Just be sure the mouthguard you choose fits well and makes it easy for you to speak and breathe. Dr. Olcay and her staff wish all our school-aged patients good luck in the new school year! Holmdel Orthodontics offers a wide range of orthodontic services to ensure we can meet the needs of every patient we serve. If you have further questions, contact us today and our friendly staff will be happy to help!

Dr. Sezer Olcay is not your typical orthodontist. In fact, it is not uncommon for her patients to keep in touch with her and actually form caring relationships. She has been practicing Orthodontics in Monmouth County for the past 12 years, dealing with discrepancies and misalignments of the teeth and jaw. The official name of the specialty is “Orthodontics and Dento-facial Orthopedics.” She adds, “It is not just correction of crooked teeth, but also facial/jaw bone problems, such as under and over bite issues.”

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Dementia And Comfort Care Deborah Walsh,

Executive Director, HomeWorks The overall goal of comfort care is to achieve the best quality of life, focusing on relieving pain and other distressing symptoms including agitation, anxiety, poor appetite, loneliness, and boredom. When there is no medical cure for a disease, such as dementia, comfort care is the only option. It is provided by professional staff and organizations with expertise in treating physical symptoms as well as emotional and spiritual concerns, and can be provided anywhere – at home, in the hospital, and in residential care facilities such as nursing homes. Although a cure for dementia has not been discovered, you should never expect to hear the words, “There is nothing more we can do.” In fact, there is always something that can be done to improve the comfort of someone with dementia. Staff members who are truly devoted to comfort care can be expected to abide by certain principles of care. Principle #1: Staff members anticipate the needs of people with dementia. For example, offering food and fluids before hunger and thirst develop, managing pain before it is out of control, helping someone rest before fatigue, and engaging someone in pleasant activities before boredom and loneliness set in. Principle #2: Staff members know each person so well that basic needs never become major problems. This means being knowledgeable about an individual’s important life events, family members, and friends as well as one’s current and past interests and preferences. For example, the person may like to drink a particular type of tea or listen to a favorite type of music. Principle #3: Staff members will embrace the philosophy of “person-directed care.” This describes a style of care suited to the needs of each person rather than routines and activities imposed by the organization. For example, each person can awaken naturally rather than be awakened for medications or breakfast and can

eat meals and snacks whenever preferred. Staff efficiency and schedules take a backseat to one’s personal likes and dislikes. Principle #4: Staff members use a “soft approach.” A “soft approach” refers to adapting to one’s pace to suit the needs of the people with dementia whose memories, language, and thinking abilities have diminished. A soft approach involves using verbal and non-verbal ways to promote communication, decrease frustration, and increase a sense of trust and safety in the person with dementia. Principle #5: Staff members recognize and treat pain aggressively. Unrecognized and untreated pain can have terrible effects on the mind, body, emotions, and spirit of anyone – but pain has added negative effects on people with dementia. They may no longer be able to respond to the question, “Are you in pain?” They may communicate their distress through aggressive behavior or other unpleasant ways such as crying, screaming, or moaning. Non-drug interventions may provide relief in addition to medications. Simple things like repositioning, applying ice or heat packs, offering favorite snacks, giving massages, and praying or singing with the person can ease discomfort. Principle #6: Staff members recognize you as a true partner in care. Relatives and friends provide valuable information about the individual’s needs, history, values, beliefs, and interests and are encouraged to participate in creating a positive caring environment. In the comfort care approach, options must be carefully considered with each decision. Both the benefits and burdens of treatment and non-treatment should be discussed, keeping in the forefront that the comfort of the person with dementia drives every decision.

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October Is Breast Cancer Awareness Month! Breast cancer is the second most common kind of cancer in women. About 1 in 8 women born today in the United States will get breast cancer at some point. The good news is that many women can survive breast cancer if it’s found and treated early. A mammogram – the screening test for breast cancer – can help find breast cancer early when it’s easier to treat. National Breast Cancer Awareness Month is a chance to raise awareness about the importance of early detection of breast cancer. Make a difference! Spread the word about mammograms and encourage communities, organizations, families, and individuals to get involved. For more information about Breast Cancer Awareness Month, visit www.nationalbreastcancer.org.

Did You Know? • 240,000 New Cases Of Breast Cancer Are Diagnosed Each Year • 25-30% Reduced Mortality Rate For Women Ages 50-70 With Early Detection • Women Age 40+ Should Have A Yearly Mammogram Screening (Don’t forget self exams!)

EARLY DETECTION SAVES LIVES!

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How Hearing Loss Affects Seniors Contributed by Lisa Packer, staff writer, Healthy Hearing Imagine being cut off from communication with your loved ones. Conversations happen around you but you can’t really participate, at least not like you used to. It becomes easier to just stay home than to try to go to a party or a noisy restaurant, because it is too frustrating to try and hear what your friends are saying.

Seniors can miss out on the most enjoyable moments in life due to hearing loss. That is the unfortunate reality of hearing loss for many seniors every day. About 25 percent of those age 65 to 74 have significant hearing loss, and for those 75 and older the number reaches 50 percent. Surprisingly, the majority of those with hearing loss don’t use hearing aids; as a matter of fact, studies show that fewer than one out of three people over the age of 70 who need hearing aids has actually used them.

EMOTIONAL IMPACT OF HEARING LOSS FOR SENIORS

If you are among the many senior citizens who have hearing loss, you know that more than any other sensory deficit, hearing loss cuts you off from other people. And the emotional toll alone is devastating, let alone the toll on physical and social health. Problems that stem from hearing loss in the elderly include: • Depression • Withdrawal from social life • Loneliness • Anger • Decreased personal safety • Cognitive decline • Poor health Seniors with untreated hearing loss report a lower quality of life than those without hearing loss or those whose hearing loss has been treated with hearing aids. The emotional factors involved are a significant part of the problem. Hearing loss adds to the perception that an older person is “slow” or losing their faculties, which is usually not the case. This negative perception from others can then lead to a negative self-perception, which in turn leads to lower self-esteem, frustration and even depression. The depression, anger and frustration of hearing loss do not operate in a vacuum, however. All aspects of life are affected by these negative emotions. Those who are experiencing age-related hearing loss quite often find that their family relationships suffer due to their inability to hear adequately or fully participate in conversations. A person with hearing loss might be irritable, and lash out at their loved ones out of frustration. Blaming others for mumbling or speaking too softly is common for those with age-related hearing loss, as are arguments over the volume of the TV or radio. Another common source of tension is one spouse’s refusal to go to parties and social events because of embarrassment about hearing loss, and frustration that he or she misses most of the conversations.

hearing the doctor’s words about his or her medical condition or necessary follow-up care. Financial matters, travel or even matters of personal safety, challenging even for those of us with typical hearing, can be even more scary and confusing if an older person is unable to hear clearly. Another unique problem faced by older people with hearing loss is that culturally, hearing loss is often written off as just a normal part of aging. True, age-related hearing loss, or presbycusis, is slow to progress; but because of its slow progression, seniors, their family members and their doctors are often slower to acknowledge hearing loss, and do not take it seriously. And even those who eventually do seek treatment are not in any hurry; the average amount of time between noticing hearing loss and seeking treatment is 10 years. Regular medical care isn’t helpful either; surveys show that only 14 percent of doctors make hearing loss screening a regular part of a physical exam. All of this adds up to an epidemic of untreated hearing loss for seniors.

SENIORS WITH HEARING LOSS FACE PHYSICAL CHALLENGES

Hearing loss can also take a toll on the physical health of the elderly, whether in the form of diminished personal safety, disease or falls. Those with hearing loss might have difficulty hearing an alarm or a siren, or might not hear someone shouting a warning. They might not hear a doctor’s instructions regarding medication or other vital medical information. And studies have shown due to balance issues, those with untreated hearing loss are three times more likely to suffer falls than those without. The social isolation that often accompanies hearing loss can also be detrimental. Those who are socially isolated are less likely to exercise and more likely to drink, smoke and have an unhealthy diet. These in turn lead to poor physical health and conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure and heart disease. And social isolation due to hearing loss has also been linked to higher rates of cognitive decline in the elderly. In short, hearing loss affects every aspect of life for seniors, from physical well-being to emotional health and family relationships. Seeking treatment for your hearing loss can help you re-engage in life once again.

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Three-Parent Baby? ZikatheVirus and Fertility Can a human have genetic makeup from three people? What Every Woman Needs to Know

Practice Enhanced by Dr. Allen Morgan The FDA asked doctor to stop performing the Precautions” and suggests a few of the following safety steps to staying proactive:. Allen Morgan Fertility and Reproductive Medicine, NJ controversial ‘three-parent’ baby technique 1. Do not travel to an area with Zika.

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Back Pain? Surgery a Possibility? Here’s What You Need to Know … If you’re one of the 15+ million Americans who suffer from back pain on a daily basis, chances are you may be one of the 600,000 of them who will have back surgery this year. If so, there are several things you need to know. Not the least of which is that, on average, 80,000 Americans suffer from failed back surgery syndrome. And, you don’t want to be one of them. So, how do you find the right specialist? Here are some important tips from Dr. Pinaken Jethwa, a neurosurgeon at Atlantic NeuroSurgical Specialists (ANS).

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To find the best specialist: 1. Make sure your spine specialist is just that – a trained spine specialist. Just because a physician says he/she is a spine specialist doesn’t mean that’s necessarily true. Some of the most common failed back surgeries are a result of quick-fix solutions performed by doctors who don’t have the proper training. Take his/her background, education, and reputation seriously … because, surprisingly, no surgical training is required for someone to call him or herself a “spine specialist.” 2. Choose a neurosurgeon. Contrary to what many people think, a neurosurgeon does not just specialize in brain disorders. Neurosurgeons focus on the spine throughout their entire education – and may spend as much as eight years undergoing intense spine surgery training. They are the experts in spine surgery – and the ones you want taking care of your back. 3. Find a fellowship-trained neurosurgeon. Fellowship training is an additional year of training when neurosurgeons specializing in spine surgery fine-tune their expertise … often with new advanced technology. 4. Select a spine specialist whose practice is more than 50% dedicated to spine cases. Neurosurgeons immersed in spine cases tend to be the most experienced with the latest, most groundbreaking treatment options. They also tend to have the highest success rate. “When choosing the best-suited specialist, be sure you have a complete understanding of your diagnosis. That way you can select the neurosurgeon with the most experience treating your condition,” Dr. Jethwa concludes. “Feel confident that all of your questions have been answered – and make sure you have a strong sense of trust. That’s just as important as the doctor’s training.” For more information about finding the right specialist and ANS, visit ansdocs.com.

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without buttons or fringe – adding a little something different to your look. Whether you want to add a few key pieces or need a whole new wardrobe, we have the seasonal clothing and accessories you need. You will find choices for everyday, holiday parties, or Mother of the Bride and Groom ensembles. This holiday season be sure to sign up for our “wish list,” then send in your family and friends to purchase the gifts you truly want. Our manufacturers begin shipping their holiday merchandise in October and November, and we have the best selections around. Free gift wrapping is available for all purchases.

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“Why Do You Do That?” Frequently Asked Questions During Mammography For almost 40 years, Toms River X-Ray, CT and MRI Center has been serving the community with diagnostic imaging. That includes our commitment to catch breast cancer early with screening mammograms. Our highly trained, experienced radiologists and compassionate staff as well as the latest technology has been providing this exemplary care. Over the decades we have been asked the same questions by our patients.

Q: Why do you need my old mammograms? A: Every day, we receive new patients into the Toms River X-Ray family.

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Q: Why can’t I wear deodorant or powder? A: There are different types of calcifications in the breast. Some are benign and clearly not cancer. Some are

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Many times these new patients have prior mammograms from another facility. It is extremely important to have the old mammograms for two reasons. First, breast cancer can be very subtle and difficult to identify. This is especially true for patients with dense breasts. The dense breast tissue can obscure the cancer, making it difficult to see. Having prior mammograms, Cyrus Khorrami, MD radiologists are able to see any subtle changes of the breast from year to year. This allows us to detect a much larger number of cancers. Second, some nodules and areas of distortion of the breast look very suspicious. However, if we have prior mammograms, we can determine whether these lesions are new. If a suspicious-appearing area draws a radiologist’s attention and we find it is unchanged in appearance for years, then the chances of being cancer are tiny. This saves a patient the expense of extra testing, the anxiety of thinking she may have cancer, and the discomfort of having a biopsy. Prior mammograms are invaluable to a radiologist when interpreting mammograms. Please make every effort to obtain old mammograms. It helps us all towards our common goal of detecting breast cancer and giving the best possible care to our patients.

This mammogram taken in 2017 shows a round lesion in the top of the breast

much more suspicious and are worrisome for being a part of cancer. When imaged on mammograms, deodorant and powder can look like cancerous calcifications. In these cases, we need the patient to wash off the deodorant or powder and return to repeat the mammogram. This is inconvenient to our patients, and extra mammogram images exposes them to unnecessary radiation.

A prior mammogram 2010 shows that this lesion is unchanged for the past 7 years and is not cancer

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Q: Why do you place stickers around my moles? A: Some people have moles and beauty marks on their breasts. These skin lesions can potentially look like

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Q: Why do you place a BB on my nipples? A: This does not occur in all patients. If nipples are imaged in a perfect profile, then placing a BB is not

necessary. However, some nipples are inverted. Other nipples may be imaged not in a perfect profile due to the patient’s anatomy. In these instances, the nipple can look like a cancer on mammograms. The placed BB helps the radiologist not to confuse an off-center nipple with a developing malignancy.

Q: Why can’t I use creams or moisturizers before an exam? A: For the best examination, it is important to have the mammogram grip the entire breast and apply firm,

even pressure. Wearing creams or moisturizers can cause the breast to become slick. The breasts can slide out of position when compression is applied and the breast is not imaged adequately.

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“Is This It? Is This All Life Is, Feelings Of Stress And Unfulfillment?” Have you ever had that thought?

Do you quickly reply to yourself and say, “nah, things will never change. Who am I anyway to want more?! I’ll never be one of the ‘lucky’ ones.” Well, just know you are not alone. Many clients come to me wondering if they should be doing more and feeling lost. And more often than not they don’t even know what that “more” should be. Life has a way of creeping up on us and stealing our dreams, just like the seagull who swooshes down to grab that fish or even that chip near your side! And then in an instant, it’s gone. How does this happen? A woman so full of dreams and goals and ideas and now all of a sudden lost within the confines of her thoughts, forgetting who she used to be and thinking, “Is it even worth finding her again?” I’m here to tell you “YES!” It is worth finding her again. Because I believe, in fact I know, that you are here for a reason and you are the only one who possesses your unique gifts. Do you remember that ever so pivotal quote from Tom Hanks in the movie A League of Their Own? At the end when Dottie gets ready to go back home with her husband and quit right before the playoffs, she says, “It just got too hard.” Mr. Dugan (Tom Hanks) replies, “It’s supposed to be hard, otherwise everyone would do it.” I love that part and even now I have goose bumps up and down my legs and arms. Whenever I think things are getting too hard, I think of Mr. Dugan and Dottie Hinson;

it inspires me to keep going. It is impossible to chase your dreams and to have a feeling of ease each and every day. There will be days you will be outside of your comfort zone and there will be a little voice in your head saying, “Just give it up already, you won’t succeed.” And just know that is your brain protecting you from failure, because failure could bring pain and your brain is there to protect you from pain. But what if you didn’t fail? What if you succeed? And all you needed to do was to tell that little voice to go take a hike! Do not base your future on thoughts that are nothing more than merely assumptions. If you are going to base your future on assumptions, then assume the bestcase scenario. So although it won’t be sunshine and rainbows every day, I can tell you the results will be 100% worth the effort you put forth! As humans we need to have that feeling of progress in order to feel like we are fulfilling our destinies! But as a woman you often put your own needs aside to fulfill the needs of others, like your kids, your spouse, your boss, coworkers and even your parents. When was the last time you thought about what you wanted? When was the last time you explored something that’s interesting to you? Without that exploration it’s like you’re stagnant, just stuck. I often like to say, “Without water a flower will not grow, and if it does not grow it will die.” Don’t let your dreams and ideas die within, you are worth so much more.

Do something today that makes you feel good! Maybe it’s treating yourself to a delicious cup of coffee in silence or calling an old friend to catch up or going to the bookstore to pick up something that is interesting to you and feeding your mind. Grab a glass of wine and an old movie. Buy a new journal and begin writing down all the things you still want to see, do and explore. Have fun and remember, don’t take yourself too seriously because really nobody gets out alive anyway.  You are worth it!

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Dizziness and Balance TongueDisorders And Lip Tie In Children The physicians at Ocean Otolaryngology Associates are passionate upper about lip patient care and lightheadedness, dizziness tie, which is when the upper lip is stuck to theand gumsometimes line. Christina Gillespie, MD, well-being. We find that patients having more knowledge about their care ismost advantageous. syncope. Though infants have some degree of upper lip tie, when it Ocean Otolaryngology With the ever increasing elderly population, dizziness is becoming becomes a much more 3. What do the I doupper if I develop large widespread and tight enough, it may prevent lip from and common concern. We will all experience dizziness at some time or another dizziness? dizziness caninbe flaring out orthroughout curling up, which is essentialBecause for breast-feeding Dr. Christina Gillespie is a board our lives. 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On many occasions, patients will be and infant is excessively gassy. If the upper lip tie is tight enough, an Otolaryngology at Walter Reed Army Medical unsteadiness or lightheadedness. A feeling of being in a fog or the sense of passing out are referred to an ear, nose and throat physician (otolaryngologist) for consultation. infant may have trouble feeding even from a bottle. Center. Before moving to Toms River, she served sometimes described. Vertigo is a specific form of dizziness and describes a sensation of 4.lip What is Benign Paroxysmal Positional (BPPV): at This is a quite as Chief Vertigo of Otolaryngology William Beaumont weIn infants, both tongue-tie and tie can be treated in the spinning or significant rotary motion in one’s environment. Although take it for granted, Army Medical Center in El Paso, Texas for eight common form of dizziness and occurs frequently in the elderly population. Most typically, office. 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Ocean Otolaryngology Has Earned the Trust and Respect of Their Patients If you are in need of treatment for conditions involving the ear, nose, and throat or if you are considering facial rejuvenation, then a visit to Ocean Otolaryngology is a must. Doctors Peters, Gillespie and Kupferberg all maintain the highest levels of accreditation and pursue ongoing education to stay abreast of the latest trends. “We are committed to exceeding the expectations of our patients and providing the highest quality of care,” adds Dr. Peters. The professionals at this office are all about earning the trust and respect of their patients and ensuring a compassionate environment. They all have extensive knowledge in the field and will take the time to listen and give you the individualized attention you deserve. Dr. Gillespie adds, “We believe that informed patients are better prepared to make decisions regarding their health and well-being. Our website includes information on an array of relevant topics and we encourage our patients to peruse these pages when they have a concern.” Lastly, Dr. Kupferberg would like to add that, “As Otolaryngologists, we treat a great variety of conditions with both medical and surgical intervention. From allergies, to hearing problems to sinus surgery, Ocean Standing L-R: Jaclyn Torres, Office Manager, Dr. Kupferberg, Dr. Gillespie, Dr. Peters, & Otolaryngology is equipped to handle all your needs for Carolyn Peters, Practice Manager. Sitting L-R: Katie Samhammer, Front Desk Supervisor, yourself or your child.” Stefanie Wagenhoffer, Administrative Assistant, & Jade Dalbo, Surgical Coordinator.

Dr. Peters MCW: What do you find most satisfying about your profession? Dr. Peters: Being a physician and in particular, an Otolaryngologist, continues to be a very gratifying profession. Helping my patients conquer simple, to sometimes life-threatening situations is truly compelling and satisfying. Beyond anything else, a patient’s heartfelt gratitude strengthens my lifelong commitment to this profession. MCW: What attracted you to the field of Otolaryngology? Dr. Peters: As a third year medical student we had the privilege of starting our clinical rotations. My second rotation was in otolaryngology where I participated in complicated head and neck surgeries. The intricate anatomy of the head and neck was most intriguing to me. I quickly began to develop a passion for this area of sub-specialization and went on to do an otolaryngology residency. MCW: What is the most challenging aspect of your job? Dr. Peters: The most challenging aspect of otolaryngology is without question the difficult airway. There have been many occasions in which lifethreatening emergency measures are necessary in order to reestablish a patient’s upper airway patency. MCW: What are the most common conditions that you treat? Dr. Peters: Our practice treats a broad spectrum of ear, nose, and throat disorders, anywhere from nasal and sinus disorders, chronic ear conditions, and throat tumors, to the dizzy patient. Personally, I have a special interest in skin cancer reconstruction and thyroid surgery.

MCW: How do you stay current with new developments made in your field? Dr. Peters: In order to maintain high quality of care for our patients, I must keep abreast of the latest technologies and techniques in our field. I have found in my personal career the most beneficial means in which to achieve this is by attending the American Academy of Otolaryngology orchestrated meetings and conferences throughout the country. Additionally, I participate regularly in our American Academy of Otholaryngology Head and Neck Surgery’s Home Study Course. MCW: Please share one of your most memorable success stories. Dr. Peters: Although it’s very difficult to pick just one particular case or patient, the situations in which an emergency tracheostomy is necessary in order to save the patient’s life from an airway obstruction is always memorable. Although infrequent, these intense situations are extremely gratifying. Just a few weeks ago, I was involved with an unfortunate 65-year-old woman with metastatic breast cancer to the brain and she developed paralysis of both vocal cords. She was suffering tremendously in the emergency room and required insertion of the tracheostomy tube while awake under local anesthesia. She did amazingly well and couldn’t be more grateful. I wish her all the best.

Dr. Kupferberg MCW: What do you find most satisfying about your profession? Dr. Kupferberg: I love that this specialty allows me to help patients with many different types of diseases involving the ear, nose, and throat. MCW: What attracted you to the field of Otolaryngology? Dr. Kupferberg: I was initially attracted to the field when I was in Medical School. I realized then that it allowed physicians to treat a large variety of diseases

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hearing loss and recurrent ear infections by placing ear tubes. I help children and adults with sleep apnea with surgery, and can help people breathe better through their nose by treating their medical issues and correcting anatomical issues. MCW: What attracted you to the field of otolaryngology?

MCW: What is the most challenging aspect of your job?

Dr. Gillespie: After my third year of medical school I realized the two rotations I enjoyed the most were my surgical rotation and pediatric rotation. By being an otolaryngologist, I have the opportunity to take care of both children and adults for a variety of problems that affect the head and neck.

Dr. Kupferberg: There are many challenges that are constantly evolving. We maintain a very high standard of care for all of our patients and that is often made more difficult by the restraints placed upon us by insurance companies and governmental regulations. It is a constant battle to keep up with the continuously growing new regulations placed upon the medical field.

MCW: What is the most challenging aspect of your job?

MCW: What are the most common conditions that you treat? Dr. Kupferberg: We treat a variety of conditions with both medical and surgical intervention. In children, placement of tubes in the ears to help with ear infections and removal of the tonsils and adenoids are quite common. In adults, treating the nose to improve breathing and the sinuses to improve drainage and lessen infections are also frequent procedures.

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Standing L-R: Dr. Kupferberg and Dr. Gillespie. Sitting: Dr. Peters.

MCW: Please share one of your most memorable success stories. Dr. Kupferberg: When a patient comes into the office with a longstanding history of sinus disease and the inability to breathe through their nose, they are often frustrated and unhappy. I recall operating on such a patient who also suffered from chronic sinusitis and nasal polyps. I performed a septoplasty, turbinate reductions, endoscopic sinus surgery. This opened up the breathing passages and allowed his sinuses to drain more efficiently. This resulted in the ability to breathe better and have less sinus infections. The surgery improved his overall quality of life.

Dr. Gillespie: Dealing with insurance companies and all of the different rules and regulations can be difficult. We spend a lot of time getting medications, radiologic studies, and procedures approved by patient’s insurance companies. The majority of our patients’ we can help. However, occasionally we will hit a roadblock where an insurance company will not cover something. MCW: What are the most common conditions that you treat?

Dr. Gillespie: The most common conditions I treat affect both children and adults. For children, I treat lip-tie, tongue-tie, recurrent ear infections, hearing loss, nasal obstruction, tonsillitis, and obstructive sleep apnea. For adults, I treat nasal obstruction, obstructive sleep apnea, chronic sinus problems, chronic tonsillitis, deviated nasal septums, hearing loss and cerumen impactions. I take care of people across all age groups. MCW: Please share one of your most memorable success stories.

MCW: How do you stay current with new developments made in your field?

Dr. Gillespie: Some of my most memorable success stories are when I take care of an entire family’s ENT issues. I have one family that I have placed ear tubes in one child and removed the adenoids and tonsils in another child for sleep apnea. I have also cared for their mother for a thyroid problem. It is very satisfying to see them all back in the office doing well.

Dr. Kupferberg: I read several journals and listen to lectures on Audiodigest that are pertinent to my field. I also attend regional and national conferences to broaden my understanding of different topics in the field.

MCW: How do you stay current with new developments made in your field?

Dr. Gillespie MCW: What do you find most satisfying about your profession? Dr. Gillespie: Having the ability to help people, is the most satisfying part of my job. Every day I see patients with a variety of problems. Through either medical therapy or surgery, I can often make them better. I can help children with

Dr. Gillespie: I participate in the Home Study Course sponsored by the American Academy of Otolaryngology. Every few months, I review 20-30 articles concerning current research and information about a variety of ENT issues. I read medical journals and attend conferences annually as well. Last year, I attended the annual meeting of the American Academy of Otolaryngology in California. I also participate in the professional organization, the American Academy of Otolaryngology serving on various committees such as the Education Committee and the Board of Governors Governance Committee.

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Meet The Doctors Of University Urology Associates of New Jersey Mukaram Gazi, MD, FACS Dr. Mukaram Gazi, the founding member of UUANJ, graduated from the University of Miami School of Medicine and completed his post-graduate training in urology at UMDNJ Robert Wood Johnson Medical School (now known as Rutgers RWJ Medical School) in New Brunswick, NJ. In practice since 2003, this exceptionally skilled, minimally invasive surgeon treats the full range of urinary tract and male reproductive disorders—from no-scalpel vasectomies, erectile dysfunction, and urinary incontinence to state-of-the-art robotic surgery for prostate cancer and enlarged prostate (BPH). Dr. Gazi is devoted to his patients, treating them like family in a compassionate and caring manner. He is board certified in urology, has advanced training in sub-specialties such as uro-oncology and pelvic floor reconstruction, as well as pediatric urology. He is currently an Adjunct Clinical Professor at Fox Chase Cancer Center and Clinical Assistant Professor at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School. Dr. Gazi’s background and expertise, combined with honest communication, have earned him recognition as one of America’s Top Urologists by Consumers’ Research Council of America and Castle Connolly Medical, Ltd., and again this year as a Top Doctor by New Jersey Monthly.

Parvez Mahmood, MD, FACS Dr. Mahmood has been in practice in Ocean County since 1974. He received his training in New York City at Mount Sinai Hospital, New York University Medical Center, Bellevue Hospital Center and Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. He is currently an Adjunct Clinical Professor at Fox Chase Cancer Center and Clinical Assistant Professor at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School. Dr. Mahmood is board certified in urology and is a Fellow of the American College of Surgeons.

Alexander Gotesman, Alexander Gotesman, MDMD Dr. Gotesman earned his medical degree from the State University of New York at Stony Brook and completed his urology residency training program at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York in 2005. After graduation, Dr. Gotesman completed five years of clinical research in Urology and he currently specializes in adult and pediatric ambulatory urology. He maintains strong affiliations with many local and national medical societies and is a member of the prestigious Alpha Omega Alpha medical honor society. Dr. Gotesman has received several awards and recognition for his, patient-centered care philosophy. He Joined UUANJ in 2012.

WHAT IS A UROLOGIST? A urologist is a physician who has been trained to treat disorders of the male and female urinary tract (bladder, ureter, kidney, and urethra) and the male reproductive system. Urologists encounter many issues and must have knowledge of internal medicine, pediatrics, gynecology, and other specialties as they are used regularly. Urology is classified as a surgical subspecialty. A urologist with advanced qualifications in surgery may be a Fellow of the American College of Surgeons (FACS).

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Meet The Doctors Of University Urology Associates of New Jersey Imani Rosario, MD Dr. Rosario earned her medical degree from the Georgetown University School of Medicine and completed her post-graduate training in urology at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. After completing her training, Dr. Rosario was appointed Assistant Professor of Surgery in the Division of Urology at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. In this position, she was responsible for training and teaching medical students, general surgeons and urologists in training. Dr. Rosario is Board Certified by the American Board of Urology. She joined UUANJ in 2016.

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“ The staff at University Urology have helped me and my family get through the most difficult time in my life. I had a biopsy after my PSA test came back abnormal. My wife and I were devastated to hear that I had prostate cancer. The doctors and physician assistants were very caring and knowledgeable. They gave me all my options and discussed the pros and cons of each treatment option. They walked us through the entire process and care plan and provided us with all the literature so we could refer back to it when needed. I couldn’t ask for a better team.” — B.B Howell, NJ

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Understanding Endometriosis: Q & A with Christopher Eswar, MD Women experiencing pelvic pain, painful periods, pain with intercourse, heavy menstrual bleeding and infertility may be suffering from endometriosis. The condition, which affects about 6 to 10 percent of females, age 15 to 45, who are of reproductive age, occurs when endometrial tissue is found outside of the uterus. Christopher Eswar, MD, a fellowshiptrained gynecologic surgeon with Barnabas Health Medical Group, is known for his expertise in robotic and advanced laparoscopic surgery. He treats conditions like endometriosis, pelvic pain and bladder pain syndrome, and specializes in hysterectomies and the removal of uterine fibroids. Dr. Eswar is affiliated with Monmouth Medical Center in Long Branch and Community Medical Center in Toms River, both RWJBarnabas Health facilities.

Q: What are common signs and

symptoms of endometriosis?

A: Dr. Eswar: Pelvic pain is the primary symptom which usually starts out with cyclical pain leading up to monthly periods. After the first couple of days of a woman’s period, the pain typically

subsides. However, the condition may lead up to chronic pain every day, not just during the menstrual cycle.

hormonal control. If these treatment methods don’t work, other procedures are recommended, which may include:

Common symptoms include: pain with intercourse, pain with bowel movements or urination, excessive bleeding during periods and infertility.

• Laparoscopy – This is the “gold” standard to diagnosis and remove endometriosis. Through this minimally invasive surgical procedure, the surgeon inserts a slender viewing instrument called a laparoscope through a small incision into the abdomen and inserts instruments to remove endometrial tissue through another incision. Recovery time following a laparoscopic procedure is quick, enabling women to resume their normal activities much sooner.

Q: What’s the main complication of endometriosis?

A: Dr. Eswar: Endometriosis can cause

issues with fertility. Some of my patients didn’t realize they had endometriosis until they had trouble conceiving. Only after testing, it was determined their infertility was due to endometriosis.

Q: How is endometriosis treated? A: Dr. Eswar: The first step is to have a

consult with a physician specializing in gynecologic conditions. The physician will conduct a detailed physical, as well as a detailed history about the sources of pain. When needed, physicians may perform an abdominal and pelvic ultrasound. From here, a plan of action will be developed. Treatment includes: Non-steroidal antiinflammatory drugs or birth control for

• Hysterectomy – This procedure, which removes the uterus and sometimes the ovaries, is used for severe cases of endometriosis and as a last resort to relieve pain. It is only recommended post-childbearing and after other options such as hormonal therapies have not worked.

Christopher Eswar, MD

About Barnabas Health Medical Group Barnabas Health Medical Group is a multi-specialty group practice comprising highly trained and experienced world class primary and specialty care physicians. Barnabas Health Medical Group physicians provide compassionate and innovative care for people at every stage of life at easily accessible facilities conveniently located throughout New Jersey. Backed by the vast continuum of resources throughout RWJBarnabas Health, our dedicated physicians and expertly trained supporting staff continuously strive for clinical excellence.

• Ablation/cauterization and excision – Endometriosis tissue is removed by destroying the tissue or removing it from the abdominal cavity, uterus, ovaries or fallopian tubes.

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Hemorrhoids: The Bottom Line Did you know we are born with hemorrhoidal tissue, it’s a part of our anatomy? Hemorrhoidal tissue lies within the anal canal and perianal area and consists of blood vessels, connective tissue, and a small amount of muscle. Hemorrhoids are described as varicose veins of the anus and rectum because they are enlarged, bulging blood vessels in the anus and lower rectum. The only time we actually feel hemorrhoids is when they become enlarged or symptomatic. Dr. Paonessa likes to use the analogy: “We all have teeth, but we all don’t have cavities”. Likewise, we all have hemorrhoids, but we all don’t have symptomatic hemorrhoids. There are two types of hemorrhoids, internal and external. Both can have different symptoms and often different treatments. Internal (inside) hemorrhoids form in the anus beneath a lining called mucosa, which is not sensitive to touch, pain, stretch or temperature. As such, internal hemorrhoids are commonly associated with painless bleeding and protrusion during bowel movements. It is only when the hemorrhoid completely prolapses from the opening of the anus and cannot be pushed back inside that it becomes severely painful.

Internal hemorrhoids are classified in four grades: •

Grade One: The hemorrhoid is not protruding from the opening of the anus (no prolapse). • Grade Two: The hemorrhoid protrudes from the anus but it goes back in on its own. • Grade Three:The hemorrhoid protrudes and requires the patient to push it back inside the anus. • Grade Four: The hemorrhoid cannot be placed back into the anus by the patient. This is often very painful. External (outside) hemorrhoids form around the anus and are covered by very sensitive skin. The most common complaints associated with external hemorrhoids are occasional swelling, pressure or discomfort. When a hemorrhoid is symptomatic it becomes a bluish-colored, painful lump outside the anus. If the external hemorrhoid develops a clot (thrombosis) it becomes a hard, painful lump. When the pressure becomes elevated it can cause the thrombosed hemorrhoid to break down the overlying skin and the clot begins to leak out. Even after the hemorrhoid has healed some patients complain about soft tissue outside the anus called an anal skin tag. An anal skin tag is the residual effects from the thrombosed external hemorrhoid. A skin tag may hinder a patient’s ability to clean after a bowel movement. Although there is no treatment for anal skin tags, they can be removed if hygiene becomes an issue for the patient. There are several factors that can cause hemorrhoids although the exact cause is unknown. Upright posture, alone, increases pressure on the rectal veins and can cause them to bulge. Additional factors include aging, chronic constipation or diarrhea, straining during pregnancy, heredity, straining during bowel movements, overuse of laxatives or enemas, and extended periods of time on the toilet (i.e. reading). Here are some symptoms you should be aware of to determine if you may have a hemorrhoid problem. If you are having bleeding during bowel movements, itching in the anal area, pain, sensitive lumps or prolapsing during bowel movements. If you do experience any of the symptoms do not treat with over the counter medication. Call and make an appointment with your doctor. It is very important to understand that NOT all rectal bleeding is caused by hemorrhoids. As such, it is crucial to seek consultation with a specialist such as a colon and rectal surgeon to be sure that the rectal bleeding is not caused by a serious disease such as anal or colorectal cancer. How hemorrhoids are treated depends on how severe the condition is. If the symptoms are mild your doctor may simply have you increase your fiber intake in your Board-certified in general surgery and proctology and a fellow of the American College of Osteopathic Surgeons, Dr. Paonessa specializes in colon and rectal surgery. She has been in practice for 13 years. She completed her colon and rectal surgery fellowship at Lehigh Valley Hospital in Allentown, PA. She is co-editor of the textbook Surgical Treatment of Hemorrhoids, 2nd edition. Dr. Paonessa believes in patient-centered care and preserving each patient’s independence, well-being and dignity. She provides the latest, up-to-date treatments and tailors each plan of care to the individual patient’s needs. Call 732-282-1500.

diet (i.e fruits, vegetables, breads and cereals) or by adding an oral fiber supplement. It is recommended that you consume 20-35 grams of fiber per day. It is very important to make sure that you drink 8-10 glasses per day of water. Other beverages that contain caffeine or alcohol will dehydrate you so try to decrease your intake of those beverages. These measures help to create a soft, formed stool thereby eliminating excessive straining during bowel movements. This in turn will decrease the pressure on the hemorrhoids. The use of warm water soaks (sitz baths) will also provide relief. There are several outpatient treatments that may be performed in the office to help treat symptomatic hemorrhoids. These include: rubber band ligation, infrared photocoagulation and sclerotherapy. All of these procedures are painless. Dr. Paonessa’s procedure of choice in the office is sclerotherapy. Sclerotherapy involves an injection of a chemical irritant into the hemorrhoid which causes scarring and shrinkage of the blood vessels present within the hemorrhoidal tissues. This procedure is painless and has few, if any, complications. Sclerotherapy is safe for patients on blood thinners. As with any procedure, you will need to discuss this with your physician. External hemorrhoids may also be treated on an outpatient basis as well. Excison of the hemorrhoidal tissue can be performed. The hemorrhoid will be injected with a numbing agent and excising of the hemorrhoid along with all blood clot (thrombus) is done. In this case the entire external hemorrhoid is removed not lanced, so as to avoid any residual skin tag once healed. This procedure provides instant pain relief for those patients suffering from severe pain. Often hemorrhoids that are not thrombosed can be treated with dietary change and sitz baths. There are other procedures that can be done on an outpatient basis at surgery centers or hospitals. These include: traditional hemorrhoidectomy, Transanal Hemorrhoidal Dearterialization (THD), and stapled hemorrhoidectomy. As with any surgery you will need to have your physician evaluate your condition and see what the best option for you is. With advances in local anesthetic and surgical technique, hemorrhoidectomy is not the painful procedure it had been associated with in the past. If you are experiencing any of the symptoms or conditions discussed please contact Paonessa Colon and Rectal surgery to make an appointment with Dr. Paonessa. Dr. Paonessa is well trained in all aspects of hemorrhoid management and surgery. In fact, she is the co-editor of the textbook Surgical Treatment of Hemorrhoids, 2nd edition and authored three of the chapters within this textbook.

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The biopsy shows that you have breast cancer. In addition to the shock and emotional turmoil, a thousand questions go through your mind. “The surgeon said that he took everything out, so why do I need chemotherapy?” “What are my chances?” “Am I going to die from cancer?” “My friend only needed to take a pill, why am I not getting that?” Not everyone diagnosed with breast cancer is treated the same because no two tumors are alike. Even after the lump in the breast is removed surgically, there is a risk of cancer growing back in the same breast or spreading to other organs, a process called metastasis. The risk of metastasis is based on a number of factors. Age, menopause, the stage of the cancer and characteristics of the tumor cells (grade, hormone receptors called ER and PR, and Her-2) all determine the risk of relapse or metastasis. Age: In general, young women tend to have more aggressive tumors and are more often treated with chemotherapy than older women. Stage: Breast cancer is staged from Stage 0 to Stage IV; Stage 0 is pre-cancerous and is also known as carcinoma in situ (DCIS or LCIS). Stage 0 cancer does not metastasize and does not require chemotherapy. Stage I is a small tumor (<2cm) confined to the breast; when the tumor has spread to the lymph nodes or if the tumor is >2cm it is Stage II. Stage III includes tumors that have spread to lymph nodes in the neck, have affected more than 4 lymph nodes, or have spread to the skin and chest wall. When the cancer has metastasized to other organs (commonly to the bones, lungs or liver), it is Stage IV. The higher the stage, the higher your risk is of relapsing; chemotherapy, hormonal therapy or both are recommended to reduce that risk. Tumor Characteristics: Certain features on the cancer cells can predict the aggressiveness of the cancer. Cancer cells are graded from I to III, grade I being the least aggressive and grade III being the most. The tumor cells are also tested for hormone receptors on the surface of cancer cells, called ER and PR (estrogen and progesterone). Tumor cells are also checked for a protein called Her-2. About 25-30% of all breast cancers are Her-2 positive. Her-2 positive patients are treated with a drug called Herceptin. Who Needs Chemotherapy? Even if the visible tumor is removed surgically, you may have cancer cells floating around in your system that can deposit in different parts of the body. This can happen a few months to several years later, producing metastasis. Research has shown that this risk can be reduced by giving chemotherapy for a few months. In addition, hormonal therapy and Herceptin are used in appropriate patients. After surgery, your surgeon will refer you to a Medical Oncologist who will then determine the kind of treatment you may need. Women who have very early stage breast cancer may not need any treatment and should be observed periodically. Most women with ER and PR positive tumors are treated with Tamoxifen (before menopause), or Arimidex (Anastrazole) or Femara (Letrozole) (after menopause). In addition, your medical oncologist may advise you to get chemotherapy based on the other factors mentioned above. The most commonly used chemotherapy drugs are Adriamycin, Cytoxan, Paclitaxel (Taxol), Docetaxel (Taxotere), and 5 Flurouracil (5 FU). The type of chemotherapy and duration used are also based on the risk of metastasis. Chemotherapy is given for approximately 4 to 6 months, starting about 3 to 4 weeks after surgery. Chemotherapy is often administered as an intravenous infusion. To minimize damage to the veins and to ensure proper administration, a device called a port-a-cath can be inserted below the collarbone. This is temporary and can be removed after treatment is completed. Side Effects Chemotherapy can cause nausea, fatigue, vomiting, hair loss, mouth sores, low blood counts and numbness in the extremities. These are all reversible and improve once treatment is discontinued. With the use of newer medications, nausea and vomiting can be prevented considerably. Patient Testimonials “I thank God every day that Dr. Easaw became an oncology doctor and that I was lucky enough to have found her.” - Donna, Toms River.

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Refresh Yourself With The Talented Instructors At Freehold Yoga Linda Bennett Yogini

When Yogini took her first asana class at the Freehold Yoga Center, she knew that she had found her dharma. She began to deepen her practice and understanding of classical yoga and graduated from the Freehold Yoga Center. Furthering her studies, she has completed the 500-hour level of training at the Himalayan Institute in Honesdale, PA. Her teaching style is mindful with emphasis on alignment and breath. Yogini is qualified to teach children through seniors and is honored to share the teachings and practices of yoga.

Gail Cristelli

Vishesh, Shirodhara, Shiro-Abhyanga-Nasa and Marma Balancing Treatments. In 2014, she then studied under Kathryn Templeton at the Himalayan Institute in Honesdale, PA and graduated as an Ayurvedic Yoga Specialist. She is currently studying with Kathryn Templeton, again and pursuing, the Ayurvedic theories and clinical practicum. In October, 2016, she will also begin her studies at the Himalayan Institute to receive her 500 -hour certification in Yoga. Prema believes, to obtain your optimal health and healing, you have to balance your body, mind and spirit, and the combination of Yoga and Ayurveda provides us with that wholesome foundation. She loves nature, music, people, life and most of all God.

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Gail Cristelli, E-RYT 500, PYT, Professional Yoga Therapist (IYT), Certified Holistic Health Coach (IIN) and Holistic Health Practitioner with (AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners), Certified Reiki Master and Certified Yoga of Recovery Counselor (YoR) is the owner of YogaFlow LLC; Yoga Therapy & Nutrition for the Soul. Gail became a student of meditation through the Ananda Ashram in NY where she studies meditation and yoga philosophy under the influence of the Ashram Guru Shri Brahmananda Sarasvati’s senior teachers. She holds weekly yoga classes, private yoga therapy sessions as well as private and group nutritional coaching sessions, Reiki Therapeutic Healing sessions, Yoga Teacher Certification Programs, Workshops and Retreats.

Nancee Capote Prema

Prema graduated as a Licensed Massage Therapist from the School of Integrative Therapies in Holmdel, NJ in 2009, but her journey really began when she graduated as a Registered Yoga Teacher from the Freehold Yoga Center in Freehold, NJ in 2010. Her passion became Ayurveda and Yoga. She began her studies with Hilary Garivaltis at Kripalu in Lenox, MA and received her certifications in 2013 for the Ayurvedic body treatments in Abhyanga,

Louise has her 500 E-RYT and graduated in 2007 from Lenox, Massachusetts. She received a continuing education for people living with Mmultiple Ssclerosis in 2009. She has been teaching for 20 years. No matter a person’s age or health, Louise believes that yoga is accessible and beneficial to everyone. She has been teaching at the Freehold Yoga Studio Center since 1994, which is a very special place for her, and also teaches at Wall Township municipal building and Central State Wellness Center.

Sheri Glick Dharmini

Sheri Glick has 25 years of experience in the health and healing field. She has always been curious about the body/ mind connection and ways to restore, nourish and heal from the inside out. She is a 500-E-RYT with Yoga Alliance and has taken thousands of hours of training throughout the country in yoga, therapy and hands on healing. She is a level 4 Reiki Master and has certifications in Neuromuscular Therapy and Cranial-Sacral Therapy. She is a licensed Massage Therapist, providing her clients with hands on treatments and one-on-one yoga therapy. She received her 200-hour training with the Freehold Yoga Studio and was so inspired, she continued on her yoga journey with a 300-hour training at the Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy School and an additional 500-hour of training in integrated yoga

therapy through the Urban Zen Foundation in New York City. Her most recent training was 300-hours with Rodney Yee and Colleen Sandman Yee in Sag Harbor, New York. She is also certified to teach mediation through Integral Meditation. Sheri uses aromatherapy with most of her private sessions, as she views essential oils as “magic in a bottle.”

Maria Di Santi Sudasi

Upon finishing her 200 hour Yoga Teacher training from Freehold Yoga Center in 2011, she put her skills to use by helping students with health issues and physical limitations. Training as a Reiki Master and other healing modalities has brought more to her teaching practice. Presently, she teaches at Chelsea Assisted Living, SCAN at Monmouth Mall, and Freehold Yoga Center, in addition to private and group sessions from her home. She furthered her training in Children’s, Restorative, Chair and Yin Yoga as well as Yoga for Everyone.

Jennifer Scamorza Jennifer Scamorza is the director of Yoga University, a program designed to bring yoga and mindfulness practices to schools, businesses, and events. Jennifer is passionate about creating a positive and productive learning environment for students and professionals. She has fifteen years of experience in the NJ public school system including classroom instruction, coaching, curriculum development, and team leadership. She is a certified instructor with 400+ hours of training, has achieved a Children’s Yoga Certification from Radiant Child Yoga, and is currently working toward a 500-hour Healing Yoga certification. Jennifer’s teaching experience involves working with students of all ages, life paths, and learning abilities. As a volunteer for the Root to Rise nonprofit organization, which provides support to individuals recovering from addiction and other mental health issues, she teaches yoga in NJ mental health and correctional facilities. Jennifer teaches weekly classes for adults at the Freehold Yoga Center and The Yoga Loft at Calgo Gardens. Learn more about Yoga University at www.YogaUniversityNJ.com.

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New FDA Approved Laser Treatment for Vaginal Symptoms of Menopause For over 30 years, Dr. Sutherland has worked with CO2 lasers in many gynecological treatments. He is the first doctor in Monmouth and Ocean Counties to be trained in the MonaLisa Touch® application. MonaLisa Touch® is a minimally-invasive treatment for woman that treats problematic vaginal symptoms such as dryness, itching, irritation, burning and painful intercourse. Vaginal atrophy is a result of decreased estrogen and affects naturally menopausal women. It also affects women who have “induced” menopause due to surgery or in the case of cancer patients, who have undergone chemotherapy treatments. Before the MonaLisa Touch® application was developed, treatments included the use of estrogen, estrogen-like medications, or over-the-counter lubricants. However, some women do not respond to, or wish to avoid pharmaceuticals. In some cases, women cannot take estrogen medications due to cancer, blood clot risks, or other medical reasons. If you fall under any of these categories, MonaLisa Touch® offers a non-pharmaceutical, quick, safe and proven alternative treatment for vaginal symptoms. According to Dr. Sutherland, the procedure takes only about five minutes and patients can return to work or to their regular activities right away. “ This is a revolutionary treatment,” adds Dr. Sutherland, who performs this procedure in his Toms River Office. “Our patients have reported improvement of their symptoms literally within days of the treatment.” MonaLisa Touch® uses CO2 fractional laser technology to reverse vaginal atrophy and laxity, often caused by hormonal changes in pre- and post- menopausal women or women who have undergone chemotherapy treatments. MonaLisa Touch® received FDA approval late in 2014 and was launched in March 2015. The procedure, which is typically three treatments, six weeks apart, has been met with excellent results in the USA, Europe, Australia, and South America. One simple treatment lasting only a few minutes, without pain, side effects or recovery time. MonaLisa Touch® can give that tissue the elasticity it once had, with positive effects on one’s quality of life and personal relationships.

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High heels, Gait, and Venous Dysfunction Chronic venous insufficiency (CVI), a medical condition where the veins cannot pump v enough blood back to the heart, is a common problem but there are many ways to treat it. In addition to surgical procedures, there are more conservative measures such as compression stockings, weight loss, leg elevation, and local treatment of venous ulcers. Since an individual’s gait (manner of walking) plays an important role in the function of leg veins, patients with painful venous ulcers should also be assessed to make sure that their gait pattern strikes a good balance between mobility and stability. Some common causes of abnormal gait patterns include weakness of different muscle groups, any condition that affects balance, and improper footwear such as open-backed sandals that cause the wearer to shuffle. There have been no studies showing how extremely high heels affect varicose veins, but since they do affect the gait of the wearer, that would suggest a link between high heels and CVI. Gait testing can detect which of these is at the root of the problem, allowing for appropriate treatment. Treatment may include gait training and strengthening of the lower extremities. Providing a patient can participate in an exercise program, exercise should be done with compression garments in place. This helps to improve venous return by assisting the calf muscle. Comfortable, well-fitting shoes should be worn that will allow for a heel-to-toe walking pattern. The simple way to help a patient achieve this is to have them take the longest steps they can safely take. Obviously this recommendation is for patients who can balance and have the ability to maintain single limb stance. Some patients will require more exercises to strengthen muscle, improve their balance, and increase their range of motion. It is crucial that patients maintain proper form while walking and exercising. Once the proper heel-to-toe gait is learned, it is important that adequate walking occurs for at least 30 minutes a day to maximize the benefit. As an added bonus, this will also improve overall health.

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Love Your Legs Again When Dr. Girija Surya first came to this country, she thought she would become an ob-gyn, a common specialty for women medical students in India. However, that quickly changed when she performed her first surgery and was immediately fascinated. Then, during her fourth year as a surgical resident, everything became crystal clear for her. While doing her cardiovascular rotation, she participated in a cardiac surgery, holding the beating heart and doing a vascular anastomosis. She adds, “At that moment I knew where I was meant to be, and it was then I decided to become a cardiovascular surgeon. Cardiovascular physiology has always fascinated me the most. I have enjoyed the practice of this specialty immensely and continue to be challenged.”

MCW: What is the most challenging part of your profession?

By combining her knowledge of venous diseases and a personal interest in women’s health, she started the Vein Center for Women. “Our mission statement is beauty inside out, as we believe that if one’s inner health is good, the beauty would naturally be seen,” she says. The center follows a protocol in evaluating its patients as a whole, giving them information and educating them on achieving total health. Dr. Surya is a board-certified cardiothoracic and vascular surgeon and a phlebologist for over 20 years, which means a physician who specializes in veins. Since the year 2000, she spends 80 percent of her time with venous disease and is involved with surgical treatment of leg veins, treatment of venous ulcers, and the cosmetic side of venous disease. In addition, she provides treatment of peripheral arterial disease, such as atherosclerotic blockages of arteries in the neck and legs. MCW: What is the most rewarding part about your profession? Dr. Surya: For me the most rewarding part is when I see my patients happy after I have treated them. I also derive great satisfaction when I make a decision to operate and the procedure is successful and relieves the symptoms without any complications. Improving my precision and technique while operating is also very rewarding.

Dr. Surya: The most challenging part in a surgeon’s practice is to make a decision not to operate, for a better outcome for the patient. The other challenging part is while operating: to do each stitch honestly, and not compromise, doing it once and doing it right, and always be thinking about the patient’s outcome. It is very easy to be caught up in some minor issues in making it all perfect which probably will not be important at all in the patient’s recovery, and a good surgeon should be able to recognize that in himself or herself and avoid it in the interest of the patient. MCW: What sets your practice apart from others in the area? Dr. Surya: I believe that when a patient walks out of our office after their initial consultation, they feel that our staff and physicians really took their time and cared about them. It is a place where the patient is truly heard. Most importantly, I believe they get excellent, quality care with their venous problem. MCW: Discuss some of the other methods you use to treat unsightly veins. Dr. Surya: Usually patients come in with complaints of visible veins (spider veins), bulging veins and painful veins. We treat venous reflux correction by radiofrequency venous closure. If the veins are large, they are removed with a very small incision. Sclerotherapy of smaller veins uses foam, polidocanol, glycerin, and saline. The treatment is tailored to each patient in exactly the combinations they would need for all of their veins to be treated. MCW: What are the most common issues you see in your profession? Dr. Surya: In general, most patients are happy, but some who may have an unrealistic view of the results might be unhappy, and it takes a good effort to make them see reality. Of course in an elective office-based practice such as the Vein Center, I see a whole spectrum of personalities and it is fascinating.

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his article serves as a general overview regarding the Pre Trial Intervention (PTI) program. PTI is a supervisory treatment program that was enacted prior to the New Jersey Criminal Code Title 2C being codified. It can be found in NJSA 2C:43-12. The goal is “it is policy of the State of New Jersey that supervisory treatment should ordinarily be limited to persons who have not previously been convicted of any criminal offense under the laws of New Jersey, or under any criminal law of the United States.” The law has gone through many modifications over the years and is constantly changing. When a person is charged with a crime, or in some instances an offense (domestic violence disorderly persons offense), that person may be eligible for supervisory treatment in PTI depending on a panoply of variables. These variables include the PTI Director (court personnel) and their willingness to accept the person into the program, the prosecuting agency and their willingness to accept the person into the program, the charge itself, a victim’s input if applicable, and many other considerations. If a person has received a prior PTI, a conditional discharge or a conditional dismissal, he or she is ineligible for this type of supervisory treatment. NJSA 2C:43-12(g)(1). Ordinarily, when you are accepted into the PTI program, you DO NOT have to plead guilty to the charge(s) subject to certain exceptions found in NJSA 2C:43-12(g)(3). The accused should consult a qualified criminal defense attorney immediately and make a timely application so as not to delay or prejudice their rights. The fee for the application is $75 and almost always no statement that is made to court personnel can be disclosed to the prosecuting agency nor can it be used in a subsequent civil or criminal proceeding. The maximum term limit that a person can be supervised in PTI is thirty-six (36) months. If a person does well, and upon approval of the program director, the prosecuting agency and its consent, and the court’s approval, the term may be shortened or even terminated early. If a person violates the terms and conditions of PTI, dismissal from the program can occur. Again, hire a qualified criminal defense attorney to motion to the court for remaining in the program. If the term is completed successfully, the charge(s) are

dismissed. However, the charge and/or arrest will still remain on a person’s record and they have to wait six (6) months in order to expunge it. NJSA 2C:52-6(c). Additionally, if a person is rejected from the program, a PTI appeal can be filed arguing that there has been a “patent and gross abuse of discretion” in rejecting the individual. An example would help illustrate how the process works. On January 1, Mr. X gets arrested at a local department store for shoplifting $650 worth of merchandise. He ultimately gets caught on surveillance video and the local police arrest him and charge him with third degree shoplifting, a crime with a maximum punishment up to 3-5 years in state prison with various fines and assessments. He is released on a summons (he has no prior record, lives locally, has no other pending charges and was born in the United States). He hires a qualified criminal defense attorney and makes a timely application for the PTI program. The program director agrees to let him in and the prosecuting agency is at first hesitant due to the department store and its concern of recent spikes in shoplifting, but nonetheless acquiesces. Mr. X comes to court on April 1 on an accusation (waives his right to have this matter presented to a grand jury) and the court admits him into the program for a period of 12 months with conditions, such as making restitution to the department store and keeping away from that department store. Mr. X finishes the program in the requisite time frame and the indictable (felony) charge is dismissed. Mr. X then waits until October 1 (6 months after) and moves to expunge his arrest, with which he is successful, and thus avoids traditional prosecution and a criminal record. As a famous proverb tell us: “Everyone makes mistakes in life, but that doesn’t mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life. Sometimes good people make bad choices. It doesn’t mean they’re bad … it means they’re human!” DISCLAIMER The foregoing is just a general overview and should not be construed as legal advice. Always hire an attorney to specifically discuss your particular facts and legal circumstances.

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Chocolate Carousel: Making Your Sweet Dreams Come True Chocolate Carousel offers much more than just a bake shop. For space for up to 20 people comfortably, Chocolate Carousel offers a design studio perfect for hosting a private event, fundraiser, bridal or baby shower, birthday, bachelorette party or any other event in the sweetest space around. In addition, the design studio includes flat screen TVs, a private apace with window blinds, and a microwave, sink and refrigerator.

A CALENDAR OF EVENTS:* September 6 Cupcake Decorating Class Rustic Chic theme 6:30 - 8 September 16 Sweet Tooth Saturday 4 - 6 September 21 Cake Decorating 6:30 - 8 Wine/Vineyard Theme

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October 21 Sweet Tooth Saturday 4-6 October 28 Competitive Cake Challenge 6:30 - 8 November 10 Cake Decorating 6:30 - 8 Turkey Cake!

November 15 Wine and Chocolate Making 6:30 - 8 “Let’s warm up - spicy chocolate theme” November 18 Sweet Tooth Saturday 4 - 6 November 25 Competitive Cake Challenge 6:30 - 8

December 14 Holiday Cookie Making Class 6:30 - 8 December 16 Sweet Tooth Saturday 4 - 6 December 19 Holiday Cookie Making Class 6:30 - 8

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Jennifer Vadas, DPT, Jackson Facility Manager, All Care Physical Therapy Center, L.L.C Jennifer Vadas graduated with a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Rider University in 2006. She continued her education at the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey in Stratford, where she received her Doctorate of Physical Therapy in 2009. Since graduating in 2009, Jen’s primary professional focus has been in the outpatient setting, though she also has experience in acute care and sub-acute rehabilitation. Jen’s areas of interest include geriatrics, non-operative and postsurgical rehab, and balance impairments. She has taken continuing education courses in vestibular rehabilitation. Jen strives to provide each patient with individualized care, focusing on their primary concerns and goals.

For more information or to schedule an appointment, call 732-833-1133 or visit www.allcareptc.com.

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Rebecca Kolas, Certified Lice Technician and Owner, Lice Lifters of Ocean County

Rebecca Kolas is both a Certified Lice Technician and Owner of Lice Lifters of Ocean County in Toms River, which opened in August 2016 and serves Ocean, Monmouth and Atlantic Counties as the premier lice removal company. Since that time she has opened a second location, Lice Lifters Central Jersey in Hamilton which serves Mercer, Middlesex, and Burlington Counties. Rebecca was introduced to the Lice Lifters franchise when her two youngest children contracted lice. Trying over the counter and prescription medication, she was unable to conquer lice, which have become resistant to the harmful pesticides, chemicals and toxins contained in those products. Rebecca was then introduced to Lice Lifters as a customer and found that it was the only treatment that was successful, as well as safe and natural. A true believer of the Lice Lifters franchise and its product, Rebecca knew she wanted to deliver this service to the people of the Jersey Shore and to help others afflicted with unwanted head lice. She truly understands the needs and fears of her customers, having been a customer herself, and takes the time to educate and calm others during the stress of dealing with lice. Rebecca resides in Ocean County with her husband and five children. She has a strong passion for helping others, as she was a staff attorney for the nonprofit Ocean-Monmouth Legal Services until the company’s dissolution in 2014. Since that time she still engages in the part-time practice of law, but now devotes the majority of her time to her family and helping others at Lice Lifters.

For more information call 848-238-7331 or visit www.lliceliftersoceancounty.com. Photo by Tracy Harman Photography

Colleen L. Clark, Esq., The Matus Law Group Colleen is an attorney licensed to practice law in New York and New Jersey with offices in Ocean and Monmouth Counties. She has a BS in Finance from Lehigh University and a Juris Doctorate from Seton Hall Law School. Colleen began her legal career in 2000 in Short Hills practicing estate planning, elder law and corporate law. She has also practiced real estate law and special education law. Currently she focuses on special education, estate planning and planning for individuals with special needs. Colleen grew up in Lacey Township and currently lives outside of Long Beach Island. She has two sons, two cats and a chihuahua. She is an avid marathon runner (the Marine Corps Marathon in Washington, DC, the Philadelphia Marathon and the Coastal Delaware Marathon). She is also running the Chicago Marathon in October. Colleen is a member of David’s Dream and Believe Cancer Foundation, is a Scout Leader and has coached many youth sports, including travel soccer, golf and basketball. She also owned a youth coaching franchise called Skyhawks Sports Academy.

You can reach Colleen at 732-281-0060 or visit www.MatusLaw.com. Photo by Tracy Harman Photography

Nina Paonessa, D.O, FACOS, Paonessa Colon & Rectal Surgery P.C. Dr. Paonessa was born and raised in Albany, NY. She was raised to value a strong work ethic and to take pride in her work. Two principles she grew up on were “if you are going to do something, do it right or don’t do it at all” and “do unto others…” This is how she lives her life and how she runs her practice. Dr. Paonessa knew from a very young age that she wanted to become a surgeon. She volunteered as a candy striper in high school and then as an Emergency Medical Technician in college. She attended the Lake Erie College of Osteopathic Medicine in Erie, PA and completed a general surgery residency at Wyckoff Heights Medical Center in Brooklyn, NY. Dr. Paonessa completed a colon and rectal surgery fellowship at Lehigh Valley Hospital in Allentown, PA, where she remained in private practice before moving to New Jersey. In 2014, Dr. Paonessa opened her own private practice, Paonessa Colon and Rectal Surgery, P.C. She now has two office locations: Wall, NJ and Manahawkin, NJ. She loves the Jersey Shore and loves taking care of its community. In her spare time, Dr. Paonessa reads, travels and cooks. Her most cherished times are those spent with her family and playing with her four nephews and two nieces.

You can contact Nina Paonessa at 732-282-1500 or by visiting www.paonessacrs.com. Photo by Tracy Harman Photography

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Debra Serafin, MBA, Director of Financial Educational Services at Innovative Wealth Partners

Debra Serafin entered the financial industry after retiring from thirty-five years in public education as a teacher, supervisor and high school administrator. She received her Bachelor of Science degree from Rutgers University and went on to pursue a Master of Business Administration from Monmouth University. Her passion for teaching has not dwindled in retirement but has reignited her zest to continue educating clients in the financial realm. Debra has been instrumental in establishing the Financial Educational Services Division at Innovative Wealth Partners, which provides free workshops to school districts on pension awareness and college financial planning. When meeting with clients, Debra educates them on market volatility, the tax implications of various saving options, and income distributions in retirement. She works with clients to develop a personalized strategy that not only addresses building wealth, but how to maximize income streams in retirement. Debra is a life-long resident of the Jersey Shore. She is married to her husband of thirty years, and has two daughters. Debra and her husband enjoy travelling to Caribbean destinations with family and friends in their spare time.

For more information go to www.inwealth.org or contact Debra at 732-722-8788. Photo by Annette Jenkins Photography

Daniela J. Baldi, M.D., Barnabas Health Medical Group

Dr. Baldi is a board-certified internal medicine physician who practices with Barnabas Health Medical Group (BHMG) Shrewsbury Primary Care located at 766 Shrewsbury Avenue in Tinton Falls, one of thirty primary care locations in the BHMG network. As an internist, Dr. Baldi conducts annual exams and wellness visits, helps patients manage chronic illness, such as, diabetes, hypertension, and arthritis and counsels them on leading healthier lifestyles to prevent disease. She takes time to connect with her patients, answering any questions they may have about their health. During patient visits, Dr. Baldi reviews her patients’ family history to help determine their individual health care needs and proper screenings, such as mammograms and colonoscopies. She also stresses the importance of how a balanced diet, regular exercise and refraining from smoking can help prevent chronic medical conditions. The field of medicine is part of Dr. Baldi’s DNA. Her late father was a cardiologist at Monmouth Medical Center, an RWJBarnabas Health facility, and her mother was a nurse. Like her father, Dr. Baldi earned a medical degree from Rome University in Rome, Italy. She completed an internal medicine residency at Monmouth Medical Center.

For more information, call 732-945-2009.

Sol-Annee Obrusniak, PT, DPT, Beacon of LIFE Dr. Sol-Annee Obrusniak, or Sol as she is known by her beloved patients, received her Bachelor of Science degree in Exercise Science and Sport Studies at Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey. She completed her Doctorate in Physical Therapy at University of St. Augustine for Health Sciences, specializing in manual therapy. A New Yorker by birth, she lives in Matawan, NJ with her husband, Justin, and beloved canine, Nola. Dr. Obrusniak has worked in homecare, sub-acute and long-term care settings, refining communication skills to achieve the maximum therapeutic outcome. Currently, she treats in a PACE program that allows her to incorporate all therapeutic settings into one, achieving a comprehensive and sustainable treatment plan. Dr. Obrusniak believes that everyone should have the opportunity to succeed and get the best out of life, even if it requires some modification. Her devotion to exercise and movement is incorporated in her daily treatment and interactions as she strives to restore and improve each patient’s condition to maximize their mobility and quality of life.

For more information on Beacon of LIFE, call 732-592-3400, or visitwww.beaconhss.com Photo by Annette Jenkins Photography

Tracey L. Wolfman, We Care Adult Care Tracey Wolfman of Middletown always had a passion for senior citizens and launched “We Care Adult Care” in 2000. She is a Registered Nurse, BSN Monmouth University, Master’s in Nursing Administration from Columbia University has spent the last 30 years working with the elderly specializing in Alzheimer’s disease. Tracey’s dedication and knowledge have helped many people afflicted by Alzheimer’s disease and their family caregivers. Opening We Care Adult Care gave Tracey the opportunity to provide superior services to those families who utilize We Care Adult Care. A nurse, expert speaker, caregiver, educator and entrepreneur, Tracey has provided a “Quality of Life” unparalleled by any other Adult Day Care Center in Monmouth County. ‘We Care’ won the Small Business Success Award by the NJ Small Business Development Center, received Proclamations for outstanding Service to the Community, Highlighted on News 12 New Jersey TV, Expert guest speaker on WS Radio, 2012 NJ top 25 Women Entrepreneur & Business Owner, 2017 APP top 3 Finalist Small Business Innovator of the Year and numerous Newspaper articles written about Adult Day Care in local and regional papers and magazines. Tracey resides with her husband Marc in Monmouth County, NJ and spends her free time Equestrian Riding and watching her nephew Mark and nieces, Natalia, Sarah and Devan who have made her proud “Aunt T” by all of their own accomplishments.

For more information, call 732-741-7363 or visit www.wecareadultcare.com. Photo by Annette Jenkins Photography

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Help us Sound the Alarm about fire safety. Every day 7 people die in home fires. You can help change that. This fall, the American Red Cross will team up with fire departments, volunteers, and partners to Sound the Alarm with home fire safety and smoke alarm installation events. Volunteers will install 100,000 free smoke alarms in more than 100 at-risk communities across the country. We’ll also mark a major milestone—our 1 millionth smoke alarm installation since 2014!

Help us prevent these needless tragedies in New Jersey. We'll be holding 3 major events simultaneously in New Jersey Camden, Trenton and Jersey City Saturday, October 7 and Sunday, October 8, 2017

Go to SoundTheAlarm.org to learn how you can make a difference.

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Keeping Families Close RONALD McDONALD HOUSE OF CENTRAL & NORTHERN NEW JERSEY LONG BRANCH HOUSE

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events or to ask about volunteer opportunities for these events contact Jane Crupi, Events Coordinator at: 732-222-8755 or email Jcrupi@rmh-cnj.org

Volunteer Opportunities • • • • • • For sponsorships or to purchase tickets go to: www.rmh-cnj.org

Cook a Meal for our Families Collect Wish List Items Assist with Yard Work Assist with Specialty Projects • Community Events • Corporate Tabling Assist with House Events: • Friends & Family BBQ • Holiday Party For more information contact: Tricia Weaver in Long Branch at 732-222-8755 or Lindsey Williams, in New Brunswick at 732-249-1222

Donate a vehicle, and it will be sold at auction. The proceeds will go to Ronald McDonald House of Central & Northern New Jersey, and you may qualify for a tax deduction. Vehicle donations help us bring families together when family is needed most. Just call 1-855-227-7435 or visit https://1car1difference.com Select Ronald McDonald House from the drop down box. Fill out the form and they will arrange for pick up and auction of your car. Make sure to direct the donation to: RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE OF CENTRAL & NORTHERN NEW JERSEY

We provide a respite for thousands of families with seriously ill children while they receive care at nearby medical facilities. Our houses and family rooms offer comforting surroundings where family members can stay together during a time of uncertainty and stress. Your generosity has enabled us to support our families for the last 30 years. We thank you for providing us with the opportunity to continue our mission of “Keeping Families Close”.

Follow us on social media: RMHCNJ For information or to donate, visit www.rmh-cnj.org or email us at info@rmh-cnj.org.

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Stay Tuned - SCAN’s New TV Series Called Caregivers First Highlighting the Importance of Caregivers is Coming Soon! In addition to our two regular shows – “Welcome to SCAN” and “Community SCAN (Social Community Activities Network) is a Connections” – we will soon be adding a third series of shows, “Caregivers First,” non-profit social education and which is being adult created for and about Caregivers. All theresource programs are center produced in SCAN’s TV in studio and are available on Cablevision,located Comcast and founded 1988 and conveniently in Verizon the FIOS local channels as well as on YouTube. Visit our website at www.scannj.com for the Monmouth Mall and our satellite location in Freehold cable TV schedule or to access the shows via YouTube. Borough. TheAsname reflects the for action-oriented profile Special Note: part of SCAN’s advocacy Seniors, we were successful andits pleased to secure interviews the two main gubernatorial candidates: of members and thewith vibrancy andNJsocial networking Lt. Gov. Kim Guadagno and Mr. Phil Murphy. Their interviews will be strength of the organization. The main draw of seen throughout the month of October on the cable TV outlets and our YouTube membership, which is open to anyone aged 50 and over, channel. is the opportunity to socialize, meet new friends and be SCAN’s Fall Semester Begins September 11th proactive in staying healthier. Our Fall semester kicks off on September 11th and will run through December

8th. Once again we are offering a full catalog of classes in art, computers, technology, fitness, health, languages, TV production, finance and more. SCAN Honors Awardees atmusic, Annual Luncheon Special programs semester will include a discussion on at Comparative SCANInterest held our Annualthis Awards Luncheon on October 25th Seabrook in Religions, Meet the Author – Dee Ernst, and a First Ladies Tea at The White House Tinton Falls. The annual luncheon was an opportunity for SCAN to honor key in Oakhurst. All the classes are offered at low or no cost. Check out all our offerings individuals who provided outstanding support to SCAN in 2016. by checking the full class listing at www.scannj.com.

This year’s honorees were: Successful Aging & Technology Programs Being Held in Bradley Leaders of Distinction: Cynthia Joy, President/CEO YMCA Western Monmouth County and Donna M. Blaze, Chief Executive Officer, Affordable Beach and Freehold Borough This Fall In continuing Housing Alliancepartnership with the Affordable Housing Alliance, who provides funding for the program,in wethe willField be hosting two sessions the SA&T program Leaders of Distinction of Aging: ColleenofSmith, Caregiver in the Fall. One session will be offered in Bradley Beach on Wednesdays, 9:30– Specialist, Monmouth County Division on Aging, Disabilities & Veterans 11:30am, September 13th through November 22nd. BradleyofBeach Services and Luanne Kane, Coordinator of the TakeThe Control Your sessions Health will be held in the Bradley Beach Senior Center, 701 Main Street, Bradley Beach. A Program in Ocean County second session will be held in Freehold Borough on Thursdays, 11:00am–1:00pm, SCAN’s Volunteer Recognition: Yachi Pan and Mai-Uyen Nguyen September 28th through December 14th. The Freehold Sessions will be held at the All theCommunity attendees enjoyed great food,Street, great Freehold companyBorough. and numerous great YMCA Center, 41 Center This 11-week prizes and raffles. free program is designed to use interactive technology to help selected applicants

connect online and encourage ongoing and positive engagement in life. In addition, participants will attend classes to learn to make and maintain meaningful MEDICARE ADVANTAGE PARTICIPANTS – changes in health behaviors, financial well-being and enrichment in later life. TAKE We areHEED! looking for participants (age 60 and above) who want to learn how to use The computers Medicare Open Enrollment Periodengaged. began October 2016participants and tablet to get online and become Limited 15, income ends December 7, 2016. There have been tablet. significant changes in the plans may on be eligible to receive a free Android-based We are accepting applications now! Fortofurther information about program including how to available New Jersey residents, and some the plans, such as the AmeriHealth

apply, contact SCAN at 732-542-1326. and Geisinger/Meridian Health Plans, will no longer provide coverage to We’re also looking for volunteers technology knowledge as coaches NJ residents in 2017. If you’ve beenwith affected by plan changes,toorassist if you’re and trainers. If you’re interested and know how to use tablets and considering changing plans, don’t miss the December 7th enrollment deadline! the internet, please give us a call at 732-542-1326. You can receive information about Medicare from their website (Medicare. gov) or by calling 1-800-633-4227. You can contact Family & Children’s Services at 732-222-9111 for SHIP (State Health Insurance Assistance The Keansburg SA&T Program) counselors. You can also contact SCAN at 732-542-1326 to make an participants and coaches appointment with a SHIP counselor. celebrated Graduation Day on June 28th!

Seabrook in Tinton Falls on October 17th

Our 2017 luncheon figures to be bigger and better than ever! Join us in saluting Successful Aging & Technology Program our 2017 Honorees while enjoying a great buffet luncheon with loadsReturns of raffle gift baskets. This year’s honorees are: to Freehold Leader Distinction: Tim Hodges, Chief Strategy Officer,program CareOneto the SCANofreturned its Successful Aging and Technology Leaders of Distinction in the Field of Aging: Lynette Whiteman, Executive YMCA Community Center in Freehold Borough in October. Once again Director, Caregiver Volunteers of Central Jersey; Samantha White, Director, the Affordable Housing Alliance provided funding for free tablets for limited Volunteer Services, Family & Children’s Services income participants, and coaches provided training on how to use the tablets SCAN’s Volunteer Recognition: Successful Aging & Technology coaches Richard and accessWilliam the Internet. In addition to weekly DiPersio, Fountain, and Edward Kelly technology coaching and

mentoring participants aremembers provided classes on healthy aging. A new Ticketssessions, are $25 for SCAN and $50 for non-members. aspect of the program has been the addition of students from Monmouth Call 732-542-1326 to register and for additional details. University who serve as technology coaches. We hope to hear from you if you wouldSCAN like(Social us to Community bring this Activities programNetwork) to youris Community; please call us at 732a non-profit adult social education 542-1326. and resource center founded in 1988 and conveniently located in the Monmouth Mall and our satellite location in Freehold Borough. Our mission is to promote socialization, education and technology to people aged 50+ in Monmouth and Ocean Counties. The main draw of membership, which is open to anyone aged 50 and over, is the opportunity to socialize, meet new friends and be proactive in staying healthy. SCAN provides a wide variety of programs. Three semesters of classes, some of which charge a fee, are held each year, covering a wide variety of subjects including Art, Music, Computers & Technology, Financial Literacy, Fitness, Health & Wellness, Languages, Literature and Safety. In our fully outfitted TV studio, we also film three TV programs on a regular basis that are shown on local cable TV outlets and YouTube. And as you can see above, we are out in the community at our Freehold site and other locations in Monmouth and Ocean Counties offering several programs of interest to active adults.

Neptune Successful Aging and Technology Class Graduates

After completing their 12 weeks of instruction and coaching, the Neptune Successful Aging and Mark Technology participants graduated from the program on Please Your Calendars September 27th. They will continue to meet monthly to ensure they retain the valuable lessons learned. Monmouth Events

• September Graduates! 11 Fall Semester Classes begin Congratulations

• September 12 “SCAN@the Y” in Freehold Borough and resumes weekly Tuesday meetings for Please reopens Mark Your Calendars Seniors (10am–2pm). Activities including coffee • NOVEMBER 10 – Fundraiser SCAN, Bubbles Bling in and conversation, art, for exercise, health and & wellness, Red Bank, 11am-1pm. lectures, and more! Location: YMCA Community • NOVEMBER Special St, Event, Downton Abbey Tea and Trivia in Center,15 41–Center Freehold. Spring Lake, 2-4pm. • September 21 New Jersey Natural Gas Energy • NOVEMBER 16 –Day Information Breakfast, 8-9am – Assistance at Monmouth Mall Come learn about SCAN! • October 4 Lunch & Learn Monmouth Mall • DECEMBER – 4th Annual Brain Health Fair, 10am-1pm, at • October217 SCAN Annual Awards luncheon Monmouth Mall featuring keynote speaker Shiraavailable Goldberg,to MD, at Seabrook in Tinton Falls, tickets of Barnabas Health – Monmouth Medical Center Geriatric Services Seniors along with 20 interactive brain teaser stations. Take advantage of • November 10 Mobility Expo at Monmouth Mall this opportunity for people of all ages to experience fun and creative Ocean Events interactive activities designed especially to promote brain health. • September 20 –Lunch • JANUARY 9, 2017 APRIL&7,Learn, 2017 Ocean – SCAN’s 2017 Winter Semester of classes.

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A Hidden Gem in the Heart of Downtown Toms River

600 Main - A Bed & Breakfast and Victorian Tea Room

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holidays traditionally bring friends and family closer together to make new memories that will last a lifetime. Every proud resident of Ocean County and the Jersey Shore should invite their guests to visit 600 Main, a Bed & Breakfast and Victorian Tea Room while planning festivities. This remarkable Victorian mansion offers the comforts and cuisine of today while including a rich history that dates back to the late 1800’s. The five star Bed and Breakfast also includes Ocean County’s largest Victorian Tea Room. This spectacular example of Dutch Revival architecture is a hidden gem located in the heart of downtown Toms River and allows visitors to step back in time. The home was built in 1898 and became known as the Mathis-Berry House, named after the owner Thomas Mathis, who was a Mariner who sailed around the world and was a prominent political leader. The home over the years has been the scene for elegant parties and lavish dinners. In 2011, the home was purchased and renovated by John and Susan Notte, who have successfully transformed this magnificent property into a destination spot for all residents and tourists to appreciate. Vicki Weiss New Innkeeper

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The 7500 square foot home hosts a year round Bed & Breakfast that includes five luxurious suites all with private baths. Each room is tastefully decorated with priceless antiques, fine linens, a flat screen television, complimentary WiFi, and air conditioning. A stay at the B&B includes an early morning hot breakfast and homemade refreshments in the afternoon. Guest may enjoy wine and cheese on the front porch on cool nights or play board games in the evenings while making new friends. The location of the home is ideal for family guests that are visiting Ocean County. The suites may be viewed at www.600Mainnj.com and reservations made by calling the Innkeeper at 732-818-7580. The Victorian Tea Room is open daily to the public by reservation only for afternoon teas from Wednesday thru Saturday from 12 to 4 pm. The Tea Room will open on Monday and Tuesdays or evenings during the week for large holiday parties and special events. A full service tea includes soup, salad, a full plate of tea sandwiches & savories, an assortment of delectable sweets and delicious scones, and over 80 varieties of tea to choose from. The tea room is adorned with vintage hats where ladies can step back in time and learn the history and proper etiquette for attending a formal tea party. Details of the tea experience may also be viewed on the website or by calling the reservation office today to learn more information. Gift certificates are available for purchase as well as gourmet tea and scones by special order. The Bed and Breakfast and Victorian Tea Room makes a perfect venue for any special occasion including reunions, anniversaries, birthdays, fundraisers, business meetings, corporate events, holiday parties and showers. The dining rooms may accommodate large parties and the owners will coordinate individualized event planning to make any day memorable and unique.

For more information regarding 600 Main, a Bed & Breakfast and Victorian Tea Room, please call 732-818-7580, or visit the website at www.600MainNJ.com. 600 Main Street, Toms River, 08753 Email: InnKeeper@600MainNJ.com

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