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Meanwhile, I am wracked with guilt and indecision about how to proceed. I know that I need to make my own decisions, but I feel paralyzed. How do I start to untangle this knot?

- Married And Reassessing Relationships In Every Detail What’s the rush? You’ve got a crush on a married man who’s unwilling to leave his wife for at least the next two years. Since you have no way of knowing how you’ll feel two years from now, MARRIED, and you have no way of knowing how your married colleague will feel two years from now, you don’t have to make any big moves. (Hell, you have no way of knowing for sure how your married colleague feels right now.)

If you’re sure you don’t wanna stay in your marriage—whatever else might happen—you should end your marriage so your husband can get on with his life. But if you can envision a future where your feelings for your colleague have run their course and you can see yourself recommitting to a future with the man you’re currently married to, all you need to do right now is wait. b MY WIFE AND I have been together for eight years, married for four. Before we dated, I was honest with her about the fact that I could not offer long-term sexual monogamy in a relationship. She told me she understood and would be into participating in that with me. We stayed monogamous for a few years before attempting to introduce nonmonogamous adventures into our life.

Although we went to swingers parties and used the popular websites, no potential pairings ever seemed to click for her, either MMF or MWMW. We decided to get married despite never having had an actual encounter with anyone outside our relationship. We have always enjoyed a very satisfying and frequent sex life, but she is now ambivalent about the idea of swinging. She’s told me that if she had to rank her interest from one to 10, it would fall somewhere between zero and one. She has said she is willing to do it for me, and that should be all I need.

She puts no effort into finding potential

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12-step fellowship of men & women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other, that they may solve their common problem and help others recover from their sexual addiction.Membership is open to all who desire to partners or play opportunities. She also does not support the idea of me doing anything stop addictive sexual behaviour. For a meeting list as well as email & phone contacts go to our solo. Dan, I wanted a partner who would do website. www.saavancouver.org this with me enthusiastically. I don’t want to drag anyone into sexual activity they aren’t really interested in. I tried to do this right from the beginning, but now every direction looks dangerous. Is there a way forward?

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- Happily Married, Unhappily Monogamous If I had a time machine, HMUM, I would crash your bachelor party and urge you to postpone the wedding until after you’d had a few successful threesomes/foursomes with your then-fiancée, now wife. Because if swinging was really that important to you, before the

wedding was the right time to make sure your wife was into it, not years later. Maybe your wife was into the idea before the service and isn’t into it now (vows seem to have that effect on some people), or maybe she was just telling you what you wanted to hear. Either way, she’ll never be the true “partner in crime” you wanted—meaning that even if she’s willing to go there, she’s not going to put any effort into making it happen. That’s on you. But if she’s willing to give a try, why not set something up? If she agrees to it, she might wind up liking it more than she thinks. (That happens.) If she doesn’t agree to it, then you face a choice: let these fantasies go, let monogamy go, or let her go. Dan Savage says that there’s no need for a recently married woman to rush into a relationship with a married man, especially considering that he has no plans to leave his wife for two years. IBD Virtual Support Group Suffer from Crohn's disease or ulcerative colitis? Living with inflammatory bowel disease can be overwhelming, but you're not alone! b I JUST READ your response to the gay man who wanted to buy a straight male friend a meaningful gift. I was surprised to see this in your response: “So, besides pussy, what does The Gastrointestinal Society holds a free IBD support group via Zoom on the 3rd Wed of each your straight friend like?” Heterosexual men month at 7:00 pm. Patients,families, and caregiversare welcome. For more information, email info@badgut.org. do not like “pussy”. Heterosexual men like women. And not all women have pussies. You know better, Dan.

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CARPENTER HELPER NEEDED

DUTIES & RESPONSIBILITIES • Keep site clean • Punctual to site • Precisely measure, cut, shape and assemble what is required • Operate power hand tools QUALIFICATIONS • Must provide clean drivers abstract • Knowledge of the construction and renovation fi eld • Should have at least two years experience on construction sites • Has drivers license and/or form of transportation • Must have steel toes • Must have own tool belt. Personal tools are an asset • Heavy lifting involved - at times upward to 100lbs • Can work independendently with little to no supervision • Ability to work in a fast-paced environment • Remains fl exible and effecient • High attention to detail • Proactive and creative problem solver • Works well alone & with others

DETAILS WAGE: $18-23 /hr start TERMS: Full time

HOURS: 30-40 hours/week START: immediately LOCATION: Various locations throughout the Fraser Valley & Lower Mainland areas Please send resume to: eclipsecreationsltd@gmail.com