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The Student Voice of Howard University

Vol. 95 No.37

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Legendary Songstress Whitney Houston Dies at 48, ‘Grammys’ Pay Tribute

The H lltop By Macy Freeman Chief Managing Editor

Photo Courtesy of Hilltop Photo Desk Howard University Tuition is set to increase by 12 percent next semester, leading many students to question whether the A building has their best interest at heart.

HU Students Voice Concerns In Preparation For Tuition Increase By Shavon Anderson Staff Writer

Howard University will undergo a 12 percent tuition increase for the 2012-2013 school year. This comes as a shock to most, but mostly a disappointment to those students that were under the impression that under President Obama’s new educational reforms, tuition costs would be decreasing after this semester. That isn’t the case. Under the Obama tuition plan, less federal money will be given to schools that increase their tuition costs, but the plan does not offer schools incentives to lower current costs; it simply seeks to stop further increases. Some argue that the proposed increase tuition contradicts President Obama’s plan, but senior psychology major, and Undergraduate Trustee Erin Rigsby believes that decision reversals are not that easy. “The thought process before any decision is made is meticulous,” Rigsby said. “A decision can’t be reversed at a moment’s notice because the call of the moment has changed. Preparation is important.” Although we face rising costs,

INSIDE Mr. HU Prepares

Read how Daniel Cokes, current Mr. Howard is gearing up for the Mr. HBCU Pageant. p.3

“George Washington has one of the highest tuitions in the country, and as a result, they have excellent capabilities in terms of providing their students with top-of-the-line tools,” -Natanya Abraham Sophomore, Computer Science Major Howard’s tuition and mandatory fees continue to be significantly less than those of its peer research institutions as well as the other top HBCUs. Unfortunately, Howard still remains to have the third highest tuition among the entire list. During last week’s “Fireside Chat” hosted by President Ribeau and HUSA, students consistently advocated for better and upgraded facilities, dormitories, and equipment. However, when President Ribeau said that this factored into the tuition increase, students didn’t see the correlation between getting more privileges and paying more money. But there is a correlation, said sophomore computer science major Natanya Abraham. She believes that while the stu-

Bison Give Back

See what the HU football team did this weekend to benefit our local community. p. 12

dent body may blind themselves to the fact that facilities do cost money, they are quick to compare Howard to institutions such as George Washington University, Georgetown University and American University. “George Washington has one of the highest tuitions in the country, and as a result, they have excellent capabilities in terms of providing their students with top-of-the-line tools,” Abraham said. “If students want to compare standards between Howard and GW, then they better be prepared to pay what they pay in tuition.” Abraham admits that Howard’s low tuition is what initially drew her to attend, but at the same time, people have to be more realistic.

TUITION cont. on p.2

Hearts Day Horror

Read the many ways in which The Hilltop staff has been wronged on Valentine’s Day. p. 13

Iconic R&B singer Whitney Houston—known for her stellar vocals, unforgettable songs and soulful melodies—died Saturday afternoon. She was 48. “It really feels like I lost a family member,” said Michael Hamilton, a senior telecommunications management major. Houston’s publicist Kristin Foster told The Associated Press the singer was pronounced dead at 3:55p.m. PST on Saturday. Authorities are currently conducting an investigation into Houston’s cause of death. Hamilton, who traveled to Los Angeles for the first time as an intern with Universal Music Group, was near the Hollywood Walk of Fame when he heard about Houston’s death. He said the scene shifted dramatically in light of the news. “There was no voice before or after Whitney—and I say that with all due respect to Aretha, Patti Labelle, Barbara Streisand, Chaka Khan, all those who came before Whitney,” he said. “No one did it

like Whitney. To me, Whitney is probably the greatest vocalist of all time, period.” Hamilton later visited the Beverly Hilton Hotel where Houston’s body was discovered, according to CNN reports. He described the mood there as eerie as the entrance of the hotel was packed with people. Born on Aug. 9, 1963 in Newark, N.J., Houston grew up singing in her church. Throughout her music career, she released seven studio albums. Her self-entitled debut album was released in 1985. From there, she would go on to release album-after-album gaining the respect of the music community and garnering a host of musical followers. In addition to the music Houston contributed to the entertainment world, she also left her mark on the movie industry with her acting debut in “The Bodyguard” in 1992 and with “Waiting to Exhale” in 1995. A year later Houston starred opposite Denzel Washington and Courtney B. Vance in the 1996 film “The Preacher’s Wife.”

WHITNEY cont. on p.2

‘Eternal Voices’ Ignites and Excites

Photo by Terricka Johnson, Photo Editor HUSA Vice President Derrien Hinton raises his arm in the black power salute during the night’s performances. See more photos from the event on page 6.

INDEX

CAMPUS................... p. 3 METRO..................... p. 5 LIFE & STYLE............ p. 11 SPORTS.................... p. 12

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Today: Sunny High 48 Low 34 Tuesday: Chance of Rain High 52 Low 37 Wednesday: Partly Sunny High 54 Low 37

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TUITION continued from Front

The Hilltop Newspaper Maya Rhodan Editor-in-Chief Macy Freeman Chief Managing Editor Christina Downs Production Managing Editor Natalie Neilson Online Manager Jasmin Carnelus Campus Editor Noelle Jones Metro Editor Lauren McEwen Life & Style Editor Jordane Frazier Sports Editor Britney Wilson Opinions Editor Marquis Gibson Copy Chief Odochi Ibe Assistant Copy Chief Ayanna Alexander Copy Editor Angelique Gayle Copy Editor Candace Johnson Copy Editor Jarondakie Patrick Copy Editor Khalea Underwood Copy Editor

Sophomore pre-pharmacy major Kyra Riggins agrees with Abraham, but is more disappointed by the fact that because the increase will go to fund new facilities and equipment, she will not have a chance to see any of the improvements. “I think the increase will be a struggle at first because we as a student body do not see where the money is directly going,” Riggins said. “However, it’s too late for me, I’ll ever see the changes before I graduate.”

The financial state of Howard directly affects both federal funding and student tuition increases and will always be a priority discussion. Hopefully the student body will begin to see institutional improvements with the additional money they are shelling out, but Erin Rigsby is not worried. .”We as students cannot be discouraged,” Rigsby said. “Effective change is not immediate, but its impact is immeasurable.”

WHITNEY continued from Front For her latest acting role Houston plays alongside singer Jordin Sparks in the remake of the 1976 film “Sparkle.” The film is scheduled to be released later this year. Binahkaye Joy, 29, was washing her dishes when her best friend called to give her the news. “You hear about Whitney Houston?” her friend asked. Joy said she knew it couldn’t be good news. For her, Houston’s music was a staple on all her family vacations and road trips growing up. “She’s just fabulous,” said Joy, a D.C. resident. “She exuded a lot of power, and it crossed lots of different demographics and ages and everything, and she just held that power space, and I think that’s what attracted a lot of people to her.” Some have speculated about the possible cause of Houston’s death as the beloved singer had a public battle with drug abuse made more public after her interview with Diane Sawyer in 2002.

“I think it’s indicative of a very ignorant society that doesn’t understand the nuances and the intricacies of drug abuse,” Joy said. “It’s dishonoring to even go there. She’s a human being, and she deserves respect.” With the death of Don Cornelius 10 days before Houston’s death, Joy said she hopes no one else has to die before people learn to show love for others while they are still alive. Houston’s last Grammy win came in 1999 for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance for “It’s Not Right But It’s Okay,” according to grammy.com. Last night the Grammys paid tribute to Houston with a featured performances by Jennifer Hudson who sang Houston’s hit “I Will Always Love You.” “The Whitney tribute was simple, yet beautiful at the same time,” Hamilton said. “Jennifer Hudson did an amazing job. It was very appropriate, given that Whitney presented Jennifer with her Grammy a few years ago.”

Terricka Johnson Photo Editor

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The Hilltop to Host Speak Out For HUSA, Trustee Candidates By Abeni Phillips Editorial Assistant With the anticipation and queries concerning this campaign season, HUSA and The Hilltop partnered in order to seek answers to questions pertinent to the student body. “I feel that this Speak Out will focus on realistic issues that students face on campus,” said Phillip Jones, a senior sociology major, about tomorrows Speak Out. “Student should come out to this Speak Out so that they have confidence in the competence of the candidates.” The Hilltop Speak Out will take place today, Feb. 13, in Blackburn Ballroom. It is different than other speak outs because it will focus directly on issues that students face on campus. Candidates will be given scenarios as if they were in their current positions. Phillip Jones, who serves as elections commissioner, also feels that this Speak Out will force candidates to confront the important issues, which is why general student population attendance and questioning is encouraged.

Although most students don’t take advantage of their opportunity to vote or attend Speak Outs, real concerns regarding most students will be addressed. This Speak Out is important so that students will know that the candidates will make decisions beneficial to the University as a whole. James Alexander, junior psychology major and HUSA vice presidential candidate, discussed his thoughts on the Speak Out. “I think this Speak Out will be different because students have had the opportunity to hear what candidates have to say and now they will have the opportunity to get real answers to their real questions,” Alexander said. “It’s not about the speaking well at this point. Can you actually answer the question? What have you done to show you can follow through? How can I believe your passion won’t be gone once you win or even lose? Those are the questions students are starting to ask themselves.” “I strongly encourage students to attend, because next year when issues come up, as a student you want to have a sense of confidence in who you voted for,” Jones said.

Did someone buy you a Valentine’s Day ad? See if you got a shout-out from your boo in this issue!

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Somalia Benefit Concert Entertains While Promoting a Cause By Jasmin Carnelus Campus Editor

Students and other members of the Howard community came together for a benefit concert “Eternal Voices: A Night with the Legends” last Thursday night. The concert, which included performances by Howard students past and present, opened with a spoken word piece by senior students Erin Rigsby, Britney Wilson, and Brion Gill. Aside from supporting Somalia relief efforts, students like junior psychology major Moriah Wilkins attended the concert to support her fellow Bison. “Of course I came to support the relief efforts, but I also came to support I.Am.We and see legends like Dick Gregory,” Wilkins said. “I think this is so amazing what the students are doing. I’m glad they were able to put something like this

together.” Howard University President Dr. Sidney A. Ribeau gave the welcoming message and reminded everyone that Howard students are capable of anything, noting that just two years ago, students came together and raised $15,000 for Haiti. With all of the proceeds from the concert going to Care International, representative Blake Seltzer was present to give students more information about the organization and provide details about the seriousness of the crisis in Somalia. “There are 13 million people affected by the drought and famine in Africa, four million of them are in Somalia,” Seltzer said. Following the theme of the night, I.Am.We contemporary dance company members Sharifa Daniels and Sara Phillips gave a powerful dance performance.

“I found out about it last minute and they didn’t really say who all was going to be performing. Even from the beginning with the opening poem, that was mind blowing for me. It was absolutely amazing.” -Danielle Bullock Junior biology majot “The song they chose, “Pearls” by Sade, was beyond moving and fit perfectly with the purpose of tonight’s events,” Wilkins said. Kenyan singer and dancer, Anna Mwalagho, lifted the spirits of those in attendance and even invited students to dance with her on stage. With each performer, students were constantly reminded what a powerful deed it was to extend a helping hand to someone in need. Howard University alumnus Amiri Baraka praised students and the

university saying, “I always have fond memories of Howard because that’s where I learned we could do anything everyone else could do.” Sharing his poetry, Baraka gave audience members a lesson on life while entertaining them. Following Baraka was legendary comedian and social activist Dick Gregory, who not only kept the crowd laughing but also revealed life truths and lessons that he has learned throughout his 80 years on earth. “Name 100 world renowned African-Americans, and I can guar-

antee you 98 percent of them are products of HBCUs,” Gregory said. As the event came to an end, coordinator Victoria Fortune told the audience how grateful she was for their support. Closing the show was Howard’s own Afro Blue, the jazz ensemble that made it to the final four of NBC’s “The Sing-Off.” They sang a variety of songs, including many befitting the concert’s occasion and a few from their television performances. Student Danielle Bullock said she thoroughly enjoyed the event. “I was speechless at the concert,” said Bullock, a junior biology major. “I found out about it last minute and they didn’t really say who all was going to be performing. Even from the beginning with the opening poem, that was mind blowing for me. It was absolutely amazing.”

Mr. Howard Prepares for HBCU Pageant Author Prepares Students for ‘All The Joy They Can Stand’

By Lauren McEwen Life and Style Editor Daniel Cokes, Mr. Howard 2011-2012, will represent the university in the preliminary round of the Mr. HBCU Pageant this Saturday, Feb. 18 at Lincoln University. “I feel really good. I’m connected emotionally to tthe things I’m going to do,” Cokes said. Cokes, a senior legal communications major from Dallas, plans to deliver a speech during the pageant. He’s been busy prepping for it, getting feedback from former Mr. Howard, Melech Thomas and from reigning Ms. Howard, Ashlee Thomas. “I wanted my creativity and personal expression to come out in my speech,” Cokes said. It hasn’t been easy. In addition to fulfilling the duties that come along with his position, Cokes is taking 21 credits, leading the Student Speak Research Institute, and is an attorney on the Howard University Mock Trial team. “The demands of this position have challenged me to split hairs between what is good and best for me in terms of making decisions and setting priorities,” Cokes said. As difficult as juggling his schedule may be, Cokes still plans to work hard at this pageant. There’s a scholarship on the line.

By Desiree Anyasado Contributing Writer

Photo by Terricka Johnson, Photo Editor Senior legal communications major Daniel Cokes will be heading to Missouri on Wednesday to compete in the Mr. HBCU pageant.

“It has been very challenging, but I’m encouraged by knowing that my faith is only as strong as the tests I’ve survived,” he said.

Tweet encouragning words and show your support by tweeting @mrhowardu

Author Debrena Jackson Gandy discussed her new book “All the Joy You Can Stand: 101 Sacred Power Principles for Making Joy Real in Your Life” at the Howard University bookstore on Friday evening. “All the Joy You Can Stand” is a handbook of “chapterettes,” or small sections of advice that relate to different situations. Each chapterette was inspired by situations in Gandy’s life, and the advice was given from a personal perspective because she was tired of seeing black women so angry and dissatisfied with life. “I wrote the book to help women who were always ripping and running, and running and ripping,” said Gandy. She wanted to show women that they were the only cause of their stress, and they were the pioneers of their lives. “We as women need to realize that we are the authors of our lives,” Gandy said. “ In order to be happy, we need to get out of our comfort zones and do things that are only going to make us happy.” After opening up the floor for discussion, Gandy also talked about her debut book “Sacred Pampering

Principles: An African-American Woman’s Guide to Self-care and Inner Renewal.” Gandy, a native of Olympia, Wash., was inspired to write the book while attending college in California. She was surrounded by physically stunning women who seemed to have it all; yet, they were unhappy with life. “Sacred Pampering Principles” was designed to be a self-help guide to pamper oneself. “Even though I wrote this book [Sacred Pampering Principles] in ’94, it is still as relevant if not more today,” Gandy said. Cammie Clinton, of D.C., said she has repeatedly re-read “All the Joy You Can Stand” since she first got it at the age of 25. She believes Gandy’s works are relate to women of all ages. “It’s [All the Joy You Can Stand] a very practical way to embark on personal growth, and its very bite-sized,” Clinton said. Rochelle Branton, a senior pharmacy major, was awed by Gandy’s words. “I came to purchase a book for class, and overheard Mrs. Gandy. I felt something in me when she was speaking, something strong,” Branton said.

Congratulations to The Hilltop Newspaper for winning the following awards at the 14th annual National HBCU Student News Media Conference 1st Place: Best Sports Feature “ Before the Big Game, Athletes Take Different Roads to Preparation” by Na’Tasha Jones 1st Place: Best Spot News Story “HU Shaken by Afternoon Quake” by Maya Rhodan 2nd Place: Best Spot News Story “The Howard 13; Students, Professor Arrested” by Jonquilyn Hill 2nd Place: Best Opinion Writing- Signed Commentary or Column Writing, Britney Wilson 1st Place: Best Editorial “Who Deserves Charity?” 2nd Place: Best Editorial “Are We Still Dreaming? Has the dream of Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. been fulfilled?” 1st Place: Best Editorial Cartoon- Taylor Hill 2nd Place: Best College Newspaper (tied with Southern University)

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Noelle Jones, Metro Editor metro@thehilltoponline.com

Animals in Love: Critter Cupids Compiled by Noelle Jones Metro Editor

Photo By Dyandra Morris, Contributing Writer District Residents bare all in a 1.5 mile race to raise money for The Children’s Tumor Foundation

District ‘Undie Run’ Raises Funds for The Children’s Tumor Foundation by Noelle Jones Metro Editor

In boxers, pasties, boy shorts, and bikinis, D.C. residents braved the nearly freezing temperatures Saturday afternoon in a run to raise money for the Children’s Tumor Foundation. In 2010, two Silver Spring residents, Bobby Gill and Brendan Hanrahan, came up with the idea of Cupid’s Undie Run, a 1.5 mile run in under garments. Since then, the fundraiser has gain widespread support and increased participation. The past three years, six cities: DC, NYC, Atlanta, Seattle, Denver, Colo. and Cincinnati have joined with more than 800 participants. Gill and Hanrahan spoke to the Washington Post about the inspiration behind this elaborate idea. As a teenager in Georgia, Hanrahan’s best friend’s 10-year-old brother, Drew Leathers, developed what Hanrahan described to the Post

as “random tumors” on his arms, back, shoulders and other body parts. “One tumor they removed from his calf was the size of a racquetball,” Hanrahan told reporters. Later Drew was diagnosed with a rare genetic disease called neurofibromatosis, which causes noncancerous tumors to grow on the body’s nerves. Today, neurofibromatosis affects close to 100,000 Americans, many of whom are children. By the time Drew reached the age of 16, the growth of the tumors left him ‘bedridden and immobilized’ by nerve pain. Unfortunatley, there is no cure for the disease and the only way for relief is to have the tumors surgically removed. In Drew’s honor, his brothers started an organization called the ‘Tumornators,’ and Hanrahan helped them raise money for the

Children’s Tumor Foundation. Hanrahan told the Post that when he moved to Maryland in 2006, he knew he wanted to do something similar in D.C. that wasn’t another 5K run. The Undie Run idea developed after Hanrahan heard about a holiday-themed fundraising event in Boston, where people ran in speedos and santa hats to benefit charities. Hanrahan partnered with Gill, his housemate at the time, and the duo built upon the idea of a run with a Valentine’s Day theme. Registration for the 2012 D.C. run was filled by December. In its third year, it has raised over $100,000 for the Children’s Tumor Foundation. Although many runners and participants do not personally know people affected with the disease, the support and thoughtfulness for helping children in need has been overwhelming.

Valentine’s Day in Metro: Hot Spots for Lovers Compiled by Brittany T. Epps Staff Writer Monuments and Olive Garden dates are so trite. While residents and visitors cannot seem to get enough of the Reflecting Pool, D.C. ‘s metro area has much more to offer. If you’ve run out of ideas for the perfect place to woo a potential love interest or reignite the flame with a committed partner, The Hilltop is here to help. This list may spice up your dating life and even help you start, or save, a relationship. Rock Creek Park Horse Center Movie dates lack zest and creativity so give your sweetheart something he or she will always remember. Go for an afternoon nature stroll on horseback at Rock Creek Park Horse Center. What a bonding experience it will be for first time riders! Loction: 5100 Glover Road, NW Hillwood Museums, Estate and Gardens You will not regret bringing your significant other to the Hillwood Museums, Estate and Gardens. Encircled by woodlands, the twenty-five acre estate provides visitors with a view of world-renowned art collections and a tranquil oasis of luscious formal gardens. Make your love swoon in the Japanese-inspired garden—it’s a site for sore eyes! Location: 4155 Linnean Ave., NW Sculpture Garden Ice Rink Break the ice on the ice. The National Gallery of Art Sculpture Garden Ice Rink makes it easier to inexpensively charm your love interest. It’ll prove to be very romantic ice-skating outdoors with your beau surrounded by divine works of art. Location: 401 Constitution Ave., NW

The Jam Cellar Duke Ellington said it best, “It don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that swing!” Well, The Jam Cellar, located in a swanky mansion overlooking Meridian Hill Park, offers the swing and more every Tuesday night, boasting the best swing DJs in D.C. No need to be a professional, there are classes for dancers of all levels. So cozy up to your partner and dance the night away. A couple that swings together, sings together—err, stays together. Location: Josephine Butler Parks Center, 2437 15th St., NW Mie N Yu The name alone suggests a locale for lovers. Mie n Yu is an exotic Georgetown gem that specializes in American cuisine with Asian flair. Sit with your date at a table in one of the main dining areas, which vary from a Moroccan Bazaar to a Turkish tent, attesting to the restaurant’s international flavor. You can also reserve the chef ’s table, which is tucked inside a wroughtiron birdcage, and comes with its own unique menu. You can give your lover an authentic taste of Asia without leaving your backyard. Location: 3125 M St., NW

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Humans aren’t the only ones smooching, getting hot and heavy and dodging cupid’s arrow. This year, the National Zoo released a list of ‘Critter Cupids,’ that provides interesting facts about certain members of the wild kingdom and their wild ways of expressing the ‘Lword.’ Experts at the Smithsonian National Zoo prove that romance is for the furry, feathered, and finned. Below is a list of interesting animal mating rituals and behaviors, provided by the Smithsonian National Zoo: •When a female red-sided garter snake emerges from hibernation, she releases potent pheromones signaling that she is in the mood. This attracts about 20,000 males, all of them eager to pass on their DNA. The males squirm together to form a giant “mating ball” around the lone female. This frenzy attracts hundreds of human tourists from around the globe every year to the snake’s native home, Manitoba, Canada. •Cupid isn’t the only one who shoots arrows to induce love. Several snail and slug species also shoot “love darts” at their partners before mating. Although the “special deliveries” don’t contain sperm, it’s in the snail’s best interest to land the sticky substance on its partner. •Female giraffes’ urine is sure to attract a mate. Many male giraffes check if a female is in heat by nudging her and inducing urination. They can determine her “readiness” by using the Flehmen response –a technique that analyzes smells. Some giraffe species will go so far as tasting the urine to determine if it’s time for love. •Female kangaroos can become pregnant immediately after giving birth. A mother’s pouch may become crowded with two joeys of different ages, but she can nurse both at the same time-with two different types of milk to suit each growing baby’s needs. •Microscopic mites are having incestuous sex-on our eyebrows. A female mite with no nearby males can reproduce asexually in a process called parthenogenesis. Luckily, they pose no known threat to our health. In fact, we may benefit from them feasting on our dead skin cells.

•Size does matter when it comes to clown fish mating habits. A female clown fish is the largest in her breeding group, followed by her mate. When she dies, her male partner will grow larger and turn into a female-a process known as sequential hermaphroditism. •After a male honey bee mates with the queen of the colony, his genitals break off and remain inside her. As he tries to “exit,” his abdomen rips apart, and he dies. (DYING FOR LOVE!) •Bald eagles take breeding to new heights. They soar thousands of feet into the air where they lock talons and begin mating while freefalling toward the ground. They release and soar upward just before reaching the ground. •Like Cupid, male porcupines need to have good aim when attempting to attract a female. Unlike the aforementioned slugs, male porcupines don’t shoot “darts,” but they do aim a steady stream of urine at their intended-who could be as far as six and a half feet away. If she drenches herself in the shower, she is ready to mate. This Valentine’s Day, web visitors can “woo” loved ones with a truly wild gift--bestow an honorary name upon a National Zoo critter after a sweetie, a friend or a family member. “Critter Cupids” include a fanciful valentine to print and present, plus the inestimable satisfaction of supporting wildlife conservation. Visit http://nationalzoo.si.edu/ for more information

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Eternal Voices

Photos by Terricka Johnson, Photo Editor

On Thursday night in Cramton Auditorium, students gathered for a night of entertainment and enlightenment as HU Somalia Relief hosted “Eternal Voices: A Night With the Legends.” Featured performers and speakers included Amiri Baraka, Afro Blue, GWN, and Dick Gregory.

Seniors Erin Rigsby, Britney Wilson and Brion Gill opened the show with a spoken word piece, “Mother to Daughter,” in tribute to the Langston Hughes poem “Mother to Son.” The poem discussed uniting the black diaspora.

Esteemed HU alumnus Amiri Baraka addressed the crowd of students by reciting several poems.

HU Jazz Vocal Ensemble, Afro Blue, performed numbers they made popular during their time on NBC’s “The Sing-OFf”

Comedian and Civil Rights activist Dick Gregory kept the crowd laughing uring his address.

Dancer Anna Mwalagho tantalized the crowd with traditional African dance moves.

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To the ladies that mean the most in my life Happy Valentine's Day you inspire me! @britwitwit7 @enough4one @ThazMzDuece2U @fluentignorance1 @MsStandup_standown Love, @beyonce.mae

They say you meet your best friends at college, and this is sometimes true. I've met some girls I loveee to death, and I brought some with me too. Happy Valentine's Day, Shelyne, Krystal, Jamika, Leandra & Daniesha!

My dear,UR So Kind So sweet Ur zeaL 4 God is encouraging N leads me 2 a better me Ur luv 4 da Word is blowaway N calls me Higher everyday ~Aya

The Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. Alpha Chapter would like to wish the lovely ladies of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc. -Alpha Chapter a Happy Valentines Day Happy Valentineís Day to my Loves Briana, Janice, LaShawn, Dominique, Tiffaine, and Khadijah XO Signed, Annonymous

It’s nice to know that when you’re done saving the world, I’m yours. Happy Valentine’s Day! xoxoxoxoxoxo R.M.W.

Chloe (Baby Spec) and Marissa (Baby Grand), having yall in the spec fam is something I wouldn’t change for anything! Love yall!! QQ! -- Rachael

"Friends change. Lovers leave. But sisters are eternal. Tenacious, you each hold a place in my heart and I will always cherish our bond. -ACE"

The Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. Alpha Chapter would like to wish the lovely ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. -Alpha Chapter a Happy Valentines Day

Happy Valentine’s Day to my loves Ambi, Le, Krystal, Lane, Dani, Des and Chey.. Muahhh! The Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. Alpha Chapter would like to wish the lovely ladies of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. -Alpha Chapter a Happy Valentines Day

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Ms. Baker loves you GSA!

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Happy Valentine’s Day to my lovely line sisters: Tenacious 43! “We got love, ALL 43” <3 18

Happy Valentine’s Day from B.R.A.G. To my amazing business office staff:Thank yall for all of the hard work, dedication, and memories that will last for a lifetime! Happy Valentine’s Day! --Rachael

Jasmine C, Jasmine L, LeMara, & Lanesha: You are authentic & classic with the style of Josephine & the soul of Anita. Love you! -Janicia Talia: Time always shows me, God always shows me and when I look into your eyes, you unequivocally affirm that we are meant to be. From Leighton Watson

The Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. -Alpha Chapter would like to wish the beautiful ladies of Howard University a Happy Valentines Day

Happy Valentine’s Day to all my white people!

COAS Council loves all of our COAS Students and “HU, U KNOW”, we will alJasmine C, Jasmine L, LeMara, ways be there! & Lanesha: You are authentic & Have a Happy classic with the style of Jose- Valentine’s Day phine & the soul of Anita. Love from B.Cahee you! -Janicia

The Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. Alpha Chapter would like to wish the lovely ladies of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority Inc. -Alpha Phi Chapter a Happy Valentines Day

Happy Valentine’s Day to Jakira, Nimat, Jeffrey, Ron Jeremy, and Rachael!! Love yall!! Love, Tati

After my day is thru JC I think of u Its an obsession A natural cravin 4 affection Cuz I luv Him N He Luvs me N We’ll b together 4 eternity ~Yalda “Fashion & affordability for the eco-conscious shopper.” – Simply L3ve by Michelle Gibson. Visit www.simplyl3ve.com. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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In Loving Memory of Whitney Houston The Hilltop compiled a timeline of some of highlights of the legendary vocalist’s life. Our thoughts are with her family and friends.

1963 – Whitney Elizabeth Houston was born Aug. 9, 1963 in Newark, N.J. 1979 – Sung background vocals on Chaka Khan’s smash hit “I’m Every Woman,” which she later remade. 1981– Graced the cover of Seventeen magazine, one of the first African-American women to do so. 1983 – Discovered by Clive Davis in a nightclub. 1985 – Won Grammy for Best Pop Vocal Performance, Female for “Saving All My Love for You.” 1987 – Became the first female artist to have an album debut at #1 on the Billboard Charts. Won Grammy for Best Pop Vocal Perfor-

Photo Courtesy of Wiki Commons Barbie doll inspired by Whitney Houston’s “I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Who Loves Me)” video.

mance, Female for “I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Who Loves Me).” 1992 – Married R&B superstar Bobby Brown of New Edition. 1993 – Gave birth to her daughter, Bobbi Kristina Brown. “I Will Always Love You” held #1 spot on Billboard’s Hot 100 for 14 consecutive weeks. Houston won Grammy for Best Pop Vocal Performance, Female and Record of the Year for “I Will Always Love You.” Won Album of the Year for “The Bodyguard – Original Soundtrack.” 1995 – “Waiting To Exhale” was released. 1996 – “Preacher’s Wife” soundtrack named best-selling gospel album of all time.

Photo Courtesy of Wiki Commons Whitney Houston singing “Saving All My Love For You” during HBO concert for troops in 1991.

1997 – Starred in remake of Roger and Hammerstein’s “Cinderella” alongside Brandy. 1998 – “My Love is Your Love” album released after an eight-year hiatus. 1999 – Won Grammy for Best Female Performance for “It’s Not Right, But It’s OK.” 2002 – “Just Whitney” album is released, includes the single ”One of These Days.” 2009 – Released “I Look to You” album. 2012 – Died Feb. 11, 2012. Summer 2012 – Houston will will appear alongside Jordin Sparks in a remake of the classic film “Sparkle.”

Photo Courtesy of Sony BMG Cover art for Houston’s 2009 release “I Look to You.”

Cheap Dates for the Romantic Procrastinator

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching and while it can be exciting, it can also be expensive. Go easy on your bank account and make that special person happy by going on one of these inexpensive dates. - Compiled by Angelica Dennis, Contributing Writer

Have a picnic. This is a go-to romantic date, but instead of dining outside in the park, create a picnic inside. Lay out a blanket, play some soft music and cook for your date. Good food is a great way to anybody’s heart.

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Movies anyone? Skip the movie theater, where you may end up paying $11 dollars for a ticket, about $4 for a small popcorn, $7 for a drink and of course $5 for candy. Instead, rent a movie from RedBox or Netflix for as little as $1, and run over to your nearest dollar store and grab popcorn and candy for a movie night at home. Experience the cultural side of D.C. For the artsy couple, there are plenty of free art galleries in D.C. to visit. The Phillips Collection in DuPont Circle, America’s first museum of modern art, is only a metro ride away and admission is free.You can also try The Smithsonian American Art Museum, located on 8th & F St. NW. This museum is the nation’s first art collection and best record of the American experience from the beginning until now. You’re never too old to play games. If you don’t feel like leaving the house or dressing up, here is a fun and cheap way to still make the day special. Buy some games from Target or the Dollar Store and play them with your special someone. This is a fun idea for the couple that would rather stay in.

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Rachel McAdams Shines in ‘The Vow’ by Alexandra Webster Contributing Writer In the new romantic movie of the season, “The Vow,” Rachel McAdams plays Paige, a young, married artist who loses her memory in a car accident. Her husband, Lee, played by Channing Tatum, desperately tries to remind her of the love that they shared before her memory loss. The efforts of the husband she doesn’t remember conflict with the desires of the estranged parents Paige has forgotten she no longer speaks to. Paige remembers her life up until a certain point – it is a life without a husband. In fact, she is in love with someone else. Her relationship with her parents is pristine and she is attending law school – this is what she knows. She is unable to see Lee in the picture, despite his persistence. Lee is faced with a tough decision: to keep trying to win his wife’s love all over again, or to let fate take control. When considering romantic films of the 21st century Rachel McAdams often comes to mind. She’s basically the Molly Ringwald of this generation. With the exception of “Mean Girls,” most of her notable roles have been in romantic films – but that’s a great thing. McAdams is what keeps this movie moving, and frankly, she was the actress that will grab viewer’s attention. Tatum, while gorgeous eye candy, still has not seemed to improve in acting since “Step Up” or “Coach Carter.” There is still that I-sound-like-I’m-reading-lines quality to his voice, which is hard to ignore. Fortunately, Tatum was given enough funny quips and shirt-

Photo Courtesy of Screen Gems ‘The Vow’ stars Rachel McAdams as a young wife who loses all memory of the love she had with her husband.

less scenes to not fall completely into McAdams’ shadow. Still, this reviewer couldn’t help thinking that while “The Vow” was “good” it could have been “great” with a different co-star – perhaps Ryan Gosling? As the movie unfolded, it seemed as though McAdams and Tatum became more comfortable with each other and the movie became more enjoyable. As McAdams’ character developed, Tatum’s acting grew increasingly believable. Though “The Vow” was relatively short in running time, the plot was engaging enough to keep audiences watching. Though the romantic vibe is not as strong as some of McAdams’ other movies, there is still a likeability to the characters that will make viewers root for their love. “The Vow” is an obvious Valentine’s Day movie, but it’s also a good movie to enjoy with female friends – or male friends! – and even family.

Forget Valentine’s Day: The Sour Apple Bitter Bish Playlist By Lauren McEwen, Life & Style Editor Valentine’s Day isn’t all roses and drugstore chocolates for everyone. Some of us are comfortable with our single status, celebrating the lover’s holiday by spending time with friends, enjoying date-movie-marathons on Lifetime and Oxygen, or just treating it like another day. However, others aren’t so mellow about the fact that V-Day is approaching. If you’re one of those bitter souls – male and female – The Hilltop’s got something special in store for you. Now presenting the Sour Apple Bitter Bish Playlist to get you through this Valentine’s Day. Even if teddy bears don’t make you want to punch someone in the face this year, you could still enjoy the list of heartbreaking, sassy and utterly bitter songs we’ve compiled for your listening pleasure. Including: F**k You - Cee Lo Caught Out There - Kelis Marvin’s Room - Everybody Blame Game - Kanye West ft. John Legend, Chris Rock Ex-Factor - Lauryn Hill Silly - Deniece Williams Song Cry - Jay-Z

Tyrone - Erykah Badu That’s What You Get - Paramore ‘Cause I Love You - Lenny Williams Contemplate - Wale H.A.T.E.U - Mariah Carey All I Could Do Was Cry - Etta James U Don’t Have to Call - Usher

The playlist is available in its entirety on Spotify – put together by our staff, with special help from our Metro editor, Noelle Jones.You can find the link on www.thehilltoponline.com. Enjoy! And if you’re still feeling upset, break something.

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Athletes Challenge Stereotypes with Personal Stories of Love, Commitment by Ayanna Alexander Copy Editor

Committed athletes often face challenging obstacles in their commitment to being the best in their respective sports and in their personal relationships as well. With shows such as, Vh1’s “Basketball Wives” showcasing athletic relationships in a poor light, monogamy can seem nearly impossible for an athlete. In some cases the stereotype that athletes and romance just do not mix is perpetuated. However, there are a few HU athletes that prove this stereotype is not true in all cases. Senior Linebacker, Keith Pough has been dating his significant other for three months, but has known her since his freshman year of college. He feels that having a successful relationship with an athlete requires discipline and communication. “I use the same discipline that I

have with football, in life. In order to accomplish a great relationship, you have to work at it,” Pough said. “I remember to do all of the little things that it takes to keep her happy. Being in a relationship with an athlete is tougher, because it’s more demanding. Sophomore basketball center, Alphonso Leary says that he and his significant other have been dating for a year and have formed a strong bond. “We just communicate about everything and we don’t keep anything from each other. We try not to let others on the outside get into our relationship,” Leary said. In relationships with athletes, privacy is also something that appears to be of great value as some athletes strive to avoid rumors or even to maintain multiple partnerships. Although Pough understands privacy, he does not care for it in his relationship. “I’m not a fan of a private

relationship. I say stay private until you’re serious with that person,” Pough said. “Once it’s official, if you care about them, show your significant other to the whole world.” For Leary, his significant other serves as a form of motivation. He says he can always look to her to lift him up and keep him working hard. “She always pushes me to do better,” Leary said. “She makes sure that I always stay hungry even when I don’t have a good game.” Pough says that not only is his girlfriend a real friend to him, but she is also a constant inspiration. “She’s my cheerleader in many ways. She never lets my ego get too big,” Pough said. “All in all, she inspires me to be a better me.” Leary has one piece of advice for those athletes that are trying to maintain committed relationships. “Keep your inner circle tight and don’t entertain the public,” he said. “Don’t let outsiders in your business.”

Men’s Basketball Team Improves Conference Record With Weekend Win Over FAMU by Julee’ O’Neal Contributing Writer

everyone knows their role.” FAMU’s ended the game shooting 12.5 percent, (3-24) from the three point line and making 25 The Howard Men’s Basketball shots out of 70 shot attempts (35.7 hosted Florida A&M on Saturday, percent) from the field. HU shot Feb. 11 in Burr Gymnasium. HU 42.9 percent (4-7) from behind the improved their conference record to arc and connected on 24 out of 51 (4-8) and (7-18) overall after defeatshot attempts (47.1 percent) ing FAMU 71-69. Howard outscored FAMU in Howard was paced by red-shirt the paint 40-36, outscored their Junior Captain, Calvin Thompbench 36-21 and had a solid night son and sophomore guard from from the free throw line by shooting Hampton,Va., Tre Lee. Both play80 percent (20-25). FAMU finished ers finished the contest with a total the game with 14 turnovers to HU’s of 27 points, shooting -eight-for-15 19 and both teams were tied in from the field. Thompson led the rebounding, 36-36. team with 15 points and grabbed For next game, Lee and three rebounds while Lee contribThompson are looking forward uted 12 points, four rebounds and dished out two assists. Photo Courtesy of Sports Inforamtion Desk to continuing the teams’ winning streak. Lee said, “It will be real sigHead coach Kevin Nickelberry HU men’s basketball defeat FAMU nificant to get this win on Monday. compliments his team for their ef71-69 in Burr to improve their conferIf we come out focus, play good forts in Saturday’s game. ence record to 4-8. defense and play tough, then we “We have been starting 5 freshwill be where we need to be in the men and last night they played MEAC.” are playing more as a team and our huge by giving us a lead of eight Thompson said, “With the win chemistry is the main thing that has towards the end of the second half. it will bring us up four spots in the When Calvin and Tre came in, they improved.” MEAC rankings. We can’t become In order for the team to have showed leadership by finishing the complacent but we will continue game out and putting us in the posi- been successful in this match, to ride this wave. We pretty much Thompson said the game plan was tion to win the game.” are expecting the same outcome-to front the post players, close out Lee and Thompson were bringing intensity, and lots of strong on the three-point shooters pleased with their performances in energy like Saturday’s game.” and try to prevent FAMU’s best Saturday’s game. Lee said, “It was Nickelberry emphasized on how player, Amin Stevens, from scoring a matter of going out and doing his team is the youngest team in the bulk of the points. However, everything to help my team win.” Stevens captured a game-high of 24 the MEAC, but is one of the bigger Thompson stated that as cappoints (shooting 50 percent from the teams as far as size. He continued to tain of the team, his role is to make say Bethune Cookman might have field) and tallied a team-best eight plays and be a leader vocally. He a better record and have a lot of rebounds in 24 minutes of action. said he feeds off of his teammate’s upperclassmen with experience, but Thompson also mentioned how intensity and their love for the Nickelberry switched up the starting if Howard comes out and play hard game. Thompson also said he simwith one mind and one purpose, line-up by replacing upperclassmen ply has to lead his team to victory. they will come out successful. with freshmen and explained how The game was tough as both HU will return to the hardwood teams battled to take the advantage. they have benefitted from it. “The matching up against Bethune-Cookfreshmen are bringing the intensity “It was a tough one but we man on Monday, Feb. 13 in Burr and a lot of energy for the team,” pulled it out,” Thompson said. Gymnasium. Jump ball is slated for said Thompson. “We are having Lee said, “The win solidified 7:30 p.m. more productive practices, everyus putting everything together. We body’s confidence is going up and

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Photo by Jordan Duckens Freshman quarterback, Greg McGhee and freshman offensive lineman, Kyrian Baptiste read and play with homeless children in the D.C. area at the General Hospital homeless shelter.

The Bison Football Team Mentor, Interact With Homeless Children In DC Area by Jordan Duckens Contributing Writer Members of the Howard University football team transformed from players into playmates for nearly 50 children living in General Hospital homeless shelter. The players – Deonta Allen-Wright, Kyrian Baptiste, Julien David, Greg McGhee, DJ Tyson, and James Williams – volunteered with the Homeless Children’s Playtime Project, an organization dedicated to giving children who live in homeless shelters around the District an opportunity to exercise their bodies and minds in a healthy, nurturing environment. The American Psycological Association says homelessness can compromise a child’s mental and physical health. According to the ‘Playtime’ website, nearly 30 percent of D.C. children under 18 live at or below the poverty line. They seek to reduce the consequences of poverty by offering the children an escape from their circumstance and allow them to bask in the joys of being a kid. “A lot of them have experienced trauma, so we are focused on keeping this as calm and therapeutic of an environment as possible,” said Heather Provencher, one of the site coordinator’s for HPCC. “We don’t say the word homeless. It’s about fun and playing.” For two hours Thursday evening, the Howard University football squad played games, read books and did art projects with the children, who ages ranged from 3 to 11. Head football coach, Garry Harrell was informed about the volunteer opportunity from Valarie Fair, a senior biology major who has been volunteering at the shelter since September 2011. “Ms. Valerie Fair contacted me and explained how there was a lack of black males volunteering their service to the D.C. General Hospital Shelter,” Harrell said. “So

I wanted to do something to help the situation.” At this particular site, nearly all of the children are black and a majority of them are young boys. Coach Harrell’s players were willing and ready to help. As the children roamed into the playroom one by one, the players greeted them with smiles and showed genuine interest in the kids – asking them their names, ages, and what they like to do. “I enjoyed watching my Student-Athletes take control of the activities and having fun with the kids,” Harrell said. “They did a terrific job bringing smiles and joy to the kids.” DJ Tyson, a freshman sports management major and wide receiver, said his love for kids made the community service experience especially enjoyable. “I’m a big kid personally. I’m 19 with the heart of an 8 year old,” said Tyson with a smile. “I’ve been looking for things like this to do as far as community service – things with kids. I just have the heart and passion for helping kids out.” Reminiscing about his own childhood role models helped Tyson understand the importance of his service. “Growing up I would go to high school games and look up to the older kids, so I could only imagine college athletes coming to play, have snack time and read stories,” Tyson said. “I think we had a great impact on the kids today. We played and read to them. I think that’s going to inspire them for the rest of their lives.” It was evident by their continuous smiling and laughter that the children enjoyed having the football players there to join in on the fun. “I liked when they played the spaceship game with us,” said Ismail, an 11-year-old Playtime participant. “I don’t like football, but I liked them. They were good.”

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Valentine’s Day Horror Stories Because writing is cheaper than therapy...The Hilltop staff brings you staff testimonials on love and Valentine’s Days gone wrong... -Written by The Hilltop Staff

Caught Out There

By Taylor Hill, Cartoonist

Save Your Change for the Girl with the Ring Valentine’s Day is definitely a one-sided holiday! Guys run around buying all the stuffed animals, candy, and flowers they can carry in hopes that the girl they just flowered with gifts will invite them in for a private sleepover. Instead, we get a smile and big hug. Why? Because we’ve been put in the friend zone! I will never buy another woman a present for this holiday for them to tell me that we’re just friends. Do I sound upset? I hope not, I’m really working on my emotions. I promise. The biggest Valentine’s Day fail I’ve had has got to be last year! I courted a certain young lady, even put an ad in The Hilltop for her, and a few days after Valentine’s Day she called it off between us. She completely played me! There was no recovering from that! The lesson learned: never spend money on a woman that isn’t your wife. It isn’t worth it!

Love from the Pharcyde Luckily, the worst Valentine’s Day I experienced was at the age of twelve. I’m mostly over it. Being the shy person I am, I was terrified to give my crush a present. She was the most popular girl in school and I was just the chubby, quiet boy of the class. However, I mustered up the courage to buy her the classic chocolate and teddy bear. I’ve always been a bit of a romantic. My homeroom teacher allowed me to sneak into the classroom early and leave the gifts in her desk. When class started, I eagerly observed her reach into her desk and shriek. The entire class turned and erupted in a united “AWWW.” The gifts labeled “From Your Secret Admirer” led no trail back to me. The entire class and my crush whispered to one another about whom the gifts could’ve come from. She began to interrogate all the boys in class. When she came to me, I planned to spill the beans and confess my love for her. Before I could speak, she asked, “Austin, I know Joe [the most athletic and popular guy in school] couldn’t have planned this by himself. Did you help him?” “She keeps on passing me by...”

Downed with Love

I met the most amazing guy when I was a senior in high school. He was beyond fine and talented. He played the piano and he sang. Everything was great for the first few months, then he started showing his true colors. He talked a good game, but didn’t do anything to back it up and you know what they say, “actions speak louder than words,” and he was ALL about the words. We fell out so many times, and I would bounce back fairly quickly, dating other guys here and there, but he always had a hold on me. One day, while we were technically on a break, he asked me to marry him. I was so taken aback that he told me I didn’t have to give him an answer right away; he just wanted me to think about it. So, while I was lightly thinking about it 6 months later, I texted him and found out his DAUGHTER had been born 2 hours earlier. Whoa, all the egg was on my face. Although I should have been hurt, and most people expected me to be depressed, all I could do was laugh. Needless to say, I’m much more careful about who I give my time to.

Although I pride myself on not falling for anything, I fell really hard for a friend of mine. I resisted the fall for so long, it took me years to tell him. During those years, two and a half to be exact, he got involved with someone, which forced me to hold my tongue even longer--not counting a fleeting bold remark I once made when he recounted stories of the insane trials in his on-again, off-again relationship with her. So, when I found out that his relationship with said girlfriend was “off ” for good, I wanted to make sure that after all those years, I didn’t miss my potential opportunity. So, I wrote him a letter--not a flowery, over-the-top declaration of love, but an honest account of how I felt about him and how much I appreciated our friendship. I told him that regardless of how I felt, and whether or not he returned my sentiments, I only wanted the best for him, even if it wasn’t me. My only intention was to be honest with him. Just to be safe, I even ran the letter past some of my other close guy friends, just to make sure that I wasn’t doing too much. They approved, and the girl with an intense fear of falling took a leap, handing him the letter and bolting before one of his classes one day. He never responded, and I hit the pavement at full speed with no one to break my fall.

To Be Mine or Not to be Mine? Since eighth grade, I’ve probably been honest-to-goodness single for a grand total of six months. Even if I didn’t have an official boyfriend, some of my time was always invested in someone who was a little more than just a friend. I could never tell if I was addicted to attention, if I was too insecure to be by myself, or if I just befriended people easily--and thereby attracted male friends easily, but it was never really a problem until last Valentine’s Day. The VDay morning came, and I had no plans for that evening. I had kind of, sort of, been dating a friend. We’d fallen into that murky kind of Howard-ized dating. You know, where you spend the majority of your time with one person, but he’s still too afraid to admit that you’re going out? Yeah. And I let him get

away with that. So Valentine’s Day comes, and I have nothing to do, but get home from class, watch The Notebook on Oxygen and cry into a bag of Doritos. And then, at 2 p.m., my phone buzzes. I check the text, and it’s him, asking if I’m busy that night. After all of this will-I-won’t-I nonsense, he got up the gall to ask me on a real, official date. And like a fool, I said yes. Months later, I couldn’t even be surprised when I learned he’d been up to no good. And I really wasn’t sure I had the right to be upset in the first place. Lesson learned: either you’re dating, or you’re not. Don’t give someone unwilling to commit to you the same privileges you would give a real significant other.

An Open Mind and an Open Heart I’ve never been in love. That’s not to say that I haven’t thought about it or that I don’t want to fall in love. It just hasn’t happened. Somehow I’m still a hopeless romantic despite never actually experiencing real romance. I mean, I have my share of casual flirting here and there, but nothing too significant. To quote Groove Theory, “I’ve been doing my own thing. Love has always had a way of having bad timing.” I put a lot of pride in the work I put in as a student and as an aspiring journalist. Sometimes work can create a serious barrier between you and your love life. You get to a certain point when you start questioning yourself. Do I not have time for anyone? Am I too picky? I say you should be willing to re-evaluate some of your personal hang-ups that could be keeping you away from finding true love. So if you’re still looking for Mr. or Ms. Right, remember that nothing ever happens before its time. When you finally find the right person, you’ll realize it was never supposed to work out with all those other people. Keep an open mind and an open heart.

A Teenaged Love

When you’re in high school, everything is a big deal. Things like not getting a carnation delivered to your division on Valentine’s day? Tragic. One gift I did receive that fateful V-Day during my sophomore year was one for the books. I wish picking up an attractive guy was as easy now as it was then, because I distinctly remember choking on some lemonade in front of my future boo and being asked for my phone number shortly thereafter. We even made out on my couch while watching Pirates of the Caribbean --scandalous, I know. It was obviously meant to be, so I naturally assumed I would be getting a Heart’s Day surprise. I drifted through Feb. 14, 2006 in an assured haze--ignoring my friends with over-sized stuffed animals with names like “BryanBear” and

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couples walking hand-in-hand with flowers and candy. Once 3:30 came, I was on my way home, clutching my phone, waiting for the call. I had it all planned out in my mind. The phone would ring--I believe Chris Brown’s “Yo” was my ringtone at the time-- and I would answer with a coy “hello.” My boo thang would ask me to meet him at the shopping plaza halfway between our houses. There I’d be greeted with flowers and an over-sized stuffed animal that I could give a stupid name. We’d kiss for maybe five minutes, part ways, and I could go home and gush over the bear and flowers to my BFF on the phone. Instead, my boo shot a “Happy V-Day” text my way at around 11 p.m.

Could high school life get any worse? “YES!” followed by a church congegation saying “Amen.” The next morning, when I decided to stop by McDonald’s on my way to school, I was approached by a camera crew and a smiling newswoman. Mortified--and wearing oversized gray sweatpants and a large brown coat, double yikes!-- I tried to avoid her, but failed. When she asked “So who was your Valentine?!” I wanted to die a thousand deaths. When I responded, “my grandpa?” the news woman’s smile morphed into a pitiful puppy dog pout as she “aww”ed me and said “Better luck next year.”

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Big Sister Says...

Tonight! Tonight! Tonight!

Don’t Fight for What’s NOT Yours

by Candice Crowell Columnist Dear Little Brother and Sister “Do Better,” Although the love of my life and I are doing quite well as our fifth Valentine’s Day together approaches, your Big Sister is going to tell you about a time when I was around your age, and I lived a “Marvin’s Room” moment--the Jo Jo version. I was walking on the campus of Morehouse College, and I happened to pass a group of Omegas. As I gave my hellos and kept it moving, one lone dog followed me to a bench that I frequented to

write poetry. Now I wasn’t in the mood to be bothered, so when he asked me what I was doing, I told him writing poetry, assuming he would back off. He asked me to spit something, and I did. Then he said he was a poet too. I’d been writing long enough to know that random people think that they are poets when they are not, so I did not expect to be impressed, but I was. Then he had the NERVE to just leave without getting my number, as good as I was looking. That intrigued me, but I should have known better right then. “If he is not asking for your number, he’s just not that into you.” That was a great book that I had not yet read, so I didn’t know the signs. The next few times I saw him, he still didn’t ask, so I took it upon myself to ask for his. We exchanged digits, as they were called in the early 2000s, and we eventually went out on a pretty cool first date. No kissing, just caking, but I was attracted. To make a long story short, we spent a very sweet, innocent night after the “Pretty Nasty” party, looking at the stars at Piedmont Park while listening to Anthony Hamilton. I was smitten.Then I found out he had a girlfriend. Did I do the respectable thing

and gracefully bow out? No. I tried to convince a man that was already taken that he should be with me, a classic rookie move. Thinking he could “do better,” I worked harder than I have ever worked trying to prove that I was the better choice. I was making seven-layer lasagna at his house regularly--she lived out of state--and giving up goodies he did not deserve. I felt lower than low, but I thought that if I won him over I would feel some sense of redemption. Well, eventually I did “win.” I “won” a guy that never had to fight for me. I “won” a cheater, a quitter, and someone who, six months after we had broken up, had a wife and a baby on the way. So, in other words…I LOST. Not saying he’s a bad guy, and I’m a good girl. I was ratchet (Emmanuel Hudson voice) for my part too. I got what I deserved, and I learned to treat myself like I deserved better in order to get better. And now I have the best. Sincerely, Big Sister “Once was Ratchet” Candice Crowell is a second year doctoral student in counseling psychology in the School of Education from Niagara Falls, N.Y.

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Britney, Valentine’s Day? Pshh. Tomorrow should be known as the eve of YOUR BIRTHDAY!! Love ya, Your Hilltop Fam

Hey “Franklin!” I said I wasn’t going to do this, but I changed my mind. Happy Valentine’s Day, boo! To my love, Your face is a rare rose in a garden of weeds. Why did God choose you for me? I am not worthy. Happy Valentine’s Day.

-Me.

-John

To all of the amazing people in my life, family and friends: Thank you for keeping me grounded and inspiring me every day. -Macy

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THE HILLTOP | MONDAY FEBRUARY 13, 2012

Happy Valentine’s Day From The Hilltop! To my boo, Dominique : Loving HU and the world since 1913, Happy Valentineís Day from the Reds :)

Happy Valentineís Day to one of the sweetest, most beautiful girls Iíve ever met. Love you Girl ie! Yaya <3

To the Elections Commissioner: When are you going to vote for me? My ballot box has been empty for far too long...

To the Princesses of Park Place: So glad I have friends like you. Love you! MNR

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5:30 – 8:00pm

*Food and Drinks will be provided

ATTENTION: SENIOR ACCOUNTING, BUSINESS, ARCHITECTURE AND ENGINEERING MAJORS Please come out and meet JLL employees including Todd Burns, President of Project and Development Services (PDS) and Dan Pufunt, President of Property Management, as well as several Howard alumni at a reception on February 15, 2012.

Career Opportunities Associate Project Manager (APM) APMs are responsible for supporting project executives on large complex projects and assignments, proactively managing project-related issues on accounts or assignments, developing scope and schedule for assigned projects and will interact and negotiate with contractors and subcontractors. They demonstrate a proactive focus on client and project requirements in a timely and cost effective manner. Assistant General Manager (AGM) AGMs are responsible for running an office building or property under the guidance of a General Manager and assisting with the management and tactical control of the day-to-day property operations. This includes leasing, management, financial performance, and employee motivation and client services.

Jones Lang LaSalle (JLL) is a financial and professional services firm specializing in real estate services and investment management. Our more than 40,000 people in 1,000 locations in 70 countries serve the local, regional and global real estate needs of those clients. We attract, develop and reward the best, and most diverse, people in our industry, challenging them to develop enduring client relationships built on quality service, collaboration and trust.

Analyst An analyst is responsible for gathering and evaluating economic, demographic and real estate market data to identify new business opportunities, assisting with the preparation of client presentations and marketing materials, searching for new clients and developing relationships in the real estate industry, and developing pro forma financials on both a pre-tax and after-tax basis. Requirements A qualified candidate will have a bachelor’s degree in accounting, business, architecture, engineering or construction management. Candidates should be highly organized and analytical, and have excellent organizational, interpersonal, and communication skills.

On-Campus interviews for full-time 2012 positions will be held on February 16th, 2012. For further information please email Brittani.Sanders@am.jll.com

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WEDNESDAY 2/15

Can’t Knock the Hustle. Can I Live? Jewels, Inc. Presents Jewels, Inc. Valentine’s Day A panel discussion about the Politics as Usual Panel disFlower and Bake Sale importance of being your cussion on the misconstrued Douglass Hall 11-3pm sister’s keeper by views of the opposite sex. Jewels, Inc. School of Business Quad 7 PM Auditorium 7pm Come support the Women and Men’s Basketball teams against bethune cookman university tonight at 5:30 and 7:30 pm in Burr Gymnasium!

Miss School of Communications presents Playing the Field with Demetria Lucas, Relationship Editor of Essence Magazine 4-6pm at the Bookstore

“Bison Express Student Rally and Free Membership Signup” February 14, 1867Let’s support OUR athletes, Morehouse college the band and the cheerleaders established in Augusta, “Hear the Strategy” President Richard McGhee Georgia HU Hall Of Fame 1pm To 3pm Blackburn Center Digital Lecture Hall Wednesday, February. 15th February 14th, 1946- Bisonexpress@aol.com Entertainer and Ofc: 301-203-1069

dancer Gregory Hines born

Happy Valentine’s Day to my baby spec Chelsie K.! I love you bunches!! Love your spec, Jamila Happy Valentine’s Day to Tenacious 43!! Love yall, --42

THURSDAY 2/16

FRIDAY 2/17

Jewels, Inc. Presents Cashmere Thoughts. Speed Dating Drew Hall 7pm

Jewels, Inc. Feelin’ It Date Auction Digital Auditorium 7pm

February 16, 1857Frederick Douglass elected President of Freedman Bank and Trust.

February 17, 1891A. C. Richardson, a black inventor, invented the churn, patent #466,470

February 16th, 1951February 17th, 1982New York City Council passed bill prohibiting racial Jazz Pianist Thelonious discrimination in cityMonk died. assisted housing developments.