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THEKNOT.COM
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EDITOR’S NOTE
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THE KNOT TOOLS
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THEIR WEDDING, THEIR WAY
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ASK THE KNOT SQUAD
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EXPERT ADVICE
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MARRIAGE LICENSES AND WEDDING ANNOUNCEMENTS
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LAST LOOK
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REAL WEDDINGS 53
NICOLE + BEN October 6, Chicago
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HARRISON + JASON July 13, Chicago
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AKELLO + EMEK A July 27, Chicago
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SCANDI SKI Get inspired by this destination bash with Scandinavian-style flair.
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JACQUELINE + JEFFREY April 20, Chicago
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NEENA + DAVID August 23 & 24, Chicago
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HEATHER + PEDRO September 13, Monticello
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SHADES FOR EVERY SEASON Upgrade your celebration with these fresh color palettes.
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THE YEAR’S FRESHEST VENUES We introduce you to some of the hottest new venue options. ››
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BOUQUETS YOU’LL LOVE No matter your style or location, there’s a bundle of blooms for you.
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FA S H I O N + B E AU T Y
PERSONALITY-PACKED EATS Use your menu to channel the details of your relationship.
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FLIGHTS OF FANCY Let your style soar with gorgeous engagement rings and bands.
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EDITOR TEST DRIVE A firsthand look at the hottest prewedding beauty treatments.
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MAID OF STYLE The bridesmaid trends you need to know, plus how to pull them off.
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VEILS, UNVEILED All the prettiest styles, from the traditional to the new and trendy.
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COURT OF LOVE Break the fashion rules with fun details and unexpected silhouettes.
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SIP, SIP, HOORAY Our models had a blast shaking up several bottles of bubbly—and letting the corks fly—on the steps of city hall.
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For their Harold Washington Library Center wedding, Roshni and Elliot combined Indian, Italian and American traditions. To honor her Indian heritage, Roshni wore a custom lehenga, her grandmother’s diamond earrings and her mom’s gold necklace. For his part, Elliot rocked a navy tux and suede loafers with no socks. The couple’s celebration included Western vows and pasta at their sangeet.
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WE ’RE IN THIS T O G E T H E R
5 Y E A R S L AT E R
CELEBRATING LOVE FOR ALL It’s hard to believe the legalization of samesex marriage passed just five years ago. To think the inability to marry whom you wanted existed so recently in this country is staggering. And while there’s still much to be done to create equality for all, we wanted to take the opportunity to celebrate the anniversary of such a historic moment. Turn to p. 178 to read the touching stories of two couples married the same year as the monumental decision, and what it means to them.
KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief @kristenmax kristen@theknot.com
CAKE FOR ONE
Let’s just say sharing food isn’t my strong suit. This individual confection is just one of the fun ideas in the issue. (p. 91)
BAND TOGETHER FANCY FOOTWORK
I loved this bride’s genius solution to include her crowd-shy rescue dogs in the wedding. (p. 36)
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From rainbow stones to mixed metals, wedding bands are more unique than ever and we’re so here for them. (p. 129)
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As we go to press, an unprecedented pandemic is impacting our country in ways we’ve never experienced before. Schools and stores are closed, and working from home has become the new normal. Another reality? Canceled weddings. My deepest hope is that by the time this issue hits stands, our world is seemingly back to normal, but I know the repercussions of this will be felt for months. So while we all work to rebuild our way of life, we want you to know that The Knot is here for you via social (@theknot), online (TheKnot.com) and in these pages. Whether you’re forced to reschedule your wedding day or simply feel behind on planning due to weeks of social distancing, we’re here for you. We created the content of these pages before the global pandemic, and we’ll be here when the dust settles too. We’re all in this together.
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DISCOVER WHAT YOU LOVE You’ll start by swiping right on images you love—these will be added to your final board (you can always add more). There’s also room to add personalized, must-haves (think: taco truck, dog-friendly venue or room for a sangeet).
floral wizard or an epic cover band, book those pros first. Many in-demand vendors get scooped up early, especially in high season. Don’t panic: If your first choice is already booked, ask them for a recommendation. Chances are they have an industry BFF who can also help bring your vision to life.
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REGISTRY
MANAGE YOUR People will want to shower you with gifts from “we’re engaged” to your wedding day, so a registry is a must-have. Build yours on The Knot Registry and add items from anywhere you shop with our universal registry tool. That means you don’t have to choose between bespoke Etsy finds and smart home tech from Amazon. Plus, your guests get a one-stop shopping experience—a win-win.
SHARE YOUR IDEAS When you’re ready, send your inspo-packed vision board to your fam and the people bringing your day to life. Your series of images will help convey your idea of what a “romantic garden party” really looks like.
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PERFECT YOUR COLOR PALETTE We’ll even suggest colors that match your wedding style. Not quite right? Change them up as you plan.
GET PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS
GUESTS
THINK OF YOUR A wedding website is clutch—for your guests and you. Fill your site with need-to-know info, like hotels and registries, then share it with your guest list. Your friends and family will be in the know, and you won’t be fielding “directions please” emails hours before you say “I do.” You can even stay on top of RSVPs with our handy built-in reply tool.
We’ll take your quiz answers and match you with vendors based on your location, style and budget—starting with your venue.
SAY “I DO” WITH EASE We’ll send you helpful reminders along the way and create a day-of timeline to ensure smooth sailing.
EDITOR TIP Choose from free designs (coordinate
SHARE PHOTOS
MAKE IT LAST
Prompt guests to download The Guest app, and their photos and videos will be shared in real time, no hashtag necessary!
Keep the flame alive while planning and beyond with Lasting. Download the app for on-the-go relationship counseling. GetLasting.com
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with your Minted wedding invites), and even snag a custom URL for an extra touch of personalization.
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IS ICON Throughout the issue we’ve included more ways we can help you pull it all off, like creating your wedding website and setting up the ultimate registry.
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Take our Style Quiz in the app and we’ll help you create your very own Wedding Vision board. Use it to plan your #bestdayever.
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MAKE TR ADITION
THE DETAILS
The Christmas aficionados invited 200 guests to join them in celebrating their marriage during the winter solstice on December 21.
THE COUPLE
Patrick Freund (25 and a finance analyst) and McKenna Kiple (25 and an audit associate)
THEIR WEDDING, THEIR WAY
S I LV E R B E L L S McKenna and Patrick decked the halls during the most wonderful time of the year, swapping vows and sealing the deal with a kiss (no mistletoe needed). B Y L I L LY B LO M Q U I S T
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PLACE SETTINGS
HOME SWEET HOME
Wood tables were decorated with evergreen garlands, white roses and votive candles, allowing the festive plaid napkins to pop. “We had evergreens in my yard growing up, so they’ve always been my favorite,” McKenna says.
A gingerbread house card box echoed the arch the pair kissed beneath while students at Miami University (a ritual that promises a lifelong union).
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The bridal party cozied up in plaid pajamas while giving a toast to the lovebirds.
THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING
Instead of a guest book, the pair asked loved ones to sign a pair of skis, which they now use as décor.
FROSTED TREATS
Two pine cones—one wearing a hat and one wearing a veil—stood atop the couple’s three-tier cake, which was covered in snowy white and dotted with greenery and sugared cranberries.
THE TEAM CEREMONY SITE Saint Clement Parish, Chicago RECEPTION SITE The Langham, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY Christy Tyler Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Shutter and Sound Films PLANNER Clementine Custom Events FLOWERS Exquisite Designs GOWN Bella Bianca Couture, Chicago MENSWEAR TheBlackTux.com OFFICIANT Fr. Paul Seaman TROLLEY Absolute Dream Limousines
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ADVICE
Q+A
ASK THE KNOT SQUAD You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. We tapped our team—and one of our go-to industry pros—to solve some of your most of-the-moment planning asks. OUR TAKE I really want a modern, fun invitation suite, but my fiancé is feeling something a bit more classic with calligraphy. Any design tips for picking invites that suit both of our styles? SARAH EVANS
Private vows allow you to express yourselves without an audience.
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My partner and I are both major introverts— we don’t do PDA and hate being the center of attention—so a traditional ceremony seems really scary to us. Are there ways for us to rethink the structure to fit our personalities?
PRO TAKE
JOVE MEYER
Owner Jove Meyer Events Jove is an NYC-based event designer known for throwing celebrations that take personalization to new heights.
Your wedding ceremony should be true to both of you—that includes reflecting your style, love story and personalities. If you’re both introverts, you could consider a city hall ceremony. This allows you to bring a few friends, keeping things intimate and casual. But, if you go with a city hall wedding, a majority of your loved ones will miss out on your public commitment. As an alternative, rethink the day in a way that pulls the attention away from you. Maybe you could skip walking down a traditional aisle and instead hang out with your guests preceremony. Think: no processing, just getting married where you are, on your terms. You could also walk down the aisle with your partner or ask guests to process to you instead, meeting you, your partner and the officiant at the altar. Starting the ceremony together might make you more comfortable. In the end, the goal of the wedding ceremony is to make your commitment of love in front of those you care about most. This can really take place in whatever form feels most authentic to your relationship.
Marriage is all about collaboration and figuring out how to blend two individual styles. Here’s the good news: When it comes to stationery design, seemingly opposing tastes can actually complement each other nicely and really represent you as a couple. If your fiancé is nonnegotiable on calligraphy, try pairing hand lettering with clean, modern typefaces for a combo that won’t feel too stuffy. Give your suite an energetic vibe by experimenting with color and avoiding any fussy details that might not feel true to your combined style. Letting the script shine as the focal point can feel clean and bold but simple and timeless at the same time. Win, win! We’re trying to settle on a first dance song, but the classics feel too serious. Where can we find a first dance jam to start the party? S H A R LY N P I E R R E Assistant Editor, Research
Check out different radio stations or comb through Spotify, but keep this in mind: As you’re researching, don’t be afraid to explore different genres you might not always find yourself listening to. Try pop, hip-hop or even Afrobeats. If nothing makes you want to strut and shake something, enlist the help of your wedding party and ask for song recs or even a playlist—they’ll know what feels most like you both.
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ROAD TO LOVE
SMALL WONDERS
JOEY + SCOTT CINCINNATI
“Our genius designer paid tribute to the thousands of miles we traveled when we were long distance,” Scott says. “The path on the ampersand is the highway we drove to get to each other on I-71 in Ohio.”
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Looking for a subtle way to personalize your suite? Try a custom wax seal in a favorite color, a meaningful stamp on the envelope or an illustration on the liner.
creative W I T H Y O U R
Set the tone for your celebration with a suite that’s as one of a kind as your story. Invites are an opportunity to take personalization to the next level, from custom illustrations of your abode to subtle tributes to your journey down the aisle. Ask your designer to create custom art of something special.
HOME SWEET HOME S I LV I A + M A R I O S A N A N TO N I O
“Oddly enough, we found our stationery when we moved into our home,” Silvia says. “I stumbled upon this handdrawn illustration as I was dusting and organizing our cabinets. I got copies printed and held onto them for a long time in the hopes of using them in the future. I never thought that the occasion would be our reception in the front yard of our home—but here we are.”
INCLUSIVE ‘I DOS’ CHRISTINA + JAMES PHILADELPHIA
“I created a version of our invitations in braille for my friends with vision impairment,” Christina says. “Not all people with vision impairments can read braille, so we also made sure the paper was white with a dark font to ensure a high contrast for universal legibility.”
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TRENDING
FURRY FRIENDS
TOP IT OFF
R A C H E L + K E V I N B A LT I M O R E
“It was always important for Kevin and me to include our pups in the ceremony,” Rachel says. “They’re rescues and don’t handle large crowds well, so this was my way of having them with me as I walked down the aisle.”
H AV E
Shoes aren’t the only accessory that can speak to your style. Rocking a suit? Try a custom bow tie or a bolo made from a special stone. If you’re wearing a gown, add extra meaning with jewelry or a veil.
fun W I T H Y O U R
Your wedding day is a chance to channel your personal style from head to toe—literally. These couples kicked their footwear up a notch by running wild with color, illustration and meaning, bringing a new definition to “happy feet.”
SEEING DOUBLE DANI + MIKE BEAVER, PA
GOOD LUCK CHARM RACHEL + FANGZHI CHICAGO
“I originally got these slides during a trip to my husband’s hometown of Yichang, China,” Rachel says. “I thought I’d wear them for our ceremony in China, but decided it would be even more special for them to serve as a nod to my husband’s family as well as a pop of color in our more modern Chicago ceremony.”
Channel your cultural identity with your accessories.
“I absolutely love wearing saddle shoes, and Mike is into the look too,” Dani says. “We wanted to do something a little different, and our wedding had a slight vintage flair, so these seemed like the right fit. We both felt stylish in a quirky, old-school way—not to mention confident and comfortable.”
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TRENDING
STITCHED WITH LOVE
PUT DOWN ROOTS
MELISSA + DANE ALMA, KS
“After Dane’s mom passed away, a dear friend and Sioux elder wrapped and blessed him in a morning star quilt,” Melissa says. “At our ceremony, she blessed us together as a couple in the same piece.”
Embrace your inner green thumb and plant a tree together. Add a sentimental twist to the ritual by using soil from your family homes.
After their ceremony, Melissa and Dane hung their quilt up at home.
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meaning W I T H Y O U R
When it comes to saying “I do,” there are a myriad of ways to seal the deal. Though many couples choose to light candles or pour sand, you can also link your lives together by remixing rituals, whether they’re based in your faith, your family or your favorite midnight snack.
FRESHLY MADE CASSIE + ERIC SAVANNAH, GA
FAMILY TIES A N G E L A + B R I T TA N Y CINCINNATI
“It was important to us to involve our pastor—who has played a huge role in our spirituality—in our ceremony,” Angela says. “We also wanted to honor our diverse faith journeys and those of our guests. A handfasting struck that perfect balance for us.”
“A few days before the wedding in a hungry stupor, we decided to make guacamole in front of everyone to seal the deal,” Cassie says. “Our officiant explained to our guests why chips and guac stood as a strong metaphor for marriage as we delightfully smashed avocados and shared bites.”
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TRENDING DISCO DROPS Earrings, $38, Zaxie.com
BRING THE
drama W I T H
BOLD TIPS
EMERALD + BLUE
Gel Couture nail polish in Caviar Bar, $12, Essie.com
Get glamorous with a daring dose of jewel tones that will make any event feel luxe.
CROWN JEWEL Bobby pin, $82, JenniferBehr.com
DAPPER TOUCH Bow tie, $25, TheTieBar.com
INTO THE DEEP Saturated table number in Tidepool, $30 for 15, Erin Deegan, Minted.com
THE BACKSTORY
Dress in sizes up to 20, $280, TheiaCouture.com
PLUSH PERCH
KEEP CLEAR Clutch, $995, Edie-Parker.com
CANDY CRUSH Coffee crunch extra dark chocolate bar, $10, Compartes.com
SASSY STEPPERS Shoes, $395, LoefflerRandall.com
ARTSY VESSEL Libra blue and white vase, $15, CB2.com
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NAIL POLISH: GETTY IMAGES; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS
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Green velvet chair, $60 per day to rent, RentPatina.com
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A N E S C A P E F R O M T H E O R D I N A R Y. . .
The Monte Bello Estate is a premier event space with endless photo opportunities on over 55 acres of impeccably manicured grounds, specializing in weddings, social parties, and corporate events.
16501 135th Street, Lemont, IL | 815-836-8617 | TheMonteBelloEstate.com
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TRENDING WHAT A DISH
Food52 dinnerware by Jono Pandolfi, from $34 each, Food52.com
MOONSTONED Earrings, $495, KendraScott.com
KEEP IT
chic W I T H
GREIGE REIGE + CREAM STRAPPED IN
Shoes, $100, ChineseLaundry.com
Use tone-on-tone neutrals to lend an effortless and elegant appeal to your stylish celebration. TREASURE TROVE Keaton jewelry box, $40, KateSpade.com
COLD SHOULDER Dress in sizes up to 28, $270, Amsale.com
MODERN MEMO Foil-stamped colorblow wedding invitation, $270 for 100, ArtifactUprising.com
FIDO FASHION
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Flax lines dog bandana, $26, TheFoggyDog.com
PEARL POWER SWEET SCENT
Candle in Chandelier, $36, Otherland.com
GLOW UP
Ambient Lighting finishing powder in Diffused Light, $48, Sephora.com
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Clutch, $950, EKRDesigns.com
POWDER: GETTY IMAGES; ALL OTHERS COURTESY OF VENDORS
Dress up your fur baby in a pictureperfect coordinated bandana.
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Taking elegance to the next level. 2300 Mannheim Road, Des Plaines, IL • 847.298.3636 • sales@fountainblue.com • FountainBlue.com
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luxe W I T H
AMBER + RUST
COLORFUL TOSS Cactus silk pillow in Mustard Yellow, $60, CB2.com
BOW-TIFUL
Barrette, $138, JenniferBehr.com
SHINE ON
Marc Jacobs Beauty See-Quins Glam Glitter liquid eyeshadow in Copperazzi, $26, Sephora.com
Embrace all things fall with an unexpectedly cool palette that brings the warmth. VELVET TOUCH
Dress in sizes up to 24, $295, JennyYoo.com
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Natural shapes save the date, $129 for 100, PaperCulture.com
BUZZY FAVOR
BumbleBerry honey, $20, ShopTerrain.com
FUNKY FRINGE
DAZZLING DANGLERS
Cotton fringe napkins, $22 for 4, Creative Co-op, Amazon.com
Earrings, $150, KennethJayLane.com
FESTIVE FIZZ
TOST beverage, $21 for 3, TOSTBeverages.com
Shoes, $1,245, ManoloBlahnik.com
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FANCY FEET
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With stunning perennial gardens and peaceful lakes as the perfect backdrop, there is no better venue for a special wedding celebration than Kemper Lakes Golf Club. With year-round availability for both ceremonies and receptions, our beautiful stone patio and elegant ballroom, complemented with magnificent chandeliers, combine to create a magical setting. Brand new indoor and outdoor cocktail hour facilities are now available for your guests’ enjoyment. Clubhouse Manager Jessica Trzop and Executive Chef Antonio “Moe” Morales are at your service to provide expert assistance and guidance as the big day approaches. Please contact Jessica at 847.726.5544 or jtrzop@kemperlakesgolfclub.com for availability and discuss your plans. 24000 N. Old McHenry Rd., Kildeer, IL 60047 | 847.320.3450 | kemperlakesgolf.com
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ON LOCATION
The first—and often hardest—decision you’ll make is where to throw down. Here are 10 spots to make that task a bit easier. B Y L I L LY B LO M Q U I S T
ARTIFACT EVENTS CHICAGO
EMERSON CREEK OSWEGO
LOFT LUCIA CHICAGO
PINE CREEK ESCAPE OREGON
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From $8,000 300 ABOUT With a quiet courtyard outside and exposed brick walls, wood floors and timber beams inside, this industrial site delivers on the classic urban wedding experience.
COST
From $14,000 225 ABOUT Overlooking the countryside, this venue plays host to a remodeled barn, a peaked tent glowing with chandeliers and a furnished patio for lovebirds to celebrate in style.
COST
GUEST COUNT
From $4,575 140 ABOUT Industrial windows illuminate this West Loop space’s contemporary architectural details, plaster walls and marble bars, while an outdoor terrace boasts views of the lush landscape.
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FLOWERS
RENTALS
CATERING
CAKE
TRANSPORTATION
From $8,500 220 ABOUT Ivy-covered limestone walls, stone staircases and soothing waterfalls provide couples with a private and peaceful resort getaway, tucked within 400 acres of forest.
ON-SITE ACCOMMODATIONS
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ON LOCATION Heritage Prairie Farm
HERITAGE PRAIRIE FARM ELBURN
From $6,500 250 ABOUT Away from the hustle and bustle of city life, couples can soak up the peace and quiet of the site’s organic farm while enjoying chef-prepared, local cuisine grown on-site. COST
GUEST COUNT
LOW RES STUDIO CHICAGO
From $5,000 150 ABOUT At this modern joint, artistic murals and geometric floors encourage couples to freely express themselves with innovative wedding designs. COST
GUEST COUNT
THE MONTE BELLO ESTATE LEMONT
From $6,500 275 ABOUT Surrounded by over 55 acres of forests, prairies and the largest private wildflower preserve in Illinois, this family-owned venue is bustling with life. COST
GUEST COUNT
THE OLD POST OFFICE CHICAGO
From $7,500 600 ABOUT With scenic views of the Chicago River, this newly restored historical landmark has modern reception rooms and an ornate two-story lobby decorated in white marble and gold. COST
ARROWHEAD GOLF CLUB WHEATON
From $92 PP 275 ABOUT While guests twirl around the luxe grand ballroom, three balconies provide breathtaking views of the pristine, award-winning golf course. COST
GUEST COUNT
CHEZ CHICAGO
From $6,000 GUEST COUNT 180 ABOUT At this modern loft space, couples can bring their vision to life with a backdrop of white brick walls, soaring ceilings and a glass staircase. COST
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LE A R N M O R E AT C R U ISE C HICAG O.CO M With spacious open-air decks offering breathtaking views and enclosed air-conditioned salons, Chicago’s finest fleet is the ideal choice for your wedding day. Offering up to 2 premium bars, your choice of exceptional caterers, and sophisticated appointments throughout, your wedding cruise on Chicago’s First Lady will be a day to remember.
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EXPERT ADVICE
ALL ABOUT
PLANNING HOW FAR IN ADVANCE SHOULD COUPLES BOOK THEIR WEDDING PLANNER?
TO P T I P S Focus on making one decision at a time. For instance, choose your wedding photographer before moving on to selecting a caterer.
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WHAT SHOULD COUPLES DO IMMEDIATELY AFTER THEY GET ENGAGED? The first thing on your list should be to celebrate! When you deliver the exciting news to your family and friends, ask them what potential dates and times work best with their schedules so you can make sure everyone you love will be in attendance. It’s also important to sit together as a couple to jot down some ideas about your wedding theme, style, design and budget. I always tell couples to select four or five adjectives they would use to describe their wedding so they can then share them with vendors when the time comes.
HOW HAVE YOU SEEN MODERN COUPLES PUT A UNIQUE SPIN ON AN OLD TRADITION? One time, I worked with a bride who opted out of the classic bouquet toss. During the reception, she gathered all of her female guests and, instead of throwing her bouquet to the crowd, handed each of them a small nosegay bouquet to take home as a keepsake.
WHAT TRENDS DO YOU EXPECT WILL MAKE THEIR WAY INTO THE WEDDING WORLD IN 2021? I foresee small and intimate weddings becoming even more of a popular option, so couples can spend time connecting with each guest. For those who can’t make it to the wedding, l think live-streaming will become an integral part of future wedding ceremonies. That way, loved ones can still partake in the festivities and celebrate the newlyweds, even if they can’t physically attend. Couples will also start to embrace more vibrant colors in their palette, from bright bridesmaid dresses to fun floral arrangements and vivid stationery designs.
WHAT PIECE OF ADVICE DO YOU WISH MORE COUPLES WOULD TAKE WITH THEM ON THEIR PLANNING JOURNEY? Have fun and enjoy this time together! Keep a journal of your journey, from the vendor meetings you attend to the emotions you feel after buying your day-of attire. Take plenty of photos along the way. Recording each moment will give you the opportunity to reflect years later on the planning process and recall all of the excitement you felt leading up to the big day.
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OUR PRO Ali Phillips, president of Engaging Events by Ali
Hiring a planner should be one of the first steps you take, especially if you intend to host a weekend-long celebration. When you book a planner early, you’ll increase your chances of getting the team you have your heart set on, and you’ll be able to jump into the fun stuff right from the start. A planner will help you unpack your vision and work with you to determine important details, like deciding on a reasonable budget, finding the perfect venue and devising a realistic timeline to efficiently complete your tasks.
Book a local wedding planner at THEKNOT.COM/CHICAGO
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ENDLESS LOVE. TIMELESS MEMORIES.
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Chicago Gaelic Park OAK FOREST, ILLINOIS
Classic and elegant surroundings for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies. You’ll receive personalized service from our experienced staff members, who are with you every step of the way. 6119 147TH ST., OAK FOREST, IL | (708) 687-9323 | CHICAGOGAELICPARK.ORG
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Real Weddings NEED A LITTLE INSPO? THESE COUPLES TOOK THEIR CELEBRATIONS TO NEW HEIGHTS BY FOLLOWING ONE RULE: YOUR DAY, YOUR WAY.
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S U AV E S T Y L E Nicole opted for a modern gown with mesh details and a billowing veil, while Ben paired his sleek tux with a watch gifted to him by his new wife and engraved with the pair’s initials and wedding date.
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THEIR STORY Architects Nicole Wiznitzer (28) and Benjamin “Ben” Crocker (33) met while at architecture school, so it was only natural the pair host their wedding day at the Chicago Cultural Center, a landmark with stunning details. “We knew we wanted a venue that had its own atmosphere and character,” Nicole says. After securing the site, the pair designed a bash with a black and white palette, modern details and sleek accents so the unique surroundings could shine. — LI LLY B LO M Q U I S T
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BACK IN BLACK The pair grounded the building’s ornate interior by incorporating lots of inky-black details, like opaque acrylic chairs, tablecloths, napkins, plates and smoky hurricane candle holders. “We wanted it to feel like an upscale dinner party rather than a flowery wedding,” Nicole says. MAZEL TOV The duo threw a traditional Jewish wedding, complete with the hora. Guests carried the newlyweds on chairs high above the crowd while everyone danced.
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FA S H I O N F L A I R
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Ashley added a sentimental touch to her sleek custommade tulle dress with her grandmother’s pearl ring, while David dressed down his sharp tux by unbuttoning his shirt and opting out of socks and a tie.
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THEIR STORY Ashley Park (32 and a manufacturer and distributor) and David Finkelstein (32 and a consultant) and met at a mutual friend’s when David was visiting from Shanghai, so it made sense that they eventually return to tie the knot in the same neighborhood where their relationship began. “We knew our venue was ‘the one’ the moment we walked into the space,” Ashley says. “It was beautiful, bright and airy—it left lots of room for creativity.” The pair covered the restored woodworking shop in tropical plants and motifs, from large banana leaves to a tiger cake topper, giving guests a glimpse of their version of paradise. —LB
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BOTTOMS UP The duo named their signature cocktail after their pup so she could celebrate with them in spirit. GIMME GREENS Towering tropical arrangements paired with black and gold tabletop details for a chic and edgy look. DREAM TEAM Since the couple couldn’t narrow down their list of pals, they decided to forgo a wedding party. “We just had a room full of friends wearing whatever wedding attire they felt comfortable in,” David says.
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Monstera and banana leaves, roses, king proteas and orchids were among the varietals that made an appearance in the day’s tropical-meetsmodern floral look.
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DAZZLING DÉCOR Modern ghost chairs and black table runners lined the reception tables, while antique peacock chairs made a statement at the sweetheart table. “I have an affinity for vintage furniture and design juxtaposition,” Ashley says. TROPICAL TREATS A tiger bride and groom and an assortment of vivacious flowers garnished the semi-naked cake. ON ISLAND TIME The couple soaked up every minute of the memorable evening. “It was the best day of my life,” Ashley says.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Joinery, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY Eric Floberg Inc. PLANNER & EVENT DESIGNER Michelle Kurinec/LOLA Event Productions FLOWERS Exquisite Designs GOWN Ceremony: custom, BHLDN; reception: Revolve.com; Akira.com TUXEDO BLVDier, Chicago WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Various ACCESSORIES Shashi.com ENGAGEMENT RING Stephanie Gottlieb WEDDING RINGS Merry Richards Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Zola.com; escort cards & menus: Minted.com RENTALS BBJ Linen; Bowery and Bash CATERING Feast & Imbibe Events CAKE Flourish Cake Design CAKE TOPPER SugarplumCottage, Etsy.com DESSERTS Feast & Imbibe Events OFFICIANT Whitman Kam (friend) MUSIC DJ Chris/MaryMonica Music & Entertainment INC. PHOTO BOOTH ShutterBooth Photo Booth Rental FAVORS DIY TRANSPORTATION Uber HONEYMOON Mexico GUESTS 139 HASHTAG #Finkleys
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D O U B L E TA K E The pair dressed in matching navyblue tuxedos as a charming way to emphasize their compatibility.
7.13 | CHICAGO
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THEIR STORY Instead of sticking to a specific theme or palette, Harrison Mackler (right, 33 and a periodontist) and Jason Pietrucha (36 and a business analyst and fitness instructor) wanted a wedding that reflected their unique interests, so they decided to get hitched at a venue that let them paint their masterpiece. From an Olive Garden soup bar to a Broadway-inspired ceremony program, LaCroix photo booth background and lots of rainbow details, they made sure all of their personal favorites were in attendance. — LB
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FAMILY FLORALS Jason’s grandmother, a florist, helped select colorful blooms for the day, including hydrangeas, larkspur, roses, dendrobiums, ranunculus and purple kale, also adding a touch of greenery. DRINK OF CHOICE Nods to LaCroix sparkling water were made throughout the wedding, capturing the pair’s love for the bubbly beverage. GAG GIFT After exchanging vows, Jason surprised Harrison with a trophy from RuPaul’s Drag Race, one of their favorite shows.
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Ovation Chicago, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY Maypole Studios Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Shutter and Sound Films PLANNER DIY FLOWERS Abloom Floral & Gifts TUXEDOS The Black Tux, Chicago; pocket squares: The Tie Bar ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Enso Rings STATIONERY Invitations: Minted.com; programs: DIY; escort cards: Woodentown, Etsy.com (closed) RENTALS Hall’s Rental CATERING Osteria Via Stato; soup bar: Olive Garden; late-night pizza: Pequod’s Pizza CAKE Portillo’s DESSERTS Sweet Mandy B’s OFFICIANT Jessica Baer (friend) MUSIC DJ Intel/Style Matters OTHER ENTERTAINMENT Drag queen: Elektra Del Rio; lifesize groom cutouts: CardboardCutoutStandees.com FAVORS Customized toothbrushes: Oral-B HONEYMOON Amalfi Coast, Italy; Barcelona, Spain; Lisbon, Portugal GUESTS 185 HASHTAG #TrooshlyMacklyDeeply
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THEIR STORY Akello Ragwar (29 and works in data security) and Emeka Linton (38 and works in private equity) knew they wanted to swap vows in the vibrant city of Chicago as a tribute to Emeka’s hometown. Guided by Akello’s vision, the pair created a romantic garden party in the heart of the city. “We wanted something timeless and beautiful,” they say. The newlyweds kicked off married life surrounded by ivy-covered walls, delicate flowers, a soft color palette and nearly 200 of their closest loved ones, cherishing the opportunity to solidify their relationship with the city skyline as their backdrop. — LB
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PA R T Y D R E S S
Akello paired her white gown with teardrop earrings and crystal-studded sandals for a glam look, while Emeka wore suede loafers as a complement to his dark blue tux.
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TABLE TOPPERS Reception tables alternated between towering arrangements and living runners, both made up of greenery, roses and hydrangeas. SWEET SLICE For dessert, the newlyweds served a three-tier confection with layers of yellow butter cake and carrot cake with buttercream frosting. LOOK UP Chandeliers covered in smilax, Italian ruscus and wisteria dotted the ceiling, adding a lush, romantic garden atmosphere to the ballroom.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Ivy Room at Tree Studios, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY Emilia Jane Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Kristina Parkins & Cordoh Tarr PLANNING & EVENT DESIGN DIY DAY-OF COORDINATOR Chrissy Dwyer FLOWERS SFM Designs GOWN Martina Liana TUXEDO Reeves, New York City; bow tie: Turnbull & Asser WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: David’s Bridal; groomsmen: Black Tie Formalwear HAIR Akila Marshall MAKEUP Jerlicia Hobson VEIL Wedding Belles New York ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Mayfair Rocks STATIONERY Invitations & escort cards: Shutterfly; menus: The Ivy Room at Tree Studios RENTALS & CATERING The Ivy Room at Tree Studios CAKE Cake Chicago OFFICIANT Mae Reggy (Akello’s aunt) MUSIC Sam Trump; DJ Bonsu HONEYMOON French Riviera GUESTS 170
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SEASONAL STYLE In addition to their bold dresses—Helin in navy blue and Beth in red—the lovebirds shielded themselves from the unexpected rainy weather with a pair of leather jackets and a clear umbrella.
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THEIR STORY Chemical engineers Beth Carter (33) and Helin Cox (32) crossed paths while working together in Chicago, so it was only natural that they also swap vows in the Windy City. When planning their day, the pair set out to embrace the vibrant hues and natural beauty of fall, decking out their venue in seasonal hints of red, orange and yellow, seen everywhere from their statement shoes and florals to their stacked cheese “cake.” “Our main goal was that our party be fun and welcoming for all our guests,” the couple says. — LB 75
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE City Winery Chicago, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY AJ Abelman Photography PLANNER Seymour Productions Event Planner FLOWERS Flowers for Dreams DRESSES Max Mara HAIR Beth: Art + Science Salon; Helin: Cigdem Irmak (Helin’s sister) MAKEUP Cigdem Irmak ENGAGEMENT RING Shelle Jewelers STATIONERY Minted.com RENTALS & CATERING City Winery Chicago CAKES Strawberry shortcake: City Winery Chicago; cheese “cake”: Costco CAKE TOPPER TpcDesignStudio, Etsy.com OFFICIANT Lindsay Wexler (friend) MUSIC DJ Alice/Toast & Jam DJs TRANSPORTATION Keith Carter (Beth’s brother); Uber HONEYMOON Chile & Argentina GUESTS 120
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“ I D O ” D E TA I L S
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Jacqueline added a dose of edge to her modern white dress with a black leather jacket emblazoned with “‘Till Death.” Jeffrey spiced up his classic attire with red socks and patent leather shoes.
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M A D E W I T H LO V E
The bride used her creative expertise to DIY pink pom-poms for their nieces to scatter down the aisle in place of flower petals.
C U S TO M C O M F O R T At the reception, Jacqueline laced up white Converse embroidered with her new last name.
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THEIR STORY When planning her marriage to Jeffrey Picton (36 and a finance worker), artist Jacqueline Bovit (35) jumped at the opportunity to design her own vision on a largerthan-life canvas—which turned out to be Chicago’s Museum of Contemporary Art. “I reached out to them, expecting it would remain a pipe dream, but they had one date left for that year,” Jacqueline says. After securing the venue, she got to work producing a modern masterpiece, complete with handmade touches like a painted leather jacket, printed lyrics to the pair’s first dance song on each menu and calligraphed escort card envelopes. — LB
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ABSTRACT ART Each reception table featured a table number cut into abstract shapes. The modern motif also appeared throughout the couple’s stationery and printed materials. FIT FOR ROYALTY Jacqueline rocked a glamorous gold headpiece to celebrate the evening’s events. FRESH INVITES Jacqueline partnered with an artist friend to design the invites, finishing each with a custom wax seal. “It’s my favorite way to send mail,” she says.
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Jacqueline’s bouquet, which included ranunculus and poppies, was tied with lace from her mom’s wedding dress.
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Seasonal buds in soft sorbet shades appeared at each table. “The floral vibe was very natural and free-formed,” Jacqueline says.
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I SCREAM Instead of a cake, the couple hired a local ice cream shop to serve pops to guests. “They set up a funky cooler and let us make a custom sprinkle blend,” Jacqueline says. FINGER FOOD The newlyweds offered up fried chicken sliders, burrata and bang bang shrimp during cocktail hour. WORK OF ART Much of the reception space had sculptures and plants hanging from the ceiling. “It was the main reason I didn’t want to add any other décor,” the bride says.
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY Stevi and Matt Savage/ Averyhouse VIDEOGRAPHY With Love Productions PLANNER Cecelia McIntosh & Kaitlin Steiner/Deux Clare Wedding & Events FLOWERS Field & Florist GOWN Sarah Seven, Chicago TUXEDO TheBlackTux.com HAIR Coral Gable/Penny Lane Studios MAKEUP Jen Kaye/Nika Vaughan Bridal Artists ACCESSORIES Headband: Lelet NY; hairpin: Adorn512 Jewelry ENGAGEMENT RING Vintage, Steve Quick Jeweler WEDDING RINGS Koop Diamond Cutters STATIONERY DIY; Paper Culture; Mandy Schuster (friend) RENTALS & CATERING Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago DESSERTS Pretty Cool Ice Cream OFFICIANT Tara Allessio (friend) MUSIC This Must Be The Band FAVORS DIY HONEYMOON Hawaii GUESTS 150
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WEDDING WEAR The pair incorporated many culturally significant looks into their weekend, with David rocking a green kurta, beige vest and brown dress slippers and Neena dressed in a pink silk sari with gold jewels for their Hindu ceremony.
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THEIR STORY Neena Vasavan (30 and a strategy consultant) and David Gross (30 and a real estate agent) celebrated their union by fusing their diverse backgrounds together. “We wanted to plan most of the events ourselves to make sure they were the right blend of Western and Indian traditions,” Neena says. The pair kicked off the weekend with a mehndi party, followed by a Hindu ceremony and reception, and finishing with a Catholic mass and an after-party, with each celebration playing host to cultural traditions and personal details. — LB
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C U LT U R A L C O C K TA I L S The pair served up two signature drinks dubbed the Madras Mule and the Iowa Two-Step. “We wanted to pay homage to our fusion of cultures,” they say.
JOINING HANDS As a way to honor David’s religion, the couple said “I do” in the second-oldest Catholic church in Chicago. FULL BLOOM For the Saturday Western celebration, Neena carried a bouquet of soft pink roses, dahlias and vibrant greenery. SMOOTH MOVES The pair danced to NSYNC’s cover of the Alabama hit “(God Must Have Spent) A Little More Time on You,” combining Neena’s childhood love of pop with David’s love of country.
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CEREMONY SITE Hindu: Bridgeport Art Center, Chicago; Western: Holy Family Church, Chicago RECEPTION SITE Hindu: Bridgeport Art Center; Western: The Dalcy, Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Something New Media PLANNER Clementine Custom Events FLOWERS Flowers for Dreams GOWNS Ceremony: Anomalie.com; reception: Lihi Hod, Alice in Ivory, Chicago SUIT Indochino; tie: The Tie Bar WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Azazie.com; groomsmen: various; ties: The Tie Bar HAIR & MAKEUP Appease Inc. ACCESSORIES BHLDN ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Judith Ansteth Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Minted.com; programs: Vistaprint.com; sign calligraphy: Delaina J Designs; menus: The Dalcy RENTALS Art of Imagination; Bridgeport Art Center; The Dalcy CATERING & DESSERTS The Dalcy; Mantra Chicago CAKE ECBG Cake Studio OFFICIANTS Hindu priest: Anu Malhotra; Catholic priest: Fr. Mike Gabriel MUSIC Ceremony: Billy Dwyer & Mark Scozzafave/Old St Pat’s Church; Chicago Musical Connection; reception: DJ Harsh WELCOME BAG DIY; printing: Vistaprint.com TRANSPORTATION Signature Transportation Group HONEYMOON Greece & Italy GUESTS 225
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Heather + Pedro PHOTOGRAPHY BY WRIGHT PHOTOGRAPHS
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TO P I T O F F Heather paired her floor-length veil with a chic hat that a friend from work decorated with ribbon, dried palm, selenite and a taxidermy moth.
THEIR STORY As a florist, Heather Hyde (29) knew she wanted the star of her wedding to Pedro Sardela (31 and a client implementation manager) to be lush floral displays. The duo swapped vows at the Sunken Garden at a park and nature center, then moved their reception indoors. Guests grabbed escort cards with surprise flower seeds inside, while unique arrangements of palm leaves, eucalyptus, anthurium, ranunculus, anemones, dahlias and more rested at the center of each table. — LB 89
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Allerton Park and Retreat Center, Monticello PHOTOGRAPHY Kelsey and Blaine Wright/Wright Photographs PLANNER DIY FLOWERS Asrai Garden GOWN Daughter of Simone, BHLDN SUIT KERCHER, Chicago; waistcoat: Favourbrook; shirt: Gitman Bros.; pocket square: Suitsupply; tie: Sozzi Milano HAIR & MAKEUP Timothy John Salon and Spa ACCESSORIES Hat: Anthropologie ENGAGEMENT RING Fiat Lux WEDDING RINGS Heather: vintage; Pedro: Parts of Four STATIONERY Invitations: Zola.com; escort cards: FlowerSeedPaper, Etsy.com CATERING Allerton Park and Retreat Center CAKE Hopscotch Bakery + Market OFFICIANT Lucas Hyde (Heather’s cousin) MUSIC DJ: William Argus (family friend) PHOTO BOOTH DIY GUESTS 110
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A classic Colorado ski town channels its Scandinavian roots with a festive destination bash designed to embrace culture and style.
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STYLE + PLANNING
C U LT U R A L S I P
Infuse your signature cocktail with symbolic ingredients, like Scandinavian lingonberries.
HAPPY HOUR Your cocktail space deserves love too. Here, chic seating and patterned linens set a festive scene.
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Delight guests with a treat that leads them to their seats, like these stunning floral-topped cookies.
S W E E T S E AT Calling all dessert lovers: Play up your sweet tooth with mini cakes at each place. Clockwise from left: Furniture rentals, EventRents.com; linens, LaTavolaLinen.com; paper goods, SweetZionPaperie.com; cookies, SweetFleur.org; florals, PremaStyle.com
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PA P E R P O S I E S
Your invites are the first look guests have into your wedding style, so let them shine. Here, muted tones and classic Swedish florals make for a stylish and thematic suite.
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TO W E R I N G T R E AT Your cake is a great place to lend a cultural touch, like this kransekake, a cookie tower typically stacked atop a champagne bottle for the couple to drink during the reception.
Smilax vine and sweet blue tweedia flowers tie the cake into the bouquet.
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C LO U D O F B U D S Draw the eye up with sprawling florals. This bright arrangement features dahlias, anemones and more.
BLUE BUNDLE This bouquet of blue tweedia boasts a hidden meaning: peace and harmony. Very Scandi, no?
DA N I S H D I S H
FRESH AIR
Carry similar patterns throughout your event (like bitsy blue florals) for a cohesive look.
A retro Airstream trailer adds to the ski town aesthetic—and can double as a photo booth for guests.
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Cake (left), King’s Norsk Products; florals, PremaStyle.com; Airstream, EmberHairstream.com; tabletop rentals, EventRents.com; paper goods, SweetZionPaperie.com
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STYLE + PLANNING
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COLOR IS IN— AND BOLDER THAN EVER. U P G R A D E YO U R D AY W I T H THESE FRESH PA L E T T E S . B Y A LY S S A LO N G O B U C C O
FALL modern moody
Saying “I do” in autumn is all about embracing the dramatic atmosphere of the season, so concentrate on working with colors that pack on the saturation. Traditional fall shades like inky navy blue and rich burgundy get a very 2020 upgrade with help from of-the-momenthues like coral, mauve and fiery orange. HOW TO USE IT When working with a palette as unexpected as this one, it’s only right to keep the surprises coming. Instead of focusing all the color attention on your tabletops, why not turn to your florals to bring that wow-factor? Painted or dyed botanicals like baby’s breath, feather ferns and dried blooms are a great way to add a dose of unexpected (and other-worldly) color. From there, you can complement the look with a modern mix of signage or paper goods printed on colored paper, a bold menu and seasonal sips.
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STYLE + PLANNING
WINTER icy pastels
There’s no better way to embrace the snowy nature of (most) winter climates than to add a subtle layer of “frost” over all your favorite pastel shades. Slightly whitewashed hues like pale blue and soft lavender still feel lively while not seeming completely out of place for the season. The best part? This pretty palette helps to keep your celebration from skewing too “holiday,” which can often be a struggle in winter. HOW TO USE IT Good news: You’ll be able to find tons of florals in these shades, even during the depths of winter, so that’s a great jumping off point for your palette. From there, layer on extras like table linens, bridal party attire and more to help set the scene. Just keep in mind: You’ll want any fabrics and or textures to uphold a seasonal feel, so opt for heavier-weight materials like wool and velvet over lighter options like silk. WHY IT WORKS
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SPRING natural retro
This unique combo marries the best of mid-century design with a modern feel totally fit for any of-the-moment celebration. Think of this palette as neutrals-but-better— calming shades like nude and olive green set the foundation for more zesty picks like mustard yellow, coral and soft mint. The end result? A look perfect for a boho, nature-inspired spring soiree. HOW TO USE IT These shades beg to be mixed and matched, so start by decking out your wedding party in looks that range in color, texture and saturation. From there, set the scene at your reception with funky lounge furniture and interesting tablescapes. Don’t shy away from embracing the retro feel of this palette—you’ll be able to find tons of cool couches, chairs and even rugs in shades perfect for your party. Then, bring everything together with an eclectic mix of buds.
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SUMMER posh palm springs
West Coast is the best coast—at least when it comes to summer wedding palettes. For a bright and cheery warm-weather bash, look no further than the citrus-inspired shades of colorful Palm Springs. A range of orange, yellow and fuchsia will practically create the party atmosphere for you—plus they’ll all pop amazingly in your photos. HOW TO USE IT When you’re going this bright with your palette, more is more. Look to create photo-ready installations, like paper lanterns or a standout floral wall that doubles as a photo booth backdrop. You can also have some cheeky fun with oranges in this palette by incorporating the real-deal fruit into your decor. Think: blood oranges slices used as a table runner, clementines in your salad appetizer and even orange-blossom buttercream on your cake.
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LIONHEARTED EVENTS The Chicago planner shares what trends are inspiring her, plus her advice for to-be-weds.
ABOUT THE EXPERT
BUDGET SMART
SKIP WHATEVER
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JUST BE YOU
Grace Freeman is the owner of Lionhearted Events, based in Chicago and New York. She focuses on helping her couples embrace their individuality and challenge tradition.
We always suggest couples book a venue and caterer first— those two are super important, and there’s no way to stay in budget if you don’t know what you’re spending there.
It’s important to remember you don’t have to do anything on your wedding day. Tradition has come a long way—from walking down the aisle to cutting the cake, it’s your call.
Even small touches, like naming your tables after places you’ve lived, go a long way in personalizing your day. The goal is always to reflect your relationship in any detail you can.
The absolute best weddings are thrown by couples who don’t take themselves too seriously! Your guests will remember having a great time with you, not the nitty-gritty details.
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THESE NEW PICKS HAVE SOME OF THE SAME PERKS AS OUR PERENNIAL FAVORITES, WITH A UNIQUE VIBE ALL THEIR OWN. B Y A LY S S A L O N G O B U C C O
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THE YEAR’ S FRESHEST VENUES If it feels like everyone you know is getting married in a barn, you’re not alone. According to The Knot 2018 Real Weddings Study, the rustic locale is consistently growing in popularity for couples who are tying the knot. And while we love us a good barn celebration, we’re also excited to introduce you to some of our favorite new kids on the block. Score one of these unique venues and you’ll officially be that ahead-of-the-curve couple.
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ARTIST RETREAT If your dream day includes having your friends and family in one spot for the duration of your wedding weekend, look no further than a nearby artist retreat. It has all the perks you’ve come to know and love from more traditional “summer camp” settings, like accommodations for the majority of your guests, access to the sprawling grounds for the whole weekend, privacy and plenty of space for fun extras like outdoor games or midnight bonfires. However, it swaps the rustic cabins and dirt for more refined buildings and event spaces, with an architectural and artistic edge that will make couples totally swoon.
MAKE IT YOURS Focus on modern details with a bit of a bespoke touch to play into the artistic DNA of the space, like lots of greenery, matte-black accents and even artfully plated food for dinner. If you’re open to it, look into local designers or artists that utilize the space and see if you can incorporate some of their work into the design of your day, like in your stationery suite or signage. Be sure to take advantage of having all your favorite people in one spot with a wedding weekend itinerary that packs in the fun (think: a Friday night barbecue followed by a family field game showdown and brunch on Sunday).
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What’s the driving distance from your ceremony to your reception space? If you’re not providing transportation for your guests, you’ll need to know how long it’ll take them to get from the ceremony to the reception. Ask what the traffic is like around the time of your wedding to ensure your guests won’t get stuck bumper to bumper on a road for an hour. A good general rule of thumb is to keep the ceremony and reception space within 30 minutes of each other—and give guests at least an hour to get between the two. Is the venue near hotels? This could impact your decision to book if guests have to drive a long way to get from their hotel to the venue and back, especially if transportation isn’t provided. Usually, anything over 30 minutes is a big ask.
What kind of services do you offer? You’ll want to know whether the venue has any all-inclusive packages for the site and food, if any rentals or pros are included (some venues may even ask that you hire specific companies), and whether there’s an on-site coordinator. Don’t assume that anything is included.
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How many people does the space accommodate? This directly impacts your guest list and, therefore, your budget. If you love the space but it only fits 75, and your guest list is looking more like 200, you have to decide if the venue or your guest count is more important.
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IF YOU LOVE A BARN, TRY A
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Does the word rustic give you heart eyes? Well, you’re in luck because there’s a new “it” venue to help you achieve that look. While barns aren’t going out of style anytime soon, to-be-weds wanting a fresh space to bottle up that same casual, outdoorsy feel can look to a ski resort. Nature lovers will go crazy over the built-in décor (hello, snow-covered pines and wood beams!), while the cozy atmosphere (think: stone fireplaces and leather couches to lounge on) makes it the perfect spot to host a fun party for a few hundred of your closest friends and family—you can even plan to hit the fresh powder. MAKE IT YOURS A ski resort is made for a winter wonderland wedding. Channel those snow bunny vibes with décor that brings the cozy thanks to rich colors and luxe textures, like faux fur, wool blankets and more. A snowy scene doesn’t need much to make it stand out, so focus your efforts on adding ambience with candlelight, roaring fires and floral arrangements that bring the outdoors in (like boughs of pine or snowy-white blooms). Vintage ski gear can be a charming (and thematic) addition, so see if you can rent an old-school chair lift to double as a photo booth setting. Finish the night with hot toddies—because duh.
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HISTORIC RUINS The edgy, “forgotten” appeal of a cavernous loft or industrial space appeals to many couples—and for good reason. Not only does it boast tons of character (and probably history), but it acts as a blank slate upon which you can design your dream day. Capture that same appeal by taking the detritus outdoors and booking historic ruins as the setting for your “I dos.” Not only is it a super-unique spot (we can almost guarantee none of your guests have been to a wedding among crumbling buildings before), but it allows you to bring a bit of beauty and life back to a once-forgotten space. Love that. MAKE IT YOURS First things first, friends: We are not suggesting you stumble into any old pile of rubble and say, “Hm, a wedding here, I think.” Safety comes first, so do your due diligence when it comes to selecting the “ruins” that will host your wedding day. Most legit spots will likely be listed with a historical preservation society, so that’s a great place to start. From there, focus on décor that accents, not competes with, the grounds. Sprawling vines and florals, simple neutral colors and lots of glowing candlelight will help lend a romantic, untouched atmosphere.
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FUN PLANS FOR OUT-OF-TOWN GUESTS Treat them to a cooking class Ask your favorite local eatery if they offer cooking classes and enroll your loved ones in some midday culinary fun ahead of your wedding day. Guests of all ages will enjoy getting a taste of the local food scene (and flexing their chef muscles), and a good meal always brings about good conversation, easy mingling and new friendships. Host a bonfire reception Looking for a way to make all your guests feel included on the night of your rehearsal dinner without breaking the bank? Hold a bonfire reception afterward (complete with s’mores, of course) for a sweet end to the night. The casual yet intimate setting will be perfect for catching up before the busyness of the day.
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Arrange a group tour Odds are if guests are traveling for your wedding, they’ll want to see the city while they’re there. Encourage everyone to play tourist by arranging a guided tour, like a coastal boat trip, bike ride or food crawl. A unique experience will have your guests loving your city just as much as you do.
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Opt for a postwedding brunch End a weekend of celebrating on a high note with a farewell brunch. Guests will appreciate getting a hearty meal before they hit the road, and it gives you and your partner a last chance to connect with any friends and family you didn’t get to spend QT with the night before. Keep it casual and flexible to respect travel plans.
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If you want all the timelessness and elegance that comes with a ballroom—without the history of 20 of your closest Facebook friends already getting married there—then look no further than an upscale restaurant. You’ll be able to bottle that same sophisticated feel with a few added perks that are sure to have any couple rushing to sign on the dotted line. Just think of it as a very stylish dinner party with all your favorite people, only you don’t have to do the dishes afterward. If you score a spot big enough, you can host dancing there too—if not, look to a local bar or club for an after-hours get-down.
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MAKE IT YOURS Restaurant décor is often more of-the-moment and updated than the traditional ballroom, so chances are you won’t have to bring in much to make your chosen venue stand out. Keep the big things the same (think: the table and chairs) and add a pop of color with rental linens or bold blooms. When it comes time to eat, you’ll want to make dinner the star of the show. Work with the chef ahead of time to create a custom tasting menu for your guests based off the restaurant’s most popular dishes. You can even consider serving up the food family style so each table gets to sample it all.
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Add dimension to a bouquet with sprawling feather ferns and curly garlic scapes.
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Channel the islands with a bright, energetic arrangement. Tropical picks, like ti leaves, pink anthurium and orchids, team with classic favorites ranunculus and garden roses for an accessible combo. Pink, peach, green and orange hues keep the palette playful.
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t’s no secret that wedding food can sometimes feel a little one-note. But if the two of you are
big foodies and looking to create a memorable meal for yourselves and your guests, “good enough” just isn’t going to cut it. While any meal cooked up by a pro catering team is bound to be delicious, you shouldn’t feel, ahem, married to the traditional (and, typically, expected) steak, fish and chicken way of doing things. Instead, use your wedding day menu as means of illustrating the ins and outs of your truly unique love story, with a meal packed with foods that unite your cultures, harken back to your first date or make you feel like you’re at Grandma’s dinner table.
First up is the fun part—daydreaming! When it comes to the big meal, the possibilities are endless, so cast a wide net when gathering inspiration for your menu. For a personalized dinner, think of ways you can tell your story through food (you can explain the deets on your paper menus!). Are you and your partner from two different cultural backgrounds? Serve up traditional eats from both sides for a fusion menu that will have guests feeling like they just hopped on a plane to a different world. If a love for cooking runs in your family, consider compiling a few signature recipes (like Aunt Mary’s mac and cheese or Mom’s chicken tikka masala) and using those as a jumping off point for the day’s spread—most catering teams are willing to adapt a family recipe if you just ask. Or, design a menu that calls to mind your first date at that holein-the-wall taco joint or a memorable trip you took to Italy for your anniversary. Whatever the inspiration, a meal deeply ingrained in your couple history is sure to be a big hit with the hearts—and the stomachs—of your friends and family.
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FIND THE RIGHT TEAM Once you’ve settled on your perfect menu, it’s time to find your dream team. If you’ve already chosen a venue that has an in-house catering staff, make an appointment to sit down with the team and talk through your vision. Remember, just because what you’re asking for isn’t “typical” of their client offerings, doesn’t mean they can’t make it happen. Just be prepared to compromise if necessary— there’s a chance your unique asks may up the cost per person from what you were originally quoted, or they may only be able to fulfill a few of your culinary wishes. If you’re hosting your day at a
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venue that requires you bring in your own catering team, then you’re in luck— this is going to make it easier for you to handpick the crew that can best execute your menu. Our advice? Let your pro do what they do best. Just because you fall in love with the drool-worthy Instagram feed of a local barbecue team, doesn’t mean they’re the right people to pull off your Italian-meets-Asian menu. When in doubt, hire a team within the culinary culture of your choosing—not only will that guarantee you’ll get delicious eats, but you’ll know that there will be less of a risk for day-of surprises that could derail your whole dinner.
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SETTLE ON A SERVING STYLE
PICK THE RIGHT RENTALS
SHARE THE MENU DEETS
Traditionally, most wedding meals are served one of three ways—buffet style, where guests get up and serve themselves; family style, where platters of food are placed on each table and passed around like at a dinner party; and plated, where waitstaff will place an individual plate in front of each guest. As you can imagine, all of these options ring in at different price points—but they also boast different vibes too. Once you’ve booked your team and have a general idea of what you’ll be serving, it’s time to think about how you’ll be serving. A casual Tex-Mex menu of tacos, guac and street corn may not necessarily jive with a whiteglove plated dinner, so consider mixing up the service style to better complement the overall feel of your menu. From food stations to a slew of roaming servers, the right combo can take your meal to the next level.
Chances are, you’ve already put a bit of thought into how your reception tables will look—after all, they’ll be the design focal point of your event and are a great way to contribute to the overall energy of your day. If budget allows, think beyond basic linens and white dishware, and explore some truly unique rental options to help your menu come alive. Ask your catering pros to weigh in on what color plates will make your main meal pop, or complement your traditional cultural dinner with accessories suited to that style (think: handmade Moroccan lamps and bespoke napkins to pair with your Middle Eastern menu). One more important thing to note? Specialty plates and utensils! If you’re having an out-ofthe-box meal, chances are your typical place setting won’t suffice. Be sure to rent things like chopsticks, seafood forks, bamboo steamers or whatever else you may need to ensure your dining experience is complete.
At this point, you’ve put a lot of love and care into crafting a menu that feels unique to you and your partner—so you obviously want guests to notice, right? That’s where your paper goods come in. When designing day-of items like your menus or cocktail hour food cards, it’s important to take the time to explain the backstory behind some of your yummy selections. If you’re opting for a seated meal, consider creating a little booklet to walk guests through your love story and what each dish means to you as a couple or to your families’ cultures (this is especially important if the majority of guests will be eating dishes unfamiliar to them). Or, if you’re serving up a lot of family-favorite dishes, include a few of the best recipes in the welcome bags for the weekend so guests can re-create their favorites at home. Whatever you choose, letting guests in on the fun story behind your menu will help tie the whole occasion together seamlessly.
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AWKWARD QUESTION: DO I TIP MY VENDORS? WHO? HOW? HELP!
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MY WEDDING PARTY HAS BEEN SUPER PICKY ABOUT OUTFITS, AND THEY’RE NOT INTO ANYTHING I LIKE. HOW CAN I PLEASE EVERYONE?
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Okay, we got this, but remember: You can’t please everyone! I know, I know, groundbreaking stuff here, but if there’s ever a day on which this sentiment should be remembered, it’s your wedding day. You and your partner’s style and preferences should reign supreme for your event. Does that mean you need to rule with an iron fist? Um, no. Instead, think of ways you can compromise with your wedding party without abandoning your vision. Try giving your besties a color swatch and a few rules (aka no sparkle), and let them go wild (subject to veto!).
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Nothing awkward here, friend. You’re talking to someone who blacks out every time they’re asked to do simple math, so I get it. Who you tip (and what you tip) depends on the vendor in question. Here’s a quick cheat sheet: Caterers, beauty pros, transportation pros and DJs should all get 15 to 20 percent of the total bill amount for their services. If you’re hiring servers, tip them around $20 each (or more), and same goes for musicians. Some pros don’t expect or require tips at all (floral designers, event planners and photographers, for example). When in doubt, head over to our site—TheKnot.com has your back with an extensive tip list.
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YOU ASKED, ANSWERED! MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCED, AND IT’S NOT EXACTLY AMICABLE. HOW DO I KEEP THEM FROM STRANGLING EACH OTHER AT MY WEDDING?
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I’m sorry you’re in the position of worrying about this. The best thing you can do here is overcommunicate, even when it’s hard. Remind your parents that it’s your day—not theirs—so a peace treaty is necessary. Talk logistics and comfort levels. Can they sit next to each other at the ceremony? What about posing for family photos? Be considerate of their feelings, but not at the expense of your own.
I THINK MY PRO IS GHOSTING ME. WHAT DO I DO? Okay, okay. Before you send off that fiery email, let’s keep one thing in mind: Things happen, and depending on your timeline, your pro might have other clients who are getting married sooner and are getting their attention. If the amount of time is absolutely unreasonable (think: weeks with NO response to emails or calls, but meanwhile they’re still active on Insta), it’s time to check out your contract and begin considering your options. After all, you’re paying your vendors—get your money’s worth.
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MY FAMILY IS UNSUPPORTIVE OF MY PARTNER AND ME. CAN WE PLAN A WEDDING WITHOUT THEM? SHOULD WE EVEN INVITE THEM?
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WE MET ONLINE, BUT OUR FAM DOESN’T KNOW—AND WE’RE NOT SURE IF OUR WEDDING IS THE TIME OR PLACE FOR US TO GET OUTED. WHAT DO WE DO? You legend, you. I think you first need to ask yourself why exactly you wouldn’t want your family to know that you met via swipe, spark, tap, woof or whatever else I may or may not have done to find love on an app. At this point, you’re probably in the clear—you’re about to seal the deal! If you’re really nervous, give anyone toasting you a heads up, but I say you be honest and tell the story of your appily ever after.
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YOU ASKED, ANSWERED! HOW DO I TALK TO MY FIANCÉ ABOUT BUDGET? WE’RE ON TWO DIFFERENT PAGES, AND MONEY DISCUSSIONS ARE SO UNCOMFORTABLE.
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Uh, I get it—thinking about bills makes me want to cry. Budgets are stressful, but money needs to be something you can discuss openly with your partner. Consider this talk a little practice for your financial future. Bring up your wedding spend in a way that doesn’t feel accusatory, set boundaries (no raised voices, no low blows, etc.) and work together to come up with a list of priorities—costs included.
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HOW MANY SPEECHES OR TOASTS IS TOO MANY? I’m a sucker for a good toast, but even I can agree there’s such a thing as too many. You don’t want to keep guests from mingling and dancing just to hear the whole wedding party wax poetic about your love. I say you choose a rep from each side (typically an MOH and a best man, but gender is made up, my loves) and allow for parents to toast at their discretion. Somewhere around four to five short (think: around six minutes) toasts feels just fine to me. From there, get the party started.
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You’d be shocked by how many people have this same issue. Writer’s block can be a beast, and some of us just aren’t cut out for public declarations of love. Whatever your reason, you could replace traditional vows by reciting a poem you both love, repeating the lyrics to a song that means a lot to you, or taking part in a personalized unity ceremony. (My fave I’ve seen: a guac-making ceremony. *Drools.*)
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MY ____________ IS CONTROLLING AND WANTS A SAY IN EVERY DECISION. HOW DO I MAKE SURE THIS WEDDING ISN’T THEIR “I DO” TAKE TWO? I’m #TeamCompromise, but to a point. Is this person dictating major choices and expressing disapproval for the details too? Is this turning into a wedding you don’t even recognize? Hard stop. Form a united front with your s/o and talk to this person about the importance of your vision. If they have a financial stake in the game, you might need to make some tough compromises—prioritize accordingly.
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You heard it here first: Retro-chic marquise diamonds are making a serious comeback. Engagement ring, $1,100 (not including center stone), SimonGJewelry.com
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An asscher cut sparkler with a geometric halo has an instant heirloom quality. Engagement ring, $30,000, AshleyZhangJewelry.com
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The trendiest wedding rings are anything but basic.
You don’t need a giant rock to make a statement. While an engagement ring is an undoubtedly special piece of jewelry, a wedding band is equally meaningful to add into the mix or wear alone. The best part? The bands of the moment are all about letting your personal expression fly high with new shapes, color combinations and textures.
RING INSURANCE 101 In the name of love, insure that precious ring. Ask these essential questions before choosing a policy.
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Don’t know the difference between platinum and white gold? No problem! Read up on your options before you select a ring setting.
PLATINUM A rare, natural white metal known for its strength and purity, platinum is usually 95 percent pure. Platinum’s density makes it extremely durable, meaning it will keep your center stone protected and secure. It’s also naturally hypoallergenic, so it won’t irritate sensitive skin. While it is the most expensive of the metals, when platinum scratches, there’s very little metal lost, so your ring will withstand years of wear. Also, since it’s a pure white metal, it won’t cast any tint onto your center stone.
YELLOW GOLD Besides the fact that yellow gold is on trend right now, the pure form of gold has plenty of other appeal too. It’s about as low maintenance as it gets (it’s easier to clean than white or rose gold) and it’s a fairly hypoallergenic metal as well, depending on its karat measurement. Not to mention, it’s typically priced slightly lower than other fine jewelry metals like platinum.
WHITE GOLD Yellow gold is turned into white gold when the surface is plated with rhodium (a white metal). If you want the look of a white metal setting but don’t want to splurge on platinum, white gold is a budget-friendly choice. Though it has a similar resemblance to platinum, it’s more widely available and, therefore, less expensive. If you opt for this metal, keep in mind you may need to have your ring replated in the future. The white rhodium coating may eventually wear away and return the ring to its original yellow color.
EDITOR’S TIP If you fall in love with a ring that isn’t available in your size— say, you’re a woman in love with a men’s band or vice versa—don’t count yourself out. Ask if your jeweler can make your preferred design to fit you. — S H E L L E Y B R O W N senior fashion & beauty editor
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A hidden gem is a great alternative if you aren’t into lots of bling.
RO SE GOLD Made popular in 19th-century Imperial Russia, this pink-tinted metal is gold with an added copper alloy. The more copper alloy in the metal, the deeper the rosy tones will be. One of rose gold’s most attractive qualities is its underlying meaning. While white gold represents friendship and yellow gold means fidelity, rose gold symbolizes love.
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EDITOR TEST DRIVE GET THE DEETS ON WHAT THE HOTTEST PREWEDDING BEAUTY TREATMENTS REALLY HAVE IN STORE. BY SHELLEY BROWN
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A S A B E A U T Y E D I T O R A T T H E K N O T, I'll try anything once. Sometimes this is a super perk (hello, fancy facials). Sometimes it’s risky, like the time I went in for trendy highlights and came out a peroxide blonde. For better or for worse, I’ve tested (almost) every buzzy beauty option out there. Here’s the scoop on some of the most popular prewedding treatments, so you can decide what to splurge on—and what to skip.
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W H A T I T I S If you have naturally thin or uneven brows or were an over-plucker like so many of us in the early aughts, this corrective brow treatment could be for you. A more sophisticated take on permanent makeup, microblading is a form of tattooing where hairlike strokes are drawn onto the brow area to resemble the look of your existing brow hairs. The result is a series of naturallooking, fine tattoo “hairs” that will last one to three years. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S If there’s one big takeaway here, it’s that timing is especially important. Microblading is a process, not a quick fix. I recommend scheduling your first appointment at least 12 weeks before your wedding date. After my initial microblading appointment at Better Brows & Beauty (BetterBrowsNYC.com) in New York City, I had to keep my brows totally dry for a full week while scabs formed—no easy feat if you’re into consistent exercise or showers. Once my scabs fell off, it took another couple of weeks before I could go in for touch ups to perfect the look. While it was a time commitment, it was also a game changer. I've shaved minutes off my morning makeup routine and I never worry about smudging or sweating off my brows anymore. I also feel comfortable without makeup because my face is more symmetrical now—no more cringing at glaring bald patches whenever I catch myself in the mirror.
LASH LIFT W H A T I T I S Swap falsies, extensions and even mascara for this quick curling and darkening treatment that amplifies what you’ve already got. Your lashes are wrapped around small silicone rods and secured with a medical-safe glue, then permed
with a curling solution and tinted (usually with a vegetable dye). It takes around 40 minutes, and the results last up to 12 weeks or the amount of time it takes for a new set of lashes to grow in. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S Think of this as a substitute for a kick-ass mascara. It dramatically boosts what’s already there but won’t weigh down your lashes or come unglued, as can be the case with falsies and extensions. It also addresses a variety of lash woes (think: straight lashes, lashes that grow downward instead of upward or unruly lashes that stick out in different directions). My lash lift at Glo Skin & Laser in New York City (GloSpaNY.com) only took half an hour, and my annoyingly thick but straight lashes looked amazing for weeks—like, people on the street commenting on how good they looked, good. You should schedule your lash lift a week or so before your wedding in case you have a reaction to the lash dye or curling solution. I had to give up my favorite oil-based cleanser afterward (oil-based products reverse the effects of the treatment) but it was a small price to pay for gorgeous lashes I couldn’t cry or rub off.
LYMPHATIC DRAINAGE FACIAL W H A T I T I S If you’ve been hitting the wine or salty snacks to combat wedding planning stress, you could find yourself dealing with a puffy face all of the contouring in the world can’t fix. Enter: your new BFF, the lymphatic drainage facial. A jade roller on steroids, this combination of various massage techniques (including gua sha, acupressure points, and manual lymphatic drainage massage) reduces inflammation by draining excess water and toxins trapped beneath the skin. The result? A contoured face and jawline, lifted and toned cheekbones and a brighter and clearer complexion overall. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S Extra-dirty martinis are my guilty pleasure, so I’m no stranger to facial puffiness. I booked a lymphatic drainage facial with celebrity facialist Cecilia Wong (CeciliaWongSkincare .com) right around the holidays, when the martinis were flowing and the bloat was real. While part of the treatment was slightly uncomfortable (the massage portion of the facial requires pretty firm pressure to work), my face was noticeably firmer afterwards, especially around my jawline and cheekbones. If you can swing it, book a series of six treatments leading up to your wedding to look your most contoured. Schedule your last one a week or so before your day for a taut complexion that’s extra camera-ready.
W H A T I T I S Microneedling (also called collagen induction therapy if you're fancy) involves a mechanized device that repeatedly punctures the skin with tiny, sterile needles. The treatment creates microscopic "damage" in the skin, which activates your body's wound-healing processes and revs up collagen production. Without getting too technical, an increase in healthy skin cells and collagen can reduce fine lines, scars and hyperpigmentation. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S I didn’t know exactly what to expect from my microneedling session at Better Brows & Beauty, but it was surprisingly painless. Since I was numbed beforehand, the process felt like using a gritty face scrub. However, there's no
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sugarcoating it: Immediately after microneedling, I looked rough. My face was blotchy, bright red and swollen. (You know that scene in Sex and the City where Samantha shows up to Carrie's book party looking like beef carpaccio? It was kind of like that.) Despite the initial shock of how I looked after, there was virtually no downtime—I even wore makeup the next day without any residual irritation. My skin started to peel about four days after my appointment, but was back to normal within a week. In the weeks following my microneedling treatment, there was a remarkable improvement in my skin. The treatment faded the hyperpigmentation on my top lip, my overall complexion was smoother and my pores even seemed smaller. Coworkers commented I look "refreshed" and a friend even asked what I'd done to amp up my skincare routine. Bottom line: Whether you want to correct severe skin issues in the months leading up to your wedding or just boost your glow with a one-and-done approach, this is one Instagram trend worth investing in.
W H A T I T I S There’s no shortage of peels out there, but the SkinCeuticals Smart TCA System (SkinCeuticals.com) is especially potent. Applied in layers, this higher concentration of glycolic acid and trichloroacetic acid deeply penetrates the skin in just 30 minutes, stimulating collagen and solving a myriad of skin issues like fine lines, acne, discoloration and scarring. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S I’ve done tons of at-home peels but the SkinCeuticals Smart TCA System was the real deal. After the first layer of chemicals was applied, I could only feel a slight tingling, but once the second and then third layer kicked in, the stinging was squirming-in-my-chair levels of intense. Afterwards, my skin was bright red and felt hot to the touch. In the week that followed, my entire face peeled off in large sheets (lovely visual, I know). While you can wear makeup immediately after, I decided to forgo the cover-up and let my skin slough off without any poreclogging interference. Within 10 days, all the dead skin peeled off to reveal a much dewier complexion, but I was disappointed to discover my sun spots and fine lines remained intact. My results weren’t as dramatic as I expected, so if you’re looking to totally overhaul your skin, plan to get a few peels in the months leading up to your day. Give yourself at least two weeks between treatments to bounce back, especially if you have sensitive skin.
BOTULINUM TOXIN W H A T I T I S Commonly referred to as Botox (Botox is actually a brand name of one of the most popular versions of botulinum toxin), this injectable also goes by the name Dysport and Xeomin. When used for antiaging purposes, it smooths out wrinkles caused by the repetitive activity of the facial muscles. Once injected into the face, it blocks the transmission of nerve signals, causing the facial muscles at the injection site to relax. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S While it’s easy to find injectables these days, it’s still important to go to an experienced professional (plastic surgeons and dermatologists tend to be best) who can inject you safely. I did my research and went to celebrity dermatologist Lisa Airan in New York City (DrLisaAiran.com). I was a little
nervous about sticking needles in my face, but she worked as quickly and as painlessly as possible while injecting my forehead and crow’s feet, which helped to put my mind at ease. Botox takes about three days to kick in, and I didn’t feel the full effects for about a week. After that, I noticed I had less movement in my forehead, my fine lines had disappeared and my brows even appeared slightly lifted. I looked, in a word, younger. The results lasted for three months. If you go under the needle before your “I dos,” make sure you still have some movement in your face— otherwise, you could end up looking emotionless in photos.
DERMAL FILLER W H A T I T I S Similar to botulinum toxin, dermal fillers go by many names. Some popular ones are: Restylane, Juvéderm and Sculptra. And while this trendy procedure may conjure images of pouty-lipped Instagram celebrities, it can also help stave off the aging process—for a little while. Once injected into the face, filler (hyaluronic acid is the most popular kind) sits under the skin, plumping up hollow areas and smoothing wrinkles. E D I T O R ’ S N O T E S This is not for the faint of heart, but it sure is effective. While luscious lips have never been on my wish list, the areas under my eyes have always been hollow, making me look permanently tired. The big downside to this particular issue is that no eye cream can fix it, so I took the plunge and got my under eyes injected with filler by Dr. Konstantin Vasyukevich, a plastic surgeon in New York City (FacialArtistryMD.com). It was pretty painful (the skin around your eyes is very sensitive) and I was bruised and swollen at the injection sites for a week. But after the swelling went down, my results were nothing short of amazing. I looked instantly well-rested. The only drawback? Filler lasts for just six months, so the gorgeous effects were only temporary. Pro tip: Get filler around four months before your day so you won’t look less refreshed at your prewedding events.
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SO, YOU BOOKED THE VENUE AND FIGURED OUT THE GENERAL VIBE OF YOUR WEDDING— CONGRATS! NOW IT ’S TIME TO FIND THE RIGHT OUTFITS. BY SHELLEY BROWN
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SUIT A light gray, light blue or khaki suit with a patterned bow tie and complementary pocket square is equal parts preppy and laid-back. If you’re going for a slightly edgier feel, consider ditching the jacket altogether for a vest or a pair of printed suspenders.
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DRESS Keep it chic with a short dress and let your accessories do the talking. After all, a flirty hemline is the perfect opportunity to show off killer shoes. If heels aren’t your thing, opt for glitzy flats or sneakers. Another thought: Add a fun hair barrette or birdcage veil to the mix.
CASUAL
If you’ve been dreaming of a courthouse ceremony, backyard celebration or even an intimate dinner party, this is the dress code for you. While casual dress usually means anything goes, you’ll want to look put together in your photos. To pull this off, a dress, separates or suit with a relaxed vibe—and extras with lots of personality—are key.
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DRESS Dramatic silhouettes, elaborate trains and thicker fabrics like satin and taffeta tend to look—and feel—too heavy for a beachy affair. Looser silhouettes, shorter hemlines and breezier fabrics like chiffon, lace and jersey won’t look out of place or weigh you down.
RUSTIC
Similar to beach chic, this loose set of rules is all about attire that works with your naturally gorgeous surroundings. A light gray or earth-toned suit or a romantic lace dress are made for a relaxed celebration at a farm, barn or vineyard. Swap stilettos for block heels or wedges, or go for more casual lace-ups or sneakers with sturdy soles that can stand up to any uneven terrain. If you’re game to really play up the rustic feel, consider adding botanicalinspired accessories.
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Whether you’re jetting off to an exotic island destination or staying domestic at your local seaside venue, you’re all about making it official with your toes in the sand. And while beach-chic attire isn’t about wearing anything too over the top, it is about dressing to impress. Unstructured silhouettes, lightweight fabrics and nautical or tropical-themed accessories are essential when it comes to pulling off beachy wedding style. Where footwear is concerned, go for shoes you don’t mind getting wet—or just go barefoot.
SUIT A laid-back location calls for lightweight duds that won’t look too stuffy. Feeling bold? Mix up a light-colored ensemble with a floral jacket lining, vest or socks. Or, keep it easy with a printed bow tie and pocket square. DRESS A simple—but still stunning—lace dress with flutter sleeves won’t look out of place at a chill venue, but also doesn’t skimp on the romance. Give this effortless look a little something extra with statement earrings or hairpins.
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SUIT Breathable fabrics like linen and cotton are a must. A darker suit could feel too formal, but the same cut in khaki or light blue is a great option for casual surroundings. Depending on how lowkey your wedding is, you may even want to lose the jacket and roll up your sleeves.
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The easiest way to get your point across is to include a dress code at the bottom of the invite or on a separate reception card. Your invitation design will also clue guests in. A traditional invite with letterpress and calligraphy will hint to the formal nature of the event, whereas one with a playful font and bright colors speaks to a more casual vibe.
SUIT A tux or black suit is too fancy, while a khaki or light blue one is too relaxed for this (kind of) formal vibe. What’s a to-be-wed to do? Enter: the navy, bright blue or gray suit. A step above their more casual counterparts, sharply tailored formalwear in these trendy hues is versatile and just polished enough.
SEMIFORMAL
One of the most misinterpreted dress codes, semiformal attire is basically an outfit that’s dressier than what you’d wear to the office but not as much as an evening gown or formal suit. (Easy, right?) There are lots of ways to riff on this, but we love the idea of fitted silhouettes—whether a slimcut suit or fit-and-flare dress—plus bold accents.
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DRESS Heavily embellished or voluminous numbers are better suited for ultra-glam nuptials. A fit-and-flare or column dress with impeccable tailoring works for a variety of locales and wedding themes—and is easy to dress up or down, depending on how you accessorize it.
If your dress code is on the more obscure side (say, beach or rustic), your wedding website is the perfect opportunity to explain what you mean. If you’re feeling really extra, you can even link to Pinterest boards with outfit inspo.
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FORMAL DRESS A sleek evening gown in a high-shine fabric is made for a swanky venue. A satin, mermaidstyle look is dressed up but still more subtle than a full-blown ball gown. Want to create an unexpected contrast? Opt for one with a cowl back, oversize bow or one-shoulder neckline. SUIT A classic black tuxedo might feel too traditional. Instead, pair a charcoal, midnightblue or hunter-green suit (darker hues are more formal than lighter ones) with a sharp dress shirt and standout pieces like a statement tie, pocket square, socks or cuff links.
Also known as black tie optional, we like to think of this dress code as fancy but with a little less pomp and circumstance. Whether you’re saying “I do” in a cool museum, on a rooftop or in an art gallery off the beaten path, this kind of affair is definitely sophisticated—minus some of the strict rules of a blacktie event. When it comes to your look, opt for a wardrobe that’s as put together—and also cutting edge—as your celebration. Structured outfits (think: a streamlined evening gown or a welltailored dark suit) plus polished accessories are easy fashion wins.
Pretty much as buttoned up as it gets (with the exception of über-formal white tie, which is essentially a thing of the past outside of royal and state balls), a black-tie wedding is synonymous with pulling out all of the stops. So, you locked in a grand location, hired the 24-piece band, splurged on over-the-top centerpieces and asked your guests to wear their finest—all that’s left to do is make sure you and your SO show up looking appropriately snazzy. For the luxe event you’re planning, only a tuxedo or formal gown and opulent accessories will do.
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DRESS Make the most of your moment in the spotlight with a dramatic dress. We love a classic ball gown with illusion lace sleeves à la Kate Middleton, or a more fashion-forward style with cascading ruffles, 3-D florals or feathers. SUIT Though you’d certainly look dapper in any suit, a traditional tux will guarantee you’ll dress the part for your formal affair. To keep it modern, forgo contrasting studs, dated cummerbunds and shiny vests, and instead consider a jacket with sleek, satin notch lapels and a self-tie bow tie. DEVON JARVIS
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unveiled DISCOVER THE PRETTIEST STYLES, FROM THE MORE TRADITIONAL TO THE N E W A N D T R E N DY.
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Veils are an easy way to express yourself. But with so many options to choose from, how do you know which one’s right for you? We broke down all the different styles, including the latest trends, with tips on how to wear them so you can uncover (sorry, we had to!) the perfect veil for your wedding look.
A birdcage veil gives off serious retro-glam vibes
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Birdcage
Also known as a cage, this shorter style covers and frames just your face for a more minimalist statement. Most often it’s made out of wide net or sheer tulle—something you’ll easily be able to see through—and finished with whimsical accents like feathers, flowers or pearls. The trick to pulling off this less traditional look is to let the edge of the veil fall just below the nose. P A I R I T W I T H Cage veils were the height of fashion in the ’40s and ’50s, so that makes them the perfect match for retro-inspired dresses like swingy, tea-length gowns, structured sheaths and slinky, old-Hollywood-inspired slip dresses. They’re also a fun way to add a touch of vintage glam to a suit or jumpsuit.
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Finger tip
One of the most popular lengths (even Kate Middleton sidestepped royal tradition and chose this shorter option), this veil falls below the hips and extends to—you guessed it—the fingertips. Secure this style, which is usually made up of several layers of tulle or netting, at the crown of your head, slightly behind it or, if your hair is up, just above your updo. P A I R I T W I T H This versatile veil is beautiful with a wide range of dresses, but it looks particularly pretty with ball gowns and, since it puts the focus on the torso, dresses with more elaborate bodices. You may also want to consider pairing it with a cathedral- or chapel-length veil—that way you can remove the longer one for the reception and leave the shorter top layer in place.
Juliet Cap
Inspired by the fashion of the 16th century, this unique veil is making a comeback thanks to its pretty, old-world feel. This über-romantic style is typically made of sheer tulle or tulle with a lace-embellished edge. There are two ways to work it: You can either take a lace-trimmed veil and wear it as a cap, with the sides pinned back behind each ear, or attach a veil of your choosing to a separate cap. P A I R I T W I T H It’s perfect for a lacy gown with a vintageinspired feel or a simple slip dress with lace details. Add fresh blooms behind one ear for an extrasweet effect.
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Elbow
Slightly shorter than fingertip, this veil extends 25 inches in length to the bride’s elbows. The more manageable length tends to be more versatile. It’s a nice complement to a simple silhouette, but it also won’t overpower a more showstopping gown. P A I R I T W I T H One of the best things about this veil is you can pair it with just about any style. The elbow length is also perfect for brides who want the look of a longer veil but have a gown with details on the lower half (like intricate buttons, lace appliqués or ruffles) they don’t want to cover up.
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Mantilla
A chapel veil works best with a dress with a train
This Spanish-style veil almost always comes in either all lace or in tulle that features a wide, intricate lace edge. It should be positioned two inches from your hairline so its circular shape gracefully drapes down and frames your face on either side. For the traditional look, attach it with an ornamental comb (also called a peineta), or edge it up with a fresh flower crown or crystal tiara. P A I R I T W I T H Allow the dramatic lace to take center stage and pair this romantic veil with sleek silhouettes that won’t compete with its shape. Skip the heavy embellishments as well and opt for a gown with small touches of matching lace instead.
Flyaway
A wispy, multilayered style that just brushes the shoulders, it’s considered less formal than other options. As the name suggests, the tulle used in this kind of veil usually has a stiffer quality that causes it to “fly away” from the to-be-wed, adding poufy volume to the top of the head. P A I R I T W I T H Due to its short and sweet feel, a flyaway veil works well with shorter, more casual dresses. If your gown is heavily embellished or has a sexy, plunging back, this simple style is also the perfect way to wear a veil without obscuring the details you love.
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Typically 90-inches long, this is a formal veil that extends to the floor, falling two-and-a-half yards from the headpiece. It should sweep the floor, extending slightly past your gown. P A I R I T W I T H This simple style is often worn in combination with a sweep train (a veil that just brushes the floor) and blusher for extra oomph. It works with most dress silhouettes and styles but is particularly stunning when layered over a flowy or multilayered gown with a train. If you’re forgoing a train, a chapel veil can add drama without the weight or the hassle—no bustle required.
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WHETHER YOUR HAIR WILL BE DOWN AND FLOWING OR IN A FORMAL UPDO, YOU WANT A FINAL DETAIL TO TIE YOUR WHOLE LOOK TOGETHER. IF A VEIL ISN’T FOR YOU, THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER OPTIONS, FROM JEWELED HEADBANDS AND TIARAS TO A BOHEMIAN FLORAL WREATH OR FLIRTY FASCINATOR.
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Also sometimes called a ballet veil, this style falls between the knee and the ankle and is usually double layered and worn with a blusher. These veils exude elegance and formality and, because they don’t touch the floor, they’re short enough for a bride to comfortably walk and even dance in—hence the name. P A I R I T W I T H This style pairs well with formal floor-length gowns, like A-line and mermaid silhouettes, and dresses without trains.
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Blusher
A blusher actually refers to the short, single layer of tulle, lace or netting that’s worn over the face and then flipped over the head or removed after you walk down the aisle. It comes in chin, shoulder or fingertip length and can be added to a variety of veil styles. But a blusher can also stand on its own. Choose one layer, or if that’s too simple, try a double-tiered style where you have two layers of tulle: one layer pulled over the face and the other draped behind your head. Whichever length or however many layers you choose, the veil should be fastened to the crown of your head. P A I R I T W I T H A universal style, the blusher works with almost any type of gown. Wearing just the short layer gives off a chic, sophisticated air that lends itself to more fashion-forward dresses.
Channel your inner royal with this dramatic option
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Looking to make an entrance? This is the style for you. The mother of all veils, the cathedral is also the most formal. Sometimes referred to as the “royal veil”—it’s the veil of choice for countless members of the British royal family, including Diana and Meghan Markle—this style typically falls about three-and-a-half yards from the headpiece and is often worn in combination with a blusher and a gown with a long train. It’s an especially great option if your ceremony venue has a long aisle to walk down. P A I R I T W I T H The sweeping cathedral can hold its own next to even the most overthe-top ball gown. As a rule of thumb, the veil should extend past the train, so if you choose a cathedral veil, opt for a cathedralor semi-cathedral-length train.
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Like your dress, your veil should reflect your personal taste. Do you love sparkle? Opt for a style with dramatic details. Is your vibe more classic? Go for a raw-edge cathedral veil.
If you fall in love with a fashion-forward style, don’t be afraid to rock it. Hailey Bieber’s cathedral veil with its “Til Death Do Us Part” embroidery was definitely a statement.
The length of your veil depends on how much drama you’re going for. A shorter style is more easily managed, but if your dress doesn’t have a train, a long veil is a beautiful alternative.
The veil you choose shouldn’t determine your wedding hairstyle. You’ll probably wear your veil just for your ceremony, so you can always do touch-ups before your reception.
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hat differentiates Bindle & Keep from other suiting companies or tailors? Bindle & Keep is by appointment
only, and we schedule two-hour windows for first fittings. This allows us to really get to know our clients before we measure them. We give our clients the time and space to express what they think will make them feel empowered. We’re also a body-positive company—without exception. We hope that doesn’t differentiate us, but we know that it’s not uncommon for tailors to have certain practices that make clients feel uncomfortable. For instance, some tailors charge based on how many yards of fabric they need in order to make a garment. Due to this, we’ve had clients who come in expecting us to charge them more for their suits because of their size; but that’s not something we do here. We understand OUR EXPERT that people have different bodies and different Rae Angelo Tutera is experiences in their bodies, but we don’t charge an LGBTQ+ advocate them differently for it. and partner at Bindle & Keep, a bespoke suiting company based out of Brooklyn, New York.
masculinizing or even neutralizing, we can do that. conditioned to think of suiting (like most things) We find our clients generally haven’t experienced in a binary way, so when clients come to us, they @raeangelotutera a garment that has an awareness of their body often still think of suiting in terms of ‘men’s’ (or and their presentation, and it can be comforting masculine) and ‘women’s’ (or feminine) suits. when they begin to understand that they control how their suit Because of this, the first step in our process is to basically will look and feel; it can actually help counteract some of the reprogram our clients’ way of thinking so we can retire the harm that’s been done to folks through our heteronormative myth that there are only two kinds of suits. culture and its corresponding retail spaces.
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How can the suiting process be different for someone who isn’t cisgender? It’s common for trans folks to have less experience
with suiting than cis folks. Retail spaces in general don’t make people of trans experience feel comfortable or welcome; it’s hard to trust the suits will do our bodies and genders justice— and worse, it’s hard to trust salespeople. We try to make our clients feel as comfortable and welcome as possible, and we make sure they know they can trust us with their bodies and their stories. There are a lot of things that can be done to help trans folks feel more at ease when they arrive for their first fitting. Many of our clients include their pronouns in their emails when they’re scheduling their fittings, so we make sure we use them. We are also mindful while measuring people’s bodies. Being measured is not the most comfortable thing for anyone—cis or trans—but we narrate what we’re doing, explain why we’re doing it, and make sure we’re both sensitive and efficient. We’ve also learned how to take measurements that make our garments perform the way our clients want them to, so if we have a client who says they want their suit to be feminizing or
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Similar to wedding dress shopping, the custom suiting process comes with its own unique timeline. Here’s what to expect.
How far in advance should to-be-weds start shopping for a custom suit? We encourage clients to come to us about four
months before their wedding. After your first fitting, we’ll place your order. About 10 to 11 weeks later, we’ll invite you back for a second fitting, where you’ll try on your suit for the first time. More often than not, there are alterations required to get the perfect fit, which can add approximately a week or two to the whole process. Any tips on how to keep the process as stress-free as possible?
Folks need to be patient in order to have a bespoke suit made, given the turnaround is 10 to 11 weeks. That said, we suggest that you don’t schedule your first fitting too far in advance of your wedding date. Sometimes when clients come in, say, a year in advance of their day, they end up being worried that their body or their taste will change in the time that elapses between their first fitting and their wedding. It’s important to give yourself enough time to have your suit made and altered before you get married—but not too much time.
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WHEN YOU GET SOMETHING BESP OKE , YOU BUILD A R E L AT I O N S H I P W I T H A TA I LO R . T H E L I F E T I M E O F T H E S U I T. What can people expect to spend on a bespoke suit? Keep in mind that a bespoke garment is an investment: Our first tier is $895 for a custom suit, and ordering a vest adds an additional $298 to the total. Sometimes clients also don’t realize that getting a custom suit can make the imperfections in their offthe-rack dress shirts more obvious—for instance, when a jacket fits impeccably, it will make a collar look even looser than usual, or shirt sleeves look even longer than before. Typically, a custom shirt adds at least $155 to the total. That said, we don’t charge for alterations. Wedding dresses are notorious for having expensive alteration processes, so most folks expect to navigate the same thing with custom suits.
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How can those with a smaller budget minimize the cost of going custom? A contemporary look for weddings is to wear
a beautiful jacket with more neutral pants. If to-be-weds operating on a budget happen to own a pair of black or navy dress pants they love, they can then have a jacket custom made (starting at $596). Another contemporary look, especially now that so many people are having weddings set in the country, is to skip the jacket altogether and just wear a beautiful custom vest (ours start at $298). For folks who find that they have fairly good luck with offthe-rack suits, alterations are the key to making the garments look really polished. For example, you can get a suit on ASOS for about $200, and they have plus-size fits too. When you may not live near a store you feel comfortable browsing in, consider ordering suits in several sizes and trying them on in the privacy of your own home. If you don’t have a tailor, ask a friend—it’s likely they know someone they trust. What’s the best way to navigate physical changes (top surgery, weight loss or hormone replacement therapy) when choosing wedding attire? I can speak from personal experience here—
I was measured for my first suit before I had top surgery. What I learned from being measured with a binder before top surgery is that I actually got the same measurement pre-op wearing a binder as I did post-op. Therefore, compressing the chest can be helpful for taking measurements when someone is pre-op. Even though I felt like the measurements would change dramatically after top surgery, they didn’t.
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When folks go on hormone replacement therapy, or gain or lose a significant amount of weight, it’s hard to anticipate exactly how their bodies will change, and exactly how their experiences in their bodies will change. We remind clients that we can only measure the body they have. That said, we understand that bodies shift—it’s part of being human— and we’ve learned how to anticipate shifts. We’ve learned a lot about how to construct our garments to make them as adaptable as possible, and our seamstress is extraordinarily talented when it comes to doing alterations. In terms of weight gain or loss, we can usually only work within a 15-pound margin. We suggest that to-be-weds get their wedding attire as close to their wedding as possible, that way their garments will be aligned with their bodies. What are the pros of going bespoke versus buying off the rack? Are there any pros specifically for trans or nonbinary folks?
Some people do have good luck with off-the-rack suiting, but many find themselves feeling limited—or worse, unseen by the options they come across in the retail landscape. Generally speaking, off-the-rack men’s suiting is hypermasculine and off-the-rack women’s suiting is hyper-feminine. Even if folks shopping in that landscape do feel like these suiting options make sense for their genders, it’s rare that they actually fit. We have no control over how narrow or wide the shoulders of off-the-rack suits are. If the shoulders are too narrow, the wearer feels trapped; if the shoulders are too broad, the wearer’s shoulders end up looking sloped because there’s nothing to hold up the edges of the jacket. When you get something bespoke, you build a relationship with your tailor. Whenever your body or your tastes shift, you can reach out to us to let us know. We alter our suits for the lifetime of the suit. Therefore, a bespoke suit often has a longer lifetime than an off-the-rack suit. What are some ways to personalize a suit or tux? Our clients design their whole suit, from macro-decisions, like the fabric it’s made from, to micro-decisions, like the color of the piping that separates the lining from the fabric of the jacket. We also offer monograms on custom shirts, and something sweet that people do is get their wedding date embroidered on their cuffs. Some folks will opt for a traditional tux, but will mix it up with bright colors (rather than classic black or blue) or will add a velvet jacket. A lot of clients bring in fabric from a family member’s wedding dress or a loved one’s handkerchief and ask that we sew it into their jacket as a tribute—that’s my favorite way to add a personal touch.
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SIDEWALK STRUT Jumpsuit in sizes up to 28, $550, Little White Dress by Amsale, Amsale.com; shoes, Jimmy Choo courtesy of Albright Fashion Library; dress in sizes up to 28, $495, Little White Dress by Amsale, Amsale.com; earrings, $24,630, AnneSisteron.com; shoes, $1,050, JimmyChoo.com
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DOWNTOWN DRAMA Top in sizes up to 20, $1,400, skirt in sizes up to 20, $3,200, AlexandraGrecco .com; earrings, $75, KennethJayLane.com
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Dress in sizes up to 16, from $2,500, Rime Arodaky, TheMewsBridal .com; earrings, $1,823, AnabelaChan.com
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STREET STYLE Jumpsuit in sizes up to 15, $505, Floravere.com; earrings, $18,100, Material Good.com; shoes, $395, StuartWeitzman.com; dress in sizes up to 18, $2,495, TheiaCouture.com; earrings, $195, MignonneGavigan.com FA S H I O N S T Y L I N G
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MARRIAGE EQUALITY BY THE NUMBERS
EQUAL
Five years after the US Supreme Court’s monumental decision to make marriage equality the law of the land, two of our real couples look back. BY LOUIS BARAGONA
2001 The year The Netherlands became the first country to legalize same-sex marriage
JOHN CHENG + PAUL CRAYTHORNE
2004
SEPTEMBER 17 | NEW YORK + ATLANTA “By the time marriage equality passed, we were already well into our wedding planning,” John says. “We deliberately chose to get married in New York City—not only because we both love it, but also because gay marriage was legal in New York state and we live in the South. Once marriage equality passed nationwide, our preparations took on a much more celebratory feel. We had that giddy sense of anticipation that you get between Thanksgiving and Christmas or on the day before you start vacation. Our wedding went from a necessary expense in order to get the protections afforded to legal marriage to the happy expense of a destination wedding.”
The year Massachusetts became the first state to support marriage equality
61%
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The evolution of marriage eqality.
“The day of the Supreme Court’s decision, we were so happy and overwhelmed with joy—though we were already married in our eyes, it was still emotional,” Nichole says. “I remember Kelli couldn’t wait to get to the DMV to finally change her last name on her driver’s license—and we celebrated by doing exactly that. Though the decision didn’t change or affect our relationship directly, it was an amazing feeling to finally be recognized as equals. We’re just happy and proud to have been alive to witness marriage equality nationwide, and since then, we’ve seen same-sex couples gain more acceptance in society. We even notice more and more same-sex couples represented on TV.”
The number of cohabitating American LGBTQ+ couples who married post ruling in 2015
10 MILLION The number of tweets in response to the decision, including the #LoveWins
LOUD AND PROUD Express your pride with these ceremony ideas.
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WA L K T H I S WAY
TA K E N OT E
SHOUT OUT
MAKE IT MEANINGFUL
Mix up your processional—ask guests to walk to you.
Define any LGBTQ+ terms in your ceremony programs.
Recognize your community with queeraffirmative vows.
Choose a reading or music by a LGBTQ+ activist.
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VOWS FOR ALL
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We Bring the WOW for Your Special Day! ChandlersWeddings.com • (847) 885-9009 • 401 N. Roselle Rd., Schaumburg, IL
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LOCAL RESOURCES
make it legal Chicago Area Marriage License Requirements
GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Chicago Area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old; couples ages 16 or 17 must have parental or guardian consent. In general, there are no blood test or health test requirements to obtain a legal license. Both parties must be present to apply for a license, which requires proper forms of identification, such as a valid United States driver’s license, passport or a certified birth record (date of birth must appear on the documentation). In most cases, if either the bride or groom has been previously married, she or he must know the dates of divorce or death and present a copy of the divorce decree(s) or certificate(s) of dissolution if either event occurred within the last six months. Licenses can be obtained the same day and are valid for 60 days (beginning the day after it is issued, only in that particular county). The fee varies from $11 to $60; method of payment varies, as well. Call ahead for details. Offices are typically open Monday through Friday, unless otherwise noted. WHERE TO APPLY ILLINOIS
De Kalb County
Kane County
La Salle County
Peoria County
Winnebago County
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County Clerk 110 E. Sycamore St. Sycamore, IL 60178 (815) 895-7149 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
County Clerk 719 S. Batavia Ave., Bldg. B Geneva, IL 60134 (630) 232-5996 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m., M, T, Th., F; 8:30 a.m. – 7 p.m., W
County Clerk 707 Etna Rd. Ottawa, IL 61350 (815) 434-8202 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
County Clerk 324 Main St., Rm. 101 Peoria, IL 61602 (309) 672-6059 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
County Clerk 404 Elm St., Rm. 104 Rockford, IL 61101 (815) 319-4250 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Lake County
Rock Island County
INDIANA
County Clerk 18 N. County St., Rm. 101 Waukegan, IL 60085 (847) 377-2411 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m., M–Th. 8:30 a.m. – 7:30 p.m., F
County Clerk 1504 3rd Ave. Rock Island, IL 61201 (309) 558-3569 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
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McHenry County
County Clerk 302 N. Chicago St. Joliet, IL 60432 (815) 740-4615 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. (Sat. by appt.)
Champaign County County Clerk 1776 E. Washington St. Urbana, IL 61802 (217) 384-3720 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Cook County County Clerk 50 W. Washington St. Chicago, IL 60602 (312) 603-5656 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m., M, T, Th., F; 5 – 7 p.m., W
Du Page County County Clerk 421 N. County Farm Rd. Wheaton, IL 60187 (630) 682-7035 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Grundy County County Clerk 111 E. Washington St., Rm. 12 Morris, IL 60450 (815) 941-3222 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Kankakee County County Clerk 189 E. Court St. Kankakee, IL 60901 (815) 937-2990 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Kendall County County Clerk 111 Fox St. Yorkville, IL 60560 (630) 553-4104 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
County Clerk 667 Ware Rd., Rm. 107 Woodstock, IL 60098 (815) 334-4242 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Lake County County Clerk 2293 N. Main St. Crown Point, IN 46307 (219) 648-6996 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Will County
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GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting. GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS
PUBLICATION
CONTACT
TIME CONSTRAINTS
Chicago Sun-Times
Fax or email only (312) 321-2345 (630) 978-8531 (fax)
Must submit by noon the Monday prior to Sunday publication.
Form: No You must have a credit or debit card to place the order. Email to jgambino@stmedianetwork.com.
Costs $500 for black-and-white ad with set size and $700 for color ad.
Chicago Tribune
(312) 222-4888 Attn: Weddings & Engagements 435 N. Michigan Ave. Chicago, IL 60611
Information must be submitted by 3 p.m. Thursday in order to run in the following Thursday’s publication.
Form: No Photo images sent via email should be 200 dpi (dots per inch) and at least 5" x 7".
Cost is $99 (includes one or two photos, a wedding logo and five lines of text at 45 words per line). Additional lines are $5.
Daily Herald
(847) 427-4904 PO Box 280 Arlington Heights, IL 60006
Announcements are printed on the second Sunday of each month and must be received nine days prior to publication.
Form: Yes; available online. Photos can be mailed or submitted online at DailyHerald.com.
Prices start at $50 for NW Cook, Lake and Fox Valley. Starts at $95 for Du Page and Tri-Cities. To be in all areas, prices start at $120.
Peoria Journal Star
(309) 686-3246 Attn: Features Dept. 1 News Plz. Peoria, IL 61643
Announcements must be submitted by noon, 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
Prices range from free-of-charge to $155 depending on amount of information provided; additional $20 to include a photo.
Rockford Register Star
(815) 962-2400 Attn: Classifieds 99 E. State St. Rockford, IL 61104
Announcements must be submitted on Monday for publication on the following Friday.
Form: Yes
Starts at $15 for ad with no photo. Add a photo for $10, plus $1.50 for any additional lines.
The Post-Tribune
(219) 648-3124 1433 E. 83rd Ave. Merrillville, IN 46410
Announcements are printed up to two months after the wedding and run on Sundays.
Form: Yes Photo will be returned with SASE. Email submissions accepted.
There is no charge for this service.
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A Day to Remember 410 Kenilworth Ave., Kenilworth, IL 60043 Call 847-251-1691 or visit us at www.kenilworthassemblyhall.org
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RESOURCE INDEX Alpine Banquets
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Culinary Nirvana Mantra by Indian Garden
63
The Armour House at Lake Forest Academy
165
David Rothstein Music
39
Arrowhead Golf Club
141
DoubleTree by Hilton Lisle/Naperville
27
Avante’ Banquets
35
DoubleTree Guest Suites Downers Grove
37
Backthird Entertainment
67
Drury Lane Oakbrook
29
The Barn at Hornbaker Gardens
18
Eagle Ridge Resort & Spa
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Bartlett Hills Country Club
143
Elements at Water Street
179
Big City Bride
167
Fountain Blue
43
Bluewater Kings Band
1
Galena Country Tourism
Insert
Boulder Ridge Country Club
69
Glendale Lakes Golf Club
119
Bridges of Poplar Creek Country Club
116
Grand Bear Resort at Starved Rock
109
C.D.Peacock
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Grand Traverse Resort and Spa
9
Café la Cave
5
Hairs 2 the Bride
46
Cantigny Weddings
57
Halim Time & Glass Museum
105
The Carleton of Oak Park
31
Hilton Chicago/Northbrook
135
Carnivale
7
Chandler’s Weddings & Special Events
179
Chateau Del Mar
127
Hilton Rosemont/Chicago O’Hare
64
Chevy Chase Country Club
107
Holiday Inn Chicago Mart River North
99
Chicago Gaelic Park
52
The Homestead 1854
149
Chicago History Museum
181
Hotel Arista
25
Chicago Marriott Lincolnshire Resort
17
Hotel Baker
23
Chicago Marriott Naperville
13
Hyatt Regency Lisle
90
Chicago Trolley and Double Decker Co.
61
Kemper Lakes Golf Club
45
Chicago’s First Lady Cruises
49
Kenilworth Assembly Hall
181
CityGate Grille
21
Luxe Bridal Rack
10
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Hilton Chicago/Oak Brook Hills Resort & Conference Center
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Makray Memorial Golf Club
153
Ravisloe Country Club
2
Midwest Ballrooms
137
Ring Of Music Band and Orchestra
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The Monte Bello Estate
41
River Roast Private Events
121
The Morton Arboretum
151
Rivers Restaurant
87
Naper Settlement
167
Seven Bridges Golf Club
14
Northern Haus
102 Silver Lake Country Club
33
SLT Makeup Artistry
138
Standing Room Only Orchestra
161
Tinley Park Convention Center
79
Trudy’s Flowers
125
Oak Brook Bath & Tennis Club
101
The Odyssey Country Club
73
The Old Post Office
145
The Pavilion at Orchard Ridge Farms
159
Pinstripes Chicago
165
Praire Landing Golf Club
85
Venuti’s
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Randall Oaks Golf Club
157
White Pines Golf Club
81
NOTES
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Find more online at TH E KN OT.CO M/CH I CAGO
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LAST LOOK
P H OTO O P S After their elopement, Jessica and Michael posed for photos around the city. “Everywhere we went, people congratulated us and celebrated with us,” they say.
S U R P R I S E S H OT The duo snapped a selfie to send to their loved ones, finally sharing the news that they were married.
We both had strong feelings about a wedding led by love, not tradition or an expensive party. We wanted a celebration that reflected the life we’ve built together. Instead of getting wrapped up in the little details of the day, we wanted something that was special to us.
Jessica + Michael . 2 29 | CHICAGO
PHOTOGRAPHY BY BECKY BROWN PHOTOGRAPHY
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