The Knot New York Spring/Summer 2017

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the event of a lifetime.

Brett Matthews Photography

Denisimo Photography

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contents

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get the look... daily fix editor’s letter ask carley haute hues top picks 8 haute hotels to say “I do” secrets from real couples expert advice love stories checklist exceptional extras marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

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Romantic Hudson Valley estate

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Estate setting offered as an intriguing and distinctive alternative to conventional wedding venues. Intimate, romantic, enveloped by lush gardens, fountains and lawns. Located in the heart of the Hudson Valley, an easy one-hour drive from Manhattan, Westchester or Northern New Jersey.

One wedding a day. Capacity, with dinner and dancing, 200. 110 Round Hill Road • Washingtonville, NY • 800.337.2556 • 845.497.7476 VISIT US ONLINE feastcaterers.com FOLLOW US facebook.com/FeastatRoundHill 2017

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CONTENTS

fashion 266

playing for keeps mix up your look with edgy silhouettes and whimsical details

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match game find the perfect attire and accessories to complement your venue

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fashion countdown dress deadlines you don’t want to miss

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ageless style tips to helping mom pull off a sophisticated look

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maid for each other find bridesmaid dresses that are both affordable and fabulous

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the well-groomed groom a guide to helping your guy look (almost) as good as you

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making the grade how to determine which diamond is right for you

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veils, unveiled discover the prettiest styles, from traditional to trendy

health & beauty K

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foolproof products to take you from your engagement to wedding day

paper trails

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paper trails

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let your locale inspire your invites

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petal talk the most asked about wedding flowers

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secrets to the #bestdayever give your guests something to talk about

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style your soiree with these fresh ideas

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outdoor occasion

how to look and feel your best

a wedding that’s totally you set the vibe you want for your day

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the dos and don’ts of do-it-yourself a helpful guide to avoid potential DIY disasters

color done right down to the last detail

the real deal on wedding cakes

8 healthy habits

answers to all your frosting, flavor and topper questions

avoid these common color mistakes

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hair apparent the freshest ’dos for your “I dos”

style 198

beauty awards

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too pretty to eat (well, almost) edible favors that are sure to leave a lasting impression

how to celebrate in the open air

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veils, unveiled

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545 Madison Avenue, New York City 212.813.1919

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r  eal weddings 80 taryn & sam may 7, new york city

84 joe & nick july 3, long island city

88 laylah & david september 20, brooklyn

94 meghan & eric july 18, hudson

100 jenna & jp september 12, shelter island

106 kaitlin & grant october 16, rye

112 ari & nick may 14, woodbury

118 chinny & chike september 1, new york city

122 margot & dov october 11, garrison

126 karen & will may 7, brooklyn

130 samantha & dani may 26, brooklyn

134 wanchen & erik june 11, new york city

138 kellen & brian september 19, locust valley

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142 alexis & simon

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april 16, brooklyn

eat, drink and be married

146 stephanie & noah august 22, cold spring

150 charlene & sanket

p   lanning

june 18, new york city

155 brian & ramon

185 southern charm

september 19, chester

162 jocelyn & justin july 10, deep river, ct

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168 mary & ryan 174 alexandra & drew

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july 23, east haven, ct

352 kendall & andrew may 2, islamorada, fl

hat not to overlook w before you book

401 snap happy

ask these crucial questions

413 marry melodies

find a photographer that clicks create your perfect song list

a sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option

september 19 , yountville, ca

r  eal wedding budget key

393 the ultimate guide to register for these pots and pans

373 eat, drink and be married

356 shelby & nelson

write your vows one word at a time

cookware

how to manage your budget

180 danica & dueren

tips to having your nuptials among the grapevines

387 for better or verse

361 savvy spending

july 16, greenwich, ct

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marry away in the USA host your destination affair close to home at one of these hotels

july 23, east haven, ct

$ = $30,000 or less

380 vineyard vows

everything you need to pull off the perfect summer wedding

W   e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

$$ = $30,001–$50,000

$$$ = $50,001–$75,000

$$$$ = $75,001–$100,000

$$$$$ = $100,001+

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Visit our blog to keep up on all the latest trends and happenings at Leonard’s Palazzo and for tips and ideas for all your catered events.

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ABOUT THE COVER

get the look... ON HER Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $895, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com

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ON HER Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $3,500, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, socks, $10, Tommy Hilfiger, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com

CAROUSEL CREW Jane’s Carousel, with its vibrant colors and whimsical details, felt like the perfect backdrop for our celebratory fashion shoot in this issue. Here, our whole team (including The Knot cofounder Carley Roney) strikes a group pose in front of the landmark in Brooklyn Bridge Park, New York.

ON HER Top and pants, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Esti’s, EstisOnly.com (Brooklyn), Designer Loft, DesignerLoftNYC.com (New York City), Panache Bridal New York, PanacheBridals.com (New York City); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry .com; cocktail ring, $98, KateSpade.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

PHOTOGRAPHER: STEPHANIE RAUSSER FASHION STYLING: LAURA PRITCHARD HAIR: ELOISE CHEUNG USING T3MICRO AT KATE RYAN INC. MAKEUP: LEANNE HIRSH USING VAPOR ORGANIC BEAUTY AT SARAH LAIRD & GOOD COMPANY PROP STYLING: SAM COOK AT KATE RYAN INC. FLORALS: TIN CAN STUDIOS LOCATION: JANE’S CAROUSEL, BROOKLYN, NY

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EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kellie Gould

MANAGING EDITORS

EXECUTIVE EDITOR

Susan Berryman Kellee Kratzer

Kristen Maxwell Cooper

CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR

ART DIRECTOR

Toby Fox

Tracy Everding

REAL WEDDINGS PHOTO DIRECTOR

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Rebecca Crumley

Kathy Nguyen

SENIOR STYLE EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITOR PLANNING EDITOR NEWS EDITOR ASSOCIATE EDITOR, FASHION & BEAUTY ASSOCIATE EDITOR, REAL WEDDINGS SENIOR COPY EDITOR ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, PLANNING SOCIAL EDITOR SENIOR DESIGNER DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS

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Lauren Kay Stephanie Cain Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Rachel Sylvester Maria Bouselli Katie Kortebein Andrea Fowler Avery Hutchinson Margaret Seaver Jessica Molinari Katelyn Baker Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR Sarah Love ASSOCIATE ONLINE PHOTO EDITOR Barrie Tovar MARKETING AND EDITORIAL COORDINATOR Stefany Arias

PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNER Daryl Wills GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Katie Hover, Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune

THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig DIRECTOR, ACTIVATIONS AND SPECIAL PROJECTS Alexis Jonnson PROJECT MANAGER Elizabeth Smith SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland

SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Mary Lou Pernod, mpernod@theknot.com (877) 502-0586 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES George Proctor, gproctor@theknot.com (866) 630-0052

REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE JEWELRY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF SHOWS & EVENTS SENIOR MARKETING MANAGER STRATEGY SPECIALIST VP, CORPORATE COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS

Margaret Fazio, mfazio@theknot.com (877) 897-5812 Gayle Susser, gsusser@theknot.com (877) 483-4103 Amy Reynolds, areynolds@theknot.com (855) 488-1946 Alan Metzger, ametzger@theknot.com (844) 377-3703 Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@theknot.com (888) 332-7815 Tricia Dixon, tdixon@xogrp.com (866) 743-2278 Kristy Newquist, knewquist@xogrp.com (877) 927-3070 Nikki Spangler, nspangler@xogrp.com (877) 771-3019 Jill Rothman, jrothman@xogrp.com (855) 753-4100 Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 Christina Frauendorfer, christinaf@theknot.com (877) 825-1806 Jennifer Perciballi, pr@xogrp.com Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com

COFOUNDER Carley Roney

The Knot New York is a publication of Weddingpages LLC, a subsidiary of XO Group Inc. All content © 2016 XO Group Inc. All rights reserved. Reproduction, either in whole or in part, is forbidden without written permission from the publisher. The Knot, TheKnot.com and The Knot New York are trademarks of XO Group Inc. The Knot is not responsible for the return or loss of, or damage to, unsolicited materials. Those submitting manuscripts, photographs, artwork and other materials for consideration should not send originals, unless specifically requested to do so in writing by The Knot. Manuscripts, artwork and other materials submitted must be accompanied by a self-addressed stamped envelope. Editorial Offices: 195 Broadway, New York, NY 10007 (212) 219-8555. Production Offices: 11106 Mockingbird Drive, Omaha, NE 68137 (800) 843-4983 please recycle after wedding

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Your culinary adventure awaits at our enchanting venues… choose from our locations of majestic stone mansions, picturesque country manors and historic estates, or invite us to your location of choice.

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...where every detail is coordinated with the utmost care. 468 bedford rd, pleasantville, ny • 914.747.8197 • info@jean-jacques.com • jean-jacques.com

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G M 2017

1550 U.S. 9 • Old Bridge, N.J. • 732-679-5700 • www.grandmarquiscaterers.com

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Browse the top weddings from across America as part of our 50 Weddings, 50 States roundup. Taryn and Sam, our Empire State pick, infused their elegant, urban nuptials with towering cherry blossom centerpieces and crystal-draped candelabras. It’s the ultimate inspiration. 50

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Gather your dream team of wedding pros with the help of our newly launched Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/stateguides. Your New York guide has everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, florists, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our Marketplace.

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Sam didn’t share my vision of a barefoot beach wedding for two, so we decided on a classic New York City bash.

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EDITOR’ S LET TER

We’ve tested all of The Knot Beauty Award winners. (p. 321)

All your wedding cake questions answered. (p. 243)

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This painterly invite says “city wedding” in the most elegant way. (p. 198)

—GLORIA STEINEM

You’re getting married! Congratulations. We love filling your head with hundreds of inspiring ideas—like destinationinspired stationery (p. 198)—as well as the practical advice you need to get your planning done. From the most effective beauty products for every wedding-related event (p. 321) to a flower primer you’ll want to tear out and take with you to your first meeting with a florist (p. 205), this issue was created to help with all your to-dos and make you feel confident every step of the way. And when it comes to fashion, we’ve got brides and grooms covered. In “Playing for Keeps” (p. 266), we used a carousel, cotton candy and other playful elements to show how edgy silhouettes, unconventional hues and unique accessories can add a touch of whimsy to your wedding look. For the guys, check out our ultimate guide to looking great, from manscaping to choosing the right menswear (p. 303). In order to make all of your ideas come to life, of course, you’ll need to think about a budget that works for you—and we’ll help with that too (p. 361). Wherever planning takes you, be sure to share your favorite wedding details with us on Instagram (#TheKnot). Now, let the dreaming begin.

KELLIE GOULD Editor in Chief

A feathery two-piece frock is perfect for dancing. (p. 266)

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Send me questions at kellie@theknot.com or find me on Instagram @kelliegouldny

GOULD: SAR AH LOVE PHOTOGR APHY

Pink peonies: the ultimate romantic flower, and one of my faves. (p. 205)

“Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.”

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MANHATTAN CITY MUSIC

FLORAL DESIGNS BY NINA

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HOLTZ WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

CRESS FLORAL DECORATORS

THE WORKS CATERING AND THE HOUSING WORKS BOOKSTORE

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wedding venues A VILLA LOUISA AMBER ROOM COLONNADE ANTHONY’S LAKE CLUB ARIA WEDDING & BANQUET FACILITY AVON OLD FARMS HOTEL THE BARNS AT WESLEYAN HILLS BELLA VISTA AT HAWK’S LANDING COUNTRY CLUB BIRCHWOODS AT OAK LANE THE CANDLEWOOD INN

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MARSAL STUDIOS, LLC

THE SURF CLUB ON THE SOUND

MOBILE VIDEO AND PHOTOGRAPHY

TASHUA KNOLLS GOLF CLUB–BANQUETS

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TOWER RIDGE COUNTRY CLUB V.I.P. COUNTRY CLUB WATER’S EDGE RESORT & SPA THE WATERVIEW WICKHAM PARK WOODWINDS

wedding planners DETAILLE WEDDINGS & EVENTS WEDDINGS BY DEBRA THOMPSON, LLC

CASCADE FINE CATERING COASTAL GOURMET AT LATITUDE 41 AND THE MYSTIC SEAPORT

photographers

ETHAN ALLEN HOTEL

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EIFFEL BEAUTE BY ASHLEY CRUZ ON-SITE HAIR AND MAKEUP

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ERICA T. MARTELL, MAKEUP ARTIST

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J.KINFORD BEAUTY GROUP

VICKI + ERIK PHOTOGRAPHERS

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THE WEDDING ELITES

MAKEUP BY COURTNEY

videographers bridal fashions

WEDDING MAKE UP BY CANDEE CALDWELL

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rings & jewelry

APRIL ROSE DESIGNS

RUMANOFF’S FINE JEWELRY

BLUSH BRIDESMAID

Rumanoffs.com “The service at Rumanoff’s is impeccable. When we came in to pick an engagement ring, we were blown away. It truly felt like they are invested in happiness.”

DIANNE KEESEE DESIGNS JULIE ALLEN BRIDALS MARIELLA CREATIONS THE PLUMED SERPENT BRIDAL THE WEDDING EMBASSY

caterers CLOUD NINE CATERING

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tuxedos & formalwear

MARQUEE EVENTS FEATURING THE GERSHON FOX BALLROOM

DAVID JEFFREY PHOTOGRAPHY

THE BLACK TUX

DEFINING STUDIOS

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THE RIVERVIEW THE SOCIETY ROOM OF HARTFORD

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DONNA CHEUNG PHOTOGRAPHY ELIZABETH VIGGIANO PHOTOGRAPHY

NICOLE MARIE MAKEUP ARTISTRY RACHEL TOUSSAINT MAKEUP ARTISTRY

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THE PAVILION ON CRYSTAL LAKE

MBDBEAUTY, LLC

DIGITAL VIDEO PRODUCTIONS

CT PHOTO GROUP

MYSTIC MARRIOTT HOTEL & SPA

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THE LACE FACTORY

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BEHIND THE BRUSH BY MARISA CORVI

hair, makeup & wellness A RADIANT YOU BY CRYSTAL RAZOR

GOURMET GALLEY CATERING MARCIA SELDEN CATERING & EVENT PLANNING

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BEAN COUNTER BAKERY

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VideoPhotoBoothRentals.com “Amazing! Everything from the props, the ease of use, the scrapbook and the video clips was great! This is much better than a regular photo booth.”

TOTAL EVENTS

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AFTER HOURS PHOTO BOOTH

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THE FLOWERFALL

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gown cleaning & preservation

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HUDSON VALLEY OFFICIANTS

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MARY COBURN, WEDDING OFFICIANT & CELEBRANT

lighting & décor

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RENEE T. CARLE JUSTICE OF THE PEACE

rehearsal dinners & bridal showers CASCADE FINE CATERING

dance lessons BALLROOM EXPRESSION

REV. GARY DEINSTADT

florists AGNEW FLORIST CARRIE WILCOX FLORAL DESIGN

RUMANOFF’S FINE JEWELRY

WOODHAVEN MANOR

Rumanoffs.com

WoodhavenManorNY.com

favors

limousine & valet services

RESCUE FLATS

GATEWAY LIMOUSINE

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CLY BY MATTHEW PHOTOGRAPHY

EAST COAST MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT

CATHY’S ELEGANT EVENTS

THE LOVE REVIVAL ORCHESTRA

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honeymoon & travel PEGGY HONORE TRAVEL AGENT AND CRUISE PLANNER

HUDSON VALLEY

wedding venues ABIGAIL KIRSCH AT TAPPAN HILL MANSION CORTLANDT COLONIAL MANOR CRABTREE’S KITTLE HOUSE DOUBLETREE BY HILTON HOTEL TARRYTOWN FALKIRK ESTATE AND COUNTRY CLUB FEAST AT ROUND HILL–F.E.A.S.T. THE FOUNTAINHEAD THE FOX HILL INN THE GARRISON GLEN ISLAND HARBOUR CLUB

THE VILLA BARONE HILLTOP MANOR

MONIKA PHOTOGRAPHY

VILLA VENEZIA

PETER DEMUTH PHOTOGRAPHY

V.I.P. COUNTRY CLUB

ROSEMARIE ELIZABETH PHOTOGRAPHY

WEST HILLS COUNTRY CLUB WHITBY CASTLE AT RYE GOLF CLUB

wedding planners

SAGE STUDIOS PHOTOGRAPHY SHOWTIME! THOMPSON PHOTOGRAPHY GROUP

CATHY’S ELEGANT EVENTS

WEEFAN PHOTOGRAPHY– DJ & VIDEO

CathysElegantEvents.com “Hiring Cathy was absolutely without a doubt the best thing we could have done for our wedding.”

bridal fashions

GINA MALONEY EVENTS

BE UNIQUE BOUTIQUE

MAKEUP BY MARCY ON-SITE LOCATION MAKEUP ARTIST MELISSA SCROFANI WESTCHESTER HAIR STYLIST MG HAIR AND MAKEUP SALON 52 HAIR STUDIO INC. SIMPLY ELEGANT BEAUTY LLC.

rings & jewelry LORRAINE TYNE BRIDAL

caterers BRIDGE CREEK CATERING

VARIETY VINTAGE EVENTS

CHAMONIX BRIDE RHINEBECK

WEDDINGS BY DEBRA THOMPSON LLC

DIANNE KEESEE DESIGNS

WHAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF

SVETLANA BRIDAL COUTURE

wedding cakes & desserts

photographers

tuxedos & formalwear

HOMESTYLE DESSERTS BAKERY

ALEX KAPLAN PHOTO-VIDEOPHOTO BOOTH SPECIALISTS

THE BLACK TUX

LORRAINE TYNE BRIDAL

MANGIA AND ENJOY!

THE PASTRY GARDEN

SOSSI FORMALS

invitations

hair, makeup & wellness

ALWAYS IMPRESSIVE

AMANDA MUNRO– HAIR & MAKEUP

calligraphy

FANTASY FLASH STUDIOS

ANNALIESE & CO. BRIDAL HAIR AND MAKEUP ARTISTRY

THE BROKEN NIB

FRAME YOUR LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY

ASHLEY LAUREN BEAUTY LOUNGE BEAUTY BY DANIELA

djs

SENATE GARAGE

JOANNE GIANNETTI PHOTOGRAPHY

THE SULLIVAN EVENT CENTER

JORDAN JANKUN PHOTOGRAPHY

THE SURF CLUB ON THE SOUND

JOSHUA BROWN PHOTOGRAPHY

THE THAYER HOTEL AT WEST POINT

MATT STALLONE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

THE GRANDVIEW GREENTREE COUNTRY CLUB HIGHLANDS COUNTRY CLUB HILTON PEARL RIVER JEAN JACQUES’ CULINARY CREATIONS, INC. THE NEW YORK BOTANICAL GARDEN THE POWELTON CLUB

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ALEXIA PHOTO VIDEO CHRIS CARTER PHOTOGRAPHY CIRO PHOTOGRAPHY DAN LUNGEN PHOTOGRAPHY, INC. DIDEO FILMS PHOTOGRAPHY FANTASY FLASH

COLOR MAKE-UP STUDIO ERICA DOES MAKEUP

THE PERSNICKETY BRIDE

DIGITAL MUSICIANS ENTERTAINMENT

JACKIEKSTYLES

DJ BRI SWATEK, SPINNING WITH STYLE

MAKEUP ARTISTRY BY JILLIAN

DJ DOMENIC ENTERTAINMENT

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dance lessons

DJ SERG ENTERTAINMENT

THE DEVONSHIRE PLAYERS

ENRIQUEZ ENTERTAINMENT

ETA MUSIC

ESU EVENTS-ENTERTAINMENT & SOUNDS UNLIMITED, INC.

HAL PRINCE MUSIC AND ENTERTAINMENT

GET DOWN ENTERTAINMENT

KAZZ MUSIC ORCHESTRA

HUDSON VALLEY WEDDING DJ SERVICES BY PARIS CREATIVE

LA BLANC ENTERTAINMENT

JIMMY DEE ENTERTAINMENT

PERRONE BROS. ENTERTAINMENT–FEATURING NAKED SOUL BAND

HUDSON VALLEY CEREMONIES

SILVER ARROW BAND

ONE HEART PERSONALIZED CEREMONIES BY MARK & NORMA

wedding venues

PERSONALIZED CEREMONIES BY REV. ZARO & OFFICIANTS

CHATEAU BRIAND CATERERS

MAGICAL MEMORIES ENTERTAINMENT MD MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT MSV ENTERTAINMENT, PHOTOGRAPHY, PHOTO BOOTHS, CINEMA MUCH MUSIC DJ MUSIC MASTERS NEXT GENERATION DJ ENTERTAINMENT

LIVE MUSIC PROS

ceremony musicians AMADEUS QUARTET APPASSIONATA PLAYERS CAPRICCIO ENSEMBLE THE DEVONSHIRE PLAYERS

WESTCHESTER FLORAL DECORATORS INC.

officiants & premarital counseling ALICE SOLOWAY UNCOMMON WEDDING OFFICIANT

REV. GARY DEINSTADT REV. JUDE SMITH– INTERFAITH MINISTER

DORIAN STRING QUARTET

WEDDING PASTOR JEREMY ZIEGLER

SHOWTIME!

florists

photo booth

ARCADIA FLORAL CO.

HIPSTR PHOTO BOOTH

CHERRY BRANDY DESIGNS BY WHAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF

IFLICK PHOTO BOOTH

TOTAL DJ ENTERTAINMENT GROUP TURNTABLE EVENTS–DJS, LIGHTING & PHOTO BOOTHS VARGAS PRODUCTIONS DJ VICTOR VARGAS & MC JAY VEGAS

SUPREME PHOTO BOOTH

FLORAL FANTASIES BY SARA FLOWERS BY DAVID ANTHONY

lighting & décor

FOREVER IN BLOOM

SHOWTIME!

bands

LUCILLE’S FLORAL OF FISHKILL

VIVID EVENTS

AL SCATT’S–STOLEN MOMENTS ENTERTAINMENT

MAYURI’S FLORAL DESIGN

limousine & valet services

YOUR EVENT MATTERS

ARIEL MUSIC & EVENTS CLARK ENO ORCHESTRA

MONICA CHIMES FLORAL, INC. SECRET GARDEN FLORIST & GIFT SHOP INC.

honeymoon & travel BEACHFRONTS TRAVEL

HUDSON VALLEY OFFICIANTS

PLATINUM PARTY EVENTS ENTERTAINMENT, INC SOUND ACTIVE EVENTS

BALLROOM EXPRESSION

LONG ISLAND

ChateauBriandCaterers.com “The second I walked into the Chateau, I knew it was the place for me. The whole team was extremely accommodating. I can honestly say that I got to have the wedding I always dreamed of.”

INSIGNIA EventsByInsignia.com “I was looking for something different from the usual catering halls, and when I went into Insignia for the first time, it was exactly what I was looking for.”

MEDITERRANEAN MANOR MedManor.com “From the moment I stepped onto the premises, I felt like family because of the heartfelt staff. There is no other place to get married on this island.”

THE METROPOLITAN

TOP CLASS LIMOUSINE

TheMetropolitanCaterers.com “I will always remember John telling us, ‘all you have to do is show up and enjoy the day—we will take care of everything,’ and truly everyone did.”

SUGAR LANE CAKE SHOP

INSIGNIA

MEDITERRANEAN MANOR

SugarLaneCakeShop.com

EventsByInsignia.com

MedManor.com

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SILVERFOX

SHOWTIME!

WATERMILL CATERERS

MG HAIR AND MAKEUP

ShowtimeStudio.com

WatermillCaterers.com

MGHairandMakeup.com

WATERMILL CATERERS WatermillCaterers.com “Watermill Caterers made our dream reality. My guests cannot stop talking about the food. We are beyond thankful for the amazing work they did—it felt like it was a dream.”

LONG ISLAND WEDDING & EVENT PLANNERS BOUTIQUE

WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY MIRALLI PHOTOGRAPHY

photographers

ONE FINE DAY PHOTOGRAPHERS AND VIDEO

SANDI RUFO PHOTOGRAPHY

PATKEN PHOTOGRAPHER RED SWEATSHIRT PHOTOGRAPHY

BOURNE MANSION

SandiRufoPhotography.com “Sandi is absolutely amazing! She listened to our every wish and gave us the most beautiful photos! We had our albums less than two months after our wedding!”

BRIDGEVIEW YACHT CLUB

SHOWTIME!

CARLYLE ON THE GREEN

ShowtimeStudio.com “I could write a million things I like about [them], but I will just say they are very talented in what they do. It was such a pleasure to work with them.”

360 EAST AT MONTAUK DOWNS ANTUNS BELLPORT COUNTRY CLUB

THE CRESCENT BEACH CLUB CREST HOLLOW COUNTRY CLUB FLOWERFIELD THE GARDEN CITY HOTEL HARBOR CLUB AT PRIME THE INN AT NEW HYDE PARK LARKFIELD MAJESTIC GARDENS

RUBY STAR PHOTOGRAPHY & CINEMA SILVERFOX PHOTOGRAPHY

tuxedos & formalwear THE BLACK TUX ESQUIRE TUXEDOS FORESTO TUXEDO

hair, makeup & wellness MG HAIR AND MAKEUP

TESSIE REVELIOTIS WEDDING COLLECTIONS

MGHairandMakeup.com “Everyone looked beautiful, and I’m convinced all of the photos turned out so well because everyone really loved their hair and makeup and felt amazing.”

ADA STUDIO

WAVECREST STUDIO

ADELYN’S CANVAS

ANGEL PROJECT PHOTOGRAPHY

WILLIAM THOMAS PHOTOGRAPHY

BRIDAL HAIR & MAKEUP BY NICOLE

videographers

BRIDAL HAIR DESIGN ON LOCATION & MAKEUP ARTISTRY

BOSCHELLI PHOTOGRAPHY CLIX|COUTURE DEAR STACEY

STUDIO 27 THE TALENTED PHOTOGRAPHER

EXO PHOTOGRAPHY

BILSKI PRODUCTIONS

FOXLIGHT STUDIOS

DIRECT IMAGE FILMS

THE GLENMAR STUDIO

INTRIGUE WEDDING FILMS

SMITHTOWN LANDING COUNTRY CLUB

GLYPH CREATIVE STUDIO

KEITH BRADY MEDIA

IM PHOTO STUDIO

STONEBRIDGE COUNTRY CLUB

JAMES KATSIPIS STUDIO

SWAN CLUB VIEW

JANELLE BROOKE PHOTOGRAPHY INC

RICCARDO PRODUCTIONS CINEMA...FINE ARTS PHOTOGRAPHY...

WESTBURY MANOR

JS VISIONS PHOTO & VIDEO

WINDOWS ON THE LAKE

KEN HILD WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

wedding planners

KENN DOYLE PHOTOGRAPHY

BLOSSOM BRIDES

PERFECTLY BLENDED– MAKEUP BY VIVIAN

LENNON PHOTO

THE BRIDAL WORLD

PRIMP L.I.

DEBORAH MINARIK EVENTS, LTD

LOTUS WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

HARBOR BRIDAL

STYLES BY MARCELLA

FAIRY TALE AFFAIRS

MARKLAND PHOTOGRAPHY

LOTUS BRIDAL

LA BELLA PLANNERS, LLC

MATT STALLONE

MAX BRIDAL NY

TIFFANY JOY DESIGNS ON-LOCATION BRIDAL HAIR SPECIALIST

THE MANSION AT TIMBER POINT THE ROYALTON MANSION AT THE ROSLYN COUNTRY CLUB

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WHITE DIAMOND VIDEO

bridal fashions

CELEBRITY MAKEUP ARTIST, CHRISTINA AMADOR BEAUTY ERICA DOES MAKEUP EVY DREW LOLA LOVES MAKEUP MAKEUP ARTISTRY BY MICHELE NATURAL LOOK BRIDAL MAKEUP BY PAULA YOUNG OOH LALA MAKEUP BY JOANNE

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rings & jewelry

ABSOLUTE ENTERTAINMENT

DESIGNS BY KAMNI

AFTER HOURS MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT

FRASSANITO JEWELERS

BARATTINI PRODUCTIONS

wedding cakes & desserts DORTONI BAKERY AND PASTRY SHOPPE FRANCESCO’S ITALIANAMERICAN BAKERY SUGAR LANE CAKE SHOP

florists CRESS FLORAL DECORATORS

BANDS OF GOLD WEDDING CEREMONIES

FUSION DL

CressWeddingFlowers.com “All we can say is WOW! We had a vision for our colors and flowers. They went over and above to work with us to achieve that vision and exceeded our highest expectations.”

GENESIS EVENTS

FLORAL DESIGNS BY NINA

LEGENDARY ENTERTAINMENT

FloralDesignsbyNina.com “Nina did an AMAZING job with the flowers for my wedding. From my initial meeting, I wanted to work with her. Her attention to detail truly sets her apart.”

INTERFAITH CATHOLIC/ JEWISH CEREMONIES

BODY ROCK DJ AND LIVE MUSIC ENTERTAINMENT DR. BEAT PRODUCTIONS

LONG ISLAND SOUND DJ’S MIXCLUSIV ENTERTAINMENT

invitations

MODERN SOUND DEEJAYS SHOWTIME!

BLINGVITATIONS

THE FLOWER PETALER

TOMMY’S TUNES DJ ENTERTAINMENT

TheFlowerPetaler.Blogspot.com “From the bridesmaids’ bouquets to the centerpieces, the flowers were so fresh and beautiful. I was stunned when I walked into the ballroom for the first time.”

FAIRY TALE AFFAIRS FAT CAT PAPERIE

ULTIMATE SOUND DISC JOCKEYS

JESSICA LEIGH PAPERIE

VARIETY MUSIC DJ ENTERTAINMENT

YVONNE’S INVITATIONS & FAVORS LLC

officiants & premarital counseling

bands

HONORABLE CAROLINE Z. BAZZINI, WEDDING OFFICIANT I WED ALL

MARIE APRIL GISMONDI– CHURCH OF ANCIENT WAYS ONE HEART PERSONALIZED CEREMONIES BY MARK & NORMA REV. LOUIS OLIVIERI, INTERFAITH MINISTER/OFFICIATE REV. SARAH GUTMANN LONG ISLAND WEDDING OFFICIANT REVEREND SAMORA–COMMON GROUND CEREMONIES YOUR STORY CEREMONIES– DANIELLE GIANNONE

BAYPORT FLOWER HOUSES

djs

EAST COAST MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT

BAYVIEW FLORIST WEDDING STUDIO

BIG HITS DJ ENTERTAINMENT

EastCoastBand.com “They were the MOST amazing band I have ever heard. Our guests had so much fun dancing, and the compliments just keep coming!”

BLACK DAHLIA INC

FAZE 4 ORCHESTRAS

GIFTS FROM THE HEART FLORIST

LIVE MUSIC PROS

IN FULL BLOOM

THE PLATINUM STAR BAND

NATURE’S PETAL

321 PHOTO BOOTH NYC

SILVER ARROW BAND

PAINTED ROCK DESIGNS

DEJA PHOTO BOOTH

ceremony musicians

PEDESTALS FLORAL DECORATORS

DIGISNAPS

POSH FLORAL DESIGNS

HIPSTR PHOTO BOOTH

VSMUSIC4U

VERBENA DESIGNS INC.

IRIS PHOTOBOOTHS

1800BigHits.com “The best choice we made for our wedding. My husband and I are by far the most indecisive people on the planet, but when we interviewed DJs, we had no doubt.”

CROWD CONTROL ENTERTAINMENT CrowdControlEntertainment.com “Crowd Control Entertainment made our wedding so much fun. The music and the photo booth were phenomenal. They kept everyone entertained and up on their feet.”

favors

DALSIMER SPITZ & PECK FLORAL & EVENT DECORATORS ELEGANT DESIGNS BY JOY

RESCUE FLATS TALARIA FLATS

photo booth

ADA STUDIO

THE METROPOLITAN

CHATEAU BRIAND CATERERS

BIG HITS DJ ENTERTAINMENT

TheMetropolitanCaterers.com

ChateauBriandCaterers.com

1800BigHits.com

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TRAN-STAR EXECUTIVE TRANSPORTATION SERVICES

BRYAN SARGENT PHOTOGRAPHY

OWN YOUR SEXY

BryanSargentPhotography.com

OwnYourSexy.com

TranStarLimo.com

lighting & décor

happy. I would recommend this establishment to anyone.”

EXQUISITE AFFAIRS PRODUCTIONS, INC

are very talented in what they do. It was such a pleasure to work with them.”

SHOWTIME!

THE WORKS CATERING AND THE HOUSING WORKS BOOKSTORE

HAPPILY EVER AFTER EVENTS BY CHRISTINA

TRUE LOVE WEDDING

limousine & valet services TRAN-STAR EXECUTIVE TRANSPORTATION SERVICES TranStarLimo.com “They are so amazing! Perfect service, plus added bonus of car service that just picked us up from our honeymoon. Professional and courteous.”

TheWorksCatering.com “It was exactly what we wanted. I would wholeheartedly recommend Housing Works as a venue for your wedding!” 3 WEST CLUB BOURNE MANSION

JOVE MEYER EVENTS KATE EDMONDS EVENTS LAUREN DAVERSA EVENTS LIFESTYLE MAVEN EVENTS MAJESTIC MOMENTS WEDDINGS & EVENTS

CRYSTAL PLAZA

SHANNON GAIL WEDDINGS AND EVENTS

K AND G LIMOUSINE SERVICE

FALKIRK ESTATE AND COUNTRY CLUB

SONAL J. SHAH EVENT CONSULTANTS

LANCELOT LIMOUSINE SERVICES, INC.

FEAST AT ROUND HILL–F.E.A.S.T.

TARA M. EVENTS

SIR OLIVER LIMOUSINE

honeymoon & travel

GLEN ISLAND HARBOUR CLUB THE GRANDVIEW HARBOR CLUB AT PRIME HOLLYHEDGE ESTATE

WOODHAVEN MANOR WoodhavenManorNY.com “Everything was beautiful. My husband and I were happy, our guests were

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CLAUDIA MCDADE PHOTOGRAPHY CYNTHIA CHUNG WEDDINGS DANILA MEDNIKOOV PHOTOGRAPHY DP STUDIO TING YI PHOTO & CINEMA EDWARD DYE PHOTOGRAPHY EMMA CLEARY PHOTO AND VIDEO

SENATE GARAGE

LUSH LIFE FILM

JC LEMON PHOTOGRAPHY

STROUDSMOOR COUNTRY INN

LushLifeFilm.com “We are so blessed that she shot our wedding—not only did we love all our shots and the incredible video she put together, we also got tons of compliments.”

JESSICA SCHMITT PHOTOGRAPHY

THE MADISON HOTEL

MasterpieceCaterers.com “I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Masterpiece Caterers for any event in the future, and if you choose them for your wedding, you will not leave disappointed!”

CASEY FATCHETT PHOTOGRAPHY

THE NEW YORK BOTANICAL GARDEN

PERSONAL ESCAPE TRAVEL

MASTERPIECE CATERERS AT INDIA HOUSE

AMY RIZZUTO PHOTOGRAPHY

THE GLENMAR STUDIO

LE PARKER MERIDIEN NEW YORK

wedding venues

BRYAN SARGENT PHOTOGRAPHY

A DAY OF BLISS WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY

BryanSargentPhotography.com “My heart just melted with joy upon receiving our wedding photos from Bryan, as he truly captured the love and the magic of the day!”

HELLENIC HOLIDAYS, INC.

MANHATTAN

photographers

TrueLoveWedding.com “Such a pleasure to work with! If you’re looking for great photographers and outstanding service, I highly recommend True Love Photography!”

WESTBURY MANOR WINDOWS ON THE WATER AT FROGBRIDGE

wedding planners ASHLEY M CHAMBLIN EVENTS CYNTHIA ROSS EVENTS DESTINATIONWEDDINGS.COM DREAM MAKERS NY EVERYTHING FABULOUS FOR YOUR EVENTS

OWN YOUR SEXY

THE HONS PHOTO + VIDEO IRA FOX PHOTOGRAPHY JAMIE LEVINE PHOTOGRAPHY

JORGE GARCIA PHOTOGRAPHY JUSTIN MCCALLUM PHOTOGRAPHY MEG MILLER PHOTOGRAPHY

OwnYourSexy.com “I can honestly say this was one of the most amazing and fun experiences I have ever had. The studio is fabulous and welcoming.”

THE PORTOS PHOTO + VIDEO

SHOWTIME!

STEVEN ROSEN PHOTOGRAPHY

ShowtimeStudio.com “I could write a million things I like about [them], but I will just say they

STUDIO JLK WEDDINGS

REGINA FLEMING PHOTOGRAPHY SAGE STUDIOS PHOTOGRAPHY SOMETHING BLUE PHOTOGRAPHY

STYLISH AND HIP WEDDINGS

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SUSAN SHEK PHOTO + VIDEO THE TALENTED PHOTOGRAPHER THOMPSON PHOTOGRAPHY GROUP TWISTED OAKS STUDIO WILLIAM THOMAS PHOTOGRAPHY

videographers AMOR IN MOTION LIVE PICTURE STUDIOS (VIDEO + PHOTO)

hair, makeup & wellness

caterers

PERFECTLY INVITED/ MIMOSA DIGITAL

GREAT PERFORMANCES

SHINDIG BESPOKE

MISS HARLEQUIN WEDDING MAKEUP ARTISTRY & HAIR DESIGN

GreatPerformances.com “The food at our wedding was out of this world; we’re still getting compliments! You will probably never have better food at a wedding.”

MissHarlequin.com “During the trial four to five months before the wedding, she did an amazing job listening to what I wanted and helping me decide the best look for me.” BEAUTINI THE BRIDAL SUITE NEW YORK

LUSH LIFE FILM

CHAUNTASTIC BEAUTY

MESH FILMS

EVY DREW

SHUTTER AND SOUND FILMS

GIANNA GIACONA AIRBRUSH MAKEUP ARTISTRY & BRIDAL HAIR

THE RAGING SKILLET TheRagingSkillet.com “Absolutely the best! From creativity and, of course, fabulous food— everything about the experience with The Raging Skillet, Chef Rossi and Charmaine was top shelf!”

djs MD MUSIC AND ENTERTAINMENT MDMusicDJ.com “I never imagined that working with a DJ could be so easy! Matty is punctual, professional, attentive and GREAT at keeping a party going strong!”

URE EVENTS UREEvents.com “Leo really cares about his clients. He made us feel very special as we worked with him to customize every aspect of our reception.”

REAL FOOD CATERING

MAKE-UP AND HAIR BY KERRY-LOU

wedding cakes & desserts

bridal fashions

MARIEL GUAY BRIDAL BEAUTY

EAT GREAT CAKES

ARIA MELODY DJ

MG HAIR AND MAKEUP

A LITTLE SOMETHING WHITE BRIDAL COUTURE

BEAT TRAIN PRODUCTIONS

MY MAKEUP ARTIST VICTORIA ONCE UPON A BRIDE INC

EatGreatCakes.com “Sugar magic! Exquisite and delicious. Truly, Eat Great Cakes is a magician and delivers the perfect cake!”

SALLY DUVALL MAKEUP

SUGAR LANE CAKE SHOP

SALON POSH

SugarLaneCakeShop.com “We are so happy with our decision to go with Sugar Lane Cake Shop. The best! Highly recommend! Ashley was such a gem to work with throughout our process.”

STARLIGHT STUDIOZ

BRIDAL REFLECTIONS DESIGNER LOFT FOREVER AMOUR BRIDAL BOUTIQUE LOTUS BRIDAL PAISLEY BRIDAL RK BRIDAL

STACIE FORD WEDDINGS ELITE MAKEUP ARTISTRY TAFFETA HAIR & MAKEUP DESIGN

SELIA YANG

WARPAINT INTERNATIONAL BEAUTY AGENCY

KEYHOLE DOUGHNUTS

SENG COUTURE

YLENIA L MAZZEI

invitations

tuxedos & formalwear

rings & jewelry

CECI NEW YORK

BLACK LAPEL CUSTOM CLOTHIERS

DESIGNS BY KAMNI

THE BLACK TUX

FIRENZE JEWELS

ELLE DEE DESIGNS INVITE & WRITE JOINS REED COHEN PAPERS & EVENTS

74 EVENTS

CLASSIC EVENTS MUSIC DJ DAVID MEDINA DLE EVENT GROUP GENESIS EVENTS MVPRODUCTIONS, LLC. THE REMIXOLOGISTS SCRATCH WEDDINGS STYLUS DJ ENTERTAINMENT TOUCH OF SOUND ENTERTAINMENT

bands BUD MALTIN MUSIC (LIVE BAND)— METROPOLITAN MUSIC DJS

LUSH LIFE FILM

MD MUSIC AND ENTERTAINMENT

EAT GREAT CAKES

LushLifeFilm.com

MDMusicDJ.com

EatGreatCakes.com

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BUD MALTIN MUSIC (LIVE BAND) METROPOLITAN MUSIC DJS

EAST COAST MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT

RESCUE FLATS RescueFlats.com

BudMaltin.com

BudMaltin.com “Everything you guys touched was perfect. You kept the energy high all night, which made for the best dance party ever.”

EAST COAST MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT EastCoastBand.com “All of our guests were in awe of how awesome the band was and how they kept the party going the whole time. They were professional, fun and truly made the party!”

THE LOVE REVIVAL ORCHESTRA TheLoveRevival.com “The Love Revival Orchestra is not only world-class musicians, but also worldclass people. They made every step of the process easy, fun and seamless.”

MANHATTAN CITY MUSIC ManhattanCityMusic.com “They were nothing short of magnificent. MCM didn’t miss a beat. Many of our guests stated that it was the ‘best wedding band they had ever seen,’ and we agree!” 45 RIOTS ARIEL MUSIC & EVENTS AROUND TOWN ENTERTAINMENT CHEVY CHEVIS ENTERTAINMENT EMPYREAL STRINGS MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT ETA MUSIC HANK LANE MUSIC JK ENTERTAINMENT LIVE MUSIC PROS LIVE WIRE ENTERTAINMENT METROPOLITAN PLAYERS MIXTAPE: A COVER BAND FOR HIPSTERS

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EastCoastBand.com

MOD SOCIETY-CHIC JAZZ AND HIGH-ENERGY DANCE NEW YORK EDGE MUSIC THE RHYTHM SHOP, THE GROOVE SHOP & THE PARTY SHOP SILVER ARROW BAND STARLIGHT MUSIC–E THREE NYC– STARLIGHT ORCHESTRAS TIMATHA KASTEN & TKO MUSIC ENTERTAINMENT

florists FLEURS DU MOIS, INC. FleursDuMois.com “Our wedding flowers were perfect! Every step of the process was fluid and easy. Jay and Al listened to exactly what I wanted and made my dream a reality.” ARISTON FLOWERS ATLAS FLORAL DECORATORS BRIDE & BLOSSOM CRESS FLORAL DECORATORS FLOWER ELEGANCE JULIA TESTA DESIGNS KATHERINE ELIZABETH EVENTS– THE PAPER FLORIST

HAYLEY SIEGEL

limousine & valet services

ILLUMINATING CEREMONIES CHRISTOPHER SHELLEY

LUXOR LIMOUSINE

GERALD FIERST

JEDDAH VAILAKIS, ELEGANT & HEARTFELT CEREMONIES

TOP CLASS LIMOUSINE

OFFICIANT NYC

honeymoon & travel

ONE HEART PERSONALIZED CEREMONIES BY MARK & NORMA OUR WEDDING OFFICIANT NYC– PETER BORUCHOWITZ

DIVINE DESTINATION WEDDINGS & HONEYMOONS

REV. ANNIE LAWRENCE, NYC WEDDING OFFICIANT

HELLENIC HOLIDAYS, INC.

REV. LOUIS OLIVIERI, INTERFAITH MINISTER/OFFICIATE

REV. SAMORA—COMMON GROUND CEREMONIES CommonGroundCeremonies.com “Reverend Samora was fantastic. She made us feel very comfortable about the planning process and employs a system that is easy to use and completely stress-free.”

JET SET STYLE

TULIS MCCALL WEDDINGS BY ARETHA

gifts & registries

favors

TRAVELER’S JOY HONEYMOON REGISTRY

RESCUE FLATS RescueFlats.com “Such an elegant and appreciated surprise for our guests! Rescue Flats helped to keep our party going ‘til all hours of the night. Thank you, Rescue Flats!” TALARIA FLATS

NYC FLOWER PROJECT

officiants & premarital counseling

HONEYMOONS, INC.–ALL INCLUSIVE RESORT SPECIALISTS

photo booth DEJA PHOTO BOOTH DIGISNAPS HIPSTR PHOTO BOOTH THE Ü BOOTH

lighting & décor SHOWTIME!

OUTER BOROUGHS

wedding venues ANTUN’S Antuns.com “There is no venue better than Antun’s! They went above and beyond to make my day wonderful and beautiful— would never go anywhere else for any of my functions.”

GRAND MARQUIS GrandMarquisCaterers.com “There are not enough words to describe how phenomenal this venue is and how incredible our wedding day was. Thank you to the Grand Marquis for making our fairy-tale wedding come to life.”

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ABOVE THE BARNS AT WESLEYAN HILLS BOURNE MANSION BROOKLYN WINERY THE CRESCENT BEACH CLUB

photographers ALEX KAPLAN-VIDEO-PHOTO BOOTH SPECIALISTS BROOKE AND SAM PHOTOGRAPHY

hair, makeup & wellness

GENESIS EVENTS JAY MCELFRESH

AMY KLEWITZ BEAUTY HAIR & MAKEUP ARTIST BESPOKE BEAUTY & BRIDAL

MYSTICAL ENTERTAINMENT GROUP AND IPHOTOBOOTHS LLC

ECO MAKEUP ARTIST–SALLY BIONDO

PLATINUM ENTERTAINMENT

MANCINI GIUFFRE SALON & SPA

SCRATCH WEDDINGS SHOWTIME!

CRYSTAL PLAZA

CLAUDIA MCDADE PHOTOGRAPHY

DEITY EVENTS

ELVIRA KALVISTE PHOTOGRAPHY

THE DOUGLASTON MANOR

EMMA MCDONALD WEDDINGS

MARGIE BRESCIANI/TRULY HAPPY BEAUTY BRIDAL MAKEUP/HAIR

THE FOUNTAINHEAD

GLAMOUR ME STUDIO

MG HAIR AND MAKEUP

THE GARDEN CITY HOTEL

JUSTIN MCCALLUM PHOTOGRAPHY

SMINK

THE GROVE

THE LILYPAD AGENCY

TOMMY NAPOLI BEAUTY

THE INN AT NEW HYDE PARK

RICCARDO PRODUCTIONS CINEMA

LEONARD’S PALAZZO

SHOWTIME!

THE METROPOLITAN

STARLIGHT STUDIOZ

MYMOON RESTAURANT + VENUE

TRUE LOVE WEDDING

NANINA’S IN THE PARK

WANDERMORE PHOTOGRAPHY

THE NEW YORK BOTANICAL GARDEN NICOTRA’S BALLROOM AT THE HILTON GARDEN INN

videographers AMOR IN MOTION

bands

bridal fashions

EMPYREAL STRINGS MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT

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My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I’m thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work?

RUDE REMARKS A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we’re paying for it—in front of other people. How can we deal with these types of comments? We know it’s easier said than done, but don’t let a guest with a negative or insensitive attitude affect your wedding. You shouldn’t have to defend yourself— plus, your budget is nobody’s business but yours, so don’t get into an argument about how much you are or aren’t spending. Instead, simply thank them for noticing the details of your wedding and let them know how you plan to pay for it is a personal matter between you and your families. Being polite yet direct (not to mention honest) is the best way to get your friend to drop the subject for good.

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MOM ON A MISSION My mom’s taken over our wedding guest list, but the chapel we’ve chosen for the ceremony is pretty tiny. How can we rein in her list without stepping on toes? Parents helping to pay for the wedding should have a say in how their money is spent, but there’s nothing anyone can do about how many people will fit in the chapel you’ve chosen. If your mother keeps expanding her list at the exclusion of those guests most important to you, speak up—but make sure you don’t sound like you’re placing blame. Start with, “I’m worried about the number of people we’re inviting and that the ceremony will be overcrowded. Is there a way we can compromise?” Hopefully she’ll understand the dilemma and rethink the large head count without too much pushback.

REQUESTING CASH How do we let our guests know we want to receive money instead of gifts? Asking for money as a wedding gift may seem taboo, but more couples are going that route instead of a traditional registry. We suggest using an online cash registry website like Tendr, which lets guests gift money gracefully and discreetly with a personal note of congratulations. Or you may decide you’d rather receive money to fund your honeymoon. Create an account on a website like Traveler’s Joy for guests to contribute to. Whatever route you take, post your registry preference and links on your wedding website. But keep in mind that some people still want to give you something personal or material, so give them the option to do so. >>

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You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn’t mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites.

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PLANNER PAINS I don’t think we can afford a wedding planner, but I’m drowning in details. I can’t even imagine how overwhelmed I’ll be on the actual day. What should I do? It’s no secret: Planning a wedding alone is hard, but hiring a planner can be pretty pricey. The good news? Most pros really can work with any budget. If a full-service planner—who’ll hold your hand through finding a florist to cutting the cake—is out of your price range, hire one either on a freelance basis (they’ll help lay the groundwork for you early on) or just as a day-of coordinator. The latter actually starts at least a few weeks before your wedding and costs a fraction of a full-service planner but is pretty priceless—the last thing you should be doing on your wedding day is worrying.

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of couples hire a professional wedding planner TRIAL AND ERROR Am I being too pushy if I bring photos of styles I like to my hair trial? Not at all. Most stylists actually love when you bring pictures for inspiration— plus, your idea of classic might be totally different from theirs. Same goes if you mention celebrities whose locks you admire. Stars change their looks so often, you might be visualizing a sleek redhead while your stylist sees a tousled blond. In addition to photos of styles you like, bring a picture of your dress along with the jewelry and hair accessories you plan on wearing, including your veil, to ensure everything works flawlessly altogether when it’s time to walk down the aisle.

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ALTAR UPGRADE We’re getting married in a church— what are some ways we can make the space feel special and personal? You don’t need much to dress up your ceremony spot, especially if the venue’s interiors are already beautiful to begin with. And remember: Your wedding party will be “decorating” the scene too. Start by checking with your church as it may have décor restrictions. If your congregation allows it, have your florist create two arrangements to mark the altar, and line the aisle with candles, small arrangements or topiaries. If flowers or candles are a no-go, a simple, personalized aisle runner can be enough to make it feel more you.

what would you do Is it necessary to list the groom’s parents on the invitation if they’re not contributing? Tell us what you think at TheKnot.com/talk ANSWER ANXIETY There are only two weeks left until my wedding and I still haven’t heard from a big portion of my guest list. What should I do? As the date draws nearer, there’s nothing wrong with following up with a quick phone call or email to get a definitive yes or no. If you’ve got a particularly trusted and helpful bridesmaid, relative or friend, ask them to help make the calls. Or have whoever added each guest to your list pitch in—if it’s your friend, it’s up to you to track him or her down; if it’s your mother-in-law’s coworker, she should make the call.

MOCKTAIL HOUR Is it appropriate to have a cocktail hour if we know a good portion of our guests don’t drink alcohol? Absolutely. A cocktail hour is a fun way for guests to pass the time between the ceremony and reception, especially if you’re planning on taking photos. In addition to a signature cocktail, you can also create a custom mocktail, which is always an unexpected and appreciated refreshment for nondrinkers. If you’re just serving beer and wine, make sure you have plenty of soda and bottled water on hand as well. Plus, you’ll definitely want enough tasty hors d’oeuvres for everyone to munch on while they sip and mingle.

76% of couples host a cocktail hour

HONEYMOON HITCH My fiancé and I have completely different ideas on the perfect getaway spot. How can we both get excited about choosing and planning the right trip? Your honeymoon should and will be special, but remember, this isn’t the only trip you’ll ever take together. Sit down and rank your top five honeymoon spots, then see if you have any overlap. Sure, your third choice might be his fifth, but chances are you’d both be happy with the locale. If you want to go rock climbing and he wants to lounge poolside with a good novel, find somewhere that offers both. Or, if you have enough time (and energy!), hop to multiple destinations to satisfy both tastes. Have a question for Carley? Tweet at @carleyroney

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9 Crosby St., New York City; (646) 218-6400; NoMoSoHo.com Inspired by Jean Cocteau’s 1946 French film La Belle et la Bête, the NoMo SoHo is a sleek space Francophiles and to-beweds alike will love. Make use of this tucked-away mainstay by reserving the upscale NoMo Kitchen for your reception, where you’ll dine on premium, locally sourced eats amid the 2,800-square-foot greenhouse space. TIP NoMo SoHo boasts an attentive staff of wedding pros who can assist with everything from flowers to linens and entertainment.

6 Times Square, New York City; (212) 204-4980; TheKnickerbocker.com Located just steps away from Broadway and Bryant Park, this historic hotel is a redesigned landmark perfect for couples with a contemporary celebration in mind. Invite up to 150 to dine and drink on the St. Cloud rooftop, where you’ll find openair seating, vibrant walls of greenery and the Cigar Lounge scattered throughout 7,800 square feet. Hoping to host a smaller fete? Book the opulent Waterford Crystal Lounge (fits 35) or the Club Room (holds 55) for more intimate gatherings.

153 W. 57th St., New York City; (646) 774-1234; NewYork.Park.Hyatt.com Exchange vows against illuminated, onyx-lined walls at Park Hyatt New York, a luxury hotel home to one of the most iconic ballrooms in New York City. Handpainted watercolor panels add a pop of color to its 3,100-square-foot interior, and its carpet was created to replicate an aerial view of Central Park foliage. TIP To-be-weds have an added perk of a custom creation by celebrity chef and cake designer Ron Ben-Israel upon booking. >>

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96 Wythe Ave., Brooklyn; (718) 362-8100; TheWilliamsburgHotel.com With its elevated ceilings, soaring windows and ultra-sleek amenities, Brooklyn’s Williamsburg Hotel was designed with style in mind. Vibrant red chandeliers line the stately 3,400-squarefoot ballroom, where up to 400 partygoers can take in the sights high above your reception on an expansive balcony and sweeping staircase.

the beekman 123 Nassau St., New York City; (212) 233-2300; ThompsonHotels.com Prep for your nuptials in one of The Beekman’s two signature rooftop penthouses before celebrating your newlywed status at this architectural jewel, which boasts a massive, nine-story atrium and pyramidal skylight ideal for postceremony photo ops. While we’re fans of the hotel’s bespoke vintage furnishings and literary-inspired interior, our favorite detail is in the fare: All private events are catered on-site, and the hotel is home to two brand-new restaurants from famed James Beard award winners Keith McNally and Tom Colicchio.

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365 Park Ave. S., New York City; (212) 685-7700; HotelGiraffe.com A private terrace, stone fireplace and panoramas of lower Manhattan are just a few reasons to obsess over Penthouse 1202 at Hotel Giraffe. This airy room boats a rooftop garden and enough space to accommodate up to 50 guests. The retro-glam, 1,300-square-foot space is ideal for intimate receptions, and rental fees include setup, breakdown and a much-needed prosecco toast to calm those inevitable preceremony nerves.

111 N. 12th St., Brooklyn; (718) 631-8400; TheWilliamVale.com Towering 22 stories high, The William Vale, one of Brooklyn’s newest hotels, is definitely hard to miss. In addition to an elevated, 15,000-square-foot park, this modern spot features a handful of open-air ceremony sites, including a 5,000-squarefoot terrace and a rooftop lounge equipped with floor-to-ceiling windows and a wraparound balcony. Planning more of a formal affair? Book the dramatic Vale Ballroom for celebrations of up to 300.

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how do you help an indecisive couple decide on their arrangements? It’s always best to let the season’s true flowers guide the conversation. There are times where the blooms are bright, big and gorgeous, and others where the flowers look best in shades of white and blush. Choosing local, seasonally appropriate flowers whenever possible is great because those blooms are usually of the highest quality during the time of your wedding. what’s the biggest piece of advice you find yourself telling to-be-weds? I always encourage couples to choose an aesthetic that reflects their personal style and sensibility. That way, your wedding feels unique, yet you’ll still love your design when you look back in 10 years.

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Focus on the ceremony florals and reception blooms, since these are the areas where guests will take the most notice. We use berries in our boutonnieres for added texture to ensure they don’t look too boring or classic. A lot of couples are against roses since they usually envision that classic, tight petal look, but we encourage them to remain open to certain varieties of garden and spray roses.

what’s trendy in florals right now? Floral garlands are still very trendy. They’re an alternative to standard floral centerpieces in traditional vases, and garlands can give a space a more lush, dramatic look. what are your thoughts on the bouquet toss? The bouquet toss is a fun tradition, but if you don’t want to throw your actual arrangement, we make small, simple bouquets that are used just for the tradition. we’re curious: what really happens to all of those flowers after the night ends? Some of our clients donate their flowers using Rebloom, and we encourage newlyweds to send guests home with flowers. If you have a willing helper, set up a bouquet station, take flowers out of vases, and give away bundles of fresh blooms wrapped in tissue paper. share one pro tip you’d like all to-be-weds to know. Your flowers will turn out so much better if you keep an open mind. We always stay true to the palette and style, but one unexpected bloom can make all the difference. F ind more florists from your area in our directory on p. 446

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LovebrainFilms.com what’s the biggest challenge you face when filming a wedding? Not getting enough time during the photographer’s portrait session to get those video-specific shots that include walking, laughing and candid moments with your partner. Movement adds a lot to the final edit. what makes for an unforgettable video? Couples that are comfortable with showing emotion are a dream to work with and make our job a breeze. We can’t wait to edit footage when we capture amazing, candid moments of real emotion, like animated expressions of joy or those subtle instances during the quiet, in-between times of a wedding.

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We most definitely understand that you want your film immediately after the wedding, but great videos take time (roughly 8 to 10 weeks). Our job is a huge responsibility we take seriously. The goal is to make every video true to each couple’s personal love story.

how do you deal with a camera-shy couple? is it best to act like the camera isn’t there? Our goal is to be as unobtrusive as possible throughout your wedding day. Aside from the portrait session, we don’t give direction, tell you what to do, or how to act. For camera-shy couples, it’s best to forget we’re even there—we’ll do our best to make you feel relaxed with a few laughs along the way. descibe the most emotional moment you’ve recently captured on camera. A couple we worked with in Mexico really took the cake for the most memorable first look. They truly forgot the cameras were there and spent a solid five minutes being present with each other and sharing tears of joy and blissful laughs. It was only after those five minutes they remembered they were on film. what about the funniest moment you’ve shot? We recently filmed a wedding where the dance floor was still packed at the end of the night. The guests were totally missing out on the beautiful cake table that the bride had designed, and she was a little bummed. But instead of killing the party mood and forcing everyone to sit down for dessert, the bride picked up her two-tier Momofuku confetti cake and a big spoon before making her way through the dance floor, cake in hand, where she fed bites to all of her friends and family. It was hilarious and made for the perfect ending to their wedding film. heck out more local wedding pros C at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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what makes your bakery unique? Nine Cakes stands out because our cakes are truly scrumptious, and our designs—while generally classic and clean—have a slight whimsical, dreamy quality to them. We also offer many unique flavor combinations and are open to customizing and tailoring those cake flavors for each of our couples. what are some creative ways to save money on your cake? One of my favorite ways to save money   on a design is to decorate the cake with a slightly textured buttercream and artful arrangements of fresh, seasonal fruit. These cakes always look the most delicious and inviting, and work for both casual and formal weddings. It also makes for a classic look, and it’s an easy way to create a dramatic impact without labor-intensive sugar work, which is ultimately more expensive.

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Looking for cake inspiration in non-wedding areas keeps our designs fresh—from ceramics and embroidery to jewelry and nature.

any inventive flavor combinations you’d like to share? A few personal favorites are our ginger cake with lime curd and ginger buttercream, almond cardamom cake with fresh pear puree, vanilla cake with layers of salted caramel, peanut butter buttercream and chocolate ganache, and dark chocolate cake with Nutella, hazelnuts and raspberries. what’s the secret behind a cake that looks great and tastes even better? Fresh ingredients, reliable recipes and the proper tools all make for a delicious cake. Even though it’s labor intensive, I love layering in multiple flavor components and textures for an irresistible dessert, like flavoring the cake batter or adding citrus curd, Italian meringue buttercream, fresh berries, roasted nuts or chocolate shavings.

We update and refine our menu throughout the year, basing flavors on seasonal favorites. If you offer your personal preferences and inspiration and let your vendor’s imagination run wild, you’ll end up with something truly memorable.

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DETAILS WE LOVE The Knot editors are traveling the country reporting on the hottest wedding style and tech trends brought to life by local wedding pros. Connecticut’s winning look comes from True Event and The Confetti Bar, who teamed up to create DIY pineapple centerpieces made with a colorful mix of shredded paper, sequins and metallic pieces.

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It all started with a kickball game. “I was visiting a friend in New York when she invited me to watch her kickball league play on the Lower East Side,” Cara says. Once there, she met Matt, and the two quickly hit it off, despite Cara residing in Philadelphia. Three years later, the couple found themselves wandering through Central Park when Matt popped the question in a secluded spot along the edge of the lake. “I pulled the ring from my pocket, but forgot to say ‘Will you marry me?’” Matt recalls. “Cara politely reminded me that I had to ask!” The ring: Jay Roberts Jewelers >>

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With plans to join family and friends for dinner later that evening, Phil convinced Hayley to kill some time by walking around The Metropolitan Museum of Art. But as the two set off to locate Phil’s sister on the museum’s steps, Hayley noticed a few familiar faces in the crowd. “I walked toward the steps and saw my brother and sister standing on either side of a huge sign that read: Will You Marry Me?” Hayley says. “Hundreds of people were watching and taking photos, but in that very moment, it felt like Phil and I were the only ones there.” The ring: Costco >>

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BRIDE Taryn Adler, 32, a freelance writer GROOM Samuel (Sam) Blank, 37, a real estate developer HOW THEY MET At The Surf Lodge in Montauk WEDDING STYLE “I’m not a big color person, so my motto was ‘chic but minimal,’ ” Taryn says of outfitting their timeless venue in cherry blossoms and plenty of candlelight. —Rachel Sylvester

“Sam didn’t share my vision of a barefoot beach wedding for two, so we decided on a classic New York City bash,” Taryn says of planning their spring nuptials at the iconic Rainbow Room in midtown Manhattan. “The moment we walked into the restaurant, we knew that was where we were going to marry.”

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Towering cherry blossom centerpieces and crystaldraped candelabras topped reception tables, but the most memorable detail came in the form of a little unexpected sunshine. “Sam’s father passed away the week of our wedding, so the ceremony was incredibly emotional,” Taryn says. “The day was rainy and overcast, but at the start of the ceremony, the sun came out in the most intense way and lit up the entire room. We walked down the aisle knowing his father was beaming down at us.”

Guests gathered around to witness the newlyweds sign their ketubah, a traditional Jewish marriage contract.

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The alfresco meal felt more like a communal feast, thanks to two long dining tables.

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THEIR STORY GROOM Joe Murphy (left), 34, a television writer GROOM Nick Smith, 33, an investment banker HOW THEY MET At a friend’s birthday party WEDDING STYLE Drawing inspiration from Miami Vice, the Capulet party in Baz Luhrmann’s Romeo & Juliet and Palm Springs, California, Joe and Nick welcomed guests using lush leaves and chic navy, green and hot pink details. —RS

“Our florist, Carlo, is Colombian, so we wholeheartedly embraced our ‘garden of delights’ theme,” Joe says of packing their industrial venue with heliconias, palm leaves, honeycombs, coconuts and bananas. “Traditional white florals didn’t represent us as a couple, so his team basically built us a rain forest.”

Mini pineapple boutonnieres added a pop of color to the grooms’ lapels.

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“Nick and I fell in love with The Foundry’s ivy-covered facade and lush courtyard,” Joe says. The flexible space gave the couple the ability to carve out different themed areas, including a cocktail lounge with peacock dancers and a tiki bar complete with bird-watching via View-Master toys.

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Joe designed the save-the-date coasters himself using a vibrant palette that alluded to the day’s verdant theme. During the couple’s ceremony, friends and family put a pop culture twist on religious tradition by sharing readings that contained heartfelt lyrics from Beyoncé and Taylor Swift.

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It was essential for the pair to honor David’s Brooklyn upbringing and Laylah’s Indian heritage. “The Prospect Park Boathouse is full of historic details, so we wanted to tell our story with modern touches that drew upon our own personal histories,” Laylah says. Their sentimental ceremony included an exchange of garlands and sweets followed by a moment of silence.

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“I’m so grateful that everyone was willing to step out of their comfort zone to try something new,” Laylah says of giving her bridesmaids the option to wear traditional dresses or vibrant blue saris. “I think they all looked fabulous!”

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

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A group of friends assisted the couple in “beautifying” their barn reception. “It felt like a barn raising,” Meghan says. “It was such a fun way to introduce everyone to each other and spend time with our guests.”

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Meghan Ryan, 31, a sustainable business consultant GROOM Eric Losh, 31, an illustrator and art director HOW THEY MET OkCupid.com WEDDING STYLE Meghan and Eric blended natural wood and white details with custom artwork and handpicked florals to bring their whimsical wedding to life. —RS

“We wanted the overall design to showcase our love of nature and birdwatching,” Eric says of incorporating a colorful bird motif throughout their alfresco celebration in upstate New York. Lush florals included pressed ferns collected from Eric’s home in West Virginia and blooms picked by family and friends the day before the “I dos.”

Meghan clutched a bouquet of locally harvested flowers, herbs and pea shoots.

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“Our DIY approach was certainly a lot of work, but it served as the perfect representation of who we are as a couple,” Meghan says of repurposing décor items from their own Brooklyn abode. Enamel trays filled with birdseed displayed kraft paper escort cards, and guests noshed on waffles and ice cream for a postdinner treat.

Signature sips included a blackberrybased Scarlet Tanager and a ginger and rye whiskey Wood Thrush.

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Two friends played traditional banjo and fiddle tunes as family and friends gathered for the start of the ceremony. “The music was the perfect acoustic match to our historic Hudson River location,” Eric says. The groom’s contribution to the ultra-personalized nuptials came in the form of mini dinner menus and DIY table numbers painted with birds and blooms.

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Jenna opted for a timeless yet relaxed look, with her Chantilly lace dress and laser-cut heels.

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“We wanted our wedding to feel elegant, yet relaxed and fun, much like Shelter Island,” Jenna says. “It was important to turn our day into a mini destination wedding and give our guests a taste of the island.” Onlookers were treated to waterfront views of Coecles Harbor during the couple’s vows, which they exchanged under a birch chuppah adorned with silver dollar eucalyptus.

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Bridesmaids donned breezy gray gowns for an effortless, beach-inspired look.

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“Given our shared love of cooking, planning began with the food,” Jenna says of gifting guests with welcome bags filled with locally sourced potato chips, cookies and rosé cider. Other East End treats included in-season pies from Long Island’s Briermere Farm and assorted breads from Blue Duck Bakery.

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The newlyweds cut into a coconutcovered cake filled with vanilla bean buttercream.

Four wood farm tables were arranged under a sailcloth tent on the inn’s lawn, creating the feel of an intimate dinner party. String lights and vine globes illuminated the reception space, and long garlands of dahlias, ranunculus, garden roses and seeded eucalyptus ran the length of each tablescape.

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Two gold urns bursting with ivory and blush blooms and curly willow flanked the altar.

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The couple was married in a traditional Catholic ceremony in the same church Kaitlin grew up attending with her family. “I’m very partial to where I grew up and wanted to marry Grant in my hometown,” Kaitlin says.

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“It was more beautiful than I ever imagined,” Kaitlin says of their soaring naked wedding cake.

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The grand 32-foot head table was draped with a lush floral garland of all-white hydrangeas, garden roses and orchids that spilled over each edge. “If I could have preserved it forever, I think I would have,” Kaitlin says. “It just made such a statement in the tent—it was absolutely breathtaking.”

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REGISTRIES Bloomingdale’s;

Hoagland’s of Greenwich; Williams-Sonoma HONEYMOON South Africa GUESTS 308 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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Photo: Syed Yaqeen

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Ari Fund, 28, an advertising account supervisor GROOM Nick Stelzner, 30, an equity research associate HOW THEY MET They were set up by a mutual friend WEDDING STYLE Lush florals and splashes of vintage charm brought Ari and Nick’s enchanted wedding day to life. —MO

“After visiting two other venues, Nick and I went to The Fox Hollow and immediately fell in love,” Ari says. “The Winter Garden Pavilion room was exactly what we wanted. With its mahogany bar, brick walls, fireplace and skylight ceiling, it feels so personal, like you’re in somebody’s home.” Ari has two wedding bands: one engraved with “Buggy”—her nickname for Nick— and the other with their beloved Yorkie, Ellie’s, name.

Blooming pink and white peonies burst from Ari’s textured bridal bouquet.

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“I feel like the bridesmaid dresses really set the tone for the rest of the wedding,” Ari says of the two different dresses she chose for her attendants. Four of the girls wore floral-printed dresses, while the other three donned one-shoulder lilac gowns that perfectly complemented the day’s florals.

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Glen Island Harbour Club

2017

A truly spectacular place. You’ll be surrounded by gently breaking waves, lush park grounds on a secluded island, breathtaking sunsets, a storybook chapel and dramatic views of the New York skyline bridges. Glen Island Harbour Club—where new and everlasting memories are created.

Glen Island Park, Weyman Avenue, New Rochelle, NY 10805 | 914.636.6500 | www.gi-hc.com

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The couple had their first look at Old Westbury Gardens in nearby Westbury.

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Black Dahlia Inc

OFFICIANT Cantor Nancy Bach GOWN Jenny Packham, Gabriella

New York Bridal Salon, New York City VEIL David’s Bridal

Dune London

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT &

WEDDING RINGS Cornell’s Jewelers JEWELRY BHLDN

HAIR &

MAKEUP Nancy Caroline Bridal

Styling

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

Aqua, Bloomingdale’s; David’s Bridal

MENSWEAR Hugo Boss

STATIONERY Minted.com &

RENTALS

CATERING The Fox Hollow

Francesco’s Bakery Michaels Band/

CAKE

MUSIC Frank

Hank Lane Music

ACCOMMODATIONS The Fox

Hollow Having the ceremony and reception in the same location meant they didn’t have to worry about transportation. “The only ride we had to take was to our first look,” Ari says. “It was a really special ride for me—my mom drove me, just like she had to so many special events for the past 28 years.”

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HONEYMOON Bali,

Indonesia; Singapore GUESTS 100 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)

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For over 50 years, The Fountainhead has been regarded as one of Westchester’s Premier Wedding Facilities. As your guests are welcomed by valet and uniformed doormen, they will experience the elegance and sophistication of their surroundings complete with waterfall gardens, soaring glass atriums, elegant marble and gold leaf lobbies. You and your guests will enjoy our great tasting cuisines whether you choose Northern Italian, Sicilian, New American, Contemporary or Foods from the Islands menus. The spectacular ballrooms, complete with hand-finished marble and granite dance floors, can accommodate over 400 guests. The award winning design of our atriums will enable your guests to enjoy a separate area for your cocktail reception. Our elegant, nondenominational wedding chapel features a breathtaking skylight that will bring lasting memories of a beautiful wedding. The Fountainhead is very accessible from all major highways just 15 minutes from Manhattan, Connecticut, Long Island and New Jersey.

2017

55 Quaker Ridge Road, New Rochelle, NY • 914.235.4400 • www.FountainheadCaterers.com

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Chinny Ogbuagu, 32, a digital marketer GROOM Chike Anugo, 32, a data and analytics consultant HOW THEY MET At brunch with mutual friends WEDDING STYLE Asymmetrical arrangements, traditional Nigerian fare and vibrant emerald, gold and fuchsia details lent plenty of personal flair to Chinny and Chike’s rooftop nuptials. —RS

“I like to say that we got married before God, guests and New York,” Chinny says of exchanging vows high above Manhattan. The pair chose not to decorate their open-air ceremony, as to not take away from the venue’s 360-degree views.

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“I adored it and felt beautiful in that dress,” Chinny says of her ruched satin and tulle gown.

CHINNY & CHIKE’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Tribeca Rooftop, New York City PHOTOGRAPHY

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Weddings

Emma McDonald

VIDEOGRAPHY 456 Weddings

CONSULTANT Statuesque Events FLOWERS Maiden Kind Floral Design

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OFFICIANT Rev. Canon Alan GOWN Mark Zunino, Kleinfeld

Bridal, New York City EnzeBridal, Etsy.com Webster

HEADPIECE SHOES Sophia

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS James Allen JEWELRY Liberty in Love HAIR Ro Morgan Hair

Makeup Artist Elvira Jude

MAKEUP Keanda

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

MENSWEAR Groom: Suitsupply;

groomsmen: My.Suit

STATIONERY

Invitations: Riley & Grey; programs & menu cards: Minted.com;

RENTALS AV Workshop;

NYC Wedding Lighting CAKE Apogee Events

CATERING & MUSIC Ceremony

& cocktail hour: Sweet Harmony LLC; reception: DJ Chase White; Foxy P PHOTO BOOTH The Modern Photobooth FAVORS Wedding Favors Unlimited ACCOMMODATIONS St. Regis New

York Dozens of candles topped round reception tables, where guests sat down to a meal of maple-glazed Chilean sea bass and cider and Guinness-braised short ribs. “The positive reviews of Tribeca Rooftop’s catering proved to be true,” Chinny says. “Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the menu.”

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REGISTRY Wanderable.com

HONEYMOON Singapore & Maldives GUESTS 155 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)

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Excelsior is an eclectic event

space inspired by Downtown Lancaster's vintage charm.

Unlike anything you may have

seen, this multifaceted property combines elegant classical

architectural features blended

with modern design throughout various connecting spaces.

Refreshing outdoor areas and

enchanting brewer's catacombs enhance the overall experience creating a one-of-a-kind venue for any event in any season.

125 East King Street Lancaster, PA 717.715.5957 excelsiorlancaster.com

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Burlap runners and white pumpkins put a country-chic spin on each tablescape.

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BRIDE Margot Friedman, 28, a speech language pathologist GROOM Dov Harrington, 33, a technical program manager HOW THEY MET Margot’s sister introduced them WEDDING STYLE “Dov and I both love the fall season,” Margot says of planning a festive, cozy affair filled with pumpkin table numbers, a s’mores station and chic silver accents. —RS

Family and friends looked on from white folding chairs as Margot and Dov put their own twist on Jewish wedding traditions. “Instead of me circling Dov seven times, we circled each other three times before completing a final circle together,” Margot says of sealing the deal under a handheld chuppah.

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Unstructured centerpieces consisted of stock, spray roses, silver brunia and thistle.

Country Club, Garrison

Highlands

PHOTOGRAPHY

Jessa Schifilliti/Love & Light Photographs VIDEOGRAPHY Mint Cinematography CONSULTANT Bridget Bell/Highlands

Country Club

FLOWERS Lee Vazquez

Floral Design & Event Planning Rabbi Daniel Pernick

OFFICIANT

GOWN Nicole Miller,

NearlyNewlywed.com

SHOES Burberry

ENGAGEMENT RING D’Errico Jewelry WEDDING RINGS David Yurman JEWELRY

Bracelet: Hermès; earrings: Nadri HAIR Pure Salon

Lauren Beauty Lounge Various

MAKEUP

Ashley

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

MENSWEAR Groom: My.Suit;

groomsmen: H&M

STATIONERY Invitations:

Minted.com; menu cards: Highlands Country Club; programs: PrintsforEvents, Etsy.com CATERING Highlands Country Club CAKE

The Pastry Garden DESSERTS

Stew Leonard’s

MUSIC Ceremony:

Cello Alexandra; cocktail hour & reception: DJ Joel Ortsman/Beat Train Productions ACCOMMODATIONS Hyatt House

Mulled cider was the hit of Margot and Dov’s cocktail hour, along with Southern-inspired bites of barbecue pulled pork and mac and cheese. After indulging in a dinner of Parmesan risotto and chimichurri steak, the newlyweds cut into a tiered spice cake filled with cinnamon pumpkin cream cheese for dessert.

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Will’s patterned pink tie played up the pastel blooms in Karen’s bouquet.

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BRIDE Karen Nelson, 28, a structural engineer GROOM Will Grossett, 30, an environmental engineer HOW THEY MET While watching a baseball game at a bar WEDDING STYLE Bikes, beer and baseball-inspired details dressed up Brooklyn’s 26 Bridge venue for a look Karen calls “rustic in the city.” —Jen Leahy

“It was different from your typical banquet hall,” Karen says of the brick-lined space, which came alive with marquee centerpieces and textured burlap linens. Together, Karen and Will worked with a monthof coordinator to create a wedding that truly reflected their relationship. “I made escort cards that resembled baseball tickets, and we numbered our tables by ‘row’ and ‘seat’ in true stadium style,” Karen says of the playful nod to the day they met.

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Karen and Will gifted guests with bicycle-shaped bottle openers as favors.

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The pair chose Meghan Trainor’s “Like I’m Gonna Lose You” for their first dance song.

KAREN & WILL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Saint Francis Xavier Church,

Brooklyn RECEPTION SITE 26 Bridge, Brooklyn PHOTOGRAPHY Lacey DellaPace/Lacey

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VIDEOGRAPHY

Well Spun Wedding Films

MONTH-OF

COORDINATOR Tracey Goldstein/Polka

Dot Events

FLOWERS Designs by Ahn

OFFICIANT Rev. Bill Rueger

Sottero,

GOWN Maggie

RK Bridal, New York City

Elizabeth’s Bridal Manor, Northville, MI Badgley Mischka

VEIL SHOES

ENGAGEMENT RING &

WEDDING RINGS Kay Jewelers MAKEUP Salon de Quartier

HAIR &

BRIDESMAID

DRESSES Fleur by Hitherto, BHLDN; earrings:

Elizabeth Bower

MENSWEAR Donna Karan,

Men’s Wearhouse

STATIONERY RSVP

SIGN-IN BOOK Claire Magnolia, Etsy.com RENTALS Universal Lighting and Sound CATERING Bonnie Evans, Dish Food & Events CAKE Buttermilk Bakeshop

Alkaline/Scratch Weddings Aspen

REGISTRIES Bed Bath & Beyond;

Crate & Barrel; Macy’s The signature sips were given custom monikers to honor the people and places most important to the pair. “Will’s family is from Panama, so we served a Panama Coke with rum, and the Jack and Margaret was named for my grandparents,” Karen says of the classic vodka and cranberry cocktail.

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MUSIC DJ

FAVORS Kate HONEYMOON

Greece; Italy; Morocco; Spain GUESTS 185 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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May 26 • Brooklyn

samantha

The couple honored the national Red Nose Day campaign, which fell on the same day as their “I dos.”

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“The invitations set the tone for the rest of the design,” Samantha says of the modern black-and-white letterpress stationery.

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BRIDE Samantha Mushnick, 30, works in sales GROOM Dani Shalmone, 33, a VP of marketing HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE Samantha and Dani’s traditional Jewish wedding was marked by verdant florals, muted tablescapes and one overthe-top ceiling centerpiece. —RS

“I wanted to get married in sneakers ever since I first saw Father of the Bride,” Samantha says of trading her embellished block heels for pale pink kicks immediately after sealing the deal. Other standout pink accessories included hot pink yarmulkes that guests donned during the Jewish ceremony. “It’s my favorite color,” Samantha says of the vibrant hue. “I thought the color would make for such a fun pop in photos.”

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A swath of streamers hung from the center of the indoor reception, resulting in an unforgettable focal point.

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A 10-piece band kicked off the reception by marching partygoers from the sunset cocktail hour into The Liberty Warehouse. Shortly after, Samantha and Dani shared a sentimental first dance to Fleetwood Mac’s “Songbird” before the orchestra launched into a 20-minute set while guests danced the hora.

Photography Events

Jove Meyer

PLANNER

FLOWERS Mimosa Floral Design

OFFICIANT Rabbi Ben Vago (friend) GOWN Amsale, Kleinfeld Bridal, New

York City

VEIL Kleinfeld Bridal

SHOES

Ceremony: Miu Miu; reception: Common Projects

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS Bernard Nacht & Co. EARRINGS

Satomi Kawakita

HAIR &

Jackie Schneider Beauty Berel & Co.

MAKEUP

MENSWEAR

STATIONERY Invitations:

Papel New York/Bella Figura; escort cards: Papel New York; menu cards: The Liberty Warehouse

RENTALS Pegasus Lighting;

Rent Patina

CATERING &

Foremost Ram Caterers

CAKE MUSIC

The Love Revival Orchestra PHOTO BOOTH NYC Kiosk

Cheesecake

FAVORS Junior’s

ACCOMMODATIONS

New York Marriott at The Brooklyn Bridge

REGISTRY MyRegistry.com

HONEYMOON Palm Springs, CA GUESTS 300 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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The pair wed at the same city church where Erik’s mother said “I do.”

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Wanchen Li, 27, an entrepreneur GROOM Erik Kaiser, 45, an entrepreneur HOW THEY MET While working in China WEDDING STYLE An oversize, caramel-filled cake, three wedding dresses and plenty of peonies lent a personal touch to Wanchen and Erik’s classy hotel celebration. —RS

“We wanted our wedding to be very private and elegant,” Wanchen says of their Manhattan affair. After tying the knot in a traditional Chinese ceremony, Wanchen slipped into a lace and silk design (complete with a nine-foot train!) for their church vows, before finally changing into a third dress for dancing.

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Erik designed the Central Park–inspired letterpress invitations himself with the help of an artist and stationer. Other ultra-personal details included a tiered confection that bore the Kaiser family crest, custom tea favors and envelopes filled with incense and original Chinese artwork.

Episcopal Church, New York City RECEPTION SITE Villard Mansion,

Lotte New York Palace, New York City PHOTOGRAPHY Denise Chastain/

Modern Wedding Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Frank Ahn Films FLOWERS Designs by Ahn

Rev. Matthew Moretz

OFFICIANT

GOWNS Ceremony:

Vanessa Liu; reception: Vera Wang SHOES Jimmy Choo; Roger Vivier WEDDING RINGS Cartier &

HAIR

MAKEUP Vicky C5 MAKEUP

LIGHTING GLAMCOR

MENSWEAR

Tuxedo: Lanvin; shirt: Dior; shoes: Ferragamo

STATIONERY Invitations:

DIY; calligraphy: Scribe Ink; printing: Sesame Letterpress

CATERING Villard

Mansion, Lotte New York Palace CAKE Ron Ben-Israel

Karen Lloyd Band/ Music

MUSIC

Hank Lane

ACCOMMODATIONS Lotte New

York Palace

HONEYMOON London

GUESTS 125 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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Kellen added a lace bolero to her ball gown for the church ceremony.

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The top tier of the Oreo-flavored wedding cake was decorated with the couple’s custom monogram.

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BRIDE Kellen McCooey, 28, an executive assistant GROOM Brian Falk, 29, a bond broker at BGC Partners HOW THEY MET In high school WEDDING STYLE The couple decorated their elegant nuptials in timeless shades of blue and white—a palette inspired by the chinoiserie vases they used in their centerpieces. —MO

The priest who married the couple is a close friend of Kellen’s family. “I have known Father John my entire life,” Kellen says. “He was the priest who baptized me, so having him marry us was really special.”

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Three chandeliers decorated with cascading ivy, hydrangeas, moss, amaranthus and delphiniums hung above the dance floor.

KELLEN & BRIAN

The couple arrived at the reception in style—in the backseat of a white 1962 Rolls-Royce. Kellen accessorized her look with a clutch embroidered with her new monogram, given to her by Brian’s mother and sisters.

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CEREMONY SITE St. Joseph Catholic

Church, Garden City RECEPTION SITE The Creek Club, Locust Valley

PHOTOGRAPHY

Allan Zepeda Photography McKenzie Miller Films Annette Babich Flowers Ltd. Denniston

VIDEOGRAPHY CONSULTANT

FLOWERS Andrew Pascoe OFFICIANT Rev. John J. GOWN Oscar de la Renta,

The Wedding Salon of Manhasset, Manhasset VEIL The Wedding Salon of Manhasset SHOES Jimmy Choo

ENGAGEMENT

& WEDDING RINGS J. Birnbach International HAIR VS1 Hair Salon

Artistry by Michele J.Crew

MAKEUP

Makeup

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

MENSWEAR Groom: Sebastien

Grey Clothiers, New York City

STATIONERY

The Printery; calligraphy: Malkie Altman RENTALS Luminous Designs; NY Tent; Party

Rental Ltd.

CATERING The Creek Club

CAKE La Bonne Boulangerie

MUSIC

Ceremony: Westchester Home Music; reception: Kevin Osborne Band/ party: DJ Dippa Limousine

Hank Lane Music; after-

TRANSPORTATION All Star

REGISTRIES Bloomingdale’s; Scully

& Scully; Williams-Sonoma

HONEYMOON

Hawaii GUESTS 27 (see key, p. 8)

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April 16 • Brooklyn

alexis &

simon engaged: 1 year photography by Katie Osgood Photography at Greenpoint Loft

Low centerpieces allowed dinner guests to chat with ease.

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The bride rocked a structured ivory gown complete with a black gunmetal belt. “It looked way more red carpet than bridal,” she says.

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The pair married at Brooklyn’s Greenpoint Loft under a 50-foot floral installation custom designed by their planner. “I walked down the aisle to Taylor Swift since Simon wouldn’t let me use one of her songs during our first dance,” Alexis says. Instead, the newlyweds swayed to Van Morrison’s “Moondance.”

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Menu highlights included a fried chicken station and late-night burgers courtesy of Shake Shack. “One of my mom’s very crafty friends designed a mini chocolate pizza and kraft paper box with an illustration of our dog on it,” Alexis says. “Obviously, I was obsessed, so she made 200 more to give away to our guests.”

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VIDEOGRAPHY

Katie Osgood and Kirra Cheers/Katie Osgood Photography

PLANNER

Jove Meyer Events

FLOWERS

Putnam & Putnam Uhlmann (friend)

OFFICIANT Alex

GOWN Romona Keveza

SHOES Miu Miu

ENGAGEMENT

& WEDDING RINGS Courtney Lee

Collection WATCH Piaget

HAIR

MAKEUP Sharon Becker/SB Beauty

&

MENSWEAR Louis Purple

Swiss Cottage Design

STATIONERY RENTALS

Broadway Party Rentals; Michelle Bablo; Rent Patina

CATERING Fig & Pig;

Shake Shack DESSERTS Dough Donuts; OddFellows Ice Cream Co.

MUSIC Kinky

Spigot and the Welders PHOTO BOOTH Shake & Share Media Uber

TRANSPORTATION

ACCOMMODATIONS Andaz Wall

Street; McCarren Hotel Zola.com

REGISTRIES

HONEYMOON Italy

GUESTS 200 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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stephanie &

Inspired by a soft, romantic beauty look, Stephanie did her own hair and makeup the morning of the wedding.

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“All of the bouquets felt a little wild, which was perfect,” Stephanie says.

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BRIDE Stephanie Fisher, 26, a community and brand manager GROOM Noah Meyer, 26, a field technician HOW THEY MET Through a mutual friend in college WEDDING STYLE “We wanted to celebrate the summer harvest and beauty of the farm,” Stephanie says of weaving navy blue details and vibrant, in-season blooms throughout their décor. —RS

Stephanie and Noah honored the veil, cord and coin unity traditions common in Filipino wedding ceremonies. Afterward, the newlyweds and 150 guests celebrated with a laid-back dinner that incorporated hand-dyed indigo table runners made by two close friends. “The linens were my favorite reception detail,” Stephanie says. “They brought the entire look together.”

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“I loved its delicate lace straps and the way it hugged my frame,” Stephanie says of her white silk sheath.

“Our cake was the best part of the meal,” Stephanie says of the apricot-glazed confection designed to mimic the look of a honeycomb. Wood blocks acted as cake toppers, which the couple plans to gift their future child. “They’re actually wood Waldorf toys made to look like Noah and me,” she says.

STEPHANIE & NOAH’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Glynwood Farm, Cold Spring PHOTOGRAPHY Susan Baker

Photography Flowers

FLOWERS Diana Mae

GOWN Augusta Jones, Lily

Saratoga, Saratoga Springs

HEADPIECE

Stitch and Feather, Etsy.com Nina Z.

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT RING Grand

Junction Guy, Etsy.com WEDDING RINGS Carrie Bilbo

HAIR &

MAKEUP DIY

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Reformation MENSWEAR ASOS.com

STATIONERY

Invitations: Andreea Russo; escort cards: DIY, Michaels CATERING &

RENTALS Events Unlimited CAKE The Village TeaRoom

FAVORS Hudson Valley Seed Library TRANSPORTATION West Point Tours ACCOMMODATIONS Glynwood Farm REGISTRIES Thankful Registry HONEYMOON Peru GUESTS 150 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Charlene Miranda, 30 GROOM Sanket Bhimani, 32 HOW THEY MET As undergraduates at University of Toronto WEDDING STYLE Vibrant rugs, old-world-inspired lighting, and a refined color palette of gold, white and blush made for a chic city bash. —RS

“We wanted our wedding to feel classic and elegant,” Charlene says of throwing an intimate fete at The NoMad Hotel in lower Manhattan. To honor their shared Indian heritage, the college sweethearts incorporated “small doses” of traditional Hindi and Bhangra music into the festivities.

Tables were named with locales meaningful to the couple, including Mumbai, Nairobi, Kuwait and Toronto.

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CHARLENE & SANKET’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS Guests took home vanilla and caramel macaron favors, but not before digging into a dinner of foie gras, lobster rolls, mini sliders, cocoa nib brittle and chocolate caramel tarts. “Part of the reason we chose the hotel was because we’re both foodies and their menu is always spectacular,” Charlene says.

CEREMONY SITE St. Patrick’s Old

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“Our main objective was to transport our guests and celebrate their role in our lives,” Brian (left) says of their black-tie affair that took place just 90 minutes outside of Manhattan.

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THEIR STORY GROOM Brian Gumbel, 40 GROOM Ramon Walls, 27 HOW THEY MET At Waverly Inn, a restaurant in Manhattan’s West Village WEDDING STYLE Inspired by their shared love of Italy, Brian and Ramon invited 100 guests to join them in a wow-worthy wedding weekend at Glenmere Mansion filled with late-night dance parties, great food and amazing wine. —Rachel Sylvester

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The self-proclaimed foodies utilized the Tuscan-inspired mansion’s opulent supper room to host 40 of their closest family members and friends in the ultimate culinary experience. “We chose to make the rehearsal dinner more extravagant than the wedding itself,” Ramon says of treating guests to an intimate 10-course tasting dinner and wine pairing. “We wanted to go all out for the people who mean the most to us.”

WEDDING DAY “It was our goal to pamper each and every one of our guests and provide them with an escape from the norm,” Ramon says of kicking off their wedding day with croquet on the 150-acre estate turned luxury hotel. The morning of their ceremony, Ramon gifted his groom a vintage gold Rolex, while Ramon’s friends surprised him with a Hermès handkerchief that doubled as his “something new and blue.”

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THE CEREMONY The pair exchanged vows in Glenmere’s formal garden beneath a pergola draped in wisteria vines and white blooms. “We allowed the natural garden setting to do most of the work when framing the ceremony space,” Ramon says. For his walk down the aisle, Ramon donned a posh pair of personalized slippers that bore a custom crest created by illustrator Happy Menocal.

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THE RECEPTION Table linens were picked with the mansion’s terra-cotta facade in mind, and the dip-dyed dinner napkins drew inspiration from the venue’s vibrant blue shutters. “The overall vibe was luxe, understated elegance,” Ramon says of hosting an alfresco reception on the patio overlooking the lawn. “We wanted to create a visual narrative that felt like an extension of the home.”

BRIAN & RAMON’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Glenmere Mansion, Chester PHOTOGRAPHY Samuel Lippke

Studios

VIDEOGRAPHY Ray

Roman Films

PLANNER &

FLORAL DESIGN Matthew

Robbins Design

MENSWEAR Ralph

Lauren SHOES Ramon: Stubbs & Wootton WEDDING RINGS Cartier STATIONERY Calligraphy: Joanne Day;

Happy Menocal; Regas Studios RENTALS KM Productions; Party

Rental Ltd.

CATERING &

Glenmere Mansion

CAKE

MUSIC Band: Hot

Sardines; DJ Brendan Fallis; strings: Lucy Music

ACCOMMODATIONS Caldwell

House; Glenmere Mansion; Holiday Inn HONEYMOON France GUESTS 100 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

GOOD-BYE BRUNCH A low-key brunch was a definite must after a long night of dinner and dancing, followed by a postreception dance party in the mansion’s formal gardens. Traditional morning treats were served, and a string quartet played imaginative renditions of hit songs on the venue’s outdoor terrace.

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BRIDE Jocelyn Gaudett, 26, a business analyst GROOM Justin Swann, 25, a mechanical engineer HOW THEY MET In high school WEDDING STYLE Gauzy draping, rosette linens and towering centerpieces lent a romantic look to Jocelyn and Justin’s charming, rustic reception. —Rachel Sylvester

Exposed brick and original hardwood floors were two selling points for Jocelyn and Justin, who were drawn to their venue’s dramatic, open floor plan. “We fell in love with it instantly,” Jocelyn says. “It was exactly what we were looking for.” A muted color palette of champagne, blush and peach kept things feeling chic, while a subtle swan motif served as a nod to the groom’s surname.

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A classic lace dress was befitting for a wedding at The Lace Factory. “I loved how sexy, yet classy, the off-the-shoulder dress looked,” Jocelyn says. To complete the look, she carried a cascading bouquet of silver dollar eucalyptus, cabbage roses and freesia down the aisle to the tune of Taylor Swift’s “You Belong With Me.”

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The Lace Factory,

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When guests weren’t sipping on “Swann-gria,” they were either dancing or lounging on plush vignettes arranged throughout the space. Menu highlights included grilled cheese and tomato soup shooters, and a vanilla-and-toasted-almond-flavored cake covered in sugar flowers and fondant.

CONSULTANT Amy Champagne Events FLOWERS Custom Floral Designs OFFICIANT David Smith (friend)

Martina Liana, Westport, CT SHOES Nina

GOWN

The Plumed Serpent Bridal, VEIL

Mariella Creations

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS Gold and Diamond Exchange

HAIR

Gina Gallo MAKEUP d.d.Nickel Beauty BRIDESMAID DRESSES Joanna August,

Everthine Bridal Boutique, Madison, CT MENSWEAR Calvin Klein

STATIONERY

Invitations: Coral Pheasant; programs & escort cards: Niki Weeks

RENTALS Ryan Designs;

Shindig Lighting Nine Catering

CATERING

Cloud

CAKE Ana Parzych Cakes

MUSIC Ceremony: Suite Occasions;

reception:

ETA Music PHOTO BOOTH

Shindig Lighting

TRANSPORTATION

Essex Steam Train & Riverboat; Jolly Red Trolley Macy’s

REGISTRIES Anthropologie; HONEYMOON Nantucket, MA

GUESTS 155 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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“I wanted to look as beachy and natural as possible,” Mary says of her laid-back bridal style.

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“The park possessed so many elements that a traditional banquet hall couldn’t compete with,” Mary says of choosing to celebrate their newlywed status on the beach. “After all, how many venues have a lighthouse and carousel?”

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Mary added cap sleeves to her ivory lace gown, which boasted subtle sequins for added shimmer. A chapel-length veil and elegant diamond earrings rounded out the look, along with gold sandals that Mary ditched prior to the start of the ceremony. “Most of the bridesmaids went barefoot like I did,� she says.

Treats included a classic vanilla confection and red velvet cupcakes.

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Lighthouse Point Park, East Haven, CT Mary enlisted the help of her father to create each centerpiece, boutonniere and bouquet. “He knows my style so well and executed everything even better than I imagined,” she says. Boxwood vessels displayed low arrangements of blue hydrangeas, and groomsmen donned white freesia on their lapels. To spruce up the stark white sweetheart table, Mary’s father added a verdant runner made of ferns, eucalyptus, baby’s breath and gardenias.

PHOTOGRAPHY Annmarie

Swift Photography

CONSULTANT

Jackie Cusano Maculaitis/A Grey Soiree FLOWERS Mark Boynton (bride’s

father)

Mary Pugh

OFFICIANT

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GOWN Allure Bridals,

Bliss Bridal, Cheshire, CT J.Crew

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT RING J. Serra

& Son WEDDING RINGS BlueNile.com HAIR &

Oatmeal Lauren

MAKEUP Lipstick and

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Ralph MENSWEAR TheBlackTux.com

STATIONERY Invitations: Nina Crossley;

escort cards: DIY

RENTALS MitchCo.

Tent & Party Rentals

CATERING

Fitzgerald’s Fine Catering DiSorbo’s Bakery

CAKE

MUSIC DJ Lion King

FAVORS American Tradition Cookie

Cutters

TRANSPORTATION Hy’s

Limousine Worldwide New Haven Hotel

ACCOMMODATIONS REGISTRIES

Anthropologie; Macy’s; Zola.com HONEYMOON England, Ireland & Scotland GUESTS 160 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Alexandra Pierce, 26, an associate at an executive search firm GROOM Drew Goldfarb, 28, a technology sales manager HOW THEY MET As undergraduates at University of Richmond WEDDING STYLE Tapered candles, leafy centerpieces and a natural color scheme of gray, green and lavender made for a wedding straight out of a storybook. —RS

An abundance of candles, trees and branches were used to transform the country club into an enchanted garden. “The room felt so intimate with all of our family and friends inside,” Alexandra says of the tree-lined space.

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In addition to champagne and rosĂŠ, partygoers sipped on signature Richmond Spider cocktails made with gin, lime juice, simple syrup and mint. For dessert, the newlyweds cut into a modest buttercream cake before sending guests home with treats from Momofuku Milk Bar.

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FLOWERS

OFFICIANT Rev. Chuck Davis

SHOES Aquazzura

The Plumed VEIL Monique ENGAGEMENT

RING Ken Leung WEDDING RINGS Betteridge

Jewelers EARRINGS Jennifer Miller Jewelry HAIR &

Truly Happy Beauty

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Amsale, The Wedding

Library, New York City Ned, New York City

MENSWEAR Mr.

STATIONERY JPapers

RENTALS Smith Party Rentals

CATERING &

CAKE Greenwich Country Club

Saunders Band/

Momofuku Milk Bar J&R Buses

MUSIC Pete

Hank Lane Music

FAVORS

TRANSPORTATION

ACCOMMODATIONS Delamar

Greenwich Harbor; The J House Greenwich REGISTRIES Gracious Home; Hoagland’s

of Greenwich; Homenature; Williams-Sonoma Postceremony, the newlyweds escaped to the reception in the father of the bride’s Triumph TR6 that dates back to the 1980s. “Drew learned how to drive it six days before our wedding,” Alexandra says. “He claims driving that car was the only thing he was nervous about on our wedding day.”

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Three years after Danica and Dueren tied the knot in a secret civil ceremony, the couple invited 120 guests to celebrate their marriage with a second set of vows. “Our theme was inspired by my love for all things glitter,” Danica says of combining white and gold glitter to signify their union in lieu of sand.

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DANICA & DUEREN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Edgerton Park, New

Haven, CT RECEPTION SITE The Country House, East Haven, CT

PHOTOGRAPHY

Abbey Domond Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Yamean Studios CONSULTANT Victorious Events NYC FLOWERS Candi’s Floral Creations OFFICIANT Hon. Steven Mullins GOWN David’s Bridal

VEIL LaBlancFleur,

Etsy.com HEADPIECE Curtainroad, Etsy.com SHOES Betsey Johnson

ENGAGEMENT

RING Overstock.com WEDDING RINGS

Amazon.com BRACELET Blush

HAIR

Renee Griffin MAKEUP LaToya Santos BRIDESMAID DRESSES RenzBridal,

Etsy.com

MENSWEAR Groom: Joseph

Abboud; groomsmen: PetitePeanut, Etsy.com STATIONERY Ijorere Inc.

Ultrapom Event Rental The Country House Wildflour Confections

RENTALS

CATERING

CAKE & DESSERTS MUSIC MikeMusic

Entertainment PHOTO BOOTH Capitol Photo Booths

TRANSPORTATION Hy’s Limousine

Worldwide

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Garden Inn; Quality Inn

REGISTRY Tendr.com

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Southern Connecticut has everything you need to pull off the perfect summer wedding—whether you’re fantasizing about the beach, the countryside or somewhere in between. BY CLAIRE AVEN There are plenty of reasons to love summertime in southern Connecticut: pristine yacht clubs, Norman Rockwell-esque main streets and long walks along picturesque beaches. Even in the muggier months, the state exudes an air of effortless charm you’d be hard-pressed to find anywhere else. If you’re dreaming of saying “I do” here, take a look at our guide to see why the southernmost part of the Constitution State is the perfect place to host the wedding of, well, your dreams. >>

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set the scene Southern Connecticut’s strength as a wedding locale is its versatility. “With modern and eclectic spaces, seaside yacht clubs, historic mansions, downtown ballrooms with soaring ceilings and a number of farm and vineyard properties, there’s a little something for every couple’s unique style,” says planner Lindsay Mastroianni, cofounder of Sixpence for Your Shoe (SixpenceEvents.com). Because there are so many options, finding the right venue might seem daunting. The best way to tackle the search is to go in with a clear vision of your personal style. Are you a wine aficionado? Host your nuptials among the grapevines at Saltwater Farm Vineyard (SaltwaterFarmVineyard.com) in Stonington. Looking to capture Connecticut’s nautical charm? Michelle Neff, owner of Dreaming Tree Events (DreamingTree-Events .com), suggests Latitude 41 Restaurant (CoastalGourmetCT.com) overlooking the Mystic Seaport. Or, if you have Connecticut roots, why not celebrate in the comfort of your own home? “By far, our favorite weddings involve creating spaces at people’s homes for all of the wonderful and sentimental reasons associated with adding to the family memories in such a special way,” Mastroianni says.

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It’s important to note that in the summer, the Connecticut sun is strongest in the early afternoon. “Having your photos taken at 3 p.m. versus 7 p.m. creates a totally different look,” Cagginello says. “Make sure to account for that in your timeline. Find a shady spot out of direct sunlight for photos

with the planning process from just about anywhere. “There are vendors that the couple can book over FaceTime or Skype, such as a photographer, florist or DJ,” says Amy Cagginello, owner of Amy Champagne Events (AmyChampagne.com). “With a great team on their side, a couple could possibly even choose a venue without ever seeing it. Through photos, virtual tours and expert opinions from their planner, it’s possible they could book the space unseen.”

check the calendar “Brides often forget to see what else may be going on that would cause things to get delayed,” Neff says. “Traffic is a huge issue here in the summer, so you have to plan ahead and know if another event is happening. If so, book hotels earlier, arrange for transportation from the area that knows alternate routes, and, if there is no alternate route, leave time in your schedule to allow for traffic.” Remember that summertime is the season of graduations, large-scale cultural festivals and major holidays

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(think: Memorial Day parades and Fourth of July fireworks), which can impact everything from hotel rates to the availability of wedding pros. Check local websites, like CTVisit.com and CTNow.com, for help in planning accordingly.

track the traffic The best way to get around southern Connecticut is by car. But be warned: The two major highways in the area (the Merritt Parkway and I-95) can turn into parking lots in the summer. “Between the Cape, Martha’s Vineyard, Newport, various Connecticut vacation spots and the Hamptons, traffic will be unpredictable,” Cagginello says. “Always add in extra time, and plan to have a few nonalcoholic drinks prepared for guests who may arrive earlier than the scheduled open bar.” If you’re planning on having various event sites, make things easier on your guests (and yourself) by keeping your venues close together to minimize travel time. Know the best way to get back and forth between the various locations and >>

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treat,” Mastroianni says. “Couples can also offer parasols and fans so guests stay cool throughout the ceremony. In very hot weather, renting separate tents for the ceremony and cocktail hour may provide additional relief.”

celebrate local culture Kick off your wedding weekend with a thoughtful welcome bag full of area delicacies. “This is a great way to treat guests to a few local favorites,” True says. Her go-to items include cheeses from Cato Corner Farm (CatoCornerFarm.com), a bottle of wine from Chamard Vineyards (Chamard.com) and locally roasted coffee from Ashlawn Farm Coffee (FarmCoffee.com). Include a list of places to see and things to do around town. You can also tie in local customs or iconic attractions through your rehearsal dinner. “There are lots of places to have a clambake right on the beach,” Neff says. Use your menu as an opportunity to showcase all the region has to offer. “Caterers are going above and beyond to highlight local flavors and sourcing foods from local farmers,” True says. “And you can’t beat the summer vegetables, like corn and tomatoes.”

Find more local tips for planning your Connecticut wedding at TheKnot.com/connecticut

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Tying the knot in a field of flowers? Incorporate some flora into your wedding paper. (Bonus points for adding the blooms to your bouquet too.) A monochromatic palette lends subtle sophistication to this illustrated design while a portrait (aka the new monogram) gives it bespoke personalization. Matching inserts coordinate the whole suite. Frankie collection invitations and envelopes, $582 for 100, ColorMeCarla.com

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Making it official in a mountain chalet? Play up your chosen spot in big (hello, maps!) and small ways. A neutral palette is perfect for mixing motifs and typography, while gold foil details add a hint of formality and make each piece of the suite feel extra special. Haynes collection invitations, reply cards and coordinating envelopes, from $1,990 for 100, Amy Graham Stigler, SmockPaper.com

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Sometimes trying to describe your favorite blooms to a florist is like trying to tell the car repair shop what sound your engine is making. Unless you’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to establish an extensive floral vocabulary. So we called on floral expert Jihyen Crowley of Gotham Florist for some help, and she shared the stems she’s asked about most often when it comes to wedding flowers. From anemones to garden roses and sweet pea, we’ve created a cheat sheet of perennial favorites, so you can brush up on the flower speak before meeting with your florist to choose your perfect petals. >>

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anemone This small bloom comes in a range of jewel-toned hues, but white may be the most popular color. It’s a shoo-in for formal black-and-white weddings because it’s one of the only flowers that naturally grows in that color scheme (white petals, black center). SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Expectation, protection PAIR IT WITH Anemones look great next to their floral cousin ranunculus. Ranunculus have very compact, layered petals that complement the open shape of anemones.

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The pointy petals sported by this bloom are thanks to its roots in the protea family. We love the shape they add to an arrangement, and you can’t beat the name when it comes to your bouquet. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Courtship PAIR IT WITH Crowley recommends a big flowering bloom with lots of petals, like peonies, and florals with a smaller head, like ranunculus, to fill out the whole arrangement.

Dahlias come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They can grow up to 12 inches in diameter or be as small as a button mum. The petals can expand in a straight, spiky fashion or in a round, tube-like shape, and the colors range from pastels to jewel tones and monochromatic combinations. Basically, options. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Dignity, elegance PAIR IT WITH If your dahlias have large heads, they’ll likely take up more space in an arrangement allowing you to complement with greenery (think: dusty miller or seeded eucalyptus) and a few filler flowers. If you want to supplement with a similar-looking bloom, consider zinnias, which share the same architecture.

lisianthus The ruffled petals are similar to a rose, but the center of lisianthus is what separates it from the pack. The petals appear pulled away from the center, really exposing the pollen. It’s also a hardier flower, which makes it a great choice for warm-weather weddings. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING Flashy, showiness PAIR IT WITH Roses are a great choice since the two blooms look so alike, but for something more edgy and less sweet, include some lisianthus buds in the mix. Before the flowers bloom they have tall, slender buds that give texture to an arrangement. >>

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This sought-after hybrid (also know as a David Austin English rose) adds depth and fragrance to a bouquet. The petals are reminiscent of a peony while the shape maintains its traditional rose demeanor. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING This variety was bred too recently to have a symbolic meaning, but classic roses stand for love, joy and beauty. PAIR IT WITH These stems are universally loved. “They pair well with almost any flower,” Crowley says. “But we use them most often with anemones, tulips, dahlias and orchids.” >>

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lily of the valley Royal brides like Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton have helped make lily of the valley an iconic wedding flower. Its little bellshaped blooms are clustered close together on a vinelike stem, making it the perfect choice to offset big-headed flowers in large bouquets. But, out of season, these tiny buds can really cost you. SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Humility, purity, sweetness PAIR IT WITH When peeking out from a cluster of lush peonies, lily of the valley is incredibly glamorous and charming. Stephanotis and tuberose are also good pairings—both sharing the vine structure and small white flowers.

peony Maybe the most requested of all wedding flowers, the peony definitely steals the show. There are hues for any season, like fall maroons or springy hot pinks. BEST SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Bashfulness, prosperity, romance PAIR IT WITH Peonies look amazing on their own or when paired with other large-headed blooms like double tulips or roses.

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sweet pea These ruffly, feminine petals are a popular choice because of their sweet aroma and sentimental name. Different colors bloom in different seasons, so if you’re interested in a specific hue, check with your florist about what’s available when. BEST SEASON Fall, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Blissful pleasure PAIR IT WITH Hydrangeas look incredibly lush and romantic with sweet pea. If you want something more understated, garden roses are equally as fabulous but with a bit less volume. >>

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ranunculus Though small in size, this petal-filled flower is used in a range of different-styled bouquets. It perfectly completes a round bouquet, or adds a sense of whimsy to a rustic-looking arrangement. And because of its size, it makes the perfect boutonniere bloom. SEASON Winter, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Charming, radiant PAIR IT WITH Gardenia petals grow in a beautiful spiral, which makes for a striking juxtaposition when placed next to the small heads of ranunculus.

thistle The distinctive shape of this stem (also known as sea holly) makes it a total standout. It has an interesting texture and is one of the few true-blue florals out there. The best part? No petals means no wilting, so it will last through any summer wedding. SEASON Summer, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Protection, strength PAIR IT WITH Thistle is very rustic, so keep the vibe going with wax flowers, Queen Anne’s lace and seeded eucalyptus. Find your bridal blooms at TheKnot.com/flowers

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You’ve probably seen a lot of scabiosa pods in rustic weddings, but when the flower is in full bloom, it has a different appearance. The seed-dotted center gives the bloom an identifiable architectural element that stands out among other stems. SEASON Spring, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Admiration PAIR IT WITH For a totally romantic-without-fuss bouquet, clematis and anemones go amazingly well with this easy, breezy bloom.

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plan an interactive food station

play a game

Your friends and family are expecting passed hors d’oeuvres, so give them trays of nibbles. But then put them to work with an interactive food station. Set up a make-your-own taco bar or a gourmet grilled cheese outpost where guests can pile ingredients, like apples, caramelized onions and sun-dried tomatoes on artisan breads. You could also do this with beverages—hello, bubble bar. Offer up champagne with a variety of purées and fresh fruit, so guests can concoct their favorite sip. Or hire a wine enthusiast and offer tastes of a few varietals.

What’s a fun party without a little friendly competition? We’re not talking about pin the tail on the donkey—but close. Challenge guests to a game of horseshoes while they sip their drinks, or engage them in old-fashioned ring toss (how apropos). Table games, like trivia or Mad Libs, will encourage conversation among friends and strangers alike. Paint the game pieces in your wedding colors or use the same motif from your stationery for your trivia. Best of all, games are a great way to keep guests who don’t dance entertained throughout the evening.

put the cocktail hour before the ceremony

hire a flair bartender

Kick off the party preceremony with or without you two (if you’re superstitious or taking first-look photos, you may want to skip). A light libation will give guests an opportunity to mingle, well before finding their dinner seats. Best of all, no one will be late to the ceremony—if they get delayed, they’ll only miss a signature sip.

The skills of a flair bartender go way beyond mixing drinks. This is not your usual corner-bar Joe—they’re part mixologist, part showman, juggling bottles and manipulating flaming liquors with ease. In addition to getting a perfectly combined cocktail, guests will be treated to a series of cool tricks and maybe a joke or two. >>

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As you start to choose wedding colors and make decisions on formality, there’s a good chance a theme will emerge—maybe it’s “art deco glam” or “rustic barn elegance.” You want your guests to celebrate who you are as a couple, so pick something that shows off your style. Maybe you want to incorporate your shared love of movies or your individual cultural backgrounds. Whatever you choose, be strategic with your décor and special touches, so guests enjoy a well-designed and super-personalized day.

the don’t-do list

Some wedding blunders to avoid.

skip the insects

avoid over-personalizing

beware of recyclables

Despite how funny you are, there might be a few people who just don’t get it—your grandfather or the groom’s boss, to name a few. Save the witty details for a more intimate crowd at the rehearsal dinner.

Yes, this can be done. And yes, it can get very ugly. Be strategic with your monograms and motifs, and avoid adding the date to everything. Bottom line: Don’t brand every single detail.

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We love bees. We heart fireflies. We’re even into butterflies. But skip using ants, spiders and other multi-legged creatures as a motif. You’ll lose the elegant aspect with anything that comes across as slimy or gross.

Wearing your grandma’s brooch or mixing and matching glass vessels are lovely details, but don’t overdo it. There comes a point when a flea-market find doesn’t mesh with your style and it just looks out of place.

steer clear of sci-fi

We appreciate every last Star Trek fan, but remember: Your wedding has a lot of elements—including flowers and a cake. Before you commit to too many ideas, consider working your interest into one detail, like the save-the-date or favors.

sidestep a princess party

You should feel like royalty on your wedding day, but a fairy tale theme can appear a bit childish. If you must incorporate it, give it a grown-up, sophisticated spin.

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pick seats purposefully The main goal is to make sure guests have the best time, so if you’re assigning seats for dinner, be thoughtful about the table arrangements. A carefully planned seating chart leads to great conversation during your reception, which leads to a great dance party, which leads to—well, you get the idea. Seat guests with people they know, or people you think they’ll have something in common with, and be sure to seat all of the kiddos together for everyone’s benefit.

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have a kickin’ kid table If you’re including kids, invite a plus one—a babysitter. This will give parents an opportunity to hit the dance floor and really enjoy the party. To keep the little ones entertained throughout the night, set up an area specifically for them. Designate a couple of tables complete with finger food favorites and activities to keep them busy. Or arrange for the fun to go down in an adjacent room, where a sitter can keep them entertained until the last dance.

add a live performance Sometimes the best parts of a reception are the things guests don’t see coming. Surprise your friends and family with something totally unexpected, like a belly dancer, fire-eater or aerialist. Keep in mind: If you plan to hire one of these more daring acts, you’ll want to check with your venue and make sure there won’t be any safety issues or a need for a certificate of insurance.

overlooked spaces You’ve got your reception décor covered, but don’t forget these important areas.

the bathrooms

Pay a little extra attention to the restrooms. Go for subtle sophistication: A flower arrangement, personalized soaps and a great amenities basket will go a long way.

the bar

The bar itself is often a focal point so make it a showstopper. Top it with blooms, unique lighting and fun cocktail accents, like colorful napkins and striped straws. Or let the bar do the work: Set out rows of glasses on lacquered trays along with pretty pitchers filled with your signature cocktail.

the entranceways Wow your guests with a grand entrance. Floral wreaths on doors, colorful votive candles atop entrance tables, hurricane lanterns hanging from trees, luminaries lining the walkways and other embellishments will give guests a warm welcome.

the hallways

Use potted plants, trees, floral garlands and trellises to make an impact when guests enter and exit your space. Line the hallway to the bathroom with tightly packed blooms.

All eyes will be on you during your first dance, which means it’s the perfect opportunity to really wow your guests. Have you been taking lessons or practicing at home? Now’s the time to show off. Consider starting with something slow like “At Last,” and then suddenly switching to a fast, sexy Latin dance or a jazzy swing step. It will set the tone for a lively dance party and encourage guests to join you on the dance floor right away. >>

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Maybe your seat picks were misguided or your friends are eager to mingle with a new crowd postdessert. A lounge space provides a change of environment and promotes conversation. And it gives your danced-out friends a place to kick back and enjoy a few cocktails while still feeling part of the party. Rent or borrow couches, chairs and ottomans, then stage with pillows and votive candles in your wedding colors. Consider serving a party snack in this space too. Your guests will thank you—trust us.

What’s a party without a festive send-off? Have your band or DJ play a lively, upbeat number to end the party on a high note. Then give guests toss cones filled with lavender, colorful pom-poms or traditional rice to shower you as you make your getaway. Confetti poppers are loads of colorful fun (with a bang) and nothing says “wild party” like pyrotechnics— think: sparklers or fireworks. If your venue is strict on clean up, opt for no-mess flags or even bubbles.

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A traditional guest book is a nice keepsake for the couple, but it can get lost in the reception shuffle (especially at a super-fun one). Come up with an alternative, like a photo booth stocked with goofy props. Or create a puzzle from a silly photo of you two and ask guests to sign the pieces. If you’re oenophiles, consider having guests sign bottles of wine you’ll open on your first, fifth and tenth wedding anniversaries (choose wines that will age well).

Even if you’ve given them a night to remember, send guests home with something great. Your favor should be one of two things: practical or edible. Are you both into bubbly? Give guests a split of champagne. Or maybe you’re hosting a destination wedding: Remind them of their trip with leather luggage tags or a regional specialty, like jalapeño jelly. Or share a piece of your heritage by giving out tins of Asian cookies or authentic olive oil from the region of Italy where your ancestors were born. Wrap the favor in packaging that suits your wedding style (a burlap bag for a rustic celebration, tulle for a classic affair) and attach a tag thanking guests. Expert tip: Resist the urge to put your wedding date and monogram on everything, except for your packaging.

keep your dancers fueled If you want to ensure an all-night crowd, arrange for your catering staff to bring out trays of late-night munchies, like mini cheeseburgers or French fries as the evening wears on. Stick with things you’d love to eat at that time of night (read: comfort foods). Or offer a coffee bar complete with special syrups and toppings to keep them well caffeinated for the after-party.

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using every color in the rainbow keep it simple With a few exceptions (see our next fix), you should pick two to four colors that go well together and really stick to them. Using the same colors throughout your wedding décor will help create a cohesive look, so every detail blends nicely. Narrowing your palette to a few colors will also keep elements like your invitations or your centerpieces from looking chaotic. If you prefer a more relaxed look, opt for a few slightly varied shades of the same hue. This will add depth without looking messy. Or, for an especially striking style moment, go monochromatic with a bold shade, like a royal blue or a creamy neutral. The idea is to keep the look tailored for maximum impact. MISTAKE THE FIX

limiting yourself to only two distinct colors THE FIX choose your colors wisely We’re so over the strict color combo rule. Many gorgeous weddings have a variety of colors—sometimes up to four— that work well together. The way to pull it off is to add more than one neutral, like ivory and a metallic, to your color palette, or go for multiple shades of the same color to create a tonal scheme. We love the idea of a summery color palette inspired by hydrangeas, for example. Combining sapphire, sky blue, white and gray with a few pops of sunny yellow make for a bright but sophisticated scheme. A color palette with three or four colors can also help you solidify a specific theme or style—like an English garden with green, yellow, pink and red, or fall in New England with orange, rust, yellow and gold.

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choosing predictable colors mix up the shades Certain color combos have obvious connotations. Think about what comes to mind when you combine red, white and blue— or red and green. Keep your colors from reminding guests of their favorite holiday by subtly tweaking your hues. The trick is to switch up at least one shade to downplay the resemblance. Instead of your standard patriotic mix, try chambray and eggshell with poppy-colored blooms. Or opt for forest green and pale pink if you’re worried about your wedding looking like Christmas in July. Adding another color like a neutral or metallic will also downplay the combo. Yellow dresses with red bouquets might conjure images of a popular fast-food restaurant, but breaking up the hues with white details, like lace or pearls, is a simple way to add elegance. If you’re set on a recognizable pairing, introduce a pattern like stripes or a brocade design into the mix. This will add dimension and help refine your overall palette. MISTAKE THE FIX

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choosing trendy colors THE FIX skip fads It’s easy to get carried away with ideas you see in other weddings, magazines and inspiration boards, but just because you love a fresh and unexpected idea on paper doesn’t mean it’s the right choice for your wedding. Your palette should be one that you won’t mind living with for a long time. Remember: You’ll be filling albums with photos of this day. If you’re drawn to a color that’s hot right now, consider using the trendy hue sparingly, like in details, instead of making it a main color. Think about the colors and patterns you really love and surround yourself with daily. The simplest meaningful objects, like a favorite sweater or even a throw pillow, have inspired some of the prettiest weddings we’ve seen. MISTAKE

using the wrong ratios balance your brights One of the biggest pitfalls in color selection is not considering the eye’s need for a little white space. Just because you have two dominant colors in your palette doesn’t mean you should use them equally. Decide which hue will take center stage and which will follow. This distinction will affect your decisions from linens to lighting, so choose early. If you love bright orange, pick a more muted shade for your secondary color, like pale blue or navy instead of a vibrant aqua. You want your colors to be complementary to your décor, not distracting. Thoughtfully balancing them is the key to making even the craziest combinations look chic. Another option: Pick a few shades that are in between colors, like coral instead of bright orange and plum instead of amethyst. >> MISTAKE THE FIX

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ignoring texture coordinate with purpose Two colors that go together may not look right when put side by side in different textures. A burlap table runner with red satin linens doesn’t work as well as wood planters on maroon cotton tablecloths, even though the colors are the same. Mixing textures in the same hue can add more drama and depth to your wedding style than combining a slew of colors. Patterns like stripes or florals will help break up bold colors, so a shade like bright yellow or black doesn’t overwhelm your tables. Bottom line: Think of texture as another “color” or element in your palette— mix it wisely in everything from stationery to linens. MISTAKE

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ignoring your venue colors pick a priority (colors or venue) Think about your favorite colors and decide whether you want to prioritize finding the perfect venue or having your perfect palette—sometimes you can have both. When hunting for the right spot, look at details like wall coverings, carpeting and art. A color scheme of lime green and hot pink will clash in a country club ballroom with navy and maroon carpets—there’s really no way around it. (Try to pull it off anyway and you’ll end up spending twice what you would normally in décor to cover it up with drapery and flooring.) That’s not to say you have to choose a venue where your colors perfectly match the décor, but keep it in mind when settling on a scheme and a place to say “I do.” MISTAKE

not coordinating your paper elements include some color in your invites Your invitations set the stage for your event, so let them introduce your wedding colors and evoke the right tone from the start. Coordinating the invitation colors with those of the wedding can be as easy as choosing a colored font, ribbon or monogram, or as elaborate as lining envelopes with a bold pop of your hues. Don’t sacrifice readability for style—that means the type should contrast with the paper, so balance brighter shades with neutrals and avoid light-colored fonts. And ask your designer about typeface techniques like letterpress or foiling to make sure your text stands out. Also consider that invites are a dress code cue for your guests. Don’t send out formal ecru cards with copperplate calligraphy unless you’re expecting guests to dress up for your wedding. MISTAKE THE FIX

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trying to match the flowers don’t force matchy-matchy Your flowers don’t have to be in your wedding colors, but if they work, great! If not, it’s okay. For example, if blue is in your palette, you’re going to have a hard time sourcing stems (very few flowers are naturally blue). Instead of insisting your bouquets and centerpieces match perfectly, ask your florist to choose complementary neutral flowers that will add visual variety to the color scheme (not to mention great texture). Then let your nonfloral elements, like the centerpiece vases and bouquet ribbon wraps, show off your palette. >> MISTAKE THE FIX

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choosing the wrong dress color pick the most flattering hue or a neutral When it comes to dressing your bridal party, choose the most flattering color in your palette and use it (look to neutral colors if you’re at all unsure). Shades like burnt orange and olive green might look great on details like your stationery, table linen overlays and glassware, but they aren’t exactly wearable. The days of the perfectly matched bridesmaid dresses are over too. Aim to have your besties’ dresses complement your palette. A neutral caramel may only be a supporting color in your palette but the perfect choice for your ladies. If you really want your bridesmaids to wear a bolder hue, choose accessories in that color instead, like a belt, pretty necklace or shoes. Stick to universally flattering colors like jewel tones, navy, blush, ivory or black. Bonus: These hues look best in photos too, and happy bridesmaids mean great pictures. MISTAKE THE FIX

choosing colors that don’t fit the mood lighten or ramp up your color palette Though yellow may be your favorite color, it might not be the ideal shade for an evening wedding on New Year’s Eve. Likewise, shimmering metallic silver might not set the right tone for an afternoon garden reception in a small New England town. If you’re set on a color you don’t think will work with the atmosphere you’re trying to create, think about your accent colors. Adding lots of navy can make yellow seem more refined and formal, while pairing it with another pastel takes it in more of a whimsical direction. Your color scheme plays a role in the vibe of your wedding, so determine which emotions you want your celebration to evoke (a relaxed backyard bash or a formal, bow-tie encouraged affair, for example) before you pick your palette. MISTAKE

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Narrow your colors down to exact shades. Instead of green and pink, choose lime green, Kelly green, sage green or forest green. Add rose, fuchsia or bubblegum pink. This distinction will simplify all your other décor choices.

not giving visual examples to your wedding pros get specific with your colors Narrow your colors down to exact shades. Instead of green and pink, choose lime green, Kelly green, sage green or forest green. Add rose, fuchsia or bubblegum pink. Create an inspiration board to make it easier to communicate your vision with all of your wedding pros and help you stay focused when choosing décor. Anything can inspire your palette, but paint company websites are a good place to start—so many choices. Use an interactive color wheel or get inspiration from other weddings you like (a bouquet could inspire the whole scheme, for example). If you have access to a Pantone color book, use it to select your shade the same way graphic designers do. Many invitation designers mix ink to match the colors in this book, and a lot of cake bakers use Pantone numbers as a reference when creating dye for frosting. MISTAKE THE FIX

limiting yourself to seasonal color rules think seasonless It’s time to forget about outdated seasonal color rules—there are no rules. Pastels aren’t just for spring weddings, and you can totally have an orange and yellow soiree in seasons other than fall. Pick a color palette you love and then tailor it to the particular season with accent colors, texture, florals and décor. The way to pull off a pastel winter wedding is to swap out rosy pink for a more muted blush and use dusty sage instead of seafoam or mint green. Love brights for autumn? Add in some jewel tones and texture to warm up the combo. Pairing your color palette with flowers and seasonal-inspired décor elements, like evergreens and faux-fur chairbacks for a winter wedding, or peonies and boxwood in spring, will actually make your wedding style effortlessly complement the season without seeming overly themed. MISTAKE THE FIX

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Whether your historic venue won’t let you bring in a big installation, or you want to be selective about your décor choices, these 15 doable ideas will turn any reception space into a personalized celebration that gets noticed for all the right reasons.

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drape the ceilings It’s amazing what you can do with a little fabric. Keep it formal and elegant with drapery in a neutral hue, or if you’re after a more carefree vibe, opt for a bright color like yellow or a pattern. If you take this approach, you can go light on the table décor (your guests’ eyes will be looking up) and you’ll still get the same decked-out reception look.

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pick up patterned pillows If you have a lounge area in your reception space (or are making one with some rental furniture), get yourselves to a housewares department for some pillows. Cover with your favorite fabric for a few pops of festive color and pattern. Bonus: You can reuse the pillows in your newlywed digs.

create an escort card display Instead of the old escort card table idea, create an oversize board of seating assignments and display it near the entrance of the reception space. Best of all, you won’t have guests squinting at tiny tented cards trying to decipher their table numbers.

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hang your flowers Think flowers are just for your bouquet or centerpieces? Think again. Suspending lush arrangements a few feet above your guests’ dinner plates is a fun way to create a more intimate environment in a big open space like a loft or barn.

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make chalkboard signage Chalkboards in a photo booth are pure fun, but they’re also a great way to decorate an entrance or jazz up the cocktail bar. Personalize it by thrifting an old frame and spray-painting it to match the rest of your décor. Drape with greenery or a flower garland and chalk away.

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use table lamps Create height on tables using lamps. This trick will help guests feel at home and create the effect that they’re at a chic dinner party. You can even install dimmers so guests can see their food during dinner, but come time to dance, the mood is set. If you go this route, you can skip florals altogether or surround lamp bases with greenery to disguise cords.

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add a sprig of herbs Just because you’re having a formal wedding doesn’t mean you can’t have a little fun with your décor. Herbs like rosemary or lavender add a fragrant touch to place settings. Or if you’re going for a more casual vibe, include potted herbs on the table (which can double as centerpieces or favors).

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rent colored glassware Instead of pouring your entire reception décor budget into the centerpieces, consider saving a little for rental extras like colored glassware. It will make your tables pop in an instant and is a fun way to dress up a signature sip.

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infuse the celebration with calligraphy Choose a stylish script and customize your escort cards, menus or wedding day signage. If your budget doesn’t allow for 200 professionally calligraphed place cards, post the task in your local college’s art department and test out a few students for the job. >>

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rethink your tables Who says you have to use numbers to identify tables? Get creative with names (think: your favorite vacation spots or beloved novels), or use unique vessels like wine bottles, lanterns, moss topiaries or festive pennant flags to display numerals.

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design en masse mood lighting When paired with dramatic uplighting and luxe fabrics, the addition of tall taper candles or floating tealights can turn your space into a magnificent scene of illumination—not to mention set an über-romantic vibe. Consider having sequined table linens to reflect the light to make the space seem even brighter.

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use a table runner that pops Look for modern table décor inspiration, like a patterned table runner. Instead of big floral centerpieces, space stems out in smaller bud vases that span the length of the runner (and show off the design). This colorful detail will make your white rental china really stand out too.

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construct a photo backdrop Create a stunning focal point that doubles as a photo backdrop. Layers of colors and shapes will give guests different elements to gush over. Consider materials that are easily customizable like tissue paper tassels, ribbons, balloons, garlands of greenery or paper flowers.

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hang (a ton of) paper lanterns We know—paper lanterns are nothing new. But multiply the number of lanterns you usually see hanging in a reception space by 100 and it’s a different story. Find more ideas to steal at TheKnot.com/style

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make a family photo wall A wall of family photos is the perfect, easy conversation starter. Devote a row to your fiancé’s family and one to yours, or you can just mix them all up altogether. You can use only wedding photos or have a variety of portraits and candids. Alternative idea: Showcase your (new!) family tree.

the wow factor Turn up the volume on your celebration.

expert tasting station

Whether it’s a beer, wine or whiskey tasting, bring in an expert to guide guests through an interactive drink experience during cocktail hour.

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professional performers From ballroom to belly dancing, book professional dancers for a portion of your reception. The visual treat will inspire guests to get on the floor—and hey, they might learn a thing or two.

live art

Hire an artist to capture the reception scene in oil or acrylic on canvas. Guests will love checking in on the progress and you’ll have an incredible keepsake.

fireworks

Give your guests a lasting impression of your day with a fabulous send-off. Your display can be individually crafted to match your wedding’s colors, theme or motif.

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There’s something special about getting married surrounded by the familiarity of your childhood backyard, the beauty of a romantic botanical garden or the crispness of an ocean breeze. As gorgeous as these sites are, don’t forget the legwork that goes into an alfresco celebration. Follow these tips to pulling off a flawless outdoor affair.

choose the right spot Think about your perfect wedding: Is it a on a sandy shore? A lush mountainside? A picturesque desert ranch? A rustic vineyard? As you visit top contenders and consider your options, it’s important to consider the potential negatives as much as the positives. It may be stunning at sunset, but can your guests get there easily? Will it be noisy or windy? (Visit at the exact time your wedding will take place to get the full effect.) Will it cost you a fortune and a lot of coordination to bring in everything you need, like a catering kitchen and portable bathrooms? Will passersby be able to walk near your event? Some of these concerns have solutions, and some may not—in the end, choose a place that has the ambience and natural setting you’re looking for, along with the convenience your guests will appreciate.

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We’ve got our fingers crossed for blue skies too, but it could rain, or there could be a hail storm, or a bug infestation. Although all of these things may be unlikely, it’s important to prepare for the worst-case scenario while hoping for the best. The ideal outdoor wedding location needs to come with a plan B you love just as much. Many venues offer indoor and outdoor options or a mix of the two, just in case a rain storm blows in before the ceremony. Have a room on reserve for any unexpected events that threaten your picture-perfect day. Or arrange for a tent with sides that roll up or down, which allows you to be outside while staying dry.

get permission (or a permit) If you’ve decided to wed on public property, you may need written permission to do so. Some venues will require a site fee to hold an event on their property, while others will only need appropriate documentation from the city. You may also require an additional certificate of insurance (say, for a museum or historic building) in case of damages. Ask your venue for assistance in applying for permits, or contact your city parks department or other local government agencies to ensure you’re well prepared to say “I do.” >>

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l et nature lead the way You’ve no doubt chosen to get married outside to soak up the surrounding beauty, so let Mother Nature guide your wedding style. Consider the hues occurring naturally in the setting—be it sea blue or garden green—and build your palette around them. Keep the season in mind too, as it will largely dictate the color and types of flowers available. Then highlight the best part of the surroundings (a clear-top tent to show off a super-starry sky or a ceremony arch overlooking a rolling vineyard) and supplement with corresponding décor or florals, like driftwood for a seaside celebration or moss terrariums for a woodland affair.

transport your guests If you’ve picked a spot that’s off the beaten path, give guests a ride. Arrange for buses, trollies or vans to shuttle them from area hotels to your wedding location (this will also ensure they’ll have a safe way home). At the very least, provide excellent directions—even GPS coordinates if you’re in really rural territory. You don’t want guests arriving late, and frustrated, because of unmarked roads.

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b  e the ultimate host It’s your day, but your friends and family have made great efforts to celebrate alongside you, so make sure they’re comfortable. Sunny and hot? Have ice-cold water at the ready, print your programs on fans or offer up parasols for those seeking shade. A bit chilly? Prepare guests ahead of time so they come dressed in layers and serve up something warm, like hot cocoa or a hot toddy. If temperatures call for it, bring in fans or heaters. And if bathrooms aren’t available on-site, you’ll need to arrange for high-end porta-potties. (Figure one stall for every 35 people, so your guests spend their evening on the dance floor and not in line for the bathroom.)

i nform the attire If you’re planning to hold your nuptials in the grass or sand, clue your guests in—no one wants a ruined pair of shoes. Make attire recommendations based on the location and the temperature. Let the locale dictate the formality too. If you’re hosting an afternoon wedding in a garden, request suits but not formal black tie. Same goes for your bridal party—select seasonally appropriate fabrics that will keep your attendants comfortable. >>

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Getting married on a beach or in a historic barn? Let the location help define the style details of the day, like your stationery, menu and parting favors.

a favorite item

A single element, like something you collect, a painting you love, a favorite flower or a piece of lace from your mother’s wedding dress, could set the tone for your day.

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the seasons

The time of year can influence your wedding location, (especially an outdoor celebration) food, music, flowers, favors, decorations and even wardrobe.

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Nature? Movies? Sports? Travel? Think about what hobbies and interests reflect your true self, and then share those passions with your guests.

pretty hues

Color is a unifying factor among all your wedding elements. Let a couple of your favorite shades shape the day, like natural elements for an outdoor celebration.

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You’ll want to arrange your ceremony according to the sun, so your photographer will be able to capture your “I dos” without camera flare and your guests can witness your vows without squinting. And be sure to take advantage of the “golden hour,” when the lighting is said to be at its best for portraits.

Choose a caterer who has experience cooking and serving guests in an outdoor setting. Confirm the proper electricity is present to keep your caterer cooking in real time and up to code. Keep your menu choices in mind too—will guests want to wolf down a heavy dish, or will they be craving light bites? And don’t forget the cake. Talk to your baker about the elements, so you choose something that works outside—you don’t want a beautiful buttercream masterpiece melting in the sun.

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create ambience When tying the knot outside, there’s a good chance you’ll need uplighting—even indoor weddings do. Consider stringing market lights above the dance floor or hanging lanterns in the trees to frame the two of you as you say your vows. Candlelight is a great and totally romantic solution to a lack of electrical outlets, as long as it’s bright enough for your guests to see their dinner.

in good favor If you’re providing extras for guests to use while they celebrate, like flip-flops or pashminas, those can also double as favors. Or, send guests home with a location-specific token (think: a coral bottle stopper or small potted plant).

keep guests safe Clear leaves or any obstructions prior to your nuptials. Steps to well-traveled areas, like to the restroom or parking lot, should have handrails and walkways and be well lit for elderly guests.

turn it up Crashing waves are peaceful, but no one should have to strain to hear you deliver those beautiful vows. Use mics so guests can feel a part of the ceremony. And double-check that your band or DJ has enough power for their equipment.

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do I have to have a wedding cake? Technically no, but we think the tradition is definitely worth keeping. If you decide to forgo a cake, offer your guests some other kind of sweet treat, be it a plated dessert or passed chocolates. If you’re skipping the cake solely to save money, consider scaling back instead. Keep your add-ons and decoration requests simple— the less ornate the design, the less time-consuming (and costly) to make. Avoid exotic fillings, such as fresh guava, and instead order classic flavors that can easily be sourced. If you still need to come down on price, ask your baker about having two cakes. Order a small one- or a two-tier confection you can cut, then supplement with a sheet cake in the kitchen.

Sort of—the cost of a bowl of buttercream is less expensive than rolled fondant. But generally speaking, labor is a big indicator of the price of your cake, no matter what kind of frosting you choose. If you’re asking for a super-detailed design, like a smooth finish with several sugar flower clusters and a patterned motif, plan to pay for the baker’s time. Same goes for shapes—a twisty, stacked style could take up to three days to create and frost. For a less costly option, try a simple design and add a dramatic cake topper or fresh blooms. Besides being a showpiece, your cake should also be delicious. Choose the frosting that tastes best or allows your baker to design your dream cake. >>

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do I have to have a vanilla-flavored wedding cake? Remember: In addition to being unique and stunning, your cake has to taste good too. When you meet with prospective bakers, try a lot of flavors. Don’t be afraid to shy away from classics like chocolate or vanilla in favor of something less traditional such as carrot or lemon. And sample the available fillings—sometimes this layer is the most flavorful part of the slice. Many bakers are working with complex pairings like rose, hazelnut or lychee. Some will even whip up something custom for you. Choose the flavor you and your fiancé like best—after all, it’s your wedding cake.

I love the look of fondant, but I heard it tastes terrible—is that true?

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Terrible is a stretch, but it’s not quite as tasty as a buttercream or meringue. The upshot of using fondant is the virtually limitless design possibilities. Want a ribbon that matches your bouquet wrap? No problem. Want a smooth surface that can easily incorporate geometric designs or a ton of gum-paste roses? You got it. If you’re worried about the taste, ask your baker to add a layer of buttercream between the cake and the fondant (most do this anyway) to offset the flavor. Or speak to your cake designer about your vision and see if it can be accomplished or modified to work with a different type of icing.

is a naked cake right for my wedding? It all depends on the kind of celebration you’re planning. Naked cakes are essentially unfrosted confections. These designs tend to have a more natural and organic feel, since they don’t really lend themselves to gum-paste flowers or metallic dust. That doesn’t necessarily mean they should be reserved for casual weddings though. A naked cake garnished with some lavender sprigs would be well suited for a vineyard affair, for example. If you like the naked look, talk with your baker about ways to tailor the design to the formality of your celebration.

are fresh flowers safe to put on a cake, and do they cost less than the sugar variety? Generally speaking, fresh flowers will cost you less than anything made from sugar, mostly because of the time and effort required to create each delicate petal. If you want to use fresh flowers on your cake, speak to your florist in advance. They’ll need to source the requested blooms and make sure they haven’t been sprayed with pesticides. If you have your heart set on a particular bud, check to see if it’s in season. In some cases, it might be less costly to fashion a peony in the kitchen than to source one in February.

my fianc´e and I prefer savory or lightly sweetened desserts—is buttercream teeth-achingly sweet?

will a buttercream cake be fancy enough for my black-tie wedding?

Most buttercreams are made of the ingredients you’d expect: creamed butter and sugar. But they aren’t all created equal. Some are meringue based while others use custard or oils (making them better for fillings or decoration). Talk with your baker about sweetness preference and taste samples. Bottom line: You can achieve a spreadable cream without risking a cavity. You may even want to opt for a cream cheese frosting, which is a mix of savory and sweet that you and your guests will enjoy.

Absolutely—just ask cake icon Sylvia Weinstock, who only frosts with buttercream. This fluffy icing can be applied in a smooth appliqué, giving it a flawless finish similar to that of fondant. An assortment of sugar flowers dresses things up even more. Buttercream’s consistency also allows it to be easily shaped or piped into swags, borders and flowers (perfect decoration for less formal celebrations). The only real downside to buttercream is it’s not ideal for transfers, stencils or embossing. >>

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do we have to have two cakes, including a groom’s cake? One cake is all you need, but if you like the idea of serving a second dessert or getting your groom involved, go for it. The tradition of the groom’s cake has evolved over time—a slice of this second cake used to be given to guests as a favor when they headed home for the evening. The groom’s cake is usually much smaller than the couple’s wedding cake and is decorated to reflect the interests of the groom (think: hobbies, favorite sports team or even a childhood superhero). There are no rules to the flavors and fillings, but, like the design, they typically reflect his favorites.

if I don’t want a traditional cake topper, do I have to have one? You have free rein to top your cake with whatever you’d like— or nothing at all. If you have an heirloom piece, like your grandparents’ vintage topper, work with your baker to add it to your top tier (it can even double as your “something old”). Many wedding cakes are so decorative or colorful that a topper could actually detract from the design.

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I’m planning an outdoor wedding—will a buttercream cake melt? The biggest downside to buttercream is its sensitivity to heat. Most buttercreams will stand at room temperature for hours, developing a pretty iredescent shine, but it’s good to have a designated refrigerator at your venue for storing the cake before the reception begins. If you’re hosting an outdoor party, you can still have a buttercream cake—just take a few extra precautions. Chill the cake leading up to the reception and opt for an early cake cutting, before you sit down to eat. If it’s too hot or humid, the cake can be removed and chilled until it’s time to serve your guests.

cake décor glossary Learn some lingo before meeting with your cake baker.

basket weave

A piping technique that has interwoven vertical and horizontal lines.

beading

A border along the edge of tiers that resembles tiny pearls.

cornelli

An elaborate piping technique that yields a lacelike pattern.

Adds sparkle or sheen to a cake.

piping

Decorative technique created using a pastry bag and various metal tips. Piping details include leaves, borders, basket-weave patterns and flowers.

pulled sugar

Edible colored sugar balls used for decorative purposes.

A technique in which boiled sugar is manipulated and pulled to produce flowers and bows.

ganache

royal icing

dragees

A sweet, rich chocolate, denser than mousse but less dense than fudge, which can be used as icing or filling.

gum paste

This paste of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin is used to mold realisticlooking fruits and flowers to garnish a cake.

latticework meet the expert: maggie austin Former ballet dancer turned cake designer Maggie Austin creates detailed works of (delicious) art. The process of designing a wedding cake can begin a year or more in advance with Austin and the couple discussing elements of the reception in great detail, resulting in a unique design. The cake is typically made and decorated the day before delivery, but she works on sugar flowers and other delicate details well in advance. MaggieAustinCake.com

petal dust

A crisscross piping with an open pattern.

marzipan

A paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites used to mold edible flowers to decorate the cake. Marzipan can also be rolled in sheets, and used as icing.

Made of egg whites and confectioners sugar, this icing is a soft paste piped from a pastry bag to create flowers, beading, bows and latticework.

swiss dot

A piping technique that forms tiny dots in random patterns that resemble a fine dot Swiss fabric.

torte

A dense cake that does not use leavening agents like baking powder or baking soda.

whipped cream Heavy cream beaten to achieve a thick consistency.

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a  wedding that’s totally you Settling on an overarching concept and sticking to it is crucial for a wedding that feels unified and looks like you—and trust us, it will make your life a lot easier as you weed through all the options in the months to come. So before you try on a single gown, book your band or taste a bite of cake, determine the style and vibe you want to set on your wedding day. >>

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think big The beginning of the process is the dreaming phase—don’t worry about how something will work or how much it will cost. Don’t even consider what your mother will think. Picture your dream wedding. What do you see? Here are a couple of questions to consider while everything is coming together in your head. • Big (everyone you know) or small (close friends and relatives)? • Outdoors or indoors? • Home (one of your hometowns or your current city) or away (hello, destination wedding!)? • Modern, classic, romantic, vintage, rustic or all-out glam? • Fancy, casual or somewhere in between? • Spring, summer, winter or fall?

To get a better idea of what you want (and definitely don’t want), spend some time checking out bridal magazines, books, blogs and real wedding photos. But don’t limit yourself to browsing just the obvious sources—something as unlikely as a wallpaper pattern or a pretty perfume package design can spark an idea. Fabrics, color chips, stationery and trinkets are all great starting points too. Collect your ideas on an inspiration board—it’s one of the best ways to keep everything organized. It will also help you identify common threads and visualize how various elements will look together. bonus: Build yours on TheKnot.com/boards and easily share them with your wedding pros as you plan.

figure out the formality How fancy or casual do you want to go? Do you want to see your guests all dressed up at a sit-down dinner? Or will it be more casual with informal seating and stations? The setting of your wedding can also dictate the vision—a beach wedding calls for a more laidback vibe, while a ballroom may require a more classic and elegant ambience. And don’t forget about your own personal styles and the kind of atmosphere that best speaks to you two as a couple. Do you like hosting intimate dinner parties, or prefer a low-key poolside picnic? You’ll want to carry the formality through every aspect of your wedding, from the stationery to the parting favor. >>

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ways to bring your style to life Add a personal touch to your day with these details.

colors

Once you’ve settled on a style and theme, choose colors that complement it. If you’re having a seaside celebration, consider blue with a pop of coral, or a clean white and tan look. For a vintage wedding, take inspiration from antiques, like a pale blue or dusty lavender with patterns and mismatched details.

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Your invitation will set the tone for your celebration and be your guests’ first hint at the theme of your wedding. Incorporate your motif into the design, like an acorn for a fall affair or a custom illustration of you two. If you’ve already selected your colors, incorporate them as well in your text or even your envelopes or stamps.

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food and drink

From a signature sip to a locally inspired menu, play up your style in your food and drink options. If you’re having a nauticalthemed wedding, serve seafood favorites like baked clams and shrimp cocktail. Celebrating down South? Offer guests spiked sweet tea to give them a taste of the local flavor.

flowers

Your blooms can help convey style too. If you’re having a more casual celebration, opt for a bouquet of undone wildflowers in varying colors. If you’re celebrating in a location known for a particular flower, try and incorporate it into your arrangements—you’ll save on the stems too.

favors

Your parting gift to guests should represent you and your wedding theme. If you’ve opted for a retro celebration, give friends and family a “record” of tunes from the wedding. Or send them off with a food favor that’s reflective of the location or of your family’s heritage, like a bottle of olive oil or a bag of fortune cookies.

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The more specific you get with your vision, the easier it will be for you to choose your details and convey your ideas to your pros—the tighter your theme, the better. Instead of stopping at “glam,” decide whether you want art-deco glam or old-Hollywood glam. Your theme can be anything from a favorite era, hobby or place to your heritage or culture. To help shape the style, think of interesting hobbies you and your fiancé have in common. Maybe you both love golf or share an appreciation of art. Or perhaps there’s a place you two hold dear, like the mountaintop where you got engaged or the vacation locale where you fell in love. a word of caution: Don’t load up on too many ideas. It’s great if you love Broadway musicals and your spouse-to-be is into drag racing, but trying to combine both on your wedding day could lead to a weird, disjointed affair. Do your best to compromise on one concept and stick to it. Or if you have two competing themes, save one for a prewedding bash or the after-party.

Color is a unifying factor among all your wedding elements, from the invitations to your bridesmaid dresses. Take a look at a color wheel to determine which shades you’re drawn to. The easiest way to make all of your wedding elements come together is to stick with one main color and an accent color, or two equally prominent complementary colors (colors that are directly opposite each other on the color wheel, like green and pink or yellow and purple) for a bright contrast. But don’t feel limited to just two colors—adding neutral or metallic accents will make your palette robust. You could also choose an analogous scheme, putting together three colors that fall side by side on the color wheel, like blue, periwinkle and violet, to bring out the subtle nuances of one color family.

don’t forget the vibe As you’re planning, remember that the theme obviously affects the look of your wedding, but it can also set the tone. An evening wedding in a gilded ballroom meant to conjure the Roaring ’20s will ramp the chic quotient up a notch, while a clambake on the beach will have guests kicking off their shoes and enjoying a beer right out of the bottle. Either is great, as long as it feels right to you. You want your personalities and passions to shine through, which is what ultimately makes your wedding stand out and feel special.

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master the motif A motif is the last flourish that can tie together the overall look of your wedding—it can show up anywhere from the invitation to the cake. It’s typically a pattern, shape or insignia that conveys your style (think: family crest, toile pattern or leaf icon). Whatever you choose should reinforce the mood you’re trying to create. A cute crab is a fun way to celebrate by the beach, while a monogram may be a better fit for a formal ballroom affair. keep in mind: Use your motif purposefully—three or four places is usually the right amount. Any more than that will feel forced or look too matchy-matchy. Find even more inspiration at TheKnot.com/style

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Making things yourself is a great way to add personal touches to your wedding. But fair warning: Some projects are tougher than others, and what you thought would be a super-simple activity could turn into an undertaking worthy of a world-class crafter.

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table numbers

With the tally of wedding guests averaging about 140, table numbers are a manageable DIY project—you’ll only need to make 14 to 20, depending on your seating configuration. If you’re setting round tables, consider dual-sided numbers, so they can

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photography

Yes, Instagram filters make photos look amazing, but your pictures are among the few tangible things you’ll have to remember your wedding day. All of your loved ones may promise to capture every moment, but what happens if they get distracted or arrive with a low battery and no backup? Photography is a real skill—a professional photographer will ensure all the details are well documented.

be read from all angles as guests make their way to their seats. Opting for long feasting tables? Divide the rectangle into smaller “tables,” grouping numbers by six or eight guests. Clue your florist in on your craft plans—she can help coordinate the rest of the table décor and offer design suggestions. DIY DON’T

catering

Catering a large-scale party is a huge undertaking. You’d be

favors

A small takeaway or memento is always charming and worth the extra effort. You can go all the way and actually make cute coasters or delicious homemade brownies, or you can simply assemble premade treats, like chocolates from a local sweet shop. Buy colorful boxes, ribbon and tags to package them up nicely. DIY DON’T

day-of coordination

You’ve organized every little detail up to now, so why shouldn’t you be in charge on the wedding day? Because you won’t be able to relax and enjoy the party you’ve spent months planning! Hiring a coordinator for the day can be a lifesaver. While you’re getting pampered, they’ll be setting up and averting (or handling) any crises. They’ll help with the flow of the day and the coordination of your pros. When everything isn’t going perfectly, you’ll have no idea. Trust us—peace of mind is worth a little extra expense.

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hard-pressed to make enough delicious food for a hundred-plus people (and keep it hot). Once the meal is ready, you need a reliable group of waitstaff to serve it. Caterers are trained to make it all happen. They have the support staff to serve you and your guests in a timely manner, and their station setup or the way they circulate the hors d’oeuvres is like a well-choreographed ballet. DIY DON’T

cake

Unless you’re a pastry chef—and even if you are—you don’t want to take on this project. Whether it’s a missed teaspoon of baking powder or a tilted tier, a wedding cake disaster is hard to fix. Plus, transporting a wedding cake is a serious task best left to someone who knows what they’re doing, has a refrigerated van and, most importantly, doesn’t have their own wedding to be enjoying. Be wary about accepting a friend’s or family member’s offer to bake as well—a wedding cake is best left to the experts. >>

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save-the-dates

Save-the-dates are fun—seize this opportunity to be creative. Computer programs and a good printer can get the job done with little fuss. Consider using an engagement photo to create a custom postcard. Want to get really crafty? Send a calendar page with a heart on your wedding date, or a map marking where your nuptials will take place. And stick to the pros for your invites. DIY DON’T

floral centerpieces

Centerpieces are among the first things guests notice when they walk into your reception. Granted, flowers can be expensive depending on your choices and the season, but they’re a big part of the budget for a reason. Like your bouquet, these living beauties need to be assembled the morning of your wedding or the evening before, when you’ll be enjoying yourself. Call in a pro or opt for some nonfloral centerpieces such as vintage books, fresh fruit, pillar candles or a location-specific option, like coral.

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These can be big or small, depending on the amount of information you want to share (cultural traditions, members of the bridal party, deceased relatives). If you can fit everything onto one to three pages, programs can be created on your computer, printed yourself or at the local print shop, and assembled at home with thin ribbon. DIY handwritten signs or chalkboards set at the venue entrance are other options in lieu of a program. If you’re hosting an outdoor celebration, consider letting your program double as a fan or a sign for guests to wave as you recess down the aisle (hello photo op!).

music

An iPod—even one loaded with the greatest songs of all time— is no substitute for a band or DJ. Music pros are pros for a reason, and they’re trained to read the dance floor and engage the crowd. They can slow it down while dinner is served and speed it up when it’s time to get everyone grooving. Having someone else responsible for the entertainment ensures guests are enjoying every minute of the party. ant the supply list and how-tos for these DIYs? Check out W TheKnot.com/diy for these projects—and more!

diy favor kit packaging and ribbon

Whether you’re gifting delicious cookies, picture frames or a beautiful plant, you need a container that fits everything and matches your wedding style. Uline.com offers padded mailers and burlap pouches at bulk prices, while SpecialtyBottle.com is the go-to source for any bottle, jar or glass container­—limoncello anyone? PaperMart .com is the best resource for gift boxes, bags and gorgeous ribbon—you can get luxe satin and grosgrain in bulk for a steal.

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Skip a flimsy favor tag and invest in a nice medium-weight paper. PaperPresentation.com and PaperSource .com are great resources for colored mini-envelopes and various papers.

Add a personal touch to your favors or welcome bags with a monogrammed sticker. TheKnotShop.com has various colors and sizes with customization options.

If you’re freehanding tags or favor signage, pick up a new pen that will have enough ink to do the whole job. Visit Blick.com for pens, tips, ink, nibs—everything you need to make your handwriting look its best.

Personalize favor tags with a stamp (think: your monogram, wedding date or a motif). RubberStamps.net offers custom stamps with a quick turnaround time.

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Couples take note: Edible favors never (okay, rarely) get left behind. And while favors aren’t required, they’re a nice way to show your guests you appreciate their support and attendance. And if they traveled to celebrate, an edible token means instant gratification— no packing something extra in the suitcase for the trek home. Just like your invitation sets the stage for your wedding, your favors leave a lasting impression, so pick something fun that speaks to your wedding theme, the locale or your personality as a couple. Are you two always on the hunt for the best macarons? Or maybe you’re popcorn gurus or cookie connoisseurs? Treat your guests to an indulgence you both love. Whether you’re after something sweet, foodie-approved or ridiculously Instagrammable, we’ve got you covered with nine edible favors that ship nationwide.

6. cake pops

1. chocolate-covered pretzels

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2. whoopie pies These aren’t just any old whoopie pies. With their creative flavors (fig honey goat cheese, anyone?), these treats are fit for a foodie. And if your guests aren’t that adventurous, stick to classics like double chocolate and vanilla Funfetti. $16 FOR 10, BATTERANDCREAM.COM

3. b’day cake truffles Allow us to introduce you to the ultimate truffle: vanilla rainbow cake mixed with vanilla-infused milk, coated with white chocolate and rolled in rainbow cake crumbs. Mind blown.

A bite of cake on a stick is the perfect grab-and-go fix. And with sparkly frosting, these cake pops can double as décor—they can even be styled to look like a mini wedding cake or a bride and groom (perfect for a prewedding celebration too!). Have a bowtie-clad waiter stand by the exit to send guests off with something sweet in a grand way. FROM $39 FOR 12, SHOPNYCAKEPOPS.COM

7. mini tubs of cookie dough Perfectly safe to eat or bake—if you can wait that long—this cookie dough is available in 21 varieties, including confetti, fluffernutter, chocolate dream and signature chocolate chip. Bonus: Most of them can be made vegan or gluten-free. We guarantee there won’t be a single one left behind (maybe to the newlyweds’ dismay).

8. personalized macarons These tasty little treats come in fun flavors, like mint chocolate, chocolate lavender, passion fruit and white chocolate cherry. And you can personalize the cookie with a custom illustration of the two of you or even your wedding date—total win. $5 FOR 2-PIECE FAVOR BOX, BYWOOPS.COM

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4. cake in a jar Surprise your guests with a take-home dessert that’s as pretty as it is delicious. The exposed cake and frosting layers mimic a naked cake, but in a travel-friendly container. Choose from classic flavors like cookie dough and fudge brownie as well as seasonal specialties. $30 FOR 3, JARSBYDANI.COM

5. popcorn tins You’ll be hard-pressed to find a guest who wouldn’t want to take home this iconic popcorn. A delectable combo of caramel and cheese—Garrett’s signature mix—is both a savory treat and a dessert snack in one. $189 FOR EVENT PACK WITH 24 POPCORN BAGS, GARRETTPOPCORN.COM

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9. marshmallow sandwich cookies Not only are these marshmallow cookies totally unique, they’re also made with fair-trade ingredients and zero artificial preservatives. Pick from flavors like raspberry hibiscus, spiked espresso, vanilla and caramel, and peppermint chocolate. Thinking of keeping guests toasty at your winter nuptials with a hot chocolate bar? Station these next to the cocoa for a perfect pairing. Customize the packaging for an ultra-personalized wedding favor. FROM $5 FOR 4, MALVIMALLOW.COM

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Who says you have to stick to conventional hues for your wedding? A dreamy mauve gown and crisp khaki suit are fresh and totally on trend. Dress, $6,000, Hayley Paige at Kleinfeld Bridal, Kleinfeld.com (New York City), Wedding Atelier, WeddingAtelier.com (New York City), The Wedding Salon of Manhasset, WeddingSalonOnline.com (Manhasset); engagement ring, $995, EffyJewelry .com; earrings, $345, NaeemKhan.com ON HIM Suit, $600, Bar III, Macys .com; shirt, stylist’s own; bow tie, $110, Olch.com; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; socks, $28, HappySocks .com; shoes, $1,195, ChristianLouboutin.com >>

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Weddings are a time-honored tradition, but that doesn’t mean you have to look traditional on your day. Mix it up with edgy silhouettes, whimsical details and accessories that are totally you.

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A sleek pantsuit with a flouncy top is the best of both worlds: It’s fashion forward but still feels bridal. Add a veil for a look that’s all your own. Pantsuit, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Esti’s, EstisOnly .com (Brooklyn), Designer Loft, DesignerLoftNYC.com (New York City), Panache Bridal New York, PanacheBridals.com (New York City); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney .com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta .com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

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Turn heads in a dress with a trendy high-low hemline. It’s the perfect opportunity to show off amazing shoes, without sacrificing the drama of a train. Dress, $8,490, Ines Di Santo at Bridal Reflections, BridalReflections .com (Carle Place, Massapequa & New York City), Mark Ingram Atelier, MarkIngramAtelier .com (New York City), Bergdorf Goodman, BergdorfGoodman.com (New York City); earrings, $325, Simone Rocha, NewYork .DoverStreetMarket.com; pink tennis bracelet, $65, gold tennis bracelet, $125, CZbyKennethJayLane.com; stacking rings, $3,740, Laurence Bruyninckx, LX-Antwerp.com; shoes, $1,090, OscardelaRenta.com >>

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flirty skirt Lace sleeves and a tutu-inspired skirt make this short frock anything but simple. Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; stacking ring, $6,935, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com

party plumes Planning to change it up for your reception? A feathery cocktail dress is made for dancing the night away. Top, $4,280, skirt, $3,180, Lihi Hod at Gabriella New York, GabriellaNewYork.com (New York City); engagement ring, $2,360 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; wedding band, $1,590, ring, $4,450, HeartsOnFire .com; earrings, $198, LeleSadoughi.com >>

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While pastel florals are classic, a bold, vibrant bouquet instantly adds a celebratory vibe to your wedding. Top, $550, pants, $605, Ivy & Aster at Lovely Bride, LovelyBride.com (Rochester); necklace, $245, CZbyKennethJayLane.com

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daring details All minidresses aren’t created equal. Abstract embellishments give this little white dress a dose of avant-garde appeal. Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; clutch, $4,995, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com; bracelet, $6,750, HeartsOnFire.com; shoes, price upon request, ChristianSiriano.com ON HIM Suit, $595, shoes, $230, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com

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So you’ve already hired the 24-piece band, splurged on over-the-top centerpieces and asked your bridesmaids to wear floor-length gowns—all that’s left to do is make sure the two of you show up dressed to the nines. For your five-star event, only a gorgeous gown and traditional black tux will do. FOR THE BRIDE This is the ultimate Cinderella moment. Make it count with a dramatic dress that really sparkles. We love a ball gown that gets the full-glam treatment with a crystalencrusted bodice or just a hint of subtle blush in the skirt. As far as accessories are concerned, don’t be afraid to indulge in more glitter. Pair elegant drop earrings with a loose updo to play up the embellishments in your gown. Store your lipstick, a compact and a tissue (or two) in an equally glitzy beaded clutch, and step into some strappy metallic sandals for an ultra-luxe look. FOR THE GROOM Though he’d certainly be dapper in any suit, a classic tuxedo will guarantee he looks at home at your formal affair. To keep it modern, forgo contrasting studs (those little doodads that cover the shirt’s buttons), dated cummerbunds and shiny vests, and instead opt for a trendy notch collar and a pristine bow tie. Also, stick with a slim-fit style. A sleek satin lapel couldn’t hurt either. If your groom is more daring, try a tux with a black velvet jacket—they’re everywhere on the red carpet and look just as luxurious as they feel. To up the sophistication quotient, choose equally streamlined accessories, like understated silver cuff links and black patent leather dress shoes. If he wears a watch, go for one that will blend in with the rest of his outfit. >>

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a new “something blue” your clutch

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Stash your day-of essentials in a colorful blue clutch. Try a navy minaudière for a formal event or a silver or pearl-encrusted clutch with a light blue lining.

Save your “something blue” for your spouse’s eyes only. Find a lingerie set in a romantic cornflower shade. Or choose one with blue accents, like bows.

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Why limit this color to just your wedding? You can wear it long after the day when you choose a wedding band lined with blue sapphires.

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We’re not suggesting you get a crazy, neon-blue manicure for your wedding, but you could try a powder-blue polish for a subtle and soft nod to this wedding tradition.

Have your attendants represent your “something blue” in navy. A major plus of this plan: Your friends will look amazing in this flattering shade.

your shoes

For just a hint of blue, wear a pair of heels with a blue sole. You can also personalize the bottom of your shoes with a blue marker. Add your new monogram, the words “I do” or your wedding date.

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If you’ve been dreaming of a destination wedding or stylish backyard ceremony (something that feels intimate and homespun) since the second he popped the question, then casual wedding day attire will work best for you. FOR THE BRIDE Keep it simple with a chic, short wedding dress, but don’t skimp on the details. For instance, textured lace shows off your high style with little fuss. Great heels and statement accessories are the perfect finishing touch for this low-key look. FOR THE GROOM A less formal gown calls for a casual suit. Picking a preppy style gives him a more laid-back attitude that still feels polished. Try a khaki suit with a patterned pocket square, and fun, novelty cuff links that match the vibe of your wedding. If he’s going for an edgier, more personalized feel, consider a printed tie or a handmade lapel flower—they’re all the rage right now.

Your wedding is all about a killer setting with a luxe feel. Whether it’s in a modern museum or an art gallery off the beaten path, your ideal soiree is sophisticated and cultured without the strict formality of a more traditional setting. Opt for a wardrobe that’s every bit as chic and cutting edge as your wedding. FOR THE BRIDE A structured, classic silhouette is best for your one-of-a-kind affair. A strapless, satin, fit-and-flare dress is fancier than your average cocktail look but still more understated than a ball gown. Want to create an unexpected contrast? Consider a waist-slimming black sash and matching pumps (ones with some embellishment will create a cohesive style). Skip extra baubles and finish it off with a statement clutch (we love lucite). FOR THE GROOM Why not look as fresh and trendy as the venue? Pair a gray suit with quirky accessories, like a patterned shirt, pocket square and bow tie. This is a great opportunity to show a little personality, so don’t shy away from a good novelty pattern. >>

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how to tie a bow tie It’s just like tying your shoelaces— well, kind of. Master the bow tie: 1. Put the dress shirt or tuxedo shirt on. Button it to the top and stand in front of the mirror with the bow tie in hand. Place the bow tie around the neck, making sure that the right end falls 1.5 inches lower than the left. 2. Holding both ends, cross the longer end over the shorter one.

3. Loop the longer end up through the neck hole. Adjust the tightness of the tie for a comfortable fit. 4. Putting the longer end aside by flipping it up over the shoulder, double the shorter end at the widest part so it resembles a bow and lays sideways across the collar.

If it wasn’t already obvious from the swanky invitations, rooftop locale, gourmet hors d’oeuvres and signature martinis, your wedding wardrobe will surely solidify the fact that you’re hosting an elegant event. You can’t go wrong if you stick with fitted silhouettes and clean, modern accessories for both of you. FOR THE BRIDE Find a gown that feels dressy but not over the top for your cocktail soiree. Skip the dramatic full skirt and romantic embellishments and consider one of this season’s hottest silhouettes: the column gown. A sleek style still feels classy but also gives just a hint of va-va-voom. Want to make more of a glam statement? Play up your gown with sparkly metallic accessories. FOR THE GROOM A classic black tuxedo may feel too traditional. Instead, try a slim-cut dark suit in black, charcoal gray or navy with a lighter shirt in a neutral color. A skinny tie will go best with this style because it mimics the narrow shape of his suit (regularwidth ties can appear too bulky or wide). For a consistent modern style, opt for a pair of dress loafers. They may have a reputation for being old-fashioned, but new designs are actually the perfect in-between shoe: not as fancy as a lace-up oxford, but more put together than, say, your average pair of slip-on sneakers. Find your wedding look at TheKnot.com/fashion

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5. Holding the bow shape with one hand, retrieve the other end and pull it down over the center of the bow with the other hand. At this point, the tie resembles a bow tie from the front. 6. Bring the sides of the bow together in front with one hand. Pinch and pull. This creates a hole behind the bow.

7. Use the other hand to make another bow with the longer end of the tie by doubling it like the first bow.

8. Push this bow through the hole.

9. Pull on the folded ends of each bow to tighten the knot of the bow tie.

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When it comes to finding “the one,” timing is essential. These are the wedding dress deadlines you definitely don’t want to miss. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY AMBER GRESS PHOTOGRAPHY

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set your gown budget Maybe you have $4,000 set aside for your look. That doesn’t mean you can buy a $4,000 wedding dress. You’ll need to add on taxes, alterations and possibly shipping. And don’t forget to set aside part of that budget (10 to 20 percent) for extras like your shoes and veil.

hanger appeal Even if a dress doesn’t wow you on the hanger, trust that your consultant knows what styles will look amazing on you.

choose your shopping mates Bring either your mom or a trusted friend when you dress shop, but limit your entourage to two or three people. go wedding dress shopping There’s a reason you need to get a jump-start on your gown search: You’re not buying off the rack, so your wedding dress is essentially custom made for you. This means it will take months of work to create and a series of alterations to fit your body perfectly. Schedule your appointments early, since salons can get booked up fast. When you go for your bridal salon appointment, bring photos of dresses you like so the consultant will be better equipped to help you. If you know you want to wear a specific designer, see if they’re having a trunk show at a salon near you.

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8 months buy your dress Now it’s time to make a final decision and place the order. You’ll know it’s “the one” when you don’t want to take it off. When you buy your gown, you’ll have to sign a contract and put down a deposit, which is usually 60 percent of the price of the gown, says Mercedes Cueva, bridal stylist at The White Gown. This is because your one-of-a-kind dress takes manpower to create, so designers need a down payment to start production. Before you sign the contract, make sure all the information is correct. Ask the salon when they expect your gown to arrive—on average it’s 16 to 20 weeks from the day you place your order, Ingram says—and confirm they’ll call you when it comes in.

5 months shop for your undergarments Get your under-the-dress essentials before your first fitting. Whether you’re planning on wearing a strapless bra, slipping into a body-slimming shaper or going braless, the slightest switch in your undergarments can change the fit of your dress, so you should select a couple options. choose your hair accessories It’s also time to find your veil or headpiece (if you’re wearing one), so you can get an idea of your entire look, from head to toe, when you have your gown fitting. For a casual dress, go with a complementary birdcage veil or flower crown. If you’re wearing a ball gown, you might want to choose something more dramatic and grand, like a chapel- or cathedral-length veil. select your shoes Take the height of your heel into consideration, and don’t opt for shoes that pinch, rub or feel too tight (no matter how fabulously stylish those stilettos are). You’ll be on your feet for most of the day, so make sure your toes can handle it. >>

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do your research Before you start shopping, figure out what style you’re looking for. Your venue can help you narrow that down, suggests Mark Ingram of Mark Ingram Atelier. If you’re having a beachside wedding, you’ll probably want a flowy, unfussy gown. Getting married at an upscale hotel? A formal ball gown could be your dress. Also find out what silhouettes best suit your body shape. Then look through pictures of wedding dresses online and in magazines, and tear out or save your favorite styles. The Wedding LookBook by The Knot app is a great place to begin—you can search thousands of gowns by style and price and find local salons that carry them. Or browse our wedding dress marketplace for a list of salons in your area. Just remember: While lots of research can help narrow down your options, keep an open mind. An experienced consultant can help you find the right dress for your budget and body type—and the style of dress you end up loving might even surprise you.

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have your second fitting Your first fitting is where the heavy lifting happens: adding sleeves, switching up the neckline and so on. The second fitting is your chance to make smaller tweaks to your wedding dress, like taking in the bodice a bit or perfecting the hem length. You’ll also want to move around the salon in your gown and practice some dance moves. This will help you test that the fit is right so you can easily move around. You’ll be wearing your dress for 8 to 10 hours on your wedding day so it has to feel good.

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have your first fitting You’ll most likely have three fittings to get your dress altered to fit you just right. It’s important to time each of the alterations correctly. Bring your gown in too early and you might not end up with a proper fit. (You may lose or gain weight after your gown is altered.) Bring your gown in too late and you might not have enough time to make all the changes. Most gowns will need at least some sort of alteration. Some salons charge a flat fee, while others charge per item. The costs range from $200 for a simple hem to more than $1,000 for major adjustments. And remember: Don’t bring just your gown—also take your undergarments, shoes and accessories to your fittings. Your undergarments and shoes will help determine the fit and length of your gown, and trying on your hair accessories or veil with your dress will give you an idea of how you’ll look on the actual day. If you don’t have the exact shoe you’ll be wearing, bring something similar in height. While your seamstress is fitting your gown, take a close look at the way the material falls and notice how the waist feels and how the chest area fits (is there any funny bunching, puckering or bulging?). Speak up if you see anything you don’t like. This is the time to ask questions, so give into any perfectionist impulses.

6 weeks decide on your “something old, new, borrowed and blue” If you want to include these customs in your ensemble, you may want to have them before your final fitting. For instance, if you’re planning to sew a blue ribbon or keepsake pocket to the inside of your dress, you can ask your seamstress to do it while she’s making your other alterations. Or, if you’re wearing special blue shoes or a headpiece with blue embellishments, bring them with you, so you can see how they work with the rest of your ensemble.

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have your final fitting You may want to have a box of tissues on hand for this final trip to the seamstress. This is where you’ll get to see your gown the way it will look when you walk down the aisle. Bring at least one family member or friend to share this moment with, and so you have someone there to learn how to do the bustle (if you have one). pick up your wedding dress Once your gown is ready, you’ll need to find a place to store it where your fiancé can’t sneak a peek. Inspect the dress when you get it to make sure everything looks right. Keep it in a breathable opaque—not clear—garment bag (just in case your partner stumbles across it in the closet). If your veil is in the same bag, make sure it’s wrapped in its own piece of plastic so it doesn’t snag.

1 day stash your stuff Buy a handheld steamer and put together an emergency kit (safety pins, fashion tape). Make sure you have all of the parts of your ensemble (dress, accessories and shoes) in one place—especially if you’re switching venues after your makeup and hair are done.

wedding day have fun Happy wedding day! Just a couple of to-dos left: Give your dress a final steaming and schedule about 30 minutes to get dressed (a bridesmaid should help you). Then relax and enjoy the moment. Looking for your dress? Download The Wedding Lookbook by The Knot app to find “the one.”

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practice walking in your shoes Strut around in your shoes at home to make sure they aren’t too high or too stiff. This way, you’ll have enough time to break them in, buy a new pair or snag a second, more comfortable pair.

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is there a trick to wearing bright colors or prints without clashing? It depends on the wedding location and time of day. For example, with a tropical destination or beach wedding, the environment calls for a vibrant color or bold pattern. It just looks more natural in those surroundings than something very neutral and understated. Whereas for a formal wedding (say, one at a grand hotel or estate), you might want to be a little quieter in terms of color, but have some dramatic detail, like metallic embellishments on the dress, sparkly statement earrings or other glitzy accessories. The term “mother of the bride” doesn’t have to mean super conservative or old-fashioned. It’s important to remember that the mother of the bride is really an attractive woman in the prime of her life, who loves fashion and wants to look great on a very special day. In fact, this dress or outfit is probably the second biggest expenditure women will make after their own wedding gown. There’s no reason a mother of the bride can’t look fashion forward or wear a vibrant print and glamorous accessories, as long as it works with the rest of the wedding.

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what about pulling off statement jewelry? It depends on what the dress looks like. For instance, there’s this relatively new line I like called Needle and Thread. It has beautiful embroideries and it’s quite reasonably priced. With dresses like that, there’s no need for a lot of jewelry because the dress has so much detail. I would keep it very delicate if she’s wearing a dress that’s elaborately beaded or embroidered. But on the other hand, if she’s wearing a one-shoulder, asymmetric dress that’s just a wisp of a thing, she could wear an arm full of bracelets or drop earrings. Accessorize specifically for the dress and for the occasion.

should comfort always come first where shoes are concerned? It’s all about the overall feel of the wedding. If it’s on the sand, or in the garden on grass, you and your guests certainly don’t want to be in heels that sink. In cases like those, I’d go with a wedge. There are tons of strappy sandals that are very delicate looking in the front but have a chunky solid heel that will keep your mom grounded and comfortable. It also depends on how much the shoes are going to show. With a short dress, I think shoes are very important. In that case, she can’t go wrong with Manolos or Louboutins—they’re a splurge, but both lines offer a gorgeous range of heels in varying heights. She shouldn’t wear super-high heels that are uncomfortable. There’s nothing worse than seeing everyone with their shoes off on the dance floor. It’s better to choose a comfortable, feminine shoe to begin with rather than end up in flip-flops or bare feet. >>

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It’s really up to the bride, in my opinion. If she wants her mother or husband-to-be’s mother to conform to the color palette, it will probably look nice and more cohesive in pictures. You don’t want her to be distracting or out of place in group photos. But I don’t think it’s necessary to be super matchy either.

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what mother of the bride dress trends are you loving right now? In general, off the shoulder is really big, and it’s very wearable for most women. Nearly everyone has good shoulders. That’s a very welcome trend, because it’s sexy and feminine but not too revealing. I’m also seeing a lot of dresses with asymmetric necklines. I don’t think there are any big color trends per se, but it’s now completely acceptable to wear black at many weddings, and that used to be considered a major faux pas. Almost all fashion rules have been challenged in this day and age. I’ve seen mothers of the bride wear all sorts of outfits, including pants on rare occasion. A beautiful pantsuit with elegant jewelry can look so chic.

straight talk “It’s really important to remember that the mother of the bride is an attractive woman in the prime of her life, who loves fashion and wants to look great on a very special day.” —Cindy Weber-Cleary

wedding dress fitting 411 Five fashion solutions for your tailoring troubles.

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what if you disagree with what your mom, or future mom, wants to wear to your wedding? You have to tread very carefully. You don’t want to start off your wedding on the wrong foot, especially if it’s concerning your mother-in-law. It’s really all about the way you express yourself. As long as you’re polite and respectful of that person’s feelings, you can try to steer them in a different direction. But if you can’t change their mind, it’s not worth fighting about. You want everyone to feel happy on your wedding day, and if a certain dress makes your mom really happy, then let her wear it. I can’t imagine anyone would question it, or even remember. There shouldn’t be so many rules where wedding fashion is concerned—it should be about having fun. I understand brides are under a lot of pressure and they want everything to be perfect, but the idea of what you want your wedding to look like shouldn’t harm relationships. What’s really important is the joyful feeling of your wedding day and the commitment you’re making. Remember: Everyone will have a good time. Even if your mother or mother-in-law isn’t wearing exactly what you wish, take a deep breath and go with the flow.

Having difficulties finding the ideal bra for your gown? Build one into it. Your seamstress can add foam cups, or ask her to sew in a corset to act as a strapless bra. Problem solved!

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Skirt savers, like hooks, pins or buttons, secure a long train so it just grazes the floor (a definite must for dancing—you don’t want anyone tripping over it).

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Fell in love with a floorlength gown, but want a dramatic train for the ceremony? Consider creating a train that can be secured to (and removed from) your gown with snaps. Order it with the dress, or create an overlay using satin or tulle.

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A patch of matching fabric or lace is sewn (or snapped if you want to detach it) into the bustline of a gown, making even the most plunging neckline look demure. Or add one to a gown with a low back—it’s an easy way to hide a bra.

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Chances are, you have a couple of old bridesmaid dresses collecting dust in your own closet. And now that it’s your turn to pick the dress, you might be feeling the pressure to find a style that’s both budget friendly and figure flattering for all of your attendants. Think that’s impossible? We promise—it’s actually totally doable. Read up on how to find dresses that won’t cost a fortune but will look gorgeous on all your girls.

let them choose the dress Just hear us out on this one: Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust in their fashion sense. The trick to pulling off the mismatched trend is setting color and fabric guidelines so your whole party still looks cohesive. It’s even okay to create a don’ts list, with requests like no miniskirts or super-plunging necklines. >>

styling your smallest attendants Everything you need to know to outfit the little ones in your wedding party

for flower girls THE SKINNY The parents traditionally pay for the flower girl’s attire, so unless you plan on making a gift of it, be up front about this cost when you ask to include her in your wedding day. THE FORMALITY There are two schools of thought when it comes to dressing the flower girl: She should match the bride, or she should match the bridesmaids. Another option is to put her in a white dress with an accent or sash that matches the bridesmaid dress color. THE STYLE No matter what your wedding style, flower girl dresses nearly always have a fuller skirt and are tea or floor length.

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or pomander is probably plenty for her to handle. Consider her age and maturity level: What’s she really able to wear or carry? If you know that floral crown is going to be pulled off her head within minutes, you may want to reconsider it.

for ring bearers THE SKINNY Same deal as the flower girl—when you ask his parents if he can be in the party, you’re also assuming they’ll pay, so bring it up right from the beginning. THE FORMALITY Look for a tiny tux if you’re

having a black tie affair. If your style is more casual, there are tons of cute options for these little men: A lightweight cotton or linen suit, shortalls in a matching hue or a sailor suit all work well.

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touch for this pint-size party member is the ring pillow, so choose one that complements your theme without clashing with the ring bearer’s outfit.

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THE STYLE Unless he’s wearing a full-on suit or tux, the ring bearer doesn’t need to match the groom or groomsmen perfectly. Give him a bit more color and flair than you would the rest of the groomsmen.

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avoid gowns that need alterations Bridesmaid dresses, like wedding gowns, don’t run true to size and are ordered using the largest measurement as a guide. Chances are, your bridesmaids will end up with dresses that are a size or two larger than what they normally wear. Depending on the dress and on the body types of your bridal party, alterations can cost anywhere from about $30 (for a simple hem) to about $150 (taking in, hemming, adding straps). Suddenly, a small price tag becomes a small fortune. Stick to flowy silhouettes, which will require fewer alterations (think: A-line over clinging sheaths), or styles your bridesmaids can buy in their regular sizes from department stores to decrease the chance that alterations will be necessary.

go for basic black Of course there are the obvious reasons a black dress is an excellent choice—it’s slimming, works on any skin tone, looks great long or short, and is easy to accessorize. The best argument for black? Whether it’s to a formal event or cocktail party, your girls can definitely use another LBD.

pick up the tab One of the most common gripes you’ll hear about bridesmaid dresses is the price. Even if you’ve been considerate by finding budget-friendly options, the dress still contributes to a long list of expenses (think: travel costs, shower gift, bachelorette party, wedding gift—you get the idea). If you have room in your budget, consider gifting your girls their dresses—it’s a super-thoughtful way to thank them for being part of your day. >>

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You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and the groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with the bride’s bouquet, centerpieces and other various décor.

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While you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area (say, you’re having a destination wedding). You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from a set location, or you can ask a few local guests to give the out-of-towners a lift.

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Despite the name, this is actually an event thrown by the bride for her bridesmaids as a way to show her appreciation to her bridal party for the many things each girl has done to make her wedding special. This sit-down lunch or brunch is typically held the afternoon of the rehearsal dinner. Think of it as a “thank you” to your girls for supporting you on your day.

hair and makeup Your bridesmaids are already paying for dresses, travel, the shower and more. If you want your attendants to have their hair and makeup professionally done for the wedding, it’s a nice gesture to offer to pay for these services. Otherwise, trust your girls to do their own hair and makeup if they’d prefer not to pay for a professional stylist.

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Choosing a knee-length dress will eliminate the need for at least one alteration: hemming. Sure, your bridesmaids may still need to hit up the tailor for other minor tweaks, but they won’t have to worry about tripping over their dress. A shorter hemline is also a great opportunity to show off killer heels.

Here’s the deal: Your bridesmaids don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look their best. They’ll be standing in front of a room full of friends and family too. The best way to prove you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress. Does it flatter your figure? Is the fabric itchy? If you answer yes, move on. When you find one that you’d love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem convincing your friends to get on board.

don’t dictate the footwear Speaking of heels, insisting bridesmaids purchase a particular pair may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but it also creates another expense. And, like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again, especially if they’ve been dyed a specific hue. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black or metallic shoes they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own comfortable shoes means blister-free dancing.

let her bring the baubles By letting each bridesmaid select her own jewelry, you’re encouraging her to express her unique personality (that’s the reason you chose her in the first place, right?). Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid look and feel more like herself.

schedule a shopping trip

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Our best formula for a seamless shopping spree? Make it a whole day of fun. Your first stop: the beauty salon. Get all of your bridesmaids together for manicures and pedicures (bonus points if you’re treating) and some relaxation and bonding time. Next up: ladies’ lunch. Choose a restaurant with lots of light dishes that won’t leave your friends feeling too full or bloated. But don’t skip the mimosas—relaxed bridesmaids are more likely to fall in love with your dress choice. And finally: the bridal shop. Pick your preferred styles ahead of time to make the selection process less overwhelming. Then let your ladies put on a fashion show— it will be a fun, memorable way to narrow in on their favorites.

We’re aware the term “comfortable” can be somewhat subjective (to your bustier friends, strapless dresses can lack support; to your smaller-chested pals, thick straps seem overwhelming) but who can argue with the idea of slipping into a frock made of itch-free fabric? Or a flowing gown that won’t cling to the midsection? Small details like fabric choice and silhouette can make a world of difference where dress wearability is concerned. Bring on the dancing and the wedding cake!

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It’s no secret brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a tux. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing the right accessories to complement his perfectly tailored new threads, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish.

Odds are, your groom is going to wear either a suit or tux, but that doesn’t mean all menswear is created equal. Consider a slim-cut tux or suit to up the style factor. And, this may be surprising, but slimmer-cut suits actually work for every body type. “Sometimes guys think going for a boxier shape will make their body appear slimmer, but it actually has the opposite effect,” says Andrew Blackmon, cofounder of The Black Tux. You’ll know a slim-cut (not to be confused with skinny) suit has the right fit if it meets the following criteria: shoulders that are close to his body but not constricting, sleeves that are long enough to show a quarter- to a half-inch of his shirt while his arms are at his sides, and a jacket length ending at the base of his thumbs. Even if your groom is happy with the general fit of his suit, don’t skimp on the tailoring—it’s even more important if it’s a rental. After all, you wouldn’t skip your wedding dress alterations. He’ll typically have three fittings: one for chalking, one to try everything on and one to make final adjustments. He should give himself a month or so for alterations to avoid any last-minute fixes.

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If you want your groom to totally change his facial hair, flip through magazines and collaborate on a new style together. But don’t go too crazy. You still want him to look like the man you fell in love with—maybe just a little bit more put together.

upgrade his accessories Standout accessories are the simplest way to give your groom’s look a personal touch. If his groomsmen want in on the action, make sure they don’t match each other perfectly—complementary accessories will create a cohesive look without being too cookie cutter. Consider adding one or two of the following options for a more unique twist on the standard suit and tie combination.

pocket square A pocket square gives just enough personality to a formal look without going over the top. Choose patterns that go together without being matchy-matchy, like a floral-print tie and a gingham pocket square. boutonniere While we love florals, they aren’t your guy’s only option. A customized boutonniere, like a brooch or lapel pin, are perfect for the edgier groom. “It’s a fun way to add to your look without the formal association a classic boutonniere can bring,” says Allyson Wicha Lewis, vice president of merchandising at The Tie Bar.

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novelty belt Belts in unexpected fabrics, colors and textures are the hottest new accessory for men. A stretchy braided herringbone belt in blue or gray is perfect for a nautical wedding, while a wool belt with subtle plaid accents feels just right for a casual winter affair. The best part? A belt with elastic, as opposed to all leather, has more give and will still be comfortable after hours of wear. socks A pair of statement socks (think: novelty patterns or bold prints) is an understated way for your groom to inject some personality into his look. “Because only a portion of the sock shows when you’re sitting down, it’s perfect for guys who are generally averse to bright color to wear it subtly,” Wicha Lewis says. To pull off this trend, your guy should stick with socks that are grounded in his pant color, with just a hint of something bold. >>

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pamper him in private Your guy may not be into spa days, but that doesn’t mean he can’t indulge in a relaxing professional massage. “As great as weddings are, they’re a high-stress event,” says Tamim Ghilzai, a Zeel massage therapist based in San Francisco. “A massage will help your groom relax and take his mind off any worries.” On-demand massage companies like Zeel deliver professional massages to your door, without the frills of scented candles and cucumber water your groom may not care about. “Men are just more comfortable in their home—they’re in their own environment,” Ghilzai says. “Some feel awkward sitting in the waiting room wearing a fluffy robe and slippers.” Another idea: Because of close-up ring shots on your wedding day, you’ll want your groom to consider what’s recently been coined “handshake maintenance,” or a manicure for men. If your guy doesn’t know his way around an emery board, opt for a professional job to clean up his cuticles and buff his nails to a healthy-looking shine. To maintain his newly manicured nails at home, he should invest in an all-in-one nail file and buffer to smooth out any ragged edges that appear over time. And have him apply a fragrance-free hand cream at night before bed to stave off callouses and keep his hands nice and soft. Get more menswear tips at TheKnot.com/groomsmen

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mix-and-match groomsmen ideas Pick one or two of these styling tips for a totally dapper (but not cookie cutter) entourage.

go gradient

Instead of opting for multiples of the exact same necktie color, start with a bold hue and select slightly lighter colors for each groomsman. (This works for bow ties too.)

mix up the boutonnieres

Give each guy in your party a different bloom in your signature hue for unique-looking lapels.

get fancy with your folding

Pocket squares are always a dapper add-on. We love the idea of snagging identical ones but folding each of them differently.

skip the matchymatchy shirts

Patterned shirts will make the most basic suit feel funky. Match the color but choose a different design for each guy. Think: flowers, stripes, plaids or polka dots for a fun twist on tradition.

select fun footwear

Be particularly playful by opting for sneakers. Choose a specific style and let your gents pick the color. Or go for mismatched socks in novelty prints for a fun look that’s a little more understated. ONELOVE PHOTOGR APHY

If he’s considering changing his facial hair before your wedding, make sure he has at least a three-month head start. “It’s better to live with the style for a bit prior to the wedding to make sure this is the look you want to have in your photos,” says Troy Harris, a master barber at The Art of Shaving. Once he’s decided whether he’ll be clean-shaven, bearded or mustachioed, consider treating your groom to some must-have products to kick-start his prewedding skin-care regimen. Start by swapping his bar of soap for an actual facial wash plus a scrub for a smoother shave. If he’s bearded, have him mix facial wash and scrub together. “This helps remove dry skin under the beard hair to keep his skin from feeling dry and itchy,” Harris says. Applying a shave oil (yes, it exists) before shaving is another way to step up his routine—it prevents razor burn and scratchy first kisses. Your groom should also have at least one professional shave before your wedding day, according to Harris. If he’s clean-shaven he’ll want to make sure he reacts well to a close shave to prevent irritated skin in your wedding photos. If he’s bearded or in the process of growing a beard, a barber can help shape the lines of his facial hair, taking the guesswork out of shaving.

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When you begin searching the perfect engagement ring (and for that secret Pinterest board, of course) the word “overwhelming” may come to mind. Before you even make the purchase, a number of factors, from budget to style, have to be considered. And while a lot of the old rules no longer apply when choosing an engagement ring—like having to buy one with a more traditional setting— there are some guidelines you should always keep in mind when shopping for a diamond. If you’re thinking of a buying a white diamond, the four Cs—cut, color, clarity and carat—are important to consider before settling on a ring. Editor’s note: No standardized quality grading system exists for colored gemstones, so if you’re on the hunt for a colorful center stone, these rules don’t apply.

cut The cut of a diamond isn’t actually the shape (think: round, oval, pear), but how well the angles and proportions of the stone interact with light. Since diamonds start as rough stones and not faceted gems, the cut grade of a diamond is the only one of the four Cs that’s not determined by nature, making it the most important aspect to consider. In other words, a bad cut can ruin an otherwise perfectly good stone. If the diamond is cut too deep or too shallow, it will leak light on the sides, giving it a duller appearance, which will reduce its value and brilliance. A well-cut diamond will have three factors: brightness, fire and scintillation. If that jargon is confusing, here’s a quick breakdown: Brightness is a “white light” reflected both internally and externally; fire is the presence of colorful (or rainbow) sparkle; and scintillation is the amount of sparkle a diamond produces in general.

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color A structurally perfect white diamond has no hue. The degree of a diamond’s colorlessness is measured under controlled lighting and graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow), with colorless stones being the most valuable. As a general rule, a colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare (like green or red diamonds).

clarity The fewer impurities or inclusions a diamond has, the clearer and more expensive it is. Inclusions occur when the diamond crystallizes in the earth’s mantle. While there are treatments that can create a clearer stone, a “flawless” diamond is extremely rare. Similar to color, the clarity of a diamond is also measured on a scale. Diamonds that are graded in the SI1 and SI2 range are included but their imperfections are invisible to the naked eye.

carat Carats refer to the weight of the diamond. As the carat size increases, so does its rarity and price tag. But a diamond that has a bigger carat weight doesn’t necessarily mean it will look bigger. A diamond with a smaller carat size but a shallow cut may look larger than a diamond with a bigger carat size and a deeper cut. Size depends on not only the shape of the diamond, but the different mountings you choose—a halo will make a smaller stone appear larger, and so will a shape with more surface area, like a pear or emerald. Find out more about your diamond at TheKnot.com/rings

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Veils and other headpieces are an easy way to express your style. But with so many options to choose from, how do you know which one’s right for you? We broke down all the different styles, including the latest trends, with tips on how to wear them so you can uncover (sorry, we had to!) the perfect veil for your wedding look. >>

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birdcage Also known as a cage, this shorter style covers and frames just your face for a chic and minimalist statement. Most often it’s made out of wide net or sheer tulle—something you’ll easily be able to see through—and is finished with flirty accents like feathers, flowers or pearls. The trick to pulling off this less-traditional look is to let the edge of the veil fall just below the nose. PAIR IT WITH Cage veils were the height of fashion in the ’40s and ’50s, so that makes them the perfect match for retro-inspired dresses like swingy, tea-length gowns, structured sheaths and slinky, old-Hollywood-inspired slip gowns. They’re also a fun way to add a touch of vintage glam to a more modern look.

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blusher A blusher actually refers to the short, single layer of tulle, lace or netting that’s worn over the face and then flipped over the head or removed after you walk down the aisle. It comes in chin, shoulder or fingertip length and can be added to a variety of veil styles. But a blusher can also stand on its own. Choose one layer, or if that’s too simple, try a double-tiered style where you have two layers of tulle: one layer pulled over the face and the other draped behind your head. Whichever length or however many layers you choose, the veil should be fastened on the crown of your head. PAIR IT WITH A universal style, the blusher works with almost any type of gown. Wearing just the short layer gives off a chic, sophisticated air that lends itself to more fashion-forward dresses.

mantilla This Spanish-style veil almost always comes in either all lace or in tulle that features an intricate lace edge. Its circular shape is designed to gracefully drape down and frame the face on either side. To wear it the traditional way, attach it with an ornamental comb, or edge it up with a flower crown or tiara. PAIR IT WITH Allow the dramatic lace to take center stage and wear this romantic veil with sleeker silhouettes, gowns that have a minimal amount of adornment or embellishments, or dresses that have small touches of matching lace.

waltz Also sometimes called a ballet veil, this style falls between the knee and the ankle and is usually double layered and worn with a blusher. These veils exude elegance and formality and, because they don’t touch the floor, they’re short enough for a bride to comfortably dance and walk in—hence the name. PAIR IT WITH This style pairs well with formal yet fitted floorlength gowns and dresses without trains. >>

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One of the most popular lengths (even Kate Middleton sidestepped royal tradition and chose this shorter option), this veil falls below the hips and extends to—you guessed it—the fingertips. Secure this style, which is usually made up of several layers of tulle or netting, at the crown of your head, slightly behind it or, if your hair is up, just above your updo. PAIR IT WITH This versatile veil is beautiful with a wide range of dresses, but it looks particularly pretty with ball gowns and, since it puts the focus on the torso, dresses with more elaborate bodices. You may also want to consider pairing it with a cathedralor chapel-length veil—that way you can remove the longer one for the reception and leave the shorter, top layer in place.

Like its name implies, the fountain (also called a waterfall) is made up of several layers and gathered at the crown of the head to create a billowy, cascading effect around the face. Though you can find it in a variety of lengths, it works best when it grazes the shoulders or elbows. Since this style can add a few inches of height to your frame, petite brides might want to give it a try. PAIR IT WITH A bit more casual and fun, this statement-making option will go great with flirty dresses and shorter hemlines. Because it creates a lot of volume on top, you may also want to consider balancing that out with a fuller, more voluminous skirt.

elbow Slightly shorter than the fingertip, this veil extends 25 inches in length to the bride’s elbows. The more manageable length tends to be more versatile. It’s a nice complement to a simple silhouette, but it also won’t overpower a more showstopping gown. PAIR IT WITH An elbow-length style is perfect for brides who want the look of a longer veil but are wearing a gown with beautiful details on the lower half (like intricate buttons or tiered ruffles) they don’t want to cover up from view.

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Whether you wear your hair down and flowing or in a formal updo, you want a final detail to tie your whole look together. If a veil isn’t for you, there are plenty of other pretty options, from jeweled headbands and tiaras to a bohemian floral wreath or flirty fascinator.

bandeau This hot newcomer is a sexy take on the birdcage veil. Instead of covering the whole face, this narrower version of the cage masks only the eyes. Generally made from wide net, this unique style attaches to both sides of your head with decorative clips. Since it’s such a dramatic statement across your face, it looks best with a pulled back hairstyle like a low bun or chignon. PAIR IT WITH A gown that’s just as seductive as this look will do the trick—try one with sheer details, a plunging neckline or slinky silhouette. Or if you’re going for a retro look with an edgier vibe, a bandeau is just the right blend.

juliet cap There are two ways to wear this über-romantic style. You can either take a lace-trimmed veil and wear it as a cap, with the sides pinned back behind each ear, or attach a veil to a separate cap. PAIR IT WITH It’s perfect for a lacy gown with a vintage-inspired feel. Add some blooms behind one ear for an extra-sweet effect. S earch for more veils, headpieces and other wedding day extras at TheKnot.com/fashion

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7 flattering accessories Finally, a little retail therapy that can help elongate—and slim—your frame.

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Shoulder-skimming danglers can lengthen and thin out round or heart-shaped faces.

high heels

Every inch in heel height is equal to losing about two pounds. We did the math: Three-inch stilettos will shed six pounds off your frame— just make sure you can walk in them.

colorful sash

Draw attention to your natural waist with a darker sash. This trick works with any color of gown but is especially waist-defining on a white one.

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A bold necklace draws the eye to your center in a long, slimming line so you appear taller. Pendants are particularly flattering when they’re paired with gowns that have wide straps.

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Fingertip- and elbow-length veils are a beautiful choice for any bride, but keep in mind they can cut your body in half. If you’re looking to lengthen your figure, go for chapel- or cathedral-length styles that hit the floor instead.

strategic brooch

If you’re pear shaped and want to minimize the lower half of your body, a well-placed pin at your neckline will keep all eyes upward and focused on your best asset. Plus, vintageinspired brooches are hot right now.

strap-free sandals As we already mentioned, high heels will elongate your legs. The one caveat? Make sure to skip heels with ankle straps—they’ll make the lines of your legs appear shorter. In other words, those Mary Janes are definitely out.

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The mother of all veils, the cathedral is also the most formal. Sometimes referred to as the “royal veil”—it’s the veil of choice for countless princesses including Diana—this style falls about three and a half yards from the headpiece and is often worn in combination with a blusher and long train. Looking for something not quite so dramatic? Go for a chapel veil instead, which falls only two and a half yards from the top. PAIR IT WITH The sweeping cathedral can hold its own next to a billowing ball gown. As a rule of thumb, the veil should extend past the train, so if you’re wearing a cathedral veil, opt for a cathedral- or semi-cathedral-length train. For a chapel veil, go with a chapel-length or sweep train.

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Here are the very best ways to get lush lashes (that will stand up to happy tears), kissable lips and camera-ready skin. 1 WATERPROOF MASCARA

Voluminous waterproof mascara, $11, LorealParisUSA.com Don’t worry about tearing up during your ceremony: This mascara delivers tons of drama without the fear of raccoon eyes.

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Powder blush, $22, MACCosmetics.com The compact is generously sized and the shade selection doesn’t disappoint, with more than 50 options ranging from romantic to bold.

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Perfect Luminous liquid foundation, $61, DolceGabbana.com It’s got just enough coverage, but isn’t overly opaque. And its dewy finish looks amazing in photos.

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Individuals, $5, ArdellLashes.com Forget the strips! Add a few of these in a cluster along the lash line instead for a natural-looking way to fake it.

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Intensify Me liquid liner, $9, CoverGirl.com The paddle-shaped

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Eye shadow, $25, BobbiBrown Cosmetics.com These silky powders glide on lids, then stay put without creasing or fading.

8 LIPSTICK

Pop lip colour and primer, $18, Clinique.com Brights for the bachelorette, pinks for the wedding, corals for the honeymoon—this line is packed with shades that last.

9 BROW DEFINER

Sculpting eyebrow pencil, $29, Chanel.com Many pencils can look harsh, but not this one. The blendable color appears almost like a powder once it’s on.

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Amazing concealer, $42, Amazing Cosmetics.com It’s thick enough to obliterate dark circles and has enough staying power to keep stubborn zits hidden.

EYELASH CURLER

Relevée lash curler, $30, SurrattBeauty.com Squeeze, hold for a few seconds, then release to get a longlasting curl with zero tugging or pinching.

BRUSHES

Sonia Kashuk brushes, from $11, Target.com These sleek tools may be budget friendly, but trust us: The ultra-soft bristles hold their own against any brand out there.

PALETTE

Illume Sheer Color trio, $62, Hourglass Cosmetics.com We instantly fell for these three creams: a natural-looking bronzer, a peachy blush and a flattering highlighter. It’s an all-in-one, honeymoon-friendly compact.

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tip of this marker-like liner makes it easy to draw an expertlooking swoop.

LIP GLOSS

Color Elixir lip color, $9, Maybelline.com The color payoff, nonsticky feel and pretty shine is on par with highend formulas. >>

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BRONZER

Hoola matte bronzer, $29, BenefitCosmetics.com Sweep this sparkle-free powder across your chin, cheeks and forehead for a subtle, natural glow.

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TALK ABOUT BEAUTY AND BRAINS: A PROFESSOR AT MIT HELPED DEVELOP THIS HAIR CARE LINE

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1 ANTI-FRIZZ SERUM

$ BUDGET PICK

Sleek & Shine antifrizz serum, $6, GarnierUSA.com Even the most humid honeymoon destination is no match for this frizz fighter. Work a few drops through hair to keep the fuzzies at bay for hours.

2 HAIR SPRAY Superfine hair spray, $33, Oribe.com Mighty enough to hold an updo

in place, but still flexible enough for a down ’do, this ultrafine mist is our go-to spray for any hairstyle.

3 SHAMPOO & CONDITIONER

Perfect Hair Day shampoo and conditioner, $25 each, LivingProof.com Whatever your hair type, this sulfate-free duo leaves it soft, smooth and full. One of our testers even called it “life changing.” We’re sold.

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4 VOLUMIZER

Luxurious Volume fine to full blowout spray, $10, JohnFrieda.com Want your hair to have Victoria’sSecret-model-level volume? Then this bodifying mist is for you. The fine-haired among us swear by it.

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Brilliant Glossing crème, $20, Fekkai.com We’re obsessed with this cult favorite’s ability to hydrate,

tame and even add shine to the most unruly hair. Plus, the formula is super effective but won’t weigh down your locks or feel greasy.

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Bb. Curl defining crème, $31, Bumble andBumble.com Curly girls, meet your new BFF. This rich, curl-defining cream will have you falling in love with your natural texture all over again. Just rake through your wet hair and go.

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DRY SHAMPOO

Fresh Start dry shampoo, $5, TRESemme.com One spritz at the roots and this light mist will perk up limp locks without any residue.

HAND CREAM

Shea Butter hand cream, $12, LOccitane.com Prep your hands for all those #ringselfies with this intensely nourishing cream.

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Almond Coconut Milk scrub, $50, LauraMercier.com This thick scrub sloughs away rough patches and smells like dessert.

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Dry Oil Moisture nourishing body wash, $6, Dove.us The tiny bursts of argan oil in this rich formula leave skin super hydrated, so you won’t need to use lotion afterward.

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Outlast Xtend antiperspirant gel, $5, Secret.com Wedding planning stress is no match for this deodorant. Swipe it on for major odor control.

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Flash bronzer, $42, Lancome-USA.com The bronze-colored lotion lets you see exactly where to apply it, so there’s no danger of streaks.

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Ultra Sheer DryTouch sunscreen SPF 55, $10, Neutrogena.com This fast-absorbing protector won’t leave a ghostly white residue behind. >>

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Instant nail polish remover, $10, Sephora.com Simply dip your fingertip inside and twist it back and forth. The built-in

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Formula X Shine nail topcoat, $11, Sephora.com Keep your nails photo ready with this clear polish. It delivers a shiny finish that lasts for days.

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All About That Base CC base coat, $20, Deborah Lippmann.com This nifty formula strengthens and primes nails.

5 DRYING DROPS

$ BUDGET PICK

Complete Salon Manicure Dry & Go Drops, $8, SallyHansen.com These drops cut drying time dramatically—ideal for a busy bride.

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Crème Abricot Fortifying Cream for Nails, $27, Dior.com Oils can be messy but this cream keeps cuticles soft without a greasy residue. >>

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Nail Polish in Ballet Slippers, $9, Essie.com There’s a reason why this polish is a bridal staple: Its pale pink shade is universally flattering and works in any season.

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Anthelios face sunscreen SPF 45, $30, LaRoche-Posay.us Stay safe by wearing SPF every day. This one feels invisible on skin.

Get ready for your close-up. A gorgeous wedding day glow starts with these finds.

2 MOISTURIZER   Hydro Boost gel, $19, Neutrogena.com This airy gel quenches dry skin with a hefty dose of hyaluronic acid.

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Phloretin CF Gel, $163, SkinCeuticals.com With this powerhouse blend of antioxidants, skinharming free radicals don’t have a chance.

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Truth Sugar Glow polishing mask, $42, OleHenriksen.com Loaded with sugar, pomegranate and pumpkin, this scrub sloughs off dead skin like nothing else.

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Acne spot treatment, $18, Murad.com Here, two acne fighters (sulfur and salicylic acid) team up to destroy zits.

THIS SUGARY SCRUB DOESN’T JUST SMELL AMAZING, IT INSTANTLY BRIGHTENS SKIN

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Yes to Cucumbers towelettes, $6, YestoCarrots.com These handy wipes whisk away dirt and makeup faster and more thoroughly than any fancy brand out there. >>

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Decadence, $95 for 1.7 oz., MarcJacobs.com An exotic combo of plum, saffron and amber, this perfume screams bachelorette party.

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Mediterranean Honeysuckle, $110 for 1.7 oz., AERIN.com This lush, sexy blend of honeysuckle,

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La Vie Est Belle Intense, $110 for 1.7 oz., Lancome-USA.com Floral notes are wrapped with spicy patchouli and a decadent twist of hazelnut for a warm scent that’s just a little bit mysterious.

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Knot Eau Florale, $125 for 1.7 oz., BottegaVeneta.com This might be the perfect bridal scent. Notes of rose and peony are soft and feminine, mandarin adds freshness, and musk rounds it out with a sultry feel.

5 ROMANTIC $ BUDGET PICK

Embrace, $30 each, VeraWang.com

The fragrances in this trio (two shown) may cost only $30 each, but the combos are sophisticated and totally elegant.

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Lime Basil & Mandarin, $65 for 1 oz., JoMalone.com Lime, basil and thyme make for the crispest scent ever.

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Coco Mademoiselle, $94 for 1.7 oz., Chanel.com This distinct combination of citrus, floral and woodsy notes is luxe and totally unforgettable.

Read about our runner-ups, our editors’ fave products and more at TheKnot.com/beautyawards

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crown braid Equal parts bohemian and regal, a tousled crown braid is the best of both worlds. If you don’t want to lose the ornate look of a headpiece with this effortless style, weave in fresh blooms or add delicate, mismatched hairpins to give the plaited portion of this updo some extra flair. Another thought: Try it with balayage highlights or ombré hair to make it stand out even more. TOOLS

Blow-dryer, heat protectant spray, 1.25-inch curling wand, clear elastics, bobby pins, hair spray, braided hair extensions (optional)

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1 A fter blow-drying, apply a heat protectant and loosely wave your whole head of hair with a curling wand. 2 Separate out the front sections of your hair to frame your face. 3 Start a loose, three-strand braid from behind one of your ears, taking hair in as you progress. The braid should loop over the top of your head and end on the other side. Secure it at the end with an elastic and tuck the end inside the braid on the head. 4 If you don’t have enough hair for a substantial braid, braid a hair extension and pin it to your hair, hiding the ends underneath. Finish the look with hair spray. >>

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Perfect for a minimalistic bridal look, a sleek half updo is edgy but still polished. Keep your hair accessories sparse with this style and let its fashion-forward feel do all the talking. If you’re going for a more formal look, just add a simple cut-edge veil.

One of the hottest hair trends right now is volume, and our favorite interpretation is big, bouncy curls. This style works best with curly or wavy hair. The key to looking current is to work with your natural texture to keep it smooth and shiny—but not too perfect.

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Mousse, volumizing spray, blow-dryer, medium round brush, hair bungee, hair elastics, hair spray HOW TO

1 Apply mousse and a volumizing spray at the roots and blow-dry hair using a medium round brush. 2 Section off the top of your hair, starting at the front of your hairline and ending just in front of the crown of your head. 3 Pull the rest of your hair into a ponytail just below your crown and secure it with an elastic bungee. 4 Back comb half-inch sections on the top of your head to add volume. Then, smooth this section backward. Once you have the height and shape you like, use an elastic to join the tail of the top section to the lower ponytail. Finish with hair spray.

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Curl-defining cream, blow-dryer, shine mist, 1-inch curling iron, styling cream, anti-humidity hair spray HOW TO

1 Prep hair by applying a curl cream when damp to tame volume and eliminate frizz. Blow-dry hair and lightly spray with a shine mist to protect hair from heat and add a healthy sheen. 2 Put your hair in a deep side part and then curl the hair away from the face using a curling iron. Put a pea-size amount of styling cream on each section of hair before you use the iron for smoothness and shine. 3 Let your curls cool, then turn your head upside down and rake through your curls with your fingers. 4 Finish with more shine mist and an anti-humidity hair spray. >>

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get the best hair and makeup team How to assemble the perfect people for your day-of bridal beauty.

stick with who you know

Use your tried-and-true aesthetician, makeup artist and stylist. They know your hair, skin type and personality, which eliminates any possible room for error.

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windswept chignon A slicked-back, traditional chignon may sound a bit severe, but this style has strategically pulled-out loose strands that frame the face to give it a much softer, more romantic vibe. TOOLS

Heat protectant spray, hot rollers, hair brush, bobby pins, hair pins, teasing comb, hair spray HOW TO

1 Apply heat protectant and set your hair in hot rollers. Once the rollers have cooled, take them out and brush through curls with your head upside down, to create volume. 2 Section off your bangs from ear to ear and pin them back. 3 Gather your remaining hair into a loose bun at the center of the back of your head, securing the ends with pins. 4 Tease the remaining bang sections at the root and use your fingers to incorporate them into the rest of your hair, securing with bobby pins where necessary. Finish with hair spray.

If you want a new pro or don’t have a list of favorites yet, browse local magazines and websites; they often print “best-of” lists.

study each trial run

Put your potential pro to the test. Schedule trial runs and take pictures and notes of each hair and makeup session. Then use your cheat sheet to narrow down your choices and pick a favorite.

search for a one-stop shop

Choose a salon or spa where you can get everything done at one time. This way all your beauty pros can be on the same page.

stay on top of new trends

Talk to your professional crew about incorporating the latest and greatest treatments and products into your primping routine.

keep an open mind

Even though you may have a clear idea of what you want, a seasoned stylist will know what works best.

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Another tip: It’s perfectly okay to ask for help leading up to your wedding. You may have a type A personality, but enlisting friends and family can make the process easier and more meaningful. Your loved ones will likely be thrilled to give their opinions and help out, so don’t be afraid to speak up.

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love your locks Before you meet with your hairstylist, have a consistent plan in place to ensure your hair will be wedding ready. “The last thing you want is a cut that doesn’t look the way you envisioned it, highlights that don’t work with your skin tone, or a conditioning treatment that leaves your hair greasy,” says Samantha Lawrence, owner of Chromatique Salon. Use a high-quality shampoo, conditioner and hair mask to give your locks the luxe treatment, and get regular trims to prevent split ends. >>

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maintain your focus with meditation “Practice meditation to stay present and enjoy each moment,” says Jane Ehrman, a mind/body medicine specialist and owner of Images of Wellness. There are no rules for where and when to do it—just focusing 10 minutes a day on your breathing (which is called mindfulness meditation) can make positive changes and improve your concentration. “Meditation is called a practice because it’s not going to be perfect every time,” Ehrman says. “It teaches you to focus on one thing, be patient with yourself and get out of your own head.” When you’re focused and calm, you don’t run the risk of missing those special wedding day moments you want to remember.

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get that glow Make an appointment with your dermatologist early in your engagement (six months is reasonable) to achieve that bridal glow. “You don’t want to wait until the last minute if you’re dealing with acne, enlarged pores or sensitive skin,” says Michele S. Green, MD, a board-certified dermatologist. “Make sure you have enough time for several treatments if need be.”

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remove these three Ds from your vocabulary Looking and feeling your best while planning shouldn’t involve crash dieting, detoxing or depriving yourself. “Wedding planning is stressful enough, and you don’t want your eating habits to add to it,” says Amy Gannon, MEd, RD, LD. “Taking a healthy, balanced approach to eating doesn’t have to mean changing up your diet all at once—that’s hard to keep up. Stick to specific goals, like incorporating more whole grains or adding in a vegetable to every meal.” Lean protein, fruits, whole grains and starchy vegetables are your best bets for feeling satisfied and keeping your energy up. Find more tips for feeling your best at TheKnot.com

zen zone have a daily reflection of intent

take a step back

An intent—a positive principle you set for how you want your surroundings and yourself to be—is a valuable tool. Some intents could be: Approach any challenge with a calm and positive manner, be present and mindful in the decision-making process, and look for the best in others.

Wedding tasks, like putting together your guest list, can get stressful. “Meditation can help you take a step back and enjoy the big picture with a bit of detachment,” says Lynne Goldberg, a meditation coach in Toronto and founder of OMG. I Can Meditate! You’ll also be able to deal with others’ perspectives a little easier and get to know how each other’s family communicates.

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It can be hard to think clearly, especially when everyone is adding their two cents. Take five minutes a day to meditate to give your mind a chance to settle down. “When you shake a snow globe, all you see are flakes of snow. But when you let it sit for a minute, it clears up and you can see the landscape underneath—the true picture,” Goldberg says. With a clear mind, complicated topics can be met with innovative fixes.

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Try not to get caught up in what’s ahead and take in moments you’re experiencing now. “Meditating during this time will help you enjoy it as it’s happening.” Goldberg says.

When you both have time, you and your soon-to-be spouse can take a few quiet minutes to recharge. “Meditate together for 5 to 20 minutes to relax and quiet your minds, and then take turns sharing whatever is challenging, exciting or important to you,” says Tara Brach, a meditation teacher and wedding officiant. “Speak and listen from the heart.” This ensures you’re both being honest and that you’re on the same page throughout the entire process—no matter what situations may arise.

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PLANTERS INN WHY HERE Situated in the heart of the Historic District, this restored 1844 building (the only Relais & Châteaux property in South Carolina) is brimming with romantic relics. Each of its 64 rooms are outfitted with four-poster beds, custom crown molding and etchings by the late Charleston native Elizabeth O’Neill Verner. Along with the intimate Charleston Room and the fabric-paneled Garden Room, which is large enough for 120 guests, it’s also the only hotel in the city that has a bloom-filled courtyard Planters Inn

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available for private events ($2,500 venue fee for Garden Room and Courtyard, $500 ceremony fee, PlantersInn.com). SWEET DEAL The hotel’s velvet-walled Peninsula Grill is famous for its 12-layer coconut cake. Do right by your guests by serving the scrumptious confection at your reception.

head up to the rooftop terrace at sunset for stunning 360-degree views of the city (ceremony fee from $250 depending on guest count, WentworthMansion.com). SPECIAL SEND-OFF Let the in-house wedding coordinator arrange a horsedrawn carriage to take you on a private ride through Charleston’s historic streets after the reception.

WENTWORTH MANSION WHY HERE This brick beauty, built by a cotton baron in 1886, was meticulously renovated in 1997 and now has 21 uniquely decorated rooms, some with original gas fireplaces and plush daybeds. Gather up to 50 of your nearest and dearest and marry outside on a storybook lawn shaded by a massive oak tree. For smaller events,

THE SANCTUARY AT KIAWAH ISLAND GOLF RESORT WHY HERE Despite opening a mere 12 years ago, this 255-room resort has the feel of a centuries-old seaside mansion. It’s located on a barrier island, just 21 miles outside Charleston, and is known for its unspoiled beaches and peachy-pink sunsets. The property’s waterfront grounds are dotted with towering live oak trees, and its ceremony and event sites, which can accommodate up to 350 people, seem limitless. Looking for a casual indoor setting? Check out one of the golf course clubhouses, some of which have wraparound verandas perfect for cocktail hour. Have a fancier affair in mind? Go with one of The Sanctuary’s three lavishly appointed ballrooms. For alfresco vows, you can’t do better than the resort’s slip of private beach right on the Atlantic (from $1,500 for rental space; $4,000 food and beverage minimum, KiawahResort.com).

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Visit this genteel Southern belle of a city, and you’ll swear you’ve stepped back in time. Pastel-colored 19th-century mansions line cobblestone streets, and horse-drawn carriages sweep past lush, magnolia-draped gardens. But the city is hardly stuck in time—hip boutique hotels, innovative restaurants and a serious cocktail culture have made Charleston one of the most coveted wedding spots in the country.


ACTIVITIES GALORE The Sanctuary also excels at organizing private outings for you and your guests, including kayaking trips through surrounding sea grasses, a nature walking tour and some precious R&R time at the resort’s spa.

florida The pulsating Latin beats of sultry Miami. The quiet, untouched islands off the scenic Gulf Coast. The childlike wonder of Walt Disney World. It’s not an overstatement to say that the Sunshine State has something for everyone, brides and grooms especially.

FAENA HOTEL MIAMI BEACH WHY HERE Embracing a mantra of “sunny days and sexy nights,” Faena opened to much fanfare in late 2016. Housed in the former Saxony Hotel, a posh Hollywood hangout in the ’50s and ’60s, this latest

reincarnation has retained some of that movie magic: The Great Gatsby director Baz Luhrmann and Oscar-winning costume designer Catherine Martin were tapped to create a theatrical, old-Hollywood ambience throughout the property’s 169 rooms (think: art deco furnishings, blue-tiled bathrooms and red velvet curtains). The hotel also has an impressive art collection, and to that end, couples can wed in front of the buzzy Damien Hirst sculpture “Gone But Not Forgotten,” a 10-foot-tall gilded woolly mammoth skeleton. Afterward, move everyone inside the opulently appointed Faena Theater for dinner and dancing (from $325 per person, Faena.com). SIGNATURE SIPPER During cocktail hour, serve the hotel’s Faena Spritz, made with vodka, Perrier-Jouët Grand Brut, Aperol, rose water and hibiscus. Not only is it delicious, it also has an apropos romantic rosy hue. Cheers! Faena Hotel Miami Beach

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FOUR SEASONS RESORT ORLANDO AT WALT DISNEY WORLD WHY HERE A decidedly elegant, grown-up resort in the heart of Disney, the massive 443-room property boasts an adults-only swimming pool, state-of-theart spa, scenic golf club and no less than six restaurants (including the excellent rooftop steak house Capa). Say “I do” in one of two sunlight-flooded ballrooms or next to a lagoon on the well-manicured lawn outside ($199 per guest, max of 550 guests, FourSeasons.com). MAGIC MOMENT Thanks to the Four Seasons’s close relationship with Disney, they can arrange private character meetand-greets, so Mickey and Minnie could pop by your reception.

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back Gulf Coast, this 471-room resort on Captiva Island (once home to a Key lime plantation) overlooks turquoise waters and a boat-filled marina. Also on offer at the 330-acre property: nearly 20 swimming pools, waterfront trails made for bicycling, and group adventures such as fishing, snorkeling, kayaking and stand-up paddleboarding. Whether you wed in a toes-inthe-sand ceremony or a black-tie bash in the indoor-outdoor reception hall, be sure to take advantage of the spectacular photo ops on the palm-tree-studded King’s Crown Lawn (site fees from $2,000; $175 per guest, SouthSeas.com). >>

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DAY TRIP Captiva Island boasts more than 250 species of shells, and the socalled “shelling concierge” at the resort will arrange leisurely treks along the two and a half miles of mollusk-abundant beaches for your party ($20 per person, SouthSeas.com).

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hawaii Tropical jungles, magical ocean vistas, a deeply rooted island culture—these are just some of the reasons why couples should consider a Hawaiian wedding. The Aloha State’s relaxed vibe might also relieve prewedding jitters, so much so that your day will feel like the beginning of your honeymoon—for you and your guests.

your wedding day with macadamia-nut pancakes, drizzled with coconut syrup, and whale-watching from your balcony. Or maybe it’s the list of activities and excursions—bamboo-pole and thrownet fishing classes, horseback riding and sunrise yoga—available to your guests. In any case, couples have their choice of awe-inspiring backdrops from which to say “I do,” from an ocean-facing garden to a sleek open-air lanai (events from $2,500, plus $100 food and beverage minimum per guest, Travaasa.com).

TRAVAASA HANA WHY HERE In décor and atmosphere, Travaasa honored Hawaii’s golden era before massive, U-shaped hotels with little relationship to their lush surroundings dominated the coastline. On this 66-acre Maui resort, fresh from a $12 million renovation, cottage terraces, an infinity pool and yoga pavilions open up to the mighty Pacific. It’s hard to pinpoint what makes this property so alluring, especially for to-be-weds. It could be kicking off

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PREWEDDING PREP Sign up for the Hana Couple’s Escape package for some prewedding prep and indulge in an organic saltwater foot soak, full-body massage and invigorating scalp treatment.

ANDAZ MAUI AT WAILEA RESORT WHY HERE Maui’s latest property impresses from the moment you step foot into the lobby. The minimalist, Asianinspired aesthetic immediately draws your eyes to the open-air back wall overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where you can take turns gazing at the distant islands of Lanai and Molokini through a telescope. For an equally breathtaking setting for your vows, marry on the Nohea lawn, which faces the resort’s tiered infinity pools and the sparkling waters of the Pacific. As for dinner, count on a menu that spotlights locally sourced produce from nearby Ono Organic Farms. There are 297 rooms, but couples looking for a private hideaway should book one of the resort’s villas, outfitted with plunge pools, oceanfront lanais and soaking tubs. There’s also a VIP concierge and, on request, a private chef (from $8,500, Maui.Andaz.Hyatt.com). LOCAL FLAVOR After hitting the dance floor, guests will love cooling off

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with a shaved ice. Andaz partners with island retailers, such as the locally loved Ululani’s, to set up a food station dedicated to the fruit-syrup-flavored treats.

FOUR SEASONS LANAI WHY HERE Set on a rocky red cliff

amid its own golden-sand beach, the Four Seasons is the first luxury property to open on Lanai, once called Pineapple Island for its former isle-spanning pineapple plantation. There are 217 rooms, each with beautifully designed mahogany floors and lanais or balconies with ocean or garden views. More than 10 event spaces, including an elegant library, tropical gardens and the stunning Hulopoe Ballroom, are available for weddings (from $8,500, FourSeasons.com). WEDDING PARTY BONDING Arrange a morning yoga class on the beach with your bridal or groom party.

california wine country If your idea of a destination wedding centers around family, friends, good food and lots and lots of vino, this sliver of the West Coast was made for you. Lovely hotels and resorts are planted among vinecovered vistas, and winery tours, smalltown main streets and fir-shaded hiking trails make the region an enticing option for outdoor lovers.

making it official on the ranch’s picturesque grounds, dine under the stars with up to 150 guests at long tables set beneath strands of twinkling lights. Rent out the whole property for the weekend—the ranch can accommodate up to 16 overnighters (from $12,500, BeltaneRanch.com). WINE AND DINE Engaged couples can look forward to a bottle of Beltane Ranch wine, fresh flowers grown on the property and a seasonal selection of local cheeses in their rooms.

cheese-making class or a hot air balloon ride high above the valley’s vineyards ($8,000 site fee for Saturday, discounted site fee rates for Friday/Sunday, $200+ per person for food and beverage, SolageCalistoga.com).

SOLAGE CALISTOGA WHY HERE Laid-back luxury is the

name of the game at this resort in Napa Valley, where 89 earth-toned studio suites with French doors are scattered across 22 acres. The Solage has a multitude of event spaces—including a poolside patio, trellised terraces and an expansive lawn framed by the Palisades Mountains—that can hold anywhere from 10 to 200 guests. Cocktail-hour bites and dinner menus come courtesy of chef Brandon Sharp, who helms the hotel’s Michelin-starred restaurant Solbar. Activities abound too: Facilitate wedding guest bonding with a

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complimentary cruiser bikes decorated with a hand-painted “Just Married” sign for a sweet portrait of you and your new spouse.

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BELTANE RANCH WHY HERE This quaint bed-and-breakfast in Sonoma Valley is surrounded by idyllic acres of orchards, pastures and gardens. Foodie couples will have a blast coming up with the reception menu, which highlights the wine, olive oil and produce that’s created on-site. Give the owners plenty of notice and they’ll plant fruits and vegetables of your choosing that can be harvested before your wedding. After

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them into private cottages and Provençeinspired maisons, and an iconic hotel was born. Today, it’s still one of the area’s most elegant and exclusive places to rest your head, with 33 sunlit acres awash in olive groves, and rooms appointed with fireplaces and private terraces offering sweeping views. Up to 120 guests can watch you wed on a wood terrace with panoramic views of Napa Valley before heading to one of the fabric-draped private dining rooms (from $5,000, AubergeDuSoleil.AubergeResorts.com). LATE-NIGHT SNACK Before calling it a night, have the hotel set up a s’mores station with house-made graham crackers, French marshmallows and dark chocolate displayed on a dramatic fire table.

nevada Sure, you can design a wedding weekend in Las Vegas that kicks off with poolside spritzers and ends with a craps-tablebound after-party. But you can just as easily plan a more refined affair with tasting menus, wine pairings and a 12-piece band. Whatever your vision, the magic makers in Vegas can make it happen. If you’re more the great-outdoors type, head north to Lake Tahoe—the 122,624-acre lake and surrounding Sierra Nevada Mountains make for a jawdropping setting to tie the knot.

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THE COSMOPOLITAN WHY HERE This Sin City skyscraper may have nearly 3,000 rooms, but get married here, and you’ll feel like the only party in town. Perhaps that’s because of The Cosmopolitan’s crew of wedding managers who make it their mission to plan unique, avant-garde nuptials. Say your “I dos” on a balcony overlooking the city lights or inside at the twinkling Chandelier bar. When it comes to nuptials, the venue encourages creativity, like adorning wedding arches with giant paper flowers or showcasing live music performances instead of the wedding march (from $3,500, CosmopolitanLasVegas.com). FUN FAVORS Request the hotel’s signature wedding treats—miniature handcrafted chocolate wedding dresses— as a sweet send-off to guests. The Ridge Tahoe

for creating atmospheres of serenity, and nowhere is this more true, surprisingly, than Las Vegas. While it’s located in the city’s newer and eco-minded CityCenter complex, the Mandarin Oriental is a non-gaming, smoke-free property, so it’s ideal for couples who want access to the Vegas scene while marrying in a hotel known for its refinement. Celebrate by the eighth-floor pool, or plan a formal dinner party that starts with passed champagne in the 23rd-floor Mandarin Bar and moves to the ballroom overlooking the neon lights of the Strip (from $240 per person, MandarinOriental.com). PHOTO OP Looking for an Insta-worthy photo backdrop? Request pictures in front of the resort’s infamous gold wall.

THE RIDGE TAHOE WHY HERE Set on a ridge in the Sierra Nevadas near the lake’s south shore, Ridge Tahoe is a scenic mountain escape any time of year. The property has 302 rooms, ranging from one-bedroom units to two-bedroom condos, as well as a health club (free for guests), indoor and outdoor swimming pools, and a full-service spa. Say your vows from the perch of a 7,500-foot-high deck or head to the water for a shoreside ceremony. Or hold your wedding in the Castle Rock Event Space, which just underwent a $2 million renovation (from $4,695, RidgeTahoeResort.com). WINTER WONDERLAND Book the venue during colder months and marry under evergreens heavy with snow. Greet guests with peppermint sticks and Belgian hot cocoa so they’ll stay toasty.

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motif Pineapples popped up on everything from the invitation suite to the tabletops, while lawn flamingos held signage around the resort venue. flowers To accent the blackand-white patterns on the linens and signs, Kendall requested magenta, deep red and dark green blooms and foliage. “Our florist did the most amazing job of having our flowers both blend with the natural surroundings yet pop in bouquets and on display tables,” she says. ceremony Kendall and Andrew married under a wood pergola next to the ocean in a traditional ceremony officiated by the bride’s uncle. “Mother Nature provided the most beautiful backdrop,” she says.

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reception After cocktails along the marina, guests moved to a transparent tent filled with long feasting tables covered with patterned table runners and bright blooms. “I wanted it to feel like a summer night underneath the stars,” Kendall says. advice “Businesses in the Florida Keys reflect that laid-back vibe,” Kendall says. “Trust that your vendors will show up and perform on the day. All of ours exceeded our expectations—it couldn’t have been more perfect.”

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ceremony A curtain backdrop with flowers hung from twine framed the couple as they wed in the vineyard. Guests kept cool with cream, twinewrapped fans. florals Peachy-pink and apricothued blooms accented the green foliage in Shelby’s bouquet and the boutonnieres.

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location Though Napa Valley offers no shortage of beautiful venues, Shelby and Nelson fell in love with the private estate’s gardens, courtyard and the fact they could get married right in the vineyard. stationery A charcoal-toned vintage map of the valley decorated the lining of the invitation envelopes, and Shelby sourced vintage botanical stamps from a stamp dealer in nearby Carmel, California.

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the fall harvest, the couple concentrated on local fruits and vegetables for the reception dinner, which included baby artichokes, heirloom radishes and artisan cheeses. drinks Both signature cocktails included

fruit jams blended with gin or whiskey and fresh herbs. attire Nelson added texture to his peak lapel, midnight-blue tuxedo with a velvet bow tie, while Shelby paired her ivory silk gown with loose curls “appropriate for an outdoor wedding.�

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get a wedding budget system Put your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money going in and out for your wedding day. The easiest way? The Knot Budget Calculator, which automatically estimates how much you should be spending on everything from music to bridesmaid gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Or you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet. Just make sure you record every payment you make and who you owe what.

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“Plan to come in a little under your desired budget—things add up quickly and it’s very easy to end up spending more.” —Shannon Whitney Anson of Wedding Planning Plus in Albany

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explore hidden wedding costs and extras Knowing all of the costs for your wedding up front will guarantee your budget can actually cover all the details. But remember: There are extras you may not think about until you’re closer to the day. Here’s what you should consider: avoid overtime If the party’s hopping, those extra 45 minutes after your reception was supposed to end may whiz by, but you’ll probably pay dearly in overtime costs for everyone from the photographer and the caterer to the venue manager. If you suspect the wedding may go long, work overtime costs into your budget— if you don’t use it, it’ll be a nice surprise chunk of cash. factor in tips From the sexton who cleans the church to the hotel steward who delivers your welcome bags, even conservative tipping can add hundreds to your wedding cost. Make sure to account for these tips in your initial budget. remember that trials aren’t always free A florist’s demo may be gratis the first time, but if you make repeated changes, you risk being billed. Also, take your trial hairstyle into consideration. It’s going to cost you, so make sure to include it in your hair budget. don’t forget the little stuff Things like stamps for the RSVP cards, ribbons for the favors and marriage license fees seem so small that you can shrug them off, but like any costs, they add up. Going just over budget in a couple categories with a vague plan of making it up somewhere else can push you past your limit. >>

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band equipment An extra-large venue may call for additional (and pricey) speakers.

postage stamps

Oversize and oddly shaped invites can cost a lot more to mail.

coat check

Union rules may dictate the number of people needed to work it as well as their fees.

rental deliveries

Drop-off and pickup fees usually aren’t included in the price for table and chair rentals.

gratuities

The service fee your venue may charge you is in addition to the tips you should be giving banquet managers and service staff.

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Your venue’s servers have to cut and plate each slice, which can be an additional cost.

welcome-bag delivery

Some hotels might tack on a fee of several dollars per bag delivery.

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plan to go over your wedding budget If you account for budget overages, then you never actually blow your budget. Try to earmark 5 percent of your budget for unforeseen costs. These are some areas where you might go over: flowers You may have a last-minute realization that something you haven’t considered needs to be decorated, or there may be a request that an additional family member wear a boutonniere or corsage. weather-related expenses It’s best to be prepared for any unforeseeable weather on your day. Have umbrellas for a rainy day, space heaters if it’s unseasonably cool and additional shade if it’s particularly hot or humid outside. small accidents Life happens! Your gown may need a last-minute spot removal, something could break in the days before the ceremony, or your menus might get damp and need to get reprinted. Bottom line: Have wiggle room in your budget for emergencies.

Take advantage of budgeting and money management tricks along the way. Put all your wedding money in one separate account, so you can easily track it without getting it confused with the rest of your day-to-day funds. Pay for as many of your expenses as possible on a credit card that gives you benefits. Make sure everyone making purchases (your fiancé, your mom and so on) are all on the same card system, allowing you to benefit from the rewards and also from the easy tracking of your purchases. Use The Knot Budgeter tool at TheKnot.com/budgeter

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where not to skimp All the places that are worth the splurge.

the photographer

Trust us—you don’t want a wedding album filled with blurry photos. A good professional photographer knows what moments to capture: the rings, the cake, the classic photo of the two of you holding hands. They’ll also be able to work the crowd.

the dress

You don’t need to spend an exorbitant amount of money on a dress to look beautiful on your wedding day, but your gown should fit you like a glove. Find a good tailor to ensure the ideal fit and flaunt all of your best assets.

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the music

Hiring a DJ simply because he charges less than others or recruiting your friend’s band might not be the best bets for your wedding. Splurging on a great band or DJ who will have you and all your guests dancing throughout the night is truly money well spent.

the food

Serving cafeteria food will make your guests remember your reception for all the wrong reasons. Eliminate a course or offer less expensive options—the food at your wedding should be about quality and not quantity.

the bouquet

Your bouquet is the one floral purchase you shouldn’t hold back on—it will be your most photographed arrangement. Consider it a part of your look, which means that it shouldn’t be a scaled down version of what you really want.

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what not to overlook before you book When you think you’ve finally found the place you’re going to get married, it’s easy to breathe a sigh of relief, pop some champagne and sign a contract. But before you do, take a step back and make sure you don’t look past these crucial questions. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY MILANES PHOTOGRAPHY

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is there enough space?

how good is the lighting?

This may seem incredibly obvious, but who hasn’t been to a wedding where guests could have used just a little bit more elbow room? It’s worth noting that just because the space officially holds 150 people, that doesn’t mean it will have enough room for 150 people to comfortably eat, drink and dance, especially once the buffet, bars and other equipment is set up. The best venues have separate areas for you to have your ceremony (if you’re having it at the same place as your reception), cocktail hour, dinner, dancing and possibly a low-key area to lounge. The best way to accurately assess the size of a site? Ask to take a peek at the space when another wedding (with an equivalent guest list size and style of party— sit-down, buffet and so on) is all set up. Two general rules of thumb to follow: Leave three to five square feet for every person expected on the dance floor at one time, and have one bar set up for every 50 people (although you can get away with fewer if the bars are long and you have more than one person serving at each). Of course, if you’re dreaming of having your wedding at your favorite cozy little Italian restaurant—with one bathroom, three booths and approximately two feet of extra floor space—you can always work backward and tailor your guest list to match.

If you’re marrying during the day, make sure your hall has plenty of windows—because who wants to spend six hours in a dark room when the sun is shining? If it’s an evening event, confirm the room isn’t too dim, or that the lighting can be controlled for the big entrance, dinner and dancing. If you’re marrying outdoors at dusk, ask if you can set up candles to provide a soft glow. It’s also helpful to visit the site at the time of day you’ve planned your wedding. A candlelit ballroom may look romantic at night, but you may be surprised by the sight of that 30-year-old brocade carpet during the light of day.

is there enough parking? Make sure the site is near a spacious enough parking lot or garage, or a big, empty (safe) street where it’s legal for your guests to park. If parking is a problem, look for other ways to get everyone to the party.

are you allowed to BYOB? If you want microbrews or wines from the vineyard in California you visited on that amazing vacation, ask about the BYOB policy now. That way, you won’t be disappointed when they say you’re not allowed to choose your brands or bring in your own bottles. >>

4 unexpected places you can actually get married For a memorable event, consider a ceremony or reception venue that’s entirely out of the norm.

converted buildings

Wedding venues are popping up all across the country in buildings that at one time had an entirely different use, like former warehouses, monasteries and factories—even airplane hangars and Civil War hospitals. Some converted buildings are now run by event companies that have all the amenities built right into your contract. TIP If you’re working in a space where events aren’t typically held, consider hiring an event designer or coordinator to help pull off your vision and all of the elements, like deciding where the dance floor will go, which would usually be taken care of by venue staff.

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tree houses

Yes, you read that right. You can actually get married in a tree house. Typically, these are cottages on stilts in the middle of a forest with lodging for a few people and stunning views of the woods from up high. Talk about taking the woodland wedding theme to new heights! The perks of getting married in a tree house (aside from the fact you get to tell people you got married in a tree house) are the intimacy and seclusion of saying your vows way out in the woods— and all the photo ops, of course. TIP Plan a rustic camping-inspired wedding weekend full of activities, like hiking and campfires.

historic libraries

It’s time to change any associations of libraries with long, boring study hours and the constant clicking of fingers on keyboards. Iconic libraries make the perfect backdrop for a timeless wedding. Getting married in a library offers historic charm with the added bonus of being surrounded by thousands of classic romance stories. TIP Take inspiration from your favorite novels to plan your library wedding. It doesn’t get more glamorous than a ’20s art-deco affair inspired by The Great Gatsby, or channel the Harlem Renaissance and the Jazz Age from Toni Morrison’s Jazz.

antique store venues

If you spend your weekends antiquing and your house or apartment is filled with fleamarket finds, then an antique store might be the perfect spot for your wedding. Think about it: All that kitschy-cool décor you’d buy or rent anyway is built right in. Be prepared to find the unexpected, like mannequins and disco balls, but that’s what makes getting married at an antique store all the more fun. TIP Mix and match everything on your reception tablescapes— from the centerpiece vessels and chargers to the flatware, napkins and glassware—to fit the day’s laid-back, vintage vibe.

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is there enough power and outlets, and are there great acoustics?

color coordinated

Sure, you can cover a myriad of monstrosities by bringing in temporary flooring, rugs and drapery, but all of this can get crazy expensive—fast. Why not start with a space that goes well with your wedding colors and style, or at least doesn’t totally clash?

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are sparklers or open flames allowed? Okay, so a lot of places won’t want you setting off a fireworks display for a serious send-off after the last dance. But some spaces will have specific policies outlawing sparklers and candles too. Better to ask now, so you can come up with some awesome alternatives (think: have your guests wave colorful ribbons instead of sparklers). Or, if the rules are just too restrictive for the type of event you want to have, you can look for another location that’s more flexible.

will there be enough privacy? If you’re having a daytime event in an outdoor public space, such as a park or beach, be prepared for strangers trekking past. If this would upset you, opt for a lawn on a private estate or golf course. Or hold the reception at a restaurant or gallery that will allow you to buy it out (as in, guests only). But realize even indoor spaces, like hotels, often hold more than one affair at a time. If there are other events going on in rooms close to yours, you may hear karaokeloving guests giving their best Katy Perry impressions through the walls or meet them over the hot-air dryers in the powder room. A good way to get the lay of the land is to visit the site on a dualparty night to see how the sound carries—and how often (if at all) guests attending the different events bump into each other. Search for scores of lovely venues in your local area on p. 430

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reception sites: points for your contract Your biggest expense will likely be your venue, so you’ll want to get it right. Make sure your contract covers these key points. N ame and contact information for you and the venue D ate and time frame of your reception (the average dinnerand-dance reception is about four hours— longer if it includes the ceremony) E xact names of specific room(s) to be used A detailed description of your reception space, including the décor (color of walls, type of flooring, chandeliers), plus any amenities, like a stage or bridal suite

A n itemized list of what the site will provide (from waitstaff to linens, plus services such as valet parking) T he manager’s name who will be on hand on your wedding day and the name of an acceptable substitute P roof of insurance and liquor license A nything else you agree to orally that you want set in stone S etup, cleanup, overtime and any other fees T otal cost (itemized)

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Will the band need to bring any extension cords? How are the acoustics, and will they work well with the kind of music you’re planning on having? If you’re concerned about any of these, have your band or DJ stop by your venue (preferably while an event is under way) and give you their professional opinion before you sign a contract. One thing you’ll notice right away is the effect of flooring on sound: In general, a tile or wood floor will help amplify it, while a thick carpet will do the opposite and muffle it.

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A sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option. From cocktail fare to midnight snacks, these chic ideas will satisfy any palate. >> BY KRISTIN KOCH PHOTOGRAPH BY WENDY LAUREL

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raising the (food) bar Live preparation stations are as entertaining as they are delicious.

raw bar

Oysters are shucked and kept on ice. This is an equally appropriate option for a seaside soiree or a formal fête.

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No matter how you’re celebrating, an amazing meal is central to your wedding. But before you choose the menu, you need to know which meal you’re serving. Your options are nearly endless—from a formal, seated dinner or a festive brunch buffet to nothing but a five-tier fondant couture cake.

brunch Brunch can be served buffet style or as a seated meal (or as a combo). The other alternative is a cocktail brunch, where guests enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres, like scrambled-egg tartlets and mini French toast sticks, and cocktails, such as mimosas and Bellinis, as they mingle among a mix of lounge furniture and tables. THE PROS

• Y our liquor costs will be lower than they’d be for an evening affair, and site-rental fees are often less expensive during the day. • Sunrise ceremonies up the romance factor. • It’s a great choice if you’ve invited lots of children. • It’s more conducive if you’ve chosen not to have any alcohol at all at your wedding. • You can leave after the event and start your honeymoon.

crepe table

Cooks flip and fill sweet (from sugar and lemon to dark chocolate) and savory (like smoked ham and swiss or tomato and mozzarella) crepes.

Guests choose their sauce (marinara, vodka, Bolognese) and watch as their pasta is tossed just for them with tasty mix-ins like caramelized onions, roasted vegetables, fresh basil and grated parmesean.

s’mores bar

omelet or waffle stand

cheese table

Dishes are made to order, with chooseyour-own add-ins and toppings from applewood-smoked bacon to fresh berries and whipped cream.

Along with the traditional graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate, consider a spread of unexpected additions like farmers market strawberries or creamy Nutella.

Swiss, cheddar and mozzarella are key go-tos, but take your cheese plate up a notch with artisanal flavors too.

sushi station

Chefs slice and assemble fresh maki rolls.

• Fewer people are in the mood to party at 11 a.m. or 1 p.m. • Without all the dancing, your wedding may feel like less of a big celebration (but that may be exactly what you’re after). • If you’re not immediately jetting off on a fabulous honeymoon, you might wonder what to do with yourselves for the rest of the day, after your ceremony and brunch are over. >>

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Display pretty pastries, finger sandwiches and scones on tiered stands that double as centerpieces. Offer three or four types of tea, plus coffee and sparkling sodas. Background music—anything from a string quartet to a bluegrass band—is a nice touch. You can also use the tea theme to create a whimsical wedding cake. Think: Alice in Wonderland or a royal tea party. Personalize the tea offerings by including a blend of your and your fiancé’s favorites and giving it a unique name that’s personal to you as a couple.

Offer hors d’oeuvres while guests stand and chat. Similar to a cocktail hour, food is either set up in stations or passed by waiters, but a mix of the two will keep everyone mingling and well fed.

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• G uests will be impressed by your mellow sophistication—so much so that no one will realize that tea is far less than a full meal. • You two get the entire evening alone together. • Finger food is always fun, and you can include as many sweet or savory options as you like. THE CONS

• I f you want hours of dancing, a tea reception is probably not the right type of party for you. • The idea of a tea party may be too “precious” for some crowds. • Guests may leave hungry (note “tea reception” on your invites).

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• I t’s a classy but typically lower-stress, more party-friendly option than a sit-down dinner. • It can save you money, depending on what you serve, how long it lasts and the décor. • It’s easier: You don’t have to worry about setting up dozens of tables, complete with centerpieces, chairs, favors and place cards. • You can still have a band and dancing. THE CONS

• The standing-and-chatting approach may be less comfortable for older guests than a seated meal. If you go this route, make sure to provide plenty of seating. • Cocktail receptions aren’t always a money saver. Guests may drink more than they would at a full meal, so liquor costs could be higher, and to ensure you have enough food, you may order more than you would for a plated dinner when portions are preset. >>

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cake and champagne Cake-and-champagne receptions can take place anywhere from a gorgeous backyard to a chic restaurant or sophisticated loft. In addition to bubbly and cake, consider a dessert spread. THE PROS

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I t’s the most economical and easiest way to go. It’s appropriate at any hour of the day. You’ll have less to prepare and coordinate. It’s great for second marriages or to keep the celebration low-key.

THE CONS

• T here’s less pomp and circumstance, so you’ll be disappointed if you want everyone to make a fuss over you for hours. • Guests may leave hungry (list “dessert reception” on the invites).

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dinner The most popular wedding meal is, of course, dinner, fitting in perfectly after a sunset ceremony, photos and a festive cocktail hour. It could be set up as a buffet, stations, or a formal or familystyle seated dinner.

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• I t gives you an opportunity to truly treat your nearest and dearest, and you won’t have to worry about anyone leaving hungry. • A full meal lasts the longest (it typically includes a cocktail hour too), so you’ll have plenty of time to mingle. THE CONS

• I f your style is less formal, it may feel stuffy unless you host a family-style feast or buffet. • It tends to be the most expensive option—there’s more to plan and pay for (linens and centerpieces for every table).

If you’re only inviting locals and want something elegant and edgy, have a 9 p.m. ceremony followed by delicious late-night treats. THE PROS

• It’s a unique and festive way to celebrate. • It’s an affordable option on par with a cake-and-champagne reception, but guests are more likely to dance at midnight than they are in the late afternoon or early evening. • You won’t need formal place settings or a full waitstaff. THE CONS

• I f you’re inviting kids or older guests, it’s not the best choice— they won’t make it to the reception. • If you and your guests aren’t night owls, it may be hard to get the party going, and it could fizzle after just an hour or two. Search for caterers near you at TheKnot.com/caterers

serve it up Once you know which meal you’re having, decide on a serving style.

A buffet offers your guests a full meal and the chance to choose exactly which foods and how much of them they want. You might have catering staff creating crepes or pasta dishes while guests watch, or just have food set up in large serving dishes. Be sure to have a variety of offerings, including vegetarian and even gluten-free dishes.

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food stations

It’s like a wedding food festival. Guests are invited to sample foods from various stations in a buffet-like manner. Make each station have a theme and offer a moderate assortment of cuisine. This style works best for cocktail receptions or dessert receptions, but couples often have stations at their cocktail hour, followed by a seated meal.

seated meal

The traditional reception meal is a sit-down, four-course dinner consisting of an appetizer, soup, entrée and dessert, though a threecourse dinner is perfectly acceptable too. Additional courses may include salad, pasta, and fruit and cheese. If you’re a foodie couple and want to make dinner a more luxurious part of your reception, this is the way to go.

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Delicious wine, lush green leaves and a rustic setting— wineries make for unforgettable wedding venues, so what’s not to love when planning a vineyard wedding? There’s more to the process that you have to plan for: Grapes aren’t always on the vines for pretty photos, and pastoral vineyards don’t always show up on even the most high-tech GPS devices. That’s why we consulted Madeleine McQuarrie, event planner at Chateau St. Jean winery in Sonoma, California, who gave us the lowdown on all of the logistical ins and outs you might not have considered. Cheers!

check the local sound-ordinance rules Usually, rural counties (in which most wineries reside) are strict with their sound ordinances—in some cases, music must be turned off by 10 or 11 p.m. Just be sure to doublecheck any rules in the area and confirm what time your entertainment will wrap up. “This shouldn’t deter you from booking your wedding at a winery,” McQuarrie says. “In most cases, you’re able to add more time to the beginning of your event to maximize your time at the venue.”

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Since some vineyards are used to doubling as wedding venues, they may have access to equipment that a large event requires, like microphones, extension cables, speakers, linens, tents and tables. But if it’s a vineyard that’s not full service, you may have to rent everything you need from a vendor—even electricity. “If your site doesn’t provide electricity, you must rent generators,” McQuarrie says. “The generators will provide power for all of the basic wedding essentials, including lighting.” If that’s the case for you, ask the venue if it has a vendor list to see what you have to work with, and consult a local wedding planner—they’ll know all the local vendors specializing in vineyard events.

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make sure your eats can be prepared Vineyard weddings are all about delicious wines, cheeses, fruit and more—but just make sure your caterers will have everything they need in terms of available food-prep areas. If your venue doesn’t already have a commercial kitchen, your caterer may need to bring in a remote kitchen. “This is a very common occurrence—caterers are pros when it comes to vineyard weddings,” McQuarrie says. “With careful communication and planning among you, your wedding planner, the venue and the caterer, this will not negatively affect your event.” >>

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While vineyards are typically in gorgeous, bucolic settings, some of them may be a little hard for modern technology to find. Picture winding, unpaved roads that are somewhat off the beaten path. “The easiest way to ensure the safe and timely arrival of wedding guests is to provide them with transportation from their hotel to your venue,” McQuarrie says. “There are so many fun options available now to fit your budget and theme, and not just stretch limos. You can charter luxury SUVs and school buses.” And if you don’t have any room for transportation in your wedding budget, it’s a great idea to give guests extremely detailed driving instructions on how to get to your event venue, along with approximate travel times, since GPS devices often won’t work way out in the vineyards. Your wedding website is a great place to share this information with friends and family who might not be familiar with the area.

harvest may affect your wedding plans For most venues, the summer season just means warm weather. But for a vineyard, summer means vibrant green vines, which is why it’s so important to know how seasons may impact your planning and aesthetics for your day. “Deciding on the season and date of your wedding is major, so you must do research for the region that you are looking into,” McQuarrie says. “Do you want the vines to be green and full of grapes? Then early summer may be your target date. Do you prefer burnt oranges and reds as your vineyard canvas? Late September and October may be the best months for you. During the winter, vines will become dormant, so you won’t have any foliage on the vines, and in some regions there may even be snow. All seasons make for beautiful wedding photos—it’s up to you and your vision for your wedding.” Most vineyard venues also have fully functional wineries, so during the harvesting season of your region (usually August), there may be some commotion (think: large trucks, grape picking and unexpected smells). This is because the grapes are very delicate, and when the vineyard manager decides it’s time to harvest, nothing can stand in the way. Talk with your planner or your venue contact to make sure the vineyard will have the look you want on your wedding date. Otherwise, if you’re set on a photo with grapes growing in the background but your wedding is in the fall, you’ll likely run into some issues.

make a plan if your vineyard is public Lots of wineries that host weddings are also open to the public and give tours and tastings and have restaurants, bars and shopping options. “If you’d like a private wedding, communicate that to your site and ask if it’s able to close one part of the property to public guests,” McQuarrie says. “Or plan for an evening or morning wedding—something that’s outside of normal operating hours. Most vineyard venues will be accommodating as they’re excited to be a part of your day.” Of course, you’ll need to make sure that private wedding pricing fits into your budget. You can also ask if there are any off-season or less busy weekend options that may make reserving the entire winery more affordable. >>

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ask about the liquor license Having an open bar? Remember that just because a vineyard produces alcoholic beverages doesn’t mean it’s licensed to serve liquor too. A wine license and liquor license are two very different permits, so before you start planning your signature cocktails, see what the vineyard’s licenses allow. “Many wineries function under a permit that regulates them to producing and serving wine only,” McQuarrie says. “Often, this means that just beer, wine and sparkling wine may be served. Check in with your venue to determine its alcohol policy as this will vary.”

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Sometimes a rustic setting means the floors are rustic too, so aside from posing in the soil near the grapes and vines, you may be walking on wood, pebble or dirt floors. “Many of our clients use the term ‘vineyard formal,’ ” McQuarrie says. “This helps rule out stilettos that may sink into the ground or long dresses that may get dirty.” Of course, you’ll have a dress code that fits your personal wedding aesthetic, but just communicate to your guests on your wedding website what they should anticipate from your venue so they can dress accordingly.” You may also want to provide flip-flops for your female guests, so they can slip them on at your reception and not ruin their heels.

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dress for vineyard floors

“If your venue is not full-service, you may need to bring in additional restrooms,” McQuarrie says. “For a five-hour event, with a guest count of around 150, you’ll need at least four to five restrooms. There are portable rental restrooms that have granite countertops, running water and multiple stalls that are perfect for weddings.” A tent-rental company can also cover the restroom area to have it blend in with the wedding space. Fresh flowers, air fresheners and amenities baskets with mints, antibacterial hand lotion, hair spray and aspirin are also game changers.

raise your glass How to choose wine for your reception

variety is the spice of life Don’t feel like you have to stick with the most familiar types of wine. “You can have a large variety of wines to choose from, so you can wow your guests with something just a little different. Viognier, anyone?” says Margo Van Staaveren, head winemaker at Chateau St. Jean.

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red, white or both?

It’s nice to offer both white and red wine, no matter the season. A good rule of thumb is a lighter white wine for the reception. “Think pinot gris, pinot blanc or fume blanc,” Van Staaveren says. It’s also nice to add a pinot noir because it can pair with lighter fare (chicken, fish and salads) but can also stand up to heavier foods.” Cabernet sauvignon or malbec is good for guests who enjoy a more robust red wine.

do the math

When planning for the quantity of wine, keep in mind that each 750 ml bottle will pour approximately five glasses. It’s safe to assume each guest will have one glass of white and one glass of red. “It’s easy to do the math with your guest count from there,” Van Staaveren says.

bartender basics

Instruct bartenders not to open every bottle of wine at the beginning of the reception. They should open the bottles as they go so wine isn’t wasted. “Most bottles should be consumed the day they’re opened,” Van Staaveren says. If you have unopened bottles at the end of the evening, stock your personal bar with them.

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So you thought it would be great to write your own wedding vows, but now a healthy dose of writer’s block (not to mention stage fright) is looming ahead. Don’t know how to transform your meaningful, life-altering feelings into a string of coherent words? You’re not alone—but don’t worry, your goal is well within reach. Here’s the homework you need to do to create perfectly personalized wedding vows.

read dozens of vow examples for inspiration

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Decide how you want your vows to come across. Will they be humorous? Poetic and romantic? Go over the logistics too. Will you write them separately or together? Will they be completely different or will you make the same promises to each other, as you would with traditional vows? Some couples do a little of each. Finally, will you share them with each other or keep them a secret until the wedding day?

come up with as many promises as you want

how do I love thee? Answer these questions to help shape your vows. Before you dive into writing, jot down notes about your relationship and take some time to reflect on your partner. Think about how you felt when you first met, what made you fall in love and when you knew you wanted to get married. Here are some questions to get you started:

• W hy did you decide to get married? • W hat hard or difficult times have you gone through together?

• When have you supported each other?

They’re called vows for a reason, so the promises are the most important part. A tip: “Include promises that are broad in scope, such as ‘I promise to always support you,’ as well as very specific to the two of you, like ‘I promise to say ‘I love you’ every night before bed,’  ” says Christopher Shelley, wedding celebrant.

• What challenges do you envision?

write it all out

• When did you realize you were in love?

Now that you have notes, it’s time to establish a structure and write your first draft. Speechwriting expert Robert Lehrman suggests a four-part outline: Affirm your love, praise your partner, offer promises and close with a final vow. Another way to organize it is to start with a short story and then come back to it at the end.

• What do you most respect about

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• What specific qualities do you most

Now that you have your first draft, it’s time to make edits. Borrow from movies, books and spiritual texts, but don’t let someone else’s words overpower your own. You want your vows to sound like you, and that won’t happen if every word is borrowed from other sources. And if you find yourself relying on cliché phrases, try to think of a more genuine or specific way to express your sentiment. >>

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• What do you want to accomplish together? • What makes your relationship work? • W hat did you think when you saw your partner for the first time?

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• What about them inspires you? • W hat do you miss most about them when you’re apart? admire in each other?

• How does your partner make you feel?

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Start by reading traditional, by-the-book vows from your own religion, if you practice a certain faith, and others as well to see what strikes a chord with you. You can incorporate these into the original words you write, or just use them as a jumping-off point for your custom vows. Once you’ve found a few you love, consider what it is about the style that draws you to those vows in particular.

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take out anything too cryptic or embarrassing You’ve invited your family and friends to witness your vows in order to make your bond public, so be sure everyone feels included in the moment. That means putting a limit on inside jokes, deeply personal anecdotes and obscure nicknames or code words. “Think about how your vows will sound to you 10 years from now,” suggests wedding celebrant and author Maureen Pollinger. Have a friend or family member read it over ahead of time for feedback, if you’re okay with sharing your vows before the wedding day.

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Your vows are important, but that doesn’t mean they should drag on for what feels like an eternity. “When you say something in a very meaningful way, you don’t have to say it over and over,” Pollinger says. Pick the most important points and make them. If yours are running longer than two minutes, do a thoughtful edit. Even though you may love your “how-we-met” story or have known each other since you were in the first grade, your vows aren’t the time to take a long stroll down memory lane. Put some of the more personal thoughts in a letter or gift to your partner for the morning of your wedding and save any crowd-pleasing topics for your toasts at either the reception, rehearsal dinner or engagement party.

practice out loud (seriously) It might sound weird, but this really is the best way to prep. “When you practice, don’t just do the same thing over and over. Listen each time—then do it better,” Lehrman says. Your vows should be easy to say and sound conversational. As you recite them, listen for any tongue twisters and super-long sentences, and cut them to avoid any stumbles. This is also the time to practice the delivery. “Stand straight and look at your spouse,” Lehrman adds.

make a clean copy for yourself The paper you read from should be legible, so even if you’re working on it right up until a few moments before your ceremony, use a fresh piece of paper free of cross-outs, arrows and notes. And give some thought to the presentation too, because “it will end up in the photos,” says Annie Lee, wedding planner and founder of Daughter of Design. “I suggest a nice note card that matches the wedding colors or a little notebook or pad. You can handwrite it or cut and paste the computer print to fit within that.” (And it also makes a nice keepsake for later on.) Have a backup plan too. Pollinger points out that some couples find themselves too emotional to speak (it happens), so have your officiant either prompt you by quietly saying the vows first or read the vows on your behalf. Get more vow inspiration at TheKnot.com/planning

nondenominational wedding vows No matter your faith, these heartfelt vows are fail-proof.

“I choose you, ________, to be my wife/husband, as my friend and love. On this day I affirm the relationship we have enjoyed, looking to the future to keep and strengthen it. I will be yours in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph. Together, we will dream, and live as one while respecting one another. We will stumble but restore each other and we will share all things. I will cherish, comfort and encourage you, be open with you, and stay with you as long as I shall live.”

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“________, I promise to be faithful, supportive and loyal and to give you my companionship and love throughout all the changes of our life. I vow to bring you happiness, and I will treasure you as my companion. I will celebrate the joys of life with you. I promise to support your dreams, and walk beside you offering courage and strength through all endeavors. From this day forward, I will be proud to be your wife/husband and your best friend.”

“________, will you take ________ to be your wife/husband? Do you commit yourself to her/his happiness and self-fulfillment as a person? Do you promise to love, honor and trust her/him in sickness and in health, in adversity and prosperity, and to be true and loyal to her/him so long as you both shall live?”

“I, ________, take you ________, for my wedded wife/husband from this day forward, to have and to hold as equal partner in my life, to whom I give my deepest love and devotion. I humbly open my heart to you as a sanctuary of warmth and peace, where you may come and find a refuge of love and strength. I will love you enough to risk being hurt, trust you when I don’t understand, weep with you in heartache, and celebrate life with you in joy. I will receive you as my equal throughout all of our days.”

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take stock If you’re a seasoned cook or have been living on your own for a few years, you likely have a couple of pots to your name. Take inventory of your cookware and see if anything needs replacing— a scratched-up frying pan could be swapped out or maybe a bigger stockpot will help you win the chili cook-off. If you like everything to match, it may be time to upgrade your whole collection. Most cookware is sold as “open stock,” meaning you can purchase the pieces you want individually and over time if you choose. If you’re new to cooking, a prepackaged set is a safe bet—you’ll get all the basics. Just remember: The number of pieces in a set includes pots, pans and lids, so that 10-piece box may only have six pots.

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examine your cooking style Pots and pans come in a variety of sizes—what size is right for you depends on the crowd you’re cooking for. Weeknight dinners might be prepared for two, but if you plan to do some entertaining now or down the road, it’s wise to invest in larger pieces or multiples of frequently used pans (like an 8-inch and 12-inch frying pan). Think about what you like to cook too—if your specialty is your grandmother’s tomato sauce, you’ll want to look for a nonreactive pan; if brunch is your go-to, invest in a griddle.

consider your stove Your stove top shouldn’t change your cookware choices dramatically, but there are a couple of things to consider before adding your favorite stockpot to the registry. If you have an induction cooktop, cookware made from aluminum or copper won’t work on its own. You need something with a magnetic-based material like cast iron or magnetic stainless steel. If you have a smooth-surface range, you must use a flat-bottomed pan (a rounded-bottom wok is trouble). If you’re in a rental with outdated appliances (read: uneven heat output), you may want to invest in some durable cookware, like cast iron, which is less prone to scorching and staining. Since it’s likely you’re looking at cookware as an investment that will outlast your current home—we hear you—choose pieces that check a couple of boxes to be safe. >>

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1. sides

The sides of the pan make it suited for specific types of cooking. High sides are good for simmering, short sides allow you to toss pasta, and flared sides aid in evaporation of liquids— perfect for reducing.

2. rim

The rim or edge of the pan factors into its use—a rolled rim allows you to pour liquids with ease, while a straight edge will keep vegetables in the pan while cooking.

3. core

Lots of stainless steel pans feature a core (inside the pan, used to generate heat), which is the bonding of heat conductive metals like aluminum and copper.

4. body

The main cooking surface of the pan. Choose a cookware material that’s compatible with the type of food you’re preparing.

5. rivets

These small welds or screws connect the handle to the pot. Look for flush rivets, which will keep food out and make for easier cleanup.

6. handle

Most pot handles are metal or silicone coated— some are plastic. If you want your pan to transition from the stovetop to the oven, look for a compatible handle that can withstand the heat.

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Having the right kitchen equipment is essential—it saves prep time and ensures your hard work and efforts to follow recipes pay off. Pots and pans are no exception, which is why they end up on most wedding registries. But will that $200 pot make you a better cook? What’s the difference between a coated pan and a clad pan? Cookware can be confusing, not to mention an investment, which is why you should learn a few basics before you scan a single frying pan. Read on for all the details.

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Choosing the right type of pan or the best size pot is only half of the equation. The cookware material is a big determiner of recipe success. Eggs are best scrambled in a nonstick pan, for example, while sautéed foods should be prepared in a pan that transmits heat quickly. If you cook sauce every Sunday, you’ll want to avoid an aluminum pan as those acidic ingredients can react with the metal. Bottom line: Pick a cookware material based on your most frequently used cooking techniques. Here are the most common materials and the pros and cons of each:

1. aluminum This material is extremely durable and second to copper in heat conductivity, making it a favorite in restaurant kitchens. Anodized aluminum has been electrochemically treated so the surface is hard, scratch resistant and will not react with food acids—a valuable upgrade. PROS Great heat conductivity, affordable, resists corrosion and rust, lightweight, usually oven and dishwasher safe CONS Can react with acidic foods unless treated 2. cast iron One of the oldest and most durable materials on the market, cast iron heats slowly and evenly, retains heat extremely well and can be used to cook a variety of foods. If you care for it well, it can last for generations—and it gets better with each use. Enamel cast iron has a colorful exterior that protects pans from nicks and rust, and looks nice on your dining table. PROS Affordable, excellent heat conductivity, works on any cooktop (including a camp fire), extremely durable, oven safe CONS Requires seasoning (especially if you want to cook with acidic ingredients), super heavy, must be handwashed and often requires some serious scrubbing to get the job done

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3. copper Hands down the best material for conducting heat, these pans get hot quickly and cool down in a flash. This makes copper an excellent choice for everything from searing to simmering. Look for heavy gauge copper (at least 1/16-inch thick) for long-term use. PROS Looks amazing on display (can go from oven to table with ease), leading in heat conductivity CONS Expensive and requires a bit of upkeep—new pots need to be polished, old ones need re-tinning, and don’t even think about placing it in the dishwasher 4. nonstick A specialized material coats pans making them nonstick, perfect for preparing eggs or cooking with little or no oil. This is great for healthy cooking and clean up. PROS Cook with little to no butter or oil, a breeze to clean (most nonstick pans are dishwasher safe too) CONS Not ideal for cooking sauces, coating can scratch easily with heavy use or metal utensils, avoid health concerns by choosing a PFOA-free or PTFE-free coating 5. stainless steel One of the most preferred materials in cookware, durable stainless steel is a kitchen workhorse. Look for a pan that’s made with bonded aluminum or copper, which ensures optimal heat conductivity. (Stainless steel on its own isn’t great.) PROS Great conductivity, durable, scratch and rust resistant, doesn’t react with acidic foods, usually magnetic (compatible with induction cooktops), transitions from stove to table nicely, often dishwasher and oven safe CONS Can be pricier than other materials; you may need a little extra elbow grease to clean the pan >>

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coated vs. clad The difference between coating and cladding can be confusing, especially if you’re looking at a “coated” nonstick pan. Coating means the surface of raw aluminum has been treated, making it more durable and less reactive to acidic or alkaline foods. Cladding is the fusion of metal, most often the case with stainless steel cookware. Stainless steel is a durable material, but isn’t a good conductor of heat on its own—when fused with aluminum or copper, it’s excellent.

don’t forget the lids If you’re registering for a cookware set, most will contain lids that work with both sauce pots and pans. You don’t need a lid for every piece in your collection, but it’s good to have a few on hand. Look for “universal lids” that will work for multiple pots and pans and save space in your kitchen cabinets. And glass lids (especially break resistant) are good for keeping an eye on what you’re cooking without breaking the heat seal.

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Choosing the right type of pan or the best size pot is only half the equation. The cookware material is a big determiner of recipe success—and there are pros and cons to each.

visit the store Shopping online is a huge convenience, but nothing beats an in-store visit. Handle cookware at least once before putting it on your registry—some pans are heavier than others (we’re looking at you, cast iron) and every handle feels a little different. Cookware can be a hassle to return too, so vet your selections before adding them to your wish list.

keep it clean With proper cleaning, most cookware will last for years. It may sound silly, but read the owner’s manual before firing up the stove—cast iron, for example, needs to be seasoned with oil before its first use, while stainless steel shouldn’t be soaked for long periods of time. Stock up on a few cleaning essentials too, like Scotch-Brite scour pads, which are great for caked-on food but gentle enough to use with most cookware, and Bar Keepers Friend, a great cleanser and polish.

essentials and extras Load your registry with the cookware you’ll use most (plus a specialized pot or pan).

the basics

You don’t need to register for a 10-piece set, but you do want to have the basics covered for daily cooking.

specialty picks

If you’re a seasoned cook or want to really load up on cookware, consider a few of these specially designed pans.

rying pan: Also F known as a skillet, this is the MVP of the stove, great for frying, searing and browning.

raiser: Like a Dutch B oven, this pan is great for cooking meats over time in a small amount of liquid.

auté pan: Essential S for deep-frying vegetables and searing meats. (It’s deeper than a fry pan.)

Crepe pan: A shallow pan with flared sides, designed for making the traditional French pancake treat.

Sauce pan: This versatile pan is a must-have for making sauces, rice and boiling eggs. tockpot: A large S workhorse, perfect for boiling pasta, cooking lobster or making your famous chili. Griddle: This nonstick pan is the go-to for brunch staples like pancakes and bacon. oasting pan: A R large baking pan made specifically for roasting turkeys and other meats.

Fondue pot: An insert keeps melted cheese and chocolate warm and ready for dipping—great for gatherings. aella pan: This P shallow pan is used to cook the rice dish by the same name. Pressure cooker: This large pot has a locking lid that seals tightly, allowing pressure to build up and raise the boiling point of liquids inside. The pressure quickens the cooking time. ok: This roundW bottomed pan is great for stir-fry lovers— add a lid and you have a great vessel for steaming veggies.

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Unlike the work that your other wedding vendors produce (music, flower arrangements, the cake), photos aren’t things you can hear, smell, taste or even see at first—you don’t really know what you’re getting until after the fact. That makes it extra-important to train a critical eye on any pro you’re considering, taking into account their experience, artistic style, even their personality. Knowing what to look out for, and which questions to ask, will ensure the memories of your wedding are just as beautiful as the day itself. >>

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settle on a style First on your to-do list: deciding what style of photography you want. All photographers specialize in a format and style, and knowing up front whether you prefer film to digital, or candid shots to posed ones will go a long way in determining the right person for the job. Before you send that initial introductory email, familiarize yourself with the most common methods.

documentary: Expect spontaneous, in-the-moment pictures of people and décor. Typical shots might include a close-up of your bouquet, your fiancé’s motley crew of cousins tearing up the dance floor or your bridesmaids laughing, champagne in hand. When you hire someone schooled in photojournalism, you’ll rarely see people looking straight at the camera—the photos capture the moments exactly as they happened, and together they tell a story.

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“Beware of trendy album designs. These will look dated in the future. Instead, think classic and simple.” —Natalie Sinisgalli of Natalie Sinisgalli Photography in Rochester

portraiture: If you prefer the kind of posed shots that populate your parents’ 1980s wedding album, go with someone who specializes in portraiture. You’ll get pictures of the two of you and your wedding party, friends and family in front of various backdrops. But that’s not to say there isn’t room for creativity. It’s true that many photographers shoot in expected places (think: the church altar or the lawn of a country club). But just as many push the artistic limits of portraiture, embracing dramatic compositions, like situating the couple on a lounge chair in a hip hotel lobby.

edgy and bold: This style, an offshoot of fine art, is marked by outside-the-box, tilted angles, called Dutch angles, and unconventional framing. So instead of a straight-on shot of the couple saying their vows at the altar, the photo might look a little slanted, with an object like a flower arrangement or candle in the foreground. Or, the photo of the bride having her makeup done might be shot from above, with more of an emphasis on the eye shadow brush rather than on her face. Even a single portrait of a bridesmaid might be framed so her face appears in only the bottom right portion of the photo, with the rest of the space taken up by the wall or whatever else is behind her. Although they might prefer a particular technique over another, many photographers offer a mix of styles, blending portraiture with documentary-type shots, and black and white with color images. But if there’s a specific look you absolutely love, seek out only those pros who practice it.

do your homework fine art: Similar to documentary style, this format allows the shooter greater artistic license to impart their particular point of view—the shots reflect reality, but it’s the photographer’s reality. The results, usually shot on black-and-white film, are dramatic and gorgeous, with a grainier, softer appearance that keeps the subject in focus and the background slightly blurred. That said, with the right gear and lens, a pro can use a digital camera and still capture this style. One note: Not all fine-art photographers take formal portraits, so if that’s important to you, make sure yours does both.

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Once you know what kind of photos you want, start your search: Comb through the local marketplace on TheKnot.com, and read reviews from recent brides and grooms. Go to photographers’ websites and blogs and check out their portfolios of the weddings they’ve shot to get an idea of their style. The design of the website may also clue you in to their personality and sensibility. If available, scope out their Facebook, Instagram and Twitter pages too. Also consider the feedback from other couples and clients: Is it generally positive? And how does the photographer herself respond to it? >>

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set up interviews This is not a decision that can be made on looks alone—you must meet your potential photographer in person. If you like what you see on their sites—and their fees are in your ballpark range— call to see if they’re available on your wedding date. If they’re already booked, ask if they have an associate or can recommend someone else with a similar style. Schedule in-person meetings with three to five photographers to look at more of their work and to see if your personalities mesh. Then, talk shop: Tell them about your venue, your overall wedding style and what you and your partner have in mind for your photos.

Don’t base your decision solely on what you see on a photographer’s site—that work is essentially a highlights reel, with the photographer promoting only the best shots from a variety of weddings. To get a more complete feel for their style, look through two or three full galleries from weddings they’ve captured start to finish. If you see that the full-gallery shots are just about as good as the ones chosen for their online portfolio—that is, they’re all so good it was impossible for them to choose—then you’ve got a consummate pro on your hands. Finally, ask to see at least one or two complete albums of weddings that are in similar settings to yours. For example, if you’re getting married indoors with dark lighting, don’t just look at weddings that were shot outdoors in natural sunlight. Likewise, if you’re planning to say “I do” on a beach at sunset, you’ll want to see examples of similar setups.

know what to look for Think about the kinds of shots you want for your own wedding, and then scour the photographer’s work to see how, or if, they captured them. For example, did they get photos of the bride and groom when they locked eyes for the first time? Also, look at how they composed the shots and whether the framing works or if there is too much clutter in a picture. Consider how crisp an image appears and what the lighting is like. Beware of washed-out photos where small details are blurred—unless that’s the style you’re after. One last thing to be on the lookout for: how the photographer captures emotions. You want to see people looking relaxed, not like deer caught in headlights. >>

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the happy couple

Stunning snaps of the two of you should be the priority. Consider doing a “first look,” where you and your fiancé come together before the ceremony to see each other for the first time in your wedding attire. You’ll be less nervous walking down the aisle and won’t miss cocktail hour.

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Your loyal friends and family who have stood by you in life— and in wedding planning— should also take center stage in your wedding album. You’ll want shots of you two with the entire bridal party as well as ones with each individual attendant. Some couples get creative with a mix of fun group shots (jumping, goofing around) and more traditional posed compositions.

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You may be eager to get to the reception, but your mom will never let you hear the end of it if you don’t take the time to have at least a few portraits of you with your parents and siblings. You’ll probably also want to get a photo of both families together, which makes for an extra-special framed photo later—after all, it symbolizes the merging of two lives, and isn’t that what this whole thing is about?

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If your photographer’s setup allows for it, one huge group photo of you two with all of your guests can really capture the joy and spirit of the day. The default for most couples is to take pics with smaller groups—college and high school friends, cousins, and so on. But a big group shot is a novel reminder of all the special people who took the time to celebrate with you.

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Don’t underestimate the importance of liking and bonding with your photographer—that part is crucial. Are they excited about your vision for your wedding when you describe it? When they make suggestions, do they present them in a clear and respectful way, or do they come across as timid? Are their mannerisms off-putting to you? The best photographers will ask lots of questions and be good listeners. To get outstanding photos, go with a pro who not only has a firm grasp of social graces but is also bold enough to go on the hunt for great images. Above all, you’re looking for someone who puts you and your fiancé at ease and doesn’t irritate you in any way. Remember: Your photographer will be shadowing your every move on your wedding day, and the more comfortable both of you are, the better all of your photos will turn out. And, obviously, you don’t want the photographer to offend or annoy your guests but to shoot them in their best light in an unobtrusive, subtle way. In a nutshell: Your photographer should be assertive enough to seek out the really great moments, cajoling enough to coax relaxed smiles and natural stances from guests, and calm enough to be a positive force throughout the day.

Many larger photo studios have more than one photographer on staff, and unless you specify it in your contract, the lead photographer may not be the one shooting your day. Since every professional has a different style, technique and personality, double-check that the one you interview and click with will be the same one who works your wedding. Also, include specific stipulations in the contract about who will cover for the photographer should something happen on the actual day. Check whether they will bring any assistants to your wedding, and if so, how many? If you have room in your budget, consider hiring a second shooter. Many top-notch photographers already include this in the contract, but if yours doesn’t, you may want to ask about the possibility. The main benefit to having two photographers, of course, is that you get twice as much coverage. For example, during your formal photo session, one photographer can capture the formal photos, while the second one can get behind-the-scenes, shots, like of guests mingling. If you’re having a large wedding (250 guests or more), you might even ask about using three shooters so the event can be captured from all angles. >>

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compare packages You won’t be able to nail down an exact dollar amount until you’re sure of how many hours of coverage you want and how many albums you need. Packages typically range from $2,500 all the way up to $15,000-plus for a high-profile photographer. Ask about what’s included in the standard package and the price of any extras you may want, like an engagement shoot, for example. In particular, find out exactly how many hours of coverage are included. Ideally, you want your shooter there for the entire day, from when you’re getting ready to after you’ve made your grand exit from the reception. While packages vary, most include about 6 to 12 hours to cover everything from preceremony primping through your final farewell. If you’re on the fence about booking them for a longer period, err on the side of caution and go for it if your budget allows—overtime is usually charged at a higher hourly rate.

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ask about your rights Most contracts stipulate that the photographer owns the rights to all photos taken at the wedding, even the ones of you. In other words, they can use them for promotional purposes. That also means that you can’t just post the digital proofs they send you—most photographers have a policy that you can only share watermarked images or images that include their credit. Also, unless you negotiate otherwise, if you want to print the photos yourselves or order an album from another source, you’ll have to buy the image rights.

get the postproduction details It usually takes at least a month, if not two, to get photo proofs back. Why? Your photographer is working with enormous files far bigger than your typical JPEG. Shooting raw files gives your photographer greater ability to correct photos, but it also takes a longer time to upload, process and edit them. It varies, but many photographers estimate an additional 40 hours spent editing images from a single wedding. Here’s what to ask: How many photos should I expect? Will they be high or low resolution? Will I be able to print them myself, or does the photographer retain the rights? Will the proofs I see be the retouched versions, or does that happen after I select the photos I want? Also ask about retouching options and special effects, which can range from light beauty retouching to stylized art effects like super-saturated colors, and the additional cost for both. —Special thanks to Duke Photography, Todd France, Jen Kroll Photography, Salvatore Cincotta Photography and Mel Barlow & Co.

need to know: photo contract checklist Mark these off to make sure your contract is airtight. All addresses, dates and starting times are listed Estimated number of hours to be worked Name of the photographer(s) Name of acceptable substitute(s) N umber of cameras that will be used and which formats (digital or film) N umber of photos to be shot (including color and black and white) N umber of proofs you’ll receive and in what format you’ll receive them Number of prints included O ther package details: number of completed albums, special-request shots Dates for proof/final package delivery Copyright details Detailed shot list you’ve agreed to Timing for breaks (schedule during dinner to avoid missing dance floor shots) Dress code stipulations (optional) Total cost D eposit amount and date paid Remaining balance and due date Any overtime, refund and cancellation policies

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Choosing your first dance song is a big deal. You want something that will perfectly reflect you as a couple. Sounds tough, right? Try out a few different options and settle on one that resonates with both of you. Or if you really can’t seem to compromise, have your DJ or band create a custom mash-up of your two favorite tunes.

you’ll feel like your first dance should be over one minute in You may have fallen in love to “Free Bird” but a nine-minute ballad is going to be painful to dance to, just the two of you. One minute is like an eternity when it comes to the first dance, so choose a song that clocks in at under four minutes. If you have your heart set on something longer, look into having it cut. You’ll thank us later. >>

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just because your friend plays the violin doesn’t mean she wants to play it during your wedding ceremony If you want your friend (who must be an invited guest) to participate in your nuptials, ask her nicely and give her an easy out so she doesn’t feel obligated. Put yourself in her shoes—it’s hard to say no to a friend. If she does agree, allow plenty of practice time leading up to your wedding and the morning of so she feels comfortable during your ceremony.

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There’s a chance you’ll get talked into dance lessons (by a recently married friend, your future mother-in-law or your soon-to-be-spouse). If you have the time and budget, go for it! Even if you loathe dancing, you’ll spend time locking eyes with your other half—not bad at all. It may become your favorite part of planning.

You may both be ’80s fanatics, but five full hours of Duran Duran can be too much for even the most adoring fans. Be kind to your guests (and their ears) when developing your playlist. And keep your song choices PG-13 (profanity won’t go over well with the flower girl’s mom).

you’ll want to be the DJ You’ve hired a professional, so let them do their job. Create a must-play list of about 10 songs and a do-not-play list for your DJ or bandleader. Then, trust them to guide the music while you tear up the dance floor.

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let the planning begin! Here’s what to do, when, on your way to the altar.

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Think about when and where you’d like to have your wedding (the question everyone will ask about 20 minutes after you get engaged).

Plan the ceremony with your officiant; it’s the reason you’re having this party, so don’t wait too long. Discuss religious requirements, like premarital counseling.

Nail down a budget and go to TheKnot .com/budget. We’ll help you figure out how much you should spend on flowers, stationery and your day-of looks.

Have engagement photos taken so you can get comfortable with your photographer.

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Research and book ceremony and reception locations. This is your first big decision. Book any pros you just have to have, like a band or wedding planner, especially if you live in a competitive market.

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DATE: ______ /______ /_____

Find a stationer and order your savethe-dates. This is really happening!

Reserve hotel room blocks. Book them on HiSkipper.com/weddings/TheKnot. Decide whom you want to officiate your ceremony and book him or her. Create a “look fab” plan, including facials, teeth whitening and haircuts. Start your wedding website to keep guests in the know. Include important info—such as hotel room blocks and transportation options—and some fun details too. Create a free customizable one at TheKnot.com/pwp.

Choose the formalwear and give groomsmen instructions about what to wear.

Propose to your bridesmaids and groomsmen to see if they’re up for being in your wedding party. Book your photographer, florist, musicians, cake baker and other pros. If there’s no in-house caterer, interview candidates and select one. Send out your save-the-dates.

Start searching for the dress. Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP. (Trust us—this is one to-do you don’t want to delay.)

Book your honeymoon. Thinking about Hawaii? Europe? Check out our fave trips at TheKnot.com/honeymoons.

Register at TheKnot.com/registry, and then put the links on your wedding website. Order the gown and veil and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. Choose the bridesmaid dresses and have bridesmaids order them.

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While you’re in organizational-planning mode, download The Knot Wedding Planner app. It’s a cool way to research local pros, keep your contacts and inspiration board updated, draft your guest list and take it all with you.

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DATE: ______ /______ /______

Finalize your flower proposal with your florist. Will you go with roses or ranunculus, gerbera daisies or gardenias? Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs) with the caterer or rental company.

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Buy wedding day accessories. Think: shoes, purse and jewelry.

Purchase presents for your parents, attendants and each other (you deserve it after all this planning).

Schedule dance lessons (worth it if your first dance is already stressing you out).

Order or start making your ceremony programs.

Complete your cake order—and order the groom’s cake, if you’re having one.

Buy your guest book, a nice pen and any supplies you’ll need for your escort card display.

Purchase or rent ceremony decorations, like an aisle runner or program basket.

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Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want. Check off your “something old, new, borrowed and blue.” Put together a day-of emergency kit (bandages, deodorant, fashion tape, concealer).

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Confirm your hotel room blocks.

Buy wedding rings—yes, it’s totally normal to freak out (in a good way) in the store.

Finish assembling ceremony programs or pick them up from your stationer or printer.

Order wedding favors—go to TheKnotShop.com.

Put together welcome baskets for out-of-town guests.

Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.

Send out your invites for the rehearsal dinner. Buy some fun books and new clothes for your honeymoon. >>

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Have a blast at your shower and bachelor or bachelorette party. Finalize your playlist with your band or DJ. Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it legit.

Go to the first dress fitting— bring shoes and undergarments.

Write thank-you notes for gifts as they arrive (you’ll thank us later).

Finalize the menu with your caterer.

Finalize your ceremony with your officiant.

Create a timeline for the weekend and share it with your attendants, planner and photographer.

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DATE: ______ /______ /______

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Missing RSVPs? Follow up now. Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager. Give your caterer the final seating chart (and have a glass of bubbly to celebrate finishing this puzzle). Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager.

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Pack an overnight bag for the wedding night (include outfits for any day-after events, like a good-bye brunch). Leave a copy of your honeymoon itinerary with your family and other important people, like your pet sitter. Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and reception sites one more time to go over the schedule and any important details.

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Eat breakfast. You may forget to eat later— even if that never happens to you.

Plan the processional/recessional. Give gifts to your parents and each other. Confirm last-minute details, like flower and cake deliveries and when you’re meeting your photographer. Deliver welcome bags to out-of-town guests’ hotels (the staff will usually hand them out at check-in).

Go to the last dress fitting (and get butterflies thinking about the next time the gown will be worn).

postwedding to-dos DATE: ______ /______ /______

Confirm all final payment amounts, details and deliveries with your pros. Double-check the day-of schedule and contact list; distribute to wedding party, parents and pros. Write your toasts. Pick up your marriage license (the most fun you can have at a government office). Give a “must-play” or “don’t-play” song list to the DJ or bandleader. Include your first, father-daughter and mother-son dances. Get a final hair trim and color touch-up. Arrange transportation for out-of-town guests who aren’t renting cars. Give tips for your pros to an attendant or planner to distribute.

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Freeze the top layer of your cake (you’ll be shocked that it’s still pretty tasty on your one-year anniversary). Have your dress and formalwear cleaned and/or preserved and return any rentals.

DATE: ______ /______ /______

Get a mani and pedi. Bring all ceremony accessories, like the unity candle, to the site. Give the marriage license to your officiant (this is one to-do you definitely don’t want to forget). Rehearse the ceremony and have dinner. Give your attendants their presents. And for goodness’ sake, get some rest. You’re the stars of the show tomorrow, remember?

Send your pros thank-you notes and submit online reviews at TheKnot.com/marketplace.

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Print or write your escort cards or send them to your calligrapher.

Hand off your wedding rings to the best man. Have him hold the officiant’s fee to deliver after the ceremony.

Thank your attendants for standing by you on the day—and during planning. Finish up thank-you notes for gifts. Changing your name? Streamline the entire process by going to HitchSwitch.com/TheKnot. Get more planning tips and to-dos at TheKnot.com/checklist

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exceptional extras The Knot editors share tips and personal anecdotes about eclectic entertainment and awe-inspiring amenities that will make your wedding day even more memorable.

“I’m not a big fan of favors because, realistically, I’m never going to use a picture frame with someone else’s initials. But I do love the late-night snacks! They’re a great break from drinking and dancing and usually come from one of the couple’s local favorites that you may never have tried on your own.”

“My favorite amenity is definitely the Pittsburgh tradition of a cookie table, which is an arranged spread of delicious, homemade cookies at the reception.”

—Katie Kortebein, Research Assistant Editor

—Kellee Kratzer, Managing Editor

—Maria Bouselli, Senior Copy Editor

welcome bags “At a wedding I attended in Napa, there was a welcome bag full of yummy local treats from around the area and a voucher for wine tasting with my plus-one. It even included a free bottle of wine to remember the trip!”

≠≠“A unique detail would be professional sari drapers. Putting on cultural garb can be foreign to some guests, so I think it’s great when Indian couples offer a room with professional drapers to help you wrap and pleat the ornate outfits.”

—Sarah Love, Associate Photo Editor

—Stephanie Cain, Real Weddings Editor

“i loved listening to a bluegrass band that played during cocktail hour—the cocktails were flowing and the partners were swinging.” —Lauren Kay, Senior Style Editor

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make it legal Connecticut Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In Connecticut, the legal age for marriage is 18. Couples under 18 must have parental consent. Residency is not required, but both the bride and groom must apply for the license in the town where the ceremony will take place. Some towns will require proof of age via valid photo ID and/or birth certificate. There is no waiting period to obtain the license, which is valid for 65 days in the town where it was acquired. If previously married, you must know the date of divorce or death. The marriage license fee is $30 with an additional charge, which varies, for each certified copy. Payments vary by office. Offices are open Monday through Friday, unless otherwise noted. Please call ahead to get all of the details.

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Town Clerk 611 Old Post Rd. Fairfield, CT 06824 (203) 256-3090 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Greenwich

Town Clerk 101 Field Point Rd. Greenwich, CT 06830 (203) 622-7869 8 a.m. - 4 p.m.

New Fairfield

Town Clerk 4 Brush Hill Rd. New Fairfield, CT 06812 (203) 312-5616 8:30 a.m. - 5 p.m., M-Th.; 8:30 a.m. - noon, F

Newtown

Town Clerk 3 Primrose St. Newtown, CT 06470 (203) 270-4210 8 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Norwalk

Town Clerk 125 East Ave., Rm. 102 Norwalk, CT 06851 (203) 854-7746 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., M-W, F; 8:30 a.m. - 7 p.m., Th.

Stamford

Town Clerk 888 Washington Blvd., Fl. 1 Stamford, CT 06901 (203) 977-4054 8 a.m. - 3:45 p.m.

Trumbull

Town Clerk 5866 Main St., Fl. 1 Trumbull, CT 06611 (203) 452-5035 9 a.m. - 5 p.m.

HARTFORD COUNTY East Granby

Hartford

Vital Records 550 Main St., Rm. 103 Hartford, CT 06103 (860) 757-9690 8:15 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Manchester

Town Clerk 41 Center St. Manchester, CT 06040 (860) 647-3037 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

New Britain

Town Clerk 9 Center St. East Granby, CT 06026 (860) 653-6528 8 a.m. - noon, 1 - 4 p.m., M-Th.; 8 a.m. - 1 p.m., F

Town Clerk 27 W. Main St., Rm. 109 New Britain, CT 06051 (860) 826-3344 8:15 a.m. - 3:45 p.m., M-W, F; 8:15 a.m. - 6:45 p.m. (last Thursday of each month)

East Hartford

Newington

Town Clerk 740 Main St. East Hartford, CT 06108 (860) 291-7235 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., M-F; 8:30 a.m. - 6 p.m., first & third Th.

Enfield

Town Clerk 820 Enfield St. Enfield, CT 06082 (860) 253-6440 9 a.m. - 5 p.m.

Town Clerk 131 Cedar St. Newington, CT 06111 (860) 665-8545 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Simsbury

Town Clerk 933 Hopmeadow St. Simsbury, CT 06070 (860) 658-3243 8:30 a.m. - 7 p.m., M; 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., T-F

South Windsor

Town Clerk 1 Monteith Dr. Farmington, CT 06032 (860) 675-2380 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Town Clerk 1540 Sullivan Ave. South Windsor, CT 06074 (860) 644-2511 8 a.m.­- 4:30 p.m.

Glastonbury

Southington

Farmington

Town Clerk 2155 Main St. Glastonbury, CT 06033 (860) 652-7616 8:15 a.m. - 3:30 p.m (appointments requested)

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Town Clerk 75 Main St. Southington, CT 06489 (860) 276-6211 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., M-W, F; 8:30 a.m. - 7 p.m., Th.

LITCHFIELD COUNTY Goshen

Town Clerk 42C North St. Goshen, CT 06756 (860) 491-3647 9 a.m. - noon, 1 - 4 p.m., M-Th.; 9 a.m. - 1 p.m., F (or by appointment)

Litchfield

Town Clerk 74 West St. Litchfield, CT 06759 (860) 567-7561 9 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

New Hartford

Town Clerk 530 Main St. New Hartford, CT 06057 (860) 379-5037 8 a.m. - 4 p.m., M, T, Th.; 8 a.m. - 6 p.m., W; 8 a.m. - noon, F

New Milford

Town Clerk 10 Main St. New Milford, CT 06776 (860) 355-6020 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Preston

Town Clerk 389 Rte. 2 Preston, CT 06365 (860) 887-5581 9 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., T, W, F; 9 a.m. - 6:30 p.m., Th.

Torrington

City Clerk 140 Main St. Torrington, CT 06790 (860) 489-2236 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m., M-W; 8:30 a.m. - 6:30 p.m., Th.; 8:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m., F

MIDDLESEX COUNTY Chester

Town Clerk 203 Middlesex Ave. Chester, CT 06412 (860) 526-0013 x511 9 a.m. - noon, 1 - 4 p.m., M, W, Th.; 9 a.m. - noon, 1 - 7 p.m., T; 9 a.m. - noon, F

East Haddam

Town Clerk 7 Main St. East Haddam, CT 06423 (860) 873-5027 9 a.m. - 4 p.m., M, W, Th.; 9 a.m. - 7 p.m., T; 9 a.m. - noon, F

Haddam

Town Clerk 30 Field Park Dr. Haddam, CT 06438 (860) 345-8531 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m., M-W; 8:30 a.m. - 6:30 p.m., Th.; 8:30 a.m. - noon, F

Middletown

Town Clerk 245 deKoven Dr. Middletown, CT 06457 (860) 344-3459 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Old Saybrook

Town Clerk 302 Main St. Old Saybrook, CT 06475 (860) 395-3135 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

NEW HAVEN COUNTY Cheshire

Town Clerk 84 S. Main St. Cheshire, CT 06410 (203) 271-6601 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m.

East Haven

Town Clerk 250 Main St. East Haven, CT 06512 (203) 468-3201 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Hamden

Town Clerk 2750 Dixwell Ave. Hamden, CT 06518 (203) 287-7112 8:45 a.m. - 4:15 p.m.

Meriden

City Clerk 142 E. Main St., Rm. 124 Meriden, CT 06450 (203) 630-4030 8 a.m. - 5 p.m.

Milford

City Clerk 70 W. River St. Milford, CT 06460 (203) 783-3210 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

New Haven

Vital Statistics 165 Church St., Rm. 154 New Haven, CT 06510 (203) 946-8084 9 a.m. - 3:30 p.m.

North Haven

Town Clerk 18 Church St. North Haven, CT 06473 (203) 239-5321 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Wallingford

Town Clerk 45 S. Main St., Rm. 108 Wallingford, CT 06492 (203) 294-2145 9 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

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Town Clerk 127 Norwich Ave., Ste. 101 Colchester, CT 06415 (860) 537-7215 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., M-F; 8:30 a.m. - 7 p.m., Th.

Groton

Town Clerk 45 Fort Hill Rd. Groton, CT 06340 (860) 441-6640 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Ledyard

Town Clerk 741 Colonel Ledyard Hwy. Ledyard, CT 06339 (860) 464-3257 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

New London

City Clerk 181 State St. New London, CT 06320 (860) 447-5205 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Old Lyme

Town Clerk 52 Lyme St. Old Lyme, CT 06371 (860) 434-1605 x221 9 a.m. - noon, 1 - 4 p.m.

Stonington

Town Clerk 152 Elm St. Stonington, CT 06378 (860) 535-5060 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m.

TOLLAND COUNTY Ellington

Town Clerk 55 Main St. Ellington, CT 06029 (860) 870-3105 8:30 a.m. – 6 p.m., M; 8:30 a.m. – 3:45 p.m., T– Th.; 8:30 a.m. – 1 p.m., F

Tolland

Town Clerk 21 Tolland Green Tolland, CT 06084 (860) 871-3630 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m., M–W; 8 a.m. – 7:30 p.m., Th. Closed Friday

Union

Town Clerk 1043 Buckley Hwy. Union, CT 06076 (860) 684-3770 9 a.m. – noon, T, Th.; 9 a.m. – noon, 1 – 3 p.m., W

Vernon

Town Clerk 14 Park Pl. Vernon, CT 06066 (860) 870-3662 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m., M–W; 8:30 a.m. – 7 p.m., Th.; 8:30 a.m. – 1 p.m., F

WINDHAM COUNTY Killingly Town Clerk 172 Main St., Fl. 1 Danielson, CT 06239 (860) 779-5307 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@ theknot.com.

make it known Connecticut Publications GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.

PUBLICATION

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Connecticut Post

(203) 333-0161 Attn: Weddings 410 State St. Bridgeport, CT 06604

Submit no later than two months after wedding date.

Form: Yes; available online. Must be typed or printed in ink.

The fee is $32.

Danbury News-Times

(203) 731-3338 333 Main St. Danbury, CT 06810

Announcements are published on Saturdays on a space-available basis.

Form: Yes; email to brides@newtimes.com.

There is no charge for this service.

Fairfield Citizen-News

(203) 255-4561 Attn: Living Editor 220 Carter Henry Dr. Fairfield, CT 06824

Announcements are published on a spaceavailable basis. The bride or groom must be a resident or previous resident.

Form: No

There is no charge for this service.

Greenwich Time

(203) 625-4400 Attn: Wedding Announcements 1455 E. Putnam Ave. Greenwich, CT 06870

Submissions are accepted up to six months after the wedding date.

Form: Yes; email to scott.gargah@scni.com.

There is no charge for this service.

Hartford Courant

(860) 241-6232 Attn: Weddings 285 Broad St. Hartford, CT 06115

Information must be received no later than 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; call to request a form or go online.

Fees start at $105.

Manchester Journal Inquirer

(860) 646-0500 c/o Living Dept. Attn: Weddings PO Box 510 Manchester, CT 06045

Information must be received by the Wednesday morning prior to the desired Friday publication.

Form: Yes

The $49 set price includes a photo.

New Britain Herald

(860) 225-4601 Attn: Social Editor 1 Herald Sq. New Britain, CT 06051

Submissions are accepted up to nine months after the wedding date. Announcements are published Monday-Saturday, when space is available.

Form: No

There is no charge for this service.

New Haven Register

(203) 777-3278 Attn: Weddings & Engagements 40 Sargent Dr. New Haven, CT 06511

Information must be received by 5 p.m. on the Tuesday prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Brief announcements (8 column inches) are $40, and $20 per additional inch. Add a photo for $10.

Willimantic Chronicle

(860) 423-8466 x3342 Attn: Editorial PO Box 148 Willimantic, CT 06226

Submissions are accepted up to six months after the wedding date. Announcements are published on a space-available basis.

Form: Yes; available online.

There is no charge for this service.

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make it legal New York Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In New York, the legal age for marriage is 18. Applicants under 18 must have parents present. Residency is not required. Both the bride and groom must apply for and sign the license together and bring proper form of identification. There is a 24-hour waiting period to obtain the license, which is valid for 60 days in the state of New York only. Blood tests and other health requirements are not needed. If previously married, you must bring a copy of the divorce decree or death certificate. Fees are typically between $35 and $40, and methods of payment vary. In New York, you can apply for a marriage license from any town or city clerk; below is a list of various locations in the state of New York, which are all open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all of the details.

WHERE TO APPLY Bronx

Dutchess County

Orange County

Rockland County

Brooklyn

Manhattan

Putnam County

Staten Island

851 Grand Concourse 161st St., Rm. B131 Bronx, NY 10451 (718) 590-5307 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m. Municipal Building 210 Joralemon St., Rm. 205 Brooklyn, NY 11201 (718) 802-4107 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Columbia County

City Clerk 520 Warren St. Hudson, NY 12534 (518) 828-1030 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m. closes 4 p.m. Jul. and Aug.

Town Clerk 1 Overocker Rd. Poughkeepsie, NY 12603 (845) 485-3620 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. Municipal Building 141 Worth St. New York, NY 10013 (212) 669-2400 8:30 a.m. – 3:45 p.m.

Nassau County

Town Clerk 1 Washington St., Fl. 1 Hempstead, NY 11550 (516) 489-5000 8 a.m. – 4:15 p.m.

Town Clerk 41 Webster Ave. Goshen, NY 10924 (845) 294-6250 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Town Clerk 25 Sybil’s Crossing Kent, NY 10512 (845) 225-2067 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Queens

Queens Borough Hall 120-55 Queens Blvd., Rm. X001 Kew Gardens, NY 11424 (718) 286-2846 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Clarkstown Town Clerk 10 Maple Ave. New City, NY 10956 (845) 639-2010 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Sullivan County

Town of Thompson Clerk 4052 Rte. 42 Monticello, NY 12701 (845) 794-2500 x302 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Borough Hall 10 Richmond Ter., Rm. 311 Staten Island, NY 10301 (718) 816-2290 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Ulster County

Suffolk County

Westchester County

Town Clerk 116 Hampton Rd. Southampton, NY 11968 (631) 287-5740 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@theknot.com.

Town Clerk 1 Town Hall Drive Lake Katrine, NY 12449 (845) 382-2455 8 a.m. – 4 p.m. Office of the City Clerk 40 S. Broadway, Rm. 107 Yonkers, NY 10701 (914) 377-6020 9 a.m. – 3:15 p.m.

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Daily News

(212) 210-2100 Attn: Down The Aisle 4 New York Plaza, Fl. 7 New York, NY 10004

Contact information for the bride and groom must be received at least one week before the desired publication date. Accepted up to six months after wedding. Will be featured on a space-available basis.

Form: No Call or send in contact information, including the date, time, location of the wedding and a daytime phone number.

There is no charge for this service.

New York Times

(212) 556-7321 Attn: Society News 620 8th Ave. New York, NY 10018

Priority will be given to announcementsreceived at least six weeks prior to the wedding date. There is no guarantee your announcement will be posted.

Form: No Requests must be typed and include the ceremony date and time, schooling and occupations, plus residences and occupations of couple’s parents.

There is no charge for this service.

Poughkeepsie Journal

(845) 471-7355 Attn: Classified Dept. PO Box 1231 Poughkeepsie, NY 12602

Must submit the Tuesday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.

Form: Yes

Cost is $10 per inch and $25 for a color photo.

Staten Island Advance

(718) 981-1234 x2236 Attn: Weddings 950 Fingerboard Rd. Staten Island, NY 10305

Announcements must be received one week before the wedding date.

Form: Yes

Cost is $25 for a color photo, and free for black-and-white.

White Plains Journal News

(914) 696-8231 Attn: Celebrations 1 Gannett Dr. White Plains, NY 10604

Must submit Thursday at 10 a.m. prior to the desired Sunday publication date.

Form: Optional; available online. Photos will only print in blackand-white.

Fees range between $75 and $381, based on announcement size.

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chateau briand caterers

440 Old Country Road, Carle Place, NY (516) 334-6125 | ChateauBriandCaterers.com Chateau Briand brings Manhattan glamour and South Beach style to Long Island, making this one of the most unique settings for your wedding. Imagine your wedding set in a location convenient to your guests yet with the feel of a remote destination. There is nothing like it—anywhere. capacity 400 | price $$$

cloud 9 charters

New York Skyport Marina, New York, NY (212) 248-3800 | (718) 224-4460 caliberyacht@gmail.com CaliberYachtCharters.com Cruise NY Harbor and vicinity with impeccable views of the Brooklyn Bridge and South Street Seaport complete with a bridal suite, large dance floors and floor to ceiling windows. Our gourmet chef will create your favorite foods and our complimentary bridal consultant will make sure your day is magical. capacity 50+ | price $$$

cloud nine catering/the lace factory CloudNineCatering.net | TheLaceFactory.com Cloud Nine Catering offers tailored menus to make for an unforgettable event! We’re exclusive to The Lace Factory, an antique warehouse and a perfect venue for an industrial-chic wedding. capacity 400+ | price $

conrad new york

102 North End Ave., New York, NY (646) 769-4200 conradnyweddings@conradhotels.com ConradNewYork.com An evocative mix of historic and ultra-modern landmarks offers a stunning landscape for wedding ceremonies and photography. Our world-class catering team and professional event managers take care of every last detail. capacity 400 | price $$$$

coral house

70 Milburn Avenue, Baldwin, NY (516) 223-6500 | info@coralhouse.com CoralHouse.com Coral House, overlooking Milburn Lake in Baldwin, Long Island offers an exquisite waterfront location and every amenity. Menus are custom designed to each bride and groom’s taste and budget. Our caring staff will help you create the wedding of your dreams. capacity 400+ | price $$

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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. philipstoneatcradle@culinartinc.com CradleAviationEvents.com This historic, distinctive space with authentic aircraft hangars and impressive flight displays creates a powerful backdrop, while flexible spaces can create the look and feel you desire. CulinArt Group Catering Collection will provide tasteful creations, unparalleled service and customized menus. capacity 400+ | price $$$$

crescent beach club

333 Bayville Avenue, Bayville, NY (516) 628-3000 privateevents@thecrescentbeachclub.com TheCrescentBeachClub.com If you are looking to be the only bride and be at the only place on Long Island that you can have your dream beach destination wedding, look no further. We have been a leading private events venue for over 20 years, with our beautiful white-sand beach, breathtaking views and gourmet dining. capacity 400+ | price $$$

current

23rd Street and West Side Highway, New York, NY (212) 336-6144 | events@piersixty.com PierSixty.com As New York’s newest waterfront venue, Current provides a blend of modern elegance, natural beauty and panoramic views of the Hudson River. The space’s seasoned team of event professionals will guide you through each step of the planning process to ensure your wedding is nothing short of spectacular.

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danfords hotel

25 East Broadway, Port Jefferson, NY (631) 928-5200 tcoppola@danfords.com Danfords.com We’ll make sure your event is as spectacular as our water views. We’ve taken the service that has made Danfords famous and wrapped it in a whole new level of luxury—and it’s all yours to enjoy. Magnificent outdoor ceremonies, beautiful sunsets and personalized service. capacity 150 | price $$$

delegates dining room at the united nations

(212) 963-7029 DelegatesDiningRoom-UN.com The Delegates Dining Room’s floor-to-ceiling windows and large outdoor terrace set the stage for dramatic special events. With sweeping views of the East River and Manhattan, celebrating life’s most important moment on historic international territory at the UN will make your wedding more memorable. capacity 400 | price $$$

the eagle’s nest

Bloomingburg, NY (845) 733-4561 | info@theaglesnest.com ThEaglesNest.com

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Located on a mountain peak, The Eagle’s Nest offers breathtaking views from banquet rooms, outdoor balcony and deck. Widely renowned cuisine and beautiful outdoor ceremonies ensure long-lasting memories. Spacious surroundings, overnight accommodations available. capacity 200 | price $$

edison ballroom

240 West 47th Street, New York, NY (212) 201-7650 | info@edisonballroom.com EdisonBallroom.com The Edison Ballroom is an elegant private event space in the heart of Times Square. This historical venue re-opened in 2008 after a multimillion-dollar renovation that restored it to its original glory. With a versatile menu and attentive service, the Edison Ballroom is the perfect venue to celebrate. capacity 400+ | price $$$

espace

635 West 42nd St., New York, NY (212) 967-7003 | EspaceNY.com Espace is a modern, elegant canvas allowing guests to create a truly memorable event experience. With attention to every detail and an award-winning chef, clients and guests are treated to impeccable service and uncompromising quality. Espace is sophisticated hospitality at its finest.

House features elegant banquet rooms and a terrace with skyline views. Explore Faculty House today and find a venue that’s uniquely you. capacity 250 | price $

falkirk estate and country club

206 Smith Clove Road, Central Valley, NY (845) 928-8060 | events@falkirkestate.com FalkirkEstate.com Less than an hour from Mahattan, our elegant and tastefully designed venue features custom woodwork, floor to ceiling windows and a large outdoor deck overlooking the majestic Ramapo Mountains and the pristine Falkirk Golf Club. Award winning cuisine, impeccable service and our magnificent venue will exceed your expectations. capacity 300 | price $$$

farmington gardens

999 Farmington Avenue, Farmington, CT (860) 678-1353 FarmingtonGardensCT.com Set in a scenic garden full of rolling hills, Farmington Gardens’ team of chefs, designers and directors strives to fulfill the most lavish ambitions of today’s bride. Let us make your special day as perfect as it deserves to be, surrounded by the natural beauty and rustic charm of Farmington Gardens. capacity 400 | price $$$

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excelsior

125 East King Street, Lancaster, PA (717) 715-5957 ExcelsiorLancaster.com Unlike anything you may have seen, this multifaceted property combines elegant, classical architectural features blended with modern design throughout various connecting spaces. Refreshing outdoor areas and enchanting brewer’s catacombs enhance the experience, creating a venue for any event in any season. capacity 280 | price $$$

f.e.a.s.t. at round hill

110 Round Hill Road, Washingtonville, NY (800) 337-2556 | info@feastcaterers.com FeastCaterers.com Travel less than one hour from Manhattan to Round Hill, F.E.A.S.T.’s impeccably restored early 1800s Greek Revival Manor. Intimate, romantic, and enveloped by lush gardens, fountains and lawns. Its majestic columns and sweeping verandas introduce your guests to the casual yet sophisticated elegance of a country estate. capacity 200 | price $$$

faculty house | columbia university 64 Morningside Drive, New York, NY (212) 854-1200 | fachouse@columbia.edu FacultyHouse.com Celebrate a unique marriage of city sophistication and Ivy League cachet at our premier Upper Manhattan venue. A beautifully updated 1920s landmark, Faculty

flowerfield

199 Mills Pond Road, Saint James, NY (631) 862-0100 | craig.priemer@lovinoven.com Flowerfield.com Settle on a secluded estate on the prestigious North Shore. This estate has impressive arrays of fruit orchards, vineyards, manicured gardens, beautiful reflection ponds and fountains. Its breathtaking presence will leave you and your guests with an unforgettable memory of your special day. capacity 350 | price $$$

the fountainhead

New Rochelle, NY (914) 235-4400 | FountainheadCaterers.com For over 50 years, it has been regarded as one of Westchester’s premier wedding facilities. Spectacular ballrooms with award-winning atriums, complete with hand-finished marble and granite dance floors, can accommodate over 400 guests. With great tasting cuisine and superior service, let us make your dreams come true. capacity 400+ | price $$$

fox hollow

7725 Jericho Turnpike, Woodbury, NY (516) 921-1415 foxhollow@scottobrothers.com TheFoxHollow.com Nestled on eight private acres of Long Island’s Gold Coast, the Fox Hollow offers a unique wedding destination with gardens, indoor and outdoor facilities, custom-designed menus, fine-dining restaurant and

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the garden city hotel

45 Seventh Street, Garden City, NY (516) 663-7010 | caterer@gchotel.com GardenCityHotel.com Experience the legendary, newly restored Grand Ballroom and brand new guest rooms and suites. Whether an intimate celebration or lavish affair, we will help you create your dream day. Impeccable service, a first-class culinary team and attention to detail creates The Garden City Hotel experience. capacity 400+ | price $$$

the garden house at keeler tavern museum

132 Main Street, Ridgefield, CT (203) 438-5485 KeelerTavernMuseum.org Ridgefield’s hidden treasure, The Garden House at Keeler Tavern Museum is the perfect setting—whatever the occasion. Designed by renowned architect Cass Gilbert, its historic, elegant ambience will make your event unique. Enjoy the private seasonal garden, carriage barn and tented upper terrace. capacity 100 | price $$

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the garrison/ highlands country club

2015 Route 9, Garrison, NY (845) 424-3604 TheGarrison.com | HighlandsCountryClub.net Nestled in Hudson Highlands, one hour north of NYC, The Garrison is set on 300 acres with spectacular views, while Highlands radiates elegance with old-world beauty. Our countryside retreats offer delicious food, personalized service and outdoor ceremonies with golf course or garden photo sessions. capacity 150+ | price $$$

the glass houses

545 W. 25th Street, 21st Floor, New York, NY (212) 242-7800 | perry@theglasshouses.com TheGlassHouses.com Located in the Chelsea Arts Tower in the center of the art community and at 25th Street next to 11th Avenue, the location and space can provide an excellent setting for your wedding. Breathtaking waterfront views of lower Manhattan, Hudson River and upper West Side. capacity 150 | price $$

glen cove mansion

200 Dosoris Lane, Glen Cove, NY (888) 426-4252 | GlenCoveMansion.com Grand or intimate, formal or casually elegant, your wedding and the preparation leading up to it should be easy and carefree, allowing you, your family and friends to celebrate this most memorable milestone of your life. We vow to make that happen at Glen Cove Mansion. capacity 250 | price $$$

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glen island harbour club

Glen Island Park, Weyman Avenue, New Rochelle, NY (914) 636-6500 | GI-HC.com It’s a truly spectacular place. You’ll be surrounded by gently breaking waves, lush park grounds on a secluded island, breathtaking sunsets, a storybook chapel and dramatic views of the New York skyline bridges. Glen Island Harbour Club—where new and everlasting memories are created. capacity 400+ | price $$$

grand marquis

1550 US 9, Old Bridge, NJ (732) 679-5700 | GrandMarquisCaterers.com The Grand Marquis creates weddings perfect in every detail with exquisite cuisine, impeccable service, elegant luxury and personal attention, customized to each bride. Let the Grand Marquis transform your dream into reality! capacity 400+ | price $$

grand oaks country club

200 Huguenot Avenue, Staten Island, NY (718) 356-2771 | GrandOaksNYC.com The new Grand Oaks Country Club overlooks South Shore Golf Course. We welcome you into a world of enchantment, providing services and amenities far beyond being plain satisfactory. Whether you are planning an intimate celebration or a luxurious reception, your event will create lasting memories. capacity 400+ | price $$

harbor club at prime

95 New York Avenue, Huntington Harbor, NY (631) 271-5600 HarborClubatPrime.com The Harbor Club at Prime is the perfect location for the wedding you have always dreamed of. Nestled on the shores of Huntington Harbor, the Harbor Club at Prime blends a contemporary, urban design with the timeless elegance and beauty of a waterfront venue. capacity 200 | price $$$$

harbor links

1 Fairway Drive, Port Washington, NY (516) 767-4810 | jphelan@palmergolf.com HarborLinks.com Harbor Links offers an exclusive atmosphere on Long Island’s prestigious North Shore. Your private occasion will receive the individual attention of our entire staff. Our Grand Ballroom offers breathtaking panoramic vistas while the warmth of our interior creates the perfect setting for your special affair.

Stone Garden for your ceremony. After a good night’s sleep, you can spend the day in the pool, on the golf course or at the spa. capacity 220 | price $$$

hollow brook golf club

(914) 734-1500 EXT. 1151 robbyns@golfhollowbrook.com GolfHollowBrook.com Beautiful views, rich wood walls, vaulted ceilings and superb cuisine featuring food and wine from the Hudson Valley’s farms and vineyards makes Hollow Brook the perfect venue to make dreams come true. We host one wedding at a time so our planners are dedicated exclusively to you. capacity 180 | price $$$

hornblower cruises & events

New York, NY (646) 846-4402 HornblowerNewYork.com/weddings From intimate ceremonies to grand receptions, weddings are a breeze with Hornblower. Choose from one of six beautiful yachts in our New York fleet, and one of our expert planners will help with all the details. Make your dream wedding on the water come true, with anywhere from 2 to 1,200 guests! capacity 1,200 | price $$$

housing works bookstore & the works catering

126 Crosby Street, New York, NY (646) 786-1100 TheWorksCatering.com Host your storybook wedding with 100% of proceeds benefitting the homeless living with HIV/AIDS. This Soho bookshop resembles an Ivy League library with its spiral staircases, mahogany balconies and rows of books. The Works Catering, also operated by Housing Works, serves amazing seasonal fare. capacity 200 | price $$$

indian ridge preserve

500 Crescent Avenue, Highland, NY (845) 883-3208 events@indianridgepreserve.com IndianRidgePreserve.com Marry the love of your life surrounded by natural beauty at Indian Ridge—spring apple blossoms, private lake, picturesque fall foliage and waterfall. Get married lakeside, under an elegantly lit tent or in our rustic lodge. We have over 300 acres to create your perfect Hudson Valley country wedding! capacity 400+ | price $$$

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heritage hotel

522 Heritage Road, Southbury, CT (203) 267-2622 HeritageSouthbury.com Our newly renovated resort offers a destination wedding to remember. Timbers provides a rustic yet elegant atmosphere for your reception, paired with our

the inn & spa at east wind

5720 Route 25A, Wading River, NY (631) 929-6585 EastWindLongIsland.com At East Wind, you decide—the Cottage, Estate, Veranda or the Grand Ballroom at the Inn. Magnificent chandeliers, warming fireplaces and 24 beautifully manicured acres make East Wind the perfect choice

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the inn at new hyde park

214 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park, NY (516) 354-7797 | InnAtNHP.com Modern luxury, timeless elegance. The Inn at New Hyde Park will surpass all of your expectations. From magnificent interiors to lush gardens, a perfect environment has been created to ensure the most memorable experience for you and your guests. capacity 500+ | price $$

the inn at villa bianca

312 Roosevelt Drive, Route 34, Seymour, CT (203) 735-4883 VillaBianca.com Nestled along the banks of the Housatonic River, The Inn at Villa Bianca is southern Connecticut’s premier venue for special events that transcend the ordinary. Our careful combination of modern and traditional décor sets the background for your wedding ceremony and reception. capacity 600+ | price $$

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insignia

610 Smithtown Bypass, Smithtown, NY (631) 656-8100 | banquet@insigniasteakhouse.com InsigniaSteakhouse.com Refreshingly different by Anthony Scotto—that is Insignia! Are you tired of the same style wedding? Introducing Insignia, where the Hamptons meet Manhattan. Unique, fine dining, trend setting, personal—schedule your own personal experience today! capacity 300 | price $$

intercontinental® new york barclay 111 E. 48th Street, New York, NY (212) 906-3154 | carolyn.altieri@ihg.com InterContinentalNYBarclay.com Allow The Barclay to bring your wedding day vision to life and create a stunning, romantic ambiance. The newly designed ballrooms offer the perfect backdrop for an elegant wedding, bridal shower or brunch. Our dedicated team will guide you through the planning process to ensure no detail is overlooked. capacity 400 | price $$$

interlaken inn

74 Interlaken Road, Lakeville, CT (800) 222-2909 | sales@interlakeninn.com InterlakenInn.com Nestled in the heart of the Litchfield Hills. Delight in exclusive use of the resort with a scenic lakefront ceremony, cocktail reception in our country gardens, and elegant dinner under our gorgeous marquee tent. Charming guest rooms, impeccable service, and distinctive weekend weddings. capacity 220 | price $$$

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jean-jacques’ culinary creations

468 Bedford Road, Pleasantville, NY (914) 747-8197 | info@jean-jacques.com Jean-Jacques.com Jean-Jacques’ Culinary Creations is a full-service caterer with exclusive venues for weddings and special events in Westchester. Whether at our restaurant in Pleasantville, one of our historic mansions and estates or a location of your choice, we are committed to providing the highest quality of service and culinary expertise at an affordable price. capacity 400 | price $$

land’s end

80 Browns River Road, Sayville, NY (631) 589-1888 | jennifer.barnett@lovinoven.com LandsEndWeddings.com With its seaside charm, this newly renovated, classic Tudor-style mansion overlooks the Great South Bay and Fire Island. Stroll through impeccably-kept gardens or gaze out from the canopied deck at captivating sunsets creating the perfect backdrop for your most memorable day. capacity 325 | price $$$

landmark venues

Serving NY, Outer Boroughs, NJ and PA (866) 683-3586 LandmarkVenues.com From the NYC skyline to 83-acre lush botanical gardens, Landmark Venues offers a number of beautifully unique settings across the tri-state area—perfect for your big day.

lawn club fine catering

193 Whitney Ave., New Haven, CT (203) 777-3494 | christine.brush@nhlawnclub.com NHLCCatering.com The New Haven Lawn Club is comprised of elegant rooms that will charm your guests and provide them with a change of scenery throughout the evening. Stunning yet simple décor ensures that every couple is able to make the space their own. capacity 250 | price $$$

le chambord

2737 Route 52, Hopewell Junction, NY (845) 221-1941 | LeChambord.com Le Chambord is New York state’s most elegant European-style country inn on 10 magnificent acres, just 75 minutes north of New York City. Le Chambord features four-star cuisine, two gazebos, an outdoor pavilion for ceremonies and cocktail parties and 25 rooms for overnight guests. capacity 250 | price $$

leonard’s palazzo

555 Northern Blvd., Great Neck, NY (516) 487-7900 | inquiry@leonardspalazzo.com LeonardsPalazzo.com On your special day, you want everything to be perfect. You will receive undivided attention when it comes to

planning and executing all aspects of your important day. Feel at ease knowing Leonard’s will work as hard as possible to make your day a memorable one. capacity 400+ | price $$

lessing’s

Long Island and New York (631) 581-0022 | LessingsWeddings.com Endless possibilities await. Share your vows in a ceremony by the sea. Celebrate in a majestic mansion with exceptional cuisine. Experience timeless elegance with exquisite waterfront views. Reserve our premier luxury destinations for lavish events with extraordinary edibles. capacity 500 | price $$$

linwood estate

93 Encks Mill Road, Carlisle, PA (717) 842-0562 | events@linwoodestate.com LinwoodEstate.com Nestled on 121 acres of the Great Appalachian Valley woodlands, Linwood Estate offers tranquil exclusivity through a private estate to call your own! Each site is graced with quintessential scenes of the rolling mountain range, and luxury suites are included in your stay. capacity 400 | price $$

lyndhurst castle

635 South Broadway, Tarrytown, NY (914) 631-4481 EXT. 43236 lyndhurst@culinartinc.com LyndhurstCatering.com Named one of America’s most beautiful mansions by Forbes Magazine, Lyndhurst sits on a picturesque knoll with gardens and greens that stretch to the Hudson River. Ceremony on the lawn, cocktails on the veranda and dinner and dancing in the tented courtyard make for a wedding day of your dreams. capacity 300 | price $$$

manhattan penthouse on fifth avenue

(212) 627-8838 info@greenmansionscatering.com ManhattanPenthouse.com Manhattan Penthouse, seating 100 to 200 with dancing, is an extraordinary, loft-like, beautifully finished penthouse aerie with rich details. Guests are surrounded by stunning 360° skyline views framed by our signature Palladian windows. Simply put, it’s one of NYC’s premier venues and best values. capacity 250 | price $$$

the maritime aquarium at norwalk

10 North Water Street, Norwalk, CT (203) 852-0700 EXT. 2217 maritimecatering@culinartinc.com MaritimeAquariumEvents.com Sip cocktails alongside prowling sharks, savor hors d’oeuvres as you overlook frolicking sea otters and enjoy dinner and dancing amidst fun-loving seals.

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destination—guests can stay shoreline in the newly renovated rooms and villas. Begin forever here at the Montauk Yacht Club Resort & Marina.

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mediterranean manor caterers

303 East Main Street, Patchogue, NY (631) 289-5857 | MedManor.com At the Mediterranean Manor we believe that successful weddings deserve more than just adequate facilities. We offer a balanced blend of planning expertise, elegant ambiance, exceptional cuisine and impeccable service at surprisingly affordable prices. Call for a private tour and menu planning. capacity 300 | price $

Glen Cove, NY (516) 671-4444 | TheMetropolitanCaterers.com The Metropolitan invites you to experience the sophistication of Manhattan right on Long Island. We continue our tradition of one wedding at a time—the entire hall, all to yourself. Our superior cuisine and cosmopolitan ambiance have brought recognition and respect to The Metropolitan name. capacity 250 | price $$

monteverde at oldstone

28 Bear Mountain Bridge Rd., Cortlandt Manor, NY (914) 737-6555 events@monteverdeatoldstone.com MonteverdeAtOldstone.com Built in 1763, Monteverde at Oldstone is a magnificent 27-acre estate located less than one hour from Manhattan. Majestically situated on the Hudson River, Monteverde offers enchanting river views and two charming settings for weddings and events: The Manor House and The Pavilion, a grand open-air tented venue. capacity 350 | price $$$$

the mountain top inn & resort

Chittenden, VT (802) 483-2311 | MountainTopInn.com Set on 350 acres in the heart of Vermont’s Green Mountains and overlooking a sparkling lake, you will find the perfect magical backdrop, regardless of the season. Enjoy luxurious lodging, a brand new spa and salon, on-site dining and tons of activities to create your special day. capacity 300 | price $$$

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the milleridge inn

585 North Broadway, Jericho, NY (516) 931-2201 MilleridgeInn.com The Milleridge has been making dreams come true, one wedding at a time, for generations. You will experience impeccable service, attention to detail and an unsurpassed level of customer service from your personal banquet manager. Meticulously planned menus are custom designed to suit your taste and budget. capacity 350 | price $$$

montauk lake club and marina

211 East Lake Drive, Montauk, NY (631) 668-5705 info@montauklakeclub.com MontaukLakeClub.com Have your own private waterfront estate. With one intimate affair at a time, the Montauk Lake Club’s plush grounds, spectacular water views and firstclass amenities beckon your wedding ceremony and reception. Fall captive to an enchanting destination with only your family and friends nearby—the magic of Montauk.

mulberry art studios

19-21 North Mulberry Street, Lancaster, PA (717) 295-1949 mulberryartstudios@comcast.net MulberryArtStudios.com Originally built as a bakery in the early 1900s, Mulberry Art Studios is a unique ceremony and reception venue (250 max). Enjoy our hardwood floors, exposed beams, brick walls, premier art collection, elegant linens and fine china. For showers (60 max), choose our newest venue, Mulberry on King .

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32 Star Island Road, Montauk, NY (631) 668-9251 | (888) 692-8668 kpearsall@montaukyachtclub.com MontaukYachtClub.com Whether an intimate lakeside reception, a tented wedding or a Farmhouse Ballroom gala, our wedding specialist will take care of your special day. Make it a

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ny zoos & aquarium

Bronx Zoo | Central Park Zoo | Queens Zoo Prospect Park Zoo | NY Aquarium (718) 741-3836 events@wcs.org NYZooEvents.com Whether exchanging vows as sea lions look on or sipping cocktails while strolling through lush gardens, saying “I do” at the zoo provides a truly unique and unforgettable experience. Proceeds support the Wildlife Conservation Society’s mission to help save wildlife and wild places around the globe. capacity 300+ | price $$

nyit de seversky mansion

Northern Boulevard, Old Westbury, NY (516) 686-7675 deseversky@nyit.edu NYIT.edu/deseversky This is the chance to create the celebration of a lifetime. By choosing the mansion for your wedding, you’ll experience designing an event that reflects your personal style, multicultural customs and cuisine, and other unique elements—in a charming, sophisticated setting that’s sure to delight guests. capacity 300 | price $$$

oceanbleu

231 Dune Road, Westhampton Beach, NY (631) 288-8878 | oceanbleu@robbinswolfe.com Oceanbleu-WestHampton.com Enjoy true seaside glamour with a breathtaking once-in-a-lifetime wedding ceremony overlooking the magnificent sand and surf followed by dinner and dancing amidst panoramic views of the majestic Atlantic Ocean. Oceanbléu boasts an imperial ballroom with incomparable views of the Atlantic seascape. capacity 250 | price $$$$

new york country club

103 Brick Church Road, New Hempstead, NY (845) 362-5800 info@nycountryclub.com NYCountryClub.com Together we will make your dream wedding a reality. Let us work together to create an event that is unique and memorable and, most importantly, reflects your style and our expertise. capacity 285 | price $$

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nicotra’s ballroom at the hilton garden inn

1100 South Ave. at Lois Lane, Staten Island, NY (718) 477-2400 EXT. 5 info@nicotrasballroom.com NicotrasBallroom.com Nicotra’s Ballroom, nestled in 415 acres of protected woodland, features floor-to-ceiling windows with dramatic views. Stunning gardens, fountains, a Florentine gazebo and a great lawn with pathways

oheka castle

135 West Gate Drive, Huntington, NY (631) 659-1400 weddings@oheka.com OHEKA.com OHEKA CASTLE has been celebrating the art of entertaining since 1919. Breathtakingly beautiful, from the historic estate, elegant rooms and formal gardens to the white-glove service, European ambience and awardwinning cuisine, OHEKA is one of the finest wedding venues in the world. capacity 400 | price $$$$

onteora the mountain house

PO Box 356, Boiceville, NY (845) 657-6233 info@onteora.com Onteora.com Why settle for a five-hour wedding when it can last the whole weekend? Onteora’s trademark is the “Weekend

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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. Wedding Experience.” Want an autumn noon wedding? A summer afternoon wedding? A spring sunset wedding? All are possibilities at Onteora. Seven guest rooms for two nights are included. capacity 180 | price $$$

history meets luxury. Meticulously restored to its original Neo-Renaissance splendor in 2005, this elegant venue is the place for your wedding with over 9,000 square feet of space, including a ballroom, tearoom, gallery, kitchen and bridal suite. capacity 300 | price $$

the overlook at geer tree farm

141 Norman Rd., Griswold, CT (860) 334-0467 theoverlookatgeertreefarm@gmail.com TheOverlookatGeerTreeFarm.com The Overlook is situated on the highest point of Geer Tree Farm. Our 140-acre farm provides you with a great layout and total privacy. We work with an elite group of caterers and vendors to make sure your special day will not only exceed all of your expectations, but also your guests will be in awe. capacity 200 | price $$

paramount country club

60 Zukor Rd., New City, NY (845) 634-4626 EXT. 217 catering@paramountcountryclub.com ParamountCountryClub.com Welcome to Paramount Country Club, filled with the history and aura of an early 1900s estate. Once the private home to the president of Paramount Pictures, this estate has been lovingly restored to its original grandeur. Our elegance will greet you and your guests with warmth and charm. capacity 300 | price $$$

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peconic bay yacht club

64300 Main Road, Southold, NY (631) 407-5200 | info@peconicbayyachtclub.com PeconicBayYachtClub.com Nestled in the North Fork’s Peconic Bay and Long Island wine country, the Peconic Bay Yacht Club offers spectacular views and versatile grounds, including a waterfront lawn, private marina, exquisite indoor ballroom, lounge, private tasting room and a panoramic view from the terrace. capacity 300 | price $$$$

penthouse 808 at the ravel hotel

8-08 Queens Plaza South, Long Island City, NY (718) 289-6109 delores.a@ravelmgmt.com RavelWeddings.com | Penthouse808Rooftop.com Crowning the Ravel Hotel is Penthouse 808, an 8,000-square-foot indoor/outdoor rooftop restaurant, lounge and events space that offers breathtaking views of the Manhattan skyline and Queensboro Bridge. Penthouse 808 can accommodate seated dining for up to 250 guests and lounge receptions up to 400. capacity 400 | price $$

the prince george ballroom

15 East 27th Street, New York, NY (212) 471-0882 eventspaces@breakingground.org PrinceGeorgeBallroom.org This is Manhattan’s premier wedding destination, where

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renaissance event hall

27-34 21st Street, LIC/Astoria, NY (718) 274-9210 | RenaissanceEventHall.com We specialize in creating distinctive, incomparable events. We design menus and cocktails specifically for your celebration. Our 7,000-square-foot venue is all yours—we only host one event at a time! capacity 300 | price $$

riverside farm

(877) 746-8822 events@riversidefarm.com RiversideFarm.com Specializing in exclusive destination weddings, this Vermont estate hosts rustic but elegant barn and outdoor weddings in our meadow and five uniquely restored barns. Nestled in the heart of the Green Mountains, but only a gas tank away from New York City, escape to Riverside Farm. capacity 300+ | price $$$

the riverview

One Warburton Avenue, Hastings-on-Hudson, NY RV-NY.com For more than fifty years, The Riverview has been creating a lifetime of memories for brides and their families. Whether it is your wedding reception, bridal shower or rehearsal dinner, the warmth and attention lavished on you by our dedicated staff will make your experience one that you, your friends and family will talk about for years. capacity 200 | price $$

royal palm

2143 Boundary Ave., Farmingdale, NY (516) 845-1151 | info@royalpalmny.com RoyalPalmNY.com For the one day in your life where you matter more than anyone else, the team at Royal Palm is here to help. Tell us what you want and how you want it. Our event team will make it happen. capacity 500 | price $$

the royal regency hotel & banquet facility

165 Tuckahoe Road, Yonkers, NY (914) 476-6200 | events@royalregencyhotelny.com RoyalRegencyHotelNY.com The Royal Regency Hotel is Westchester County’s first and only boutique hotel. The hotel recently finalized a multi-million dollar renovation project featuring an updated ballroom, lobby, guest rooms and suites. All you have to do is dream your perfect day, and we will make it a reality. capacity 400+ | price $$

saint clements castle & marina

1931 Portland-Cobalt Road, PO Box 427, Portland, CT (860) 342-0593 | info@saintclementscastle.com SaintClementsCastle.com Imagine yourself stepping back in time to an era of grand ­elegance in a European style estate overlooking the scenic Connecticut River, with meticulously landscaped gardens and gracious courtyards. Enjoy the awardwinning cuisine and ­service that is the hallmark of Saint Clements Castle experience. capacity 250 | price $$$

saint lucia national trust

(758) 452-5005 | (758) 453-1495 weddings@slunatrust.org | SLunaTrust.org Pigeon Island National Landmark is a 44-acre historical park managed by the Saint Lucia National Trust. We offer several locations including a secluded sandy beach, an 18th century soldiers barracks and a fort with panoramic views that extend to the island of Martinique. Contact us for more information! capacity 400+ | price $$$

sands point preserve

127 Middleneck Road, Port Washington, NY (516) 326-2156 | SandsPoint-Events.com The one and only ultra-luxe, gold coast, Gatsby-esque Sands Point Preserve is a show-stopping, jaw-dropping wedding venue like no other. It’s a mansion all your own with sprawling outdoor gardens and unrivaled water views with catering by CulinArt Group Catering Collection. capacity 300 | price $$$

saybrook point inn and spa

Two Bridge Street, Old Saybrook, CT (860) 661-1155 | weddings@saybrook.com Saybrook.com Perfection at the Point. Magnificent water views of the Connecticut River and Long Island Sound. AAA Four Diamond Award Restaurant and Inn. Classic ambiance, delectable fare. All weddings exclusive, one wedding at a time. capacity 200 | price $$$$

sheraton laguardia east hotel

135-20 39th Avenue, Flushing, NY (718) 670-7408 | sales@sheratonlaguardia.com SheratonLaGuardiaEast.com Offering memorable facilities with Asian flare, the Sheraton LaGuardia East Hotel is the ideal venue for stylish, traditional and multicultural weddings in one of our 14 well-appointed function rooms to a lavish outdoor terrace wedding reception. Our executive wedding specialists will help you create a once-in-alifetime event. capacity 400+ | price $$$

sheraton stamford hotel

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soundview caterers

45 Bayville Avenue, Bayville, NY (516) 864-0600 | info@soundviewcaterers.com SoundviewCaterers.com Located on the Gold Coast of Long Island’s North Shore with breathtaking views of the Long Island Sound and neighboring states, our goal is to bring you to a moment in time where elegance and pageantry are at your service for your special day. capacity 250 | price $$

surf club on the sound

280 Davenport Avenue, New Rochelle, NY (914) 633-8221 | TheSurfClubontheSound.com The all new Surf Club on the Sound is ready to make memories of your special day last forever. Our seaside mansion has stunning views of the Long Island Sound. That, accompanied by our gourmet menus and impeccable service, will have guests talking about your event for years. capacity 500+ | price $$$

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terrace on the park

5211 111th Street, Queens, NY (718) 592-5000 | info@terraceonthepark.com TerraceonthePark.com Our ballrooms feature floor-to-ceiling windows with remarkable views, while the rooftop and penthouse offer sweeping 360-degree panoramas year-round, and the gardens provide beautiful outdoor spaces for ceremonies and cocktail parties. Terrace just completed a comprehensive multi-million dollar makeover. capacity 450+ | price $$$

three sixty

10 Desbrosses Street, TriBeCa, NYC (212) 625-2600 | ThreeSixtyNYC.com Three Sixty offers 360 degrees of uninterrupted, breathtaking views of Manhattan and The Hudson River. The 30,000-square-foot space is complemented by a modern/minimalist design, providing the versatility to create a highly personalized atmosphere for a multitude of events. capacity 400 | price $$$$

the vanderbilt at south beach

300 Father Capodanno Blvd., Staten Island, NY (718) 447-0800 | VanderbiltSouthBeach.com Easily accessible from all five boroughs, New Jersey and Long Island, we offer dramatic ocean views, white-glove service and delectable cuisine. If your vision is a seaside ceremony with a sunset cocktail reception or a full banquet on the beach, our specialized event planners will make it happen. capacity 400+ | price $$$

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venetian yacht club

494 Fire Island Avenue, Babylon, NY (631) 422-2400 VenetianYachtClub.com We are located in the picturesque village of Babylon on Long Island’s beautiful South Shore and offer amazing waterfront views of the Great South Bay. capacity 400+ | price $$

victory garden caf´e

21-69 Steinway Street, Astoria, NY (718) 274-2087 info@victorysweetshop.com VictorySweetShop.com The café has amazing European décor, plus available indoor and outdoor spaces conveniently located in the heart of the city. Book your next event at Victory Garden Café; whether it is your wedding, bridal shower, baby shower or birthday, we promise to make memories that will last a lifetime! capacity 100 | price $$

the villa barone hilltop manor

466 Route 6, Mahopac, NY (914) 478-7575 vbhilltopmanor1@aol.com VillaBaroneHilltop.com Experience the beauty and grandeur of the Hilltop Manor. We assist you every step of the way to create the grandest affair to fit your budget, accommodating from 50-500 guests with the utmost personal touch. You are invited for a personal tour to view the timeless elegance. capacity 400+ | price $$

villa barone manor

737 Throggs Neck Expressway, Bronx, NY (718) 892-3500 | info@villabaronemanor.com VillaBaroneManor.com Villa Barone Manor is one of New York City’s most exclusive catering halls. Celebrate with your guests in our magnificent ballrooms, take romantic photos in our gardens or make a dramatic entrance to your reception in our spectacular glass elevator. capacity 400+ | price $$

villa lombardi’s

877 Main Street, Holbrook, NY (631) 471-6609 VillaLombardis.com Villa Lombardi’s has been redesigned for the modern bride with exceptional taste. With private gardens, redesigned ballrooms and Lombardi’s famous food, see why happily ever after starts at Villa Lombardi’s. capacity 400+ | price $$

villa roma resort and conference center

356 Villa Roma Road, Callicoon, NY (800) 533-6767 | VillaRoma.com Our mountain location, friendly staff and attention to detail set us apart from other properties. The food quality will exceed your expectations and wow your

guests! When you have a wedding with us, you are the only bride, and it is truly all about you! capacity 300 | price $

villa venezia

2257 Goshen Turnpike, Middletown, NY (845) 692-3300 | events@villaveneziany.com VillaVeneziaNY.com Make memories that last a lifetime at Villa Venezia, an elegant family-owned venue with beautiful décor, exceptional cuisine and unsurpassed service. Located just an hour from Manhattan in the heart of the Hudson Valley, Villa Venezia shines with grandeur and luxury. capacity 400 | price $$

the village club at lake success

Great Neck, NY (516) 829-5493 | VillageClubatLakeSuccess.com You’ll find a pristine country club setting on the outside and a contemporary, en vogue space on the inside. This venue only hosts one event at a time. Catering is provided by the CulinArt Group Catering Collection: Stone Caterers, Robbins Wolfe Eventeurs and Regal Glatt Kosher Caterers. capacity 400+ | price $$$$

village club of sands point

Thayer Lane, Sands Point, NY (516) 944-7400 | VillageClub.org With acres of sprawling lawns, a breathtaking 18-hole golf course and an Italian Renaissance–style mansion, The Village Club of Sands Point provides the perfect setting for your event. For those who wish to primarily use the Club for dining and as a special events venue, a social membership is offered. capacity 200 | price $$$

the vineyards

978 Main Road (Route 25), Aquebogue, NY (631) 722-3200 | thevineyard@optonline.net VineyardCaterers.com For a special setting to celebrate those rare occasions in life, look to The Vineyards, nestled amidst a rustic vineyard on Long Island’s idyllic North Fork. Hosting only one wedding at a time, our service is unsurpassed. So make your wedding the one to remember, exclusively yours at The Vineyards. capacity 250 | price $$$

w new york-union square

201 Park Avenue South, NY, NY (917) 534-5947 | leah.maio@whotels.com WNewYorkUnionSquare.com Make your vow day a wow day: a glamorous wedding dinner, a chic commitment ceremony, a reception soiree, an intimate rehearsal dinner or a private night that celebrates just the two of you—we’ll make it your experience of a lifetime. capacity 150 | price $$$

water’s edge resort & spa

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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. (860) 399-5901 | WatersEdgeResortAndSpa.com Sun-drenched shores and moonlit ocean views—say “I do” to beautiful lawns overlooking the glistening Sound, endless ballroom possibilities and a talented culinary staff that serves only the best. Have a wedding at Water’s Edge—where those who matter most gather in one place to create lifetime memories. capacity 300 | price $$$

watermill caterers

Smithtown, Long Island (631) 724-3242 | WatermillCaterers.com This magnificent catering establishment is unsurpassed in providing world-class cuisine and service in elegant, natural and handcrafted surroundings. As a Scotto Family tradition, you and your guests can count on enjoying the very best of everything as you celebrate your new beginning. capacity 300+ | price $$$

menu offers many delicious buffet or sit-down dinner options served by our friendly wait staff. Our venue features two beautiful, newly renovated rooms and a pianist during your cocktail hour. capacity 400+ | price $$

woodwinds

29 Schoolground Road, Branford, CT (203) 481-6577 | TheWoodwinds.com The Suppa family owns and operates both Woodwinds by Chef Silvio and Café Allegre in Madison. An event at Woodwinds by Chef Silvio will be remembered for the award winning cuisine, exquisite ambiance and superb service. Accommodations are available for up to 600 guests. capacity 600 | price $$$

Floresta Floral Design is a pleasant place surrounded by flowers. Flowers enhance our lives on a daily basis and events such as weddings, a birthday party, anniversary or dinner with your friends at home. Floresta offers gorgeous, modern, fresh, eclectic and unique floral designs just for you.

henry’s florist

8103 5th Avenue, Brooklyn, NY (718) 238-3838 henrysflorist@gmail.com HenrysFloristWeddingEvents.com Henry’s Florist has been proudly serving the tri-state area for over 92 years. We offer extraordinary wedding arrangements, personalized designs and chic high-level arrangements delivered with friendly and prompt professionalism. Enjoy a complimentary consultation on your floral design and décor.

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westbury manor

1100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury, NY (516) 333-7117 WestburyManor.com Welcome to Westbury Manor, a traditional Victorian mansion with formal English gardens and classically elegant banquet rooms. Every moment of your affair will be a memory in the making in one of our beautifully appointed ballrooms or outdoors on our six acres of lavishly planted grounds. capacity 300 | price $$$

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woodbury country club

884 Jericho Turnpike, Woodbury, NY (516) 692-6200 info@woodburycc.com WoodburyCC.com We will offer you the privacy and exclusivity you deserve on your wedding day. Our 18-acre estate is divided to ensure total privacy for your ceremony, cocktail hour and photos. Custom designed menus for cultural, religious and dietary needs will be created by our professional banquet staff!

dolce & gelato catering

New York City and the tri-state area (844) 435-2861 | gino@dolceandgelato.com DolceandGelato.com From black tie to backyard weddings, Dolce & Gelato offers gelato bars and full-service espresso and cappuccino bars. All flavorful ingredients are imported from Italy and made fresh the day of for you and your guests.

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woodhaven manor

96-01 Jamaica Ave., Woodhaven, NY (718) 805-8500 | info@woodhavenmanorny.com BanquetHallNY.com Host the wedding of your dreams and spoil your guests at Queens’ largest event space. Our vast international

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alluring brides

35 S. Middletown Rd., Nanuet, NY (845) 507-0289 alluringbridesofnewyork@hotmail.com AlluringBridesofNY.com Our full-service bridal boutique specializes in haute couture designer gowns, expressing each beaming bride’s, proud mother’s and bridesmaid’s unique sense of style and personality. We assist one bride at a time in a private, fun and pressure-free atmosphere coupled with an exceptional customer care.

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200 South Woods Road, Woodbury, NY (516) 864-0001 | regalwjc@culinartinc.com TheWJC.com A new era is unfolding at WJC, a leading synagogue and event venue. With new construction and a design unrivaled in Nassau or Suffolk Counties, Regal Caterers (certified glatt kosher under KOF-K) introduces modern kosher cuisine in a glamorous, über-chic, grand dining hall. WJC is better than ever!

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ariston flowers

110 West 17th Street, New York, NY (212) 929-4226 florist@aristonweddings.com AristonWeddings.com This award-winning, family-owned florist since 1975 specializes in weddings and events. Whether you are having an intimate wedding or a lavish affair, our team will create the most memorable event. With locations in Midtown and Chelsea, we serve Manhattan, Long Island, Westchester and New Jersey.

floresta floral design

51-02 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City, NY (347) 642-8108 FlorestaNYC.com

30 East 60th St., Suite 1100 (Btw. Park & Madison Ave.), New York, NY (212) 673-8888 hello@dravaliani.com DrAvaliani.com Our practice helps men and women achieve elegant, natural results using the latest advances in cosmetic and laser surgery. We offer Botox, fillers, Ultherapy, Cellfina, SculpSure, Vampire filler, tattoo removal, acne scar removal, stretch mark removal, melasma, cellulite, laser hair removal and more.

beglammed

Serving New York City and surrounding areas (844) 595-6773 bridal@beglammed.com beGlammed.com We provide hair and makeup for every occasion, including girls’ night out, bridal showers, bachelorette parties and the most important day of your life—your

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Panoramic views from banquet and cocktail rooms with outdoor balcony and formal deck Widely renowned cuisine • Outside veranda for captivating wedding ceremonies Overnight accommodations for wedding party and guests Spacious country resort grounds with spectacular views

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designer loft

619 W. 54th Street (5th floor), New York, NY (212) 947-1155 info@rkbridal.com RKBridal.com RK Bridal has the hottest selection of bridal gowns, bridesmaids, mother-of and special occasion dresses— all under one roof! Dedicated to providing the most competitive prices in the industry, with the service you cannot afford to be without.

226 West 37th Street, 2nd Floor, New York City, NY (212) 944-9013 DesignerLoftNYC.com Designer Loft is a full-service salon. Choose gowns from designers such as Rosa Clará, Matthew Christopher, Cristiano Lucci, San Patrick and La Sposa. We offer gowns, jackets, shrugs, accessories, veils, jewelry, hair flowers and more, plus a stunning line of mothers’, bridesmaid and flower girl gowns.

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1630 Old Country Road, Garden City, NY (516) 747-0606 TheEdgeHairSalon.com At The Edge Salon & Spa, we are dedicated to providing outstanding customer service in-salon and on-site for our brides. From fun, sexy, glamorous looks to cute, flirty and bohemian, we make it our number one priority to achieve the look our bride has envisioned for herself on her big day.

i do! glam

(516) 503-0118 idoglam2u@gmail.com IDoGlam.com Our mobile beauty team comes to you! We offer hair, makeup and organic spray tans, and we have our own accessories for your convenience! Our full-service brand will make you look and, more importantly, feel beautiful! Enjoy zero travel fees, discounted group rates and complimentary airbrush makeup!

jkflashy makeup service, inc.

(914) 630-7970 info@jkflashy.com JKFlashy.com JKFlashy offers longwearing, waterproof, HD-friendly professional makeup. From airbrush tanning to airbrush makeup, eyelash extensions, skin care treatments and a full retail cosmetic line, you won’t need to go anywhere else for your health and beauty needs! On-location services are available.

panache bridals

545 Madison Avenue, New York, NY (212) 813-1919 panachenewyork@gmail.com PanacheBridals.com Panache Bridal is a full-service bridal salon that provides

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519 Central Ave., Massapequa, NY (516) 541-7007 SafieSalonSpa.com Our passion is to bring out the beauty in every bride by creating a breathtaking look with bridal hair and makeup services. Our beauty technicians offer a deluxe experience by catering to the preferences of our clients, including on-site travel to your event.

Wolfgang’s resume includes years as a fashion and beauty photographer, shooting for top magazines and designers with models across the world. Wolfgang Freithof will capture the beauty and subtle emotions during your wedding day as part of his artistic vocabulary.

dreamlife photos & video

216 E. 39th Street, Level 2, New York, NY (917) 388-2835 newyork@dreamlifeweddings.com DreamlifeWeddings.com We pride ourselves in our unprecedented ability to come up with premium products at competitive prices. Using only consummate professionals and state of the art technology, we are creating works never before thought possible.

heartfelt studio

(646) 732-2127 HeartFeltStudioNYC.com Our work is a collaborative process, combining the ideas of our clients with our well-honed craft to tailor a product that most authentically reflects the couple’s unique shades of love. Now please let us know how we can best help you make your special day memorable.

1292 Boston Post Rd., Darien, CT (203) 309-5110 contact@sarehnouri.com ALittleSomethingWhite.com | SarehNouri.com Sareh’s designs are made with lightweight and ultraluxurious fabrics, each with impeccable structure and fit, entirely hand-sewn in the USA. From dreamy ball gowns with intricate embroidery to body-hugging silhouettes, there is truly something for every bride.

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the white dress by the shore

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104 East Main Street, Clinton, CT (860) 669-4596 TheWhiteDressbytheShore.com It’s about beautiful surroundings. It’s about dedication to details. It’s about exceeding expectations. It’s about luxury. At The White Dress by the Shore, we re-define luxury every day with our curated collection of chic couture for brides, mothers and maids, offered in an antique home.

photography & video

497 Henry Street, 3rd Floor, Brooklyn, NY (347) 857-8707 peter@peterbforman.com PeterBForman.com We are a boutique wedding and portrait photography studio serving New York City, Long Island and beyond. Our style blends fine art and photojournalism to create a beautiful visual story of each couple’s wedding day.

(479) 790-7249 info@timryansmith.com TimRyanSmith.com I’m Tim, and I love photographing iconic moments in people’s lives, both carefully crafted and wonderfully spontaneous. My photography is both classic and fresh. It is my privilege to capture the beautiful moments of your day and to reflect who you are as a couple.

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307 West 38th Street #1418, New York, NY (212) 724-1790 wolf@adayofbliss.com ADayOfBliss.com

(646) 941-0349 | BusyBride.com This boutique planning firm specializes in Manhattanbased weddings that reflect each couple’s unique style and personality. Busy Bride’s talented team guides clients through the planning process and makes every step enjoyable and stress-free. Full and partial packages are available—contact us for prices.

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(888) 536-1923 DestinationWeddings.com Whether you envision saying your vows barefoot on a beach, on board a luxury cruise at sea or within a blooming historic garden, we have your perfect destination. Explore nearly 2,000 hotels and resorts in 42 countries to make your dream a reality!

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gary@74events.com 74Events.com 74 Events is a Brooklyn-based DJ company offering services throughout the tri-state area. With over 20 DJs, we work with our clients and customize around their musical preferences. All of the emphasis is on the music, dance floor and our clients.

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around town entertainment

(917) 679-8636 | info@aroundtownent.com AroundTownEnt.com Our entertainment company specializes in live music for all events. Whether providing first-class music and entertainment for corporate and charitable events or adding the perfect exciting elements for that special wedding day, Around Town is best known for its ability to make events spectacular.

east coast music & entertainment, inc.

Serving Tri-State Area (516) 354-2372 eastcoastband@msn.com EastCoastBand.com Musicians who love what they do! Top-tier entertainment at fair prices. Party bands featuring multiple male and female lead vocalists, dynamite horn sections and over twenty years of rave reviews. Smiling faces and tired feet—guaranteed!

info@your.dj ShowtimeLights.com Visit us for hundreds of photos, videos, music mixes and information about past weddings. Find your perfect wedding song—browse our huge database of wedding songs hand-selected by brides and DJs—and see our wedding song pages. Work with the best-rated wedding DJ and lighting company in New York.

silver arrow band

(720) 937-5185 info@silverarrowband.com SilverArrowBand.com Tired of boring old wedding bands? The Silver Arrow Band is different—young funky musicians, who play alongside the likes of Alicia Keys, Kanye West and Stevie Wonder to name a few. Best of all, they are selfmanaged, so you pay a fraction of the price for a band in this quality bracket.

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5300 Gulf Blvd., St. Pete Beach, FL (855) 794-3278 weddings@sirata.com Sirata.com/weddings Sirata Beach Resort has on-site coordinators to assist you in planning a wedding with your toes in the sand or on a beachside deck overlooking the beautiful Gulf of Mexico. Sirata also has several wonderful ballrooms and grotto settings, each tailored to accommodate various event sizes. capacity 400+ | price $$$

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soulsystem orchestras

Metropolitan New York (800) 466-7685 rob@soulsystemorchestras.com SoulsystemOrchestras.com Soulsystem Orchestras was founded by multiplatinum artist Rob Affuso, drummer of Skid Row. A full-service entertainment and production company boasting worldclass musicians, Soulsystem Orchestras’ entertainers know how to deliver the perfect customized music for our clients. Pricing starts at $6,500.

total dj entertainment group

593 Route 6, Mahopac, NY (845) 628-2800 djsquintsnyc@gmail.com TotalDJNY.com We’re recommended by the tri-state area’s top catering venues. Experience goes a long way. With many years in the DJ entertainment world, our professionals will ensure your reception will be perfectly attended to while customizing a music playlist for you and your guests.

destination weddings

genesis events

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petals and promises

Serving Nationwide (813) 444-8792 genevieve@petalsandpromises.us PetalsAndPromisesEvents.com Petals and Promises provides personalized, all-inclusive destination wedding concierge services for all of your wedding events. From your budget to your honeymoon, we take the stress out of long-distance destination wedding planning so that your destination wedding dreams can come true.

ice princess nyc

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colonial transportation

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Cloud Nine Catering

195

3 West Club

335

Conrad New York

141

19 Main

194

Coral House on Milburn Lake

45

360º East at Montauk Downs

14

Cradle of Aviation Museum

294

620 Loft & Garden

21

The Crescent Beach Club

261

Abigail Kirsch

9

Current

242

Abigail Kirsch at The Loading Dock

9

Danford’s Hotel

437

Above

277

Delegates Dining Room At The United Nations

372

Allegria Hotel

265

The Eagle’s Nest

447

The Amber Room Colonnade

171

The Edison Ballroom

74

Anthony’s Lake Club

196

Elite Private Yachts

245

Aqua Turf Club

189

Espace

13

Aria Wedding & Banquet Facility

177

Estate at Three Village Inn

14

Atlantis Banquets + Events

337

Excelsior

121

Bay Ridge Manor

219

F.E.A.S.T. at Round Hill

5

Bear Mountain Inn

441

Faculty House | Columbia University

302

Bedford Village Inn

99

Falkirk Estate and Country Club

47

Birchwoods At Oak Lane

193

Farmington Gardens

197

Bourne Mansion

14

Farmington Club

189

Brecknock Hall

441

Flowerfield

36

Brentwood Country Club

14

The Fountainhead

117

Bridgehampton Tennis & Surf Club

375

Fox Hollow

379

Bridgeview Yacht Club

366

The Garden City Hotel

57

The C.V. Rich Mansion

433

The Garden House at Keeler Tavern Museum

195

Caperberry Events Catering

433

The Garrison

279

The Carltun

51

The Glass Houses

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Carlyle of Lawrence

3

Glen Cove Mansion

407

Carlyle On The Green

2

Glen Island Harbour Club

115

Cascade

192

The Grand at Bedford Village Inn

99

Castle Hotel & Spa

43

Grand Marquis

18

Ceola Manor on the Lake

421

Grand Oaks Country Club

93

Château at Coindre Hall

14

Harbor Club at Prime

32

Chateau Briand

399

Harbor Links

409

Cloud 9

103

Heritage Hotel

187

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Montauk Lake Club & Marina

305

Hollow Brook Golf Club

41

Montauk Yacht Club

397

Hornblower Cruises & Events

26

Monteverde at Oldstone

79

Housing Works Bookstore & The Works Catering

255

Mountain Top Inn & Resort

137

Indian Ridge Preserve

437

Mulberry Art Studios

55

The Inn & Spa at East Wind

308

New York Country Club

285

The Inn at New Hyde Park

291

New York Zoos and Aquarium

159

The Inn at Villa Bianca

184

Nicotra’s Ballroom

67

Insignia

31

NYIT de Seversky Mansion

386

InterContinental New York Barclay

35

Oceanbleu

320

Interlaken Inn

197

Oheka Castle Hotel & Estate

315

The J House Greenwich

22

Onteora

445

Jean-Jacques’ Culinary Creations

17

The Overlook at Geer Tree Farm

194

The Lace Factory Events

195

Paramount Country Club

249

Land’s End

36

Pavilion at Sunken Meadow

14

Landmark Venues

25

Peconic Bay Yacht Club

319

Lawn Club Fine Catering

165

Penthouse 808 at Ravel Hotel

395

Le Chambord

259

Pier Sixty and The Lighthouse

9, 242

Leonard’s Palazzo

10

The Prince George Ballroom

227

Lessing’s

14

Renaissance Event Hall

425

Linwood Estate

217

Riverside Farm

97

Lombardi’s On the Bay

377

The Riverview

161

Lombardi’s on the Sound

377

Royal Palm

400

Lovin Oven Celebrations

36

Royal Regency Hotel

253

Lyndhurst Castle

365

Saint Clements Castle & Marina

179

Manhattan Penthouse on Fifth Avenue

293

Saint Lucia National Trust

435

Mansion at Timber Point

14

Sands Point Preserve

391

The Mansion at West Sayville

14

Saybrook Point Inn and Spa

167

Mansions Catering

293

Sheraton LaGuardia East Hotel

385

The Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk

403

Sheraton Stamford Hotel

192

Mediterranean Manor

332

Sirata Beach Resort

355

The Metropolitan

341

The Skylark

9

The Milleridge Inn

44

Smithtown Landing Country Club

14

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Highlands Country Club

453

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129

Great Performances

317

Stonebridge Country Club

14

Ladurée

338

Surf Club On The Sound

49

Off-Premise Catering

9

Tappan Hill Mansion

9

Whole Le Crepe

411

Terrace On The Park

157 36

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

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Three-Sixty° Tribeca Rooftop

36

Ariston Weddings & Events

307

Trump International Hotel & Tower

359

fLo rE sta

417

Vanderbilt at South Beach

133

Henry’s Florist

421

Venetian Yacht Club

369

Succulents & Saffron

154

Victory Garden Café

451

Tantawan Bloom

262

View Weddings

14

BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY

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Villa Barone Hilltop Manor

225

Alluring Brides

425

Villa Barone Manor

204

Anna Avaliani MD Cosmetic & Laser Surgery

443

Villa Lombardi’s

377

be Glammed

419

Villa Roma Resort

433

Bellami

431

Villa Venezia

69

Designer Loft

211

The Village Club at Lake Success

329

The Edge Salon & Spa

435

Village Club of Sands Point

360

I do! Glam

445

The Vineyards

297

JKFlashy Makeup Service, Inc.

423

W New York-Union Square

207

Modern Trousseau

29

Water’s Edge Resort & Spa

193

Panache Bridal

7

Watermill Caterers

247

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Westbury Manor

239

Safié Salon & Day Spa

439

Whitby Castle

14

Sareh Nouri New York

111

Woodbury Country Club

383

The White Dress by the Shore

153

Woodbury Jewish Center

301

Woodhaven Manor

389

WEDDING CONSULTANTS

PAGE #

WoodWinds

173

Ashley M Chamblin

312

Bespoke Moments

412

CAKES & CATERERS

PAGE #

Busy Bride Planning + Consulting

423

Abigail Kirsch

9

Destination Weddings

73

Cloud Nine Catering

195

Petals & Promises

351

Dolce & Gelato Catering

65

Shien Artists

363

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Showtime Lights & Events

52

True Event

256

Silver Arrow Band

38

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

PAGE #

Soulsystem Orchestras

281

5ive15ifteen Photo Company

109

Total DJ Entertainment Group

63

A Day of Bliss

311

INVITATIONS & DETAILS

PAGE #

Cloudless

145

Atelier Isabey

343

Dave Robbins Photography

191

Dreamlife Photos & Video

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Flash Tattoos

105

East West Production

235

Ice Princess NYC

221

Heartfelt Studio

371

SPECIALTY SERVICES

PAGE #

Jeremie Barlow Photography

183

Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

1, 77

Peter Forman Photography

447

R Wagner Photography

125

Colonial Transportation

415

Showtime Studio

52

Drape Kings

149

Tim Ryan Smith Photography

419

Drawn Together NYC

405

Valorie Darling Photography

222

Fusion Productions

439

Gold Star Limousine

414

ENTERTAINMENT

PAGE #

Hipstr Photobooth

449

Around Town Live Music and Entertainment

288

East Coast Band

443

Le Puf

287

Élan Artists

327

Luminous Designs

299

Genesis Events

282

Party Rental Ltd.

229

Music Masters

241

Revolution Event Design and Production

233

Scarlett Entertainment & Events

209

Taylor Creative Inc.

331

Seventy Four Events

431

Tran-Star Executive Transportation

91

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455

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maria jose & jonathan BROOKLYN “This was a very joyful moment, since we had just eloped at Brooklyn Borough Hall,” Maria Jose says of her and Jonathan’s walk home from the courthouse. “The rain had stopped and I was finally married to the man I love. It turned out to be a beautiful day.”

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