DEALING WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE Speakers address how churches can protect the lives of mothers

By Kimberley Heatherington OSV News

WASHINGTON (OSV News) — In October 2022, the New England Journal of Medicine reported a statistic both shocking and grim: “Homicide is the leading cause of pregnancyassociated death in the United States; pregnant and postpartum women are more than twice as likely to die from homicide as from either hemorrhage or hypertensive disorders.”

However, the journal invoked the statistic as part of its argument that state abortion restrictions, following the U.S. Supreme Court’s Dobbs v. Women’s Health Organization decision, would lead to negative consequences for pregnant women experiencing intimate partner violence. “Studies show,” the NEJM article continued, “that abortion access plays an important role in reducing IPV.”

Addressing this all too common notion that protecting women from domestic violence requires abortion — as well as discussing the ways Catholics can accompany pregnant women failed both by their partners and those who counsel abortion — was the subject of a Jan. 29 session during the 2023 Catholic Social Ministry Gathering on “Peace Starts Here: Healing Wounds from Abortion and Domestic Violence.”

Organized by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Department of Justice, Peace and Human Development, 10 other USCCB departments, and 20 national Catholic organizations, the CSMG was held in Washington Jan. 28-31.

Mary McClusky, assistant director of Project Rachel Ministry Development at the USCCB Secretariat of Pro-Life Activities, said that, despite the fact that the lives of both pregnant women and their children in domestic violence situations are often at risk, there is always hope.

Sharon O’Brien, co-founder and director of Catholics for Family Peace, echoed this, saying that while the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), as well as the World Health Organization, make it clear that while domestic violence is a “mental health issue” that ends up being a “physical reality” and “oftentimes, a fatality,” the “good news is, it’s completely preventable.”

According to the CDC, about one in three women reports having experienced severe physical violence from an intimate partner in their lifetimes.

Domestic violence signifies a pattern of behavior used to control an intimate partner through fear and intimidation. “When you’re in a domestic violence situation,” O’Brien told the audience, “you make some pretty scary decisions in order to keep you and your children safe.”

However, domestic violence isn’t limited to physical abuse. “Fifty percent of domestic violence is actually the emotional, psychological aspect,”

O’Brien explained. Neurologists have observed the brain interprets verbal abuse and insults identically to a physical slap. There also is an impact upon spiritual health.

A woman with an abusive partner may be coerced to terminate a pregnancy; her refusal to do so can, statistically, lead to murder. “The relationship between abortion and domestic violence — they’re not two independent things — is deep, and it’s mind-boggling,”

O’Brien reflected.

While previous generations of spouses may have believed they had to remain in an abusive situation for the sake of a marriage, “the church actually has a long history of being crystal clear that domestic violence has no place in any family,” said O’Brien. “It has no place in a Catholic family.”

In 2002, the USCCB updated its statement “When I Call for Help: A Pastoral Response to Domestic Violence Against Women.” In the opening paragraphs, it declares: “we state as clearly and strongly as we can that violence against women, inside or outside the home, is never justified. Violence in any form — physical, sexual, psychological, or verbal — is sinful; often, it is a crime as well. We have called for a moral revolution to replace a culture of violence.”

Amy Erardi, coordinator of pastoral care in the Office of Life, Justice and Peace in the Archdiocese of Baltimore, proposed the audience could help pregnant domestic violence victims protect their lives and the lives of their unborn children by asking three questions: “What?” “So what?” and “Now what?”

“What” should recognize that pregnancy is not always a happy event, especially for victims of violence. Pregnancy resource centers must be sensitive to the fact that patients, even when they arrive on their own, may still be tracked or monitored by an abusive partner. Erardi said that at the pregnancy resource center where she volunteers, “we’re seeing women come in with an earpiece, or their cell phone is just left on, for someone on the other end to listen to the entire conversation.”

To assist at the parish level, Erardi suggested the USCCB-designed program Walking with Moms in Need, as well as Project Rachel.

The “So what?” component of her model, Erardi said, asks why we should care. The answer is because we are messengers of God’s grace — people of peace — who “stand against violence. This includes domestic violence, and violence of abortion.”

Prevention underscores the third and final question, “Now what?” Education at the local level, Erardi added, is crucial. “That is our call to action,” she said. “To find resources — to share resources — so that we can educate within our dioceses.”

Employment

Administrative assistant – St. Joseph Early Education Center in Shawnee is seeking a full-time administrative assistant. Interested individuals should email cover letter and resume to Melissa Thomas at: mthomas@stjoeshawnee.org. For more information, you can call (913) 631-0800.

Principal - Our Lady’s Montessori School is seeking to hire a principal with a knowledge of Montessori education and Catechesis of the Good Shepherd. Qualities must include a love for the Catholic faith and children, and be willing to collaborate with the SOLT Sisters to help the Catholic identity and the SOLT charism of the school thrive. Qualifications we are looking for: experience in formation of children; management of faculty; organizational and leadership skills; and excellent written and verbal communication skills. To request an application, submit a cover letter and a resume to: jwallace@olmskc.org.

Elementary assistant - Our Lady’s Montessori School is seeking an enthusiastic and dedicated Catholic to serve as an assistant in an elementary classroom. We are looking for someone who has a deep love for God and a deep love for children. Experience with Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is preferable but not required. All employees are expected to fully support the teachings of the Catholic Church. In order to request an application, please submit a cover letter and a resume to: jwallace@olmskc.org.

Elementary lead - Our Lady’s Montessori School is seeking an enthusiastic and dedicated Catholic, AMI trained 6 - 12, to lead our upper elementary classroom ages 9 - 12. We are looking for someone who has a deep love for God and a deep love for learning. Experience with Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is preferable but not required. All employees are expected to fully support the teachings of the Catholic Church. In order to request an application, please submit a cover letter and a resume to: jwallace@olmskc.org.

Administrative assistant for the office of marriage and family life and the office of children’s catechesis - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking to fill a full-time position of administrative assistant that serves the office of marriage and family life and the office of children’s catechesis. This position will be based upon a work week of 40 hours per week and is located at the chancery office. To see a full job description or to apply for this position, please visit: https://archkck.org/jobs.

Chief executive officer - Catholic Community Health (CCH) of Northeast Kansas is looking for a proven health care executive to join and lead our management team as the chief executive officer. CCH owns and operates a skilled nursing facility, hospice company and in-home care service company. Reporting to the board of trustees, the chief executive officer (CEO) provides strategic leadership for the organization by working with the executive leadership team to establish and execute both short- and long-range goals, strategies, plans and policies. To learn more about this position, or to apply please visit: archkck. org/jobs.

Assistant principal – St. Joseph School in Shawnee is accepting applications for a new assistant principal for the 2023-24 school year. The preferred applicant is a practicing Catholic; has a strong desire to help others foster a relationship with Christ; has demonstrated experience in spiritual and instructional leadership within Catholic schools; and holds or is working toward Kansas licensure in educational leadership. The assistant principal works directly with the principal to uphold the mission of the school and to provide ongoing support in a variety of ways for teachers, students and parents. The assistant principal is responsible for specific tasks related to discipline; school-wide assessments; scheduling; technology; classroom support for teachers; supervision; as well as other duties. Interested applicants should apply online at: www.archkckcs.org and select “Employment” to access the online application. Once the online application is submitted, email resume and cover letter to Jodie Maddox, principal, St. Joseph School, at: jmaddox@stjoeshawnee.org.

Part-time program coordinator - St. Michael the Archangel preschool is seeking a part-time program coordinator. The position involves administrative responsibilities and assisting curriculum development. Specific duties include: processing payments using preschool data software; corresponding with families; assisting with classroom instruction; implementing preschool programs and policies; and abiding by principles of sound Catholic education. The program coordinator must meet state requirements for working as a lead teacher in a preschool classroom. Please submit resume and cover letter to Jennie Wente at: jennie.wente@stmichaelcp.org.

Early childhood educators – With multiple locations in Johnson County, Special Beginnings Early Learning Center provides high quality child care in a safe, loving Christian environment. Our classrooms are full, and we are looking to add to our amazing team. We are looking for both full-time and part-time teachers for all ages of children. If you have an excellent work ethic, a heart for children and a willingness to learn more about early childhood education, we would love to meet you. For more information or to apply, call Carolyn Andruss at (913) 894-0131, ext. 102.

Part-time retail sales associate - Trinity House Catholic Books and Gifts is looking for retail sales associates to become part of a team of the largest Catholic book and gift store in the archdiocese. Candidates must have excellent interpersonal skills, exceptional knowledge of our faith and the desire to help others in their journey. Position requires 24 - 32 hours per week, but willing to entertain a flexible schedule. Send resume via email to: trinityhouse01@gmail.com.

Parish business manager - St. Ann Parish in Prairie Village, is seeking a full-time business manager to oversee all financial, human resource and other administrative aspects of the parish. The position will have responsibilities for budgeting, financial reporting, and cash flow management, as well as managing the human resource and IT functions. The individual will work closely with the pastor, school principal and young child-care director regarding financial, human resource and other administrative matters, and positively interact with volunteers and parishioners to support the parish mission. The successful candidate will have a business-related or human resource degree with a working knowledge of accounting principles and practices. The ideal candidate will also be a proactive, team-oriented leader and possess strong communication and interpersonal skills. The position should have at least five years of demonstrated supervisory experience. A complete job description can be found at: www.stannpv.org. Interested candidates should email a cover letter and resume to Father Craig Maxim at: frcraig@stannpv.org.

Director of human resources - Catholic Community Health (CCH) of Northeast Kansas is looking for a proven human resources director to join our management team. CCH owns and operates a skilled nursing facility, hospice company and in-home care service company. Reporting to the chief executive officer, this position manages and oversees all human resources functions for Catholic Community Health and its individual companies in a professional, ethical, efficient and organized manner, including recruitment, policy development, compensation, benefits administration and employee relations. The incumbent works directly with the executive management team and direct reports to ensure compliance with all federal, state and local laws and regulations as well as archdiocesan policies and procedures. To learn more about this position or to apply, please visit: archkck.org/jobs.

Website SEO and social medial specialist - Trinity House Catholic Books and Gifts is seeking an individual for full- or part-time employment or independent contractor to help manage and grow our web store and social media platforms. Candidate should have a proven track record of success with development, expansion and integration of several technology platforms. Candidate must have excellent written communication skills and understand application of HTML, Java, CSS and web platforms such as Volusion and Square Space. Please send resume via email to: trinityhouse01@gmail.com.

Pastoral coordinator - Haskell Catholic Campus Center, Lawrence, seeks a flexible, creative person to provide a nurturing space for prayer, religious education and Christ’s joy. Our Catholic community of Haskell Indian Nations University students, employees, university personnel and alumni calls for good communication skills and solid grounding in Catholic religious education and practice. Flexible and creative coordination of the varied tasks of sacramental formation, activity planning, cooking, cleaning, bookkeeping and property maintenance are key! This is a full-time position (40 hrs./week). Annual salary, $32,000 (negotiable) plus benefits. Please email Jean Finch at: katerihcsc@gmail.com for more information, or mail a resume to: Jean Finch, 2301 Barker, Lawrence, KS 66046.

Executive administrative assistant to the vicars general - The Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph seeks to fill an executive administrative assistant position for the offices of the vicar general for administration and chancellor and the vicar general for pastoral affairs. This position will provide high level administrative support in the areas of communication (written and verbal), organization, record-keeping and general office tasks. This position is full time, benefit-eligible based upon 40 hours per week and officed in the chancery building in downtown Kansas City, Missouri. To see full job description and apply, go to: www.kcsjcatholic.org.

Caregivers - Daughters & Company is looking for several compassionate caregivers to provide assistance to seniors in their home, assisted living or in a skilled nursing facility. We provide light housekeeping/light meal preparation, organizational assistance, care management and occasional transportation services for our clients. We need caregivers with reliable transportation and a cellphone for communication.

A CNA background is helpful, though not mandatory. We typically employ on a part-time basis, but will strive to match up hours desired. Contact Gary or Laurie at (913) 341-2500 if you want to become part of an excellent caregiving team.

Faculty and adjunct faculty job openings - Donnelly College, Kansas City, Kansas, a Catholic college offering higher education for those who may not otherwise be served. Adjunct faculty job openings include: biology; clinical nursing and math coordinator. Faculty job opening available for the nursing school and for professor of philosophy. Find job descriptions and details at: www.donnelly.edu/careers.

Catholic elementary school principal – Sacred Heart School in Emporia is seeking a highly motivated individual with demonstrated skill in spiritual and academic leadership of both students and staff. In addition, familiarity with enrollment management, technology and the tithing/stewardship model would be considered especially desirable.

Sacred Heart has approximately 61 students in K5th grades taught by nine teachers. Applicants for principal must be practicing Catholics, understand the mission of Catholic schools, and have or be eligible for Kansas licensure in educational leadership. Please apply online at: www.archkckcs.org and send resume and credentials to: Superintendent Dr. Vince Cascone, Catholic schools office, via email to: vcascone@archkckcs.org. For specific questions regarding the school or parish, please contact Father Carter Zielinski at: czielinski@archkck.org.

Web and graphic designer - Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas is looking for a talented Web and graphic designer to join the marketing team! This position is responsible for enhancing and strengthening communication with those served, volunteers and donors through the design and functionality of the public website, as well as keeping employees upto-date through the intranet. Ideal candidates must have 2-4+ years of experience designing, building, implementing and managing responsive web pages and be skilled in WordPress. Graphic design skills and knowledge of Adobe Creative Cloud are also required as this role will take the lead in designing agency marketing materials. For more information and to apply, visit: https://catholiccharitiesks.org/ careers/.

Stylists needed - Are you addicted to the TV show “Say Yes to the Dress”? Are you self-motivated, love fashion and enjoy helping people look their best? If so, we want to talk to you! Sincerely Susan, a unique destination shop boutique is a warehouse environment where clients come in by appointment only. You must have a sense of style and a great personality to be able to interact with our “moms.” Hours are flexible. Must be willing to work a minimum of one evening per week and weekends. Must be able to stand and walk on concrete for long periods of time and reach overhead to pull gowns. Previous retail experience preferred, but not necessary. Hourly rate is based on experience. If interested, call (913) 730-8840.

Staff job openings - Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kansas, has the following staff job openings available: Academic librarian; vice-president of business affairs/chief financial officer. Find job descriptions and details at: www.donnelly.edu/careers.

After-school care provider - St. Michael the Archangel School is looking for a part-time after-school care provider. Monday through Friday, 3:30 - 6 p.m., on days school is in session. Duties include gathering students when school is out; planning activities for students in program; monitoring and assisting children while in program; releasing to parent or guardian at the end of the day; and picking up the space at the end of the day. Must work well with children and parents. Email your resume to the principal, Diana Tate, to apply: diana.tate@stmichaelcp.org.

Manager assistant - St. Mary’s Food Kitchen has an immediate opening for a Manager Assist. Duties include: work closely with the manager, provide support to the day’s coordinator, ensure policies and procedures are followed and operational standard are achieved, participate in the frequency and scope of required daily cleaning tasks, availability to fill in for manager when absent, perform other work-related duties as assigned, interact with guests for improved service. This position is part-time. Weekends and holidays (time and a half). 9am-2pm with the occasional start time of 8:30am. $20/hour. To apply, please send a resume along with two references to Amelia Cortes, kitchen manager, at: stmfoodkitchen@gmail.com.

Extended day care position - Holy Spirit Catholic School in Overland Park is seeking an enthusiastic person to be the group leader in our after-school care program. This well-established program runs from 3 - 5:45 p.m. each school day. We are looking for a faith-filled, responsible, organized and creative person. Applicants should have knowledge of child development and be able to implement age-appropriate activities. The ability to communicate clearly with children, colleagues and parents is most important in order to foster positive relationships. Applicants must attend Virtus training, ongoing childcare training and be at least 18 years old. Contact Tessa Piscitello at (913) 492-2582 or email: tpiscitello@hs catholic.org for more information.

Drivers and aides - Assisted Transportation is now hiring safe drivers and aides to transport students with special needs in Johnson, Wyandotte and Clay County, Missouri, in company vans. Drivers earn $14 - $16 per hour. Aides earn $12 per hour. Part-time and full-time schedules available. CDL not required. Retirees encouraged to apply. Make a difference in your community by helping those in need. Call (913) 5214955 for more information. EEO

Services

Memory quilts - Preserve your memories in a keepsake quality quilt, pillows, etc. Custom designed from your T-shirt collection, baby clothes, sports memorabilia, neckties . . . Quilted Memories. (913) 649-2704.

WELLERBEEF.COM - Want beef served at your family table from a local, Catholic, veteran-owned family farm? Our cattle are born and raised on our own pastures. No antibiotics, no hormones and no steroids. We offer grass-fed and traditional. Multiple sizes available to order: from a starter pack to a whole cow. Free delivery in the metropolitan Kansas City area, and we pay the butcher’s processing fees. Look us up online, check us out and see all the options to personalize your order. Experience beef well done! We are currently taking orders and making deliveries. WELLERBEEF.COM

Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload, and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com.

ACT Prep - Founded by a Bishop Miege graduate, Pathway Prep has helped over 250 students during the last four years improve their scores. In-person or virtual sessions available. For more information, visit: pathwayprepkc.com and contact Alex Pint at (913) 991-8217 or: alex@pathwayprepkc.com.

Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

Catholic counseling - For individuals, couples, families, adolescents and young adults. Sam Meier, MA, LPC. Call (913) 952-2267 or book an appointment at: StillwatersKC.com, in-person or Telehealth.

Home Improvement

Popcorn ceiling texture removal

Interior painting

Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144. 30 years’ experience. Member St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.

Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., wood rot, masonry (chimney repair), gutter cleaning (gutter covers), dryer vent cleaning, sump pump (replace, add new), windows, doors (interior and exterior) honey-do list, window cleaning and more! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 9274118.

HOME REMODELING & MAINTENANCE

Kitchens, baths, interior & exterior work

Licensed & insured - Shawnee & Lenexa area (913) 927-5240 or email: dknelson2001@gmail.com

Gearing up for spring! We now offer financing on all your home improvement projects with approved credit. Here is a list of the construction services I offer: flooring; tile; interior/exterior painting, as well as deck and fence staining; ceiling scraping/re-texturing; bathroom, kitchen and basement remodeling; siding; decks and covered porches. We also do cabinet refinishing! Look me up on Facebook at “Father & Son Home Exteriors & Remodeling.” I work on all jobs, no subcontractors. Thank you to all my clients! (913) 709-7230.

EL SOL Y LA TIERRA

*COMMERCIAL & RESIDENTIAL

*LAWN RENOVATION *MOWING

*CLEANUP AND HAULING

*DIRT GRADING/INSTALLATION

*LANDSCAPE DESIGN* FREE ESTIMATES

HABLAMOS Y ESCRIBIMOS INGLES!! CALL LUPE AT (816) 252-1391

STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 5791835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.

Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dandeeconst@aol.com.

For Sale

Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC).

For sale - Double lawn crypt at Resurrection Cemetery in Lenexa, Garden of Hope section, double lawn crypt, lot 78 C, space 4. Conveyance fee included. Asking $5000. Call Lou at (512) 656-1801.

For sale - Two plots at Resurrection Cemetery Faith Garden, section C, lot 51, spaces 1 and 2. Flat marker only. Asking $4400, seller pays $200 conveyance fees. Retail price is $5190. Call Pat at (816) 5824394.

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CALLED TO LOVE AGAIN

DIVORCE MINISTRY

Church of the Ascension (St. Luke Room)

9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park

Feb. 4 at 6 p.m.

Are you divorced and feeling lost and alone? The church welcomes you and offers healing. Please join us for formation and fellowship. For more information, send an email to: info@thecall2love.com.

ST. JOE’S FOSTERING HEARTS

VALENTINE BASH

St. Michael the Archangel Parish

14251 Nall Ave., Leawood

Feb 5 from 6:30 - 7:30 p.m.

St. Joe’s Fostering Heart groups will be hosting this event. Please join us for pizza, cookies and Valentine decoration for all ages. There will also be prizes and games for all ages.

PANCAKE AND MENUDO BREAKFAST

Our Lady of Unity Parish

2910 Strong Ave., Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 5 from 8 a.m. - 1 p.m.

Pancakes, eggs and sausage links cost $6. The cost for a large menudo plate is $10, and $5 for a small plate. All the fixings are included, plus coffee and juice.

GROUNDBREAKING AND BLESSING

Villa St. Francis

16600 W. 126th St., Olathe

Feb. 7 at 3:30 p.m.

Villa St. Francis is hosting a groundbreaking ceremony with Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann to kick off its new rehabilitation wing and parking lot project. Following the groundbreaking and blessing, there will be a social with appetizers and beverages provided. Please RSVP to: thowell@catholiccommunityhealth.org.

Understanding Medicare

Keeler Womens Center

759 Vermont Ave., 100-B, Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 8 from 10 - 11:30 a.m.

Get the most from your Medicare benefits. Come and receive unbiased information and assistance from a licensed professional. Get all your questions answered about Medicare and receive help signing up for services or adjusting your current coverage plan.

HOLY WOMEN SERIES: ST. JOSEPHINE BAKHITA

Keeler Womens Center

759 Vermont Ave., 100-B, Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 9 from 2 - 3:30 p.m.

Come and learn more about this amazing woman who was enslaved as a child and later became a modern-day saint.

Ignite The Green And White

2023

For Xavier School

Riverfront Community Center

123 S. Esplanade St., Leavenworth

Feb. 11 at 6 p.m.

Prepare to be ignited as we celebrate Catholic education! Xavier school’s Ignite the Green and White event features a cocktail reception with heavy appetizers, a student showcase and a silent auction. Visit the website at: leavenworthcatholicschools. org/give/ignite-the-green-white and scroll down to sponsor a child, purchase event tickets and register for the silent auction.

GREEN CLUB EVENT

St. Patrick Parish Center

1086 N. 94th St., Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 11 at 6 p.m.

There will be 15 games of bingo beginning at 6:30 p.m. Concession food stand will have nachos for $4; hot dogs for $2.50; and chili dogs for $4. There will also be bottled water, candy and chips available for purchase. For more information, call Fritz at (913) 515-0621.

BINGO NIGHT

Sacred Heart Church

2646 S. 34th St., Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 11 at 7 p.m.

The Sacred Heart Knights of Columbus will be hosting bingo for cash prizes. Refreshments will be sold. For more information, call Bob at (913) 850-3348.

ANNUAL SOUP DAY

St. Mary Parish

9208 Main St., St. Benedict

Feb. 12 from 11 a.m. - 1:30 p.m.

St. Mary’s Altar Society will be hosting a soup day. There will be chili and chicken noodle and vegetable beef soups available for dine-in or carryout. Everyone is welcome.

LITURGY OF THE HOURS WEEKEND

Conception Abbey (Guest Center)

37174 State Hwy. VV, Conception, Missouri

Feb. 17 - 19

Embrace the rich history behind the practice of sanctifying the hours of the day, and learn how to continue to pray these hours on your own once you return home. For more information, go online to: www. conceptionabbey.org/guests/.

CURSILLO 2023 WINTER RETREAT

St. Joseph Parish

11311 Johnson Dr., Shawnee

Feb. 18 from 9 a.m. - 2:30 p.m.

There will be breakfast and lunch, talks and discussions, relic and miracle panels, Benediction and adoration. Attendees have the option at 7:45 a.m. to join the parish community in the church for the rosary, Mass and chaplet of Divine Mercy before the 9 a.m. check-in. The cost is $25. Register and pay online at: www.CursilloKCKS. com. Pay at the door is also available. Question? Email: cursillokcks@gmail.com.

PANCAKE BREAKFAST

St. Bede Parish

7344 Drought St., Kelly

Feb. 19 from 7:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.

Join us for our annual pancake breakfast. There will be pancakes, sausage and eggs. Takeout meals will be available. The cost is a freewill donation.

MARDI GRAS AT THE CATHEDRAL

The Cathedral of St. Peter

416 N. 14th St., Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 19 from 11 a.m. - 3 p.m.

Come celebrate the last Sunday before Lent at the cathedral and enjoy a delicious spaghetti dinner. A freewill offering is requested for the dinner. Takeout is available. There will also be several great prizes to be raffled at the event. Raffle tickets will be available for purchase at the event. Proceeds will go to support future programming at the cathedral. For more information, call (913) 371-0840 or visit the website at: www.cathedralkck.org.

SEASONS OF HOPE GRIEF GROUP

Sts. Peter and Paul Parish

411 Pioneer St., Seneca Sundays at 5 p.m.

Anyone dealing with the loss of a loved one is welcome to join the Seasons of Hope Grief Group. For further information, contact Roger Becker at (785) 364-6393.

CALLED TO LOVE AGAIN

Church of the Ascension

9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park

Feb. 20 - April 10

The Called to Love Again ministry will host a Lenten book study for divorced people. The book study will be on Monday evenings. The cost is $15 per book. Please register before Feb. 10 by emailing: info@ thecall2love.com.

HOLY ROSARY RALLY IN HONOR OF OUR LADY OF FATIMA

St. Mary/St. Anthony Parish

615 N. 7th St., Kansas City, Kansas

Feb. 22 from 3 - 4:15 p.m.

We will pray the joyful, sorrowful and glorious mysteries of the rosary. Benediction will follow, as well as an opportunity for attendees to enroll in the brown scapular. For more information, visit the website at: www.rosaryrallieskc.org.

‘PRAYING THE LENTEN SCRIPTURES’ Sophia Spirituality Center

Online

Feb. 23, March 2, 9, 16, 23 and 30

Pray the Sunday Gospels of Lent with others using techniques such as centering prayer, lectio divina and guided meditation to listen with the ear of our hearts for inspiration from the reading, from the Spirit and from one another. The fee is $60 for the series.

LENTEN SILENT RETREAT: PENETRATING MYSTICAL TRUTH

Christ’s Peace House of Prayer

22131 Meager Rd., Easton

Feb. 24 at 5:30 p.m. - Feb. 25 at 4:30 p.m.

Start your Lent with a deep understanding of the mystical, with insight and practical usefulness. This retreat will give you an overview of the brilliant vision, helping know the Christian mystical vision of truth. The more deeply you comprehend mystical truth, the more you will be transformed by its power. There will be conferences, eucharistic adoration, confession, and time for private prayer, reflection and walking. Cabins/courtyard rooms: $170 single/$250 couple or single guest rooms $100. To attend, fill out the form online at: Christs Peace.com or call (913) 773-8255.

‘ABIDING IN CHRIST - A LENTEN JOURNEY OF THE HEART’

Sophia Spirituality Center

751 S. 8th St., Atchison

Feb. 24 at 3 p.m. through Feb. 25 at 4 p.m.

To abide in Christ means to keep in constant close communion with him, lean on him, rest in him, pour out our hearts and experience him as our fountain of life and strength. As you enter into Lent, reflect on Jesus in your life through silence, lectio divina, reflection and sharing. The fee is $150 which includes a private room and meals.

Finish Faithful Conference

St. Michael the Archangel Parish Hall 14251 Nall Ave., Leawood

Feb. 25 from 9 a.m. - 1 p.m.

All things preplanning for your legacy will be presented by six speakers on different topics. To register and for an agenda, go online to: archkck.org/finishfaithfulregistration or call Terri Lynn in the archdiocesan office of stewardship and development at (913) 647-0365.

LENTEN BUSY PERSON RETREAT Marillac Center

4200 S. 4th St., Leavenworth

Feb. 26 - March 31

Retreat-goers will have the opportunity to meet once a week at your convenience with a Sister. At the beginning of the retreat, materials and resources will be provided for your private prayer. If you would like to participate in this retreat, contact Sister Sharon Smith at: ssmith@scls.org by Feb. 17. The cost is a freewill offering.

WOMEN’S CONFERENCE ON HEALING AND FORGIVENESS

Holy Trinity Parish

13615 W. 92nd St., Lenexa

May 4 from 5 - 9:30 p.m.

May 5 from 2:30 - 4 p.m. and 6 - 10 p.m.

May 6 from 8 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Come join us to experience Christ’s divine mercy and the power of healing and forgiveness in your life. We will have several inspirational speakers, exposition of the Blessed Sacrament, eucharistic adoration and opportunities for reconciliation. There will also be a wine and cheese social on Friday evening. The early registration cost of $85 ends March 19. The registration fee after that will be $125. For more information, visit the website at: CatholicWomens ConferenceKC.com.

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Wanted To Buy

Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, sterling, etc. Single pieces or estate. Renee Maderak, (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee.

Wanted to buy - Do you have a car or truck that you need to get rid of? If you do, CALL ME!

I’m a cash buyer. We’re Holy Trinity parishioners. My name is Mark. (913) 980-4905.

$$PAYING CASH MONEY$$

For military items, pocket and wristwatches, American coins, old buttons, lanterns, spurs, silver flatware, crocks, pocketknives, oil lamps, lanterns, Southwest items/jewelry. Most old items considered. Call Patricia today at (913) 980-4905.

Pilgrimage

Pilgrimage to Medjugorje - May 10 - 18 or May 20 - 28, 2023. The cost is $2500 per person, which includes airfare, bus transportation, accommodations, two meals per day and daily local guides. Hosted by visionary Mirjana Loldo. For details, call Grace Legaspi at (913) 4491806.

Caregiving

Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary. Family member with dementia or need help at home? - We specialize in helping seniors live SAFELY at home, where they want to live! We also offer free dementia training and resources for families and caregivers. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www. Benefitsofhome.com or call (913) 422-1591.

Real Estate

We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family owned, and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house has never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer (913) 599-5000.

WE WANT TO BUY YOUR HOUSE - There are so many new companies in town advertising to buy houses. But we’re the only ones that have been here and we’re local Holy Trinity parishioners. I will give you a fair price on any conditions you are up against. Call Mark Edmondson. (913) 980-4905.

Classified advertising

Cost is $20 for the first five lines, $1.50 per line thereafter.

To purchase a Leaven classified ad, email: beth. blankenship@theleaven.org.

Solution

27-30

Mk 7: 14-23

Feb. 9

Thursday Gn 2: 18-25

Ps 128: 1-5

Mk 7: 24-30

Feb. 10

Scholastica, virgin Gn 3: 1-8

Ps 32: 1-2, 5-7

Mk 7: 31-37

Feb. 11

Our Lady of Lourdes Gn 3: 9-24

Ps 90: 2-6, 12-13

Mk 8: 1-10